Sermon
The One | Donovan Rillion | The One Who Is Willful
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Amen. You know, something I love about that song,
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we talked about it a few weeks ago in the songs
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we sing Wednesday night Bible class, but that
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song was actually written as a counter to the
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Times Magazine cover that claimed God is dead.
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And that song was written as a counter to say,
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no, no, no. There is a God and he is alive. He
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is more alive than you could imagine. He is active.
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He is working and he is doing good things. And
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we believe that to be true. That's why we're
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here this morning. And so as we've gone through
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Luke 15 the last couple of weeks, we've been
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looking at different ways that people become
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lost. And we clarified in the first lesson, and
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I want to keep saying it, that to say someone
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is lost is not an insult. It's actually a compliment
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because to say someone is lost is to say that
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they have value. You don't lose something you
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don't care about. If it's gone and you don't
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care about it, it's just gone. But if you care
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about it, it's lost and it needs to be found.
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So we've been talking about these different kinds
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of lost people, these different kinds of distance
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from God, if you will. You know, most of us can
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find ourselves or someone we love somewhere in
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these categories. We've been working through
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this. The last couple of weeks, I guess I didn't
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put this slide in this week, but it's there are
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some that grew up in church, but they slowly
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wandered from the faith. There's some that grew
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up in church and maybe they were dropped. They
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were hurt. And so there were people in the church,
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maybe people in their lives, people in their
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family that hurt them and maybe push them out.
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There are some people that believe they found
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a better way to live apart from God. And then
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there are some that would call themselves Christians.
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But they are trusting more in their own goodness,
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their own self -righteousness than they are in
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Jesus. And then there are some, and this is where
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I hope we find ourselves. There are some that
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are genuine followers of Christ. Genuine disciples,
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still flawed people, not perfect, but faithfully
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following. So he started with the one who wandered,
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the sheep, who didn't necessarily... plan on
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getting lost, maybe just kind of nibbled its
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way into lostness. Then we looked at the one
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who was lost by somebody else. That would be
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the coin that didn't choose to maybe roll away,
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but instead was dropped. Well, today we're going
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to hear Jesus tell a story about someone who
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absolutely chose to be lost. Someone who absolutely
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chose to leave. The sheep didn't choose to leave.
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It just kind of wandered. The coin didn't choose
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to leave. It was dropped. But this person, One
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hundred percent chose to leave on their own.
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There's no confusion about it. There's no accident
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here. There is no one to blame except for this
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person. So this morning we're talking about the
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one who is willful. Before we can go any further,
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I want to define that word because I know when
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I first heard a lesson on the one who was willful,
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I was like, what in the world does willful mean?
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I know I'm from Mississippi. Give me a break.
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All right. So willful. Having or showing a stubborn
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and determined intention to do what one wants,
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regardless of the consequences. So that's our
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definition that we're going to run with this
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morning for willful. You know anybody like that?
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Anybody that maybe is a little stubborn? I'm
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thinking specifically about my three -year -old,
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very willful kid. Do you know anybody that's
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determined to do what they want to do regardless
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of what consequences come from it? They're going
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to be their own person. They're going to do what
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they want. They're going to do what makes them
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happy. And they don't care who it hurts, even
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if it hurts themselves. Do you know anybody like
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that? You know, we immediately, like I said,
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think about how stubborn our kids are. Whether
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our kids are three or 30, they can be pretty
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stubborn. But I want you to think about your
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friends, your willful friends, or maybe your
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family members. Maybe it's a coworker. And if
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we're honest, maybe we find ourselves as the
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stubborn individual, the determined individual.
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I'll go ahead and raise my hand. I got a head
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as hard as a rock. I'm a little willful sometimes.
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And these people almost always have to fall flat
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on their face before they'll listen. It takes
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something kind of traumatic, something like a
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punch upside the head to make them realize what
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they're doing is not good for them or not good
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for the people around them. It takes hitting
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rock bottom before they can realize how far they've
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fallen. And that's the son that Jesus introduces
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us to in Luke 15 verses 11 through 24. Now we've,
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I think since I've been here and just for six
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months, I've already preached two different lessons
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on this story. And guess what? We're going to
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do it again. So Luke 15, 11 through 24, I want
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you to just read along with me. It'll be on the
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screen. And he said, there was a man who had
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two sons and the younger of them said to his
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father, father, give me the share of property
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that's coming to me. And he divided his property
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between them. Not many days later, the younger
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son gathered all he had and took a journey into
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a far country. And there he squandered his property
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and reckless living. And when he had spent everything,
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a severe famine arose in that country and he
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began to be in need. So he went and hired himself
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out to one of the citizens of that country who
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sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he
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was longing to be fed with the pods that the
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pigs ate. And no one gave him anything. But when
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he came to himself, he said, how many of my father's
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hired servants have more than enough bread? But
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I perish here with hunger. I will arise and go
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to my father and I'll say to him, Father, I've
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sinned against heaven and before you. I'm no
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longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me
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as one of your hired servants. And he arose and
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he came to his father. But while he was still
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a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion.
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And he ran and embraced him and kissed him. And
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the son said to him, Father, I have sinned against
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heaven and before you, I am no longer worthy
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to be called your son. But the father said to
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his servants, bring quickly the best robe and
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put it on him and put a ring on his hand and
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shoes on his feet and bring the fattened calf
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and kill it and let us eat and celebrate. For
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this, my son was dead and now he's alive again.
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He was lost. Now he's found. And they began to
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celebrate. You know, this story kind of begins
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with a really shocking line. The son says, Father,
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give me the share of your property that's going
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to be mine. And in that culture, asking for your
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inheritance early was essentially saying, I wish
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you were dead. Imagine your kid comes up to you
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and says, hey, I wish you were dead. That wouldn't
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be very nice, would it? And you might say, well,
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why would you wish that? And they're like, oh,
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I just want my inheritance now. You're like,
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well, I can give it to you. I mean, I don't have
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to die for you to get this little bit of money.
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And so he's saying, I wish you were dead. This
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is not just about impatience. This is a rejection.
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This is the son saying, I don't care to live
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under your roof anymore. I don't care to do what
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you're asking me to do. I don't want to live
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under your rules. I don't want to be in your
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household anymore. I'm rejecting your way of
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life for me. He's essentially severing the relationship.
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And I want you to notice something crucial. The
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father gives it to him. Could you imagine your
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child comes in and says, hey, I wish you were
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dead. And you're like, OK, well, here you go.
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Here's all the money that you are going to get
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when I die. But instead, you get it right now,
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which, first of all, I mean, I don't have that
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much to just hand over to my kid. I mean, I imagine
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the father had to go like sell some some things
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to get a little bit, maybe liquid assets to hand
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over to his kid. But he just gives it to him.
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He doesn't argue with them. Well, maybe he did.
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But He doesn't stop him. He doesn't lecture him.
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He doesn't restrain him. He doesn't lock him
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in his room. He just gives it to him. And I can't
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imagine doing that. And so I'm reading this and
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I'm asking the question of why would you do that?
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Your son just disrespected you in the most disrespectful
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way I can think of and you're just going to hand
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it over to him? That's insanity. But I look at
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it through the Father's eyes. And when I say
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Father, I mean God. Capital F, Father. And the
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only answer I can think of is because love does
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not force obedience. If I love you, it's not
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me forcing you to do what I want you to do. It's
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not me telling you, you have to operate this
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way if you're going to be loved by me. But this
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is just the father saying, I love you. I hope
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you make it. I hope you do all right. I hope
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everything you're looking for, you find. God
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will let you choose your own way. He'll let you
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choose. It may not be the right choice. It may
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not be the good choice. It may not be the smartest
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choice, but God will let you choose your way
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even when he knows where it leads. Because God
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doesn't desire robots. He doesn't desire slaves.
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I don't know about y 'all, but I love just like
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having, this is going to make me sound really
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dumb, but I love having conversations with AI.
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Sometimes I like to be mean to AI because I can't
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be mean to real people. So like when the Terminator
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situation happens, I'm going to be the first
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one dead. I know it. AI is going to come kill
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me. But I like to just have conversations with
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AI. You know what the cool thing about AI is?
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It will tell me exactly what I want it to say.
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I can control it. I can make it say what I want
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to say. It has this algorithm in it that it kind
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of watches our conversation so it knows the answers
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that I'm looking for. That's a robot. That's
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something that I can control. God doesn't want
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something he can control. He wants people that
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want to be with him, people that love to be with
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him, people that desire to be in relationship
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with him. So if all we are is his robots that
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do what he says because we have no other choice,
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that's not the relationship he wants. And that's
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what we see here with the son and the father
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in Luke 15 is the father says, go ahead. Do what
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you need to do. He lets him go. But another why
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question that I have in this story is why would
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the son want to leave? You know, the son has
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it. He's got it made. I mean, if the father has
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enough resources to just go ahead and hand him
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what's going to be his and still keep going,
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he must have a lot of money. He must have a lot
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of property. And so he's got security in this
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household and he's got a job. He's got some things
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he can do. So, you know, he's got purpose. I
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mean, he's being provided for. He has everything
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he needs. He's got an identity as a part of this
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family. He's got a community around him. He has
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everything he could want. Why would he want to
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leave? Why would he want to go somewhere else?
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You know, I was thinking about, it's funny, you
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know, I wrote this lesson on Wednesday, Thursday,
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kind of both days. And then yesterday, I'm sitting
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at home and Easton comes in, my four -year -old,
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and he asked me, he says, Dad, how come we can't
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have a dog? I was like, buddy, because I don't
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like dogs. Just being honest. He said, well,
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that's not cool. I was like, I don't care. He's
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like, but could we get a dog? No, I don't like
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dogs. And he said, well, when I have my own house,
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you ever heard that one? I think this is my first
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time hearing that as a parent. I thought it would
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come at like 15, but instead it's at four. And
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he said, when I have my own house, I'm getting
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a dog. I said, that's great. Just keep them away
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from me. He said, well, my house is going to
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be in our backyard. So, okay, keep it on your
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side of the yard. But Easton has everything he
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wants in my household. Well, except the dog.
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He's got juice boxes. He's got TV. He's got toys.
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He's got clothes. He's got he he's got water.
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He's got everything he could need, everything
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he could want. But for some reason, he wants
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something else, something that I'm not going
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to allow. And so his mind starts to tell him
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when I have my own house. Another way to put
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that is when I have my own way or when my will
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be done. And, you know, the son here in Luke
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15. The only answer I can think of as to why
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he would want to leave his father's house is
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because he wants his own will. He wants his own
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way. He wants his own control. This isn't about
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money. It's not about power. It's about having
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the control over your own life to have the dog
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if you want it, to have whatever you want to
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do. If you want to eat chocolate for dinner,
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you can eat chocolate for dinner because you
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don't have mom and dad telling you no. And the
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son here says, I don't want your will for my
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life. I want my own. Any willful person knows
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this tension. You know, when you live under someone
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else's authority, when you live under someone
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else's rules, when it's not your will being done,
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but it's someone else's, you know exactly what
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that feels like. And eventually, if you're willful
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enough, you'll want to change it. And if you
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can't change it where you are, this is the most
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common result. We run. We go away. We go do our
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own thing. You know, I think of assistant coaches.
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An assistant coach, they are exactly what their
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title says. The assistant to the coach being
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the head coach. The head coach makes the rules.
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The head coach develops the program. The head
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coach sets the standard. The assistant coach
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is at the mercy of the head coach. But if the
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assistant coach starts thinking, man, if I were
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the head coach, we'd do it my way. You know,
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if I was the head coach, we'd do things a little
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bit differently. We'd have a different culture.
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We'd be a little bit more aggressive or maybe
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we'd be a little more calculated. Maybe the assistant
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coach starts thinking that way. And it's that
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if I were in charge and eventually the assistant
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coach says, why don't I just go be a head coach
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somewhere else and do my own thing? And then
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I get to have control of it. You see, a willful
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person can't live long under authority that they
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don't believe in. And this isn't about trust.
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I'm sure the son trusted his father. But maybe
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he didn't agree with the father's rules for him.
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Maybe he didn't like what the father said. No,
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you can't have women just come spend the night.
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We ain't doing that. Y 'all got to get married
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first. Maybe he didn't like the father saying,
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no, we're not just going to eat junk food for
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dinner. We've got to eat a pretty kosher meal.
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Maybe he didn't like the father saying, we can't
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just blow money on bulls because you want to
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go ride bulls. We need some cows that we can
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actually get some meat from and make some money.
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Maybe he didn't like the way the father was running
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things. He didn't believe in that way of doing
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things. And so the son says, I want to go do
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my own thing. So your choices are either you
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try to overthrow it. Or you just walk away. And
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that's exactly what he does. He thinks he's got
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a better way of doing things. Maybe he thinks
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he's got a better way of living life. So he walks
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away to give it a go. And the son gets exactly
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what he wants. He gets to have his will. He gets
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to have his way. And it feels like, maybe it
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looks like freedom for a while. I'm sure he had
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a lot of fun. I mean, I can imagine if my father
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had a lot of money to just hand me and he gave
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it to me and I could just go and do what I want
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to. And as the scripture says, he lived recklessly.
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If I could do that, I'm sure it'd be fun for
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a couple of days. I mean, you've gone on vacation
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without your kids before. It's a lot of fun.
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There's some freedom there. And instead of paying
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for a Happy Meal, now you get to have the appetizer
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that you want. The son gets his way and it probably
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feels good for a little while. But what happens
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next? Well, we find out that freedom apart from
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God always has a shelf life. Freedom apart from
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God always expires. Eventually, the money runs
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out. Eventually, the friends that were with you
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for a little while, they disappear. You know,
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the consequences of those actions, they start
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to pop up. Sin always, always. It's never failed.
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And if you want to check it. Do some math on
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your own. Sin always over promises and under
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delivers because it promises good life. It promises
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fun. It promises freedom. But eventually you
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find yourself like the sun did sleeping with
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pigs, feeding the pigs, wishing that you could
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just have the scraps of what the pigs are eating.
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And so you got to think about this for a Jewish
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audience, which is who Jesus is talking to. This
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is like the definition of rock bottom. This is
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the son finding himself in ragged clothes, no
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food, bunch of weight loss, scraggly hair, bugs
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all around him sleeping under a bridge. Because
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for the Jews, a pig is not just physically gross
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because pigs are gross, right? They're disgusting.
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Pigs aren't just physically gross. They are spiritually
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unclean. So for the son, he's not just broke
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now. He is spiritually, socially and morally
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bankrupt. All that stuff his dad gave him, gone.
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All the spiritual enrichment that his father
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probably raised him in, gone. The social status
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he had from being a part of this family, gone.
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The purpose he had from having a family that
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he could live with and work with and serve with
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and enjoy, gone. He is bankrupt. You don't end
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up in the pig pen. Because your way was better.
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You don't end up socially, morally, spiritually
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bankrupt because your way was better. That's
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not how it works. That's not how walking away
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works. You get there because your way could not
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sustain you. Like I said, it's fun for a little
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while. I've gone on vacation before. And I've
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spent a weekend or a couple days without my kids.
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Guess what? Days one and two, I'm good. Day three,
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I'm ready to go home. Day four, packing the bags,
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let's get going. And then I get home and I'm
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like, man, we can go back on a vacation, right?
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The son gets out there. He gets to have his way.
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He gets to do his own thing. But after a while,
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it grows old. And you find yourself in a place
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that really stinks. And this is who we're talking
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about today. We're not talking about the people
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who drifted. We're not talking about the people
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that they grew up in church and life just kind
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of pulled them away and they just kind of, you
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know, wandered. We're not talking about the people
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that were hurt by life, the people that were
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hurt by the church, the people that were hurt
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by friends and family. And they started asking
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themselves, what kind of God would allow me to
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do this? So they just kind of step away. We're
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talking about the people that they sat there
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and they thought, I'll just be happier. If I
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go and do fill in the blank, I'll be freer if
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I can walk away and do fill in the blank. I'll
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finally get to be myself if I just we're not
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talking. We're talking about those people. And
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some of us may be those people. And for you,
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if you're that person or for those people out
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there, you may find that that is the case that
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you are a little bit freer, that you are having
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the time of your life, that you are feeling like
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yourself. For a little while. But eventually.
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Everyone. Not some. Not most. Not many. Everyone.
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Finds themselves saying. This isn't what I thought
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it would be. This isn't how I thought it would
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go. This isn't what I planned for my life. That
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was your first mistake. Planning for your life.
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You ever heard the phrase. Make plans. God laughs.
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I don't think God laughs. I think God kind of
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just like sits back in amazement. That that's
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what we would think our life should be. That
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that's what we would think a fulfilling life
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would be. A life apart from God. God probably
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sits back and thinks, are you crazy? I mean,
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think about Adam and Eve. God told Adam and Eve
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exactly what to do. They doubted. They did their
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own thing. And I can only imagine God sitting
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there thinking, don't you remember when I told
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you that that would lead to death? Or the Israelites,
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every time God gave them a command and God told
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them not to do this one thing and then they do
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the one thing and then they end up in slavery
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or they end up getting ransacked by another country.
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And God's looking at them like, hey, don't you
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remember I warned you about this? And think about
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the kids that grew up in the church and they
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heard all the stories, they heard all the warnings.
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And then when they turned 18 or they turned 20,
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they just decided I'm going to walk away and
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do my own thing because my way is better. And
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you're looking at them like you. You have no
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clue what you're asking for. And you just kind
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of sit back, terrified for what might happen.
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Because they think you think your way is better.
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And we always ask the question or say, this isn't
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what I thought it'd be. Or how did I get to this
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point? But I don't want you to miss what the
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son does next. Verse 17 says he came to himself.
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Another way of putting that is he came to his
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senses. You ever look at somebody and you're
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like, I was wondering when you were going to
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figure it out. Sometimes when my kids are having
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issues, like, you know, putting their shoes on
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or finding something, finding something is the
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worst because they'll like, they'll stand up
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from their position and just look. And they're
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like, dad, where'd it go? And I'm like, what?
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And they're like, I can't find my monster truck.
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I'm like, did you look for it? Yeah. I'm like,
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try again. So they do this. I can't find it.
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Can you help me? I'm like, dude, look for it.
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And then finally, it kind of makes sense to them.
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So they start walking around and they start looking
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for stuff and they look under things and they
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actually look for it and they find it. And it's
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like they had that, aha, I'm capable of doing
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more than the bare minimum. They come to their
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senses. And so for the son, he's sleeping in
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the pig pen, wishing for scraps from the pig's
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troughs. And he's thinking, huh, life really
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stinks right now, doesn't it? This isn't what
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I had planned. This isn't what I thought it would
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be. How did I get to this point? And finally,
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he goes, I got it figured out. I know what to
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do. I'm just going to go home. I'm going to ask
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my dad to let me be one of his servants. See,
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there's a lot of hope in this phrase. He came
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to his senses. He came to himself. Because the
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truth is, when we're lost, our reality gets kind
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of distorted. You ever walk through the woods
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and people tell you to mark where you're walking?
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Because if you're not careful, you'll find yourself
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just going in circles. And you'll keep walking.
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And you'll think, huh, did not pass that rock
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10 minutes ago? And then you'll think, okay,
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let me go a different way. And you'll keep walking.
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You'll keep walking. And you'll come back to
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the rock and you're like, hmm. And you keep walking
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and you finally realize my reality is distorted.
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I have no clue where I'm at. I have no clue where
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I'm going. I have no clue what I'm doing. And
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you realize that all of this time being lost.
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Being away from truth, being away from where
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you were supposed to be has only distorted your
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reality. It's like the people that they find
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themselves and they haven't been to church in
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a while. They haven't read the scriptures in
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a while. They haven't done any type of spiritual
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disciplines in a while. And they look up and
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they say, how did I get here? Because I feel
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like I'm in a rut and I feel like I've just been
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going in circles and all I keep getting out of
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it is pain. All I get out of it is disappointment
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and I feel empty. And you look at them and you
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say, if you could just open your eyes and see
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what you're doing is wrong, maybe you could get
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out of the rut that you're in. Lostness distorts
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our reality. Sin clouds our judgment. Willfulness
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convinces us that we're fine until we finally
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realize that we aren't. But repentance begins
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when reality breaks through all the junk, when
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it breaks through all the delusion, when reality
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becomes clear to us. When our circumstances.
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Become clear when the actions that led to those
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circumstances become clear. When we stop fooling
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ourselves and stop letting Satan cloud our judgment.
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You see, the son realizes that his life in rebellion
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is far worse than the life that he had in submission
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in his father's home. He gets that. He comes
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to his senses. His father's house was never the
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prison. His father's house was a place of abundance,
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a place of provision. What was a prison? Was
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the son's pride, was the son's mindset of if
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I can just have my own way, if I can just have
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my will be done. You know, before Easton was
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born, Eliza tasked me with putting the crib together.
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Now, mind you, she'd been asking me for a couple
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of weeks to put the crib together. But, you know,
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men, right? We'll get to it. It won't take long.
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Probably super simple. All the parts are there.
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The instructions are there. Right. So open the
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box. I'm ready to put this thing together, but
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I don't know if y 'all know this, but modern
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technology really stinks because in the box was
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not a booklet for instructions. It was like a
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card. It had a QR code on it. You're supposed
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to scan the QR code. It would lead you to a website
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that you have to register to get into, and then
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it would give you a PDF of the instructions.
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Sounds like a lot of junk, doesn't it? Yeah.
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So instead, I did what any man does. I get the
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tools. I get the box open. I get all the pieces
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to the crib out and I look at the picture on
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the box because that works. So I start putting
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this thing together. A couple, maybe a little
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over an hour. We're not going to make myself
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sound too dumb today. Some time goes by. I'm
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frustrated. I'm annoyed. I don't have a crib.
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I've got a bunch of crib pieces kind of put together.
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It's close. Like, it looks like you could maybe
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put a baby in there if you didn't really care
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about the child's well -being. And so, like,
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I'm really frustrated at this point. So finally,
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I break down. I take the crib apart. Well, I
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take what should be a crib apart. I do all the
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steps to get into the instructions. About 20
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minutes later, we've got a crib. Isn't that so
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annoying? But isn't that so true? You know, sometimes
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we try to go through life without the instructions.
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We try to go through life with just looking at
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the picture on the box and saying, this is what
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it should be. This is this is the model, right?
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This is the the ideal picture of what life should
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be. So I'm going to look at the picture. I've
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got the tools that I think necessary and I'm
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going to go at it on my own mind. And then life
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goes by and we realize, man, I've wasted 20 years
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and I've got nothing that I thought my life was
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supposed to be. It's not exactly what the picture
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showed. It's actually quite. different. It's
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far off from what the picture showed. And then
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we give our lives to Christ and we start following
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his teachings. And we realize that while it may
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not be like the abundant model life that has
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just all kinds of money and success, it's a whole
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lot better than what we had when we were trying
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to do it with our own feeble minds. You ever
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been there? You ever get to the point where you
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realize you've got to stop trying to do it with
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your own understanding? I think there's some
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scripture about that, right? Lean not on your
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own understanding. You know, even Jesus, the
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son of God, God in the flesh, he's sitting in
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the garden knowing what's about to happen to
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him. And he knows he's going to be captured.
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He knows he's going to be beaten. He knows he's
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going to be killed. He sits there in the garden
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and he begs God, if there's any other way, let
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it be. But your will be done. Because the son
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of God knows something that we don't understand
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sometimes. And that is that God's way is so much
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better than our own way. And only God's way will
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lead to the life that we thought we wanted. It's
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only God's way. You see, that's the willful son.
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That's a lot of people we love. And maybe that's
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you. Where you're leaning on your own wisdom.
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You're leaning on your own understanding. You're
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leaning on your own brain. And it leads you to
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walking away from the truth. From the instructions.
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So the son comes to his senses and he goes back
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to the place he should have been all along. He
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goes back to the instruction manual. And before
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he can even finish his apology, before he can
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negotiate this new servant status, the father
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runs to him, embraces him, restores him. And
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here's another key word, celebrates him. You
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see, the son had rehearsed this speech. But I
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just imagine this whole time that the son was
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gone, the father was planning the party for when
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the son came home. Can you imagine you're sitting
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on the porch and you're thinking, when I see
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my son walk down that driveway, We're going to
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kill the fattened calf. When I see my son walk
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down that driveway, I'm bringing him the robe.
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I'm bringing him the ring. I'm bringing him the
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crown. When I see my son walk down that driveway,
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we are throwing a party. And the son does. And
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the father does. Because he was ready. Why? Why
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does he throw a party? Why does he cut the son
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off? I never noticed that until the other day.
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It's funny. Again, I told you I preach the sermon
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or preach on this passion like two times since
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I've been here. It's my favorite passage to preach
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on. But I've never noticed this until this week.
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The father actually cuts the son off. The son
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had this speech planned. Right. And he gets through
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about half of the speech. And the father says,
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go get the calf, go get the robe, go get the
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ring. We're throwing a party because my son who
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was dead is home. He's alive. He's found. We
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are going to celebrate. He cuts the son off.
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He doesn't let him talk about earning his way
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back into the family. And here's why. Because
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grace is not earned in our regret. It is simply
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given in love. The father loved his son enough.
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He didn't care what the son had to say about
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paying it back. He didn't care what the son had
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to say about working it off. All he knew was
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my son is home. We're going to throw a party.
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We're going to celebrate. Here's the real question.
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When the willful, when the stubborn, when the
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determined, when the lost sons and daughters
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come home, what are they going to find? Are they
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going to find a church that looks at them and
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says, You have to do a lot of work to get back
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in the good graces of God. You have to do a lot
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of work to get back in the good grace of the
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church. Are they going to find cold shoulders?
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Are they going to find people that meet them
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with suspicion? Are they going to hear the I
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told you so? Or hey, about time you learned.
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Or will they be received with open arms that
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embrace them? Will they be gladly clothed in
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the finest robes? Will they get a ring put on
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their fingers? And will all of heaven and all
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of earth hear a loud celebration? When the lost
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come home, what are they going to find? And if
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that doesn't make sense to you, I'm going to
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simplify it. When the lost walk in those doors,
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what will they find in this church? Will they
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be met with hugs? And love and grace and forgiveness
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and restoration? Or will they be met with people
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saying, hey, I told you so. Jesus makes it clear.
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And so we're going to make it clear that heaven
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celebrates repentance. Heaven celebrates the
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loss coming to their senses, coming home and
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giving their lives back to the father. Heaven
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celebrates and the church should sound like heaven.
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The church should sound like heaven. I don't
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know how else to make that clear. When the lost
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come to Jesus, when they bury their old flesh
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in that water, when they rise to a new life,
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what will they find? It better be a church that
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sounds like the angels. And my God says the angels
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go crazy when someone gives their life to him.
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And so I don't want to hear any of that's cool,
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but. No, all I want to hear is an amen, a hallelujah
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and some hands clapping in excitement because
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a lost son and daughter has come to know Christ.
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So let me leave you with three things. The first
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one is those who walk away willfully, they are
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still lost, but they're also still findable.
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There's still a chance for them. God's not done.
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He's still working. He's still waiting. They're
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still findable. The second thing is, is their
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way will eventually reveal its limits. It will
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eventually reveal its flaws. But God's will always
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leads to life. And we've got to tell them, we've
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got to show them that when we walk in accordance
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with God's will, life is so much better. You
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know, I grew up thinking that being a Christian
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was hard because, you know, life on earth is
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still hard. And, you know, God's promise was
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for eternal life. And I don't think I heard enough
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people talk about God's promise for abundant
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life. I don't think I heard enough people talk
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about how when Jesus said, Father, let your kingdom
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come. He meant like right now, like you can have
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that full abundant life now. And so what I'm
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saying is, is we've got to show the world outside.
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that while life may still stink sometimes, while
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the circumstances aren't ideal, while it can
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really rain down on us, and when it rains, sometimes
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it pours, we can show them that even in the midst
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of all of that junk, God is still good and it
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is evident in our lives. And the third thing
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is, when the lost come home, the church has one
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choice. We have one response. And if you're not
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ready to respond in that way, we need to have
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a conversation because I am. So when someone
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comes out of that water, if y 'all don't want
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me clapping, hooting, hollering, I'm sorry. Put
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some duct tape on my mouth and tie me up because
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we're going to celebrate when the loss come home.
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We're going to throw a party. We're going to
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rejoice with heaven. Verse 24 says it so clear
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for this. My son was dead. He's alive again.
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He was lost, but now he's found. See, that is
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not supposed to be just the father's heart. That
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is the church's calling. And so we're called
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to be like Jesus. And if Jesus celebrates, we
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celebrate. If Jesus goes to find the lost, we
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find the lost. If Jesus says when the lost come
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home, we don't question them. We don't dog them.
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We just say, welcome home. Let's party. If that's
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what we see from God, if that's what we see from
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Jesus, that's what we do. So this morning, if
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you've walked away, if you feel like you maybe
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could find a better way, but you realize that
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you couldn't, that there was no way out there
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that could really give you the abundant and full
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life that God wants. If you feel lost or if you
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know somebody that you know is out there wandering,
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if you know somebody that you know is sleeping
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with the pigs because they've trusted in their
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own understanding or if that's you. Wherever
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you sit today, whatever part of the spectrum
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that you're on this morning, the invitation is
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the same. Come home. And when you come home,
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know that this church is going to celebrate you.
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Not because of you, but because of what you mean
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to God and what you mean to us. So wherever you're
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at this morning, we invite you to come as we
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stand and as we sing.