Sermon
Honoring Womanhood
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You're listening to the Cross Kingdom Sermon of the Week, we hope you enjoy
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this message from Justin Carpenter. Oh hey, um, there's a picture of
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your beautiful pregnant wife up here, Cynthia Richie. I don't mean to put
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you on the spot, but did you have something that you wanted to release
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a little while ago? By chance? No? Okay, I could feel
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you over there, That's why I wanted to ask. So I guess I
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technically put you on the spot, even though I said I didn't want to.
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Sorry about that. Oh man. Oh and uh, correction on the
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building fund y'all, because Kim did the announce spens on Wednesday and between Wednesday
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and Friday. So the new number is five hundred sixty thousand, six hundred
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nine dollars and ninety four cents. And uh, we have we have a
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new concept drawing that we're going to be going over with the leadership Monday,
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and we are going to be consulting with an architect and so things are starting
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to move and we we are going to bless the land, y'all. We
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didn't forget about that. And uh, I just leaned over to Lease and
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I thought, what if we do something on the land for the fourth of
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July weekend. So anyways, we'll be brainstorming and and thinking about what might
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take place. UM, yeah, are ready doing good? I'm it's a
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i'ven't forty four this time, not twelve twenty, so that's I won't keep
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y'all till ten to one. Don't worry, I'll keep yall till one fifteen
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this time. We just get keep it going. UM. I actually just
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want to talk about how UM wives can honor their husbands this morning. And
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oh, just joking, lad, I'm surprised y'all didn't throw something at me
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like the day with the bees. Uh No, I am going to talk
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about honoring womanhood and uh but um, it's interesting this whole bee theme.
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I was in HB not Walmart yesterday and I ran into um an old friend
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of mine, Eric, and U. I roofed with him and his dad
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and we were catching up, telling them about where the land was, and
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and uh, he goes, oh yeah, he goes, I have some
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friends that have land just down from there, and he goes, I'm going
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to be putting bee hives on their property. And he goes, you know,
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that's really important. I'm like, okay, yes, I know.
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And then and then I'm in line fixing to leave after grabbing stuff, and
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there's um another friend of ours right behind us, and she was like,
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Hey, since I have you here, can I ask you a question?
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And she said, is your church you know, like like a denominator,
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like affiliated with like this, you know, like this big denomination or whatever
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and uh, and she mentioned another denomination that she was at, and that
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particular denomination right now is going through a lot of shakings and splits and different
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things, and and she goes. My dad said, it's just super important
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to be a part of a non denominational church, and so they're they're looking
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to make a move from where they're at, and I explained her, you
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know that we're you know, nondenominational independent. And it's it's interesting that those
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two conversations obviously the whole the bee, the cross pollination, and then m
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You're going to begin to see more and more dismantling of denominationalism in the days
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ahead, because God is stirring in the hearts of his people about kingdom and
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the Body of Christ. And I just I just leaned over to her and
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I just said, hey, there are no denominations in the Scripture. I
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said, either you're in or out. You're they're a part of the Body
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of Christ, or you're not. And that's a good reminder for us when
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when we are going to other streams that they are the body of Christ if
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they preach the Gospel period. And we have to be careful not to let
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not to focus on miners and allow those things to divide us. Which speaking
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of division, the role of a woman in church has been extremely divisive over
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the decades and lots of different opinions and exegesis on scripture, and I just
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I really want to try to paint in a clear picture of what I believe
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is absolutely biblical for the role of a woman. Don't get any tomatoes because
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it's hum there's no showmanism here. In fact, I'm gonna I'm gonna actually
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talk to you a little bit about why we have so many women minister in
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preach. And we've had people leave and get offended and walk out. I've
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watched them when a woman comes up over the years to minister. And so
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if you're wondering what we're doing is biblical, yes it is. And we
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just bless those that get offended. And there's a hundred other churches. I'm
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sure they can find one that don't like women. Hold on, that might
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have been a little hard. Let me soften that up. That was a
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little hard, y'all. Sorry, you're awake, though you're listening. Okay.
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Romans twelve ten love one another with brotherly affection. That wasn't so loving.
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I'm going to back up a couple degrees outdo one another and showing honor
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and first. Corithian's fourteen thirty four and thirty five says this is like the
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poster child scripture that everybody fights over, and it's the woman should keep silent
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in the churches, for they're not permitted to speak, but should be in
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submission. As the law also says, if there's anything they desire to learn,
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let them ask their husbands at home, for it is shameful for a
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woman to speak in church. Now, if you take that one scripture,
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that one scripture can literally split the church, and it has it's literally split
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denominations, and without going into the background and proper eggs of Jesus, you
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can take that scripture and it can become very abusive, very quickly, and
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we can begin to lose proper understanding. And so I just want to unpack
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that a little bit as we move forward. Okay, So it in Corinth
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they worshiped Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love, beauty, pleasure, and
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procreation. The worship of Aphrodite is believed to have started around the eighth century
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BC and fully developed by the time of classical Greece five ten to three twenty
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three BC. With the Temple of Aphrodite a top of the acro Corintheus mountain
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overlooking Corinth. Strobo writes what the culture was like, and the temple of
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Aphrodite was so rich that it owned more than a thousand temple slaves, courtesans,
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whom both men and women had dedicated to the goddess. And therefore it
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was also on account of these women that the city was crowded with people and
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grew rich. For instance, the ship contains freely squared their money, and
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hence the proverb not for every man is the voyage to Corinth. Moreover,
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it is recorded that a certain Cortesian said to the women who reproached her with
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the charge that she did not like to work or touch wool. Yet such
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as I am. In this short time, I've taken down three pieces.
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So from his letters to the Corinthians, Paul writes to a church compromised largely,
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I'm sorry, comprised largely of Gentile and Greek members. As new members
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of Christ, they bring with them their pagan and cultural influences such as glorifying
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wisdom and ecstatic utterances, eating meat offered to idols, promiscuity and the denial
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of bodily resurrection, and a society permitted prostitution, and the legal process of
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taking disputes to the city master magistrates was customary. So this gives you a
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little background, and it actually paints a picture of what Paul was dealing with
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in corinth And as he's beginning to address things and put proper governmental order.
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And verse thirty four and thirty five do not prohibit women or do not prohibit
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women from speaking in the church in either pulpit ministry, teaching, preaching,
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praying, provesyzing, or any other speaking function. These verses represent a quotation
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which is the most plausible and correct interpretation. Paul is quoting a saying from
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the oral law of the Jews, which is not intended to be understood as
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the writer's original declaration. So to simplify this, when they went into Babylonian
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captivity and they didn't have the scrolls and the parchments with them, oral torah
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began to take hold in the Jewish culture. And so you fast forward into
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the Gospels, and this is actually why Jesus was hammering them. He says,
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you take the traditions of men, and you nullify the power of God,
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because they took the oral torah and put it above the actual tora,
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the written Torah. Are you all with me? I know we're kind of
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in a little classroom setting. I'll back off all this in a sec but
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it's important because so many disputes, so many arguments, happen in the Church
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because we aren't good Boians. What did Paul say? The Burians were commended
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because they actually searched the scriptures to see whether or not what was being spoken
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to them was actually true. Today we'd call that fact check. Well,
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maybe not from Google's perspective, but give me a little lenience there. And
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so he's talking about the oral law. The evidence is compelling, diverse,
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and objective. This verse also allows for the natural flow of thought to remain
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uninterrupted with verses thirty four and thirty five. And I might add one thing
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here you have in the Book of Acts. I think it was Apollos his
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daughters had the gift of prophecy. Phillips. Sorry Apolos, he was there
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too, but um fact check, thank you. You do read the word.
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So Phillips there with his daughters with the gift of prophecy. So I
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have a question for you. If we're to understand that one scripture that's divided
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so much of the church with women and speaking in church, how is it
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that God turned around and gave women an oral gift that was designed to function
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inside of a church meeting. So there's something we're missing because God doesn't contradict
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himself. Correct. Okay, man, I'm holding back so many good things
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right now for the sake of not getting smacked by my wife leader. Okay.
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So uh yeah, after almost twenty three years you begin to learn a
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little, I think sometimes. So. Paul also has no need to specifically
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address women as they only cause of interrupting the service. As some scholars suggest,
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Paul's conclusion in verse forty is more than adequate to tell the Corinthians that
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both men and women must be careful to minister in the gifts of the spirit
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and an orderly fashion. The focus of chapter fourteen is on the proper use
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of spiritual gifts, tongues, and prophecy. So what kind of silence does
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First Corinthians fourteen thirty four demand. The entire question hinges upon the meaning of
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the Greek verb psigo or psigoa whatever. I'm not a Greek expert, forgive
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me the word. The word never did demand absolutely unqualified silence. Rather,
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the nature of the silence is determined by the context. The verb psigoa isn't
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found very frequently in the Bible, and act only nineteen times in the Greek
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Old Testament and less than a dozen times in the New Testament. But a
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careful examination of the word reveals that the context identifies the nature of the silence.
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So, for instance, when the Israelites were pursued by the Egyptians and
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arrived at the Red Sea, they're terrified. They complied that their plight to
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Moses. He told them Jehovah would fight for them, so they were to
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hold their peace or be silent. It's that word. Obviously, they didn't
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mean that they were to be forbidden to speak at all. Rather, the
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kind of silence commanded was that they were to cease their faithless whimpering. When
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David described certain hardships associated with his transgressions, he kept silence as his bones
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wasted away Psalm thirty two three. But he was not speaking of general silence,
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but keeping silence regarding his sin. After the disciples witnessed the transfiguration scene,
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they held their peace, ie remained silent. That doesn't mean they didn't
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talk at all. Rather, they did not discuss with others what they've seen
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on the mountain. So the context the First Corinthians fourteen now to first the
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verb psycho is used three times in this chapter. One who has the gift
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of tongues is to keep silence if he has no interpreter to use with his
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audience. If a brother is speaking and another receives an immediate revelation, the
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former is to keep silence. It's the same verb here, so you're getting
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context that it's not Paul's not telling women they have to be completely silent in
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church. Are you with me? And sometimes when we don't go back to
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the original language, we lose a lot of context. So finally, women
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are to keep silence. It's the same deal. So in that context,
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what he's addressing, he's saying, hold your peace. He's not saying women
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can speak and teach and prophesy. You see the entire Bible flooded with women
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being used of God. Deborah Ruth, I mean, I have a whole
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list, just over and over and over, and so these are the things
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as we according to Acts three, living in the restoration of all things.
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These are things that must properly be put back in proper order. Because if
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we're going to become Joel's army, and we're going to become a full expression
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of who Jesus truly is and express that to the earth, then we actually
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have to understand who we are in Him, our identity, our value,
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and our function. Does that make sense? Okay? Two of you?
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Awesome. So Paul's direction of women does not demand that she be absolutely silent
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at church. Rather, in harmony with what the apostles taught elsewhere, the
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woman is not to speak or teach in a way that violates her gender role.
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Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing
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honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you
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of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
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So if you go back to this function we as husbands with the responsibility we
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have, if we start acting like butt heads to our wives, guess what
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happens. The Holy Spirit all of a sudden becomes a witness against you and
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says, hey, taps you on your shoulder. You want to know why
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your prayers aren't being answered yet, because I'm acting as a witness between you
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and the wife of your youth. Knock it off. Repent. So,
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men, if you've been hard on your wives and you're wondering why things aren't
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working out the way you think they should, repent. Now everybody's mad at
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me. All I heard. All I heard in that clapping was women's soft
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hands. You know, if everybody's not offended by the end of a service,
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I guess we just didn't have church. I don't know. First Timothy
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five one to five, do not rebuke an older man, but encourage him
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as you would a father, Younger men as brothers, older women as mothers,
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younger women as sisters. In all purity, honor, widows who are
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truly widows. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first
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learn to show Godliness to their own household and to make some return to their
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parents. For this is pleasing in the sight of God. She who's truly
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a widow left all alone, has set her hope on God and continues in
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supplications and prayers night and day. My father in law always messes with me,
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and he always says when he gets older, I'm gonna have to change
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his diaper. And I'm like, yeah, no, not happing a dude.
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I love you, Pops wherever you are live stream or is he here?
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I can't see in the back. It's a little dark. It's probably
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good somebody. You're probably offended with my diaper joke. So that kind of
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sounded like Piper's voice in the back. I'm not quite sure. But man
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and woman were both made in the image of God, and I want to
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I want to say something in this final harvest, if you will, I
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think part of I believe wholeheartedly the one of the greatest things that will come
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out of this outpouring and harvest is actually the restoration of family that we were
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because right now we are the most fatherless generation yet in America. But the
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role you all have to understand something. The part of the role the Holy
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Spirit. When you actually look at the description of the Holy Spirit, the
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Holy Spirit represents what we would say is the feminine side of God. And
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so it's it's when the father and the and the mother are actually in their
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roles, functioning the way God designed, that we actually see a full,
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fuller picture of who the Father is. Some of you're like her, uh
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so, an excellent wife who can find she's far more precious than jewels.
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The heart of her husband trust in her. Let me say something back in
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twenty ten, and I've shared this before, but back in twenty ten,
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we were in Denver. I was under just heavy burden of trying to figure
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out where we were going to move next. We knew we had to leave,
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and Lisa had gotten a job offer back in Virginia. I love Virginia.
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I love the Blue Ridge Mountains, and I finally came to the grips
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where, Okay, we're going to move to Virginia. That's fine, and
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so I'm all settled in and then Jill Reno comes along out of Houston.
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Jill grew up here with Lisa, and she offers Lisa a job, and
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I was at the Power and Love Conference on the front steps between sessions.
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This is when this first started, and all of a sudden, Lisa was
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not sure if she wanted to take the job in Virginia or take the job
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in Houston. Well, this disturbed my peace significantly. So I'm on the
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front. I'm on the front steps the Power and Love Conference, hence the
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second word love, and I'm in an argument with Jill on the phone,
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but out of my marriage, don't you. I'm like, literally an argument
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with her being very spiritual at the Power and Love Conference so we can go
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love people into the kingdom as I am not being loving and I'm full of
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fear and feel like I'm out of control in that moment. And so I
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get home and where I'm like we everything was fine till Jill called and we're
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and I'm sitting there and it's a Saturday morning and we're in a little two
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too apartment in Aurora, Colorado, and uh, we're there, Lisa and
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the kids, Mike is a baby, and they're in the other room.
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I'm praying and I'm like, Lord, just tell me what we're supposed to
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do. And I'm I'm like, and all of a sudden, I hear,
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clear as day, well the answer is easy, and I'm like,
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it is so he's got my attention right, And all of a sudden,
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I hear, are you ready, men? Hold on to your heinie.
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The Holy Spirit says, let her choose. This season isn't about you.
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And all of a sudden, all the weight and the burdens came off on
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my shoulders. I throw that door open. I go hon. I got
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the answer, and she I was like yeah, And she's like, what
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I said, you choose? She goes, what, No, I'm not
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choosing. I'm like, uh nope, I said, oh, yes you
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are. I said, the Lord said, this season's not about me,
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because this past season in Denver, I was fully engaged with rich and in
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the school and worship team and teaching and all this stuff, and manytimes,
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she felt like she was just at the house wondering what she's supposed to be
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doing. And so the Lord actually flipped the rolls and I was a stay
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at home dad for about a year and a half. You will never hear
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me trash talk. Stay at home mothers. I know what you do and
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I do not want your job again. And but but it was like I
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got to get schooled and kind of like both sides of parenting and yeah,
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and then and then it got so comical. Even Lisa would come home and
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be like, well, why is there not ready? I'm like, you
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think I got a skirt on. So we ironed out all those, uh,
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all those deals. But I, um, it's kind of comical because
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my mom moved my brother and I I said, comical, now I'm crying.
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She moved us into her parents home. I think I was about five
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years old, and my grandmother helped raise us. And so I've always I've
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always had a kind of even like now with ministry, there's so many women
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around me, and uh, but it was like, you know what,
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as you grow up, God's preparing you and all these different ways in details,
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whether you recognize it or not. And so I just thought I would
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share that story because so many times in marriage counseling couples they get into I
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can't tell you how many times I've heard where the husband really doesn't get it,
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like the men are clueless to what women deal with when they're stay at
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home mom, and they think like, well, they should be doing all
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these extra things. Men, shut up. If you've not and I mean
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that in the most pastoral way, if you have not been if the roles
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have not been reversed, and you've not experienced that, you really don't have
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a clue about what they go through and the importance of their role raising up
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our children. It takes both of us, right, and so it takes
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the husband and the mother. It takes all that nurturing and loving and support.
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You know, one type of trauma is actually a lack of nurture.
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So not having the things that you actually needed in life is a form of
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trauma. And so that that part of the tenderness of God, the the
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compassion of God, the gentleness of God. We see a fuller picture of
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God. When husband and wife are actually acting as one, we see a
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full picture. And so the heart of her husband trust in her, and
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he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not harm.
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All the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax and works
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with willing hands. She's like the ships of the merchant. She brings her
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food from afar. She rises while it is yet night, and provides food
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for her household and portions for her maidens. She considers a field and buys
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it with the fruit of her hands. She plants a vineyard. So this
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is painting a picture of a virtuous woman. And she is multitasking on so
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many sides. And so it's like, Lisa, I will come home after
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a day of ministry, and if we're not going someplace to meet somebody,
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or a graduation or something, or awards, of which we've done three this
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week, she will then be working on other jobs. She worked over a
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year to save money so she can take coal on vacation for his graduation next
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week, and for over a year, and I'm messed up today. Who
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She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong. She perceives that her
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merchandise is profitable. Her lamp does not go out at night. Lord,
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would they start crying to please? She puts her hands to the staff,
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and her hands hold the spindle. She opens her hand to the poor and
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reaches her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for
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her household, for all her household, or clothed in scarlet, she makes
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bed coverings for herself. Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Do you
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think that this description is worthy of honor? Just a little brain? You
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better, you better go like like this. Yeah, Daisy elbowed them.
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Remember again, one of my favorite scriptures I keep camping out on is in
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Romans, and it says outdo each other with honor. What if we're reminded
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of these characteristics and marriage. What if you know, we talk about core
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values and how we build culture with that. What if when we're seeing our
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spouse doing these things that we stay consistent with, actually acknowledge, acknowledging it
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and giving thanks. If we spent more time acknowledging the things that we were
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doing correctly with each other and thanking each other and blessing each other and honoring
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each other, what would our marriages look like. So, if you're having
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marriage difficulties this morning and you're not doing well, honor love says Love covers
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a multitude of sin. How about this, James one night, Especially you
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prophetic people James one nineteen, be quick to listen, slow to speak,
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and slow to become angry, because the anger of man does not produce the
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righteousness of God. What if we're actually quick to listen. What if we
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don't try to jump to conc inclusions, what we believe the other one is
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thinking, or the motive for why they just did something. Her husband is
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known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land. She
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makes linen garments and sells them. She delivers sashes to the merchants. Strength
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and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.
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She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her
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tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat
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the bread of idleness. Like listen. I had two boys, and when
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I was at home with the boys, Cole was in kindergarten, so he
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was out of the house all day. Mica would sleep two and a half
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to three hours every single day for a nap, And that was my glory
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time. I got to spend two and a half to three hours with the
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Lord. Some of y'all in here have like eighteen kids and women I have
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no. I mean, Mills, you got six, he's got six,
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you got five? No, four, Sorry, I'm not prophesying. And
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and then Daisy, he's got at least ten and another one on the way,
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Like, how did you even have time to get ready this morning?
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You did your hair yesterday, Daisy slept like this all night in a chair.
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Tomorrow morning is church. Don't touch me strap her in, but no,
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seriously, like when Jesus said, do unto others as you would have
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them do unto you, husbands, Like when you come home, I know
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you may be doing. When I was roofing in one hundred and forty degrees
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on a roof, I mean, it wore you out. But one thing
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I started to do, I don't know, some years ago. I don't
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want to get corrected on the timeline, but I started to help out with
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dinner more like, I started cooking more and more and helping clean up after
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dinner. And of course, you know Lisa's not at home now. We're
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both running and gunning. But it's just those little things. You don't end
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up with a good marriage because you just rolled the dice and it just happened.
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You end up with a good marriage because you work at your connection.
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You work at keeping your connection. You grow in the skill of laughing at
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each other when you're grumpy. I was grumpy yesterday and I hadn't eaten all
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day. It was like four o'clock. I was tired, and uh,
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and I'm angry and uh, you know I had I need to eat to
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keep up my girlish figure. And um. Anyways, Lisa could have Lisa
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could have justifiably joined the spin cycle of grumpiness and we could have had an
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argument. Instead, she trash talked me for about thirty seconds and started laughing
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and not mocking, but just laughing. I knew what she was doing.
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I knew she wasn't trying to mock me. And then she came up to
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me to give me a hug, and I was like a hugger. I
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laugh. I'm like, okay, I'm better. We kiss and don't argue.
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So, but seriously, stopped taking each other. Stop. I should
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say, stop taking yourselves. So seriously, we have enough to navigate in
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this crazy world right now. We don't need to be at odds with each
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other and our home right and we are to be a picture when the marriage
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is correct. It's actually prophesying the love of Jesus for the church. Listen,
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So you want to live a lifestyle of evangelism, So many of these
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things that we don't think of actually help to solidify your voice, and I
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mean the voice of your life, not just the words you're speaking. And
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so when we begin to wait, y'all, who's been married more than forty
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years? In here? Raise your hand? One? Two? Three?
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Yeah, give him a big hand. Who's been married more than and fifty
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two? All right? Are we down to two? Who's who's been married
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more than fifty three years? Chad's son put his arm up, he's like
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fourteen. So how many years y'all been married? Fifty and a half?
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What about y'all? Oh, y'all are within six months? When I wish
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I had something to like throw to you or something, all you said fifty
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two? Oh, up there, fifty two? Okay, from the balcony,
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folks, where's my cannon? Here's a shirt food. So her children
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rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also and he praises her.
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Many women have done excellently, but you surpassed them all. Charm is deceitful,
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beauty is vain. But a woman who fears the Lord is to be
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praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works
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praise her. In the gates that's what brings the issue of authority Ruth.
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And I'm sorry, Esther says, for if you keep silent at this time.
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Wait a minute, here's the word silent, saying, don't keep silent,
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for if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will not
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rise for the Jews. The I'm sorry, relief and deliverance will rise for
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the Jews from another place. But you and your father's house will perish.
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And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time
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as this, this issue of not being silent, Esther. So as I
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land this, I just want to I just want to give you some quick
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scripture references and how many times women are actually mentioned in the Bible. Obviously
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Mary, and there is a whole host of scriptures from the Gospels. Peter's
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mother in law, the daughter of Jarius, his wife, the woman with
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the issue of blood, Christ's sister. Now not all of these are great
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examples. Some of them were Stinkers Herodias, Herodias's daughter, the women and
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children at the feeding of the five thousand as well as the four thousand,
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the woman in Canaan, the young daughters of the woman the mother of Zebede's
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children, the women who anointed Jesus, the maiden to whom Peter denied,
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the wife of Pilot, Mary Magdalene married, the mother of James, the
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widow who gave two mights, Salomee and many other women who came up with
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Jesus from Galilee, Elizabeth and Luke Anna and Luke two. The widow of
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Naine Sinners who's washed Jesus's feet with her hair, the woman who had been
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healed, the wife of Choosa, Susannah, Martha, Mary of Bethany,
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certain women of the company, women with the spirit of infirmity, the woman
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that was which bewailed and lamented, the women that followed Jesus, the women
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that went to the empty tomb, the Samaritan woman at the well, the
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woman caught an adultery, the mother of the man born blind married, the
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wife of Cleophus, his mother's sister. The apostles gathered in prayer and supplication
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with the women. And this list goes on and on and on and on
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and on and on that with how many times in the role of women and
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the importance of what they've done, you have Esther Ruth, Deborah, all
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of these powerful women that God used in Israel. Deborah was a prophetess and
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a judge, and she governed, She judged Israel. Rhoda Lydia, chief
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and honorable women of the Greeks, Priscilla, the Four Daughters of Philip fact
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check, Paul Sister Drusilla, Bernice, Mary of Rome. The list goes
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on and on and on. And this, this list I'm reading from is
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literally all New Testament. And then there's a whole list of all Old Covenant
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women repeated in the New Covenant. On top of that, UM, I
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don't know if anybody is in here. Um, let me see how to
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do this. If you feel like you were shut down in the church and
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told you couldn't actually women I'm speaking of, and we're told that you could
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not speak or teach with with the role of God's gifting over your life and
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you have, um, you're still kind of wrestling with this. Could I
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just see a show of hands? Okay? Would y'all come forward? Is
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that okay? Please? Sean and Josh, will you come forward up here?
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Please? If I can get all you amazing women to kind of huddle
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up there, and then if you'll grab that mic and if y'all would come
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up here and join me, please, So as leaders in the Body of
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Christ, we just want to stay in the gap on behalf of other men,
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other leaders and other ministries that did not see your value, that stepped
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on you, held you back, betrayed you, whatever the offense was.
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And we stand in the gap, and we asked that you would forgive us
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for not seeing your proper role in the Body of Christ. And each of
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you have been given gifts and callings, and we just want to say that
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there's absolutely room here for what you're gifted in and called to do. And
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if y'all want to say anything, yeah, we just we bless you guys.
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Everything that has been stuffed back and not released. We just ask for
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a multiplication and blessing and release of that now in the name is you just
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opened doors, open windows, clear paths, and a multiplication of what the
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Lord has put in each of you to be released. In Jesus name,
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Lord, I thank you for powerful women. I thank you for the wisdom
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that they bring. Thank you for in my own life, just the the
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edges knocked off of me by their wisdom and beauty and heart of my wife.
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And so I pray for these women up here as us a man standing
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in the gap for them, and and I pray that their value shines through
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everywhere they go in the future. Thank you for the women of this church.
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I can't imagine if there's a room for a man, it would just
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be a disaster. So, uh, yeah, it's like a floodgate,
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right, it's been pent up for all these years. We're glad you guys
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are going to release it here. Yeah, we receive it. And so
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um if y'all just hold your hands out so Holy Spirit, I just asked
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right now that you would wash over them like a wave, Lord, and
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just bring refreshing and just wash those places of wounding from leaders, from their
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minds and their hearts. Lord, lift the burdens and lift any expectations to
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be overlooked again. And now, Lord, I just asked that you would
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bless every mother here, every woman here this morning, that you would strengthen
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them, Lord, that you would cause old dreams to come back again,
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that you would invite them into that place of dreaming with you. Lord,
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that you would open doors that no man can shut. Lord, that you
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would guide them and lead them, and that you would just bless them for
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putting up with us for so long. In the mighty name of Jesus.
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Amen, all right, thank you for listening. For more messages and other
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