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Fortress Church - Barzillai or Caleb

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  1. We have been talking about the Fortress Church, and today we will talk about what it looks

  2. like to continue being a Fortress Church even as you age. As you begin to age, what begins

  3. to happen is you begin to take the easy way out or resign yourself. That is not how Fortress

  4. Churches are built, because Fortress Churches have both the old and the young.

  5. Next week we will talk about the young. This week we are talking about the old. If you

  6. turn to 2 Samuel 19.32, that sounds like someone's year of birth, 2 Samuel 19 verse 32, you will

    2 Samuel 19:32

  7. find this guy called Barzilai, and he was 80. Barzilai was 80. Okay? 2 Samuel 19.32.

  8. 2 Samuel 19.32. And here is what it says, Barzilai was a very old man. I am reading from the

  9. message, 80 years old. He had supplied the king's needs all the while. He was in Mahanaim

  10. since he was very wealthy. Join me in Jerusalem, King David said to Barzilai. Let me take

  11. care of you. But Barzilai declined the offer. How long do you think I would live if I went

  12. with the king to Jerusalem? I am 80 years old and not much good anymore to anyone. I

  13. cannot taste food, cannot hear music, so why add to the burdens of my master the king?

  14. I will just go a little way across the Jordan with the king, but why would the king need

  15. to make a great thing of that? Let me go back and die in my hometown and be buried with

  16. my father and mother, but my servant Kimham here, let him go with you in my place, but

  17. treat him well. The king said that's settled. Kimham goes with me. I will treat him well.

  18. If you think of anything else, I will do that for you too. That's Barzilai.

  19. Now go to Joshua 14 verse 12 onwards. Joshua 14 verse 12 onwards. It's about a guy called

    Joshua 14:12 Joshua 14:12

  20. Caleb and he was 84. Joshua 14 verse 12, hey I would like a little more volume. Joshua

    Joshua 14:12 Joshua 14:12

  21. 14 verse 12. Joshua 14 verse 12. Here's what it says. Let's read from verse 10.

    Joshua 14:12

  22. Now look at me. God has kept me alive as he promised. It's now 45 years since God has

  23. spoken this word to Moses. Years in which Israel wandered in the wilderness and here

  24. I am today 85 years old. I'm as strong as I was the day Moses sent me out. I'm as strong

  25. as ever in battle whether coming or going. So give me this hill country that God promised

  26. me. You yourself heard the report that the Anakim were there with their great fortress

  27. cities. If God goes with me, I'll drive them out just as God has said. Joshua blessed him.

  28. He gave Hebron to Caleb, son of Daphne, as an inheritance. So you got an 80-year-old

  29. who didn't want to go when King David invited him and then you got an 85-year-old who demands

  30. that things be released to him. A fortress church cannot be built by people who begin

  31. to give away what is theirs as they age. When it comes to age, I want to define what I mean

  32. by age here because you can look at age as age. I'm not just talking about years. I'm

  33. talking about how sometimes indifference can age you. Sentimentality can age you. Circumstances

  34. can age you. Entitlement can age you. Self-pity can age you. The inability to recover from

  35. loss can age you. Work can age you. You can age yourself. You can age yourself. You can

  36. age yourself. Failure can age you. And surprisingly, success can age you. All these things can

  37. age you. You can meet 40-year-olds who live old. So we're not talking about years, eh?

  38. In the midst of all this, if I don't have Christ and his purpose or cause, it's only

  39. a matter of time before I can be young and physically able, but I'm not able... but I

  40. begin to age. I met 45-year-olds who are older than me. Indifference can age you. A callous

  41. indifference attitude can age you where nothing really engages you. You're not passionate

  42. about... Another word for indifference is lukewarmness. Lukewarmness definitely ages

  43. you where you don't want to commit too much, you don't want to commit too less. You're

  44. somewhere in the middle. That's a recipe for aging. When one loses passion, one loses

  45. years. Any questions on this? Sentimentality can, where you're so sentimental about something,

  46. some place, some pursuit, someone, that you get stuck in it and are unable to move on.

  47. Oh, for the good old days. I want to tell you something. The good old days were never

  48. good. There was no plumbing, there was no TV, there was no microwave. Everything had

  49. to be done the wrong way. Any questions on this? So age, we're not talking about just

  50. years, eh? I know 70-year-olds who are much sharper than 40-year-olds and 40-year-olds

  51. who are really old. Entitlement is when you think that because you have spent some time

  52. doing something that you now are owed something. And when you think you're entitled and you're

  53. owed something, you don't do much. Oh, I have put in a lot of work into this. Yeah, I put

  54. in some more work. There's so much left to do. I'm not going to say that I'm going to

  55. spend a lot of time on this. Any questions? Work can aid you where you're so focused and

  56. obsessed with work that you don't have time for anything else. Work is one of the things

  57. that aides people the fastest. We love work. There are people who love work. They enjoy

  58. work, retrieving the pressure of work. What they don't realize is how they age because

  59. everything else becomes less important and the more important things, when they become

  60. less important, it catches up, man. The pressure of work can kill you. People that love work

  61. must learn how to rest before they work. One of the things Cam reminded us of yesterday

  62. was that the first day that man was born, he entered into rest. If one does not learn

  63. rest, work can destroy you. And especially if you are someone who just loves going to

  64. work, then you have to be twice as careful. As you know, there are people who are not

  65. aware of the pressure of work. As you age, here are some things that happen to you.

  66. As you age, as in, man, may you be someone who doesn't think you're really old and

  67. every time they tell you you're old, you get a shock. You realize, oh my God, people see

  68. me as old, but you don't see yourself as old. This odd incident happened some weeks ago,

  69. months ago, where this lady came into the elevator and started chatting me and she was

  70. I think newly immigrated from India and she started chatting me and she must have been

  71. 30 something and then she asked me for a number and I thought, boy, nine flows and you're

  72. asking me for my number. And I was a little concerned, but I was in a good mood so I gave

  73. her my number. And then she says, that's great. Now my dad just arrived and perhaps he can

  74. call you and you and him can go for walks. I was like letting air out of a balloon. Here

  75. I was thinking, aren't you being a little too forward asking me for my number? And I

  76. had this thing about me that maybe I really look young, but she took my number so that

  77. her dad and I can walk together in the morning. Thank God she got off because on a floor that

  78. was immediate. Otherwise I'd have given her a piece of my mind about walking.

  79. So one of the things that happens with age is you begin to focus on your hobby horse

  80. as in the thing that you were good at and you are good at and you won't move into anything

  81. else. There's a rigidity that begins to enter your life. There's tolerance of, you know,

  82. where you are morally as in you're 60, you're 67, you're 58 or whatever and you do well,

  83. but you don't want to get better. That's one of the terrible signs of age. You don't want

  84. to get better. You're happy. You're morally happy. When there is a tolerance of where

  85. you are morally, be very, very suspicious because something is seriously wrong. Your

  86. disappointments with God keep you at bay. These are things that happen with age. And

  87. so if you are like this at 35, be careful. And this applies to leaders here. This applies

  88. to anyone who is above 20 or 30, anyone who is above 30. You get stagnant. You lose zeal.

  89. You resign to circumstances. If you're above 30 and this is how you're beginning to feel

  90. about life in any area or you like comfort to the point where you won't leave it, you

  91. are not going to be happy. You're going to be happy. You're going to be happy. You're

  92. going to be happy. You become complacent in your zeal. If you're above 30 and if this

  93. is happening to you, it's a recipe that will take you to a place where you age faster.

  94. I'm not saying you'll die faster. I'm just saying you'll age faster. The rest of us will

  95. have to suffer you. That was, yeah. Any questions?

  96. Okay. So how do we prevent this from happening? How do you maintain your fruitfulness in a

  97. church that is getting younger? How do you maintain your fruitfulness in a church? Don't

  98. worry. You young guys, you're enjoying this. Next week will be your turn. How do you maintain

  99. your fruitfulness in a church? This is for people that are 30 and above like Derek and

  100. the rest of them. How do you maintain your fruitfulness in a church that is getting younger?

  101. How do you maintain your fruitfulness in a church that is getting younger? One of the

  102. ways it's through the sacrifice of time, treasure, talent, privilege, tastes, and the ability

  103. to have strength. You sacrifice all this for the sake of the maturity of the young.

  104. The way to stay fruitful is to sacrifice. Remember something. The seed for fruitfulness

  105. is sacrifice. Jesus put it this way. Unless a seed falls and dies, it does not bear fruit.

  106. If I want my life to be fruitful, it is impossible for my life to be fruitful if I do not sow

  107. the seed of sacrifice. And so one of the ways that the people in this church who are above

  108. 30 can maintain fruitfulness as this church will get younger. And I assure you the church

  109. will get younger. This church is going the wrong way. It's not getting older, it's getting

  110. younger. The only way to be fruitful in this church is through the sacrifice of your time,

  111. your treasure, your talent, your privilege, your tastes as in your preferences, your strength

  112. for the sake of the maturity of the young. Any questions on that? If you don't do that,

  113. it's only a matter of time before you are called the aged ones. Any questions?

  114. So, as you age, the company you marinate in, the company you marinate in, the company you

  115. marinate in, affects your thinking and your speaking. And the works you do. Proverbs

    Proverbs 18:21

  116. 18 verse 21 talks about it. I was at a Christmas gathering this December. Surprisingly, I was

  117. the youngest one there. Everybody else was old. We spent two hours. I mean, I left early.

  118. I decided I had to get out of here. We spent two hours with a group of 13 men only talking

  119. about the diseases that will happen, the mortgages that will go down, the economy that will crash.

  120. This is what they spent two hours talking. Every time I try to interrupt with a positive

  121. word, it will be, no, no, no, look at that person, look at this person. Two hours. And

  122. I thought to myself, my God, if this is how they live, what hope do they have? And here's

  123. the crazy thing. All of them are believers. Proverbs 18 verse 21 says that out of your

    Proverbs 18:21

  124. mouth, the words that come will either give birth to life or give birth to death. It was

  125. one of the most deadly Christmas parties I've ever had. On the night that he was born, they

  126. began to talk about how to die. This is important. The company you keep. As you get older, this

  127. doesn't mean you hang out with the young guys. It's usually kiboshes their party. So you

  128. don't want to do that. I hardly turn up for dinner with you guys because I know if I turn

  129. up, you guys will behave well. So I just turn up once every two months. So this is not hang

  130. out with the young and you will feel young. You saw what happened in the elevator. It

  131. does not work. But what you need to do is you need to marinate in company that begins

  132. to speak, think larger, more faith, more things to do, not resign, not retire, not downwards.

  133. And if you don't find the time for it, all you will have is your workmates and your spouse.

  134. And nothing wrong with your spouse. But you need more company than that sometimes to lift

  135. you up. In fact, you both should go. Any questions on that? Feel free to push back. If you think

  136. this is pointless, this is not pointless, but feel free to push back. It is so important

  137. that I spend time with people that will stir me up. That will even sharpen me. The older

  138. you get, the harder it is not to be offended. The older you get, the harder it is not to

  139. be offended. Because everything has to happen the way you like it and your values are the

  140. best values in the world. And the moment you begin to think like that, there are about

  141. hundred people who want to offend you. We will talk about that later. But you have to

  142. marinate with the right company. That is what keeps you alive. Any questions? Yeah.

  143. Sacrificing time, treasure, talent and strength is so that in doing that you can pour it into

  144. someone younger. But at the same time, you have to hang out with people that will keep

  145. sharpening you. Iron sharpens iron. But iron, if it wants to be sharpened, has to connect

  146. with other pieces of iron. You can't connect with plastic and get sharpened. But if you

  147. want to be sharpened, you have to be able to do that. And so the question is, do we

  148. still do that as we get older? The more we protect ourselves, the more isolated we are,

  149. the sooner we will age. Listen to me. The more we protect ourselves and the more isolated

  150. you are, the sooner you will age. And I'm not talking about years of age. I'm talking

  151. about years of age. As you get older, your life should be more public, not more private.

  152. May the experience in your life be put on open display. This is how you live. Next point.

  153. As you age, as you age, purpose and past zest for life are connected. Find one, you will

  154. find the other. As you age, purpose and zest for life are connected. Find one, you will

  155. find the other. As you age, purpose and past zest for life are connected. Find one, you

  156. will find the other. I plead with you, some of us need to pull back, withdraw from our

  157. work. Because the only time you're going to withdraw at the rate you're going is either

  158. when you retire or when you die at work. One or the other is going to happen. Withdraw.

  159. And if you withdraw, you will find your zest for life, it's always connected. Purpose for

  160. life is always connected to zest. As you're getting older, please, please consider this.

  161. Any questions? Any thoughts? Am I really speaking to you? Am I throwing darts into your heart?

  162. I hope I am. And I hope it's hurting. One of the things about these messages is they

  163. are very intentional and they're meant to hurt for the better. If you don't withdraw

  164. from the pace of work that you presently have, you will not find life. Okay? Third one. As

  165. you age, as you age, be, become more fluid, be more, be more, be more, be more, be more

  166. so God can still be unpredictable through you. As you age, become more fluid so God

  167. can still be unpredictable through you. You can be secure in God, but you can never predict

  168. what he's going to do. You can only be secure in God, but you cannot predict what he's going

  169. to do. As you get older, and I'm talking about anyone over the age of 30, you're already

  170. beginning to have set ways of functioning. And if I don't change those set ways of functioning,

  171. it's only a matter of time before the God who is secure but does not predict what's

  172. going to happen will cease to use me because Jacob, you've gotten to a point where you're

  173. inflexible now. Or you've settled into patterns that you think are brilliant and they were

  174. brilliant but they're not brilliant anymore.

  175. As you age, how do you fight this? How do you become like this if you're not like this?

  176. Well, the first point is always I have to acknowledge and recognize that I've got a

  177. problem. If I do not acknowledge and recognize I've got a problem, if my first response is

  178. to justify and defend it, sure, go ahead, justify and defend it. And then after a while,

  179. say, I really have a problem. I'm just trying to justify and defend it. Once you get to

  180. a place where now you've acknowledged that there's a problem, now every time it comes

  181. up, you have to begin to resist it. Every time it comes up, you have to resist it.

  182. A thing that has taken 40 years to build cannot be destroyed in two days or by the anointing

  183. of the Holy Spirit because it's a habit that's created by the mind. The Holy Spirit can give

  184. you a miracle today but tomorrow you can go back to your mindset. Every day I have

  185. to now begin to take a hammer to it and then one day I'll find that there is no brick

  186. left. There are some things that are not miracles. They are change of habit because of a change

  187. of thinking. Why is it that, I mean, you may think this is funny but it's not, though

  188. it is funny. Why is it that you can sit for a three hour service and listen to a one and

  189. a half hour teaching? I'll make it shorter today, but one and a half hour teaching. You've

  190. got to get accustomed to it. Try this in another church. It won't work. Yesterday Campbell

  191. was asking me, so what time are you starting and what time are you finishing? I said 10

  192. a.m. and finish at 8 p.m. He said, you have strange people. When you get accustomed to

  193. it, one has to create a habit. This one, ha, this is one of my favorite things to do as

  194. I get older. Can you always be someone who will respond to the unpredictable? Or are

  195. you also going to end up as someone who now becomes patterned and you find it very hard

  196. to get up and leave, get up and go? Practice this now if you're 20. Practice this definitely

  197. if you're 31. Will all the under 30s stand up?

  198. Wow, we still have a whole lot of them. Thank you. Please sit down. Now you know this message

  199. is for the church. As you age, teachability becomes a problem. Teachability becomes a

  200. problem. So, but teachability is what? Will give you breakthroughs. You want breakthroughs

  201. as you get older? You have to be teachable. Teachability becomes a problem as you age.

  202. And teachability is always connected to humility. One is not teachable when one is not humble.

  203. Teachability will give you breakthroughs in life. I know I have said this in the past,

  204. but there are so many that may not have heard this. Five years, five, no, maybe five or

  205. six years, seven years ago, six years ago, I was sitting in a hotel talking to this guy

  206. who was 10 years younger to me because I was at a conference where he was teaching and

  207. I, after I finished teaching, he came and asked me questions. When he asked me questions,

  208. I was quite offended. You asked me to preach and you are now trying to poke holes in what

  209. I taught and I didn't like it. And so I went back to the hotel that I was staying at and

  210. I remember telling the Lord, Father, this guy doesn't seem to be very teachable. I'll

  211. just finish this conference and won't come back again. I felt the Lord saying, it's not

  212. he who is not teachable, it's you who is not teachable. And so then I looked at what he

  213. had spoken and I realized what he was telling me was the truth. And so I had to then do

  214. this very difficult thing of calling him on the phone and saying to him that what you

  215. said today, this morning, I don't know much about it. Is there any chance that I can meet

  216. you this evening and could you show me what you were talking about? It was one of the

  217. hardest things for me in my life to sit and take lessons from someone 10 years younger

  218. who had invited you to preach at his conference. And he came and he was as humble as he could

  219. be, took out sheets of paper and he started teaching me. It was Chad, many years ago.

  220. And this church has benefited and my life did go to another level because of what I

  221. learned from him. Teachability is critical to breakthrough and teachability involves

  222. humility. It's not that what you know is wrong, it's that what you know is absolutely

  223. incomplete and sometimes irrelevant to your new situation. This church will not be where

  224. it is, was it not for that moment. I could have squandered our inheritance because of

  225. my pride. That's how critical it is sometimes guys. If you notice, I'm not talking about

  226. how humble I was, it was very, very difficult. I'm talking about how proud I was and how

  227. I could have squandered our inheritance because of my pride. As you age, as you age, you

  228. begin to empty yourself, begin to empty yourself materially and spiritually again and again.

  229. If you want a scripture for the last one, it's Proverbs 9.9, Proverbs 9.9.

  230. Proverbs 9.9. You can read it later but it talks about how being teachable really helps

  231. you. Give instruction to a wise man and he will still be wiser. Teach a righteous man

  232. and he'll increase in learning. But it's pointless talking to a scoffer because he'll

  233. hate you while a wise man will love you when you begin to teach him more. The next one

  234. is begin to empty yourself materially and spiritually. As we get older because we are

  235. scared that we are retiring, as we get older because we are scared that we may not earn

  236. an income, as we get older materially and spiritually we stop emptying ourselves. We

  237. did it when we were younger but as we get older we stop doing it because we are scared

  238. now who will help us? Because like Malachi 4.8 says, what does Malachi 4.8 says? That

  239. at 65 I shall abandon thee. We are scared of that. Don't turn to Malachi 4.8. There

  240. is no Malachi 4.8. But the point is we get scared of emptying ourselves. Learn how to

  241. do it again and again. So Jacob, shouldn't we be responsible? We should be good stewards.

  242. We should leave an inheritance for our children. Absolutely. After you give them your inheritance,

  243. learn how to empty yourself again and again. But Jacob, we need to take care of ourselves

  244. and make sure that we have enough money for our retirement. Totally true. But after you

  245. do that, empty yourself again and again. But Jacob, we have needs. We have a mortgage to

  246. pay off. Well then, after you've paid off your mortgage, empty yourself again and again

  247. and again. It's not either or. It's both. And as you get older, it gets harder because

  248. you are scared. Any pushback on that? What we do is as we get older, we invest more and

  249. more. Nothing wrong with that. But if you are investing so that you can empty yourself

  250. again and again, that's more Christ-like. These are not, you know, for some reason,

  251. there's a rumor going around that I said that old people are only meant for praying and

  252. giving. Trust me, I've never said that. And secondly, this is what older people need to

  253. be doing. Emptying myself spiritually is to help people to understand that they are not

  254. able to do it. Here's the thing, guys. How can you empty yourself unless you're filled?

  255. So the moment you say empty yourself spiritually, what you're saying is fill yourself continuously

  256. spiritually so that you can go to empty and fill again. We do that with our cars, right,

  257. till these EVs came along. It was so much fun filling a gas tank. And then it depletes

  258. and you take it to the limit, yeah? Take it to the limit and you keep driving. You know

  259. there's only 50 left, 40 left. You can't do that with EVs. As soon as it hits 15%, Don

  260. is off to a charging station. Doesn't matter how many people are in the car. Doesn't matter

  261. whether his wife is giving birth or not. My EV needs to be charged. Not so with gas cars,

  262. guys. As you age, examine unfinished promises. Ancient paths given you that you haven't walked.

  263. And demand them from God and man. That's what Joshua did in Joshua 14.10. Unfinished promises.

  264. You said that you would give me this land. It hasn't come to pass. 45 years I've waited.

  265. 45 years I've waited. I now demand it. I demand it from God and I demand it from you,

  266. more Joshua. I demand it from God and I demand it from you, more Joshua. I demand it from

  267. God and I demand it from you, more Joshua. Caleb said this. As you get older, begin

  268. to look at the promises that were given you that you absolutely know are from God and

  269. that are dying. The thing with promises is it's a song. Dead things come alive. Dead

  270. things come alive in the name of Jesus. So what if the promise looks dead? You think

  271. it can't be revived? We're talking about a God who only understands resurrection. Death

  272. was not something he invented. It was a consequence of sin. He only understands life and resurrection.

  273. Examine unfinished promises. You don't know how fun it is to get older, guys. Okay, that

  274. didn't get any response. As you age, don't back off from challenges or opposition. Do

  275. not choose the broad way. Take the path less walked. Take the path less walked. Take the

  276. path less walked. As you get older, do this because then Jeremiah 12 verse 5 will go

    Jeremiah 12:5

  277. into effect where you begin to run with horses and outrun the young and mount up with wings

  278. like eagles. Isaiah 40. Wherever you see, I mean, here's the thing. When you look at

  279. God, God will in the life of any man or woman who is 30 plus, God will put challenges and

  280. oppositions in your path so that you can increase. He will. These are not even tests from the

  281. devil. This is more like God tested Abraham so that he can deliver to him another promise,

  282. another promise, another promise. How do you think new promises are going to come your

  283. way because of a prophetic word? No. New promises are going to come your way because

  284. you finished the last old one. Many of us will die with a sack full of prophetic promises.

  285. But what if God really gives new promises when you finish the one that he gave you last

  286. time? That's how he took Abraham. He would send him from, hey, leave your country, he

  287. goes. Leave your clan, he goes. Leave your family, he does that. Offer your son, he does

  288. that. Challenges. And as these challenges come, he rises to it. And as he rises to it,

  289. new promises are delivered. Genesis 12 has a promise. Genesis 15.1 has a promise.

  290. Yeah. Let me define unfinished promise because one of the things that happens to charismatics

  291. like us is our unfinished promises are all personal. What about unfinished promises that

  292. are meant to affect the world? All our unfinished promises, when we talk about unfinished promises,

  293. the first thing that clicks in your mind and my mind is, God said this would happen to

  294. me and it hasn't happened yet. Yes, it hasn't happened yet. Deal with it. It is good to

  295. talk to him about it. But we are not talking about unfinished promises that are personal.

  296. We are talking about unfinished promises given to us for the sake of somebody else, for the

  297. earth. That's what we are looking at. That's what we desire. When you begin to make a promise,

  298. when you begin to desire that, all other things shall be. So that's the first thing

  299. I wanted to do in answer to Anna's question. Unfinished promises look beyond the personal

  300. promises that have been given to us. Now that we look beyond it, how do we deal with it?

  301. Go argue with God. Contend with him. Climb up the watch tower. Stand there and look for

  302. an answer. Bring him your complaint. Ask him what needs to be changed. Tell him you know

  303. he is fair and perfect, but you're not feeling that he is fair and perfect, even though he

  304. is fair and perfect. How would you deal with a promise that your

  305. dad, your physical biological dad would give? How would you deal with it? You would go and

  306. discuss it with him. You would talk to him about it. You would argue with him, but you

  307. would do it honorably. How is this God any different? When you do that, your dad doesn't

  308. say, you know, you're right, bring me that check. Let me sign it, it's blank. Put whatever

  309. you want. No. He gives it to you in a way that's best for you. This dad is much better.

  310. Here's the question then. Do we have unfinished promises that invite us into some other person?

  311. Person's benefit or the world's benefit? And if you don't, go asking for them, saying,

  312. Jesus, don't want anything for myself. Want something for others. Give me something impossible

  313. for others. Man, those kind of Christians are worth their weight in burgers. Or you

  314. thought I'd say gold?

  315. Next one. As you age, receive God's discipline. As you age, receive God's discipline. As you

  316. age, not receive God's discipline. So your weakness is your weakness. Your weakness is

  317. strengthened. Hebrews 12, verse 12 onwards talks about it. Hebrews 12, verse 12 onwards

    Hebrews 12:12 Hebrews 12:12

  318. talks about it. As you age, receive God's discipline. One of the things that happens

  319. as we grow older is there are certain areas of our lives which are weak. It almost gets,

  320. my mom used to do this. She'd say, no, I'm too old now to correct that. Why? Strengthen

  321. the arm that is weak. Strengthen the legs that are weak. In the area that you're weak,

  322. that's where God would love to discipline you. And the moment I say discipline, you're

  323. thinking like some kind of punishment. No. I'm talking about instruction and pruning

  324. that will help me strengthen. While I'm speaking to the 30 pluses, the ones that are below

  325. them, please understand that this is for you also. As I age, this is a very important one.

  326. As I age, forgive offense at lightning speed. As I age, forgive offense at lightning speed.

  327. As I age, forgive offense at lightning speed. As in, erase the memory of it too. Because

  328. sometimes we are able to forgive as Christians, but we can't erase the memory. Because your

  329. ways and your values will be frowned on or challenged. You know, Caleb is here. He's

  330. not here. Caleb was young and I was in the Britain. He's there. Oh my God. Okay, too

  331. bad, Caleb. Caleb was young and I was in his house in the UK and I said something to

  332. him and I said something in him and I thought he listened, but as I walked away, I saw him

  333. and he stuck out his tongue at me. And something rose in me like, how dare he, the little punk?

  334. Who does he think he is? I'm his uncle. Why did he stick out his tongue at me? And all

  335. those thoughts started coming up. It is so easy as you get older when you're not given

  336. the honor or the respect that you're supposed to get. It really bothers you. One of the

  337. things you must learn as you get older is can you forgive offense at lightning speed?

  338. Because if you don't, you will not erase the memory. If I don't erase the memory, the

  339. next time I speak to Caleb, you know what I'll be doing? After I speak to him, I'll

  340. be following him like Nick and Vibi did to see whether he'll be sticking out his tongue.

  341. Because now it's stuck in my memory that this is what he did. He cannot be trusted. And

  342. then all my interactions with him will be based on that one incident. Any questions?

  343. What are we talking about? Why are we talking about this? Because the ones that are 30 plus

  344. must not be like this. That's why you need to build a church that is strong. Another

  345. one. I'll give you three more and then we'll stop. As you age, learn... This is an important

  346. word here. As you age, learn to be foolish and undignified. Learn to be foolish and undignified.

  347. As you age, learn to be foolish and undignified. And if you're young and you still don't know

  348. how to be undignified, learn it because you'll age fast. As you age, learn to be foolish

  349. and undignified. There's a connection between being undignified and foolish and therefore

  350. having God do what he wants. As we age, we get less more and more. Proper. Behavior

  351. age does not apply in Christianity. Any questions? No? Hey Judah, we've got to talk about your

  352. baptism. As you age, may your wisdom... This happens in churches very often. That's why

  353. I'm bringing it up. Like I said, these are intentional teachings. As you age, may your

  354. wisdom not make you absolute. As you age, may your wisdom not make you absolute. As

  355. you age, may your wisdom not make you absolute. As you age, may your wisdom not make you absolute.

  356. Or Ahitofel. The second name we hardly come across, but he was one of Absalom's counselors.

  357. As you age, may your wisdom not make you Absalom or Ahitofel. Go to 2 Samuel 15. 2 Samuel 15.

  358. wisdom instead of bringing people together we are able to bring people

  359. separate because we have the wisdom for it we have the maturity for it we have

  360. the experience for it we have the weight of what we've done about it we have

  361. exploits of the Holy Spirit and then this happens second Samuel 15 to an

  362. Absalom used to rise early and stand beside the way of the gate and when any

  363. man had a dispute to come before the king for judgment Absalom would call him

  364. and say from what city are you and when he said your servant is of such and such

  365. a tribe in Israel Absalom would say to him see your claims are good and right

  366. but there is no man designated by the king to hear you too bad then Absalom

  367. would say oh that I was a judge in the land then every man with a dispute or

  368. cause might come to me and I would give him justice and whenever a man came near

  369. to pay homage to him he would put out his hand and take hold of him and kiss

  370. him Absalom did all did to all of Israel who came to the king for judgment he did

  371. this so Absalom stole the hearts of men of Israel at the end of four years

  372. Absalom said to the king and then the conspiracy continues may you who are

  373. older and who are wiser this applies to leaders it applies to anyone who is over

  374. 30 and wiser know may you not do this because that's not how you build a

  375. fortress church that's how you hollow out a fortress church and the other

  376. thing is I hit Ophelia was a very wise man he used to be David's counselor he

  377. goes and joins Absalom if your wisdom is contrary to what is being taught either

  378. come and deal with it with a person who taught it and show the person the error

  379. of his ways but if you cannot do that do not be an Absalom I'm so committed to

  380. building this church as a fortress because of what awaits it that the only

  381. way to sometimes deal with Absalom is to confront Absalom any questions any push

  382. back

  383. I hit Ophelia's in second Samuel 17 verse 14

    2 Samuel 17:14

  384. as you aid live your life more publicly as you aid live your life more publicly

  385. I hit Ophelia's

  386. one more we can stop are there some really good points then we need one and

  387. then I'll explain one this is so critical guys expect this if you're 30

  388. the rush of the Spirit to suddenly cause you to do mighty exploits. And when this happens,

  389. do it immediately. One of the things God does with people as they get older is suddenly

  390. the Spirit of God will come upon the person. And you can take a jawbone of an ass and weaponize

  391. it and kill 300 Philistines. You can give birth to things when you're important. It'll

  392. be the sudden movement of the Holy Spirit. When that begins to happen to you, when that

  393. to anyone here who's over 40, oh my God, do not wait. Immediately do it. It's the rush

  394. of the Spirit. It's this special sending of the Holy Spirit upon you for a particular

  395. reason. Do it immediately. Because when we don't, it just drags on, man. We miss opportunities.

  396. You know, every revival that has happened in the world was started by people over 40

  397. amongst the people who were 20s. Hebrides 2.0, classic example. Two women, Peggy and

  398. Sue, what were they doing? Praying. How old were they? 80 plus. Who was the guy who came

  399. to preach? Duncan Campbell. How old was he? 65 plus. He comes to an island and these two

  400. women look at him and say, we don't know if you're really the kind. You don't look like

  401. you really think this is going to happen. Oh God, if this is not the man, they have

  402. the guts to pray while he's standing there. Oh God, if this is not the man, send us the

  403. right man because he doesn't look the type. He was so embarrassed that he decided he better

  404. go and be the type. So he goes and here's the thing. He's at a conference preaching

  405. when the Spirit of God says, go to Bannerus. And so he gets up halfway through the conference,

  406. doesn't finish his assignment and goes to this island. And then these women call him

  407. out like this. And so he goes and he begins to preach. And as he's preaching, nothing

  408. is happening. And he's thinking to himself, boy, this is really going sour. And then one

  409. young man stands up and he begins to pray. And the Spirit of God descends upon that village

  410. and Hebrides 1.0 starts. Every revival on the face of the earth was started by people

  411. over 40 and 50. When your church gets younger, never lament the fact that, oh, we are not

  412. wanted anymore. That's just, I wish certain words were actually kosher. I would use them,

  413. but I can't. To think like that, that as the church gets younger, we, the older ones,

  414. don't have a place. Man, they are getting here because of what you have already done.

  415. And you better not stop till you die. Once you begin to age, don't look for belonging.

  416. Oh, I don't feel like I belong. Forget that. We're not looking for belonging. As you age,

  417. the question is not whether you belong. It's whether you're a pillar that is willingly

  418. able to carry the weight of the house. Hear me again. Once you begin to age, as in once

  419. you cross the 30, 35, 40 mark, you're not looking to see whether I belong. You're looking

  420. to see, please make me a pillar in this church so that my frailty can carry the weight of

  421. this church. That's what you want. When acceptance is an issue with the older brother, it usually

  422. ends up in resentment. Hear me again. When acceptance is an issue with the older brother,

  423. it usually ends up in resentment. Repent of it. I have to close because I said I will.

  424. See you tomorrow. 7 p.m. If you need prayer, there will be people here to pray with you.

  425. You won't see the guys from Bahrain next week. So you can say bye to them. Otherwise, let

  426. me just pray. Father, as we listen to this teaching, one can feel like we're not in the

  427. right place. Some of the points can feel like you're being clubbed. But this is not a clubbing

  428. about this. This is just putting it straight out saying, if this is where you're at, change

  429. because what I'm about, I'm not talking about me, I'm talking about you. What I'm about

  430. is building a fortress church and I will not compromise on it. I would prefer talking about

  431. faith, Father, but you will get what you want. We will change to give you what you want.

  432. Spirit of God, you alone can take something that's sometimes hard-hitting, sometimes a

  433. sharp, harsh rebuke and turn it into something that may still hurt, but it feels like I need

  434. to change in this area. Only you can do it. I prayed, I asked you today before I taught

  435. this, oh God, help me to do it in a way that doesn't compromise it, but not using this

  436. as a bully pulpit to despise or dismiss. The only reason I'm praying it out loud is so

  437. that people know where it's coming from. But if there are ones that are bruised, I pray

  438. that you would help them with their bruise, but that you would not let them free. That

  439. you would work on their hearts and say, he's talking about you. While you take away the

  440. bruise of a, may your finger, Holy Spirit, bring correction. May it begin with me. That

  441. sounds like a really pious sentence. May it begin with me, oh Lord. But really, could

  442. you please hold the teacher responsible? And you said that teachers better be careful because

  443. what they teach, they'll be held responsible for. So hold me responsible, but do not take

  444. your finger off this church, Holy Spirit. Put the finger where the heart needs to feel

  445. the cold from heaven's hurt on the lips hurts. I pray that you would do that, Spirit of God.

  446. Starting with my lips, but any set of lips here that need to feel the burn of heaven,

  447. let it happen through these sets of teachings. That will only give us one choice. Turn and

  448. align with what you want to do or, I don't know what the or is, Father. I'll just leave

  449. it at the sign of hope. Turn and align. May that happen to my life and the lives of this

  450. church. That's what I ask for now. In Jesus' name, amen. Cool? Feel free to come up for

  451. prayer, guys. I know you've been coming for the last three days or three and a half days.

  452. Edwin, you can get up and leave because I might go on.