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Make No Oaths Matthew 5:34

New Heights Fellowship Baptist church of East Toledo

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  1. Who temperature this?

  2. 이거

  3. Don't we care for a land so blue, single, brown?

  4. A bring you more than a song, for a song in its hill

  5. Is not what you have required

  6. You're such much deeper within, you're the way things appear

  7. Floating into my heart

  8. I'm coming back to the heart of worship

  9. And it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus

  10. I'm sorry Lord for the thing I've made

  11. And it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus

  12. I'm coming back to the heart of worship

  13. And it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus

  14. I'm sorry Lord for the thing I've made

  15. And it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus

  16. I'm coming back to the heart of worship

  17. And it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus

  18. I'm sorry Lord for the thing I've made

  19. And it's all about you, it's all about you Jesus

  20. I'm bringing you more than a song, for a song in its hill

  21. Is not what you have required

  22. You're such much deeper within, you're the way things appear

  23. Floating into my heart

  24. Worthy is the Lamb of God said

  25. Holy, holy is he

  26. Sing the new song, till heaven shifts off

  27. With his mercy to sing

  28. Worthy is the Lamb of God said

  29. Holy, holy is he

  30. Sing the new song, till heaven shifts off

  31. With his mercy to sing

  32. Holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty

  33. Who was, that is, and is to come

  34. With all creation I stand

  35. Rest through the king case

  36. Who are by the bed

  37. And tower of the Dorian homes

  38. I stand by

  39. I stand by

  40. Golden-grey walls of living color

  41. Freshest of iron, rose of gold

  42. Blessing and God has strengthened, through you come with me

  43. To you the only wise King

  44. Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty

  45. Who was, that is, and is to come

  46. With all creation I stand

  47. Rest through the king of kings

  48. Who are by the bed

  49. And tower of the Dorian homes

  50. Fill with wonder, O struck wonder

  51. At the mention of your name

  52. Jesus, your name is power

  53. Love of the living water

  54. Such a marvelous mystery

  55. Holy, holy, holy Almighty

  56. Who was, that is, and is to come

  57. With all creation I stand

  58. Rest through the king of kings

  59. Who are by the bed

  60. And tower of the Dorian homes

  61. Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty

  62. Who was, that is, and is to come

  63. With all creation I stand

  64. Rest through the king of kings

  65. Who are by the bed

  66. And tower of the Dorian homes

  67. A little bit of color

  68. A little bit of color

  69. A splash of color, a hint of color

  70. A bit

  71. I have all the answers

  72. I take my answers

  73. I take my answers

  74. Okay, so the worksheet works

  75. Goes from upper left to lower right

  76. That's how it works

  77. We're going to go all the way down

  78. The left hand side to the box

  79. Then we're going to go to the

  80. Lightning bolt in the middle

  81. And then we're going to go all the way

  82. Down the right hand side

  83. Kind of like three rows, if you will

  84. And it's going to go quick

  85. So be ready

  86. It's going to go by kind of fast

  87. All right

  88. So if you'll look right in the top

  89. Of your lightning bolt

  90. On the top, on the upper part

  91. Right there, there should be

  92. A little space sideways

  93. Should be a line

  94. Line space sideways

  95. You see a space?

  96. It's right on the top there

  97. Got green lines right there

  98. Oh, in that box

  99. Lightning bolt box

  100. In the top of the lightning bolt

  101. Not the black lines

  102. Green lines up here

  103. Going up and down the vertical

  104. So I'm going to give you the

  105. Reference that goes right there

  106. Okay, yep

  107. On the side, sideways

  108. Sideways

  109. Okay, the reference is

  110. Matthew 5.34

  111. Matthew 5.34

  112. Okay

  113. All right

  114. So I'm going to read

  115. Matthew 5.33 through 34

  116. And then we're going to go down

  117. The left hand side

  118. And look at the verses

  119. On the left hand side

  120. Okay, so this is what it says

  121. This is taking place

  122. If you're wondering what my

  123. Geography in the background here

  124. You got water coming up

  125. From the left hand side

  126. Like a shoreline

  127. You got like a big cliff edge there

  128. Because this takes place

  129. During the Sermon on the Mount

  130. Jesus standing up high

  131. Talking to thousands of people

  132. On the shoreline

  133. Okay

  134. And it says this

  135. Again, you have heard

  136. That the ancients were told

  137. You shall not make false vows

  138. But shall fulfill your vows

  139. To the Lord

  140. But I say to you

  141. Make no vow at all

  142. Either by heaven

  143. Or for it is the throne of God

  144. Or by the earth

  145. Or by the footstool of his feet

  146. Or by Jerusalem

  147. Or by the city of the great king

  148. We'll stop there for a minute

  149. Okay, so notice it says

  150. Again, you have heard

  151. That the ancients were told

  152. All right, so who were the ancients?

  153. If you're talking about

  154. Matthew

  155. This book of the Bible, by the way

  156. The book of Matthew was written

  157. Probably in Hebrew

  158. Written by a man who was

  159. Testifying to Jews

  160. Okay, so people who were of

  161. Jesus' nationality

  162. All right

  163. And so their ancients

  164. Who do you think they would be

  165. Talking about?

  166. Give me some ancient Jews

  167. Moses, perfect, right?

  168. So Moses is the one I was

  169. Looking for, that's easy

  170. But you could have said Noah

  171. Right, Noah goes back

  172. Abraham, Jacob, Lot, Isaac

  173. All of them, right?

  174. So Jacob would be a really good one

  175. Because he's kind of the

  176. Founder of the nation

  177. Jacob's name was changed to Israel

  178. And then if you were in Israelite

  179. That means you came out of Jacob

  180. Okay, but we're really looking

  181. For Moses right at this moment

  182. And so we're going to go back

  183. To some of those books

  184. So the first one

  185. I'll read it to you first

  186. Then you can summarize it

  187. In the verses and in the blanks

  188. And then put the reference, okay?

  189. So the first one

  190. Is in Leviticus 1912

  191. Okay, and this is what it says

  192. It says

  193. I'm in the wrong book

  194. Hold on

  195. Leviticus, there we go

  196. 19 and 12, all right

  197. It says, you shall

  198. And you shall not swear falsely

  199. By my name

  200. So as to profane the name

  201. Of your God

  202. I am the Lord

  203. So just as he said

  204. The ancients were told

  205. I'll get you in one second, Haley

  206. Just as he said

  207. The ancients were told

  208. Don't swear falsely by my name

  209. All right, so on the black blanks

  210. On the left-hand side on the top

  211. Are you with me now?

  212. That way you're going to ask me

  213. Where I'm at?

  214. Okay, yep

  215. On the upper left-hand side

  216. You should see three blanks

  217. And the three blanks says

  218. Don't swear falsely by my name

  219. Six words

  220. And then the reference

  221. Leviticus 19 and 12

  222. Get it?

  223. On the upper left-hand side

  224. Six blanks

  225. Don't swear falsely by my name

  226. The six black lines

  227. And then right under that

  228. Leviticus 19 and 12

  229. That's what I just read

  230. And who wrote the book of Leviticus?

  231. It was Moses, that's right

  232. He's the one who put it down on paper

  233. Or whatever they had

  234. Probably more like papyrus

  235. Really dense material

  236. Okay, so don't swear falsely by my name

  237. Was a command that they had gotten from Moses

  238. And they were living by

  239. Remember that by this

  240. Before the New Testament

  241. That's all they had to live by

  242. Was the Old Testament, right?

  243. Now they're in the New Testament

  244. And Jesus is saying

  245. You heard from the ancients

  246. Don't swear falsely by my name

  247. Leviticus 19 and 12

  248. Then also

  249. It sort of repeats

  250. But is a little bit different

  251. In the book of Numbers

  252. And who wrote the book of Numbers?

  253. Anybody know?

  254. Moses, that's right

  255. Still Moses

  256. Still a very long time ago

  257. And what they would consider

  258. The leader of their nation

  259. In his era for sure

  260. He's the one who led them out of Egypt

  261. Lived right up to the edge of the promised land

  262. And so on

  263. And so in Numbers 30 and verse 2

  264. It says

  265. If a man makes a vow to the Lord

  266. Or takes an oath to bind himself

  267. With a binding obligation

  268. He shall not violate his word

  269. He shall do according to all

  270. That proceeds out of his mouth

  271. And so

  272. Moses was saying

  273. Do or fulfill your vows

  274. That's the next three blanks

  275. So right there

  276. You can put fulfill

  277. If you like that word

  278. Because it's bigger

  279. And it kind of has to do with vows

  280. Or you can just put do

  281. Because that's the word that Moses uses

  282. Kind of cool

  283. Do your vows

  284. Okay

  285. And the reference was Numbers 30 verse 2

    Numbers 30:2

  286. So it's do your vows

  287. Or fulfill your vows

  288. Numbers 32

  289. 30 colon 2

  290. Okay

  291. And we got one more

  292. So this is all what they would have been thinking

  293. Yeah, we've heard it

  294. We've heard it

  295. This is where we heard it

  296. Okay

  297. And now we got Deuteronomy

  298. And who wrote the book of Deuteronomy?

  299. We know it by now, don't we?

  300. Moses

  301. Okay, so can anybody tell me

  302. This would be a big one for somebody to get

  303. Can anybody tell me what the book of Deuteronomy is made up of?

  304. Oh

  305. Why is it called Deuteronomy?

  306. Does anybody know?

  307. Deut

  308. It's two

  309. It's the two final speeches of Moses

  310. Okay

  311. So we actually taught through this entire book as a church

  312. Right

  313. So the two final speeches of Moses are in the book of Deuteronomy

  314. That's what they are

  315. And so part of the last words that Moses gave Israel to live by

  316. Is what I'm about to read to you

  317. Deuteronomy 23

  318. And it says this

  319. When you take a vow to the Lord your God

  320. You shall not delay to pay it

  321. For it would be sin in you

  322. And the Lord your God will surely require it of you

  323. I'm going to skip 22

  324. Then it says in 23

  325. You shall be careful to perform what goes out from your lips

  326. Just as you have voluntarily vowed to the Lord your God

  327. What you have promised

  328. Okay

  329. So there's kind of like three things in there

  330. The first is the next three blanks

  331. And he said do not delay

  332. Do not delay

  333. He also said voluntarily vowed

  334. That was your choice

  335. You made a choice to make that vow

  336. You didn't have to do that

  337. Do not delay

  338. Then voluntarily vowed

  339. And then voluntarily pay

  340. Okay

  341. Electro candy

  342. Alright

  343. At the very top in the lightning bolt

  344. The reference for that one was Deuteronomy 23

  345. Versus 21 and 23

  346. Okay

  347. So at the very top in the lightning bolt

  348. The first thing I said I read you a verse from Matthew

  349. Jason did you write it down?

  350. What was it?

  351. One out of two

  352. One out of two I knew that

  353. That was good good catch

  354. Alright

  355. The first three blanks on the left hand side

  356. Natalie did you write it down?

  357. What you got?

  358. Perfect

  359. Coming back

  360. One out of two

  361. No zero out of two

  362. But she's going to eat them anyway

  363. Okay

  364. Let's see

  365. Three blanks above numbers

    Numbers 30:2

  366. Chapter 30 verse 2

  367. Kashan did you get it?

  368. Yep

  369. That was fun

  370. Okay

  371. Alright

  372. So what we've got is Jesus

  373. Making reference to how they've been taught this

  374. Notice the word ancient there

  375. He said since ancient times

  376. You have been taught this

  377. Under the word ancient

  378. Next time goes much

  379. If something is ancient

  380. Then that means there has been much time

  381. From when it started being taught to now

  382. Okay

  383. He said you heard this since ancient times

  384. So much time

  385. Also next to the word times

  386. As you can imagine

  387. Many times

  388. So understand these are

  389. Jewish men primarily

  390. Not only right

  391. But primarily Jewish men who are hearing this

  392. There were also women and children

  393. The children five to nine years old

  394. Had already heard dozens of times

  395. That if they made a vow

  396. They should not swear falsely

  397. They should do their vows

  398. They should not delay

  399. They voluntarily vowed

  400. So they should voluntarily pay

  401. They have heard that

  402. Dozens of times already

  403. But by the time they are 30 years old

  404. And becoming a responsible man in their society

  405. They have heard it hundreds of times

  406. In fact the Pharisees that were present

  407. Memorized the whole book of Deuteronomy

  408. From the first word to the last word

  409. Memorized

  410. They could recite the whole thing

  411. Which meant they could recite

  412. Deuteronomy 23, 21, and 23

  413. And it was common for them to do that

  414. When they were preaching or teaching

  415. Which meant that everybody that was there

  416. Had much time to hear the verses

  417. And had been in their literature and stories

  418. Right?

  419. You think of pre-Christian literature now

  420. If somebody read something then

  421. These commands would have been in it

  422. You follow?

  423. Also every time they went to the synagogue

  424. Various verses were read

  425. And it would be common to have almost

  426. Every single Sabbath day

  427. Which for them was Saturday at that time

  428. For some verse of these three to be read

  429. You follow?

  430. So they had heard it 52 times a year

  431. If they are 40 years old

  432. They had heard it maybe

  433. Let's say 50 times a year for 40 years

  434. That's 2000 times one of those three verses

  435. I just read to you

  436. That's many times

  437. Okay?

  438. So then if you look in between those two triangles

  439. There's some little blanks there

  440. And the question that goes in there is

  441. What would you do?

  442. Okay?

  443. And then on the bottom

  444. It says I

  445. And you're going to write in there

  446. Had you heard this many times

  447. And for much time

  448. What would you do?

  449. So then you write in the box

  450. What you would do

  451. If you were like them

  452. And you could say

  453. Well you had heard

  454. Don't swear falsely

  455. By His name

  456. Do your vows

  457. Do not delay

  458. Voluntarily vowed

  459. Voluntarily pay

  460. If you do

  461. That's been taught to you

  462. Thousands of times

  463. I would

  464. What? What would you do?

  465. Put it in there

  466. Yours is going to be different

  467. Than anybody else's

  468. Because you've got to have something in the box

  469. To get the object lesson out of the whole story here

  470. What would

  471. Had you heard it many times

  472. And for much time

  473. What would I do?

  474. That's right

  475. This is what the crowd was thinking

  476. As Jesus was saying that

  477. He says you have heard it said

  478. Right?

  479. I'll read the verse

  480. Again you have heard that the ancients were told

  481. You shall not make false vows

  482. But shall fulfill your vows to the Lord

  483. So they said yeah

  484. We have heard that

  485. Thousands of times

  486. In fact most of them went yeah

  487. That's in Deuteronomy

  488. He's quoting Deuteronomy 23

  489. Yeah he's quoting Numbers 30

  490. Yeah he's quoting Leviticus 19

  491. Right?

  492. And they said well based on that I know what I have to do

  493. Okay?

  494. Now we're moving to the lightning bolt in the middle

  495. It divides the page

  496. And you'll see there are blank black lines on the top

  497. Jesus said but I say to you

  498. That's what goes on the blank black lines

  499. But I say to you

  500. Now the but I say to you is important

  501. Because this is a teaching method that Jesus was using

  502. If you have your Bibles open

  503. And you look back

  504. You'll see that he did this several times

  505. In the Sermon on the Mount

  506. So it's been said but I say to you

  507. It's been said but I say to you

  508. For example back in verse 28

  509. You have heard in 27

  510. You have heard that it was said

  511. You shall not commit adultery

  512. But I say to you

  513. And then he goes on to teach on it

  514. Right?

  515. In verse 22

  516. You have heard that the ancients were told

  517. You shall not commit murder

  518. And whoever commits murder shall be liable to the court

  519. But I say to you

  520. That everyone who is angry with his brother and so on

  521. So this formula of Jesus is saying

  522. You know all this and you could even say

  523. And because of that you would do

  524. And whatever you put in the box

  525. But Jesus is saying but I say to you

  526. Something more

  527. Right?

  528. When he said it was about adultery

  529. It was a man angry in his heart with his brother

  530. Is guilty before the court

  531. Right?

  532. For committing murder

  533. And he said

  534. But I say to you

  535. A man committing adultery

  536. But a man who lost in his own heart toward another

  537. Is guilty of adultery

  538. So basically every time it's more extreme

  539. He's taking the next step

  540. He's saying you've got to go further

  541. Than you've ever gone before

  542. But I say to you means you've got to go further

  543. And then over on the right hand side

  544. Where there's blanks

  545. There's a big blank, a little blank

  546. Then a big blank, two little blanks

  547. You see it there

  548. It's kind of on the cliff space

  549. Yeah, kind of looks like that

  550. Okay

  551. Verse 34

  552. But I say to you

  553. Make no oath at all

  554. That's what goes in the blanks

  555. Make no oath at all

  556. That's what Jesus said

  557. Now is that the natural or logical outflow of these verses?

  558. If you were living a

  559. Is that what you put in the box?

  560. Did you put I would make no oath at all?

  561. Or did you put I would keep my oaths?

  562. See the difference?

  563. And somebody might put I would make no oath at all

  564. That's a possibility, right?

  565. But the verses were correcting them in the way of saying

  566. If you're going to make an oath, make it right

  567. Now he goes on a little further

  568. He says

  569. But I say to you make no oaths at all

  570. Either by heaven, for it is the throne of God

  571. Or by earth, for it is the footstool of his feet

  572. Or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great king

  573. And you see a big knot circle there

  574. And there's the head with a little mullet

  575. And the heaven and earth

  576. So you don't make any oaths or promises

  577. Based on anything else

  578. Right?

  579. So you don't say

  580. On my dead mother's grave

  581. Or if I don't do this, I'll give you money

  582. Right?

  583. You don't make oaths

  584. Jesus said make no oaths at all

  585. But does that sound like a step up?

  586. Jason, if I say to you

  587. If you make an oath, you've got to keep it

  588. And then I come back later and I say

  589. Make no oaths at all

  590. Does that sound like a step up?

  591. Right?

  592. If I haven't written this before

  593. And you come up to me and say

  594. Keep your oaths

  595. And then I come back in the Bible and say

  596. Make no oaths at all

  597. It feels like you're going against your word

  598. Right, it's almost like a contradiction, right?

  599. So what is he saying?

  600. And that's where we get it, okay?

  601. And it goes a little further

  602. Verse 36

  603. Nor shall you make an oath by your head

  604. For you cannot make one hair white or black

  605. And notice your head with your mullets in the circle there

  606. Then 37

  607. But let your statement be

  608. Yes, yes

  609. Or no, no

  610. And anything beyond these is of evil

  611. Alright, and so you see two boxes there

  612. And yes goes in both boxes

  613. Yes equals yes

  614. And the next box, no equals no

  615. And then the final equation

  616. Anybody want to take a stab at it and guess it?

  617. Anything else or anything more equals evil

  618. Very good

  619. And in the word it actually says anything beyond these

  620. So anything different, anything going beyond that

  621. So it seems like if I said to you

  622. If you make an oath you've got to keep it

  623. Then I sound like I don't trust you, right?

  624. Like what are you saying exactly?

  625. I'm not going to keep my word?

  626. I said I was going to do it

  627. I said I made a promise, right?

  628. So then I say well I'm going to keep it

  629. And I'm like okay, you've got to keep it

  630. Well I'm going to keep it

  631. Okay, I really want you to believe I'm going to keep it

  632. I believe you but I'm saying you're going to keep it

  633. And there's a contrast, there's a struggle

  634. So then what you do is you say well I'm going to keep it

  635. Or else I'll do this, right?

  636. This can be my penalty if I don't keep what I say

  637. And then you go oh man if that's your penalty

  638. And it's enforceable by law

  639. So you're going to sacrifice your deposit

  640. Or you're going to have to pay money

  641. Or you're going to have to give up something

  642. No TV for a month or whatever

  643. Then you're like well yeah

  644. Now I really believe you're saying what you're saying, right?

  645. Jesus is saying you can't do it that way anymore

  646. You cannot decide whether or not you're going to keep your oath

  647. By what it's going to cost you

  648. You cannot decide whether or not you're going to keep your word

  649. By what it's going to cost you

  650. You can't say well I know I promised I would be there at seven

  651. But something came up and now I'm not

  652. In the back of your mind you know

  653. The person that you promised you were going to be there at seven

  654. They may not think you're going to be there

  655. They might be sad that you're not going to be there

  656. They may think well next time he promises me he'll be there at seven

  657. They might not trust you

  658. But you're willing to risk that

  659. Because you think something important came up

  660. See, Jesus said you can't do that

  661. Whatever you say, that's it

  662. Now I want you to think about who God is

  663. Remember our lesson from last week

  664. Proverbs chapter 8

    Proverbs 8 chapter mention

  665. The first thing on the list to wisdom

  666. Does anybody remember what it was?

  667. The first thing on the list

  668. I happen to have the paper right here

  669. Psalms, it was Proverbs 8.32

  670. But this one's blank

  671. But fortunately I remember what it was

  672. Does anybody remember?

  673. They have their paper stuffed in their Bible

  674. Blessed are you if you keep my ways

  675. So if you do what God does, you'll be blessed

  676. God will take care of it

  677. So when God speaks, what happens?

  678. God said let there be light, what happened?

  679. There was light, right?

  680. Technically God said light be

  681. That's what it actually says in the Hebrew language

  682. It says light be and light sprung into existence

  683. As if it was waiting there to do exactly what God said

  684. Waiting just outside existence

  685. And it started, it began

  686. It became

  687. God is a creator and He creates with His voice

  688. And if you say I'll be there at seven

  689. Then you have created with your voice a condition

  690. Which means you will be there at seven

  691. Not you might be, not you will be if you can

  692. Right?

  693. That's why we did a lesson months ago about willfulness, right?

  694. That's why you say if the Lord so wills

  695. Meaning I could be wrong

  696. I'm saying I'm going to be there at seven

  697. But I could be wrong and God could be saying something different

  698. Bless you, I think

  699. Anyway, so God could be doing something different

  700. So God could not let me be there at seven

  701. Or Jesus could come again before then

  702. I wouldn't be there at seven

  703. So you say if the Lord wills, I'll be there at seven

  704. But if there's nothing else

  705. If the Lord doesn't cause a miraculous intervention to stop me from being there

  706. Then you're there

  707. Or the alternative

  708. Don't say you'll be there

  709. It says let your yes be yes and your no be no

  710. God's ways are like this

  711. Has God ever made a promise that He didn't keep?

  712. No

  713. Never been a promise that God didn't keep

  714. Now there are promises He hasn't kept yet

  715. Right?

  716. They're still in the works

  717. But God doesn't make promises and not keep them

  718. So we're like God

  719. You're made in the image of God initially

  720. But you're flawed because of your sin

  721. But now you've been reborn

  722. You're following the Lord

  723. When you say you're going to do something

  724. You do it

  725. To what extent?

  726. How far does it go?

  727. What does it have to cost me?

  728. What if it costs me my life?

  729. What if I have to die or risk death

  730. In order to be there like I said I would

  731. Or show up for that person like I said I would?

  732. Then you die or risk death

  733. Or in the first place

  734. You don't say you're going to do it

  735. Why?

  736. Because you're created in the image of God

  737. And you belong to Him

  738. And you're following His example

  739. Blessed are you if you keep His ways

  740. One of His ways is He does what He says

  741. He keeps His promises

  742. He creates with His voice

  743. And the list goes on

  744. So on the left side you have the commands

  745. By the time Jesus was preaching in this day

  746. That had been changed to

  747. If a man said I'll pay you 50 gold on payday

  748. Which was never gold because that's worth way too much

  749. If a man said I'll pay you 50 minas

  750. Like small copper coins on payday

  751. And he couldn't or he didn't

  752. Then there was a fine or a penalty or interest

  753. Like a late fee was built in

  754. But otherwise no big deal

  755. But if a man said I'll pay you 50 minas on payday

  756. Or on the house of God

  757. Or on the altar

  758. Or in the name of God

  759. Or on my head

  760. Then if he didn't do it

  761. It was punishable under law

  762. He could be put in debtors prison

  763. He could be killed

  764. For blaspheme

  765. That's the day they were living in

  766. I ask you are we living in the same kind of a day?

  767. There are so many people today that say they'll do whatever

  768. And they don't do it

  769. You can't

  770. You can't be like that

  771. You must be like Jesus commanded us to be

  772. Which is your yes is yes

  773. Your no is no

  774. Somebody says can you do this?

  775. You say no

  776. That settles it

  777. Or you shouldn't have said no in the first place

  778. They say can you do this?

  779. You say yes

  780. That settles it

  781. You do it

  782. If you have to get help from others

  783. If you have to get a third job

  784. If you have to bleed, sweat

  785. If you have to wake up late, go without sleep

  786. Go without eating

  787. If you can't be that firm about what you say

  788. Then don't say it

  789. And that's what Jesus was teaching

  790. It is a step up from

  791. Well if I don't do it I'll take a penalty

  792. If I don't do it people will mistrust me

  793. Or whatever

  794. You keep your promises

  795. I find it interesting that in the Christian world

  796. We see some men and women who will go the distance

  797. They'll do what it is that God called them to do

  798. No matter what it takes

  799. And they say I'll be there and I'll do it

  800. Alicia's here tonight leading worship with congestion in her chest

  801. Feels like crap, rather be home sleeping

  802. Right?

  803. Fighting it off

  804. I'm here teaching

  805. And I've taught a number of times when I've been sick

  806. RJ's had to preach for the first

  807. I don't know

  808. 20 times he preached

  809. It seemed like the enemy was after him

  810. And a lot of times he would get sick right before

  811. And yet he did it anyway

  812. Right?

  813. But you get sick working a Pizza Hut job or whatever

  814. And you call off

  815. While you're serving the Lord you said I would be there

  816. Right?

  817. And in fact most employers have emergency time off planned

  818. So you can call off a certain number of times

  819. When I was at Pizza Hut

  820. If you missed three times in six months you lost your job

  821. Met a lot of minimum wage employees

  822. And the rules were if you missed three times

  823. And you're like but I called off but I had a doctor's note

  824. But what it doesn't matter

  825. We need people who actually can and want to work

  826. And the restaurant doesn't run if the people don't show up

  827. And everybody was like freaked out by that

  828. I had a person had a doctor's note twice

  829. The third time they called off because they want to play football in their backyard

  830. And then they lost their job

  831. And they're like what?

  832. I can't believe I lost my job I had a doctor's note twice

  833. And yet the restaurant has to run and we can't hold your spot for you

  834. Because you said you would be here and you're not here

  835. But I was sick

  836. Yeah I understand that

  837. Two times you were sick and one time you were playing football

  838. And I get that I feel bad about that

  839. But you knew the rules you understand

  840. Voluntarily took the job knowing the rules

  841. Now you don't have the job you can get a job somewhere else

  842. And the next job you get I suggest you show up on time

  843. Every day in uniform

  844. Don't take time off

  845. It's not back then

  846. Sometimes now I think it is and things are changing

  847. But back then it wasn't reasonable to be sick three times and miss work in six months

  848. And now with COVID things have changed

  849. Right?

  850. But people can work when they're sick

  851. They just can't work when they're contagious

  852. Or they shouldn't

  853. And some jobs you can if you don't work with people

  854. Bottom line is Jesus was taking it a step further

  855. He was not backing it down

  856. The one verse I didn't read to you and I'll close on this

  857. Deuteronomy 23, 22

  858. Which is in between 21 and 23 which I did read to you

  859. Deuteronomy 23, 22

  860. I'll read it right out of the Bible

  861. This is the last thing we're going to close on

  862. 23, 22 says this

  863. 21 you'll recall says

  864. When you make a vow to the Lord your God you shall not delay to pay it

  865. For it would be sin in you

  866. And the Lord your God will surely require it of you

  867. 22 says, however if you refrain from vowing

  868. It would not be sin in you

  869. You shall be careful to perform what goes out from your lips

  870. Just as you have voluntarily vowed to the Lord your God

  871. What you have promised

  872. Notice that the second part of that it says

  873. You shall

  874. Be careful to perform what goes out from your lips

  875. Just as you have voluntarily vowed

  876. Just as you have voluntarily vowed to the Lord your God

  877. In other words, you should be careful to perform whatever goes out from your lips

  878. Is the let your yes be yes and your no be no

  879. But they had let that go

  880. And the question is do we live in a time where people have let it go

  881. You know that there was a time a couple hundred years ago

  882. That nobody ever signed a contract

  883. It wasn't cell phones or even telephones

  884. Two hundred years ago it wasn't even telephones

  885. Right, what year was that invented? Maybe

  886. Now, two hundred years ago we didn't have telephones

  887. Right, telegram

  888. Right, so it wasn't somebody in California providing something for

  889. So you went down to the store to buy what you needed

  890. And you couldn't pay for it and you told them you'd pay for it when you had the money

  891. There was no contract

  892. There was no sign on the dotted line, you said you'd pay

  893. Everybody knew you'd pay

  894. But now, two hundred years later

  895. You're thinking, always thinking about how they can get out of their commitments

  896. And that's not how it works

  897. In the kingdom of God, you do what you said you would do

  898. Or otherwise you don't say you would do it

  899. You say, but I messed up, I forgot, I didn't put on my calendar

  900. Or I didn't know I had another commitment

  901. You're responsible for that, you have to know if you had another commitment

  902. Right, so you shouldn't say yes without first checking your calendar

  903. Or if you don't keep your own calendar with your parents, your grandparents, or your wife or your husband

  904. First checking to make sure

  905. And if you're a man in the room and you didn't check your calendar or check with your wife first

  906. And you made a commitment and now you have to go back to your wife and say, I'm sorry, now I'm double booked

  907. And when I do that, I either find a way to make sure both works

  908. Or I take the hardest road

  909. Right, because that's what you do, that's what men do

  910. And if you're an adult female, you understand that when the appointment comes

  911. When the calendar is scheduled, when it's on there

  912. You have to be there, or you have to reschedule it

  913. Right, you said you'd be there

  914. And by the way, doctor's office is now charging fees when you miss your appointment

  915. And you don't renew your license plates until you get a ticket

  916. And the list just goes on and on

  917. Keep your commitments, let your yes be yes, your no be no, that's what he was talking about

  918. And anything other than that

  919. Like for example, if you would say, I know I should do this

  920. But I don't want to have to do it, so I'm not going to keep my commitment

  921. Anything other than that is considered as evil

  922. Okay, I'm pulling all these out here

  923. Let's see

  924. I'm going to get a bunch out because I'm going to use these up so I can buy new candy bars next week

  925. There we go

  926. That'll be enough

  927. Okay, so if your paper is at least half filled out, I'm bringing you candy

  928. So show me your paper

  929. Okay

  930. Okay

  931. All right, so we're going to close in prayer

  932. And then there are cookies and snack cakes and lemonade and cafeteria

  933. And I'll meet you there, let's pray together

  934. Father in heaven, this road that you set us on

  935. If we were to try to walk it without Jesus

  936. Would be virtually impossible

  937. We would get it right sometimes and wrong sometimes

  938. And when we got it wrong, the price to be paid would be too high

  939. When we got it wrong, we'd be too alone, we'd be too trapped outside

  940. We'd be too stuck in the darkness

  941. But Lord, now when we walk this road and do what it is

  942. That we try to do what it is that we're supposed to try to be the person we're supposed to be

  943. Make our yes, yes and our no, no

  944. When we screw that up, you're there with us

  945. You're in us and you can help us keep our promises

  946. And make it turn out the way it's supposed to

  947. And even correct us in the moment

  948. I think about the times where I said to myself

  949. Well, I'm going to say I'll do this

  950. And you said, don't do that

  951. And I couldn't think of any reason at all why I shouldn't say so

  952. But in my spirit, you were correcting me and saying don't

  953. And then when the time comes, there was something going on at that time

  954. That was completely outside my control and there was no way I could do it

  955. I thank you Lord that you protect godly men and women to try to follow you

  956. I also know that we get it wrong sometimes

  957. We're going to make commitments

  958. Sometimes we do it quick and we're not quite ready

  959. Whatever, we jump on ahead of you

  960. And I also know that Jesus' blood on the cross pays for that

  961. It covers it

  962. And so it's an impossible thing for a human being to say and do everything that they say

  963. And then it's an impossible thing for a human being to not say

  964. Because this life runs on commitments

  965. It runs on I'm taking care of my wife, I'm taking care of my kids, I'm taking care of my job, I'm paying my bills

  966. I'm following the law, following the rules

  967. It runs on commitment in a lot of ways

  968. And that's because without that, we would have a hard time relating with other people

  969. Because they want from us all the time and we have to know when to say no

  970. And they want from us and we have to know when it's right and we say yes

  971. And we need that wisdom

  972. And just as we talked about the wisdom from Proverbs 8

  973. And one of the things is following the ways that you've set before us

  974. And one of the ways that you've set before us is this way

  975. That our yes be yes and our no be no and anything more than that is evil

  976. We love you Lord

  977. We ask you to help us stand firm and do what's right and keep our commitments

  978. And we pray all this in Jesus' name

  979. Amen