Sermon
JOB 3 - 8th March 2026
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All
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right. Well, good morning. Please take
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your Bibles and open them up to Job
Job 2 chapter mention
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chapter 2. Please take your Bibles and
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open them up to Job chapter 2.
Job 2 chapter mention
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It's just before Psalms, the book of
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Psalms, Job chapter 2.
Job 2 chapter mention
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Job is 42 chapters. We will not be going
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through it one chapter at a time, but
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for these first couple of weeks it will
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be and then we'll be looking at bigger
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chunks just to let you know. Um
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let's pray and ask for the Lord's help
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as we consider his word together.
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Lord, we thank you, Lord Jesus, for the
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song uh that we just sang that our sins
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they are many, but your mercy is more.
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What a wonderful truth to sing to you
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and to sing to one another. What a
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wonderful truth to remember that we
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stand here because of your mercy. Thank
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you, Lord Jesus, for the forgiveness of
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sins. Thank you for new life in you.
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Thank you that you have promised to
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never leave us and never forsake us.
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Thank you that you have promised to be
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with us wherever we go. And thank you
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that you have promised that you are
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coming back again. And thank you that
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you have promised that one day we will
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be with you in eternity. And it is on
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that day our faith will become sight.
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And Lord Jesus, we cannot wait. But I
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thank you Lord that we get to experience
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your word even now in these moments on
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earth. Teach us. We need to hear from
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you. We ask that you Lord Jesus would
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speak for your servants are listening.
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Amen.
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Going to start this morning um not with
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an encouraging truth. I would love to
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start with an encouraging truth, but I'm
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going to start with what might seem as a
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discouraging truth, but it is a truth
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that we must remember.
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And the truth is this.
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Satan,
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he is real.
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And Satan,
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he hates you.
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Satan, he is real.
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And Satan, he hates you.
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And when when you open up the book of
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Job, you realize this truth. Yes, the
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Lord is present and he is sovereign over
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it all.
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But yes, Satan is real and Satan hates
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God's people.
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Now, there are two dangers when we're
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talking about Satan that we can slip
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into.
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The one danger is this, that we
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exaggerate all of Satan's works. That we
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think Satan is behind everything. That
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Satan is under every bush. That every
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bad thing that ever happens, it's all
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because of him and everything is Satan.
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Well, the sin in your life mightn't all
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be Satan. It's probably because of you.
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So we can have the extreme and
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exaggerate Satan's work, but we can also
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slip into another extreme. We can ignore
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that Satan exists and we can ignore his
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work. And we can ignore the fact that we
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are actually every single day as
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Christians, we are in a spiritual
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battle.
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And there is nothing more dangerous for
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you in your Christian faith
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to ignore the fact that you are every
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day in a battle. So that's the two
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extremes. We can exaggerate Satan's work
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and we can ignore Satan's work. But what
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we need to do, I think, in accordance
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with the scripture is recognize, simply
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recognize Satan is at work. not go to
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either of those two extremes, but
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understand and know that he is real and
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that he hates you.
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And it's important for us to know these
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things, especially in the context of
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suffering. Peter, when he was writing to
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the churches, he wrote to them in the
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context of suffering. And he wrote to
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them one of the most famous verses about
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the works of Satan in the context of
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their suffering. Notice what he says to
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them. You don't need to turn there, but
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listen. 1 Peter 5:8 says this, "Be
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soberminded.
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Be watchful.
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Your adversary, the devil, prowls around
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like a roaring lion."
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So, in the context of their suffering,
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what does Peter tell them to do? to be
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soberminded,
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to be watchful,
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to not overexaggerate things, to not
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ignore things, but be steady,
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soberminded, and watchful for the fact
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that the devil prowls around like a
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roaring lion.
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We need to understand
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that Satan,
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he also has purposes
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in our suffering. Last week in chapter
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1, we focused on the fact that the Lord
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has purposes in our suffering. But we
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also need to know that Satan has
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purposes in our suffering, too. What
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does he want for you? He wants you to
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fail.
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That's his purposes in your suffering.
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And so, we see this as we open up to
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chapter 2. We see Satan's purposes
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in the suffering.
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Job chapter 2 verse 1.
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Again, there was a day. I'm going to
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pause there just for a second just to
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remind us of where we were. Notice what
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it begins with in verse one. Again,
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there was a day and chapter 1. What we
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heard about last week was that there
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were two days that changed Job's life
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forever. There was the conversation day
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in heaven between the Lord and Satan
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when Satan was asking the Lord for
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permission to attack Job.
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And that conversation day in heaven, the
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Lord gave permission. And that
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conversation day in heaven led to a
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destruction day on earth
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where Job's life was turned upside down
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and he lost everything.
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His animals were destroyed, his servants
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were destroyed and his children were
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destroyed.
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And at the end of that destruction day,
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Job said those famous words, "The Lord
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gives and the Lord takes away. Blessed
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be the name of the Lord.
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And then it tells us at the end of that
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chapter and Job did not sin. And as you
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look at the story of Job, you wish it
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would just end there.
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He's gone through the worst destruction
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day in his life. Surely the Lord would
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allow it to end there.
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But unfortunately for Job, in chapter 2,
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we're going to see another conversation
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day in heaven, which leads to another
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destruction day on earth.
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Chapter 2 verse 1.
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Again, there was a day when the sons of
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God came to present themselves before
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the Lord, and Satan also came among them
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to present himself before the Lord. And
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the Lord said to Satan, "From where have
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you come?" And Satan answered the Lord,
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"From going to and fro on the earth, and
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from walking up and down on it." And the
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Lord said to Satan,
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"Have you considered my servant Job,
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that there is none like him on the
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earth, a blameless and upright man who
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who fears God and and turns away from
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evil, he still holds fast to his
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integrity. Although you incited me
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against him to destroy him without
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reason.
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This is the beginning of the
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conversation day in heaven. It is the
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conversation between the Lord and Satan.
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And as you see this conversation
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happening between the Lord and Satan,
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you see that the conversation is is
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pretty much the same as what happened
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before. The council of the sons of God,
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the angelic beings come before the Lord.
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Satan answers into the present into the
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into his presence.
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The Lord asks him the question from
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where have you come? He says, I've been
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going to and fro the earth. What was
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Satan doing? I assume Satan was doing
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what he always does. He prowls around
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like a roaring lion seeking those whom
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he may devour. And the Lord once again,
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not just the first time, but for the
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second time, the Lord brings up Job
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and says, "Have you considered my
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servant?" And he repeats again the
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characteristics of Job. He's blameless.
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He's upright. He is one who fears God.
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And so for Job, he fears God in this
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way. He sees evil. He might be tempted
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by evil, but this godly man, every time
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he sees evil, every time he he's tempted
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by evil, he fears the Lord by turning
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away from
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evil.
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And so you look at this whole
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conversation, everything that happens,
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and you ask yourself, well, what's the
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difference between this conversation and
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the one in chapter 1? And one of the
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things that helps us as we're reading
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the Bible, when it seems like there's
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two things that are just very similar,
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the question you need to ask yourself is
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this. What's different here? It pretty
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much repeats it word for word from
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chapter 1. So what's different here?
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Well, what's different here is what the
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Lord says about Job at the end of verse
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three. He still holds fast his
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integrity.
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It's almost like this. The Lord,
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he's proud of his boy.
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Have you seen my son, Job?
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Have you seen my boy? You're you're
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you're you're looking across all the
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world. Have you seen Job?
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He's blameless.
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He's upright.
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He fears me.
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He turns away from evil. And my boy,
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he's lost everything. You took his
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animals. You took his servants. You took
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his children. And look at him. He still
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stands with integrity. He still stands
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for me. That's my boy.
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What a proud father.
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As he looks at Job, standing for him.
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though Job has lost everything.
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And this is part of the Lord's purposes
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in our suffering.
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See, the Lord allowed
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Satan to afflict Job.
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And the Lord knew that Job would stand.
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But the Lord also had great purposes in
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the sufferings of Job. And the purposes
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that we said last week were twofold.
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to prove his genuiness and to show off
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God's glory.
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It says this in 1 Peter chapter 1 verse
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6. Let me remind you of these verses. He
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writes to the suffering church and Peter
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says to them, "In this you rejoice,
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though now for a little while, if
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necessary, you have been grieved by
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various trials,
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so that the tested genuiness of your
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faith, more precious than gold, that
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perishes,
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though it is tested by fire, may be
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found to result in praise and glory and
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honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.
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Peter's writing to them and he's saying
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to them this, "Your trials are there to
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show you your genuiness
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and your trials are there to result in
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God's glory."
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And so when you look at Job
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and you look at all that has happened in
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his life, he's lost all his animals, all
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his servants, all his children. And yet
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he stands and says, "The Lord gives and
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the Lord takes away. Blessed be the name
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of the Lord." As you look at Job, you
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say that guy is genuine.
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That guy, he is a real godly man.
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and you look at all that goes on in his
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life. And then when you see that in Job,
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do you know what happens?
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You say, "Praise the Lord because the
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Lord has kept this man."
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Genuiness and glory. That's the purposes
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that the Lord uses. That's the Lord's
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purpose in our suffering.
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But then we also need to know while God
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is is sovereign over everything and he
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is the purpose of genuiness and glory
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over over all our suffering underneath
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that Satan also has purposes in our
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suffering.
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And you see that at the end of verse
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three,
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the Lord is speaking of his boy Job. And
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he says, "He still holds fast to his
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integrity, although you incited me
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against him to destroy him." That's
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Satan's purposes in our suffering. God's
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purposes in our suffering are genuineess
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and glory. Satan's purposes in our
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suffering is destruction. And this is
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why Satan says what he says in verse
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four. Then Satan answered the Lord and
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said, "Skin for skin,
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all that a man has, he will give for his
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life, but stretch out your hand and
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touch his bone and his flesh, and he
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will curse you to your face."
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And the Lord said to Satan, "Behold,
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he is in your hand. only spare his life.
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The Lord, he stands in this conversation
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in heaven and he says, "Have you seen
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Job? He's lost everything and he still
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loves me." And then Satan turns back and
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he says, "Skin for skin." Yeah, he's
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lost everything,
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but let's do this.
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Let's touch his body.
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Let's afflict his body
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and let's see if he's still standing
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after that. Let's really test if his
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faith is absolutely genuine. And if you
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allow me, Satan's saying, if you allow
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me
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touch his body, his bone and his flesh,
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he will curse you.
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And the Lord in his sovereignty
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says,
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"Yes,
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what is Satan hoping to do?
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Satan is real
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and Satan hates this man and Satan wants
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to destroy him."
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That's what's happening here.
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We need to understand this in our lives.
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Satan is real.
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Satan hates you.
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And Satan, he wants to destroy you.
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We are in a battle.
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And this is not this is not just like,
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oh, Old Testament truths, oh that just
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happened back in the day kind of stuff.
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No.
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When Lana read out to us Ephesians
Ephesians 6 chapter mention
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chapter 6, what did it tell us?
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We are in a battle.
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When Paul was writing to the church,
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what did he say to them? Stand firm
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because you are in a battle.
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And in those verses, he tal he spoke
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about the attack of Satan. He said this
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to the church in Ephesians chapter 6 11.
Ephesians 6 chapter mention
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Put on the whole armor of God that you
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may be able to stand against the schemes
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of the devil.
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Put on the full armor of God, church,
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that you may be able to stand against
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the schemes of the devil. And what does
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it mean to put on the full full armor of
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God? Well, he tells us in those verses
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to put on truth, to put on the gospel,
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to put on faith.
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This is what it means to put on the full
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armor of God.
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Let me ask you the question.
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Do you know and understand
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that you are in this battle?
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You should.
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And how you fight this battle is this,
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with the truth of the gospel. Putting on
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every day the armor of God.
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Reminding yourself every day of what God
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in Christ has done for you. And
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reminding your brothers and sisters
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every day of what God in Christ has done
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for you.
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Satan,
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he hates this church.
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He hates the fact that you are here this
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morning. In fact, he would love nothing
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more for you not to be here.
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And then now that you are here, do you
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know what he wants? To distract you. And
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when you leave, do you know what he
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wants? To take that word away from you
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as soon as you walk out the door. To
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distract you with all the things of the
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world. Go and love all your stuff. Go
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and love all your material. Forget about
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this Jesus.
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That's what he wants for you.
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He absolutely hates you.
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He hates your marriage.
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He hates he he he hates the fact that
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you have children that you're trying to
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raise in the Lord. He's he's seeking to
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kill and destroy. That's what he does.
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And so what do we do? Well, Paul says,
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"You stand firm by the power of the
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spirit against the schemes of the
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devil."
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He repeated it again in Ephesians
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chapter 6:1 16. "In all circumstances,
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take up the shield of faith
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with which you can extinguish the
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flaming darts of the evil one."
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The evil one seeks to attack us
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spiritually with flaming darts. And how
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do you defend against his attack? Faith.
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Faith in Christ Jesus and in what he has
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done.
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We are so tempted to just have
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Christianity be like the cherry on top
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of our week. You know, I've come, I've
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attended, I've done my bit. And then we
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walk out in life in ignorance of the
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fact that we are in a battle.
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And what I would encourage you as a
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church is to continue to fight by the
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power of the spirit against the schemes
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of the evil one.
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This is his purposes in your suffering.
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And so that conversation day in heaven
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leads to the destruction day on earth.
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Verse 7. So Satan went out with the
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permission of the Lord. Satan went out
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from the presence of the Lord and struck
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Job with a lo with loathsome swords
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from the sole of his foot to the crown
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of his head. And he took a piece of
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broken pottery with which to scrape
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himself while he sat in ashes.
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Skin for skin.
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Let me strike his body. And Satan in
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verse 7, he strikes his body with soores
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from head to toe.
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And they're so bad that he he breaks
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pottery and is literally scraping his
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skin.
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And he sits there on the ashes.
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This man who is the greatest man in all
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of the east.
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He had the perfect family,
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the perfect number of animals,
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the perfect home. He had life all
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together.
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And there he sits in the ashes
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close to death.
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As one writer put it, ashes to ashes,
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dust to dust.
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He's sitting there
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almost dead.
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And as he's sitting there almost dead,
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another conversation takes place in this
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book of Job, the book of conversations.
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And it is a conversation between a
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husband and a wife which happens to be
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the shortest conversation in the whole
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book.
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Read into that what you will.
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Verse nine.
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Then his wife said to him, "Do you still
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hold fast to your integrity? Curse God
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and die."
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But he said to her, "You speak as one of
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the foolish women would speak. Shall we
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receive good from God and shall we not
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receive evil?" In all this, Job did not
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sin with his lips.
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His wife comes to him
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and as if she's saying, "We've lost
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everything.
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We've lost all our animals. We've lost
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all our servants. We've lost all our
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children.
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And yet you still want to hold on to
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your little precious integrity.
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The very thing that the Lord commends
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him for is the thing that she now
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condemns him for.
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Why are you holding on to this
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integrity? Surely it's not worth all of
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this.
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And she actually believes in God. And
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she believes in God's power because she
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says, "Just curse God and get it over
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with. If you curse him, you'll die and
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it'll be done.
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Why would you hold on to this?"
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He rebukes her lightly and says, "You're
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speaking like one of the foolish women.
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You're not speaking the ways of wisdom.
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you're speaking the ways of foolishness.
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And then he almost repeats his words
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when he says, "Shall we receive good
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from the Lord and shall we not receive
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evil?"
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See, for Job, his life is this
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on his tombstone.
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The Lord gives,
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the Lord takes away.
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Blessed be the name of the Lord. He can
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take my children. He can take my stuff.
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I'm still going to praise him.
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And there he stands or sits in the ash
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heap. He is nothing. His body is broken.
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And his wife, she's not helping.
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And he says,
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"Shall we only have good from the Lord
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and not take the bad too?
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This is what the Lord has for us."
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And in that moment, Job sits in the
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worst place that he has ever been in
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life.
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And the passage says
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he does not sin with his lips.
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He closes his mouth
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and all around him
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people are speaking, "Give up. Give up.
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Give up."
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He closes his mouth.
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And what we learn, I think, from this in
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terms of Satan's purposes
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in our afflictions is this. Yes,
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Satan does have purpose in our
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suffering. Yes, Satan does even
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sometimes have power in our suffering.
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But we need to remember this. It is
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always a permitted power. He is not
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omnisient. He is not omnipresent.
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And we need to remember this.
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He always loses.
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Yes, he is powerful, but he never wins.
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And you look at the end of Job's life
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here, and he's sitting there, and he
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still does not sin. Can you imagine
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Satan looking on at that?
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I've tried everything,
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skin for skin,
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and he does nothing.
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Satan
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always loses.
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And we see this in the sufferings of
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Christ, don't we? Satan had purposes in
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the sufferings of Christ. Satan wanted
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to destroy Christ. Satan wanted Christ
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to die.
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We hear his purposes in John 13:27.
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After Judas ate the piece of bread,
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Satan entered into Judas and Jesus told
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him, "What you are doing, go and do it
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quickly."
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Satan entered into Judas
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and Jesus says, "What you're doing, go
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and do it quickly." You see, Satan had a
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plan and a purpose to destroy Jesus.
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And all the while, Satan thought, "I'm
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winning. I'm winning. I'm winning. He's
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being beaten. He's being bruised. He's
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being scattered. I'm winning. I'm
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winning. I'm winning." And then over it
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all, God has his purposes and plans
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because it was on the cross that Christ
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won. He defeated sin and death. And on
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the third day, he rose again. And what
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did it do?
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It showed his genuiness
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and appointed to God's glory.
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Because on the cross, one of the
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centurions said as he was dead, surely
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this man is the son of God.
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And when he rose up from the grave, what
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did Thomas say to him?
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My Lord and my God.
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He was the real deal. And all of it
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resulted in the glory of God.
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Satan is real.
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Satan is powerful.
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But Satan never wins.
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So we fight knowing that the battle has
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already been won by our savior.
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And so this is Job's life.
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It is a conversation day in heaven
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followed by a destruction day on earth.
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Another conversation day in heaven
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followed by another destruction day on
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earth.
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Satan has lost.
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But we need to realize for Job
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it still hurts.
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It's still painful.
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And that's what we see in this next day
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in Job's life. These next days in Job's
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life,
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the conversation day in heaven followed
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by the destruction day on earth
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finishes with weeping days on the
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ground. Verse 11.
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Now when Job's three friends heard of
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all this evil that had come upon him,
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they came each from his own place.
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Elephas
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the Temonite, Bildad the Shuhite, and
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Zofar the Neamothite.
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They made an appointment together to
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come to show him sympathy and comfort
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him. And when they saw him, from a
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distance, they did not recognize him.
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And they they raised their voices and
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wept. And they tore their robes and
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sprinkled dust on their heads toward
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heaven. And they sat with him on the
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ground seven days and seven nights. And
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no one spoke a word to him.
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For they saw
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that his suffering
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was very great.
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Yes.
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Satan didn't win.
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Job did not sin.
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And yet Job sits there destroyed.
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And what Job needs at this moment is
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what all of us need in these kind of
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moments,
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friends.
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And what I want to do very practically
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is just look at what these friends do
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when they see their friend in pain. Look
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at their actions.
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We'll get to their words. Their words
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terrible. Their actions pretty good.
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What do we see the friends doing? And I
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think we can learn from all of this in
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what we see the friends doing.
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The first thing Job's friends do in
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verse 11, when they see his pain and
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when they see his suffering and when
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they see his destruction, the first
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things his friends do is this. They go,
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they hear of the evil that had happened
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and come upon their friend and they go
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and they come, each one in verse 11,
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each one comes from his own town. And
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it's very hard to pinpoint where exactly
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those towns are. But it seems to be
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rough estimates that each one of these
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guys are traveling over 200 kilometers
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at least.
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When they see their friend in pain and
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suffering, what do they do? They drop
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everything and they go no matter what
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the distance.
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The second thing the friends do is this.
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They comfort.
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The end of verse 11, they made an
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appointment together to come and show
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sympathy and comfort him.
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They show comfort to their friend. They
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sympathize with him. They try and get
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into what he is feeling and experiencing
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and they seek to bring him comfort.
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That's what we need in our pain. Friends
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who will seek to bring comfort. Now
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later in the book,
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Job is going to call them in chapter 16,
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I think it is, miserable comforters,
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but for now they're okay.
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They come, they drop everything and they
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seek to comfort.
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I think we can learn from these two
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things.
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I think as sufferers, those who suffer
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can learn this.
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When you are suffering,
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you should tell people that you are
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suffering.
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The friends only go because the friends
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heard. That's the only reason the
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friends go. They heard. So all of them
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went.
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Now they could hear about Job's
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suffering. Job didn't have to tell them.
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Why? Because Job was one of the most
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famous people in all the east and his
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suffering spread throughout all the
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lands. It was a great suffering.
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But the important thing to note is the
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only reason the friends go is because
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they've heard about the trouble.
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And so I would encourage you if you're
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ever suffering,
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make sure people hear about it.
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Tell people
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whatever the suffering is,
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whether it's big or small,
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anxiety, grief, loneliness, depression,
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loss, whatever it might be,
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the friends may not be able to come
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because they just don't know and they
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haven't heard.
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Tell them.
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Can I be really honest with you? I
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struggle with this.
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I find it hard to just tell people
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what's going on. I don't want to make a
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fuss.
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The encouragement here
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is to tell people
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they heard. So the sufferer should tell.
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And those who hear of the suffering,
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what should they do? You should go and
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you should comfort.
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We live in a very selfish world.
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I know people want to point out all the
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selflessness that's happening, but
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actually we live in a very very selfish
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world.
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And what people need in their suffering
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is not not just a quick text or a phone
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call.
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They need you to drop the phone
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and get in the car and go.
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And if needs be, they need you to drop
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the phone and get in a plane and go
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so you can be with them and comfort them
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in their pain.
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This is what these friends do. They go
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and they comfort. And the third thing
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the friends do is they weep. Verse 12.
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And when they saw him from a distance,
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they could not recognize him, and they
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raised their voices and wept, and they
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tore their robes and sprinkled dust on
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their heads toward heaven.
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Now, some people still read the actions
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of the friends here negatively, like
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that almost they say that the friends
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are weeping at him rather than weeping
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with him. I don't see that happening as
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negatively. I see them partaking in very
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traditional uh grieving rituals,
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mourning rituals where you would raise
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your voice, where you would weep with
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the person, where you would tear your
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clothes, and where you'd put dust on
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your head. And why would you put dust on
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your head? Well, from ashes to ashes,
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dust to dust. You're experiencing right
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now something that's like death.
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What I'm going to do is I'm going to
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tear all my clothes and I'm I'm going to
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put dust on me and I'm going to help
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stand with you and experience the death
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that you are experiencing.
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They go to their friend and they weep
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with him.
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And the fourth thing they do in verse
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13, and they sat with him on the ground
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seven days and seven nights.
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They go and they don't just look at him
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in his pain.
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They go
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and they get down on the ground
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and they weep
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and they stay with them for as long as
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it takes.
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Seven days,
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seven nights.
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The perfect amount of time
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to weep with their friend.
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That's what I would encourage you to do.
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Go
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be with people in their pain.
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Go and sit with them. And guess what?
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Going and sitting with someone, it's
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never convenient.
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Suffering never kind of fit. Have you
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noticed that about suffering? It doesn't
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fit our schedule. Usually suffering just
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happens.
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which means
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we may have to put the schedule aside
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and go and just sit with the person,
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weep with those who weep and mourn with
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those who mourn.
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And the final thing that the friends do
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is probably the best thing they did
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is they did not speak a word.
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It's probably the wisest thing these
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friends did in the whole book.
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They did not speak a word.
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Sometimes
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no words are the best words.
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Sometimes people are in such pain
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that they'll know God is in control. You
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know, I actually believe he's in
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control,
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but telling them
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that at that moment
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mightn't be the very best thing at that
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moment.
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Might just be being with them.
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Sometimes we say words to help us more
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than to help them.
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But the reality is of course that what
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they are doing here is a traditional
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mourning grieving experience for seven
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days and for seven nights.
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And obviously it's not going to be
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helpful for the Christian if someone
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doesn't speak to them for seven days.
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But the principle is still there.
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Sometimes
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all a person needs in that moment is
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just for you to keep the mouth quiet and
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give them a hug.
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And then when the time is right, what
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should you do in their suffering?
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I think you should tell them all about
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the suffering servant.
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What do they need at that moment? They
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need Jesus. And in those moments, they
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don't often think about Jesus.
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So tell them about the suffering servant
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who suffered for them. Tell them about
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him in their suffering.
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And so as I look at the life of Job, it
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says this about him at the end of
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chapter 2. His suffering was very great.
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Job's life
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always points to the suffering servant.
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And what I want to do is just read to
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you the suffering that our savior
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experienced.
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Isaiah 53:2.
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We'll end with this.
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He had no form or majesty that we should
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look at him. He had no beauty that we
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should desire him.
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He was despised and rejected.
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A man of sorrows and familiar with
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grief.
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And as one who men hid their faces from,
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he was despised,
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and we esteemed him not.
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Surely he has borne our griefs, and he
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has carried our sorrows.
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Yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by
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God, and afflicted.
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But he was pierced for our
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transgressions.
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He was crushed for our iniquities.
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Upon him was the chastisement that
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brought us peace.
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And by his wounds we are healed.
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All we like sheep have gone astray. We
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have turned everyone to his own way. And
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the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of
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us all. He was oppressed
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and he was afflicted.
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Yet he opened not his mouth.
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He kept his lips shut. This is our
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savior. Let's pray.
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Lord Jesus,
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we thank you that you are the one who
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opened not your mouth,
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but were bruised for our transgressions
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and pierced for our iniquities.
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And we thank you that in our suffering
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and in our grief, we have a suffering
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savior who we can turn to, who knows our
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grief, who knows our sorrows, who knows
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our pain,
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and who can truly as a good friend
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give us comfort.
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We pray all this in your name, Jesus.
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Amen.
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Let's stand and sing