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The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness | Laura Macfarlen

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  1. So good morning and welcome again, everyone.

  2. My name's Laura MacFarlane. I generally attend with my

  3. husband Greg and son Uyazi, who are both at home today because

  4. they're a bit sick, or at least Uyazi is.

  5. And so I'm here alone. And today we're going to be

  6. continuing through our series on Fruits of the Spirit.

  7. Our topic today is going to be on kindness in Galatians.

  8. And Nelly kindly has agreed she's going to be reading

  9. Galatians 522 to 25 for us. There's a few different versions

  10. floating around and slightly different words used.

  11. We're going to be reading from the NIV.

  12. But the fruit of the Spirit is Lovejoy, peace, forbearance,

  13. kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and

  14. self-control. Against such things there is no

  15. law. Those who belong to Christ have

  16. crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

  17. Thank you. Great.

  18. So I don't know about you, but often when I see a lot of words

  19. that are similar grouped together, I generally think of

  20. kind of the general vibe of things, especially if we're in a

  21. hurry, we just kind of say, well, those are all nice things

  22. that we're reading about, kindness, peace, goodness.

  23. So when I read verse 22 particularly, and I'm hoping

  24. it's staying on the screen, the fruits of the Spirit as a whole,

  25. I'm often thinking, well, the fruits of the Spirit are really

  26. just being a good person. And if we look at a few verses

  27. just before that, in verse 19, those works of the flesh as they

  28. described, I think, well, that's being, that's being a bad

  29. person. And we really just get a feeling

  30. for what we're reading and then we move on to the next.

  31. But today what we're going to try do is to consider each word

  32. in these verses as breathed out by God.

  33. And we it's important to sometimes take that step to

  34. meditate on this particular word.

  35. Think how is it different from the one?

  36. Why did God include this list? Why didn't he just say be a good

  37. person? And when we adopt this approach,

  38. we sometimes, at least sometimes, we find that our our

  39. Bible reading can be so much more fruitful and we can really

  40. learn quite a bit. So today we're going to pause

  41. and we're going to consider the idea of kindness in quite a bit

  42. of detail. We're going to do it three ways.

  43. We first going to try see what we can glean from the word

  44. kindness in verse 22. So we're going to look in the

  45. actual verses around it. We're then also going to be

  46. looking at Galatians in general. We know that books of the Bible

  47. like this, which are written by Paul, there's often these

  48. recurring themes that they're not saying contradictory things.

  49. So it helps us as we trying to interpret what does God mean

  50. here by kindness, to look at the context of the book as a whole.

  51. And then we're also going to be looking at a more holistic

  52. reading by bringing in some other texts and making sure our

  53. view of kindness is aligned to a reading of the Bible as a whole.

  54. And I know I'm not the only one who sometimes just groups these

  55. together because a few weeks ago Ryan came and he mentioned that

  56. he was preaching on kindness. And I was a bit taken aback

  57. because I directly written my preach by then on kindness.

  58. And then I can't remember what he's actually preaching on.

  59. Could be gentleness, could be goodness.

  60. But the point is that both me and Ryan just kind of group all

  61. of those together. You're preaching on gentleness.

  62. OK, there we go. All right, so as we go through

  63. the sermon, I'm going to encourage you to think

  64. constantly about two things. Firstly, how does this word, how

  65. does God's word change the way or develop the way that we see

  66. God and this considering this word of kindness?

  67. And secondly, I want us to think also personally, as we go

  68. through this word, what is God maybe saying to me or to us as a

  69. church and not just to have this download of more information

  70. like we've had in the week to be stored separately.

  71. We know God's word is active and alive and we know he's speaking

  72. to us. So let's really approach it with

  73. those open hearts. All right?

  74. Today we're going to be looking at 4 questions as we look

  75. through kindness. The first is what?

  76. What is kindness? We're then going to look at why.

  77. Why would we desire kindness? Why would we even consider this?

  78. We're going to look at who who we call to be kind to.

  79. And then we're going to end off with the how, which is often the

  80. the most tricky part. So starting with the what, what

  81. is kindness and particularly how do we separate it from the other

  82. fruits of the spirit as you're mentioning gentleness, Paul

  83. doesn't give us, unfortunately. A footnote at verse 22 with a

  84. definition of this is what I mean by kindness and Galatians

  85. is a book as a whole. It mentions many things that we

  86. might think is kind. It mentions praying for each

  87. other in chapter 6. It mentions bearing each other's

  88. burdens, but it doesn't necessarily always link these to

  89. kindness. So we're going to have to go a

  90. little bit further. And one of the ways I find quite

  91. helpful when I'm reading something and I'm wondering what

  92. does it really mean in this context is to look at some of

  93. the commentary. Now we have commentators, the

  94. commentary you're going to look at today is for the ESP study

  95. Bible. Commentators who study the

  96. Bible, who look at where's this word used, what are the specific

  97. translations and the message that's overarching in the Bible

  98. of as a whole. And they give us some guidance

  99. as to what they think it means. So the ESP study Bible indicates

  100. that kindness means showing goodness, generosity, and

  101. sympathy towards others. And that's the the definition

  102. that they give for this particular word that's used in

  103. verse 22 of the passage we're looking at.

  104. The second thing we can do is we can also look at where else is

  105. the word mentioned in the Bible? Now we're going to be looking at

  106. the English version. You can also go into the

  107. specific other languages, but where else is kindness used and

  108. what's the context there? What can we learn?

  109. So kindness can also be understood in that way to mean

  110. mercy or steadfast love. In Micah 6 verse eight, in the

  111. context of God speaking to his people that he doesn't want

  112. mindless routine sacrifice. He wants peoples whose hearts

  113. are changed, transformed to look like him as those followers.

  114. Those are his true followers. And in that context he says he

  115. wants people to of kindness or pursue kindness.

  116. Another clue for us of what this kindness means is found in One

  117. Corinthians chapter 13 verse 4 to 6, where it sees kindness as

  118. a part of what it means to love. The verse that we all know very

  119. well, it says love is patient and love is kind.

  120. So it's not the whole of love, but I believe kindness is a part

  121. of what it means to love. Another way when we considering

  122. a word in the Bible and how to know what it means is to look at

  123. some examples. Sometimes we know what it is

  124. when we see it, even if we can't describe it very well.

  125. So sometimes what we can do is we can look at examples of what

  126. we might see as kindness in the Bible, and then we can unpack

  127. some of those characteristics. What is it that makes it kind?

  128. So one example I'll give is from Ruth and Boaz.

  129. We're not going to go to the story, but you can read it in

  130. Route 2 to 4. And in the story, Boaz let's

  131. Ruth, who's a poor foreign widow, collect food in his

  132. fields. And what she was collecting was

  133. what he wasn't really going to be using anywhere.

  134. It was what would be left for the birds, essentially.

  135. But he also instructs his workers to leave a bit extra for

  136. her to make it a little bit easier.

  137. And what's kind about that is, firstly, we know that he asked

  138. around about her. So he knows that she needs the

  139. food. I mean, those days, a woman

  140. without a husband, it wasn't as common, wasn't as easy to work.

  141. And she's a widow, so she really needed some extra assistance.

  142. But he doesn't just go to her and say, well, here's a whole

  143. lot of food in a bag. I've done it for you.

  144. He gives her dignity, allows her to continue with what she's

  145. doing, but he also doesn't tell her.

  146. So he's not expecting anything returned because she doesn't

  147. even know what he's done. He's simply taking steps behind

  148. the scenes to make her life a little bit easier.

  149. So that gives us a bit of an idea about what kindness might

  150. look like in that story. Another one is from Two Samuel

  151. 9. It's David, and I meant to ask

  152. someone how to say this nicely. Mephibosheth.

  153. I'm going to call him Mr. M for now.

  154. So David shows kindness to Jonathan's disabled son by

  155. restoring his land and inviting him in this part of the Bible to

  156. eat at his table every day. So what is kind about that?

  157. Well, firstly, he gives him stability by giving him land.

  158. He gives him this long term way to have sustainable income

  159. again. He doesn't just throw a few gold

  160. coins to make himself Betty. He's thinking, how can I really

  161. set you up well? But more than that, and quite

  162. importantly here is he gave him recognition and company, so he

  163. was going to be able to eat at the King's table forever more.

  164. And he doesn't have to eat alone.

  165. So not only does he have that link and that ability to have

  166. some status or on earth, which he might not have had before,

  167. but he's also doesn't have to be alone.

  168. He's going to be with people around him.

  169. And we know that in those days, disabled people weren't treated

  170. particularly well. So it wouldn't have been

  171. elevating the King's status to have him at his table.

  172. But he's really doing it because he wants to show him kindness.

  173. And we know that he had very little to offer in return.

  174. We know this also because how does he respond to the King's

  175. offer? He says, what is your servant

  176. that you should notice a dead dog like me.

  177. So he's he's coming forward in the position that well, I know I

  178. don't have anything to repay you with.

  179. So thank you. This is this is unexpected and

  180. it's really just coming from kind heart.

  181. Then the third and last example I want us to look at in the

  182. Bible is from John 81211 and it's about Jesus.

  183. When a crowd brings for forth a woman who's caught in adultery

  184. and they want to stone her because of the sin that she's

  185. been caught in, and Jesus protects her from condemnation

  186. and he, he restores her dignity. He was perfect.

  187. He had the moral authority to say, yes, that was wrong.

  188. I would never do it. He, he could have gone with the

  189. crowd who is looking to punish her, but instead he doesn't take

  190. the easy or popular choice without condemning, sorry,

  191. without condoning her sin. He shows her compassion.

  192. He doesn't join in with a crowd, but it's what, what's quite

  193. important about this part of the story is he also says go and sin

  194. no more. So he, he indicates that this is

  195. wrong. I'm, I'm not accepting it.

  196. I'm not being soft on this, but I'm showing kindness to you.

  197. And that's an important part of our definition of kindness as

  198. well, because kindness doesn't deny truth.

  199. Kindness just delivers truth with grace and humility.

  200. And I've got a personal example that I've shared with some of

  201. you that I was grappling with recently.

  202. I've someone at work who's not been performing very well.

  203. They haven't even been working a full day and their work products

  204. not great. And I've gently communicated the

  205. truths over many months and tried to help them perform.

  206. But I have a Co manager and we manage this person together.

  207. He's not a Christian and he's taken the approach of I don't

  208. really want to deal with this, so I'm not going to be doing

  209. anything. That approach is a lot easier

  210. because you don't get pushed back.

  211. You don't have to deal with conflict and you're a lot more

  212. liked by employees. And I was, I've been grappling.

  213. I've also been considering, well, is that approach more kind

  214. because it doesn't feel very kind.

  215. I'm having to deal with this conflict.

  216. I'm having to face something and pray about it and make sure it's

  217. done in a nice way. But I I want his job.

  218. I want to just just leave it and through lots of discussions with

  219. mature Christians and lots of prayer, I've been coming more to

  220. the peace that actually that's not a kind approach.

  221. It's not a kind approach to leave it.

  222. It's because it ignores the growth that you can see in

  223. someone. It ignores their ability to take

  224. opportunities to grow. It also ignores the impact that

  225. someone's not performance or non attendance at work having on

  226. others, the clients, the people that you're supposed to serve,

  227. maybe on the Co workers who are picking up more slack.

  228. So often we we avoid these kind of discussions or we avoid being

  229. engaging with difficult topics because we see, well, as a

  230. Christian, I need to be kind and kind just means avoid conflict

  231. at all costs. But we see that that as Jesus

  232. did that that's not really what kindness is.

  233. Kindness involves honesty. We want to communicate with love

  234. and humility. We want to pray about the right

  235. timing and how much and how to do and if we're the right person

  236. to do it. But we also need to be honest

  237. and kindness doesn't ask us to leave that honesty behind.

  238. So why don't you take a moment and consider something that some

  239. examples that might be personal to you take, take a thought and

  240. think about even this week, was there any opportunities where

  241. other people showed kindness to you?

  242. Did you see someone give kindness to someone else?

  243. Was someone perhaps kind to you or did you miss an opportunity?

  244. If anyone wants to share, you're welcome to pop your hand up and

  245. and stand up. But start to start to think a

  246. little bit about what does this mean for me?

  247. Is it something I've even thought enough about to come up

  248. with an example? I'll give you a second.

  249. Some examples might be quite silly.

  250. It might be doing someone's washing for them.

  251. If you have a roommate or someone that you stay with.

  252. It might be preparing a meal for someone.

  253. It might be paying someone's train fare.

  254. It might even just be praying with someone when you know they

  255. really need that support and company.

  256. It might be someone giving someone the better seat in

  257. public transport, if you can see they just they just had a bad

  258. day and they just might need a bit of extra comfort.

  259. And what these examples that we're thinking of, what it

  260. should lead the other person to think is why me?

  261. That was unexpected because like Mr. M as we calling him, there

  262. should be no specific reason that we do those things.

  263. It's not because I think you're going to help me in the future.

  264. It's not even because I feel guilty about it.

  265. So I want to make myself feel better.

  266. It's simply because I know that that would be pleasant for you.

  267. I know it would make your life easier.

  268. So we should be doing things constantly that have that

  269. reaction of what? Why me?

  270. Why would you do this for me? You didn't have to because if

  271. you had to, it might not really be coming from from the heart of

  272. kindness. So looking at these definitions

  273. and these examples and this commentary is some of the

  274. characteristics that we can draw into some bullet points of our

  275. definition of kindness is this, it requires action.

  276. So kindness mustn't be confused with just being nice.

  277. Someone can be very nice, but do very little for other people.

  278. I just, I have good feelings towards you, but kindness

  279. requires you to do something. There's also no expectation of

  280. reward or no other reason for being kind.

  281. But what you're really looking to do when you're being kind is

  282. just to make someones life a little bit more pleasant or a

  283. little bit easier. It might be offering to do nice

  284. things for them, helping them, listening to them, just

  285. recognizing them and spending time with them.

  286. Or it might be giving as well. And sometimes it might be, you

  287. might be thinking, well, I mean, I don't really know all the

  288. opportunities. When Laura gave me a minute, I

  289. couldn't really think of that many.

  290. But I'm not going to tell anyone.

  291. So how do I, how do I think about when to be kind?

  292. I mean, it's something that you learn in grade one, but it's not

  293. something I've really had anyone speak to me about after after

  294. that and learning values in primary school.

  295. And what I found quite helpful is in Galatians itself.

  296. Early on in Galatians 514, we reminded of the Golden Rule,

  297. which says for the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one

  298. command, love your neighbor as yourself.

  299. And we already know from Corinthians that part of love is

  300. to be kind. And where does Paul come up with

  301. this in in Galatians? Where does he come up with this

  302. golden rule? Because he didn't make it up.

  303. Jesus himself taught this and said it twice, once in Matthew

  304. 7, once in Matthew 22. Both times he essentially

  305. speaking about the greatest commandment, this golden rule,

  306. and he speaks about loving God and loving your neighbor as

  307. yourself. And if you're anything like me,

  308. you're probably quite good at finding out what you want.

  309. You're quite good at thinking about expectations of what would

  310. be nice for someone else to do for you.

  311. And that's probably the easiest way to think about how can I be

  312. kind is to think about if I was in that person's shoes, what

  313. would I want? What would make my life more

  314. pleasant or easier? If it's a couple who've just had

  315. a child, it might be going to pray with them about their

  316. parenting and about the child. It might be taking them a meal.

  317. If it's a single person and you know, they don't have much

  318. family in town, maybe it's inviting them to some family

  319. dinners, to some family events and just to like bringing them

  320. as part of your community. If it's someone's society tends

  321. to shun or only deal with in a certain way, maybe it's simply

  322. taking the time to look them in the eye to have a conversation

  323. that doesn't involve advice or giving but just recognizes them

  324. as a person. Might even be something as

  325. simple as letting your roommate have the better room but letting

  326. someone have a shower when you both come home cold.

  327. About giving someone the nicer meal.

  328. If you have two options. Small things that you just know.

  329. I would like it if someone did that for me so I'm going to do

  330. it for them now anyway. And then moving on to our why is

  331. what? Why do we need to be kind?

  332. There's a famous movie, I don't know if anyone's watched it

  333. cause called because I said so. And it's really this mocking on

  334. this human idea of always wanting to ask why.

  335. If you tell your kids don't do that, don't eat that you're not

  336. allowed to do that. What is the general response you

  337. get Why? And as adults we like to think

  338. of it as more childish thing. If someone offered a promotion

  339. and it's not you at work, why something bad happens.

  340. Why? If someone else gets a benefit

  341. and they're like, why not me? And I think the reason is we

  342. often tend to accept things more and we often are able to act

  343. more if we know the why. So it's, it's a lot of studies

  344. and courage in the workplace is try get your employees on board

  345. or try get your family on board. If it's parenting, if people

  346. understand the why, they're more likely to get behind an idea and

  347. to do it. So why would we be kind?

  348. Why would we even try? The first reason we're going to

  349. go back to our cortex today is in Galatians 5, verse 22 to 25.

    Galatians 5:22–25

  350. It tells us that those who belong to Christ have crucified

  351. the flesh with its passions and desires.

  352. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.

  353. So part of the reason why is because it's our very nature.

  354. It's God's design is when we belong to Christ.

  355. Paul mentions later in Galatians 6 that we this new creation, we

  356. we every day we dying to our desires because this

  357. transformation is taking place. It's a reality for those who

  358. call Christ their Lord. So we continue to make mistakes,

  359. but we're empowered by the Spirit to be transformed.

  360. And this leads to our our second point is as we being transformed

  361. to be more like God's character. Part of the why is because God

  362. is kind, because God has been kind to us.

  363. From Romans 2 verse one to four, it says, Do you suppose a man,

  364. you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them

  365. yourself, that you will escape the judgement of God?

  366. Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance

  367. and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead

  368. us, meant to lead you to repentance.

  369. So how did God show us kindness? God showed us kindness by

  370. sending His Son to die for us. This free offering of grace is

  371. just the most beautiful picture of kindness we know.

  372. So we want to imitate our Father's kindness to us.

  373. We wanted to overflow because we know someone has been so kind to

  374. us. And Luke 6:35 to 36 emphasizes

    Luke 6:35–36

  375. this idea as well. It says, But love your enemies

  376. and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your

  377. reward will be great, and you'll be sons and daughters of the

  378. Most High. For he is kind to the ungrateful

  379. and the evil. Be merciful even as your Father

  380. is merciful. So we are kind because our God

  381. is kind to us, but our God is kind to everyone.

  382. Our God is kind and we want to imitate that.

  383. And then lastly, kindness is so critical and important to God

  384. and often more than we often imagine.

  385. One of my favourite verses in the Bible outlines 3 things that

  386. God asks of us. Now just give you a second think

  387. of three things. If you have to summarize, what

  388. does God require of me? What does God need me to do?

  389. And I will give you a hint that it's in the Old Testament.

  390. What are the three things that you would come up with that God

  391. requires of you? It's in Micah 6 verse 8, and it

    Micah 6:8

  392. simplifies God's instructions to his people.

  393. And three, three tasks says he has told you a man, what is good

  394. and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to

  395. love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.

  396. And this is in the context we spoke about it earlier of God

  397. saying he doesn't want this mindless sacrifice.

  398. He wants this. He wants this of a Christ or a

  399. follower of him and it sounds quite simple to love kindness or

  400. other other versions use mercy, but it's not something we often

  401. prioritize We it it doesn't sound glamorous.

  402. We might even think it's a bit weak and unambitious in today's

  403. day. We want to conquer, achieve,

  404. lead, and we want to succeed, but I don't know how many of us

  405. in our New Year's resolutions had be kind.

  406. And yet it's three-part of three things that God says he requires

  407. of us as a whole is to be kind. And I wonder if we give it the

  408. same amount of priority as God does.

  409. Then the third question is who? I'm not going to spend a lot of

  410. time on this because I know everyone in this room.

  411. We we know who who. It's more just that when you're

  412. in those moments, it becomes a bit cloudy.

  413. Is that academically we could write on a paper, we'd all get

  414. 100% in theory, but it's the practical that we probably

  415. struggle with a little bit more on The Who, Well, let's look at

  416. it anyway. It's in Galatians 69 to 10.

  417. So the same book that our core text is from, and we're going to

  418. read it again. It says let us not grow weary of

  419. doing good for due season. We will reap if we do not give

  420. up. So then, as we have opportunity,

  421. let us do good to everyone. Let us do good to everyone and

  422. especially to those who are in the household of faith.

  423. The one thing I don't want us to do is just to catch on to that

  424. end part. It's to everyone, but mainly,

  425. mainly just to the Christians. You know, the other people are

  426. the ones we don't really want. So, so we can have a look at

  427. Luke 6 from 35 to 36. We read it earlier, it says, but

  428. love your enemies, do good and lend expecting nothing in return

  429. and your reward will be great. It will be sons of the most high

  430. for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.

  431. He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.

  432. So we have kindness to those who believe we have kindness to the

  433. grateful and the evil. I think that means everyone the

  434. the full spectrum. And then how we're going, how

  435. can we be empowered to be kind? Kindness is a quality that's

  436. gained a lot of popularity in the last decade.

  437. I don't know if you've seen, but as I drive to from work, there's

  438. a big sign on a bull ball that's just be kind and you see it

  439. online on people's profiles. It's mainly non religious groups

  440. actually that are putting it forward there.

  441. It's almost like tolerance. It's this ideal, this value that

  442. if we were all just kind, all our problems would go away.

  443. But what these simple declarations sometimes miss is

  444. that as humans, we're often not kind.

  445. We find it quite hard. So how do we sustain this more

  446. consistent kindness that the world needs?

  447. And we know if we try in our own strength again and again, we

  448. probably going to fail. And then we're going to feel

  449. guilty. And then we're going to be

  450. focused on ourselves because we're thinking about all our

  451. guilt and then we're going to be less kind.

  452. So it's it's probably not a recipe for success is to really

  453. just dig deeper. But let's look at the fruits of

  454. the Spirit again in the context of the whole of Galatians.

  455. Galatians 5, five to six says for through the Spirit we

  456. eagerly wait by faith, the righteousness for which we hope

  457. for in Christ Jesus. Neither circumcision nor

  458. uncircumcision has any value. The only thing that counts is

  459. faith expressing itself through love.

  460. And I take from this that we're to work through the Spirit.

  461. We're to be patient and wait as this process, this righteousness

  462. to come, starts to take root. And we need faith as we express

  463. it through love. And what is it in which we hope?

  464. What is the hope referred to here?

  465. We know that it's Jesus who transforms us, who gives us

  466. supernatural ability and power to be kind, although it's not

  467. always in our nature. And we see this coming, this

  468. fruit. It's partly now and it's partly

  469. something that we'll only see in the far future, but we know that

  470. it's, it's something that is constantly at work.

  471. And then if we go back to our, our text in Galatians 5 today,

  472. where we started in the same section where Paul speaks about

  473. kindness in the fruits of the spirit, he repeats the same idea

  474. three times. The 1st is in Galatians 516.

  475. He says, so I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify

  476. the desires of the flesh. And he speaks about the desires

  477. of the flesh being contrary to this idea of the Spirit, to the

  478. fruits of the Spirit, including kindness that we speak of.

  479. Then he goes on in verse 25, he says since we live by the

  480. Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.

  481. And then finally Galatians 6-7 to 8 gives us further ideas.

  482. It says do not be deceived. God cannot be mocked.

  483. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their

  484. flesh will reap destruction. Whoever sows to please the

  485. Spirit from the Spirit will reap eternal life.

  486. So can we, can we be kind by Googling ideas and just trying

  487. really hard to implement them from tomorrow is I think we're

  488. going to run out of steam pretty quickly.

  489. But how do we sow into the Spirit?

  490. Galatians as a whole tells us quite clearly it's by being so

  491. close to the Spirit, keeping in step with the Spirit, living in

  492. the Spirit. And what does that mean

  493. practically? I see it meaning just walking so

  494. closely with God is spending time with God, is being

  495. dependent on him and daily decisions and thoughts as we

  496. keep going back to him and saying, God, I can't do this

  497. alone, but I, I know that you can.

  498. And I believe you are transforming me and will

  499. continue to transform me. And as we move away from that,

  500. we probably get back into our works and we start to fail

  501. again. And when we feel like we're

  502. frustrated and we feel like we're not doing a good job,

  503. rather than walking into the guilt, we just need to run back

  504. and say, let me walk by the Spirit.

  505. Let me keep in step with the Spirit.

  506. How do I get closer to God? Because because guilt's part of

  507. the reason is to drive us further and further away from

  508. God. But how do I keep in step and

  509. live with the Spirit? So let's do a bit of a personal

  510. check in and consider our last month.

  511. Were we kind? Karine's nodding.

  512. I think she was. Were we kind?

  513. If we were, was it to our family or was it to strangers?

  514. What about people in this community?

  515. What about people that repel us, that we don't respect?

  516. Perhaps they sin in ways we don't.

  517. Perhaps they're people who've been mean or unfair to us

  518. personally. If you like me, we'll probably

  519. find it easier to be kind to children.

  520. We can find it easier to be kind to old people.

  521. They seem to deserve our kindness more.

  522. It seems more appropriate. And as Christians, we call to go

  523. far beyond that. We're called to be kind to the

  524. able bodied man who who doesn't spend as much of his income on

  525. his family as he should. We call to be kind to the man

  526. who spends more of his money on alcohol than his wife and kids.

  527. The man who doesn't want to work even though we think he should

  528. be called to be kind to the woman who sells her body on the

  529. side of the road. Be called to be kind to the boss

  530. at work. That's selfish and doesn't treat

  531. us as an equal human being. These are the people that

  532. include those we are called to be kind.

  533. And remember as we do this, it sometimes seems a bit counter

  534. even Christian. But to be kind does not mean to

  535. condone sin. It does not mean to just be

  536. permissive, it means to to just share God's kindness with them.

  537. And why don't we consider those in this community?

  538. Have we been kind to them in the last week, in the last month?

  539. You might have heard the saying that the opposite of love is not

  540. always hate. It can also be indifference.

  541. So if if you haven't thought about anyone in this community,

  542. if you haven't prayed for them, if you haven't seen them, if you

  543. haven't prioritized them, perhaps that's something that

  544. God might be pointing out to you.

  545. It's, it's not, it's not. If we avoid, then we avoid being

  546. kind. If we avoid, then we we probably

  547. failing unkindness. And if kindness doesn't extend

  548. beyond our partners or our our close knit family, then we're

  549. probably not being full ambassadors for Christ and we're

  550. probably not offering the world the kindness that only

  551. Christians can and that they so desperately need.

  552. So looking at a quick summary of today, our four questions that

  553. we're looking at is what kindness?

  554. If we remember one thing on the what I want us just to remember,

  555. the golden rule is afraid of loss of how to be kind.

  556. If we're not sure what the kind thing to do in the situation is,

  557. we consider what would we want if we're in that person's shoes.

  558. And in doing this, we want to remember that we don't need to

  559. condone sin. We don't need to be permissive.

  560. We just call to be kind. And the why?

  561. His kindness and Our Calling as we can be kind because God was

  562. first kind to us. He's resulted in US having life

  563. and eternity. So as we overflow with his

  564. kindness, we can imitate Him and be kind to those around us.

  565. We know that to be kind is to be kind to everyone, even those

  566. that we we don't feel deserve it because we didn't deserve it

  567. when God was kind to us. And we'd accept our limitations

  568. and cling to Christ on the how, because Christ is our only hope.

  569. Without walking closely with God, without depending on Him

  570. daily, we can never hope to transform our character and

  571. offer the kindness to the world that it so desperately needs.

  572. I'd like to pray for us as we close the message, if you can

  573. stand. Heavenly Father, we want to

  574. thank you for the Word today from Galatians, we want to thank

  575. You that when the world can be so confusing and there's so many

  576. messages, God, your message can come so clearly through your

  577. Word in the Bible. Lord, help us as individuals, as

  578. a community to cling to your truth.

  579. Lord, help us to experience your kindness.

  580. For anyone here who who hasn't experienced that kindness, who

  581. that sounds foreign to, Lord, won't you move towards them once

  582. you show them your kindness? Show them the path that leads to

  583. life, that you accept them, that you love them, and that you want

  584. a close relationship with them, Lord, For some of us who might

  585. have taken your kindness for granted, Lord, that we've gone

  586. in our own path and thought we can do things ourselves, draw us

  587. back, Lord. Help us to depend on you to

  588. transform our character so that we can see these fruits of the

  589. Spirit more and more in ourselves each day, Lord, not

  590. because we are good, but because you are so good.

  591. And the closer we are to you, Lord, the more we can reflect

  592. that, the more we can taste and feel what it is to have Your

  593. kindness. Lord, we pray against the

  594. barriers that we have to some types of people, especially

  595. people who do things differently to us.

  596. We all are so fallen and sin, Lord, but sometimes we, we tend

  597. to feel better than those who sin differently to us.

  598. Once you point that out to us, Lord LED us in this room, in

  599. this community, let us people be people who are kind to everyone,

  600. who are kind to who we see as the undeserving because we know

  601. we too are undeserving of your great and eternal kindness.

  602. Lord. We thank you for this beautiful

  603. day, Lord, and we pray that you'll just move among us, be

  604. with us this week. Fill us with your Spirit and

  605. help us to move forward in peace and confidence with our hope and

  606. you, Jesus Christ. I'm in.