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Matthew 6:16-18
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We'll be looking at just three verses as we're continuing our study through Matthew.
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Moreover, this is, first of all, this is the word of the Lord.
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These are the words of the Lord Jesus Christ speaking to his people there on that Galilean
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seaside as they're seated upon the mount.
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He says, moreover, when you fast, do not be like the hypocrites with the sad countenance,
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for they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting.
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And surely I say to you, they have their reward.
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But you, when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face so that you do not appear to
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men to be fasting, but to your Father who is in the secret place and your Father who
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sees in secret will reward you openly.
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Let's pray.
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Father, the warnings that we see often repeated in the pages of Holy Scripture is the warning
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against hypocrisy.
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That our heart and our life are not synchronized, Lord, they're disordered.
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That we appear to be one thing and inwardly, Lord, we are radically something different.
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Father, would you deliver us from such hypocrisy this morning?
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Lord, one of the dangers that is inherent with any sin is that we're blind to it.
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So Lord, we ask God in your mercy that your blessed Holy Spirit would work, Lord, reveal
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to us our sin and show then us the Savior, Christ the Lord.
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Lord, we need you this morning.
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Feed your people, I pray in Jesus' name, amen.
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Jewish religious life was actually built upon three pillars.
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You had the pillar of giving and praying, but the third pillar would have been that
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of fasting.
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Now, each of these is good and proper when done correctly and with the right motive.
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So we should start with the beginning.
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God's people ought to give.
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God's people ought to pray.
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And God's people ought to fast at times.
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But there was a huge problem in Jesus' day.
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The religious leaders were busily engaged and in much activity, and yet they were doing
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so with hypocrisy.
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The scribes and Pharisees, that's the religious leaders whom Jesus is addressing, they looked
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pious.
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And we have to understand that no doubt people saw them as God-fearing men who would serve
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as great examples to the people.
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If you would have asked anyone on that day, the people looked up to them and revered them.
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Yet their religious devotion, which seemed exemplary, it looked good, was done only so
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that they would be seen by men.
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The God that they were serving was the esteem of men.
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They loved, they craved the acclaim of people.
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And the more pious they looked, the more the people were impressed.
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And since the people were impressed, they praised them even more.
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Now for some, and I think for some in here, for all of us perhaps, praise, flattery, can
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be like a drug.
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It's intoxicating.
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The more you get, the more you crave.
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And you keep chasing after it.
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That's what the policemen were doing.
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They were held in high regard, and they were given titles, and they loved these titles.
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They loved being called teacher or rabbi.
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When they would go to worship and they would take a seat in the synagogue, they would be
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offered the best seat there.
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If there was parties being thrown, they were no doubt on the guest list, and they were
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the VIP.
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Our Lord, he sees through this charade.
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He saw their hearts.
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He saw the corruption.
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He saw the iniquity that lay within.
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And the sobering thought for any of us here this morning, it ought to be sobering, it
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is for me, it ought to be for you, is that God sees who you really are.
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He sees.
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He sees into the deepest recess of your hearts.
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He knows your motives even better than we know them ourselves.
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He knows why we do what we do.
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And Jesus issued a heavy indictment upon these seemingly pious leaders, and he called them
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a son of hell.
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In Matthew 23, 15, woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, for you travel land
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and sea to win one proselyte, and when he is won, you make him twice as much a son of
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hell as yourselves.
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Not only were they sons of hell, he said all your converts are, and they're doubly so.
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Elsewhere, Jesus called these men blind fools.
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They were fools and blind, leading blind men.
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And I don't know that anything could possibly be worse than the Son of God upon seeing your
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heart calling you a blind fool.
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But they didn't think they were that way.
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They were deceived.
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And the worst deception is self-deception.
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The men were devout.
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I mean, think about all they were doing.
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They gave, and they gave a lot.
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People knew it, but they gave.
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They prayed, and they prayed for long periods of time, but people knew it.
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They fasted, and they fasted often, but people knew it.
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And Jesus said at the end of the day, you are more a child of hell than ever before.
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Terrifying.
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So I think this morning, you and I, this is recorded in Holy Scripture for our learning
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this morning, we need to heed what the Lord is saying, and the key at the very beginning
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is this, do not be like the hypocrites.
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This is a warning.
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And by the way, that's the theme of Matthew 6, the entire chapter.
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Unless you also want to be a son of hell, do not be like these men.
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Now in this chapter, Matthew 6, Jesus has a bunch of followers, and they're seated on
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a mountaintop there, on a hillside.
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And he's going to show them what true piety looks like, what true religious devotion really
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looks like.
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And how we should practice our religion, if you want to say it that way.
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What does devotion to God that is pleasing to God look like?
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Well, rule number one, our acts of piety are never ever to be done so that others may see
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us and think well of us.
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Now there are times people are going to know that you give.
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They don't even know how much, but they might see you giving something in the plate.
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They might see you bowing your head in prayer, but you don't do it for that purpose.
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The applause and esteem of others should never be a factor into the equation.
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When preachers stand behind the sacred desk, they should not be wondering, do the people
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like it?
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We have an audience of one.
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So when we're doing religious activity, it has to be done with a heart that is grateful
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to the Lord and wants to draw closer to him.
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That's it.
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So you're not, we don't pray, we don't give, we don't fast to impress others, but rather
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we do those things because we love God.
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We've been called by God.
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Now we've already looked previously in Matthew 6 at the issue of giving, and then we've also
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looked at the area of praying, and today we come to that third and final pillar, which
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is fasting.
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Now what does it mean to fast?
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In its literal sense, it literally means to abstain from food or drink.
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That's all it means.
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But what was the purpose of fasting?
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It was done in order to show dependence on God and submission to his will.
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David Mathis, I love what he wrote or had written on this.
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We fast in this life because we believe in the life to come.
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We don't have to get it all here and now because we have a promise that we will have it all
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in the coming age.
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We fast from what we can see and taste because we have tasted and seen the goodness of the
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invisible and infinite God, and this last line, and we are desperately hungry for more
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of him.
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That's why we do it.
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See, there were many occasions for fasting recorded in scripture, particularly in the
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Old Testament.
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Sometimes you get the impression that the Old Testament was, you had all these required
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fasts, not so.
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But so a lot of these were, in fact, all of them were voluntary except one.
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But you find people fasting, first of all, when they want to seek God's deliverance or
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they were seeking protection.
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Do you remember Queen Esther?
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She called for a fast before she went into the king.
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Look in Esther 4.16, and I'll read through these verses quickly.
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I just want to give you an illustration here.
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Go gather all the Jews who are present in Shushan and fast for me.
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Neither eat nor drink for three days, night or day.
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My maids and I will fast likewise.
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And so I will go to the king, which is against the law, and if I perish, I perish.
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She did not presume upon the Lord.
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She was fasting.
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May the Lord protect me and give me favor.
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Secondly, it was a sign of confession and repentance.
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You see this in Joel, or God himself speaking.
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Now therefore says the Lord, this is the high and lofty one, turn to me with all your heart,
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with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning.
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So rend your heart and night your garments, return to the Lord your God.
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Later we're going to see also in Deuteronomy chapter 9, verse 9 there.
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And you see that.
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This is Moses.
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Excuse me.
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Moses, we know, went into a 40-day fast upon receiving the law.
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And he says, when I went up into the mountain to receive the tablets of stone, then look
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at that last phrase.
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I stayed on the mountain 40 days and 40 nights.
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I neither ate bread nor did I drink water.
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But what you see here in that Joel passage as well, fasting does not substitute for confession
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or repentance.
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You can fast, but if there is no repentance in your heart, it is done in vain.
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We must be willing to part with our sin and not just to acknowledge it.
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Thirdly, it was a sign of humility before the Lord.
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You see this with King Ahab.
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So it was when Ahab heard these words that he tore his clothes, put sackcloth on his
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body, and he fasted and lay in sackcloth and went about mourning.
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Later on, it says he humbled himself before the Lord.
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This is one of the ways that we show our humility before God.
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It was also done in moments of tragedy or deep disappointment.
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Nehemiah, you know, the one that came back to build the gates and the walls, he said,
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they said to me, the survivors who are left from the captivity in the province are there
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in great distress and reproach.
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The wall of Jerusalem is broken down and its gates are burned with fire.
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That just devastated Nehemiah.
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He's still in Babylon.
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He hears the news.
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So it was when I heard these words that I sat down and wept and mourned for many days,
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I was fasting and praying before the God of heaven.
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Notice what fasting goes along with, prayer, fasting and prayer.
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Later on, you'll go see when there was a threat or the looming threat of war, they would fast.
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When loved ones were sick, they would fast.
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Do you remember David, when he sinned with Bathsheba, she conceived, the child was born,
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the child was born sick, and David was fasting for his infant son who later died.
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When loved ones died, you remember Saul and Jonathan were killed in war and when Israel,
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when David and all Israel found out about it, they fasted for many days.
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So if you look at this idea of fasting in the Old Testament, basically they were fasting
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whenever they were seeking God's favor.
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They were courting the favor of God.
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But as I said just a moment ago, there was only one commanded fast that was commanded
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every year and this is on the day of Yom Kippur or what we would know as the Day of Atonement.
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On that day, all the nation was required to fast and it says to afflict their souls.
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And we read about that in Leviticus 16.
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This shall be a statute forever for you.
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In the seventh month, on the tenth day of the month, you shall afflict your souls.
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And by the way, that means to fast.
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Do no work at all, whether native of your own country or stranger who dwells among you.
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Everyone who is in the nation was required to fast.
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You're like, yeah, but that's all Old Covenant.
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That's all Old Testament.
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And as we come to the new, we do not find any direct command whatsoever to fast, but
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there's an assumption that we will fast.
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Where just as there was an assumption that God's people pray and God's people give, that
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same assumption we find that it is assumed God's people are going to fast.
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In Matthew 6 verse 3, but when you do a charitable deed, that's giving.
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Verse 5, and when you pray.
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Verse 16, moreover, when you fast.
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It doesn't ever say if here.
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Just as you were giving, just as you were praying, it is also assumed that you would
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fast.
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Now, keep in mind, the Pharisees though, they began to fast two days a week on a Monday
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and on a Thursday.
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And we read about that in Luke 18 when Jesus was telling the parable.
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The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself.
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And that's so telling.
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He's praying with himself, not to God.
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God, I thank you that I'm not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even
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this tax collector.
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I fast twice a week.
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Now why?
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There's a Jewish tradition that said when Moses went up to Mount Sinai to receive the
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tablets of stone, that he went up on a Thursday and the day that he descended from the mount
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with the law was a Monday.
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As a result, the Pharisees considered these two days holy, so on Thursdays and Mondays,
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they would fast.
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And they did it devoutly.
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But they were fasting in a way that people saw that they were fasting because what they
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really wanted was to be seen by others.
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They were hypocrites.
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They were wearing the mask.
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They weren't doing this to show any dependence upon God.
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They were not confessing their sins.
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They were not contrite or repentant.
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They weren't trying to seek him at all, but rather they really were seeking man's applause.
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That's what they wanted.
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Jesus tells us that they purposely made their faces sad and they appeared disheveled.
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They did not properly groom on those days.
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They didn't get up and wash their face or comb their hair.
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Now some commentators report that the Pharisees at this time would even go so far as to put
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on a little makeup to look more pale and more gaunt.
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They wanted to look this way.
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Why?
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And then others would cover themselves with dirt and ashes, a sign of mourning.
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Why?
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They wanted you to see them.
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They were simply playing the part as an actor would.
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Like an actor might put on stage makeup.
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So did these men.
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In contrast, the word Jesus is going to show his disciples, if you're going to fast, here's
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how you must do it.
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And we find it in verse 17 and 18.
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But the key is verse 18.
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This is the key of why we're here in worship this morning.
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God sees what you do in secret and he rewards openly.
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God sees into the secret places.
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God is a rewarder of those who are diligently seeking him.
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It's the same with our giving.
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It's the same with our praying.
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Do it as privately as you possibly can.
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Try not to be seen by others.
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Now I will tell you, admittedly, it is difficult for me to preach on fasting because this has
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not been something that I have often practiced.
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It has not been a part of my habitual routine.
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Now some Christians think that fasting was only a Jewish custom and that's no longer
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practiced today under the new covenant.
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That's a false assumption, by the way.
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Christians refuse to fast because if you look at the Middle Ages, you see the abuses and
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the extreme asceticism that had risen and developed in the Middle Ages.
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They thought this was a sign of godliness.
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That's gone too far.
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But can we be honest this morning and be frank?
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Let's admit to ourselves that another reason we don't fast is because it is too difficult.
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We like comfort.
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We like convenience.
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I mean there are some Christians, if you talk about fasting, they think you're fanatical
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to go without food.
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And this is one of the dangers that I think we face in our day, a day of comfort and prosperity
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and abundance.
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Many today want an easy Christianity that doesn't cost them anything and yet still benefits
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them greatly.
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They want a relationship with God that requires no discipline, that requires no commitment
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from them whatsoever.
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But I want us to hear the words of our Lord.
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In Matthew chapter 7, just one chapter over, look at verse 13.
Matthew 7 chapter mention
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Jesus is talking to those following Him.
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He's not primarily talking to the scribes and Pharisees.
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These are His followers.
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Enter by the narrow gate, for wide, broad is that gate, and broad is the way that leads
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to destruction, and there are many who go in by it because narrow is the gate.
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And notice this next phrase, and difficult is the way which leads to life.
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And there are a few who find it.
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Difficult is the way which leads to life.
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I think we ought to take every syllable spoken by our Lord seriously.
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In Luke chapter 14, Jesus said, great multitudes went with Him, and He turned and said, if
Luke 14 chapter mention
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anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and
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sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.
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And whoever does not bear his cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.
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We skip down to verse 33, so likewise, whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot
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be My disciple.
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And I heard like, oh, He's talking to the first century, first century followers.
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And has the bar been lowered for us?
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Has there been an abomination, a recall of this particular command?
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And I will say this, and I mean this with all my heart, if you are turned away from
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following Jesus because of what He said in these verses, then you don't know Him, nor
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do you understand His worth.
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You cannot possibly understand His worth and be willing to depart from Him, because this
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I know, once the Spirit of God has opened your eyes and you see Him for who He is, then
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you are willing to give up everything, you must have Him.
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You must have Him.
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If you have seen the glory of God in the face of the Lord Jesus, then you know that the
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reward of following Him is far surpassing, far outweighs any sacrifice that we're required
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to make in following Him today.
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We know that.
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Friends, following Christ, it cost us.
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The life of the disciple is hard, but it's worth it.
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No wonder we don't preach on fasting.
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Requires sacrifice.
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And that runs counter to our flesh and to our culture, which loves comfort.
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See, now let me just say this.
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Fasting is not simply for the sake of denial.
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It's not simply for the sake of sacrifice, and nor, especially, it's not about self-discipline.
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Biblical fasting is so that you can seek God more earnestly.
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That's why you do it.
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See, unless there is worship of God or devotion to Him in your heart when you're practicing
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these things, it means nothing.
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You can go without food for 10 weeks if you want.
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But unless you're seeking God, it matters not.
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But let's be honest, we can see then from this passage, it is clear that Jesus does
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have an expectation that at some point His people will fast.
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But we're told how to.
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He gives us instructions.
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He says, hey, get up.
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Anoint your head.
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Wash your face.
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What's He saying?
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For goodness sake, look normal.
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You ought to go to bed, shower, shave, get dressed, and present yourself as you normally
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would.
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In other words, here's what you are not to do.
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Don't mope around so that people see you moping around, looking weak and looking faint,
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so they're going to ask you, why do you look this way?
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And then you can mostly say, well, I'm fasting.
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Don't do that, He says.
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Fasting is to afflict your soul before God.
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It's never to impress people.
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Don't do it.
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Now, some say, hey, but it's not required.
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There's no command, pastor, and you are right.
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But there is an expectation, and Jesus suggests that it is still, takes practice today.
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Look at Matthew 9.
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The disciples of John, that's John the Baptist, came to Him and said, hey, why do we, disciples
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of John the Baptist, and the Pharisees, we're often fasting, but your disciples aren't.
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They're having a party and we're going without.
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Jesus said, can the friends of the bridegroom mourn as long as the bridegroom was with them?
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But the days will come when the bridegroom will be taken away from them, and then they
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will fast.
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And then they will.
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So fasting is associated with mourning.
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Jesus' disciples were not mourning.
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Why?
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The bridegroom was still there.
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Christ is still physically present.
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But He said, the days are coming when the groom will no longer be here, and then they
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will fast.
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Well, when was the groom no longer there?
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At His ascension.
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He left them.
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He was taken up.
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He has not yet returned in glory.
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Fasting has resumed, and it will continue until, once again, we are reunited with our
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Lord.
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And then fasting goes away, and it's all feasting from that point.
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Fasting has always been common in the Old Testament and the New.
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As I said, with Moses, he fasted 40 days.
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But you find a greater Moses who is going to deliver his people, and his name is the
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Lord Jesus.
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And what did he do before he was tempted by Satan?
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He's fasting for how long?
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40 days.
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You go to the book of Acts and you look at the early church.
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What are they doing?
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They're fasting and praying.
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Acts 13, as they minister to the Lord and fasted, the Holy Spirit said, separate Barnasm
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and Saul for the work I have.
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Verse 3, having fasted and prayed, they laid their hands on them and sent them away.
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But notice, again, fasting is not just fasting, it's fasting and what?
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Praying.
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That's what you see that all the way through.
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Disciples fasted and prayed.
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One more example.
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Next chapter, Acts 14.
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And when they had preached the gospel to that city, they made many disciples and they returned
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to Lister, Iconium, and Antioch.
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What were they doing?
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Strengthening the souls of disciples.
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Now listen, church, this is for us.
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Exhorting them to continue in the faith.
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Why?
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Because they know it's going to get tough and some are going to be tempted to abandon
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the faith.
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Saying, we must, through many tribulations, enter the kingdom of God.
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That's exactly what Jesus said.
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The road into life is difficult.
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So when they had anointed elders in every church and prayed with fasting, they commended
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to the Lord in whom they believed.
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Why do we have this different expectation than any of the early church did?
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They prayed and they fasted.
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The late Andrew Murray says, faith needs a life of prayer in which to grow and to keep
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strong.
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We see that.
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Prayers need fasting for its full and perfect development.
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I love what he writes here.
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Prayer is the one hand with which we grasp the invisible.
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Fasting is the other hand with which we let loose and cast away the visible.
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Prayer lays hold of the invisible.
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Fasting casts away the visible.
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J.C.
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Ryle.
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He says, we find no direct commandment in the New Testament.
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It seems to be left to everyone's discretion whether he will fast or not.
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In this absence of direct command, we may see great wisdom.
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It is a matter in which each person must be persuaded in their own mind and not rashly
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condemn others who do not agree.
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One thing only must never be forgotten.
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Those who fast should do it quietly, secretly, and without ostentation.
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Yeah, it's not commanded.
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But you see Jesus doing it.
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You see the early church doing it.
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And by the way, the church fathers, they wrote about it.
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They all practiced fasting.
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If you look through the annals of church history, you see it, at the time of the Reformation,
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you had Martin Luther, John Calvin fasting.
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You can go from the Reformation, you see our spiritual forefathers like Wesley and Whitfield
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and Jonathan Edwards, they were all fasting and praying.
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But what is fasting not?
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It is not twisting God's arm to get him to do so, something that he was not inclined
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to do in the first place.
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Some people think if we're fasting, it's like prayer supercharged, like God's like,
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oh, I don't want to do this, but now since they're praying and fasting, I have to do
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it.
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That's not it.
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Fasting helps us to align our desires with God, not for him to align his desire with
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us.
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It helps us to be more in tune with God.
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It helps us to be more in tune with his leading in our lives.
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At the same time, what are we doing?
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We're subordinating our earthly desires, our earthly passions.
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It does help to deny the flesh.
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It's interesting today, if you turn on any health program, you'll see the benefits of
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fasting or intermittent fasting, but that's not the biblical focus.
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In biblically fasting, the focus is on God, not on the benefits that may be gained by
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us.
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There are benefits, but that's not why we do it.
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Now, as we start to close, we're not there yet, so hold on, there are ways that fasting
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can be abused.
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It can make us proud.
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Look at the Pharisees, exhibit A. You may be tempted if you practice this discipline
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that you're more holy or more pious because of what you do, but fasting never makes anyone
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holy.
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Only the sanctifying power of God makes us holy.
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However, some people get proud of how disciplined they are.
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That's legalism.
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You're supposing that your good deeds or your religious devotion somehow is earning favor
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with God.
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He looks favorably upon me because look what I'm doing.
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That's an abuse.
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Secondly, it can produce a judgmental spirit.
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If you practice fasting and you know someone else never does, you may look down with them
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in judgment and think, well, they're just not that spiritual.
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They don't take their walk with the Lord that seriously.
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But we must keep in mind the issue has never been about food, ever.
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First Corinthians 8 verse 8, food does not commend us to God.
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There was all these wars in the early church about what you could eat and what you couldn't
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because you had Jewish kosher laws, dietary laws.
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You had these pagans being saved out of paganism who used to eat things offered to idols.
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And then you have the church that says, hey, let's have a smorgasbord and have it all.
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And so the people said, and Paul is like, listen, stop.
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It's not about food.
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Food does not commend us to God.
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If we eat it, we're not better.
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And if we don't eat it, are we better?
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Or if we don't, are we the worse?
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It's never been about food.
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God is not primarily concerned with what we eat.
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He's primarily concerned the state of our heart.
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That's it.
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And you see that in Colossians 2.
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Therefore, if, and it means since here, since you died with Christ from the basic principles
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of the world, why is the living in the world do you subject yourselves to regulations?
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Because there were people in Colossi who were thinking, I have to do this in order to impress
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God.
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What were they doing?
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Don't touch, don't taste, don't handle.
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They became legalists in ascetics.
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And he said, all these things are going to perish.
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These are the doctrines of men.
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Look at verse 23.
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They look wise, they have an appearance of wisdom, that it's self-imposed religion.
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It's will worship.
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It's false humility.
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It's neglecting the body, and they don't help at all against sin in the flesh.
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Do you see?
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Like we can, we're so prone to go to extremes.
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There is nothing intrinsically good about fasting unless it is accompanied by the right
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heart and the right motive, which is to seek the Lord.
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Now some of you here, you're like, well, I just think anyone who fasts and you teach
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on it, that's legalistic.
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I get so tired of hearing people brain me about the word legalism anytime you talk about
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standards or obedience.
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Listen, grace.
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God's grace teaches God's people to do something.
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Grace is active, it's not passive.
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If grace in your life isn't doing anything, James 2 says it's a dead faith.
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Listen, Titus 2.11 says, for the grace of God that brings salvation as appeared to all
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men, wonderful, verse 12, teaches us, what teaches us?
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The antecedent, grace.
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The grace of God teaches us what?
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To deny ungodliness and to deny worldly lusts.
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It also teaches us to live soberly, that's seriously, righteously, and godly right now.
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Do you see, friends, this type of licentious behavior we see in the church today is an
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antinomian spirit and it's of the devil.
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The grace of God teaches us and it teaches us to deny ourselves and to seek him and fasting
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is one of the tools that you can use to do that.
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You say, oh, you're just fanatical, legalistic.
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Or maybe you just want to go along with the cultural norms.
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Our culture is always about self-indulgence.
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Don't sacrifice anything.
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If your walk with Christ asks you to sacrifice, don't do it.
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Because these people have Christ as a means of convenience.
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But you don't get to use Christ.
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That doesn't happen in any relationship, does it?
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And it doesn't happen in our walk with Christ either.
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He will not allow you to use him as a means to your own benefit, nor can you take advantage
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of him.
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That doesn't work in human relationships.
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My wife can tell if she's being used if I'm just taking advantage of her.
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Christ certainly knows that.
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Love in any relationship requires sacrifice.
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Any relationship.
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Are you willing to sacrifice so that the relationship you have with our Lord might be strengthened?
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That's what we're asked this morning.
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Now, it might mean fasting at times.
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Now, I said earlier, fasting in its pure form means going without food, going without drink.
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But there are other ways that Christians fast.
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There's one other way mentioned in the New Testament.
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We find it in Paul's letter to the Corinthian church.
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And this was about a sexual fast for husband and wives in 1 Corinthians 7, starting in
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verse 2.
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He says, but because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his
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own wife, each woman have her own husband.
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This is the only legitimate sexual expression.
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The husband should give his wife her conjugal rights and likewise the wife to her husband.
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For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does.
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They would have known that, but this next part would have been radical.
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The husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
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Women have very few rights.
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And Paul's like, no, man, you don't have a right to your own body.
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Your wife does.
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Verse 5.
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Now listen, don't deprive one another of what?
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The sexual relationship.
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Except perhaps by agreement, husband and wife both aligned here, for a limited time, it's
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temporary, so that you can devote yourselves to prayer.
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Then come together again, resume normal sexual relationship, so that Satan does not tempt
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you for your lack of self-control.
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Do you see what he's saying?
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The husband and wife have agreed to have a sexual fast.
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Why?
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Because they're going to seek the Lord more earnestly in prayer.
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It's right there.
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It must be mutual, it must be agreed upon, and it must be temporary.
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Then come together again, he says.
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So what are we doing?
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You're setting aside the normal routines of life for a special, specific time of seeking
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the Lord.
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I have known people who have fasted when they have an important decision to make.
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I've known people when they have a health diagnosis and are waiting to see the results
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have fasted and prepared their hearts.
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The fasting also could take other ways.
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It could be a fast from your resources, a fast from your time.
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Something that I've engaged in, and I think this can be helpful for us in our day, it's
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a media fast.
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Take a break from TV, movies, internet, social media.
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Why?
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To engage in a more concentrated time of prayer.
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Martin Lloyd Jones talked about that.
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He said, fasting, if we conceive of it truly, must not be confined to the question of food
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and drink.
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It should really be made to include abstinence from anything which is legitimate in and of
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itself for the sake of some special spiritual purpose.
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There are many bodily functions which are right and normal and perfectly legitimate,
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but which for special peculiar reasons in certain circumstances should be controlled.
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Well, that's fasting.
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So we're gonna close now, okay?
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Let's say that the Spirit of God has impressed upon your heart and you have never fasted.
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Can I just give you some three practical suggestions here?
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First of all, start small.
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Don't start with a 40-day fast.
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Don't start with a week-long fast.
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The Jews, when they would have daily fasts, it would be from sundown of one day to sundown
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of the next.
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After the sun went down, you could resume eating.
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It could be, friends, fast a meal and seek the Lord in prayer in that one meal.
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It could be where you have a liquid fast, you're abstaining from food, but you're still
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having juice and other liquids.
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Secondly, and I think this is key, plan the purpose.
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It's not simply about denial, friends.
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Not simply to deny yourselves, rather to seek God.
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Spend the time that you would normally engage in these particular activities, either praying,
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reading, meditating upon some passage.
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It's because you have to plan what you wanna do or else fasting is just a way for you to
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get hungry.
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Thirdly, lastly, in our day, and I would say this, in Jesus' day, diabetes almost didn't
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exist because of their diet.
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But today, if you are diabetic, it may not be wise for you to undertake a fast.
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It may, going without food may throw you, I don't know, glucose levels off, hypoglycemic
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reactions, I don't know.
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Consider another type of fasting.
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If your health does not allow you to fast from food, then be creative and undertake
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another type of fast.
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Again, that will allow you to specifically and specially focus on the Lord.
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And I close.
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Look at the reward.
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Look at the latter part.
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Look at the last part of verse 18.
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Your Father who sees in secret, He's gonna reward you openly.
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This is the key.
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We fast from food in order to have a greater taste of Jesus.
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It's intensely Godward.
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We do it to commune with Him.
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We seek Him when no one else knows that we're seeking Him.
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Do you wanna have a greater hunger for God?
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Or I wanna know you more.
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Desire Him.
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But see, fasting is awesome.
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I love this.
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We're getting ready to feast at the table.
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Fasting is a reminder that a feast is coming.
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In this age, we fast.
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In the age to come, we feast.
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In this age right now, friends, this is the age in which we bear our cross.
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We cross-bear.
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In that age, we wear crowns.
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There's cross-bearing and crown-wearing.
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You're never, ever gonna fast in heaven.
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You're never gonna fast in the age to come.
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Why?
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We will be with the heavenly bridegroom.
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Remember, Jesus said, you don't mourn.
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You don't fast when you're with Him.
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And we're gonna be with Him.
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So right now, we can deny ourselves because we know in the age to come that all our desires
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will be perfectly fulfilled.
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It's a declaration of faith.
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We believe that.
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Earlier, I quoted David Mathis.
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I wanna do this one last time, cuz he says it better than I.
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When Jesus returns, it's gone.
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Fasting will be done.
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It is a temporary measure for this life and age to enrich our joy in Jesus and to prepare
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our hearts for the next, for seeing Him face to face.
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When He returns, He's not gonna call a fast, but He'll throw a feast.
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Think of the prodigal.
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There's a feast that's coming.
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Then all holy abstinence will have served its glorious purpose and be seen by all for
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the stunning gift that it was.
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But until that day, we fast.
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We're gonna come to the table, folks.
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And we're gonna come to this table in faith.
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We wanna feast upon the Lord.
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It's just a glimpse, right?
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This is a small preview of the age to come in which we will forever enjoy perfect and
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unhindered fellowship with our Lord.
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But this is a special means of grace that God has given to His church.
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We remember Him, we feast upon Him, and we grow closer to Him.
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And all of this is with this longing, oh, to be with Jesus in that coming age.
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With the saints of old, we cry out, even so, come Lord Jesus.
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Before we partake of the meal, we're gonna sing a song.
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It's a new song that Katie, I think you know, and Kirsten and Brian, have we sung it here
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before?