Sermon
Your Children’s Children
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Would you turn with me in your Bibles to the book of Proverbs,
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chapter 13, verse 22? If you can't get there fast,
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it's OK. It's very short.
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I'm going to say it a million times this morning.
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And so you might even have it memorized by the time we're
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done. Proverbs, 1322.
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This is the word of the Lord. A good man leaves an inheritance
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to his children's children, but the sinner's wealth is laid up
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for the righteous. I'll read this to you again.
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A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children, but
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the sinner's wealth is laid up for the righteous.
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This is the word of God. Let me pray for us.
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Father in Heaven, we thank you for this morning.
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And Lord, we do thank you for the mothers that you have
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stacked our church with. We thank you for for the
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mothers, for the grandmothers. We thank you, Lord, for all of
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the good gifts that you have given us through those who
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brought us into the world and those who nursed us and, and
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raised us into adulthood. And so I pray, Lord, that our
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mothers would feel honored today as we turn our attention to the
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men in the congregation. And I pray, Father, that you
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would you would help the men here to here without, without
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any semblance of discouragement, some of the high standards that
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your word has for us. But that we as dependent men,
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men that are solely dependent upon you to do all of the work
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that you require in and through us, that this would be a sermon
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that excites us to the possibilities that you intend
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the fruit that you intend to bear through us.
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And that we would that we would run to you daily for for
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empowerment, for direction, for clarity on how to carry these
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things out. And so would you bless our time
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thinking about your word. We ask it in the name of Jesus,
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Amen. OK.
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So many, many years ago, I was thinking and praying about what,
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what to preach on Mother's Day. And where I landed was I, I was
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originally thought, well, I'll preach on biblical femininity.
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And the concern was, as you know, sometimes when you see the
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standard that God calls us to, and it's a really high standard,
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there is no more important vocation in the history of
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mankind than being a mother. I dare you to find one it it
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doesn't exist. It's a very, very high calling.
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And so I thought, man, if I, if I call robustly for what
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biblical femininity is biblical motherhood is, I might bring
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inadvertently a discouragement on Mother's Day.
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And I don't want to do that. So on Mother's Day, I'll preach
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at the men in an effort to give our mothers the gift of a
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better, more sanctified, more Christ like husband, father and
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such like that. And then on Father's Day, we'll
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turn about his fair play. Good for the goose, good for the
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gander. We'll talk to the ladies on
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Father's Day. OK, so my, my desire today is to
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talk to particularly the men of the congregation.
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Doesn't mean you should check out if you're a lady.
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It should mean you should you should be listening close to see
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the type of things you ought to be praying for your husband,
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praying for your father, praying for your future husband.
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And also if you happen to be a wife in the congregation.
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That these are the types of things that when you see even an
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inkling towards these things in your husband that you would tell
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him so that you would put your arm around him and say thank you
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for these things. I see what God is doing and help
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him to see that because the reality is a lot of us are going
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to see these things and think, oh, like, I wish it were me help
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him to see these things. OK, so a wise man once said that
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we all of us, we kind of see our lives as a movie and that we are
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the, the A Lister actor in the movie.
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We're the we're the we're the lead in the movie.
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And the the problem with that is when we when we see our lives as
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a movie that everything revolves around us.
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So congratulations everybody. You guys are cameo extras in my
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life movie. Congratulations.
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Doesn't that just edify us? All right.
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The problem with that is when we see our lives as a movie and us
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as the main character, we could really discourage because if we
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were honest and you saw yourself as a character, the center of a
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movie, you would either be despaired because it's like,
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man, this guy stinks, or yeah, you, you would, you would be
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despairing because your your character is not what you want
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it to be, or you would just be frankly bored.
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It would be like, I don't, I don't want to watch this movie.
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He's doing the same thing again and again and again.
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And it would be discouraging. Now if you if you flip that
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script, though, and say, maybe if your life is just as a
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metaphor, your life is is a movie, but you're not the main
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character. Maybe your job is to be the cool
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cameo here for just a blip on the screen of someone else's
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movie, which are always the most fun when you see people you love
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as a cameo. You're like, Oh my gosh, that's
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the guy from whatever. Well, this man said we need to
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start seeing our own our own lives as like we want to devote
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our lives to be the the really significant influence in the
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hero of the stories life in the first like chapter or two.
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That's what we want to be as we want to be people who who
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influence those around us, those that are going to come after us.
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So that 100 years from now, 50 years from now, someone who's
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leading, someone who's bearing fruit in the world will say,
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men, if I had to look back and think back about how I became
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the man that I became or how I became the woman I became, that
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they would look back on you and God's grace to them through you
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and say they had a they were just really significant in a
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turning point in my life. And so that's what I want to
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think with you on this morning from Proverbs 13 again, Proverbs
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1322, listen to these words. A good man leaves an inheritance
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to his children's children. A good man leaves an inheritance
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to his children's children. Now let me give you a warning
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before we labor through this. The warning is when we, those of
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us who believe God's Word, and all of us do, when we hear a
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good man leaves an inheritance not just to his kids, but to his
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children's children, here's what we, here's what we tend to do.
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We will, we will say, OK, well then I want to rate my goodness
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as a man because a good man leaves an inheritance to his
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children's children. So to rate my goodness as a man,
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what I'm going to do is get a blank sheet of paper, put
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liabilities on this side and assets on this side and compare
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those numbers. And whatever that number is that
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comes out, that's my rating, that's my goodness rating.
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And so if it's like all black and there's a whole bunch of
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zeros, I feel like I'm great. If it's all red and a whole
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bunch of zeros, I feel like I'm, I'm failing.
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That is a terrible, terrible way to look at this text.
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OK. It is your, your goodness as a
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man. The inheritance that you leave
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to your children's children is not just a financial
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inheritance. I don't know if you guys know
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saw this, but years ago when Jimmie Johnson got elected to
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the the NFL Hall of Fame, all of these grown men, it's the, it's
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the monsters, the greatest monsters in the world, right?
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They're the toughest men in the world.
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And they see their coach go into the Hall of Fame and they're all
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weeping. They're all happy.
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His ex-wife is there, their sons are there.
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And he gets up and he starts talking about how his life as a
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as a football player, he was a national championship.
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He was a great player on the national championship team at
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Arkansas. Then he went on to win to win
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the national championship in Miami.
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Then he goes on to win 2 Super Bowls with the Dallas Cowboys.
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And he gets into the to the to the Hall of Fame, the NFL Hall
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of Fame. And as he was talking about all
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of these things, you would think, right, Jimmie Johnson,
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like any, any, all of his sons with the last name of Johnson
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say, yeah, my dad is that guy. My dad is Jimmie Johnson and
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everybody knows him. And as he's talking about his
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his induction into the end of the Hall of Fame, one of the
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first things he did is to to apologize to his ex-wife and to
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his children. Because he said I was, I was so
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hell bent on getting here that I was willing to sacrifice you for
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me. And so he was like, I, I never
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missed, even if I was sick, I was watching film on our next
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opponent. I never saw my son throw a
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football in a football game. I never got to go into the
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actual football game and see and see my son.
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So he's got all sorts of wealth and honor and fame to pass on to
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his kids, but they would trade it in a heartbeat for just
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having had their their dad around.
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So your legacy to your children is not just a financial legacy.
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So what I want to do is I want to think of about seven ways
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that we leave an inheritance for for our children and for our
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wives. And again, the the whole scheme
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is that we would not that we would honor God as as men, as
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husbands, as as fathers, and that we would give our wives the
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gift of a husband that is aiming at these things with his life.
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OK. So first of all, that we would
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aim at giving a covenantal inheritance to our children and
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to our children's children, a covenantal inheritance.
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So by God's grace, by God's covenant keeping grace, this is
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the inheritance of a Christian man who has built his house upon
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the rock, a Christian man who says, Lord, I want to, I want to
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get married, I want to have children.
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I want to build everything on the foundation of the Lordship
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of Christ and loyalty to Him, and I want to, I want your
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covenant keeping grace to be on me and on my people forever.
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OK, so the covenant promise of God is promised to 1000
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generations. I want you to listen to this.
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This is Deuteronomy 7. The Lord says to his people, you
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are a people holy to the Lord your God.
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The Lord your God has chosen you to be a people for His treasured
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possession out of all the people who are on the face of the
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earth. Now let me just pause and remind
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you, Simon Peter. And first Peter takes these very
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verses and says it to a bunch of Gentile Christians.
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But this is you. This is your inheritance because
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of your relationship to Christ, that out of all the peoples, you
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are a chosen race of royal priesthood.
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You are a people for listen to this, for God's treasured
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possession out of all the people in the face of the earth.
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That's you and that's me. Peter says it was not.
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Now this is humbling. We don't want to see this, but
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it's there. It is not because you were more
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in number than any other people that the Lord set his love on
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you and chose you for you were the fewest of all the people.
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Why did God love me? It's because I'm so handsome and
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I'm so great. No, no, why?
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Why did he love them? But it's not because you were
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the most, but it is because the Lord loves you that watch this.
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He is keeping the oath that he swore to your father's that the
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Lord brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you
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from the House of slavery, from the hand of Pharaoh, king of
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Egypt. And then he gives this
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imperative command like you need to remember that it wasn't you.
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It's not your love ability. It's the covenant keeping God.
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He promised to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, and therefore you saw
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his mercy on you. And so Moses says in Deuteronomy
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7. Know therefore that the Lord
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your God is the faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast
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love with those who love Him and keep His commandments.
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Listen to me to 1000 generation, think about how precious that
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would be. If God comes to me and says Will
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Martin I knew you before the foundation of the world and I I
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covenant myself to you, I will be gone to you forever.
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That would be the an amazing promise.
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But if I am worth half of a turd, what am I going to say to
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God when I'm married and I have 8 souls that have come from my
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loins? God, thank you for being my God.
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What about my people? Is there any hope for them?
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That's the promise of the old and the new covenants that that
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is realized in Christ, that God promises to be God to us and to
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our offspring for 1000 generations.
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This, brothers and sisters, is where we get the notion of
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infant baptism, right? So we have, we have this idea
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that that in the Old Testament you would ask who was
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circumcised? And in the old covenant there
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were two types of people that were circumcised.
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There were children physically born in inside the covenant,
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born 2 covenant members. They were circumcised
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immediately. And then you had this open
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invitation to any stranger who wanted to come in.
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If you want to come in and be a part of the covenant community,
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you believe that God is God and you come into the community and
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then you're circumcised. And then there's one rule for
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everybody. And it's the same in the new
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covenant that we baptize, we put children of Christians into the
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covenant when they're born, we baptize them and we, we put them
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in, in the covenant of the covenant community.
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And we welcome outsiders who've never known Christ to believe in
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him and be baptized. And so this, this idea of a, of
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a covenant tool, a covenantal inheritance that we're passing
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on to our children and to their children that we're putting the
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name of the triune God on them before they ever knew that he
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was around, because God intends to be their God.
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And so I'll just say this as well in passing, and it's, it's
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really helpful. Think about for a moment, think
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about the difference between the old and new covenants, the new
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covenant that the New Testament says repeatedly that we have a
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better we have it better than the old system.
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Would you guys yes and Amen that does anybody want to go back to,
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to blood and goats and calves and all that stuff or do we have
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enough in Christ? Christ is very much better.
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OK, better covenant built on better promises with better
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oaths the the book of Hebrews tells us.
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And so let me ask you something. Let's say you had a health
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insurance program that cost you quite a bit, but it was really
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good coverage and it, it covered you, your wife covered your,
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your children and it's, it was really expensive.
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It was really costly. It was all you can do to pay for
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it. But everything, everything is,
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it's covered. It's great insurance, you know,
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really small deductible, really small copay, all of those.
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And then your insurance agent comes to you one day and he
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says, listen, I've got great news.
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I've got a better system for you.
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This system is going to be all the coverage that you've ever
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had before, but it's going to be free to you.
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There's no co-pay. There's there's nothing annexed
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to you. There's no there's no
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deductible. It's just everything is free and
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it's all yours. Isn't that a great deal?
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And you would say, man, that's amazing.
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And then he says, but here's the catch.
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The in the in the in the old system included your children.
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This one does not. So it's all free to you, but
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your kids are now not covered, you would say.
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In what possible world is that a better covenant?
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Is that a better insurance program?
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Well, when the new covenant comes to us, it is given to us
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and to our children. That's what Peter says at the
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very first Christian sermon to Christian people.
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Repent to be baptized for the forgiveness of your sins.
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You will receive the Holy Spirit.
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The promise is for you and for your offspring and for as many
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as the Lord will call to himself.
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And so they understood and we understand a covenant
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continuity. And This is why we baptize our
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children. And so gentlemen, we need to
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think in terms of the covenant succession of God to his
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faithfulness to, to us and to our children to 1000
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generations. I was thinking about this this
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week and I'm, I'm glad my dad is not here because it would be
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hard for me to talk about it. But my, my parents got a divorce
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when I was in 3rd or 4th grade and there's a lot about my
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upbringing that I would not wish on my worst enemy.
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OK, so some, some things were, were not great, but I want you
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to understand that I am the, the reason I love Christ, the reason
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I love God's word, the reason I've, I've devoted my life to,
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to, to teaching and explaining God's word is directly because
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of my dad. I got no, no money from my dad.
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But when my parents got a divorce, he moved to Bonham,
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mom's in Denton. And so when they would drive
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halfway and hand me off in the worst place in the world, I wish
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I could burn it to the ground, but it's Jack in the crack in
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McKinney. It's jack-in-the-box in
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McKinney. That's where we would, we would
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drive up and my dad, whom I love, would be with me in one
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car. And my mom, whom I love, would
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be in another car and I would get out and I would go get in
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the car and they couldn't talk to each other because it had all
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fallen apart. And it was just no, no child
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should see that. And it's hot.
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But as hard as that was on those drives, it's one of the greatest
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childhood memories that I, that I have that I can, that I can go
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back to is being in the car with my dad and saying, Hey, tell me
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a story. And he would say, do you want a
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football story or do you want a Bible story?
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And it was almost always no, tell me a Bible story.
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And he would just pour the scriptures into me and I from
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from as early as I can possibly remember, I just loved God's
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word and it and it was not despite my dad.
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It was because of him. That is a covenant inheritance
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that is mine. And so if God if God gave me the
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opportunity, look, I'll rewind and I'll give you door a you you
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will come to know Christ later in life, but you won't know
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anything about the word. You won't have been raised on
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the things of God, but from your dad you'll get a billion dollars
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cash. Or you can just go back and redo
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and get a love for God's word, a love for Christ.
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When you were tiny, which would you choose?
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I would not have to hesitate for a moment.
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He gave me a much greater inheritance by giving me a love
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for the Word of God than any finances he could have ever
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bestowed upon me. And so, brothers, you give your
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children and your children's children a spiritual inheritance
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by being in a covenant with Christ, by honoring him as Lord.
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And so man, for the sake of your for the sake of your children's
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children, trust the Lord, honor him, obey him, grow in the
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knowledge and obedience to his word and pass that central
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passion onto your children. And your children's children
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will reap a reward because God has promised and he will keep
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his word. And I would just say, man, we
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we're in this sweet moment in our church where we can look
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around and like some of you are like coming into those the
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beginnings of the grandparent years.
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And you we get to see, you might not see it, maybe you do, but we
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get to see the covenant legacy of God's grace upon your
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children and their children. And it's just beautiful.
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Shoot for that, brothers. OK, Second kind of inheritance
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is a relational inheritance. OK, so let me ask you.
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And again, don't get discouraged.
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Just like allow. Allow the Lord to to to invite
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an examination of your home. How is the atmosphere of your
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home? Is your home a place of like of
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of like grinding stress where there's attitudes and and mom
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and dad are not on the same page where where everybody's
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frustrated? We Roy read you from from the
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book of Colossians like the the command to husbands is to love
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our wives and to not be harsh with them.
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And so brothers, are you being are you being tender with your
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wife? Are you being loving with your
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wife? You can be tough for your wife.
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Scratch that, you must be tough for your wife.
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But are you being harsh with her or are you being tender?
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Are you being kind with her? Do your kids get to see you
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flirt with her, open her door, compliment her, take care of
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her? Or do they always hear you being
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harsh with her? Second, from from Colossians,
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don't exasperate your children, Christian men, we are bad about
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this. And listen, it takes one to no
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one, OK? Requiring things of my children
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that I want for them because I know it would be good for them,
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but things that I don't do well, right?
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How is that for an exasperation? Stop yelling at each other,
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right? You just can't do that.
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It doesn't work. It's exasperating.
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So your marriage first, that your children second, just
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thinking about the atmosphere of your home.
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And then and then just generally when when people come into your
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home, is there the aroma of Christ, is it able to be
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discerned in your home? And praise God, a lot of us,
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most of us are, are there. I can't, I can't think of a
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single instance where I came into one of your homes and I
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thought, oh man, this place is like terrible.
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There's there's always this, this Christ centered unity
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there. OK, so how do you talk about
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husbands wives? How do you talk about each other
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in your home? And I'm just this is a
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parentheses. I know I'm coming at the guys,
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but I want to say this to wives. Somebody said this to me the
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other day. It was it was profoundly wise
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that sometimes wives when, when, when a couple gets married early
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on, that's where they form their best habits and their worst
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habits. And one of the worst habits that
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wives will will with a good intention will inadvertently
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fall into is that they will, they will convince themselves
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that like they look at their their husband and they say, man,
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he's got two or three things that he does really well that
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I'm so grateful for. And then he's got about 29
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things that just really stink that he really needs to grow up.
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He really needs to quit being a turd.
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He really needs to get this stuff together.
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And wives will start to think, especially young ones, But then
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it becomes a habit. They'll think that, look, if I,
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if I thank him for working hard to provide for us, what he's
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going to think is that I've signed off on all of his vices.
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If I praise his virtue, it he's going to interpret that as like,
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hey, all of your vices are like no big deal.
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And so they withhold any gratitude, withhold any praise.
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And so husband just says, man, I'm, I'm doing the best I can
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and I get like no feedback, no gratitude from my bride.
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Again, a wise man once said that a husband slouches towards
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criticism, but he will rise up to affirmation.
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And so so wives, are your children hearing you speak about
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your husband in an honoring way? Do they get are you giving them
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that legacy of like men? Every, every time my mom opened
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her mouth, it was to praise my dad.
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There's been two or three times in the in our school where like,
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I'll pepper kids with questions behind a pulpit.
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And then on occasion I'll stick the ladies, Kelsey and Laura and
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Gracie up behind the pulpit and I'll pepper them with a
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question. And it'll always be something
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like, you know, if you could change one thing or whatever.
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And all of them are like, they go back and speak as though
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their husbands are the standard of all human goodness.
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And it's beautiful. It's beautiful.
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And their kids get that repetition of like, man, my mom
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thinks my dad is the cat's pajamas and it's amazing.
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So husbands, do your do your children.
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So wives, do your children hear you speaking well of your
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husband and to your husband? Husbands, how how are we
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treating our children and our wife?
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Are we setting a good example there?
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Listen to me, brothers again, your marriage is this important
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because it's a lived parable of the relationship between Christ
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and his church. And the people that most need to
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see that message preached truly are your own kids.
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Kids need to grow up in a home where where the, the husband
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reeks of Christ and the wife reeks of the church.
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And they just are on the same page.
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And again, I hope you understand I'm preaching to the choir.
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I, I feel like I know that none of us are perfect, but, but I
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see this worked out in so many of your families and homes.
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And it's, it's a treasure. So thirdly, you can leave your
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children a theological inheritance, a theological
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inheritance. And please don't think in terms
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of systematic theology. It doesn't matter if you ever
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talk about the transcendence of God and the imminence of God or
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the omnipresence of God. That doesn't matter that you use
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those words. What matters is that it's there.
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What matters is that you, you demonstrate to your children
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that you have a personal God. You delight in his sovereignty,
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you delight in his Tri unity, you delight in his covenantal
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care for for yourself and for them.
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You delight in his wisdom, you delight in his goodness.
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There's a theological inheritance is optimism about
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the world and the things have gone.
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So you think about this when you follow and when you when you
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spend time with the Martin kids, you will hear them singing
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Psalms. You'll hear them talking about
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great reads and you'll hear them cussing taxes.
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That's what you'll hear from Martin family.
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And there might be a good reason for that, right?
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Because they picked that up. They picked that up from me.
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Would that they I hope they do. I hope they pick it up for me
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that there's a that there's a consistent imperfect desire to
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just live in the presence and in the power of the Lord that when
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when I'm coming up insufficient for something that I would stop
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and pray aloud so that they get to hear those things.
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So brothers, this is the theological inheritance.
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Don't be some Armenian whack job that that that paints the
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picture of God as a distant Father in heaven who's just sort
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of watching you do the rat race and waiting to ZAP you when you
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take the wrong turn. No, God is with you that he's
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near, He's sovereign, He's guiding, He's instructing, He's
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close, He loves. Trust God's promises to you and
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then start living like they are true.
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And as you try and seek to leave a theological inheritance to
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your children, I would just challenge you to ponder a new
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what the Almighty can do if with His love, He befriends you.
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What would it look like to be a friend of God in front of your
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wife and in front of your children?
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Beautiful. Fourthly, leave them an
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ecclesiastical inheritance. And again, I'm preaching to the
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choir. Think about the type of church
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that you go to is, are are you going to A to a church that
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wants more than anything to exalt the name of Christ, to
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preach the standard of God's word so that we can all repent
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and be and be be transitioned to that standard?
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Are we going to a church where the, the people in leadership
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are the type of people we want our, our daughters to marry, we
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want our sons to be like, Or is it like, are we going to the
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type of church that just always tells us what we want to hear,
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that always wants to, to make us comfortable and never wants to
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challenge us on anything, never wants to disagree.
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The, the type of church that you go to really matters.
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And then listen, the, the, the way that you go to that church
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really matters. We, we are a very simple church.
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We get together basically consistently once a week.
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And so and, and that's on purpose.
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We don't want you to be here at the church building seven days a
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week. We had a season of that early on
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and it was not very fruitful. We want you to, we want to
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gather together and worship and renew the covenant with God.
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And then we want to scatter. And so any involvement in the
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families of the church is going to be like kind of on us to, to,
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to, to pursue. And so we need to be, we need to
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be demonstrating that to our children that we have a, that we
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have a covenantal ownership of the body of Christ.
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And so I was trying to think about a good way to articulate
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this. And I was, I was telling Scott
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like right before he, he said, and then our, our church is
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growing and praise God, it is. And I saw, I saw some pictures
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the other day of the, of the renovation of our sanctuary,
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right? And it was awesome because like
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there's pictures of virtually everybody in our church at the
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time doing, you know, doing work.
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And, and I, there's a, there's an overwhelming absence of my
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presence there. I was just like not, not a, not
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a part of it, but and, and, and didn't even see what all you, oh
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man, they showed up and stand before I didn't even know.
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That's amazing. And so you, you watch, you watch
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all of that. And, and I was telling Scott
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like in one of those pictures, there's a picture of our worship
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service when we used to be, you know, more lightly attended.
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And then it was an off Sunday for that.
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And it was just like, they were like 8 of us here.
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That's what I felt like. OK, But but here's what's here's
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what's marvelous. It's like those those that were
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here had this idea of a family involvement in the church that
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like good or bad, we're just here, this is our this is our
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place. And, and what's really, what's
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really interesting is I remember when, when Cody and Rimley and I
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can't remember what stage of his, of his, you know, doctoral
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program he was in, but he had an option to go.
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Like he had an option to, I could go here, I could go here.
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And I was asking him when he came, like, what are you
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thinking? And what was so cool is he was
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like, well, we're just really involved in our church here.
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And so we're going to go, do you guys remember this where he's
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like, we just man, we love the community here.
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And so we're going to, we're going to be here.
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It was like, who, who? What a strange and glorious
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thing, right? To say we're in a culture where
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any of us say, hey, we got a, we got a we got to pick up roots
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and we got to move to where the work is.
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Nobody bats an eye at that. But it's rare to have somebody
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say, you know, we're going to be here because of our involvement
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in the church here. And I think again, it's that
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legacy. It's like what they grew up
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with, right? We just were a part of, we're a
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part of the church and it's beautiful.
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And so I might ask, where in the world did Cody get that
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mentality? And we know ecclesiastical
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inheritance 5th is a political inheritance.
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Notice it's on the 5th. It's not.
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This is not top of all things, right?
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This is not the most important thing.
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This is not where we should start.
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But listen to me. Faithfulness will always, always
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land here. It'll impact this eventually.
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So September 17th, 1787, when the Constitution was ratified,
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the story goes that Ben Franklin steps out of the meeting and a
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lady who I think was very famous, I always heard it as a
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story of just some some rando lady who asked a great question
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like man, how did she have that one loaded?
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But she was very sharp. She was very well known.
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And she yells out, well doctor, what do we have?
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A Republic or a monarchy? And Ben Franklin chuckled and he
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said, and I quote, a Republic, if you can keep it, you've got a
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great form of government, the best form of government
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available to sinners, if you can keep it.
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And that's a big if. Like can we guard the things
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that that are part of our political inheritance from our
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forefathers and can we guard them so that we can pass them
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on? So there are a couple guys
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running local guys that are running for office 1 for, for
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state, state Congress and then one for county judge.
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And we were talking to the county judge candidate about
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he's, he was a army. What are those things?
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Chopper, chopper pilot. He was talking about how he got
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into politics. He said I had no intention to
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run, but Goosky Eastman, the guy running for for Congress, he
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said he we were talking and I was lamenting the leaders that
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we have and Goose Gisman told Mr. Holman, He said, hey, if
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only idiots and evil men will run for office, then your
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children will be governed by idiots and evil men.
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That's a pretty great way to look at it.
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Like if the only people that will run are idiots and evil
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men, then that's all we're ever going to have.
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And so part of faithful Christian men throughout
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history, part of that has been this reluctant but willing idea
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that, you know, we we really should stand up and take
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responsibility for political evils, especially in our local
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area. And so one of the, one of the
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reasons our country is the way it is, is that good men have not
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thought, thought deeply about political inheritance that
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they've received and the one that they owe to their, to their
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children's children. And so we need to resurrect this
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idea that we're supposed to count.
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And what we're doing now, it really does impact that whole
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$90,000,000 bond thing from LaGrange ISD.
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That was, you know, we're all talking about like, we, we got
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it, we got to bless the children.
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Our children are the future. And it's like you're talking
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about saddling them with debt for, for 30 years, they're going
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to be grandparents before they pay it off.
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That's not, that's not forward thinking.
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OK, so, so let me just briefly say abortion has to end for the
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sake of a political inheritance that we could pass on.
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And we can't make all abortion in the whole world.
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We will one day because Christ is Lord and he's going to bring
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his Lordship everywhere. But we could absolutely start at
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home and make sure that in our county and in our state that
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this evil cannot be done. We need to make sure that
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property tax ends in our state. And I know that's a huge ask,
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but as Roy told us before he prayed for us, God is more
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willing to give us big things than we are willing to ask for
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big things. But property tax has to die
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precisely because that is a sin against the inheritance that
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we're giving to our children's children, right?
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The, the, the property that God gives men belongs to men, not to
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governments, not to states. And so there's all sorts of
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biblical taxation that is fitting, that is OK.
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That we should pay and gladly pay the property tax is not one
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of them. We should fight that staunchly.
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We should fight state-run education staunchly.
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All of these things have brought about the apostasy of nearly 8
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of 10 children raised in Christian homes.
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That has to end, right? The, the statistics are out.
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It's, it's between 70 and 80% of Christian, of Christian kids
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punt the faith two years after leaving home for college.
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And so we would ask whose job is it to fix all these things when
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we are a Republic, We're a Republic as long as we can keep
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it. Whose job?
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Well, it's our job. It's our job.
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And if we don't do it, it ain't going to get done.
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I heard a a man preaching to Eli's, the students at Eli's
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college. And he was talking about these
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very things, the Constitution. And he said, listen, guys, if
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you don't knuckle down and study here, nobody's going to do this.
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Nobody is requiring even just a cursory reading of the
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Constitution anymore. And so if you guys don't do it,
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if y'all don't endeavor to rebuild what we have lost, it's
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not going to get done. So we are Christian men.
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Our job is to disciple the nations so that we can leave our
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children a political inheritance.
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I have two more and I'm almost done.
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Sixthly, we need to leave our children an economic
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inheritance. And again, it's not just the
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dollar sign that's it's the, it's a bad way to look at it.
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We need to leave them things like a cheerful and a diligent
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work ethic that we would understand and teach our
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children that work existed before sin into the world,
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right? Not that life in the garden was
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just a continual Sandals resort, right?
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Where it's all inclusive and you don't have to do anything.
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You just lay there in the hammock and as the man said,
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drink your Mai tais. No, they had to be fruitful,
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fill the earth, subdue it, have dominion, right.
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And so teaching our our children that that they're to have a
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cheerful and a diligent work ethic.
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So I am in the next couple of weeks, I'm about to get
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hopefully my first daughter-in-law.
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And I say hopefully it's going to go through.
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She's obligated. She can't get out of it.
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Now I'm saying hopefully in that Judah finds one that's as
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awesome as Grace's. But I asked her one time try to
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put her on the spot because I think the world of her dad and I
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just like I keep waiting for the shoe to fall.
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Like where where's the chink? Like where is he?
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Where is he? Where's he hiding all of his
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sin? So I'm like, Hey, tell, tell me
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about your dad and I I wasn't asking about his his vices.
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I was asking about his virtues. I said, you know, what do you I
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think the question, if I remember right, I asked her,
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what virtue have you seen in your dad?
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Have you grown up with that? You hope Eli bears well?
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And she thought for a moment and she said, I have and I quote, I
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have never heard my father complain about work, not one day
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in his life. Now that's wild to me because
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work is the work, right? I mean, like he he's but he's
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never complained about work. And so Lord willing that that
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woman who grew up in that home with that man, seeing him never
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complain about work is going to is going to be raising up humans
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that will call me grandpa. And she's going to be telling
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them, Hey, when you when you bellyache about work, you're not
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being like your grandpa Roy. That ain't, that ain't going to
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fly, right? It's a, it's a, it's an
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inheritance, it's an economic inheritance, this idea of, of
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the preciousness, the God glorifying aspect of work, it's
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talents and it's tools, right? It's like, what, what do you,
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what do you teach your kids how to do?
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What kind of tools have you have you given them?
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And so again, like there there are especially I said at the
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beginning, we're in this sweet spot in our, in our church where
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we're seeing the, the kids that that used to be in diapers and
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we get to see them rising up and, and bearing and bearing
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fruit, the real good fruit. And so just, I mean, I, the, the
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list could go on and I'm not going to keep you long.
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But we had, we had Joe Sampson came in and fixed our red truck
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the other day. The other the other week it
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broke again, by the way. So but but it, he did fix it.
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He did figure it out and fix it. And then Josh and Justin and Joe
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and Braden and, and I'm not even sure who else came, but they
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came over and they were working on my on my tractor.
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And they did, they did get the weed eater going and tractor
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parts are, are on order. But you just, you look at, you
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look at the, the, yeah, just that idea of, of a, of a work
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ethic that you see and the, and the kids.
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And that is a real, that is a real inheritance.
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The the idea of imagination and longing and an entrepreneurial
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spirit that like, we want to, we want to count, we want to put
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our hands to work and we want to, we want to earn, we want to
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build families. We want to build, Yeah, an
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economic inheritance. And so those are those are part
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of what it means to leave as a good man, to leave an
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inheritance to his children's children.
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And lastly, and I'm done with this, a Sacramento inheritance,
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that we are a church that is built upon the rock of the
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covenant whose name is Christ. And if we let Christ speak for
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Christ, we will, we will hear him say like in Mark 10 when
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Jesus saw it, he was indignant and he said to them, let the
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children come to me, do not hinder that word.
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For hinder means do not lop, do not clip, do not prune, do not
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prevent, do not cut off. Don't cut them off.
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Those children don't cut them off, do not hinder them, for to
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such belongs the Kingdom of God. Wise men once said that children
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are faith factories. They trust the word of their
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betters and they pick up on things really quickly.
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In the old covenant, children receive circumcision and they
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partook of the covenant sacrificial food.
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So why then, why then do we get the get to the new covenant,
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which is broader, which is more inclusive, which is so much
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better, and somehow think that things have changed.
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There is explicit command from the Lord not to hinder the
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children, but to let them come. And without a shred of biblical
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evidence, we somehow think that we should withhold them from
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baptism or from the Lord's table.
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And listen, I'm, I'm, I'm this was, this is my view for a very
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long time. Took me a really long time to
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see it, but I'm telling you, once you see it, you can Unsee
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it. And, and you realize how, how,
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how wrong it is when, when we bring our children to church
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and, and we sing with them and we pray with them and we, we
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affirm them when they come and when they're joyful here.
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But then when it comes to baptism or when it comes to the
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Lord's Supper, we say, Hey, this is, this is not for you.
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This is the very thing that unsettled me on that position is
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Judah saying like, take me to the table.
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And I'm like, no, come and welcome, welcome to Christ.
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And my son says let me come. And I'm like, no.
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And I remember sitting down like, alright Lord, you got it.
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You got to show. You got to show me, 'cause I'm
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really uncomfortable with this. So brothers, I love you.
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Put your children in the covenant through baptism and
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then welcome them to the table. Give them the inheritance that
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Christ has commanded you to give them.
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Baptism is first. Like circumcision, baptism is
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first and then comes the table. But don't attempt to be more
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holy than Christ. Raise them up in the faith and
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they will not depart from it when they are grown.
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This bread is the body of Christ, broken for you and for
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your children. This cup is the blood of Christ
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shed for you and for your children and for your children's
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children to 1000 generations. The table is by the Spirit's
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power working through faith, a real participation in Christ
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together. So when you come here, you are
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coming to Christ, and when you take and eat from this table,
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you are receiving Christ himself in a mystery, and so are your
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children. So come and welcome to Jesus
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Christ. Let me pray for us, Father, we
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we pray that we would be imitators of God.
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Lord, you like the psalmist says the lines of my inheritance,
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they have fallen to me in pleasant places.
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Lord, you've chosen these things for us.
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You have you are a God who gives an inheritance to your children,
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your child who is Christ and then threw him to your
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children's children to us to 1000 generations.
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And Lord, we want to imitate that and we want to be a part of
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a, part of your covenant, keeping grace to our, to our
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children and to our children's children.
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And so, Lord, we just in, in seeing these things and the
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possibility and your intention in these things, my, my gut is
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to say, man, I could never accomplish that.
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And that's the point. We can't, but you've promised.
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And so help us, Lord, to, to, to stand on those promises and to
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act on those promises to live as though you are a covenant
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keeping God. For you have always been and
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ever will be a promise keeping covenant keeping God.
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And so, Lord, I pray God, for the men in our church, that our
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grandfathers and great grandfathers and and fathers and
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future fathers, Lord, I pray that you would do everything
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necessary in US so that as good men we could leave an
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inheritance to our children's children for your glory and for
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our joy. Lord, would you meet us at the
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table? And would this be a table that
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strengthens us in that endeavor? We ask it in your name.
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Amen.