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Why Do We Need the Church? | Dr. John Ewart

Englewood Baptist Church

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  1. Hey everybody, this is Pastor John Ewart from Inglewood

  2. Baptist Church in Rocky Mountain, North Carolina.

  3. Thank you so much for tuning in to our podcast.

  4. You're going to hear from God today as we share from his word

  5. about important issues facing your life that can guide you

  6. according to the Bible. Well, good morning Inglewood.

  7. Take your Bibles turn to Matthew chapter 16.

    Matthew 16 chapter mention

  8. I will catch up to you momentarily.

  9. Good to see everybody here. Good to have guests with us.

  10. Thank you worship team, appreciate James and Tracy

  11. sharing with us. They're off to a connect group,

  12. I believe to share. So appreciate that so much.

  13. Listen, I hope you'll be back on Wednesday nights.

  14. We're having a good time, good sized crowd coming on Wednesday

  15. nights to to study in our core training series.

  16. If you if you want to try to understand and to deal with this

  17. post postmodern pre Christian culture that we live in

  18. apologetically, as well as to nail down what you believe.

  19. These next couple of Wednesday nights going to be crucial

  20. because we're going to talk this Wednesday night about why do I

  21. believe what I believe about the Bible and why does that matter?

  22. And to be able to articulate that to people who don't

  23. necessarily believe the Bible or appreciate its authority in

  24. their life, to be able to articulate and, and what you

  25. believe about this word is going to be crucial.

  26. Then a week from Wednesday, we're going to do the same thing

  27. about Jesus. What do I believe about Jesus?

  28. Why does that matter? How do I share that with a world

  29. that doesn't necessarily believe the same thing that I do?

  30. So come back on Wednesday nights, Look forward to that.

  31. Also appreciate so much. Those of you who are in Connect

  32. groups, you're going to be needing to select a Connect

  33. group. If you're a church member,

  34. you've got about two weeks to find your Connect group, or I'm

  35. going to find one for you. So hop in there.

  36. I'm smiling, but I ain't joking, so figure that out.

  37. What percentage of participation do I want?

  38. That's it. So thank you so much.

  39. I appreciate your willingness and your spirit about that.

  40. I appreciate the testimonies, people running up to me.

  41. So join a connect group this week.

  42. Join a connect group this week so that you make my heart warm.

  43. So thanks for doing that. Listen, I hope that you are as

  44. we were hearing in our testimony earlier, I hope that you're

  45. ready to move out. It's time.

  46. So I hope you get on board. You know, it's easy to keep the

  47. train on the track when it's not moving, but it just didn't go

  48. very far. And so we got to start putting

  49. some distance. I've shared with you maybe the

  50. first time we were ever together, notes Swahili proverb

  51. someone shared with me when I was in East Africa.

  52. But you probably know this statement.

  53. You may not know it's Swahili, But if you want to go far or if

  54. you want to go fast, let me get this right because you know it's

  55. in English now, maybe Oklahoma ESL student.

  56. So if you want to go fast, go alone.

  57. But if you want to go far, go together.

  58. And so it's time for us to join together to move forward.

  59. And, and in this new sermon series that I've just started,

  60. I'm asking a series of foundational questions about the

  61. church and about discipleship. It's really a precursor.

  62. It's an intro to the next sermon series where we're going to lay

  63. out what we call the seven essentials of discipleship that

  64. really are going to map out our mission and vision and kind of

  65. the whole future of our church. But right now we're in a series

  66. to help us define our true identity.

  67. And I invite you to come be the King's bride.

  68. Last week I began with a very vital question.

  69. Might seem basic, but you might want to go back if you weren't

  70. here and listen to last week. And I asked the question of why.

  71. Why do I need to be saved? And it was an important

  72. question, But, but, but then the part of that last week was I

  73. talked about the assurance of salvation in a way that maybe

  74. you've not heard before. But today I need to ask a

  75. different question. It may seem basic, but it's not.

  76. Why do we need the church? Why do we need this?

  77. Why do we need this odd little creature, right?

  78. So we're going to dive deeply into God's word.

  79. I pray this morning, I hope you'll listen along and pay

  80. attention. I'll try to move us through

  81. this. There was a a country church

  82. Deacon who was talking to his pastor right before the worship

  83. service. He said, preacher, leave the

  84. cooking in the kitchen, just bring out the meat.

  85. So I hope this morning we can chew on some pretty good stuff

  86. here out of God's word, because our future really does depend

  87. upon us taking this seriously. And over the next few months, I

  88. am going to be talking about what true discipleship is, what

  89. personal growth is, but also how do we apply biblical belief into

  90. a practical action into our lives, What the stuff we learn?

  91. How do we apply this as we're dealing with this culture that

  92. doesn't necessarily believe this anymore or has never heard it,

  93. frankly, whether it's here or overseas or someone else.

  94. So invite others to be here. This is all very, very

  95. important. So this morning, let's talk

  96. about this, this interesting, weird little family called The

  97. Church. There are a lot of opinions

  98. about what we think we want or need from 1:00 and we need to

  99. kind of see what the Bible says. We've studied 2 of them already.

  100. Whether you understood that's what we were doing in that Acts

  101. series. We studied the church in

  102. Jerusalem. We studied the church in Antioch

  103. and, and we might think we understand why and what 1 is or

  104. should be, but we, we may have have seen or experienced such a

  105. variety and many of them are extremely unhealthy that it

  106. might be hard for us to know for sure.

  107. Some of you, if you're not a guest, you know that I have a

  108. background in church consulting and church background where I've

  109. worked with hundreds and hundreds of churches and

  110. thousands of church leaders both here in the United States and

  111. around the world. So I've seen a whole bunch of

  112. these things, a lot of variety of them.

  113. Most of the ones I worked with were unhealthy because of the

  114. nature of what people wanted for for me to do.

  115. In fact, this week I'm teaching a doctoral seminar on church

  116. revitalization to help others do the same thing.

  117. But one of the things we recognize out of about 400,000

  118. churches in the United States of America, about 360,000 of them

  119. would be unhealthy. And so Gallup has told us that

  120. back in the 1940s, about 80% of Americans said that they were

  121. members of a church or a mosque or a synagogue or a temple.

  122. Today, that number would be about 40 to 45%.

  123. Now, that's not attending. That's just membership.

  124. And so we recognize that in America today, this has changed

  125. dramatically. And we need to talk about then

  126. what's what's the standard? What's the definition?

  127. What's the Plumb line is if you want to quote blackity, what,

  128. what, what is the standard to which we can compare ourselves?

  129. How do we know if we're healthy? How do we know what we need to

  130. become? How do we know who we need to

  131. be? So we need a standard to talk

  132. about. We're going to try to define

  133. that some of this morning. Mark Dever once wrote Pastor

  134. Doctor Dever said many Christians in the West, and he

  135. means the United States of America today, tend to view

  136. their Christianity as a personal relationship with God and not

  137. much else. I'm concerned that many

  138. Christians don't realize how this most important relationship

  139. with God necessitates a number of secondary personal

  140. relationships. The relationship that Christ

  141. establishes between US and his body, the church.

  142. God doesn't mean for these to be relationships that we pick and

  143. choose at our whim. Among the many Christians out

  144. there, He means to establish us in relationship with an actual

  145. blood and flesh, step on your toes body of people.

  146. We're to be a family. So let's talk about this for a

  147. minute. So the first thing, let's just

  148. ask very simply, why is a biblical church?

  149. Why is 1. Why does the church exist?

  150. So we can never forget. In Latin it's called Missy O

  151. day. But we can never forget the

  152. mission of God very simply, very simply.

  153. Don't make that hard. God is seeking to bring himself

  154. great glory. That's it.

  155. And so our ultimate goal in life, our ultimate goal for the

  156. church is to bring God great glory.

  157. So the way we do things, why we do things, our heart, our

  158. motive, our thought process, not just our methodology, It's not

  159. just the pragmatic stuff, but why are we doing stuff?

  160. It all matters. We need to do stuff with

  161. integrity, we need to do it with authenticity.

  162. We need to do it with transparency, we need to do it

  163. with an honest heart seeking to bring Him glory.

  164. Now, one way that God brings Himself glory and we are able to

  165. join in that is to be intentionally used by Him in His

  166. disciple making redeeming work. And that's part of what we want

  167. to do here. We want to make true disciples.

  168. We're going to spend several weeks talking about what we

  169. think that is what we believe the Bible teaches an authentic

  170. disciple of Jesus. Who are they?

  171. What do we need to know to be 1? What do we need to be doing to

  172. to be 1? And, and, and what is should our

  173. state of being even be? Who should we be as a disciple?

  174. What are some of the characteristics that ought to

  175. mark our lives? So it's very, very important.

  176. And God then has designed the church to be the instrumental

  177. institution to fulfill his Great Commission and his work.

  178. So this church is really important.

  179. The church. A friend of mine who passed away

  180. a while back, Doctor Aubrey Malfours, who was an incredible

  181. professor at Dallas Theological Seminary for years and has

  182. written about 150 books, probably he and I have the

  183. privilege of serving on a board or two together.

  184. And listen to this definition that Doctor Malfours presents.

  185. A local church is an indispensable, don't miss that

  186. word, indispensable gathering of professing believers in Christ

  187. who under leadership are organized to pursue its mission

  188. through its functions to accomplish its purpose.

  189. Now, the point being here is the church is indispensable.

  190. It's the only institution that can do what it must.

  191. And it's very important to note this.

  192. It's God's organized, purposeful body to fulfill his mission, to

  193. bring in glory, and to fulfill the Great Commission, etcetera.

  194. And so the church is not just any group of people.

  195. It's not just any group of Christians.

  196. It exists for specific purposes, not to simply please or appease

  197. us, but to please him first. I know this would shock you.

  198. I'm, I, I, I'm glad you're sitting down.

  199. But there are actually people who think the church is all

  200. about them. Did I hear a gasp?

  201. Was there a gasp? There are people who actually

  202. think that the church ought to do what they want to want it to

  203. do exactly the way they wanted to do it all the time and it,

  204. and if the church doesn't do that, the church somehow has

  205. failed and and and and and needs to be corrected.

  206. It's amazing. The church is not about us only

  207. the church is about pleasing him.

  208. And by doing that we ought to be encouraging one another.

  209. So we discussed a lot of these purposes back in our ACT study.

  210. I promise you in our seven essential study, we're going to

  211. bring them right back out because we're not just another

  212. social club. We're not just some humanitarian

  213. agency. We must understand why we are

  214. and why that matters. And then we also need to

  215. understand who we are and why that matters.

  216. So who is a biblical church? So Matthew chapter 16, I told

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  217. you I'd finally get there an hour and a half later.

  218. Here we are. Now when Jesus came into the

  219. district of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, who do

  220. people say that the Son of Man is?

  221. Now I'll be talking about this in a couple of weeks on

  222. Wednesday night. And they said, some say John the

  223. Baptist, others say Elijah, another is Jeremiah or one of

  224. the prophets. And he said to them, the bigger

  225. question, but who do you say that I am?

  226. And Simon Peter replied, because Simon Peter always replied,

  227. You're the Christ, the Son of the living God.

  228. And Jesus answered him, blessed are you Simon Barjona, for flesh

  229. and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in

  230. heaven, and I tell you, you're Peter.

  231. And on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell

  232. should not prevail against it. Now, we know theologically and

  233. even linguistically that the church isn't just built on

  234. Peter. The idea here is Jesus called a

  235. group of men to follow him and to learn from him.

  236. We call him the disciples. And these original followers

  237. become a human, earthly foundation for the church.

  238. I mean, on a very practical level, but we also recognize

  239. that the true foundation of the church, the spiritual foundation

  240. of the church, is the truth about who Jesus is, the fact

  241. that he really is the Son of the living God.

  242. He is the Messiah. He is God Incarnate, and that's

  243. a that's the foundation of the church.

  244. In fact, Paul writes about it to a troubled church in Corinth.

  245. He says in First Corinthians chapter 3, for no one can lay a

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  246. foundation other than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.

  247. Jesus said, I will build. Whose church?

  248. Yeah, my church, see, doesn't belong to us.

  249. Now this, I've said this to you before.

  250. I'll say it to you again because it's a big issue in the churches

  251. that I've helped. This is a huge issue.

  252. The confusion between ownership and stewardship is massive.

  253. This is not ours. But gang, this is not ours

  254. either. Your breath is not yours.

  255. Your heartbeat is not yours. You couldn't create life if you

  256. had to. That's not how it works.

  257. And the church isn't ours. We're stewards of it, which

  258. means we take great care. We want to.

  259. We want to make sure it's used for His glory.

  260. We want to. We want to respect what we've

  261. been given. But this is not your church.

  262. Now, I know we say that that's my church.

  263. Englewood's my church, right? And that's fine.

  264. There's nothing wrong with it. It's a term of endearment.

  265. It's a term of that means you care about it.

  266. You love that. You love the church that you

  267. attend, right? So there's nothing wrong with

  268. that language, but we recognize that in the end, this is his,

  269. this is his body, this is his church.

  270. He's the chief cornerstone upon which all strength, upon which

  271. all stability depends. In fact, Paul also wrote to the

  272. church at Ephesus and kind of brought this home.

  273. Listen to this. So then you are no longer

  274. strangers and aliens, but your fellow citizens with the Saints

  275. and members of the household of God built on the foundation of

  276. the apostles and prophets. Or is that human, practical part

  277. of it? But Christ Jesus himself being

  278. the cornerstone, everything hinges upon him.

  279. So the church then is made-up of those about to whom about the

  280. truth of Jesus that the gospel has been revealed, and those who

  281. confess and believe the gospel. And the biblical church began

  282. when people believed and responded to Peter's a sermon at

  283. the day of Pentecost. And it continues all the way to

  284. today, still, still churches being planted, churches being

  285. planted overseas that we've heard about.

  286. We sent Jonathan out to Tarboro to plant a church there.

  287. We're going to try to send out a church planter or people

  288. overseas at least once every three years and see if we can

  289. how many churches we can plant. So the church comes into being

  290. in a response to this divine call of God to salvation.

  291. Now, let me get technical for a minute.

  292. Hang in there with me, all right, Grip tight.

  293. Hang in there. That's what one of the reasons

  294. why you see this word that you all already know.

  295. There's a few Greek words I know most of you know, and one of

  296. them is this Greek word ekklesia.

  297. So the word ekklesia is important because when you break

  298. it down, ECH means out, kaleo means to call.

  299. So this is the called out assembly.

  300. A lot of you already knew that it's actually a word used in

  301. Greek culture, but it became the most common word for the church

  302. for a reason. Now, they translated the Old

  303. Testament from Hebrew to Greek in a thing called the

  304. Septuagint. And when they translated words

  305. in Hebrew into Greek, they would use some of these same words.

  306. And so there's a word in Hebrew that means somebody who's called

  307. out by they've heard the calling of God and they're following him

  308. spiritually. OK, that's kahal.

  309. Don't worry about that word. But in other words, I've heard

  310. God's calling. I'm following him.

  311. There was a different word that was used when the people of

  312. Israel were physically gathered together.

  313. EDA ecclesia is always used for Cajal, never used for EDA.

  314. Here's why I'm saying all that. Wake up.

  315. Here's why I'm saying all that. This isn't the church.

  316. You are the Church, right? And so the church are the people

  317. who are called out by God. And the Bible emphasizes this

  318. over and over and over again. The people who hear the calling

  319. of God and are called out by him to serve him.

  320. It's made-up of those people. In fact, Paul even uses another

  321. word, cletos, which is a word for called in his opening to

  322. Romans and Corinthians to emphasize I'm writing to those

  323. who are called out by God. So if this building cease to

  324. exist, Englewood Baptist Church still exists because it's us.

  325. So we know it's not this physical thing.

  326. So a friend of mine and a former colleague when I was full time

  327. at the seminary, Jon Hammett, one of my opinion, probably the

  328. best Baptist theologian still riding and alive today.

  329. He makes sure we understand that the word Hogyoy, so the word for

  330. holy hagias hagi or the people, these are the Saints or the holy

  331. ones. It's used more than 60 times to

  332. describe members of the church. We are called out ones.

  333. That's who the church is. So this isn't just some Country

  334. Club. It's not just some social

  335. gathering. It's something very different.

  336. So when we're truly saved, you need to listen to last week.

  337. If you missed it and we're adopted into God's family, we're

  338. called out to become part of the family of God as well.

  339. And we're called into fellowship with God and with one another.

  340. So we don't simply get to say, now this is where you, you get

  341. back to what you need to pay attention to.

  342. We don't simply get to say, I don't need the rest of you.

  343. It doesn't Christianity, it doesn't work that way.

  344. Listen to what he wrote in Corinthians, he says.

  345. But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of

  346. them as He chose. If all were a single member were

  347. would the body be as it is? There are many parts, yet one

  348. body, the I cannot say to the hand, I have no need of you, nor

  349. again the head to the feet, I have no need of you.

  350. We need one another in this thing called Christianity, in

  351. this thing called discipleship through this thing called the

  352. Church. Mark Dever again says this.

  353. He says the New Testament just does not conceive of the

  354. Christian existing on a prolonged basis outside the

  355. fellowship of the church. The church is not really a

  356. place. It's a people, God's people in

  357. Christ. So if you hear people, or maybe

  358. you're here today, somebody dragged you in here and thanks

  359. for coming. Thanks for dragging them too.

  360. Whoever dragged, whoever the dragger is, thank you.

  361. Whoever the draggy is, thank you.

  362. And you say I really don't need the church.

  363. I don't need, I don't need to go to church in order to be a

  364. Christian. Now, if you're talking about

  365. salvation, I understand what you mean.

  366. If you're talking about being a disciple, you're wrong.

  367. It doesn't work that way. The entire Bible, New Testament,

  368. the epistles, everything is written to the local church.

  369. Everything is written about how I use my giftedness and my

  370. spirit of skill for the local church.

  371. So you've got to be very careful about your frankly selfish

  372. claims. So then the third thing we need

  373. to see is what then is a biblical church?

  374. See, the problem is, is we need this clear, biblically objective

  375. definition or we're never going to know if we're meeting it or

  376. not. But the problem is there's not a

  377. verse in the Bible that says thus shall be the church.

  378. And so we have to look at various churches, various

  379. characteristics, various images, various actions to help us

  380. really put together what. The image of the true biblical

  381. churches. Now throughout history there

  382. have been statements of description to declare.

  383. For example, the Charleston Baptist Association in the South

  384. Carolina had a strong one that was quoted by many.

  385. But I'm going to move on to what we call the Baptist faith in

  386. message just for a moment because that's the one that

  387. Inglewood constitutionally says. This describes our belief the

  388. Baptist faith in message 2000. It was put together by Southern

  389. Baptists to describe to the outside world.

  390. Here's what most Southern Baptists believe, and here's

  391. what it says about the church. It says a New Testament Church

  392. of the Lord Jesus Christ is an autonomous local congregation of

  393. baptized believers associated by covenant in the faith and

  394. fellowship of the gospel, observing the two ordinances of

  395. Christ governed by His laws, exercising the gifts, rights,

  396. and privileges invested in them by His Word, and seeking to

  397. extend the gospel to the ends of the earth.

  398. Each congregation operates under the Lordship of Christ, the

  399. democratic processes. In such congregation each member

  400. is responsible and accountable to Christ as Lord.

  401. Now these are helpful, but we need to examine in Scripture the

  402. whole council of God and begin to look to define true biblical

  403. ecclesiology. What?

  404. What is the church? Our Acts study helped us as we

  405. saw these examples, but the New Testament also identifies

  406. certain elements, certain characteristics, certain actions

  407. that that make up a legitimate, practical and biblical local

  408. church. So let's look at a few of these

  409. that we find in Scripture. The first image we would look at

  410. is the body of Christ. And so as the owner, builder,

  411. foundation, and cornerstone, Jesus is also the head of his

  412. body. Colossians chapter 1 says this.

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  413. And he is the head of the body of the church.

  414. He is the beginning, the first born from the dead, that in

  415. everything he might be preeminent.

  416. So everything is joined together by him.

  417. And this image points to our unity and illustrates how the

  418. church may be one while its members are still quite diverse.

  419. We're not all the same. We come from all kinds of

  420. backgrounds. We have different spiritual

  421. gifts. We have, as the book of Exodus

  422. says, different spirits of skill.

  423. We have different experiences in life.

  424. But and so we're diverse and yet we can come together.

  425. So it reflects how the members of the church need to show this

  426. mutuality of love and care and cooperation and coordination

  427. with one another. You need to be in the church to

  428. do this. In fact, he writes to that

  429. church in Corinth again in chapter 12.

  430. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to

  431. the part that lacked it, that there may be no division in the

  432. body, but that the members may have the same care for one

  433. another. If one member suffers, all

  434. suffer together. If one member is honored, all

  435. rejoice together. Now it says that he composed

  436. your translation may say he combined.

  437. It means to mix or to mingle this.

  438. So literally, God is putting together a recipe of the church

  439. where he puts us together in a special way to fulfill his

  440. mission and purpose. We're not all the same, nor

  441. should we be, but that's part of the beauty of the recipe.

  442. So I believe with all of my heart and the sovereignty of

  443. God, I believe that he has mixed together Englewood Baptist

  444. Church for this moment at this place with you people, for this

  445. time, for purpose. So you're not here by accident.

  446. You're not even visiting here by accident.

  447. God's brought you here. And you need to be part of the

  448. mix. You need to be part of this

  449. special recipe that makes up what is called Englewood so that

  450. we can impact the Rocky Mount area, so that we can impact the

  451. United States of America, so that we continue to send

  452. missionaries around the world. And there's a special thing

  453. about that. In fact, CS Lewis wrote about

  454. this. Listen to Lewis, he said the New

  455. Testament does not envision solitary religion.

  456. Some kind of regular assembly for worship and instruction is

  457. everywhere taken for granted in the epistles.

  458. So we must be regularly practicing members of the

  459. church. For the Church is not a human

  460. Society of people united by their natural infant affinities,

  461. but the body of Christ, in which all members, however different,

  462. and he rejoices in their differences and by no means

  463. wishes to iron them out. They must share.

  464. We share life, complementing and helping one another precisely by

  465. our differences. So Christ, as the head of the

  466. body, is the ultimate authority for the Church, but he also

  467. creates our unity. He creates our ability to serve

  468. with one another even when we're part of such a crazy family.

  469. And so all the members make up the body parts and, and all the

  470. members contribute to the growth and all the members contribute

  471. to the unity. And if you're not a part of

  472. that, then we're missing something.

  473. You're missing something because every one of us is designed to

  474. perform that specific part of the ministry.

  475. What percentage of participation am I looking for?

  476. Ephesians Chapter 4 says it this way.

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  477. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every

  478. way into Him who is the head into Christ, from whom the whole

  479. body joined and held together by every joint with which it is

  480. equipped, when each part, when each part is properly working,

  481. makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

  482. Every part needs to work right. We need you, We need everyone of

  483. you. We need everyone of you to be

  484. involved. We need everyone of you in the

  485. Connect group. We need everyone of you at

  486. midweek. We need everyone of you in

  487. service. We need you to be a part of

  488. this, for this to work the way God wants it to work.

  489. He's created a recipe, but it's not going to turn out right if

  490. we're all not part of it. He wants us to be a part of it.

  491. And if we refuse, He'll move on and He'll find somebody else to

  492. be a part of it. So I hope that you'll be there.

  493. But some people, I'm telling you, it's amazing how they think

  494. that somehow that this is for me and that I that, that.

  495. And they're more concerned about what, what room they meet in or

  496. they're more consumed about what seat they sit in, or they're

  497. more consumed about this or that.

  498. And I'm thankful that that's not the spirit of Inglewood.

  499. I'm thankful that you all have been so willing to get on board

  500. and so willing, so excited, so happy.

  501. Thanks for being happy. I was the interim pastor at a

  502. church up in Boone, Mount Vernon Baptist.

  503. I always kid everybody that was Franklin Graham's pastor for a

  504. while. Even though I never saw

  505. Franklin, but I saw his family. He was always on the road, but I

  506. used to always give them a hard time because they were nice.

  507. They were nice, nice people, nice.

  508. Mount Vernon's nice. Someone starts saying that about

  509. Inglewood. They finally burned that in

  510. wood. I've got a Mount Vernon Baptist

  511. Church were nice, nice. Let me give you another image.

  512. I'll focus. Thanks a little ADD there,

  513. sorry. So let's look at the second one,

  514. the bride of Christ. Revelation 19 seven says this.

  515. Let us rejoice and exalt and give him the glory, for the

  516. marriage of the Lamb has come and his bride has made herself

  517. ready. Are we the image of the pure

  518. bride? You know, the relationship of

  519. marriage and the church go together.

  520. It may not seem like that makes sense, but it always has been

  521. that way. Marriage is a symbol of many

  522. things, and it's a symbol of the relationship between Christ and

  523. the Church. Listen to Ephesians 5.

  524. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast

  525. to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

  526. So we see this Genesis covenant type passage that we often quote

  527. in a marriage ceremony. And he says the mystery is

  528. profound. And I'm saying that it refers to

  529. Christ and the church. I'll talk more about church

  530. membership in two weeks, specifically about why should we

  531. join the church and be a member. But this level of love and

  532. relationship are vital parts of it.

  533. Earthly marriage is a symbol. It's a symbol of something that

  534. God has already done in the hearts of two people.

  535. And it shows us that the relationship of the church must

  536. be like that to Jesus. We must be one with him and one

  537. another. Hard to do that when you

  538. separate yourself, hard to do that when you keep a distance,

  539. Hard to do that when you're on your own and not officially

  540. apart. And, you know, I've met people

  541. over the years and they'll say, you know, I love Jesus, but I

  542. don't love the church. And you've got to understand

  543. that that's incongruent. I understand that some churches

  544. are not very lovable, but it's incongruent.

  545. I mean, that's like coming to me and saying, John, I want to be

  546. your best friend, but I can't stand your wife, Teresa.

  547. And if you can't stand my wife, Teresa, you got a problem.

  548. Amen. Amen.

  549. Thank you. I needed some points, so I

  550. appreciate it, but you understand what I'm saying.

  551. I mean, it makes no sense. In fact, I was leading AI was

  552. leading the retreat for all of our association of leaders a

  553. couple years ago here in North Carolina.

  554. And we were talking about this and I was talking about how

  555. sometimes we joke about the church.

  556. That's kind of the way the church is, you know, And I was

  557. just sharing with those guys. It's about how that breaks my

  558. heart. When I was saved, I did have we

  559. hadn't, I had no church background.

  560. And so the church literally became my family, precious to

  561. me. And I told those guys, I said,

  562. how would you feel if somebody was mocking your wife or mocking

  563. your daughter? I said, how do we make Jesus

  564. feel when we mock the church? You know, And one of the guys

  565. was praying at a break later and he was just weeping as he prayed

  566. because he just couldn't get past that.

  567. And he says, Lord, I would hate it if somebody was making fun of

  568. my wife or making fun of my daughter and he was confessing.

  569. He goes, I'm sorry for the way we must make you feel at times.

  570. The third image is the people of God.

  571. It kind of ties us to the Old Testament.

  572. First Peter 2 says, but you are a chosen race, a royal

  573. priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession,

  574. that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called

  575. you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

  576. Once you were not a people, but now you are God's people.

  577. Once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.

  578. So this imagery connects the the the church to the Old Testament

  579. and God's great purpose of calling to himself a people.

  580. It underscores the nature of the church as called, called out by

  581. God to be his. And so the church is, is a

  582. people. It's not just a collection of

  583. isolated individuals. One person cannot be a church.

  584. That's not the way it works. The church is God's people, not

  585. a human institution. And it and the church is one of

  586. the ways that God is going to use us to fulfill his mission.

  587. And then finally, let me show you this one.

  588. Let me talk about the representatives of God's Kingdom

  589. because I want to compare what Jesus said to what the epistles

  590. say. It's interesting because Jesus

  591. talked far more about the Kingdom of God than the church.

  592. Now you got to understand historically, he was at a time

  593. before the church, so he was talking about what the Kingdom

  594. was, and then the church came later.

  595. But the New Testament epistles were just the opposite.

  596. For example, in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus only mentions the

  597. church twice, but he mentions the Kingdom of God 49 times.

  598. But then Paul will mention the church 43 times and the Kingdom

  599. only 14 times, and so it gets reversed.

  600. So Jesus is emphasizing the Kingdom and it leads to the

  601. establishment of the church. But the two are not opposites of

  602. one another. The church is the fulfillment,

  603. the extension of Christ's teaching.

  604. So following his declaration about building his church and

  605. held inability to defeat the church back in Matthew chapter

    Matthew 16 chapter mention

  606. 16 that we saw earlier, Jesus continues in that passage in

  607. Matthew 16/19. He says, I will give you the

  608. keys of the Kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth

  609. shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth

  610. shall be loosed in heaven. Now this is an amazing promise

  611. of purpose and power for the disciples.

  612. But later I want you to listen to the second time Jesus

  613. mentions the church in the Gospel of Matthew in Matthew

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  614. chapter 18, beginning in verse 15.

  615. If your brother sins against you and and, go and tell him his

  616. fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have

  617. gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take

  618. one or two others along with you, that every charge may be

  619. established by the evidence of two or three witnesses.

  620. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church, and if he

  621. refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a

  622. Gentile and a tax collector. Truly, I say to you, now notice

  623. the parallel. Whatever you bind on earth shall

  624. be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be

  625. loosed in heaven. Again I say to you, if 2 of you

  626. agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for

  627. them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are

  628. gathered in My name, there am I among them.

  629. Now the context of this passage and in Matthew 18 is church

  630. discipline, which is often an unheard of concept in the modern

  631. day church. But note the parallel Kingdom

  632. promise with that of chapter 16. The apostles and the local

  633. church were given Kingdom authority for declaring who was

  634. a true Kingdom citizen and for guarding true discipleship.

  635. Now that's a huge responsibility to be able to to determine when

  636. a person is saved and how a person is spiritually growing.

  637. So spiritual accountability was a significant issue and purpose

  638. of the church, even though often today it's not thought of like

  639. that because there's a corporate nature to this promise.

  640. Again, verse 19 says, again, I say to you, if 2 of you agree on

  641. earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my

  642. Father in heaven. For where two or three are

  643. gathered in my name, there am I among them.

  644. Now people often use these verses out of context.

  645. We often use these verses and only teach them in terms of

  646. prayer and prayers being answered about how when we pray

  647. together, God listens and he answers our prayer and we forget

  648. the whole passage. So the church provides corporate

  649. agreement, the church provides corporate affirmation, the

  650. church provides corporate accountability, again, which is

  651. often not thought of today. So those outside faithful church

  652. membership and participation often don't want to hear these

  653. kinds of things in their lives because they want to avoid that

  654. accountability. They want to be able to justify

  655. and excuse themselves. One of the things that we're

  656. going to be working on is to make sure that we don't have any

  657. inactive church members. We want everybody here.

  658. We want to love them and disciple them back into true

  659. fellowship with us, right? And so they that often people

  660. prize their self defined individual freedom and

  661. preferences over the God designed plan for us to be part

  662. of his body, part of his fellowship and part of his

  663. family. Now listen to this.

  664. Some of you aren't going to like it.

  665. Guy named Jonathan Lehman wrote a book about church.

  666. Let's know this line. He says a local church is a

  667. group of Christians who regularly gather in Christ's

  668. name to officially affirm and oversee one another's membership

  669. in Jesus Christ and his Kingdom through gospel preaching and

  670. gospel ordinances. Is it too much to think about

  671. the church having some role and actually overseeing your

  672. spiritual walk and discipleship? See, that kind of flies in the

  673. face of the American luxury of judging, shopping and hopping

  674. church to church seeking, seeking out the best one that

  675. perhaps tickles your fancy, the best show in town for that

  676. season until a better show comes along.

  677. So we need to commit. We need to decide who we're

  678. going to be, who we're going to be, and how we're going to grow,

  679. because I want Inglewood to make true disciples who multiply, who

  680. reproduce, disciples who make disciples who make disciples.

  681. Amen. Now I'm going to quote somebody

  682. you love, somebody you'd never argue with, somebody you'd just

  683. embrace Billy Graham. Billy once said, I'm afraid that

  684. we in the church are making a mistake by trying to make

  685. Christianity popular and pleasant.

  686. We've taken the cross away and we've substituted cushions.

  687. That's because at times, my friends, we have dumbed down the

  688. value and seriousness of being an active part of the church and

  689. what our true biblical purposes are.

  690. Listen, I know some churches that are very unhealthy.

  691. In fact, I know some churches that are flat out lousy.

  692. And that's not an opinion. That's based on research and

  693. work that I've done with them. I know churches that are

  694. unbiblical. They stopped being churches a

  695. long time ago. They have a sign and they have a

  696. building and they have meetings, but they're not fulfilling any

  697. biblical purpose. They stopped doing that a long

  698. time ago. Gang, I've been there and I've

  699. had to turn the key. They couldn't do it.

  700. They stood in the parking lot and wept while I turned the key

  701. and locked the door for the last time.

  702. Dozens of churches close their doors every week in the United

  703. States of America. It used to be over 70 a week.

  704. It's probably higher than that now.

  705. And some of them merged and some of them try, but they stopped

  706. being a church because they forgot why they exist and they

  707. forgot who they're supposed to be, and they forgot what they're

  708. supposed to be about. And I know there's some lousy

  709. church leaders out there, too. I'm writing a book about them,

  710. writing a book about toxic leadership, because I've spent

  711. the last 12 years of my life studying and working around and

  712. through and after many of them. I know that.

  713. So I want Inglewood to be different.

  714. I want us to be the church that loves God and brings him great

  715. glory. And over the next few weeks, I'm

  716. going to be sharing about opportunities for us to grow.

  717. Next week I'm going to ask the question, why should you be

  718. baptized? We got to talk about our

  719. ordinances. We got to lay this foundation.

  720. Then we're going to get into this heavy specific discipleship

  721. series, but I want us over the next few weeks to hear about

  722. opportunities to grow, to learn how to fit into true Kingdom

  723. work. I need 100% of you in worship.

  724. I need 100% of you in Connect groups.

  725. I need 100% of you at midweek, and I need 100% of you to serve.

  726. In fact, after this service, there are tables in the lobby

  727. right now for those of you who are church members.

  728. They're signing up volunteers for children in preschool

  729. ministry because they're growing and they need more help and you

  730. need to take a turn if you can. So you talk to him at those

  731. tables before you leave. Embrace these opportunities

  732. wholeheartedly. Submit to this rule of Christ in

  733. your life as the head, the great theologian Mark Twain.

  734. Go from Billy Graham to Mark Twain, there's a shift, He said.

  735. There's The most important days in a person's life are the day

  736. that they're born and the day they find out why.

  737. And then he also said the secret of getting ahead is getting

  738. started. We're getting started.

  739. It's time, it's coming. These room changes,

  740. repositioning our children's ministries, getting ready with

  741. reach. We have a huge connect group

  742. leader meeting today. It's starting.

  743. So get ready and just focus on this.

  744. John 15 five. I'm the vine, you're the

  745. branches. Whoever abides in me and I in

  746. him, He, he, it is that bears much fruit.

  747. For apart from me, you can do what?

  748. What? We either believe that or we

  749. don't. And I pray today that you do, or

  750. I pray today that you seek Him, that you seek that abiding

  751. connection with the Master Builder.

  752. That we avoid pride, we avoid any sense of our own selfish

  753. powers and ability, but that we depend upon Him because you need

  754. Him. You also need His church.

  755. That's His plan. So join him then join her.

  756. That's the way it's supposed to work, Father.

  757. I thank you for your word. I thank you for the truth,

  758. Father. Sometimes it's not always

  759. comfortable or convenient, Father, because we recognize

  760. that we don't get to do whatever we want to do the way we want to

  761. do it, Father. We're actually supposed to do

  762. what you want us to do. And Father, the joy of that is,

  763. is if we will, it will be the best thing for us that Father,

  764. it will bring us more joy, more purpose, more hope, more peace,

  765. more abundance, Father, to live life the way you want us to.

  766. Now for some here this morning, that means salvation.

  767. There are some here today. And they just have to admit,

  768. John, I've never trusted Christ as my Lord and Savior.

  769. I don't know what's going to happen to me when I die.

  770. I don't. I don't even know why I'm here.

  771. Well, I know why you're here. The Holy Spirit's brought you to

  772. this moment. And I pray the Holy Spirit will

  773. just Pierce their hearts, Father, and that Lord, you'll

  774. draw them to you and that they'll understand the truth of

  775. the gospel, that Jesus died on the cross for them and rose

  776. again. He's the only one who can save

  777. us. Others here recognize that they

  778. need to join the church. They need to become an official

  779. part. They've been visiting, they've

  780. been spectating, they've been watching, learning, praying.

  781. But Father, I pray that it it's time to close that door and to

  782. move forward and to join. Maybe somebody here needs to be

  783. baptized. Maybe somebody here just needs

  784. prayer. So, Father, in a moment I pray

  785. that people would come, that they'd take a pastor by the

  786. hand, or they'd go to our Next steps room and share with one of

  787. those decision counselors their father.

  788. Or maybe they just need to come and pray.

  789. The Lord just lead us. Help us to submit to you.

  790. Help us to be your people, your bride, your body, your church.

  791. Thank you, Father in Christ's name, Amen.

  792. We're going to sing in just a moment.

  793. Some of our pastors will be standing up here and you can

  794. come talk to us or you can just come and kneel and pray here.

  795. But we also have a Next steps room right there where we have

  796. people who are trained and they just want to pray with you and

  797. love you. Be a discreet, private place for

  798. you to go to. Have a good conversation about

  799. what it is the Lord's laying on your heart.

  800. Some of you may want to go there.

  801. You don't have to come here first.

  802. Just go straight there. They would welcome you and love

  803. to have you join them there just to talk to you, just to share

  804. with you, just to love you. So let's stand together.

  805. Worship team is going to lead us.

  806. We'll be here, you come. Thank you so much for listening

  807. today. And I also hope that you'll go

  808. as well as our app and find many other resources that will bless

  809. you and your families. Thank you once again.