Sermon
“It’s A Choice” - James Chapter 1: 1-25 - Special Guest, Jay Miller
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You know, when Steve asked me if I would participate in this service, I was thinking holiday weekend,
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sure, nobody's gonna be around, it's gonna be awful empty, and yet, here all of you are.
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You must have been real bad this week, otherwise I can't imagine why you'd be here listening
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to me.
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So my name is Jay Miller, as Steve said, and I usually reside right over here in this area
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with my beautiful wife Selena, my children Evelyn and Wyatt, my folks and my grandmother
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also usually join us on Sundays, so we participate and we're here pretty regularly.
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I'm excited and honestly just incredibly humbled to even stand here before you and share in
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the Word of God today, I'm just, I'm overjoyed, really.
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I'm also a part of a group, a handful of guys in here, part of a group called Man Time,
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and I'm gonna take just a couple of seconds to plug that while I have the microphone and
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can do so.
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So we meet on Monday nights, and it's a fellowship for men, as iron sharpens iron, so the Proverbs
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say, so do one man sharpen another, and that's what we do, we talk about life, we talk about
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issues, we talk about things that we're facing as men, the struggles and the battles, so
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if you fit the biblical prerequisite of being a man and not the worldly prerequisite of
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being a man, I encourage you to join us, I would love to have you there, it truly would
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mean a lot to us, so please come join us, Monday nights, 7 o'clock, we meet at Guns
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and Gear, but please note, tomorrow, Monday night, we will not be there for the holiday,
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but next Monday we will pick up on that.
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So today I'm gonna be in the book of James, and James 1 verse 1, and I thought it was
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important to talk a little bit about the book itself and the author, right, so it's a self-titled
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epistle, James being the oldest half-brother of Jesus, and you know, he wasn't always a
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believer, he didn't always, you know, we know from the Gospel of John that him and his brothers
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didn't always believe in Jesus, and you know, the book was written to fellow believers at
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the time of insane violence, with the first early church, and so they estimate between
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44 and 49 AD, which makes it the earliest canon, earliest epistle and earliest writings
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of the New Testament canon.
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We also know that James was a very significant leader, according to the book of Acts, and
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in Galatians he was even described as a pillar of the early church.
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I can't imagine life as, you know, Jesus being your older brother, right?
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Could you imagine the realness of that?
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And so it's easy for me to understand why he would be maybe rebellious, or he might
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push away this idea of who Jesus truly was, but then something changed, and his belief
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changed, and not only did his belief change, but he chose to become a servant of the church.
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He chose to become a significant leader of the church during a time that it probably
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wasn't real comfortable to do so, and I'm assuming that this happened after he saw the
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risen Christ, right?
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I don't know, but that's my assumption, and he made a choice to live a certain way, and
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we're going to talk a lot about this idea of choice today.
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It's going to be pretty thematic through the entirety of what we talk about.
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So from the book of Acts, we know that the early church, and this is what struck me about
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the, what to speak on in general, we know that the early church faced a lot of persecution,
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and we know that they faced a lot of trials, and as I look around in the world today, I'm
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starting to see more and more trials that are being placed upon the church, and I think
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it's important that we as believers, as fellow Christians, we take note of that, we think
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about it, and we be mindful of those things, because I think where we've been as believers
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is one place, but where we are going is a very different place, and we have to be ready
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for what those trials are going to look at, or look like for us.
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I mean, we have people being arrested for praying over abortion clinics, right?
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We have Catholic priests whose doors are getting kicked in, and FBI raids, and so these are
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things that we have to be conscious of, and be ready whenever the difficult times arise,
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in addition to the normal difficulties that we face in an everyday life.
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So James can typically be organized in a lot of ways, but the way that I organized it today
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for the first chapter is we're going to talk about the test of perseverance and suffering,
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we're going to talk about the test of blame through temptation, and then the test of response
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to the world.
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Those are the three sections, and before we dive in, we better pray over the word.
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Father God, we're just so grateful to be here before you, Lord.
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I pray that your Spirit would fill this place, that you would lift up each one of your believers,
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and that you would give them strength, you would give them courage, you would give them
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guidance, and Father, any trials that we might be facing as a church, or as a congregation,
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or as an individual, Lord, we know that there is but one solid answer, and that you are
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it, and I pray that somebody would be lifted through this idea, Lord, and we just, we thank
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you so much for your love, we thank you for your grace, and we thank you for your son
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Jesus, it's in his name we pray, amen.
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So kicking off in verse 1, James 1,1, "James, a bondservant of God and the Lord Jesus Christ,
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to the twelve tribes which are scattered abroad.
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Greetings."
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This first line sticks out to me, it struck me, because both James and Paul use it.
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The word for bondservant, the Greek word is doulos, which ultimately means slave, but
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in the Hebrew it's often elevated to be a willing slave, right?
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So a willing slave to the Lord, and both of these men, James and Paul, were incredibly
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valuable, they were incredibly important to the early church, and yet, they chose to use
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this title, right?
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Bondservant, slave, willing slave.
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I'm willing to bet that in today's culture, if we looked at their LinkedIn profile, we
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might see something like Executive Vice President of the First Church of Jesus Christ, or something
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crazy because that's what we do on LinkedIn, we give these elaborate fancy titles, and
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as the world, we love our titles, but these guys didn't care.
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They ultimately knew that our salvation and our eternal lives were bought with a price,
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and they had, since they've been bought, they were slaves.
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I know that if I'm to honor the debt as a believer, that I should be willing to make
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sacrifices for God's glory.
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In Romans 6, 17 and 18, it says this, "But God be thanked that though you were slaves
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of sin, yet you obeyed from the heart in that form of doctrine to which you were delivered,
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and having been set free from sin, you became slaves of righteousness."
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Having been set free by the blood of Christ, I should take it upon myself to become a slave
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to righteousness.
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What does it mean to be a servant of Jesus?
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It isn't just a church attendance, although that's important, please don't stop coming
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to church.
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It isn't just the volunteer and how much we volunteer.
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It literally should permeate every single space in our lives.
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Everything we do should be to the glory of God, and that's not always an easy thing to
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do, but our lives should reflect an obedience in all situations, and this especially goes
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for the difficult ones of trial, which we're about to talk about.
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So picking up in verse 2, it says, "My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various
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trials."
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James is speaking to the brethren.
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This is the fellow Jewish believers at the time, and I would argue in today's culture,
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this is us.
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This is fellow believers.
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He's speaking to fellow believers.
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"My fellow believers, count."
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This word for count can also be translated as consider.
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So my fellow believers, consider it all joy when we fall into various trials.
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Trial being a difficulty.
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The word here is a disruption of our pattern of peace, right?
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So this is something that's disrupting our life, and it's creating havoc, and it's disrupting
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what we do on a day-to-day basis.
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So what is our response to be?
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Well, I know what our natural response has a tendency to be, and it's typically not joy,
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right?
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When I'm blessed, and I get my furnace, and I replace that because it was really, really
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old 20 years, and I get out with a pretty good deal on it, and then I'm like, "Cool,
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I'm going to replace the fence too because my back fence is falling down."
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And then three weeks later, my AC decides it's going to die.
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I did not respond with joy.
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It turns out I failed the test.
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It was something that I had an opportunity, but I didn't do it.
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So we have to be really important, or excuse me, we have to be really mindful of that.
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And as a fellow believer, whom this letter is written to, we must make a conscious commitment
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to face difficulties in our lives with a positive attitude.
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This is a choice, right?
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And again, you're going to hear this a lot today.
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So it's difficult, and it's not an easy thing to do to face it with joy, but there is good
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reason to do so.
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And he gives it to us in verse three, "Knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience."
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We need to remember that trial provides an opportunity for us to be tested in our walk
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and in our faith.
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One way I've heard it stated is the proving of our faith, right?
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Through these trials and through these difficulties, we have an opportunity to prove our faith.
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These tests will produce patience, which can also be translated as endurance or perseverance.
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And continuing in verse four, "But let patience have its perfect work that you may be perfect
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and complete, lacking nothing."
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So let endurance or perseverance have its perfect work.
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This doesn't mean that we're going to walk away from a trial and be perfect by any means,
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right?
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Every one of us, certainly myself, falls pretty short of the idea of being perfect.
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But what it does mean is that we may be brought into spiritual maturity.
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It's this idea that through each testing, our faith can grow, our spiritual maturity
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can grow, and we can grow with God.
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God will use our trials to shape us into exactly who He wants us to be.
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This testing or having to endure difficult situations requires us as believers to make
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a choice.
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We either will or we won't follow God.
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And it produces the kind of character that God wants us to have.
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I often say that I believe in God, right?
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But so do the demons, right?
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What and how will we show, how will we prove our belief?
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And I really believe strongly that it comes in the testing of these faiths.
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In the testing of our faith through difficulty, in Romans 5 and verses 3 through 5, Paul says
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it like this, "And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation
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produces perseverance, and perseverance character, and character hope."
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Now hope does not disappoint because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by
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the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
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So even in our most difficult moments of trial, if we persevere, if we maintain endurance
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and we grow through them, God will pour His love out on us through the Holy Spirit.
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If we're reading and we're studying in the faith, shouldn't we be ready?
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I mean, really, if we're walking it out every day, shouldn't we be ready?
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I liken it to an athlete in some senses, and I know the Olympics was, whoa.
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But when you think about the Olympics and you think about these athletes, and I'm not
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talking about men beating up women, I'm talking about real athletes that show up day in, day
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out, and they are literally giving it everything that they have.
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They're pushing their bodies in a way that is just incomprehensible in some senses.
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They're pushing their mind, and then all of a sudden they get this chance, they have this
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opportunity on a world stage to show what they can do.
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It's a lot like that, or the violinist that literally practices until her fingers bleed,
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and then all of a sudden she has that opportunity to stand on stage, and it's a test to show
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all of the work that's been done.
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I think it's much the same for us as believers.
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If we're walking in the faith and we're doing what we're supposed to be doing, it's an opportunity
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for us to show that we have the love and the Word of God that's rooted deep within us.
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So we should take comfort in moments of trial.
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We always have an answer, and the answer is Jesus.
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Now I'm guessing, I'm just going to go out on a limb here, that there are folks in this
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room that are going through a very serious trial right now, things that are far more
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important than my AC unit dying or an Olympic athlete.
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And I never want to minimize anybody's pain or struggle, so please don't take me on that
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level.
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I pray that you find God and you seek Him if you're going through something really hard,
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because I know from personal experience that He will meet you there.
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He'll find you in that place.
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And when we lean on God in these difficult moments, His love will be poured out and it
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will overflow upon us.
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I've seen it.
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Even in the most difficult moments, we can be made more complete through each trial.
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So picking up in verse 5, James 5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who
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gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."
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Now notice that it didn't say, "If you lack wisdom, just run a quick Google search and
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find the easiest and most effective five things to make me feel better today."
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Notice it didn't say that.
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The world will very quickly give you its wisdom, but we really shouldn't seek that.
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So what is wisdom then?
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It's used often, the word is used often in the Bible, but I decided that I would go to
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somebody who was infinitely more wise than I.
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And in the book of Proverbs, it says, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom
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and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding."
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The fear of the Lord, submission to the Lord.
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Submission is a choice.
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We have to choose to submit to the Lord.
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This is important.
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Now, if we do, there is reward and in Proverbs it tells us again, "Happy is the man who finds
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wisdom and the man who gains understanding, for her proceeds are better than the profits
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of silver and her gain more fine than gold.
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She is more precious than rubies and all the things you may desire cannot compare with
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her."
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My wife routinely likes to remind me that it is referenced as a her-men, just so you
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know.
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If you're struggling with that, come talk to us in man time.
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We talk about it every single week.
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I think she has a point, husbands.
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So if you're lacking, excuse me, if you're facing a trial and you lack the wisdom, you
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don't know what to do, what should you do?
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Go to God, pray, fall on your face and pray.
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Get in the word, find the word and find the wisdom because He will show us what it is.
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Each trial should drive us into a deeper connection with Him.
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Each trial that we face, every time we go through something difficult, we should grow
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with Him and grow dependence upon Him and realize that we must have this.
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Wisdom in its true nature from God, it'll enable us to find joy and remain submissive
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even in the most difficult trials that life can throw our way.
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But we have to make the choice to go to God for His wisdom.
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Let him ask in faith, picking up in verse six, "With no doubting, for he who doubts
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is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind."
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If we believe that God is our source of wisdom and all of His ways are good, we cannot doubt.
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We can't doubt.
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Even when we don't like something that He's telling us.
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Now I find this to happen and I've experienced it in my own life where God's telling us something
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and most of the time we want to rebel because He's asking us to either get rid of something
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that we don't want to get rid of or He's maybe pushing us in a direction that we're not really
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sure that we want to go.
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It doesn't matter, right?
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It's uncomfortable and we must follow God.
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Perhaps we see His will but it's adverse to our own.
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Meaning if we continue to doubt, we will be like Peter, right?
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Man is literally walking on water with Jesus and then he begins to doubt and when he doubts,
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he begins to sink.
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When we're sinking, if we're doubting, reach up, find God.
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He will help us.
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Being a boat in the midst of the waves is a dangerous place to be when we have no rudder.
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It will knock us around.
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I don't know if anybody's been in the ocean but when the wave slams you into the ground,
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it hurts.
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I've experienced that once or twice.
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So picking up in verse 7, "For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything
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from the Lord."
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So when we're doubting, we won't receive things from the Lord.
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I had a funny experience personally, I don't know, maybe a month or two ago and I was sharing
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with a friend of mine that I didn't feel like God was talking to me.
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I didn't feel like I could hear God and in fact, I even went to a sermon and I was listening
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to the sermon and in the sermon it said, "If you feel like God's not talking to you, maybe
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it's because the last time he did talk to you, you didn't listen."
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And when I heard it, I went, "Uh-oh."
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And I told my friend about it and he's like, "See, dummy?"
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So if you're doubting God and you're not listening to his word when he is listening, he may stop
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talking to you and that's a dangerous place to be.
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Picking up in 8, "He is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways."
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And what James means by this, he references it a few other times in the book of James,
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but he's talking about a man that's divided between the world and God.
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A man that confesses that he is a Christian but holds on to the things of this world when
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we really shouldn't do that.
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And I want to note that resisting the world in its temptation is not an easy thing.
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It's not an easy thing.
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It's incredibly difficult to do because the world has a powerful way to draw us in, sometimes
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in my opinion even disguising itself as things of God when it's not.
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And we have to be mindful.
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We must be prayerful in each of those moments and we must make a choice to set ourselves
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up on a firm foundation.
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In 2 Timothy 2.19, Paul writes it like this, "Nevertheless, the solid foundation of
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God stands, having this seal.
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The Lord knows who are his, and let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity."
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If you've named the name of Christ, depart from iniquity.
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Put the stuff down.
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Get rid of it out of your lives.
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We're called to care less about what's important to the world and care more about the pursuit
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of holiness.
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And he continues with this in verse 9, "Let the lowly brother glory in his exaltation,
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but the rich in his humiliation, because as a flower of the field he will pass away.
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For no sooner has the sun risen with a burning heat than it withers with the grass.
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Its flower falls and its beautiful appearance perishes, so the rich man also will fade away
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in his pursuits."
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We should take comfort in this scripture because it doesn't matter what your place in life
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is, you are going to encounter and face trials.
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Everyone of us is going to face trials, no matter whether you're rich or poor.
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And in reality, when you think about it on a worldly scale, just about everybody in this
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room is pretty much on the qualified of rich, right?
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And that's not to minimize the struggles, believe me.
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Grocery bill's painful at my house too.
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But when you consider it, the poor, while they're going through their battles, they
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can rely on the Lord in those battles.
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And then the rich, the trials in this life for all of us, they should remind us that
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the glory in the riches of this world are not what we are to be seeking, right?
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We don't find genuine happiness in anything that we can buy.
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There's nothing that will give us God's happiness from an earthly wealth standpoint.
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And if we focus only on that, James reminds us how quickly things will change in that
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department.
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The reference that he made was from Isaiah, but Peter says it like this, "All flesh is
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as grass and the glory of man as the flower of the grass.
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The grass withers and its flower falls away, but the word of the Lord lives forever."
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Scotty says it regularly, "It's all firewood."
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And I love that sentence.
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I love that statement because it is, everything here is firewood.
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That's how we should treat it.
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Now, I would like to note on that because I've recently had conversations and I think
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it's important to note, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being blessed in this life.
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There's nothing wrong.
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It is okay to be blessed.
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It's okay to grow and grow wealth and those kinds of things, but we cannot worship God
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and money at the same time.
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We must be mindful.
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If you are in a position where you have been blessed, you need to be thinking about what's
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my primary focus?
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What is the first thing?
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Is it God or is it something else?
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Because if it's not God, we got to be careful.
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True blessing comes from the Lord, not from the world.
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And wow, would you look at that?
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James is going to touch on that right here in verse 12.
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He wraps up the test of trial really nicely here.
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He says, "Blessed is the man who endures temptation, trial.
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For when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life, which the Lord has promised
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to those who love him."
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So when we succeed in enduring the trials, when we persevere through the difficulties
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that come our way, there is a victorious outcome.
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If we look back in the Beatitudes, Mark chapter five, Jesus gives a list of those who are
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blessed.
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This word blessed that he uses stuck out to me.
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It's not the people we would normally think of.
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It's those who recognize their dependence upon God.
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They recognize that they have to depend upon God in order to be successful in this life.
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Blessed are the poor in spirit.
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Blessed are the meek.
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Blessed are those persecuted for righteousness.
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And what is their reward?
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It's kingdom of heaven.
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It's the kingdom of heaven.
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So if we stand in obedience in our trials and temptations, we win the crown.
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If we make the choice to follow God, we win the crown.
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We get to be brought into spiritual maturity.
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Persevering through a trial is an opportunity to walk out our faith or not.
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But what happens if we make the wrong choice?
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Because that does happen.
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And James touches on it here.
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He talks about what happens if we make the wrong choice, picking up in verse 13.
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"Let no one say when he is tempted that I am tempted by God, for God cannot be tempted
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by evil, nor does he himself tempt anyone."
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When we're in a difficult position, when we're in a difficult spot, we're uncomfortable,
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hurting, in pain, it becomes real easy to make bad decisions.
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Becomes real easy to make bad decisions.
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And once we make bad decisions, it sometimes becomes easy to blame God for those mistakes
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that we might make in our lives.
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And we have to be really, really cautious of this.
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"Well, if God hadn't put that thing in front of me, I wouldn't have done it."
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Come on, that's not how that works.
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God will allow us to face difficulty.
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He will.
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But he does not tempt us.
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He doesn't offer the temptation.
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We shouldn't make the mistake of blaming God for our sin.
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God's holy.
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God is sinless.
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When the trial comes, it's okay to get angry with God in that brief moment.
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He can handle your frustration.
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What I like to call for me is what I call my internal temper tantrums.
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When I'm mad about something and I'm having that internal temper tantrum, God's okay with
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that.
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Turns out he's the creator of the universe.
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He can handle it.
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What happens though is it's not okay for us to make the bad decision.
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It's not okay for us to blame God when we do.
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That is not okay.
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So then who do we blame?
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Let's find out.
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Verse 14.
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"But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed.
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Then when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and sin, when it is full grown, brings
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forth death.
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Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren, my fellow believers."
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Don't be deceived.
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Sin doesn't just miraculously appear.
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It's not like it's some magic thing.
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It's a process.
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It starts with a seed.
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It's usually a seed within our own heart.
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We were born sinners.
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So that seed, if we let it linger too long, fully develops and it grows into something
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else.
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That's what we have to avoid because when we let it grow and it turns into something
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else, that's what leads to a broken life.
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That's when the pain starts to hit.
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I've personally found that in moments of trial and temptation, there's this really small
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moment of time before a response or decision is made.
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This is what we have to be cautious of.
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In that small moment of time, we can go one of two directions.
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We could choose our natural tendencies, drawn away by whatever desire we have, that shiny
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lure, right?
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As the fish in the water, you got that shiny little lure and it's like, "Oh, that looks
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really nice.
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That's great."
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I just want anything that will take away the discomfort for a moment.
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And once we let that thought sink in, what happens?
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We have an enemy.
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He's good.
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He's good at what he does and he'll start shouting at you.
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It's okay.
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You deserve to feel better.
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You deserve to be happy, right?
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These are things that he will shout.
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Watching that thing on your phone's not really going to hurt anybody, is it?
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Pouring that drink isn't going to be a big deal, is it?
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And he'll start telling you these things.
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We have to make a different choice, right?
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Each of us has different desires, but when we fool ourselves and allow the shouts of
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devil to have a place in our lives, it never ends well.
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The other option in that brief moment, right?
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So you have your trial, you have your moment, is to look to the Savior.
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Use the Spirit.
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My suggestion, and this is what I do for myself, is have some scripture in hand.
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Have some scripture on the top of your mind.
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Know something, right?
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You know what your bend is.
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Everybody in here has a bend towards sin of some flavor.
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So whatever it is, have that scripture in mind.
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Have that heart.
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Have a game plan when it pops up, right?
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That's how we avoid it and know how you're going to respond no matter what the situation
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is.
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Know what your response pattern is going to be.
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That will help us.
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Sin is a choice.
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We were born sinners, but we do not have to participate in sin.
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Likewise, we have to choose His peace and joy.
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It's a choice.
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He will not make us participate.
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We have to choose Him and allow Him into our lives.
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And it turns out we have this thing called free will, and it doesn't matter because in
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either situation, He does not abandon us.
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First Corinthians, Sens 13 says this, "No temptation has overtaken you, except such
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as is common to man.
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But God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but
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with the temptation will also make the way of escape that you may be able to bear it."
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Now I've heard this paraphrased at times that God will not give you more than you can handle.
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I disagree.
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I disagree.
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I think God will give you more than you can handle, right?
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He will put you in situations that are beyond our own handling, right?
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That goes back to the meek or the poor in spirit.
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We have a dependence and a reliance upon God.
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That's what He wants for us.
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But He will never leave you in a position where you can't escape the temptation.
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He's here.
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He will guide you.
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He will make a way of escape.
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If you fall down in moments of trial, and believe me, I have fallen down, surrender,
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repent, ask for forgiveness.
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Ask for forgiveness, and it will be forgiven.
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God has already forgiven you.
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There may be consequences for your sin if you fall into sin, but you are forgiven.
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Jesus already died for that sin.
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He's already done it.
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There's a guy that I listen to.
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His name is Chip Ingram, and he says that our feelings often follow our focus.
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Where's our focus?
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If I'm focused inward, it is not on God.
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If I'm focused upward, and if I'm focused outward and serving others, it becomes more
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difficult for me to find the boo-hoo moments when I want to focus inward.
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And James reminds us where we are to put our focus here in 17.
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Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above and comes down from the Father
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of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.
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Of his own will, he brought us forth by the word of truth that we might be a kind of first
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fruits of his creatures.
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All good and bad are for the glory of God.
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He is the Father of light, constant, never changing.
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Never changing.
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He's always good, even when we can't see it.
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Now in my own life, I've been through some trials, big trials.
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I've had trials that have tested my marriage, and I've had trials that have tested my finances.
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I remember one time I looked at my wife, and thank God for my wife.
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I looked at my wife, I was like, "Babe, I don't think we could tithe anymore.
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Like we're struggling."
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And she's like, "Mm, well, we're tithing."
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That's when we're going to tithe, right?
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And thank goodness for her that she was encouraging in that moment because it all was okay.
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It didn't feel like it, but it was always okay.
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And most importantly, I have had trials that have 100% broke my pride.
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And thank you, Jesus, for that.
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Now in the moment, none of it felt good.
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I didn't enjoy the trials.
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I wasn't happy at those.
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I did not respond with joy.
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But when I look back now, and I'm like looking over my life and where it has led, every single
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one of these trials was shaping me for the better.
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Every single one of them made me a better human being, and it was molding me into the
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man that God wants me to be, which is ultimately the most important thing that I can care about.
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Who am I for the Lord?
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And now I know that in future trials that our God is constant.
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He is always there.
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He is always good, and He graciously offered me a relationship that I never deserved.
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God might have you in a trial right now.
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It might be incredibly difficult.
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And if He does, I would consider whether or not He's trying to realign your focus.
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Is it upward?
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Is it outward?
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Or is it inward?
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If you're in that trial right now, consider that, because God might be trying to get you
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back in line with Him.
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I know that was a big part of the large trials in my life.
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So I love the book of James because of its practicality.
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In the next section here, James gives us some really practical application in how we can
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respond in the moments of trials.
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He gives us some ways to have an upward focus and outward focus, and we can have the inward
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focus sit in the back seat where it belongs.
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So picking up in verse 19, "So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear,
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slow to speak, and slow to wrath, for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness
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of God."
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Swift to hear.
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Talk about an undervalued thing these days.
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Hearing.
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Listening is an undervalued skill, and I'm in sales for a living, and we talk about it
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all the time.
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Too many times we like to talk and talk and talk.
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We don't listen.
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Listen.
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I say it with my kids all the time, right?
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You've heard the old adage.
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We have two of these and one of these, so we should listen twice as much as we talk,
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right?
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They love that.
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They're probably shaking their head over there right now.
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But what are you to hear?
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This verse can be applied in a few ways, but as it pertains to the context of the text,
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I go back to the previous verse in 18, and that says, "He," being God, "brought us forth
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by the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures."
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So in our moments of trial and difficulty, we need to hear the word of God, the sword
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of truth.
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That's what we need to hear, God's word.
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And then we need to be slow to speak.
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I'm confident that none of the godly believers and followers in this room have ever popped
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off at the mouth and gotten themselves in trouble.
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However, I personally have been known to do that once in a while.
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I can be quick, and I can be sharp, and I can cut.
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And oftentimes when we do that, we end up hurting the ones that we love the most.
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And more often than not, it's not only the ones we love the most, but it's the ones that
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love us the most.
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I mean, how silly is that?
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How do we do that?
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And we have to be mindful of the things that we say.
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We have to be slow to speak.
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James says later in the chapter, "If you do not bridle the tongue and think you're religious,
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you deceive your own heart."
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So bridling that tongue is critically important.
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Our words have a power.
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They can cut people.
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I have ran an example, I really should, my wife and I, mostly my wife, have done this
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example with our children.
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I don't know if you guys have ever done this with your kids, where you get two big giant
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things of toothpaste, and you put paper down, and then you tell them, "Okay, here's what
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I want you to do."
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You get the toothpaste and you squeeze out the toothpaste as fast as humanly possible.
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And they're all excited to do it.
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And then you're like, "Cool, put it all back."
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And the kids kind of look at you, they're like, "What?
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That's not possible."
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Your words are the same.
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Your words are the same.
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You can't put it back once you say it.
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Once it comes out, it cannot go back in the tube.
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Be careful.
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Be careful of what you say.
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Be slow to speak, our brother James says.
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Proverbs speaks of this quite a few times, but the two verses I found in preparation
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that I really liked go like this.
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Proverbs 18, 21, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it
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will eat of the fruit of it."
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Powerful words.
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The chapter before in 1727 in Proverbs, "He who has knowledge spares his words, and a
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man of understanding is of calm spirit."
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Right?
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So speaking to that calm and anger and that wrath, and then we get into the wrath.
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Slow to wrath is the final piece of advice there.
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In Ecclesiastes 7, 9, it's said this way, "Do not hasten in your spirit to be angry,
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for anger rests in the bosom of fools."
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So when the trial hits, slow down.
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Listen, don't speak.
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Right?
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Control our anger, for anger does not produce the righteousness of God.
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We must practice the last of the fruits, the last of the listed fruits in terms of the
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fruits of the spirit, right?
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This is a moment of self-control.
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We must make a choice to live in self-control.
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Kids are driving you crazy.
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One more thing breaks.
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Chronic pain is too much to bear.
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Sky cuts you off.
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It's a choice.
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It's a choice that we have to make.
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There are ways that we can make it easier on ourselves, and he talks to this in verse
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21.
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"Therefore, lay aside all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and receive with meekness the
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implanted word which is able to save your souls."
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It's so much easier to survive the adversity of trials when we're setting ourselves up
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and getting rid of some of the things that are going to, I guess, compound the trials
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for us, right?
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If we do a good job getting rid of the yuck, it's going to be an important thing.
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So we got to get rid of filthiness and overflow of wickedness, lust, greed, gossip, slander,
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rage, pride, covetousness, which is the lack of gratitude ultimately for what we have.
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I'm sorry to say this, but friends or activities or habits that maybe encourage us in these
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areas or encourage us in these behaviors, we should consider tossing them.
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Not always easy.
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That's one of those moments where God's asking you to do something, and you're like, "Whoa,
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whoa, whoa, whoa.
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I don't know.
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I don't know about that."
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Abide in God, and he will guide you through them.
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As a point, I am a runner, and I've run some ultra races.
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In these ultra races, what happens is, and this one I ran, it was called the Putts, and
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you go through about six, seven creek crossings throughout the course of 30 miles.
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So you basically would have this route.
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Your feet would be dry, and then they'd be wet, and then they'd be muddy, and then they'd
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get dry and sweaty, and then they'd be wet and muddy, so on, right?
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Six, seven times throughout the course of the race.
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Well, through this race, I never changed my socks, because they were these compression
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sleeve socks, and I was entirely too tired to take them off at that point.
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At the end of the race, these things were gross, and I threw them in the bed of my buddy's
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truck because I didn't want them in the cab of his truck.
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They were that bad, and we got back, and he's like, "Do you want these?"
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I was like, "No.
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No.
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Toss them.
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They're filthy.
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They're disgusting.
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Toss the filthiness and the wickedness and get rid of it from your life."
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That's what we have to do.
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So that in meekness, in reliance on the Lord, we might receive the implanted word, right?
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Once we receive the implanted word, then we have the real truth, the word of God.
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That's where we should be focusing, the gospel, which will save our soul.
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In James' final instruction for practical application, he picks up in verse 22 here,
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"But be doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
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For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man observing his
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natural face in a mirror.
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For he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of man he was.
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But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it and is not a forgetful
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hearer, but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does."
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We should strive to live out God's word every day.
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We should strive to be a doer and make the choice of God, make the choice that God wants
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us to have.
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I've been challenging myself lately a little bit.
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The challenge to myself is, if somebody walked away from you on a personal interaction, doesn't
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matter what it is, whether it be business, professional, personal, I met you somewhere,
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whatever it is, would that person walk away and have a firm belief that I am a believer?
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Would they know that I am in love with the Lord?
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Technically, would they know that I'm a Jesus freak?
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That's kind of the question.
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Now I'm not advocating that we go bumping people over the head with the Bible.
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That's not what I'm talking about here.
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But just the love that we have and how we show up in our presence and the things that
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we say and the way that we live our lives, if they're seeing that, would they know that
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I was a believer?
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And that's something that is really important to me.
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I challenge all of you to think the same way.
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Jesus puts it this way in Luke 6 46, and I'm going to paraphrase a bit here.
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"But why do you call me Lord, Lord, and do not do the things which I say?
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Whoever comes to me and hears my sayings and does them, I will show you whom he is like.
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He is like a man building a house who dug deep and laid the foundation on the rock.
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But the one who hears and does nothing is like a man who builds the house without a
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foundation."
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So we know what happens to the house without the foundation, right?
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I mean, it's clear.
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The storms of life show up, they beat it down, and it cannot survive.
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But when we have the foundation and we have a genuine foundation, which is the Word of
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God, we will survive the storms, the trials, the difficulties, temptation.
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We can survive all of these things if we have the right foundation.
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So often our decisions are made in a moment of temptation that we make in a moment of
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temptation lead to more difficult situations or trials because of something that we've
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already done.
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Like I said, we compound upon itself.
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We have to get rid of the yuck.
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We have to be a doer.
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A doer for me means the choice.
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It's a choice between being obedient to God's written Word or what the world wants us to
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do.
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If I'm to have obedience, then I must know God's written Word.
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And if I need to know it, then that means I need to spend more time in it.
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And if I'm to spend time in it, it can't just be once a week here at church, although again,
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keep coming to church.
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It's important.
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Have the church family.
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But it has to be every day.
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We've got to meditate on it, listen to other sermons and teachings on it throughout the
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week.
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God's Word says that we are to trust Him with all of our heart.
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Lean not on our own understanding and submit to Him and He will make our paths straight.
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This means that when I think I know the answer to something, I'm feeling pretty good or I'm
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confident about it.
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Oh, gut check.
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Gut check.
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Have I prayed about it?
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Have I sought advice from the Word?
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Because that's where I need to be.
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Obedience to God's Word is important in all of the big things.
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It's important in your relationships, your marriage, your friendships, right?
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It's important in your parenting.
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It's important in the way that you manage your finances.
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All of the big decisions are important.
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But I would argue that it's equally, if not more important for us to think about the small
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decisions.
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All the little seemingly insignificant things that we think nobody's looking and we do or
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don't do.
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We have that little moment that arises when we can make a choice.
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We can follow the Spirit or we can follow the flesh.
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That's where every, right, that's the foundation.
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That's the bedrock of who we are when nobody is paying attention.
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I once heard that a video, or it was a podcast rather, but one of the things that the guy
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was talking about, he's like, "I envision myself having a 24/7 video of my life, all
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day every day, no matter what I'm doing or where I am.
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At the end of my life, that video gets shown to my kids.
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Would I be proud?"
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Right?
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Now we know that Jesus sees everything that we do, right?
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That's not, but would I be proud of who I was in all of the decisions when nobody was
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looking, right?
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Someone's in the car and somebody cuts you off.
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All right, we'll see how Christian you are then, huh?
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Fail, this guy.
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So did I covet my neighbor's new truck?
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That was another one I wrote down in my notes here.
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Guilty.
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I like my new trucks.
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These are the things that we have to make the good decisions in.
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This is the space where we need to spend time in the Word.
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These small details that sometimes seem insignificant, well, as they say, right?
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The devil is in the details and we have to be conscious of that.
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So to summarize real quick, and we're going to close up, in the first chapter of James,
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he gives us the following wisdom.
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Test, trials, temptations.
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These are an opportunity for us to demonstrate our obedience and our faith.
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Everyone, no matter who you are, is going to face them.
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If we lack wisdom, we must seek it in God's Word and prayer.
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And the more we are in that moment of temptation, we must decide.
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We must pre-decide.
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We have to pre-decide our path, knowing that the adversary is always trying to get us off
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of the path that we should be on.
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If we fail, we must not blame God.
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We must surrender, repent, ask for forgiveness, both from God and maybe those that we have
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hurt.
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And while we are forgiven from God, we must remember that there are consequences for our
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actions.
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And sometimes those consequences won't be immediately resolved.
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And we have to be patient through that.
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We have to be honest with ourselves.
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To succeed in perseverance, we must be quick to hear.
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We must be slow to speak.
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We must be slow to wrath.
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We must embrace self-control here.
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And most important with our obedience, being doers of the Word, walking out a life that
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is pleasing to God, which is a very different response than what the world would have you
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do.
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And when we do that, we will earn the crown of life, which has been promised.
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God is good, and God is holy, and He wants to walk out every single situation with you
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in deep, deep relationship.
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I want to encourage the folks, if you're going through a difficult time right now, three
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things here.
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If you're going through a difficult time, there is always this group of people that
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stand right over here after every single service, and they would love to pray for you.
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If you were recently baptized, I know there was a handful of folks that were baptized
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just a couple of weeks ago, I want to encourage you because once you get baptized, you're
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on the radar.
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Satan knows who you are, and he's coming for you.
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And if you're feeling that stress, if you're feeling that pressure right now, I want to
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encourage you.
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Come talk to these folks over here.
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They want to pray for you.
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And as Steve said at the opening of service, if you have not surrendered your life to Jesus,
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if you're on the fence or you're unsure for one reason or another, even if you're not
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ready to make that commitment right this minute, but you just want to talk to somebody honestly
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and openly about it, I encourage you.
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I encourage you.
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These folks would love to talk to you.
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They would love to pray over you and help guide you through those moments of difficulty
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that you might be facing.
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You have a network here.
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You have people who care about you, you have people who love you, and I think that that's
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important.
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So to close, I want to close this, I figure I could pray, but it turns out that the words
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of the Bible are way better than mine, so I'm going to read from Ephesians here, and
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that's going to be our closing prayer here.
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This is my reading from Ephesians.
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So it's chapter 3 verse 16, I might add.
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I pray that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened
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with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts
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through faith, that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend
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with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height, to know the love
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of Christ which passes knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
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Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according
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to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations,
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forever and ever.
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Amen.
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Thank you so much.
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I hope you all have a blessed Sunday and a wonderful rest of your weekend.
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