Sermon
The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness | Laura Macfarlen
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So good morning and welcome again, everyone.
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My name's Laura MacFarlane. I generally attend with my
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husband Greg and son Uyazi, who are both at home today because
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they're a bit sick, or at least Uyazi is.
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And so I'm here alone. And today we're going to be
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continuing through our series on Fruits of the Spirit.
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Our topic today is going to be on kindness in Galatians.
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And Nelly kindly has agreed she's going to be reading
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Galatians 522 to 25 for us. There's a few different versions
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floating around and slightly different words used.
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We're going to be reading from the NIV.
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But the fruit of the Spirit is Lovejoy, peace, forbearance,
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kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and
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self-control. Against such things there is no
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law. Those who belong to Christ have
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crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
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Thank you. Great.
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So I don't know about you, but often when I see a lot of words
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that are similar grouped together, I generally think of
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kind of the general vibe of things, especially if we're in a
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hurry, we just kind of say, well, those are all nice things
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that we're reading about, kindness, peace, goodness.
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So when I read verse 22 particularly, and I'm hoping
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it's staying on the screen, the fruits of the Spirit as a whole,
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I'm often thinking, well, the fruits of the Spirit are really
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just being a good person. And if we look at a few verses
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just before that, in verse 19, those works of the flesh as they
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described, I think, well, that's being, that's being a bad
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person. And we really just get a feeling
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for what we're reading and then we move on to the next.
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But today what we're going to try do is to consider each word
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in these verses as breathed out by God.
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And we it's important to sometimes take that step to
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meditate on this particular word.
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Think how is it different from the one?
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Why did God include this list? Why didn't he just say be a good
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person? And when we adopt this approach,
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we sometimes, at least sometimes, we find that our our
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Bible reading can be so much more fruitful and we can really
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learn quite a bit. So today we're going to pause
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and we're going to consider the idea of kindness in quite a bit
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of detail. We're going to do it three ways.
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We first going to try see what we can glean from the word
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kindness in verse 22. So we're going to look in the
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actual verses around it. We're then also going to be
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looking at Galatians in general. We know that books of the Bible
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like this, which are written by Paul, there's often these
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recurring themes that they're not saying contradictory things.
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So it helps us as we trying to interpret what does God mean
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here by kindness, to look at the context of the book as a whole.
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And then we're also going to be looking at a more holistic
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reading by bringing in some other texts and making sure our
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view of kindness is aligned to a reading of the Bible as a whole.
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And I know I'm not the only one who sometimes just groups these
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together because a few weeks ago Ryan came and he mentioned that
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he was preaching on kindness. And I was a bit taken aback
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because I directly written my preach by then on kindness.
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And then I can't remember what he's actually preaching on.
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Could be gentleness, could be goodness.
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But the point is that both me and Ryan just kind of group all
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of those together. You're preaching on gentleness.
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OK, there we go. All right, so as we go through
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the sermon, I'm going to encourage you to think
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constantly about two things. Firstly, how does this word, how
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does God's word change the way or develop the way that we see
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God and this considering this word of kindness?
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And secondly, I want us to think also personally, as we go
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through this word, what is God maybe saying to me or to us as a
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church and not just to have this download of more information
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like we've had in the week to be stored separately.
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We know God's word is active and alive and we know he's speaking
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to us. So let's really approach it with
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those open hearts. All right?
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Today we're going to be looking at 4 questions as we look
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through kindness. The first is what?
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What is kindness? We're then going to look at why.
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Why would we desire kindness? Why would we even consider this?
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We're going to look at who who we call to be kind to.
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And then we're going to end off with the how, which is often the
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the most tricky part. So starting with the what, what
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is kindness and particularly how do we separate it from the other
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fruits of the spirit as you're mentioning gentleness, Paul
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doesn't give us, unfortunately. A footnote at verse 22 with a
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definition of this is what I mean by kindness and Galatians
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is a book as a whole. It mentions many things that we
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might think is kind. It mentions praying for each
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other in chapter 6. It mentions bearing each other's
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burdens, but it doesn't necessarily always link these to
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kindness. So we're going to have to go a
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little bit further. And one of the ways I find quite
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helpful when I'm reading something and I'm wondering what
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does it really mean in this context is to look at some of
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the commentary. Now we have commentators, the
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commentary you're going to look at today is for the ESP study
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Bible. Commentators who study the
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Bible, who look at where's this word used, what are the specific
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translations and the message that's overarching in the Bible
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of as a whole. And they give us some guidance
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as to what they think it means. So the ESP study Bible indicates
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that kindness means showing goodness, generosity, and
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sympathy towards others. And that's the the definition
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that they give for this particular word that's used in
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verse 22 of the passage we're looking at.
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The second thing we can do is we can also look at where else is
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the word mentioned in the Bible? Now we're going to be looking at
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the English version. You can also go into the
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specific other languages, but where else is kindness used and
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what's the context there? What can we learn?
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So kindness can also be understood in that way to mean
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mercy or steadfast love. In Micah 6 verse eight, in the
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context of God speaking to his people that he doesn't want
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mindless routine sacrifice. He wants peoples whose hearts
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are changed, transformed to look like him as those followers.
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Those are his true followers. And in that context he says he
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wants people to of kindness or pursue kindness.
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Another clue for us of what this kindness means is found in One
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Corinthians chapter 13 verse 4 to 6, where it sees kindness as
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a part of what it means to love. The verse that we all know very
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well, it says love is patient and love is kind.
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So it's not the whole of love, but I believe kindness is a part
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of what it means to love. Another way when we considering
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a word in the Bible and how to know what it means is to look at
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some examples. Sometimes we know what it is
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when we see it, even if we can't describe it very well.
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So sometimes what we can do is we can look at examples of what
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we might see as kindness in the Bible, and then we can unpack
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some of those characteristics. What is it that makes it kind?
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So one example I'll give is from Ruth and Boaz.
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We're not going to go to the story, but you can read it in
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Route 2 to 4. And in the story, Boaz let's
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Ruth, who's a poor foreign widow, collect food in his
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fields. And what she was collecting was
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what he wasn't really going to be using anywhere.
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It was what would be left for the birds, essentially.
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But he also instructs his workers to leave a bit extra for
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her to make it a little bit easier.
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And what's kind about that is, firstly, we know that he asked
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around about her. So he knows that she needs the
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food. I mean, those days, a woman
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without a husband, it wasn't as common, wasn't as easy to work.
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And she's a widow, so she really needed some extra assistance.
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But he doesn't just go to her and say, well, here's a whole
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lot of food in a bag. I've done it for you.
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He gives her dignity, allows her to continue with what she's
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doing, but he also doesn't tell her.
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So he's not expecting anything returned because she doesn't
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even know what he's done. He's simply taking steps behind
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the scenes to make her life a little bit easier.
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So that gives us a bit of an idea about what kindness might
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look like in that story. Another one is from Two Samuel
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9. It's David, and I meant to ask
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someone how to say this nicely. Mephibosheth.
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I'm going to call him Mr. M for now.
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So David shows kindness to Jonathan's disabled son by
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restoring his land and inviting him in this part of the Bible to
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eat at his table every day. So what is kind about that?
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Well, firstly, he gives him stability by giving him land.
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He gives him this long term way to have sustainable income
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again. He doesn't just throw a few gold
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coins to make himself Betty. He's thinking, how can I really
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set you up well? But more than that, and quite
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importantly here is he gave him recognition and company, so he
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was going to be able to eat at the King's table forever more.
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And he doesn't have to eat alone.
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So not only does he have that link and that ability to have
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some status or on earth, which he might not have had before,
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but he's also doesn't have to be alone.
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He's going to be with people around him.
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And we know that in those days, disabled people weren't treated
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particularly well. So it wouldn't have been
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elevating the King's status to have him at his table.
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But he's really doing it because he wants to show him kindness.
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And we know that he had very little to offer in return.
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We know this also because how does he respond to the King's
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offer? He says, what is your servant
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that you should notice a dead dog like me.
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So he's he's coming forward in the position that well, I know I
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don't have anything to repay you with.
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So thank you. This is this is unexpected and
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it's really just coming from kind heart.
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Then the third and last example I want us to look at in the
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Bible is from John 81211 and it's about Jesus.
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When a crowd brings for forth a woman who's caught in adultery
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and they want to stone her because of the sin that she's
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been caught in, and Jesus protects her from condemnation
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and he, he restores her dignity. He was perfect.
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He had the moral authority to say, yes, that was wrong.
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I would never do it. He, he could have gone with the
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crowd who is looking to punish her, but instead he doesn't take
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the easy or popular choice without condemning, sorry,
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without condoning her sin. He shows her compassion.
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He doesn't join in with a crowd, but it's what, what's quite
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important about this part of the story is he also says go and sin
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no more. So he, he indicates that this is
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wrong. I'm, I'm not accepting it.
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I'm not being soft on this, but I'm showing kindness to you.
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And that's an important part of our definition of kindness as
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well, because kindness doesn't deny truth.
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Kindness just delivers truth with grace and humility.
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And I've got a personal example that I've shared with some of
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you that I was grappling with recently.
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I've someone at work who's not been performing very well.
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They haven't even been working a full day and their work products
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not great. And I've gently communicated the
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truths over many months and tried to help them perform.
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But I have a Co manager and we manage this person together.
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He's not a Christian and he's taken the approach of I don't
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really want to deal with this, so I'm not going to be doing
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anything. That approach is a lot easier
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because you don't get pushed back.
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You don't have to deal with conflict and you're a lot more
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liked by employees. And I was, I've been grappling.
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I've also been considering, well, is that approach more kind
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because it doesn't feel very kind.
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I'm having to deal with this conflict.
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I'm having to face something and pray about it and make sure it's
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done in a nice way. But I I want his job.
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I want to just just leave it and through lots of discussions with
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mature Christians and lots of prayer, I've been coming more to
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the peace that actually that's not a kind approach.
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It's not a kind approach to leave it.
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It's because it ignores the growth that you can see in
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someone. It ignores their ability to take
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opportunities to grow. It also ignores the impact that
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someone's not performance or non attendance at work having on
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others, the clients, the people that you're supposed to serve,
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maybe on the Co workers who are picking up more slack.
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So often we we avoid these kind of discussions or we avoid being
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engaging with difficult topics because we see, well, as a
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Christian, I need to be kind and kind just means avoid conflict
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at all costs. But we see that that as Jesus
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did that that's not really what kindness is.
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Kindness involves honesty. We want to communicate with love
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and humility. We want to pray about the right
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timing and how much and how to do and if we're the right person
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to do it. But we also need to be honest
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and kindness doesn't ask us to leave that honesty behind.
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So why don't you take a moment and consider something that some
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examples that might be personal to you take, take a thought and
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think about even this week, was there any opportunities where
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other people showed kindness to you?
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Did you see someone give kindness to someone else?
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Was someone perhaps kind to you or did you miss an opportunity?
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If anyone wants to share, you're welcome to pop your hand up and
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and stand up. But start to start to think a
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little bit about what does this mean for me?
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Is it something I've even thought enough about to come up
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with an example? I'll give you a second.
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Some examples might be quite silly.
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It might be doing someone's washing for them.
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If you have a roommate or someone that you stay with.
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It might be preparing a meal for someone.
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It might be paying someone's train fare.
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It might even just be praying with someone when you know they
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really need that support and company.
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It might be someone giving someone the better seat in
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public transport, if you can see they just they just had a bad
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day and they just might need a bit of extra comfort.
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And what these examples that we're thinking of, what it
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should lead the other person to think is why me?
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That was unexpected because like Mr. M as we calling him, there
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should be no specific reason that we do those things.
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It's not because I think you're going to help me in the future.
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It's not even because I feel guilty about it.
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So I want to make myself feel better.
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It's simply because I know that that would be pleasant for you.
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I know it would make your life easier.
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So we should be doing things constantly that have that
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reaction of what? Why me?
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Why would you do this for me? You didn't have to because if
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you had to, it might not really be coming from from the heart of
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kindness. So looking at these definitions
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and these examples and this commentary is some of the
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characteristics that we can draw into some bullet points of our
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definition of kindness is this, it requires action.
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So kindness mustn't be confused with just being nice.
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Someone can be very nice, but do very little for other people.
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I just, I have good feelings towards you, but kindness
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requires you to do something. There's also no expectation of
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reward or no other reason for being kind.
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But what you're really looking to do when you're being kind is
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just to make someones life a little bit more pleasant or a
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little bit easier. It might be offering to do nice
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things for them, helping them, listening to them, just
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recognizing them and spending time with them.
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Or it might be giving as well. And sometimes it might be, you
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might be thinking, well, I mean, I don't really know all the
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opportunities. When Laura gave me a minute, I
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couldn't really think of that many.
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But I'm not going to tell anyone.
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So how do I, how do I think about when to be kind?
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I mean, it's something that you learn in grade one, but it's not
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something I've really had anyone speak to me about after after
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that and learning values in primary school.
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And what I found quite helpful is in Galatians itself.
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Early on in Galatians 514, we reminded of the Golden Rule,
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which says for the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one
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command, love your neighbor as yourself.
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And we already know from Corinthians that part of love is
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to be kind. And where does Paul come up with
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this in in Galatians? Where does he come up with this
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golden rule? Because he didn't make it up.
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Jesus himself taught this and said it twice, once in Matthew
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7, once in Matthew 22. Both times he essentially
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speaking about the greatest commandment, this golden rule,
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and he speaks about loving God and loving your neighbor as
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yourself. And if you're anything like me,
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you're probably quite good at finding out what you want.
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You're quite good at thinking about expectations of what would
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be nice for someone else to do for you.
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And that's probably the easiest way to think about how can I be
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kind is to think about if I was in that person's shoes, what
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would I want? What would make my life more
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pleasant or easier? If it's a couple who've just had
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a child, it might be going to pray with them about their
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parenting and about the child. It might be taking them a meal.
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If it's a single person and you know, they don't have much
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family in town, maybe it's inviting them to some family
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dinners, to some family events and just to like bringing them
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as part of your community. If it's someone's society tends
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to shun or only deal with in a certain way, maybe it's simply
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taking the time to look them in the eye to have a conversation
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that doesn't involve advice or giving but just recognizes them
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as a person. Might even be something as
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simple as letting your roommate have the better room but letting
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someone have a shower when you both come home cold.
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About giving someone the nicer meal.
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If you have two options. Small things that you just know.
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I would like it if someone did that for me so I'm going to do
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it for them now anyway. And then moving on to our why is
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what? Why do we need to be kind?
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There's a famous movie, I don't know if anyone's watched it
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cause called because I said so. And it's really this mocking on
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this human idea of always wanting to ask why.
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If you tell your kids don't do that, don't eat that you're not
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allowed to do that. What is the general response you
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get Why? And as adults we like to think
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of it as more childish thing. If someone offered a promotion
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and it's not you at work, why something bad happens.
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Why? If someone else gets a benefit
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and they're like, why not me? And I think the reason is we
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often tend to accept things more and we often are able to act
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more if we know the why. So it's, it's a lot of studies
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and courage in the workplace is try get your employees on board
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or try get your family on board. If it's parenting, if people
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understand the why, they're more likely to get behind an idea and
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to do it. So why would we be kind?
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Why would we even try? The first reason we're going to
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go back to our cortex today is in Galatians 5, verse 22 to 25.
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It tells us that those who belong to Christ have crucified
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the flesh with its passions and desires.
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Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.
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So part of the reason why is because it's our very nature.
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It's God's design is when we belong to Christ.
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Paul mentions later in Galatians 6 that we this new creation, we
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we every day we dying to our desires because this
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transformation is taking place. It's a reality for those who
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call Christ their Lord. So we continue to make mistakes,
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but we're empowered by the Spirit to be transformed.
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And this leads to our our second point is as we being transformed
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to be more like God's character. Part of the why is because God
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is kind, because God has been kind to us.
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From Romans 2 verse one to four, it says, Do you suppose a man,
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you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them
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yourself, that you will escape the judgement of God?
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Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance
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and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead
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us, meant to lead you to repentance.
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So how did God show us kindness? God showed us kindness by
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sending His Son to die for us. This free offering of grace is
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just the most beautiful picture of kindness we know.
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So we want to imitate our Father's kindness to us.
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We wanted to overflow because we know someone has been so kind to
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us. And Luke 6:35 to 36 emphasizes
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this idea as well. It says, But love your enemies
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and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your
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reward will be great, and you'll be sons and daughters of the
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Most High. For he is kind to the ungrateful
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and the evil. Be merciful even as your Father
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is merciful. So we are kind because our God
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is kind to us, but our God is kind to everyone.
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Our God is kind and we want to imitate that.
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And then lastly, kindness is so critical and important to God
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and often more than we often imagine.
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One of my favourite verses in the Bible outlines 3 things that
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God asks of us. Now just give you a second think
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of three things. If you have to summarize, what
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does God require of me? What does God need me to do?
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And I will give you a hint that it's in the Old Testament.
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What are the three things that you would come up with that God
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requires of you? It's in Micah 6 verse 8, and it
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simplifies God's instructions to his people.
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And three, three tasks says he has told you a man, what is good
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and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to
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love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.
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And this is in the context we spoke about it earlier of God
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saying he doesn't want this mindless sacrifice.
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He wants this. He wants this of a Christ or a
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follower of him and it sounds quite simple to love kindness or
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other other versions use mercy, but it's not something we often
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prioritize We it it doesn't sound glamorous.
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We might even think it's a bit weak and unambitious in today's
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day. We want to conquer, achieve,
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lead, and we want to succeed, but I don't know how many of us
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in our New Year's resolutions had be kind.
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And yet it's three-part of three things that God says he requires
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of us as a whole is to be kind. And I wonder if we give it the
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same amount of priority as God does.
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Then the third question is who? I'm not going to spend a lot of
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time on this because I know everyone in this room.
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We we know who who. It's more just that when you're
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in those moments, it becomes a bit cloudy.
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Is that academically we could write on a paper, we'd all get
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100% in theory, but it's the practical that we probably
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struggle with a little bit more on The Who, Well, let's look at
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it anyway. It's in Galatians 69 to 10.
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So the same book that our core text is from, and we're going to
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read it again. It says let us not grow weary of
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doing good for due season. We will reap if we do not give
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up. So then, as we have opportunity,
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let us do good to everyone. Let us do good to everyone and
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especially to those who are in the household of faith.
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The one thing I don't want us to do is just to catch on to that
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end part. It's to everyone, but mainly,
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mainly just to the Christians. You know, the other people are
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the ones we don't really want. So, so we can have a look at
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Luke 6 from 35 to 36. We read it earlier, it says, but
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love your enemies, do good and lend expecting nothing in return
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and your reward will be great. It will be sons of the most high
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for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.
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He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.
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So we have kindness to those who believe we have kindness to the
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grateful and the evil. I think that means everyone the
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the full spectrum. And then how we're going, how
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can we be empowered to be kind? Kindness is a quality that's
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gained a lot of popularity in the last decade.
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I don't know if you've seen, but as I drive to from work, there's
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a big sign on a bull ball that's just be kind and you see it
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online on people's profiles. It's mainly non religious groups
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actually that are putting it forward there.
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It's almost like tolerance. It's this ideal, this value that
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if we were all just kind, all our problems would go away.
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But what these simple declarations sometimes miss is
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that as humans, we're often not kind.
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We find it quite hard. So how do we sustain this more
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consistent kindness that the world needs?
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And we know if we try in our own strength again and again, we
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probably going to fail. And then we're going to feel
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guilty. And then we're going to be
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focused on ourselves because we're thinking about all our
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guilt and then we're going to be less kind.
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So it's it's probably not a recipe for success is to really
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just dig deeper. But let's look at the fruits of
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the Spirit again in the context of the whole of Galatians.
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Galatians 5, five to six says for through the Spirit we
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eagerly wait by faith, the righteousness for which we hope
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for in Christ Jesus. Neither circumcision nor
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uncircumcision has any value. The only thing that counts is
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faith expressing itself through love.
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And I take from this that we're to work through the Spirit.
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We're to be patient and wait as this process, this righteousness
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to come, starts to take root. And we need faith as we express
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it through love. And what is it in which we hope?
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What is the hope referred to here?
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We know that it's Jesus who transforms us, who gives us
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supernatural ability and power to be kind, although it's not
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always in our nature. And we see this coming, this
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fruit. It's partly now and it's partly
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something that we'll only see in the far future, but we know that
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it's, it's something that is constantly at work.
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And then if we go back to our, our text in Galatians 5 today,
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where we started in the same section where Paul speaks about
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kindness in the fruits of the spirit, he repeats the same idea
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three times. The 1st is in Galatians 516.
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He says, so I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify
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the desires of the flesh. And he speaks about the desires
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of the flesh being contrary to this idea of the Spirit, to the
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fruits of the Spirit, including kindness that we speak of.
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Then he goes on in verse 25, he says since we live by the
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Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.
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And then finally Galatians 6-7 to 8 gives us further ideas.
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It says do not be deceived. God cannot be mocked.
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A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their
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flesh will reap destruction. Whoever sows to please the
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Spirit from the Spirit will reap eternal life.
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So can we, can we be kind by Googling ideas and just trying
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really hard to implement them from tomorrow is I think we're
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going to run out of steam pretty quickly.
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But how do we sow into the Spirit?
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Galatians as a whole tells us quite clearly it's by being so
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close to the Spirit, keeping in step with the Spirit, living in
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the Spirit. And what does that mean
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practically? I see it meaning just walking so
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closely with God is spending time with God, is being
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dependent on him and daily decisions and thoughts as we
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keep going back to him and saying, God, I can't do this
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alone, but I, I know that you can.
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And I believe you are transforming me and will
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continue to transform me. And as we move away from that,
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we probably get back into our works and we start to fail
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again. And when we feel like we're
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frustrated and we feel like we're not doing a good job,
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rather than walking into the guilt, we just need to run back
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and say, let me walk by the Spirit.
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Let me keep in step with the Spirit.
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How do I get closer to God? Because because guilt's part of
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the reason is to drive us further and further away from
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God. But how do I keep in step and
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live with the Spirit? So let's do a bit of a personal
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check in and consider our last month.
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Were we kind? Karine's nodding.
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I think she was. Were we kind?
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If we were, was it to our family or was it to strangers?
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What about people in this community?
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What about people that repel us, that we don't respect?
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Perhaps they sin in ways we don't.
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Perhaps they're people who've been mean or unfair to us
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personally. If you like me, we'll probably
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find it easier to be kind to children.
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We can find it easier to be kind to old people.
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They seem to deserve our kindness more.
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It seems more appropriate. And as Christians, we call to go
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far beyond that. We're called to be kind to the
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able bodied man who who doesn't spend as much of his income on
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his family as he should. We call to be kind to the man
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who spends more of his money on alcohol than his wife and kids.
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The man who doesn't want to work even though we think he should
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be called to be kind to the woman who sells her body on the
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side of the road. Be called to be kind to the boss
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at work. That's selfish and doesn't treat
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us as an equal human being. These are the people that
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include those we are called to be kind.
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And remember as we do this, it sometimes seems a bit counter
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even Christian. But to be kind does not mean to
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condone sin. It does not mean to just be
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permissive, it means to to just share God's kindness with them.
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And why don't we consider those in this community?
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Have we been kind to them in the last week, in the last month?
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You might have heard the saying that the opposite of love is not
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always hate. It can also be indifference.
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So if if you haven't thought about anyone in this community,
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if you haven't prayed for them, if you haven't seen them, if you
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haven't prioritized them, perhaps that's something that
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God might be pointing out to you.
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It's, it's not, it's not. If we avoid, then we avoid being
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kind. If we avoid, then we we probably
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failing unkindness. And if kindness doesn't extend
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beyond our partners or our our close knit family, then we're
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probably not being full ambassadors for Christ and we're
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probably not offering the world the kindness that only
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Christians can and that they so desperately need.
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So looking at a quick summary of today, our four questions that
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we're looking at is what kindness?
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If we remember one thing on the what I want us just to remember,
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the golden rule is afraid of loss of how to be kind.
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If we're not sure what the kind thing to do in the situation is,
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we consider what would we want if we're in that person's shoes.
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And in doing this, we want to remember that we don't need to
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condone sin. We don't need to be permissive.
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We just call to be kind. And the why?
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His kindness and Our Calling as we can be kind because God was
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first kind to us. He's resulted in US having life
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and eternity. So as we overflow with his
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kindness, we can imitate Him and be kind to those around us.
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We know that to be kind is to be kind to everyone, even those
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that we we don't feel deserve it because we didn't deserve it
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when God was kind to us. And we'd accept our limitations
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and cling to Christ on the how, because Christ is our only hope.
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Without walking closely with God, without depending on Him
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daily, we can never hope to transform our character and
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offer the kindness to the world that it so desperately needs.
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I'd like to pray for us as we close the message, if you can
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stand. Heavenly Father, we want to
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thank you for the Word today from Galatians, we want to thank
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You that when the world can be so confusing and there's so many
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messages, God, your message can come so clearly through your
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Word in the Bible. Lord, help us as individuals, as
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a community to cling to your truth.
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Lord, help us to experience your kindness.
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For anyone here who who hasn't experienced that kindness, who
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that sounds foreign to, Lord, won't you move towards them once
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you show them your kindness? Show them the path that leads to
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life, that you accept them, that you love them, and that you want
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a close relationship with them, Lord, For some of us who might
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have taken your kindness for granted, Lord, that we've gone
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in our own path and thought we can do things ourselves, draw us
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back, Lord. Help us to depend on you to
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transform our character so that we can see these fruits of the
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Spirit more and more in ourselves each day, Lord, not
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because we are good, but because you are so good.
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And the closer we are to you, Lord, the more we can reflect
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that, the more we can taste and feel what it is to have Your
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kindness. Lord, we pray against the
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barriers that we have to some types of people, especially
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people who do things differently to us.
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We all are so fallen and sin, Lord, but sometimes we, we tend
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to feel better than those who sin differently to us.
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Once you point that out to us, Lord LED us in this room, in
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this community, let us people be people who are kind to everyone,
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who are kind to who we see as the undeserving because we know
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we too are undeserving of your great and eternal kindness.
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Lord. We thank you for this beautiful
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day, Lord, and we pray that you'll just move among us, be
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with us this week. Fill us with your Spirit and
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help us to move forward in peace and confidence with our hope and
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you, Jesus Christ. I'm in.