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James 3:1–18 | 2nd August 2026

Passage Baptist Church

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  1. Good morning everyone. If you could

  2. please turn your Bibles to the book of

  3. James, chapter 3.

    James 3 chapter mention

  4. Let's read.

  5. Not many of you should become teachers,

  6. my brothers,

  7. for you know that we who teach will be

  8. judged with a greater strictness.

  9. For we all stumble in many ways, and if

  10. anyone does not stumble in what he says,

  11. he is a perfect man, able to bridle his

  12. whole body. If we put bits into the

  13. mouths of horses, so that they obey us,

  14. we guide their whole bodies as well.

  15. Look, the ships also, though they are so

  16. large and are driven by strong winds,

  17. they are guided by a very small rudder.

  18. Whether the will of the pilot directs,

  19. so also the tongue is a small member,

  20. yet it boasts of great things. How great

  21. a forest is set ablaze by such a small

  22. fire. And the tongue is a fire, a world

  23. of unrighteousness. The tongue is set

  24. among our members, staining the whole

  25. body of life, setting on fire the entire

  26. course of life and set on fire by hell.

  27. For every kind of beast and bird, of

  28. reptile and sea creature can be tamed

  29. and has been tamed by mankind, but no

  30. human being can tame the tongue. It is a

  31. restless evil full of deadly poison.

  32. With it we bless our Lord and Father,

  33. and with it we curse people who are made

  34. in the likeness of God. For the same

  35. mouth come blessing and cursing, my

  36. brothers, these are things ought not to

  37. be so.

  38. Does a spring pour forth from the same

  39. opening both fresh and salt water? Can a

  40. fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a

  41. grapevine produce figs? Neither can a

  42. salt pond yield fresh water. Who is wise

  43. and understanding among you? By his good

  44. conduct, let him show his works in the

  45. meekness of wisdom. But if you have

  46. bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in

  47. your hearts, do not boast and be false

  48. to the truth. This is the wisdom that

  49. comes down from above.

  50. But it is unearly, unspiritual, and

  51. demonic. For where jealousy and selfish

  52. ambition exist, there will be disorder

  53. and every vile practice. But the wisdom

  54. from above is first pure, then

  55. peaceable, then gentle, open to reason,

  56. full of mercy and good fruits, impartial

  57. and sincere, and a harvest of

  58. righteousness is sown by peace by those

  59. who make peace. Let's open in prayer.

  60. Dear heavenly father, I thank you for

  61. your word. I thank you that your words

  62. are wonderful. Lord, I pray that as I

  63. speak now, it is not my own words, but

  64. Lord, it is yours. Lord, no matter what

  65. I can say, Lord, it is not nearly

  66. anything compared to your word. And I

  67. pray, Lord, that your word will speak

  68. now in your holy name. Amen.

  69. What are famous words that you remember?

  70. All throughout time, history can be

  71. remembered through famous words and

  72. speeches. You might remember the words

  73. from Martin Luther King's famous speech.

  74. I have a dream that my four little

  75. children will one day live in a nation

  76. where they will not be judged by the

  77. color of their skin but the content of

  78. their character. Or you might remember

  79. Patrick Pierce's words outside the GO,

  80. Ireland through us summons her children

  81. to her flag and strikes for her freedom.

  82. The words we say are powerful. They have

  83. lasting effect and they can be words to

  84. spark change. They can be words to

  85. encourage and they can also be words to

  86. discourage.

  87. Here carrying on from last week, we are

  88. looking at how works should be the

  89. outworking of our faith. But now we will

  90. see how our words show the inward

  91. condition of our heart.

  92. So what do our words do? James in this

  93. passage is trying to show the power and

  94. the impact of our words, how they affect

  95. us, how they affect the people around

  96. us, and how they affect our relationship

  97. with God.

  98. Last week, Peter showed us how our works

  99. can show the inward reflection from our

  100. faith. It says in James 26,

  101. "For as the body apart from the spirit

  102. is dead, so also faith apart from works

  103. is dead." This showing us again that

  104. genuine faith is reflected outwardly

  105. through our works, but it is not what

  106. saves us. This week we are looking at

  107. why James focuses on the tongue and how

  108. it must be controlled. James starts by

  109. reflecting on the teachers of the church

  110. and their speech. And again, this is

  111. likely due to the power and the

  112. influence that their words have and

  113. possibly even cases of slander speech

  114. from teachers which we don't know. But

  115. later in James 4, he references this

  116. division in the church, which is why

  117. here he starts with the teachers.

  118. And while all of us aren't teachers, and

  119. while not all of us will be called to

  120. that, in one capacity, we will all be

  121. called to teach. Some will be called to

  122. serve in youth and kids ministry. Some

  123. to teach their families, some to teach

  124. their kids. And also, we're called to

  125. teach everyone in our evangelism to

  126. others.

  127. Now, what do we share with the original

  128. hearers? While we don't all strive to be

  129. teachers like they do, we all tend to

  130. learn and lean on our own wisdom and

  131. believe we are all wise, but our fallen

  132. nature makes it impossible for us to

  133. bridle our tongue,

  134. which then leads us to unrighteousness.

  135. Just like James readers struggled to use

  136. words full of wisdom and

  137. unrighteousness,

  138. we too kindle destructive fires with our

  139. words. Now there's three main takeaways

  140. I want us to walk away with today. The

  141. first is that the tongue is powerful.

  142. Secondly, our tongue can also be

  143. dangerous. And lastly is wisdom that

  144. tames our tongue.

  145. Let's read James 3:1-5 again.

    James 3:1–5

  146. Not many of you should become teachers,

  147. my brothers, for you know that we who

  148. teach will be judged with greater

  149. strictness. For we all stumble in many

  150. ways, and if anyone does not stumble in

  151. what he says, he's a perfect man also

  152. able to bridle his whole body. If we put

  153. bits into the mouths of horses so that

  154. they obey us, we guide their whole

  155. bodies as well. Look, the ships also,

  156. though they are so large and are driven

  157. by strong winds, they are guided by a

  158. very small rudder, whether the will of

  159. the pilot directs. So also the tongue is

  160. a small member, yet it boasts of great

  161. things.

  162. Carrying on from last week, again, we'll

  163. be looking at the outworking of our

  164. faith. But now we'll see how these words

  165. do affect the inward condition of our

  166. heart. We see teachers here were very

  167. important in the early church especially

  168. to the Jewish church that James is

  169. writing to. It was seen as a position of

  170. power. But some of the traditions from

  171. the rabbi transferred over to the Jewish

  172. church making this position one of envy.

  173. Meaning that a lot of unqualified

  174. teachers who were just seeking the power

  175. and the position were looking for these

  176. positions. Verse one, the words from our

  177. teachers are powerful. That's because

  178. they guide us. They meet us when we are

  179. in tough times. They preach God's word

  180. to us faithfully. And this is why every

  181. week, even as we just did, we are asked

  182. to keep those who are preaching in

  183. prayer. Because those whose role it is

  184. to teach the congregation, meaning our

  185. elders, it is a tough task and it's not

  186. one that they take on lightly because

  187. they guide us with their words. And it

  188. is our responsibility to pray for them

  189. as they guide us. And we would pray that

  190. God would give them the words to say.

  191. And with that also comes the

  192. responsibility.

  193. Why? Because for what they teach, they

  194. will be judged with greater strictness.

  195. This is why James is saying this. Also,

  196. we know they are believers because he

  197. addresses them as brothers. Meaning that

  198. James sees them as fellow believers. But

  199. James is saying this likely because at

  200. the time again people strive to be

  201. teachers.

  202. The reason he's focusing on their tongue

  203. is because of the importance of the

  204. words that they say how they affect so

  205. many people. And while even those of us

  206. who are not called to the position too,

  207. we still also struggle guarding our

  208. tongue. The tongue is powerful. It can

  209. build one another up but it can also

  210. tear each other down. And on this side

  211. of eternity, we will always struggle

  212. with this.

  213. Verse two reminds us that we all

  214. stumble. Teachers stumble. We all

  215. stumble. And if we don't stumble and we

  216. can control our tongue, as we see, no

  217. one can. Romans 3 tells us that we all

  218. sin and we all fall short of the glory

  219. of God. Jesus is the only perfect man.

  220. He never sinned. It says in 1 Peter 2

    1 Peter 2:22

  221. verse 22, he committed no sin, neither

  222. was deceit found in his mouth. He is the

  223. only man able to fully control his

  224. tongue and his actions. And James grew

  225. up with him. He saw firsthand what it

  226. looks like to have full control over

  227. your words and your actions. But we

  228. don't need to be discouraged when we

  229. look at this because as we strive for

  230. holiness, we remember that our

  231. righteousness is fulfilled in Jesus.

  232. He then uses these illustrations to

  233. point us to how the tongue actually

  234. guides our whole body, but also how such

  235. a small thing such as the tongue

  236. controls the entirety of our body.

  237. James uses these pictures in verse three

  238. and verse four to show us that these

  239. small things have so much control with

  240. the horse and the bit. If you've ever

  241. stood next to a horse and you've seen

  242. the sheer size and the power that they

  243. have, yet we've learned how to train

  244. them so well. They go wherever we want.

  245. They can come to us if we call. We can

  246. train them in any way.

  247. And when James writes about the massive

  248. ships being steered by tiny rudders, it

  249. actually reminded me of when I used to

  250. row and there' be four of us and we'd

  251. pull as hard as we could. But no matter

  252. what, the person who controlled the

  253. rudder controlled the entire boat. No

  254. matter where we wanted to go or how hard

  255. we tried, whoever controlled the rudder

  256. controlled the direction we went. Or

  257. even if you look across the river into

  258. Cove and you see the huge cruise ships

  259. coming in, those huge ships weigh

  260. thousands of pounds and thousands of

  261. tons and all that mass is being steered

  262. by a small rudder. That is your tongue.

  263. It is a tiny part of you that moves you

  264. through life.

  265. And the words we speak can change our

  266. lives. They change our relationships,

  267. our friendships. Again, it can encourage

  268. one another. You can lift a brother up

  269. in the words of encouragement you give

  270. to them. That speech that I said earlier

  271. from Martin Luther King inspired change

  272. in a nation. Our words are powerful. So,

  273. we must use them well.

  274. Don't just say things you don't mean.

  275. Encourage one another. Use your words

  276. for good.

  277. But while our tongue, while it is

  278. powerful, it can also be dangerous.

  279. Let's read verses 5 to 12.

  280. How great a forest is set ablaze by such

  281. a small fire. And the tongue is a fire,

  282. a world of unrighteousness. The tongue

  283. is set among our members, staining the

  284. whole body, setting on fire the entire

  285. course of life, and is set on fire by

  286. hell.

  287. For every kind of beast and bird of

  288. reptile and sea creature can be tamed

  289. and has been tamed by mankind.

  290. No human being can tame the tongue. It

  291. is a restless evil full of deadly

  292. poison. With it we bless our Lord and

  293. our father. And with it we curse people

  294. who are made in the likeness of God.

  295. From the same mouth come blessing and

  296. cursing. My brothers, these things ought

  297. not to be so. Does a spring pour forth

  298. from the same opening? both fresh and

  299. salt water. Can a fig tree, my brothers,

  300. bear olives, or a grape vine, produce

  301. figs? Neither can a salt pond yield

  302. fresh water.

  303. If you remember in the news about one or

  304. two weeks ago, there was a fire in Kani.

  305. It burned about 25 hectares of the park,

  306. which is roughly 35 of the football

  307. pitch outside.

  308. And you know what caused it? It was a

  309. disposal barbecue,

  310. not much bigger than the Bible I have.

  311. And that caused so much destruction.

  312. That's how James in verse 5 and verse 6

  313. describes the tongue. He points to it

  314. not just as a small member, but also as

  315. something that can grow into a huge fire

  316. of unrighteousness if we're not careful.

  317. This is like so many of our sins. is

  318. something that we see as so

  319. insignificant and small but can just be

  320. a downward spiral into sin and hell. And

  321. James uses such strong language here

  322. because we too often have such a soft

  323. view of our sin. We need to truly see

  324. the damage and the suffering our sin

  325. causes and the seriousness of it.

  326. James then talks about the course of

  327. life, meaning throughout our whole life,

  328. our good times and our bad. A sinful

  329. tongue can damage all areas.

  330. When was the last time you said

  331. something and you wish you could take it

  332. back? You wish you never said it. Maybe

  333. it's at work and you gossip about a

  334. coworker and then you realize what

  335. you've done. But now your other

  336. co-workers see you as someone that they

  337. can too talk around with people about.

  338. They're you are now the person they come

  339. to when they have people they want to

  340. talk about. Maybe it's an argument with

  341. a family member, a parent, a husband, a

  342. wife that you said something in the heat

  343. of an argument and now you can never

  344. take it back.

  345. Or maybe it's a friend that you were too

  346. harsh when you were giving advice or

  347. seeing where they're at with their faith

  348. and they don't see you the same anymore.

  349. Our words can be dangerous.

  350. Something we say can affect all of our

  351. relationships. It can damage them. It

  352. can even destroy them.

  353. And that's because that's what happens

  354. when we are careless with our tongue and

  355. we don't always take a second to think

  356. about what we say. And this is part of

  357. our sinful nature.

  358. It can also affect our relationship with

  359. God. If you remember back to our series

  360. in Job in chapter 42, what happened to

  361. Job's friends who spoke false words to

  362. Job? The Lord judged them

  363. because of the false words they spoke.

  364. And our words matter because they affect

  365. our relationship with God.

  366. The words we say are powerful, which is

  367. why we must guide our tongue because

  368. there are consequences for the words we

  369. say.

  370. And when reading on in verse seven and

  371. 8, it said, "For every kind of beast and

  372. bird of reptile and sea creature can be

  373. tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but

  374. no human being can tame the tongue. It

  375. is a restless evil full of deadly

  376. poison.

  377. It's hard to think when we look out at

  378. all of creation, the one thing we can't

  379. control is ourselves. We've tamed

  380. beasts, we've tamed creatures, but not

  381. our own tongue." If you've been to photo

  382. and you see the trainers inside with the

  383. lions or the tigers and you think how

  384. could we possibly have trained that? How

  385. are they not just attacking them?

  386. But we have somehow managed to tame all

  387. beasts and all creatures yet we cannot

  388. control ourselves

  389. our own speech. James says throughout

  390. this chapter as well in 8 that our

  391. tongue cannot be tamed.

  392. Is your speech hypocritical?

  393. Our speech can also be very hypocritical

  394. as it says in verses 9 and 10. We praise

  395. God but then to our own brothers and

  396. sisters we curse and sin against them.

  397. We praise God and we worship him but

  398. then we take his name in vain.

  399. That is why James uses this illustration

  400. in verse 11 and 12. Does a spring pour

  401. forth from the same opening both fresh

  402. and salt water? Can a fig tree, my

  403. brothers, bear olives? or a grape vine

  404. produce figs, neither can a salt pond

  405. yield fresh water.

  406. Why do you think when you read these

  407. statements?

  408. They're impossible. Of you look at these

  409. and you think, of course, how could you

  410. think that of course a salt water can't

  411. produce fresh or fig tree produce

  412. olives? It's ridiculous.

  413. But then when we look that we're also

  414. hypocritical, we sing our worship to

  415. God, but then we'll go and we'll use his

  416. name in vain constantly. We use Jesus'

  417. name as if it's some sort of other word

  418. or name, but not the one of our savior

  419. or our father who we should worship and

  420. reverence, but we use his name as if

  421. it's just some sort of filler word

  422. that we don't know what to say, we just

  423. use it. or we've just become so numb to

  424. God's name that we just troll around

  425. almost for added effect

  426. when we should be treating his name as

  427. it deserves which is our holy powerful

  428. and loving God.

  429. Our tongue is dangerous and when we look

  430. at these things we become almost blind

  431. to them but we have to stay on guard

  432. because our tongue can lead us to sin.

  433. How could we fight our tongue? How and

  434. what do we need to do to tame it? What

  435. is how do we stop this small, dangerous

  436. and powerful part of our bodies from

  437. destroying the people around us? How do

  438. we stop the wildfires from our tongue?

  439. We need wisdom

  440. and not earthly wisdom, but we need

  441. wisdom from above. We don't need wisdom

  442. from below. We need wisdom from God. And

  443. this is where James now turns to. He

  444. says we have a choice. There are two

  445. different types of wisdom. There is

  446. worldly wisdom and godly wisdom.

  447. Let's read from verses 13 to the end.

  448. Who is wise and understanding among you?

  449. By his good conduct, let him show his

  450. words in the meekness of wisdom. But if

  451. you have bitter jealousy and selfish

  452. ambition in your hearts, do not boast

  453. and be false to the truth. This is not

  454. the wisdom that comes from above. But

  455. this is earthly, unspiritual, and

  456. demonic. For where jealousy and selfish

  457. ambition exists, there will be disorder

  458. and every vile practice. But the wisdom

  459. from above is first pure,

  460. then peaceful, gentle, open to reason,

  461. full of mercy and good fruits, impartial

  462. and sincere, and a harvest of

  463. righteousness is sown in peace by those

  464. who make peace.

  465. Just as we saw last week, works again

  466. are the outward reflection of our faith.

  467. And in the same way, the tongue and the

  468. words we say are a reflection of our

  469. heart.

  470. And our tongue then is a sign of our

  471. faith.

  472. James says in verse 13, "Who is wise and

  473. understanding among you? By his conduct,

  474. let them show his works in the meekness

  475. of wisdom." He gives an almost

  476. rhetorical question as he answers it

  477. straight away by giving us the examples

  478. of someone with godly wisdom and how

  479. they should act. It is shown by

  480. someone's good works in the meekness of

  481. wisdom.

  482. And what is true wisdom? I know many

  483. people now think it's intellectual

  484. wisdom or it comes from gathering

  485. knowledge from many teachers to gain

  486. wisdom. Well, it's not how it's

  487. described in scripture. In Proverbsapter

  488. 1 vers7, it says, "The fear of the Lord

  489. is the beginning of knowledge, and fools

  490. despise wisdom and instruction."

  491. True wisdom is not found from earthly

  492. wisdom, if you can even call it wisdom.

  493. It is found when someone is in awe and

  494. reverence of a holy God.

  495. Where are you getting your wisdom from?

  496. When you struggle with sin or setbacks

  497. in your life, where do you go for

  498. wisdom?

  499. Do you look towards earthly things? Do

  500. you rely on other people who are not

  501. speaking God's word into your life? Are

  502. you searching for answers on the

  503. internet, through social media? Do you

  504. turn to AI to answer your questions? Do

  505. you use self-help books or podcasts?

  506. Or do you go to the creator who has

  507. known you since the beginning of time

  508. who calls you to come to him? Do you go

  509. to God in prayer for wisdom in what to

  510. do or search his word that he has

  511. graciously given us for wisdom?

  512. James gives two paths that people can

  513. follow. And we see here in verse 14 and

  514. 15.

  515. But if you have bitter jealousy and

  516. selfish ambition in your hearts, do not

  517. boast or be false to the truth. For this

  518. is not wisdom that comes from above, but

  519. is earthly, unspiritual, and demonic.

  520. For where jealousy and selfish ambition

  521. exists, there will be disorder. Then

  522. down to verse 17. But the wisdom from

  523. above is first pure, then peaceful,

  524. gentle, open to reason, full of mercy,

  525. full of good fruits, impartial and

  526. sincere.

  527. It says in verse 15, "This type of

  528. sinful wisdom is not from God. It is

  529. unspiritual and demonic.

  530. Worldly wisdom is always wanting more

  531. because it is selfish.

  532. It is false. And we should always be

  533. wary of those who are teaching this

  534. because it is not from God. And while we

  535. can't see other people's hearts, we can

  536. see the fruit of false wisdom because it

  537. bears itself. As James said, it leads to

  538. every file practice.

  539. We even see in Matthew 12 verse 33-35,

    Matthew 12:33–35

  540. "Either make the tree good and its fruit

  541. good, or make the tree bad and its fruit

  542. bad. For the tree is known by its fruit,

  543. you brood of vipers. How can you speak

  544. good when you are evil?

  545. For out of the abundance of the heart,

  546. the mouth speaks.

  547. The good person out of his good treasure

  548. brings forth good, and the evil person

  549. out of his evil treasure brings forth

  550. evil.

  551. False wisdom can sound good

  552. because it's self-centered.

  553. Its focus on talking about ourselves, is

  554. about elevating ourselves. But that is

  555. false because it will eventually lead to

  556. disorder and every vile practice.

  557. But verse 17 and 18 shows the other path

  558. that James gives. There is a path of

  559. wisdom.

  560. One that is pure, peaceful, gentle, open

  561. to reason, merciful, bears good fruits,

  562. impartial, and is sincere.

  563. It is pure because it is not focused on

  564. our selfish ambition but on goodness and

  565. holiness.

  566. It is not our words that we say hoping

  567. to please or to boast in ourselves but

  568. it is our words that speak the truth of

  569. the gospel to one another.

  570. How can we follow a path towards godly

  571. wisdom?

  572. When we are in need of wisdom, do we go

  573. to the source of all wisdom? and we pray

  574. for help from the almighty all- knowing

  575. God. We read his word and when we are

  576. feeling like we are falling into these

  577. areas of selfishness and boasting, we

  578. repent. We don't elevate ourselves. We

  579. seek his wisdom.

  580. And what is the meaning then behind a

  581. harvest of righteousness? In verse 18,

  582. we should think of this harvest in

  583. righteousness in two particular ways.

  584. First, in our own lives,

  585. as we live in the light of the wisdom

  586. that God graciously gives us, we become

  587. increasingly pleasing to him in the way

  588. that we live, we show more and more of

  589. it by leading a life that is devoted to

  590. him, by deeds done in humility that

  591. comes from wisdom.

  592. But the language of the harvest can also

  593. be a way in which we show the work God

  594. has done in us. Even with myself, we

  595. live in a country that curses a lot. I

  596. grew up doing it same as a lot of people

  597. have. And it wasn't until I came to know

  598. the Lord Jesus that I turned away and

  599. was convicted and was also guided by

  600. fellow believers in this wisdom of

  601. guarding our tongue. And people notice

  602. this. When you stop doing something that

  603. you do daily, whether it's foul

  604. language, gossip, slander, arrogance, or

  605. any other sin. When you stop doing these

  606. things and you give the glory to God and

  607. his wisdom, this can draw people in and

  608. the immense work he has done in us.

  609. And this can be a way for us to

  610. evangelize the day after day. Reflect

  611. the change that Jesus has made in our

  612. lives. And if you haven't trusted in

  613. him, he can do that same work in your

  614. life. All you need to do is come to him

  615. and ask him.

  616. So what does any of this actually mean

  617. for us? What does it actually do for us?

  618. Our tongue is powerful.

  619. So we must guard it. Go into this week

  620. aware that your words carry power and

  621. encourage one another and point each

  622. other to Jesus.

  623. Our words can burn acres upon acres in a

  624. deadly fire or our words can bring a

  625. harvest of righteousness.

  626. We will not be perfect, but we must seek

  627. wisdom from Jesus, the only one who is

  628. able to fully bridle his tongue.

  629. And while we will stumble, we have a

  630. savior. He lived a perfect life.

  631. And he died so that even in our sinful

  632. state, we could come to him for wisdom

  633. until the very end. Let's pray.

  634. Dear heavenly father, I thank you for

  635. your word. Lord, I thank you that while

  636. our words are powerful, Lord, your words

  637. are perfect. I pray Lord as we look out

  638. and we see two different types of

  639. wisdom. We see two ways to live Lord

  640. that we would follow your wisdom. That

  641. we would look to you and your word. That

  642. we would come to you in prayer Lord.

  643. That we would seek after you day after

  644. day.

  645. Lord I pray for everyone here that Lord

  646. they would read your word and be

  647. convicted by it. that they would see the

  648. power and the danger that can come from

  649. the tongue

  650. and be convicted, Lord, to follow after

  651. you and be guided by your wisdom. Thank

  652. you, Father, for your glorious grace. In

  653. your name, amen.