Sermon
Better Grow Up - April 26, 2026
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It is my privilege to invite you to today's sermon podcast.
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I have made the Apostle Paul's prayer request my own.
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When he states in Ephesians 6.19, Pray also for me, that whenever I open my
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mouth, the words may be given to me, so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel.
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May today's sermon come alive to you and aid you in your understanding of God's plan for your life.
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I want you to imagine this. Are you ready?
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Imagine you walked into a kindergarten class modern era
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i know what some of you are thinking man i barely
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got out of kindergarten why do i want to go back and some of you that are kindergarten
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teachers god bless you for what you do but just imagine for a moment you walk
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in and and what do you see you see colorful carpets oh you see these wooden
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blocks that are stacked so neatly on a table.
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You see maybe the kids' backpacks and lunches all in their little cubbies.
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You might see some other things. You might smell some things too.
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You never know what a kindergarten classroom will smell like.
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But just imagine for a moment you walk in and there's this great carpet and
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there's numbers that are in an arch and there's kids sitting on each number.
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But then you notice something that's off. I mean, really off.
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Because in looking at the kids that are seated there,
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right in the middle on square number six is a 30-year-old adult male that is
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sitting Indian style and is so excited to receive the milk box that the teacher is handing out.
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You might have some questions. You might be saying, what is going on?
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And those questions might be amplified as you continue to observe this class,
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wondering, is this a parent?
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What's going on here? As the teacher begins to present the lessons on the differences
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in color, specifically what a red crayon looks like and what a blue crayon looks like.
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And the 30-year-old guy is there, so excited he can't wait for this lesson.
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That might just astound you. you might be wondering what's going on.
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You might be so confused that you don't know, but even more so when you notice
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he's got a little tiny backpack on that doesn't fit him.
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You notice there are other things about him and you just begin to wonder not
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only what is wrong with this guy, but what happened to him that he's still in kindergarten?
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You know, what is going on here? It kind of reminds me, and this is not an endorsement
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for this movie, but it reminds me of the 1995 film, Adam Sandler movie,
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Billy Madison, where this spoiled rich kid had to go through school all over
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again in order to inherit the riches of his father.
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Well, this wasn't a Billy Madison scene that I asked you to imagine.
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But what it is, is something severely wrong if you're in a kindergarten class
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and there's an adult sitting in there so eager to learn something that he should
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have learned years, decades ago.
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But, you know, the same problem can happen in our church here.
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Now, not that you're going to go into the nursery and find a 30-year-old man
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sitting there eager to learn about a red and a blue crayon.
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But right here in these pews, sometimes we might find some spiritual people
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that are not older than 30, and they're still content to learn the ABCs and
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the 1-2-3s of the Christian faith.
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They've never grown past those elementary truths that all of us learned while
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we were kids in Sunday school.
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Some of you may have been sitting in these pews for decades and still don't
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have a grasp on those elementary truths of the Scripture, and you're eager for the milk of the Word,
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not so much the T-bone or ribeye premium steak that may be offered to you.
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You see, it's a serious thing that's not new to us, and it's not just our church,
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but other churches as well, because sometimes we're content.
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I mean, I like a good chocolate milk now and again.
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Those are good things to have. But if I only have milk all the time,
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that gets kind of old, especially if there's no cereal to go with it.
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Then that's really, really not good.
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But man, give me a nice steak and I'm really happy. Happy, happy, happy.
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Hebrew 5 gives us a situation.
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It's a continuing on from what we talked about a couple weeks ago,
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but when we think about what the author of Hebrews is telling his Hebrew believers,
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it's something that we should take note of because there's a warning in here,
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and there's also a challenge in here for each and every person.
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It doesn't matter if you're new to the faith, if you've been a Christian over
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50 years, or if you're somewhere in between.
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There's a warning here that God wants to give us today to pay attention,
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but more than just pay attention, He wants us to grow up, just like this guy
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sitting in the kindergarten classroom should have grown up by now.
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Well, hear the Word of the Lord from Hebrews 5, verses 11 through 14,
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and if you're willing and able, I just ask if you would stand,
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honor the Word of the Lord this morning.
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The Scripture says this, We have much to say about this, but it's hard to make
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it clear to you because you no longer try to understand.
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In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach
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you the elementary truths of God's Word all over again.
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You need milk, not solid food.
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Anyone who lives on milk, still being an infant, is not acquainted with the
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teachings about righteousness.
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But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves
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to distinguish good from evil.
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Let's pray. Father, thank you so much that you call Christians,
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those who place their faith in Christ, to grow up.
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God, you call us to grow up in what we know, and you call us to grow up in how
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we live, and God, you call us to grow up in how we handle life.
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And so, Lord, help us to do that this morning. May your word speak to our hearts,
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and Father, may you be glorified. It's in Jesus' name we ask this today.
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Amen. You can be seated.
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I just want to give you three ways in which God wants us to grow up.
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And here's my disclaimer as every Sunday, know that what I'm preaching to you
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has to go through me before it hits you.
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So it has to challenge my heart, and I have to make things align with God's
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Word before I ever can preach it to you, before I will ever feel comfortable
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preaching anything to you.
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Just know that it has gone through my heart first. And so the first...
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Way in which God wants us to grow is that He wants us to grow in knowledge.
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You see, it's interesting as we look to the Scripture that the writer of Hebrews
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says, hey, we've got some more to tell you about this.
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Well, what is the this? If we go back, it's talking about a special priesthood that Jesus is,
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a special order of priest in the order of Melchizedek,
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that Jesus has earned the right to do that through obedience because He went
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all the way for all of us, and he suffered in such horrendous ways,
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but he has been designated as the go-between.
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And if you want to see that sermon, it's a few weeks back, the better mediator is Jesus.
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And that's what we talked about. And the author of Hebrews says,
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we've got more to say about this, but you guys can't handle it.
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You can't handle the truth.
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I wish you could, he says, but you can't because he says you no longer try to understand.
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As you dig into that, the phrasing in the Greek, especially,
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you'll gain some nuggets of truth from that.
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You see, what he's saying is Jesus didn't die for us to be spiritually sluggish and unresponsive.
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I think the term really gets down to being numb.
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Have you ever sat weird in church and when you got up to leave,
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your leg was like totally asleep that you couldn't feel anything.
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I mean, not just tingly, where if you touch it, you like giggle or something,
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but I mean, like it's numb.
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You really can't feel it. And so you start to step and your leg just doesn't work.
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That's the kind of thing that the scripture is saying. It's like,
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you're not even trying. You're numb to the truth.
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You're so lazy. You've become numb to it. Like you can't feel it.
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Maybe you felt like that sometimes sitting in a church service or a Sunday school
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class and it's just felt numb, like it's not hitting you.
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Like maybe God's speaking to everybody else, but you're just like,
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well, how'd I miss the boat? And you just feel numb.
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That's what the writer of Hebrews says, well, there's so much more to teach
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you, but you just don't want to understand.
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Sometimes we do that, right? Someone starts talking about something and we just
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zone out because it's so far over our head. We don't even know what they're saying.
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It's kind of like I saw a video not long ago of some young middle school slash
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almost high school kids.
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And they were using some kind of language talking about all kinds of different
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things. And I did not understand what they were saying.
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First, I thought they were talking about these Ritz crackers because they were
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talking about Riz. And I'm like, is that a new kind of Ritz crackers?
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And they were going on to talk about six, seven and all kinds of other things.
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And I'm like, what has happened to the English language?
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How did I get so old all of a sudden that I cannot even understand what they're saying?
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Sometimes we feel like that. And what happens when you begin to feel like that?
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Well, you just shut it off.
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You shut off your learning mode. You don't try because you've missed the context
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clues that will help you to grasp on to the truth that's being spoken.
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You see, that happens to us.
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If we just concentrate on the ABCs and the one, two, threes of the faith,
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we miss out on the greater and the deeper things that God has for us.
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And that's what's being accused here by the author of Hebrews to these first
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century Hebrew Christians is that, hey, you're missing the meatier stuff.
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You're missing the T-bone steaks because all you can handle,
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all you want is the Nesquik chocolate milk of the word.
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You want the sweet stuff, but you're not getting everything.
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So what are we supposed to do?
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We're supposed to build on the foundations of the ABCs and 1, 2, 3s of the faith.
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Well, I've used that about three or four times already. What am I talking about?
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Well, think about back when you first became a believer.
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Some of you may be in the process of this if you've just given your life to Christ.
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But when you're going through a new believer study, here's some of the topics that you cover.
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One is, who is God? You want to know who God is. You want to know about His
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character, that God is love.
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You want to know about character that God is just, that God is gracious.
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Some other things, you want to know about the authority of God's Word.
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Why should we trust this ancient book that's over 2,000 years old?
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Well, why is this resonated with people throughout time and history?
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And what does it mean for me? And you want to know what authority does this book have over my life?
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What authority does this book have that people have set out to disprove it or
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to discredit it, and they themselves have ended up being believers in Jesus Christ.
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Now, that's a basic thing that you go over when you're a new believer.
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Assurance of salvation. How do I know that I'm saved and going to heaven?
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Now, sometimes, Nazarenes even, we're accused of eternal insecurity because
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we never know if we're going to heaven or not.
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But you can know if you're going to heaven. You can know if you're saved.
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And as a new believer, we talk about the assurance of faith.
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We go over what it means to be baptized and have you taken that step of baptism.
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We talk about the need for fellowship from other believers and being engaged
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in that. These are all the basics.
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We talk about walking in the Spirit and resisting temptation.
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Not just resisting temptation, but we talk about overcoming temptation.
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These are the basics, right, of the Christian faith. the basics of how we follow
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Jesus. We talk about sharing our faith, about witnessing, sharing our story
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with other people that don't know Jesus.
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We talk about obedience, of just saying yes to Jesus and saying no to self.
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And so the question we got to ask ourselves is, am I moving on beyond the basics
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of the faith or am I still right now today where I was years ago?
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Have you grown up into Jesus?
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Have you grown up in your understanding of the Word?
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Or are you still stuck on the assurance of salvation? You still don't know if
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you're going to heaven or not?
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Are you still stuck with temptation and you just can't help but sin?
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Are you still stuck? Or have you moved on?
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You see, the place where it starts is knowledge. Look at verse 12.
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In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach
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you the elementary truths of God's Word all over again.
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You need milk, not solid food.
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Whoa, what an accusation. Saying by now, you should have graduated from Sunday
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school and you should have your own class teaching others, the ABCs and 123s
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and how that applies to life and how to move forward with that.
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Now, I'm not saying everyone starts to leave their Sunday school class and start their own class.
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You've got to trust God for that and you've got to be apt to teach,
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but I'm saying at some point.
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What was it someone told me once, Mike, did you notice that no one ever graduates
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from the adult Sunday school class unless they die?
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I said, whoa, I never really noticed that before. That's the only way you can
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leave. No, it's not really.
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But you get it. We need to grow in our knowledge. And growing in our knowledge
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isn't just the facts, the ABCs and the one, two, threes of the Bible.
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Man, I've met some incredible quiz kids. I've met some even more incredible quiz teens.
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Jason's going to talk about them next Sunday. He's got a great announcement about that.
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But I've also met some where they've got all the knowledge, they know the facts,
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but it hasn't hit their life yet.
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It hasn't translated yet from these 18 inches or so from the head to the heart,
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maybe not 18, maybe a foot. I don't know. It depends on how tall the kid is, right?
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It hasn't made it all the way, but there's some adults that's like that too. You know the facts.
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You have the knowledge of Scripture, but you need to grow in that knowledge to this next part.
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See, growing in your knowledge, knowing more about the Bible is great,
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but it's not enough. You can still know a lot and act like a little kid.
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You can act like a child. You see, what we have to do is to grow in our behavior,
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grow in our lifestyle of following Christ.
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Again, in verse 13, if I could go back to the word, it says,
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anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the
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teaching about righteousness.
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You see, there's still more to know, but it's not just knowing about righteousness.
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Righteousness is right standing before God, but it's living righteously.
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It's living as a righteous dude or dudette.
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Okay, it's living in that way that you're living out what you know.
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You know that you can overcome temptation by the power of the Holy Spirit and resisting that.
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But until you resist temptation, not give into it and overcome it,
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do you really know what the Scripture is saying?
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You see, I could know how to fly an airplane.
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I have X-plane on my laptop PC, and I could fly anywhere.
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And I would say I'm a good pilot. Noah's a greater pilot.
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He'll spend a lot of time just mapping out routes and flying them.
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Usually he does it at like 10 times speed, you know, that no physical airplane could ever do.
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But he knows a lot about airplanes. He knows about the switches because that's part of the simulation.
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But am I going to trust him to put him in the cockpit of the airplane going
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to Indianapolis to fly me there no way the dude don't even have his driver's
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license yet not much less a pilot's license.
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He has some knowledge, but he doesn't have the practice of it, the behavior.
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So not only do we need to grow in knowledge, we need to grow in our practice or our behavior of that.
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You see, Jesus calls us in Matthew 18 to have this childlike spirit.
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Remember when Jesus took the child into his arms and said, any of you that wants
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to be great in my kingdom has to become like one of these as a child?
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You have to possess that childlike spirit?
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But oftentimes what happens with even believers is we act childish.
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Instead of a childlike spirit, we have a childish spirit. And those two are
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not the same. Let me explain really quickly.
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What happens if you have a childish spirit?
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You're demanding. I want my way and I want it right now.
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Sometimes we can get into that. But what is a childlike faith? faith.
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A child is very trusting of adults.
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That's why we instruct our children, if someone is looking for their puppy dog, do not go with them.
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You don't know if there's really a puppy dog or if they're just trying to get
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you into their kidnapper van.
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Don't go try to get free candy from this white van that is parked out in front
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of your house or at the local park.
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Naturally, kids are trusting. We're called to have that kind of faith to trust
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God, who's not trying to lure us away into anything malicious,
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but who has a great life plan for us.
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So, we're not demanding, wanting our way, all about me.
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We're wanting what God wants, and we're going to trust Him. Even if it seems
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like it's working against us, we're going to trust Him that He's going to unfold that.
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Another quality of being childish, and really this one's twofold,
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is if you're childish, you're easily offended and you hold on to grudges.
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We had a special speaker at District Assembly, and this guy was awesome.
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I don't know if we can ever work with him in the future, but he was just great.
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So spot on. He gave the illustration that some churches, some church boards,
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I'm not saying this church board, but he used the example of a church board.
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They're trying to do some church revitalization and wanting to plan to the future.
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But when they got to the meeting, the guy gave the illustration during this
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church board meeting that there was a conflict between two members.
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One member didn't even know anything about it, but the other member had held
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on to that grudge for years because something off was said way back when.
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The person who said it didn't even remember it, but this person held on to it
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tightly, and they had to spend four or five hours dealing with that before they
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could move forward with the whole church planning and what was going on there.
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Believers, sometimes we can act childish when we don't go to people that have
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offended us and try to resolve that.
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And you know, we hold those grudges and sometimes they don't make sense because
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the other person has no idea they did anything,
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but yet it's hurt us for years and we've let it stick at us and stick at us
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when we could have just did what Jesus calls us to do in being childlike. Children are humble.
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Children are forgiving. And they could be fighting one minute on the playground
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and the next recess, they're best friends.
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That's what Jesus calls us to, to be trusting, to be humble and forgiving.
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When we're childish, many times we're self-centered. It's all about me.
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It's all about my preferences.
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Well, it was too hot in the sanctuary. It was too cold in the sanctuary.
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The music was too quiet. The music was too loud. There's too many hymns.
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There was too many contemporary songs.
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There wasn't enough chanting going on.
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The pastor preached too long. The pastor didn't preach long enough.
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Prayer time was too long.
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Prayer time wasn't long enough. and so it becomes all
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about us and self-centered when if
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God calls us to be childlike rather than childish instead
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of being all about me we're all about the father we're depending upon
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our heavenly father God what would you want father this song means nothing to
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me but I see my sister across the way she is just getting down with you she's
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worshiping you like I've never seen her worship thank you God well Lord I didn't
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really connect with that scripture passage but I heard my brother and sister
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talking as I was leaving church,
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and it really hit their heart and impacted that. Thank you, God.
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I mean, we could go down the list. We're trusting God that He's going to have
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the result of everything that we do in here, from our fellowship time to our
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greeting time to our giving time to our hearing from the Word,
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responding to it, to our worship time.
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All that we're trusting God and not just what's in it for me.
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Remember, Jesus called us to have a childlike spirit, not a childish one.
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What else is a characteristic of children? Well, they like to avoid responsibility.
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Do they not? It's time to clean your room.
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There's about 50 other things more exciting at that moment than cleaning the
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room. And so it becomes sometimes a battle.
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If we have a childlike spirit, we become teachable. Just like Jesus said,
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whoever takes the lowly position of this child, Matthew 18, 4,
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he is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
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She is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Someone that will be teachable.
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Someone that will allow themselves, even if they know a lot about the Bible,
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they will allow God to teach them something new and to live out life in a new way.
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You see, once you know the truth of God, it's transformative.
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And it has to be lived out. It can't just stay there.
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And so, the question that we've got to ask ourselves, I think,
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is do our attitudes and reactions look more like a child or a mature follower of Jesus?
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And if I answer this honestly, I've got to tell you that sometimes it's more,
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childish than childlike.
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I blew it yesterday. I really did.
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I was having a grumpy morning or something. Melanie asked me to hang up this basket.
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And I'm like, yeah, I can do that.
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And everything was cool until I started screwing in the second screw.
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I was just so frustrated. And that frustration spilled over.
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Man, I was kicking everything in sight. I was throwing a tantrum.
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All because I couldn't get the second screw to go into the plaster.
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I hate plaster walls and our house has all kinds of plaster walls.
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And I was mad and I said something to my wife and went outside and I kind of
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thought it was funny. But coming back, it wasn't funny.
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She even said I acted like a jerk. Because I did.
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Sometimes we find ourselves in that. I had to make up for it.
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So I went down and cleaned two rooms in the basement where the girls used to be.
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She had to help me finish it, though. Sometimes we mess up.
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It's easy to get back to the childish. We were children. We know what it's like.
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But Jesus called us past that behavior.
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Jesus calls us out of that to live, yes, childlike, but living out what it means
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to be a believer in Jesus Christ.
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As the scripture said, to live in all righteousness.
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Train themselves, as we'll see in just a minute. So we're called to grow in
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knowledge and put that knowledge into practice in our behavior.
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But finally, Hebrews points us toward this, which is the goal.
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Growing toward full maturity.
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Being complete, as we say in Wesleyan circles, being perfect,
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which means completed, which means finished.
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See, we look to verse 14 again. But solid food is for the mature who by constant
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use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil, have trained themselves
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in what righteousness, living right,
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living the way God wants you to live, living the way God planned for you to live,
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comes from taking the knowledge, applying it to your life, your behavior,
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and then consistently living that out.
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It's a simple formula, isn't it? It's so simple.
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I think these Hebrew believers could have caught that, could have glommed onto that and said, yes.
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You see, Jesus is our perfect example.
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Jesus Christ, the only fully mature, fully complete human that's ever lived,
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completed his life, died on the cross willingly for us, laid down his life for
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us, and then took it up again and rose from the grave and completed that by
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giving that mission he had to us today through the disciples and down through the ages here.
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He is our example. He is the one. Don't ever compare yourself to me.
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Do not. I am not the standard by which you will be judged.
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You will be judged according to Jesus' standard. And you already know from the
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story I just told you a few minutes ago.
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That was much more dramatic than that, but I don't want to traumatize myself
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anymore or my wife and remind her that I need a black eye.
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Don't measure up to my standard. You measure to God's standard.
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And what is God's standard? It's the holiness that's found in Jesus Christ.
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Not just holy, something we can never attain, but Jesus showed us through the
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life that he lived that we human beings can live like that.
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So here's some practical signs. I'll just go through it really quickly in the time that we have.
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Practical signs of spiritual maturity and,
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Now, these involve the shift, okay? So I'm going to talk about being an infant and being an adult.
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It's a shift from being reactive and self-centered, which is what I was yesterday,
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to being intentional and responding like Christ would.
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Okay, so take, for example, what the Scripture lays out here is your diet.
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Now, we're not going to talk about what you're going to have for lunch,
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but a little different at what the Scripture says here.
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Remember, the Scripture says relying on the basics, the basic knowledge that you need.
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Kind of like when you're in school, what's the least amount of things I need
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to know so I can get out of this class and still pass and not have to take it again, right?
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That's the basics. That's the milk. That's being an infant.
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But if you're going to be an adult, if you want to grow into adulthood,
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spiritual adulthood, you need that solid food.
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You need the deeper truths of Scripture.
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Well, what does it really mean for me to love my enemy?
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How do I practically love my enemy who still hates me and who I do not have a relationship with?
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And yet Jesus calls me to love them. How do I chew on that stake?
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How do I chew on the discernment when the politics and Christianity kind of collide?
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And where is the line? And how far can I go? Or when should I hold back?
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When is it the kingdom of man? And when is it the kingdom of God?
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And is it okay if the two are kind of converged on the same path for a while?
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Wrestling, that's a deeper truth.
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Man, that's scraping the meat off of that T-bone. You're trying to chew on that.
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How do I reach out to other people in my community when they're different from me?
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How do I like these people that I don't like their sin?
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How do I enter into a relationship with them when I don't like what they do?
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I don't like the words they use, but they need Jesus.
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And God has put on my heart that I need to go to them and to share with them
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what it means to love God.
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I need to live out before them what it means to follow God.
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Boy, that's taking a bite of that ribeye,
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I know you're probably getting hungry, right? Can you tell I'm a little hungry
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right now? I guess we're having steak for lunch, honey.
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Not milkshakes, but steaks.
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Now she's going to hold me to that, right?
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Another dimension of spiritual maturity is our response to frustration.
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As I illustrated, shared with you just a few moments ago, an infant will throw
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a tantrum, sulk, or quit until they get what they want.
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That's the response to frustration. Folks, we know life is one big frustration.
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There are things that happen, but how do we respond that way as an infant?
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Or do we respond as a spiritual adult, one maturing in Christ?
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Do we endure those frustrations with steadfastness and with courage,
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knowing that God has the ultimate word on this and God's going to see us through?
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How about our motivation for prayer? If we're an infant, we pray primarily out of fear.
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Lord, save me. I messed up and I don't want to go to hell.
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Lord, I'm afraid we don't have any more money in the bank and we got 10 bills
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that are coming due this week.
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Oh, Lord, I'm afraid because I said this and now my sister won't speak to me anymore.
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We respond and our prayer list is everything we're afraid of.
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It's okay to pray those prayers. I'm not saying don't pray when you're afraid.
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Pray when you're afraid Pray when you're anxious Pray when life doesn't make sense.
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But can we step into another realm of maturity? And that is,
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will you pray when you or when those around you are taking on great tasks for
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the kingdom, great tasks for others?
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When your friend tells you, I got a neighbor that does not know Jesus and God's
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laid them on my heart and I really want to share Jesus with them,
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I just don't know how to connect.
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They're very standoffish and I don't know. Well, will you join them in praying for that person?
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More than that, will you ask them to pray for the person that you are bringing
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before God, that you want to
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see saved, that you want to see their lives transformed in a better way?
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That's praying in the maturity of Christ, praying for things that don't matter
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just to you, praying for your brother or sister that's going through a hard
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time at church, whether they've shared that with anyone or not, but you know the look.
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You know what's on their face, and you know they're struggling with something.
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We even have the courage to go and say, how can I pray for you?
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I see your countenances down. That's an old word, but it just means I see you're looking down.
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When we think about this maturity and prayer, it's getting past just what you
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want, but it's getting to the needs of others as well, especially those that
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aren't in the family of God, that aren't in the family of faith.
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Last but not least, as we talk about different dimensions of being an infant
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or an adult, Reaction to failure.
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When you mess up, whether that be a sin or you just made a big mistake, how do you react to that?
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Is your life just loaded down with a lot of guilt?
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Man, I shouldn't have did that,
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but I did. Man, I should have told the truth, but I just flat out lied.
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Why did I do that? Oh, I'm never getting into heaven now. I keep lying.
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I can't control my lying lips.
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Or maybe you made an honest mistake and it's like, I really shouldn't have said that.
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Oh, I couldn't get those words back. I knew as soon as they left my lips that,
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I was going to hurt that person.
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We might be loaded down with guilt. We might be loaded down with shame.
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That's what happens with infants, with kids, if we're infantile in our faith.
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We just have all this guilt and we never do anything with it.
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It just eats at us and eats at us and eats at us.
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Whereas what God wants us to do is, if we do fail, whether that is a sin or a mistake that is made,
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God wants us to feel the conviction of the Holy Spirit, not for what we did
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wrong, Although we do feel sorry for what we did wrong But the conviction comes
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when we realize we missed God's standard We didn't live up to what is right, what is good.
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More sorry about that we disappointed God than that we blew it in our own human brokenness.
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It's this godly sorrow that comes upon us.
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And it's that godly sorrow, Scripture says, that leads us to repentance.
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It's not the fact that, well, I've already blown it 10 times.
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I might as well blow it 11 more.
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Well, I've already told her 10 lies. What's two more? And going down the spiral
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that just leads down and down and down.
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Rather than repenting, What's repentance? It's a 180.
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You turn your back on what you were doing, what you were thinking,
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how you used to be, and now you walk toward what is right and what is true.
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And how does repentance happen?
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Repentance happens by the conviction of the Holy Spirit. It's not just that
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little voice that Jiminy Cricket said, let your conscience be your guide. It's not that.
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But it's the Holy Spirit of God speaking to your heart when you know that God
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is talking to you and you feel your heart's broken because of what you did.
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And you can't feel comfortable until you deal with that.
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For some of you, maybe most of you, it's what led you down to an altar to first accept Christ.
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Your heart was broken over your sin because you knew that separated you from God.
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Maybe you came to an altar of prayer with someone else that you had offended,
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and you both prayed and reconciliation happened right there because your heart was broken.
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The Holy Spirit told you in your heart, you won't be comfortable until you solve
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this with this other person.
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Or maybe your heart was just broken for someone that doesn't know Jesus,
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and you know without you sharing the good news with them that they're going
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to be lost for all eternity, separated from God.
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It's that broken heart. It's that conviction that leads you to that,
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to repent of hiding the light under a bushel instead of shining it brightly for them to see.
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See, all of this points of a transition from being infantile in your faith to
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growing to completion, to growing to perfection, completeness, finished with Jesus.
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It's that perfecting of love that we talk about in our church.
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So the question for us is this, am I learning to trust Christ in both times
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of joy and times of hardship?
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And am I growing like Christ in my maturity?
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Hey, are you more mature now than you were a year ago with Christ?
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The spiritual disciplines you practice, are you practicing them more frequently?
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Prayer, Bible study, maybe even fasting. I mean, there's a lot that we could
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get into with that. That's a whole other sermon.
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But are you showing forward progress with the Lord? Well, you're trying to get to the end zone.
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You might feel like you get a penalty now and again, but what's more important
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is the forward progress. You're trying to get a few more yards. Come on, let's go.
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The end goal is in sight. We know it waits for us. We know we've already won
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the game because of what Jesus has done.
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I know it's not football season, but I couldn't resist. Let's get in there! Let's score!
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So where do we go from here, practically speaking? How do we respond to this call to grow up?
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Well, it comes down to looking at it again. Are we open to receiving the knowledge
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of God and who he is? Folks, it's not a hidden knowledge.
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Man, it's all laid bare right here.
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There's nothing I'm telling you that, oh, for only 1995 and a special retreat,
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you could know the full counsel of God. It's none of that kind of garbage.
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There's no special offerings involved. It is your commitment and your time to
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soak in the knowledge, not by osmosis as you sleep at night,
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but by actively engaging with the Word,
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engaging with other believers in the Word,
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in the discussion that comes about. That's how you grow up in Christ.
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I'll tell you, and I don't mean to say this because it hurts me more than it
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hurts you, But you're not going to grow very much if you just sit and listen to me every Sunday.
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As much as you would if you then take what I've told you, you talk amongst your
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family, you study the scripture outside of this, you go to Sunday school,
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you go to a life group, and you digest the word more and more.
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That's the accelerated rate at which you grow in Jesus.
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Now, my prayer is you do grow a little bit hearing the word and responding to it.
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But come on, I only get one hour a week, if that, maybe 35, 40 minutes You know
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how many hours you have listening to podcasts, watching YouTube,
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looking at shorts Watching TV, checking out Fox News, it's more than one hour, I could tell you that.
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We think about taking in the knowledge? We've got to grow in our knowledge.
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Don't be content to stay with just the basics. Hey, venture off into something
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that's a little bit more challenging.
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So will you grow from your spiritual childhood into spiritual adulthood?
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Will you take that knowledge and grow in your behavior, your practice?
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Would you commit to refuse these childish reactions and choose Christ-like responses instead.
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I know it's cliche, but it's cliche for my generation.
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WWJD. Hey, what would Jesus do? I used to pass him out to my youth ministry kids all the time.
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Some had helped. Some just said, what does that mean?
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Well, it's a practice. What would Jesus do in this circumstance?
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And then commit to growing to full maturity in Christ. Hey, none of us have arrived.
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None of us have arrived at the place God wants us to be We have to continually fix our eyes on Jesus,
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Again, the only truly fully grown person who's ever lived And let his life reshape
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our life Think about that this morning, you guys,
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I've got a prayer here from a senior saint some years ago Who prayed this And
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maybe this could be our prayer this morning It's written in your bulletin even,
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I'm not what I ought to be But thank the Lord I'm not what I was.
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And let's grow in that humility together. Let's grow up into Jesus.
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Let's pray. Father, I thank you so much for the challenge this morning.
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The challenge is to take a step of faith, to, Lord, take one more step closer
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to what it means to be like Christ.
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Father, to be like him, not in his physical appearance, but,
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Lord, like him in the way that he lived as a human being, perfect human being, complete human being.
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Lord, conquering everything he conquered finally conquering sin and death for us,
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Lord, we just pray that you will be glorified Lord, help us to grow in our knowledge,
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may we grow in our practice and Father, as we practice we know that's not done
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alone but it's done in community with other people,
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in the context of our small groups of our church of our Sunday school classes for Bible studies,
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and Lord, help us to grow in to being those fully mature people that you would have us to be.
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Father, be glorified, we pray, in the mighty and the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
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I want to thank you for joining today's sermon podcast. You can find a copy
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on our church's website,
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www.mvcnaz.org. It is my prayer also that you will seek out a church home that
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