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David: Part 1 - A Life in Pursuit of the King

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  1. Welcome to the River City Church podcast and a message by our

  2. lead pastor Jason Powers. Our prayer is that this message

  3. would inspire and encourage you, build your faith and point you

  4. to the life changing love of Jesus.

  5. May you enjoy the goodness of God as you follow him today.

  6. Good morning, church. How are you guys doing?

  7. Who who all been on vacation already?

  8. Any June, all July. All right, save the best for the

  9. end of summer. All right, let me introduce

  10. myself. My name is Brian Schneider and I

  11. have the pleasure to serve as the executive pastor here at

  12. River City. And I'm just honored they'll

  13. share God's word with you this morning.

  14. So let's begin in prayer. Dear Heavenly Father, we thank

  15. you for this day. We ask you to open our hearts

  16. and our minds just to hear from Your Word.

  17. Lord, you are loving God who pursues US daily.

  18. Lord, I pray that we can live faithfully to You and receive

  19. all the blessing that you have for us.

  20. And I pray Amen. All right, I received something

  21. concerning this past week. I received an invite to my 20th

  22. high school reunion. I have never gone on a high

  23. school reunion, but I'm thinking about going on this one.

  24. And then I started to think, would I even recognize anybody I

  25. went to high school with? And so I pulled out photos from

  26. high school just to see, don't do that.

  27. It does not make you feel good, right?

  28. As I'm looking at these old high school photos, I'm looking at

  29. what I'm wearing. I'm like, Oh my gosh, what was I

  30. thinking? Why did I care so much about

  31. what people thought and what cars we drove and what we

  32. pursued? And we were just chasing silly,

  33. silly things. And it's easy now looking back

  34. to say, oh, man, yeah, we were foolish.

  35. We were young and we chased empty things.

  36. How many of you still play the tuba, right?

  37. That was a waste of time. How many of you are please still

  38. playing football? No, now you're getting surgery

  39. on your knees and your back because you played football,

  40. right? So there's so much to look back

  41. and, and, and to just regret. And so since I just regretted a

  42. lot of stuff looking at those photos this week, I want you to

  43. share with me in that. And so one thing that is a what

  44. happens throughout the decades is close change.

  45. And one thing you can look at from generation to generation is

  46. what popular jeans were at the time.

  47. And so I know you did it because back then we all wanted to be

  48. loved and be popular. So I'm going to have everyone

  49. just own what jeans you wore in high school, what the popular

  50. style was. So if you went to high school in

  51. the 70s and you wore those flared bell bottom jeans, hands

  52. up, let me see it. Own it.

  53. You did it. It's embarrassing, but you all

  54. did it all right. And then those who went to high

  55. school in the 80s and spent all their money on those designer

  56. jeans are those awful acid wash jeans.

  57. Hands up, own it. You did it.

  58. It's embarrassing, but you all did it all right.

  59. If you went to high school in the 90s and guys, you were, you

  60. thought your Backstreet Boy, you wore those baggy jeans and

  61. girls, you wore those high rise, AKA mom jeans.

  62. Put those hands up. Own it.

  63. You did it. If you look at the pictures, it

  64. looks awful. Your hair is all poofy.

  65. Jeans were too high. Own it.

  66. We did that. It's embarrassing, but we did

  67. it. And if you went to high school

  68. in the 2000s, this is my generation.

  69. I'm going to own it. I had on those ripped jeans,

  70. right way ripped, destroyed, easily come apart.

  71. And then, ladies, those low rise jeans, you were showing a lot of

  72. waste back then. Own it.

  73. If you wore those jeans just to fit in, we did it.

  74. And then finally, the 2000 tens, those skinny jeans, the jeans

  75. you got to lay on your bed just to get them on, right?

  76. Some of you probably still have some on.

  77. Go ahead and own it. You are the skinny jeans

  78. generation. Own it.

  79. You. You cared more about being cool

  80. than the blood circulation. That's all right.

  81. So we can all look back and realize there was a time in our

  82. life that we were foolish, that we chased empty things that just

  83. didn't amount to much. And the reason I bring that up

  84. is this much like our Christian faith, there was a time in our

  85. life or we didn't know Christ and we didn't know our King.

  86. And so we chased everything this world had to offer and we sought

  87. validation in the world. We we put our identity and what

  88. sports we played and all those stuff as Christians, we didn't

  89. know any better. So we chased all the things of

  90. the world. And one thing, hopefully now as

  91. we move on in our faith, we've learned that those things were

  92. empty. Because when you got one, was it

  93. enough? No, then you had to pursue

  94. something else and something better and something better.

  95. And so that is where we're at in our faith is God has grace and

  96. love for us. And he's saying this is a

  97. process of sanctification. You're now in a period between

  98. when you got to know your King and before you'll stand before

  99. your king. And this is a time to be

  100. faithful because God loves us and he wants to bless us.

  101. And he says, you know what? I bless faithfulness.

  102. You know what? It's going to lead you.

  103. Nowhere is chasing the empty things of this world that will

  104. one day, one day be destroyed. And so that's what God desires

  105. from us. He desires faithfulness.

  106. Our God says that you can't have two masters.

  107. You're either going to serve one and hate the other, or you're

  108. going to devote yourself to 1 and despise the other.

  109. And so where we are, if you believe in Jesus as your savior,

  110. you believe God is king, then one thing we believe is that

  111. what God has for us is better than what this world can offer

  112. us. But we live in a world with

  113. social media that's doing its hardest to try to get us to

  114. chase empty and meaningless things.

  115. And here's what I don't want to happen one day.

  116. I don't want us to stand before our King and regret all these

  117. empty things we chased and miss out on all the good, lasting and

  118. permanent things that God was hoping to give us.

  119. We don't want to miss out on the blessing of God.

  120. He loves us. He's always going to forgive us.

  121. He's going to pursue us always, and He wants great things from

  122. us. But if we chase empty things,

  123. we're going to miss out on the good.

  124. Things of God. So what I want us to the to just

  125. go over this morning is 3 characteristics of a faithful

  126. follower of God. And our goal is not perfection.

  127. We cannot be perfect. This is why we needed Jesus to

  128. come and die on the cross for us because God knows we are bent

  129. towards emptiness and sin. We can't be perfect.

  130. God doesn't expect us to be perfect.

  131. He just hopes that we're faithful.

  132. And he's saying I want faithfulness for you because

  133. it's what's best for you. I want to bless you and do great

  134. things in your life, but to receive that you got to be

  135. faithful. And so we're going to go over

  136. three things God desires and a faithful follower of him 3

  137. characteristics. And how we're going to flush

  138. those out is we're going to flush them out through the

  139. example of David because we're, we got started in this series,

  140. the life of David and it's a life in pursue the king and the

  141. king is not David. We're not pursuing David or

  142. pursuing our king. And we're looking at David

  143. because at the end of his life, God said, you are faithful

  144. follower of me. And because of that, I'm going

  145. to bless you and do great things through you and your family.

  146. And that's what we want when we stand before our king.

  147. Now, I don't know how you were as a high schooler, but I, I

  148. often learn from good examples, but I even learned even more

  149. from bad examples, right? And I had all the sibling that

  150. taught me a lot, right? And so there's also a bad

  151. example we have and, and first Samuel, and that's King Saul,

  152. the first king of Israel. That guy was chasing everything

  153. in this world. And ultimately God says that's

  154. not faithfulness. And so I want us to look at

  155. these two characters, the first king of Israel and David, the

  156. second king of Israel, and compare and contrast and see

  157. what we can learn from them in a good example and a bad.

  158. So our first characteristic that God desires for us is that God

  159. desires for us to pursue and follow him.

  160. He's saying, look, I want to bless you, but to do that, you

  161. got to pursue and follow me. This is what faithfulness to me

  162. looks like. It's pursuing to follow me at

  163. times. You're going to get caught up

  164. and tricked by this world to chase empty things.

  165. That's fine. I could forgive that.

  166. But point yourself towards me because I will do greater things

  167. than you than you ever can imagine if you just point your

  168. life towards me. So let's see how Saul does in

  169. this First Samuel 1311 through 14.

  170. I'll give you a little background on Saul.

  171. The people as as Greg right up here, the people rebelled

  172. against God. They because we're broken.

  173. We couldn't say faithful to God. And so they asked God for a

  174. human king because they said a human king we can manipulate to

  175. do our bidding, but God, we can't manipulate it.

  176. This doesn't work. He doesn't fall for it.

  177. And so out of their sin and rebellion against God, they

  178. asked for a human king because they know they could pressure a

  179. human king to to give them what they wanted.

  180. And that was all the things this world had to offer.

  181. And so here Saul is, is been chosen by God.

  182. He's the biggest and best of his nation.

  183. They say he's a head of tall, a head above the rest, right?

  184. Everyone's looking up to him. Great leader.

  185. A lot of times if you're tall, you get picked for leadership

  186. positions, right? This is Saul.

  187. And so he's, he's leading his army, getting ready for battle,

  188. cause the, the enemies of God and his nation were coming up

  189. against him. And every time Israel went to

  190. battle, they were outnumbered, and it was scary.

  191. And so he knows what he's supposed to do as king.

  192. He's supposed to wait. And they go to battle when God

  193. says they go to war because God gives them the victory.

  194. And the people knew this. And so he's up there and he's

  195. waiting, and he's been waiting and waiting.

  196. And the prophet is not coming on time.

  197. And so he sees his people start to leave the battlefield, and

  198. he's counting the number of swords and Shields and Spears

  199. leaving. And that's where he put his

  200. trust because he was pursuing the world.

  201. And so he freaks out and he says I'm not going to.

  202. Wait on God, I'm going to go ahead and just do the blessing

  203. and then the people feel confident we can go to war.

  204. As soon as he does this, the prophet Sam becomes and look

  205. what he says to him in verse 13. Then Samuel says to Saul, you

  206. have made a foolish choice. You have not obeyed the

  207. commandment that the Lord your God has given you.

  208. Had you done that, the Lord would establish your Kingdom

  209. over Israel forever. But now your Kingdom will not

  210. continue. The Lord has sought out for

  211. himself a man who is loyal to him.

  212. The Lord has appointed him to be the leader of his people.

  213. For you have not obeyed, but the Lord's commanded you.

  214. God is seeing as Samuel, He's. Like you're about the wrong

  215. things, man. You're investing and putting

  216. your trust in the number of swords and Spears.

  217. My Kingdom is bigger than that. That's what the world trusts,

  218. and if you trust in that, it's going to let you down.

  219. He's saying, pursue me. I promise you what I have for

  220. you is better than anything this world has to offer.

  221. Stop pursuing and trusting empty things in this world.

  222. They'll only let you down. They won't fulfill you.

  223. We put our hope in that car. We get that car, and then our

  224. neighbor gets a better one. And then we're like, oh, now I

  225. need a better one, right? We know this about the world.

  226. It's false promises, but God's saying, if you want me to bless

  227. you, you want me to do great things for you, just pursue me.

  228. God always pursues us. He will never abandoned us.

  229. He will always forgive us. All he asked in return is just

  230. for us to pursue him. He's like a parent of a teenager

  231. saying, look, I love you. I'll do anything for you.

  232. Just show me a little bit of that back.

  233. Come on, work. With me, that's what God desires

  234. for us. But for Samuel or for Saul?

  235. He just wasn't faithful. He was about.

  236. The things of this world, that's what he was investing in,

  237. putting his trust in. Now let's look at David and

  238. First Samuel 1745 through 47. You guys know this story.

  239. This is the most famous story and scripture as far as what we

  240. teach in Bible school, right? Everyone knows David and

  241. Goliath. Everyone knows this story.

  242. And just to give you a little context, they was probably

  243. around 12 years old at this time.

  244. And Israel again is being threatened by enemies, the

  245. Philistines, and they're outnumbered 3 to 1.

  246. And so Saul has his troops there, and he's afraid because

  247. he's greatly outnumbered. And remember, he put his trust

  248. in swords and Spears. And he says, man, we don't have

  249. enough to beat these guys. And not only that is they had

  250. this giant Goliath who's standing in front of their army

  251. guys probably like 8 feet tall things Shaquille O'Neal up

  252. there, right? He's intimidating and he's

  253. mocking Israel and mocking their God.

  254. And so David comes to deliver lunch to his brothers who are

  255. there getting ready for battle. And he hears this mocking of

  256. this, this soldier, this Philistine soldier, and he turns

  257. to everyone and. Goes guys, what are we doing?

  258. Let's go, let's go, let's go fight him.

  259. And everyone's like, no, we're not doing it, all right?

  260. We're not dying today. And the person who should have

  261. been fighting his soul, their biggest and best soldier, and he

  262. didn't want to risk his Kingdom, didn't run and risk his status.

  263. He didn't want to risk all the things he's gained on this

  264. earth. And so they let David, a 12 year

  265. old boy, go out to fight their battle.

  266. That shows you the unfaithfulness of this people.

  267. But here's the crazy thing about David is look at his attitude as

  268. he goes. If I was a 12 year old boy, I'd

  269. be like, I'm I'm this is it. I'm dead, right?

  270. Do I have the confidence he has to approach this giant and to

  271. know he's going to get victory because he knows who he serves.

  272. He's been pursuing the Lord. Look what he says in verse 45

  273. says, but David replied to the Philistine.

  274. You are coming against me with sword and spear and javelin, but

  275. I am coming against you in the name of the Lord of heaven's

  276. armies, the God of Israel's armies, who you have defied.

  277. This very day the Lord will deliver you into my hand.

  278. I will strike you down and cut off your head.

  279. This day I will give the corpses of the Philistine army to the

  280. birds of the sky and the wild animals of the land.

  281. Then all the land will realize that Israel has a God.

  282. And all this assembly will know that is not by sword or spear

  283. that the Lord saves, for the battle is the Lord's, and He

  284. will deliver you into our hand. Wow, that's some bold words

  285. coming from a 12 year old with a stick in a slingshot, right?

  286. But this is what David was about.

  287. Bio says he was a man after it was God's own heart.

  288. He said, look, I've, I've, I defeated a lion in a bear

  289. before, not because I'm awesome, but because my God is awesome

  290. and I pursue and follow him. And so if someone's mocking my

  291. God and I serve my God, let's go.

  292. And I know what my God can do. That's the attitude we want to

  293. have that confidence. So many times we get caught up

  294. putting our our faith and our trust in our savings account or

  295. in in our health and this and that and that stuff can all go

  296. in a minute. But let's maybe put our

  297. faithfulness and hope and something better and something

  298. laster more lasting, something that is eternal and that's our

  299. king. So God desires us for for us to

  300. pursue and follow him. Sounds simple, but it's not easy

  301. because we're broken and our world is broken.

  302. And God doesn't expect perfection.

  303. He just expects a little bit of faithfulness.

  304. And he's saying, if you're faithful, I will.

  305. Do more in you than you could ever realize #2 What God desires

  306. for us. Characteristic that God desires

  307. in His people and and and those who claim to faithfully follow

  308. Him is God desires for us to respond to and obey Him as King,

  309. God desires for us. To respond to and obey him as

  310. king. Now when I say respond to this

  311. is this is like repentance. This is submission.

  312. This is saying God saying, look, I know you're going to screw up.

  313. You're human beings. That's why to send my son to die

  314. for you. I know you're going to screw up.

  315. If you think you can live perfect, you're nuts because you

  316. are going to screw up. But how you respond to me is the

  317. difference, right? If you rebel against me, I'm

  318. going to give you to the empty things you chase.

  319. But if you respond to me with repentance.

  320. I'll do great things for you. I'll respond and with

  321. faithfulness to your faithfulness.

  322. And so let's see what Saul does in First Samuel 1514 to 24.

  323. Again, Saul is at battle. And every time Saul went to

  324. battle, when he got a victory, he would build a monument on

  325. that mountain to himself. That shows you what Saul was

  326. about to him. It wasn't the IT was, it wasn't

  327. God's victories. It was his victory.

  328. And here. He was told specifically by God,

  329. look, there's a group of people that harassed my nation coming

  330. out of Egypt and Israel and just out of pure evil, we're trying

  331. to be a thorn in Israel's side and, and hurt them and kill them

  332. at every moment for no reason. And he goes, so I'm going to

  333. bring justice for my people because our God loves us and he

  334. wants us to have justice. As he says, I'm going to command

  335. Israel to go and defeat these Amalekites, and I will give you

  336. victory. But Saul, listen to me because

  337. you screwed up last time. When you go do this, do this for

  338. me. Pursue me and my victory.

  339. Don't pursue yours. Don't rush on the.

  340. Plunder saying destroy it all. This is not about you getting

  341. rich. And let's look what Saul does.

  342. Saul rushes on the plunder and the prophet Samuel has to call

  343. him outlook. In verse 19 it says why haven't

  344. you obeyed the Lord? Instead you have greedily rushed

  345. upon the plunder and you have done what is wrong in the Lord's

  346. estimation. And verse 20 says then Saul,

  347. Saul said to Samuel, but I have obeyed the Lord.

  348. I went on the campaign, Lord sent me on.

  349. I brought back the king of a God, of a God of the Malachites

  350. after exterminating the Malachites.

  351. But the army took from the plunder some of the sheep, the

  352. cattle, and the best of what was slaughtered to sacrifice to the

  353. Lord and Gilgal. So there's actually 2 excuses

  354. that Saul gives here. The first one he's called out,

  355. right? He's saying I obeyed the Lord.

  356. And the prophet says what holy sheeps and cows I hear here.

  357. Clearly you didn't because you were commanded.

  358. To destroy these. And you kept them and his first

  359. excuse, and we do this sometimes when we get caught in sin and

  360. God lovingly challenges because God disciplines the ones he

  361. loves. So he's always going to come and

  362. challenge us either through other believers in our life or

  363. directly through him and and prayer as we seek him.

  364. And so he's challenged. And Saul gives this excuse.

  365. He says, OK, well, yes, you know, I did take those, but I

  366. did it for God. How many of us have done that?

  367. Oh, well, I know I don't have the money to buy this new car,

  368. but I bought it. But I'm going.

  369. To use it for the Lord. No, you're not.

  370. You did it so you can stroll around in a new car, right?

  371. We do this all the time. We try to justify our actions of

  372. pursuing the things of this world and try to say, hey, they

  373. can also be for God. God's like, no, it's either me

  374. or this. I don't care that you have a

  375. car. I just don't want you to love

  376. it, right? I just don't want you to love

  377. the things this world love me. And that's what Saul was doing

  378. as he was loving the the, the, the the status he was in more

  379. than he cared about what God thought of him and what God

  380. said. And then when that excuse didn't

  381. work and Samuel didn't buy it, he gives another one look in the

  382. second part of verse 24 says, for I was afraid of the army, so

  383. I obeyed their voice. His excuses.

  384. It's not my fault. It's the people's fault.

  385. How many times do we do that when we're caught in sin?

  386. Well, I only responded that way. It's because they were acting

  387. this way right? Every Co worker you have that

  388. you start to scuffle with, it's always their fault right?

  389. It's never ours. But if they don't know God, the.

  390. King, and we do. Why should we act that way?

  391. Right? So God desires for us to respond

  392. with repentance and obedience and saw because of what He was

  393. seeking in life, responded with excuses, manipulation and

  394. blaming of others. That's not going to get you

  395. anything but more emptiness that you pursue.

  396. God's saying, man, don't do that because you're chasing after

  397. empty things. Repent so I can bless you and

  398. work through you. Now let's look at David and

  399. Second Samuel 1213 through 17. You guys heard a little bit of

  400. this story last week with Pastor Jason talking about David's

  401. biggest mistake, right? He screws up again.

  402. God knows we're going to screw up.

  403. We're not perfect. So David messes up big time.

  404. He commits adultery and then he murders the husband just to help

  405. cover it up. And so he screwed up.

  406. He's not in a good place. And so because our God loves us,

  407. he's always going to pursue us and and seek us to correct

  408. ourselves. And so the prophet Nathan comes

  409. to David and he says, man, you screwed up, you're lost.

  410. You're, you're getting caught up and things that just don't

  411. matter. Things that one day when you

  412. stand before your king, you're going to regret.

  413. And look at David's response to this.

  414. Then David exclaimed to Nathan. I have sinned against the Lord.

  415. Nathan replied to David. Yes, the Lord has forgiven your

  416. sin. You are not going to die.

  417. Nonetheless, because you have treated the Lord with such

  418. contempt in this matter, the son who has been born to you will

  419. certainly die. Then verse 16.

  420. Then David prayed to God for the child and fasted he would even

  421. go and spend the night lying on the ground.

  422. The elders of his house stood over him and tried to lift him

  423. from the ground, but he was unwilling and refused to eat

  424. food with them. This is a different response

  425. than Saul. This is kind of what what

  426. brokenness looks like when we sin, that sin doesn't only just

  427. impact us and impacts the people around us.

  428. David sees this and he's he's sorrowful for the consequences

  429. that others are going to have to pay because of his brokenness,

  430. because his bad decision. And so he's sad, he's fasting

  431. and he's praying. He's saying, God, please, I know

  432. I deserve punishment, but please let others not suffer because of

  433. me. This is what repentance looks

  434. like. It looks like sorrow and sadness

  435. for our sin because we know that thing that we pursued, that we

  436. did isn't going to lead to anything but shame and guilt and

  437. sadness and hurt for other people.

  438. And so he felt that hurt. David felt that and he said,

  439. God, if there's any way you can have these others not suffer

  440. because of me, let that be. But ultimately your will be

  441. done. And then the punishment came and

  442. then his response is, OK, let's move forward.

  443. God, I own what I did and now let's move forward in obedience.

  444. That's what God wants. That's what faithfulness looks

  445. like. When we screw up and we're going

  446. to screw up and we're going to screw up a lot, what

  447. faithfulness looks like. If you want to see God work in

  448. your life, respond that way. Respond like David say, you know

  449. what, I own this, I screwed up. Let's go forward and do that

  450. with your spouse one time. They're like what?

  451. You never owned that right? You admitted you let let forgot

  452. to take out the trash, right? It requires a different response

  453. because we claim to be followers of a king who loves us and is

  454. going to forgive us and give us mercy and grace.

  455. So let's act like David. Let's own it.

  456. Let's respond with ownership and then let's move to obedience.

  457. Let's not be like Saul. And say, you know what, I'll

  458. give you excuse and manipulation excuse that's going to lead us

  459. nowhere. God wants to bless us, but he

  460. blesses faithfulness. Let's look at our third thing

  461. that God desires in a faithful follower of his in order to

  462. bless us and us be the the to live out the life that he

  463. intends for us. And this is God desires for our

  464. identity and value to be in serving our king.

  465. He wants our identity and value to be in serving king.

  466. This is one of the hardest ones that the realize.

  467. Because we don't necessarily realize what we're putting our

  468. identity and value in. In high school, we wore those

  469. Letterman jackets, right? Because that's where our

  470. identity was. It was tied to a sport, it was

  471. tied to a friend group. And So what we should know is

  472. wherever we put our time, our energy and our resources, that's

  473. where our identity is going to go.

  474. So if it's in your job, then your identity is going to be in

  475. your job. If it's in having the, the, the

  476. looking better than your neighbor, then that's where your

  477. identity is going to go. And we can see that.

  478. And Saul's life and first Samuel 18 seven through 9 verse 7 says

  479. the the women were playing the mute were playing the music and

  480. saying Saul has struck down his thousands, but David is 10s of

  481. thousands. This made Saul very angry.

  482. The statement displeased him and he thought they have attributed

  483. David 10s of thousands, but to me they have attributed only

  484. thousands. What does he lack except the

  485. Kingdom. So Saul was keeping an eye on

  486. David from that point on. Saul was jealous because what

  487. Saul valued in life was the the love of other people, the love

  488. of this world. Everything Hollywood tells us,

  489. this is what life's about. Chase after that.

  490. That's what Saul was about. It's about building his Kingdom,

  491. not God's Kingdom. And so when he hears like I

  492. would, I would like if people said, hey, this guy defeats

  493. thousands, that's good. But it wasn't good enough for

  494. Saul. Saul's like, man, they're saying

  495. better things about David than me.

  496. This can't be because my identity is in being the best.

  497. Unfortunately, that's what our high schools train us to think.

  498. They say you got to be the best to be of value.

  499. You got to be the best in the sports.

  500. You got to be all A's and B's. Then you get to college and

  501. you're like, oh, everyone has A's and B's, Like, I'm not

  502. special, right? And it kind of trains us to

  503. pursue the things of this world and put value in the thing in

  504. this world. And it's not till later in life

  505. we realized, man, those things were empty.

  506. I probably could have done just as fine getting B's, right?

  507. I could have been just as fine being on the second string and

  508. now still having my hip work. You know, those things were

  509. empty that we chased. But for Saul, you could see

  510. where he put his time, energy and resources was in building

  511. his Kingdom. And it shows you how he responds

  512. when he feels his identity and those things are threatened.

  513. Often times this is how we act and we don't realize our

  514. identity and value slowly creeps into things of this world until

  515. we're in it, right? Until something happens and and

  516. someone says something bad at you and work and you're like,

  517. whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, do you know who I am?

  518. Right, that pride comes. Out like Saul and says no, I did

  519. this, I deserve this reality. When we stand before our king,

  520. what do we what does he owe us? He's already done everything for

  521. us. So let's look at what a

  522. characteristic in the attitude that we should have and where in

  523. placing our identity and value. Let's look at David's life.

  524. I love this prayer at the end of David's life.

  525. And Second Samuel 718 through 22.

  526. This is at the end of David's life.

  527. This is the guy who killed the giant.

  528. This is the guy who's expanded his Kingdom three times to what

  529. it was. He's defeated every enemy

  530. handedly. He's built palaces and forts and

  531. is the man like no one's greater than him.

  532. And throughout the rest of history, everyone's like David

  533. was the man. And so he's, if anyone should

  534. have something to boast about, it's him.

  535. But David doesn't. He says, look, my identity isn't

  536. who I pursue and who I follow and that's God.

  537. And I know compared to my God, I'm nothing.

  538. And so God decides, he says, look, you are faithful.

  539. You are man after my heart, own heart.

  540. So I'm going to bless you and I'm going to do amazing things

  541. through your descendants and have the Messiah come through

  542. you. And after receiving that

  543. blessing, look at David's response and verse 18.

  544. King David went and sat before the Lord and said, Who am IO,

  545. Sovereign Lord, and what is my family that you should have

  546. brought me to this point? And you didn't stop there.

  547. O Lord God, You have also spoken about the future of your

  548. servant's family. Is this your usual way of

  549. dealing with men? O Sovereign Lord, what more can

  550. David say to you? You have given your servant

  551. special recognition, O Sovereign Lord, for the sake of Your

  552. promise and according to Your purpose, You have done this

  553. great thing in order to reveal it to Your servant.

  554. Therefore you are great, O Sovereign Lord.

  555. There is none like you. There is no God beside you.

  556. What we have heard of you is true.

  557. Wow. I wish I would respond like that

  558. all the time. This is the guy who's the best

  559. in the world at that time and his responses.

  560. Man, I am nothing. Who am I?

  561. God that you would bless me this way.

  562. I promise you what's going to happen is if we're pursuing God

  563. and we're responding God and we're obeying him and our

  564. identities in him, this is what God's going to do.

  565. He's going to bless you and work through you in ways you didn't

  566. think possible. And in those moments, we want to

  567. respond like David and say, wow, God, why me?

  568. Why are you doing this? Why did you bless me in this

  569. way? Why are you working through

  570. this? That's what we hope.

  571. That's what faithfulness looks like.

  572. But if we're like Saul and we're trying to build our own Kingdom

  573. and and make our own name and putting our pride in what we've

  574. achieved and what we've earned and what we've made on this

  575. earth at the end of our life, what Saul had was shame, regret

  576. as he was killed in battle and his descendants were not

  577. remembered. God says that's not

  578. faithfulness. I wanted to bless you.

  579. I he's pleaded with Saul. He said, look, if you just will

  580. obey me, if you just chase after me, what I can give you.

  581. He wanted to give to Saul what he gave to David.

  582. Saul wasn't faithful. He couldn't figure it out.

  583. He was pursuing something dead and empty in this world and

  584. therefore sacrificed what was better for him, what God had for

  585. him, what God wanted to give him.

  586. And that's how it is for us. God wants to do a great thing

  587. through your life more than you could ever imagine.

  588. He wants to do great things to your kids and their lives in the

  589. generations to come. But to do that, all he's asking

  590. for is faithfulness is if you just be faithful to me, I will

  591. do great things to you and I will bless you in ways you

  592. couldn't imagine. But if you chase after this

  593. world, you're going to end up getting what this world has to

  594. offer you, which is nothing. And here's my fear for us is

  595. that one day when we stand before our God and King in

  596. heaven, we're going to see our lives flash before our eyes and

  597. we're going to look back. And it's going to be like

  598. looking back at high school and be like, oh man, why did I

  599. invest so much in that? Why did I care so much about

  600. that? Because at that point, we're

  601. going to realize what really matters and what didn't.

  602. So I don't want us to look back and be like, oh man, why did we

  603. spend 10 hours a week as a family chasing sports and only

  604. one hour chasing God? Can we get that back?

  605. Is anybody? Nope, right.

  606. You lost that. You missed out on something.

  607. Or I say, man, why did I put all the extra time chasing that

  608. promotion, chasing that title for what?

  609. Man, I regret that man. Why did I care so much about

  610. what that one person thought of me and so little on what God

  611. thought of me? Those are the things we're going

  612. to regret. So because God loves us and He

  613. cares about us, He's trying to save us from that regret.

  614. He's saying you're good. Don't miss out on the blessings

  615. I have for you by chasing empty, worthless things.

  616. If I'm your king, pursue me. When you screw up and you will

  617. screw up, Respond to me as your king.

  618. Don't ignore me and blow me off because I'm trying to help you.

  619. I'm trying to work through you. I'm trying to get you back on

  620. track. And then let's put our identity

  621. and value in him. And if you don't know where your

  622. identity and value is, it's real easy.

  623. Look at where you spend your time, your energy, and your

  624. resources. And that's where our identity

  625. usually follows. Let's look at Ephesians 421

  626. through 24. In verse 21 it says since you

  627. have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes

  628. from Him, throw off your old sinful nature in your former way

  629. of life which is corrupted by lust and deception.

  630. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.

  631. Put on your new nature created to be like God, truly righteous

  632. and holy. Our God has so much love and

  633. grace to give us. He's saying there's no amount of

  634. screw ups you could do that would cause me to reject you.

  635. I love you and I'm going to pursue you.

  636. Chase after me too. Let's have a relationship.

  637. Pursue me saying throw off. This is what sanctification is.

  638. It's between the time we accepted God as king and the

  639. time we will stand before our God and King.

  640. That's the process the slowly learned as Shuck off the empty

  641. old things of this world and to fill them with more lasting and

  642. better and eternal things. That's what we're doing here.

  643. This is the process was the reason we gather the church and

  644. we're in community as we're learning to stop being deceived,

  645. chasing after empty and useless things that one day we'll regret

  646. and start to chase after things that matter in the will fill our

  647. life and that will bless us for all eternity.

  648. That's what we desire. That's what we want.

  649. That's what God wants for us. God wants to bless you and work

  650. through you. And if you follow these

  651. characteristics, if we can learn to be a little bit more like

  652. David and less like Saul, and it's not a comparison because I

  653. want to get in there. And he's like, oh, you're not

  654. good enough. It's not about being good

  655. enough. It's about just loving our God

  656. the way he loves us. We're badly broken, but deeply

  657. loved. If we accept him as king, let's

  658. pursue him as king. Let's submit to him as king, and

  659. let's put our identity and trust in him as king.

  660. So I want to own a, a, a story real quick of a way that I

  661. didn't always used to do that. Well, I used to be more like

  662. Saul than David in a lot of ways and probably still am.

  663. But if you don't know in, in Texas, if you tell people for,

  664. for guys, whenever you introduce someone, our identity is often

  665. times and what we do for a living, right?

  666. You, Oh, here is my name. What do you do for a living is

  667. the first question we're asked, right, Because that's a lot of

  668. times where our identity is. And so when you're a pastor,

  669. right in Texas, I have no problem.

  670. Like, Hey, I'm a pastor and be like, Oh cool, if you go outside

  671. Texas, that's not the response you get, right?

  672. Coming out of seminary, I was in Tucson, AZ.

  673. Not a lot of churches in Tucson, AZ.

  674. And so I didn't know I was naive.

  675. And then you get on the plane with somebody and I'm right next

  676. to this person for 8 hours and they're like, what do you do?

  677. And I was like, oh, I'm a pastor.

  678. And they're like, oh, you're like in a cult.

  679. Or something. I would get the weirdest

  680. expressions and the person would treat me like I'm a leper.

  681. Right there, you're one of those.

  682. Weird religious types. OK.

  683. And so I started to get a little scared.

  684. I'm like, I'm a stop telling people I'm a pastor, I'm going

  685. to tell my to work for a non profit or something.

  686. I don't know anything better than than that 'cause it wasn't

  687. didn't feel good to be rejected by the world.

  688. But then God started to convict me of that.

  689. And he goes, Hey, who do you belong to?

  690. You belong to the world or you belong to me.

  691. And I was like, ah God, you're right.

  692. I belong to you. And he goes, trust me, be

  693. faithful, own your identity and me and watch me do greater

  694. things than you could imagine. And so after Tucson, I was in

  695. Austin. Same reaction.

  696. Not good reactions. All right.

  697. And I'm travelling around the world a lot of times as I served

  698. as a pastor in the missionary. And so I'm often on planes with

  699. people. And I said, oh, OK, God, I'm

  700. going to trust you. And so sure enough, sit next to

  701. the people next to me in plane, especially when you get that

  702. middle seat, you got to do it twice.

  703. And I'm like, hi, yeah, my name is Ryan.

  704. And they're like, what do you do?

  705. And I was like, I served the Lord, right?

  706. I'll just own it. That's what I, that's what I'm

  707. about and man, every single time I respond that way, God blows me

  708. away and this person I'm like covered in tattoos and all I

  709. have like this person definitely not going to like me and they

  710. go, you know what? I'm interested in that.

  711. Tell me more about this Lord. I had this issue coming up and

  712. every time they respond in ways I never could imagine and that

  713. the whole time I'm like worried and nervous because one, I'm in

  714. the middle seat and hate it, but two, because I'm in the

  715. situation and I'm trapped. But I'm like, God, I trust you,

  716. I'll be faithful to you. This is who I am and so many

  717. times people have said, wow, I'm glad I sit next to you.

  718. That encouraged me. I'm going to look more into the

  719. Bible and to God in his word and other times it'll be believers

  720. and they're like, man, I just had this happen and that's

  721. encouraged me so much. I'm like, man, God, the things

  722. you do when we're faithful is so much greater than if we would

  723. claim this world and chase after the things this world.

  724. So my encouragement for you this week is spend some time and

  725. reflection and say, where am I putting my time, my energy, my

  726. resources? What am I pursuing right now?

  727. What am I missing out on that God wants to do through me and

  728. through my life and through the life of my kids?

  729. If we would just chase after him, if we would respond to him

  730. and we put our identity and value in him, God's going to

  731. bless you and do amazing things more than you can imagine.

  732. And then one day when we stand before our Lord and King, we're

  733. going to have regrets, but he's going to say, well done, good

  734. and faithful servant you. My expectation wasn't

  735. perfection. It was just faithfulness.

  736. And you were faithful. And thank you for investing in

  737. my Kingdom. That's what we want to hear.

  738. Let's go ahead and bow and end prayer.

  739. Dear Heavenly Father, we thank you for your truth and your word

  740. and the way you work through King David and even the way that

  741. you showed us and saw how empty this world is and chasing it is

  742. the word. We pray that you continue to

  743. love us, show mercy on us and grace as we seek in this time to

  744. pursue you more to put our identity and value in you more

  745. to respond to you in in obedience and love as you love

  746. us and I pray, Amen. Thank you for joining us today.

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  748. God's love in our lives and community, and we hope that

  749. you've been able to experience that today.

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