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The Do's and Don'ts of Prayer - Praying The Way Jesus Taught

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  1. Oh, good morning. Good to see you guys. We're

  2. going to take a slight break. I wanted to Because

  3. I knew we're gonna be missing a lot of people

  4. today. I was like, you know what? Let's take

  5. a break from the book of Mark and Let's just

  6. do a one -off sermon. So as I was praying I was

  7. like, what am I? What Lord do you want me to

  8. preach on and I just kept coming back to the

  9. words of Peter In my heart just kept going Lord

  10. teach us to pray and so That's what we're gonna

  11. talk about this morning if you would turn with

  12. me to Matthew chapter 6 We're going to start

    Matthew 6 chapter mention

  13. in verse seven, but I've got a little riddle

  14. for you. Okay, a little mind bender as you're

  15. turning there. How do you get a room full of

  16. people suddenly to be quiet and wish they were

  17. invisible? Okay. Yeah, that was good. Anybody

  18. else? Ask for a volunteer to do what? We'll go

  19. with ask anyone to pray and they're like Like

  20. record scratch moment and then everyone's like

  21. nobody wants to make eye contact with the pastor

  22. That's actually by kids like if you've eaten

  23. lunchless after after church or you've ever eaten

  24. lunch with us or been with us Uh, if we have

  25. people over, I always ask my kids to pray over

  26. the meal. Uh, so that way it forces them to pray

  27. in front of other people. And they always do

  28. the same thing. They're like, and Michael will

  29. do all he can to hide, like when he knows it's

  30. coming. And so, um, I'm guessing that there's

  31. quite a few people here that, um, you would rather

  32. spot clean a porta potty at a music festival.

  33. than have to pray in public. I am not one of

  34. those people. It's I've never been afraid to

  35. pray, but I will say I do get very conscious

  36. like when I'm praying. And it's one of those

  37. things where in when I even when I'm praying

  38. here every every Sunday or praying or like I

  39. become very aware of my words, which is good.

  40. And at the same time. I forget that I'm praying,

  41. if that makes sense. It's like my brain is doing

  42. two things at one time. And so I get why people

  43. get nervous. But I want to talk this morning

  44. about the do's and don'ts of prayer, which the

  45. title of my sermon is pray like this, the do's

  46. and don'ts of prayer, because Jesus gives us

  47. how to pray. And so the big idea, if you're taking

  48. notes, is prayer is simply the children of God

  49. talking to their father. And so. Prayer is one

  50. of the simplest acts of the Christian life, and

  51. yet it can feel like one of the most mysterious.

  52. It is both instinctive and learned. It's natural

  53. and it's supernatural, and every one of us knows

  54. that we ought to pray, yet many of us wonder

  55. if we're ever doing it right. And so before we

  56. dive in, let me ask you a simple question. What

  57. is prayer? If you were asked to define it, if

  58. you were asked, if somebody asked you what is

  59. prayer, what would you say? Okay, that's good.

  60. Worship to God. Talking with him, good. Anybody

  61. else? What's that? Yeah, yeah, that's good too.

  62. Asking, yep. So here's some definitions. So theologian

  63. Wayne Grudem in his book, Systematic Theology,

  64. he defines prayer like this. personal communication

  65. with God, pretty straightforward, right? John

  66. Frame, who also has another systematic book that

  67. we have to read in seminary, his definition is

  68. a genuine relational conversation with our Creator

  69. rather than mere meditation or self -improvement.

  70. And then the Puritans, who practice prayer literally

  71. daily, they were very good at disciplining themselves

  72. to pray. The Puritans defined prayer as a holy

  73. intimate conversation between a loving soul and

  74. God. If I were going to define it myself, and

  75. if you want to write this down you definitely

  76. can, I would define it from what I see in scripture

  77. and just my personal experience of walking with

  78. Jesus. I define it as Prayer is an ongoing conversation

  79. with the triune God that begins as he speaks

  80. to us through his word and continues as we respond

  81. to him in faith. If you just want the simple

  82. definition or the simple way of saying it, give

  83. it to me straight, Pastor Logan, in a very simple,

  84. redneck way. It's just me talking to my dad.

  85. That's what prayer is. So here's the next question,

  86. though. Is all prayer the same? Is it all created

  87. equal? No, it's not. We have people with many

  88. different religions, right? And some of those

  89. religions, they either repeat memorized rituals.

  90. Catholics do this a lot. Some chant. Some enter

  91. trances. Some believe saying enough words or

  92. praying enough times earns favor with God. That

  93. would be like Islam. But Jesus says there's a

  94. difference in how you should approach God and

  95. how you should pray. Not every prayer honors

  96. God. Not every prayer is the kind of prayer our

  97. father desires. You can read that in Isaiah and

  98. in Jeremiah where God tells the children of Israel

  99. that he does not hear their prayers and that

  100. their offerings reek. And so that brings up the

  101. question then, all right, so how are we supposed

  102. to pray? And so that's what we're going to unpack.

  103. We're going to unpack the do's and don'ts. And

  104. so my prayer for you this morning is that by

  105. the end of our time together, you'll see prayer

  106. less as obligation and more as an open invitation.

  107. And through Christ, you have access to your heavenly

  108. father every moment of every day. So let's go

  109. ahead and let's read Matthew chapter six, starting

  110. in verse five. And when you pray, you must not

  111. be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand

  112. and pray in the synagogues and at the street

  113. corners that they may be, what does that say?

  114. Seen by others. And truly I say to you, they

  115. have received their reward. But when you pray,

  116. go into your room and shut the door and pray

  117. to your father who is in secret. And your father

  118. who sees in secret will reward you. And when

  119. you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the

  120. Gentiles do. For they think that they will be

  121. heard for their for their many words Do not be

  122. like them for your father knows what you need

  123. before you ask him pray then like this Our father

  124. in heaven Hallowed be your name your kingdom

  125. come your will be done on earth as it is in heaven

  126. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive

  127. us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors

  128. and lead us not into temptation, but deliver

  129. us from evil. For if you forgive others, their

  130. trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive

  131. you. But if you do not forgive others, their

  132. trespasses, neither will your father forgive

  133. your trespasses. So if you are taking notes,

  134. the first note is this. Don't pray to impress

  135. with your deeds. don't pray to impress with your

  136. deeds. Now, Pastor Logan, what are you talking

  137. about? Well, let's back up for just a moment.

  138. If you go to the very first verse in chapter

  139. six, Jesus says, beware of practicing your righteousness

  140. before other people in order to be seen by them,

  141. for then you will have your reward from your

  142. Father who is in heaven. So this is where we

  143. get the, don't let the right hand know what the

  144. left hand is doing or left hand or the right

  145. hand is doing. Meaning we don't have to Trump

  146. it that we're giving money or helping someone

  147. out The Lord knows that you're doing this He

  148. should be he's the one laying it on your heart

  149. to give so we don't have to make this grandiose

  150. gesture and let Everybody know that look how

  151. look how awesome we are. Look how giving we are

  152. nowadays It seems like the only way people give

  153. to the homeless or help someone out is if they

  154. are videoing it and putting it on social media

  155. There's one spoof video that I saw that was really

  156. funny where this guy was standing behind a Dollar

  157. General acting like a homeless person and he

  158. said to a guy getting out, hey man, you got $20.

  159. And he's like, no man, I don't have $20. And

  160. he's like, come on man, you gotta have $20. About

  161. to go into Dollar General, I know you got money.

  162. As if everyone that goes into Dollar General

  163. has money. And so then he goes, man, I don't

  164. have no $20. And then he's like, come on man,

  165. I know you got, he's like, all right, fine, I

  166. got $20. But. If I'm going to give you that $20,

  167. you got to let me record it. And I got you got

  168. to let me put it on Facebook and the homeless

  169. guy says back to him, he goes, I'll let you talk

  170. to my agent about that because I don't do it

  171. for free. So it was pretty funny. So anyway.

  172. So Jesus begins with the don'ts of prayer. and

  173. the whole thing comes down to let's don't make

  174. this about us and our righteousness because prayer

  175. and giving and all the things it should point

  176. to yeah and so jesus says he begins with the

  177. warning when you pray you must not be like the

  178. hypocrites and notice he doesn't say if you pray

  179. he assumes his followers already pray yes And

  180. so the question isn't whether you pray, the question

  181. is why you pray. And so now let's clear up something

  182. that Jesus is not saying. It was, were we sinning

  183. standing up here and praying in public? Are we

  184. going against what God, what Jesus is saying

  185. here? No, no, it is not sinful. It's not forbidden

  186. to pray in public. If that were the case, then

  187. Jesus himself would have disobeyed his own command

  188. because he prayed publicly all the time. The

  189. apostles prayed publicly, and the early church

  190. prayed publicly. And so we pray publicly every

  191. day. Every Sunday we pray. We have prayer and

  192. praise time, but people pray before city council

  193. meetings, in government, on battlefields, in

  194. hospitals, at sporting events, and around dinner

  195. tables. And so you can write this down. Public

  196. prayer isn't the problem. public performance

  197. is. And so Jesus says the Pharisees love standing

  198. in the synagogue and on the street corners to

  199. pray. Why? Why do they like doing this? What

  200. does it say? Yeah, to be seen. Why do they want

  201. to be seen? Because they wanted them to know

  202. that they were righteous, right? They're holy

  203. people. And so Jesus says, That's their reward

  204. then their reward is ultimately being seen So

  205. they weren't speaking to God they were performing

  206. for people and That's why this passage follows

  207. immediately after Jesus says beware of practicing

  208. your righteousness before people in order to

  209. be seen by them So you can write this down the

  210. issue isn't location. It's motivation You can

  211. pray in a packed sanctuary with a humble heart

  212. And you can pray alone in your bedroom while

  213. secretly imagining how spiritual everyone would

  214. think you are if they could hear you. Do you

  215. ever do that sometimes? It's okay, you can be

  216. honest. You ever in your prayer closet and you

  217. start using some theological words you heard

  218. on a Sunday morning and you're like, man, if

  219. someone could hear me right now, they think I'm

  220. such a holy person. I'm just asking, not because

  221. I do that, but. But so God doesn't simply hear

  222. our words. He sees our motives. So if there's

  223. something weighing on your heart, God says, go

  224. into your room, shut the door and talk to your

  225. dad. Invite others to pray with you. Ask your

  226. church family to pray. There's nothing wrong

  227. with any of that, but be careful that your desire

  228. is to be known as a spiritual person. My next

  229. little sub point is. Don't pray to impress with

  230. your words. Don't pray to impress with your words.

  231. So then Jesus gives another warning, and when

  232. you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the

  233. Gentiles do. Notice that he says, he talks about

  234. what the Pharisees do, and then he says what

  235. the Gentiles do. Why does he say that the Gentiles

  236. use empty phrases? What do you think that that

  237. means? Yeah, like they're pagan so they're used

  238. to all of this crazy nonsense that comes out

  239. of their words or come out of their mouth so

  240. the Pharisees wanted to impress people but the

  241. Gentiles wanted to impress God because their

  242. pagan background told them this is what God needs

  243. So they believed if they repeated enough words

  244. if they prayed long enough if they found just

  245. the right formula Then maybe the gods would finally

  246. listen And Jesus says, don't pray like that.

  247. Why? Why don't you pray like that? Because your

  248. father isn't reluctant to hear. He wants to hear

  249. from you. Your father knows what you need before

  250. you ask him. And now that raises the question,

  251. if God already knows what I need, then why pray

  252. at all? Write this down, because I get this question

  253. a lot. Because prayer isn't about informing God.

  254. It's about depending on God. Prayer doesn't update

  255. an all -knowing Father. It draws us closer to

  256. a loving Father. Prayer is the thing that essentially

  257. aligns our heart with Him so that we're praying

  258. His will and His will becomes our will. So some

  259. of us think that our prayers aren't good enough

  260. because they're too short. Others think we have

  261. to use big theological words. We think if we

  262. don't sound like the old saint who's been praying

  263. for 50 years, then somehow God is less impressed

  264. with us. Sometimes the most holy prayer you can

  265. pray is just weeping, saying the name Jesus.

  266. So can I encourage you? God isn't grading your

  267. vocabulary. He's inviting your heart. One of

  268. the sweetest Prayers in all of scripture is only

  269. three words long. Lord, save me. You can write

  270. this down. I think I have it in here. Prayer

  271. isn't measured by its length. It's measured by

  272. its dependence. Jesus isn't condemning long prayers.

  273. He spent entire nights praying to the Father.

  274. He's condemning empty prayers. The difference

  275. isn't how many words you use. The difference

  276. is whether those words come from a heart that

  277. truly knows the Father. That leads us beautifully

  278. into what comes next. So if it's not about impressing

  279. God, then what is prayer? And Jesus answers by

  280. giving us a model for how to do it. Well, we

  281. talked about what is prayer, but how should we

  282. do it? So point number two is this. The do's

  283. so I have do and then a So if you if you want

  284. to take notes like that, however, you want to

  285. so if we look at Look over with me And if you

  286. look at verse 9, so Jesus said don't pray like

  287. this and then he gets to verse 9 He says but

  288. pray then like this. How does he start that?

  289. Yeah, worship, adoration, but how does he, what

  290. is the line that he uses? Our Father in heaven.

  291. So if you're taking notes, do pray to your Father.

  292. So after warning us what prayer is not, Jesus

  293. gives us the model. Notice he doesn't say, pray

  294. these exact words. He's giving you a model. He's

  295. not telling you to just recite this because if

  296. you just recite this I can remember before When

  297. I was in high school before our baseball games

  298. the coach would tell us to go off and pray and

  299. The captains would always lead the prayer and

  300. the prayer that we had to recite was the Lord's

  301. Prayer and I remember how it was literally just

  302. Reciting it like you're reciting, you know something

  303. you memorized in school. It was kind of meaningless

  304. So if this is all you pray this can become the

  305. very thing he said not to do So don't recite

  306. empty words. He's giving you a model for how

  307. to pray He's not saying this has to be the way

  308. that the things that you say so He says then

  309. pray then like this. This is merely isn't a prayer

  310. to memorize. It's a pattern to imitate And so

  311. the very first words are incredible, our Father

  312. in heaven. I don't want you to skip that because

  313. it's actually very revolutionary. Jesus saying,

  314. pray then by saying our Father in heaven, the

  315. disciples would have heard that and been like,

  316. are we allowed to say that? So for us, it doesn't

  317. feel that way, but for the first audience, it

  318. was revolutionary. Because the Old Testament

  319. though it talks about God being a father Jesus

  320. invites his disciples to approach God like what?

  321. children Before when they had to approach God,

  322. how did they do it? Talked about it before right

  323. now to go through all these things and there

  324. had to be a lot of Sacrifice and Jesus is like

  325. you go because of me and what I'm going to do

  326. you'll get to approach him this way. So you don't

  327. get to approach him because you've earned some

  328. sort of privilege and not because you're naturally

  329. God's children but because Jesus the eternal

  330. son brought you into the family. So we don't

  331. pray to a distant deity, we don't pray to an

  332. impersonal force, and we don't pray hoping someone

  333. is listening. When we pray, we pray to our father.

  334. And this is why I love this, okay? So, my own

  335. kids, okay, they know how to approach me when

  336. they want something. My daughter is the best

  337. at it. When Aria's gonna ask me for something

  338. that she feels like I'm going to say no to, she

  339. doesn't say, dad. She goes, daddy, right? The

  340. dads in the room that have daughters know what

  341. I'm talking about. There's just there's there's

  342. a different way right and and She always will

  343. approach me like that with one question and it

  344. goes something like this daddy Will you take

  345. me to get ice cream Now you may be like what's

  346. the big deal about that my daughter's lactose

  347. intolerant Okay, so She really wants ice cream

  348. But the all of us including her very much so

  349. are gonna suffer later and so It's funny because

  350. there's times I say no and there's times that

  351. I say yes But does that keep her from ever coming

  352. back with the same question? Nope So I know that

  353. if I say yes She's going to enjoy ice cream for

  354. about 15 minutes and she's going to regret every

  355. bite of it later and sometimes like I said I

  356. say yes sometimes I say no, but I don't say no

  357. because I don't love her. I say no sometimes

  358. because I do. And here's what I love most about

  359. this. Whether I say yes or I say no never keeps

  360. her coming back tomorrow. She doesn't think well

  361. my dad said no yesterday so I guess he doesn't

  362. love me anymore. I mean she will say that to

  363. me but she'll come back tomorrow. But she knows

  364. she's my daughter and she knows that I love her.

  365. And so she keeps coming, coming back. And church,

  366. that's how Jesus teaches us to pray. As children

  367. who know they are loved by a father, so go to

  368. him. But don't miss the next words. That's important

  369. too. As Gene has pointed out, this is worship.

  370. And so he says, hallowed be your name. So Jesus

  371. holds two truths together that we often pull

  372. apart God is our father and God is holy Why does

  373. that matter because how you approach him matters

  374. We can approach him as my daughter does with

  375. all confidence Being a child But we do not approach

  376. him casually You don't get the chance to just

  377. act like he isn't holy and act like he is not

  378. the creator And so I I have this you can write

  379. this down familiarity should never erase our

  380. reverence Familiarity should never erase our

  381. reverence There is such a thing as fear of the

  382. Lord not terror that makes us run from him But

  383. in awe that makes us fall before him Just ask

  384. Isaiah and John the Revelator. Isaiah, when he

  385. saw the Lord lifted up, he said, woe is me. And

  386. he was basically like, I'm dead. John the Revelator

  387. sees Jesus in his glorified state and he falls

  388. at his feet though as he was dead. And so this

  389. is the God that we're praying to. He is infinitely

  390. holy, infinitely glorious, infinitely majestic,

  391. and yet because of Christ, he tells us to call

  392. him Father. Do you see why that's revolutionary

  393. to the disciples? So think about that for just

  394. a moment. The God whom angels cover their faces,

  395. the God who spoke galaxies into existence, the

  396. God whose holiness caused Isaiah to tremble,

  397. invites you and he invites me to come to him

  398. as a child. And so you can write this down. Prayer

  399. begins with both awe and affection, with reverence

  400. and relationship, and with holy fear and childlike

  401. joy. And that's the kind of Father Jesus invites

  402. us to know. Next subpoint, subpoint B, do. pray

  403. the kingdom so Jesus goes on and he says your

  404. kingdom come your will be done on earth as it

  405. is in heaven and this is one of those verses

  406. that's easy to say but incredibly difficult to

  407. live so what does it mean for your kingdom to

  408. come you ever thought about that yep live it

  409. every day so You guys know that we are in the

  410. both now and the not yet, right? So we live in

  411. this tension of the kingdom of God now and the

  412. kingdom of God that is yet to come. And that's

  413. what your kingdom come here will be done. And

  414. so the already, theologians call it the already

  415. but not yet. So we're praying with both the present

  416. and the future in mind. Jesus had... has already

  417. inaugurated his kingdom through his life, death

  418. and resurrection and the ascension. He is already

  419. the king, but his kingdom has not yet been fully

  420. realized, because sins still exist, death still

  421. exists, cancer still exists, war still exists,

  422. we still battle temptation. So when we pray,

  423. your kingdom come, we're crying out, Lord, finish

  424. what you started. And so we're longing for the

  425. day when Christ returns and evil is defeated

  426. once and for all and every tear is wiped away

  427. and heaven and earth are made new. We're praying

  428. for the day when his glory fills the earth, but

  429. that prayer also changes how we live today. God's

  430. kingdom is advancing right now as the gospel

  431. is preached. Lives are being transformed and

  432. people bow their knee to King Jesus. And so Paul

  433. says that we are Christ's ambassadors. That means

  434. we don't build the kingdom by our own power Jesus

  435. builds his kingdom But he graciously allows us

  436. to participate in what he's doing every time

  437. you share the gospel Every time you forgive someone

  438. every time you serve your neighbor every time

  439. darkness loses ground because Christ changes

  440. the heart the kingdom is breaking into this broken

  441. world and Jesus says your will be done and This

  442. is where prayer gets uncomfortable Because it's

  443. one thing to ask God to accomplish his will and

  444. it's another thing to surrender ours and notice

  445. Jesus doesn't just pray my kingdom come my will

  446. be done instead every prayer begins with surrender

  447. That doesn't mean it's wrong to dream or it's

  448. sinful to make plans. It's actually biblical

  449. to do those things It's biblical to make plans

  450. But Christian prayer always lays those plans

  451. at Jesus's feet and It's saying Lord. Here's

  452. what I desire, but I want your desire to become

  453. my desires Here's what I'd like my here's how

  454. I'd like my life to go But I trust that your

  455. path is better than mine one pastor said it this

  456. way. You can write this down right here Prayer

  457. is not getting God to agree with my agenda. It's

  458. aligning my heart with his So that's why I was

  459. saying when we talk about prayer it is us Learning

  460. who he is what his will is and aligning our hearts

  461. with his will so that his will becomes our will

  462. So if you think about Jesus himself in the garden

  463. of Gethsemane on The night the cross on the night

  464. before the cross he prayed father if it is possible.

  465. What does he say? Please let this cut pass for

  466. me And then he says something very real Jesus

  467. has a very real human desire He didn't pretend

  468. otherwise that he wasn't but he immediately follows

  469. it with what nevertheless not my but Yep If the

  470. perfect son prayed that way how much more should

  471. we Every time we pray your kingdom come your

  472. will be done. We're declaring something beautiful

  473. King Jesus You're a better king than I would

  474. ever be. And that's the prayer that the father

  475. delights in. See. Do pray for daily bread. Jesus

  476. then says, give us this day our daily bread at

  477. first glance. This seems pretty straightforward.

  478. We're asking God to provide what we need. But

  479. there's actually a lot really packed into the

  480. simple requests. So I'm going to break that down

  481. quickly. For the disciples, they are understanding

  482. the daily bread comment. It's pointing them back

  483. to the Exodus where we know that God provided

  484. for them manna every morning, right? Did he provide

  485. manna for them for the week? Nope. Did he provide

  486. manna for them for the month? The year? Nope.

  487. How many, what was the, how much did he provide

  488. for? For the day. So he gives you just enough

  489. for the day. And so God was teaching his people

  490. something. I can be trusted one day at a time.

  491. Can God be trusted with all of your life? Yes,

  492. but he's saying this is a day -to -day thing.

  493. You and I are walking this out and trust day

  494. -to -day. And so I tell you guys all the time,

  495. Christianity is a blind faith leaping off a building.

  496. It's small steps of trust towards him every day.

  497. And that's still what he's teaching us today.

  498. When we pray for our daily bread, it's a reminder

  499. where our bread is buttered. And yes, that pun

  500. is absolutely intended. So everything we have

  501. ultimately comes from God. Now, some of you guys

  502. might be thinking, Pastor Logan, my job provides

  503. my food, my farm, my ranch, my business. These

  504. things provide my food. Yes. But those are the

  505. ordinary means that God uses to provide. So I

  506. would ask you this if you if your heart is ah

  507. my job provides that yada yada yada this these

  508. would be my next Questions to you who gives the

  509. rain Who makes the seed grow Who makes your heart

  510. to keep beating so you can get up and go to work

  511. Who gives you strength to work another day who

  512. sends customers to buy your cattle your hay your

  513. corn your soybeans Who gave you the mind to run

  514. a business? And some of you are like, I don't

  515. have a mind to run the business. That's why I

  516. have somebody else do it, right? Who provided

  517. a community that needed teachers, nurses, mechanics,

  518. truck drivers, welders, bankers, and every other

  519. vocation that is represented in this town? God.

  520. Bread delivery men. Glad you're here, man. Glad

  521. you guys are here. God did all of it. Now someone

  522. is thinking in their mind Yeah, but I I do my

  523. own hunting Okay Praise God for that Praise God

  524. that God blesses you with your own meat. What

  525. are you talking about pastor? Well first off

  526. last I checked you didn't create the deer Last

  527. I checked you're not the one that sustains the

  528. deer I put out a corn feeder Who ordered his

  529. creation to walk and wander right in front of

  530. your tree stand just at the right moment? The

  531. Lord. Ephesians says this, every good gift comes

  532. from above. And so the point is we don't stop

  533. working. The Bible calls us to work diligently,

  534. farm the field, run the business, go to work,

  535. study for the test, provide for your family,

  536. but never confuse the means with the provider

  537. the means may change but the provider never does

  538. amen and so i think when reason why jesus says

  539. daily bread and not weekly bread not yearly bread

  540. but daily bread because every day god invites

  541. us to trust him again and again and again and

  542. that's actually freeing we worry we stress I

  543. don't have enough for retirement. I don't have

  544. much of a savings account. I don't know if we're

  545. going to be able to pay the mortgage next week.

  546. We stress these things and God is saying stop.

  547. We're not worried about tomorrow. We're talking

  548. about today. So do you have food to eat? Yes,

  549. Lord. Do you have clothes on your back? Yes,

  550. Lord. Do you have a roof over your head? Yes,

  551. Lord. Great. So I'd say. Pretty blessed. And

  552. so I would say it's very free. Well, and by the

  553. way, I don't live this every day. I mean, just

  554. yesterday, Tracy and I are on a walk and we're

  555. stressing about different things. And I had I

  556. kid you not, I came back and I read this part

  557. to Tracy as a reminder for both of us. And so.

  558. I said to her, I go, yeah, you know, I wrote

  559. in there that it's actually freeing to know that

  560. we only have, we just, we take it day to day

  561. and we trust the Lord. Why do I think it's freeing?

  562. Because prayer reminds me that I'm not in control

  563. anyway. And so we can like to think we are in

  564. control, but fact of the matter is we're not.

  565. We can make plans, we work hard, we save, we

  566. invest, we do these things that are wisdom. All

  567. of those things are good, but at the end of the

  568. day every breath we take is sustained by the

  569. grace of God And so that's not frightening that's

  570. freeing because the burden of sustaining the

  571. universe has never rested on your shoulders It

  572. rests on his So church I would ask you to work

  573. faithfully as I know you do As I said plow the

  574. field run the business raise your children love

  575. your neighbor be diligent with what God has entrusted

  576. to you and then guess what sleep well Because

  577. your father never does He watches over his children

  578. and he knows exactly what we need before we even

  579. ask it and last one pray do pray for daily grace

  580. Do pray for daily grace. So Jesus for Jesus continues

  581. with forgive us our debts as we also forgive

  582. our debtors and lead us not into temptation,

  583. but deliver us from evil. I want you to notice

  584. something. Just as we need daily bread, we need

  585. daily grace. Every single day, every day, we

  586. need God's mercy. We need his forgiveness. We

  587. need his strength. and none of us ever graduates

  588. from his grace. The longer you walk with Christ,

  589. the more aware you become of just how desperately

  590. you need him. I tell people all the time, well,

  591. at the last men's ministry thing, there was a

  592. question that was asked before I got there, and

  593. as I walked in late, Derek goes, well, now the

  594. expert's here, so you can ask the expert. And

  595. I'm like, man. The more education I've got on

  596. the Bible, the more I realize I don't know anything.

  597. I mean, it's true. When I started working on

  598. a PhD, there were things that I'm like learning

  599. and I'm like, I'm an idiot. Like I thought I

  600. knew the Bible. I do not know the Bible. And

  601. so that's a beautiful thing. Why? Because you

  602. never outgrow this. You never outgrow it. God

  603. is always showing you new things and new attributes

  604. of who he is and what he's like, and it's like

  605. you can't outgrow that stuff. And if you get

  606. to a place where you think you've outgrown it,

  607. I would say, brother, sister, you're not a Christian.

  608. You have created yourself to be a God. So Jesus

  609. teaches us to pray, forgive us our debts. Now

  610. let's be clear, as Christians, we're not asking

  611. God to save us over and over again, okay? We're

  612. children who have already been adopted through

  613. Christ. If you have said yes to Jesus and you

  614. have made the decision to follow him, you are

  615. not getting re -saved over and over again. You're

  616. already adopted into the family. But just as

  617. children regularly need their father's forgiveness

  618. when they've disobeyed, we regularly come before

  619. him the Heavenly Father confessing our sins,

  620. not because we're trying to earn His love, but

  621. because we already have it. And then Jesus adds

  622. something that's incredibly challenging. He says,

  623. we also have forgiven our debtors. Why? Because

  624. forgiven people forgive. I said last week that

  625. not all forgiveness is equal. There's some forgiveness

  626. that it just hurts. Somebody has to pay the debt.

  627. and thanks be to Jesus that he paid the greatest.

  628. And so we don't forgive others in order to earn

  629. forgiveness. We forgive because we've experienced

  630. God's forgiveness. When you realize the debt

  631. Christ canceled at the cross, it becomes much

  632. harder to keep a record of someone's debt against

  633. you. Grace received becomes grace extended. Then

  634. Jesus says something that often confuses people.

  635. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from

  636. evil. I did a podcast on this but for those that

  637. didn't listen to it is okay because I'm going

  638. to quickly go through what that means because

  639. has that ever confused anybody because James

  640. is very clear or he's like God doesn't tempt

  641. us but then Jesus says lead us not into temptation

  642. does that ever confuse anyone all right we're

  643. all Bible scholars got it get it okay and so

  644. some people can read that and be like well hold

  645. on Doesn't the Bible say that God doesn't tempt

  646. anyone? And it does. As I said, James is very

  647. clear about that. But temptation comes from our

  648. own sinful desires. So what is Jesus teaching

  649. us to pray then? He's teaching us to pray from

  650. a place of humility. In other words, Father,

  651. don't leave me to myself. Don't let me wander

  652. into something that will overwhelm me. Keep me

  653. close, strengthen me, deliver me. God is never

  654. the author of temptation, but he is absolutely

  655. our protector in the midst of temptation. And

  656. Paul tells us that whenever temptation comes,

  657. God faithfully provides a way of escape. And

  658. so every time we pray this prayer, we're admitting

  659. something. I'm weak. I need grace. I cannot fight

  660. this on my own. Church, that isn't weakness,

  661. it's wisdom to know this. The Christian life

  662. isn't about living a life of self -confidence.

  663. It's lived by dependence upon Christ. And so

  664. every morning we ask for bread, every morning

  665. we ask for grace, and every morning we ask our

  666. Father to hold us close. And every morning we

  667. trust that His grace is sufficient for whatever

  668. that day may bring. And so in closing, here's

  669. this. So we spent this last 40 minutes talking

  670. about prayer. So now I want to invite us to pray.

  671. Not because it's the end of the service, but

  672. because I think it's just smart. If I'm going

  673. to teach on something, I want to give you the

  674. opportunity to practically walk this out. So

  675. Jesus didn't give us this passage so we know

  676. more about prayer. He gave it so we'd actually

  677. pray. And so I want to lead you guys through

  678. this as Jesus taught. I don't want you to worry

  679. about sounding spiritual and I don't want you

  680. to worry about like if other people are listening

  681. to you around, like this is just you and the

  682. Lord. So here's what I'm gonna do. If you want

  683. to come up front, you can do that. If you want

  684. to stay in your seat, you can do that. If you

  685. want to pray with someone next to you, you can

  686. do that. whatever you'd like to do if you feel

  687. like you need to kneel stay seated whatever you

  688. want to do like this is your time