Sermon
A Delightful Life
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Well, the premier illustration in Scripture of the Christian
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life comes in Psalm 1. And Psalm 1 is at the beginning
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of the Psalms for a reason. Because this, this image is
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there. It's, it's the gateway into the
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rest of the Psalms and everything flows from it.
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It pronounces a man or a woman of God blessed, who walks worthy
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of his or her calling, and who walks not on the counsel of the
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wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of
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scoffers. But his delight is on the law of
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God, and on it he or she meditates day and night.
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And with that to the one who walks worthy, the metaphor that
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describes him or her is the metaphor of a tree.
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You shall be like a tree near planted by a stream, which in
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its season yields its fruit, and its leaf doesn't wither.
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And all that he does will prosper.
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And it's a tree, A strong tree. Rooted, meaning you're mature
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and you're grounded, like a watered garden planted near a
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stream, perfectly nourished. You're stable.
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It means you're providing support for all that are around
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you, dependability and a source of constancy.
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It's a tree because it's a living metaphor.
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You're alive, increasing in fruitfulness, you're growing,
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becoming more and more effective, even building on it.
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It says you are fruit bearing, a source of blessing and energy
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and service to everyone among you.
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I want you to consider for a second in this metaphor,
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consider a a fig tree and remember that this is a mighty
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tree, and this is what you are imaging.
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Its roots are up to 100 feet deep, giving stability in harsh
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climates and allowing it to flourish while other trees are
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dying. And it fruits continually the
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the the fig tree fruits over and over and over again.
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So while others have ceased being fruitful, this one
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provides ongoing nourishment and they fruit in dry seasons when
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nothing else is fruitful. It's SAP is medicinal.
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There's medicine literally coursing through its bark.
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It's wide canopy provides shade for birds and for livestock and
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for men. I think of Philip and John 1
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when he's sitting under the shade of a fig tree, when the
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Lord calls him and scripture says it's an image of
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fruitfulness, vitality, blessing, safety and rest.
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Scripture says this is the image of the faithful Christian.
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You are declared to be blessed and God reveals in Ephesians, in
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the New Testament, if you want to begin to turn there, that
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this kind of vitality, this kind of light in the midst of
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darkness and life, in the midst of death and preservation, in
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the midst of putrefaction, it doesn't happen naturally.
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If you, if left to your own way, you will not produce this kind
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of fruitfulness. It takes supernatural effort and
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it doesn't happen by accident. It's Ephesians says in chapters
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one to three, it takes part, it takes effort by God, and this
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effort began an eternity past. It says that you were elected
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and predestinated by God the Father.
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You were predestined under unto adoption as sons, predestined
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unto sonship. It was through the sacrificial
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act of redemption which was accomplished by Jesus Christ the
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Son. It was blood bought, and it's
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according to the application of the power and the wisdom of God
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by His Holy Spirit from everlasting to everlasting.
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God has been working out your fruitfulness.
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His effort. Again, hear the words of Psalm
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1. He shall be like a tree that
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grows. You're planted by a stream.
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If your delight is in the law of God, you shall be like unto this
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great tree, the image of a flourishing life.
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And it takes effort on God. It also takes effort on the part
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of the individual. That's what we're going to get
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into as we look into Ephesians 4.
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Paul's going to say, make every effort with eagerness to walk
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worthy. And what does this metaphor of a
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tree with its canopy and its roots, what does this kind of
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fruitfulness look like in practice?
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What does it look like in reality?
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And the answer is it looks like Ephesians chapters 4 to 6.
Ephesians 4 chapter mention
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This is what it looks like to the faithful application of
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Christian doctrine. This is what it looks like in
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practice. Hudson preached last week and he
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he quoted Abraham Kuyper, one of the most famous quotes in
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history, where Kuyper says there's not a square inch of
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this universe over which God does not declare mine.
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And as you look now to your Christian life and your
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Christian ministry, there is no square inch of you in your life
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and your ministry where God doesn't say the same thing.
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He's making all things new. He's working it all out in your
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life, which means how you control your anger, and which
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means how you interact with your coworkers and even specifically
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how you joke around with your friends.
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The kinds of language that you use, your interpersonal
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communication, your work ethic, how you order your household,
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your interaction with your parents, your relationship with
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them, your prayer life. It's all part of His dominion
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and it's coming in these next chapters.
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He's he's taken the time in Ephesians one to three to build
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the foundation, a theological foundation for you and your life
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and your ministry. And in chapters 4 to 6, he's
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establishing your life on that foundation.
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This is how you are to build and we're transitioning this morning
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into a, a new section of the book where Paul's going to begin
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to apply all of the principles that he's already worked out.
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This is the ethical application of all the doctrine that's come
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before. And this is kind of typical of
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Paul. If you read Paul, if you study
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Paul, he, he works out all of this rich theology and doctrine.
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And then there's a transition where he says we're not moving
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beyond doctrine, but we're now focusing and applying everything
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that we've learned to the tangibles of everyday life.
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And when he does this, he even has a a catch phrase that he
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uses so that you know, when you're in his books.
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We're moving to apply. We're moving the application.
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It comes in Romans 12/1 or he says, moving from doctrinal to
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ethical. He says, I appeal to you
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therefore, brothers, I urge you therefore, brothers, I beg you.
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Therefore, brothers, now that you know who God is, this is how
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to live in Ephesians 41. Turn there.
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This is the language he uses this morning to transition us
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from doctrinal to practical. He says the same words and the
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same word order. I therefore urge you.
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I therefore beseech you, I therefore beg you to walk
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worthy. And what follows after that are
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ethical commands. These are demands that Paul
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places on your life saying this is how you are to live.
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And in the book of Ephesians, there are 41 of these commands,
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which is why everybody likes Ephesians 4 to 6, because
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there's no confusion on how we are to live.
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It's why people like the book of James.
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There's 54 at least commandments that James gives.
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And so we're like, man, there's no, I can't confuse what I'm
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supposed to do when it's just over and over again.
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He's telling me this is how you live and this is how you live.
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And so 41 commandments, how many of those do you think came in
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chapters one to 311 commandment that we've come across so far.
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We made a lot. We made a big deal of it and
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we'll come do it again, which leaves 40 commandments in the
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next 3 chapters for the remainder of the book.
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And it and it has to be this way.
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I'm going to pause for a minute. Paul's teaching us something.
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This has to be the pattern of our life and of our ministry.
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Because if you tell someone, your friends or your church
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members or your children, if you tell them how to live without
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first telling them who they are in Jesus Christ, then you're not
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producing Christians, you're producing hypocrites.
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And it's so important to understand that the order must
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be in your discipline and in your discipleship.
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You have to teach. This is who God is, and this is
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who you are, and this is what God has done for you in Jesus
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Christ. Now, children, obey your parents
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and be careful how you joke. And this is how you should live
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and all of the ethical outworkings of it.
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Now walk worthy of the gospel and guard your speech and be
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quick to forgive. And so the one commandment that
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we've faced so far came in Roman or not Romans, in Ephesians 211
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and 12. The commandment was, remember,
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remember where you were, remember where you came from,
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remember where you were before you were called by God.
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And he says you were dead. In that context, you were dead
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in your sins and trespasses. You were a stranger to the
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covenant of promise. And remember that as Jesus pours
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out his blood as a new covenant, and you are no longer a stranger
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to that, We're going to take the Lord's Supper in a moment and we
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are no longer strangers but partakers in that covenant.
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He says, remember that you walked following the course of
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this world, and you come to Ephesians 4.
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And he says, now God is redeeming, that no longer do you
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walk according to the course of this world, but you walk worthy
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of the gospel. This is the second commandment
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that we face in the book. The first one said you were
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dead. You walked according to the
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course of this world. Remember that.
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But now walk worthy of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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Walk worthy of your calling. Read Ephesians 4 one to six with
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me. This is our text.
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And hear this, this commandment, Paul says.
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I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a
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manner worthy of the calling to which you've been called, with
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all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one
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another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit
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and the bond of peace. There was one body and one
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spirit, just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to
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your call. 1 Lord, 1 faith, one baptism, one God and Father of
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all, who is over all and through all and in all.
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Paul says Walk worthy of your calling 8 times in Ephesians, 33
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times in all of Paul's writings, he uses this command to walk.
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It's the ordinary living of the Christian life.
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It's extraordinarily ordinary. Walking is and you might
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remember the story I told of going to Powell's Books back in
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Isaiah because this is one of the premier commandments of
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Isaiah and 2/5. He says walk according to the
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light of the Lord, walk in the light of the Lord.
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And we visited Powell's Books, this city block of books.
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And I remember in this premier place on an end cap, there was a
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book called How to Walk. There's a big old thick step by
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step instruction guide. And I thought what a, what a
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weird thing to have such a long book over something that's so
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banal and ordinary. And, and that's the point.
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That's why Paul brings this out. This is how you walk.
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He's teaching you now how to walk.
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It's so simple. And he says you are to live this
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lifestyle, this unique Christian lifestyle, this Christian walk,
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a life of holiness and righteousness and moral purity.
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We don't live this way because we have to live this way.
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He's going to make the point we live this way because now we get
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to live this way. We love to live this way.
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We've been radically and supernaturally born again and
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this is what we desire. And as we read through these and
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he puts forth these virtues, we say, yes, I love this.
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This is what I want to be like. This is who I've been called to
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be. So we walk this.
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That's so counter intuitive to our culture.
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Paul says in verse one, we do this because we have been
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effectually called according to the gospel and we walk this way
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because we've been predestined to sonship and because we've
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been redeemed and blood bought by Jesus Christ.
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And because we've been sealed by the Holy Spirit and united at
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the church and given an inheritance which is a foretaste
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of our future inheritance in glory.
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And it means that God's act of calling has made us alive.
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You read Ephesians 2. He says you were dead in your
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trespasses and sins walking according to the course of this
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world. Something happened and now
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you're alive and you have this desire to walk worthy.
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And what that something is, is the calling of God who made you
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alive. And you as the Christian are now
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the the same supernatural walking illustration of the
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power of God that Jesus demonstrated when he went to
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Lazarus's tomb in John 1143 to 44.
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Jesus goes to the tomb of a dead man.
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He's been there four days. I love it.
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The King James Version says he stinketh and he goes to the tomb
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and he stands in front of the tomb and he declares Lazarus he
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calls to him come out and Lazarus walks in the same way
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God came to you. You were dead in your trespasses
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and sins. You were walking according to
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this world. You loved the things the world
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loved. You were bought into it.
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Jesus called you and said, come and follow me and you walked and
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you must walk. And this is the line of thinking
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that Paul writes, says he comes to verse one.
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This is in his mind. He says, I therefore a prisoner
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of the Lord, you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to
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which you have been called, not the way the world lives, not the
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way that you used to live. We remember, we keep it in our
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mind how we lived before so that we can love and appreciate where
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we are now. Now we walk worthy of Our
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Calling. And when Paul commands you to
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walk worthy, it's pear potato to walk the ordinary walking.
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But he says walk worthy. This is the word axios.
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The word worthy means literally bringing up the other beam of
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the scales. It means literally bringing into
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equilibrium. And what are we bringing into
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equilibrium? You're bringing your life into
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equilibrium with your calling. You're bringing it into balance.
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James Montgomery Boyce says we use this this worthy language
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even in our own, even in our own literature and how we speak in
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the day today. He says if you have a worthy
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opponent, if you're facing a worthy opponent, it's somebody's
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whose gifts are in balance with your own.
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Or if you have a laborer who, who's worthy of his wages, it's
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somebody who's who's practice, he's working out in his job,
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he's he's earning his wages. Those two are in balance.
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So here Paul says your high theology and your doctrine has
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to be brought into equilibrium with your practice.
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The weight of theology has to match the weight of practice in
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your life. And what that doesn't mean when
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he says walking worthy, that doesn't mean walking deserving,
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that you're worthy of your calling.
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You're deserving of your calling.
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It's actually exactly the opposite.
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He says the calling is so valuable that God has put on
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your life, that it deserves something of you, that it's,
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it's worthy of your life. He uses this elsewhere.
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Philippians 127 Only let your manner of life be worthy of the
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gospel of Jesus Christ, meaning the gospel is worth so much that
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your life comes into conformity with it.
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Similarly, Colossians 19 to 10. And so from the day we heard, we
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have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled
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with the knowledge of His will and all spiritual wisdom and
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understanding, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord.
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So the Lord is worthy, and He's so worthy that our lives come
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into conformity with Him. Matthew 37 to 8 John the Baptist
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says it this way. Bear fruit worthy of repentance,
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saying God has granted you repentance leading to a
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knowledge of the truth that is so beautiful, that's so worthy
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that you bring your life into conformity with it.
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The gospel, your calling, repentance, your Lord.
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Now walk worthy. And in Ephesians, as you go
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through the remainder of the book, Paul will use other
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language to to represent the same thing.
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This worthiness. He'll use the word proper
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sometimes, Prepe, he says sexual immorality and all impurity and
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covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper
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among the Saints, as is seemly, as is suitable, as is
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appropriate. Sometimes he'll use the word out
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of place. Anakin, he says in Ephesians,
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let there be no filthiness or foolish talk, nor crude joking
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which are out of place. And you say out of place for
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what? Out of place for your walk.
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This is out of place for how you are to be walking in the Lord.
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And so there's a way that Paul is teaching us as he teaches us
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how to walk. There's a way that is
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distinctively Christian to live born out of a transformed life,
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born out of relationship with God.
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And it's not born out of obligation.
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We don't do this because we have to.
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We do it because we want to. And it's what's taught in these
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three chapters. And and this is summed up in
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this image of the the scales. You're bringing the scales into
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equilibrium. Your doctrine with your
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practice, your response proportionate to what God has
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done for you in Christ. And so for Jamie and I, this has
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been a struggle from the beginning because there are
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there's a way that seems natural to you.
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In our early Christian walk, it was much easier for me to
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prioritize theology. I can sit on my bathroom floor
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and read or lay in my bed and read theology from sunup to
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sundown. Not an issue.
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I won't get bored with it. But what was harder for me is
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going and putting that into practice, to be the hands and
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feet and to interact with people.
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And for some people it's much more difficult.
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So chapters one to three of Ephesians were easier for me
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than 4 to 6. And Jamie says that I'm an ivory
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tower by default, right? That fixed and immovable
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structure. You sit in there and you study
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and you never go anywhere. And she out of love, wanted to
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live out the ideal Christian life.
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She wanted to go and be the hands and feet of Jesus.
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And theology was an afterthought.
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And I said, well, if I'm an ivory tower, then you're just
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wheels that don't carry anything.
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You're wheels with no theological freight.
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And so the, the dumb metaphor that we've used to kind of
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categorize our life and our marriage is we are an ivory
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tower on wheels. And so we have theology and we
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take it with us when we go to be the hands and feet.
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And so it's silly. It's but, but it's, it works for
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us. And so for, for me, the priority
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would be the theology of knowing that we are the orphans and the
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widows and knowing theologically what God has done for us.
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And, and I challenge Jamie in that way and she challenges me
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to say, no, practically, we go and we love on orphans and
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widows and sojourners. And when you bring those two
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things together, the theology and the practice, amazing things
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begin to happen. There are entire churches and
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entire denominations whose practical acts of service
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outweighs their knowledge of God, and in the same way,
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there's entire churches and denominations whose knowledge of
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doctrine outweighs their service, Paul says.
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Bring them into equilibrium, balance them out and beautiful,
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beautiful things will come. And everyone of you has to be an
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ivory tower on wheels. You can take that and run with
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it. And this is a chance for your
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Paul's giving you a chance between chapter 3 as you enter
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into chapter 4 to, to perform a spiritual diagnosis on yourself
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and say, am I in alignment? Where am I out of balance?
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Where do I need to adjust? Does your practice match the
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high theology of Ephesians one to three?
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And so as, as we go through the remainder of these 6 verses,
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this, this concept of walking worthy, now that you understand
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it, Paul's going to apply it in two places.
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He's going to apply it and say, this is how you walk worthy at
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the level of the individual. This is what you strive for.
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And this is where you apply the doctrine of walking worthy at
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the level of, of corporate local church.
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So individual virtues and corporate unity, elements of
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corporate unity, individual virtues and corporate unity.
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And to introduce this, as we look toward the individual and,
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and how we're called to walk worthy, I want you to remember
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this, this verse that Hudson preached last week that kind of
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puts us into this section. Paul prays in Ephesians 320 that
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God would give us abundantly more than we could ever ask or
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think. He prays that God will give us
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more than we could ever ask or imagine.
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And what he means by that is not money or free time or or power.
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What he's talking about is virtue, that God has declared
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you to be righteous and now he is making you righteous, patient
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and long-suffering and loving and humble and kind and, and
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it's a blessedness that you experience the fruit of walking
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squarely within the will of God and the peace that comes from
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that. You know how sweet your sleep is
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at night and how quickly you go to bed when you know that your
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life is pleasing to Him and you know that you're you're
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producing fruit and you're walking according with your
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calling. It's a transformed way of
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experiencing the world. The inner joy and the peace
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that's born out of that relationship.
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The inward glory of holiness that's radiating like a theater
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and and displaying God's holiness to the world.
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A clear conscience for moral purity in a fulfilled and
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fruitful life. This is what he's praying for.
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Our Calling is transformative and Our Calling is eternal.
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And Paul teaches that we are destined for glory, and that
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glory isn't only a future thing. That glory begins now, and that
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glory is today. It's not a worldly glory.
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It's a true glory. And true glory, the world wants
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it and it craves it, and it can't get it, so it offers you
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cheap substitutes. But in the church, we have the
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real thing. And so it's true glory.
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It's true virtue, not virtue signaling along with the
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culture, but actually becoming a beautiful, righteous, moral,
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pure person. And it's true blessing, which
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doesn't come from money and sex and power, or a big house or a
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big rock on your finger or big muscles.
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It comes from living your life as God designed it and walking
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according to your calling, knowing that you're operating
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squarely within the will of God and you're pleasing to Him.
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That life will prove to be more blessed than anything the world
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can offer you, more than you could ever ask or imagine.
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And you can test God on these things.
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He will prove Himself. This is the blessed life.
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This is the life that Paul's living, which is why in verse 1
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he reminds you again, I believe he reminds you here again that
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he's a prisoner. We keep saying it over and over.
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I'm a prisoner for the gospel. I'm a prisoner.
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Paul, therefore a prisoner. And I think he reminds you here
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again that he's in prison, in prison for two reasons, I think.
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First, because he's saying if you live this blessed life, it
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also might happen to you. This is what comes from living
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contrary to the world when you live morally pure.
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And 2nd and more importantly, I think he's telling you and it's
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worth it, the life worth living does not depend on money.
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The life worthy of living doesn't depend on whether you're
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in jail or not. He says the gospel is going out,
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that the gospel is not bound. Salvation is being worked out.
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It's being worked out through me.
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I'm living within the will of God.
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There's joy, there's peace, there's blessing.
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It's worth it if you do end up here.
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And so he says live the way I'm setting before you in the
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chapters that come. And he and he showcases this
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lifestyle with six virtues that he lists that every individual
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must exhibit to walk worthy. And these are beginning with
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this, this first virtue on Paul's list.
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It's first because it's the greatest, the foremost of all
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Christian virtues. The first on his list is
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humility. A Christian is humble, and
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humility is quiet strength. It's never weakness.
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Humility is not weakness. It's the strength that comes
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from esteeming yourself rightly before God.
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Humility is understanding who you are.
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When you know who God is and what you've done and what he's
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done for you, there's only one response, and it's humility.
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And when you esteem yourself that way, all of these other
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virtues are going to flow from it.
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It's The Fountainhead. And humility was not a virtue in
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the ancient world. If you if somebody was humble,
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it was derogatory. It was it categorized somebody
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that's a servant or a slave, servile, a weak or a lesser man
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is a humble man. And it became a virtue with
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Jesus Christ. It only was a virtue when Jesus
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came and he said, I am gentle and lowly.
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I am humble. And he showed us what a humble
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life, the power of a humble life.
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And he preached that this is how we're going to be.
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This is when it became the first distinctly Christian virtue.
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And a virtue is, is literally the word you.
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You can see it in the word veer is the Latin word for man.
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So if you're ever doing a crossword puzzle and it wants a
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three letter word from Latin, it's it's veer.
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And that's where we get virtue, which means manliness.
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And so if you're going to be a true man in the ancient Roman
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world in which Jesus walked and said you need to be brave and
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strong and intellectually astute.
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And if you are these things, then you are a true man.
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And Jesus comes and he says, no, no, no.
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You've heard it said these are the virtues of a true man.
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But I say to you, if you want to be a true man and you want to
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embody true virtue, it starts with humility and gentleness and
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meekness. That is the marks.
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Those are the marks of a real man.
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And I've gotten to participate, had the privilege of
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participating in manhood ceremonies for individuals in
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the church and outside of the church.
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And I only have one piece of advice every time I come to one
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of those and it's be like Jesus Christ.
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Because the world's going to tell you this is what a man is.
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And that changes from culture to culture.
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There's there's what people say this is in America, this is what
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a man is. But if you want to know what a
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real man is, open your scriptures to the Gospels.
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Read about the life and ministry of Jesus Christ and model your
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life after his. Because he was a man in the best
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sense of the word. He was a man, a true man.
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And if you are like him, then you'll be walking worthy.
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He's everything a man intended is intended to be.
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So humility is the foundational Christian virtue.
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All others flow from it. Which is why when Augustine was
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asked what are the Christian graces, premier Christian
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graces, he said humility, humility, humility.
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Paul in Acts 2019 says he's served the Lord with all
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humility and with tears through many trials.
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Humility is rightly esteeming yourself before God.
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And when you have the right view of yourself before God, then the
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second virtue flows from it. It's meekness.
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These first two virtues are a pair, humility and meekness.
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Gentle and lowly, they come together.
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Meekness is often misunderstood. It's strength under control.
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It's not that you don't have strength, it's that you, you
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wield it properly. It's prowtase.
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Aristotle in the ancient world, when he was describing this
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word, he's always trying to find the golden mean between two
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extremes. And so he said, between the
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extremes of being angry all the time and never being angry, you
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have meekness. That was his definition.
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And you come closer to our modern generation.
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William Barclay, probably with Aristotle in mind, says that
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meekness is always being angry at the right time and never
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being angry at the wrong time. And so meekness is not weakness,
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it's incredible strength, but it's contained and it's
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controlled, which is why this word was used in the ancient
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world of a powerful animal that has been brought under control,
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completely under control of its faculties.
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That's the image, and Scripture says it was the premier virtue
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of Moses in Numbers 12/3. It says that Moses was very
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meek, more than all people who filled the face of the earth.
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And stop there to say meekness and humility.
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Comparing it to the ancient Roman world, these virtues,
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their origin is supernatural. There's a reason that Romans did
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not value these things. It's because they were dead in
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their trespasses and sins. They did not understand.
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And so these things come from the Holy Spirit, which is why
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when you read Galatians 5, it says the fruit of the Spirit as
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Lovejoy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
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faithfulness, meekness, and self-control because it is a
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fruit that is generated by the Spirit of God.
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And Jesus says like unto Psalm 1, Jesus says in Matthew 5, the
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meek are going to inherit the earth.
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The meek are blessed and they're rich and they're so rich they
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they will inherit the world. And so gentleness and meekness
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come first. I know that if you embody these
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things, you will be living just like Jesus Christ.
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Because if you go to Matthew 11/29 he uses these two words to
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describe himself and his own heart.
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Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and
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lowly in heart and you will find rest for your souls.
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It's the same 2 words, gentle and lowly, humble and meek.
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Humility and meekness enable the third virtue which is patience,
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macrothalmia and it means a long-suffering endurance.
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The Proverbs talk about this as personal endurance.
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It's it's used of a city that's under warfare and under siege.
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It's used of rulers and it's used of Saints.
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And this is patience that keeps you from lashing out, acting
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quickly. It keeps you from vengeance and
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from demanding immediate justice.
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And you have to to just like we paired gentleness with humility.
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These second two virtues are a pair because meekness out of
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meekness flows forbearance. And so patience or forbearance
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or a pair. If you're long-suffering, then
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you bear with others in love, which comes to the 4th 1
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forbearance anexomanoy. It means bearing up or enduring
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weight or carrying weight, enduring people, enduring
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hardships. If you want to attach a verse to
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this virtue, you can attach first Corinthians 412 to 13.
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This is how we embody this forbearance.
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Paul says when reviled, how do you respond?
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You bless. When you're persecuted, you
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endure. When you're slandered, you
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entreat. That's forbearance.
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And it kind of goes with this next one because all of these
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things he says must be done in love.
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The 5th virtue is love agape. It's not a possessing love, it's
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a giving love. It's a love that is external and
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moves outward to others. It's an active, giving,
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charitable love. And he's going to say in the
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very next chapter of Ephesians, therefore be imitators of God as
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beloved children. And we're going to continue to
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walk there, he says, and walk in love as Christ loved us and gave
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himself up for us. And so love is the motive and
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the bond and the fuel of all the other virtues.
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And it's essential for you as we go through this list and you
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say, you see, meekness and humility and patience.
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Virtues are things that you can work on.
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The the last virtue he's going to say in a minute is, is
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eagerness. Make every effort.
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Make every effort to embody these things.
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Challenge yourself in these ways.
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Clinton Arnold applies that it says if you have a tendency to
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be proud, arrogant, egocentric, and boastful, then you need to
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cultivate the virtue of humility.
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If you're quick to get angry, then you need to cultivate the
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virtue of patience. If you're insensitive and
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bullish and rough and bossy and quick to impose on others, you
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need to cultivate the virtue of gentleness.
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If you're intolerant with the shortcomings of other people,
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then you need to work on bearing with them and love.
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And Paul's going to continue this with the 6th and final
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virtue. It's eagerness, verse 3, eager
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to maintain the unity of the spirit and the bond of peace.
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So if you want your life to be blessed and a source of blessing
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to other people, if you want your life to be characterized by
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the metaphor of a strong tree near planted by a stream, then
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remember it took effort on behalf of God.
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And he's been working and calling from all eternity that
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you might be this kind of person.
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And now he says it also takes effort on your part to embody
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these virtues. The word eager in Greek means
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literally to make haste, to be busy, to be diligent, to make
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every effort to apply yourself to these things.
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And elsewhere in the Bible, Paul uses this word to to talk about
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enduring through a long journey or enduring through completing a
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difficult task. It takes sustained and Godward
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effort to walk worthy of the gospel, which is why the
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metaphor of the tree is used because it takes a fig tree a
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minimum of 10 years to establish the root system and the canopy
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so that it can be a refreshment to the others around it.
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And in a similar vein, Mark Dever, I wish I could remember
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where he said this, but I heard Mark Dever talking about how
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long it takes to bring a church from a place of unhealth to a
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place of health. How long does it take to get a
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church from an unhealthy place to a healthy place?
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He says in his experience, it's about 20 years, 20 year
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transformation and not only 20 years, but 20 years of sustained
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effort, effort and doing the right things, prioritizing the
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correct things. To quote Eugene Peterson, it's a
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long obedience in the same direction and churches think if
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we hire the right pastor and make the bylaw changes that are
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necessary, then we're going to be healthy.
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And you can see here that it's it's not the case.
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Paul says no, it takes the cultivation of godliness and
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virtue in the decades that that requires, coupled with the
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decades of loving your church and pursuing unity together.
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And in the same way, pastors think if, if I would just get my
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Bible degree, then that would qualify me to be a pastor and I
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would be ready. And we said what's missing in
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that is yes, the knowledge of God, yes, the Bible degree, but
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you have to be an approved Workman.
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You have to be qualified through these virtues.
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And there's a, there's a quote that I want to bring up that I,
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I read to our pastors last Wednesday that sums up the kind
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of Christian that we're talking about.
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And it shows beautifully what's required to be this kind of
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vessel for ministry. This author said that I think
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this is even what it means to be a tree near planted by a stream.
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The author said the old seminary professors used to speak about a
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necessary trait for pastoral ministry called gravitas.
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It refers to a soul that's been developed enough.
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It's developed enough spiritual mass to be attractive.
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Like gravity, it makes the soul appear old.
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But gravitas has nothing to do with age.
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It has everything to do with wounds that have healed well,
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failures that have been redeemed, sins that have been
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forgiven, and thorns that have settled into the flesh.
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These severe experiences with life expand the soul until it
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appears larger than the body that contains it.
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Then it is large enough to proclaim a holy joy, which is
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what makes the pastor's soul so attractive.
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So the soul, your soul has to expand to be larger than your
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body in these ways, humility, meekness, patience, forbearance,
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love, and eagerness. And if these qualities are yours
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and they are increasing, then God will use you and He will
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bless you. Ephesians 320 says far more
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abundantly than you can ever ask or imagine because of the power
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that is work within you. And important to note as well is
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in verse 3 is that this this kind of individual virtue worked
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out corporately brings unity in the church.
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This is the unity that we're trying to maintain.
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And you have to see here that we don't build unity as a church.
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It says we maintain the unity that the Spirit has created in
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us. We maintain the the Spirit's
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unity. We preserve the unity.
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We don't develop it, so Jesus purchased our unity when he died
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on the cross and now he says your job is to maintain it, Ian
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Hamilton said rightly. He pointed out there are a few
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things more tragic and distressing than a disunified,
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disunited, fractured family. It becomes an object of pity if
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not derision, never a model to cherish or emulate.
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You can apply that to a local church as well.
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There are a few things more tragic and distressing than a
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disunited, fractured church. But you say the opposite of
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that. How beautiful is a United Church
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with the unity of the Spirit? How fruitful is a church like
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this, where these virtues are there and increasing and they
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have preserved the unity of the Spirit?
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And then Paul applies the worthy walk to our corporate life, the
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corporate elements of unity. It's really interesting that
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there is no transition here. There is no lead up.
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There's no, that's an abrupt change.
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There's not even a conjunction. There's no grammatical
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signalling at all. It's just a stop, an abrupt
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change. And so in this sermon, I want to
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have an abrupt change as well. And I want to invite the choir
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to come up and I want to invite the deacons to come up and to
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pass out the Lord's Supper because I don't want to go
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through the rest of the sermon without the Lord's Supper in our
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hands. And I don't want to go through
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the rest of the sermon without stopping for a moment and
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singing about unity and cherishing this unity that the
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the Spirit has created in US. Deacons, go ahead.
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As you get here, pass out the bread as we sing.
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And for everyone here, as the choir sings this song, I want
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you to meditate on the words. And when we come to verse 4,
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specifically to this passage about unity, I want you to sing
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along with the choir, Jim. We'll give you the cue 3 and 4.
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Jim says sing on three and four and focus in and sing these
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words about unity when we get there.
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Thanks for listening. To learn more about Heritage
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Church or if you'd like to respond to this sermon, visit
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our website at www.heritageshawnee.org.