Sermon
Exploring the Profound Impact of Influence: Lessons from Romans and Galatians
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Romans, chapter 14 and Galatians, chapter 5.
Romans 14 chapter mention Galatians 5 chapter mention
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I had another message.
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I was planning on preaching tonight and yesterday and today I
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just felt like God was leading me toward this.
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And I hadn't spent as much time on this as I did the others.
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But I'm just trying to follow leadership of the Holy Spirit.
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And I want to speak to you tonight on one word.
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And I want you to think about it and maybe underline it a little
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bit in mind.
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And it's a very, very powerful word.
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But I think so many times we don't recognize and we don't realize
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the power of it.
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And it's not even in the Bible, but yet you'll find it in
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picture and principles all through the Scriptures from Genesis
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to Revelation.
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Here's the word.
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If you're taking notes, just write it down.
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It's very simple to remember.
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Influence.
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Can anybody dare imagine how they could measure influence?
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The power of influence in your life, in my life, in the lives of
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other people, Positive or negative influence through history,
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influence through the church.
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We could go on and on and on.
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But here's a principle.
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In Romans, chapter 14, verse number seven, it says, for none of
Romans 14 chapter mention
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us, none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself.
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What does that mean?
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It just simply means influence.
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It means our decisions, our directions, our thoughts, our looks,
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our life, our path.
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All the things I'll share more in just a moment.
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But it affects other people.
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A lot of times we say, well, yeah, I know that.
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But we forget.
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We get this idea, hey, it's my business.
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What I do is nobody else's business.
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Well, I understand that in some ways, in certain contexts, I
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understand that.
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But maturity in our Christian life, we begin to stop and think
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a little bit more about what I do or don't do or what I say or don't
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say is going to affect somebody.
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A lot of times it affects people you don't even know that you
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don't know are watching.
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It may affect a teenager, it may affect a child, it may affect
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an adult.
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It may have an influence in such a way that you'll never know
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till you get to heaven to find out how much more influence you had
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that you didn't think you have.
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Most of us, probably tonight, if we'd be honest, would say, well,
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I don't know that I've had that much influence.
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Well, because.
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Be careful about saying that, because one of the goals in our life
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is to have as much influence as we can.
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That ought to be one of our ultimate purpose, is to glorify Christ
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in all that we do.
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But also Jesus said, you're the light of the world.
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You're the salt of the earth.
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Follow me, represent me, because I want you to have influence
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with everybody and everywhere you go.
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None of us liveth to himself or dieth to himself.
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Now go to the book of Galatians, just a few pages over
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in your Bible.
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To Galatians, chapter number five and verse seven.
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And this is Paul was writing to the church at Galatia, and they'd
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come a long ways, but then they began to turn back and things
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began to change, and not in a good way.
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And Paul had to write a letter to him to straighten things out.
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And he did.
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And the church got things right and the priorities right.
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But it says in verse number seven of Galatians, chapter five,
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you did run well.
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He didn't say, you're running well.
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He said, you did run well.
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Who did hinder you that you should not obey the truth?
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Who's influenced you?
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What's.
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What happened?
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Who Are you listening to this?
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Persuasion cometh not of him that calleth you.
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Verse number nine says, a little leaven, leaveneth the whole
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lump.
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I don't know a lot about baking and bread and all that stuff,
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but you know, in the Bible, God always wanted them to have unleavened
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bread because leaven would cause the bread or the yeast to rise,
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which was always a picture of pride.
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Pride.
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I've eaten unleavened bread.
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I don't particularly care for it.
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I guess it depends on who's baking it and if they put a lot of
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cinnamon and sugar in it, maybe, I don't know.
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But it says, a little leaveneth, a little leaven, leaveneth
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the whole lump.
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It spreads, it affects everything.
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And the Bible speaks a lot of that through throughout the Scriptures,
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sometimes in our life.
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A little.
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There's no really such thing as a little sin.
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But I want you to get the thought here.
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A little sin, a little leaven, a little thing that we think is no
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big deal can become a big deal very quickly in a church.
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A little leaven can leaven us a whole lump.
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I know you don't want to think of your church as a lump.
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We think of the church as a bride and as a body and as a building,
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but we affect each other.
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And sometimes, if you could picture the church, if this church
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was filled tonight and you could get this thought in your mind,
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it was like a big loaf of bread and there was leaven, and it
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started to swell in pride.
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I'm Talking about influence, it's not a deep sermon, not a lot
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of points, but the principle, you find it all through the Bible.
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In fact, God kept over and over and over again to try to teach
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and to tell his people to live a separated life.
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Why?
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I mean, over and over again, come out from among them, don't marry
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unsaved people, don't follow their plans, don't follow their ideas,
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don't get caught up with their clothes and their music.
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But they wouldn't follow.
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They didn't believe it.
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They.
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They thought, we can handle it.
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And the reason God went over and over and over again in the Bible
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and still applied in the New Testament and to the day in which
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we live, that we're to live a separated life, not an isolated life,
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but a separated life is because of the power of influence.
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God knows if we get too much involved in the world and the world
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starts getting into us, it'll influence our thinking, it'll influence
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our life.
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And some of us old guys say, well, that doesn't bother me.
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Well, it can influence our children or our grandchildren or
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our great grandchildren.
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Influence a little leaven.
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Leaveneth the whole lump.
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I heard somebody say many years ago, speaking of our lives,
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that you are every one of us, you are either a blot or a blessing,
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but never a blank.
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You're either a blot or a blessing, but never a blank.
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Because when you think, well, I'm not going to say anything, then
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you're going to have influence.
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When you don't speak up when you should, or you don't stand up
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when you should, we think, well, I'll just be a blank.
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No, you'll never be a blank.
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People watch what we do, they watch what we don't do.
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Our children watch what we say, they listen to what we don't
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say.
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Who can measure the power of influence, whether it be good or
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bad?
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I think it's one of the most powerful words in all the English
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language.
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Train up a child in the way he should go.
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What does that mean?
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Well, I've heard a lot of great sermons on it.
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It doesn't mean your children be perfect.
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It says, turn up a child in the way should go, and when he's
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old, he'll not depart from.
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Doesn't mean that they'll never do wrong, but it does mean
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they'll be influenced a lot.
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If you train up a child, you're going to have an influence
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that they will never escape.
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Amen.
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Does anybody have a Kleenex up here?
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Let me get one.
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I haven't coughed all day.
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Well, not all.
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I shouldn't say that.
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Last couple hours, I go, well, that's good.
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And my wife said, do you have.
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Start coughing?
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Do you have a handkerchief?
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I said, well, yeah, right there, sticking right up.
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Would you like to see me use that?
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Excuse me.
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Train up a child.
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That's a whole sermon.
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And we need a lot of sermons on how to train up a child.
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Most of the time, children are being raised today by television
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and by the Internet and by Facebook.
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That's who's raising.
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That's the training up of most children.
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Now, obviously, that would not be very.
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A lot of that going on in this church because of the kind of church
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it is.
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You have men and women here that take God seriously, they take
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their family seriously, and they try to train up a child in the
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way he should go.
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The home life may be among the top influences of all.
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Would you agree with that?
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The way you were raised, how you were raised, the kind of dad
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you had, the kind of mom you had, the kind of discipline you had,
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what you were allowed to do, what you were not allowed to do.
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About 18 years.
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17.
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18 years.
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A lot of influence.
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Children grew up and they say, well, I don't know why that was wrong.
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Nobody ever explained it to me.
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So I'm gonna go out and find out for myself.
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You see, it's one thing to tell your kids right or wrong, but
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another thing to explain it to them.
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Why?
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Why is it wrong?
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What does it hurt?
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What does the Bible have to say?
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Well, I'm getting off my subject tonight, but I'm talking
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about influence.
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My grandfather had a huge influence on my life.
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And every time I think of him, he's been in heaven for a long time.
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I preached his funeral.
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His wife died when my mother was nine.
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So I never knew my grandmother on my mother's side.
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But every time I close my eyes, I think for a moment about
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Grand.
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We called him Granddaddy.
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We didn't call him grand or Grandee or grand or Grand Pappy or.
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It was Granddaddy that every time I close my eyes, I see him sitting
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in a room with.
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We lived in his house.
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It was a very, very small house.
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And every night I would peek around and see him.
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And I could see him sitting in a little recliner, very small.
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And boy, it was worn completely out from the way he sat
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in.
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He sat in it all the time, reading his Bible.
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I never saw my dad read his Bible or my mother.
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I wasn't saved till I was 14.
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I didn't really read the Bible until after that.
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But I saw my granddaddy get up and go to church most of the time
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by himself.
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There was four kids, my mother, my father and four kids.
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But always watched him reading the Bible and he had influence.
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He was a hard worker and he always told the truth.
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I never heard him say a cuss word or a wrong word.
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I never see him being modest.
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He never told a dirty joke.
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He never drank a beer, he never smoked a cigarette.
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I'm sure he had his problems.
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There's no perfect people.
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But in my mind he was perfect.
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I couldn't find a fault in him.
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He had influence on me.
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We are all products of influence before we're saved.
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And then we have people and whole different sometimes people
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that influence us after we're saved.
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Did your life change when you got saved?
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You'd been influenced one way pretty much.
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And then you got saved and new people.
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Church was different, the Bible was different, the music was
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different.
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And things started influencing you.
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When I was 14, saved and called at 15, my whole life changed.
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But I wanted to be like my preacher.
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I told you many times I was saved at 14, called at 15 and went
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to Bible College at 16.
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That was.
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That was a world that I wanted to be a preacher and I wanted to
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pattern my life and I wanted to be just like my preacher, my pastor
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who's still living 87 years old and we call and talk to each
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other a lot.
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And he had so much influence on me.
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I mean, he went way out of his way.
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I was his first preacher boy out of his church in Jacksonville.
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He picked me up every day in high school.
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Picked me up at the end of the day at 3 o'.
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Clock.
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He said, you ready to go?
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I said, where are we going?
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He said, we're going to visit.
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We're going to try to lead people to Christ, invite people to
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church and visit the sick and on and on and on.
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He had influence on me.
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The exact modern English word influence does not frequently appear
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in standard scriptural translations.
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But the Bible speaks extensively of about this concept
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of influence.
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The power of actions and reactions and words and associations
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that shape our lives.
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I just listed a few.
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Think about the influence that just God, your father has had in
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your life.
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Christ.
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The first time you really realized and understood and pictured
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and heard the sermons of Christ hanging on a cross.
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The Bible says his.
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His visage was so marred that you couldn't tell he was human.
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It didn't look like human, it looked like flesh, just raw flesh
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hanging on a cross.
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We've seen pictures and paintings.
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It's nothing like the way it was his influence that he would die
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such a cruel death for me for what I did wrong.
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He got the punishment and I got to go free.
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That had an influence on my life.
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The Holy Spirit has had an influence on my life.
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Has he yours?
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I know I've already said this several times.
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McCracken.
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Brother McCracken did such a marvelous job on the subject of the
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Holy Spirit.
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But, boy, you talk about being filled with the Spirit and the influence
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the Spirit of God can have in our lives.
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But so many people don't know anything about the Holy Spirit or
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being filled with the Holy Spirit.
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And so they don't have a lot of influence.
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The Holy Spirit doesn't grab us by the hair of our head.
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He doesn't snatch us up and say, listen to me.
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But he waits to be asked to be in control.
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Anybody been influenced by this?
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Mm.
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We can't imagine people around the world who got received Christ
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and got saved, but they still have never seen a Bible.
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And the only thing they get is a little bit from a missionary.
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They can't buy them, they can't afford them.
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They're not allowed in a lot of places.
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Can you imagine your life without a Bible?
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Most of us certainly can't do that.
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But most every church, there's people on Sunday mornings.
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I can't find my Bible.
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I hadn't seen it since last Sunday.
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Oh, but I believe it.
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It's the word of God.
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It's true.
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Has the Bible had much influence in your life?
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Do you want it to have more influence in your life?
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Sunday school?
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Do you.
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I guess most of you probably know in most modern churches, Sunday
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school has been wiped out.
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It's ridiculous and a waste of time.
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And if you have any Sunday school, it's for the little kiddies.
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And most people today don't have a desire, they don't have a
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hunger.
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They want to hear an uplifting sermon to make them feel good and
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go home.
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Till next week, Sunday school become obsolete.
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I don't know how long I'll live, but I hope I don't live.
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I hope to the day I die, I hope I'll still be able to go to
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Sunday school.
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No one ever graduates from Sunday school.
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I had a man one time, Brother Dawes.
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Shelly remembers Brother Dawes.
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He was a great.
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He was my amen corner.
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And he sat on the front row and, boy, he would dress to a hilt.
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And he looked like he was 100 years old the whole time.
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I Knew him that he'd say, oh, praise God.
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I mean, he'd just, he'd get really.
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Get preacher fired up.
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But he never went to Sunday school.
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And I said, brother Dawes, how come you don't come to Sunday school?
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He says, I graduated.
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I said, well, then why don't you come and teach Sunday school?
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He said, oh, I gotta go, I gotta go.
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He didn't want to talk about that.
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If you already know it all, you've got it all down, then why
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don't you teach Sunday school?
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Has Satan had any influence in your life?
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You say, oh, hoping you wasn't going to go there.
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The devil wants to influence you.
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He wants to interrupt, he wants to distract.
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He wants to divide your attention.
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He wants to influence you to be negative and critical.
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That's not God doing that.
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That's not the spirit of God that does those things.
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The Holy Spirit never wanted to lead you to have a sour, bitter,
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critical, proud, arrogant spirit.
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Amen, Brother Weatherby.
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The world, the influence of the world.
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You know, we're being influenced by the world.
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Most of the time.
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We're not even consciously aware of it.
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We go by down the street and see signs and billboards and we hear
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things on the radio and we see commercials and we hear this and
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we see that.
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And the world, churches even, have become more worldly than they
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used to be.
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We've gotten used to the world now it does a lot of things.
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Doesn't bother us anymore.
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Used to.
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Not anymore.
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Preachers used to preach against certain things.
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They quit doing that a long time ago.
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Why?
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Because the world has finally taken the edge off and we've gotten
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comfortable and we don't want to be thought of as illegalist or
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weird or strange or dangerous or culture because we believe in
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morality and men ought to be men and women ought to be women and.
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And there ought to be moderation in our lives.
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That's.
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And then how many of us have been influenced?
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That's the only thing you got to remember tonight, influence.
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And I wish we had time here, but I just throw it out because I
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know if you had started jotting them down, you'd run out
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of paper.
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But godly people who've influenced your life.
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Amen, man.
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I've had people.
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I probably forgot the names now, but people.
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Men, deacons, Sunday school teachers.
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My life before, even as a young teenager, godly people.
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I mean, people.
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I thought, wow, they must be a prophet or she must be right out
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of the Bible.
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I felt strange around them.
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I thought they were so godly.
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Godly people now, while I'm talking about this tonight and just
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keep over and over repeating myself in a different way.
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Godly people, but also there's ungodly people that can influence
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us if we're not careful.
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We got to be careful, and the Bible tells us to be careful.
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There's certain kind of people.
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I wish it wasn't true, but it's true.
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It's a fact of life.
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It's in the Bible.
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We have to be careful because we can get influenced from people
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that don't really have all their facts and they don't know the
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whole truth and no one's explained it.
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So you've got to remember that.
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You've got to recognize that.
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And if you mature and you grow, it doesn't mean you go around
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saying, don't contaminate me.
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The Bible doesn't tell us that.
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That's just proud arrogance.
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And that's like the Pharisees were.
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Amen, God.
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I pray all the time, God help me to never fall into the rut of
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being a Pharisee.
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But the Bible makes it clear, and it's going to be important as
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how your life turns out or is turning out.
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There's some people you can shake hands with and be nice to,
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but there's some people that want to influence you in a wrong
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way.
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You say, oh, Brother Weatherby, I didn't come to hear
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that.
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Well, neither did I. I wanted to preach another sermon.
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I'm just saying we have to grow up.
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Doesn't mean we have to be mean to people.
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It doesn't mean that we have to mistreat anybody.
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Somebody say amen, we know it.
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I'm not saying that.
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Some of you think I'm saying that and others may be listening
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on.
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On the live stream was.
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I can't believe we just said that.
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I didn't say what you thought.
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I said we can be kind and loving and careful and nice and sweet.
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But you have to understand that not all people that claim to
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be Christians and in any church, not any church, not just
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this church, but not everybody's on the same page and
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never will be.
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That's why you have to be called to be a pastor, because that
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comes with the job.
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Everybody wouldn't be a pastor if all you had a church full of nice
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people.
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And if you had a church full of have a nice preacher in the pulpit,
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probably helped too.
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The church, the influence of the church.
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The influence of the Heritage Baptist Church.
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You know, I've been here, Shelly, and I've been here five months
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you have influenced us in a positive way.
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We've learned some things.
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You've influenced us.
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We're almost through here, and it's not.
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We're not just going to walk off in good riddance.
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I mean, it's not going to be easy.
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Our heart will be broken.
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We've gotten attached because we are to influence each other.
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You've influenced parents, influence, grandparents, influence,
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friends influence.
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How many times have you heard the sad story of young people?
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And not just young people, sometimes even adults.
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What happened to them?
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Well, they got mixed up with the wrong friends.
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You ever heard that?
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I know as parents, we can't choose the friends of our kids.
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I understand that.
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But we can coach them and we can pray for them, and we can encourage
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them in the right direction and do the best we can, because friends
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can have powerful influence.
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What about boyfriends and girlfriends that can have a lot of
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influence?
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Mm.
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Yeah.
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Guys feels like, man, I'm ready to live for God.
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He gets involved with a young lady, young girl, that doesn't want
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to live for God, and she could have a very negative influence and
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vice versa.
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A lot of young girls say, I want to marry a preacher one day,
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or I want to be a missionary, or I want to teach Sunday school,
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or I want to sing in the choir.
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And one of these days, I'm going to be the best church member
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we got.
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And they fall in love with the young man that says, do we have to
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go to church every service?
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Do we have to do this?
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Do we have to do that?
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What's wrong with that?
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What's wrong with this?
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I don't have to drink six cans.
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I can just drink one can.
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That's not bad.
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And that's the way it goes.
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And I'm just being general here.
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Goes a lot further, doesn't it?
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After you're married, a husband can have a good influence
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or a bad influence on his wife.
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A wife, on her husband, a father and a mother.
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What about a youth director?
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Can a youth director have influence?
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Oh, yeah.
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That's why we need to pray that God give good youth directors.
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They're getting just about as hard to find as good preachers that
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believe the Bible and want to preach the book and stay by the stuff.
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It's getting hard to find them, too.
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But a good youth director that's sold out to God and not just
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gets up and tells a few funny stories, but he teaches the Bible
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and he lives the Bible and his wife lives the Bible, and they're
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an example of how young men and young women should Dress and
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carry themselves and talk and places they should go and they shouldn't.
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They're hard to find youth directors like that, but they have
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great influence.
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Anybody here ever been influenced at youth camp?
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My son was called to preach at youth camp.
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I've been to a lot of youth camps.
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I've talked to a lot of kids that my life totally changed at one
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particular year at youth camp.
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You ever been influenced by a sermon I don't like?
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I haven't liked all the sermons I've preached, not very many.
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But I'll tell you one thing.
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I've heard a few sermons that changed my life and my ministry.
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And I'm thinking one right now that I wasn't really crazy about.
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I never really cared for that particular man.
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He pastored at one time one of the largest churches in America.
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If I called his name, some of you would know him.
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But I can think of at least two or maybe three sermons that he
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preached that radically changed my life forever.
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Forever.
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And some of you may not remember the title, but I bet you
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could say there was one particular sermon or maybe two or
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three or maybe more.
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But there's this kind of stick out that influenced you.
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By the way, that wouldn't be a bad prayer on your prayer list.
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Lord, help my preacher, my pastor, to influence me today through
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the preaching of the Word.
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Has anybody been influenced, good or bad, through going to the
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wrong college?
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Come on, we have to admit it.
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I can't even recommend a preacher to go to the college, the
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Bible college that I went to.
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I would never recommend a preacher, young boy to go to where
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I went to school.
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And at that time was one of the greatest Bible schools, seminaries
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in the whole country.
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And at the time I went to that school, seven out of the 10 largest
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churches in America were pastored by graduates from that seminary.
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I know we don't grade churches by numbers all that, but I'm just
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talking about it had a lot of influence.
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Would you remember to try to remember to pray for the Norris Bible
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Baptist Seminary?
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That'll have influence.
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Because a lot of kids today say, what do I want to go there for?
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I want to go where I can play football and basketball and find
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girls and guys and do this and do that and be in the dorm and have
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parties.
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It's hard to get kids to consider a seminary, to study the
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Bible five or six hours a day.
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It influenced my life and I like, even though the young people
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are not in this building tonight.
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But I've always tried, probably should have tried harder
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to get Young people to, why don't you just go one time, just
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one year, just get a good basic Bible foundation.
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Whether you're going to be a preacher or called to do anything,
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just go one year.
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And a lot of kids growing up on my ministry, not all of them,
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but a lot of them did that and they decided to go a second year
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and then a third year and then a fourth year.
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And some of them are out doing things for God.
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But I think still whether a person actually called in the ministry
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just to get that other bell.
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I mean, what would be wrong with getting a good foundation of
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the Bible?
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I already mentioned the television has such an influence.
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You don't hear this much anymore preaching these days, but
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what about pornography?
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Has that had any kind of influence on people?
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Ladies and gentlemen, there is an addiction in our country.
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I haven't gotten to drugs yet.
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I'm talking about a major serious.
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They don't have to buy magazines anymore.
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Just pull out the cell phone.
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See anything you want to see, as long as you want to see it, Say,
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well, my kids wouldn't do that.
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Well, okay.
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Or I take their phone away.
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Their friend's got phones.
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What about the influence of music?
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I don't have time to go at all these.
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But the kind of music we listen to breaks down inhibitions
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and breaks down things that we know better than that.
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But we like the tune or we like the beat or we like the sound.
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I'm not against new songs and new music in the church.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
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But they need to make sure that they're right doctrinally and
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they glorify Jesus Christ and they speak to the heart and it's
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not a show and it's not an entertainment.
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Concert, drugs, alcohol, books.
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You remember in Acts, chapter 4, verse 13, Peter had preached and
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they were kind of arrested and kind of problems and all that earlier
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in the Acts, and you remember this verse, they took knowledge of
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them that they had been with Jesus.
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Think about that.
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Hey, you've been hanging around Jesus.
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How do you know?
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He must have influence on you.
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You're talking like him.
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You remind me of Jesus.
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It was in Acts, chapter four, Influence.
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Who has the most.
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Who has had the most influence in your life so far?
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Could you think of one name?
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Probably say, well, mama, daddy, best friend, preacher, somebody
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who has had the most influence in your life so far?
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Do you think God could still have somebody coming up around you
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maybe soon that could have even more influence on you?
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And here's the other side of the coin.
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And I'm going to have to.
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I'm running out of time, as always do.
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What kind of influence are you having on other people?
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I think I've said enough about the influence on us.
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Are you having a good influence on your friends at church,
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in your Sunday school class and where you go to work and the
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people you work around all day?
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Our country is plummeting because of evil influences morally
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and religiously and educationally.
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Back.
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I kind of go back around before I finish up here, something
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I wrote down years ago about influence.
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It kind of goes back to the thing of children and how they're
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influenced.
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Because that really, it probably is the most impact because
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of the years, you know, from the time they're born to the time
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they leave.
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I mean, it's a daily influence.
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If a child lives with criticism, if he lives with it, he
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learns how to condemn other people.
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He's learned it from his parents.
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If a child lives with hostility, he learns violence.
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If a child lives with ridicule, in other words, he's always
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told that he's not good and he's bad and he's dumb and on and
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on and on.
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He just kind of lives with that all the time.
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He learns how to be shy and not volunteer and slip to the back
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of the row and not make anybody notice them because they've
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lived under ridicule for 17 or 18 years.
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If a child lives with encouragement, he learns some self
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confidence.
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If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
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If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
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If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
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If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns
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to love other people.
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And witnessing.
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I didn't spend a lot of time on this, but I should have.
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Witnessing has a lot to do with influence.
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When you try to witness to people, you're influencing them.
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Witnessing is the outflow and the overflow of the inflow.
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You can't give out what you don't have.
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That's why we don't witness as much as we should, because it's not
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flowing into us.
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Witnessing is the outflow and the overflow of the inflow influence.
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Are you being influenced now?
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Do you want to have more influence in your life?
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If you want to have any kind of influence, and I already said,
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whether you want to or not, you do.
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You're not a blank.
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You're a blot or a blessing, but you're not a blank.
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So if you don't say a word or do anything, you're still having
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influence.
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People Say, hmm, Christianity must not be that big a deal to them.
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But if you want to have influence, if you're going to have
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it, you need to want to have it and you need to be consistent.
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Amen.
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It's hard to have influence when you're on and off, on and off,
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on and off like a street light.
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And if you're going to have influence, you've got to spend yourself,
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not your money.
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All the time.
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People say, well, spend you think of money.
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Paul said, most gladly would I spend and be spent, that others may
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know Christ.
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It will cost you to have influence, the right kind of influence.
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Don't quit.
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I wish I had time.
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I was thinking this afternoon of the people in the Bible, the power
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of influence.
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I mean, there was 12 spies sent out to check out the promised
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land, right?
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They come back and take a vote.
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Ten said, no way.
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Two said, we can do it with God.
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Well, the majority ruled, and 1 1/2 to maybe close to 2 million
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people were influenced by 10 men.
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I can't comprehend leading a million and A half to 2 million people
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cross the desert.
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But 10 people convinced them, no way we're going to stay right
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here.
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And they did for 40 years.
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Lot's wife.
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You remember Lot's wife, don't you, Lot?
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Sodom and Gomorrah, all the stuff that was going on because of
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the immorality and homosexuality and the angels.
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God sent angels there and said, you better get out because
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I'm getting ready to burn this to a crisp.
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And Lot couldn't get his wife.
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He had to drag her out.
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Why?
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Because she had been influenced.
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She kept looking back, do we have to go?
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Do we have to go now?
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Can't we just go a little ways?
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One more night?
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She kept looking back, looking back, looking back, he lost his wife,
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he lost his son in laws.
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They mocked him, they laughed at him because he didn't have any
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influence.
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Lot lost his influence totally.
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In fact, he wanted to give his girls away to a bunch of homosexual
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people.
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Said, you can do whatever you want to with them.
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Just don't mess with these angels.
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Yeah, it's in the Bible.
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Barnabas, the great encourager.
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What an influencer.
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Paul wasn't really crazy about taking John Mark on as his assistant.
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Barnabas said, I'll take him.
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The word Barnabas means encourager.
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That was his name.
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That's what he was known as, the encourager.
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Barnabas took Mark and later on end of life, Paul's life, Paul
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said, oh, boy, I sure should have had more influence on Mark because
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He turned out great.
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And he wrote one of the gospels.
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Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, Paul and Silas.
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Boy, what an influence.
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Singing together in prison.
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Both of them singing?
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Not just one, both of them.
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What about Ruth and Naomi?
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In the book of Ruth, Naomi was backslidden.
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But even in a backslidden condition, she still had so much
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influence on Ruth that Ruth's sister said, I'm out here.
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Ruth said, not me.
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I'm going with her.
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And she wasn't even right with God.
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She had a better testimony than most people do as a backslider.
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I'm talking about influence tonight.
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And sometimes your influence may go on for generations.
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Did you know you hear this a lot?
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I'm sure here, the name J. Frank Norris.
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Most of you know who that is, but most people don't realize his
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influence.
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And he actually is the only real, true, honest to goodness father
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of fundamentalism.
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He was the first one to say, there's no way I'm going to continue
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to support the Southern Baptist colleges that don't believe
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in creation.
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And he had a list of other things.
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And J. Frank Norris said, well, I'm going to start my own school
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in Fort Worth, Texas, downtown.
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Whether you like him or not, he had influence, and he influenced
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me, and I never met him.
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He died the year I was born, 1952, not far from where I was raised
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in Jacksonville, Florida.
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He died in a youth camp.
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But he's influenced me because he influenced my pastor and my pastor's
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pastor and my pastor's pastor.
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You never know how far your influence may go, and you may not
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even live to see it.
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When you get to heaven, you may be called up for a couple of
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rewards you weren't expecting because you had influence on a preacher.
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Mm.
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A lot of preachers couldn't have made it to first base had they
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not had people who influenced them in a positive way.
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Let's stand with our heads bowed and eyes closed.
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Heavenly Father, we thank you.
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I want to thank you, Lord, for the people that you've used in my
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life to influence me.
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And, Lord, I'd still like to have some influence.
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If I have a few days, weeks, months, years, I don't know, I'd
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like to still have some influence.
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And I believe probably there's people here tonight.
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Said, me, too, preacher.
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Me too.
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I want to make a difference.
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I want to have influence on my children, even though they don't
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go to church or I don't know if they're saved.
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But, Lord, maybe I can still have influence.
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My grandchildren, my great grandchildren.
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I don't know where you are in your life but maybe God's touched
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your heart.
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Tonight I'm going to pray and we'll have verse invitation and we'll
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not spend a long time if no one comes.
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Heavenly Father, I pray you would help us to be touchable tonight.
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And maybe we could go to bed tonight thinking a little bit more
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about that word influence.
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And God, I pray that you would continue to influence our lives so
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that we can influence other lives lives.
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We pray it all in Jesus name.