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Why: Discipleship - 17th May 2026

Passage Baptist Church

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  1. want to say to you what a joy it is to

  2. serve you in this capacity. You are a

  3. joy to serve Passage Baptist Church. Uh

  4. it is uh exciting to be able to bring

  5. God's word anytime. Uh but it is

  6. particularly exciting to bring it to

  7. you.

  8. Matthew 28. Let me pray one more time.

  9. Father, we trust you to do your work

  10. through your word by your spirit right

  11. now. Would you give us an eager

  12. expectation that you work in our hearts?

  13. Will we see truth in your word and would

  14. we apply it to our lives? We pray in

  15. Jesus name. Amen.

  16. So, a little bit of definitions for us

  17. as we get started.

  18. People who speak three languages

  19. are called triilingual, right? People

  20. who speak two languages are called

  21. bilingual and people who speak one

  22. language are called American.

  23. America is so big that most Americans

  24. don't think about learning another

  25. language. That is unless you go to Miami

  26. and then English might be in the

  27. minority uh compared to Spanish.

  28. How do you know?

  29. I I don't know. So, you know, it's a

  30. rhetorical question, but h how do you

  31. know when you've learned a language? How

  32. do you know when someone has actually

  33. fully learned a language? Is it how much

  34. vocabulary that they know? Is it maybe

  35. their knowledge of grammar?

  36. Is it when they have lost the accent of

  37. their first language as they speak their

  38. second or third or fourth language?

  39. I've heard some people say that when you

  40. start thinking in a language, you kind

  41. of really know the language. You might

  42. pass a language test, right? But that

  43. doesn't mean you truly speak it

  44. naturally just because you pass the

  45. test. It's a little hard to define when

  46. you know a language. Some people use

  47. apps to learn a language. That happens

  48. in our house. Every day I hear German

  49. coming from some redhead in my family.

  50. But the best way

  51. I think that I've been told to learn a

  52. language is to be immersed in it. to be

  53. completely surrounded by the speakers of

  54. that language who use the language, who

  55. know the language, who can help you on

  56. your journey and learning the language.

  57. The best way to learn a new language is

  58. to be surrounded by others who are

  59. speaking that language. And that is true

  60. if we apply that to the Christian faith.

  61. When we come to faith, we know very

  62. little about how to live the Christian

  63. life. When we first come to know the

  64. Lord Jesus, I have to learn how to live

  65. the Christian life. To be a faithful

  66. disciple of the Lord Jesus, I need to be

  67. discipled. Disciple just means a

  68. follower. We need to be immersed

  69. in the Christian life. We ourselves need

  70. to be around people that speak the same

  71. language.

  72. We're continuing the Y series. Now, last

  73. week we looked at evangelism. We looked

  74. at teaching the gospel with the aim of

  75. persuading someone to believe it. This

  76. week we're going to look at disciplehip.

  77. Why disciplehip?

  78. Why should disciplehip be a part of the

  79. local church? Why should every Christian

  80. be discipled? And why should every

  81. Christian be discipling?

  82. So, we're going to build a little bit of

  83. a biblical theology. So, I'm going to

  84. ask you to go all over the place, but

  85. you are well aable. You are well aable.

  86. I will give you time to turn, but we're

  87. going to look at four or five different

  88. passages together, and we're going to

  89. see what the New Testament has to say to

  90. us about disciplehip. Because brothers

  91. and sisters, we do not drift towards

  92. holiness. We don't drift towards

  93. faithfulness. We do not drift towards

  94. godliness. That's not going to be the

  95. natural place where we just if we let

  96. go, we're going to kind of just move in

  97. that direction.

  98. If we are to be a healthy, faithful,

  99. Christex exalting church, we must have a

  100. firm understanding of disciplehip. And

  101. we can't see it as optional because if

  102. we see it as optional,

  103. this church will die.

  104. This church will die. So the definition

  105. of disciplehip that I stole is

  106. disciplehip means growing as followers

  107. of Jesus and helping others do the same.

  108. Growing as followers of Jesus and

  109. helping others do the same. So why

  110. disciplehip? Well, the first reason is

  111. that we are commanded to disciple.

  112. You're in Matthew chapter 28. Matthew

    Matthew 28 chapter mention Matthew 28:18

  113. chapter 28

  114. verse 18. And Jesus came and said to

  115. them, "All authority in heaven on earth

  116. has been given to me. Go therefore and

  117. make disciples of all nations, baptizing

  118. them in the name of the Father and of

  119. the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching

  120. them to observe all that I have

  121. commanded you. And behold, I am with you

  122. always to the end of the age.

  123. You might be asking yourself, didn't we

  124. look at this text last week when we were

  125. talking about evangelism?

  126. Yes, we did. You might be thinking to

  127. yourself, well, isn't this text mainly

  128. about evangelism?

  129. No, it's not. It is not mainly about

  130. evangelism. It is mainly about making

  131. disciples, followers, believers,

  132. worshippers of the Lord Jesus. We are

  133. not called to make converts.

  134. We are called to make disciples.

  135. This first happens by reaching people

  136. through evangelism. Yeah. So, that's

  137. part of making disciples. We talked

  138. about it last week. We have to

  139. evangelize. If God saves that person

  140. though, well, then what? Well, we don't

  141. have to wonder. We don't have to wonder,

  142. okay, well, what do I do if someone

  143. comes to Christ? I don't need to wonder

  144. what's going to happen because the

  145. scripture tells me what's going to

  146. happen. We go, we share, we baptize.

  147. Then verse 20, look at it.

  148. We teach, teaching them to observe all

  149. that I have commanded.

  150. First evangelism, then disciplehip.

  151. Everyone, you, me, everyone must be

  152. reached

  153. and then taught.

  154. That's what the great commission is. So

  155. there is a teaching aspect to the great

  156. commission. That is part of making

  157. disciples is that we are teaching

  158. everything that Jesus commanded.

  159. Disciplehip means growing as followers

  160. of Jesus and helping others do the same.

  161. I learned this week what a bonsai tree

  162. is. I thought I knew what a bonsai tree

  163. is. I thought it was like a special

  164. tree, but apparently it's just a normal

  165. tree that's kept really tiny with very

  166. attentive care. So, I didn't know that.

  167. So apparently it can be different types

  168. of trees, but you just keep it really

  169. tiny with how you care for it. Regular

  170. attention, pruning, long-term

  171. cultivation, lots of patience, and they

  172. must it must be protected from from the

  173. elements of the world. You don't stick

  174. it out in your garden. Usually you stick

  175. it, you know, in your house. You have

  176. those little things that you clip it

  177. with over and over and over again. This

  178. is you, brother and sister. When you

  179. believed, the gospel took root in your

  180. heart and your new life began.

  181. And the tree of your faith that is

  182. growing

  183. requires attentive care. It must be

  184. pruned. It needs longterm cultivation

  185. for your health.

  186. And I'm not saying you want to have a

  187. little tiny bit of faith. You want to be

  188. an oak of righteousness,

  189. but you need long-term cultivation.

  190. The Lord Jesus knows this. He knows

  191. this. And so, he commanded that his

  192. people teach one another.

  193. So, disciplehip is not optional. It's

  194. commanded. It's right there in the great

  195. commission. Make disciples. And a part

  196. of that is of course sharing, baptizing,

  197. but then teaching them to obey

  198. everything that Jesus commanded. We

  199. disciple and are discipled

  200. to obey King Jesus.

  201. So that's one of the reasons we

  202. disciple.

  203. But another reasons we disc another

  204. reason we disciple is that disciplehip

  205. just is life in the local church. So we

  206. disciple because that is life in the

  207. local church. You can't divorce those

  208. things. You can't divorce life in the

  209. local church and disciplehip. They are

  210. one in the same if we are living life

  211. together. Turn to Ephesians chapter 4.

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  212. Ephesians chapter 4.

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  213. Just like bonsai trees have specific

  214. environments they thrive in, so does the

  215. Christian. The bonsai tree needs the

  216. right care, soil, light, water.

  217. We need the right care. If you are

  218. alone, it is difficult for you to grow.

  219. If you are surrounded by bad teaching

  220. and sinful influences, you're not going

  221. to grow. If your closest relationships

  222. distract you rather than focus you, you

  223. are not going to grow.

  224. So what is the environment where

  225. Christians receive the disciplehip

  226. necessary to grow? Where do you get the

  227. best soil, the best water, and the best

  228. care? Where

  229. can you cultivate holiness,

  230. godliness, and faithfulness?

  231. The primary place that you grow in your

  232. faith and you help others grow in their

  233. faith is the local church.

  234. Throughout the New Testament, the local

  235. church is called to be a watering hole

  236. for disciplehip. It is a greenhouse of

  237. disciplehip. You've already heard Allan

  238. reading this morning. It was written to

  239. the church of Rome. Love one another.

  240. Outdo one another in showing honor. Do

  241. not be slothful in your zeal. Be

  242. constant in prayer. These commands that

  243. are written to a local church, they're

  244. commands of disciplehip.

  245. Those are commands of disciplehip. It's

  246. the greenhouse of the local church. It's

  247. the place where God designed for you to

  248. grow.

  249. Green houses help plants grow. Just like

  250. practice helps an athlete grow. Athletes

  251. are not going to get better at their

  252. sport if they're idle. If they just sit

  253. there, they are not going to get better.

  254. They won't increase their skills without

  255. practice. They will be rubbish if they

  256. never get out on the pitch and get

  257. sweaty. Like that's just obvious to us.

  258. They have to do the same thing over and

  259. over and over and over again. And the

  260. same thing is true with the Christian

  261. life. Disciplehip is lifong growth. It

  262. is a lifong

  263. endeavor. Paul emphasizes the Christians

  264. need to grow throughout. And we'll see

  265. it here in Ephesians 4. Look at verse

  266. 11.

  267. And he gave the apostles, the prophets,

  268. the evangelists, the shepherds and

  269. teachers to equip the saints for the

  270. work of ministry, for building up the

  271. body of Christ until we all attain to

  272. the unity of the faith and of the

  273. knowledge of the son of God, to mature

  274. manhood, to the measure of the stature

  275. of the fullness of Christ, so that we

  276. may no longer be children tossed to and

  277. fro by the waves and carried about by

  278. every wind of doctrine, by human cunning

  279. by craftiness and deceitful schemes.

  280. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we

  281. are to grow up in every way into him who

  282. is the head, into Christ, from whom the

  283. whole body joined and held together by

  284. every joint with which it is equipped.

  285. When each part is working properly,

  286. makes the body grow, so that builds up

  287. itself in love.

  288. Why did God give leaders? Why shepherds

  289. and teachers, pastors, elders?

  290. Says to equip the saints. Did you see

  291. that? Verse 11. To equip the saints. To

  292. equip the believers. So, so the leaders

  293. prepare, facilitate, enable the saints

  294. for what? To do what? Well, the the text

  295. tells us for the work of ministry. So,

  296. so the leaders equip the saints for

  297. service in the kingdom.

  298. Disciplehip is

  299. growing as followers of Christ and

  300. helping others do the same. So, what is

  301. the service that every believer provides

  302. that they are being equipped to do? Look

  303. at verse 12.

  304. Building up the body of Christ.

  305. When do you stop doing that? Verse 13.

  306. until everyone reaches maturity. Until

  307. everyone looks like Jesus. Disciplehip

  308. is helping people look like Jesus.

  309. This will take your entire life.

  310. This will take your entire life. And it

  311. will only be complete in you when your

  312. dead body raises from the dead.

  313. And with your new eyes, you look on

  314. Jesus. your disciplehip will be

  315. complete. But until then,

  316. there's a lot of work to be done.

  317. There's a lot of work to be done. It's a

  318. lifelong churchwide endeavor. And it is

  319. to the glory of God. When we are

  320. conformed to the image of Christ, it is

  321. to the glory of God.

  322. You are being transformed.

  323. I know it doesn't always feel that way.

  324. It is a long process. Transformation is

  325. a long process. Our hearts are

  326. regenerated like that. We are made new,

  327. new birth like that. But our

  328. sanctification takes a lot of time.

  329. God gets glory when you look more like

  330. Jesus.

  331. The church makes that vision become a

  332. reality.

  333. So the spirit does the work. But as I've

  334. told you many times, God uses means. He

  335. uses means to accomplish his purposes.

  336. The church is the means by which you are

  337. discipled,

  338. by which you are brought to the measure

  339. of the fullness of the stature of

  340. Christ. It is through the church. So you

  341. must ask yourself the question,

  342. who are you intentionally

  343. trying to help look more like Jesus?

  344. Whose Christian faith are you

  345. cultivating?

  346. If you are drawing a blank, you might

  347. not be discipling.

  348. But another question you need to ask

  349. yourself is who is intentionally helping

  350. you to look more like Jesus? Who is

  351. cultivating the growth of your Christian

  352. faith?

  353. Again, if you can't think of someone,

  354. you might need discipling.

  355. We are commanded to teach one another to

  356. obey everything that Jesus commanded.

  357. How are you obeying that command is a

  358. question that you should ask yourself

  359. every day. How are you obeying that

  360. command? All the members of this body

  361. are joined and we help each other grow

  362. together in Christ. That's verse 16

  363. here. We're a body. We're a body. As you

  364. grow, you strengthen me to grow. As I

  365. grow, I strengthen you to grow. This is

  366. disciplehip. It's beautiful. This is the

  367. Christian life. This is every member of

  368. the body working together to love God

  369. and love others. And Paul did say

  370. he did say

  371. that you are being equipped to do this.

  372. You are being equipped to do this. And

  373. he didn't only speak about this to the

  374. Ephesians. Turn to Colossians chapter 3.

    Colossians 3 chapter mention

  375. Just over to your right a few pages.

  376. Colossians chapter 3. The writers of the

    Colossians 3 chapter mention

  377. New Testament focused on teaching the

  378. churches to disciple. We see Paul doing

  379. it. If you look at the epistles of

  380. Peter, Peter said it to the church. If

  381. you look at the epistles that James

  382. wrote, James says it to the church. If

  383. you look at the epistles that John

  384. wrote, John said it to the church. And

  385. guess what? The author of Hebrews said

  386. it to the church. to whoever that might

  387. be.

  388. It is all over the New Testament

  389. of what the Christian life is to look

  390. like with each other. Colossians 3:16.

    Colossians 3:16

  391. And let the word of Christ dwell in you

  392. richly,

  393. teaching and admonishing one another in

  394. all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and

  395. spiritual songs with thankfulness in

  396. your heart to the to to God. And

  397. whatever you do in word or deed, do

  398. everything in the name of the Lord

  399. Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father

  400. through him.

  401. Paul is writing to the whole church here

  402. in Colossians. He's not just writing to

  403. the leaders. Everyone in the church

  404. should be teaching both in word and

  405. action. Did you see that? Verse 16. Let

  406. the word of Christ dwell in you reach

  407. richly teaching and admonishing one

  408. another.

  409. Everyone in the church should be

  410. teaching both in word and action.

  411. You teach something in everything you

  412. do.

  413. You teach something in everything you

  414. do. So when you are passionately singing

  415. on a Sunday morning, you are teaching

  416. your kids affection for Jesus.

  417. When you forgive someone who sinned

  418. against you, you are teaching a

  419. beautiful aspect of the gospel

  420. just in your forgiveness.

  421. But when we sideline the church and we

  422. make the meetings of the church

  423. optional, we're teaching a lack of

  424. commitment.

  425. We are teaching discontentment.

  426. We are teaching possibly laziness.

  427. Everyone teaches something. You are

  428. teaching something in everything that

  429. you do. So the question you must ask

  430. yourself is what are you teaching?

  431. What are you teaching?

  432. Also Paul says to the Colossians that

  433. everyone in the church should be

  434. admonishing. We don't use that word very

  435. often. Admonishing, advise, recommend,

  436. urge, caution, warn, exhort, implore.

  437. Another phrase you could put in there is

  438. rebuke.

  439. This is thoughtful, intentional care for

  440. the spiritual well-being of your brother

  441. and sister. We are to admonish one

  442. another. Disciplehip means that you're

  443. teaching and admonishing with all

  444. wisdom, it says. So, it's not your ideas

  445. because as wise as you think you might

  446. be, God is wiser.

  447. And so we use God's truth as we teach

  448. and admonish. It also means though, and

  449. this is pretty key, that you are willing

  450. to be taught and admonished.

  451. So I am teaching and admonishing, but

  452. then I'm also willing to receive that

  453. teaching and admonishment. These are

  454. really difficult, both of them, because

  455. we need the the boldness and the love to

  456. speak into one another's lives, but we

  457. also need the humility and the faith to

  458. receive that from someone.

  459. This church is one big glorious pressure

  460. cooker. You ever use a pressure cooker

  461. at home? Pressure cookers help infuse

  462. and intensify flavor and makes tough

  463. things tender. The local church matures

  464. you

  465. and makes you more flavorful

  466. and intense.

  467. It's a it's it gives you a a tenderness

  468. that nothing else can give you. The

  469. local church is the means to make your

  470. walk with Jesus taste good and smell

  471. good to the glory of God.

  472. So if the gathering of God's people, the

  473. local church is the primary means of

  474. disciplehip in your life, be present

  475. like your life depends on it.

  476. Be present like your life depends on it.

  477. Because here,

  478. here

  479. is a place where tough things become

  480. tender.

  481. You might be tough and gritty and need

  482. to be tenderized in this glorious

  483. pressure cooker. I know I need to be.

  484. I've got tough, gritty places in my

  485. heart that just need a little

  486. tenderizing.

  487. This pressure cooker does that.

  488. It is with God's people that the grace

  489. of God will wash over you again and

  490. again and again.

  491. Like the athlete doing drills on the

  492. pitch or the gardener pruning her bonsai

  493. tree.

  494. Song and prayer, the reading of the word

  495. on the Sunday, the preaching of the

  496. word.

  497. But equally as important are

  498. conversations after

  499. this conversation and this conversation,

  500. this bit of encouragement, this prayer,

  501. this challenge,

  502. this rebuke when necessary.

  503. It's happening not just on a Sunday, but

  504. within the body of Christ.

  505. It's not just something that we

  506. need to give. It is something we ne must

  507. receive as well. We are meant to live

  508. life together.

  509. But finally, how do we accomplish this?

  510. So, we are to disciple because it's

  511. commanded.

  512. We are to disciple because it is part of

  513. life in the body. I know it's supposed

  514. to be the why series, but I can't escape

  515. saying how. So, we're going to switch to

  516. how. You'll forgive me. So, how do we do

  517. this? How do we disciple? We teach. Yes.

  518. We admonish. Yes. But practically, what

  519. does that look like?

  520. What does it look like to obey all of

  521. those commands or to teach others to

  522. obey all the commands of Jesus?

  523. Well, turn to 1 Corinthians 10. So, back

  524. to the left a bit. 1 Corinthians chapter

    1 Corinthians 10 chapter mention

  525. 10.

  526. First, I want to acknowledge that every

  527. believer in this church is different.

  528. All of you who are trust in Christ are

  529. different to the glory of God.

  530. We are not cookie cutters. We do not

  531. look all the same. We are not made from

  532. the same mold. We are made unique. We

  533. are in different seasons of life. We

  534. have varying capacities. We have

  535. assorted giftings. We have very distinct

  536. personalities.

  537. So how you disciple may look different

  538. from someone how someone else disciples.

  539. And that's okay.

  540. But I won't say I won't say that we

  541. should never compare ourselves. You kind

  542. of hear that a lot in life. Never

  543. compare yourself to somebody else. I I

  544. don't That's not fully biblical.

  545. That's not fully biblical. There are

  546. unhealthy ways to compare ourselves, but

  547. then there are biblical ways to compare

  548. ourselves.

  549. 1 Corinthians 10, starting there at

  550. verse 31, Paul's writing to the

  551. Corinthians. He says, "So whether

  552. you eat or drink or whatever you do, do

  553. all to the glory of God. Give no offense

  554. to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of

  555. God just as I try to please everyone in

  556. everything I do, not seeking my own

  557. advantage but that of many that they may

  558. be saved. Then he says this sentence or

  559. writes the sentence, be imitators of me

  560. as I am of Christ.

  561. Paul is calling the Corinthians to

  562. imitate him, not in in everything that

  563. he does. We can't do that and we

  564. shouldn't do that. But in the ways that

  565. Paul is imitating Christ,

  566. he says, "Imitate me. Follow me is what

  567. he says. Christ is the word of God

  568. incarnate."

  569. You are to imitate others as they

  570. imitate Christ. Imitating Christ

  571. therefore is word centered

  572. because Christ is word incarnate. So our

  573. imitation of people should be saturated

  574. in scripture

  575. like a sponge that soaks up water. We

  576. should soak in God's word so that when

  577. we when we walk around, we're just

  578. splashing people. They're just getting

  579. wet with God's word because we just

  580. soaked it in so much. The people around

  581. you shape you. I hope we realize that

  582. this is true in all stages of life. So

  583. we like to say this to our teenagers a

  584. lot because it it is true and maybe very

  585. particular pertinent to them but that is

  586. true for everybody that people around

  587. you shape you.

  588. So do you compare yourselves to others?

  589. Well well yes. If you are to imitate

  590. others as they imitate Christ, you kind

  591. of have to compare yourself to others.

  592. And that is one means of disciplehip in

  593. your life. Imitate those who follow

  594. Jesus. Pattern your life after others.

  595. Compare yourself to others. And if the

  596. other is close to Jesus and his word, be

  597. like them. Unashamedly be like them.

  598. If they are like Jesus, unashamedly be

  599. like them. Spend time with them.

  600. So that is part of your responsibility

  601. to be discipled, to imitate others. But

  602. then also be someone

  603. worth emulating.

  604. Be someone that other Christians can

  605. copy.

  606. Not to your praise, not to your glory,

  607. but to the praise of Christ. Because of

  608. the work that he's done in your life. We

  609. must make ourselves available. You you

  610. might need to pursue someone that you

  611. want to imitate.

  612. You might need to pursue them so that

  613. you can spend time with them, so that

  614. you can talk to them, so that you can

  615. ask them good questions.

  616. Just last week, I had a young man in the

  617. house. He hung out for a couple hours.

  618. We assembled a shelf that I had bought.

  619. We talked. He asked good questions. I

  620. asked him questions. It wasn't weird. It

  621. was normal. We were discipling one

  622. another.

  623. I don't know if you realize that. The

  624. cat's out of the bag now. But that was

  625. what was going on. Simple.

  626. Simple.

  627. There's an invitation that we must do

  628. with one another.

  629. But there's more. Turn to Titus chapter

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  630. 2.

  631. I told you we're well aable. You're

  632. keeping up with me. It's okay. Titus

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  633. chapter 2. Both the men and the women

  634. have been studying Titus on Wednesday

  635. nights.

  636. Paul writes to Titus who is pastoring on

  637. the island of Cree.

  638. He's encouraging Titus to be mindful to

  639. think about both his life and his

  640. doctrine, how he lives and what he

  641. teaches. He says, "Be careful how you

  642. live and what you teach."

  643. That's that's what Paul's main message,

  644. one of his main messages to Titus and

  645. therefore to us. But look at chapter 2

  646. verse one.

  647. But as for you, teach what accords with

  648. sound doctrine. Older men are to be

  649. sober minded, dignified,

  650. self-controlled, sound in faith, in

  651. love, and in steadfastness. Older women

  652. likewise are to be reverent in behavior,

  653. not slanderers or slaves to much wine.

  654. They are to teach what is good. And so

  655. train the young women to love their

  656. husbands and children to be

  657. self-controlled,

  658. pure, working at home, kind and

  659. submissive to their own husbands, that

  660. the word of God may not be reviled.

  661. Likewise, urge the younger men to be

  662. selfcontrolled.

  663. Paul is teaching Titus to teach the

  664. church to invest in one another

  665. through their lives and through their

  666. teaching. Titus is the leader. It's

  667. starting with him. He's equipping

  668. others. And then you see that older men

  669. are to live a certain way that they can

  670. be imitated.

  671. They can glorify God,

  672. but that they can help people to see

  673. what that looks like. Older women

  674. should also want to watch the way they

  675. live and they should be teaching the

  676. younger women. And then the younger men

  677. are urged to practice self-control.

  678. What I love about this passage,

  679. if you didn't notice it, is that

  680. disciplehip

  681. is crossgenerational.

  682. Disciplehip is cross generational.

  683. It should not be weird in this church

  684. for the 20-year-old woman to be having

  685. coffee with the 70-year-old woman.

  686. That's beautiful and that's necessary.

  687. And it's not just necessary for the

  688. 20-year-old. We might be think, "Oh,

  689. yeah, that'd be so great wisdom

  690. imparted." It's actually really great

  691. for the 70-year-old.

  692. And then fill in all the gaps with the

  693. ages. Men, we should be getting down on

  694. our knees and welcoming the children.

  695. Teens, you should not be intimidated to

  696. talk to adults.

  697. Ask them good questions.

  698. Adults, you should not be intimidated to

  699. talk to the teens,

  700. as I know some of you might be. The

  701. older men should be actively encouraging

  702. the younger men towards Christian

  703. maturity.

  704. How are you doing this?

  705. It's a question we all need to ask

  706. ourselves.

  707. With whom are you doing this? Don't

  708. believe the lie that it is not your

  709. place to speak into the life and

  710. decisions and actions and behaviors of

  711. others in this church. Don't believe

  712. that lie that it's not your place. The

  713. enemy would love for you. He would love

  714. for you to keep to yourself.

  715. He delights in you keeping to yourself.

  716. But that is not obedient.

  717. If you are keeping to yourself, you are

  718. disobeying.

  719. We must be intentional with our

  720. disciplehip. If you are not discipling

  721. or being discipled,

  722. what we need to do in those moments like

  723. anything when we are disobeying, we

  724. swallow our pride. We confess our

  725. inaction

  726. and then we just start helping others

  727. follow Jesus. We we just move forward in

  728. faith.

  729. That can start today. That can start

  730. today.

  731. Don't be that one. And you know when you

  732. watch, you know, you always see like you

  733. can see these clips where it's this

  734. beautiful, you know, when people are

  735. running a race together and they get

  736. into the end and then like like someone

  737. falls and like the person comes behind

  738. them and they pick them up and like like

  739. they help them finish. That's beautiful.

  740. Don't be that person that doesn't do

  741. that. You know, you're running the race

  742. and you see the person fall, they're

  743. just ahead of you and you're just like,

  744. "Oh, sorry." And you just kind of keep

  745. going.

  746. That's not what we want to be in the

  747. church. We want to finish this race

  748. together.

  749. When we keep to ourselves, it's like

  750. that. If we're keeping to ourselves,

  751. it's like we're just leaving that person

  752. behind and we're just kind of trying to

  753. we're just running our own race. The

  754. Christian life is not running about

  755. running your own race.

  756. It's about finishing together. Finally,

  757. last place to turn, Hebrews chapter 10.

    Hebrews 10 chapter mention

  758. Hebrews chapter 10.

    Hebrews 10 chapter mention

  759. All cultures are different. All people

  760. are different.

  761. Everybody has different personalities,

  762. like I said, different capacities.

  763. This shows itself to be true in how we

  764. choose to disciple. So, we're still

  765. thinking on how we disciple, and we're

  766. thinking about being intentional.

  767. Some cultures are more direct. I'm from

  768. one of those. Some cultures might be

  769. more indirect.

  770. Some things might feel more formal.

  771. Sometimes things feel more organic.

  772. Cultures, personalities, experiences,

  773. desires will drive how we disciple.

  774. But however

  775. you disciple, you must be intentional.

  776. However you disciple, you must be

  777. intentional. Hebrews chapter 10, look at

    Hebrews 10 chapter mention

  778. verse 24.

  779. Let us hold fast the confession of our

  780. hope without wavering. For he who

  781. promised is faithful. And let us

  782. consider how to stir up one another to

  783. love and good works, not neglecting to

  784. meet together as is the habit of some,

  785. but encouraging one another. And all the

  786. more as you see the day drawing near.

  787. That sounds like disciplehip to me.

  788. Considering how to do something

  789. is not organic. We are to consider how

  790. to stir up one another for love and good

  791. works. Consider is the idea of putting

  792. careful thought into something. The root

  793. of that word, that Greek word there,

  794. consider, is mind. I'm to contemplate

  795. how to do this. It's translated in other

  796. uh translations provoke.

  797. I'm to be provoked

  798. to love and good deeds. I'm to provoke

  799. others to love and good deeds. It's

  800. deliberate. It's calculated.

  801. That's what the scripture is saying. I'm

  802. to consider how to stir up one another

  803. to love and good works.

  804. Can we then just expect our disciplehip

  805. to be organic? Organic. the idea and you

  806. got to define like the idea that it's

  807. just going to naturally develop on its

  808. own. Well, it might feel organic what we

  809. do based on our personality, our

  810. culture, you know, our experiences, the

  811. kind of thing, which is fine, but the

  812. scriptures are very clear that what must

  813. be happening needs to happen. And so, we

  814. are not going to drift into obedience.

  815. And so

  816. what your disciplehip looks like, how

  817. you are loving people, how are you

  818. stirring them up to love and good works

  819. is going to look different and it might

  820. have a flavor of being organic,

  821. but it can't truly be organic. It can't

  822. truly just kind of come out of nothing

  823. and it kind of develop on its own

  824. because that's not what the scripture

  825. says.

  826. Scripture says for you to consider it to

  827. consider how to do these things.

  828. But what is often true in the Bible and

  829. it's actually wonderful the Lord is very

  830. kind to us

  831. is that it does not prescribe exactly

  832. how we are to do what we are told to do.

  833. So we are told to do something consider

  834. how to stir someone up to love and good

  835. works. But it doesn't always say how to

  836. do that. And that's actually a good

  837. thing. It can be frustrating at times,

  838. but it's actually really good because

  839. then it gives freedom to all the

  840. personalities and the cultures and the

  841. capacities that people have.

  842. Maybe you're the kind of person that

  843. does choose very specific people you

  844. want to meet up. Maybe you want to use

  845. like a Bible study. Great. Maybe that

  846. feels too formal to you. So maybe you're

  847. the kind of person where I'm just going

  848. to every week I'm going to choose to

  849. text or call someone. I'm going to see

  850. like, can you grab some coffee? and then

  851. you grab the coffee and then you're

  852. going to talk about the sermon or you're

  853. going to talk about life or you're going

  854. to just see how someone's doing and you

  855. might pray together and it might be a

  856. different person every week.

  857. Those are both intentional. It's just

  858. one is intentional. I'm going to choose

  859. people. One's intentional as I'm going

  860. to choose to reach out to people. That

  861. could be anybody.

  862. Maybe you're that tired,

  863. busy

  864. mom at home with your toddlers and

  865. you're like, "I don't have any time to

  866. do anything."

  867. Maybe you just invite people over to the

  868. house and just talk while you're doing

  869. the things that you normally are doing

  870. that you have to get done in a day.

  871. Maybe, you know, you use your lunch

  872. hour. Well, there's people in the church

  873. that do that where they're at work and

  874. they choose to I'm going to meet up with

  875. someone for lunch and we're going to

  876. just talk. It might be someone

  877. different. It might not always work, but

  878. I'm just trying to move in a place where

  879. I'm with the body of Christ so that I

  880. can stir them up to love and good works.

  881. So that I can teach and admonish. So

  882. that I can be taught and admonished.

  883. Maybe you you choose to to have people

  884. over for lunch. Maybe your capacity only

  885. allows you to do that once a month or or

  886. twice a month. Maybe you have a coffee

  887. morning. Maybe you host a barbecue.

  888. Maybe you just invite people. This has

  889. happened in our text groups where you

  890. just you're going as a family somewhere.

  891. You say, "Hey, anyone want to come

  892. along?" That's great.

  893. That's great. Those are opportunities to

  894. be together. And then when you're

  895. together, be intentional. Be intentional

  896. to use that time. Maybe you have more

  897. more formality. Maybe you have a prayer

  898. partner or you have an accountability

  899. partner. Whatever it looks like, the how

  900. IS GOING TO LOOK DIFFERENT, RIGHT?

  901. But you must consider how to do it.

  902. That's the key of the how. Consider how

  903. to do it.

  904. You are being equipped to do it.

  905. You're being equipped to do it. You are

  906. able. You are able, brother and sister,

  907. to do this. And you are needed because

  908. the disciplehip needs of Passage Baptist

  909. Church will not be met. If you are not

  910. discipling one another, if you are not

  911. teaching and admonishing, if you are not

  912. stirring up one another to love and good

  913. works, then those those needs for that

  914. to be done will not be met.

  915. They just won't be. That is not the

  916. place of leaders solely to be doing.

  917. Why disciplehip? You're commanded. We

  918. are commanded to do that. It's an

  919. essential part of church life. But you

  920. know the sweetest reason, the sweetest

  921. reason, the most precious reality of

  922. disciplehip

  923. is that you get to know the Lord Jesus

  924. more fully,

  925. more intimately,

  926. more sweetly.

  927. You understand more of his love and his

  928. care for you. And you just want to share

  929. that with others. You want to share that

  930. with others. You want Jesus more than

  931. that sweet, juicy steak that's cooked

  932. perfectly. You want to share him more

  933. than that amazing reel that made you

  934. laugh till you cried.

  935. You want to point people to Jesus more

  936. than, hey, come look at this amazing

  937. sunset or hey, come take this hike and

  938. let's look at the the very top peak and

  939. see this view. You want to so show

  940. people Jesus more than any of those

  941. things. You disciple because you know

  942. that following Jesus is the most

  943. exciting,

  944. exhilarating, thrilling, challenging,

  945. rewarding thing that you could ever be a

  946. part of.

  947. We need to create and maintain a culture

  948. of disciplehip in this church. But it

  949. takes work.

  950. It takes us considering how to do that.

  951. But the glory of Christ as the body is

  952. transformed.

  953. It's so worth it.

  954. It's so worth it when we see one another

  955. grow past our sins. When we see one

  956. another be more excited to worship

  957. Jesus. When we see one another be more

  958. thrilled to evangelize.

  959. When we see one another just amazed at

  960. God's glory.

  961. It's so worth the effort.

  962. It's so worth swallowing our pride

  963. because ultimately

  964. ultimately disciplehip is about

  965. following.

  966. Jesus is worth following.

  967. He's just worth following. like no one

  968. else that you have ever met, that no one

  969. else that you've ever wanted to be like,

  970. he is worth following.

  971. Let's be a church that disciples one

  972. another. Let me pray. Father, we thank

  973. you for your word. We thank you for

  974. these challenges. Help us to consider,

  975. help us to see the gaps and and not and

  976. not wallow in guilt or self-pity, but

  977. just choose to repent and start doing it

  978. to start being more intentional with

  979. people to start using our time better.

  980. Father, we want to think the of the fact

  981. like Hebrews says here, Lord, like the

  982. day is approaching. Jesus is coming.

  983. We want to be found faithful when he

  984. comes.

  985. Thank you that we can know you and thank

  986. you that we can help others to know you

  987. more. What a gift. What a privilege.

  988. Help us to take that seriously. We pray

  989. in Jesus name. Amen.

  990. Let's stand and sing together.