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  1. Welcome to the podcast of Meadows

  2. Baptist Church of Walnut Cove, North

  3. Carolina. We're so glad you joined us

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  7. Pastor Charlie Branch with a word from

  8. God.

  9. >> Genesis chapter number 12. I want to

  10. begin reading in verse number nine.

  11. And we'll look through the end of the

  12. chapter. Was going to break this up. Uh

  13. but I just feel led to go ahead and get

  14. through with this chapter tonight

  15. concerning the life of Abraham.

  16. And uh following our series tonight, if

  17. you're titling the message, we're going

  18. to title this not a graceful title, but

  19. it's true nonetheless. We're going to

  20. title it Abraham's blunder. And you'll

  21. see that in the text tonight. Abraham

  22. makes a grave mistake in this text,

  23. right?

  24. >> And uh we're going to deal with that

  25. subject uh this evening. And uh you know

  26. what? I'm thankful uh we was I was

  27. talking with a dear sister out there in

  28. the forer there just a little while ago

  29. and I said, you know, every man that God

  30. used to do something great was seemingly

  31. full of failures. You know what that

  32. does? That encourages me

  33. >> because you know what? I'm full of

  34. failures. Right.

  35. >> And uh if you think that your past is

  36. the only failures you'll have, you're

  37. very wrong. You're right.

  38. >> And you've got failures yet ahead of

  39. you. And you say, "Preacher, how do you

  40. know that? I might not make it another

  41. day." Well, you understand we fail him

  42. every day.

  43. >> Amen.

  44. >> Amen. And uh we ought to do our best

  45. best we can not to, but you know we do.

  46. Amen. And uh I want to look at this text

  47. tonight. Verse number nine. The Bible

  48. says, "And Abram journeyed going on

  49. still toward the south, and there was a

  50. famine in the land. And Abram went down

  51. into Egypt to sojourn there, for the

  52. famine was grievious in the land. And it

  53. came to pass when he was come near to

  54. enter into Egypt, that he said unto

  55. Sarai his wife, Behold, now I know that

  56. thou art a fair woman to look upon.

  57. Therefore, it shall come to pass when

  58. the Egyptians shall see thee, that they

  59. shall say, This is his wife, and they

  60. will kill me, but they will save thee

  61. alive. Say, I pray thee, thou art my

  62. sister, that it might be well with me

  63. for thy sake. My soul shall live because

  64. of thee. And it came to pass that when

  65. Abram was come into Egypt, the Egyptians

  66. beheld the woman, she was very fair. The

  67. princes also of Pharaoh

  68. saw her and commended her before

  69. Pharaoh. And the woman was taken into

  70. Pharaoh's house. And he had treated

  71. Abram well for her sake. And he had

  72. sheep and oxen and he assasses and men

  73. servants and made servants and she

  74. assasses and camels. And the Lord

  75. plagued Pharaoh in his house with great

  76. plagues because of Sarah is Abram<unk>s

  77. wife. And Pharaoh called Abram and said,

  78. "What is this that thou hast done unto

  79. me? Why dst thou not tell me that she

  80. was thy wife? Why setst thou she is my

  81. sister? So I might have taken her to me

  82. to wife. Now therefore behold thy wife.

  83. Take her and go thy way. And Pharaoh

  84. commanded his men concerning him. And

  85. they sent him away and his wife and all

  86. that he had. Now Father, I ask you once

  87. more tonight that you would help us.

  88. God, we we know we can do not do this

  89. without you. And so Lord, I pray God

  90. that you would give us strength, give us

  91. wisdom tonight and hide the ignorance of

  92. our youth, Lord. And and God, I pray

  93. you'd give us uh the tongue of the learn

  94. tonight that we might be able to speak

  95. with boldness and clarity the word of

  96. God. I pray, God, that you would help

  97. every hearer tonight, wherever they may

  98. be. Lord, if they're in this building or

  99. by way of the internet, I pray, Father,

  100. Lord, that they would be touched and

  101. challenged by the message and more than

  102. anything that you would get glory uh

  103. from now on from this message. We love

  104. you. Thank you for loving us. We ask it

  105. in Jesus name. Amen. This text tonight

  106. deals with the subject of Abram

  107. journeying out of the land of Canaan.

  108. And this may not interest you tonight,

  109. but it's interesting to me that Abram

  110. here in this text when he enters Canaan,

  111. it's not but literally just four or five

  112. verses and he is exiting Canaan. And I

  113. think that that's a good reminder for

  114. all of us tonight because that picture

  115. of victorious living and Canaan, you

  116. know what? That can be exited just as

  117. fast as we enter into it. You can spend

  118. a very short time in victory and you'll

  119. find yourself back again in a place of

  120. despondency if you're not careful. Abram

  121. does not take very long. And he finds

  122. himself journeying outside the land of

  123. Canaan. And I notice in verse 9, the

  124. Bible says that Abram journeyed going on

  125. still toward the south. And Matthew

  126. Henry made a good point about this text.

  127. It is interesting to me that, you know,

  128. Abram didn't turn around and go back.

  129. And we could say that to his credit. He

  130. didn't try to go back to Haran. He

  131. didn't try to go back to the Caldes. But

  132. he he's journeying as if he's not really

  133. satisfied with where he is at. And I

  134. want to say this. I was talking to a

  135. brother uh this week, one of the dear

  136. brethren here in the church and we was

  137. talking about contentment and what that

  138. really means. You know, contentment,

  139. Bible says godliness with contentment is

  140. great gain. And Paul said this, he said,

  141. "Having therefore food and raignment,

  142. therewith let us be content." And uh

  143. when I think about contentment in your

  144. life and mine, what I find is is that

  145. very few of us are dwelling in a state

  146. of contentment. Because contentment does

  147. not have to do so much with possessions

  148. or pleasures, but it has to do with the

  149. position of your mind.

  150. >> There's people that have a lot of poss

  151. possessions in this life, but they're

  152. content. God has blessed them with

  153. riches. And then there's people who have

  154. nothing and they're not content because

  155. they're always trying to gain something

  156. else. And so contentment is the state of

  157. the mind. And it appears in this text is

  158. maybe that Abram's not content with

  159. where he's at in the text or maybe he's

  160. just trying to move on. But I I want you

  161. to notice something here. Something I

  162. really feel like the Lord pointed out to

  163. me by way of introduction. Then we'll

  164. give you three points and be done. The

  165. Bible tells us as he's going on in verse

  166. number nine, verse number 10, there is a

  167. famine that arises. Now the famine, you

  168. know, of course that is a illustration

  169. here. There's a lot of first in this

  170. text. This famine really appears the

  171. first time here in the text that word is

  172. used and has to do with the darth that

  173. was in the land of Canaan. And uh you

  174. know mainly probably dealing with uh the

  175. oppression of the Canaanite people and

  176. the testing of Abram's faith to remain

  177. in this land. And the Bible says that

  178. Abram went down into Egypt to sojger

  179. there. So Abram didn't go to Egypt to

  180. stay there but he went there just to

  181. sojger. That word sojourerm simply means

  182. just to pass through for a time. And the

  183. Bible says that the famine was grievous

  184. in the land. Now, this is what I wanted

  185. to get to right here for by way of

  186. introduction, then we'll give you the

  187. points and be done. The Bible says in

  188. verse 11, and it came to pass when he

  189. was, notice that phrase, come near to

  190. enter into Egypt. Now that come near

  191. there, it almost imp uh I guess it

  192. implicates the thought that Abram was in

  193. sight distance of Egypt. He was looking

  194. down through there in his journey out of

  195. the land of Canaan and to come near he

  196. is getting in the vicinity where he can

  197. begin to see the landscape. And the

  198. Bible says when he was come near to

  199. Egypt that he said unto Sarah his wife.

  200. So something Abram sees in this text

  201. because let me ask you this. Had Abram

  202. ever been to Egypt?

  203. Not that we know of, not from what

  204. scripture tells us. And so, what is it

  205. that in this text caught Abram's

  206. attention? Well, I think when he saw the

  207. landscape, I think he saw much people.

  208. Egypt is defined by a great population

  209. all throughout scripture. And so, when I

  210. look at that in this text, the Bible

  211. says when he was come near into Egypt,

  212. something prompted Abraham to do what he

  213. did in this text. And I want you to

  214. notice first of all, and I'll elaborate

  215. more on that in just a minute. I want

  216. you to notice first of all in the

  217. message tonight, number one, the lie of

  218. Abraham or if you're keeping with

  219. alliteration, it'll be the lie of the

  220. patriarch. Tonight, notice what the

  221. Bible says in verse number 11. He when

  222. he came near to enter into Egypt that he

  223. said unto Sarah's wife, "Behold, now I

  224. know that thou art a fair woman to look

  225. upon. Therefore, it shall come to pass

  226. when the Egyptians shall see thee, that

  227. they shall say, this is his wife, and

  228. they will kill me, but they will save

  229. thee alive. Verse 13, he gives her the

  230. instruction. He says, "Say, I pray thee,

  231. thou art my sister, that it may be well

  232. with me for thy sake. My soul shall live

  233. because of thee." All right. So, the

  234. first thing I want to put to rest

  235. tonight is in the moral physical realm,

  236. would we say in our flesh that Abram's

  237. lying? Not really. Here's why. Because

  238. what do we know about Sarah? Sarah was

  239. his sister. It's what the Bible tells

  240. us. She was his halfsister. All right?

  241. And so, is there technically a lie in

  242. this text? No. But here's the lie in the

  243. text. He's withholding the truth. You're

  244. >> right.

  245. >> Do you know what? You know what's just

  246. as bad as lying?

  247. >> Withholding truth.

  248. >> You're right.

  249. >> Amen. The Bible says to him that knoweth

  250. to do good and doeth it not, what does

  251. it say? human sin. And so what Abram

  252. does here in this text is he's going to

  253. withhold the truth. And so basically

  254. what this turns out to be is what it

  255. turns out to be a lie, doesn't it?

  256. Because to keep up this story, he has to

  257. lie. And that's what he does continually

  258. in this text. And so I want you to

  259. notice some things about this lie. What

  260. causes him to do this? Well, I would say

  261. number one, this lie is presumptuous by

  262. Abram in the text. Look what he says in

  263. verse 11. Behold now I know that thou

  264. art a fair woman to look upon. Therefore

  265. it shall come to pass when the Egyptians

  266. shall see thee, that they shall say,

  267. this is his wife, and they will kill me,

  268. but they will save thee alive. Now, this

  269. is where Abraham begins to go off the

  270. rails. He's planning out in his mind

  271. what's going to happen when they ain't

  272. nothing happened yet.

  273. >> You're right.

  274. >> All right. And you know what? That's the

  275. worst thing we can do.

  276. >> You're right.

  277. >> Amen. The worst thing you can do as a

  278. child of God or as a person in general

  279. is decide the outcome without ever

  280. seeing the outcome. You do not you

  281. cannot predict what's going to happen in

  282. the next event. That's why Solomon said

  283. in Proverbs 27 and verse one, he said,

  284. "Boast not thyself of tomorrow, for thou

  285. knowest not what a day may bring forth."

  286. And so he's presumptuous in the fact

  287. that he says, "All right, you're you're

  288. beautiful, Sarah." And so when we go

  289. into this land, they're going to look at

  290. you. They're automatically going to know

  291. that you're my wife. And because of

  292. that, they're going to kill me so that

  293. they can have you. Now remember, what

  294. did we say already? Has a Abram ever

  295. been to Egypt?

  296. What is it about Egypt that Abram saw?

  297. You see, why would Abram, let me ask

  298. this question, and I encourage you, put

  299. this in your margin. Why would we go to

  300. a place knowing danger awaits us there

  301. in so much that it would require

  302. perversion

  303. for us to obtain provision?

  304. >> Right?

  305. >> Did you think about what Abram's doing

  306. in this text? Basically, he's selling

  307. out his wife. He's saying, "All right,

  308. we're going to go into this city." And

  309. he knows the dangers on the rise. How

  310. does he know that? Well, you know what

  311. Egypt looked like? It looked like where

  312. he was raised at.

  313. It looked like earth the cowes. And when

  314. Abram got within sight distance, you

  315. know what he saw? I believe he saw the

  316. smoke rising up. Now, you know, we we

  317. could talk about a lot of things

  318. tonight, but when we when we studied

  319. earth, the cowes, we learned about the

  320. tower of babel. What did we discover?

  321. They were building that tower. They were

  322. making pavement. They were burning fires

  323. and making brick and all. It was a town

  324. of industry. And when Abram saw this

  325. city, something in his mind clicked. And

  326. he makes this statement in this text.

  327. Let me ask you something. Why would you

  328. as a child of God go to a place

  329. willfully knowing that danger awaits you

  330. there?

  331. >> Yeah. Amen.

  332. >> Furthermore, let me ask you this. Why

  333. would you allow your children

  334. >> to be a part of something that you know

  335. if just if everything don't just happen

  336. just perfectly right, they're not going

  337. to make it through it?

  338. >> You see, this is the way we've operated.

  339. We've decided, all right, we're going to

  340. go here and we're going to take this

  341. step, that step, and that step to try to

  342. prevent disaster when if we'd have just

  343. stayed where we're supposed to be.

  344. >> You're right.

  345. >> Amen.

  346. >> Danger would have not been impending on

  347. us.

  348. You say, "How does how do you know that

  349. Abram is presump?" Well, he reveals it

  350. in the text. He says, "I they're they're

  351. going to kill me because you're

  352. beautiful." And I thought about this.

  353. You know what? This lie of Abram is not

  354. only presumptuous but really it's

  355. prideful.

  356. You think about what is he counting

  357. upon? He is counting upon number one the

  358. beauty of Sarah his wife. Let me say

  359. this. Proverbs 31 says favor is

  360. deceitful and beauty is vain.

  361. >> You're right.

  362. >> Beauty is not all there is to life.

  363. >> My wife's a beautiful lady. But I'll

  364. tell you this. Just cuz you tell me

  365. she's not beautiful, that ain't going to

  366. change my mind about it.

  367. >> You're right.

  368. >> Because it's not objective to me.

  369. >> You know what Abram's problem was? his

  370. wife was an object instead of his

  371. spouse.

  372. >> You're right. Come on. Amen.

  373. >> And how do you say, "Preacher, how do

  374. you know that?" Well, his pride is seen.

  375. Notice what else is said in the verse.

  376. Verse 13. Say, "I pray thee, thou art my

  377. sister, that it may be well with me."

  378. Notice that. What is the central point

  379. of pride? It's self, fainting. Look what

  380. he says. That it may be well with me for

  381. thy sake, and my soul shall live because

  382. of thee. So, not only is his lie

  383. presumptuous and his lie prideful, but

  384. his lie is for his own protection.

  385. >> You're right.

  386. >> John Phillips said this or John Butler

  387. said this. This was his three-point

  388. outline on this text. I thought it was

  389. so good. I wasn't going to use it and

  390. make it my own, but I want to give you

  391. this. All right. He says in the text

  392. that Abram, number one, he begins with

  393. deceit. He says in verse 13, he says,

  394. "All right, Sarah, you need to say, say,

  395. I pray thee, thou art my sister." All

  396. right. What that is is not telling a

  397. lie, but it's not telling the whole

  398. truth. All right? She was his sister.

  399. But you know what? One writer said this.

  400. He said, "Just because he was she was uh

  401. she was his half sister didn't mean that

  402. she was his half wife." Amen.

  403. >> She was his whole wife. Amen. There's a

  404. lot we could say about that, but let's

  405. just move on. All right? And I just got

  406. some crazy looks on that. But anyway,

  407. she was his wife. Okay? And so her

  408. deceit deceit begins with what she said.

  409. But then there's not only deceit, but

  410. there is disloyalty. Look what the Bible

  411. says. Say, I pray pray pray thee, thou

  412. art, my sister, that it may be well with

  413. me.

  414. Abram's not concerned about Sarah.

  415. You're

  416. >> right.

  417. >> Not once in this text has it entered his

  418. mind that his wife could possibly be in

  419. danger. You're

  420. >> right.

  421. >> That she could possibly be in danger of

  422. being defiled.

  423. Notice this. Not only he said deceit,

  424. then disloyalty, but then there's

  425. disinterest as well. Notice the last

  426. part. And my soul shall live because of

  427. thee. So he's not loyal to his marriage,

  428. but he's also not even showing an

  429. interest in what's going on with her.

  430. You're

  431. >> right.

  432. >> And Sarah, as the submissive wife in the

  433. text, she goes on and does what he says.

  434. Let me say this. You know, I some

  435. writers said, "Well, why did Sarah not

  436. speak up?" Well, we're reminded in this

  437. text that Abram has stepped out

  438. following God on his own. Abram has

  439. nothing to go off of other than what God

  440. told him when he was in Haran and then

  441. what God told him again when he was in

  442. Canaan land. You know what he's doing

  443. now? He's operating outside the voice of

  444. God.

  445. >> You're right.

  446. >> And so as far as Sarah knows, this is

  447. why your responsibility is important,

  448. men.

  449. >> As far as Sarah knows, Abram is still

  450. following what God said.

  451. >> You're right.

  452. >> Because Abram spoke to God himself.

  453. I know that's not a popular item. You

  454. say, "Preacher, well, I have the Holy

  455. Spirit, too." And you do. That's a

  456. different day. Okay? You got to

  457. understand the difference. You you you

  458. get what I'm saying tonight. But he

  459. points out this disinterest. Now, I want

  460. to remind you this. Obviously, there was

  461. a a past warning or a past witness of a

  462. of a place like Egypt. For Abram,

  463. evidently, it reminded him of the cowies

  464. or of Haran. He saw something and it

  465. made him decide in his mind what they

  466. were going into. And so instead of

  467. turning around and going back, he

  468. decides to lie. You know what? I'm

  469. seeing that a lot.

  470. >> You're right.

  471. >> We are more desirous to do damage

  472. control with a lie

  473. than we are to tell the truth. You're

  474. >> right.

  475. >> And have to go back from where we came.

  476. Somebody put it this way. I think he

  477. said it like this. Said a half a half a

  478. pound of cure is simply worth a half an

  479. ounce of pure prevention. You ever heard

  480. that statement before? That's the way a

  481. lot of people operate. They'd rather

  482. take a long road around to try to get

  483. somewhere. Amen. Instead of just going

  484. the way they were supposed to go,

  485. >> right?

  486. It's quiet tonight.

  487. >> Notice this verse 14. And it came to

  488. pass that when Abram was coming to

  489. Egypt, the Egyptians beheld the woman

  490. that she was very fair. Notice verse 15.

  491. The princes also of Pharaoh saw her and

  492. commended her before Pharaoh. And the

  493. woman was taken into Pharaoh's house and

  494. he entreated Abram well for her sake. So

  495. we've seen first of all the lie of the

  496. patriarch. And and I believe in this

  497. text Abram stays unscathed. Now we could

  498. make the argument based on verse 16 that

  499. Abram has got a got his own agenda in

  500. his mind. I don't believe that. You can

  501. make that argument. You know you could

  502. say that maybe Abram's desirous to get

  503. gain. He went to Egypt. He got all that

  504. substance in Haran that is mentioned in

  505. verse number five. They got their

  506. substance and their servants. And so

  507. when he comes to Egypt, we're going to

  508. learn in just a minute that he gets more

  509. substance and more servants. And in

  510. chapter 13 says that he was very rich in

  511. gold and silver and and cattle. And so

  512. Abram obviously is increasing in this

  513. text. But I believe Abram's sin stopped

  514. with a lie. I think that he thought,

  515. well, we'll just get through here and

  516. we'll go on to live another day. But you

  517. understand that your sin will often

  518. create sin in lives of others that is

  519. much worse than your sin.

  520. >> You're right.

  521. >> Did you hear what I said?

  522. >> Notice the text. We see not only the lie

  523. of the patriarch, but notice the lust of

  524. Pharaoh. Bible says in verse 14 that

  525. when it came to pass when Abram was

  526. coming to Egypt, the Egyptians beheld

  527. the woman that she was very fair. So now

  528. what you see is a a series of events. So

  529. there's the people that see Sarah here

  530. in the text. They see she's beautiful.

  531. And then it goes from the people in

  532. verse 14 to the princes in verse 15. The

  533. princes also of Pharaoh saw her and

  534. commended her before Pharaoh and the

  535. woman was taken into Pharaoh's house.

  536. So, so the PR it went from the people of

  537. the city to the princes of the land. And

  538. then the princes went and corresponded

  539. with Pharaoh. And in the matter of

  540. probably just a few days, Sarah ends up

  541. in the king's house,

  542. >> right,

  543. >> in Egypt.

  544. >> You know what? Sin escalates quickly.

  545. You'll make you you you'll take two,

  546. three steps. You know what you're going

  547. to find yourself? You're going to go

  548. right from the bottom straight to the

  549. top.

  550. >> You're right.

  551. >> And you know what? I would rather I

  552. would rather be at the bottom of God's

  553. ladder than at the top of the world's

  554. ladder any day.

  555. >> You're right.

  556. >> You say, "Preacher, that sounds bad."

  557. Well, David said, "I'd rather be a

  558. doorkeeper."

  559. >> Amen. That's what he said. He said, "I'd

  560. rather be a doorkeeper in the house of

  561. my God than to dwell in the tents of

  562. wickedness." So, there's your scripture

  563. for that. Notice this. There's the

  564. people. There's the princes. Notice the

  565. perversion. The woman was taken where?

  566. Into Pharaoh's house.

  567. You say, "Preacher, what does that

  568. mean?" Well, if nothing else, they are

  569. looking at Sarah. I I'm not implying

  570. anything, but I'm telling you this. They

  571. are beholding her. And what has got her

  572. to this place? It It might be her

  573. natural beauty, but I'll tell you this.

  574. The reason she's there is because

  575. they're lusting over her.

  576. >> You're right.

  577. She may never have undressed herself

  578. before them, but you know what? Men

  579. don't ha they don't have to. It don't

  580. don't have to happen.

  581. >> That's right.

  582. >> All right. There's perverts all over

  583. this world today. If you send your

  584. daughters out in this world, not dressed

  585. like they ought to be, and even if they

  586. are dressed like they ought to be, you

  587. still got to protect them.

  588. >> You're right.

  589. >> Amen.

  590. >> And so here in the text, we see their

  591. the perversion. And you say, "How does

  592. it how do you see that?" Well, notice

  593. verse 16. And he entreated Abram well

  594. for her sake. It's almost like a

  595. business transaction,

  596. >> right?

  597. >> You remember that word I used a little

  598. little while ago that Sarah become an

  599. object to him instead of his spouse.

  600. >> Sir, if your wife is nothing more than

  601. an object to you, you know what she'll

  602. be to everybody else? An object.

  603. >> You're right.

  604. >> Same way goes for you, wife.

  605. >> You're right.

  606. Because Abram objectified her, Pharaoh

  607. and all the men of Egypt have

  608. objectified her. And out of that

  609. perversion, they have made a business

  610. transaction. Look what the Bible says.

  611. And he entreated Abram well for his

  612. sake. And he had sheep and oxen and he

  613. assasses and men service and maid

  614. service and she assasses and camels. You

  615. say, "Preacher, why do you title this

  616. message the blunder of Abraham?" Do you

  617. realize that every sin of Abram

  618. throughout the rest of his life is

  619. traced back to this event?

  620. You say, "How is that?" Well, Lot

  621. sinned,

  622. >> pitching his tent toward Sodom. You know

  623. why? Why he did that? Because it looked

  624. like Egypt. And so Lot ended up s in

  625. Sodom because Abram took Lot into Egypt.

  626. >> Furthermore, you say, "Preacher, what

  627. about what about his servant Hagar?" We

  628. don't know this for a fact, but the

  629. Bible says in verse 16, he had sheep,

  630. oxen, he asked as Ben servants, and

  631. what? made servants

  632. and she assasses and camels. So it's

  633. very likely that Hagar the Egyptian

  634. came from this event.

  635. Every mistake that Abram dealt with,

  636. came from this blunder.

  637. And you know what it came from? It came

  638. from a moment when he allowed himself,

  639. maybe in fear, maybe in pride,

  640. to turn his wife over to the Egyptians.

  641. You say, "Preacher, what does that look

  642. like?" Well, I don't want you to fall

  643. out with me right here, okay? Because

  644. it's it's not popular in this day and

  645. time. But in the influencer world we

  646. live in, there is men, particularly my

  647. generation, that are making hundreds of

  648. thousands, if not millions of dollars on

  649. the internet off of their wives being

  650. influencers.

  651. >> You're right.

  652. >> And it ain't because women are looking

  653. at them either.

  654. >> You're right.

  655. >> Right.

  656. >> It's because men, old all the way to

  657. young, some man's got his wife up on

  658. there and he's too sorry to go work a

  659. job.

  660. So they're making they're making their

  661. living and they're living big.

  662. >> Amen.

  663. >> Off what they're getting off the

  664. internet. You say, "Preacher, I don't

  665. believe that." You just go look her up,

  666. friend. There's people making all kinds

  667. of money off of that. Men sitting at

  668. home doing nothing. You say, "Preacher,

  669. what do you mean?" Abram in this text is

  670. is benefiting off of selling his wife

  671. out.

  672. >> You're right.

  673. >> Himself.

  674. I I knew it wasn't going to be a shout,

  675. but I'm I'm trying to get you get you to

  676. see this is where we're living at.

  677. >> You're right. Right.

  678. >> And and and and young men and and even

  679. some older men with their their wives,

  680. they're they're all over the internet

  681. and and and and the men don't really

  682. care about it because they're like,

  683. "Well, it it pays the bills."

  684. And you say, "Preacher, but even the

  685. ones that are undressing themselves, no,

  686. it's they're making themselves an

  687. object."

  688. >> You're right. I'm talking about

  689. Christian women that have set out to be

  690. influencers. They've made themselves an

  691. object to this world. Do you realize

  692. your first responsibility as a wife is

  693. to your husband?

  694. >> You're right.

  695. >> You're objectifying yourself to the

  696. world.

  697. Notice this. We see the perversion. We

  698. see the possessions in verse number 16.

  699. And the lust of Pharaoh, see, it wasn't

  700. just limited to him. You say, "Preacher,

  701. how do you know it was lust?" Well,

  702. notice the Lord's plague in verse 17. If

  703. it was just an innocent

  704. acknowledgment of her beauty, would God

  705. have plagued them?

  706. >> God's never unjust.

  707. >> You're right.

  708. >> All right. Notice what the Bible said in

  709. verse 17. And the Lord plagued Pharaoh

  710. and his house with great plagues because

  711. of Sarah, Abram's wife. Now, now, don't

  712. miss this. All right. This is what

  713. really links it all together. There's a

  714. statement in verse number 17 that points

  715. out to us the reason that this is lust.

  716. The Bible says the Lord plagued Pharaoh

  717. and his house.

  718. You see, Pharaoh had had brought Sarah

  719. unto him himself in the text. We know

  720. the Bible says it was because of her

  721. beauty. That's by inspiration of what

  722. the scripture itself says. But Pharaoh

  723. wasn't the only one beholding her. You

  724. say, "Preacher, how how how do you know

  725. that principle carries?" Well, I can

  726. take you to the book of Esther.

  727. We can see it pretty much through the

  728. entirety of that. You understand why

  729. that king Howus put away Vashi. In the

  730. book of Esther, he put her away because

  731. she wouldn't stand and unclo herself

  732. before all those wicked, vile men. And

  733. because she had some moral decency to

  734. her, a house put her away.

  735. >> You're right.

  736. >> And so, you know what they were doing?

  737. They were trying to find him another

  738. queen. And then Esther gets put into

  739. that. Of all the women that were brought

  740. into there, we could talk about it in

  741. the godly sector of the think about

  742. Solomon. He had 700 wives and 300

  743. concubines and yet still was not

  744. satisfied.

  745. >> You're right.

  746. >> You say, "Preacher, well that's Old

  747. Testament." Well, you remember in the

  748. New Testament,

  749. the Bible tells us about many different

  750. women in the New Testament. You remember

  751. them Pharisees? They brought that woman

  752. to Jesus who had been taken in adultery.

  753. >> Right?

  754. >> And more than likely, according to the

  755. text, the woman taken in adultery was

  756. probably in the act with one of the men

  757. that were present there.

  758. >> You're right.

  759. >> I'm saying the the reason this happens

  760. is because women are objectified. And

  761. this is what I I I'm not for of the

  762. feminist movement of this country

  763. because they're promoting women being

  764. objectified.

  765. >> You're right.

  766. >> But here's what I am for. I am for women

  767. embracing their femininity.

  768. >> You're right.

  769. >> You are a woman and God made you to be

  770. and you love that.

  771. >> You're right.

  772. >> I wish I could shout to every young girl

  773. in this world that she does not have to

  774. have the likes. She does not have to

  775. have the loves, the favorites, the

  776. follows of this world TO BE DEEMED

  777. VALUABLE IN THE EYES OF AN ALMIGHTY GOD.

  778. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT ANYBODY, A MAN,

  779. WOMAN, BOY OR GIRL SAYS ABOUT YOU. YOU

  780. ARE LOVED IN THE EYES OF GOD. AND DO NOT

  781. DO NOT LET THIS WORLD OBJECTIFY YOUR

  782. LIFE.

  783. >> YES, SIR.

  784. >> Abram was a man of God and trying to

  785. protect himself. HE ALLOWED HIMSELF TO

  786. OBJECTIFY HER.

  787. >> You're right.

  788. >> You say, "Preacher, how will I know

  789. that?" When it comes to that point,

  790. you'll know.

  791. >> Amen. Say, "Preacher, how how do I know

  792. when you are being sold out cheaply?"

  793. Young ladies are doing it all over this

  794. country every day. And young, not just

  795. young, but all ladies,

  796. >> you're right.

  797. >> Selling themselves out cheaply

  798. for things like this. You say,

  799. "Preacher,

  800. those feminist movements, they're

  801. started for what you're talking about."

  802. Do you realize at the background of all

  803. of those movements,

  804. >> there's a man that's cashing in?

  805. >> You're right.

  806. >> Oh, man. I could I could preach on this,

  807. man. I'm telling you.

  808. >> I'm telling you, you're duped. If you

  809. think if you think that that's the

  810. that's that's what's going to get you

  811. liberation.

  812. >> Go ahead.

  813. >> That's what's going to get you bondage.

  814. >> You're right.

  815. >> Them women that'll talk to them

  816. seminars. I don't know why I'm on this,

  817. but I'm just going to hammer it while

  818. I'm here. them women that'll talk to you

  819. in them seminars and tell you you need

  820. to go get a job cuz you can do anything

  821. a man can do. They're stupid.

  822. >> You're right.

  823. >> You know the reason why they're up there

  824. talking is because they can't hold down

  825. a job somewhere.

  826. >> You're right.

  827. >> And they've just got enough people duped

  828. that'll listen to them.

  829. >> Amen.

  830. >> Is anybody in the building?

  831. And they'll take you away. You say,

  832. "Preacher, what about the young men?"

  833. And it's it's true for them in this day

  834. and time. I'm thankful in Stokes County

  835. it ain't so much of a problem. Amen.

  836. Somebody say amen right there.

  837. >> You raised around here, you going to

  838. have to learn how to hunt or fish

  839. something.

  840. >> Amen.

  841. >> Let me let me say this to you though.

  842. Social media's made this a lot more

  843. mainstream. The reason why it all be

  844. preached more is because it's a lot more

  845. mainstream than it used to be. Right. We

  846. used to be the only influence just like

  847. you had like this that you had was on a

  848. TV

  849. >> or before that in a magazine but now

  850. it's all of us.

  851. It's there now. Now the plague back to

  852. that. All right. What does the plague

  853. emphasize? Well, it emphasizes the men.

  854. Verse verse number 17. The Lord plagued

  855. Pharaoh. Not just Pharaoh but his house.

  856. That's his his his king. That's that's

  857. his kingdom. You know, I thought about

  858. this. This is something else interesting

  859. to me about this text. The Lord plagued

  860. Pharaoh and his house with great plagues

  861. because of Sarah Abram's wife. Now,

  862. plagues can be a lot of different

  863. things. It can be a disease. It can be a

  864. mark. You know, the plagues in Pharaoh's

  865. day some years down the road when Moses

  866. would lead God's children out and there

  867. would be those 10 plagues, there was a

  868. lot of different things. But these

  869. plagues were physical plagues. These are

  870. personal plagues. These are plagues that

  871. were on the body.

  872. >> Amen.

  873. >> Notice the text.

  874. They plagued Pharaoh's Pharaoh and his

  875. house with great plagues because of

  876. Sarah Abram's wife. You say, "Preacher,

  877. what what what are you trying to

  878. emphasize?" Well, notice verse 18. And

  879. Pharaoh called Abram and said, "What is

  880. this that thou has done unto me? Why

  881. does not thou not why does thou not tell

  882. me that she was thy wife?" So, there's

  883. the men that are representing this

  884. plague. It's his house. But then there's

  885. the message of this plague. You know

  886. what this plague told them? That Sarah

  887. belonged to somebody.

  888. >> You're right.

  889. >> How did they find that out?

  890. I'd say the plague probably had

  891. something to do with it. Maybe where it

  892. was, what it was. You say, "Preacher,

  893. that's gruesome." No, I'm being real

  894. with you.

  895. >> You're right.

  896. >> God attention.

  897. >> Yeah.

  898. >> And you know what? He didn't even have

  899. to say a word.

  900. >> You're right.

  901. the epidemic of STDs in this country.

  902. >> Yep.

  903. >> If that don't wake you up, I don't know

  904. what will.

  905. >> You're right.

  906. >> I'm not saying that's what is in this

  907. text, but I'm saying it's a God-scent

  908. plague because of their lust.

  909. >> You're right.

  910. >> And when they got this plague, they knew

  911. automatically. They traced it back to

  912. the time. They traced it back to the

  913. period. Evidently, it started when Sarah

  914. showed up.

  915. >> You're right.

  916. Notice this. Not only the men, the

  917. message of this plague, but notice the

  918. miracle out of this plague. Verse number

  919. 19. Why sets thou, she is my sister, so

  920. I might have taken her to me to wife.

  921. Now therefore, behold, thy wife, take

  922. her and go thy way. And Pharaoh

  923. commanded the men concerning him, and

  924. they sent him away and his wife and all

  925. that he had. Now, the miracle in this

  926. text is this, that Abram made it out

  927. here alive.

  928. >> You're right.

  929. >> You know what should have happened? He

  930. should have killed both of them.

  931. >> You're right. should have killed Sarah

  932. and Abram both because you know what he

  933. did? He brought a curse on. But aren't

  934. you thankful God was watching over him.

  935. >> Amen.

  936. >> And God when he brought that plague

  937. instead of turning it to pride, he

  938. brought it to humility and they said,

  939. "Y'all get out of here." You're

  940. >> right.

  941. >> Amen. Let me say this. God will protect

  942. you. Ladies, listen to me. The Lord will

  943. protect you.

  944. You don't have to hear that from me.

  945. This little woman up here's told you

  946. that. Your mamas have told you that

  947. over and over again. God will protect

  948. you. And let me say this.

  949. This text reveals to us that when it

  950. requires perversion to obtain provision,

  951. you are not in the will of God.

  952. >> You're right.

  953. >> When Abram

  954. got out of God's will, he had to sell

  955. out something in his family so he could

  956. eat.

  957. >> You're right. And so I ask you again,

  958. why? Why wouldn't it be better to just

  959. stay and trust

  960. than it would be to walk out and have to

  961. lie and have to cheat? You say,

  962. "Preacher, but Abram didn't lust." And

  963. and and you know, if you say that he

  964. did, I'm not going to argue with you

  965. because he did get all kinds of things

  966. in this text out of this transaction.

  967. But I'll say this, regardless of the

  968. fact Abram's sin was not as bad as

  969. Pharaoh's and his house was. But who was

  970. that sin committed against?

  971. >> Right?

  972. >> It's committed against his wife.

  973. And so when you fail to lead, Daddy,

  974. listen to me. When you fail to lead,

  975. your daughter, your wife is going to

  976. reap the consequences of it. You're

  977. >> right.

  978. When you fail to step up and take the

  979. position that God has called you to

  980. take. When you fail to be obedient to

  981. what God has told you to do, you may

  982. suffer some. Abram really didn't suffer

  983. any in this text other than Sarai just

  984. being gone from his presence for a few

  985. days.

  986. >> You're right.

  987. >> But you know who suffered? Sarah lost

  988. her dignity.

  989. >> You're right.

  990. >> You said, "Preacher, well, the Bible

  991. doesn't say she unclothed herself." You

  992. understand? It don't matter. It does not

  993. matter if you stand if somebody is

  994. lusting over you.

  995. You can you could be in a trash bag, not

  996. even visible, and if they're looking at

  997. you, that is the most nasty,

  998. icky, disgusting, defiling feeling there

  999. is. You're

  1000. >> right.

  1001. >> And you don't need to be in the presence

  1002. of those kind of people,

  1003. >> right?

  1004. >> You know who's going to control that?

  1005. Daddy.

  1006. >> Amen.

  1007. >> You know who's going to make the

  1008. decision on that? Daddy is. You say,

  1009. "Preacher, what if dad's not in the

  1010. picture?" Well, that means mom has to.

  1011. You're

  1012. >> right.

  1013. >> And let me say this, Sarah probably

  1014. Sarah, this mistake was made because she

  1015. was following her husband. And I'll say

  1016. this, Sarah probably would have stayed

  1017. in Canaan if Abram wouldn't been in the

  1018. picture. But let's also remember this.

  1019. Sarah would have never made it to

  1020. Canaan.

  1021. >> You're right.

  1022. >> Had Abram not been in the picture.

  1023. >> So take it for what it's worth tonight.

  1024. Here's the here's the emphasis I want

  1025. you to get. All right. Every mistake

  1026. that appears in Abram's life is because

  1027. of this one single event. Every trial

  1028. that he goes through, every issue aside

  1029. uh the only thing that he went through

  1030. out of this that was by the will of God

  1031. was when he had to take Isaac his son up

  1032. on Mount Mariah and offer him. And that

  1033. was by God's will. But everything else

  1034. that Abram went through, what he went

  1035. through with with Ishmael, what he went

  1036. through with Hagar, what he went through

  1037. with with Lot in this text and Lot's

  1038. children came out of this event,

  1039. >> right?

  1040. >> And it's still

  1041. they're still fighting.

  1042. Ishmael's children and and Isaac or

  1043. Isaac's children are still fighting.

  1044. >> You're right. Right. You don't know the

  1045. effects.

  1046. You don't know how far the effects of

  1047. your sin will go.

  1048. >> You're right.

  1049. >> And it may just be a lie. Let me say

  1050. this. Don't lie.

  1051. >> Say, "Preacher, I'm trying to protect

  1052. somebody." Well, Abram thought he was.

  1053. >> Come on.

  1054. >> You cannot afford to lie

  1055. in this day and time.

  1056. >> You're right.

  1057. >> You say, "Preacher, what are you talking

  1058. about?" I'm saying, friend, a lie in

  1059. this day and time, a lie before the days

  1060. of technology would travel around the

  1061. world before the truth gets its boots

  1062. on.

  1063. >> You're right.

  1064. >> But in this day and time,

  1065. >> a lie is light speed,

  1066. >> right?

  1067. >> Do you realize before we get out of

  1068. these doors tonight, if a lie is told,

  1069. it can go over 500 people in 30 seconds?

  1070. >> Oh,

  1071. >> by just a series of phone calls.

  1072. And here's what I'm telling you. All

  1073. right. When it comes to the truth, it's

  1074. got a higher price now than it's ever

  1075. had.

  1076. >> You're right.

  1077. >> Tell the truth. Be honest with people.

  1078. >> Let me say this, Dad. Watch your family.

  1079. I I think feel like I've told every man

  1080. of the church that this this summer.

  1081. I've preached messages about sins of

  1082. summertime, things of that nature here

  1083. at the church before. But I feel like I

  1084. told every man, if I haven't told you

  1085. specifically, I'm telling you right now,

  1086. when you go on vacation this summer,

  1087. watch your wife and your children.

  1088. You're right.

  1089. >> I'm not telling you that because they

  1090. might do something. I'm just saying the

  1091. devil might.

  1092. >> You're right.

  1093. >> Right.

  1094. >> And I'm serious as I can be about that.

  1095. Keep your eyes open.

  1096. >> Amen.

  1097. >> Mama, keep your eyes open, too.

  1098. >> Amen.

  1099. I don't like preaching like this, but if

  1100. we're going to have services like we had

  1101. Sunday, and we've had real regular here

  1102. of late. Can I get a witness? They've

  1103. been regular.

  1104. >> Don't you thank God for that?

  1105. >> Amen.

  1106. >> I wouldn't trade nothing for it. It's

  1107. this kind of stuff that keeps that

  1108. around.

  1109. >> You're right.

  1110. >> If we'll stay right, God will bless.

  1111. >> Amen.

  1112. >> We're all about quality, not quantity.

  1113. >> Amen. I'm not going to reach out to this

  1114. world and just say kumbaya with them so

  1115. we can have this place full. If God

  1116. wants it full, he can fill it up.

  1117. >> Amen.

  1118. >> Amen. And I'm going to trust him to do

  1119. so. We're going to do everything we can

  1120. to do that. But I'm I would rather keep

  1121. the presence of God.

  1122. >> And uh I love you. I do. It's just a

  1123. burden on my heart these days,

  1124. especially social media the way it is.

  1125. And uh it's so mainstream now. It's just

  1126. I think I seen a thing the other day. It

  1127. said the average the average American

  1128. teenager spends five to eight hours on

  1129. social media a day.

  1130. And you think that's not influencing

  1131. them.

  1132. We get what? Three hours a week to

  1133. preach to them.

  1134. Five to eight hours a day.

  1135. Young people, keep your mind straight.

  1136. >> Amen.

  1137. >> Love the Lord.

  1138. >> Amen. Stay pure. Don't let any boy or

  1139. any girl take from you.

  1140. >> Amen.

  1141. >> What God has given you.

  1142. >> Go ahead.

  1143. >> I promise you when you get to that

  1144. marriage altar, more importantly, when

  1145. you get to heaven.

  1146. >> Amen.

  1147. >> Right.

  1148. >> You'll be glad you did.

  1149. >> You're right.

  1150. >> Amen.

  1151. >> Father, thank you for this time. Thank

  1152. you for the truth of your word. And

  1153. Lord, I thank you, God, tonight that I

  1154. know without a shadow of a doubt this is

  1155. where we're at in our society. in this

  1156. day and time. God, would you help us or

  1157. would you help us to be obedient to you?

  1158. Would you help us to do what you've

  1159. called us to do? Forgive us of our

  1160. failures and shortcomings.

  1161. And uh Lord, because I do believe,

  1162. Father, that we don't need just a cure,

  1163. Lord, we need to get to the root. We

  1164. need to get rid of of not just the

  1165. fruit, but God, we got to get down where

  1166. it really the rubber meets the road. in

  1167. these days. Help us to stay close to

  1168. you, close to each other, and uh to be

  1169. right, stay right, stay close to you.

  1170. Lord, we love you. Thank you for loving

  1171. us in Jesus name. Amen.

  1172. >> Thank you for joining our service today.

  1173. We'd love it if you'd join us in person

  1174. the next time you are able at Meadows

  1175. Baptist Church. Our physical address is

  1176. 2988 Stewart Road in Walnut Cove, North

  1177. Carolina. Our service times are Sunday

  1178. school at 10:00 a.m., Sunday morning

  1179. worship at 11:00 a.m., Sunday evening

  1180. worship at 6:00 p.m., and Wednesday

  1181. evening Bible study at 700 p.m. For more

  1182. information, visit us at

  1183. meadowsbaptisturch.com.

  1184. Thanks again for tuning in.