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And it's called the community of the spirit and it's not what you're thinking.
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Okay, so you will be formally told.
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Okay, so community of the spirit is the topic that we're going to hopefully discuss over the next few weeks.
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Guys, in Matthew 16 13, Jesus asks two questions.
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Someone was asking if we could turn up the volume on the taping a little bit because they were finding it a little difficult.
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Yeah, Matthew 16 13.
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And in Matthew 16 13, Jesus asks two questions in 13 and then in 15.
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The first question he asks is, who do people say that I am?
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That's the first question he asks.
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He's with his disciples and he says, who do people say that I am?
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And then later on in verse 15, he says to his disciples, who do you say I am?
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And guys, two important questions because this is how most of life is lived by us.
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Who do people say we are?
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And then the second question is, who does God say you are?
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Who do you say you are?
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Who do people say you are?
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Two vital questions.
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Because, Ryan, I'll bring it down in a little bit.
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Because who do people say I am?
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This matters a lot, eh?
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It's such a part of who you become.
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It's so definitive of your identity.
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Because guys, people do say distorted things about you.
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Right from when you were a child, parents in sometimes in anger,
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sometimes in a lack of understanding say things about you that are distorted.
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People can say cruel things about you.
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People can say hurtful things about you.
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People can say things that are humiliating or embarrassing.
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And what it does is it strips you of your dignity and then it begins to forge in you cynicism, suspicion, defensiveness.
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And so by the time we grow up to be 20 or 25, you're already shaped into something you are not.
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That's so sad, eh?
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As a pastor, I can do it to you.
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Where my words or my approach or my attitude towards you can cultivate in you a degree of defensiveness, cynicism, suspicion.
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And so even as you sit in church, I shape you into something that you're not.
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And over a period of time, you come to church with that defensive posture.
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I can do that to you.
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Leave alone what our spouses can do to us.
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Leave alone what we can do to our children.
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Who do people say you are plays such an important part in your identity.
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Because most things people say are distorted because they don't have the right perspective,
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are sometimes humiliating or embarrassing, sometimes hurtful.
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That's how it works, guys.
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And it so makes up your identity.
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By the time you are 14 or 15, you already think who you are based on what people have told you.
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And yet the second question is vitally important too.
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Who does God say you are?
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Who does God say you are?
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Because Graham Cook said this and I was so affected by this line.
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He says, your true identity is made up of how you think,
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your true identity is made up of how you think you are known in heaven.
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Your true identity is made up of how you think you are known in heaven and who you are on earth.
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Your true identity is made up of how you think you are known in heaven and who you are on earth.
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So much matters in terms of how I think I am known in heaven.
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What does the father say about me?
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What does the father think about me?
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How am I known in heaven?
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What does the father think about what I do presently?
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How am I known in heaven?
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Ponder on this because you will be surprised at how this never even occurs to us.
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We don't think like this.
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And yet Jesus would have been half the man he was if he didn't have an understanding of how his father thought of him in heaven.
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Because he was being bombarded from all sides.
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Illegitimate birth, father probably dead early, righteous ways that must have been annoying to the local bullies,
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rejected by the very ones that he grew up with.
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First time he picks up the Torah to read, he is almost thrown over a cliff.
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Mother and brothers think that he is crazy.
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Friends abandon.
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Twelve disciples, one betrays him.
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I can go on and on.
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You know the whole litany.
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A man will not be able to survive those things if he does not know how he is thought of in heaven and who he is on earth.
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Develop this regardless of how old or young you are.
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Because remember guys in heaven you are beloved.
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You are highly favored.
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You are always present before God.
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This is how you are in heaven.
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Just think of this right now at this moment.
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In heaven I am in the beloved and I am beloved by God.
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As in I am found in Christ the most precious and most precious of all.
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I am in the most precious priceless thing before God.
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And I am in him.
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So in heaven I am always beloved.
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In heaven I am always present before God.
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I am always present.
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I am perpetually present before God in heaven.
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All because of Christ.
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And I am highly favored in heaven.
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See because I do not necessarily spend time developing the persona that I have in heaven,
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I live by the defaulted flawed personality that I have become here on earth.
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And so you are constantly before God.
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You are always present, highly favored.
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This is how God sees you.
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Every time he talks to you guys, it will always be in the context of how he sees you.
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Listen to those words.
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Every time God talks to you, every time God deals with you,
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He will always talk to you and deal with you in the context of how he sees you,
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not how you see yourself.
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Let me say that again.
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Every time God talks to you,
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He will always talk to you and look at you in the context of how he sees you,
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not how you see yourself.
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How do we talk to God?
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When we go to talk to God, we see ourselves a certain way.
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And so our entire conversation is molded by how we see ourselves.
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So on some days, you will find yourself being very free with God, very joyous.
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And on other days, you feel like a worm.
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Why? Because we only see ourselves the way we see ourselves and we approach God in that same way.
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But remember, in heaven, you are highly favored, always present before him, completely acceptable, beloved.
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And that's the only way God deals with you.
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This is why it's important to think how you think you are known in heaven.
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We need to ponder on that.
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Because when we talk about the community of the spirit,
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we're talking about individuals that make up that community.
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And we individuals have to get this part right.
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Because what you think about God and who you perceive He is towards you,
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affects your personality, affects your identity, affects your self-awareness.
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It does.
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Let me give you another sentence which is pretty strong.
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When you know who you are, you are a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person.
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When you know who you are, you know how to live.
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When you know who you are, then you know how you are supposed to live.
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Then you know how you are supposed to live.
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When you know who you are, then you know how you are supposed to live.
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Both with yourself and with others.
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When you know who you are, then you know how you are supposed to live.
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Both with yourself and with others.
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And here's a strange thing that will happen when this begins to happen.
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Other people will also recognize.
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Other people will recognize your identity and act accordingly with you.
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So to sum it up again, who do people say I am so affects the way I live?
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And usually people, sometimes ones that are close and sometimes ones that are away,
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usually say things that right from when we are children to when we are married and when we are close to dying,
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most of the things that people say are distorted, sometimes cruel, sometimes humiliating, sometimes hurtful.
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And this plays such a role in shaping who I am because it forges in me cynicism, suspicion, defensiveness.
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There are ways I begin to respond.
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It affects me so badly. How do I counter it? I have to figure out who God says I am.
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How do I go about that? By pondering on this question.
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How you think you are known in heaven?
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If I were to ponder on that question that how am I known in heaven?
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How am I before the Father? And I mentioned the three things.
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That I am always before Him, perpetually before His presence, that I am beloved, that I am highly favored, highly accepted.
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And that in all His dealings with me, God deals with me as He deals with me as if I were in heaven.
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That's the way He deals with me. He deals with me the way He sees me.
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And the way He sees me is highly favored, acceptable, priceless, always before Him, beloved.
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So it does not matter how I see myself. It matters how He sees me. That's how He deals with me.
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That then begins to affect who I am on earth, guys.
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And when that happens, when you know who you are, you know how you are supposed to live.
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Your living changes. The way you behave changes.
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The suspicion and the defensiveness begin to lower.
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The cynicism begins to disappear.
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And as you change, people begin to behave with you differently too.
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Because they begin to see another identity and they recognize it and they can't behave with you the way they used to behave.
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It just doesn't work. Just doesn't work.
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You know, I saw this video that I'll play it twice and after that the kids can go for crafts.
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But someone suggested that I watch this video.
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It's a video for always pads, okay?
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So the people who produce this video are always the brand for feminine pads.
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But it's such an amazing video, man.
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Someone suggested that I watch it. I watched it and I thought, wow.
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So watch it now. I'll play it twice through.
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It's what happens to us.
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Oh, don't worry about it. He didn't miss it. He didn't even know I added.
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Yeah. Guys, so much of who I am is influenced by others.
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And one of the things that I'm hoping I'm going to change is to be careful in terms of how I treat you
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so that nothing that I say to you will affect you adversely.
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Because a pastor has tremendous influence in your life.
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Especially a pastor like me has tremendous influence in your life.
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And if I don't make sure that what I sow into your life is free of anything that will diss you or tear you down,
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you'll lose your defensiveness and go much further.
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I mean, what are...Dana, you can take the girls...the guys out.
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I'm thinking girls now after seeing that video.
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Two of the things that God says about you that you need to take to heart right now.
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Let me ask you this question, guys.
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Aren't you affected by what your spouse has said to you?
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Aren't you affected by what your spouse has said to you?
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Hasn't that left such a deep impression in your life for the positive or for the negative?
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Aren't you affected by what you...
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Do you think your spouse has been affected by what you've said to her?
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Tremendously.
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It's the ones that are closer to us that have deeper impact, goes much deeper.
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Haven't the things that your parents have said to you affected you?
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Don't they affect you even today?
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Hasn't embarrassment completely changed the way you sometimes function?
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That one embarrassing or two embarrassing incidents,
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hasn't it completely changed the way you conduct yourself?
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Haven't you developed immense defensive structures
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because you're scared that you will be pulled out again and embarrassed?
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And our levels of embarrassment vary.
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Some of you can't be embarrassed by anything.
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Some of you can be embarrassed by the very things that others would see as normal.
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Fascinating how our environment is changing.
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Fascinating how our environment and how the people around us have so affected us.
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This is why one of the things I have to recapture is
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how does God actually think of me in heaven?
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Because it's the only way to restructure who I am.
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There's no other way.
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Guys, I have so many defensive mechanisms
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that I probably need more than ten fingers to count them.
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Ways that I protect myself from scoffing, from scorn,
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from being despised, from handling disdain, from handling criticism,
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from being laughed at.
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Different ways I cope with it.
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Why? Because the one thing that perhaps I don't always focus on is
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how am I thought of in heaven and who am I on earth?
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Continuously compensating.
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Here are two things perhaps that you can think of
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that God thinks of you.
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One, you are his brilliant masterpiece.
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Or I am.
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I am.
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Ephesians 2.10.
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For I am God's brilliant masterpiece.
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Why brilliant?
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Because everything he does is done so brilliantly.
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I'm his brilliant masterpiece.
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I mean Job 33 verse 4 says that
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I was created by the Holy Spirit and God breathed his life into me.
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So to begin with, I'm brilliantly created.
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David talks about that in Psalm 139.
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Wonderfully I was put together.
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So there's that Jacob.
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David wasn't talking about his pancreas and his liver
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when he said wonderfully am I put together.
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He was talking about his person.
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So to begin with there's that.
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And then I'm created anew in Christ.
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I'm a brilliant masterpiece.
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You are a brilliant masterpiece of God.
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You are distinct, more distinct than snowflakes.
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They write poems about the snowflake and forget you.
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More distinct than the snowflake.
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You're inimitable.
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You cannot be imitated.
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You are irreplaceable.
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We always say everybody is replaceable.
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No you're not.
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You're irreplaceable.
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Irreplaceable.
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And you are exceptional.
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I find it so hard to come to terms with words like exceptional and irreplaceable.
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I sometimes handle distinct and I know I'm inimitable.
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But irreplaceable and exceptional are not words that I connect with myself.
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But I am his brilliant masterpiece.
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I am his brilliant masterpiece.
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If you can't handle the word brilliant because it seems to put the focus on you.
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Take out brilliant.
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I am brilliant.
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I am his masterpiece.
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Inimitable, irreplaceable, distinct or unique, exceptional.
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Every one of you.
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Every one of you.
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Another beautiful word I've found that I want to talk about more next time.
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time is he is the glorious inhabitant of my life. He so we talked about you being
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a masterpiece now let's talk a little about him. He is the glorious
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inhabitant of your life. He is the glorious inhabitant as in not only am I
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his masterpiece these are I'm just giving you just two things that you can
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ponder on. Not only am I his brilliant masterpiece he is the glorious
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inhabitant of this masterpiece. He is the glorious inhabitant of this masterpiece.
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So to begin with he's the primary maker the sustainer of this masterpiece and
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then he is a glorious inhabitant of this masterpiece. Galatians 4 6. In Galatians
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4 6 it says that because I am because Jacob is his son God sent the spirit of
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his son into Jacob's heart so that Jacob may cry out by the spirit Abba father. I
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used to think that when I cry out Abba father it's all me no no no no no no
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because God loves Jacob so much God sent into Jacob his son the spirit of
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his son so that Jacob may cry out by his spirit and say Abba father I am his
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brilliant masterpiece and he is the glorious inhabitant of this masterpiece.
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John 6 63 Jesus said in John 6 63 the first part Jacob remember this it is the
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spirit who gives life the flesh profits for nothing it is the spirit who gives
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life the flesh profits for nothing. I am his brilliant masterpiece he is the
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glorious inhabitant of this masterpiece through his spirit. Galatians 4 6 God
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loved this son so much that he sent the spirit of his son so that this son may
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cry out and say Abba father by his spirit the flesh profits for nothing I
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am his brilliant masterpiece and he is the glorious inhabitant of my life. Next
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time we'll talk about another word not only is he your glorious inhabitant he
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is also your glorious inhibitor we'll talk about it next time but that's not
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for now see what you're gonna miss I mean Mariana would like to cancel the
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trip if you're willing. Guys we're talking about the community and the
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spirit Jesus you know when he trained his 12 disciples he's so brilliant he
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doesn't place his trust in his disciples he trained them but he didn't
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place his trust in them necessarily he placed his trust in the coming of the
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Holy Spirit to do amazing work through these 12 that he had trained in lives
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and situations in every town village home and city in the world. I got to
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understand that over the next few weeks I am sure we'll understand that the flesh
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profits nothing that the flesh profits nothing. John 6 63 the first part I must
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remember what Jesus said it is the spirit who gives life the flesh profits
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nothing Jesus's trust was not necessarily in the disciples he trained
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them and brought them to a place and then said to them listen the spirit of
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God is going to come upon you his trust was in the spirit that would come and
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transform these 12. Hopefully at the end of this course we will learn how to
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trust the spirit of God for our own lives for the lives of the ones we love
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for our wives for our husbands for our families and for situations. I know we've
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occasionally touched on this whole idea of trusting the work of the spirit it's
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the only hope we have guys that the spirit must act otherwise nothing will
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bear change or fruit that lasts. The spirit must act otherwise nothing will
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bear fruit or change that lasts. I have to trust the spirit of God with your
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life. I would like to see change in your life in every life sitting here if you
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came to me and asked me for one thing I could give you more than one which I
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want to see change in your life as I'm sure I do I've got 11 things for my life
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at least two things for yours but see I've got to trust the spirit of God
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because flesh profits nothing. Philippians 2 13 says that God is the one
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who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill its purpose. Strange
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verse let me put it simply the spirit of God is he who brings the desire and the
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effort so that you can fulfill God's pleasure. The spirit of God is he who
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creates the desire and then provides you with the effort required to accomplish
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your purpose for God. I must trust the act of the spirit.
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Philippians 2 13 I mean I just told you that I've got these 11 areas where I
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these 11 prominent areas where I know I have to change. I can do everything I can
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and yet the spirit must act. The only thing I can control is my thinking and
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that too the spirit has to replace desires. Then I can train myself
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consistently but it is the spirit that must act otherwise there's nothing I can
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do. The flesh profits for nothing. The flesh profits for nothing. The spirit
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gives life. So invite the spirit into situations guys. This is what Moses did
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when he stretched out his staff over the Red Sea and then said things like stand
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and see the salvation of God. What was he doing there? Stretching out a staff and
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things are supposed to happen. The whole sea part because the breath of God
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came forth and began a part the sea. I must trust the work of the spirit. Flesh
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profits for nothing. It is the spirit that gives life. Any fruit, any change
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that is permanent has to be a work of the spirit who gives me both the desire
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and then gives me the effort required to bring to pass the pleasures of the
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father in and through my life. I must trust the work of the spirit to change
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my spouse. I must trust the work of the spirit to change my children. Does this
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mean that we don't do anything? Obviously not but there needs to be a heavy
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dependence on the spirit because in our lives there's an assumed presence of the
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spirit but there's a lack of an active dependence on the sheer work of the
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spirit. I must trust the spirit. I must trust him to feed the fetus of a habit
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in my life. I must trust him to cause that fetus of a habit to grow. I must
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trust him to turn the fetus the right way. I must trust him to have it now
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birth forth in my life. Everything is the work of the spirit. So here are four
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hindrances guys that usually prevents the spirit of God from doing what he
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wants to. I've got to get out of the way so here are four hindrances that I want
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to touch on. One, four main hindrances to the work of the spirit in my life. The
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first one is pride or ego. Very often my pride or my ego gets in the way of what
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the spirit wants to do. My pride and my ego get in the way of what the spirit
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God wants to do. What I mean by pride and ego is sometimes the spirit of God
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wants to do a work and I'm too proud to be foolish to do it because it may
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embarrass me. People may say stuff so I won't do it.
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Sometimes he's unspectacular. Whenever I do something that is obedient I want it
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to be unspectacular. I want it to be spectacular. Sometimes he's so
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unspectacular. Yesterday I was talking to some guys in Bahrain and they were on
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Skype and they've stood in faith for seven months and what they expect has
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not happened yet and I told them that perhaps they need to go this way and
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they said no but then people won't hear the kind of testimony that should
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come out of the stand of faith because every time we take a stand of faith we
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want something spectacular to happen. Paradise is our pride but we won't go
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there today. Second, sometimes guys my pride and ego gets in the way of
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apologizing. You'll be surprised at how often the Spirit of God is not able to
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move because I can't have the humility to come and say to you that I was wrong
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and you were right. Pride gets in the way. James chapter 4 verse 6 says God
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opposes the pride and gives grace to the humble. He resists the pride.
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Apologizing is a hard thing. You don't have to do something wrong. Sometimes you
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need to go to someone and say you know you told me that and I resisted
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you. I just want to tell you that I'm sorry you are right and I'm wrong. Very
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difficult to say that. Pride gets in the way. It gets in the way of spouses. It gets in
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the way of friends. Thirdly, pride sometimes prevents me from acknowledging
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the work of others in my life.
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You know I really appreciate some of you when you come and come to me and tell me
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Jacob you said this and you did this for me and it changed my life. I really
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appreciate it not because it stokes my ego because I think I'm past that but I
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really appreciate it because it shows your heart that you're willing to
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acknowledge that someone else poured into your life and you are the fruit of
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it. Very difficult thing this is for some of us. I still catch myself not
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being able to acknowledge the work of others in my life. I mean today when I
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quoted Graham Cook when I was making these notes I was thinking ah don't tell
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them where it came from. Then I don't know that's a brilliant quote. If you
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quoted they'll think you came up with it. Give credit, acknowledge it. Just last
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week someone was saying something to me and I realized that they had actually
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said this to me but I didn't want to give them credit so I quickly went past
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it till someone pointed out saying Jacob you're not willing to give credit. Some
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of you are brilliant at it. At coming and saying Jacob you did this or Jason you
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did this you spoke this or whoever you got something from and it changes your
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life but some of us don't. Why am I bringing this up? Because not so that you
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can stoke my ego or Jason's ego but so that that factor called pride may be
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destroyed in my life and in your life because I've seen it rise up in my life.
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God opposes the proud. God uses people to affect our lives guys. It's get over
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this. Begin to acknowledge some of the stuff that I have done in your life that
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Jason has done in your life. Come up and say it and really not for your not for
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my sake for your sake. I'm giving you an exercise that will set you free because
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what can be more absurd than me asking you to come and tell me how wonderful I
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am. I mean that is a height of arrogance and pride and really I wouldn't do it in
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a message. It doesn't come out right at all. This is to set you free. You should
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try it. Don't try it today. Think about it and try it over the next half of the
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year.
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Sometimes pride and ego takes a form of dignity. Instead of being transparent we
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are obtuse because preserving dignity is more important.
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I've met people like this. The Spirit of God wants to do something but
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because they refuse to be transparent the Spirit of God can never end up
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doing what he wants because you will never open your life to anybody that the
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Spirit of God wants to use. The only way you will change is if a prophet comes
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from Timbuktu to tell you your problem. Otherwise you ain't going to tell anybody
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your problem. It really is time is what God wants to do. What are we talking
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about here? We are saying that the flesh profits nothing. The Spirit gives life.
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When the Spirit gives life may my pride and ego not get in the way because it's
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time is what the Spirit of God wants to do. Does he give up? No. He keeps working
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at it but sometimes in my attempt to preserve my dignity I choose not to be
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transparent because I don't want anybody the Spirit of God sends to help me. I
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want it to be from outside when nobody knows me. Pastors have this problem.
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Fortunately I don't but many of us do.
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Let's take move on from pride. Any questions on this?
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The last one. Yeah in many cultures and in many of our lives today there is this
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attempt to preserve or present a form of dignity that is exterior and so our
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lives are not transparent. So if the Spirit of God ever wants to help us he
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is not able to because you will not open your life to anybody. So the only way we
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will be helped is if Eddie comes from South Africa but now we know Eddie too
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well too so it'll have to be somebody else. Someone who we don't know who
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comes from very far that is the only way we'll accept it and we'll only
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accept it if the person does it properly otherwise we are not willing to. Very
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difficult like that to change. It's dignity preserving pride it's not
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transparency. The next one which is a common one which we often refer to in
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this church. Next hindrance is thinking or mindsets. I'll tell you what this
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church would have a problem with. One reality causes us to opt for common
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sense instead of the Spirit.
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We're talking about things that block the desire of the Spirit in my life. One
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of them I'm finding in my life is my thinking and mindset and this sometimes
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so affects me where reality strikes and reality then forces me to opt for
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common sense. Yesterday we were sitting with Mark and he was telling us how he
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hasn't found a place and I was struggling should I tell him about other
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ways of doing things because common sense sometimes rears up its ugly head
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because reality is so strong that you want to come up with common sense and
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in the presence you block the work of the Spirit. That's one of the things that
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will happen in this church and remember common sense will always try to massage
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things manipulate things take shortcuts because that's what common sense does. It
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tries to achieve an end through any means that is mostly legitimate and so
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the Spirit is opted out. Another mindset that we will struggle with here is our
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experience and our environment that we grow up in. That affects our thinking. I
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see that in many of us. You're so scared to let go of your way of thinking because
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if you let go of it your whole world will collapse because you've been
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thinking like that for so many years that if you stop thinking like that you
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would have to start again and so you don't want to let go of it. Frightening
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huh? I remember when I thought women could not teach. I remember when I
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thought that tongues need not be interpreted. I remember when I thought
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that women were not supposed to be in any kind of ministry and even though
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people would bring up evidence from the Bible to show me I would resist it
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because so much of my way of functioning was built on it that if I agreed with
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you I'd have to break down many things I believe to start again and I can't
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afford that. Pardon? Because if I I knew I was kind of beginning to sound wrong
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but I had to hold on to it because if I let it go everything collapses. May I
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suggest to you that many of you, many of you and I'm looking at you I'm not even
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avoiding looking at you, many of you have a thinking or a mindset that has been a
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product of your environment and your experience. Terrible as it may have been
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that if you let go of the way you're functioning your whole world would
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collapse and so you have to hold on to it.
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And the Holy Spirit wants to change that but if you don't let go of it how is it
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possible for him to begin to work? Will he keep doing what he's doing? Yes. Is
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this message a way of letting you know? Yes. It is possible to resist the Holy
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Spirit. It is possible to resist the Holy Spirit.
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You know that right? He doesn't take over my will. Let's go on to next one. Oh the
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third one that affects my mindset is what you think and say. What you think
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about me. What you think about me affects my way of thinking. Like I go
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some places and I know they have a poor opinion of me so when I go to a place
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where they have poor opinion of me what's my mindset that I have to do
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everything to now impress them. Why don't I impress you? Because you have a decent
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opinion of me and you like me. So therefore a little bit and therefore I
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have no desire to impress you. I don't have to prove anything. But what if I go
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into a place where people don't have a good opinion of me? Immediately my
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thinking, my mindset, everything I do is now with this one thing in mind. I have
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to do everything in my mind to impress these people. What if I'm with somebody
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who has a tendency to make fun of me or to pull me down? Everything I do will
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either be very jokey because I want to be the center of laughter and the reason
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for the party or I'll be super careful because I don't want to be embarrassed
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or humiliated by this person. When I'm around that person I'm walking on
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eggshells. What if you're an angry person who loses your temper quickly? Again my
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thinking and my mindset changes. What if you're a suspicious person? Guys you and
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I have no idea how much this is our lives are influenced by the kind of
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people that we are around and how other people's lives are influenced by the
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kind of person you are. My sister recently told me that Jacob you're
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losing your temper too quickly. I'm beginning to walk on eggshells around
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you and so five minutes later I sent her this thing. I said I don't like who
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I'm becoming. I apologize your motives and intents were absolutely clean but I
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should not have lost my temper and I'm sorry I will try not to make it happen
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let it happen again. Our thinking and our mindset is so influenced by the people
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around us. This is why the Spirit of God I need him desperately because he's the
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only one who can give me some kind of an identity knowing how I am thought of in
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heaven. It affects who I am on earth and then I'm able to stand before you even
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when you're angry even when you're putting guilt on me even when you offend
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me this whole loving kindness things can begin to flow. I must have this. I must
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have this. How else will I live guys the way Jesus wants me to? It's impossible to
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be able to go and stand with someone who may hurt you or who may get angry and yet
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function joyfully. I so wish I could be joyful with everybody. Next one.
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Four hindrances two are done two more to go. Next one. This blocks the work of the
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Holy Spirit in me. Self-sufficiency. How do I define self-sufficiency? Successful
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living spawned by self-generated self-reliant skills and methods. That's
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how I'm defining self-sufficiency. Self-sufficiency is successful living
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spawned by self-generated and self-reliant skills and methods. Isn't
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there a place for that though? Yes there is but because we are trying to swing
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the pendulum to the extreme I'm saying the flesh profits for nothing. The Spirit
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gives life where this becomes a very secondary thing in my life. I've read
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this to you before when I taught you thought about Yahweh Ezzer. I'm reading
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it again. As long as I have a self-righteous idea that I can do this
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thing if God will help me. God will allow me to go on till I break the neck of my
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ignorance over some obstacle. Listen to it again. It sounds so right and yet it's
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wrong. As long as I have a self-righteous idea that I can do this thing if God
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will help me. That is such a Christian way of going about things. As long as I
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have a self-righteous idea. Hi.
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As long as I have a self-righteous idea that I can do a thing if God will help
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me. That's how we normally think that I can do this thing. Father could you
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help me? As long as I have a self-righteous idea that I can do a thing
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if God helps me. God will allow me to go on till I break my neck of ignorance on
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some obstacle. The point being self-generated self-reliant skills and
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methods are what we do things with and we ask God to help it. That's not the way
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the flesh profits nothing. The Spirit gives life. It's a way to go guys and the
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thing with self-sufficiency you guys is whenever you're a self-centered person
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know that time will be your enemy. It will never be your ally. As in remember
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when Saul was told by Samuel in 1st Samuel 10, hey Saul make sure that you
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wait seven days before you offer the sacrifice. I will come and offer the
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sacrifice. But when you're a self-centered person what happens is when
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pressures begin to come you cannot wait for God's agent. You have to take it into
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your own hands. So it says in 1st Samuel 13, hey Saul could not wait longer. It
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was the seventh day he offered the sacrifice and along comes Samuel and
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says I hear the bleeding of goats. What happened here? Whenever
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you're a self-centered person there's a good way to measure it. How often time
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is not your ally when you're not dependent on God. Time is an enemy when
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you're dependent on God. Because the pressure of time begins to work.
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This blocks the work of the Spirit in you. This blocks the work of the
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Spirit in you. Any questions before we go on to the last one? I agree. So I'm just
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swinging the pendulum to the other extreme Matt because doing nothing is
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not usually what we do. Most of us in this church are people who want to take
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things and do them. So I'm just swinging the pendulum to the other extreme where
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let's learn that other way of not being successful based on self-generated
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self-reliant skills and methods because the flesh profits nothing and the Spirit
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gives life. Let's start at that end. Our skills and methods and doing things
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comes natural to us as humans which is why Jesus had to continuously say enter
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into rest, cease from striving because he knows that man's way of
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doing things is to work work work. Any other questions? I was telling Mark
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yesterday Matt that perhaps the only guy who can beat him in terms of hard work
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would be you. He's the kind of guy who would do the grouse grind three times in
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one day. Yeah that's what I'm saying he's the kind of guy who would do it too. His
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his greatest pleasures are swimming with salmon upstream and he was getting
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poetic about it as as Jason and I listened and Jason and I tried to
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pretend that we were impressed but it just didn't work. So I'm glad that he's
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working with Jason and not me when he comes. No because it was just three days
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ago when he called me on the phone and spoke to me for 45 minutes. Five minutes
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had to do with the real content of the subject. 40 minutes was spent on telling
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me how to set up a trail camera to catch deer. Yeah this is on tape now it'll go
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all over the world Mark. My name is Jason. Okay the last one is willing
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obedience. Guys my emphasis is on this worthy willing. Isaiah 119 has this
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marvelous line if you're willing and obedient you will eat the best of the
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land or the good of the land if you're willing and obedient. One of the
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hindrances or one of the things that blocks the work of the spirit in my life
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is sometimes obedience I can give but willingness only comes through
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relationship and relationship only comes through prayer and prayer is
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basically conversations that deepen the father-son I'm talking about God now
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father-son intimacy.
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So the emphasis is on willing. Now willingness only comes through
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relationship. Relationship can be only forged when one has a conversation where
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intimacy develops which brings us back to this whole thing of when I say the
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word prayer brings up this connotation of asking and A-C-T-S, adoration, this
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thing this thing this thing I'm not talking about that I'm talking about
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having a conversation with God and it begins to increase my relationship
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because it's a two-way street and I begin to hear and marvel at who he is
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and therefore the willingness of my heart increases. Joyful willingness is
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such an integral part of obedience and when the Spirit of God sees joyful
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willingness in you because of a relationship you have with the father
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his work is hindered less his work begins to flow because there's a
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reckless yielding a much-loved child I said this last week it's such a cool and
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I really don't know who said it so I can't give credit right now but the line
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there says the best people the best Christians I have known are Christians
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who live like much-loved children wow the best Christians I have known are
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Christians who live like much-loved children
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much-loved children what a definition of a Christian a much-loved
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child recklessly abandoned this is not you and me yet this is not you and me
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yet
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James 4 6 says the Spirit of God that he has caused to live in me yearns for me
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jealously yearns for me jealously. Willing obedience any questions guys any
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questions?
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okay