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14 ”Gospel Gains Through Growing Pains” Acts 6:1-7 | Sunday, May 25, 2025

Boulder Valley Baptist Church

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  1. Acts chapter 6. As you remain standing

    Acts 6 chapter mention

  2. in honor of God's word, we'll we'll read

  3. from Acts chapter 6. Continuing our

    Acts 6 chapter mention

  4. series this morning from the book of

  5. Acts entitled The Empowered Church. And

  6. as we've seen over the last several

  7. chapters, the church has continued to

  8. grow. It has continued to multiply.

  9. Souls has have kept getting saved even

  10. in the face of ramping up persecution.

  11. And so as we come to chapter six, what

  12. we're going to find is that when the

  13. church grows, it can present some

  14. challenges for a growing church. And we

  15. need to know how to deal with them God's

  16. way. And so that's what we'll consider

  17. from the first seven verses of Acts

    Acts 6 chapter mention

  18. chapter 6. I will read our text out

  19. loud. And once we have finished, I will

  20. say, "This is the word of God." And if

  21. you believe it, would you reply and it

  22. is true. Let's read together. Acts

    Acts 6 chapter mention

  23. chapter 6 verse one.

  24. And in those days when the number of the

  25. disciples was multiplied, there arose a

  26. murmuring of the Grecians against the

  27. Hebrews because their widows were

  28. neglected in the daily

  29. ministration. Then the twel called the

  30. multitude of the disciples unto them and

  31. said, "It is not reason that we should

  32. leave the word of God and serve tables.

  33. Wherefore, brethren, look ye out among

  34. you seven men of honest report, full of

  35. the Holy Ghost and wisdom, whom we may

  36. appoint over this business. But we will

  37. give ourselves continually to prayer and

  38. to the ministry of the word. And the

  39. saying pleased the whole multitude. And

  40. they chose Stephen, a man full of faith

  41. and of the Holy Ghost, and Philillip and

  42. Prourus, and Nicar, and Thimon, and

  43. Parminus, and Nicholas, a proite of

  44. Antioch, whom they set before the

  45. apostles. And when they had prayed, they

  46. laid their hands on them. And the word

  47. of God increased, and the number of the

  48. disciples multiplied in Jerusalem

  49. greatly, and a great company of the

  50. priests were obedient to the faith. This

  51. is the word of God. It is true. It is

  52. true. The title of our message this

  53. morning is Gospel Gains through Growing

  54. Pains. Gospel Gains through Growing

  55. Pains. Let's pray. Father, I ask you to

  56. please make your word clear to all of us

  57. today that we would understand your

  58. truth and that we would understand how

  59. it affects our lives. And I pray by the

  60. grace and mercy of Christ and the power

  61. of your Holy Spirit, we will apply its

  62. truth to us personally. It's in Jesus

  63. name we ask these things. Amen. Thank

  64. you for standing in honor of God's word.

  65. You can be seated.

  66. It amazes me how quickly our children

  67. grow. This year, we will become the

  68. parents of a double-digit child for the

  69. first time as Jenna turns 10 this

  70. October. She's grown from a

  71. 20in newborn to over four and a half

  72. feet tall with feet that are only a

  73. toad's length shorter than mine.

  74. And she is probably by the time she's

  75. 13, she'll probably be taller than her

  76. mom is my guess. Just a few more years.

  77. But for her to grow three feet over the

  78. last decade, she's had to go through

  79. some growing pains. If you're a parent,

  80. you probably remember your kids going

  81. through some growing pains. In the

  82. middle of the night, we would hear her

  83. crying in her room, and we would hear a

  84. knock at our door. And then we would

  85. hear the whimper of that little girl. my

  86. legs

  87. hurt. And so we would gather her up to

  88. our bed. If she couldn't walk, we'd go

  89. down to her room and and we would try to

  90. manage that pain, you know, rub those

  91. muscles, rub those joints and try to

  92. massage it and soothe that pain. If that

  93. didn't work, then we would give her some

  94. medicine to just try to uh manage that

  95. pain. See, growth always comes with

  96. growing pains. and all we can do is our

  97. very best to manage them. But just as

  98. kids experience growing pains, so can

  99. churches. It's pretty simple in ministry

  100. when you are just a baby church of five

  101. to eight people. You come in, you have a

  102. worship service, you talk a little bit,

  103. you've got some setup to do, and then

  104. you go your separate ways. But what

  105. happens is as the church grows and

  106. people get saved and baptized and added

  107. to the church, we too can face some

  108. growing pains in our ministry. As a

  109. nursery grows, nursery workers can feel

  110. overwhelmed and always asking, "We need

  111. more nursery workers." Kids church

  112. teachers can feel like as the kids

  113. church grows, it just kind of becomes

  114. controlled chaos. And we need more

  115. workers. As music ministry grows, some

  116. may not get to sing as frequently as

  117. they did when the church was smaller.

  118. And so that can create some growing

  119. pains. See, when the church is small,

  120. it's pretty easy for you to also get a

  121. hold of your pastor. But then as the

  122. church grows and there's more people

  123. trying to get a hold of the pastor, it's

  124. not always as easy. And sometimes you

  125. can even get to a place where you might

  126. feel

  127. neglected. See, as churches grow, needs

  128. become bigger and broader than any one

  129. person can handle. And what can happen

  130. is that the different growing pains that

  131. a church can face can often stretch the

  132. church very thin and stunt its growth if

  133. we do not learn to deal with them. Not

  134. just well, but

  135. biblically. God has a way that he wants

  136. his church to manage growing pains. And

  137. his goal in us managing those growing

  138. pains is that the gospel would continue

  139. to go forth and more people would get

  140. saved and more people would get added to

  141. the church so more people can go out and

  142. share the gospel in the city and all

  143. around the world. God's goal is for us

  144. to have gospel gains through growing

  145. pains. The question is how how do we

  146. manage growing pains

  147. biblically? Well, that's what God is

  148. showing us here in Acts chapter

    Acts 6 chapter mention

  149. 6. This church at Jerusalem was growing

  150. exponentially even into the thousands.

  151. Can you imagine that? The church goes

  152. from about 120, which is a pretty large

  153. church plant, to over 10 and some

  154. believe upwards to 20,000 people in a

  155. matter of the first year. Can you

  156. imagine the growing pains that would

  157. come from that? Well, they also faced

  158. them. But what we notice as we read

  159. through our text is that these growing

  160. pains did not stunt their growth. It's

  161. because they learn to manage them God's

  162. way. Because at the end of our text,

  163. what we find is that the word of God

  164. continues to increase. Disciples

  165. continue to be multiplied greatly and

  166. even some of the priests came to trust

  167. Christ as their

  168. savior. How did they see gospel gains in

  169. their growing pains?

  170. The first thing that Luke does for us in

  171. this text is he identifies for us what

  172. the growing pains were. And then he

  173. shows us how the church dealt with them.

  174. And if we'll follow the same biblical

  175. pattern that this church followed, then

  176. we too can continue seeing gospel gains

  177. as we go through growing pains here in

  178. the years to come. And so let's first

  179. identify what the growing pains were.

  180. This church's rapid growth led to a

  181. situation where a group of widows in

  182. their church was being neglected. It

  183. says in verse number one, "And in those

  184. days when the number of the disciples

  185. was multiplied, there arose a murmuring

  186. of the Grecian against the Hebrews."

  187. Now, who are the Grecian people? Well,

  188. it's not just that they are Greeks. It's

  189. the literal word behind this is the word

  190. Helenist. Hellenism was the adoption of

  191. Greek culture back in the first century

  192. times. And what it is is these

  193. particular Grecians. They were ethnic

  194. Jews. They were Jewish by blood. They

  195. were Jewish by relationship, Jewish by

  196. family. But they grew up abroad after

  197. the dispersion of the Jews. And they had

  198. come to the place where they adopted

  199. Greek language and Greek culture. But at

  200. some point in their lives, because of

  201. their ethnic history, they made their

  202. way back to Jerusalem. Some it would be

  203. for the feast, Passover, and Pentecost,

  204. which had taken place recently. Uh but

  205. others would relocate at the end of

  206. their lives to be to die and be buried

  207. there near Jerusalem. And others would

  208. just relocate back for families sake.

  209. For whatever reason, they came back.

  210. When they did, they heard the gospel of

  211. Jesus Christ and they accepted him as

  212. their personal savior and they were

  213. added to the church of

  214. Jerusalem. The

  215. Hebrews would have been what we might

  216. call Israeli

  217. nationals that they were born in Israel.

  218. They spoke predominantly Hebrew while

  219. they knew Greek. Hebrew was their first

  220. language. They were familiar with the

  221. Hebrew cultural customs, the Hebrew law,

  222. the Hebrew covenants. That was their

  223. life. And so over here you've got the

  224. Hebrew people. And over here you've got

  225. the Grecian people. And normally there

  226. were uh cultural problems between them.

  227. The Hebrews or the the Hebrews often

  228. view the Grecians as sellouts to the

  229. Greek culture.

  230. But now what you have is you have Hebrew

  231. people who have also heard the gospel of

  232. Jesus Christ and they have trusted him

  233. as their savior and they have been

  234. baptized. And now you have two uh uh two

  235. competing world views, two competing

  236. cultures that are now coming together as

  237. one new people in Christ just like God

  238. wanted. But as you can imagine, when

  239. people of different cultural views and

  240. opinions and political views and

  241. opinions come together, that alone is

  242. enough to create some trouble, some

  243. challenges. I mean, think about it.

  244. We're in Boulder, Colorado, and in our

  245. church, we've had people of different

  246. cultures. We have people here from the

  247. south and people here from the north,

  248. and people here from the west, and

  249. people here from the east. And there's

  250. enough besides the accent there of

  251. differences to just maybe create some

  252. challenges. But we've also had people

  253. from Asia. We've had people from Mexico.

  254. We've had Democrats and Republicans,

  255. conservatives, and and liberals in our

  256. church all together. That alone is

  257. enough to cause some strife. And they do

  258. that same strife as well. here in this

  259. very first church. The particular

  260. problem, what this complaint is about,

  261. it says is that the Grecians complained

  262. against the Hebrews because their widows

  263. were neglected in the daily

  264. ministration. This word ministration is

  265. the idea of a table ministry of

  266. providing meals and serving and caring

  267. for them. Now, as we've gone through

  268. Exodus and Leviticus on Thursday nights,

  269. we've seen that God called the Israeli

  270. Israeli people to care for the

  271. fatherless and the widow. He gave them

  272. particular guidelines and laws and

  273. regulations to ensure that widows were

  274. cared for. And so, they felt a a a

  275. biblical responsibility to care for

  276. their widows. Well, what happens is as

  277. you start having Grecians join the

  278. church and Grecian widows getting saved,

  279. they still have the responsibility to

  280. care for their own mothers and their own

  281. widows. But now it's to the neglect of

  282. the Grecian widows. There's not enough

  283. food. There's not enough hands. And the

  284. Grecian sons are not happy about it. And

  285. so the complaints are starting to boil.

  286. And what you can tell here is that there

  287. is a potential for this issue to split

  288. their church up into two groups. Again,

  289. there's a potential for it to stunt

  290. their growth here in Jerusalem.

  291. Something's got to be done about this

  292. growing

  293. pain. Well, the apostles recognize that.

  294. But they also recognize that if they are

  295. the ones personally who step in to help

  296. with this particular ministry, then

  297. another growing pain would develop, one

  298. that could also cause their growth to be

  299. stifled in this situation. And that is

  300. neglecting the word of God. They said in

  301. verse number two, "Then the twel called

  302. the multitude of the disciples unto them

  303. and said,"It is not reason that we

  304. should leave the word of God and serve

  305. tables." He's not understand the

  306. apostles here are not belittling the

  307. need of these Grecian widows.

  308. They recognize that they have a

  309. particular calling and a particular

  310. responsibility from God. And what

  311. they're saying is that while this need

  312. is

  313. important, it is not reason. This is a

  314. word that means it's not acceptable,

  315. it's not pleasing in God's sight that we

  316. would abandon the ministry of the word

  317. in order to take over this

  318. ministry. Because what happens if they

  319. are not giving time to study and

  320. preaching and evangelism and prayer and

  321. everything that is a top priority for

  322. God- called preachers? What happens if

  323. they

  324. stop? People don't hear the

  325. gospel. People don't get saved. The

  326. church stops growing. And so what

  327. they're saying is it's not acceptable in

  328. God's sight for us who are called

  329. primarily to this ministry to stop

  330. serving here and start serving

  331. there. See, growing

  332. pains can have the potential to stifle

  333. church

  334. growth. See, a pastor's primary calling

  335. is to preach the word, to evangelize the

  336. lost, and to pray for God's people. But

  337. growing needs can cause him to abandon

  338. those primary responsibilities in order

  339. to meet other

  340. needs. Not smaller needs, not lesser

  341. needs, important needs that people have

  342. in the care of the church. We're talking

  343. about preparing meals, moving furniture,

  344. cleaning houses. As a church grows, uh,

  345. the chairs, more chairs need to be set

  346. up and more cables need to be run

  347. because there are more singers on the

  348. platform. And so there's there's always

  349. more with a growing church. And then as

  350. a church is able to get its own

  351. building, grass needs to be cut,

  352. classrooms need to be cleaned up, some

  353. walls get scuffed and need to be

  354. painted, some areas need to be

  355. remodeled. And so a lot of times uh and

  356. I'm speaking here from a pastor's

  357. perspective, particularly in a church

  358. plant context, a pastor's mindset can be

  359. something like this. You know, our

  360. members work really hard. They've got

  361. jobs where they're working 40 to 60

  362. hours a week. They've got families.

  363. They've got a lot on their plate. I'm

  364. the one who's who's taken care of and

  365. paid to be at the church full-time. And

  366. so why why bother them? On top of that,

  367. I don't want them to think I'm lazy. I

  368. don't want them to think that I'm

  369. unwilling. And so, instead of saying no,

  370. I'll just go and I'll I'll help them

  371. move. I'll keep setting up. I'll cut the

  372. grass. I'll clean the bathrooms. I'll

  373. paint the

  374. walls. But what suffers the most when a

  375. pastor is serving in these areas is the

  376. ministry of the word. It is study time.

  377. It is preaching. It is evangelism. It is

  378. disciplehip. It is praying. even for the

  379. congregation praying for missionaries

  380. that what we're talking about is the

  381. gospel ministry can suffer for the sake

  382. of table

  383. ministry and to that I want to say this

  384. that a pastor should never arrive at a

  385. place where he thinks he is above any of

  386. these

  387. tasks he should never come to a place

  388. where he is lazy or unwilling to help

  389. but let me say to you the vast majority

  390. Majority of pastors are not lazy and

  391. they are willing to help at times even

  392. perhaps to a fault. And here in lies the

  393. struggle. These are important needs.

  394. They they cannot be

  395. neglected. People need help. People need

  396. care. The church needs to be kept up in

  397. a in a way that's honoring uh to the

  398. Lord. But the question that our text is

  399. asking us today is this.

  400. Is it acceptable in God's sight that the

  401. gospel ministry should be neglected in

  402. favor of table

  403. ministry? And not me, but the apostles

  404. to that question would say,

  405. "No, it's not reason. It's not

  406. acceptable. It's not pleasing. Should

  407. evangelism

  408. suffer? Should preaching suffer? Should

  409. the pastor's prayer life suffer? or

  410. should the pastor's family suffer? And

  411. the answer would be no. So then the

  412. question is, how do we deal with these

  413. growing pains in a way that does not

  414. cause the gospel ministry to suffer nor

  415. for God's people to be

  416. neglected? How do we deal with

  417. this? Well, what the apostles do in

  418. verse three is they instruct the church

  419. to appoint members to share in the work.

  420. It says in verse three, wherefore,

  421. brethren, look ye out among you. That

  422. that means to inspect, examine for a

  423. particular ministry like this that

  424. involves finances and involves food and

  425. involves a lot of delegation and

  426. responsibility. He says that you need to

  427. look out seven men of honest report.

  428. They need to be of a good reputation, of

  429. honesty and integrity. He says they need

  430. to be full of the Holy Ghost and of

  431. wisdom. Wisdom is the idea of skill and

  432. ability to serve in this particular

  433. area. Now, not every area of service in

  434. the church is going to demand a

  435. particular set of qualifications, but

  436. for this particular one, he says, you

  437. need to look out qualified

  438. individuals whom we may appoint over

  439. this

  440. business. And what you see here are the

  441. early seeds of congregational church

  442. policy. church, you nominate people, you

  443. elect them, you bring them to us, and we

  444. will appoint them over this ministry.

  445. And that's what he tells them to do.

  446. Why? If members will share in the work,

  447. the preachers can stay in the word.

  448. Verse four, but we will give ourselves

  449. continually to prayer and to the

  450. ministry of the word.

  451. What does it mean to give yourself

  452. continually to something? What does it

  453. mean if a basketball player continually

  454. gives himself over to the game of

  455. basketball? Does it mean that's all they

  456. do in life? Well, maybe for some. But

  457. what it means is they are spending

  458. several hours a day all throughout the

  459. week studying the game, watching film,

  460. working on their jump shots and their

  461. layups and their three-pointers and

  462. their free throws. They're honing in

  463. their skills of dribbling and passing

  464. the basketball. They are giving

  465. themselves over continually to improve

  466. their skills. And what the apostles say

  467. here is if members will share in the

  468. work of this ministry, then we can stick

  469. to the work of this ministry. We can

  470. continue to study the scripture. We can

  471. continue to develop sermons. We can

  472. continue to be in Solomon's porch

  473. preaching the gospel to people who

  474. desperately need to hear it. We can

  475. continue baptizing. We can continue

  476. discipling. And we can continue to spend

  477. time on our knees in prayer recognizing

  478. we need the power of the spirit to go

  479. forth in this

  480. ministry. If members will share in the

  481. work, preachers can stay in the word.

  482. And so that's what he tells them to do.

  483. But what I want to point out to you is

  484. that this follows a very biblical

  485. pattern throughout

  486. scripture. Remember in our study of

  487. Exodus that when they were out in the

  488. wilderness and the people lined up all

  489. day long from sun up to sun down to come

  490. and have judgment from Moses. and his

  491. father-in-law, Jethro, comes and says,

  492. "What you're doing is not good. You're

  493. going to wear away and the people are

  494. going to wear away. You're going to wear

  495. away physically. The people are going to

  496. feel neglected and they're going to wear

  497. away. You need to appoint men who are

  498. godly,

  499. spiritfilled, and full of wisdom to help

  500. you in this ministry." And what you find

  501. is that in the book of Numbers, he

  502. appoints 70. And later in the book of

  503. Deuteronomy with the new generation, he

  504. appoints another 70. And then when Jesus

  505. was involved in the ministry, he

  506. appointed 70 and sent them out. And now

  507. the apostles are saying after this same

  508. pattern, appoint seven

  509. men. God's plan always has been and

  510. still is today for the people to share

  511. in the work so that the leaders could

  512. stay in the word. is what God is calling

  513. us to do. Well, what happens when

  514. members share in the work and preachers

  515. stay in the word? If we manage growing

  516. pains in a biblical fashion, what will

  517. happen? Well, what we find in our text

  518. here is that managing the growing pains

  519. in this way leads to substantial gospel

  520. gains.

  521. And so if you look at verse uh number uh

  522. five, it says the saying please the

  523. whole

  524. multitude. All the church said yes we

  525. agree with this that that yes these

  526. needs must be met. They are important

  527. but no the gospel ministry should not

  528. suffer. So yes, we will appoint seven

  529. men. And it says they chose Steven, a

  530. man full of faith into the Holy Ghost.

  531. And Philillip and Procarus and Nicer and

  532. Timon and Parminus and Nicholas, a

  533. proite of Antioch. These are all Grecian

  534. individuals. See, apparently there were

  535. Hebrew individuals favoring the Hebrew

  536. widows. And now they appoint all Grecian

  537. individuals so that there is equality

  538. here and diversity to ensure that every

  539. member is taken care

  540. of. They appoint them. But they don't

  541. just appoint them. It says in verse six,

  542. whom they set before the apostles. And

  543. when they had prayed, they nominated

  544. them. They selected seven. They brought

  545. them to the apostles and the whole

  546. church prayed for them. Why? Because

  547. whether you are a

  548. preacher or if you are serving in some

  549. other ministry, you must do so and you

  550. can by the power of prayer and the Holy

  551. Spirit. They prayed for them and then it

  552. says that the apostles laid their hands

  553. on them. This is not some weird mystical

  554. spiritism thing going on here. This is a

  555. way that they showed we are authorizing

  556. them. We are commissioning them. and we

  557. are appointing them to this service.

  558. They appointed members to share in the

  559. work and they stayed in the word and

  560. what happened verse 7. And the word of

  561. God increased and the number of the

  562. disciples multiplied in Jerusalem

  563. greatly and a great company of the

  564. priests were obedient to the faith. the

  565. priests, the ones who were persecuting

  566. the church, the ones who are responsible

  567. for crucifying Jesus, the strongest

  568. enemies and opponents of Jesus started

  569. trusting Christ and being baptized and

  570. added to the church. Why? Because

  571. members shared in the work and preachers

  572. stayed in the word, they continue to see

  573. gospel

  574. gains. And so what we find from this

  575. text is this simple truth. The church

  576. saw gospel gains through growing pains

  577. because members shared in the work and

  578. preachers stayed in the

  579. word. And

  580. so what we realize today is that church

  581. growth still brings some growing pains

  582. and there are still

  583. challenges. But what I want to encourage

  584. you with today is those challenges do

  585. not have to stifle our growth.

  586. They do not have to keep the gospel from

  587. going forward in Boulder. They do not

  588. have to I mean having rowdy kids in

  589. church does not have to keep us from

  590. growing. A and and and things not always

  591. being in place does not have to keep us

  592. from

  593. growing. But whenever there are

  594. problems, we must deal with them God's

  595. way. And if we'll deal with them God's

  596. way, we'll continue to see gospel gains.

  597. Well, how do we deal with them God's

  598. way? Number one, members must share in

  599. the

  600. work. As our church grows, so will our

  601. needs. We will need more help setting

  602. up. We will need nursery workers. We

  603. will need more teachers and helpers and

  604. musicians and singers. We will need

  605. people to organize small groups and

  606. activities and to teach smaller group

  607. classes. We need some who will can

  608. prepare meals for somebody dealing with

  609. a death in the family or for a pregnant

  610. mom who's laid up on bed

  611. rest. They need a church family to step

  612. in and love on them and care for them

  613. and meet those

  614. needs. Some single parents may need help

  615. watching their kids while they go to a

  616. job interview. Or they may need help

  617. packing or moving a piano or moving

  618. furniture. Some will need desperate will

  619. desperately need good friendships. They

  620. will need godly influence is because the

  621. past that they come

  622. from. Where growth abounds, needs

  623. abound. But growing pains are not

  624. problems. They are just challenges.

  625. And sometimes when we don't have all the

  626. kids workers and we have single moms

  627. come and we have kids here that come

  628. from a bo broken background with no dad

  629. in their life and we don't even know

  630. what they've been through earlier in

  631. their lives that maybe has caused some

  632. of the behavior that they have today.

  633. Instead of seeing that child as a

  634. problem we can see them as a need that

  635. must be met.

  636. But God's

  637. solution is not for the pastor and his

  638. family to stretch themselves

  639. thin. It's not acceptable to him that

  640. studying and preaching and evangelism

  641. and w would suffer to meet some of these

  642. other needs or that the pastor's

  643. spiritual tank would be empty and that

  644. his church would be unprayed for. That's

  645. not God's solution.

  646. And listen, God's solution is not for

  647. the pastor's family to suffer either, to

  648. be neglected in the favor of serving

  649. tables. This is why Paul in 1

    1 Corinthians 7 chapter mention

  650. Corinthians chapter 7 said that the best

  651. case scenario for a gospel minister is

  652. to be single because then not needing to

  653. care for your family, you can give

  654. yourself wholeheartedly to these kinds

  655. of ministries and to the gospel

  656. ministry. But what Paul also says is

  657. that if a person is married and that

  658. marriage is not wrong and that it's

  659. better to marry than to burn, but if a

  660. person is married, he is responsible to

  661. his family. The Bible says that a man

  662. does not care for his family is worse

  663. than an

  664. infidel. And so we we must not forget

  665. that a pastor has a family that has

  666. needs and must be cared for and that he

  667. should not be called on to neglect his

  668. family in order to serve tables.

  669. But of course, what is primarily being

  670. spoken of here is the gospel

  671. ministry. God's solution is not that the

  672. gospel ministry would suffer in favor of

  673. table ministry. God's solution is for

  674. reputable,

  675. spiritfilled members to share in this

  676. work. To set up chairs and tables and

  677. microphones, to set up signs, to set up

  678. live stream

  679. equipment, to help people

  680. move, to help people uh with their

  681. personal needs, to prepare meals for

  682. those who are struggling and those who

  683. are grieving.

  684. that the church shares in this type of

  685. work together. And so what this text is

  686. calling you to do is to ask yourself,

  687. are you

  688. willing? Is to ask yourself, are you

  689. spiritfilled? Are you of an honest

  690. report and a good reputation with your

  691. church that when some table ministry

  692. need comes up, does the church look at

  693. you as a person who is skilled and

  694. gifted and spiritual and dependable

  695. enough to help share in that

  696. work? If you're already serving here, I

  697. just thank God for you.

  698. I'm thankful for the way that our church

  699. over the last couple years has stepped

  700. up and we have more people helping us uh

  701. set up now and we have more people

  702. serving in different ministries and kids

  703. ministries and all that's all taken

  704. place really over the last 12 to 14

  705. months churches got involved. I'm so

  706. thankful for that. We have some who lead

  707. singing on Thursday nights now who fill

  708. in reading scriptures and and so we're

  709. doing our best to get people

  710. involved. But what if you're not in a

  711. spiritual place to help? Well, that's

  712. not where God wants you to stay

  713. forever. God wants you to get to a

  714. spiritual place where you can be called

  715. on and depended on and and be skilled to

  716. be able to serve in these particular

  717. areas. And so it might be in your life

  718. that you need to uh you you need to

  719. reinvest in your relationship with God.

  720. That you need to recover those spiritual

  721. disciplines of reading your Bible and

  722. spending time in prayer and fellowship

  723. and communion with God. Tapping into the

  724. power of his spirit so that you can

  725. serve as

  726. well. See to see gospel

  727. gains members must share in the work.

  728. Number two, to see gospel gains.

  729. Preachers must stay in the

  730. word. See, this message is not just for

  731. members. This message presents an

  732. opportunity for pastor like myself to

  733. look introspectively into my own life

  734. and ask, am I carrying out what God

  735. calls me to do in this text?

  736. See, it's easy for preachers to get

  737. drawn away from the most fundamental

  738. responsibilities of their calling.

  739. Preaching, prayer, and

  740. evangelism. The daily care and needs of

  741. the church are always calling. Texts,

  742. phone calls, and emails are always

  743. awaiting

  744. response. Weeds and long grass are

  745. always

  746. abundant. Paint is always getting

  747. scuffed off walls. Sound equipment and

  748. chairs a and and tables always need to

  749. be set up when you're in a church plant

  750. context. And let me make this clear.

  751. Pastors love their church

  752. family. This is what we live for. To see

  753. God work miracles in the lives of

  754. people. To bring transformative change

  755. to their lives in Christ. to see

  756. families grow from barely hanging on to

  757. thriving and helping others who are

  758. barely hanging on. And so we love to

  759. invest. We love to spend time with our

  760. church family, to go on lunches, to make

  761. phone calls and talk on the phone, to

  762. invite people over to our house. We love

  763. all of those things we do.

  764. And so when people need help moving or

  765. they ask for a meeting or they need help

  766. with something else or counsel, pastors

  767. do everything they can to try to clear

  768. their schedule and make that

  769. work. Sometimes a pastor

  770. struggles to focus on these

  771. responsibilities because they love their

  772. people. But then sometimes a pastor can

  773. become too infatuated with material

  774. things.

  775. and get an unaffordable house and

  776. unaffordable

  777. cars. And they're always trying to take

  778. fishing trips, extravagant vacations

  779. when they can't afford it. And what

  780. happens is their church can't afford

  781. them. And so then they've got to get a

  782. secular job. And now they're not just

  783. trying to balance between pastoral

  784. ministry and table ministry and their

  785. family ministry.

  786. Now they're trying to balance the time

  787. with their family and the time in the

  788. word and the time in the ministry and

  789. the time at their job and they're being

  790. pulled in all kinds of different

  791. directions. Sometimes pastors can

  792. neglect the most important

  793. responsibility because they love God's

  794. people. But sometimes it can be because

  795. they love themselves.

  796. And a pastor must be careful that he has

  797. not become so infatuated with himself

  798. and his wants and his desires that he

  799. neglects his calling of

  800. God. See, this is not just a call to

  801. members. It's a call to pastors just

  802. like this

  803. one. to be transparent with you as a

  804. pastor, I can feel this desire to help

  805. with everything that I

  806. can. What suffers most every single

  807. time is the word

  808. ministry, study time, personal

  809. evangelism opportunities, pastoral

  810. prayer times, and even sometimes the

  811. family is what can suffer in favor of

  812. table ministry.

  813. And what I have to come to accept in my

  814. life personally is that what the

  815. apostles would say to me if they were

  816. here today is this is not

  817. right. This is not

  818. acceptable. This is not pleasing to God

  819. that the gospel should be neglected to

  820. surf tables.

  821. And so, while I can personally struggle

  822. with not saying yes to helping, and

  823. while sometimes, let's just be honest,

  824. sometimes as members of a church, I've

  825. been a member of a church before. I'm

  826. still a member of a church. And so, I

  827. know sometimes how we can think pastor

  828. is full-time. Well, all of these table

  829. ministry responsibilities should be his.

  830. I mean, after all, we're paying for him.

  831. We're giving him this time to be able to

  832. do these very things. Sometimes that's

  833. how we can think.

  834. But we must all

  835. understand, accept and live by what God

  836. is saying here that those who are called

  837. to preach, evangelize and establish

  838. churches must prioritize prayer and

  839. study and the preaching of God's word

  840. over every other need that the church

  841. might have.

  842. And let's be honest, sometimes when

  843. you're in a small church, that's really

  844. hard because needs can abound and you

  845. don't have a staff and sometimes you

  846. don't even have the people to go and

  847. help somebody

  848. else. And so that can be uh super

  849. challenging for

  850. us. And so sometimes for pastor that

  851. means sacrificing some

  852. sleep to be able to ensure that the word

  853. is prepared, that people are prayed for.

  854. And so sometimes that may mean a 2:30 in

  855. the morning bedtime on Sunday, Saturday

  856. night, getting ready for

  857. Sunday, but that should not be what

  858. happens regularly in the life of a

  859. pastor. And please understand, I'm not

  860. accusing anyone and I'm not saying this

  861. church does a bad job. I'm saying

  862. sometimes I do a bad job. Sometimes I

  863. don't say no to the right things.

  864. Sometimes I don't say yes to the right

  865. things. We all have responsibility in

  866. this. The apostles had to look at that

  867. congregation of thousands of people and

  868. say this isn't what we should give our

  869. time to. And so you need to look out

  870. members who can share in the work so we

  871. can stick to the

  872. word.

  873. See, I hope you understand as well that

  874. I'm not coming from the perspective that

  875. I'm above these things or too lazy or

  876. unwilling to do them. If you think back

  877. over the last few years, I've done my

  878. best to help with whatever needs we

  879. have. I've helped some of you move, some

  880. of you several

  881. times. Uh we've watched

  882. kids. We have stayed up late at times.

  883. By God's grace, we've tried to do

  884. everything we can to help people. But

  885. God's word says that I too as a pastor

  886. must come to terms with my

  887. calling, what God wants me to prioritize

  888. here in my family and the gospel

  889. ministry.

  890. But this is not to say that the church

  891. family's needs should be uncared for or

  892. neglected. But rather as a pastor, I

  893. have a responsibility to ensure that we

  894. are cultivating a church that is readily

  895. willing and able to step up to serve in

  896. these capacities. That is part of a

  897. pastor's responsibility is to train and

  898. to ask. As I mentioned, there's that

  899. struggle as a pastor because you work 40

  900. hours a week, some of you 60 hours a

  901. week, some of you two jobs, and some of

  902. you have kids and and some of you have

  903. adult children that have problems and

  904. and some of you have school and and

  905. college and all of those things. And

  906. sometimes the pastor, you can just feel

  907. like, man, I shouldn't ask. But what God

  908. is saying is I should ask if it's going

  909. to cause the gospel ministry to

  910. suffer. I've got to be willing to train

  911. able, willing, and gifted people to

  912. delegate matters

  913. to.

  914. Why? Why should members share in the

  915. work and preachers stick to the

  916. word? Let's ask a a deeper theological

  917. question. Why does God want it this way?

  918. It's so that our church can see gospel

  919. gains through growing

  920. pains. It's so that souls can continue

  921. to be saved and baptized and added to

  922. the church so God's work can go forward

  923. and God's kingdom can continue to

  924. expand. And if we will handle growing

  925. pains God's way, we can continue to see

  926. the gospel gains that we desire to see

  927. here in Boulder,

  928. Colorado. And so I want to say to you as

  929. a church, let's do everything we can to

  930. share in the work

  931. together. And so if you're already

  932. serving, great job. Keep serving and

  933. serve with all your heart. Give yourself

  934. to the ministries that God has given

  935. you. If you're teaching a kids class,

  936. don't just prepare at the last second.

  937. No. Be studying earlier that week what

  938. the lesson is so that you can give

  939. yourself to effectively teaching those

  940. kids. If you're a teacher, don't just be

  941. there. Love those kids. Even if they're

  942. my kids, even if they're horrible kids

  943. at times, love them and care for them

  944. and pour yourself into them. Pour

  945. yourselves into single moms.

  946. Ladies, we've had some single moms come

  947. to our church over the years that have

  948. come from very rough

  949. backgrounds, things that would be

  950. unthinkably and unimaginable to

  951. you. And sometimes it's really easy to

  952. get frustrated with out of control

  953. kids. But can I just ask you, when's the

  954. last time that you asked that mom out

  955. for

  956. lunch and said, "Hey, you want to get

  957. together?" and just loved on them and

  958. asked how they're doing and learned a

  959. little bit about them so that you could

  960. understand what some of their struggles

  961. are so that you can minister to them

  962. effectively. That's what we're talking

  963. about. Ramp up your service just like we

  964. ramp up our witness last week. Ramp up

  965. your service. Love people. Serve people.

  966. Share in the work. But if you're here

  967. today and you're not yet serving, you

  968. might just not know where you can

  969. serve. Ask.

  970. ask and we'll find somewhere for you to

  971. serve and share in the work of the

  972. ministry even here at this church. Let

  973. me just speak to you today if you're not

  974. a

  975. Christian from this passage. I want you

  976. to notice God's grace, his abundant

  977. grace. When this church at

  978. Jerusalem had

  979. grown between 10 and

  980. 20,000, God was not yet satisfied.

  981. The church didn't reach a certain number

  982. and he said, "Okay, that's enough that I

  983. want to

  984. save." No, he wanted them to deal with

  985. this growing pain this way so that these

  986. preachers could continue to study the

  987. word and be out in the streets preaching

  988. the gospel, proclaiming Christ, sitting

  989. down and having Bible studies with

  990. people so that one more soul could be

  991. saved.

  992. And God wants our church to handle it

  993. this way. No matter how big we are, if

  994. we're 25, or if we get up to 50, 60, or

  995. 500 people, God wants members to

  996. continue to share in the work and

  997. preachers to stay in the word so that

  998. you could be

  999. saved because he loves you and wants you

  1000. to hear the gospel. You might ask today,

  1001. what is the gospel?

  1002. Gospel is a word that means good

  1003. news. Before you can get to the good

  1004. news, you got to understand the bad

  1005. news. God has declared that we have all

  1006. sinned against him. And therefore, we

  1007. all stand condemned before him to face

  1008. his eternal

  1009. wrath. But God so loved the world that

  1010. he gave his only begotten son.

  1011. his son Jesus came and suffered and died

  1012. on the cross to take the punishment for

  1013. our sin to satisfy God's wrath against

  1014. you and against

  1015. me. And God has declared that if you

  1016. simply place all your faith and trust in

  1017. Jesus Christ, he will forgive your sin.

  1018. He will save your soul and he will give

  1019. you eternal life.

  1020. Would you trust him

  1021. today? Would you believe on the Lord

  1022. Jesus Christ and be saved? God is

  1023. pursuing

  1024. you. Would you respond by trusting

  1025. Christ? And church, as we share in the

  1026. work and the preacher stays in the word,

  1027. we can continue to reach this city for

  1028. Christ and see more souls saved and more

  1029. lives changed by the power of Jesus.

  1030. will see gospel gains through growing

  1031. pains if we'll deal with them God's way.

  1032. Our father, we come into your presence

  1033. today. We are thankful for the guidance

  1034. and instruction of your word that helps

  1035. us understand how to expand your

  1036. kingdom. And I simply pray this morning

  1037. that we would follow your word from the

  1038. pastor to the children. We would embrace

  1039. our responsibility to share in the word

  1040. and stay in the word. And I pray today

  1041. that if there's anyone here who has not

  1042. trusted Jesus as their savior, I pray

  1043. that you would make the gospel

  1044. abundantly clear to them and they would

  1045. respond by trusting in Jesus. It's in

  1046. his name I ask these things. Amen.