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”The Dinah Incident” - Genesis 34 - Pastor Scotty Brown

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  1. All righty, we'll pull them swords out looks like we might need them

  2. Anybody who's been watching the goings-on and across the pond

  3. As my dad would say get your sack open now the words get your house in order

  4. If you're not right with Jesus today, please get that way

  5. Because it is apparent that things are happening and for those of you who don't know Iran

  6. Initiated an attack on Israel over 200

  7. Drones or UAVs or whatever they're they're called

  8. trying to attack

  9. What's what's concerning for us as Americans is is?

  10. this administration is pulling back and saying that if I

  11. we will not engage with Israel in a

  12. deliberate attack on the Iranians and so

  13. The Bible does tell us that in the last days that Israel will be by themselves

  14. And so if you're not watching this stuff

  15. It's foolishness

  16. To not pay attention to what's going on in your world and especially its foolishness to not pay attention to what's going on

  17. with God's timepiece as

  18. once quoted by

  19. Chuck Missler

  20. Israel is God's timepiece. You want to know what the times are like look at Israel, right?

  21. Didn't Jesus indict the the the Jews saying Oh Jerusalem Jerusalem had you a known this day your day of visitation

  22. I would have gathered you like a hen gathers her chicks. And so

  23. What's going on over there is very?

  24. Significant to say the least anytime Israel is involved. So

  25. We go back to what we've looked at in the book of Genesis, you know that

  26. That whoever blesses them. I will bless the Lord says whoever curses them

  27. I will curse and so shame on Iran

  28. Because they will get theirs in a big way. So if you got a Bible we're gonna be and and Jack

  29. Genesis chapter 34

    Genesis 34 chapter mention

  30. Interesting a little disclaimer here. This may not be some stuff for little ears

  31. Though if if it was my grandchildren, they would not have the privilege of leaving

  32. They would have to stay put but but you might not want your kids to hear some of this stuff

  33. It's called the Dinah incident. Most of you have have heard about it the the the daughter of

  34. Jacob of Israel and and and Leah

  35. his first wife

  36. is is the subject and

  37. and so

  38. Many Bible commentators don't believe that you should preach this this this passage

  39. because of the content but also because God is not mentioned one time and

  40. And maybe all the more reason

  41. to learn and glean

  42. From lives where the Lord is absent

  43. and so

  44. We're gonna I'm gonna try to get through this chapter in the next

  45. 29 minutes something like that. Let's pray Lord. Thank you for your word. That is truly a light and a lamp and

  46. Lord we're uh

  47. We're desperate for you. We're desperate in this nation and and as individuals on a daily basis

  48. For I know for myself it's it's as though I need more of you today than I did yesterday

  49. because I'm weak and you're strong and

  50. Lord the nation of Israel

  51. Obviously needs your your hand to be upon them as well

  52. and we pray for that knowing that that is truly your heart and though you have

  53. given them many spankings throughout the

  54. The different Millennials and so Lord we pray that you would get our attention today

  55. Lord that we would know that we need to be pressing in and that we need to be aware of this day

  56. This may be the day of your visitation to some hearts here that aren't familiar with you Lord

  57. So draw all of us closer to yourself today as we look at your word in Jesus name. Amen

  58. Okay, so the dysfunction continues I talked about it a little bit last time

  59. Jacob should have went to Bethel he had lied to his brother Esau say yeah go on

  60. I'll be right behind you and he didn't he alley manned right, you know exit stage right who says that Tigger or somebody but

  61. Anyway, he bailed out and ended up in a very pagan

  62. Neighborhood and and I mean really he could have just went down the Jordan followed Esau for a ways

  63. Mount Seir was further down south and then he could have crossed and ended up right in Bethel the house of God

  64. That's where he should have been that's where we all should be so much more as you see the day approaching

  65. right

  66. Is that what the scripture says do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together?

  67. but so much more as we see the day approaching and

  68. you know you watch stuff like yesterday and you go oh who the day is approaching and

  69. And it really is and so we need to be

  70. obedient we need to be

  71. Pressing in and and hanging out with God's people. I mean we could go to the bar. I

  72. Mean that's an alternative

  73. I mean because really people fellowship people all everyone likes to fellowship some people go to the bar some people come to church

  74. Some of you do both

  75. We need to talk

  76. But

  77. Listen I have I've had people to well, you know, dude

  78. They got to relate to us I go down I have a beer with them when we talk and kind of relate

  79. No

  80. If you're gonna you're gonna go to a bar you step in the door you take off your hat and say

  81. Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand and then you walk out

  82. right

  83. But when we disobey especially as leaders of our families

  84. you had better brace for impact because it's not gonna go well and

  85. and

  86. Jacob led his family right into this place and by doing so he put everyone in danger

  87. And you remember this this is this is this text goes clear back to the garden

  88. you know when Abba Adam wasn't doing what he should have done and him and Eve what more they shouldn't have went and

  89. Abraham put Sarah in jeopardy when he went where he shouldn't have went and and and and

  90. Moses and Jonah and Saul and David and Elimelech and Naomi and Peter and you look at

  91. Everybody when they're in that place where they shouldn't be

  92. It never goes good I

  93. I remember sharing a breath with a brother was at a wedding and he come up to me and tell me about this opportunity

  94. It was so cool. He was so excited, but he had his reservations

  95. And I told him I said dude. Listen, I just want you to know this

  96. I don't know what God's will for you and this is all about. I just want you to know God allows you turns

  97. right

  98. So if you if you're going somewhere where you shouldn't be going and you need to turn around God allows that

  99. Because what what how

  100. Why the world gets these twisted ideas some people think once they've transgressed they say well, I've already done it

  101. So now I'm just gonna stay there wallow in it

  102. Living it, you know

  103. Just like a dog going back to its vomit and a hog to its wallow I'm just gonna stay right here

  104. No turn around

  105. God allows you turns and so anyway, so we're gonna jump in here

  106. We're gonna read the first four verses here at chapter 34 and it's gonna go fairly fast

  107. I think it says now Dinah

  108. The daughter of Leah whom she had born to Jacob went out to see the daughters of the land

  109. And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite prince of the country saw her

  110. He took her and lay with her and violated her his soul was strongly attracted to Dinah

  111. The daughter of Jacob and he loved the young woman and spoke kindly to the young woman. So Shechem spoke

  112. to his father Hamor saying

  113. Get me this young woman for wife

  114. And so here she is

  115. She's going out many believe that she's between 13 and 15 years old

  116. right that she's going out hanging out with the daughters of the land now Jacob knew these people were perverse and

  117. and

  118. But he lets his daughter go. Where do you let your daughter go?

  119. My daughters didn't go anywhere I had chastity belts and handcuffs

  120. I'm kidding. Okay. I don't even know one of them might be here today

  121. I'm I'm kidding and she would tell you I'm kidding but

  122. But as a father obviously I I was very concerned raising girls for me

  123. I had two of each had two boys two girls and the girls were much tougher simply for the fear factor

  124. And that I had to keep a lot of ammo on hand

  125. But uh

  126. But so she goes out and this this this this prince the prince of

  127. Shechem of

  128. actually, the city is named after him or he by vice versa and any Caesar and

  129. Any rapes her he says, oh I like what I see I think I'll just take that

  130. and

  131. In that culture that must be kind of a common thing. Well, actually even in that culture today. It's fairly common in

  132. the especially in the Muslim world a lot of

  133. A lot of a lot of women in their marriage relationships, right? They they are just subject to their husband

  134. It's this is nothing consensual about it. They just rape them and

  135. what kind of relationship would that be and

  136. so

  137. But that's what he does and then it says his heart is is drawn to her

  138. Right. He he does have a an honest

  139. Emotional connection to this girl. Obviously, she's probably pretty and and and he but he violates her and

  140. And then tells his dad get her for me

  141. Right, and so this this this dude has no self-control

  142. that's a that's a sign of the time that we live in right and and and

  143. the that

  144. That men will be lovers of themselves lovers of pleasure in these last days rather than lovers of God

  145. and that seems to be this

  146. this culture here where Jacob ends up taking his family and

  147. And he's this his kids very spontaneous. He just sees her he likes what he sees he rapes her and

  148. And actually violates her but the thing about it is is when that happens, you know, no one sends unto themselves

  149. and we're gonna see that this affects a lot more people and

  150. You know in our culture men well actually just in the world men are always the the

  151. The driving force to the sex act right? They always are men are

  152. we're

  153. We're dogs

  154. Now praise God God give did give us that drive but it is to be controlled right and

  155. Because if God

  156. Didn't give us that drive all we'd be doing is riding bucking horses and driving race cars

  157. and

  158. There would be no babies born

  159. But so men

  160. when they

  161. With the sex drive they will tell the woman what she wants to hear

  162. In other words a man will give love to get sex

  163. right

  164. Or or should I say I put it in my notes here or should I say he he will pretend

  165. He loves her to get sex. Yeah, he'll tell her Oh, baby. I love you so much

  166. And

  167. If you really love me, you know

  168. You're gonna love me

  169. Lion dogs

  170. Men are lying dogs

  171. Isn't it amazing that God's very specific or the scripture is very specific where he says let God be true and every man

  172. a liar

  173. They are

  174. lion dogs

  175. Girls, you can't trust them as far as you can throw them right? They are so self-centered. It's sickening

  176. Now girls on the other hand will give sex to get love

  177. She thinks oh if I give this to him then he'll love me and he'll talk to me and he'll cherish me and

  178. He'll take care of me

  179. wrong

  180. Women have all the power

  181. Listen, if if you're here today, if you're a single woman, you got a dude putting pressure on you to have sex with you

  182. He does not love you I

  183. Promise you he does not love you. He loves himself a whole lot more

  184. Right. So you keep him at bay girl get a hot poker get something

  185. Away with you

  186. Don't even let him close I

  187. Prayed that my girls would be protected from men like me

  188. Because it all changes once you become a dad

  189. It all changes I

  190. Mean you talk about murder in your heart. I

  191. Think I told a couple of them I am not afraid to go to prison I will kill you

  192. And

  193. My granddaughter's now is like another step above

  194. I'm gonna build a compound for them

  195. So

  196. Because what because true love true love that wasn't true love that Shechem had for Dinah that was true lust

  197. Right, that was true lust true love waits

  198. All we have to do is back up a few chapters and see what that looks like

  199. Jacob when he rates for seven years for Rachel good on him

  200. Holy cow seven years and it says it seemed like it was just a short time because his love for her was so strong

  201. That's love

  202. Right and the contrast here. I was gonna wait till the end, but I can't the contrast is is Jesus

  203. Right. Jesus loves us. He does not force himself upon you

  204. You know people come to church and say oh that preacher. He's just trying to cram it down my your throat. No, I

  205. Can tell you that you're going to hell if you're living a certain way that just that's just what the Bible says

  206. But I can't force Jesus on you number because he won't force himself on you, right?

  207. He wants you to come to him and he invites you. He says I'm right here. I

  208. Haven't gone anywhere

  209. Whosoever will let them come

  210. Come all you who weary and heavy would laden and I will give you rest and he invites us to come to him

  211. and

  212. the Bible says that we as

  213. Believers are his bride and he loves us but it is and we consent to him as our Lord and as our King

  214. to direct our lives

  215. That's the idea in

  216. in relationship that true love it well

  217. My little definition that I have in the front page of my Bible says

  218. Purposeful commitment to sacrificial action for another is what true love is

  219. Purposeful commitment to sacrificial action for another

  220. Jacob was committed

  221. To Rachel not to his own desires

  222. But the shechem on the other hand he demands his father to get her talk about a spoiled kid

  223. Right you you go get her for me

  224. No self-control

  225. Lord knows what his artwork ethic was like we see it today, right and

  226. Then we have the response in verse 5 and Jacob heard that he had defiled

  227. dying to his daughter now his sons were with his livestock in the field and so Jacob held his peace until they came and then

  228. Hamor the father of shechem went out to Jacob to speak with him and the sons of Jacob came in from the field

  229. When they heard it and the men were grieved and very angry because he had done a disgrace

  230. disgraceful thing and in Israel by lying with Jacob's daughter a thing which ought not to be done

  231. But Hamor spoke with them saying the soul of my son shechem longs for your daughter

  232. Please give her to him as a wife and make marriages with us

  233. Give us your daughters to take and take our daughters to yourself

  234. And so you shall dwell with us and the land shall be before you dwell and trade in it and acquire possessions for

  235. Yourselves in it then shechem said to her

  236. Father and her brothers. Let me find favor in your eyes and whatever you say to me

  237. I will give ask me what ever so much

  238. Dowry and gift and I will give according to what you say to me, but give me the young woman as wife

  239. And he's sticking to his guns

  240. At least he's he's he's consistent

  241. right and and he's he's trying to

  242. Basically buy these guys off he can tell they're probably upset at him now

  243. You realize that Dinah right Dinah is the full sister to Reuben Simeon Levi Judah is car and zebulun

  244. Right. She has these six brothers

  245. There are quite a bit older and no doubt they were she was her baby their baby sister that they probably had a great

  246. Affection for and to think that this thing had happened to them to her no doubt probably

  247. Soiled their hearts toward this dude wanting to tear his head completely off his body

  248. and

  249. so I

  250. Wonder here when Jacob hears about it. He I don't know if he's passive or he's wise

  251. Maybe a little bit of both, but I know if it was me there

  252. There probably would have been bloodshed right off the bat

  253. Jake wakes till his sons get home and

  254. And they're angry. They're they're grieved. Obviously, they practice restraint

  255. Isn't it is isn't it interesting here in the and several thousands of years ago?

  256. we see Israel the people of Israel practicing restraint and

  257. Pierce Morgan, I just read a little blurb

  258. He made a little comment on Israel and the whole Iranian thing that Israel has to practice restraint. Are you kidding me?

  259. over

  260. 200 uavs are launched into Israel. That's not a declaration of war. I

  261. Mean who what nation would not retaliate in full force?

  262. It's just it's not so

  263. But these guys they they practice respect restraint and Hamor is going hey, let's make a deal

  264. Well, you give your daughter to my son

  265. We'll start exchanging kids right are your boys can marry our daughters and our boys can marry your daughters

  266. We know that ain't right, right? These are a hip heights

  267. You remember when when Esau married a hip I it grieved the heart it grieved the heart of Isaac and Rebecca

  268. Go no not not her

  269. Parents you ever kind of had that thought in your heart. No, please not them

  270. Really? We got to be connected to these people

  271. We don't like each other

  272. Sorry, you can choose your friends, but you're stuck with your in-laws

  273. right

  274. so pray for them diligently and

  275. God will give you a love that is is supernatural because you you know, obviously you do not have it in your heart naturally

  276. To show them the love that God would have you

  277. show them and so

  278. Because no doubt they're feeling now you didn't just violated our daughter you violated our whole family

  279. Ancient Middle Eastern cultures had a strong sense of family honor

  280. Strong enough to use violence to defend this sense of honor in this culture

  281. The brothers had a greater responsibility to protect their sister than the father yet

  282. the sons of Jacob would go on to defend the family's honor and an unwise and sinful way and we'll get

  283. There in a second verse 9

  284. there it says and

  285. Make marriages with us give us your daughters and take our daughters

  286. So you shall dwell with us and the land shall be before you dwell and trade in it and acquire

  287. Possessions for yourself. He's kind of playing on their little greedy hearts, right? That's all of us. Hey, what's in it for me?

  288. All of us struggle with that right the tenth commandment you shall not

  289. Cove it right you shall not covet and you don't know no doubt

  290. there was maybe a lot of goodies to have there and

  291. if you give us Dinah is your wife we will give you our daughters and and

  292. financially you'll do well

  293. kinda

  294. You know, he said whatever dowry he said I got you know, I got all the country

  295. Accessible to me. I'll give you what you want for the girl. Just just give her to me

  296. I wonder what Dinah is saying about this the whole take girls. You ever remember you just ever just wonder well, what's her take on this?

  297. right

  298. Now the the daughter was under the authority of the father until the father gave her away in marriage

  299. And that's the way it should be today

  300. men

  301. Your daughter should be under your authority until it's time for her to get married and you give her away

  302. and

  303. Girls some some women say I'm not gonna be that I'm not gonna be subject to my dad

  304. We should be because it's safe

  305. Because there's probably not too many men in the world that love you like your father does I?

  306. Realize there's there's exceptions to that but

  307. But father's love for their daughters is is it sure should be peaceably

  308. pure and

  309. wanting her best interest

  310. and

  311. so

  312. The deception begins in verse 13

  313. But the sons of Jacob answered Shechem and Hamor his father and spoke deceitfully

  314. Because he had defiled Don Dinah their sister. They're going okay now

  315. How can we get this guy and they said to them?

  316. We cannot do this thing and give our sister to one who is uncircumcised

  317. For that would be a reproach to us, but on the condition on this condition. We will consent to you if

  318. You will become as we are if every male of you is

  319. Circumcised then we will give our daughters to you and we will take your daughters to us and we will dwell with you

  320. And we will become one people but if you will not heed us and be circumcised

  321. Then we will take our daughter and be gone and their words

  322. Please Hamor and Shechem and Hamor son

  323. So the young man did not delay to do the thing because he delighted in Jacob's daughter and he was more

  324. Honorable than all the household of his father. He goes. All right deal

  325. deal

  326. Man, how's he gonna convince all these guys? Hey guys, guess what?

  327. Isn't it scary when leaders of our country get us in these pickles

  328. Right. Look at our country and the stuff that we have to put up with

  329. Because of the stupid things the people in leadership and the laws that they've passed

  330. It's just like no wonder we should be involved in the whole political process

  331. So we can see a state snake coming and cut its head off before it gets out of its cage, you know

  332. It's just it's crazy and and he and he's making this this decision

  333. But then also the the the people the things that people will agree to for a buck

  334. So does this mean

  335. I want you to think about this Christian. So does everybody have a price?

  336. It's prices, right? What will you do? What would you do for a million bucks? What kind of compromises would you make?

  337. What can that million bucks do for you that on the day you take your last breath a good brother and I was just talking about

  338. This this morning at breakfast

  339. Money is a moral right now that it's not good or evil. Oh, but the Bible says it's even though the Bible does not say it

  340. It's evil. The Bible says the love of money is

  341. The root of all kinds of evil right money is a moral it can be used for righteousness or it can be used for wickedness

  342. But I guess the question is is can you be bought

  343. That's

  344. Pretty scary thought if you know your heart at all, that's a scary thought and

  345. These people seem to be in a place where they they can be convinced check it out verse 20 and Hamor and Shechem

  346. His sons came to the gate of their city and spoke with the men of their city saying these men are at peace with us

  347. Therefore let them dwell in the land and trade in it for indeed

  348. The land is large enough for them

  349. Let us take their daughters to us as wives and let us give them our daughters so good

  350. So sounds so good sounds good so far only on this

  351. Condition will the men consent to dwell with us to be one people and if every male among us is

  352. Circumcised as they are circumcised will not their livestock and their property and every animal of theirs be ours

  353. Only let us consent to them and they will dwell with us and all who went out of the gate of this city

  354. He did Hamor and Shechem his son every male was circumcised all who went out of the gate of his city

  355. This Shechem should get salesman of the year

  356. Right here he can't he convinced all these guys

  357. He says listen, there's livestock. They're women right all that they got it's gonna be ours

  358. You just have to have

  359. some skin in the game

  360. Quite literally

  361. [LAUGHTER]

  362. I'm just not sure here about these people and their--

  363. you know, these people would maybe really

  364. qualify as knuckle draggers.

  365. Not the sharpest tool in the shed.

  366. But really, I mean, greed will cause you to do things

  367. that you probably--

  368. what's so blasphemous about this,

  369. about what the sons of Jacob do with this?

  370. What are they using?

  371. They're using the covenant sign of God, right?

  372. They're blaspheming by using the covenant sign of God

  373. as financial leverage and as a weapon.

  374. That's what they're doing.

  375. And you realize that there's a lot of people

  376. that won't come to church because people have done that.

  377. They've weaponized the word of God

  378. and told people that they're going to hell.

  379. But have you told them that that's

  380. where you were headed as well until you

  381. repented of your sin?

  382. A lot of times, you have to identify people

  383. with on the plane that, yes, you know that you're sinful,

  384. but you've had this encounter with a God who forgives sinners.

  385. But some people know, God hates this,

  386. and he hates you because of this.

  387. And God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son,

  388. right?

  389. Yes, he hates sin.

  390. But he loves man's soul.

  391. He created it to have fellowship so that it would bring him

  392. pleasure that your soul and my soul

  393. would be a pleasurable thing to the God of heaven.

  394. I can't imagine my soul bringing a smile to the Lord's face.

  395. But I know that if I find myself in the center of his will,

  396. that happens.

  397. And he's the one who does it.

  398. He's the one that works in my life.

  399. He's the one that directs my steps.

  400. He's the one that convicts me of my wickedness.

  401. My job is to respond, to be in relationship.

  402. And like I said, he doesn't force himself on us.

  403. God's such a gentleman.

  404. He'll knock.

  405. He'll whisper.

  406. Question is, is do we listen?

  407. Now, two wrongs don't make a right,

  408. but here we go in verse 25.

  409. "Now it came to pass on the third day

  410. when they were in pain, no doubt,

  411. and the two of the sons of Jacob, Simeon and Levi,

  412. Dinah's brothers, each took his sword

  413. and came boldly upon the city and killed all the males.

  414. And they killed Hamor and Shechem, his son,

  415. with the edge of the sword,

  416. and took Dinah from Shechem's house and went out.

  417. And the sons of Jacob came upon the slain

  418. and plundered the city

  419. because their sister had been defiled.

  420. They took their sheep and their oxen and their donkeys,

  421. what was in the city and what was in the field

  422. and all their wealth, all their little ones and their wives.

  423. They took captive and they plundered

  424. even all that was in the houses."

  425. Wow.

  426. So they wait till these dudes are sore

  427. and they know they got the upper hand

  428. and they pour out their wrath, their own wrath.

  429. I'm thinking this is why the Lord says

  430. there in Romans chapter 12, verse 19,

    Romans 12:19

  431. "Beloved, do not avenge yourselves,

  432. but rather give place to wrath

  433. for it is written, vengeance is mine.

  434. I will repay, says the Lord,

  435. because your wrath and my wrath is never justified."

  436. Right?

  437. It's God's wrath that's justified

  438. because we go beyond justice, you and I.

  439. Somebody punches you in the mouth,

  440. you want to knock out all their teeth,

  441. break their nose, break their jaw, break their arm, right?

  442. And maybe kill them if you don't think you'll get caught.

  443. That's the judgment that you and I pour out

  444. and that's what Simeon and Levi do here.

  445. Charles Haddon's Purge says,

  446. "By way of making some amends for their sisters' defilement

  447. with dastardly treachery,

  448. they slay the whole of the Shechemites

  449. and so bring the guilt of murder upon a family

  450. which ought to have been holiness to the Lord."

  451. Now I got to say,

  452. I've had these kinds of things in my heart.

  453. Have you?

  454. But this is why God,

  455. in his love and his mercy,

  456. he gave us his law, right?

  457. Or else we would always,

  458. we would always be that one that was excessive,

  459. just like these guys were.

  460. This is excessive, right?

  461. Yes, what Shechem did was wrong, absolutely wrong.

  462. He defiled her, he disrespected that family

  463. and there should have been a consequence.

  464. But this is,

  465. this is brutal, right?

  466. It's so brutal.

  467. So God gives us this law, Exodus chapter 21.

    Exodus 21 chapter mention

  468. What was it?

  469. It was life for life, tooth for tooth, eye for eye,

  470. hand for hand, foot for foot, right?

  471. It was that the judgment would not exceed the crime, right?

  472. The judgment would not exceed the crime.

  473. God had to give us that law

  474. because if it was left to you and I,

  475. there would be nobody sitting in this room right now

  476. because everybody would be dead

  477. because of the things we've done to others, right?

  478. They would have killed us.

  479. And so that, but that's not justice, right?

  480. Justice is eye for eye, tooth for tooth, life for life.

  481. And so Jacob responds to what his boys do.

  482. Then Jacob said to Simeon and Levi,

  483. "You have troubled me by making me obnoxious

  484. among the inhabitants of the land,

  485. among the Canaanites and the Perizzites.

  486. And since I am few in number,

  487. they will gather together themselves together against me

  488. and kill me and I shall be destroyed by my household

  489. and I," he's got an eye disease, right?

  490. All Jacob's worry about is his own skin.

  491. What have you guys done to me?

  492. Right, isn't that what we do sometimes parents

  493. when our kids blow it?

  494. And you're like, what are you doing?

  495. You're making us look so bad.

  496. Are you really my child?

  497. I mean, really, haven't we all been there?

  498. Like, I think I might kill you right now

  499. because you have just embarrassed me and your mother.

  500. We should never do that, right?

  501. That's not right.

  502. Kids make their own bed.

  503. They got to lie in it.

  504. If you're their parent, I'm sorry.

  505. But just remember your parents had to put up with you, right?

  506. And no doubt there were days when they, oh Lord.

  507. My mother, bless her soul,

  508. I do not know how she put up with her four children.

  509. I mean, there were times when she should have done us all in

  510. by the time before we were 20.

  511. She should have done four funerals.

  512. But she did, and then she got to see us go through our,

  513. and they just, and you just smile, don't you?

  514. And you see your kids going through it.

  515. Well, this turnabout's fair play.

  516. What goes around comes around, right?

  517. So you're getting yours.

  518. But he, Jacob was worried about me

  519. and I, and he should know by now

  520. that looking back on his life, life is not about him.

  521. It's about what God's doing with his life.

  522. It's about what God's doing with your life.

  523. Let him do it, right?

  524. I love, Donald Green Barnhouse said this.

  525. He said, "Jacob, you brought that trouble on yourself.

  526. You passed your own deceitful nature into your boys.

  527. You set them a constant example of guile.

  528. They heard you lie to Esau at Peniel

  529. and start Northwest after he went Southeast.

  530. They saw your interest in the fat pastures

  531. when you pitched your tent in Shechem,

  532. and you said nothing when Dinah was violated.

  533. Talk to God about your own sin

  534. before talking to these boys about theirs."

  535. That's some pretty good wisdom right there.

  536. Now I got to tell you, sin so marrs people.

  537. My sin had so marred me,

  538. there were things that when I seen my kids do them,

  539. they weren't quite as bad as what I had done.

  540. And my boys are better than men than I am,

  541. and my daughters are better than I am.

  542. But sometimes that kept me from disciplining them.

  543. And that's not right.

  544. You discipline them because it's right,

  545. not because you're comparing your life to theirs.

  546. You shouldn't do that.

  547. That's what a lot of people say,

  548. "Well, they're not as bad as I was."

  549. And I tried that one.

  550. That don't work.

  551. That's no excuse at all.

  552. But Jacob should have confessed his own failure

  553. before the Lord.

  554. And once we take the plank out of our own eye,

  555. then we can see the speck the Bible says

  556. to help remove it from our brother's eye.

  557. Three things real quick, just in parenting,

  558. because even as our kids grow up and leave the house,

  559. we're still parents.

  560. I think they look for us for advice.

  561. Just don't offer too much freely.

  562. Make sure they ask you for it.

  563. Don't give your advice freely

  564. 'cause you will turn them off.

  565. But number one, be loving.

  566. Be loving to your kids.

  567. And a lot of people don't,

  568. what do you mean you just let everything go?

  569. No, you don't let everything go.

  570. If you see a sin in their life, call them out.

  571. That's wicked.

  572. That's sin, that's not right.

  573. And you know that's not right.

  574. And they do.

  575. And secondly, along with being loving,

  576. you have to be truthful.

  577. So being loving is telling the truth.

  578. The Bible says to share the truth in love.

  579. I mean, Jacob should have told Levi and Simeon,

  580. "If you don't turn from your murderous ways,

  581. "you're going to hell.

  582. "You're going to hell."

  583. God's not gonna allow that.

  584. You need to turn from that.

  585. And maybe you've got some children

  586. that you need to turn from.

  587. I saw a kid the other day and I was shocked.

  588. The whole family has embraced this lie, this one lie,

  589. that one of the kids thinks they're a different gender

  590. than what they really are.

  591. The whole family has bought into it.

  592. So they call them by a different, that's a female,

  593. they're calling them a male.

  594. No, it's not a male.

  595. Let's go to the doctor's office.

  596. Right?

  597. No, she is a biologically biological female.

  598. And what are you guys doing calling her this name?

  599. She is a woman and a very beautiful one, I might add.

  600. I don't get the psyche there.

  601. I know she's gonna come to her senses.

  602. She's mental and they're all aiding and abetting it.

  603. Do you know when Paul talks about this in first, excuse me,

  604. the first chapter of Romans where he says,

  605. he says, "Hey, these things that these people are doing,

  606. "they are worthy of death.

  607. "And so it is for everyone who approves of them."

  608. What do you approve of that you know God says is wrong?

  609. Don't do that.

  610. You are not showing anybody love, right?

  611. By consenting to their psychosis.

  612. Tell them the truth.

  613. God loves you, he has a plan for your life.

  614. He created you this way.

  615. So do it his way.

  616. I don't know about you, I tried life my way.

  617. Don't work very good.

  618. Do life his way.

  619. But be truthful, right?

  620. First Corinthians chapter six, verse nine through 11,

  621. people do not like this passage of scripture.

  622. This is what it says.

  623. "Do you not know that the unrighteous

  624. "will not inherit the kingdom of God?

  625. "Do not be deceived.

  626. "Neither fornicators nor idolaters, nor adulterers,

  627. "nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves,

  628. "nor covenists, nor drunkards, nor revilers,

  629. "nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God."

  630. That's what it says.

  631. Who are we to question this?

  632. Right, just share it with people.

  633. Just be truthful.

  634. Now he says something that's pretty powerful

  635. right after that.

  636. In verse 11, he says, "And such were some of you,

  637. "but you were washed and you were sanctified,

  638. "but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus

  639. "and by the Spirit of our God."

  640. Right?

  641. We were some of this.

  642. I was a perverse dog.

  643. Still am sometimes, but I seek the Lord.

  644. He forgives me, he washes me from those things.

  645. He helps me to see clearly where it'll take me

  646. and where it'll take you.

  647. So please don't get upset if somebody calls you on something

  648. and you really, in your heart, you know it's right.

  649. Years ago, we were all sitting,

  650. this is, all of us were just a bunch of stoners.

  651. Right, we should have died.

  652. We're sitting in the house and just, you know,

  653. all tweaked out and all of a sudden,

  654. there is this violent knock on the door

  655. and I jump up and I answer the door

  656. and I'm kind of brought out of my stupor.

  657. And this kid, he's probably about 20 years old,

  658. his eyes are huge, he's got wild, shaggy hair

  659. and I see his car parked outside.

  660. He goes, "Your house is on fire, your house is on fire!"

  661. And I'm going, "What?"

  662. And sure enough, I walked outside

  663. and though the house wasn't on fire,

  664. there was a chimney fire and there was like a flame

  665. shooting like 15 feet into the air off of our roof.

  666. And it hadn't spilled over onto the house

  667. or started the house on fire.

  668. But I am so thankful that that kid told me that, right?

  669. That he stopped and he told us the truth

  670. and we got one of those little, you know,

  671. chimney fire things and threw it in the stove

  672. and got it put out and everything.

  673. But I wasn't upset that he had disrupted our stoner stupor.

  674. Stoner stupor, you know?

  675. But I was thankful.

  676. So be loving, share the truth

  677. and when consequences are in order,

  678. dish them out if it's within your power,

  679. if not, remind them that God has consequences.

  680. God dishes out consequences.

  681. God will not allow his children to sin successfully.

  682. Now, Simeon, or excuse me, Jacob, later in chapter 49,

  683. he talks to Simeon and Levi and prophesies over their life.

  684. It says Simeon and Levi, so their prophecy is together

  685. because of this event, because of what they did.

  686. Simeon and Levi are brothers, instruments of cruelty

  687. are in their dwelling place.

  688. Let not their soul enter their council.

  689. Let not my honor be united to their assembly

  690. for in their anger, they slew a man

  691. and in their self will, they hamstrung an ox.

  692. Cursed be their anger for it is fierce

  693. and their wrath for it is cruel.

  694. I will divide them in Jacob and scatter them in Israel.

  695. And in fact, he did that.

  696. Simeon was absorbed into the tribe of Judah

  697. and Levi never got any of the land because why?

  698. He was a priest.

  699. Now, Levi became faithful in his tribe.

  700. Simeon was absorbed and so Simeon was unfaithful.

  701. Levi ended up being faithful and served as the priests.

  702. And so that's just God's gracious redemption, right?

  703. He gives us a chance though judgment should come our way,

  704. God gives us a chance.

  705. So as we wrap this all up, I want to,

  706. bring a couple contrasts to Christ.

  707. Obviously I already mentioned it once,

  708. but the first contrast is how Jesus treats his bride, us.

  709. He doesn't force himself upon us

  710. and I've already talked about that.

  711. Secondly, a second contrast is how Simeon and Levi

  712. dealt out judgment, right?

  713. They were not merciful.

  714. They were not just.

  715. And they used God's covenant as a battle ax.

  716. Don't do that.

  717. Don't use God's word as to beat people up.

  718. Use God's word to encourage people.

  719. You know how much God loves you?

  720. See, Jude tells us how we to do that, right?

  721. First, God will save people

  722. when they know how much he loves them.

  723. Now, if they won't respond to that,

  724. then you flip that card over, right?

  725. Jude says, "And the rest of them you save with fear."

  726. If you don't repent, you're going to hell, right?

  727. So first you tell them how much God loves them.

  728. God loves you.

  729. He's got a plan for your life

  730. and he'll forgive you of all your sin.

  731. Come to Jesus and experience a life that is second to none.

  732. I promise you.

  733. But if they won't hear that,

  734. then tell them about the judgment of God

  735. and hopefully scare the hell out of them.

  736. But Jesus, so to contrast their judgment

  737. with Jesus's judgment, Revelation 16, seven, it says,

  738. "And I heard another from the altar saying,

  739. "even so, Lord God Almighty,

  740. "true and righteous are your judgments."

  741. True and righteous.

  742. When God pours out all his wrath on sinful humanity

  743. who refuses to receive the work of the Lord Jesus Christ,

  744. he is true and he's just in doing so, right?

  745. Because that's what humanity deserves.

  746. And it is in his grace and mercy

  747. that you and I are sitting here today, breathing air, right?

  748. Most of us being able to walk

  749. and being able to give praise to the God

  750. who should judge us very harshly.

  751. And yet he has chosen to pass,

  752. allowed us to pass from death to life

  753. in the Lord Jesus Christ.

  754. So bottom line, if Jacob would have went to Bethel,

  755. none of this would have happened.

  756. If he would have went to the house of God.

  757. So if you will spend time in the house of God,

  758. my closing thought here,

  759. if you will spend time in the house of God,

  760. listen, eventually those who are following you

  761. will do as well.

  762. Eventually, they might not do it now.

  763. It might be after you're dead and gone,

  764. but you're showing them right now,

  765. it is important to come to the house of the Lord,

  766. to gather together, especially in these last days.

  767. Guys, listen, Jesus is coming.

  768. Let's be ready, amen?

  769. All right, let's pray.

  770. Father, thank you.

  771. Thank you that you remind us, Lord,

  772. even in a crazy story like this,

  773. where your name isn't even in there,

  774. but Lord, your principles are so true,

  775. that you're truthful, you're loving.

  776. Lord, you're willing to wait.

  777. And for us to come.

  778. And I know that there's some here today

  779. that just need to come to you.

  780. Lord, they've maybe been confused in this life

  781. and the things that the world and the flesh

  782. and the devil are throwing their way

  783. has just created all kinds of tumult in their life.

  784. Lord, may they just come to you

  785. and be set free of those things.

  786. Lord, I ask that you would give your people courage

  787. in these days.

  788. Lord, you've called us to watch

  789. what is going on in this world

  790. and to lift up our heads for our redemption

  791. truly draws near.

  792. We pray for Israel and we pray for the conflict

  793. that's going on over there.

  794. We pray for our nation, the United States

  795. and the role that we're to play.

  796. And Lord, that we would find ourselves

  797. in the middle of your will and not opposing you

  798. or not opposing your people

  799. that you have promised these things to.

  800. And so, Lord, we love you today.

  801. We pray that you would walk with us

  802. and Lord, that you would rescue souls

  803. that need to say yes to Jesus.

  804. And so, Lord, draw us close

  805. as we embark on some very, Lord,

  806. unsettling times and uncertain times.

  807. But one thing is certain, Lord,

  808. we don't know what the future hold

  809. but we know who holds the future.

  810. And so, may our trust be in you in Jesus' name.

  811. Amen. Let's all stand.

  812. We're gonna worship.

  813. If you need prayer, the prayer team will be over here

  814. to your left, my right.

  815. Please come, be prayed for.

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