Sermon
The Do's and Don'ts of Prayer - Praying The Way Jesus Taught
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Oh, good morning. Good to see you guys. We're
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going to take a slight break. I wanted to Because
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I knew we're gonna be missing a lot of people
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today. I was like, you know what? Let's take
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a break from the book of Mark and Let's just
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do a one -off sermon. So as I was praying I was
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like, what am I? What Lord do you want me to
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preach on and I just kept coming back to the
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words of Peter In my heart just kept going Lord
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teach us to pray and so That's what we're gonna
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talk about this morning if you would turn with
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me to Matthew chapter 6 We're going to start
Matthew 6 chapter mention
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in verse seven, but I've got a little riddle
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for you. Okay, a little mind bender as you're
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turning there. How do you get a room full of
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people suddenly to be quiet and wish they were
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invisible? Okay. Yeah, that was good. Anybody
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else? Ask for a volunteer to do what? We'll go
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with ask anyone to pray and they're like Like
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record scratch moment and then everyone's like
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nobody wants to make eye contact with the pastor
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That's actually by kids like if you've eaten
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lunchless after after church or you've ever eaten
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lunch with us or been with us Uh, if we have
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people over, I always ask my kids to pray over
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the meal. Uh, so that way it forces them to pray
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in front of other people. And they always do
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the same thing. They're like, and Michael will
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do all he can to hide, like when he knows it's
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coming. And so, um, I'm guessing that there's
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quite a few people here that, um, you would rather
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spot clean a porta potty at a music festival.
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than have to pray in public. I am not one of
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those people. It's I've never been afraid to
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pray, but I will say I do get very conscious
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like when I'm praying. And it's one of those
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things where in when I even when I'm praying
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here every every Sunday or praying or like I
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become very aware of my words, which is good.
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And at the same time. I forget that I'm praying,
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if that makes sense. It's like my brain is doing
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two things at one time. And so I get why people
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get nervous. But I want to talk this morning
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about the do's and don'ts of prayer, which the
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title of my sermon is pray like this, the do's
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and don'ts of prayer, because Jesus gives us
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how to pray. And so the big idea, if you're taking
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notes, is prayer is simply the children of God
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talking to their father. And so. Prayer is one
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of the simplest acts of the Christian life, and
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yet it can feel like one of the most mysterious.
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It is both instinctive and learned. It's natural
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and it's supernatural, and every one of us knows
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that we ought to pray, yet many of us wonder
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if we're ever doing it right. And so before we
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dive in, let me ask you a simple question. What
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is prayer? If you were asked to define it, if
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you were asked, if somebody asked you what is
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prayer, what would you say? Okay, that's good.
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Worship to God. Talking with him, good. Anybody
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else? What's that? Yeah, yeah, that's good too.
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Asking, yep. So here's some definitions. So theologian
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Wayne Grudem in his book, Systematic Theology,
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he defines prayer like this. personal communication
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with God, pretty straightforward, right? John
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Frame, who also has another systematic book that
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we have to read in seminary, his definition is
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a genuine relational conversation with our Creator
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rather than mere meditation or self -improvement.
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And then the Puritans, who practice prayer literally
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daily, they were very good at disciplining themselves
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to pray. The Puritans defined prayer as a holy
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intimate conversation between a loving soul and
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God. If I were going to define it myself, and
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if you want to write this down you definitely
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can, I would define it from what I see in scripture
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and just my personal experience of walking with
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Jesus. I define it as Prayer is an ongoing conversation
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with the triune God that begins as he speaks
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to us through his word and continues as we respond
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to him in faith. If you just want the simple
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definition or the simple way of saying it, give
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it to me straight, Pastor Logan, in a very simple,
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redneck way. It's just me talking to my dad.
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That's what prayer is. So here's the next question,
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though. Is all prayer the same? Is it all created
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equal? No, it's not. We have people with many
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different religions, right? And some of those
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religions, they either repeat memorized rituals.
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Catholics do this a lot. Some chant. Some enter
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trances. Some believe saying enough words or
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praying enough times earns favor with God. That
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would be like Islam. But Jesus says there's a
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difference in how you should approach God and
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how you should pray. Not every prayer honors
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God. Not every prayer is the kind of prayer our
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father desires. You can read that in Isaiah and
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in Jeremiah where God tells the children of Israel
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that he does not hear their prayers and that
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their offerings reek. And so that brings up the
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question then, all right, so how are we supposed
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to pray? And so that's what we're going to unpack.
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We're going to unpack the do's and don'ts. And
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so my prayer for you this morning is that by
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the end of our time together, you'll see prayer
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less as obligation and more as an open invitation.
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And through Christ, you have access to your heavenly
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father every moment of every day. So let's go
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ahead and let's read Matthew chapter six, starting
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in verse five. And when you pray, you must not
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be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand
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and pray in the synagogues and at the street
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corners that they may be, what does that say?
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Seen by others. And truly I say to you, they
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have received their reward. But when you pray,
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go into your room and shut the door and pray
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to your father who is in secret. And your father
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who sees in secret will reward you. And when
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you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the
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Gentiles do. For they think that they will be
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heard for their for their many words Do not be
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like them for your father knows what you need
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before you ask him pray then like this Our father
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in heaven Hallowed be your name your kingdom
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come your will be done on earth as it is in heaven
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Give us this day our daily bread and forgive
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us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors
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and lead us not into temptation, but deliver
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us from evil. For if you forgive others, their
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trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive
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you. But if you do not forgive others, their
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trespasses, neither will your father forgive
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your trespasses. So if you are taking notes,
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the first note is this. Don't pray to impress
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with your deeds. don't pray to impress with your
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deeds. Now, Pastor Logan, what are you talking
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about? Well, let's back up for just a moment.
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If you go to the very first verse in chapter
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six, Jesus says, beware of practicing your righteousness
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before other people in order to be seen by them,
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for then you will have your reward from your
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Father who is in heaven. So this is where we
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get the, don't let the right hand know what the
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left hand is doing or left hand or the right
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hand is doing. Meaning we don't have to Trump
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it that we're giving money or helping someone
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out The Lord knows that you're doing this He
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should be he's the one laying it on your heart
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to give so we don't have to make this grandiose
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gesture and let Everybody know that look how
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look how awesome we are. Look how giving we are
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nowadays It seems like the only way people give
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to the homeless or help someone out is if they
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are videoing it and putting it on social media
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There's one spoof video that I saw that was really
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funny where this guy was standing behind a Dollar
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General acting like a homeless person and he
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said to a guy getting out, hey man, you got $20.
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And he's like, no man, I don't have $20. And
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he's like, come on man, you gotta have $20. About
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to go into Dollar General, I know you got money.
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As if everyone that goes into Dollar General
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has money. And so then he goes, man, I don't
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have no $20. And then he's like, come on man,
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I know you got, he's like, all right, fine, I
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got $20. But. If I'm going to give you that $20,
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you got to let me record it. And I got you got
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to let me put it on Facebook and the homeless
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guy says back to him, he goes, I'll let you talk
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to my agent about that because I don't do it
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for free. So it was pretty funny. So anyway.
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So Jesus begins with the don'ts of prayer. and
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the whole thing comes down to let's don't make
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this about us and our righteousness because prayer
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and giving and all the things it should point
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to yeah and so jesus says he begins with the
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warning when you pray you must not be like the
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hypocrites and notice he doesn't say if you pray
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he assumes his followers already pray yes And
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so the question isn't whether you pray, the question
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is why you pray. And so now let's clear up something
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that Jesus is not saying. It was, were we sinning
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standing up here and praying in public? Are we
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going against what God, what Jesus is saying
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here? No, no, it is not sinful. It's not forbidden
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to pray in public. If that were the case, then
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Jesus himself would have disobeyed his own command
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because he prayed publicly all the time. The
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apostles prayed publicly, and the early church
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prayed publicly. And so we pray publicly every
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day. Every Sunday we pray. We have prayer and
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praise time, but people pray before city council
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meetings, in government, on battlefields, in
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hospitals, at sporting events, and around dinner
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tables. And so you can write this down. Public
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prayer isn't the problem. public performance
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is. And so Jesus says the Pharisees love standing
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in the synagogue and on the street corners to
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pray. Why? Why do they like doing this? What
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does it say? Yeah, to be seen. Why do they want
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to be seen? Because they wanted them to know
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that they were righteous, right? They're holy
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people. And so Jesus says, That's their reward
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then their reward is ultimately being seen So
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they weren't speaking to God they were performing
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for people and That's why this passage follows
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immediately after Jesus says beware of practicing
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your righteousness before people in order to
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be seen by them So you can write this down the
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issue isn't location. It's motivation You can
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pray in a packed sanctuary with a humble heart
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And you can pray alone in your bedroom while
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secretly imagining how spiritual everyone would
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think you are if they could hear you. Do you
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ever do that sometimes? It's okay, you can be
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honest. You ever in your prayer closet and you
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start using some theological words you heard
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on a Sunday morning and you're like, man, if
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someone could hear me right now, they think I'm
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such a holy person. I'm just asking, not because
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I do that, but. But so God doesn't simply hear
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our words. He sees our motives. So if there's
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something weighing on your heart, God says, go
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into your room, shut the door and talk to your
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dad. Invite others to pray with you. Ask your
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church family to pray. There's nothing wrong
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with any of that, but be careful that your desire
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is to be known as a spiritual person. My next
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little sub point is. Don't pray to impress with
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your words. Don't pray to impress with your words.
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So then Jesus gives another warning, and when
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you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the
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Gentiles do. Notice that he says, he talks about
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what the Pharisees do, and then he says what
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the Gentiles do. Why does he say that the Gentiles
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use empty phrases? What do you think that that
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means? Yeah, like they're pagan so they're used
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to all of this crazy nonsense that comes out
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of their words or come out of their mouth so
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the Pharisees wanted to impress people but the
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Gentiles wanted to impress God because their
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pagan background told them this is what God needs
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So they believed if they repeated enough words
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if they prayed long enough if they found just
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the right formula Then maybe the gods would finally
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listen And Jesus says, don't pray like that.
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Why? Why don't you pray like that? Because your
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father isn't reluctant to hear. He wants to hear
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from you. Your father knows what you need before
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you ask him. And now that raises the question,
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if God already knows what I need, then why pray
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at all? Write this down, because I get this question
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a lot. Because prayer isn't about informing God.
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It's about depending on God. Prayer doesn't update
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an all -knowing Father. It draws us closer to
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a loving Father. Prayer is the thing that essentially
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aligns our heart with Him so that we're praying
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His will and His will becomes our will. So some
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of us think that our prayers aren't good enough
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because they're too short. Others think we have
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to use big theological words. We think if we
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don't sound like the old saint who's been praying
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for 50 years, then somehow God is less impressed
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with us. Sometimes the most holy prayer you can
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pray is just weeping, saying the name Jesus.
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So can I encourage you? God isn't grading your
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vocabulary. He's inviting your heart. One of
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the sweetest Prayers in all of scripture is only
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three words long. Lord, save me. You can write
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this down. I think I have it in here. Prayer
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isn't measured by its length. It's measured by
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its dependence. Jesus isn't condemning long prayers.
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He spent entire nights praying to the Father.
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He's condemning empty prayers. The difference
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isn't how many words you use. The difference
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is whether those words come from a heart that
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truly knows the Father. That leads us beautifully
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into what comes next. So if it's not about impressing
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God, then what is prayer? And Jesus answers by
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giving us a model for how to do it. Well, we
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talked about what is prayer, but how should we
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do it? So point number two is this. The do's
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so I have do and then a So if you if you want
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to take notes like that, however, you want to
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so if we look at Look over with me And if you
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look at verse 9, so Jesus said don't pray like
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this and then he gets to verse 9 He says but
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pray then like this. How does he start that?
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Yeah, worship, adoration, but how does he, what
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is the line that he uses? Our Father in heaven.
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So if you're taking notes, do pray to your Father.
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So after warning us what prayer is not, Jesus
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gives us the model. Notice he doesn't say, pray
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these exact words. He's giving you a model. He's
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not telling you to just recite this because if
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you just recite this I can remember before When
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I was in high school before our baseball games
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the coach would tell us to go off and pray and
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The captains would always lead the prayer and
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the prayer that we had to recite was the Lord's
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Prayer and I remember how it was literally just
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Reciting it like you're reciting, you know something
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you memorized in school. It was kind of meaningless
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So if this is all you pray this can become the
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very thing he said not to do So don't recite
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empty words. He's giving you a model for how
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to pray He's not saying this has to be the way
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that the things that you say so He says then
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pray then like this. This is merely isn't a prayer
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to memorize. It's a pattern to imitate And so
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the very first words are incredible, our Father
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in heaven. I don't want you to skip that because
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it's actually very revolutionary. Jesus saying,
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pray then by saying our Father in heaven, the
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disciples would have heard that and been like,
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are we allowed to say that? So for us, it doesn't
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feel that way, but for the first audience, it
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was revolutionary. Because the Old Testament
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though it talks about God being a father Jesus
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invites his disciples to approach God like what?
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children Before when they had to approach God,
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how did they do it? Talked about it before right
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now to go through all these things and there
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had to be a lot of Sacrifice and Jesus is like
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you go because of me and what I'm going to do
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you'll get to approach him this way. So you don't
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get to approach him because you've earned some
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sort of privilege and not because you're naturally
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God's children but because Jesus the eternal
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son brought you into the family. So we don't
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pray to a distant deity, we don't pray to an
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impersonal force, and we don't pray hoping someone
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is listening. When we pray, we pray to our father.
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And this is why I love this, okay? So, my own
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kids, okay, they know how to approach me when
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they want something. My daughter is the best
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at it. When Aria's gonna ask me for something
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that she feels like I'm going to say no to, she
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doesn't say, dad. She goes, daddy, right? The
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dads in the room that have daughters know what
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I'm talking about. There's just there's there's
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a different way right and and She always will
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approach me like that with one question and it
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goes something like this daddy Will you take
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me to get ice cream Now you may be like what's
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the big deal about that my daughter's lactose
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intolerant Okay, so She really wants ice cream
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But the all of us including her very much so
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are gonna suffer later and so It's funny because
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there's times I say no and there's times that
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I say yes But does that keep her from ever coming
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back with the same question? Nope So I know that
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if I say yes She's going to enjoy ice cream for
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about 15 minutes and she's going to regret every
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bite of it later and sometimes like I said I
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say yes sometimes I say no, but I don't say no
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because I don't love her. I say no sometimes
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because I do. And here's what I love most about
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this. Whether I say yes or I say no never keeps
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her coming back tomorrow. She doesn't think well
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my dad said no yesterday so I guess he doesn't
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love me anymore. I mean she will say that to
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me but she'll come back tomorrow. But she knows
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she's my daughter and she knows that I love her.
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And so she keeps coming, coming back. And church,
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that's how Jesus teaches us to pray. As children
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who know they are loved by a father, so go to
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him. But don't miss the next words. That's important
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too. As Gene has pointed out, this is worship.
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And so he says, hallowed be your name. So Jesus
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holds two truths together that we often pull
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apart God is our father and God is holy Why does
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that matter because how you approach him matters
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We can approach him as my daughter does with
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all confidence Being a child But we do not approach
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him casually You don't get the chance to just
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act like he isn't holy and act like he is not
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the creator And so I I have this you can write
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this down familiarity should never erase our
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reverence Familiarity should never erase our
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reverence There is such a thing as fear of the
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Lord not terror that makes us run from him But
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in awe that makes us fall before him Just ask
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Isaiah and John the Revelator. Isaiah, when he
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saw the Lord lifted up, he said, woe is me. And
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he was basically like, I'm dead. John the Revelator
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sees Jesus in his glorified state and he falls
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at his feet though as he was dead. And so this
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is the God that we're praying to. He is infinitely
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holy, infinitely glorious, infinitely majestic,
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and yet because of Christ, he tells us to call
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him Father. Do you see why that's revolutionary
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to the disciples? So think about that for just
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a moment. The God whom angels cover their faces,
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the God who spoke galaxies into existence, the
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God whose holiness caused Isaiah to tremble,
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invites you and he invites me to come to him
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as a child. And so you can write this down. Prayer
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begins with both awe and affection, with reverence
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and relationship, and with holy fear and childlike
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joy. And that's the kind of Father Jesus invites
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us to know. Next subpoint, subpoint B, do. pray
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the kingdom so Jesus goes on and he says your
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kingdom come your will be done on earth as it
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is in heaven and this is one of those verses
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that's easy to say but incredibly difficult to
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live so what does it mean for your kingdom to
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come you ever thought about that yep live it
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every day so You guys know that we are in the
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both now and the not yet, right? So we live in
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this tension of the kingdom of God now and the
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kingdom of God that is yet to come. And that's
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what your kingdom come here will be done. And
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so the already, theologians call it the already
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but not yet. So we're praying with both the present
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and the future in mind. Jesus had... has already
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inaugurated his kingdom through his life, death
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and resurrection and the ascension. He is already
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the king, but his kingdom has not yet been fully
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realized, because sins still exist, death still
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exists, cancer still exists, war still exists,
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we still battle temptation. So when we pray,
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your kingdom come, we're crying out, Lord, finish
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what you started. And so we're longing for the
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day when Christ returns and evil is defeated
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once and for all and every tear is wiped away
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and heaven and earth are made new. We're praying
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for the day when his glory fills the earth, but
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that prayer also changes how we live today. God's
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kingdom is advancing right now as the gospel
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is preached. Lives are being transformed and
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people bow their knee to King Jesus. And so Paul
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says that we are Christ's ambassadors. That means
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we don't build the kingdom by our own power Jesus
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builds his kingdom But he graciously allows us
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to participate in what he's doing every time
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you share the gospel Every time you forgive someone
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every time you serve your neighbor every time
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darkness loses ground because Christ changes
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the heart the kingdom is breaking into this broken
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world and Jesus says your will be done and This
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is where prayer gets uncomfortable Because it's
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one thing to ask God to accomplish his will and
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it's another thing to surrender ours and notice
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Jesus doesn't just pray my kingdom come my will
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be done instead every prayer begins with surrender
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That doesn't mean it's wrong to dream or it's
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sinful to make plans. It's actually biblical
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to do those things It's biblical to make plans
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But Christian prayer always lays those plans
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at Jesus's feet and It's saying Lord. Here's
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what I desire, but I want your desire to become
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my desires Here's what I'd like my here's how
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I'd like my life to go But I trust that your
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path is better than mine one pastor said it this
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way. You can write this down right here Prayer
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is not getting God to agree with my agenda. It's
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aligning my heart with his So that's why I was
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saying when we talk about prayer it is us Learning
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who he is what his will is and aligning our hearts
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with his will so that his will becomes our will
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So if you think about Jesus himself in the garden
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of Gethsemane on The night the cross on the night
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before the cross he prayed father if it is possible.
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What does he say? Please let this cut pass for
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me And then he says something very real Jesus
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has a very real human desire He didn't pretend
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otherwise that he wasn't but he immediately follows
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it with what nevertheless not my but Yep If the
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perfect son prayed that way how much more should
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we Every time we pray your kingdom come your
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will be done. We're declaring something beautiful
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King Jesus You're a better king than I would
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ever be. And that's the prayer that the father
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delights in. See. Do pray for daily bread. Jesus
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then says, give us this day our daily bread at
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first glance. This seems pretty straightforward.
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We're asking God to provide what we need. But
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there's actually a lot really packed into the
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simple requests. So I'm going to break that down
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quickly. For the disciples, they are understanding
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the daily bread comment. It's pointing them back
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to the Exodus where we know that God provided
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for them manna every morning, right? Did he provide
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manna for them for the week? Nope. Did he provide
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manna for them for the month? The year? Nope.
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How many, what was the, how much did he provide
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for? For the day. So he gives you just enough
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for the day. And so God was teaching his people
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something. I can be trusted one day at a time.
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Can God be trusted with all of your life? Yes,
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but he's saying this is a day -to -day thing.
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You and I are walking this out and trust day
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-to -day. And so I tell you guys all the time,
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Christianity is a blind faith leaping off a building.
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It's small steps of trust towards him every day.
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And that's still what he's teaching us today.
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When we pray for our daily bread, it's a reminder
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where our bread is buttered. And yes, that pun
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is absolutely intended. So everything we have
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ultimately comes from God. Now, some of you guys
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might be thinking, Pastor Logan, my job provides
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my food, my farm, my ranch, my business. These
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things provide my food. Yes. But those are the
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ordinary means that God uses to provide. So I
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would ask you this if you if your heart is ah
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my job provides that yada yada yada this these
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would be my next Questions to you who gives the
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rain Who makes the seed grow Who makes your heart
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to keep beating so you can get up and go to work
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Who gives you strength to work another day who
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sends customers to buy your cattle your hay your
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corn your soybeans Who gave you the mind to run
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a business? And some of you are like, I don't
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have a mind to run the business. That's why I
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have somebody else do it, right? Who provided
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a community that needed teachers, nurses, mechanics,
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truck drivers, welders, bankers, and every other
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vocation that is represented in this town? God.
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Bread delivery men. Glad you're here, man. Glad
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you guys are here. God did all of it. Now someone
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is thinking in their mind Yeah, but I I do my
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own hunting Okay Praise God for that Praise God
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that God blesses you with your own meat. What
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are you talking about pastor? Well first off
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last I checked you didn't create the deer Last
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I checked you're not the one that sustains the
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deer I put out a corn feeder Who ordered his
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creation to walk and wander right in front of
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your tree stand just at the right moment? The
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Lord. Ephesians says this, every good gift comes
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from above. And so the point is we don't stop
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working. The Bible calls us to work diligently,
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farm the field, run the business, go to work,
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study for the test, provide for your family,
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but never confuse the means with the provider
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the means may change but the provider never does
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amen and so i think when reason why jesus says
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daily bread and not weekly bread not yearly bread
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but daily bread because every day god invites
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us to trust him again and again and again and
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that's actually freeing we worry we stress I
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don't have enough for retirement. I don't have
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much of a savings account. I don't know if we're
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going to be able to pay the mortgage next week.
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We stress these things and God is saying stop.
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We're not worried about tomorrow. We're talking
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about today. So do you have food to eat? Yes,
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Lord. Do you have clothes on your back? Yes,
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Lord. Do you have a roof over your head? Yes,
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Lord. Great. So I'd say. Pretty blessed. And
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so I would say it's very free. Well, and by the
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way, I don't live this every day. I mean, just
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yesterday, Tracy and I are on a walk and we're
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stressing about different things. And I had I
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kid you not, I came back and I read this part
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to Tracy as a reminder for both of us. And so.
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I said to her, I go, yeah, you know, I wrote
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in there that it's actually freeing to know that
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we only have, we just, we take it day to day
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and we trust the Lord. Why do I think it's freeing?
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Because prayer reminds me that I'm not in control
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anyway. And so we can like to think we are in
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control, but fact of the matter is we're not.
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We can make plans, we work hard, we save, we
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invest, we do these things that are wisdom. All
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of those things are good, but at the end of the
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day every breath we take is sustained by the
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grace of God And so that's not frightening that's
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freeing because the burden of sustaining the
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universe has never rested on your shoulders It
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rests on his So church I would ask you to work
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faithfully as I know you do As I said plow the
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field run the business raise your children love
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your neighbor be diligent with what God has entrusted
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to you and then guess what sleep well Because
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your father never does He watches over his children
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and he knows exactly what we need before we even
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ask it and last one pray do pray for daily grace
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Do pray for daily grace. So Jesus for Jesus continues
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with forgive us our debts as we also forgive
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our debtors and lead us not into temptation,
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but deliver us from evil. I want you to notice
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something. Just as we need daily bread, we need
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daily grace. Every single day, every day, we
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need God's mercy. We need his forgiveness. We
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need his strength. and none of us ever graduates
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from his grace. The longer you walk with Christ,
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the more aware you become of just how desperately
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you need him. I tell people all the time, well,
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at the last men's ministry thing, there was a
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question that was asked before I got there, and
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as I walked in late, Derek goes, well, now the
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expert's here, so you can ask the expert. And
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I'm like, man. The more education I've got on
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the Bible, the more I realize I don't know anything.
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I mean, it's true. When I started working on
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a PhD, there were things that I'm like learning
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and I'm like, I'm an idiot. Like I thought I
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knew the Bible. I do not know the Bible. And
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so that's a beautiful thing. Why? Because you
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never outgrow this. You never outgrow it. God
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is always showing you new things and new attributes
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of who he is and what he's like, and it's like
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you can't outgrow that stuff. And if you get
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to a place where you think you've outgrown it,
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I would say, brother, sister, you're not a Christian.
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You have created yourself to be a God. So Jesus
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teaches us to pray, forgive us our debts. Now
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let's be clear, as Christians, we're not asking
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God to save us over and over again, okay? We're
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children who have already been adopted through
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Christ. If you have said yes to Jesus and you
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have made the decision to follow him, you are
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not getting re -saved over and over again. You're
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already adopted into the family. But just as
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children regularly need their father's forgiveness
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when they've disobeyed, we regularly come before
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him the Heavenly Father confessing our sins,
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not because we're trying to earn His love, but
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because we already have it. And then Jesus adds
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something that's incredibly challenging. He says,
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we also have forgiven our debtors. Why? Because
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forgiven people forgive. I said last week that
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not all forgiveness is equal. There's some forgiveness
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that it just hurts. Somebody has to pay the debt.
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and thanks be to Jesus that he paid the greatest.
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And so we don't forgive others in order to earn
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forgiveness. We forgive because we've experienced
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God's forgiveness. When you realize the debt
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Christ canceled at the cross, it becomes much
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harder to keep a record of someone's debt against
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you. Grace received becomes grace extended. Then
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Jesus says something that often confuses people.
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Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from
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evil. I did a podcast on this but for those that
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didn't listen to it is okay because I'm going
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to quickly go through what that means because
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has that ever confused anybody because James
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is very clear or he's like God doesn't tempt
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us but then Jesus says lead us not into temptation
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does that ever confuse anyone all right we're
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all Bible scholars got it get it okay and so
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some people can read that and be like well hold
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on Doesn't the Bible say that God doesn't tempt
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anyone? And it does. As I said, James is very
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clear about that. But temptation comes from our
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own sinful desires. So what is Jesus teaching
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us to pray then? He's teaching us to pray from
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a place of humility. In other words, Father,
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don't leave me to myself. Don't let me wander
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into something that will overwhelm me. Keep me
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close, strengthen me, deliver me. God is never
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the author of temptation, but he is absolutely
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our protector in the midst of temptation. And
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Paul tells us that whenever temptation comes,
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God faithfully provides a way of escape. And
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so every time we pray this prayer, we're admitting
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something. I'm weak. I need grace. I cannot fight
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this on my own. Church, that isn't weakness,
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it's wisdom to know this. The Christian life
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isn't about living a life of self -confidence.
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It's lived by dependence upon Christ. And so
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every morning we ask for bread, every morning
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we ask for grace, and every morning we ask our
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Father to hold us close. And every morning we
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trust that His grace is sufficient for whatever
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that day may bring. And so in closing, here's
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this. So we spent this last 40 minutes talking
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about prayer. So now I want to invite us to pray.
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Not because it's the end of the service, but
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because I think it's just smart. If I'm going
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to teach on something, I want to give you the
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opportunity to practically walk this out. So
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Jesus didn't give us this passage so we know
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more about prayer. He gave it so we'd actually
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pray. And so I want to lead you guys through
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this as Jesus taught. I don't want you to worry
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about sounding spiritual and I don't want you
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to worry about like if other people are listening
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to you around, like this is just you and the
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Lord. So here's what I'm gonna do. If you want
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to come up front, you can do that. If you want
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to stay in your seat, you can do that. If you
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want to pray with someone next to you, you can
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do that. whatever you'd like to do if you feel
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like you need to kneel stay seated whatever you
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want to do like this is your time