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We is greater than Me | Pastor Di Beals | Venture Church

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  1. My name is Di. I'm part of the team here

  2. at our Mill Creek campus, and I don't know if

  3. this has already been done, so if it has, we'll

  4. get a cheer again. But two of the world's most

  5. precious human beings got engaged this week, and I love

  6. them both. So if Audrey and Dallas are in the room,

  7. stand up. If you're not sure who they are, well, A,

  8. you're missing out, but B, they're both on our staff here,

  9. so we're really happy for them. Thanks for cheering for them.

  10. You are joining us today for our series that we've

  11. titled All In. And All In is our way of

  12. representing to you, and we're using a graphic to kind

  13. of help us get the visual, but it's representing what

  14. it looks like to be fully engaged in the life

  15. and mission of Venture Church. So this is not maybe

  16. exactly what would be all in at another church, but

  17. you are here. And so this is our way of saying, hey,

  18. if you call this your church home, if this is

  19. the body of believers that you have chosen to do

  20. life and love Jesus with, this is what it looks

  21. like here to be all in, to be a fully

  22. participating member of the body of Christ at Venture Church.

  23. We have compared this a little bit to an Apple Watch,

  24. which Pastor Morgan did that when he launched this series,

  25. and his opening message was what it looks like to

  26. be a part of the body of Christ and how

  27. important that is. But he used the example of an

  28. Apple Watch, and I think it's a great example. So

  29. if you have an Apple Watch, you're familiar with this idea.

  30. If you don't, your watch... in the Apple version, tells

  31. you how you're doing on things like steps. And maybe

  32. you have a different brand of a watch. I have

  33. a Garmin. It tells me how many steps I have.

  34. It throws confetti when I walk 10,000 steps. Maybe you

  35. have your set to tell you, oh, you've done enough

  36. exercise minutes today. And when you do that, it closes

  37. your ring. That's what Apple does. They have you close

  38. a ring. And every day you start over because every

  39. day is a new day of you having to get

  40. steps in and move and have exercise. And I think

  41. we all understand this concept, but just so we're all

  42. on the same page, we'll say it again. You are

  43. not healthy necessarily because you closed a ring, right? That

  44. doesn't mean that you're a healthy person. What it does

  45. tell you is that you made healthy choices that lead

  46. to a potentially healthy you. For example, if my watch

  47. throws confetti because I walked 10,000 steps, that doesn't mean

  48. I'm healthy. But walking 10,000 steps definitely contributes to me

  49. being healthier than if I sit all day long. So,

  50. so far in this all-in track, as we look at

  51. the different rings, we have covered The importance of regular

  52. participation in the body of Christ. How important it is

  53. for us to be a regular and active and intentional

  54. part of the body because we tend to drift and

  55. we don't tend to drift towards greater faith and greater engagement.

  56. We tend to drift away from it. Also, we've covered

  57. the reminder of who we are as a church and

  58. where we're going and what our core values are and

  59. what's important to us. And that fits in that discover

  60. ring because that's discovering who we are and where we're going.

  61. And last week, we were challenged with the importance of

  62. serving other people. And I don't know about you, but

  63. I think it's pretty safe to say we tend toward self-centeredness.

  64. And when we serve others, it is good for us

  65. to put the needs of other people before our own needs.

  66. And also, no matter how bad things might be going

  67. for you, you always have something to give to somebody else.

  68. And that is good for us. This picture is meant

  69. as a challenge. It's supposed to challenge you. It's not

  70. supposed to become your to-do list. It's supposed to challenge

  71. you Because the world around us might be and probably

  72. is drifting away from or walking intentionally away from relational commitment.

  73. And instead of walking away, we want to lean in

  74. and directly walk toward relational commitment with each other. We

  75. don't want to just say, hey, it's okay. Do what

  76. you can. Show up when you can. Occasionally go into church.

  77. That's okay. No, we want to say, hey, if you

  78. want to be a healthy person, follower of Jesus you

  79. need other believers press in okay today we're gonna talk

  80. about what it looks like to join with other people

  81. now the circle that we have highlighted says join a

  82. group or a class and if you've been around here

  83. for any number of years you know we talk a

  84. lot about groups our small groups last for eight weeks

  85. Then they take about six weeks off while we form

  86. new ones. That's happening right now. We're forming new ones.

  87. And then they go another eight weeks, which is great

  88. because there's always an on-ramp for you. And it's great

  89. because maybe you tried a group once and it was like,

  90. I didn't really click with those people. But you can

  91. try again to click with other people. Groups are intended

  92. to build relationship. Classes have that as a byproduct. So

  93. it's another option. Classes are offered every week. month, and

  94. they're three weeks long on Wednesday nights, and they're one hour.

  95. It's a great opportunity to grow, but you get to

  96. do it with other people, and it's better than just

  97. not interacting with others at all. So this is meant

  98. also today as a dare. Raise your hand if you

  99. like dares. Oh, not very many of you. Man, dares

  100. are dangerous because I have a really hard time saying no.

  101. So now I'm going to hide after this service so

  102. I don't get a bunch of dares. But I want

  103. to dare you today to devote yourself to meaningful relationships

  104. in the body of Christ. And maybe what you need

  105. to hear me say is, I want to dare you

  106. to try again. Or maybe what you need to hear

  107. me say is, I want to dare you to try.

  108. Or maybe what you need to hear me say is,

  109. I want to dare you to go deeper than maybe

  110. you've gone before. This is vulnerable. And it's also dangerous,

  111. and it is definitely countercultural. The world tells you, build

  112. your life around you. But today I want to think

  113. about how Jesus invites us to not build around me,

  114. but to build around we. I want to illustrate what

  115. I think the Bible illustrates for us, which is we

  116. is greater than me. Okay, I know we already prayed,

  117. but would you just bow your head with me? Because

  118. this is the right way for us to hold this

  119. message now. We just say, Lord, challenge us. Challenge us

  120. to lean into relational commitment with each other as believers

  121. in you. And there are some in this room that

  122. are desperately lonely, and they need to hear the challenge,

  123. press in, and build relationship. It's all for you. Amen.

  124. All right, so there are benefits... to we, because we,

  125. I think, is greater than me, and I am following

  126. the Bible on this, so there are benefits. So to

  127. do that, we're going to look for what King Solomon

  128. says in the book of Ecclesiastes. I don't know if

  129. Ecclesiastes is the most well-read book out there, but we

  130. just did a series on the life of King Solomon,

  131. and he happened to write Ecclesiastes, so it is recent

  132. in our Venture Church history, but maybe you know enough

  133. to know What's the phrase that King Solomon says over

  134. and over in the book of Ecclesiastes? This too is meaningless.

  135. Everything is meaningless. It's chasing after the wind. King Solomon,

  136. who was known for his unmatched wisdom, reports on, in

  137. the book of Ecclesiastes, his observations on a few things.

  138. How fleeting life is. So he's not trying to be

  139. fatalistic when he says things are meaningless. He's trying to

  140. report on life is fast. It goes by fast. The

  141. time we have to spend our life goes by quickly.

  142. He reports on how limited we are as humans, how

  143. hard we try and how much that tends to fall short.

  144. Anyone relate? Injustices and oppression. And then also how death

  145. is the equalizer. In other words... Because life is short

  146. and because we're all going to die, and when we die,

  147. we can't take anything with us, how we spend our

  148. life matters. Okay? That's the message of Solomon in Ecclesiastes. Well,

  149. we're going to kind of zoom in on chapter 4.

  150. And in chapter 4, Solomon is observing different kinds of people.

  151. So he talks a little bit about people who oppress

  152. or take advantage of other people. And then he talks

  153. about people who are lazy. And then he talks about

  154. people who are motivated to succeed, but only because they're

  155. envious of what other people have, and that's what motivates them.

  156. And then he kind of zeroes in on people who

  157. are all alone. And that's where I want us to

  158. focus our attention today. So if you have your Bible,

  159. I'm going to invite you to turn to Ecclesiastes chapter 4.

    Ecclesiastes 4 chapter mention

  160. If you don't have your Bible, the words will be

  161. on the screen. I'm choosing a translation we don't usually

  162. use on a Sunday morning. It's the C-E-B. the Common

  163. English Bible. And there's a reason I chose this one

  164. that I will highlight in just a second here. But

  165. we're going to start in verse 7. It says, There

  166. are people who are utterly alone with no companions, not

  167. even a child or a sibling, yet they work hard

  168. without end, never satisfied with their wealth. So for whom

  169. am I working so hard and depriving myself of enjoyment?

  170. This too is pointless and a terrible obsession. Okay, so

  171. a few things. Number one, the reason I chose this

  172. translation is because translators don't know what to do with

  173. this little, or they struggle to know what to do

  174. with this little phrase. I don't know if you noticed it,

  175. but Solomon's making an observation, and then it sounds like

  176. it changes who's talking. So he's observing this person, a man,

  177. who is working and has no one working with him.

  178. And then it sounds like suddenly the man is talking,

  179. where it says... Whom am I working so hard and

  180. depriving myself of enjoyment? Who am I doing this for?

  181. And some translations insert right there, he said. Okay, so

  182. Solomon's observing a man. He's working really hard. He's all alone.

  183. And then that man said, why am I doing this?

  184. What am I doing this all for? But translators, other translations,

  185. including the one I chose, uh, would like to suggest

  186. strongly that really this should say what the man should

  187. ask is why am I doing all of this? So

  188. the translation I've chosen here for us today is basically

  189. saying Solomon observes a man. He is working all alone.

  190. He's working ridiculously hard. He never stops working just to

  191. amass all of this wealth. And he never stops to

  192. ask himself, why am I doing this? And because he

  193. never stops to ask that question, what he's doing is meaningless. Now,

  194. what this doesn't mean is that Solomon is looking at

  195. a guy, poor guy. He doesn't have any friends. He

  196. doesn't have any family. He doesn't even have a sibling.

  197. He doesn't even have a child to help him.

  198. No.

  199. What Solomon is pointing out here is this particular man

  200. is all alone in his work with no one to

  201. help him because he wants it that way. And in

  202. this case, it's because he doesn't want to share what

  203. he's earning. And that, my friends, is meaningless because he's

  204. never stopping to say, what am I even doing this for?

  205. At the end of my life, I will pass away

  206. and I take none of this with me. What's it

  207. all for? I don't know if you've ever felt this way.

  208. I don't know. Adults in the room, you go to

  209. work every day. You know, maybe you work 40, 50

  210. hours a week. Maybe you work 60. Maybe you commute.

  211. And at the end of a week or every night,

  212. you're like, what is this all even for? There's got

  213. to be something bigger than going to work to pay

  214. your bills. Amen? Okay, yes, this is exactly what we

  215. are observing here. Socrates is credited famously for saying, an

  216. unexamined life is not worth living. And this man that

  217. Solomon is observing has never stopped to examine his life

  218. and say, why am I doing this? What is this for?

  219. But Solomon concludes for him, this is pointless. This is meaningless.

  220. If you dig into the word for pointless or meaningless,

  221. it's things like, this is a miserable decision. This is

  222. a sad travail is one of the ways you can

  223. translate it. So, This is not good. It's not healthy. Now,

  224. that sets us up, though. Solomon has set us up

  225. for the verses to follow that. So if that man,

  226. working really hard, amassing his wealth, not working with anyone else,

  227. working by himself, if that's meaningless, what's the other side?

  228. What's the other side of the coin? Verses 9 through 12.

  229. Look with me at verse 9. Two are better than

  230. one because they have a good return for their hard work.

  231. If either should fall, one can pick up the other.

  232. But how miserable are those who fall and don't have

  233. a companion to help them up? Verse 11. Also, if

  234. two lie down together, they can stay warm. But how

  235. can anyone stay warm alone? Verse 12. Also, one can

  236. be overpowered, but two together can put up resistance. A

  237. three-ply cord doesn't easily snap. Okay, so based on these verses,

  238. let's look at what Solomon gives us as the benefits

  239. of we and how we is greater than just me.

  240. So first, the first benefit is work. Two people are

  241. definitely better than one when it comes to work. We're

  242. leaving out the outliers, like somebody who just doesn't try.

  243. We're talking about two people working. And two people working

  244. is better than one person working, because quite simply, two

  245. people can get more done than just one. That's logical.

  246. Difficult jobs are easier with four hands and two brains

  247. than they are with two hands and one brain. Even

  248. if they divide the profits, it is almost always still

  249. better to have two people working because they get a

  250. better return for the investment of their effort and energy

  251. when the two of them are working versus one person

  252. working alone. Two people also bring more skill and more

  253. experience and more talent and more gifts to the table

  254. than just one. And by nature, two people include if

  255. one gets discouraged, one can encourage. So if you're by yourself,

  256. and things are really hard in the work you're doing,

  257. and you think, I want to quit, there's no one

  258. around to say, don't quit. But if you have someone

  259. working with you, they can encourage you to keep at

  260. it and keep working. So Solomon observes that we is

  261. greater than me because working shoulder to shoulder, we help

  262. each other succeed. Okay, so that's a good start. You agree?

  263. It's a good start. All right. What comes next? Well,

  264. two people are also better than one when it comes

  265. to walking, right? which is kind of actually funny. I

  266. chuckled when I read that. But it's because roads in

  267. ancient Palestine, which is to whom Solomon is writing, are

  268. not paved. They're also not level. I don't know. We

  269. could probably say about some of our roads that they're

  270. also dangerous, but they specifically, and very much so, had

  271. not safe roads to travel on, And some were just

  272. a path through the wilderness, and some were hard to find,

  273. and some had hidden dangers. Maybe they had a pit

  274. you could fall into. And so tripping and falling was

  275. a real and even likely hazard. And so two people

  276. walking together made it safer. Now, if you have known

  277. me for any length of time, you've probably seen me

  278. trip because I am klutzy. I wish that I was not,

  279. but I am. And so if I'm out hiking, which

  280. I spend a lot of time out hiking, I fall often.

  281. And so it's been almost one year now since I

  282. had a really, really bad fall. And if you remember,

  283. if you were around then, you remember back to me

  284. having lots of apparatuses on me. And that is because

  285. I was coming down from a lake in the mountains,

  286. six miles up into the mountains, And about halfway down,

  287. I tripped over a root, just a root sticking up,

  288. my foot hooked underneath it, just as I was about

  289. to kind of jump down this little steep section. And

  290. I launched into the air headfirst. It's a good thing

  291. that the instinct was to put out my hand because

  292. I would have landed face first on the ground. But

  293. putting out my hand meant that I broke my wrist

  294. in eight places. In fact, I broke all the bones

  295. in my wrist. And my skin kept my hand together,

  296. but I broke all the bones in my wrist. And

  297. I broke my kneecap in half and then in half again.

  298. And I still had three miles to climb down to

  299. get to the car. And I was 30 miles off

  300. of Highway 2 on dirt roads. So, I mean, I'm

  301. one of those people that is like, no one wants

  302. to go hiking with me. Fine, I'll go by myself.

  303. But I will tell you, in this case, two things.

  304. was definitely better than one because I was with my mom.

  305. And my mom is the one that kept me sane

  306. and kept me focused and kept me moving. We carry

  307. all the safety equipment. I had a sling for my

  308. arm in my first aid kit in my bag, except

  309. nobody was allowed to touch my bag because it was

  310. on my arm that was very, very broken. And I

  311. did not want anyone to touch my bag. And so

  312. my mom made me a sling out of her coat

  313. and she helped me Get the three miles down to

  314. the car and the many miles to the hospital. And

  315. I am so grateful because I'm a pretty tough person.

  316. And I'm a pretty, once I put my mind to something,

  317. I'm going to accomplish. And I'm not sure I could

  318. have done that without the help of traveling with my mom.

  319. And we're describing here physical freedom. I couldn't have done

  320. that without my mom, that physical task. But can we

  321. just move this a little bit into the spiritual category

  322. and talk about spiritual falling? If you're walking alone as

  323. you follow the Lord and you make a mistake and trip,

  324. which we're all going to do, and you are by yourself,

  325. it is much harder to get up and keep pursuing

  326. the Lord. So two is certainly better than one when

  327. it comes to keeping us following the Lord. And you

  328. might be thinking right now, sitting out there or watching online,

  329. I don't need other people. I got this. You know

  330. those people? If it's not you, you probably know this

  331. person that says, I don't need anyone to help me.

  332. And a couple years ago, I actually tackled this topic

  333. of we need each other, and I said a line

  334. in that message that gets repeated back to me still today.

  335. And the line was, yep, you can do it alone.

  336. I mean, usually, you can do it alone. But in

  337. the end, you'll still be what? Alone. Alone. Someone came

  338. up to me after first service and he said, it's

  339. kind of like that famous quote, one person can go fast,

  340. but two people can go farther. I just think like

  341. there's so much power in how we help each other walk.

  342. And Solomon observes that we is greater than me because

  343. walking together provides a hand to help us up when

  344. we fall. Two people are also better than one when

  345. it comes to warmth. And this is kind of a

  346. funny one, but it's in here. In the ancient world

  347. of the Bible, travelers didn't have lots of options of

  348. places to stay. And so sometimes they camped out in

  349. a field. And sometimes they camped in the town square.

  350. And sometimes they camped right outside of an inn that

  351. was full. And they would be there on a cold

  352. Palestinian night. And two people traveling together was better than

  353. because they could provide warmth for each other, which is safer.

  354. Think about it. The only way a traveler traveling alone

  355. in ancient Palestinian times could stay warm is if he

  356. carried more blankets, which means more weight. So alone, in

  357. order to stay warm, you have to carry more things.

  358. It's so logical. But two people together don't have to

  359. carry as much, A, because there's two of them, and B,

  360. because They keep each other warm. There is a physical

  361. aspect to the safety provided by two people's bodies keeping

  362. each other warm. You've probably seen a movie where somebody's

  363. stranded out in a blizzard or something, and their life

  364. is in peril, and the way they stay warm is

  365. they press their bodies up against each other to stay warm,

  366. and that is an actual thing. When you huddle close together...

  367. Your body warmth is extended to the person that's close

  368. to you, and likewise, their body warmth is extended to you.

  369. The more surface area of your skin that is touching

  370. each other, the more you radiate warmth to each other.

  371. In other words, two people can stay warm in ways

  372. that one person simply cannot. And that's physical. Then there's

  373. the emotional and spiritual side of it, where we help

  374. each other feel warm, safe, and connected. And psychologically speaking,

  375. because I went on a really big rabbit hole on

  376. this point that I will spare you of and I

  377. will summarize. Psychologically speaking, there's an additional psychological benefit to

  378. closeness between humans, including the physical touch of closeness. It

  379. releases oxytocin, which combats the stress hormone in your life.

  380. Then you add this additional fascinating thing about your brain.

  381. Your brain links warmth, physical warmth, and emotional trust. It

  382. puts those two things together. When I am actually warm,

  383. I feel more trusting, which is weird. It means that

  384. people who feel warm feel safer, and they act more

  385. kindly to each other. Can someone go turn up the heat, please? No,

  386. I'm just kidding. I actually got some tea right before service,

  387. and it's called sleepy time tea, and I was like,

  388. why do we have this? I don't want anyone drinking

  389. this right before a message. Okay. Okay. There are more

  390. things we could list. But for our purposes today, Solomon

  391. observes that we is greater than me because a life

  392. lived side by side brings warmth and safety and connection.

  393. Now let's add a little bit more about that safety piece.

  394. Because here's the fourth thing that Solomon highlights. He says

  395. two people without a doubt are better than one when

  396. it comes to keeping watch. Now, strictly speaking, humans have

  397. physical limitations. Okay, we know this. One of those limitations

  398. is you've got to sleep. So back to these Palestinian

  399. ancient world travelers who are traveling between towns or great distances,

  400. and they've got to sleep out in the open somewhere,

  401. and they're in danger of animals and sometimes humans too.

  402. And you either can't ever sleep or you're immediately in danger,

  403. or if you have more than one person, one person

  404. keeps watch. Four eyes is better than two. One person

  405. can rest, the other can keep watch. This is logical,

  406. but especially at night. I kept picturing in my head

  407. just the physical limitations of your neck. I mean, if

  408. I'm standing here worried or trying to keep watch, and

  409. I'm doing this, I'm missing everything that's behind me, right?

  410. So I would either have to keep spinning in circles,

  411. Or someone stands at my back. And surely you can

  412. see that this is not just a physical analogy. It

  413. is also spiritual. Two are better than one when it

  414. comes to safety. If there is an enemy prowling around

  415. who wants to bring harm to you, having someone else

  416. watch your back, which is where that phrase comes from,

  417. is better than trying to go it alone. Amen. Amen.

  418. The New Living Translation of verse 12 says it this way.

  419. A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but

  420. two can stand back to back and conquer. And I

  421. love that picture of two people physically and spiritually and

  422. relationally standing back to back to cover each other's back.

  423. So Solomon observed that we is greater than me because

  424. back to back, we keep watch and And we can

  425. fight for each other. I want, is it just me?

  426. I want people that are guarding my back. I want

  427. my friends that I have intentionally built relationship with to

  428. know I've got their back. And I need to know

  429. that they've got mine. And that, I mean, I could

  430. preach a whole sermon on that. But if this isn't

  431. compelling enough, that we is greater than me, let me

  432. just give you this additional little piece at the end

  433. of verse 12. Solomon says, a three-ply cord doesn't easily snap.

  434. You've probably heard it in other translations. A strand of

  435. three cords is not easily broken is another way that

  436. that is said. And here's the thing. The point of

  437. that is not, hey, more people are better. Be in

  438. a crowd all the time, but nobody knows you in

  439. the crowd, and you're still walking life by yourself. That's

  440. not logical. That's not what that means. Instead, it's meant

  441. for us to understand that me, by myself, has limits.

  442. But we multiplies strength. So if it's a we that

  443. is two of us, that's stronger than one. And if

  444. it is a we that is three of us, that

  445. is stronger than the we of two of us. Who

  446. is number three? Okay, well that could be just your

  447. really good friend. You have two really good friends and

  448. there are three of you. Maybe you're blessed. Maybe you've

  449. got four really good friends. You are a strong core.

  450. But I want to remind you Jesus is the third

  451. strand of the cord. This is what Jesus says in

  452. John chapter 17. John chapter 17 is actually just a

    John 17 chapter mention John 17 chapter mention

  453. really long part of a prayer that Jesus prays. But

  454. he doesn't pray about his followers. which at that point

  455. was his followers and his disciples, but it extends to us.

  456. If you follow Jesus in this room, we're included in

  457. this prayer. And he doesn't pray for his followers that

  458. they'll just be one tough cookie who can just march

  459. along on their own and be really strong. He doesn't pray, Lord,

  460. make each one of my followers strong. He prays they

  461. would be one. Okay, he prays it three times in

  462. that chapter. In verse 11, he says, protect them so

  463. they will be united. In verse 21, he says that

  464. they will all be one. And in verse 23, he

  465. says that they will be in unity, that they will

  466. be a cord not easily broken, and it's intended to

  467. include him. Okay, another example of that, Matthew 18, 20.

  468. Jesus says... When we are gathered together, maybe you've heard

  469. this verse, when two or three are gathered together, he's

  470. right there with us. Jesus is with us. If you

  471. follow Jesus in this place, if you're attempting to live

  472. your life for him, and you gather with other Jesus followers,

  473. he puts his presence right there in your midst. And

  474. you are a cord that is not easily broken when

  475. Jesus is in the midst. Right? The crazy thing is

  476. the world tells us to build our lives around me.

  477. Make it about me. My wealth, my career, my goals,

  478. my dreams, my resources, my needs, my future, and my wants.

  479. But Jesus invites us into we. And it's a we

  480. of three of us, at least, or more. It's just

  481. still the truth. We were never meant to walk alone.

  482. That's just still the truth. And again, if you've been

  483. around here for any length of time, you've heard me

  484. speak on this topic in some way, shape, or form before.

  485. In some way or other, I always work in, we

  486. were never meant to walk alone. We weren't meant to

  487. fight alone. We weren't meant to carry our burdens alone.

  488. We weren't meant to make hard decisions alone. We weren't

  489. meant to grow alone. We are better than me. There's

  490. this crazy beautiful health and strength that comes from God's

  491. people doing life together. And there's something beautiful about picking

  492. each other up when you fall and telling each other

  493. the truth when that's what you needed to hear and

  494. celebrating each other as a compliment and cheering each other

  495. on when we're discouraged and helping each other when we

  496. just need a hand. and helping each other follow Jesus.

  497. But we have to prioritize that. You have to prioritize this.

  498. We have to intentionally commit to build the kind of

  499. community that we all want to be a part of,

  500. where we're known and cared for and loved. The past

  501. few months, I've been thinking a lot. I actually haven't

  502. spoken on a Sunday morning in a while. I've been

  503. working on you know, the all-in track and some things

  504. that go with that and just really doing some wrestling

  505. with it. And one of the things I keep thinking

  506. about is those of you that are here or watching

  507. online that have been at Venture for a long time,

  508. you know, probably like pre-COVID because, you know, that's the

  509. before and after of all of our lives. But pre-COVID or,

  510. you know, maybe 10 years, maybe you've been here 20 years,

  511. maybe you've been here since the church was planted, which

  512. is almost 22 years ago now. And if you were honest,

  513. you would say, I mean, I used to have my people.

  514. I used to be in a we relationship, but those

  515. people moved away, or their life circumstances changed, or they

  516. stopped following Jesus maybe, or they don't go here anymore,

  517. or whatever the case may be. But it's not enough

  518. that you had relationships. It's about being fully engaged and

  519. committed to being a part of the body of Christ

  520. and building those relationships now. You have to be in relationships,

  521. which means you might have to start again. And if

  522. you're new here and you're like, I don't know anybody, great.

  523. We have so many opportunities for you to find your people,

  524. but you have to prioritize actually finding your people. We

  525. work really hard around here as a staff and a

  526. volunteer team to provide you with opportunities to find your people,

  527. but they're only as good as you actually taking those opportunities.

  528. Let me kind of tie it up with this. I

  529. truly 100% believe it is one of the greatest strategies

  530. of the enemy of our lives. And we have an

  531. enemy of our lives. He wants to keep you and

  532. I in the shallow end of relationships. Because in the

  533. shallow end of relationships, we don't get our character back.

  534. challenged or our choices challenged or our purpose in life challenged.

  535. We don't maybe have the same kind of character development

  536. because we're not in relationship with other people who are

  537. sharpening us and maybe we're in the shallow end of

  538. purpose and belonging. But it is through deep end friendships

  539. that God reveals our character and reveals the truth and

  540. grows us and keeps us accountable and keeps us on mission.

  541. It's through deepened friendships that we discover that we is

  542. greater than me. So my challenge for you is to commit,

  543. to really commit. We have been responding to each message

  544. in this series with a tap. And so there is

  545. a tap tag on the seat in front of you,

  546. or if you're in the front row, it's the seat

  547. behind you. And that tap, and I'm going to invite

  548. every one of you to tap in just a second,

  549. but you're tapping together. to commit. You're either committing to, okay,

  550. I'm going to find my people and I'm going to

  551. find a group that I can participate in. Our groups

  552. are open for registration in two weeks. So I wish

  553. I could have you join a group right now, but

  554. we're still forming them for the fall. But you can

  555. commit and say, I'm going to find one. Or you

  556. can help us by leading a group. So that's your

  557. second option. You can say, I'm going to commit to

  558. lead a group. And we're still forming those groups. So

  559. you can say, it's such a priority to me to

  560. find my people. I'm willing to host and enable people

  561. finding their people. And if for some reason you have

  562. the kind of schedule that just doesn't allow for this

  563. right now, but you would say, I need some people.

  564. We do have classes as an option. So you can

  565. tap that right now and reply. Our classes that I mentioned,

  566. they're on Wednesday nights. They're one hour each. They're three

  567. weeks long. And the purpose of those classes is for

  568. your growth. but you're doing it with other people. And

  569. that is a good place to start. It's better than

  570. trying to do it alone. So I'm going to encourage

  571. you to commit. So that's your response challenge right now

  572. to tap that. If you haven't tapped it yet, maybe

  573. you're already in a group, just tap it and say, yes,

  574. I'll join a group. But I encourage you and dare

  575. you to respond. And then I'm going to close this

  576. time in prayer. So I'm going to invite you to

  577. bow your heads. Let me preface how I'm going to pray.

  578. If you're in this room and you would say, I

  579. need people, even just I need a person that will

  580. walk beside me, would you just raise your hand? There's

  581. not very many of you. I think you need people.

  582. If you would say, I need people, maybe you already

  583. have them. That wasn't my question. My question is, do

  584. you need people? If you need people, raise your hand.

  585. My hand is raised. I need people. I need people.

  586. I'm going to pray over us that God will provide

  587. the people that we need. So agree with me, Lord,

  588. right now. We are committing to engaging in intentional relationship

  589. in the body of believers. That is Venture Church. And

  590. we are saying, God, would you help us to find

  591. our people? Which doesn't mean that we sit inactive and

  592. it's your job to drop someone in our lap. It

  593. means we'll put ourselves out there and we're asking you

  594. to bring the people. And Lord, I am saying this

  595. especially for those who are desperately lonely or feel like

  596. they're drowning or think no one sees them. God, I

  597. pray that as they put themselves out there, you will

  598. respond by orchestrating a beautiful relationship where we can walk

  599. out life following you together. It's in your name, it's

  600. for your glory, and it's for our good. So we

  601. say thank you, Lord, and amen.

  602. Can we give Pastor Dye a big thank you for

  603. that message? Hey, we say this every Sunday, and I

  604. just want to encourage you, remind you that we've got

  605. an amazing team of people here that take the notes

  606. from these Sunday messages and curate and put together resources

  607. for you on our What's Next page. So if you

  608. go to your app, if you take a look at

  609. our website, head to the What's Next page, there's a

  610. ton of resources put together just for you to take

  611. this me and we conversation that we had this morning

  612. into your week, Monday to Saturday, that you're able to

  613. continue to grow and continue to uncover what God's Word

  614. says about the power.

  615. Of community and relationship.

  616. What I want to do is I want to invite

  617. our ushers forward as we take today's tithes and offerings.

  618. We celebrate this opportunity to give. As you take a

  619. look at your app, as you look at the different

  620. opportunities to give, you're gonna find two different things there.

  621. Number one, you're gonna find your regular tithes and offerings.

  622. Everything given to tithes and offerings goes towards the day-to-day

  623. ministry and work happening here at Venture Church. And you're

  624. also gonna see Kingdom Builders. We talk a lot about

  625. Kingdom Builders here, and that is our way to partner

  626. with the Lord and what he's doing through various organizations

  627. both here locally in our community and abroad all around

  628. the world in.

  629. Many different countries.

  630. If you came prepared to give this morning, there's a

  631. few different ways you can do that. You can scan

  632. the QR code there on the screen. You can tap

  633. that tag on the back of your seat in front

  634. of you. Or if you came prepared to give in person,

  635. you can grab an envelope in your seat back.

  636. And put that in the.

  637. Offering bucket as it passes in front of you in

  638. just a moment. Would you join me in a word

  639. of prayer as we bless today's offerings? Lord, thank you

  640. for all that you have given to us. Thank you

  641. for all of the ways that you have provided for us.

  642. both in ways that we recognize now and ways that we, Lord,

  643. haven't even put together yet.

  644. God, I pray that as we give back.

  645. In generosity to you this morning, Lord, that you would

  646. bless every gift and every giver.

  647. We love you, Lord. We pray all of these things.

  648. In your name. Amen.

  649. Sunday, September 13th, it's Back to Church Sunday.

  650. We have three big things.

  651. We can't wait to celebrate together.

  652. Our Lightbearers project is finally complete and we cannot wait

  653. to celebrate and show everybody.

  654. Come see for yourself after third service.

  655. For a tour. And I'm... Really excited about this brand

  656. new series that we are launching on the 13th through

  657. the books of Ezra and Nehemiah.

  658. It's called Ruins to Revival.

  659. I bet many of you can think about times in

  660. your life where it seems like everything has fallen apart.

  661. But you're going to see through this series that God

  662. is able to take these ruins and put it back

  663. together again. and build something beautiful.

  664. Out of it.

  665. It's also Grandparents' Day. We can't wait to celebrate and

  666. honor all of our grandparents here at Venture. So whether

  667. you're a grandparent or you're bringing your grandparent, come meet

  668. us under the front awning for root beer floats. You

  669. don't want to miss Back to Church Sunday.

  670. Come on, Back to Church Sunday, September 13th. We're going

  671. to kick the fall off big. How many of you

  672. guys ready to go back to school?

  673. None of them. All right.

  674. Hey, one quick thing before we get out of here.

  675. If you are interested in joining the Saturday night interest meeting,

  676. the interest meeting for the Saturday night service, joining the

  677. team there, that's going to be in the Discover room

  678. during third service.

  679. Y'all invited to stand on up to your feet. We

  680. love you.

  681. Hope you have an amazing rest of your day, rest

  682. of your week, and we will see you tonight at

  683. 6 p.m.

  684. For our worship night.