Sermon
Help! Series: Trapping Time | Dr. John Ewart
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Hey everybody, this is Pastor John Ewart from Inglewood
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Baptist Church here in Rocky Mountain, North Carolina.
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Thank you for tuning into the podcast today.
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Today we're going to continue in our series called Help Searching
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for God's peace with him, with one another, and with ourselves.
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Listen closely to what God has to say to you today.
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Welcome everyone to this session together.
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Those of you who are listening online, thank you so much for
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joining that way. And for those of you who are
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alive, I appreciate very much your presence here in this
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series. I have appreciated the feedback
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that you all have shared, been very, very gracious, and just
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want God to be glorified in that.
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And just just to let you know, the next episode that we'll be
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doing the next session together, I'm actually going to be talking
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about work and how do how do we actually approach the subject of
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work? Now, some of you may be retired,
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but don't let that stop you to talk about work in the way not
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only from a career or vocational standpoint, but also service.
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Just how do we deal with this subject matter of work?
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It was created as a good thing. During the fall, it became a
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different thing and we've struggled against it and with it
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ever since. So that'll be our next time
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together. But tonight, we're going to talk
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about trapping time in this series.
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We've been talking about anger and stress and fear and guilt.
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We exist in a fallen creation, and because of that, we struggle
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and we need help. We deal with evil, we deal with
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sin, we deal with problems. We deal with choices that
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sometimes are not good ones. And we've addressed several
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emotional reactions that we might face in this particular
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session. I want to actually address a
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part of the creation that might tempt us towards some of these
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reactions. This is actually something that
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we deal with constantly and it actually might put us into a
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place of stress or cause us to be angry or allow us to somehow
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experience fear. So, so this could be positive or
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negative, this aspect of creation.
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And I want us to think about that.
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As I share in every session, I am very thankful for biblical
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counselors and, and also for our churches ministries that we have
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in recovery and pastoral care and things like that.
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For some of you, you might need to call the church office and,
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and, and get some special help. For others, you might need a
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long term, larger network of support in your life.
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The primary audience that I'm sharing with is, is those of us
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who deal with levels of, of stress and anger and these
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emotional responses that fall within what we might consider a
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fairly normal ranges. But but then at times we do go
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beyond that. And all of us need to know what
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God's word says about these things.
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And we all need the Lord's help. Some of you in extreme cases
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might even need the help of medical expertise and or law
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enforcement in cases of abuse. I'm going to say that every
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single session because I want that to be a part of of your
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option if you need that, but we all need help.
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So let's walk together through God's word and just think
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through the fact that our goal is very simple, where after that
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word, Shalom, that word, peace, that word for completeness, that
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word for satisfaction. No, no person who's walked the
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earth has ever achieved perfect Shalom since before Genesis 3 in
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the garden. And Jesus Christ Christ himself
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is the only one who was able to achieve that.
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And so that's something that we're looking to how can we grow
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in that? And tonight we're going to talk
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about what, frankly, has become probably the currency of the
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21st century time. It used to be that we would
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spend time to make money, and certain generations still think
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that way, but a lot of the younger generations today will
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actually spend money to save time.
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And so we have fast everything, instant everything if we can.
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And if it's not as instant as we want it to be, we're frustrated
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with a a fast food drive through that takes more than more than
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10 minutes. And so we'll actually try to
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spend money to save time. In one Harvard survey, the US
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wage earners actually log the equivalent of an extra month of
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time on the job each year compared with workers 2 decades
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ago. We're working longer hours, we
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work more. And we'll talk more about that
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some next time. But it's interesting because 50%
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of these people also said that they would willingly take less
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pay for more time. Time is precious in our culture.
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Time is precious in our century, which is also affects the
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church. Frankly, you've got to think
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about, this is something that your pastors and I talk about
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often in the fact that in today's world, think about what
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an active church member is. You know, how many hours a week
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do you actually have the opportunity to pour into a quote
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UN quote, active church member anymore?
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We used to have more services than we do now.
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Most churches have stopped many of them.
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Many churches don't have this these extra times like this one
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even anymore. In fact, I've known from some
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folks from some other churches who are coming to these sessions
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because their church doesn't offer anything.
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And so we have fewer and fewer minutes that we can pour into
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people in terms of discipleship and ministry.
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And so time's a very precious thing for all of us.
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It's also very fleeting. Time seems to run away from us.
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As you grow older, you'll learn that all of the old cliches
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about time are true, that time seems to speed up, that time
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seems to fly by even faster. In fact, there's an old an old
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poem that goes something like this.
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Didn't say it was a good one. I said it was an old one.
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It said when as a child I laughed and wept.
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Time crept when as a youth I dreamed and talked.
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Time walked when I became a full grown man, time ran.
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Soon I shall find in passing on time gone.
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And so time is very fleeting. So we need to make the most of
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what we have. They say that time flies when
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you're having fun. A frog once said time's fun when
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you're having flies. But we're not frogs.
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And so we have to approach that a little, a little differently
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perhaps. And So what we recognize is that
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time itself is a, a very fleeting thing.
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And the reality is that time flies by whether you frankly,
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you're having fun or you're not having fun.
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It's relentless. It never, ever, ever stops.
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And in the midst of it, the problem is time isn't really
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flying. We find that we are, that we're
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flying through life trying to get through the To Do List,
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trying to, to deal with the stresses and the anger and the
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guilt and the fear and all the emotional reactions that we've
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been talking about. And we're going to talk about
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some more of those down the road.
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And so we need to learn how to take time to make time.
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It's not just going to happen accidentally.
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And so we need to learn to trap it.
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How can we trap time before it frankly traps us?
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And that's going to be our subject matter.
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So turn to James 4 if you have a Bible or, or just listen along
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and, and we'll, we'll walk through some James 4 here.
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We each get 24 hours a day. What are we going to do with
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them? James 4 is going to give us some
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insight. And so we have a few things, few
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simple things that we're going to talk about tonight and then
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some not so simple things that we're going to talk about
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tonight as well. Some of you are here because I
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made a theological promise to some of you about about time,
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and we'll get to that here in a bit.
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Those who know what I'm talking about know what I'm talking
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about. Those of you who don't know what
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I'm talking about, don't worry about it.
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You'll be exposed to it and wonder what it was.
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All right, here we go. In order to trap time, first of
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all, let's just recognize that we need to recognize the
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limitations of time. There are certain limitations
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when it comes to time. James 413 says this, Come now.
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You who say today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a
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town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit.
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Yet you don't know what tomorrow will bring.
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What is your life? For you are a mist that appears
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for a little time and then vanishes.
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James starts off by saying come now or or now.
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Listen. Another translation might say
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you need to pay attention to this.
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You need, you need to look at here and focus for a minute
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because he's trying to tell you something important.
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And the, and, and the, the moral of the story, the bottom line of
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this, this story is that man wants to be in charge.
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Man's trying to be in control. And yet there are certain things
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that are not controllable. And so we need to be careful
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about how much energy and how much focus, how much weight we
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are trying to place upon controlling certain things when
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in fact you can't control those things, which is difficult for
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this world because this world likes to box things up, control
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it, define it, redefine it, distort it, et cetera.
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So in this story, in this passage, they want to choose
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their time for this and that. They want to pick the spot
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according to their own pleasure. They want to stay as long as
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they wish. They want to arrange their time
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for their own benefit and pleasure.
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And they want then about boast about their profits.
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They got it all planned out. Now, don't take this as a
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passage against planning. That's not the point here.
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It's a passage against pride. And so it's not that we're we're
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we're not supposed to plan, but it's a dangerous thing to leave
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the divine out of your planning. You got a plan, as one friend of
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mine who passed away not too long ago once said, you, you've
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got a plan within the hand of God.
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You know, you're resting in his hands, recognizing his
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sovereignty and making plans within that framework.
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So, so this passage doesn't condemn honest work.
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It's not doing that. We'll talk more about that next
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time together. It's again, it's not condemning
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careful planning. It does condemn time spent
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outside of the will of God, where I'm trying to control my
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time. I'm trying to control my
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destiny, so to speak. I'm trying to, you know, I've
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got my dream board all mapped out.
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Either know what one of those are are are not.
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And if you don't, you're better off.
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But, but I got my dream board all planned out, got my path all
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figured out. And I'm in complete control.
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If, if I, if I dream hard enough, if I think about it hard
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enough, if I want it hard enough, I can achieve it.
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And all of that's just not true. The world likes us to think it
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is, but it's not. We're not in control of that.
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I've said to you before in stories and illustration that,
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that you don't know what's going to happen to you 10 seconds from
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now. You have no idea what's going to
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happen an hour from now. We're, we're, we're not in
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control of this. So they, it condemns these
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people for playing God and that, that's the point.
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So we need to recognize the limitations that time brings.
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They were oblivious to the presumption, the presumptiveness
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of predicting their own future. There was no thought of, of, of
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God in Arabic. Muslim would say Inshallah or if
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Allah wills and it's a, it's the end of a lot of, a lot of
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statements. If God wills, I'll do this.
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If God wills, I'll do that. And, and there's even a thought
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within that religion, perhaps more than what these folks were
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thinking about, but they spoke here as if they could control
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their own destinies. And they already knew the
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outcome of their destinies and their days.
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If you dream it, you can, you can live it.
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They viewed themselves as the final authority as they omit
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God. So James is reminding them of,
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of their, their ignorance and their arrogance about tomorrow.
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And remember, remember, we, we don't, we don't get to see
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tomorrow. You know, we can.
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The irony of boasting about time is dramatic here in the sense of
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they, they didn't know anything about their future experience.
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No matter what they said about it.
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They were deceiving themselves. Life is quite fragile.
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Life is frankly quite short comparatively.
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We're nothing but a mist. The Bible says we're, we're
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vapors that come and go and, and, and like the puff of a tea
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kettle, they, they evaporate and, and no one knows the time
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of, of his or, or her own life. And so we, we need to be
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careful. So it's like a, it's like the
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man who went to a doctor for a checkup.
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Some of you spend time doing that.
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And the next day he came back for the results and the doctor
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said he had some some very bad news for him and he had bad news
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and some, some worse news. And the bad news was is that he
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only had 24 hours to live. And so the man was distraught.
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You know, 24 hours. There's there's no way I can get
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my affairs in order in 24 hours. I can't believe this.
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What news could possibly be worse than this?
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And the doctor said, well, the worst news is that I was
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supposed to tell you this yesterday.
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So, so we need to define the limitations of time properly.
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So I've shared a few of them, just three of them.
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There could be 30 of them, but there's, there's, there's just
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three of them here. First of all, we just recognize
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we've been talking about the fact that time cannot be
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controlled. We, we can't control it.
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You can't stop it. And normally now there are
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passages in Scripture where prophets can make the sun stand
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still and, and, and miracles can happen with time.
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But that's not Normandy. That's not something we can
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expect and and depend upon. So in our normal life and our
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normal existence, we can't control time.
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Time also can't be predicted. We don't know what's going to
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happen in the future. No matter how hard we try, no
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matter how hard you focus, no matter how hard you plan you, we
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can't comprehend the complexities of life and what
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can happen around us to accurately predict what's going
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to happen in the future. Most of us are not Nostradamus,
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and he was wrong most of the time too.
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So we can't really predict it. And then time can't be extended.
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That's the third limitation. There's a time that you have
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listened to the psalmist, Psalm 39, verse 5.
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Behold, you have made my days, a few hand breaths, and my
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lifetime is as nothing before you.
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Surely all mankind stands as a mere breath, and that's how God
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sees our existence. So it's, it's actually quite
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amazing, quite gracious. We'll mention this more later,
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but it's actually quite gracious that God actually works within
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the mist that is our life. The fact that he cares so much
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about that mist, that he cares so much about that vapor and
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that he does work within the the few decades that we have here on
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this planet in a way that can actually bring him glory.
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That's quite grace. It's quite amazing when you
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recognize and we'll talk more about his perspective of time
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later. And so to think about the
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graciousness of God and the fact that even though we can't extend
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time, there are stories right now and I won't go into detail
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about it, but there there's a billionaire guy who's working
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with every aspect of science and health and diet and everything
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he can to do to be. And he's also now affecting his
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son, who's also participating in it to try to, to live forever.
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He's doing every scientific possible possible thing you can
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do. And he's he's healthier than
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most. He's also not living life at
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all. He basically lives in a
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hyperbolic chamber most of the time, doesn't have any kind of
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existence whatsoever. You know, he might be a little
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younger than us, but my prediction is he's going to die
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right on time. And it's always amazing to see
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people. My grandfather, who I've
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mentioned to you multiple times, you know, he worked five days a
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week at 96 and died at 97. And I don't know if I'm destined
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for that. Not sure I want to be, frankly.
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You know, really, I'd like to go see Jesus.
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But anyway, if he keeps me here, he'll do that.
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And we'll work as hard as we can.
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But we need to recognize the limitations of time.
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But perhaps more importantly, let's recognize the Lord
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overtime. In verse 15, he says this.
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This is really the the punch of the story in James 4.
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Instead of acting this way, instead of instead of acting
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like you get to go predict and you get to go plan and you get
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to get to lay it all out perfectly the way you want it to
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turn out. Instead of doing that, what you
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ought to say is if the Lord wills, we will live and do this
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or do that. In other words, there's an
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umbrella of sovereignty. There's a submission to God's
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lordship over creation that we're submitting to.
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And so these people were, in a sense, playing God.
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And that's the point that James is trying to make.
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They were substituting themselves for that sovereignty.
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They were substituting themselves for that authority.
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And so life is unpredictable and, and frankly, we're foolish
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and the world is full of that. We're foolish if we rely on
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anything other than God to map out our lives and to think about
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what's next. God is the one who holds that in
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his, in his divine plan, and we need to be close to him so that
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we can learn it. So, so presumption, as these
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people were demonstrating it, it denies who we are.
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It also denies who God is and the difference between the two
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and how much we need him. So time and space belong only to
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God and and thus all we do is dependent upon him.
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And we're going to hit that even harder as we walk through this.
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A man once asked, this is an old one.
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A man once asked God how long a million years was to him.
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And God said, it's, it's just like a single second of, of your
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time, my child. And so the man said, well, what
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about $1,000,000? And God says, well, to me, it's,
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it's just like a single penny And so, well, Lord, could I have
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one of your pennies? And, and the Lord answered,
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certainly, my child, just a second.
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I appreciate you. Thank you.
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I was worried that was going to take more thought than it than
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it did, especially with the delivery.
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But but but there's one norm which the life of faith lives
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out seriously. And that that really is if God
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wills Deus Valente in in Latin, which you may hear again some
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other time, but it's it was used for over 100 years.
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It's Latin. But then it was a it was a
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statement between Christians for over 100 years as as kind of
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whenever they would write to one another.
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That was the postscript. That was the PS they would
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always say Deos Valente, which is simply means if the Lord
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wills or God willing. So that's how they would close
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their letters to one another as they wrote because there was a
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recognition. Everything I'm saying to you,
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all these plans, all these wonderful things we're saying,
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talking about, all is submitted under the authority of the
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creation, your creator of time and the manager of time.
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So, so there's nothing wrong with doing business.
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There's nothing wrong with planning with what God entrusts
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us. In fact, you can, we can read
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many other passages where we've got to count the cost of the
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tower we've got. He wants us to invest, He wants
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us to, to to build. He wants us to grow.
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So that's all, all according to scripture.
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The whole idea is, is that for him to bless us.
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With those things that he puts at our disposal, those those
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resources that he gives us, kind of like we talked about with,
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with our act series, we just recognize that God himself is
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not at our disposal. We have to recognize that he is
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the one who is truly Lord. So if if as life is lived, it's
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only if God wills. And so the purpose of time and
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history, this might seem a little deep to you, but the but
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the entire purpose of time, the entire purpose of history is not
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for us to live according to our schedules and timetables.
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That's not why we were created. That's not why time was created.
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The purpose of time and history is for the revelation and glory
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of God and to live out his plan and his will as he orchestrates
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it. So, so time is an instrument of
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God, and we're going to talk more about what time really is
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in a minute. I've mentioned this to some of
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you before loosely, but we're going to get into it a little
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more. Time is an instrument of God as
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he seeks to reveal Himself and his planned man.
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So time is not accidental. Time is not incidental.
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It is his possession and, and, and it can be approached with
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anticipation. The Bible says we can expect, we
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can hope, we can wait upon the Lord, but but it also is
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something that we recognize belongs to him.
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So I want to give you the proper perspective of time and this
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might help you understand issues such as election and
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predestination and God's foreknowledge.
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Now I am just going to say out loud that I am not going to
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satisfy any of you with what I'm about to say.
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Volumes have been written for thousands of years on these
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subject matters. Some of you already have
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preconceived ideas and you are not, you won't agree with me
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perhaps. And so I, I appreciate that
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everybody has the right to be wrong, but at the same time, I
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want to simplify this. I don't mean that.
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Well, maybe I do, but I do want to simplify this.
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I don't want to oversimplify it. It may sound like I'm doing
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this, but I'm not. What I'm talking about is
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extremely deep, but I want to simplify this because I also
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know that they're just people who don't even know what those
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words mean. They have no idea what what
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that's all about. And, and later on we're going to
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get into conversations about, about election and, and
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predestination on a, on a, just hang with me for a minute.
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On a soteriological level, how does salvation actually work?
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We're going to do, I'll do a whole series on some doctrinal
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things later. I'm going to talk about
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eschatology. That'll be the day everybody
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wants to show up to hear what I think about the second coming,
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because there's some of you that that's all you want to talk
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about. Probably.
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I don't know you. So I'm not pointing fingers, but
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I just know there always is. All right.
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And, and, but, but what I really want to talk about here is the
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fact that we really need to remember that time is a part of
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the creation and that that's that's crucial to all this
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theological understanding. I don't care how many volumes
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are written. I don't how many Theo I know
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these theologians, I've worked with them for years.
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I don't care how much they're debating on this, but the idea
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is that time is a part of the creation, and we've got to
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recognize that. So time, as I've shared with
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some of you before, is defined by the relationship of the
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Earth's rotation and the sun. You get to stick out to think
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about what time is. See, so time was all created in
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Genesis chapter 1. So a day is how long?
Genesis 1 chapter mention
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It's 24 hours, but why is it 24 hours?
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What's going on? Yeah.
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The earth is rotating on its axis.
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A year is 300 and more or less 65 days because it's that's how
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long it takes to go around the sun.
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When did all that happen? Genesis chapter one.
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Time did not exist before Genesis chapter 1.
Genesis 1 chapter mention
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Now, this is a basic premise. Did God exist before Genesis
Genesis 1 chapter mention
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chapter 1? Yes.
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So God is not a part of time. You got me.
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God transcends the concept of time.
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Now. It's almost impossible for our
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human brains to comprehend this. It's like the word eternal.
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It's a very hard thing to comprehend.
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As simple as that word might be. It's hard for us to comprehend
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forever because we are trapped in what time we live in time
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because we are part of the creation.
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God is not. So don't try to box God up.
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That's my frustration with some of my theological friends is
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they're trying to box God up. They, they want to figure God
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completely out. They want to be able to define
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God. Quit trying to figure God out.
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That's a complete he'll, he'll make sure you can't do that.
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Read stories about, I don't know, Babel, etcetera.
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God's going to make sure you can't quite figure him out.
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He only reveals to us what we've got to know about him.
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There's a whole lot more about him we don't know and so don't
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try to box him up in some human form and in some human equation.
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It becomes a mathematical trap. And that's where some theology
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ends up. Same thing with some
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soteriological conclusions. They find themselves in a in a
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mathematical trap. So we are, we are limited, but
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what we can see next down the line, but God is not because he
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transcends all this. Now, here's the simplest way,
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and I'm not the first one to say this, and I'm going to quote CS
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Lewis in a minute, who has a very profound way of expressing
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this. But the easiest way for me to
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define this for you, and I'm sure this was some of you
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before, this is the two-minute part is is in geometry, the
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distance between two points is called what a line.
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Thank you, math people. Appreciate you.
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Some of us didn't do so well in that class, but thank you.
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It's a line. Now, if you really know your
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geometry, when you turn that line on its end, it becomes
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what? A point?
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That's the difference in our perspectives.
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We are in the line. God sees the point.
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So one of the things you have to wrap your heads around is that
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that's how God sees time. He sees past, present, and
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future all together. There's no limit to his ability
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to see it. And that is how we can actually
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explain things like predestination and election.
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God sees time differently. CS Lewis has a cool term for it.
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He refers to it as God's unbounded.
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Now you Google that sometime with CS Lewis and you can read a
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whole lot of stuff about what he says about is it?
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There's 22 terms for it. God's unbounded now, or
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sometimes he'll refer to it as his eternal now.
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And so God sees all at once. And that's the issue and that's
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the problem we have. And so there are two kinds of
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time in the Bible. There's actually more, but 2
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words that are important. There's Kronos, Kronos time.
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That's, that's, that's the earth moving through space, spinning
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the created time right? That we talk about, that we live
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in and we can, we can chart it maybe imperfectly, but we
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charted the other kind of time is chaos.
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That's God's time. It's a different, it's a
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different quality of time. It's a whole different
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substance. It's not the same time that we
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live in. So CS Lewis will talk about
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God's unbounded now, where now is both this moment right now
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and also what stretches into eternity.
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And so According to him, for for everything is happening now.
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This is part of God's omnipresence and omniscience.
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God knows all things. God is present at all times and
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all places. And so for him, this is a very
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different experience than for us.
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And it's hard. I, I'm not expecting you to
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understand him. I don't, I, I don't understand
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that perspective. I can't, my, my football sized
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cranial cavity is not capable of that.
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But that's what's going on. So here's a great quote from
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Lewis. He says God doesn't foresee the
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humans making their free contributions in the future, but
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sees them doing so in his unbounded now.
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And obviously to watch a man doing something is not the same
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as to make him do it. And so there's this, this
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balance of we're living in this freedom on the line.
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Does God already know what choice I'm going to make?
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Sure he does. Does God already know who's
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going to heaven and going to hell?
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Yes. Does that mean that I have no
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free will or no or no choice? No, because my perspective is
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that's all I have. You, you don't have ES written
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on your forehead. I don't know if you're the elect
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or not. So I have a responsibility to
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share with everybody. I have the responsibility to
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share the gospel with everyone. And so we, we'll talk about
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Calvinism and some of those issues later as well.
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And, and how many we are and how many we're not.
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If you're talking about petals off a flower, we'll do that one
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day. We're not going to do that now,
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but to recognize that God is experiencing everything at once
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in a different way. And he, he isn't just predicting
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the future, He's telling us how it happens because he already
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can see it. And so we just recognize that
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God sees time in a very different way and he owns it.
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He's in absolute control over it.
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He orchestrates it. He is Lord over it, just like
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he's Lord over every other part of the created order.
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And so he's the Lord of creation.
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That includes time. And we can't separate those
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things. So he has an intended purpose
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for our moments in our timeline that we call life.
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And he has things. He hopes that we will do a lot
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as we're walking down the line. Because that's all I can see.
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All I can see is next. All I can see is past.
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That's all. All I can see is right now
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because I'm, I'm, I'm on the very, very narrow part of the
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line and that's all I can see, right?
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And so we have no right to ignore that will.
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We have to actively seek that will.
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And so we have to ask ourselves, how can I know it?
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And so as you start your day, you better ask him.
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And so let me let me talk about spending your time this way and
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just for just a minute, because he has a plan and purpose and we
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need to give him time. So let me talk about this for a
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minute. Let me give you a principle to
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take with you. I want you to think about a
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tithe of a tithe of the of your time.
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I'll say that better. Sorry, a tithe of a tithe of
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your time. Don't try to say that 10 times
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fast. Here's what I mean.
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There are 60 minutes every hour, 24 hours a day.
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That's 1440 minutes every day. OK, We all have that.
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I don't care how busy you are. I don't care who you are.
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That's all you get. That's all you have.
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We all have that 1440 minutes every day.
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OK, now let's say you actually sleep 8 hours a day.
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I'd like to meet you. I'd like to talk about that.
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I don't do that. I know people who do.
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I know some people who sleep more than that.
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Bless your hearts. I don't.
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But let's say you sleep 8 hours. That recommended 8 hours.
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Whoever recommends things, right?
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That's the same people who say I should weigh 175 lbs on a chart.
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So you have 16 hours left being awake.
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You with me so far, Math not too hard.
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You with me. We got off the geometry.
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This is simple math. Now game.
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All right, that's 960 minutes. So you theoretically have about
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960 minutes awake every day. If you sleep 8 hours, 10% of 960
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minutes is 96 minutes. That's a tithe of your time.
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A tithe of the tithe of your time would then be 9.6 minutes.
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Now just bear with me for a minute.
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I know this is a crowd that wants to spend more than 10
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minutes a day with God, but here's my challenge.
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I want to, I want to at least challenge you to begin your day
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with 10 minutes with God. And some of you say, well,
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that's not enough. I agree with you.
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I want you to get up to the 96. But for some of you who are
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doing no minutes with God every single day, let's start with the
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tithe of the tithe. Let's start with 9.6 minutes a
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day seeking God's will for your life in prayer and Bible study.
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See what that does? You can say that's too simple,
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that's too easy. Now it's not.
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See what? See what?
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See what happens if you spend 10 minutes a day in the Word, 10
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minutes a day in prayer. See what Satan does, see what
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God does. Just watch what happens, right?
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And then eventually let's build up to maybe the, the 96 minutes
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a day or an hour and a half a day.
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What a what a time that would be if we could get to that point,
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if we were practicing our spiritual disciplines and study
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and prayer every day for an hour and a half, that would be pretty
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tremendous for a lot of people. We know, we know people who
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spend more time than that. You know, they're great stories
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of people who spent three hours a day in prayer in church
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history and whatnot will bless their hearts.
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But for most people in today's world, with the currency of time
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like it is, I would love to see you start with 10 minutes,
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That's it. And then get it.
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Start working toward that hour, that hour and a half.
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See what you can do. Maybe you have to break that up
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even and let's see what happens. So we need to, we need to seek
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to expand that. I challenge that because we'll,
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we'll say where has the time gone?
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And the truth of the matter is time hadn't gone anywhere.
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We have time is right there, 1440 minutes every single day
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for every single one of us. Don't care what your job is,
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don't care how busy you are. Don't care how stressed you
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think you are. Don't care how little time you
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have. One of the great things that
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you'll think is I hope you appreciate is in seminary life,
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I often teach pastors and I've done this around the world a lot
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too. And we'll talk about spiritual
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disciplines and practicing spiritual gifts.
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And sometimes I'll have a doctoral seminar and it'll be
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nothing but pastors in there. And I'll, I'll talk about
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spending time doing this or spending time doing that and
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leadership in the church. And, and they'll sit there and
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say, well, I don't have time to do that.
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You know, whatever it was I was talking about that, you know,
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leadership development or something, you know, I don't
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have time to do that. That's a mistake.
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They used to refer to me as doctor red ink.
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And there's a reason for that. I'll make you do a 5 minute a
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day for a two week time period chart.
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If you're one of my students, if you'll say that to me, to her, I
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want you to tell me what you do every 5 minutes for the next two
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weeks. And I bet I can find time in
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your life. I bet you're spending a lot of
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time looking at these things or social media or what the TV or
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whatever it is in many of these lives.
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And I bet we can carve out the hour and a half we need a week
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to do whatever it was we were talking about, right?
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So we better know what His will is.
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We're not going to know unless we talk to Him and listen to Him
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and study His Word. And so all of our planning, this
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is what James is trying to say, all of our timing, all of our
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planning needs to be filtered through God's Word.
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We have to be defined by God's Word, not the other way around.
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And that's why Matthew 633 would say what it does, but seek first
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the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these
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other things will be added to you.
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You know, the context of that is the Sermon on the Mount.
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And they're talking about all the all these things of life
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and, and Jesus says, listen, if you'll focus on him, all these
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other things, we'll find a way to be taken care of.
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And so we're accountable for this journey along this moving
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thing, this line that we call time or life.
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We're accountable for that, and we need to seek what God wants,
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and so I need to use my time to pursue Him and His desires.
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The prophet Jeremiah said it this way.
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In Jeremiah 9 he said, Thus says the Lord, let not the wise man
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boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might,
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Let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who
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boasts, boasts in this that he understands and knows me, that I
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am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice and
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righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight
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declares the Lord. Great book called knowing God
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revolves around that passage to saying that our greatest desire
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in life, our greatest goal in life is to know God and to spend
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time with him. And if you're not spending time
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with him, listening to him, studying him, studying his word
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and will, praying to him, I'm not sure how you're ever going
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to know how you're supposed to operate along the line, so to
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speak. And so we need to trap time
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before it traps us. We need to recognize the
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limitations it brings. We also need to recognize the
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Lord overtime. But thirdly, we need to
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recognize the lessons from time. So verse 16 goes on and it says
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as it is, see, there's not a guess.
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We're gonna have to guess about what's going on in this story as
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it is. You boast in your arrogance.
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All such boasting is evil. So whoever knows the right thing
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to do and fails to do it for him, it is sin.
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You've often probably quoted that second part you'll quote.
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A lot of people will quote verse 17 completely out of context.
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The context here is the use of time, that sin of omission that
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you know the right thing to do, but you're still not doing it.
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And so this is an issue of how I'm how you're using your life.
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This is an issue of how you're using time.
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This is an issue of obedience. Are you really obeying God in
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the way that he wants you to? So we have sins of what we would
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call Commission these, these active proactive things we do
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sins of omission where we're just not doing what we ought to
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be doing. And both categories of sin
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causes trouble and, and in this context, this verse that we
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often quote, it's in this context, if I'm boasting about
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my time, I'm boasting about my life, I'm in control of my life.
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This is idolatry in this simplest form.
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I, I believe I'm in charge, I believe I'm God, I believe I'm
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the Lord of my life. Now you people may never
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articulate it that way, but that's exactly what they're
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doing. They've placed themselves on the
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throne of their life, right? So boast.
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This is the same word that's used in first John chapter 2,
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verse 16, often translated the pride of life.
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And so this is a prideful, arrogant type attitude.
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It's arrogant, it's hollow, it's presumptuous.
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It's a claim that can't be fulfilled.
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In fact, the word in the original language finds its root
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in the characteristic of a wandering quack, like an old
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medicine man in the Old West. That's actually where this word
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gets its, its, its meaning in, in biblical times.
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It, it's like a travelling quack who offers cures which will not
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cure. It's a snake oil salesman.
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And that, that, you know, put that in biblical times.
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So maybe a, a camel oil salesman, I don't know.
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But anyway, you know, a Viper oil salesman who's promising you
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a cure for your leprosy or whatever you have.
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And it's just not real. It's just not true.
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It's deceiving. So we're deceiving ourselves
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when we think somehow we get to control and we get to be in
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charge. So he boasted of things which he
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was simply unable to do. He he couldn't do it.
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And so this boasting refers to this proud confidence in, in, in
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one's own knowledge or cleverness.
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That's what the word means. It's pride, and that's what
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James is talking about, that somehow we're living this way.
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So they planned as if they're they were the masters of their
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own lives. So I don't know if you're ever
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around people who have to boast about every single thing they
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ever do, you get a running record of all they have ever
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done so that they can be recognized.
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This happens, believe it or not, even in the church sometimes.
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Don't tell anybody, but even in the church sometimes.
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Some serve for their own glory, not for the glory of God.
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It's obvious that the only boasting we better do is about
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what God's doing. So instead of confessing our
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dependence upon God, their arrogance erupts and overflows
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with bragging about themselves. So boasting about the future
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without recognizing the Lord overtime the the one who created
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and holds time is frankly evil. It's aggressively and viciously
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wicked. That's what he says he says in
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this passage. He says, listen, he says in
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verse 16, all such boasting is the the Greek word is poneros.
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And this word means this word means in fact, it's the same
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word. It's fascinating.
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It's the same word Jesus uses when he prays deliver us from
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evil. I mean, this is a vicious word.
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This is extremely negative word that you got to take this
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seriously. James is taking this extremely
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seriously. This is very strong language to
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say that this is just flat out satanic.
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We need to act upon this and do what's right.
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We need to know what, what good is before, before we can do it
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though. So we have to evaluate our life
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patterns to see if they conform to God's word rather than our
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own. And we need, we need to plan in
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those areas that are, that are obvious areas in God's word.
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Sometimes people don't know what to do.
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And, and I, I, I'll talk about the black and whites and the
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Grays. You know, when God's word is
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very clear about something, you don't have to worry about it.
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You don't have to wonder about it.
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Just do that. And often I find that that helps
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us define the more grey, nebulous areas of life.
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When we might have two good choices, we think we're not sure
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which choice to make, and it's hard sometimes to discern God's
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will. But we need to plan to obey in
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those obvious areas 1st. And then the surprises, the
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interruptions, the crisis that are often tough to plan for.
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But when they happen, we we at least find our lives prioritized
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in a way that will help us to focus upon the Lord and be ready
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to deal with them in a biblical way.
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And so many of life's most precious moments aren't planned.
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And God will bring these things to us.
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But if we're focused on Him and we've established a framework of
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biblical decision making and reaction that's healthy and
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helpful and depends upon Him, we'll be in a much better spot.
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So. So for most people, their level
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of knowledge sometimes far exceeds their level of
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obedience. That was a better line than you
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thought it was. But for a lot of people, their
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level of their level of knowledge far exceeds their
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level of obedience. They think they know when in
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fact they just need to trust instead of trying to figure it
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out. So knowledge isn't enough, we
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need action. So we got to ask ourselves, is
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this going to help me or someone else become a better disciple?
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James says that you've been fully warned.
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I've pointed the matter out to you.
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You have no excuse. That's the whole point that he's
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trying to make here. And so let me share 4 lessons of
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time with you and take a few minutes here.
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So some applications. So, so trapping time for the
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Kingdom recognizes that that seeking to control or claim
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credit for our time is arrogant and evil.
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And we really need to think about that a little bit.
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We, we have these sins of Commission and omission.
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So this idea of sin is missing the mark.
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But, but but not only doing wrong, but failing to do what's
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right. And so the Lord gives us a
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command and we either ignore it or simply fail to do it.
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Don't, don't ignore James. So we recognize that seeking to
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control this or, or claim credit is arrogant.
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It's evil. You know, I was sharing with the
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staff this morning. Every morning we gather to pray
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together before the as the day begins and I try to bring up a
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passage of Scripture from my own quiet time.
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What did God kind of say that I thought was neat this morning as
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I study various books of the Bible?
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And one of the things that I've been working through, I've been,
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I've been doing a double study of Exodus.
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Don't worry about that. I'm not necessarily preaching a
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series on Exodus. I'm just I've been caught up in
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the Exodus. So I've been through it one
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time. I'm back in it again and I've
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been kind of doing, I've done it at home and doing it here at the
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office. And I'm, I'm in the middle of
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the plagues again. You got to think about this for
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a minute. So plague after plague after
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plague, Moses and Aaron, you know what God says, go do this,
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you know, make gnats out of dust or boils are going to appear or
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fire from hail from the sky. The livestock are going to drop
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dead. All these different things, you
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know, blood, blood, water turning to blood, all these
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different plagues, right? Ten of them.
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And to some degree these plagues are an attack upon the Egyptian
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gods. And you got to recognize that
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backdrop that one by one God is destroying the, the, the
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pantheon of, of Egyptian gods. But but the other thing you've
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got to and by the way, the final act of the first born dying is
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an attack on on Pharaoh. Pharaoh, because Pharaoh himself
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is a God. And so to recognize that his own
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son would die. So he is the son of RAW, the sun
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God FA FA Raoh. Pharaoh is how it should be
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pronounced. So you recognize he's the son of
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RAW. But anyway, those attacks are
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there. But what's interesting to me is
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the Moses, Aaron perspective. So here's Moses and Aaron.
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OK, God. Yes, Sir.
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Yes, Sir. You know, staff, rod, snakes,
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blood, gnats, flies, frogs, livestock, hail, Everything
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happens, right? According to what?
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Goshen's fine. Egypt's decimated.
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Everything's just great. Let my people go.
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Pharaoh says. If you'll tell God to stop, I'll
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let my people go. Then what does Pharaoh do?
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His heart is hardened over and over and over and over and over
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again. And I'm sitting there thinking
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this whole time that Moses and Aaron and the people of Israel
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still in slavery, still making brick now without straw, they
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have to wait on all this. Think about the time but God,
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but God, God, you said, but God time.
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And you recognize, why does God make them go through all 10
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plagues? And part of it might be the
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Egyptian God angle. I get that.
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But I think the bigger part of it is, is that God wanted Egypt
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to talk about him, that when it was done, because when you read
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the passages that you might know that I am God, that you might
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know I am the Lord. And he's saying that to the
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Egyptians, not just but also to the people of Israel.
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The people of Israel needed to know that because they were
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going to need to know that to go through the wilderness and to
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get into Canaan. They needed to know He was
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indeed God. Remember, it had been a whole
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been a long time since Joseph, It had been a long time since
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the patriarchs. They hadn't had a prophet, they
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hadn't had this word from God. So they needed the evidence.
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The Egyptians were then going to be testifiers of God, and the
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Bible's pretty clear about that. I'm going to whip these people
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down to the point of they're going to tell the whole world.
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The most powerful nation on the planet is going to tell the
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whole world that that Hebrew God is the real God.
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That's the real deal. Now, easy to read that in a few
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chapters. Tough to have gone through that
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if you're Moses and Aaron. I'm sure you know, the people of
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the people that the Hebrew people at different times are
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doubting them. They're, you know, they don't
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know there's another plague. Moses doesn't know.
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We're waiting for #10 The flies are going to do it.
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The flies didn't do it. The frogs, frogs are going to do
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it. The frogs didn't do it.
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You know, think about the endurance.
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Think about their perspective. It just hit me, I was probably
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harping too much about that to the staff this morning.
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But anyway, I just, it kind of hit me that poor old Moses and
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Aaron had to endure and wait upon the Lord to do what he's
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going to do, even when it didn't make sense, even when it seemed
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like failure. Well, Lord, we thought we had
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this and Moses as hard, as hardened, and he's still not
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going to let us go. We did.
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And he's still not going to let us go and he's still not going
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to let us go and he's still not going to let us go.
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But in the end, they learn about the Passover.
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In the end, they learn about deliverance.
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And years later, they celebrate the Passover again with the
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final sacrifice, the final lamb, Jesus Christ.
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And all of the picture fits together in a perfect way.
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And that, and that's a God who's in charge of time.
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Who those years for him because he has a purpose and a plan.
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So be patient, wait upon the Lord, recognize that he's in
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control. You don't need to seek to
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control that. So #2 trapping time for the
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Kingdom requires this recognition of God's
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sovereignty. Psalm 139, which is a verse we
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often use and for the sanctity of human life, and rightfully so
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says this your eyes saw my unformed substance in the in
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your book were written every one of them.
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The days that were formed for me when as yet there was none of
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them. So even before I was born, even
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while I'm in my mother's womb, even when I'm a speck of a
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cellular being, God has a plan. He has days, He has purpose for
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me. He already knows because he can
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see it all. He sees the point.
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I'm just on the line. He knows me #3 trapping time for
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the Kingdom requires the prioritization of and
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participation in God's work. And I shared a little bit about
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this in our Acts series in the sermon about Ananias and
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Sapphira in Acts chapter 5 about stewardship in the sense that
Acts 5 chapter mention
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stewardship is, is not about money.
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It just, it is, but it's not. It includes that.
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But if you weren't, if you didn't hear that message, you
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need to go back and listen to it because it's about life.
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Stewardship is your best time. It's your best energy, it's your
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best resources. It's your, it's your best focus,
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it's your best skill set, it's your best experiences.
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And some of the stuff that you've been through on that
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timeline that you, that you hated, that were horrible, that
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were difficult. Some of those experiences are
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going to be tools that God uses in stewardship to minister to
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somebody else who's going through it, somebody that you
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can relate to that maybe nobody else could relate to.
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You know, over the years, because of some of my past
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experiences, I've been able to have conversations with men that
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some of you would consider kind of rough and tough.
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Kind of guys have been through some stuff and we can have
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conversations and I'm, I can relate to what they're going
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through to some degree. And, and we can talk.
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Well, some of you have been through crisis, you've been
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through drama, you've been through, through real things in
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life. And God will use those in
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ministry if you'll allow him. But it's our best, it's our best
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energy. It's it's a tithe of our time.
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It's a tithe of our money. It's a tithe of our talent, our
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spiritual giftedness. One of the things that we're
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going to have to talk about is how do we discover our spiritual
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giftedness in calling? How do we do that?
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We've got some practical things coming up down the line.
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We're talking through those things of how we're going to
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help you discover those things and put them into action and
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actually and actually help you find your place in service to
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where you don't have to go searching on a web board
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someplace. But we're actually going to help
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you match up to ministry so that you can serve and you can place
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your best skills, your best experience, your best
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giftedness, and calling into service.
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So we're working through all that #4 trapping time for the
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Kingdom requires a knowledge of God's Word and God's will for
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our lives. Once again, we're we're not
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going to know what to do unless we know what He wants us to do.
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So Ephesians 5 says this. Look carefully then, how you
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walk. Not as unwise, but as wise,
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making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.
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Therefore, do not be foolish, but understand what the will of
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the Lord is. I don't know a passage that's
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more clear. The days that we live in here
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are fallen. There's a reason why evil
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exists, and we'll do a whole thing on that one day.
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I know I keep talking about all the things we're going to do,
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but I'm brand new. Give me a minute.
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So why does the problem of evil exist?
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Why does evil exist in this world?
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In the 1st place? We got to talk about those
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things. A big question for a lot of
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people, and some people struggle with God because of that.
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But we recognize that these days that we live in are fallen.
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This creation is groaning, time is groaning, and so we have to
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make the most of it Now. The best use of our time to not
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be foolish is to understand what God's will is for your life and
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to live it out. There's no way you're going to
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know that unless you're engaged with Him.
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You're abiding in Him and He in you, so that together you bear
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that fruit. John 15-5 ish.
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You've got to be in His Word. You've got to be in prayer.
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This is why the church needs to exist.
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The church needs to exist to help equip you to discover what
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God's will is for your life and to live it out and to give you
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opportunities to do that. That's why the church needs to
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exist. And so we need to spend time
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with Him in order to understand how He wants us to use His time,
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right? And then Psalm 90 says, so teach
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us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom,
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right? We need to think about what that
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means. Life should be a deliberate act,
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not some passive response to circumstance.
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When it says to wait upon the Lord, that doesn't mean you're
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sitting around staring at the sky wondering if he's going to
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ever show up. Waiting upon the Lord is an
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active participation in abiding and connecting with Him.
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It's kind of like when the disciples were told in the in
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the book of Acts to go back to Jerusalem and wait for the Holy
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Spirit. They weren't just going back and
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sitting around doing nothing. They were praying, they were
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worshipping, they were fellowshipping, they were
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encouraging, they were strengthening one another.
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Remember what he said? I can just hear him.
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Remember what he said? Now this makes sense.
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I remember when he said he predicted.
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I remember. I can just hear him.
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Even Thomas. Maybe.
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Maybe. Yeah.
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You know, Thomas, too. Supposedly Thomas went as far as
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India according to tradition. That's tradition.
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There's not a lot of fact in place.
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But theoretically, the apostle Thomas went as far as India to
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show the gospel in the end. But it should be a deliberate
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act. Life is Life is something we
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need to seize. It's short.
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It's fleeting, gang. I've done 300 and something
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funerals in my lifetime. I had a funeral.
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I see. I tell the new agent story.
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So Neil would be thrilled to death if he were alive, that I
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just said his name out loud. But so I had a church treasurer
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who was the most prolific regional Funeral Home director
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I'd ever met, Right. You may not know this.
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Anybody here in the Funeral Home business?
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You could testify to this? Anybody here a funeral director?
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So most funeral homes in the United States of America are
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actually owned by a few corporations.
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They really are. And then they'll have a family
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name on them. The family may have started it,
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but most of them have been bought out by just a few
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corporations. That's behind the scenes
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knowledge. Don't tell anybody this was a
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family owned and run deal. He had multiple chapels and
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multiple towns in eastern Oklahoma, right?
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And any time a person would come along who didn't have a church
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or didn't have a pastor, and it was very evangelistic, he just
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knew that I needed to do their funeral and I needed to be there
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to share the gospel with them. And so Neil would do 12 funerals
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a week. And so I had the opportunity
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some weeks to do 12 funerals. I didn't, but I would have that
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if you were on staff at that church, you had the opportunity
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to preach and as many funerals as you could possibly preach.
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And if I could write a funny book about funerals, I would,
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but I'm not sure you can. Can you write a funny book about
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funerals? I have some funny funeral
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stories. But anyway, I don't know that
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you're supposed to do that. I've done funerals.
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Now, just bear with me for a minute and it's not more, but
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hang in there. I've done funerals for
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incredible believers. I mean, people who are mentors
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to me, people who are role model Charlie Greer, people, just
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wonderful homecoming celebrations, you know, where
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everybody who knew this person believed this person was a
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believer, saw the testimony of their life, saw the fruit of
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their life. What a glorious, wonderful
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celebration of a person who's now with Jesus, right?
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But I've also done the funerals for people who didn't know Jesus
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at all. I've been the only one at the
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graveside. I, I've, I've been the only one
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that the family had any connection with whatsoever.
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And none of them were saved, right.
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And to recognize the use of life and, and, and perhaps carefully,
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the waste of life to say what, what did this amount to in the
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end? I've done funerals for tragic
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stories. Suicidal.
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Babies, I won't go into any more detail.
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It's going to be very sad. And so the contrast of life,
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what that life meant, the impact of that life and, and I'm not
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here to judge. I don't know all those details
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of those people. I don't know who all they
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impacted and maybe even negative impact had positive result.
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You never know, you know, but I was just there and I got to
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experience it week after week after week after week after week
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in church life, from church members to non church members to
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tragic stories and and to walk through that with people and to
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think about, you know, part of what here here's a basic funeral
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sermon. Aren't you excited?
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You came for this? Here's a so here's a basic
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funeral sermon. Here's what you're going to do
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at a funeral. So if you ever have to preach a
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funeral, here's here's your outline.
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You're right, we're here to honor a life.
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So, so you try to figure out something, anything that you
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might say. I don't preach people into
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heaven. I can't, I'm not going to do
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that. But but is there anything nice
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that you can say about that dead person you with me?
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We're here to honor a life. Now, sometimes it's really easy
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sometimes that, that you know that that could be that that can
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be, you know, a long time, a lot of stuff.
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We're, we're here to honor a life #2 we're, we're, we're,
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we're here to seek help for our loss.
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Because I don't care who you are, whether you're saved or
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unsaved, you're going to grieve. You ought to grieve.
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Christians should grieve. It's OK to grieve.
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We grieve as people though, who have what?
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Yeah, we have hope. It's just different.
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But so, so I want to help the non Christian to know how to get
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to that hope. And obviously I'm, I'm helping
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the Christian to, to embrace the hope that they have.
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So we're we need help for our hurt and then and then we need
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hope for our lives. So that's that alliterated
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honor, a life help for a hurt, hope for our lives.
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So if nothing else that they didn't, I'm preaching the
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gospel, right? And I sit there sometimes at
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that first point and even the family can't give you anything,
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you know. I mean, you know, Uncle Charlie
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learned not to cuss except when he was drunk.
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I mean, you know what I'm saying?
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I mean, sometimes. But when you have a 15 year old
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who was arrested with his father for dealing drugs and his dad
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goes to the penitentiary and the 15 year old kills himself
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because he didn't want to go to jail.
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And you're asked to do the funeral.
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And the State Highway Patrol have to circle the Chapel and
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tell you to wear a bulletproof vest to preach the funeral
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because there's going to be a shooting at the funeral because
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of the divorce between the father and the mother.
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And you literally have a Chapel with an aisle down the middle
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and mom sides here and dad sides here.
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And you've got this 15 year old and they want you to wear a
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bulletproof vest. And there are there are armed
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men circling the entire service because they'd had a fist fight
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the night before in the at the viewing, even knives came out.
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I didn't wear the bulletproof vest, not my style.
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But then at the end of the service, after I share the
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gospel in those places and that culture, people would come by
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and view. It was open casket, believe it
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or not. Should not have been, but it
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was. And they view and they go by.
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So and then the family comes by and circles back and sits down
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and you'll have a prayer with the family.
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That's a tradition back in those hills.
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Visitors come by, they go out, the family circles around.
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Soon as the mother stands up to come view her son, this entire
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section gets up, turns their back and walks out.
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Humanity. And I thought to myself, Teresa
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remembers that story. They were relatives of church
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members. They made sure the funeral was
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just across the state line so that the dad couldn't get out of
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the pen to come to the funeral. They wouldn't let him cross the
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state line. I share that ugly story with you
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on purpose. These days we live in are evil
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and life can be wasted, right? Not just that 15 year old.
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I mean, what a tragic way. He was not a believer, No
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evidence at all whatsoever that he knew anything about Jesus.
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But these people, there's a line.
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What are you going to do with that?
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What are you going to invest in? And that's a dramatic story.
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I showed the dramatic story on purpose so that it hits you in a
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dramatic way. But we are stewards of time,
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which means that we are stewards of life, every part of it.
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And wasted time is a wasted life.
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So we have to pursue, we have to understand his will, the fact
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that he's in absolute control of this.
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Whether I believe that I reject that I, I, I'm an atheist, I'm
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an agnostic, whatever it is, it doesn't matter.
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It doesn't change the fact that he's still in absolute control
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over time. Because the other thing about
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time, which is what some of you want me to talk about is there's
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going to be an end to it. And only the Father knows.
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Quit trying to figure it out because only the Father knows.
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And there's going to come a moment.
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Trumpets are going to blow, Things are going to happen.
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One day I'll describe all those things, I promise, but it'll
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end. And my perspective is it could
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end today. I'm not waiting on anything,
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anytime, anytime. What are you doing with the
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line? God already knows, but He's
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given you the freedom to make those choices.
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It's amazing. It's a mystery beyond our
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comprehension perhaps, but we need to focus on His mission and
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pathway about it. It reminds me of an old monkey
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trap. I don't know if y'all know
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monkey traps. You also do them with raccoons.
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We used to do them with, we used to do a lot of raccoon hunting
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in, in the Ozarks. But you, you also have monkey,
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monkey traps. You know exactly.
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He knows exactly what you do. And one way to do this with
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either a raccoon or a monkey, they'll both do this because
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you're idiots. So what will happen is is you,
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you cut a hole in a tree branch. There's different ways to do
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this. Didn't have to be a tree branch,
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but we'll just say it's a big take a big tree, cut a big hole
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in there and put a shiny piece of foil down in that hole.
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Then put 22 horseshoe nails in where the ends of the horseshoes
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are pointing downward. That monkey or that raccoon will
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reach in there to get that shiny little whatever.
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It could be a piece of fruit or it could be a piece of foil.
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He's going to reach down in there and he's going to grab
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that foil or that piece of fruit, and he's going to try to
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get his hand out. But when he makes the first, his
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hand's too big. Those horseshoe nails are going
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to dig into his hand and he can't get out.
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Now all that dumb thing has to do is what?
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Let go? And you know what it'll do?
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It'll die sitting there before it.
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Let's go before it'll let go. You can hear it screaming,
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squealing, carrying on. And you can go and have you
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monkey meat or raccoon for dinner.
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I've had both. Yum.
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Raccoon's better than monkey, just for the record.
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Little greasy make you want to go out to Wendy's so, but that
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thing will sit there because it doesn't want to give up control.
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Now gang, sometimes that's how we're living life, isn't it?
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Corey 10 Boom, who I'll quote often because I like her, was at
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Chuck Swindoll's church one time.
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Swindell, big old Marine this in his younger days.
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And Swindell was in a tense conversation with somebody after
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church and you and and he was just kind of he was tensed up
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kind of making fist. You could just see they're
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physically tense. You get to see the stress in his
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shoulders and his arms and his hands.
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And little Corey 10 Boom, about four feet tall, comes up to him
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and says, Doctor Svendall, give me your hands and makes him
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unclench his fist. And she says, Doctor Svendall,
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you must be very careful about that to which we hold on to so
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tightly. Time, life, stewardship,
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calling, giftedness, skills, experience, good and horrible
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experience are tools to be dedicated to God, to be used for
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his glory, if we'll allow him to do that.
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So it's all about control. So what time is it for you and
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what is it time for you to do? Those are the questions that we
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have to face to recognize that God can already see, God already
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knows. But for us, we're in the middle.
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We're in the middle of a of a stream, a river, a line.
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And amazingly, I have a free will to make choices.
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Good ones, dumb ones, bad ones. And So what I pray that
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spiritual maturity does is it starts to help me make more good
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ones than bad ones. That slowly but surely I make
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the right choices because I'm spending time with him.
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I'm in his word with him. I'm in prayer with him.
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This is what you want. This isn't what I want.
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This is what you want. I've shared about my testimony a
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little bit. One of these days I'll share the
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whole testimony with me. I've shared some of that
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baseball bats and, and bouncing and boxing and things like this.
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But one of the things that one of the things that had to happen
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in my life, and there's still a lot of problems in my life and
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there probably always will be. And, and I, I think that there
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are parts of my brain that were probably burned out because of
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the past, that it will affect me the rest of my life.
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And that's really not a joke. But I had a real trouble problem
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with alcohol and that comes from a childhood of exposure.
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And, and for me, it became a real problem, especially when I
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was running away during this horrible prodigal experience
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that I went through. It was became a real I, I was, I
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was a good boxer when I was drunk because I'm not a happy
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drunk. I'm a raging drunk.
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And so you become the Hulk. And in those days when I'm 285
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lbs of solid muscle, that's a dangerous place to be.
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And one night and I shared this at the wild game dinner, that
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one, one night when I, I was in a rage after I'd lost a, a fight
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and I was trying to kill somebody and God spoke to me and
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God showed me, John, have a better life for you.
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You got to make better choices. And I don't know how else to
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explain it. It's almost Damascus roadish.
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But I'm not a great Mystic, but I'm a little bit of one, I guess
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because that was real. You can like it, not like it,
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explain it away, whatever. For me, God spoke and I haven't
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had a drop alcohol since. Now I've had the choice, I've
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had the temptation, I've had the access, but spiritual maturity,
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recognizing who needs to be in charge, allows me the power to
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make better choices. I, I, I filter everything from
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him sitting on the throne, not me sitting on the throne.
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So it, it, whether it's alcohol or whatever, The thing is not
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going to happen unless we recognize that he is the vine.
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I'm just a branch and, and, and I'm a little short one, probably
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pretty brittle. And I'm not going to last very
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long. I'm not, you know, I was, I was
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15 yesterday. I mean, some of you know that
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the older you get, the more you know that I mean, and, and, and,
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and my kids were babies last week and, and our my grandson
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who's getting ready to graduate from tech school in the Air
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Force was just born. Boom, boom.
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Really. You going to hold that in your
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hand, man? That's slippery.
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You got to recognize who's on the throne.
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I've got to abide in Him and He and me, and then we can bear
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much fruit. But apart from Him, in time, in
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life, in decisions, in choices, in control, but apart from me, I
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can do what? And we got to believe that.
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But in Him I can do what? Isn't that amazing?
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See that? See.
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See the balance. Without Him, I can do nothing.
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With Him, I can do all things that He wants me to do.
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It would be within His will, but that's the best way.
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That's how you trap time. This is a lordship issue.
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It's a stewardship issue. It's a life issue.
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Father, thank you for time. It's an amazing commodity.
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And Father, we're rushing around.
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And Lord, my fear is, is that that many of us define success
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because we woke up in the morning, we pushed the button
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and the garage door opened and we took our To Do List.
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And a successful day was we got to check off stuff off our To Do
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List. And we didn't even stop for a
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moment, not even 9.6 minutes to ask you what your To Do List was
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for. Today though, we had a great
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day, got a lot done, very successful.
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Father, sometimes we sound just like these people in James 4.
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Forgive us, Father, for taking time for granted.
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It is fleeting, it cannot be controlled, it cannot be
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stopped. But Father, what an investment,
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what a gift of grace to be able to live, to live a full life, to
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grab life by the throat and squeeze a little, to invest in
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you and what you want and to watch you perform miracle after
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miracle after miracle. To invest all that we are, all
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of our resources, all of our time, all of our giftedness, all
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of Our Calling that You gave us in the 1st place into that thing
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called a timeline. Forgive us, Father, when we
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think we control it. Forgive us, Father, when we
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forget that creation, that creation contains time and that
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you're the Creator and that it belongs to you, and you can
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start it and you can stop it at any moment according to your
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will. So help us, Father.
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Invest in your time in your vision.
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Father, Help us to think toward eternity because that's where
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real time is. That's where chaos is.
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And eternity, this short little period here is not life.
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This is a precursor to life. This is a warm up to life.
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And Father, we look forward to eternity with you.
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So Father, whenever you're ready, you can end the time
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here. You can come back and take us
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home anytime, but Father, for now, if we're still here, if
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we're still here the rest of tonight and we're here tomorrow,
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that means you want investment, You want control, You want us to
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wait upon You and live out Your purpose.
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Thank you so much for the folks that are showing up for this.
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Thank you so much for the folks who are listening to this.
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I pray in the weeks to come as we talk about work and we talk
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about money and we talk about hope and a few other things,
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Father, that you'll just bless us.
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We just want to learn from you. We just want to live for you.
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And so, Father, thank you for this time together in Christ's
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name, Amen. God bless you all.
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Thank you all so much. Thank you so much for listening
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today. And I also hope that you'll go
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as well as our app and find many other resources that will bless
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you and your families. Thank you once again.