Sermon
James 3:1–18 | 2nd August 2026
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Transcript
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Good morning everyone. If you could
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please turn your Bibles to the book of
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James, chapter 3.
James 3 chapter mention
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Let's read.
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Not many of you should become teachers,
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my brothers,
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for you know that we who teach will be
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judged with a greater strictness.
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For we all stumble in many ways, and if
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anyone does not stumble in what he says,
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he is a perfect man, able to bridle his
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whole body. If we put bits into the
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mouths of horses, so that they obey us,
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we guide their whole bodies as well.
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Look, the ships also, though they are so
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large and are driven by strong winds,
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they are guided by a very small rudder.
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Whether the will of the pilot directs,
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so also the tongue is a small member,
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yet it boasts of great things. How great
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a forest is set ablaze by such a small
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fire. And the tongue is a fire, a world
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of unrighteousness. The tongue is set
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among our members, staining the whole
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body of life, setting on fire the entire
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course of life and set on fire by hell.
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For every kind of beast and bird, of
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reptile and sea creature can be tamed
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and has been tamed by mankind, but no
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human being can tame the tongue. It is a
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restless evil full of deadly poison.
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With it we bless our Lord and Father,
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and with it we curse people who are made
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in the likeness of God. For the same
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mouth come blessing and cursing, my
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brothers, these are things ought not to
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be so.
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Does a spring pour forth from the same
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opening both fresh and salt water? Can a
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fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a
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grapevine produce figs? Neither can a
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salt pond yield fresh water. Who is wise
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and understanding among you? By his good
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conduct, let him show his works in the
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meekness of wisdom. But if you have
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bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in
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your hearts, do not boast and be false
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to the truth. This is the wisdom that
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comes down from above.
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But it is unearly, unspiritual, and
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demonic. For where jealousy and selfish
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ambition exist, there will be disorder
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and every vile practice. But the wisdom
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from above is first pure, then
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peaceable, then gentle, open to reason,
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full of mercy and good fruits, impartial
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and sincere, and a harvest of
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righteousness is sown by peace by those
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who make peace. Let's open in prayer.
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Dear heavenly father, I thank you for
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your word. I thank you that your words
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are wonderful. Lord, I pray that as I
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speak now, it is not my own words, but
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Lord, it is yours. Lord, no matter what
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I can say, Lord, it is not nearly
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anything compared to your word. And I
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pray, Lord, that your word will speak
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now in your holy name. Amen.
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What are famous words that you remember?
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All throughout time, history can be
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remembered through famous words and
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speeches. You might remember the words
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from Martin Luther King's famous speech.
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I have a dream that my four little
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children will one day live in a nation
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where they will not be judged by the
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color of their skin but the content of
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their character. Or you might remember
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Patrick Pierce's words outside the GO,
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Ireland through us summons her children
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to her flag and strikes for her freedom.
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The words we say are powerful. They have
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lasting effect and they can be words to
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spark change. They can be words to
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encourage and they can also be words to
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discourage.
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Here carrying on from last week, we are
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looking at how works should be the
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outworking of our faith. But now we will
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see how our words show the inward
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condition of our heart.
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So what do our words do? James in this
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passage is trying to show the power and
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the impact of our words, how they affect
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us, how they affect the people around
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us, and how they affect our relationship
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with God.
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Last week, Peter showed us how our works
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can show the inward reflection from our
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faith. It says in James 26,
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"For as the body apart from the spirit
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is dead, so also faith apart from works
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is dead." This showing us again that
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genuine faith is reflected outwardly
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through our works, but it is not what
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saves us. This week we are looking at
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why James focuses on the tongue and how
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it must be controlled. James starts by
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reflecting on the teachers of the church
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and their speech. And again, this is
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likely due to the power and the
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influence that their words have and
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possibly even cases of slander speech
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from teachers which we don't know. But
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later in James 4, he references this
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division in the church, which is why
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here he starts with the teachers.
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And while all of us aren't teachers, and
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while not all of us will be called to
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that, in one capacity, we will all be
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called to teach. Some will be called to
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serve in youth and kids ministry. Some
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to teach their families, some to teach
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their kids. And also, we're called to
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teach everyone in our evangelism to
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others.
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Now, what do we share with the original
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hearers? While we don't all strive to be
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teachers like they do, we all tend to
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learn and lean on our own wisdom and
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believe we are all wise, but our fallen
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nature makes it impossible for us to
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bridle our tongue,
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which then leads us to unrighteousness.
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Just like James readers struggled to use
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words full of wisdom and
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unrighteousness,
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we too kindle destructive fires with our
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words. Now there's three main takeaways
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I want us to walk away with today. The
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first is that the tongue is powerful.
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Secondly, our tongue can also be
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dangerous. And lastly is wisdom that
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tames our tongue.
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Let's read James 3:1-5 again.
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Not many of you should become teachers,
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my brothers, for you know that we who
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teach will be judged with greater
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strictness. For we all stumble in many
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ways, and if anyone does not stumble in
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what he says, he's a perfect man also
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able to bridle his whole body. If we put
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bits into the mouths of horses so that
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they obey us, we guide their whole
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bodies as well. Look, the ships also,
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though they are so large and are driven
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by strong winds, they are guided by a
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very small rudder, whether the will of
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the pilot directs. So also the tongue is
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a small member, yet it boasts of great
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things.
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Carrying on from last week, again, we'll
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be looking at the outworking of our
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faith. But now we'll see how these words
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do affect the inward condition of our
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heart. We see teachers here were very
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important in the early church especially
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to the Jewish church that James is
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writing to. It was seen as a position of
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power. But some of the traditions from
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the rabbi transferred over to the Jewish
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church making this position one of envy.
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Meaning that a lot of unqualified
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teachers who were just seeking the power
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and the position were looking for these
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positions. Verse one, the words from our
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teachers are powerful. That's because
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they guide us. They meet us when we are
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in tough times. They preach God's word
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to us faithfully. And this is why every
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week, even as we just did, we are asked
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to keep those who are preaching in
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prayer. Because those whose role it is
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to teach the congregation, meaning our
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elders, it is a tough task and it's not
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one that they take on lightly because
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they guide us with their words. And it
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is our responsibility to pray for them
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as they guide us. And we would pray that
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God would give them the words to say.
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And with that also comes the
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responsibility.
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Why? Because for what they teach, they
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will be judged with greater strictness.
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This is why James is saying this. Also,
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we know they are believers because he
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addresses them as brothers. Meaning that
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James sees them as fellow believers. But
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James is saying this likely because at
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the time again people strive to be
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teachers.
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The reason he's focusing on their tongue
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is because of the importance of the
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words that they say how they affect so
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many people. And while even those of us
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who are not called to the position too,
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we still also struggle guarding our
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tongue. The tongue is powerful. It can
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build one another up but it can also
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tear each other down. And on this side
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of eternity, we will always struggle
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with this.
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Verse two reminds us that we all
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stumble. Teachers stumble. We all
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stumble. And if we don't stumble and we
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can control our tongue, as we see, no
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one can. Romans 3 tells us that we all
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sin and we all fall short of the glory
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of God. Jesus is the only perfect man.
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He never sinned. It says in 1 Peter 2
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verse 22, he committed no sin, neither
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was deceit found in his mouth. He is the
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only man able to fully control his
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tongue and his actions. And James grew
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up with him. He saw firsthand what it
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looks like to have full control over
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your words and your actions. But we
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don't need to be discouraged when we
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look at this because as we strive for
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holiness, we remember that our
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righteousness is fulfilled in Jesus.
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He then uses these illustrations to
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point us to how the tongue actually
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guides our whole body, but also how such
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a small thing such as the tongue
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controls the entirety of our body.
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James uses these pictures in verse three
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and verse four to show us that these
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small things have so much control with
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the horse and the bit. If you've ever
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stood next to a horse and you've seen
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the sheer size and the power that they
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have, yet we've learned how to train
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them so well. They go wherever we want.
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They can come to us if we call. We can
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train them in any way.
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And when James writes about the massive
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ships being steered by tiny rudders, it
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actually reminded me of when I used to
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row and there' be four of us and we'd
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pull as hard as we could. But no matter
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what, the person who controlled the
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rudder controlled the entire boat. No
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matter where we wanted to go or how hard
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we tried, whoever controlled the rudder
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controlled the direction we went. Or
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even if you look across the river into
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Cove and you see the huge cruise ships
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coming in, those huge ships weigh
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thousands of pounds and thousands of
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tons and all that mass is being steered
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by a small rudder. That is your tongue.
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It is a tiny part of you that moves you
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through life.
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And the words we speak can change our
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lives. They change our relationships,
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our friendships. Again, it can encourage
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one another. You can lift a brother up
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in the words of encouragement you give
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to them. That speech that I said earlier
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from Martin Luther King inspired change
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in a nation. Our words are powerful. So,
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we must use them well.
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Don't just say things you don't mean.
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Encourage one another. Use your words
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for good.
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But while our tongue, while it is
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powerful, it can also be dangerous.
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Let's read verses 5 to 12.
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How great a forest is set ablaze by such
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a small fire. And the tongue is a fire,
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a world of unrighteousness. The tongue
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is set among our members, staining the
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whole body, setting on fire the entire
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course of life, and is set on fire by
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hell.
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For every kind of beast and bird of
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reptile and sea creature can be tamed
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and has been tamed by mankind.
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No human being can tame the tongue. It
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is a restless evil full of deadly
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poison. With it we bless our Lord and
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our father. And with it we curse people
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who are made in the likeness of God.
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From the same mouth come blessing and
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cursing. My brothers, these things ought
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not to be so. Does a spring pour forth
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from the same opening? both fresh and
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salt water. Can a fig tree, my brothers,
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bear olives, or a grape vine, produce
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figs? Neither can a salt pond yield
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fresh water.
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If you remember in the news about one or
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two weeks ago, there was a fire in Kani.
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It burned about 25 hectares of the park,
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which is roughly 35 of the football
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pitch outside.
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And you know what caused it? It was a
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disposal barbecue,
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not much bigger than the Bible I have.
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And that caused so much destruction.
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That's how James in verse 5 and verse 6
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describes the tongue. He points to it
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not just as a small member, but also as
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something that can grow into a huge fire
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of unrighteousness if we're not careful.
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This is like so many of our sins. is
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something that we see as so
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insignificant and small but can just be
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a downward spiral into sin and hell. And
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James uses such strong language here
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because we too often have such a soft
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view of our sin. We need to truly see
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the damage and the suffering our sin
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causes and the seriousness of it.
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James then talks about the course of
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life, meaning throughout our whole life,
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our good times and our bad. A sinful
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tongue can damage all areas.
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When was the last time you said
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something and you wish you could take it
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back? You wish you never said it. Maybe
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it's at work and you gossip about a
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coworker and then you realize what
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you've done. But now your other
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co-workers see you as someone that they
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can too talk around with people about.
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They're you are now the person they come
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to when they have people they want to
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talk about. Maybe it's an argument with
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a family member, a parent, a husband, a
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wife that you said something in the heat
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of an argument and now you can never
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take it back.
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Or maybe it's a friend that you were too
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harsh when you were giving advice or
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seeing where they're at with their faith
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and they don't see you the same anymore.
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Our words can be dangerous.
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Something we say can affect all of our
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relationships. It can damage them. It
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can even destroy them.
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And that's because that's what happens
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when we are careless with our tongue and
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we don't always take a second to think
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about what we say. And this is part of
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our sinful nature.
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It can also affect our relationship with
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God. If you remember back to our series
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in Job in chapter 42, what happened to
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Job's friends who spoke false words to
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Job? The Lord judged them
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because of the false words they spoke.
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And our words matter because they affect
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our relationship with God.
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The words we say are powerful, which is
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why we must guide our tongue because
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there are consequences for the words we
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say.
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And when reading on in verse seven and
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8, it said, "For every kind of beast and
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bird of reptile and sea creature can be
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tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but
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no human being can tame the tongue. It
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is a restless evil full of deadly
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poison.
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It's hard to think when we look out at
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all of creation, the one thing we can't
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control is ourselves. We've tamed
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beasts, we've tamed creatures, but not
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our own tongue." If you've been to photo
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and you see the trainers inside with the
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lions or the tigers and you think how
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could we possibly have trained that? How
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are they not just attacking them?
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But we have somehow managed to tame all
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beasts and all creatures yet we cannot
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control ourselves
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our own speech. James says throughout
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this chapter as well in 8 that our
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tongue cannot be tamed.
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Is your speech hypocritical?
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Our speech can also be very hypocritical
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as it says in verses 9 and 10. We praise
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God but then to our own brothers and
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sisters we curse and sin against them.
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We praise God and we worship him but
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then we take his name in vain.
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That is why James uses this illustration
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in verse 11 and 12. Does a spring pour
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forth from the same opening both fresh
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and salt water? Can a fig tree, my
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brothers, bear olives? or a grape vine
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produce figs, neither can a salt pond
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yield fresh water.
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Why do you think when you read these
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statements?
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They're impossible. Of you look at these
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and you think, of course, how could you
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think that of course a salt water can't
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produce fresh or fig tree produce
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olives? It's ridiculous.
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But then when we look that we're also
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hypocritical, we sing our worship to
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God, but then we'll go and we'll use his
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name in vain constantly. We use Jesus'
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name as if it's some sort of other word
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or name, but not the one of our savior
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or our father who we should worship and
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reverence, but we use his name as if
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it's just some sort of filler word
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that we don't know what to say, we just
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use it. or we've just become so numb to
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God's name that we just troll around
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almost for added effect
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when we should be treating his name as
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it deserves which is our holy powerful
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and loving God.
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Our tongue is dangerous and when we look
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at these things we become almost blind
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to them but we have to stay on guard
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because our tongue can lead us to sin.
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How could we fight our tongue? How and
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what do we need to do to tame it? What
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is how do we stop this small, dangerous
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and powerful part of our bodies from
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destroying the people around us? How do
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we stop the wildfires from our tongue?
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We need wisdom
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and not earthly wisdom, but we need
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wisdom from above. We don't need wisdom
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from below. We need wisdom from God. And
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this is where James now turns to. He
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says we have a choice. There are two
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different types of wisdom. There is
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worldly wisdom and godly wisdom.
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Let's read from verses 13 to the end.
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Who is wise and understanding among you?
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By his good conduct, let him show his
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words in the meekness of wisdom. But if
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you have bitter jealousy and selfish
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ambition in your hearts, do not boast
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and be false to the truth. This is not
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the wisdom that comes from above. But
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this is earthly, unspiritual, and
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demonic. For where jealousy and selfish
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ambition exists, there will be disorder
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and every vile practice. But the wisdom
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from above is first pure,
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then peaceful, gentle, open to reason,
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full of mercy and good fruits, impartial
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and sincere, and a harvest of
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righteousness is sown in peace by those
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who make peace.
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Just as we saw last week, works again
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are the outward reflection of our faith.
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And in the same way, the tongue and the
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words we say are a reflection of our
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heart.
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And our tongue then is a sign of our
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faith.
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James says in verse 13, "Who is wise and
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understanding among you? By his conduct,
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let them show his works in the meekness
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of wisdom." He gives an almost
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rhetorical question as he answers it
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straight away by giving us the examples
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of someone with godly wisdom and how
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they should act. It is shown by
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someone's good works in the meekness of
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wisdom.
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And what is true wisdom? I know many
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people now think it's intellectual
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wisdom or it comes from gathering
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knowledge from many teachers to gain
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wisdom. Well, it's not how it's
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described in scripture. In Proverbsapter
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1 vers7, it says, "The fear of the Lord
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is the beginning of knowledge, and fools
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despise wisdom and instruction."
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True wisdom is not found from earthly
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wisdom, if you can even call it wisdom.
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It is found when someone is in awe and
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reverence of a holy God.
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Where are you getting your wisdom from?
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When you struggle with sin or setbacks
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in your life, where do you go for
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wisdom?
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Do you look towards earthly things? Do
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you rely on other people who are not
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speaking God's word into your life? Are
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you searching for answers on the
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internet, through social media? Do you
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turn to AI to answer your questions? Do
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you use self-help books or podcasts?
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Or do you go to the creator who has
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known you since the beginning of time
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who calls you to come to him? Do you go
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to God in prayer for wisdom in what to
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do or search his word that he has
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graciously given us for wisdom?
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James gives two paths that people can
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follow. And we see here in verse 14 and
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15.
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But if you have bitter jealousy and
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selfish ambition in your hearts, do not
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boast or be false to the truth. For this
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is not wisdom that comes from above, but
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is earthly, unspiritual, and demonic.
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For where jealousy and selfish ambition
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exists, there will be disorder. Then
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down to verse 17. But the wisdom from
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above is first pure, then peaceful,
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gentle, open to reason, full of mercy,
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full of good fruits, impartial and
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sincere.
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It says in verse 15, "This type of
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sinful wisdom is not from God. It is
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unspiritual and demonic.
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Worldly wisdom is always wanting more
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because it is selfish.
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It is false. And we should always be
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wary of those who are teaching this
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because it is not from God. And while we
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can't see other people's hearts, we can
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see the fruit of false wisdom because it
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bears itself. As James said, it leads to
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every file practice.
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We even see in Matthew 12 verse 33-35,
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"Either make the tree good and its fruit
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good, or make the tree bad and its fruit
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bad. For the tree is known by its fruit,
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you brood of vipers. How can you speak
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good when you are evil?
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For out of the abundance of the heart,
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the mouth speaks.
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The good person out of his good treasure
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brings forth good, and the evil person
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out of his evil treasure brings forth
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evil.
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False wisdom can sound good
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because it's self-centered.
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Its focus on talking about ourselves, is
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about elevating ourselves. But that is
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false because it will eventually lead to
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disorder and every vile practice.
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But verse 17 and 18 shows the other path
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that James gives. There is a path of
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wisdom.
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One that is pure, peaceful, gentle, open
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to reason, merciful, bears good fruits,
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impartial, and is sincere.
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It is pure because it is not focused on
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our selfish ambition but on goodness and
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holiness.
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It is not our words that we say hoping
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to please or to boast in ourselves but
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it is our words that speak the truth of
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the gospel to one another.
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How can we follow a path towards godly
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wisdom?
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When we are in need of wisdom, do we go
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to the source of all wisdom? and we pray
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for help from the almighty all- knowing
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God. We read his word and when we are
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feeling like we are falling into these
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areas of selfishness and boasting, we
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repent. We don't elevate ourselves. We
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seek his wisdom.
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And what is the meaning then behind a
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harvest of righteousness? In verse 18,
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we should think of this harvest in
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righteousness in two particular ways.
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First, in our own lives,
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as we live in the light of the wisdom
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that God graciously gives us, we become
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increasingly pleasing to him in the way
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that we live, we show more and more of
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it by leading a life that is devoted to
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him, by deeds done in humility that
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comes from wisdom.
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But the language of the harvest can also
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be a way in which we show the work God
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has done in us. Even with myself, we
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live in a country that curses a lot. I
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grew up doing it same as a lot of people
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have. And it wasn't until I came to know
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the Lord Jesus that I turned away and
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was convicted and was also guided by
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fellow believers in this wisdom of
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guarding our tongue. And people notice
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this. When you stop doing something that
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you do daily, whether it's foul
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language, gossip, slander, arrogance, or
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any other sin. When you stop doing these
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things and you give the glory to God and
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his wisdom, this can draw people in and
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the immense work he has done in us.
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And this can be a way for us to
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evangelize the day after day. Reflect
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the change that Jesus has made in our
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lives. And if you haven't trusted in
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him, he can do that same work in your
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life. All you need to do is come to him
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and ask him.
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So what does any of this actually mean
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for us? What does it actually do for us?
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Our tongue is powerful.
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So we must guard it. Go into this week
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aware that your words carry power and
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encourage one another and point each
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other to Jesus.
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Our words can burn acres upon acres in a
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deadly fire or our words can bring a
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harvest of righteousness.
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We will not be perfect, but we must seek
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wisdom from Jesus, the only one who is
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able to fully bridle his tongue.
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And while we will stumble, we have a
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savior. He lived a perfect life.
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And he died so that even in our sinful
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state, we could come to him for wisdom
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until the very end. Let's pray.
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Dear heavenly father, I thank you for
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your word. Lord, I thank you that while
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our words are powerful, Lord, your words
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are perfect. I pray Lord as we look out
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and we see two different types of
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wisdom. We see two ways to live Lord
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that we would follow your wisdom. That
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we would look to you and your word. That
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we would come to you in prayer Lord.
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That we would seek after you day after
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day.
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Lord I pray for everyone here that Lord
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they would read your word and be
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convicted by it. that they would see the
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power and the danger that can come from
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the tongue
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and be convicted, Lord, to follow after
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you and be guided by your wisdom. Thank
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you, Father, for your glorious grace. In
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your name, amen.