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MINDfield Part 5 | Landmines of Chains with Chris Schlotterbeck

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  1. Hey guys, this is Tracy. If at any time you'd

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  7. message. Good. So good to see everyone. Standing

  8. room only. It's beautiful. If you're joining

  9. us from home, welcome. Thank you for sitting

  10. on your couch and hanging out with us. So we're

  11. in the final week of our March message series

  12. called Minefield. It's been a great month, great

  13. series so far. Would you agree? Okay. Not too

  14. excited about it, but that's okay. I know for

  15. me, I'm thinking and seeing a little bit clearer

  16. in the last few weeks discussing these issues.

  17. And today, I simply want to talk about a category

  18. of mental health that a lot of people don't always

  19. address. Here's the reality. We have a spiritual

  20. enemy. Many of us know that. And see, our spiritual

  21. enemy attacks those of us that are pursuing the

  22. heart of God. As we've been working through this

  23. series, maybe we've made some changes. Maybe

  24. our mental outlook is a little bit clearer. And

  25. typically, we always think that our enemy comes

  26. at us when we're struggling. But see, he often

  27. attacks us harder when we're healing and desiring

  28. to be more like Jesus. And in the changes that

  29. we've been making over the last few weeks, these

  30. changes have begun to solidify. which has allowed

  31. us to grow closer to God. We've been experiencing

  32. a little bit more peace, a little bit more joy,

  33. a little bit more hope in our life. Maybe you're

  34. sleeping a little better. Maybe the anxiety is

  35. not as constant. Maybe you finally made some

  36. decisions that you've been putting off. Maybe

  37. that self -doubt has been silenced and you've

  38. received that you are, in fact, a masterpiece.

  39. Well, see, it's when those truths solidify in

  40. our heart, that when fear begins to whisper?

  41. What if these changes, what if this progress

  42. doesn't last? What if that problem, that addiction

  43. that I once had returns? Am I really better?

  44. Was I really healed? See, those thoughts are

  45. real. Those whispers are true. And the Bible

  46. addresses them in many different places. So today

  47. we're going to close out our Mind Field series

  48. by simply discussing the importance of protecting

  49. our minds, taking care of our minds so that we

  50. can think clear, so that we can see clear, and

  51. that we can truly walk in abundance. So let's

  52. open in prayer. Holy Spirit come. God, we just

  53. acknowledge that you're already here. We're grateful

  54. for your presence and your peace. God, I just

  55. silence any distractions in Jesus' name. And

  56. God, I just pray that you would open our minds,

  57. our hearts, our ears to receive your truth today,

  58. God. May we all be changed as we gather together.

  59. In Jesus' name, amen. So that leads us to our

  60. first truth today. See, Jesus wants his followers

  61. free. Jesus wants his followers free. Paul writes

  62. in Galatians chapter 5 verse 1, so Christ has

    Galatians 5:1

  63. truly set us free. Now make sure that you stay

  64. free and don't get tied up again in the slavery

  65. to the law. Now the context of this verse, Paul

  66. is speaking about the freedom from the law. But

  67. this principle, this principle about being free

  68. applies to any area of our life that Jesus sets

  69. us free from. We are in fact free indeed. And

  70. I want to show you a very direct and very literal

  71. translation of this verse. It's from the English

  72. Standard Version, the ESV. And this translation

  73. reads, For freedom Christ has set us free. Now

  74. notice, Paul uses the same root word two times

  75. in the same sentence. Freedom and free. That's

  76. called a cognate construction. And Paul is using

  77. the same root word, not by accident. It was actually

  78. by choice. Paul is trying to show us that freedom

  79. was the intention. That's why Jesus came. Jesus

  80. came, yes, to forgive us our sins, but he didn't

  81. just come to forgive us our sins. He came to

  82. set us free from the burden of the law and the

  83. things that hold us hostage in this life. Anything

  84. that's less than God's will for your life, Jesus

  85. desires to set us free from it. How do I know

  86. that? Well, Jesus shared these words in John

    John 8:31–32

  87. chapter 8, verses 31 to 32 and 36. Jesus said

  88. to the people who believed in him, you are truly

  89. my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings.

  90. And you will know the truth, and the truth will

  91. set you free. And then in verse 36 he says, so

  92. if the Son sets you free, you are truly free.

  93. So obviously Jesus wants to set us free from

  94. this worldly grasp. That literally grabs a hold

  95. of our spirit, grabs a hold of our minds, and

  96. pulls us away from God. For example, many of

  97. us can reference this chain. It's a real chain.

  98. It's not plastic. I'm not going to break it in

  99. my own strength. Thank you, Steve. All right,

  100. it's a steel chain. Weighs about 20 pounds. And

  101. imagine this chain represents all the different

  102. issues that we've been addressing with our mental

  103. health in this series. All the things that hold

  104. us back. Scarcity, fear, anxiety, guilt, shame,

  105. negativity, lust, sin. And quite often when those

  106. things are in our life, we want to break free

  107. from them and we try to do it in our own strength.

  108. But it's just not possible. This chain can't

  109. be broken. And when we try to fix it in our own

  110. strength and in our own will, then suddenly we're

  111. going to God constantly asking for forgiveness.

  112. God, forgive me. I'll try harder tomorrow. God,

  113. forgive me this time. I won't mess up again.

  114. I won't use again. I won't look again. I won't

  115. say those words again. And we're constantly going

  116. back to God day after day after day, seeking

  117. the forgiveness, which is good. But Jesus doesn't

  118. want us to come to him every single day struggling

  119. with the same sins, struggling with the same

  120. issues. He wants to do what? He wants to free

  121. us. But see, when we try to do things on our

  122. own strength, we're not able to do that. We just

  123. get more and more consumed with guilt and shame.

  124. We get overwhelmed. We feel like we're not good

  125. enough. And that's when the enemy then takes

  126. a lock and he puts it into the chain and he seals

  127. it shut. And then we feel like we can't move

  128. anywhere and we're stuck. But see, Jesus always

  129. gives us the key. And do you know what the key

  130. is? It's him. He is the key. We have the key

  131. available to us. Whenever we choose, we just

  132. have to choose to what? We have to choose to

  133. use it. And when we use it, then the chains can

  134. come off, not in our own strength, but in his

  135. strength. The point is, Jesus came to set us

  136. free. Freedom isn't something we earn. It's something

  137. Jesus gives. Paul says it this way. Christ has

  138. truly set us free. But then he takes it a step

  139. further and he says, hey, church, make sure you

  140. stay free. Don't get tied up again. In other

  141. words, fight to stay free. How do we do this?

  142. How do we do this? often attacks us harder when

  143. we make changes. When we desire to become more

  144. like Jesus, we join a growth group. We're in

  145. now what? We join a team, right? We're serving

  146. in the church. We're going to give away flowers.

  147. Maybe some of you signed up to get baptized.

  148. Now you're second guessing it, right? He'll fight

  149. you when you're down. But once you start to make

  150. changes, looks out because he wants to bring

  151. you back down to where you once were. He wants

  152. you to go back into bondage. And how do I know

  153. that? Well, 1 Peter 5, 8 reminds us, hey, church,

  154. stay alert. You're a great enemy of the devil.

  155. He prowls around like a roaring lion looking

  156. for someone to devour. So Paul is, again, reminding

  157. us, stay alert. Resist him. Stay firm in the

  158. truth of Jesus. See, we can't just walk blindly

  159. through life once Jesus sets us free. Because

  160. if we just walk blindly through life, the enemy's

  161. going to tempt us and he's going to lure us back

  162. to what? Back to the chains. Because he knows

  163. when we're in bondage, we're no good for God's

  164. kingdom. See, Jesus doesn't just want to free

  165. us one time. He wants us to live free all the

  166. time. And we have to be careful in this. Paul

  167. again writes in 1 Corinthians 10, 12, if you

  168. think you are standing strong, be careful. not

  169. to fall. Now it's interesting where he writes,

  170. be careful. Because notice Paul doesn't say,

  171. if you're feeling weak, be careful. If you're

  172. feeling empty, be careful. If you're feeling

  173. vulnerable, be careful. No, he says, if you think

  174. you're standing strong, if you think you got

  175. it all together, be on guard. Be careful. Because

  176. some would argue that the most dangerous moment

  177. spiritually is not when you know you're vulnerable,

  178. but when you think you're not. When you think

  179. you got it all together. Be careful. Be careful.

  180. Be careful. Which moves us to address three ways

  181. that we stay mentally strong. Three ways staying

  182. mentally strong. Which leads us to our first

  183. one. We have to be careful about our inputs.

  184. Be careful about our inputs. And you say, well,

  185. what does that mean? We have to be careful about

  186. what we allow into our minds. Okay, just think

  187. about your iPhone or whatever kind of phone you

  188. have or your iPad or your computer, whatever

  189. comes across your feed. How's that? The music

  190. you listen to, the shows you watch, the people

  191. you talk to. I want you to think about your inputs.

  192. Why? Because whatever gets your attention gets

  193. into your thoughts. And your thoughts, they may

  194. start real small, but they don't stay small.

  195. See, once those thoughts begin to take root,

  196. they start to grow and then they start to spread.

  197. And the more you think a thought, the easier

  198. it is to think that thought because God created

  199. our mind to have these things called neural pathways.

  200. And we make these neural pathways in our brains,

  201. good and bad. And if you're thinking on the wrong

  202. thoughts, they're going to take you in the wrong

  203. direction. And that's why Paul wrote in Philippians

  204. 4 .8, Dear brothers and sisters, one final thing.

  205. Fix your thoughts on what is true, honorable,

  206. right, pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think

  207. about things that are excellent and worthy of

  208. praise. See, Paul says to think about what you're

  209. thinking about. Think about what you're thinking

  210. about because your thoughts shape your mind,

  211. your mind shapes your heart, and your heart shapes

  212. your life and where you're headed. That's why

  213. Solomon wrote these words in Proverbs chapter

  214. four, guard your heart above all else for it

  215. determines the course of your life. In other

  216. words, be careful about your inputs because what

  217. fills your mind fills your heart. What forms

  218. your heart determines the course of your life.

  219. And please don't overlook this truth. Every single

  220. one of us need to be open to what the Spirit

  221. of God will show us today. Reflect on what you

  222. look at. Maybe how you relax in the evening.

  223. What do you stream? What movies do you watch?

  224. What shows are you into? Now reflect on what

  225. you listen to. What type of music? What genre?

  226. Now ask yourself, are these two helping me become

  227. more like Jesus, or are they pulling me away?

  228. Are these two strengthening my mental outlook,

  229. or is it weakening me? Is it building my faith

  230. in God's truth or is it creating anxiety and

  231. fear? Do I feel left out? Do I feel depressed?

  232. Is it helping me get stronger in the kingdom

  233. of God and more secure in my relationship with

  234. Jesus? Or is it distracting me from the truth

  235. that sets me free and keeps me free? Because

  236. when you scroll through our culture today, which

  237. many of you are doing, some of you are doing

  238. it right now. You're literally asking God for

  239. a peace of mind. God, I need peace. And you're

  240. feeding your mind with things that cause you

  241. anxiety. See, what you consume every day, if

  242. it makes you feel angry, fearful, insecure, empty,

  243. anxious, left out, if it makes you feel anything

  244. less than a masterpiece of God, change the input.

  245. Change it. You have the power to do it. Think

  246. about this. Social media went mainstream in 2004,

  247. followed by Instagram launching in 2010. It's

  248. only 16 years ago. Now look at the numbers. Anxiety

  249. and depression has doubled in teens and young

  250. adults. 16 years. And the crazy thing is social

  251. media is now normal. For most of you, it's just

  252. a normal thing. But just because it's normal

  253. doesn't mean it's healthy. Now, some of you,

  254. social media is a gift. It's mostly good. You

  255. stay in touch with people. You learn interesting

  256. info. You post random cat photos. You know who

  257. got married. You know who's having a kid. For

  258. some of you, it's good. For the others of you,

  259. it's literally wrecking your life. And if you

  260. take an honest look at it objectively, you would

  261. say the experiment has gone totally wrong. So

  262. if the results aren't healthy, what should we

  263. do? Change it. Are there benefits? If the answer

  264. is yes, then they're mostly benefits, then enjoy

  265. it. If the benefits is costing you your mental

  266. health, then change the input. Now, some of you

  267. think, well, Chris, I don't do social media.

  268. Good, God bless you. Maybe you're scrolling the

  269. news in the evening. And then suddenly you can't

  270. sleep at night. You're having nightmares. Don't

  271. look at the news. Choose not to be informed.

  272. If you're streaming shows that literally lower

  273. your standards and desensitize you to sin, makes

  274. swearing normal in your life. It's just a normal

  275. pattern. Makes looking at other people having

  276. sex on TV acceptable. Maybe you should change

  277. what you're watching. Just saying. If you're

  278. listening to music with a great beat that makes

  279. you move your body, but the lyrics are encouraging

  280. you to compromise your faith, you might want

  281. to change what you want to listen to. Be careful

  282. with your inputs. Well, Chris, I don't want to

  283. be religious. Good, I'm not religious. But I

  284. also know that there's things that I can put

  285. into my mind that are going to pull me away from

  286. God rather than pushing me closer to him. You

  287. don't have to be religious to make a change.

  288. Just choose to live a godly life. Number one,

  289. it's all about your inputs. Be careful about

  290. them. Which moves us to our second focus. Be

  291. careful about our habits. And this is so important

  292. because as you're growing in your mental health,

  293. your habits sustain your mental health. How do

  294. you heal? You heal by God's grace, forgiveness,

  295. freedom. and hard work. You stayed healed by

  296. God's grace and healthy habits. The habits you

  297. keep will keep you healthy. Paul said this in

  298. Galatians 6 -7, you will always harvest what

  299. you plant. There you go. In other words, what

  300. you sow over and over again brings to harvest.

  301. If you have healthy habits and are practicing

  302. them, you're going to have a healthy harvest.

  303. If you have unhealthy habits, you're gonna have

  304. an unhealthy harvest. So what do we do? Well,

  305. if there was something that was hurting you mentally

  306. in your past, create healthy habits that keep

  307. you free in the future. And it could be anything.

  308. Again, back to anxiety. Maybe anxiety is ruling

  309. your mind. Then create a habit of the first thing

  310. you do when you wake up is to spend time with

  311. God in prayer and reading the Bible. Can I get

  312. an amen in that? All right, but here's the habit

  313. you have to create. That's a good thought, but

  314. you've got to set your alarm 30 minutes earlier.

  315. Some of you are like, okay, I'm out. Do you see?

  316. See, the habit is not the devotional time. The

  317. habit is setting the alarm 30 minutes earlier

  318. so you can have the devotional time. And when

  319. we allow the truth in the Bible to rule our minds,

  320. Comfort comes to our spirits and it guides our

  321. very steps. See, we're creating habits for us

  322. to stay healthy. For some of you, you're burnt

  323. out. You're working too hard. And you're working

  324. so hard going in so many different directions,

  325. it's literally destroying your life. Okay, take

  326. a truth from the Bible called the Sabbath, where

  327. there's a day that you don't work, you don't

  328. go to work, and you turn off your phone so you

  329. can recover. You might then find that when you

  330. live God's way, you're more productive the other

  331. six days of the week. God's promises are true

  332. and set us free. If you find yourself always

  333. feeling left out, you're doomsday scrolling.

  334. My life is empty. Everyone else's life is amazing.

  335. She's having a massage. She's spending time in

  336. the sauna. Now she has new shoes and a boyfriend

  337. that put the ring on it. I'm bored, stuck, and

  338. empty. Look, if that makes you feel bad, limit

  339. yourself to 20 minutes a day on social media.

  340. Stop doomsday scrolling. If you don't like the

  341. outcome, change the input. For me, personally,

  342. I've been struggling with adoption lately. It's

  343. been a long 20 years of church planning and pastoring

  344. you. I love you. So the week after Easter, we

  345. have decided to give our entire staff the week

  346. off. Why? Why? Because we need it. And I didn't

  347. even recognize it. I was going to keep on working.

  348. Thank you, Tracy. And whoever else came up with

  349. that idea. Why? Because that's just in my nature.

  350. I work and work and work and work. But we have

  351. to intentionally create a habit for all of us

  352. to stay what? Healthy. You have to do the same

  353. thing. If you find yourself consistently struggling,

  354. look at your habits. Certain habits make you

  355. struggle more. Certain habits make you become

  356. healthier. Remember, how do we heal? We heal

  357. by God's grace and hard work. We remain healed

  358. through God's grace and healthy habits. That's

  359. why Paul said in Romans 12, brothers and sisters,

  360. I plead with you to give your bodies to God because

  361. of all he has done for you. Let them be a living

  362. and holy sacrifice, the kind you'll find acceptable.

  363. That's truly the way to worship him. And he continues.

  364. Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world.

  365. Let God transform you into a new person by changing

  366. the way you think. If it's normal in this world,

  367. it doesn't have to be normal in a Jesus follower's

  368. life. Because we are not of this world. We are

  369. now a part of the kingdom of God. Be careful.

  370. with your inputs. Be careful with your habits,

  371. which leads us to our final focus. Be careful

  372. about our relationships. Proverbs 13, 20. Walk

  373. with the wise and become wise. Associate with

  374. fools and get in trouble. And we thought mom

  375. quoted that. See, if you find yourself struggling

  376. mentally today, look at your friends. Look at

  377. who you're hanging out with. After all, 1 Corinthians

  378. 15 says, don't be fooled by those who say such

  379. things, for bad company corrupts good behavior.

  380. And again, back to Proverbs chapter 12, the godly

    Proverbs 12 chapter mention

  381. give good advice to their friends, the wicked

  382. lead them astray. Let's pause and look at our

  383. relationships. If you're trying to stay mentally

  384. healthy, you cannot spend a lot of time around

  385. people who make you sick. If a friend of yours

  386. starts to pull you back away from God, love them,

  387. encourage them, but redefine the relationship.

  388. You don't want to be shaped by them, but you

  389. can still love them. I mean, this is an obvious

  390. truth to all of our friends in recovery. We have

  391. a lot of friends that gather with us on Sundays

  392. that are in recovery. And all of them know that

  393. if you're addicted and you're wanting to get

  394. free of drugs, You don't want to spend the night

  395. at your drug dealer's house. Because chances

  396. are you're going to use. That's obvious. But

  397. so often when it comes to our mental health,

  398. it's not as obvious to us. But if you begin to

  399. notice that every time you hang out with a certain

  400. friend, you walk away feeling a little dirty,

  401. a little less like Jesus, and you're becoming

  402. more critical, more angry, more bitter, or more

  403. negative. Maybe it's time to stop spending so

  404. much time with that friend and redefine the relationship.

  405. You love them, you encourage them, but you don't

  406. spend a lot of time with them. And if you want

  407. to get mentally healthy, you want to stay mentally

  408. strong, you have to recognize that everyone from

  409. your past doesn't have to come into your future.

  410. Sometimes you have to let the past be the past.

  411. So we have to be careful about our inputs. We

  412. have to be careful about our habits. And we have

  413. to be careful about our relationships. And let's

  414. just pause there a second. Just focus on and

  415. think about who and what is shaping your life.

  416. And remember Paul's words. Be careful. Be careful.

  417. Be careful. Stand strong. Practical wisdom from

  418. the Bible. But quite often when it comes to that

  419. practical wisdom, it's good and we stop right

  420. there. But we have to remember there's a spiritual

  421. component. We have to feed our spirits as well.

  422. Because if we only focus on the physical and

  423. the practical side of life, then our relationship

  424. with Jesus suffers. And then the filling of the

  425. Holy Spirit and the power of the Holy Spirit

  426. isn't there. And then we rely on our own strength,

  427. which leads us back to the chains, which leads

  428. us back to the temptation. So we have to remember.

  429. It's a both -and approach. Practical, wisdom,

  430. yes, and spiritual. Which leads us to our spiritual

  431. focus. Prayer is powerful. We have to be prayerful.

  432. Why? Because prayer touches the heart of God.

  433. Prayer moves the heart of God, and God responds

  434. to our faith in prayer. That's why Paul wrote

  435. in 1 Thessalonians 5, 17, stop praying. And we

  436. have to understand that truth. We have got to

  437. apply that truth. For example, if you struggle

  438. with anxiety, it's both physical and it's spiritual.

  439. It's both and. It's not one or the other. It's

  440. physical because of what we're putting into our

  441. minds, whether it be the news or relationships.

  442. But it's also spiritual because we're not getting

  443. advice from God and allowing him to direct our

  444. steps. Do you feel depressed? There could be

  445. a very real physical component to you feeling

  446. depressed. For example, maybe your hormones are

  447. out of whack. Or your vitamin deficiency. Or

  448. you could just be going through a very difficult

  449. season of life. But there's also a spiritual

  450. nature. It's both and. Do you feel angry? You

  451. may be a victim of abuse or someone that harmed

  452. you in your past, and you don't want to live

  453. that way because the Bible says in your anger

  454. do not sin, but you also have to embrace the

  455. spiritual side. If you're struggling mentally,

  456. emotionally, physically, remember we're a body,

  457. we're a spirit, and we're a soul, meaning our

  458. mind. The spirit lives in the body. The body

  459. takes care of the mind, and God cares for everything.

  460. See, our battle is not just against flesh and

  461. blood. It's not just against people. It's not

  462. just against the world, but it's spiritual. We

  463. have an enemy. We have to be prayerful. And for

  464. so many of you, you're like, well, I don't even

  465. know how to pray, Chris. I don't even know what

  466. that means. I hear it all the time. I don't know

  467. the right words. I don't know what to say. I

  468. don't know what God wants me to hear. And then

  469. here's Paul telling me to never stop praying.

  470. How do I do that? Three simple steps. Are you

  471. ready? First one's this. Just keep it simple.

  472. I was going to say stupid, but I didn't. But

  473. I did. Keep it simple. Prayer is not about the

  474. words. It's not a script that we follow. Prayer

  475. is about connection with God. That's all it was.

  476. Jesus never required complicated prayers. Never.

  477. He never said that only the pastors should pray.

  478. He never said that. Matthew chapter six, verse

  479. seven through eight. When you pray, don't babble

  480. on as the Gentiles do. They think their prayers

  481. are answered merely by repeating their words

  482. again and again. Don't be like them. For your

  483. father knows exactly what you need even before

  484. you ask him. Think about that. God isn't impressed

  485. by length. He's not impressed by words. He's

  486. not impressed by posture. You know what God responds

  487. to? Sincerity. God responds to honesty. God would

  488. rather hear a help me than a perfectly orated

  489. speech. He would rather hear you say help me.

  490. And for those of you that don't know how to pray,

  491. if you can talk, you can pray. And if you can't

  492. talk, then chances are you know sign language.

  493. And I believe God knows sign language too. Because

  494. he knows our what? Hearts. He already knows what

  495. we're going to say before we even say it. So

  496. for you to say you don't have the words to say

  497. is a complete lie. For example. God, I'm tired.

  498. And tell him why you're tired. God, I need you.

  499. Tell him why you need him. How about starting

  500. our day with, God, thank you for allowing me

  501. to wake up today and breathe a big, fresh breath

  502. of air. And tell him why you're thankful. That's

  503. how we pray. There shouldn't be one person that

  504. says, I don't know how to pray. or what to pray.

  505. If you know how to talk, you can pray. Which

  506. leads us to our next step in becoming prayerful.

  507. Keep it honest. Keep it simple. Keep it honest.

  508. We already learned when Jesus shared that God

  509. already knows our hearts. He knows what is happening

  510. in our lives. You know what he's waiting for?

  511. He's waiting for us to be real. He's waiting

  512. for us to be honest. He's waiting for us to stop

  513. pretending that he doesn't know because he does.

  514. And in the Psalms, David didn't hide his emotions.

  515. Notice Psalm 22. My God, my God, why have you

  516. abandoned me? Why are you so far away when I'm

  517. going for help? Every day I call to you, my God,

  518. but you do not answer. Every night I lift my

  519. voice, but I find no relief. When's the last

  520. time you prayed that prayer? Because if you're

  521. struggling, that's what should be coming out

  522. of your mouth. David prayed in fear. David prayed

  523. through anger. David prayed through confusion.

  524. David prayed through doubt. Read the Psalms.

  525. It's all in there. And here's the reality. God

  526. can handle our truth. Even the messy parts that

  527. we want to hide from him. And see, the struggle

  528. for many of us is when we hide it. We hide it

  529. because we know if we bring it to the light,

  530. that change will happen. And we're afraid to

  531. bring it to the light. So I want to challenge

  532. you this week. Bring it to the light. Because

  533. that's when freedom begins. You don't have to

  534. clean yourself up before you talk to God. Be

  535. honest with him. God, I'm mad. I'm angry. I'm

  536. upset. I'm frustrated. This happened in my life.

  537. I lost my job. I can't pay my bills. I'm drowning

  538. in debt. I don't understand, God, what is happening

  539. in my life. Why are my children struggling? Like,

  540. talk to him. Well, what if I don't hear back

  541. from him? Keep talking. And then give him time

  542. to speak. Because quite often we don't hear back

  543. from him because we don't shut up enough to listen.

  544. We just want to tell him all of our pain and

  545. all of our doubt and all of our frustration and

  546. how we're just mad at him, but we won't listen

  547. long enough for him to speak. Honest prayers

  548. build a real relationship with Jesus. Honest

  549. prayers allow for us to trust him with our lives,

  550. which leads us to our final step in becoming

  551. prayerful. Keep it real. Keep it honest. Keep

  552. it going. It's not a one -time thing. It's not

  553. a prayer that you pray before a meal. It's literally

  554. a lifestyle. 1 Thessalonians 5, 17. Never stop

  555. praying. Now, some of you are like, Chris, how

  556. do you do that? How is it that you never stop

  557. praying? It's not that you never stop praying.

  558. It doesn't mean you just pray nonstop all day.

  559. It's about being connected to Jesus. That's what

  560. it means. It's about relying on the Holy Spirit.

  561. That's what Paul is telling us when he says,

  562. never stop praying. By the way, for those of

  563. you that have never memorized a verse, oh, I

  564. can't do it. They're too long. Guess what? I

  565. found a verse for you to memorize that's not

  566. that long. Look. Look. I think we can all memorize

  567. it together. What do you think? Let's all try.

  568. 1 Thessalonians 5, 17. Are you ready? Never stop

  569. praying. Yeah, you did it. Give your neighbor

  570. a high five. Give them a high five. Give your

  571. neighbor a high five. Why are you staring at

  572. me? Give your neighbor a high five. Jeez. You

  573. did it. It's a reminder. Don't just pray when

  574. life is falling apart. Never stop praying so

  575. it doesn't. Like remain in prayer. Practical

  576. ways to keep it going throughout today. You ready?

  577. Just talk to him before your feet hit the ground

  578. when you wake up. Holy Spirit, come fill me with

  579. your presence. Give me direction today. Pray

  580. and worship in your car on the way to work because

  581. you're going to need it. And then more importantly,

  582. pray and worship in your car on the way home

  583. from work because you don't want to bring that

  584. garbage to your family. Pray over every meal,

  585. especially the ones you're at work. Pray before

  586. you fall asleep. Pray when you're in crisis.

  587. Pray when you have to make a decision. See, keep

  588. coming back to God even when you don't feel like

  589. it. And then you're going to realize the connection

  590. is real. See, consistency in prayer builds strength

  591. over time. Keep it simple. Keep it honest. Keep

  592. it going. And what was that verse we just memorized?

  593. Man, awesome. This sermon is a win. Check it.

  594. Because you learned something. Let's all stand.

  595. All right. We're not done by a long shot. So

  596. just because I'm making you stand, I'm creating

  597. healthy habits for you because you are tired

  598. of sitting. So just everyone relax. So I was

  599. praying about how to close out this series and

  600. I felt like I needed to read the Bible over you.

  601. I felt like I needed to read scripture over you

  602. because the scripture is truth. And there's a

  603. section in the Bible that refers to us standing

  604. strong and remaining faithful in him. It's in

  605. Ephesians chapter six, verses 10 through 18.

  606. And Paul says it this way. A final word. Be strong

  607. in the Lord and his mighty power. Put on all

  608. of God's armor so that you'll be able to stand

  609. firm against all the strategy of the devil. For

  610. we are not fighting against flesh and blood enemies,

  611. but against evil rulers and authorities in the

  612. unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark

  613. world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly

  614. places. Therefore, church, put on every piece

  615. of God's armor so you will be able to resist

  616. the enemy in the time of evil. Then, after the

  617. battle, you will still be standing firm. Stand

  618. your ground. Stand it. Put on the belt of truth

  619. and the body armor of God's righteousness. For

  620. shoes, put on the peace that comes from the good

  621. news so that you will be fully prepared. In addition

  622. to all these, hold up the shield of faith to

  623. stop the fiery arrows of the devil. Put on salvation

  624. as your helmet and take the sword of the spirit,

  625. which is the word of God. Pray in the spirit

  626. at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert

  627. and be persistent in your prayers. For all believers.

  628. Everywhere. So Holy Spirit come. Seal that truth

  629. in our hearts today God. Release your presence.

  630. Your peace. Your joy God. And empower. This community

  631. of faith. To stand firm. To stand strong. In

  632. your truth. By your power. In Jesus name. Amen.

  633. And listen, I want to encourage some of you lovingly.

  634. As I was praying about, praying a simple prayer,

  635. and many of you know I pray a simple prayer every

  636. single week, that I needed to challenge a certain

  637. category of people. Next week is Easter. And

  638. we're going to see a huge influx of people that

  639. you invite to be here. And the crazy thing is,

  640. many of those people are going to attend a church,

  641. and they're going to think, I'm checking the

  642. box. My relationship with God is okay. And simply

  643. stated, for many of them, it's not. Because church

  644. isn't about checking a box. Church isn't about

  645. going to church. And I felt like God said to

  646. me that there were going to be people here this

  647. week that you've been in church your whole life.

  648. It's just become a part of what you do. But unfortunately,

  649. it's not about the relationship with him. It's

  650. about checking that box. So I want you to search

  651. your heart if you fall into that category and

  652. ask yourself, am I in a relationship with Jesus?

  653. Am I forgiven? Is he my Lord? Do I make him my

  654. priority? Do I know the difference between living

  655. in the world and being of the world? Do I know

  656. that difference? Do I want to be in the world

  657. living for him, bringing his kingdom to it so

  658. other people experience new life? Or do I just

  659. use it as a crutch, an excuse to move forward

  660. and say, I'm a Christian and I'm okay? So allow

  661. the Holy Spirit to speak to your heart this morning

  662. and answer that question for yourself. Because

  663. we're going to pray a simple prayer. And if you

  664. know that you're distant, far from God, or haven't

  665. started that relationship, start it right now

  666. as we all pray it together. Amen? Let's pray.

  667. Jesus, I'm broken. I'm full of doubt. shame,

  668. regret, sin. Change me. Forgive me. I believe

  669. you're God's son. I believe you died for me.

  670. Make me new. Set me free. Fill me with your spirit.

  671. Help me, God, to serve others. In Jesus' name,

  672. amen. There are several words of knowledge I

  673. want to share with you, but one word was around

  674. John chapter 5. And in John chapter 5, Jesus

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  675. came up to a pool at Bethesda, and he found a

  676. lame man, a man that was lame for 38 years. Jesus

  677. looked at him and said, when Jesus saw him and

  678. knew he had been ill for a long time, he said,

  679. would you like to get well? And I believe Jesus

  680. is asking that same question to us. And my challenge

  681. to you is don't be like the lame man. Yes, he

  682. walked away healed, but notice his answer. I

  683. can't, sir, the sick man said, for I have no

  684. one to put me in the pool when the water bubbles

  685. up. Someone else always gets there ahead of me.

  686. That's an excuse. The lame man had an excuse

  687. for not getting well. I believe all of us now

  688. know that Jesus is initiating grace for all of

  689. us. He initiates grace. It's our faith that makes

  690. us heal and whole. And for some of you, you need

  691. to step out in faith, believing that God's gonna

  692. heal you for anything that you're struggling

  693. with in this life because in your life, it's

  694. pulling you down mentally and you need a breakthrough.

  695. And the words of knowledge were, you have constant

  696. and consistent headaches that you're struggling

  697. with every day. Pain on the top of your left

  698. ankle or foot. pain at the base of your neck

  699. that goes down into your right shoulder. You're

  700. struggling with overwhelming fear that doesn't

  701. allow you to experience peace. If any of those

  702. are you, I want to encourage you to step out

  703. in faith, get some prayer, get some healing.

  704. And if you did commit your life to Jesus, our

  705. baptism is this Friday on Good Friday. We have

  706. a worship night and a baptism. Be a part and

  707. experience God's grace. Love you guys. Can't

  708. wait to celebrate Easter with you next weekend.

  709. I'm coming, Frank. God bless you.