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Replay | ...but words will always hurt me with Chris Schlotterbeck
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Welcome to Hub City Vineyard.
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Thank you and enjoy the message.
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Good morning everyone and welcome to Hub City Vineyard Sunday live stream.
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I just want to apologize first for those of you that are still tuned in.
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We literally had a power outage this morning.
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We lost all power.
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Now you do know that literally our Sunday live stream is live because we were broadcasting
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live.
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We lost all power, we lost the internet and we lost the ability to share the sermon with
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you this morning.
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But we're back and I just want to thank you for tuning in and being with us this morning
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and welcoming us into your home no matter where you are in your living room or your
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kitchen or your bedroom.
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I just want to thank you for welcoming us into where you are.
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Just to give you a few updates about our community of faith this morning, I shared on Thursday
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in my weekly email we have found a temporary meeting location for our in-person gatherings.
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We are going to begin meeting at the Hagerstown premium outlets for our in-person gatherings.
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Our target date for our first Sunday morning gathering which will be at 9 and 11 is Sunday,
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July 5th.
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And again I do say that's a target date.
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We'll be bringing you updates weekly about our progress and about different building
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codes that we need to meet to make sure that when we do gather we're safe and we're meeting
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all of the restrictions that are still being handed down from the state as far as COVID-19.
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We want to bring you the safest, best place for us all to gather and us all to reconnect
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with God.
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So with all that said this morning I would just like to open in prayer.
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It's kind of thrown us all off here a little bit, this power outage.
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And I just really have a powerful message to share with you that's been really impacting
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my life over the last two weeks.
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And I know that God wants to supernaturally speak to your heart and change you as well.
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So let's invite the Holy Spirit to come and to surround us with His presence in the changes
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this morning.
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So just ask and invite your Spirit to be with us, God.
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We thank you, God, for you working out all the details.
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And I just pray that you would use my words as a tool to change all of us, God.
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May my words be yours and may we just supernaturally reflect on where we are this morning in terms
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of our lives and how you desire to change us in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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So we are kicking off a new series this morning called Tongue-pierced.
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And for the next four weeks we're going to be looking at the power of words, the words
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that we speak not only to others, but the words that we speak to God, the words that
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we speak about ourselves, the words that we speak about our community, and how powerful
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they are and how they can ultimately transform our lives and the lives of the people around
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us.
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So a group of sociologists intrigued by the impact words have on daily life recently conducted
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a study of the most powerful words in the English language.
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Now what they did, they took a different approach.
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Instead of just looking for one word or a few words that are impactful in the English
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language, they broke it down to use the most powerful four-word phrase, three-word phrase,
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two-word phrase, and of course the single most powerful word in the English language.
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They found the most powerful four-word phrase to be once upon a time.
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Now as a child, think about it, when you heard those words once upon a time, immediately
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it meant that something significant was about to happen.
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In fact, something fantastic could follow those four words because it's almost as if
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something intriguing or an adventure was going to take place and we wanted to be focused
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on it and we wanted to go on this adventure.
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Now unfortunately, as adults, those words have kind of lost its meaning, if you will,
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because we think we have made it and we've arrived and we can no longer take an adventure
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or live in some fantasy world.
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But have you ever thought for a second that our personal story actually begins with the
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four-word phrase once upon a time?
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As you made your entrance into this world, your story began.
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Think about it, once upon a time, a woman gave birth to a baby.
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That baby grew, became a child and learned, worked through the difficult teenage years,
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slowly matured and now became the man or woman that you are today.
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Actually stated friends, we all live in a story.
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Every day the story of our life is played out in our homes, our workplaces, our schools,
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our athletic events.
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In fact, the church that we attend.
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These places are full of interesting people, conflicts, decisions and if you really think
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about it, intrigue.
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Each of our lives is unique and they all hinge on the elementary building blocks that comprise
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every story and that is words.
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Think about it, no story we have ever read or told to our children gets very far without
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words.
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And the same is true for your and my life.
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Our everyday lives as we make decisions and choices and speak with other people, our words
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actually dictate the direction our lives will go, not only now but into the future.
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Our words have the potential to open doors and the opportunity to quickly close them.
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They can nourish and build our relationships or they can tear people down.
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The words we speak about ourselves, our self-talk if you will, have the power to shape our subconscious,
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the view of our worth and our abilities, determining the very actions that we take on a daily basis.
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Have every thought that the words that we say to and hear from God are critical to the
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story that we live both now and in the future when we spend eternity with God in his kingdom.
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In short, our words create our lives and that leads us to our first thought this morning.
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You see, words are a gift from God.
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See the phrase once upon a time is in direct connection with the most important story ever
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told and that's God's story.
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The story in which you and me, our lives are intertwined with one another as we begin and
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walk out a relationship with Jesus.
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In the Bible, the book of Genesis begins, in the beginning, God created the heavens
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and the earth.
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The earth was formless and empty.
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The darkness covered the deep waters and the spirit of God was hovering over the surface
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of the waters.
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Now continuing on in verses three through 27, we read this, then God said, let there
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be light and there was light.
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Then God said, let there be a space between the waters to separate the waters of the heavens
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from the waters of the earth.
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Then God said, let the waters beneath the sky flow together into one place so dry ground
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may appear.
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Then God said, let the land sprout with vegetation, every sort of seed bearing plant and trees
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that grow seed bearing fruit.
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Then God said, let the lights appear in the sky to separate the day from the night.
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Let them be signs to mark the seasons, days and years.
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Then God said, let the water swarm with fish and other life.
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Let the skies be filled with birds of every kind.
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Then God said, let the earth produce every sort of animal, every producing offspring
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of the same kind.
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Then God said, let us make human beings in our image to be like us.
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We think about it.
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God, God's words alone literally set the world into motion from the beginning of time.
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Words now, now that'll be a God's words have been the tools that carry the power to create
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reality.
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Now he has passed that those tools to us literally given us the power to create and shape our
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very lives.
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The problem, the problem is this, our understanding of words and language is a learned behavior.
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Most of our harmful speech patterns are negative language are seared into our minds at a very
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early age.
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Now if you're anything like me, have you ever opened your mouth to, to speak or correct
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your children and suddenly you heard your mom come out?
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Or have you ever said something to your spouse suddenly to be in all that?
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Wow, that sounded like my father.
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See before we ever said ma or da, we began to internalize the meaning of conversations
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taking place all around us.
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When we started speaking, we learned to talk by repeating what we heard from our parents
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and other family members.
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Did you like the way your parents spoke to you when you were a child?
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If not, hopefully you're not speaking the same way to your children.
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Now think about the way your, your father spoke to your mother and your mother to your
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father.
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As you saw that picture while you were growing up, did you like the way they communicated
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to one another?
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Well chances are you may not even know it, but you're communicating the same way to your
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spouse in your different relationships today.
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Why?
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Because that's what we learned.
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If not, here's the reality.
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We have to become intentional in the way we're communicating to others.
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Otherwise it's just going to be what we learned many, many years ago.
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Now to start changing things for the better, we need to recognize the ability to use the
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words at all is a gift from God.
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God has given us this gift and he's challenging us to use these words well, to be responsible,
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to value the words that he's given us when we speak them.
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Now just take for a second and imagine if a friend of yours, a close friend, someone
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that you loved and trusted, imagine if he or she handed you $25,000 in cash.
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And when he or she handed you that money, this is what they said, this is my gift to
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you.
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It's free and clear.
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I want you to use it to create a better life for yourself and for others.
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Now I don't know about you, but if someone was to hand me that kind of money and said
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that statement, someone that I loved and trusted, I would be intentional about how I spent that
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money.
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I wouldn't just blow it on one purchase, but I would be intentional about how I spent it
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to improve not only my own life, but someone else's.
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Our words are just the same.
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Our words are a gift from God and our words are just as important in shaping the lives
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of others.
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In fact, more important than money.
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See we have to use this power that God has given us as a means to create a better life
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for ourselves and for all the people around us.
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Listen to Luke 12, 48, for those who are received a greater revelation from their master are
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required greater obedience.
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And those who have been trusted with great responsibility will be held more responsible
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to their master.
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Friends, God is calling us to be responsible with the words we use, which leads us to our
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next thought this morning.
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Words can build up or tear down.
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Think about it.
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Our life is full of, we're constantly surrounded by and bombarded with what?
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Words.
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We read words on the news, we hear words being spoke to us, reflect on the weight and impact
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of words and how they change the outlook of your life.
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See, now when we think about the words that change our lives and impact our lives, now
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think about the words that you speak.
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Okay, when we begin to be able to internalize the words that come out of our mouth, then
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we recognize that in fact those words are life or death.
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King Solomon widely considered the wisest man to ever live said this in Proverbs 1821,
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words kill, words give life, they're either poison or fruit.
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You choose.
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You choose.
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See, what will you say today?
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What you say today will change your entire outlook of your life.
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Right?
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Your words are either going to lead you toward a path of abundant life.
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You know how Jesus talks about an abundant life flowing within us?
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It all comes out in your words or they're going to lead you toward death.
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Now I'm not referring to physical death.
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I'm referring to the destruction of relationships, of a career, of momentum, of joy, of peace,
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hope, of contentment.
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In his essay, War of Words, Paul David Tripp wrote this, you have never spoken a neutral
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word in your life.
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Your words have direction to them.
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If your words are moving in the life direction, they will be words of encouragement, hope,
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love, peace, unity, instruction, wisdom, and correction.
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But if your words are moving in a death direction, they will be words of anger, malice, slander,
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jealousy, gossip, division, contempt, racism, violence, judgment, and condemnation.
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Friends, as I was reading that quote this week, it just sounds like our country.
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Like our country is so divided and wrecked.
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What is it leaning towards?
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Is it speaking words of life?
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No, it's speaking words of death and destruction.
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Now I know if you're anything like me as a kid on the elementary playground, we would
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always say or say to one another, sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will
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never hurt me.
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And those words coming out of our mouth, we firmly believe, but they're just a flat out
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lie.
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They sound good in theory, but it's just wrong.
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Words hurt.
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Think about the last time someone spoke harshly to you.
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What those words made you feel like.
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How you ultimately changed what you were doing because those words were spoken.
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Now see during Jesus's ministry, the religious leaders of the day, the Pharisees, they were
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always trying to make him mess up.
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They would ask questions to try to catch him in a lie or some form of inconsistency in
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his teaching.
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And, and in one of those attempts, the Pharisees approached Jesus and said, Hey, what's the
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greatest commandment in all of scripture?
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Jesus, without hesitation responded with Matthew 22.
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You must love the Lord your God for your heart, all your soul and all your mind.
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This is the first and greatest commandment.
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The second is equally important.
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Love your neighbor as yourself.
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See according to Jesus, the greatest call on our lives is to love God with everything
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that we are.
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And then to love those around us as much as we love ourselves.
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How can we hope to accomplish those two things with words?
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Words are the primary way we relate or communicate with each other.
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If we follow what we should begin and do in our conversations, then we would speak life.
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We can't simply choose to speak words of life over death, right?
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We have to choose to speak love and encouragement and comfort and celebration instead of words
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of criticism and gossip and complaining and negativity and hate.
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Our words are an outward indication of what is happening in our heart.
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They're like a, literally like a neon sign.
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Think about our neon sign that we had in our old location, open, right?
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Well, our words are literally like that neon sign broadcasting what is happening in our
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lives.
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Friends, simply say that it's impossible to love your neighbor as yourself unless you're
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consumed with loving God first.
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Because God's spirit is what gives us the ability to love others.
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Which moves us to our next thought this morning, you see the quality of life is determined
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by words.
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Think about that.
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The quality of life is determined by words.
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Matthew 15, 18.
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What comes out of your mouth reveals the core of your heart.
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Words can pollute, not food.
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See friends, the way you and I choose to communicate will ultimately affect our everyday lives
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and in every area of our life as well.
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Every word that is spoken has a consequence attached to it.
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How you speak to your friends and family and, and your coworkers will determine the quality
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of those relationships.
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The same is true in your spiritual life.
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How will you communicate with God in prayer and how well you listen to the Holy spirit
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in prayer develops your connection with him.
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How about this one?
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How you speak about yourself will determine the quality of your actions and interactions
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every day.
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When you consider everything altogether, it naturally follows the simple truth that the
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quality of our life is determined by the words that we speak.
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That's why James said in James 3, 2, we all fail in many areas, but especially with our
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words.
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If we're able to bridle the words we say, we are powerful enough to control ourselves
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in every way and that means our characters mature and fully developed.
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What is James saying?
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He's saying the indication of a heart that is allowing God's love to fill it and flow
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through it is the words that we share with others.
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And see friends, the battle of our words and our life rages on every day.
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Every time we speak, we choose a side, which leads us to our action steps this morning.
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Friends, we first, we need to avoid complaining.
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Look at Philippians 2, 14, live a cheerful life without complaining or division among
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yourselves.
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How often do you catch yourself complaining about your boss, your kids, right?
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How they just don't listen, your friends neediness, your busy schedule, your constant aches and
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pains, the list can go on and on.
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For some reason we have bought into the idea that complaining about our difficulties will
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make us feel better.
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I don't know if you've learned this or not, but what I've learned is the more we complain,
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the more negative we are.
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The more we talk about our struggles, the more strength we give them.
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And as those struggles gain strength, what happens to us?
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We get more frustrated, right?
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We get more doubtful.
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We get more negative.
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And then there's this vicious cycle of complaining that constantly surrounds us.
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Paul understood that complaining never leads to anything positive.
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That's why I said stop complaining.
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Don't do it anymore.
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Complaining about every little thing that's wrong in our life will do nothing but heighten
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the problem.
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Which moves us to our second thing we need to avoid, we need to avoid gossip.
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Verse 18, eight, the words of a gossip merely reveal the wounds of his own soul and his
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slander penetrates into the innermost being.
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Gossip in all forms is wrong and destructive.
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Most of the time.
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Now, when, when people talk about someone behind their back, they don't even know if what they're
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saying is true because they heard it from someone else.
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And typically it's a distortion of the truth.
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They are only repeating what that other person shared with them.
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And friends, we can't buy into that negativity.
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When we discuss someone else's problems with anyone other than that person, it's a sin.
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And simply stated, we're wrong.
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There's no other way around it.
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Not only does it tear people down, but it destroys trust.
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It's impossible to gossip about someone else without being personally effective in a negative
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way and friends.
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It's rampant in the church.
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And as a community of faith, I want to challenge you.
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We need to change that.
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Which moves us to our next thing we need to avoid.
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We need to avoid negativity.
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Good Ephesians 429, never let ugly, hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let
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your words become beautiful gifts that encourage others.
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Do this by speaking words of grace to help them.
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Columnist Steven Pinker wrote this, the media exaggerates negative news.
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The distortion has consequences.
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Whether or not the world is really getting worse, no one knows.
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But the nature of news that we watch each and every day makes us think that it is.
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He goes on the right.
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Consumers of negative news, not surprisingly, become gloom.
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A recent literature review cited misperception of risk, anxiety, lower mood levels, learned
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helplessness, contempt, and hostility toward others.
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Again, friends, that's the world we live in today.
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We are constantly bombarded with negative news.
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Our phones go off at the very second that something negative happens.
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What if over the next few days you and I shut off the news?
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And instead of watching the news, what if we were to record our words?
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What we literally speak each and every day.
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What if we began to review those words that are spoken?
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Because that's going to indicate the reality of our heart, the condition of our heart.
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What's going on inside you and me?
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If we're constantly negative or fearful or frustrated, it means we're not speaking words
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of life and hope over ourselves.
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That means we're not hearing from Jesus and the hope that he would give us.
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God is challenging this this morning.
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Be a people of hope, of light, not of selfishness and negativity and doubt and fear and anger.
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What kind of verbal fruit are you producing this morning?
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James 312 says, does a fig tree produce olives or a grapevine produce figs?
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No.
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And you can't draw fresh water from a salty spring.
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What are your words saying about you this morning?
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See friends, we have to avoid those three topics.
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In direct contrast, we have to choose something completely different.
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What are those three things we need to choose?
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First, we need to choose praise.
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Look at Psalm 145 verses one through two.
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I lift you high and praise my God.
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Oh my King, I will bless your name into eternity.
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I bless you every day and keep it up from now to eternity.
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What is praise?
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It's simply thanking God for who he is.
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Words of praise reflect a God focused heart.
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They demand a shift away from self, from selfishness and toward God goodness and love and focusing
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on being filled with the spirit.
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But see too often as Jesus followers, we only praise God on Sunday mornings while turning
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in church.
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We, we think that we can only praise when we have a worship band in front of us and
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we can extend our arms so we can sing back to God.
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In reality, if we're going to win the battle of words in our life, we have to choose to
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praise him every day.
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Look at Psalm 63, three through four.
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Your unfailing love is better than life itself.
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How I praise you, I will praise you as long as I live, lifting my hands to you in prayer.
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One of the most practical ways to focus on God daily is the creative habit of starting
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your day with praise.
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Really dedicate the first hour of your day to, to, to giving him back to God, to thanking
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him for who he is in your life.
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Play some songs on your, on your phone or your iPad or on your computer and see if your
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day changes when you choose to open with praise.
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What are the first words that come out of your mouth on a daily basis?
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Now, if you're anything like me, when I wake up in the morning, the first thing that comes
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to my mind is everything hurts.
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I am tired.
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What happened yesterday?
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It's almost like I look in the rear view mirror.
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I feel beat up.
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I mean, they literally are some of the words that came out of my mouth when I woke up this
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week.
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First thing, I'm getting up out of bed.
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I stand up and think my body hurts.
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Now what if I, you are willing to replace those words with words of praise, with words
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of thankfulness and gratitude.
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God, thank you for getting me up today.
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Thank you for, for giving the ability to stand up, to, to walk to the sing, to make a cup
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of coffee.
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See, an attitude of gratitude suddenly changes the entire outlook of the day.
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Friends, we need to start our day with praise.
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We need to choose praise.
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Second thing is we need to choose encouragement.
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Look at Romans 15 13.
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I pray that God, the source of hope will fill you completely with joy and peace because
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you trust in him.
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Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the spirit overflowing.
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See our world, our community needs us to overflow.
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Every person you walk by on the street, stand beside in Walmart, work with every day might
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as well be re wearing an invisible sign that says, encourage me.
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People want to be encouraged.
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Johan Wolfgang goth wrote this.
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If you treat an individual as he is, he will remain how he is.
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If you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he will become what he
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ought to be and could be.
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That is the essence of encouragement.
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Treating people in your life to, to, to literally become the best person, the best version of
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themselves, whether they're currently living it or not.
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That happens through encouragement.
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What if you practice speaking encouragement to your spouse, to your children, to your
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friends, to your classmates?
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What if encouragement became what you were known for?
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And friends, it's hard because again, we constantly focus on the negative.
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Me being a coach, it's really difficult when you're working with, with young people to
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learn how to play baseball or softball.
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You always want to point out a nitpick of the little things they're doing wrong.
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And yes, you have to do that to correct them.
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But if that's all you focus on, then the game loses what it means to be fun.
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Right?
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And then you see your team constantly focused on the negative.
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If they make a mistake, oh, I'm bad or I'm no good or I can't be successful.
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We can't allow ourselves to constantly focus on the negative.
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We have to focus on words of hope, on a vision of how they become better and then speak that
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encouragement into their lives.
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And see, as we become people of encouragement, then we see people grow and change and flourish
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in ways they've never imagined.
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First Thessalonians 5 11 says, encourage each other and build each other up just as
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you are already doing.
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But, but see, are you doing it?
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See when we read that verse, it says encourage each other and build each other up just as
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you're already doing.
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Paul assumed it, but should he have assumed it?
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See, see God is challenging us through this series.
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We have got to become a people of encouragement.
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And then the last thing we need to choose is our third one is you need to choose to
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hold your tongue.
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James 3 2.
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We all fail in many areas, but especially with our words.
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Yet if we're able to bridle the words we say, we are powerful enough to control ourselves
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in every way.
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And that means our characters mature and fully developed.
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Now do you know anyone who talks too much?
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Right?
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Now, I'd be willing to guess.
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I'd be willing to guess that the second I asked you that question, like two or three
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people pop to your head, you're like, yep.
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Now here's something to think about.
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Would your name be someone else's answer?
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Could you be accused of talking too much?
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Have we ever realized that sometimes our best language is just not saying anything at all
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and listening?
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Proverbs 12 15 says a fool is in love with his own opinion, but wisdom means being teachable.
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Sometimes we're so busy explaining, proving, justifying, arguing our points that we don't
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even listen to other people's opinions.
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We don't even listen to other people's pains and anguish so that we can actually pray for
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them.
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Proverbs 12 23 says those who possess wisdom don't feel the need to impress others with
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what they know.
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But foolish ones make sure their ignorance is on display.
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I love this quote from Winston Churchill.
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He said this, we are masters of the unsaid words, but slaves of those we let slip out.
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See, we have to start paying attention to our own mouths.
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We have to become aware of the words that we're speaking and the words that we let slip
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out.
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Friends, we can't allow our tongues to be our master.
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We have to choose to master our tongues.
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Now you remember the sociologists that set out to determine the most powerful four word
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phrase, three word phrase, two word phrase, and the single most powerful word, the English
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language.
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That's right.
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The first three word phrase was once upon a time.
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The most powerful three word phrase was, I love you.
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The most powerful two word phrase was, I'm sorry.
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And the most powerful single word was I. Now, if you're anything like me, when I saw those
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answers, I wasn't surprised at all because we already know the phrase.
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I love you.
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I'm sorry.
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And I come with immense power.
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And as I've been studying and wanting to share this, this talk with you over the last two
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weeks, because remember we took last week off and went out into the neighborhoods to
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pray for our neighborhoods and it's happening again today.
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If you want to join us, it's starting at 1030.
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I have 30 minutes to meet down in the pavilion to go out on a prayer walk.
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That would be great.
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But I've actually been preparing for this message for two weeks.
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And I tell you what, I've done a lot of soul searching.
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I've thought about the words that I speak.
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I've thought about the words that my children speak.
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I thought about the words that the teams that I coach speak.
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And it's amazing when you read a book like this and you prepare a message like this,
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how much you realize, wow, I'm negative.
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You know, just the fact that I wake up and think that my body hurts or I, what happened
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to me yesterday, or I felt like I got hit by a truck.
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It's just, again, that's just negative.
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But when we shift the words that we speak and we begin to listen to how other people
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talk about themselves and we correct them, not in a rude way.
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Why would you say that about yourself?
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Just say, Hey, just don't choose to use those words.
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You're not bad.
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You're not a failure.
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You know, God loves you.
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God, God, God has an incredible plan for your life.
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When we begin to shift and, and, and speak life into people, I tell you what, lives are
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transformed, but friends, we got to evaluate where our heart is.
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And this morning I want to encourage you, will you go on this journey with me for the
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night, for the next month and really do some soul searching and, and some, some heart identification
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of what comes out of our mouths?
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Do words of life come out of our mouths or the words of death?
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And I firmly believe that if we go on this journey together, if we take these next four
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weeks and really internalize and reflect on where we are and where we could be and where
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God wants us to be, we'll become a community of faith that becomes a powerful force for
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God's kingdom in our community because we're constantly speaking words of life, but it's
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a choice.
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Will you choose to change this morning?
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I'm choosing to change.
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I'm choosing to listen to more and I'm choosing to speak life, but it's a choice that we all
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must take together.
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So I want to invite you for, to just simply start this journey with me.
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I, I, this is all I want you to do.
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Do you need to change the way you speak?
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Do you need to change some of the words that come out of your mouth?
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Do you need to get rid of gossip?
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Do you need to stop complaining?
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You know, are there some things you need to work on?
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I believe that if you're really honest, you'll say, yeah, Chris, there's something because
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I know I have things and I've really found those things over the last two weeks, but
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I want to invite you to go on this journey with me and I want to pray, pray for you that
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the God's spirit would lead you to change.
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So if you're, if you're listening this morning, if you're tuned in, if you're back tuning
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in, if you're watching later in the week, is there something in your life that you want
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to change?
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If you say, yeah, I just want you to slip your hand up.
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I want you to say, yeah, I need to change my words.
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I need to change my outlook.
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I need to change, um, what is happening in my life because of the words that I speak
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over myself.
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I need to change my communication with God and the way I talk and share with him.
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If that's you just slip your hand up right where you are.
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I don't care where you are.
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Just slip your hand up and say, yeah, Chris, that's me.
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Cause that's just an acknowledgement of saying I want to change.
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And now I just want to pray for all of us.
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So Holy spirit comes around each and every person that slipped their hand up.
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God that, that, uh, said, yeah, I want to change.
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I need to change the words that I speak.
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I need to change how I talk to my wife or my children or my coworkers or my class or
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my team.
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I just need to change the way I listen.
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Whatever it is that they slipped their hand up for God, I pray them.
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I pray that you would reveal to them how they can change.
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I pray that this, this opening talk is a, is a light bulb comes on for all of us that,
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that, that the words that we speak over ourselves, over our church, over our, over the tri-state
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area are words that can bring about change and God, we want to be that change in this
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world.
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So Holy spirit just supernaturally begin to work on each and every person's life.
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Make us more into your image so that we can become more like Jesus each and every day.
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In Jesus name.
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Amen.
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Now, if you prayed that prayer this morning or you put your hand up, I want you to text
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change me C H A N G E M E to nine seven zero zero zero.
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Change me to nine seven zero zero zero.
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And you say, Chris, why would I do that?
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Why would I text change me to the, to the, to that number?
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Well, this is why, because we're in this together.
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I want to pray for you.
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I want to encourage you.
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I want to send you scriptures.
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I want to let you know that we're in this together, that we're changing together so
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that we can be a people of hope and that we can be a people that speak life.
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And I, and I, and our community of faith will reach out to you this week and, and we'll
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invite you into this journey that we're on so that our story, right?
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Once upon a time, remember, so that our story is a story that brings about hope and meaning
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and change.
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So have a great week.
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Thanks for hanging in there with us.
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Sorry about the technical issues earlier.
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And I want to encourage you to, to, to text that and, and, and ultimately just to stay
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tuned that, that all that HCV is doing over the next few weeks, because change is coming.
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We're going to meet, be able to meet again soon.
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So have a great week.
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God bless.
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Thank you.
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Have a great week.