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The One | Donovan Rillion | The One Who Is Willful

Blairsville Church of Christ

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  1. Amen. You know, something I love about that song,

  2. we talked about it a few weeks ago in the songs

  3. we sing Wednesday night Bible class, but that

  4. song was actually written as a counter to the

  5. Times Magazine cover that claimed God is dead.

  6. And that song was written as a counter to say,

  7. no, no, no. There is a God and he is alive. He

  8. is more alive than you could imagine. He is active.

  9. He is working and he is doing good things. And

  10. we believe that to be true. That's why we're

  11. here this morning. And so as we've gone through

  12. Luke 15 the last couple of weeks, we've been

  13. looking at different ways that people become

  14. lost. And we clarified in the first lesson, and

  15. I want to keep saying it, that to say someone

  16. is lost is not an insult. It's actually a compliment

  17. because to say someone is lost is to say that

  18. they have value. You don't lose something you

  19. don't care about. If it's gone and you don't

  20. care about it, it's just gone. But if you care

  21. about it, it's lost and it needs to be found.

  22. So we've been talking about these different kinds

  23. of lost people, these different kinds of distance

  24. from God, if you will. You know, most of us can

  25. find ourselves or someone we love somewhere in

  26. these categories. We've been working through

  27. this. The last couple of weeks, I guess I didn't

  28. put this slide in this week, but it's there are

  29. some that grew up in church, but they slowly

  30. wandered from the faith. There's some that grew

  31. up in church and maybe they were dropped. They

  32. were hurt. And so there were people in the church,

  33. maybe people in their lives, people in their

  34. family that hurt them and maybe push them out.

  35. There are some people that believe they found

  36. a better way to live apart from God. And then

  37. there are some that would call themselves Christians.

  38. But they are trusting more in their own goodness,

  39. their own self -righteousness than they are in

  40. Jesus. And then there are some, and this is where

  41. I hope we find ourselves. There are some that

  42. are genuine followers of Christ. Genuine disciples,

  43. still flawed people, not perfect, but faithfully

  44. following. So he started with the one who wandered,

  45. the sheep, who didn't necessarily... plan on

  46. getting lost, maybe just kind of nibbled its

  47. way into lostness. Then we looked at the one

  48. who was lost by somebody else. That would be

  49. the coin that didn't choose to maybe roll away,

  50. but instead was dropped. Well, today we're going

  51. to hear Jesus tell a story about someone who

  52. absolutely chose to be lost. Someone who absolutely

  53. chose to leave. The sheep didn't choose to leave.

  54. It just kind of wandered. The coin didn't choose

  55. to leave. It was dropped. But this person, One

  56. hundred percent chose to leave on their own.

  57. There's no confusion about it. There's no accident

  58. here. There is no one to blame except for this

  59. person. So this morning we're talking about the

  60. one who is willful. Before we can go any further,

  61. I want to define that word because I know when

  62. I first heard a lesson on the one who was willful,

  63. I was like, what in the world does willful mean?

  64. I know I'm from Mississippi. Give me a break.

  65. All right. So willful. Having or showing a stubborn

  66. and determined intention to do what one wants,

  67. regardless of the consequences. So that's our

  68. definition that we're going to run with this

  69. morning for willful. You know anybody like that?

  70. Anybody that maybe is a little stubborn? I'm

  71. thinking specifically about my three -year -old,

  72. very willful kid. Do you know anybody that's

  73. determined to do what they want to do regardless

  74. of what consequences come from it? They're going

  75. to be their own person. They're going to do what

  76. they want. They're going to do what makes them

  77. happy. And they don't care who it hurts, even

  78. if it hurts themselves. Do you know anybody like

  79. that? You know, we immediately, like I said,

  80. think about how stubborn our kids are. Whether

  81. our kids are three or 30, they can be pretty

  82. stubborn. But I want you to think about your

  83. friends, your willful friends, or maybe your

  84. family members. Maybe it's a coworker. And if

  85. we're honest, maybe we find ourselves as the

  86. stubborn individual, the determined individual.

  87. I'll go ahead and raise my hand. I got a head

  88. as hard as a rock. I'm a little willful sometimes.

  89. And these people almost always have to fall flat

  90. on their face before they'll listen. It takes

  91. something kind of traumatic, something like a

  92. punch upside the head to make them realize what

  93. they're doing is not good for them or not good

  94. for the people around them. It takes hitting

  95. rock bottom before they can realize how far they've

  96. fallen. And that's the son that Jesus introduces

  97. us to in Luke 15 verses 11 through 24. Now we've,

    Luke 15:11–24

  98. I think since I've been here and just for six

  99. months, I've already preached two different lessons

  100. on this story. And guess what? We're going to

  101. do it again. So Luke 15, 11 through 24, I want

  102. you to just read along with me. It'll be on the

  103. screen. And he said, there was a man who had

  104. two sons and the younger of them said to his

  105. father, father, give me the share of property

  106. that's coming to me. And he divided his property

  107. between them. Not many days later, the younger

  108. son gathered all he had and took a journey into

  109. a far country. And there he squandered his property

  110. and reckless living. And when he had spent everything,

  111. a severe famine arose in that country and he

  112. began to be in need. So he went and hired himself

  113. out to one of the citizens of that country who

  114. sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he

  115. was longing to be fed with the pods that the

  116. pigs ate. And no one gave him anything. But when

  117. he came to himself, he said, how many of my father's

  118. hired servants have more than enough bread? But

  119. I perish here with hunger. I will arise and go

  120. to my father and I'll say to him, Father, I've

  121. sinned against heaven and before you. I'm no

  122. longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me

  123. as one of your hired servants. And he arose and

  124. he came to his father. But while he was still

  125. a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion.

  126. And he ran and embraced him and kissed him. And

  127. the son said to him, Father, I have sinned against

  128. heaven and before you, I am no longer worthy

  129. to be called your son. But the father said to

  130. his servants, bring quickly the best robe and

  131. put it on him and put a ring on his hand and

  132. shoes on his feet and bring the fattened calf

  133. and kill it and let us eat and celebrate. For

  134. this, my son was dead and now he's alive again.

  135. He was lost. Now he's found. And they began to

  136. celebrate. You know, this story kind of begins

  137. with a really shocking line. The son says, Father,

  138. give me the share of your property that's going

  139. to be mine. And in that culture, asking for your

  140. inheritance early was essentially saying, I wish

  141. you were dead. Imagine your kid comes up to you

  142. and says, hey, I wish you were dead. That wouldn't

  143. be very nice, would it? And you might say, well,

  144. why would you wish that? And they're like, oh,

  145. I just want my inheritance now. You're like,

  146. well, I can give it to you. I mean, I don't have

  147. to die for you to get this little bit of money.

  148. And so he's saying, I wish you were dead. This

  149. is not just about impatience. This is a rejection.

  150. This is the son saying, I don't care to live

  151. under your roof anymore. I don't care to do what

  152. you're asking me to do. I don't want to live

  153. under your rules. I don't want to be in your

  154. household anymore. I'm rejecting your way of

  155. life for me. He's essentially severing the relationship.

  156. And I want you to notice something crucial. The

  157. father gives it to him. Could you imagine your

  158. child comes in and says, hey, I wish you were

  159. dead. And you're like, OK, well, here you go.

  160. Here's all the money that you are going to get

  161. when I die. But instead, you get it right now,

  162. which, first of all, I mean, I don't have that

  163. much to just hand over to my kid. I mean, I imagine

  164. the father had to go like sell some some things

  165. to get a little bit, maybe liquid assets to hand

  166. over to his kid. But he just gives it to him.

  167. He doesn't argue with them. Well, maybe he did.

  168. But He doesn't stop him. He doesn't lecture him.

  169. He doesn't restrain him. He doesn't lock him

  170. in his room. He just gives it to him. And I can't

  171. imagine doing that. And so I'm reading this and

  172. I'm asking the question of why would you do that?

  173. Your son just disrespected you in the most disrespectful

  174. way I can think of and you're just going to hand

  175. it over to him? That's insanity. But I look at

  176. it through the Father's eyes. And when I say

  177. Father, I mean God. Capital F, Father. And the

  178. only answer I can think of is because love does

  179. not force obedience. If I love you, it's not

  180. me forcing you to do what I want you to do. It's

  181. not me telling you, you have to operate this

  182. way if you're going to be loved by me. But this

  183. is just the father saying, I love you. I hope

  184. you make it. I hope you do all right. I hope

  185. everything you're looking for, you find. God

  186. will let you choose your own way. He'll let you

  187. choose. It may not be the right choice. It may

  188. not be the good choice. It may not be the smartest

  189. choice, but God will let you choose your way

  190. even when he knows where it leads. Because God

  191. doesn't desire robots. He doesn't desire slaves.

  192. I don't know about y 'all, but I love just like

  193. having, this is going to make me sound really

  194. dumb, but I love having conversations with AI.

  195. Sometimes I like to be mean to AI because I can't

  196. be mean to real people. So like when the Terminator

  197. situation happens, I'm going to be the first

  198. one dead. I know it. AI is going to come kill

  199. me. But I like to just have conversations with

  200. AI. You know what the cool thing about AI is?

  201. It will tell me exactly what I want it to say.

  202. I can control it. I can make it say what I want

  203. to say. It has this algorithm in it that it kind

  204. of watches our conversation so it knows the answers

  205. that I'm looking for. That's a robot. That's

  206. something that I can control. God doesn't want

  207. something he can control. He wants people that

  208. want to be with him, people that love to be with

  209. him, people that desire to be in relationship

  210. with him. So if all we are is his robots that

  211. do what he says because we have no other choice,

  212. that's not the relationship he wants. And that's

  213. what we see here with the son and the father

  214. in Luke 15 is the father says, go ahead. Do what

  215. you need to do. He lets him go. But another why

  216. question that I have in this story is why would

  217. the son want to leave? You know, the son has

  218. it. He's got it made. I mean, if the father has

  219. enough resources to just go ahead and hand him

  220. what's going to be his and still keep going,

  221. he must have a lot of money. He must have a lot

  222. of property. And so he's got security in this

  223. household and he's got a job. He's got some things

  224. he can do. So, you know, he's got purpose. I

  225. mean, he's being provided for. He has everything

  226. he needs. He's got an identity as a part of this

  227. family. He's got a community around him. He has

  228. everything he could want. Why would he want to

  229. leave? Why would he want to go somewhere else?

  230. You know, I was thinking about, it's funny, you

  231. know, I wrote this lesson on Wednesday, Thursday,

  232. kind of both days. And then yesterday, I'm sitting

  233. at home and Easton comes in, my four -year -old,

  234. and he asked me, he says, Dad, how come we can't

  235. have a dog? I was like, buddy, because I don't

  236. like dogs. Just being honest. He said, well,

  237. that's not cool. I was like, I don't care. He's

  238. like, but could we get a dog? No, I don't like

  239. dogs. And he said, well, when I have my own house,

  240. you ever heard that one? I think this is my first

  241. time hearing that as a parent. I thought it would

  242. come at like 15, but instead it's at four. And

  243. he said, when I have my own house, I'm getting

  244. a dog. I said, that's great. Just keep them away

  245. from me. He said, well, my house is going to

  246. be in our backyard. So, okay, keep it on your

  247. side of the yard. But Easton has everything he

  248. wants in my household. Well, except the dog.

  249. He's got juice boxes. He's got TV. He's got toys.

  250. He's got clothes. He's got he he's got water.

  251. He's got everything he could need, everything

  252. he could want. But for some reason, he wants

  253. something else, something that I'm not going

  254. to allow. And so his mind starts to tell him

  255. when I have my own house. Another way to put

  256. that is when I have my own way or when my will

  257. be done. And, you know, the son here in Luke

  258. 15. The only answer I can think of as to why

  259. he would want to leave his father's house is

  260. because he wants his own will. He wants his own

  261. way. He wants his own control. This isn't about

  262. money. It's not about power. It's about having

  263. the control over your own life to have the dog

  264. if you want it, to have whatever you want to

  265. do. If you want to eat chocolate for dinner,

  266. you can eat chocolate for dinner because you

  267. don't have mom and dad telling you no. And the

  268. son here says, I don't want your will for my

  269. life. I want my own. Any willful person knows

  270. this tension. You know, when you live under someone

  271. else's authority, when you live under someone

  272. else's rules, when it's not your will being done,

  273. but it's someone else's, you know exactly what

  274. that feels like. And eventually, if you're willful

  275. enough, you'll want to change it. And if you

  276. can't change it where you are, this is the most

  277. common result. We run. We go away. We go do our

  278. own thing. You know, I think of assistant coaches.

  279. An assistant coach, they are exactly what their

  280. title says. The assistant to the coach being

  281. the head coach. The head coach makes the rules.

  282. The head coach develops the program. The head

  283. coach sets the standard. The assistant coach

  284. is at the mercy of the head coach. But if the

  285. assistant coach starts thinking, man, if I were

  286. the head coach, we'd do it my way. You know,

  287. if I was the head coach, we'd do things a little

  288. bit differently. We'd have a different culture.

  289. We'd be a little bit more aggressive or maybe

  290. we'd be a little more calculated. Maybe the assistant

  291. coach starts thinking that way. And it's that

  292. if I were in charge and eventually the assistant

  293. coach says, why don't I just go be a head coach

  294. somewhere else and do my own thing? And then

  295. I get to have control of it. You see, a willful

  296. person can't live long under authority that they

  297. don't believe in. And this isn't about trust.

  298. I'm sure the son trusted his father. But maybe

  299. he didn't agree with the father's rules for him.

  300. Maybe he didn't like what the father said. No,

  301. you can't have women just come spend the night.

  302. We ain't doing that. Y 'all got to get married

  303. first. Maybe he didn't like the father saying,

  304. no, we're not just going to eat junk food for

  305. dinner. We've got to eat a pretty kosher meal.

  306. Maybe he didn't like the father saying, we can't

  307. just blow money on bulls because you want to

  308. go ride bulls. We need some cows that we can

  309. actually get some meat from and make some money.

  310. Maybe he didn't like the way the father was running

  311. things. He didn't believe in that way of doing

  312. things. And so the son says, I want to go do

  313. my own thing. So your choices are either you

  314. try to overthrow it. Or you just walk away. And

  315. that's exactly what he does. He thinks he's got

  316. a better way of doing things. Maybe he thinks

  317. he's got a better way of living life. So he walks

  318. away to give it a go. And the son gets exactly

  319. what he wants. He gets to have his will. He gets

  320. to have his way. And it feels like, maybe it

  321. looks like freedom for a while. I'm sure he had

  322. a lot of fun. I mean, I can imagine if my father

  323. had a lot of money to just hand me and he gave

  324. it to me and I could just go and do what I want

  325. to. And as the scripture says, he lived recklessly.

  326. If I could do that, I'm sure it'd be fun for

  327. a couple of days. I mean, you've gone on vacation

  328. without your kids before. It's a lot of fun.

  329. There's some freedom there. And instead of paying

  330. for a Happy Meal, now you get to have the appetizer

  331. that you want. The son gets his way and it probably

  332. feels good for a little while. But what happens

  333. next? Well, we find out that freedom apart from

  334. God always has a shelf life. Freedom apart from

  335. God always expires. Eventually, the money runs

  336. out. Eventually, the friends that were with you

  337. for a little while, they disappear. You know,

  338. the consequences of those actions, they start

  339. to pop up. Sin always, always. It's never failed.

  340. And if you want to check it. Do some math on

  341. your own. Sin always over promises and under

  342. delivers because it promises good life. It promises

  343. fun. It promises freedom. But eventually you

  344. find yourself like the sun did sleeping with

  345. pigs, feeding the pigs, wishing that you could

  346. just have the scraps of what the pigs are eating.

  347. And so you got to think about this for a Jewish

  348. audience, which is who Jesus is talking to. This

  349. is like the definition of rock bottom. This is

  350. the son finding himself in ragged clothes, no

  351. food, bunch of weight loss, scraggly hair, bugs

  352. all around him sleeping under a bridge. Because

  353. for the Jews, a pig is not just physically gross

  354. because pigs are gross, right? They're disgusting.

  355. Pigs aren't just physically gross. They are spiritually

  356. unclean. So for the son, he's not just broke

  357. now. He is spiritually, socially and morally

  358. bankrupt. All that stuff his dad gave him, gone.

  359. All the spiritual enrichment that his father

  360. probably raised him in, gone. The social status

  361. he had from being a part of this family, gone.

  362. The purpose he had from having a family that

  363. he could live with and work with and serve with

  364. and enjoy, gone. He is bankrupt. You don't end

  365. up in the pig pen. Because your way was better.

  366. You don't end up socially, morally, spiritually

  367. bankrupt because your way was better. That's

  368. not how it works. That's not how walking away

  369. works. You get there because your way could not

  370. sustain you. Like I said, it's fun for a little

  371. while. I've gone on vacation before. And I've

  372. spent a weekend or a couple days without my kids.

  373. Guess what? Days one and two, I'm good. Day three,

  374. I'm ready to go home. Day four, packing the bags,

  375. let's get going. And then I get home and I'm

  376. like, man, we can go back on a vacation, right?

  377. The son gets out there. He gets to have his way.

  378. He gets to do his own thing. But after a while,

  379. it grows old. And you find yourself in a place

  380. that really stinks. And this is who we're talking

  381. about today. We're not talking about the people

  382. who drifted. We're not talking about the people

  383. that they grew up in church and life just kind

  384. of pulled them away and they just kind of, you

  385. know, wandered. We're not talking about the people

  386. that were hurt by life, the people that were

  387. hurt by the church, the people that were hurt

  388. by friends and family. And they started asking

  389. themselves, what kind of God would allow me to

  390. do this? So they just kind of step away. We're

  391. talking about the people that they sat there

  392. and they thought, I'll just be happier. If I

  393. go and do fill in the blank, I'll be freer if

  394. I can walk away and do fill in the blank. I'll

  395. finally get to be myself if I just we're not

  396. talking. We're talking about those people. And

  397. some of us may be those people. And for you,

  398. if you're that person or for those people out

  399. there, you may find that that is the case that

  400. you are a little bit freer, that you are having

  401. the time of your life, that you are feeling like

  402. yourself. For a little while. But eventually.

  403. Everyone. Not some. Not most. Not many. Everyone.

  404. Finds themselves saying. This isn't what I thought

  405. it would be. This isn't how I thought it would

  406. go. This isn't what I planned for my life. That

  407. was your first mistake. Planning for your life.

  408. You ever heard the phrase. Make plans. God laughs.

  409. I don't think God laughs. I think God kind of

  410. just like sits back in amazement. That that's

  411. what we would think our life should be. That

  412. that's what we would think a fulfilling life

  413. would be. A life apart from God. God probably

  414. sits back and thinks, are you crazy? I mean,

  415. think about Adam and Eve. God told Adam and Eve

  416. exactly what to do. They doubted. They did their

  417. own thing. And I can only imagine God sitting

  418. there thinking, don't you remember when I told

  419. you that that would lead to death? Or the Israelites,

  420. every time God gave them a command and God told

  421. them not to do this one thing and then they do

  422. the one thing and then they end up in slavery

  423. or they end up getting ransacked by another country.

  424. And God's looking at them like, hey, don't you

  425. remember I warned you about this? And think about

  426. the kids that grew up in the church and they

  427. heard all the stories, they heard all the warnings.

  428. And then when they turned 18 or they turned 20,

  429. they just decided I'm going to walk away and

  430. do my own thing because my way is better. And

  431. you're looking at them like you. You have no

  432. clue what you're asking for. And you just kind

  433. of sit back, terrified for what might happen.

  434. Because they think you think your way is better.

  435. And we always ask the question or say, this isn't

  436. what I thought it'd be. Or how did I get to this

  437. point? But I don't want you to miss what the

  438. son does next. Verse 17 says he came to himself.

  439. Another way of putting that is he came to his

  440. senses. You ever look at somebody and you're

  441. like, I was wondering when you were going to

  442. figure it out. Sometimes when my kids are having

  443. issues, like, you know, putting their shoes on

  444. or finding something, finding something is the

  445. worst because they'll like, they'll stand up

  446. from their position and just look. And they're

  447. like, dad, where'd it go? And I'm like, what?

  448. And they're like, I can't find my monster truck.

  449. I'm like, did you look for it? Yeah. I'm like,

  450. try again. So they do this. I can't find it.

  451. Can you help me? I'm like, dude, look for it.

  452. And then finally, it kind of makes sense to them.

  453. So they start walking around and they start looking

  454. for stuff and they look under things and they

  455. actually look for it and they find it. And it's

  456. like they had that, aha, I'm capable of doing

  457. more than the bare minimum. They come to their

  458. senses. And so for the son, he's sleeping in

  459. the pig pen, wishing for scraps from the pig's

  460. troughs. And he's thinking, huh, life really

  461. stinks right now, doesn't it? This isn't what

  462. I had planned. This isn't what I thought it would

  463. be. How did I get to this point? And finally,

  464. he goes, I got it figured out. I know what to

  465. do. I'm just going to go home. I'm going to ask

  466. my dad to let me be one of his servants. See,

  467. there's a lot of hope in this phrase. He came

  468. to his senses. He came to himself. Because the

  469. truth is, when we're lost, our reality gets kind

  470. of distorted. You ever walk through the woods

  471. and people tell you to mark where you're walking?

  472. Because if you're not careful, you'll find yourself

  473. just going in circles. And you'll keep walking.

  474. And you'll think, huh, did not pass that rock

  475. 10 minutes ago? And then you'll think, okay,

  476. let me go a different way. And you'll keep walking.

  477. You'll keep walking. And you'll come back to

  478. the rock and you're like, hmm. And you keep walking

  479. and you finally realize my reality is distorted.

  480. I have no clue where I'm at. I have no clue where

  481. I'm going. I have no clue what I'm doing. And

  482. you realize that all of this time being lost.

  483. Being away from truth, being away from where

  484. you were supposed to be has only distorted your

  485. reality. It's like the people that they find

  486. themselves and they haven't been to church in

  487. a while. They haven't read the scriptures in

  488. a while. They haven't done any type of spiritual

  489. disciplines in a while. And they look up and

  490. they say, how did I get here? Because I feel

  491. like I'm in a rut and I feel like I've just been

  492. going in circles and all I keep getting out of

  493. it is pain. All I get out of it is disappointment

  494. and I feel empty. And you look at them and you

  495. say, if you could just open your eyes and see

  496. what you're doing is wrong, maybe you could get

  497. out of the rut that you're in. Lostness distorts

  498. our reality. Sin clouds our judgment. Willfulness

  499. convinces us that we're fine until we finally

  500. realize that we aren't. But repentance begins

  501. when reality breaks through all the junk, when

  502. it breaks through all the delusion, when reality

  503. becomes clear to us. When our circumstances.

  504. Become clear when the actions that led to those

  505. circumstances become clear. When we stop fooling

  506. ourselves and stop letting Satan cloud our judgment.

  507. You see, the son realizes that his life in rebellion

  508. is far worse than the life that he had in submission

  509. in his father's home. He gets that. He comes

  510. to his senses. His father's house was never the

  511. prison. His father's house was a place of abundance,

  512. a place of provision. What was a prison? Was

  513. the son's pride, was the son's mindset of if

  514. I can just have my own way, if I can just have

  515. my will be done. You know, before Easton was

  516. born, Eliza tasked me with putting the crib together.

  517. Now, mind you, she'd been asking me for a couple

  518. of weeks to put the crib together. But, you know,

  519. men, right? We'll get to it. It won't take long.

  520. Probably super simple. All the parts are there.

  521. The instructions are there. Right. So open the

  522. box. I'm ready to put this thing together, but

  523. I don't know if y 'all know this, but modern

  524. technology really stinks because in the box was

  525. not a booklet for instructions. It was like a

  526. card. It had a QR code on it. You're supposed

  527. to scan the QR code. It would lead you to a website

  528. that you have to register to get into, and then

  529. it would give you a PDF of the instructions.

  530. Sounds like a lot of junk, doesn't it? Yeah.

  531. So instead, I did what any man does. I get the

  532. tools. I get the box open. I get all the pieces

  533. to the crib out and I look at the picture on

  534. the box because that works. So I start putting

  535. this thing together. A couple, maybe a little

  536. over an hour. We're not going to make myself

  537. sound too dumb today. Some time goes by. I'm

  538. frustrated. I'm annoyed. I don't have a crib.

  539. I've got a bunch of crib pieces kind of put together.

  540. It's close. Like, it looks like you could maybe

  541. put a baby in there if you didn't really care

  542. about the child's well -being. And so, like,

  543. I'm really frustrated at this point. So finally,

  544. I break down. I take the crib apart. Well, I

  545. take what should be a crib apart. I do all the

  546. steps to get into the instructions. About 20

  547. minutes later, we've got a crib. Isn't that so

  548. annoying? But isn't that so true? You know, sometimes

  549. we try to go through life without the instructions.

  550. We try to go through life with just looking at

  551. the picture on the box and saying, this is what

  552. it should be. This is this is the model, right?

  553. This is the the ideal picture of what life should

  554. be. So I'm going to look at the picture. I've

  555. got the tools that I think necessary and I'm

  556. going to go at it on my own mind. And then life

  557. goes by and we realize, man, I've wasted 20 years

  558. and I've got nothing that I thought my life was

  559. supposed to be. It's not exactly what the picture

  560. showed. It's actually quite. different. It's

  561. far off from what the picture showed. And then

  562. we give our lives to Christ and we start following

  563. his teachings. And we realize that while it may

  564. not be like the abundant model life that has

  565. just all kinds of money and success, it's a whole

  566. lot better than what we had when we were trying

  567. to do it with our own feeble minds. You ever

  568. been there? You ever get to the point where you

  569. realize you've got to stop trying to do it with

  570. your own understanding? I think there's some

  571. scripture about that, right? Lean not on your

  572. own understanding. You know, even Jesus, the

  573. son of God, God in the flesh, he's sitting in

  574. the garden knowing what's about to happen to

  575. him. And he knows he's going to be captured.

  576. He knows he's going to be beaten. He knows he's

  577. going to be killed. He sits there in the garden

  578. and he begs God, if there's any other way, let

  579. it be. But your will be done. Because the son

  580. of God knows something that we don't understand

  581. sometimes. And that is that God's way is so much

  582. better than our own way. And only God's way will

  583. lead to the life that we thought we wanted. It's

  584. only God's way. You see, that's the willful son.

  585. That's a lot of people we love. And maybe that's

  586. you. Where you're leaning on your own wisdom.

  587. You're leaning on your own understanding. You're

  588. leaning on your own brain. And it leads you to

  589. walking away from the truth. From the instructions.

  590. So the son comes to his senses and he goes back

  591. to the place he should have been all along. He

  592. goes back to the instruction manual. And before

  593. he can even finish his apology, before he can

  594. negotiate this new servant status, the father

  595. runs to him, embraces him, restores him. And

  596. here's another key word, celebrates him. You

  597. see, the son had rehearsed this speech. But I

  598. just imagine this whole time that the son was

  599. gone, the father was planning the party for when

  600. the son came home. Can you imagine you're sitting

  601. on the porch and you're thinking, when I see

  602. my son walk down that driveway, We're going to

  603. kill the fattened calf. When I see my son walk

  604. down that driveway, I'm bringing him the robe.

  605. I'm bringing him the ring. I'm bringing him the

  606. crown. When I see my son walk down that driveway,

  607. we are throwing a party. And the son does. And

  608. the father does. Because he was ready. Why? Why

  609. does he throw a party? Why does he cut the son

  610. off? I never noticed that until the other day.

  611. It's funny. Again, I told you I preach the sermon

  612. or preach on this passion like two times since

  613. I've been here. It's my favorite passage to preach

  614. on. But I've never noticed this until this week.

  615. The father actually cuts the son off. The son

  616. had this speech planned. Right. And he gets through

  617. about half of the speech. And the father says,

  618. go get the calf, go get the robe, go get the

  619. ring. We're throwing a party because my son who

  620. was dead is home. He's alive. He's found. We

  621. are going to celebrate. He cuts the son off.

  622. He doesn't let him talk about earning his way

  623. back into the family. And here's why. Because

  624. grace is not earned in our regret. It is simply

  625. given in love. The father loved his son enough.

  626. He didn't care what the son had to say about

  627. paying it back. He didn't care what the son had

  628. to say about working it off. All he knew was

  629. my son is home. We're going to throw a party.

  630. We're going to celebrate. Here's the real question.

  631. When the willful, when the stubborn, when the

  632. determined, when the lost sons and daughters

  633. come home, what are they going to find? Are they

  634. going to find a church that looks at them and

  635. says, You have to do a lot of work to get back

  636. in the good graces of God. You have to do a lot

  637. of work to get back in the good grace of the

  638. church. Are they going to find cold shoulders?

  639. Are they going to find people that meet them

  640. with suspicion? Are they going to hear the I

  641. told you so? Or hey, about time you learned.

  642. Or will they be received with open arms that

  643. embrace them? Will they be gladly clothed in

  644. the finest robes? Will they get a ring put on

  645. their fingers? And will all of heaven and all

  646. of earth hear a loud celebration? When the lost

  647. come home, what are they going to find? And if

  648. that doesn't make sense to you, I'm going to

  649. simplify it. When the lost walk in those doors,

  650. what will they find in this church? Will they

  651. be met with hugs? And love and grace and forgiveness

  652. and restoration? Or will they be met with people

  653. saying, hey, I told you so. Jesus makes it clear.

  654. And so we're going to make it clear that heaven

  655. celebrates repentance. Heaven celebrates the

  656. loss coming to their senses, coming home and

  657. giving their lives back to the father. Heaven

  658. celebrates and the church should sound like heaven.

  659. The church should sound like heaven. I don't

  660. know how else to make that clear. When the lost

  661. come to Jesus, when they bury their old flesh

  662. in that water, when they rise to a new life,

  663. what will they find? It better be a church that

  664. sounds like the angels. And my God says the angels

  665. go crazy when someone gives their life to him.

  666. And so I don't want to hear any of that's cool,

  667. but. No, all I want to hear is an amen, a hallelujah

  668. and some hands clapping in excitement because

  669. a lost son and daughter has come to know Christ.

  670. So let me leave you with three things. The first

  671. one is those who walk away willfully, they are

  672. still lost, but they're also still findable.

  673. There's still a chance for them. God's not done.

  674. He's still working. He's still waiting. They're

  675. still findable. The second thing is, is their

  676. way will eventually reveal its limits. It will

  677. eventually reveal its flaws. But God's will always

  678. leads to life. And we've got to tell them, we've

  679. got to show them that when we walk in accordance

  680. with God's will, life is so much better. You

  681. know, I grew up thinking that being a Christian

  682. was hard because, you know, life on earth is

  683. still hard. And, you know, God's promise was

  684. for eternal life. And I don't think I heard enough

  685. people talk about God's promise for abundant

  686. life. I don't think I heard enough people talk

  687. about how when Jesus said, Father, let your kingdom

  688. come. He meant like right now, like you can have

  689. that full abundant life now. And so what I'm

  690. saying is, is we've got to show the world outside.

  691. that while life may still stink sometimes, while

  692. the circumstances aren't ideal, while it can

  693. really rain down on us, and when it rains, sometimes

  694. it pours, we can show them that even in the midst

  695. of all of that junk, God is still good and it

  696. is evident in our lives. And the third thing

  697. is, when the lost come home, the church has one

  698. choice. We have one response. And if you're not

  699. ready to respond in that way, we need to have

  700. a conversation because I am. So when someone

  701. comes out of that water, if y 'all don't want

  702. me clapping, hooting, hollering, I'm sorry. Put

  703. some duct tape on my mouth and tie me up because

  704. we're going to celebrate when the loss come home.

  705. We're going to throw a party. We're going to

  706. rejoice with heaven. Verse 24 says it so clear

  707. for this. My son was dead. He's alive again.

  708. He was lost, but now he's found. See, that is

  709. not supposed to be just the father's heart. That

  710. is the church's calling. And so we're called

  711. to be like Jesus. And if Jesus celebrates, we

  712. celebrate. If Jesus goes to find the lost, we

  713. find the lost. If Jesus says when the lost come

  714. home, we don't question them. We don't dog them.

  715. We just say, welcome home. Let's party. If that's

  716. what we see from God, if that's what we see from

  717. Jesus, that's what we do. So this morning, if

  718. you've walked away, if you feel like you maybe

  719. could find a better way, but you realize that

  720. you couldn't, that there was no way out there

  721. that could really give you the abundant and full

  722. life that God wants. If you feel lost or if you

  723. know somebody that you know is out there wandering,

  724. if you know somebody that you know is sleeping

  725. with the pigs because they've trusted in their

  726. own understanding or if that's you. Wherever

  727. you sit today, whatever part of the spectrum

  728. that you're on this morning, the invitation is

  729. the same. Come home. And when you come home,

  730. know that this church is going to celebrate you.

  731. Not because of you, but because of what you mean

  732. to God and what you mean to us. So wherever you're

  733. at this morning, we invite you to come as we

  734. stand and as we sing.