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We is greater than Me | Pastor Di Beals | Venture Church
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My name is Di. I'm part of the team here
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at our Mill Creek campus, and I don't know if
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this has already been done, so if it has, we'll
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get a cheer again. But two of the world's most
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precious human beings got engaged this week, and I love
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them both. So if Audrey and Dallas are in the room,
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stand up. If you're not sure who they are, well, A,
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you're missing out, but B, they're both on our staff here,
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so we're really happy for them. Thanks for cheering for them.
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You are joining us today for our series that we've
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titled All In. And All In is our way of
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representing to you, and we're using a graphic to kind
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of help us get the visual, but it's representing what
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it looks like to be fully engaged in the life
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and mission of Venture Church. So this is not maybe
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exactly what would be all in at another church, but
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you are here. And so this is our way of saying, hey,
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if you call this your church home, if this is
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the body of believers that you have chosen to do
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life and love Jesus with, this is what it looks
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like here to be all in, to be a fully
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participating member of the body of Christ at Venture Church.
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We have compared this a little bit to an Apple Watch,
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which Pastor Morgan did that when he launched this series,
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and his opening message was what it looks like to
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be a part of the body of Christ and how
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important that is. But he used the example of an
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Apple Watch, and I think it's a great example. So
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if you have an Apple Watch, you're familiar with this idea.
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If you don't, your watch... in the Apple version, tells
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you how you're doing on things like steps. And maybe
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you have a different brand of a watch. I have
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a Garmin. It tells me how many steps I have.
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It throws confetti when I walk 10,000 steps. Maybe you
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have your set to tell you, oh, you've done enough
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exercise minutes today. And when you do that, it closes
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your ring. That's what Apple does. They have you close
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a ring. And every day you start over because every
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day is a new day of you having to get
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steps in and move and have exercise. And I think
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we all understand this concept, but just so we're all
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on the same page, we'll say it again. You are
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not healthy necessarily because you closed a ring, right? That
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doesn't mean that you're a healthy person. What it does
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tell you is that you made healthy choices that lead
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to a potentially healthy you. For example, if my watch
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throws confetti because I walked 10,000 steps, that doesn't mean
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I'm healthy. But walking 10,000 steps definitely contributes to me
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being healthier than if I sit all day long. So,
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so far in this all-in track, as we look at
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the different rings, we have covered The importance of regular
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participation in the body of Christ. How important it is
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for us to be a regular and active and intentional
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part of the body because we tend to drift and
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we don't tend to drift towards greater faith and greater engagement.
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We tend to drift away from it. Also, we've covered
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the reminder of who we are as a church and
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where we're going and what our core values are and
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what's important to us. And that fits in that discover
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ring because that's discovering who we are and where we're going.
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And last week, we were challenged with the importance of
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serving other people. And I don't know about you, but
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I think it's pretty safe to say we tend toward self-centeredness.
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And when we serve others, it is good for us
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to put the needs of other people before our own needs.
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And also, no matter how bad things might be going
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for you, you always have something to give to somebody else.
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And that is good for us. This picture is meant
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as a challenge. It's supposed to challenge you. It's not
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supposed to become your to-do list. It's supposed to challenge
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you Because the world around us might be and probably
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is drifting away from or walking intentionally away from relational commitment.
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And instead of walking away, we want to lean in
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and directly walk toward relational commitment with each other. We
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don't want to just say, hey, it's okay. Do what
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you can. Show up when you can. Occasionally go into church.
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That's okay. No, we want to say, hey, if you
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want to be a healthy person, follower of Jesus you
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need other believers press in okay today we're gonna talk
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about what it looks like to join with other people
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now the circle that we have highlighted says join a
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group or a class and if you've been around here
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for any number of years you know we talk a
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lot about groups our small groups last for eight weeks
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Then they take about six weeks off while we form
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new ones. That's happening right now. We're forming new ones.
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And then they go another eight weeks, which is great
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because there's always an on-ramp for you. And it's great
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because maybe you tried a group once and it was like,
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I didn't really click with those people. But you can
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try again to click with other people. Groups are intended
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to build relationship. Classes have that as a byproduct. So
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it's another option. Classes are offered every week. month, and
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they're three weeks long on Wednesday nights, and they're one hour.
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It's a great opportunity to grow, but you get to
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do it with other people, and it's better than just
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not interacting with others at all. So this is meant
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also today as a dare. Raise your hand if you
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like dares. Oh, not very many of you. Man, dares
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are dangerous because I have a really hard time saying no.
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So now I'm going to hide after this service so
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I don't get a bunch of dares. But I want
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to dare you today to devote yourself to meaningful relationships
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in the body of Christ. And maybe what you need
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to hear me say is, I want to dare you
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to try again. Or maybe what you need to hear
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me say is, I want to dare you to try.
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Or maybe what you need to hear me say is,
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I want to dare you to go deeper than maybe
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you've gone before. This is vulnerable. And it's also dangerous,
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and it is definitely countercultural. The world tells you, build
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your life around you. But today I want to think
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about how Jesus invites us to not build around me,
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but to build around we. I want to illustrate what
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I think the Bible illustrates for us, which is we
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is greater than me. Okay, I know we already prayed,
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but would you just bow your head with me? Because
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this is the right way for us to hold this
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message now. We just say, Lord, challenge us. Challenge us
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to lean into relational commitment with each other as believers
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in you. And there are some in this room that
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are desperately lonely, and they need to hear the challenge,
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press in, and build relationship. It's all for you. Amen.
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All right, so there are benefits... to we, because we,
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I think, is greater than me, and I am following
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the Bible on this, so there are benefits. So to
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do that, we're going to look for what King Solomon
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says in the book of Ecclesiastes. I don't know if
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Ecclesiastes is the most well-read book out there, but we
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just did a series on the life of King Solomon,
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and he happened to write Ecclesiastes, so it is recent
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in our Venture Church history, but maybe you know enough
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to know What's the phrase that King Solomon says over
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and over in the book of Ecclesiastes? This too is meaningless.
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Everything is meaningless. It's chasing after the wind. King Solomon,
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who was known for his unmatched wisdom, reports on, in
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the book of Ecclesiastes, his observations on a few things.
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How fleeting life is. So he's not trying to be
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fatalistic when he says things are meaningless. He's trying to
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report on life is fast. It goes by fast. The
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time we have to spend our life goes by quickly.
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He reports on how limited we are as humans, how
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hard we try and how much that tends to fall short.
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Anyone relate? Injustices and oppression. And then also how death
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is the equalizer. In other words... Because life is short
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and because we're all going to die, and when we die,
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we can't take anything with us, how we spend our
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life matters. Okay? That's the message of Solomon in Ecclesiastes. Well,
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we're going to kind of zoom in on chapter 4.
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And in chapter 4, Solomon is observing different kinds of people.
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So he talks a little bit about people who oppress
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or take advantage of other people. And then he talks
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about people who are lazy. And then he talks about
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people who are motivated to succeed, but only because they're
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envious of what other people have, and that's what motivates them.
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And then he kind of zeroes in on people who
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are all alone. And that's where I want us to
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focus our attention today. So if you have your Bible,
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I'm going to invite you to turn to Ecclesiastes chapter 4.
Ecclesiastes 4 chapter mention
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If you don't have your Bible, the words will be
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on the screen. I'm choosing a translation we don't usually
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use on a Sunday morning. It's the C-E-B. the Common
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English Bible. And there's a reason I chose this one
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that I will highlight in just a second here. But
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we're going to start in verse 7. It says, There
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are people who are utterly alone with no companions, not
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even a child or a sibling, yet they work hard
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without end, never satisfied with their wealth. So for whom
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am I working so hard and depriving myself of enjoyment?
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This too is pointless and a terrible obsession. Okay, so
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a few things. Number one, the reason I chose this
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translation is because translators don't know what to do with
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this little, or they struggle to know what to do
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with this little phrase. I don't know if you noticed it,
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but Solomon's making an observation, and then it sounds like
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it changes who's talking. So he's observing this person, a man,
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who is working and has no one working with him.
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And then it sounds like suddenly the man is talking,
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where it says... Whom am I working so hard and
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depriving myself of enjoyment? Who am I doing this for?
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And some translations insert right there, he said. Okay, so
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Solomon's observing a man. He's working really hard. He's all alone.
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And then that man said, why am I doing this?
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What am I doing this all for? But translators, other translations,
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including the one I chose, uh, would like to suggest
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strongly that really this should say what the man should
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ask is why am I doing all of this? So
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the translation I've chosen here for us today is basically
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saying Solomon observes a man. He is working all alone.
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He's working ridiculously hard. He never stops working just to
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amass all of this wealth. And he never stops to
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ask himself, why am I doing this? And because he
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never stops to ask that question, what he's doing is meaningless. Now,
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what this doesn't mean is that Solomon is looking at
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a guy, poor guy. He doesn't have any friends. He
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doesn't have any family. He doesn't even have a sibling.
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He doesn't even have a child to help him.
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No.
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What Solomon is pointing out here is this particular man
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is all alone in his work with no one to
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help him because he wants it that way. And in
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this case, it's because he doesn't want to share what
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he's earning. And that, my friends, is meaningless because he's
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never stopping to say, what am I even doing this for?
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At the end of my life, I will pass away
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and I take none of this with me. What's it
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all for? I don't know if you've ever felt this way.
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I don't know. Adults in the room, you go to
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work every day. You know, maybe you work 40, 50
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hours a week. Maybe you work 60. Maybe you commute.
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And at the end of a week or every night,
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you're like, what is this all even for? There's got
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to be something bigger than going to work to pay
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your bills. Amen? Okay, yes, this is exactly what we
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are observing here. Socrates is credited famously for saying, an
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unexamined life is not worth living. And this man that
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Solomon is observing has never stopped to examine his life
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and say, why am I doing this? What is this for?
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But Solomon concludes for him, this is pointless. This is meaningless.
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If you dig into the word for pointless or meaningless,
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it's things like, this is a miserable decision. This is
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a sad travail is one of the ways you can
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translate it. So, This is not good. It's not healthy. Now,
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that sets us up, though. Solomon has set us up
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for the verses to follow that. So if that man,
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working really hard, amassing his wealth, not working with anyone else,
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working by himself, if that's meaningless, what's the other side?
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What's the other side of the coin? Verses 9 through 12.
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Look with me at verse 9. Two are better than
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one because they have a good return for their hard work.
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If either should fall, one can pick up the other.
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But how miserable are those who fall and don't have
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a companion to help them up? Verse 11. Also, if
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two lie down together, they can stay warm. But how
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can anyone stay warm alone? Verse 12. Also, one can
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be overpowered, but two together can put up resistance. A
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three-ply cord doesn't easily snap. Okay, so based on these verses,
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let's look at what Solomon gives us as the benefits
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of we and how we is greater than just me.
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So first, the first benefit is work. Two people are
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definitely better than one when it comes to work. We're
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leaving out the outliers, like somebody who just doesn't try.
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We're talking about two people working. And two people working
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is better than one person working, because quite simply, two
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people can get more done than just one. That's logical.
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Difficult jobs are easier with four hands and two brains
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than they are with two hands and one brain. Even
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if they divide the profits, it is almost always still
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better to have two people working because they get a
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better return for the investment of their effort and energy
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when the two of them are working versus one person
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working alone. Two people also bring more skill and more
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experience and more talent and more gifts to the table
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than just one. And by nature, two people include if
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one gets discouraged, one can encourage. So if you're by yourself,
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and things are really hard in the work you're doing,
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and you think, I want to quit, there's no one
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around to say, don't quit. But if you have someone
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working with you, they can encourage you to keep at
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it and keep working. So Solomon observes that we is
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greater than me because working shoulder to shoulder, we help
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each other succeed. Okay, so that's a good start. You agree?
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It's a good start. All right. What comes next? Well,
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two people are also better than one when it comes
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to walking, right? which is kind of actually funny. I
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chuckled when I read that. But it's because roads in
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ancient Palestine, which is to whom Solomon is writing, are
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not paved. They're also not level. I don't know. We
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could probably say about some of our roads that they're
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also dangerous, but they specifically, and very much so, had
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not safe roads to travel on, And some were just
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a path through the wilderness, and some were hard to find,
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and some had hidden dangers. Maybe they had a pit
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you could fall into. And so tripping and falling was
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a real and even likely hazard. And so two people
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walking together made it safer. Now, if you have known
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me for any length of time, you've probably seen me
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trip because I am klutzy. I wish that I was not,
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but I am. And so if I'm out hiking, which
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I spend a lot of time out hiking, I fall often.
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And so it's been almost one year now since I
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had a really, really bad fall. And if you remember,
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if you were around then, you remember back to me
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having lots of apparatuses on me. And that is because
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I was coming down from a lake in the mountains,
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six miles up into the mountains, And about halfway down,
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I tripped over a root, just a root sticking up,
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my foot hooked underneath it, just as I was about
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to kind of jump down this little steep section. And
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I launched into the air headfirst. It's a good thing
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that the instinct was to put out my hand because
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I would have landed face first on the ground. But
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putting out my hand meant that I broke my wrist
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in eight places. In fact, I broke all the bones
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in my wrist. And my skin kept my hand together,
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but I broke all the bones in my wrist. And
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I broke my kneecap in half and then in half again.
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And I still had three miles to climb down to
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get to the car. And I was 30 miles off
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of Highway 2 on dirt roads. So, I mean, I'm
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one of those people that is like, no one wants
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to go hiking with me. Fine, I'll go by myself.
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But I will tell you, in this case, two things.
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was definitely better than one because I was with my mom.
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And my mom is the one that kept me sane
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and kept me focused and kept me moving. We carry
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all the safety equipment. I had a sling for my
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arm in my first aid kit in my bag, except
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nobody was allowed to touch my bag because it was
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on my arm that was very, very broken. And I
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did not want anyone to touch my bag. And so
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my mom made me a sling out of her coat
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and she helped me Get the three miles down to
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the car and the many miles to the hospital. And
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I am so grateful because I'm a pretty tough person.
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And I'm a pretty, once I put my mind to something,
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I'm going to accomplish. And I'm not sure I could
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have done that without the help of traveling with my mom.
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And we're describing here physical freedom. I couldn't have done
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that without my mom, that physical task. But can we
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just move this a little bit into the spiritual category
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and talk about spiritual falling? If you're walking alone as
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you follow the Lord and you make a mistake and trip,
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which we're all going to do, and you are by yourself,
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it is much harder to get up and keep pursuing
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the Lord. So two is certainly better than one when
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it comes to keeping us following the Lord. And you
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might be thinking right now, sitting out there or watching online,
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I don't need other people. I got this. You know
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those people? If it's not you, you probably know this
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person that says, I don't need anyone to help me.
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And a couple years ago, I actually tackled this topic
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of we need each other, and I said a line
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in that message that gets repeated back to me still today.
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And the line was, yep, you can do it alone.
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I mean, usually, you can do it alone. But in
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the end, you'll still be what? Alone. Alone. Someone came
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up to me after first service and he said, it's
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kind of like that famous quote, one person can go fast,
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but two people can go farther. I just think like
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there's so much power in how we help each other walk.
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And Solomon observes that we is greater than me because
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walking together provides a hand to help us up when
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we fall. Two people are also better than one when
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it comes to warmth. And this is kind of a
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funny one, but it's in here. In the ancient world
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of the Bible, travelers didn't have lots of options of
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places to stay. And so sometimes they camped out in
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a field. And sometimes they camped in the town square.
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And sometimes they camped right outside of an inn that
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was full. And they would be there on a cold
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Palestinian night. And two people traveling together was better than
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because they could provide warmth for each other, which is safer.
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Think about it. The only way a traveler traveling alone
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in ancient Palestinian times could stay warm is if he
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carried more blankets, which means more weight. So alone, in
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order to stay warm, you have to carry more things.
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It's so logical. But two people together don't have to
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carry as much, A, because there's two of them, and B,
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because They keep each other warm. There is a physical
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aspect to the safety provided by two people's bodies keeping
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each other warm. You've probably seen a movie where somebody's
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stranded out in a blizzard or something, and their life
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is in peril, and the way they stay warm is
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they press their bodies up against each other to stay warm,
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and that is an actual thing. When you huddle close together...
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Your body warmth is extended to the person that's close
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to you, and likewise, their body warmth is extended to you.
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The more surface area of your skin that is touching
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each other, the more you radiate warmth to each other.
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In other words, two people can stay warm in ways
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that one person simply cannot. And that's physical. Then there's
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the emotional and spiritual side of it, where we help
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each other feel warm, safe, and connected. And psychologically speaking,
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because I went on a really big rabbit hole on
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this point that I will spare you of and I
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will summarize. Psychologically speaking, there's an additional psychological benefit to
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closeness between humans, including the physical touch of closeness. It
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releases oxytocin, which combats the stress hormone in your life.
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Then you add this additional fascinating thing about your brain.
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Your brain links warmth, physical warmth, and emotional trust. It
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puts those two things together. When I am actually warm,
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I feel more trusting, which is weird. It means that
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people who feel warm feel safer, and they act more
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kindly to each other. Can someone go turn up the heat, please? No,
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I'm just kidding. I actually got some tea right before service,
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and it's called sleepy time tea, and I was like,
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why do we have this? I don't want anyone drinking
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this right before a message. Okay. Okay. There are more
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things we could list. But for our purposes today, Solomon
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observes that we is greater than me because a life
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lived side by side brings warmth and safety and connection.
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Now let's add a little bit more about that safety piece.
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Because here's the fourth thing that Solomon highlights. He says
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two people without a doubt are better than one when
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it comes to keeping watch. Now, strictly speaking, humans have
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physical limitations. Okay, we know this. One of those limitations
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is you've got to sleep. So back to these Palestinian
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ancient world travelers who are traveling between towns or great distances,
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and they've got to sleep out in the open somewhere,
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and they're in danger of animals and sometimes humans too.
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And you either can't ever sleep or you're immediately in danger,
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or if you have more than one person, one person
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keeps watch. Four eyes is better than two. One person
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can rest, the other can keep watch. This is logical,
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but especially at night. I kept picturing in my head
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just the physical limitations of your neck. I mean, if
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I'm standing here worried or trying to keep watch, and
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I'm doing this, I'm missing everything that's behind me, right?
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So I would either have to keep spinning in circles,
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Or someone stands at my back. And surely you can
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see that this is not just a physical analogy. It
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is also spiritual. Two are better than one when it
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comes to safety. If there is an enemy prowling around
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who wants to bring harm to you, having someone else
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watch your back, which is where that phrase comes from,
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is better than trying to go it alone. Amen. Amen.
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The New Living Translation of verse 12 says it this way.
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A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but
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two can stand back to back and conquer. And I
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love that picture of two people physically and spiritually and
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relationally standing back to back to cover each other's back.
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So Solomon observed that we is greater than me because
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back to back, we keep watch and And we can
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fight for each other. I want, is it just me?
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I want people that are guarding my back. I want
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my friends that I have intentionally built relationship with to
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know I've got their back. And I need to know
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that they've got mine. And that, I mean, I could
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preach a whole sermon on that. But if this isn't
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compelling enough, that we is greater than me, let me
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just give you this additional little piece at the end
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of verse 12. Solomon says, a three-ply cord doesn't easily snap.
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You've probably heard it in other translations. A strand of
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three cords is not easily broken is another way that
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that is said. And here's the thing. The point of
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that is not, hey, more people are better. Be in
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a crowd all the time, but nobody knows you in
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the crowd, and you're still walking life by yourself. That's
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not logical. That's not what that means. Instead, it's meant
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for us to understand that me, by myself, has limits.
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But we multiplies strength. So if it's a we that
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is two of us, that's stronger than one. And if
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it is a we that is three of us, that
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is stronger than the we of two of us. Who
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is number three? Okay, well that could be just your
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really good friend. You have two really good friends and
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there are three of you. Maybe you're blessed. Maybe you've
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got four really good friends. You are a strong core.
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But I want to remind you Jesus is the third
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strand of the cord. This is what Jesus says in
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really long part of a prayer that Jesus prays. But
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he doesn't pray about his followers. which at that point
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was his followers and his disciples, but it extends to us.
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If you follow Jesus in this room, we're included in
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this prayer. And he doesn't pray for his followers that
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they'll just be one tough cookie who can just march
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along on their own and be really strong. He doesn't pray, Lord,
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make each one of my followers strong. He prays they
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would be one. Okay, he prays it three times in
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that chapter. In verse 11, he says, protect them so
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they will be united. In verse 21, he says that
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they will all be one. And in verse 23, he
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says that they will be in unity, that they will
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be a cord not easily broken, and it's intended to
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include him. Okay, another example of that, Matthew 18, 20.
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Jesus says... When we are gathered together, maybe you've heard
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this verse, when two or three are gathered together, he's
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right there with us. Jesus is with us. If you
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follow Jesus in this place, if you're attempting to live
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your life for him, and you gather with other Jesus followers,
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he puts his presence right there in your midst. And
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you are a cord that is not easily broken when
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Jesus is in the midst. Right? The crazy thing is
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the world tells us to build our lives around me.
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Make it about me. My wealth, my career, my goals,
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my dreams, my resources, my needs, my future, and my wants.
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But Jesus invites us into we. And it's a we
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of three of us, at least, or more. It's just
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still the truth. We were never meant to walk alone.
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That's just still the truth. And again, if you've been
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around here for any length of time, you've heard me
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speak on this topic in some way, shape, or form before.
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In some way or other, I always work in, we
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were never meant to walk alone. We weren't meant to
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fight alone. We weren't meant to carry our burdens alone.
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We weren't meant to make hard decisions alone. We weren't
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meant to grow alone. We are better than me. There's
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this crazy beautiful health and strength that comes from God's
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people doing life together. And there's something beautiful about picking
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each other up when you fall and telling each other
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the truth when that's what you needed to hear and
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celebrating each other as a compliment and cheering each other
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on when we're discouraged and helping each other when we
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just need a hand. and helping each other follow Jesus.
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But we have to prioritize that. You have to prioritize this.
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We have to intentionally commit to build the kind of
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community that we all want to be a part of,
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where we're known and cared for and loved. The past
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few months, I've been thinking a lot. I actually haven't
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spoken on a Sunday morning in a while. I've been
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working on you know, the all-in track and some things
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that go with that and just really doing some wrestling
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with it. And one of the things I keep thinking
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about is those of you that are here or watching
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online that have been at Venture for a long time,
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you know, probably like pre-COVID because, you know, that's the
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before and after of all of our lives. But pre-COVID or,
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you know, maybe 10 years, maybe you've been here 20 years,
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maybe you've been here since the church was planted, which
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is almost 22 years ago now. And if you were honest,
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you would say, I mean, I used to have my people.
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I used to be in a we relationship, but those
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people moved away, or their life circumstances changed, or they
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stopped following Jesus maybe, or they don't go here anymore,
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or whatever the case may be. But it's not enough
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that you had relationships. It's about being fully engaged and
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committed to being a part of the body of Christ
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and building those relationships now. You have to be in relationships,
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which means you might have to start again. And if
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you're new here and you're like, I don't know anybody, great.
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We have so many opportunities for you to find your people,
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but you have to prioritize actually finding your people. We
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work really hard around here as a staff and a
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volunteer team to provide you with opportunities to find your people,
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but they're only as good as you actually taking those opportunities.
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Let me kind of tie it up with this. I
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truly 100% believe it is one of the greatest strategies
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of the enemy of our lives. And we have an
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enemy of our lives. He wants to keep you and
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I in the shallow end of relationships. Because in the
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shallow end of relationships, we don't get our character back.
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challenged or our choices challenged or our purpose in life challenged.
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We don't maybe have the same kind of character development
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because we're not in relationship with other people who are
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sharpening us and maybe we're in the shallow end of
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purpose and belonging. But it is through deep end friendships
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that God reveals our character and reveals the truth and
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grows us and keeps us accountable and keeps us on mission.
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It's through deepened friendships that we discover that we is
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greater than me. So my challenge for you is to commit,
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to really commit. We have been responding to each message
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in this series with a tap. And so there is
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a tap tag on the seat in front of you,
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or if you're in the front row, it's the seat
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behind you. And that tap, and I'm going to invite
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every one of you to tap in just a second,
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but you're tapping together. to commit. You're either committing to, okay,
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I'm going to find my people and I'm going to
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find a group that I can participate in. Our groups
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are open for registration in two weeks. So I wish
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I could have you join a group right now, but
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we're still forming them for the fall. But you can
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commit and say, I'm going to find one. Or you
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can help us by leading a group. So that's your
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second option. You can say, I'm going to commit to
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lead a group. And we're still forming those groups. So
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you can say, it's such a priority to me to
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find my people. I'm willing to host and enable people
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finding their people. And if for some reason you have
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the kind of schedule that just doesn't allow for this
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right now, but you would say, I need some people.
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We do have classes as an option. So you can
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tap that right now and reply. Our classes that I mentioned,
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they're on Wednesday nights. They're one hour each. They're three
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weeks long. And the purpose of those classes is for
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your growth. but you're doing it with other people. And
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that is a good place to start. It's better than
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trying to do it alone. So I'm going to encourage
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you to commit. So that's your response challenge right now
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to tap that. If you haven't tapped it yet, maybe
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you're already in a group, just tap it and say, yes,
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I'll join a group. But I encourage you and dare
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you to respond. And then I'm going to close this
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time in prayer. So I'm going to invite you to
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bow your heads. Let me preface how I'm going to pray.
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If you're in this room and you would say, I
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need people, even just I need a person that will
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walk beside me, would you just raise your hand? There's
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not very many of you. I think you need people.
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If you would say, I need people, maybe you already
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have them. That wasn't my question. My question is, do
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you need people? If you need people, raise your hand.
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My hand is raised. I need people. I need people.
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I'm going to pray over us that God will provide
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the people that we need. So agree with me, Lord,
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right now. We are committing to engaging in intentional relationship
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in the body of believers. That is Venture Church. And
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we are saying, God, would you help us to find
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our people? Which doesn't mean that we sit inactive and
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it's your job to drop someone in our lap. It
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means we'll put ourselves out there and we're asking you
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to bring the people. And Lord, I am saying this
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especially for those who are desperately lonely or feel like
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they're drowning or think no one sees them. God, I
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pray that as they put themselves out there, you will
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respond by orchestrating a beautiful relationship where we can walk
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out life following you together. It's in your name, it's
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for your glory, and it's for our good. So we
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say thank you, Lord, and amen.
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Can we give Pastor Dye a big thank you for
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that message? Hey, we say this every Sunday, and I
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just want to encourage you, remind you that we've got
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an amazing team of people here that take the notes
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from these Sunday messages and curate and put together resources
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for you on our What's Next page. So if you
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go to your app, if you take a look at
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our website, head to the What's Next page, there's a
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ton of resources put together just for you to take
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this me and we conversation that we had this morning
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into your week, Monday to Saturday, that you're able to
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continue to grow and continue to uncover what God's Word
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says about the power.
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Of community and relationship.
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What I want to do is I want to invite
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our ushers forward as we take today's tithes and offerings.
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We celebrate this opportunity to give. As you take a
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look at your app, as you look at the different
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opportunities to give, you're gonna find two different things there.
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Number one, you're gonna find your regular tithes and offerings.
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Everything given to tithes and offerings goes towards the day-to-day
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ministry and work happening here at Venture Church. And you're
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also gonna see Kingdom Builders. We talk a lot about
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Kingdom Builders here, and that is our way to partner
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with the Lord and what he's doing through various organizations
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both here locally in our community and abroad all around
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the world in.
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Many different countries.
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If you came prepared to give this morning, there's a
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few different ways you can do that. You can scan
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the QR code there on the screen. You can tap
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that tag on the back of your seat in front
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of you. Or if you came prepared to give in person,
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you can grab an envelope in your seat back.
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And put that in the.
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Offering bucket as it passes in front of you in
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just a moment. Would you join me in a word
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of prayer as we bless today's offerings? Lord, thank you
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for all that you have given to us. Thank you
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for all of the ways that you have provided for us.
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both in ways that we recognize now and ways that we, Lord,
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haven't even put together yet.
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God, I pray that as we give back.
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In generosity to you this morning, Lord, that you would
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bless every gift and every giver.
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We love you, Lord. We pray all of these things.
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In your name. Amen.
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Sunday, September 13th, it's Back to Church Sunday.
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We have three big things.
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We can't wait to celebrate together.
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Our Lightbearers project is finally complete and we cannot wait
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to celebrate and show everybody.
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Come see for yourself after third service.
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For a tour. And I'm... Really excited about this brand
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new series that we are launching on the 13th through
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the books of Ezra and Nehemiah.
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It's called Ruins to Revival.
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I bet many of you can think about times in
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your life where it seems like everything has fallen apart.
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But you're going to see through this series that God
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is able to take these ruins and put it back
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together again. and build something beautiful.
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Out of it.
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It's also Grandparents' Day. We can't wait to celebrate and
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honor all of our grandparents here at Venture. So whether
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you're a grandparent or you're bringing your grandparent, come meet
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us under the front awning for root beer floats. You
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don't want to miss Back to Church Sunday.
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Come on, Back to Church Sunday, September 13th. We're going
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to kick the fall off big. How many of you
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guys ready to go back to school?
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None of them. All right.
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Hey, one quick thing before we get out of here.
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If you are interested in joining the Saturday night interest meeting,
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the interest meeting for the Saturday night service, joining the
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team there, that's going to be in the Discover room
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during third service.
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Y'all invited to stand on up to your feet. We
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love you.
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Hope you have an amazing rest of your day, rest
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of your week, and we will see you tonight at
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6 p.m.
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For our worship night.