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Exploring the Profound Impact of Influence: Lessons from Romans and Galatians

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  1. Romans, chapter 14 and Galatians, chapter 5.

    Romans 14 chapter mention Galatians 5 chapter mention

  2. I had another message.

  3. I was planning on preaching tonight and yesterday and today I

  4. just felt like God was leading me toward this.

  5. And I hadn't spent as much time on this as I did the others.

  6. But I'm just trying to follow leadership of the Holy Spirit.

  7. And I want to speak to you tonight on one word.

  8. And I want you to think about it and maybe underline it a little

  9. bit in mind.

  10. And it's a very, very powerful word.

  11. But I think so many times we don't recognize and we don't realize

  12. the power of it.

  13. And it's not even in the Bible, but yet you'll find it in

  14. picture and principles all through the Scriptures from Genesis

  15. to Revelation.

  16. Here's the word.

  17. If you're taking notes, just write it down.

  18. It's very simple to remember.

  19. Influence.

  20. Can anybody dare imagine how they could measure influence?

  21. The power of influence in your life, in my life, in the lives of

  22. other people, Positive or negative influence through history,

  23. influence through the church.

  24. We could go on and on and on.

  25. But here's a principle.

  26. In Romans, chapter 14, verse number seven, it says, for none of

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  27. us, none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself.

  28. What does that mean?

  29. It just simply means influence.

  30. It means our decisions, our directions, our thoughts, our looks,

  31. our life, our path.

  32. All the things I'll share more in just a moment.

  33. But it affects other people.

  34. A lot of times we say, well, yeah, I know that.

  35. But we forget.

  36. We get this idea, hey, it's my business.

  37. What I do is nobody else's business.

  38. Well, I understand that in some ways, in certain contexts, I

  39. understand that.

  40. But maturity in our Christian life, we begin to stop and think

  41. a little bit more about what I do or don't do or what I say or don't

  42. say is going to affect somebody.

  43. A lot of times it affects people you don't even know that you

  44. don't know are watching.

  45. It may affect a teenager, it may affect a child, it may affect

  46. an adult.

  47. It may have an influence in such a way that you'll never know

  48. till you get to heaven to find out how much more influence you had

  49. that you didn't think you have.

  50. Most of us, probably tonight, if we'd be honest, would say, well,

  51. I don't know that I've had that much influence.

  52. Well, because.

  53. Be careful about saying that, because one of the goals in our life

  54. is to have as much influence as we can.

  55. That ought to be one of our ultimate purpose, is to glorify Christ

  56. in all that we do.

  57. But also Jesus said, you're the light of the world.

  58. You're the salt of the earth.

  59. Follow me, represent me, because I want you to have influence

  60. with everybody and everywhere you go.

  61. None of us liveth to himself or dieth to himself.

  62. Now go to the book of Galatians, just a few pages over

  63. in your Bible.

  64. To Galatians, chapter number five and verse seven.

  65. And this is Paul was writing to the church at Galatia, and they'd

  66. come a long ways, but then they began to turn back and things

  67. began to change, and not in a good way.

  68. And Paul had to write a letter to him to straighten things out.

  69. And he did.

  70. And the church got things right and the priorities right.

  71. But it says in verse number seven of Galatians, chapter five,

  72. you did run well.

  73. He didn't say, you're running well.

  74. He said, you did run well.

  75. Who did hinder you that you should not obey the truth?

  76. Who's influenced you?

  77. What's.

  78. What happened?

  79. Who Are you listening to this?

  80. Persuasion cometh not of him that calleth you.

  81. Verse number nine says, a little leaven, leaveneth the whole

  82. lump.

  83. I don't know a lot about baking and bread and all that stuff,

  84. but you know, in the Bible, God always wanted them to have unleavened

  85. bread because leaven would cause the bread or the yeast to rise,

  86. which was always a picture of pride.

  87. Pride.

  88. I've eaten unleavened bread.

  89. I don't particularly care for it.

  90. I guess it depends on who's baking it and if they put a lot of

  91. cinnamon and sugar in it, maybe, I don't know.

  92. But it says, a little leaveneth, a little leaven, leaveneth

  93. the whole lump.

  94. It spreads, it affects everything.

  95. And the Bible speaks a lot of that through throughout the Scriptures,

  96. sometimes in our life.

  97. A little.

  98. There's no really such thing as a little sin.

  99. But I want you to get the thought here.

  100. A little sin, a little leaven, a little thing that we think is no

  101. big deal can become a big deal very quickly in a church.

  102. A little leaven can leaven us a whole lump.

  103. I know you don't want to think of your church as a lump.

  104. We think of the church as a bride and as a body and as a building,

  105. but we affect each other.

  106. And sometimes, if you could picture the church, if this church

  107. was filled tonight and you could get this thought in your mind,

  108. it was like a big loaf of bread and there was leaven, and it

  109. started to swell in pride.

  110. I'm Talking about influence, it's not a deep sermon, not a lot

  111. of points, but the principle, you find it all through the Bible.

  112. In fact, God kept over and over and over again to try to teach

  113. and to tell his people to live a separated life.

  114. Why?

  115. I mean, over and over again, come out from among them, don't marry

  116. unsaved people, don't follow their plans, don't follow their ideas,

  117. don't get caught up with their clothes and their music.

  118. But they wouldn't follow.

  119. They didn't believe it.

  120. They.

  121. They thought, we can handle it.

  122. And the reason God went over and over and over again in the Bible

  123. and still applied in the New Testament and to the day in which

  124. we live, that we're to live a separated life, not an isolated life,

  125. but a separated life is because of the power of influence.

  126. God knows if we get too much involved in the world and the world

  127. starts getting into us, it'll influence our thinking, it'll influence

  128. our life.

  129. And some of us old guys say, well, that doesn't bother me.

  130. Well, it can influence our children or our grandchildren or

  131. our great grandchildren.

  132. Influence a little leaven.

  133. Leaveneth the whole lump.

  134. I heard somebody say many years ago, speaking of our lives,

  135. that you are every one of us, you are either a blot or a blessing,

  136. but never a blank.

  137. You're either a blot or a blessing, but never a blank.

  138. Because when you think, well, I'm not going to say anything, then

  139. you're going to have influence.

  140. When you don't speak up when you should, or you don't stand up

  141. when you should, we think, well, I'll just be a blank.

  142. No, you'll never be a blank.

  143. People watch what we do, they watch what we don't do.

  144. Our children watch what we say, they listen to what we don't

  145. say.

  146. Who can measure the power of influence, whether it be good or

  147. bad?

  148. I think it's one of the most powerful words in all the English

  149. language.

  150. Train up a child in the way he should go.

  151. What does that mean?

  152. Well, I've heard a lot of great sermons on it.

  153. It doesn't mean your children be perfect.

  154. It says, turn up a child in the way should go, and when he's

  155. old, he'll not depart from.

  156. Doesn't mean that they'll never do wrong, but it does mean

  157. they'll be influenced a lot.

  158. If you train up a child, you're going to have an influence

  159. that they will never escape.

  160. Amen.

  161. Does anybody have a Kleenex up here?

  162. Let me get one.

  163. I haven't coughed all day.

  164. Well, not all.

  165. I shouldn't say that.

  166. Last couple hours, I go, well, that's good.

  167. And my wife said, do you have.

  168. Start coughing?

  169. Do you have a handkerchief?

  170. I said, well, yeah, right there, sticking right up.

  171. Would you like to see me use that?

  172. Excuse me.

  173. Train up a child.

  174. That's a whole sermon.

  175. And we need a lot of sermons on how to train up a child.

  176. Most of the time, children are being raised today by television

  177. and by the Internet and by Facebook.

  178. That's who's raising.

  179. That's the training up of most children.

  180. Now, obviously, that would not be very.

  181. A lot of that going on in this church because of the kind of church

  182. it is.

  183. You have men and women here that take God seriously, they take

  184. their family seriously, and they try to train up a child in the

  185. way he should go.

  186. The home life may be among the top influences of all.

  187. Would you agree with that?

  188. The way you were raised, how you were raised, the kind of dad

  189. you had, the kind of mom you had, the kind of discipline you had,

  190. what you were allowed to do, what you were not allowed to do.

  191. About 18 years.

  192. 17.

  193. 18 years.

  194. A lot of influence.

  195. Children grew up and they say, well, I don't know why that was wrong.

  196. Nobody ever explained it to me.

  197. So I'm gonna go out and find out for myself.

  198. You see, it's one thing to tell your kids right or wrong, but

  199. another thing to explain it to them.

  200. Why?

  201. Why is it wrong?

  202. What does it hurt?

  203. What does the Bible have to say?

  204. Well, I'm getting off my subject tonight, but I'm talking

  205. about influence.

  206. My grandfather had a huge influence on my life.

  207. And every time I think of him, he's been in heaven for a long time.

  208. I preached his funeral.

  209. His wife died when my mother was nine.

  210. So I never knew my grandmother on my mother's side.

  211. But every time I close my eyes, I think for a moment about

  212. Grand.

  213. We called him Granddaddy.

  214. We didn't call him grand or Grandee or grand or Grand Pappy or.

  215. It was Granddaddy that every time I close my eyes, I see him sitting

  216. in a room with.

  217. We lived in his house.

  218. It was a very, very small house.

  219. And every night I would peek around and see him.

  220. And I could see him sitting in a little recliner, very small.

  221. And boy, it was worn completely out from the way he sat

  222. in.

  223. He sat in it all the time, reading his Bible.

  224. I never saw my dad read his Bible or my mother.

  225. I wasn't saved till I was 14.

  226. I didn't really read the Bible until after that.

  227. But I saw my granddaddy get up and go to church most of the time

  228. by himself.

  229. There was four kids, my mother, my father and four kids.

  230. But always watched him reading the Bible and he had influence.

  231. He was a hard worker and he always told the truth.

  232. I never heard him say a cuss word or a wrong word.

  233. I never see him being modest.

  234. He never told a dirty joke.

  235. He never drank a beer, he never smoked a cigarette.

  236. I'm sure he had his problems.

  237. There's no perfect people.

  238. But in my mind he was perfect.

  239. I couldn't find a fault in him.

  240. He had influence on me.

  241. We are all products of influence before we're saved.

  242. And then we have people and whole different sometimes people

  243. that influence us after we're saved.

  244. Did your life change when you got saved?

  245. You'd been influenced one way pretty much.

  246. And then you got saved and new people.

  247. Church was different, the Bible was different, the music was

  248. different.

  249. And things started influencing you.

  250. When I was 14, saved and called at 15, my whole life changed.

  251. But I wanted to be like my preacher.

  252. I told you many times I was saved at 14, called at 15 and went

  253. to Bible College at 16.

  254. That was.

  255. That was a world that I wanted to be a preacher and I wanted to

  256. pattern my life and I wanted to be just like my preacher, my pastor

  257. who's still living 87 years old and we call and talk to each

  258. other a lot.

  259. And he had so much influence on me.

  260. I mean, he went way out of his way.

  261. I was his first preacher boy out of his church in Jacksonville.

  262. He picked me up every day in high school.

  263. Picked me up at the end of the day at 3 o'.

  264. Clock.

  265. He said, you ready to go?

  266. I said, where are we going?

  267. He said, we're going to visit.

  268. We're going to try to lead people to Christ, invite people to

  269. church and visit the sick and on and on and on.

  270. He had influence on me.

  271. The exact modern English word influence does not frequently appear

  272. in standard scriptural translations.

  273. But the Bible speaks extensively of about this concept

  274. of influence.

  275. The power of actions and reactions and words and associations

  276. that shape our lives.

  277. I just listed a few.

  278. Think about the influence that just God, your father has had in

  279. your life.

  280. Christ.

  281. The first time you really realized and understood and pictured

  282. and heard the sermons of Christ hanging on a cross.

  283. The Bible says his.

  284. His visage was so marred that you couldn't tell he was human.

  285. It didn't look like human, it looked like flesh, just raw flesh

  286. hanging on a cross.

  287. We've seen pictures and paintings.

  288. It's nothing like the way it was his influence that he would die

  289. such a cruel death for me for what I did wrong.

  290. He got the punishment and I got to go free.

  291. That had an influence on my life.

  292. The Holy Spirit has had an influence on my life.

  293. Has he yours?

  294. I know I've already said this several times.

  295. McCracken.

  296. Brother McCracken did such a marvelous job on the subject of the

  297. Holy Spirit.

  298. But, boy, you talk about being filled with the Spirit and the influence

  299. the Spirit of God can have in our lives.

  300. But so many people don't know anything about the Holy Spirit or

  301. being filled with the Holy Spirit.

  302. And so they don't have a lot of influence.

  303. The Holy Spirit doesn't grab us by the hair of our head.

  304. He doesn't snatch us up and say, listen to me.

  305. But he waits to be asked to be in control.

  306. Anybody been influenced by this?

  307. Mm.

  308. We can't imagine people around the world who got received Christ

  309. and got saved, but they still have never seen a Bible.

  310. And the only thing they get is a little bit from a missionary.

  311. They can't buy them, they can't afford them.

  312. They're not allowed in a lot of places.

  313. Can you imagine your life without a Bible?

  314. Most of us certainly can't do that.

  315. But most every church, there's people on Sunday mornings.

  316. I can't find my Bible.

  317. I hadn't seen it since last Sunday.

  318. Oh, but I believe it.

  319. It's the word of God.

  320. It's true.

  321. Has the Bible had much influence in your life?

  322. Do you want it to have more influence in your life?

  323. Sunday school?

  324. Do you.

  325. I guess most of you probably know in most modern churches, Sunday

  326. school has been wiped out.

  327. It's ridiculous and a waste of time.

  328. And if you have any Sunday school, it's for the little kiddies.

  329. And most people today don't have a desire, they don't have a

  330. hunger.

  331. They want to hear an uplifting sermon to make them feel good and

  332. go home.

  333. Till next week, Sunday school become obsolete.

  334. I don't know how long I'll live, but I hope I don't live.

  335. I hope to the day I die, I hope I'll still be able to go to

  336. Sunday school.

  337. No one ever graduates from Sunday school.

  338. I had a man one time, Brother Dawes.

  339. Shelly remembers Brother Dawes.

  340. He was a great.

  341. He was my amen corner.

  342. And he sat on the front row and, boy, he would dress to a hilt.

  343. And he looked like he was 100 years old the whole time.

  344. I Knew him that he'd say, oh, praise God.

  345. I mean, he'd just, he'd get really.

  346. Get preacher fired up.

  347. But he never went to Sunday school.

  348. And I said, brother Dawes, how come you don't come to Sunday school?

  349. He says, I graduated.

  350. I said, well, then why don't you come and teach Sunday school?

  351. He said, oh, I gotta go, I gotta go.

  352. He didn't want to talk about that.

  353. If you already know it all, you've got it all down, then why

  354. don't you teach Sunday school?

  355. Has Satan had any influence in your life?

  356. You say, oh, hoping you wasn't going to go there.

  357. The devil wants to influence you.

  358. He wants to interrupt, he wants to distract.

  359. He wants to divide your attention.

  360. He wants to influence you to be negative and critical.

  361. That's not God doing that.

  362. That's not the spirit of God that does those things.

  363. The Holy Spirit never wanted to lead you to have a sour, bitter,

  364. critical, proud, arrogant spirit.

  365. Amen, Brother Weatherby.

  366. The world, the influence of the world.

  367. You know, we're being influenced by the world.

  368. Most of the time.

  369. We're not even consciously aware of it.

  370. We go by down the street and see signs and billboards and we hear

  371. things on the radio and we see commercials and we hear this and

  372. we see that.

  373. And the world, churches even, have become more worldly than they

  374. used to be.

  375. We've gotten used to the world now it does a lot of things.

  376. Doesn't bother us anymore.

  377. Used to.

  378. Not anymore.

  379. Preachers used to preach against certain things.

  380. They quit doing that a long time ago.

  381. Why?

  382. Because the world has finally taken the edge off and we've gotten

  383. comfortable and we don't want to be thought of as illegalist or

  384. weird or strange or dangerous or culture because we believe in

  385. morality and men ought to be men and women ought to be women and.

  386. And there ought to be moderation in our lives.

  387. That's.

  388. And then how many of us have been influenced?

  389. That's the only thing you got to remember tonight, influence.

  390. And I wish we had time here, but I just throw it out because I

  391. know if you had started jotting them down, you'd run out

  392. of paper.

  393. But godly people who've influenced your life.

  394. Amen, man.

  395. I've had people.

  396. I probably forgot the names now, but people.

  397. Men, deacons, Sunday school teachers.

  398. My life before, even as a young teenager, godly people.

  399. I mean, people.

  400. I thought, wow, they must be a prophet or she must be right out

  401. of the Bible.

  402. I felt strange around them.

  403. I thought they were so godly.

  404. Godly people now, while I'm talking about this tonight and just

  405. keep over and over repeating myself in a different way.

  406. Godly people, but also there's ungodly people that can influence

  407. us if we're not careful.

  408. We got to be careful, and the Bible tells us to be careful.

  409. There's certain kind of people.

  410. I wish it wasn't true, but it's true.

  411. It's a fact of life.

  412. It's in the Bible.

  413. We have to be careful because we can get influenced from people

  414. that don't really have all their facts and they don't know the

  415. whole truth and no one's explained it.

  416. So you've got to remember that.

  417. You've got to recognize that.

  418. And if you mature and you grow, it doesn't mean you go around

  419. saying, don't contaminate me.

  420. The Bible doesn't tell us that.

  421. That's just proud arrogance.

  422. And that's like the Pharisees were.

  423. Amen, God.

  424. I pray all the time, God help me to never fall into the rut of

  425. being a Pharisee.

  426. But the Bible makes it clear, and it's going to be important as

  427. how your life turns out or is turning out.

  428. There's some people you can shake hands with and be nice to,

  429. but there's some people that want to influence you in a wrong

  430. way.

  431. You say, oh, Brother Weatherby, I didn't come to hear

  432. that.

  433. Well, neither did I. I wanted to preach another sermon.

  434. I'm just saying we have to grow up.

  435. Doesn't mean we have to be mean to people.

  436. It doesn't mean that we have to mistreat anybody.

  437. Somebody say amen, we know it.

  438. I'm not saying that.

  439. Some of you think I'm saying that and others may be listening

  440. on.

  441. On the live stream was.

  442. I can't believe we just said that.

  443. I didn't say what you thought.

  444. I said we can be kind and loving and careful and nice and sweet.

  445. But you have to understand that not all people that claim to

  446. be Christians and in any church, not any church, not just

  447. this church, but not everybody's on the same page and

  448. never will be.

  449. That's why you have to be called to be a pastor, because that

  450. comes with the job.

  451. Everybody wouldn't be a pastor if all you had a church full of nice

  452. people.

  453. And if you had a church full of have a nice preacher in the pulpit,

  454. probably helped too.

  455. The church, the influence of the church.

  456. The influence of the Heritage Baptist Church.

  457. You know, I've been here, Shelly, and I've been here five months

  458. you have influenced us in a positive way.

  459. We've learned some things.

  460. You've influenced us.

  461. We're almost through here, and it's not.

  462. We're not just going to walk off in good riddance.

  463. I mean, it's not going to be easy.

  464. Our heart will be broken.

  465. We've gotten attached because we are to influence each other.

  466. You've influenced parents, influence, grandparents, influence,

  467. friends influence.

  468. How many times have you heard the sad story of young people?

  469. And not just young people, sometimes even adults.

  470. What happened to them?

  471. Well, they got mixed up with the wrong friends.

  472. You ever heard that?

  473. I know as parents, we can't choose the friends of our kids.

  474. I understand that.

  475. But we can coach them and we can pray for them, and we can encourage

  476. them in the right direction and do the best we can, because friends

  477. can have powerful influence.

  478. What about boyfriends and girlfriends that can have a lot of

  479. influence?

  480. Mm.

  481. Yeah.

  482. Guys feels like, man, I'm ready to live for God.

  483. He gets involved with a young lady, young girl, that doesn't want

  484. to live for God, and she could have a very negative influence and

  485. vice versa.

  486. A lot of young girls say, I want to marry a preacher one day,

  487. or I want to be a missionary, or I want to teach Sunday school,

  488. or I want to sing in the choir.

  489. And one of these days, I'm going to be the best church member

  490. we got.

  491. And they fall in love with the young man that says, do we have to

  492. go to church every service?

  493. Do we have to do this?

  494. Do we have to do that?

  495. What's wrong with that?

  496. What's wrong with this?

  497. I don't have to drink six cans.

  498. I can just drink one can.

  499. That's not bad.

  500. And that's the way it goes.

  501. And I'm just being general here.

  502. Goes a lot further, doesn't it?

  503. After you're married, a husband can have a good influence

  504. or a bad influence on his wife.

  505. A wife, on her husband, a father and a mother.

  506. What about a youth director?

  507. Can a youth director have influence?

  508. Oh, yeah.

  509. That's why we need to pray that God give good youth directors.

  510. They're getting just about as hard to find as good preachers that

  511. believe the Bible and want to preach the book and stay by the stuff.

  512. It's getting hard to find them, too.

  513. But a good youth director that's sold out to God and not just

  514. gets up and tells a few funny stories, but he teaches the Bible

  515. and he lives the Bible and his wife lives the Bible, and they're

  516. an example of how young men and young women should Dress and

  517. carry themselves and talk and places they should go and they shouldn't.

  518. They're hard to find youth directors like that, but they have

  519. great influence.

  520. Anybody here ever been influenced at youth camp?

  521. My son was called to preach at youth camp.

  522. I've been to a lot of youth camps.

  523. I've talked to a lot of kids that my life totally changed at one

  524. particular year at youth camp.

  525. You ever been influenced by a sermon I don't like?

  526. I haven't liked all the sermons I've preached, not very many.

  527. But I'll tell you one thing.

  528. I've heard a few sermons that changed my life and my ministry.

  529. And I'm thinking one right now that I wasn't really crazy about.

  530. I never really cared for that particular man.

  531. He pastored at one time one of the largest churches in America.

  532. If I called his name, some of you would know him.

  533. But I can think of at least two or maybe three sermons that he

  534. preached that radically changed my life forever.

  535. Forever.

  536. And some of you may not remember the title, but I bet you

  537. could say there was one particular sermon or maybe two or

  538. three or maybe more.

  539. But there's this kind of stick out that influenced you.

  540. By the way, that wouldn't be a bad prayer on your prayer list.

  541. Lord, help my preacher, my pastor, to influence me today through

  542. the preaching of the Word.

  543. Has anybody been influenced, good or bad, through going to the

  544. wrong college?

  545. Come on, we have to admit it.

  546. I can't even recommend a preacher to go to the college, the

  547. Bible college that I went to.

  548. I would never recommend a preacher, young boy to go to where

  549. I went to school.

  550. And at that time was one of the greatest Bible schools, seminaries

  551. in the whole country.

  552. And at the time I went to that school, seven out of the 10 largest

  553. churches in America were pastored by graduates from that seminary.

  554. I know we don't grade churches by numbers all that, but I'm just

  555. talking about it had a lot of influence.

  556. Would you remember to try to remember to pray for the Norris Bible

  557. Baptist Seminary?

  558. That'll have influence.

  559. Because a lot of kids today say, what do I want to go there for?

  560. I want to go where I can play football and basketball and find

  561. girls and guys and do this and do that and be in the dorm and have

  562. parties.

  563. It's hard to get kids to consider a seminary, to study the

  564. Bible five or six hours a day.

  565. It influenced my life and I like, even though the young people

  566. are not in this building tonight.

  567. But I've always tried, probably should have tried harder

  568. to get Young people to, why don't you just go one time, just

  569. one year, just get a good basic Bible foundation.

  570. Whether you're going to be a preacher or called to do anything,

  571. just go one year.

  572. And a lot of kids growing up on my ministry, not all of them,

  573. but a lot of them did that and they decided to go a second year

  574. and then a third year and then a fourth year.

  575. And some of them are out doing things for God.

  576. But I think still whether a person actually called in the ministry

  577. just to get that other bell.

  578. I mean, what would be wrong with getting a good foundation of

  579. the Bible?

  580. I already mentioned the television has such an influence.

  581. You don't hear this much anymore preaching these days, but

  582. what about pornography?

  583. Has that had any kind of influence on people?

  584. Ladies and gentlemen, there is an addiction in our country.

  585. I haven't gotten to drugs yet.

  586. I'm talking about a major serious.

  587. They don't have to buy magazines anymore.

  588. Just pull out the cell phone.

  589. See anything you want to see, as long as you want to see it, Say,

  590. well, my kids wouldn't do that.

  591. Well, okay.

  592. Or I take their phone away.

  593. Their friend's got phones.

  594. What about the influence of music?

  595. I don't have time to go at all these.

  596. But the kind of music we listen to breaks down inhibitions

  597. and breaks down things that we know better than that.

  598. But we like the tune or we like the beat or we like the sound.

  599. I'm not against new songs and new music in the church.

  600. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

  601. But they need to make sure that they're right doctrinally and

  602. they glorify Jesus Christ and they speak to the heart and it's

  603. not a show and it's not an entertainment.

  604. Concert, drugs, alcohol, books.

  605. You remember in Acts, chapter 4, verse 13, Peter had preached and

    Acts 4:13

  606. they were kind of arrested and kind of problems and all that earlier

  607. in the Acts, and you remember this verse, they took knowledge of

  608. them that they had been with Jesus.

  609. Think about that.

  610. Hey, you've been hanging around Jesus.

  611. How do you know?

  612. He must have influence on you.

  613. You're talking like him.

  614. You remind me of Jesus.

  615. It was in Acts, chapter four, Influence.

  616. Who has the most.

  617. Who has had the most influence in your life so far?

  618. Could you think of one name?

  619. Probably say, well, mama, daddy, best friend, preacher, somebody

  620. who has had the most influence in your life so far?

  621. Do you think God could still have somebody coming up around you

  622. maybe soon that could have even more influence on you?

  623. And here's the other side of the coin.

  624. And I'm going to have to.

  625. I'm running out of time, as always do.

  626. What kind of influence are you having on other people?

  627. I think I've said enough about the influence on us.

  628. Are you having a good influence on your friends at church,

  629. in your Sunday school class and where you go to work and the

  630. people you work around all day?

  631. Our country is plummeting because of evil influences morally

  632. and religiously and educationally.

  633. Back.

  634. I kind of go back around before I finish up here, something

  635. I wrote down years ago about influence.

  636. It kind of goes back to the thing of children and how they're

  637. influenced.

  638. Because that really, it probably is the most impact because

  639. of the years, you know, from the time they're born to the time

  640. they leave.

  641. I mean, it's a daily influence.

  642. If a child lives with criticism, if he lives with it, he

  643. learns how to condemn other people.

  644. He's learned it from his parents.

  645. If a child lives with hostility, he learns violence.

  646. If a child lives with ridicule, in other words, he's always

  647. told that he's not good and he's bad and he's dumb and on and

  648. on and on.

  649. He just kind of lives with that all the time.

  650. He learns how to be shy and not volunteer and slip to the back

  651. of the row and not make anybody notice them because they've

  652. lived under ridicule for 17 or 18 years.

  653. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns some self

  654. confidence.

  655. If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.

  656. If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.

  657. If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.

  658. If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns

  659. to love other people.

  660. And witnessing.

  661. I didn't spend a lot of time on this, but I should have.

  662. Witnessing has a lot to do with influence.

  663. When you try to witness to people, you're influencing them.

  664. Witnessing is the outflow and the overflow of the inflow.

  665. You can't give out what you don't have.

  666. That's why we don't witness as much as we should, because it's not

  667. flowing into us.

  668. Witnessing is the outflow and the overflow of the inflow influence.

  669. Are you being influenced now?

  670. Do you want to have more influence in your life?

  671. If you want to have any kind of influence, and I already said,

  672. whether you want to or not, you do.

  673. You're not a blank.

  674. You're a blot or a blessing, but you're not a blank.

  675. So if you don't say a word or do anything, you're still having

  676. influence.

  677. People Say, hmm, Christianity must not be that big a deal to them.

  678. But if you want to have influence, if you're going to have

  679. it, you need to want to have it and you need to be consistent.

  680. Amen.

  681. It's hard to have influence when you're on and off, on and off,

  682. on and off like a street light.

  683. And if you're going to have influence, you've got to spend yourself,

  684. not your money.

  685. All the time.

  686. People say, well, spend you think of money.

  687. Paul said, most gladly would I spend and be spent, that others may

  688. know Christ.

  689. It will cost you to have influence, the right kind of influence.

  690. Don't quit.

  691. I wish I had time.

  692. I was thinking this afternoon of the people in the Bible, the power

  693. of influence.

  694. I mean, there was 12 spies sent out to check out the promised

  695. land, right?

  696. They come back and take a vote.

  697. Ten said, no way.

  698. Two said, we can do it with God.

  699. Well, the majority ruled, and 1 1/2 to maybe close to 2 million

  700. people were influenced by 10 men.

  701. I can't comprehend leading a million and A half to 2 million people

  702. cross the desert.

  703. But 10 people convinced them, no way we're going to stay right

  704. here.

  705. And they did for 40 years.

  706. Lot's wife.

  707. You remember Lot's wife, don't you, Lot?

  708. Sodom and Gomorrah, all the stuff that was going on because of

  709. the immorality and homosexuality and the angels.

  710. God sent angels there and said, you better get out because

  711. I'm getting ready to burn this to a crisp.

  712. And Lot couldn't get his wife.

  713. He had to drag her out.

  714. Why?

  715. Because she had been influenced.

  716. She kept looking back, do we have to go?

  717. Do we have to go now?

  718. Can't we just go a little ways?

  719. One more night?

  720. She kept looking back, looking back, looking back, he lost his wife,

  721. he lost his son in laws.

  722. They mocked him, they laughed at him because he didn't have any

  723. influence.

  724. Lot lost his influence totally.

  725. In fact, he wanted to give his girls away to a bunch of homosexual

  726. people.

  727. Said, you can do whatever you want to with them.

  728. Just don't mess with these angels.

  729. Yeah, it's in the Bible.

  730. Barnabas, the great encourager.

  731. What an influencer.

  732. Paul wasn't really crazy about taking John Mark on as his assistant.

  733. Barnabas said, I'll take him.

  734. The word Barnabas means encourager.

  735. That was his name.

  736. That's what he was known as, the encourager.

  737. Barnabas took Mark and later on end of life, Paul's life, Paul

  738. said, oh, boy, I sure should have had more influence on Mark because

  739. He turned out great.

  740. And he wrote one of the gospels.

  741. Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, Paul and Silas.

  742. Boy, what an influence.

  743. Singing together in prison.

  744. Both of them singing?

  745. Not just one, both of them.

  746. What about Ruth and Naomi?

  747. In the book of Ruth, Naomi was backslidden.

  748. But even in a backslidden condition, she still had so much

  749. influence on Ruth that Ruth's sister said, I'm out here.

  750. Ruth said, not me.

  751. I'm going with her.

  752. And she wasn't even right with God.

  753. She had a better testimony than most people do as a backslider.

  754. I'm talking about influence tonight.

  755. And sometimes your influence may go on for generations.

  756. Did you know you hear this a lot?

  757. I'm sure here, the name J. Frank Norris.

  758. Most of you know who that is, but most people don't realize his

  759. influence.

  760. And he actually is the only real, true, honest to goodness father

  761. of fundamentalism.

  762. He was the first one to say, there's no way I'm going to continue

  763. to support the Southern Baptist colleges that don't believe

  764. in creation.

  765. And he had a list of other things.

  766. And J. Frank Norris said, well, I'm going to start my own school

  767. in Fort Worth, Texas, downtown.

  768. Whether you like him or not, he had influence, and he influenced

  769. me, and I never met him.

  770. He died the year I was born, 1952, not far from where I was raised

  771. in Jacksonville, Florida.

  772. He died in a youth camp.

  773. But he's influenced me because he influenced my pastor and my pastor's

  774. pastor and my pastor's pastor.

  775. You never know how far your influence may go, and you may not

  776. even live to see it.

  777. When you get to heaven, you may be called up for a couple of

  778. rewards you weren't expecting because you had influence on a preacher.

  779. Mm.

  780. A lot of preachers couldn't have made it to first base had they

  781. not had people who influenced them in a positive way.

  782. Let's stand with our heads bowed and eyes closed.

  783. Heavenly Father, we thank you.

  784. I want to thank you, Lord, for the people that you've used in my

  785. life to influence me.

  786. And, Lord, I'd still like to have some influence.

  787. If I have a few days, weeks, months, years, I don't know, I'd

  788. like to still have some influence.

  789. And I believe probably there's people here tonight.

  790. Said, me, too, preacher.

  791. Me too.

  792. I want to make a difference.

  793. I want to have influence on my children, even though they don't

  794. go to church or I don't know if they're saved.

  795. But, Lord, maybe I can still have influence.

  796. My grandchildren, my great grandchildren.

  797. I don't know where you are in your life but maybe God's touched

  798. your heart.

  799. Tonight I'm going to pray and we'll have verse invitation and we'll

  800. not spend a long time if no one comes.

  801. Heavenly Father, I pray you would help us to be touchable tonight.

  802. And maybe we could go to bed tonight thinking a little bit more

  803. about that word influence.

  804. And God, I pray that you would continue to influence our lives so

  805. that we can influence other lives lives.

  806. We pray it all in Jesus name.