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The One | Donovan Rillion | The One Who's Been Wounded

Blairsville Church of Christ

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  1. So last week, I told you that I do believe we

  2. can fit most of our friends in one of a few categories.

  3. And I'll put those on the screen again. So we've

  4. got the friends that grew up in church, but maybe

  5. they've wandered away. They've drifted. They

  6. didn't leave because they wanted to. Life just

  7. kind of got busy or they just kind of stopped

  8. feeling like it was important. And then you've

  9. got the friends that maybe they grew up in church,

  10. but they were hurt, whether that be by life or

  11. by the church. And they chose to walk away. You've

  12. also got the friends that believe that they found

  13. a better way to live. So maybe that's another

  14. religious leaning or maybe they've just decided

  15. to give up on religion because it's not the ideal

  16. way to live. And so they've walked away for that

  17. reason. Then you've got the ones that they claim

  18. Christ. They call themselves Christians, but

  19. they're really trusting more in their own goodness

  20. than they are in Jesus. They're trusting more

  21. in their own self -righteousness than they are

  22. the righteousness of God. I think that's where

  23. probably a majority fit. And then there are the

  24. friends that are genuine followers of Jesus.

  25. They genuinely want to be like Christ. They are

  26. trying to be disciples. And so they're following

  27. him. They're still flawed. They're still human,

  28. but they are faithfully following. So we began

  29. last week with the one who has wandered. We talked

  30. about the sheep that, you know, a sheep doesn't

  31. really choose to stray from the flock. It just

  32. kind of finds itself gone. As one friend put

  33. it, a preacher, he said, the sheep nibbled its

  34. way into being lost. It kind of nibbled at some

  35. grass here and nibbled at some grass there. And

  36. before it knew it, it was gone. It sounds familiar,

  37. right? We nibble in some things here and we kind

  38. of dabble in that. And next thing you know, we

  39. haven't been to church in a year. And now we're

  40. not talking to God as much because we're kind

  41. of distracted and we find ourselves drifted away.

  42. I actually think that's where a lot of our friends

  43. who grow up with a faith background fit. But

  44. today I want us to go into the next chapter in

  45. Luke 15, verses 8 through 10. And I think this

    Luke 15:8–10

  46. is where another big chunk of our friends fit.

  47. And this is a passage that I feel is often overlooked.

  48. It's just three verses. And in these three verses,

  49. it's kind of a story that Jesus tells that we

  50. don't necessarily focus on as much. I heard a

  51. friend put it. This is the lost parable among

  52. the parables. So it is the lost coin. This is

  53. three verses that my friend Buddy, he delivered

  54. a keynote on this at a lectureship last year.

  55. And he made me realize just how much depth is

  56. in these three verses that we just kind of gloss

  57. over. So this morning, we're going to have an

  58. entire sermon on just three verses. And so that

  59. must mean it's going to be short, right? No,

  60. wrong. Luke 15, verses 8 through 10. Let's read

    Luke 15:8–10

  61. it together. Or what woman having 10 silver coins,

  62. if she loses one coin, doesn't light a lamp and

  63. sweep the house and seek diligently until she

  64. finds it. And when she's found it, she calls

  65. together her friends and neighbors saying, rejoice

  66. with me. For I found the coin that I had lost.

  67. Just so I tell you, there is joy before the angels

  68. of God over one sinner who repents. Now, to give

  69. some backstory here in case you weren't here

  70. last week or you've never read the Gospels before,

  71. Jesus here in Luke 15 is telling these stories

  72. in response to some religious leaders that have

  73. been complaining about his teachings and who

  74. he hangs out with. Because they're saying this

  75. guy cannot be the Messiah. He hangs out with

  76. sinners. He eats with tax collectors. No holy

  77. man would hang out with these bad people. That's

  78. what they're saying about Jesus. The lost sheep

  79. story makes sense because people wander. They

  80. get lost. But what about a coin? What about a

  81. coin? What does a coin do to get lost? Does a

  82. coin grow feet and walk away? Is it like in Toy

  83. Story where when the people are looking, the

  84. toys are laying down on the ground and they're

  85. just kind of inanimate? But when people walk

  86. away, now the toys can run around and they can

  87. play. Is that what the coin does? Or could it

  88. be that a coin doesn't get lost by someone or

  89. it doesn't get lost on its own, but instead it's

  90. lost by someone else? The coin doesn't walk away.

  91. The coin doesn't run away. It doesn't even wander

  92. away. The coin is usually dropped or maybe it's

  93. thrown away. When I was a kid, please don't judge

  94. me or call the police. When I was a kid, I used

  95. to throw change away. Like my grandma would send

  96. me to Winn -Dixie. I'd get the stuff that I was

  97. supposed to buy. She'd give me $5. It was $3.

  98. So I had, you know, let's say it's $3 .20. So

  99. I had $1 .80 left. I'd throw the 80 cents away

  100. because I don't need those coins. Right. And

  101. I'd keep the dollar. Well, I learned later that

  102. throwing money away is actually illegal. So don't

  103. throw coins away. But it's also irresponsible

  104. because 80 cents can go a long way. Right. So

  105. I would throw these coins away. A coin doesn't

  106. just walk away. It gets lost by someone else.

  107. And so what Jesus what I want us to consider

  108. this morning is that. Jesus is not talking about

  109. someone getting lost on their own. But when he's

  110. talking about this coin, he's saying she lost

  111. her coin. She set the coin down somewhere and

  112. it got lost. She dropped it. And something I

  113. didn't realize until I listened to a sermon on

  114. this was that in that culture, in their homes,

  115. the floors were made of dirt and they would maybe

  116. have some hay on the ground as like a carpet,

  117. if you will. And so can you imagine you drop

  118. this little silver coin on the ground in this

  119. hay and now you can't find it because it's in

  120. the hay. So the woman, she was irresponsible

  121. with her coin. Kind of like me throwing my change

  122. away. The woman is the one who mishandled something

  123. valuable. The truth is there are many people

  124. out there and there may be some in this room.

  125. And I want to be very aware of that, that there

  126. may be people in this room, but there are definitely

  127. people outside of it who have been lost because

  128. of someone else's actions. There are people that

  129. have been lost because someone else mishandled

  130. them. And they are valuable, as we talked about

  131. last week. To say someone is lost is not an insult.

  132. It is not judgmental. To say someone is lost

  133. is to say they have value and we need to find

  134. them. And God wants them to be found. So this

  135. morning, I want to put the church in the shoes

  136. of the woman. I want you to consider that there

  137. are many people who have been lost because of

  138. something the church did or maybe the church

  139. failed to do. There are many people who have

  140. been lost Things people said in the church, things

  141. people did in the church. We live in a time where

  142. church hurt is a major topic of discussion. I

  143. mean, I think I scroll past a video of someone

  144. on a podcast talking about why they don't go

  145. to church anymore because the church hurt them.

  146. That's a real thing. We hear so much about people

  147. deconstructing their faith and often they are

  148. deconstructing not because they disbelieve God.

  149. It's not because they don't believe in the Bible,

  150. but it's because they stop believing in the church.

  151. So when we talk about this, we've got to be very

  152. aware that this is a real thing that happens

  153. and we can't look at it as, oh, well, that's

  154. just too bad. We've got to look at it as these

  155. people have value and we need to find them and

  156. we need to bring them home. And as we talk about

  157. this, I do think statistics are helpful. I'm

  158. not a math person, but I do like statistics.

  159. They're fun to look at. Sometimes they can be

  160. kind of painful to look at. And that's what these

  161. statistics are. So bear with me this morning.

  162. According to the Center for Church Renewal in

  163. a 2023 reporting, 40 million adults have stopped

  164. attending church over the last 25 years. So that

  165. would be, let's say, since the year 2000. Well,

  166. at this point, it was 2023. So since the year

  167. 1998, which is the year I was born, 40 million

  168. people stopped attending church. That's a lot

  169. of people. I don't know if that sounds like a

  170. lot to you, but that sounds like a lot of people.

  171. Essentially, one in seven who used to attend

  172. church no longer do. So in this room, that would

  173. mean if you've got seven people on a row, one

  174. of those people in the last 25 years is likely

  175. to have walked away. That's a lot of people.

  176. In that same report, they state that for the

  177. first time in 80 years, more adults do not attend

  178. church than those that do. Now, it's important

  179. to note that 97 % of ex -evangelicals, so that's

  180. people that left the church, ex -evangelicals,

  181. right? So 97 % of them still believe in God.

  182. So of those 40 million people, 90 % or 97 % still

  183. believe in God. So we like to say, well, they

  184. left the church. They left God. No, no, no. They

  185. did not leave God. They left. The church. They

  186. may be left Christianity. They may be left the

  187. faith, but they still believe in a higher power

  188. that calls them to moral good. So 97 percent

  189. of people still believe in God. That's according

  190. to the book, The Great Dechurching. And in this

  191. book, they list a few reasons for why these people

  192. left. So why the 40 million left? And we'll look

  193. at two of those reasons today. The first one

  194. is what we talked about last week. A majority

  195. of these people, they just wandered. They just

  196. kind of drifted away. Three quarters of them

  197. would say or three quarters of the 40 million

  198. people left because they moved. They got married.

  199. They had kids. They got new jobs, etc. Essentially,

  200. they claim that it became inconvenient for them

  201. to be a part of a church. And you know that feeling,

  202. right? You wake up on a Sunday morning at eight

  203. o 'clock and you're like, man, do I really want

  204. to rush to get out of the house so I can be at

  205. church at 930? Or do I want to roll back over

  206. and get another hour of sleep? Or I've worked

  207. really long and it's been a stressful week, so

  208. do I really want to take the time to go to Wednesday

  209. night Bible study? You get the picture there.

  210. The second reason is the one we're talking about

  211. this morning. Ten million stopped going to church

  212. or stopped being a part of a faith community

  213. because of church hurt. They gave it up because

  214. someone hurt them. A majority of those who have

  215. left the church claim they left because, and

  216. this is a quote, the church wasn't practicing.

  217. You hear the church talk about love and we talk

  218. about compassion. We talk about grace. We talk

  219. about kindness. We talk about peace. But then

  220. here we are. We're causing problems. We're stirring

  221. the pot. We're causing arguments and fighting

  222. and splitting and hurting. I mean, there are

  223. some serious things. And what I want to make

  224. sure I mentioned this morning is there are some

  225. serious cases of abuse that need to be addressed.

  226. So you have these issues ranging from overt legalism

  227. to hypocrisy and in some cases abuse that have

  228. caused so many people to leave. And according

  229. to the Barna Research Group, they did a report

  230. in 2010 that said 37 % of those who left church,

  231. they avoid it as in they will not try. They will

  232. not walk back in the doors of a church. Maybe

  233. they think about it, but they say, no, not today

  234. because of negative past experiences in churches

  235. or with church people. Now, that's relevant because

  236. while people being lost is often a consequence

  237. of their own choices, I don't want it to sound

  238. like people don't have autonomy in this. If I

  239. walk away from the church, I chose to do that.

  240. But my choices are often affected by outside

  241. circumstances. And so when someone chooses to

  242. walk away, we've got to ask the question, what

  243. led them to do that? And this morning we're talking

  244. about. What may be the cause of some of our brothers

  245. and sisters walking away? I'm not saying that

  246. it's right. I'm not saying it's acceptable. In

  247. fact, if I was talking to a person that left

  248. the church because of some traumatic experiences

  249. or because of some discrepancies, I would tell

  250. that person that they need to remember that people

  251. hurt people. God never does. People mess up a

  252. really good thing sometimes, but God does not.

  253. So we can give up on a certain group of people,

  254. but we do not give up on God and his family.

  255. But I'm also aware that that's a lot easier said

  256. than done. I'm aware that that's not an easy

  257. thing when you've been through that. And I can

  258. honestly say I've not been hurt by the church.

  259. My experience with the church is nothing but

  260. good. In fact, I would say I would not be the

  261. man I am. I would go as far as say I would probably

  262. be in jail right now had it not been for the

  263. church. And so my experience with the church

  264. is good. But I'm also aware that someone in this

  265. room and a lot of people out there cannot say

  266. the same. And I want to be very cautious of that.

  267. In ministry, I've dealt with a lot of instances

  268. of church hurt. In fact, one of my best friends,

  269. he was on pace to be an amazing minister. He's

  270. a great speaker. He's great at dealing with kids.

  271. He was going to be a youth minister. He's great

  272. at dealing with people. He's very, very intelligent.

  273. I mean, one of the top in his class. This guy

  274. was going to be an awesome minister one day.

  275. But because of the experiences he had with a

  276. church that he interned with while he was in

  277. college, he barely goes to church anymore. He

  278. barely sets foot in a church to this day because

  279. of the negative experiences he had with a church.

  280. Like I said, this is a guy who knew his Bible.

  281. This is a guy that was on fire for God, was on

  282. fire for reaching people with the gospel. But

  283. because of some negative experiences, he can't

  284. go. I mean, he can, but he chooses not to. People

  285. hurt people. When that happens in the church,

  286. it can deeply wound something that God designed

  287. to give life because when someone we love or

  288. when an institution that we love, something we

  289. value very highly hurts us, it becomes really

  290. hard to trust them again. Look, I've been a Saints

  291. fan my whole life. I love the New Orleans Saints,

  292. but I got to tell you, the last couple of years,

  293. they have stunk at football. They have stunk

  294. at football. And I mean, honestly, I'm at the

  295. point where I would just stop expecting good

  296. from them. I just don't expect them to be good

  297. anymore because they've hurt me. An institution

  298. that I've loved my whole life has hurt me so

  299. much in the last couple of years that I just

  300. don't trust them anymore. Now think about how

  301. much you love the church. Because I know some

  302. of us really love the church. Like we want to

  303. be with the church as often as the doors are

  304. open. We want to be here in every activity, every

  305. event, every fellowship gathering we can be.

  306. We want to be a part of all the Bible studies

  307. because we love the church. Now what happens

  308. when the church you love so much hurts you? That's

  309. a deep cut. And so that's hard to heal. It's

  310. hard to come back from. And so I want to ask

  311. this question now that we've identified that

  312. there are some people that are deeply hurt by

  313. the church. What should our response be when

  314. we know of people who they didn't get lost on

  315. their own? They didn't just wander off, but they

  316. got lost by the church. They got dropped like

  317. a coin. What should our response be? Well, we

  318. see what the woman's response was in verse eight.

  319. She lights a lamp. She sweeps the house. She

  320. seeks diligently until she finds it. There's

  321. some powerful words. She lights a lamp. She she

  322. brings light into the darkness. She exposes all

  323. of the things in the house. So you would imagine

  324. this dark house because they didn't have light.

  325. It would be a lamp or a candle. So she lights

  326. this lamp and now she can see. In her home. And

  327. she's going every nook and cranny. She's looking

  328. under the furniture. She's looking in all the

  329. corners. She's looking behind the cabinets. She's

  330. looking everywhere. Where she might not have

  331. been able to see before. Because it was dark.

  332. And now she can see it. And can you imagine along

  333. the way. She probably saw some imperfections

  334. in her home. That she didn't see before. She

  335. probably saw some cracks in the foundation. That

  336. she didn't see before. She's now seeing the holes

  337. in the floor. That she didn't see before. But

  338. because she lit the lamp. She can expose. the

  339. mistakes. She can expose the flaws. Church, what

  340. do we have to do? We've got to light a lamp.

  341. We've got to expose some flaws and see where

  342. are some areas we need to look to improve. She

  343. sweeps the house. She seeks diligently. I mentioned

  344. last week how we lost a car key. Well, we lost

  345. two. I'm saying we. Y 'all notice who's here

  346. this week. We lost a car key. Two in a matter

  347. of months, by the way. But we searched. We searched

  348. all over. We dug through trash. We dug through

  349. the dirty laundry. We looked all over the house,

  350. under the couch, in the cushions, which if you've

  351. got kids and you've ever looked under couch cushions,

  352. do yourself a favor. Don't. It's gross. So we

  353. looked everywhere. We could not find this key,

  354. but we kept searching because of the value that

  355. that key had. And that's what we're looking at

  356. here in Luke 15. We're looking at a woman that

  357. sees this valuable item. This silver coin would

  358. have been worth about a day's wages. And if you've

  359. ever worked for eight hours or for some of you,

  360. you've worked longer. You know how valuable that

  361. day was worth to you. And so she is searching

  362. for this day's wage because she knows the value

  363. that it has. Rather than just saying, well, it's

  364. lost. Guess we won't find it today. She doesn't

  365. just say, well, I'll never find it. She doesn't

  366. say, well, I guess I'll just never be able to

  367. get to it. There's no way I could search this

  368. whole house. There's no way I could look through

  369. all this hay on the floor. There's no point.

  370. She doesn't say that. She searches. And I love

  371. what Jesus says where he says, she seeks diligently

  372. until she finds it. She doesn't give up. We gave

  373. up on that car key because I lost my patience.

  374. I was like, all right, it's gone. The truth is

  375. it probably got lost in a McDonald's bag and

  376. tossed in the trash. But we gave up. But this

  377. woman doesn't give up. She keeps searching. The

  378. religious leaders of the time, they had an issue

  379. with Jesus associating with sinners. These people

  380. that they felt were gone. The people that they

  381. felt were too far off to fix. The people that

  382. they felt were not worth saving. They had an

  383. issue with Jesus associating with these people

  384. because they couldn't imagine a God like Jesus

  385. who would dare offer relationship to sinners.

  386. They couldn't imagine that God would actually

  387. come to earth and instead of being this royal

  388. king that they were expecting that would sit

  389. on a throne that would reign over Israel, they

  390. couldn't imagine that God being the God that

  391. would get down in the weeds with the tax collectors

  392. and sit at a table with the sinful people. would

  393. sit at a well with an adulterous woman who had

  394. had five marriages and was living with somebody

  395. that wasn't her husband. They couldn't imagine

  396. this God being someone who would hug lepers.

  397. They could not imagine a God like Jesus. But

  398. Jesus says, I came for the sinners and I'm going

  399. to seek every single one of them out until they

  400. come home. And they had an issue with that. And

  401. can you imagine the issue they had when Jesus

  402. said, I don't just associate with the sinners.

  403. I go out of my way to find them. I want you to

  404. think about the parable or not the parable. This

  405. is a real encounter that Jesus had with the Samaritan

  406. woman at the well. You know, it said Jesus was

  407. traveling to Galilee and he had to go through

  408. Samaria. Well, the truth is that most Israelites

  409. would go around Samaria because the Jews and

  410. the Samaritans, they didn't get along. They had

  411. some issues. And so they didn't travel through

  412. Samaria because they were too good for Samaria.

  413. So they'd go around. Well, it's pretty. I'd say

  414. that Jesus goes through Samaria and he just so

  415. happens to sit down at a well at a weird time

  416. of day where a woman who would not normally in

  417. that context be coming to a well, but she comes

  418. to the well at that time of day. Jesus is sitting

  419. there. He talks to this woman. He finds out she's

  420. got a pretty checkered past. And what he tells

  421. her is the same thing he tells all of us. And

  422. that is that nobody is too far gone for my God

  423. to save. Nobody is too far gone for my God to

  424. give life to. He doesn't just associate with

  425. sinners. He goes out of his way to be with them.

  426. And as you'll hear me say many times in this

  427. series, and hopefully as many times as I can

  428. in this pulpit, if we are disciples of Jesus,

  429. if we're going to be like. Christ, we must think

  430. and act like Jesus. So if Jesus goes out of his

  431. way to bring the gospel, to bring hope, to bring

  432. life to the sinner, what do I need to do? Go

  433. out of my way to bring the gospel, to bring life,

  434. to bring hope to the sinner. And I can't do that

  435. if I'm too consumed with me. I can't do that

  436. if I'm too consumed with these seats. I can't

  437. do that if I'm too consumed with my wife. I've

  438. got to be concerned with their life too. So how

  439. does Jesus act? How does he think? Well, he says

  440. it right here in these three verses. When someone

  441. I value is lost, I seek diligently until I find

  442. them. And that's what we've been called to do.

  443. And for the ones that have been lost because

  444. of the church, we've got to take ownership of

  445. our failure. Now, this is not us saying we hurt

  446. them. It's not us saying we've done wrong by

  447. them. In fact, as long as I've been here, it

  448. feels like there is no way possible that this

  449. church could ever hurt anybody because y 'all

  450. are about the nicest people I've ever met. But

  451. I know for a fact there are some churches in

  452. this community that have hurt people. And there

  453. are people sitting in restaurants this morning

  454. eating breakfast. There are people sitting at

  455. their home right now because somebody in this

  456. town that claimed to be a follower of Jesus hurt

  457. them and now they're done with the church. I'm

  458. going to say this. We better go find them and

  459. tell them, hey, we got a group of nice people

  460. here that love and live like Jesus. Because that's

  461. what Jesus did. So we take ownership of the failure

  462. that some. maybe had, and then we go find the

  463. loss. We've got to move past this, and I hear

  464. it so often, this, well, they just need to get

  465. over it mindset. I'm as big of a you need to

  466. get over it person as there is. When my boys

  467. get hurt, it is not, oh, buddy, are you okay?

  468. It's, come on, you're all right. You'll be okay.

  469. And I feel the same way with adults, because

  470. adults should be able to handle some tough times.

  471. That's the human Donovan speaking. The Donovan

  472. that understands that Jesus didn't look at people

  473. and say they need to just get over it has to

  474. think a little bit differently. The Donovan that

  475. understands that Jesus didn't just say, oh, come

  476. on, you can pull yourself up by your bootstraps

  477. and just get over that. That's people hurt people.

  478. That Donovan's got to be quiet for a minute.

  479. Because Jesus looks at the lost and he doesn't

  480. say, get over it. He says, my God is offering

  481. you redemption. My God is offering you healing.

  482. I want you to know that there is life in the

  483. father. And I want to show you how to find it.

  484. That's what Jesus did. And so if that's what

  485. Jesus did and I'm going to be a follower of Jesus,

  486. what do I need to do? Exactly that. And then

  487. once we have. done that. Once we have gotten

  488. past that, they need to get over a mindset we

  489. seek diligently. We look everywhere. We look

  490. in the far corners of this town. We look crazy

  491. concept in the bars. We look at the restaurants.

  492. We look at the auto shop. We look at the Walmart.

  493. Crazy place to be, although we have a nice Walmart

  494. here. So we don't have the craziness that we

  495. had at the Montgomery Walmarts. But you got to

  496. look. Diligently for those that are lost because

  497. they're out there. Who do we know that's been

  498. pushed away because of the church hurt? Who do

  499. we know that's tired of seeing people who don't

  500. practice what they preach? Who do we know that's

  501. gone because of the words or the actions of someone

  502. in the church? And what will we do to find them?

  503. What will we do to reach them? OK, that's been

  504. pretty depressing, right? Yeah. Now I want to

  505. get into the good stuff. The hope side of this.

  506. This is the hope. Did you know that 51 % of people

  507. who have left the church are willing to give

  508. church another try? 51 % of people that feel

  509. like they've been pushed away or maybe they've

  510. just walked away. 51%, that's more than half.

  511. I know that much in math. 51 % would be willing

  512. to give it another try. That's pretty good numbers.

  513. So that would mean if the hundred people in this

  514. room said, I'm going to seek one person for the

  515. next month. At least 51 % of people, if we all

  516. honestly and earnestly did that, 51 % of people

  517. would at least give it a try. So that would mean

  518. if 100 people, 51 % of 100 equals 51. Yeah, Tim

  519. knows math. 51. So could you imagine if we showed

  520. up one Sunday and 51 extra people were in here

  521. and we discipled those people for a year and

  522. then next year. Those 51 are now a part of our

  523. 150 or 100. So now it's 151. And now we go reach

  524. one more. So 151 go reach one. And then we have

  525. 51 percent. OK, now here's where the math gets

  526. sticky. Fifty one percent of 151. Somebody. Seventy

  527. five and a half infant baptism. All right. So.

  528. Somebody got that joke right. So. All right.

  529. So now we're over 200. Now, 200 people go. And

  530. do you see how this math keeps going? There are

  531. lost people out there that are searching. They're

  532. seeking. You see it on the news right now. People

  533. are claiming that we are in a revival. We're

  534. in this kind of another great awakening. People

  535. are looking. They're interested in God. It's

  536. trendy to be a Christian right now. I'm a country

  537. music fan. And it seems like every other week

  538. a new country song comes on. And guess what it

  539. has to do with? God. It has something to do with

  540. faith. Now, I may not agree with all the theology

  541. in it, but I got to tell you, I'm just glad people

  542. are talking about Jesus. And people are talking

  543. about Jesus. And so people are thinking about

  544. him. If they're interested, if they're talking

  545. about him, what do we need to do? Capitalize

  546. on the moment. They are interested. According

  547. to that same report for the Center for Church

  548. Renewal, those people are willing to give church

  549. another try. But this is what they're looking

  550. for. When they step back in these doors, they

  551. are looking for healthy relationships. Specifically,

  552. this is what they said. They're looking for a

  553. church that both preaches and lives out the gospel.

  554. They don't want people that just talk about how

  555. good God is. They don't want people that just

  556. talk about how Jesus saves. They don't want people

  557. that just talk about how Jesus loves the sinners

  558. and how he seeks the lost. They want people that

  559. live it out. So let me ask you this question

  560. this morning. Are we going to be people that

  561. speak Jesus? and live like Jesus? Or are we going

  562. to be people that just occupy seats? That's a

  563. question we've got to ask ourselves. They want

  564. a church that both preaches the gospel and lives

  565. it out. And this is the gospel right here. It's

  566. a God who searches for the lost. It's a God who

  567. says, I see your brokenness. I see your shame.

  568. I see your pain. I see where you are. And I want

  569. to bring you I see where you're hurting. I see

  570. where people have hurt. I see where you've maybe

  571. wandered off. I see where you have walked away.

  572. I understand. But it's time to come home. It's

  573. time to come back. And then what does Luke 15

    Luke 15:9

  574. verses 9 and 10 say happens when the lost are

  575. found? When the lost finally come home? Well,

  576. it says when the woman finds it, she calls together

  577. her friends and neighbors. saying, rejoice with

  578. me, for I found the coin that I had lost. And

  579. Jesus says, just so I tell you, there is joy

  580. before the angels of God over one sinner who

  581. repents. I think Jesus has made it clear that

  582. he thinks it's something worth celebrating when

  583. the lost are found. I mean, that's two times

  584. already in these 10 verses where Jesus says something

  585. about celebrating the lost being found. He essentially

  586. says heaven throws a party when just one sinner

  587. is saved. So let me tell you what I want. This

  588. is my dream for the Blairsville Church of Christ.

  589. This is my dream for the church in general, globally.

  590. I want to be the party planning committee of

  591. heaven's worst nightmare. I want the angel that

  592. is responsible for throwing the baptism celebrations.

  593. I want that angel to hate us because all we do

  594. is give it more and more and more and more work.

  595. I want us to save people so consistently that

  596. heaven does not have a chance to stop partying.

  597. How does that sound? That sounds fun. Because

  598. I think something cool could happen if heaven's

  599. throwing a party and we're throwing a party and

  600. people outside see that this church here, they

  601. just like to have parties. And they say, why

  602. do y 'all celebrate so much? What are y 'all

  603. so happy about? Oh, well, you know, brother so

  604. -and -so gave his life to Christ yesterday. OK,

  605. well, that was yesterday. What about that? Well,

  606. you know, sister. So and so she gave her life

  607. to Christ today. Well, what's going to happen

  608. tomorrow? Oh, yeah, we've got a baptism plan

  609. for tomorrow morning, too. And what if we just

  610. book our calendar up with people coming to know

  611. the goodness of God? Because if there's more

  612. joy in heaven than there is down here for one

  613. lost sinner saved, just imagine the parties that

  614. heaven is having. If we do our job. So what do

  615. we do with all this? Because there's a lot there.

  616. I've got a few simple but challenging ideas.

  617. The first one, and that's what we've been doing

  618. this month, is we are identifying. We're identifying

  619. the lost. So last week we identified the lost

  620. who may be wandered. Today I'm challenging us

  621. to identify the lost who are lost because they've

  622. been hurt. Who do we know that's been hurt? And

  623. I want to also clarify that sometimes people

  624. leave the church not because the church hurt

  625. them, but because life hurt them, because somebody

  626. walked out on them, because a loved one passed

  627. away, because things didn't go how they wanted

  628. to with their job. And now they don't really

  629. know what their career is supposed to look like

  630. because their friends weren't the friends they

  631. were supposed to be because traumatic things

  632. happen in life. Like I'm aware of that. And sometimes

  633. when people are hurt. In that way, whether in

  634. the church or outside of the church, they feel

  635. like God dropped them like a coin. We identify

  636. those who've been hurt. I don't care what hurt

  637. them. They're hurting and we need to bring them

  638. to the healer. To identify those who've been

  639. hurt for the church specifically, we weed out

  640. the harmful things that drive people away. And

  641. I want to say this very clearly before somebody

  642. comes to me after and says, well, we can't stop

  643. teaching the truth. I'm not saying we fudge on

  644. biblical doctrine. I'm not saying we make it

  645. soft. I'm not saying we make it some cushy thing

  646. where we budge on the truth. I'm not saying that

  647. at all. What I'm saying is there's a lot of hurtful

  648. things that happen in churches that we can do

  649. without. Because I think it needs to be noted

  650. that Jesus didn't go to that leper and say, hey,

  651. dude, you did something wrong. What's your issue?

  652. And just start beating them over the head with

  653. Scripture. Jesus went to the leper and he hugged

  654. him. And he called him to a new life. That's

  655. what we need to do. So we weed out the harmful

  656. things and we seek the lost diligently. We celebrate

  657. when they're found. And please, please remember

  658. that the lost are not just out there. They're

  659. not those that are far away. In fact, I want

  660. you to notice in Luke 15 and this story about

  661. the coin, the coin is the only thing in any of

  662. these parables here that never left the house.

  663. The sheep wandered out of the flock. We'll talk

  664. in a couple of next week and beyond. We'll talk

  665. about the prodigal son. The prodigal son left.

  666. He went way away. But the coin was in the house

  667. the whole time. And what I mean by that is there

  668. are some in this room right now that maybe you're

  669. just barely here. You're here because you feel

  670. like you got to be. You're here because you don't

  671. want to get the text from an elder later saying,

  672. hey, we miss you at church. And then you feel

  673. guilty. Maybe you're just here because you're

  674. giving it another try. There are some in this

  675. room right now that are hurting. And so when

  676. we say we're going to seek the lost diligently.

  677. What we need to also be mindful of is maybe our

  678. seeking doesn't take us very far, that it's the

  679. pew next to us. If you've been hurt by the church,

  680. if you've been hurt by life, if you just feel

  681. like it's not going how you planned, this can't

  682. be the abundant life that God promised, that

  683. this isn't the good life that Jesus came to bring.

  684. If you are feeling hurt, if you feel like a coin

  685. that's been dropped and lost, and in a dark place,

  686. and you just don't know how you got there, you

  687. don't know how you'll ever be found. If you are

  688. hurting, if you're tired, burdened, or unsure

  689. whether there's a place for you anymore, I want

  690. to offer an invitation for you. Because we serve

  691. a God who offers healing to the hurt. We serve

  692. a God that offers restoration for the wounded.

  693. And so my invitation to you is that you bring

  694. it all to Jesus and you let us walk alongside

  695. you as Jesus does the healing. Wherever you're

  696. at this morning, if you're hurt, if you're wounded,

  697. if you feel lost, whatever it is, we want to

  698. pray with you. We want to be here for you as

  699. you go through this time. We offer you this time

  700. of invitation now as we stand and as we sing.