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Gods At War Part 4 | Intimate With idols with Chris Schlotterbeck
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the message. How's everybody doing? Feels good
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to be inside, nice cool breeze, right? It's been
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summer, and we love the warmth, and we're excited
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about what God's doing in our community of faith.
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Thank you for joining us from home and welcoming
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us into your space. So we've been discussing
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for the month of July that there are gods at
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war within each and every one of us. They battle
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for the primary position in our lives, and we've
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learned that so much is at stake. Because whichever
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God is victorious gains power and control over
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us. Ultimately, the God you choose, the God I
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choose, determines our direction, our desires,
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our thoughts, and our future. Yet for so many
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of us, this entire concept of idolatry is something
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that's been missed. Last week we even mentioned
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that if you grew up in church, you are likely
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not to even hear about it. And a lot of times,
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growing up in church can turn that into religious
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rules and rituals. We have discovered through
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this series that idolatry is one of the biggest
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problems that God addresses head on throughout
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the Bible. Listen, more than a thousand verses
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speak to this issue. More than 50 of the commandments
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in the first five books of the Bible are directed
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against it. It is one of only four sins in all
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of Judaism that could have had the death penalty
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attached to it. Idolatry is something God took
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seriously. And yet, for those of us living in
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the United States, it's simply dismissed as irrelevant
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and unimportant. Something that's in the Old
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Testament that we no longer struggle with. But
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nothing could be further from the truth. Everything
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rides on this issue. Everything rides on this
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choice. That you and I will make every single
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day. Will I worship God? Will I follow Jesus?
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Or will I worship something else? And how we
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answer that question makes all the difference.
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See, there's a war for our worship. Even this
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morning when we gathered for corporate worship
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to start this gathering, many of you were in
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such a rush just to get in here. You're late.
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You're trying to check your kids in. You rush
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in through the doors. By the time you get through
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the doors, the first song is already halfway
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over. You're trying to find a seat. You can't
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find a seat. There's too many people standing
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up, too many arms in the air. It's too loud.
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It's too dark. Now you're frustrated. The second
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song's starting. You can't even engage God because
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you're unprepared. We're unprepared. We're unprepared
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to meet. and engage God in worship because we're
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distracted. We're late. Kids are running, yelling
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at us. I'm in a fight with my spouse. Who knows
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what's going on? So suddenly our minds, they're
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focused on everything else other than the worship
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that's happening. You're looking at the people
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around you. You're thinking about the things
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you have to do the rest of the day. You're even
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thinking about what happened yesterday. And all
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of that distracts you from connecting with the
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living God. Who or what will control our hearts?
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That's what this has been all about. We have
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seen in this series that the sins that we struggle
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with is not just that there is a sin in our life
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that we need to address, but there's something
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behind that sin. There's a root issue. And those
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root issues are the false gods that's warring
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in our heart. And it explains the struggle of
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that particular sin. But we also learned last
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week that idolatry, in and of itself is a sin.
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And this happens when many of the good things
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in life, you know, the gifts that God gives us,
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have become too important to us, and therefore
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cause us to sin because we've put them ahead
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of God himself. Tim Keller writes, sin isn't
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only doing bad things. It's more fundamentally
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making good things into ultimate things. It is
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building your life and meaning on anything, even
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a very good thing, more than on God. Sin is primarily
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idolatry. And throughout this series, here's
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what we've been called to do. Examine your heart.
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Are there good things in your life that have
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become a God thing? Have I made that good thing
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more important than it should be? As John Calvin
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wrote, the evil and our desire typically does
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not lie in what we want, but that we want it
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too much. We want it too much. And this certainly
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is true when it comes to the final subject that
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we're going to be studying and discussing today,
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the gods of love. The evil is not in loving these
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things, it's that we love them too much. Which
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leads us to our first thought. You see, relationships
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have the potential to replace God. So we're going
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to be discussing a very familiar story from the
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Bible. It's in the first book of the Bible in
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Genesis chapter... And what do I mean by gods
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of love? Well, these are the people who we love.
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These are the people who God has called us to
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love, yet sometimes they can replace God in our
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hearts. These are the gods that Augustine would
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have referred to as disordered loves. In other
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words, they are legitimate loves that have gotten
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out of order in our lives. And it's because they're
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legitimate that they can also easily become way
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too important to us. And in Genesis 22, we're
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going to look at Abraham, and Abraham is called
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to sacrifice his only son, Isaac. But today,
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I want to read this story through the lens of
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idolatry. I want us to see that God is calling
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Abraham to lay everything down. This is what
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we read in Genesis 22, verse 1. Sometime later,
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God tested Abraham's faith. Now, everyone say,
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test it. See, the writer, the author of this
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book tips us off right here that this is a test.
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This is only a test. It's as if they want us
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to know that God is only testing Abraham. He's
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not going to actually let him go through with
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it. Because there's no place ever in the Bible
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where God allowed a human to sacrifice another
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human. In fact, his commands are directed against
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it in the book of Deuteronomy. So he tests Abraham.
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He says, Abraham. God called, yes, he replied,
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here I am. Take your son, your only son, yes,
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Isaiah, whom you love so much, and go to the
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land of Moriah. Go and sacrifice him as a burnt
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offering at one of the mountains which I will
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show you. So what does God say? He says, I want
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you to take a three -day journey into the area
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called Moriah, and there's a specific mountain
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there that I want you to sacrifice your son.
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So again, God is asking Abraham for everything.
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How do we know this? Remember, Abraham and Sarah,
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they've been promised this boy decades earlier.
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When he was 100 and she was 91, there was still
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no child. Yet God kept his promise. The miraculous
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happened. They had a little boy and they named
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him Isaac. Isaac means laughter. An appropriate
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name. I'm sure Isaac brought all kinds of laughter
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into their home. And they were probably like
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any other parents who would go into the room
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at night just to watch them sleep. Just to make
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sure their child was comfortable and resting.
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Maybe they would sit on the front porch and watch
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him play. And as they watched him play, they
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became nervous. Be careful, be careful, don't
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hurt yourself. Because they couldn't imagine
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if anything would happen to him. They remember
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when he was a little baby and they squeezed their
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arms around him and hugged him so tightly and
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said, I love you. All of us have people like
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this in our life. People that just mean everything
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to us. Now, I know love is a word that has become
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pretty common in our culture. I mean, we can
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love our favorite sports teams. But who is it
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that you have a hard time imagining life without?
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Maybe for you, like Abraham and Isaac, it's a
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child. They quickly become our reason for living.
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There's something about the way they look at
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you, the way they smile, the way they quietly
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talk to you. They become our reason for getting
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up, our reason for working. They can become everything.
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Maybe for you, it's a husband or a wife. Maybe
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for you, it's the pursuit of a husband or wife
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that has become a God for you. After all, in
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our culture, romantic love and relationships
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are held up as the ultimate human experience.
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There's all kinds of books that have been written
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with romance as the subject. In fact, romance
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novels bring in over a billion dollars a year,
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covering a third of the entire fiction market.
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Many movies have love or romance as the theme.
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Romantic love has inspired works of poetry and
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art. And a lot of songs have been written. In
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the name of love. Whitney Houston sings, I Will
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Always Love You. Ed Sheeran sings, Thinking Out
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Loud. Lyrics about growing old together with
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the person you love. John Legend declares his
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love for a person, flaws and all, in all of me.
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Even Elvis sings about how he can't help falling
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in love. And those songs, right, they captivate
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their audience. People sing them. But who would
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you sing those songs to? Who is it that you would
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do anything for love? For Abraham and Sarah was
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Isaac. Isaac was God's greatest gift to them,
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a miracle. And it also turns out that it's his
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greatest test for them. And this is what can
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happen in our life. It's our greatest blessings
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that can also become our greatest tests. If you're
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anything like me, right, I have a spouse I don't
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deserve. Maybe you've been blessed with children
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even though you were told you wouldn't have children.
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Do you have a job that you love? Or maybe you're
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financially well off and you can afford even
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the greatest conveniences that many people can't.
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Maybe you have experienced a miraculous healing
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encounter with God and gratitude has since waned
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into apathy. What gift from God has become too
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important in your life? We must remember when
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it comes to our relationship, God wants them
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to be the means of growth for us. Proverbs 27,
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17, as iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens
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a friend. We can't allow a relationship to become
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an idol, which leads us to our next thought.
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Worship is prioritizing Jesus first. See, we
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have a lot of definitions for worship. Many of
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you believe that it's when we walk in here and
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sing. But here's the reality, it's so much more
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than that. Will the blessings of God become competition
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for him? Or will the blessing draw us closer
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to him? See, we're ready to find out in our story.
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We're continuing on in Genesis 22, three through
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10. The next morning, Abraham got up early. He
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saddled his donkey and took two of his servants
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with him along with his son Isaac. Then he chopped
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wood for a fire for a burnt offering and set
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out for the place God had told him about. Let's
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just pause there for a second. Abraham shows
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us something here about beating and overcoming
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idols or gods that were within our heart. He
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doesn't put it off. Notice, he doesn't wait.
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He doesn't pray. He does it. God told him. He
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responded. Early the next morning, he wakes up.
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He obeys God. And too often, when it comes to
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temptation, when it comes to overcoming sin,
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when it comes to overcoming these idols in our
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life, we put it off. We blame it on someone else.
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We wait patiently. for the Lord when he's already
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spoken to us of what we're called to do. But
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also notice, Abraham was a very wealthy man.
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In fact, the Bible tells us he's one of the wealthiest
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men of his day, yet God does not say to him,
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like last week, go sell everything you have and
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give it to the poor. Why? Because money for Abraham
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was not a false god. It was Isaac that was competing
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for the number one position in his life. And
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God puts himself in direct competition with his
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son Isaac and he says, you're gonna have to choose.
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And he does the same to us. Let's continue on
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the third day of their journey. Abraham looked
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up and saw the place in the distance. Stay here
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with the donkey. Abraham told the servants, the
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boy and I will travel a little further. Notice,
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we will worship there and then we will come right
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back. And I want you to notice, pause again,
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the word worship. This is the first time it is
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used in the Bible. And there's a principle in
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seminary called humanetics. And humanetics focuses
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on the principles and methods of interpreting
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the Bible. And we were taught when interpreting
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scripture, you try to understand the meaning
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of a word, you need to pay attention to the first
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time this word is used. So the first time the
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word worship is used in the Bible is right here.
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And it's used to describe a man who is sacrificing
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something great for who? For God. It's used to
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describe a man who is declaring with his life
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that God is what matters most. See, worship is
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not something that takes place here on Sunday
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mornings alone when we gather together and we
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sing songs. Worship takes place every single
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day when we make a declaration that says, God,
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you matter more to me than this. Fill in the
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blank, whatever this is. You matter more to me
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than alcohol. You matter more to me than drugs.
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You matter more to me than sex. You matter more
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to me than money. You matter more to me than
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this relationship. And every day we have the
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opportunity to worship when we say, God, you're
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what matters most. So let every day be a declaration
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of worship for you in your life. Let's continue.
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So Abraham placed the wood for the burnt offering
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on Isaac's shoulders while he himself carried
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the fire in his knife. The two of them walked
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on together. Isaac turned to Abraham, there's
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something wrong. Father, Abraham replied, we
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have the fire in the wood, the boy said, but
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where is the sheep for the offering? Oh, God
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will provide a sheep for the burnt offering,
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my son, Abraham answered. And they both walked
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on together. When they arrived at the place where
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God had told him to go, Abraham built an altar
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and arranged the wood on it. Then he tied his
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son Isaac and laid him on the altar on top of
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the wood. Abraham picked up the knife to kill
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his son as a sacrifice. And see, we have to put
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ourselves in that position for a moment. And
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we want to pause there and talk about our disordered
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loves. How would you do with a test like this?
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See, this is a test. of the first two of the
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Ten Commandments. You shall have no other gods
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before you, and you shall not make for yourself
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an idol in the form of anything. And an idol,
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if we're really honest, can certainly take on
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the form of someone we love. And quite often
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in our society, that's what happens because our
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society puts so much attention on true love.
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And when we make the people that we love more
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important than our relationship with God, that's
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idolatry. When we look to our relationship with
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a person to do what God wants to do for us, that's
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idolatry. And this really happens to many parents
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today trying to raise the alpha generation. I
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am raising a member of the alpha generation.
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And let's just say that that name alpha is legitimate.
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See, when we give control of our life over to
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our kids, then they have the power to determine
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whether I have a good day or a bad day. When
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we give the control of our life over to our kids,
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they determine whether I'm an angry person, a
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depressed person, an overwhelmed person that
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is struggling with life, true or false. If you're
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raising the alpha generation, you are saying
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true. See, the Bible tells us that the joy of
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the Lord is our strength, but when we allow the
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joy of our children to become our strength, we're
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not very strong. And we all need to reflect.
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Is there a relationship that determines whether
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or not you're a joyful person? Is there a relationship
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that determines whether or not you're a peaceful
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person? Is there a person or people in your life
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that you're living to please? Does everything
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in your life revolve around making your children
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happy? And if you answer yes or could see someone
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in any of those, by definition, that is your
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God. What you live to please becomes your God.
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It could be a child, it could be children, maybe
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it's a spouse that has become the controller
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of your life. Maybe it's friends and even parents
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that control the outcome of your day because
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you're depressed and full of anxiety. See, we
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have to realize that worship is what Paul challenges
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us to do in Romans chapter 12. And so, dear brothers
Romans 12 chapter mention
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and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies
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to God because of all he has done for you. Let
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them be a living and holy sacrifice, the kind
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you will find acceptable. This is truly the way,
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notice, to worship him. Don't copy. the behavior
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and customs of this world, let God transform
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you into a new person by the change in the way
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you think. Then you will learn to know God's
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love for you, which is good and pleasing and
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perfect. Paul challenges us to take our different
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roles, our different responsibilities, our different
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resources that he has given to us and give them
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back to him. He's talking about our whole self,
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our entire being. What does it look like for
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you? For me, right, what are the things that
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identify and make me who I am? Well, I'm a husband.
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I'm a father. I'm a brother. I'm a son. I'm a
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pastor. I'm a friend. I'm a mentor. I'm a coach.
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I'm a crossfitter. I'm a storyteller. I'm a history
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maker. These are just a few of the different
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roles that make me, me. Then there's my personality
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and all the different ways it works out in all
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those different roles. And I've even mentioned
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that the resources that God has given me to supply
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for those different roles, that's what makes
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me me. And throughout my day, I'll operate within
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those different identities in several different
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time frames. Paul says this. He says in all those
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different areas that you operate in, give them
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all to God as a living sacrifice. In other words,
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don't be in control. Why? Because it's holy,
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pleasing, and worship to God. In other words,
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everything I do in all those different capacities
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in my life are to be done for Jesus. And when
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we do that, our tendency to create idols in our
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life and in our relationships diminish, which
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leads us to our final thought. Some of you are
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thinking, well, am I making a relationship an
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idol? Well, when a relationship becomes the source
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of satisfaction and significance, it can be a
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false god. There's your answer. We learned in
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week one that God is a what? A jealous God. He
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wants to do those things for us. He wants to
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give us satisfaction. He wants to give us significance.
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He wants to give us happiness and joy. I mean,
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there's some very graphic language in the Old
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Testament book of Isaiah to help us understand
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how it feels to God when we are guilty of idolatry.
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See, this picture is painted for us. As one of
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us having an affair on God. That's how he feels.
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See, when we make something more important than
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him in the Old Testament, God sees it as spiritual
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adultery and he's jealous. He's hurt and he's
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angry. And this is what we read in Hosea 1 -2.
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When the Lord first began speaking to Israel
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through Hosea, he said to him, go and marry a
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prostitute so that some of her children will
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be conceived in prostitution. This will illustrate.
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How Israel has acted like a prostitute by turning
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against the Lord and worshiping other gods. God
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is literally comparing the people of Israel to
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Gomer, Hosea's wife, who was a prostitute. And
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just like the people of Israel, we struggle to
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let go of our sin. We struggle to let go of our
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idols throughout this life. Even when we have
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so much love to receive. Even when we can connect
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with a living God, we find fulfillment elsewhere.
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Hosea and Gomer's relationship is a beautiful
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metaphor, a picture for God's relationship with
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his people. Although God was hurt by Israel's
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sin, by their choice to pursue relationship with
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idols, they were what? They were still his people.
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And I want to challenge you, when you experience
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feelings of guilt or shame or unworthiness, Or
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regret, chances are you've turned your affections
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onto someone or something else and God is convicting
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you to change. He's inviting us to change because
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he loves us. But you also have to understand
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he's not going to share us with anyone or anything.
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How do I know that? Well, Jesus told us this
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in Luke chapter 14. He has this large crowd following
Luke 14 chapter mention
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him. And it's interesting, you notice, when you
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read through the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke,
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and John, when there was a large crowd following
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Jesus, I believe it made him a little uncomfortable.
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I don't think he liked the crowds. How do I know
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that? Because every time there was a large crowd,
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he would always tend to say something about their
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level of commitment, and then what would happen
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to the crowd? They would just slowly walk away.
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Well, here's what he says in Luke 14, 25 to 26.
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A large crowd. Here it is with following Jesus.
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Picture this. Remember, large crowd means thousands
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of people. Jesus turns around and says to them,
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hey. And he's saying to us this morning. If you
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want to be my disciple, if you want to follow
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me, you must by comparison hate. Everyone say
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hate. Everyone else. Hate everyone else. Your
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father. Your mother, your wife, your children,
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your brothers, your sisters. Yes, even your own
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life. Otherwise, you cannot be my disciple. Now,
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I don't know about you, but when I read that
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and I think hate, that's pretty strong words.
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How do I know that? Because I tell my little
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alpha child never to say hate. Ever. We don't
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use that word. You don't hate anything. But Jesus
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is telling me to hate them? Well, see, the Bible.
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consistently tells us to love people, right?
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But yet here Jesus tells us to hate people. Well,
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we have to understand what this word hate means.
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Because there's a big difference between how
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we understand hate and how the Jewish culture
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understands hate. When it's translated hate here
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in the Jewish culture, it was communicating a
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lesser love. The New Living says you must hate
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everyone else, notice, by comparison. It's comparison.
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The other thing for us is that we tend to equate
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words like love and hate to emotions and feelings.
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But that's not true for the first century. Like
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when we say I love you and I hate you, it's full
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of emotion for us. But in the first century,
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these words did not communicate an emotion or
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a feeling. It was about a level of commitment.
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And Jesus is saying your commitment to me, your
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level of commitment to me should be such that
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there's no other commitment. Doesn't matter about
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your mom or your dad or your children or your
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spouse. I'm first. And you say, man, that's pretty
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harsh. But here's the reality. When we get that
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commitment right, then all of our other relationships
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are going to thrive. All of our other relationships
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are going to thrive. I mean, why do you think
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I tell couples that are playing house? When they
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come to me and say, hey, we need to get marriage
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counseling. We want to get married. And I learn
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that they're playing house. And you say, Chris,
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what does that mean, playing house? You're living
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with someone you're not married to. We're all
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adults here, right? You're playing house. So
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in other words, you're a five -year -old that
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just built a house and you're living in it. You're
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playing house. But you're an adult. I say, well,
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move out and live separately for the next eight
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months before you say I do. Why would I do that?
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Well, do you want your relationship to thrive
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and be blessed? Then you should follow what God
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tells us to do. That's why. So if you're playing
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house here this morning, you might want to reevaluate
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your priorities because chances are your priorities
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are prioritizing the relationship over God. I
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love you though. When we put someone else in
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place of God, we make that relationship a false
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God. And it's the most destructive thing we could
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ever do to that person. How do I know that? Five
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things that happen when a relationship becomes
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an idol. First, there's unrealistic pressure.
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See, when we turn our spouse, our girlfriend,
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our boyfriend, Into a God substitute, we're putting
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incredible pressure on them because we're saying,
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I want you to do for me what God wants to do
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for me. I mean, some of you are feeling in your
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relationship right now. You have this incredible
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pressure that a significant other is putting
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on you because they're unhappy and they look
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to you for happiness. They're stressed out, they
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look to you for peace. Their world is falling
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apart and broken and they look to you to fix
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it. And you're under all this pressure. You want
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to know why? It's because you're not God. And
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they're asking you to be God. 1 John 1 .8, if
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we claim to have no sin, we are only fooling
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ourselves and not living in the truth. No one
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is perfect. We can't put pressure on the ones
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we love to make us happy. Another thing that
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happens is we have false expectations. And it's
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funny, if you're in here and you're playing house,
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chances are all five of these, you're like, oh,
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crap. See, we often put false expectations on
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our children because we look to them to the source
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of our significance. Why do you think so many
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children no longer play sports by the time they
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get to high school? Because mom and dad lived
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through them to live out their own failures.
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And now by the time they're in high school, they
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hate it. Because everything about their life
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is based around their success and their failures.
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And then they can't get good enough grades. They
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can't win enough trophies. And the problem is
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we've exchanged our relationship with God to
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our relationship with our children. And instead
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of asking God to be our source of significance
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as a person, we throw it on our children. We
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want them to be our life. And that just simply
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can't happen. Do to others as you would like
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them to do to you, Jesus taught. So let's do
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the same for our children and our spouses. Another
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thing that happens is unreasonable disappointment.
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Any false God will disappoint you. It doesn't
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matter if it's money, physical pleasure, success.
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It doesn't matter if it's relationships. Any
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false God is going to leave you disappointed.
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And if you're kind of the person that's generally
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disappointed in life, chances are you're disappointed
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because you've made something other than God
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a false God and it's letting you down. Of course
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it's letting you down. Only God can satisfy us.
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John 16, 33, I've told you all this so you may
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have peace in me. Where do we find our peace?
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In God, in Jesus. Here on earth you're going
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to have many trials and sorrows, but take heart,
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I've overcome the world. When we are asking people
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to do what they were never created to do, when
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we're asking someone to meet a need that they
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were never meant to meet, we're asking them to
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be God. which is just setting them up for failure.
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Another thing that happens is undeserved criticism.
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Jesus says, don't judge others, and you will
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not be judged. Do not condemn others, or we'll
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all come back against you. Forgive others as
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you have been forgiven. See, whenever someone
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isn't meeting our expectations when we're in
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a relationship, it's like we feel like we're
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being let down. And then when we're let down,
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what do we do? We lash out with criticism. And
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let me just highlight, criticism is poison for
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any relationship. Marriage, family, children.
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When there's constant criticism because you want
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the person to fulfill you, they're never going
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to meet your needs. If you show me a person who
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is constantly critical and always negative and
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always nagging, never happy, that means they
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don't have their delight in God. They're looking
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for someone, they're looking to something to
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fulfill them and satisfy them and they complain
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and they whine and they're negative and they're
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critical. You have anybody like that in your
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life? Some of you can't be honest because they're
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sitting right beside you. So don't say anything,
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please, because it's my fault. Listen, it's not
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fair to ask a human to be divine. Only God can
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fulfill those things. And finally, there's unhealthy
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comparison. Pay careful attention to your own
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work, for then you will get satisfaction of job
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well done. You won't need to compare yourself
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to anyone else. Ultimately, this is what destroys
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all relationships. You look to someone else,
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your spouse. Your significant other to fulfill
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this longing in your heart. They don't fulfill
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it. They don't meet the needs. And then you start
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to see these qualities in other people. And you
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begin to think, oh, if I was only with, I would
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be all satisfied and happy. They would meet my
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needs. And see if we exchange a relationship
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for that. it's only gonna get worse. Because
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what you're doing is you're unconsciously comparing
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a person to God and that person always falls
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short. It's not just that we look to our spouse
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to be God, but some of us try to be God to our
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spouse. And that's just as dangerous, let me
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say. When we make statements like, I'm gonna
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be responsible for this person's happiness, I'm
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gonna be responsible for satisfying this person,
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you're setting yourself up for failure. Or if
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the thought even goes through my mind that I
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can change that person. Or you know what's even
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worse? When you see two spouses trying to be
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God to one another. When the wife says, I think
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I can change him. When the husband says, I know
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I can change her. You know what that's setting
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yourself up to here? Let's get ready to rumble.
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Hey, all you married couples, you're welcome
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for the counseling you just received. Bob Russell
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talks about what he called the top button truth.
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The idea that if you get the top button wrong
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and you're buttoning a shirt, all the other buttons
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won't line up. All of them are off. But if you
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get the top button right, the rest of the buttons
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do what, church? Fall into place. And see, when
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we get the top button right in our relationships
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with our kids, our spouse, our friends, the person
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that we're dating, whoever it is, when we get
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the top button right and we prioritize our relationship
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with Jesus, friends, everything else falls into
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place. And let me say this. If you're in a relationship
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right now that's causing you disappointment and
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frustration, Instead of giving more attention
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to that relationship, instead of turning in to
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Dr. Phil to see what you need to do differently,
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instead of buying one of the million self -help
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books that tell you how to fix your life, instead
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of spending hundreds and thousands of dollars
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on a counselor, take your focus off the relationship
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and put it where? Now listen, I'm not saying
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those things are bad because they're all useful.
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But I'm saying quite often we run to those things
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for a savior and they fail and we're left miserable
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because we're not prioritizing the top button
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first, which is our relationship with Jesus.
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Which leads us to our one action step that we've
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been walking through throughout this entire series.
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This has been a great series, hasn't it? Defeating
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idols in our hearts. You want to defeat some
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idols in your hearts? Listen, just go all in
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with God. Sell out. You know, last week I challenged
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some of you to start tithing because God said,
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test me. Right? For others of you today, I want
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to challenge you, go all in with God for a month
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and see how your life is radically transformed.
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Prioritize him when you wake up. Prioritize him
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when you go to sleep. Prioritize him at every
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meal. Prioritize him in every workplace situation.
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And suddenly your life will be transformed. Abraham
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is... His son bound on the altar. He raises the
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knife to kill his son. And at that moment, the
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angel of the Lord called to him from heaven.
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Abraham, here I am. Don't lay a hand on the boy,
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the angel said. Don't hurt him in any way. For
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now I know that you truly fear God. Now what
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was this again? A test. Then Abraham looked up
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and saw a ram caught in the thorns with a thicket.
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Then he took the ram and sacrificed it. As a
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burnt offering in the place of his son, Abraham
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named the place Yahweh year, which means the
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Lord will provide. And to this day, people still
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use the name as a proverb. On the mountain of
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the Lord, it will be provided. God provided the
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sacrifice needed as Abraham was faithful to lay
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down the idol that he had placed in his life.
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Will you go all in with God? And what does that
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mean? Well, Jesus summed it up pretty easy. Matthew
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22, and he says, you must love the Lord your
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God with all your heart, with all your soul,
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and with all your mind. Go all in. With everything.
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That's the first and greatest commandment. And
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the second is pretty simple. Just love your neighbors
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yourself. Jesus is reminding us that when we
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make the main thing the main thing, when we focus
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on loving God and putting him first and loving
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our neighbors comes really easy. But quite often
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what happens in the church is we want to love
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our neighbors and love our neighbors and love
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our neighbors and we forget about God and then
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we get burnt out and spent and full of religion
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rather than full of the Holy Spirit. You don't
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have to end world hunger tomorrow. You're not
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going to heal every broken heart in the world.
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It's just not physically possible. Jesus is saying
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the most important thing you can do in your life
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is go to him first. And then get filled with
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the Spirit and love others. He makes it simple
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because we are elementary students. When it comes
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to a relationship with God, we're elementary
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students and we're always gonna be. But he's
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inviting us to go all in and put him first. That's
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how we make a difference. Now this week, I had
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the opportunity to share a devotional at the
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Thursday night church softball games, and I was
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led to share Paul's challenge to press on. In
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Philippians chapter three, Paul says these words,
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I press on to possess that perfection for which
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Christ Jesus first possessed me. Now basically,
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Paul is describing his relationship with God
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in three words, I press on. You guys remember
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the game tag or chase when you're in elementary
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school? Right? We all remember it, right? It's
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funny. In that game, no one ever wanted to be
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it. Right? No one ever wanted to be it. And then
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typically the teacher had to pick someone to
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be it. And then they're like, I don't want to
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be it. Here's the crazy thing. Paul is describing
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his relationship with Jesus. He says, make me
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it. Paul says, make me it because I'm going to
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pursue Jesus. That's the most important priority
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I could ever put in my life. Paul says, I will
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press on. Will you press on this morning? Will
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you stand with me? So listen, I was praying this
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week about how to conclude this series, this
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talk today. And I felt compelled that we as a
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church need to corporately repent and say, God,
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forgive me for putting idols ahead of you. Because
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I believe that if you were to examine your heart
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in all four of these talks, I guarantee you every
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single Sunday there was something that we could
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point to and say, yep, that's it. Yep, that's
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it. Yep, it's that person. Yep, it's that thing.
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And it doesn't matter what it is. When we lay
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it down at His feet and experience His grace
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and forgiveness and choose and declare to go
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all in, that's when we experience freedom. Amen?
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And it doesn't have to be a Sunday morning thing.
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It doesn't have to be, well, I felt it on Sunday,
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but Chris, I'm not feeling it tomorrow. You can
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do the same thing we're doing right here today,
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tomorrow, and Tuesday, and Wednesday, and Friday,
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when all those choices are presented to you.
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Does that make sense? So we're going to pray
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a simple prayer together. I want to invite you
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to pray these words with me as I pray them. And
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we're going to lay down our idols. We're going
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to invite the Holy Spirit to come. And then the
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worship team is going to lead us to declare in
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our worship, in our singing, to go what? All
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in. All in. All in. We're going to go all in.
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Because when we go all in, everything else falls
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away. Let's pray together. Holy Spirit, come.
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Forgive me for putting someone, something in
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place of you. I choose to follow you, to put
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you first. Empower me, Spirit. To focus on you,
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God, and loving my neighbors. In Jesus' name,
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amen. Now listen, there were several words of
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knowledge I want to share. The prayer team will
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be here on the right to pray for you. If any
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of these are you during the worship, please come
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get prayer. You have muscle issues in your hip
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that extend to your knee. You have pain in your
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right knee that's causing you to limp. You have
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numbness in your left leg that extends all the
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way to your toes. You have stomach issues in
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the lower part of your stomach. You have tingling
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in your hands that won't stop. You have a scratched
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cornea in your right eye. If any of those are
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you, we want to pray for you right here. And
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if you need to give your life to Jesus and the
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Holy Spirit is convicting you, get up here and
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do it. They will lead you through that peril.
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They will change your life forever. Amen? Now
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I want you to stand and rejoice and sing with
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me and declare that you are going all in. Why
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are there people? I love you guys. Holy Spirit,
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come. Let's sing.