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Apocalypse Now: Part 13- Empowered

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  1. Welcome to the River City Church podcast and a message by our

  2. lead pastor, Jason Powers. Our prayer is that this message

  3. would inspire and encourage you, build your faith and point you

  4. to the life changing love of Jesus.

  5. May you enjoy the goodness of God as you follow Him today.

  6. You haven't seen Alicia around. It means you're probably not

  7. around enough because she's everywhere, doing all of the

  8. things, bringing her gifts and talents to River City.

  9. And we love it. So I'm glad that you're here on

  10. this Sunday before Thanksgiving. I hope that your whole week is

  11. filled with gratitude and grace, not that everything is easy, but

  12. that you find a way in the midst of whatever comes to recognize

  13. God's presence and to be grateful.

  14. So we begin each week as we begin today with our confession.

  15. And our confession is important. Really our confession is what's

  16. been behind this whole Ephesians series.

  17. It's really the story behind the whole of Scripture.

  18. Our confession as a churches we're badly broken, badly broken

  19. and deeply loved. Yes, you are and that's why it's

  20. so important. Like where what Alicia said it

  21. comes like the story is that God has been bringing Jews and

  22. Gentiles together. That's this big apocalypse, this

  23. big revelation that that. Paul wrote to this Ephesian

  24. church as a Jewish rabbi, writing to a Gentile

  25. congregation that what God has been doing since the beginning

  26. is what he wants to do in them and today, believe it or don't.

  27. We're actually going to read the.

  28. End of Ephesians, and that's going to be.

  29. Wonderful. I want to say real.

  30. Quick. Though I have an urgency about

  31. this in my soul, right? Like I'm always.

  32. Kind of like I'm high strung, like I I get it, I know, I.

  33. But there's a there's there's more in me today because while

  34. I'm definitely glad for this to to end and I'm ready to move on

  35. to our Christmas series, my concern is that we're going to

  36. take what we've been studying and just move on to whatever the

  37. next thing. And what I want to tell is

  38. Ephesians is the story. Ephesians is the thing.

  39. And my concern is that we're going to take this book that

  40. we've been going and we've been pulling these ideas and these

  41. words and these nuances and these subtleties out of it.

  42. And we've been talking about the way that the church relates to

  43. each other and grows and the way that we're supposed to behave

  44. and belong and all of these things.

  45. And my concern is that after 14 weeks, we're going to hear it

  46. and go, that's nice. And we're going to move on.

  47. And what I want to say is everything that you're ever

  48. going to hear in church is built on this.

  49. There's never an escape from this content because this is

  50. gospel. This is the good news.

  51. Everything that Jesus does in our lives is for this purpose,

  52. to establish us and to restore us to this.

  53. And so my hope is that you have been been able to see over the

  54. last 14 weeks that you really can go deep, You really can get

  55. granular because I promise you, there is nothing that either

  56. Johnny or myself have talked about or taught that isn't

  57. widely available in the public domain.

  58. You have access to every single. Thing that Johnny and I have

  59. talked about and so my. Hope for you is that you will

  60. get a glimpse and a vision of something that makes you go.

  61. I need more of that. Something that Jason talked

  62. about or Johnny talked about or Paul wrote about, I need.

  63. That and I want that and my hope.

  64. Is that as Paul implores us and begs us, that we'll begin to

  65. truly live our. Lives around this truth, around

  66. this gospel. And so I want to take a second

  67. and thank Johnny. Johnny's not in the room right

  68. now, but I want to thank him in front of you for helping me with

  69. this. We've never had a series like

  70. this at River City where we have gone back and forth and we kind

  71. of have alternated a teaching the text.

  72. And I want you to know I'm better at what I do because of

  73. Johnny. I am better at what I do because

  74. Johnny took the time to share his process with me.

  75. He's so smart. He knows so many things and he

  76. has helped me and he has encouraged me and he has, I feel

  77. like, made me better and made us better.

  78. So if you see Johnny around anytime next, however long, just

  79. grab him and hug his bald head and tell him that you love him

  80. and you understand most of the things that he said.

  81. And you know, all right, have him over for a July 4th

  82. celebration. He'll get that.

  83. It's fun. The idea that was a British

  84. joke, by the way, if you didn't get it.

  85. So at the end of the Ephesians, the thing that.

  86. Paul has been. Hammering that he's been coming

  87. back to over and over and over again is this idea that the

  88. spiritual is the ultimate. What is spiritual is most real.

  89. This is real. The things that we can touch and

  90. see and taste. Are real but there's an ultimate

  91. reality even beyond that that this physical reality points to

  92. and the truth and the story of the ultimate spiritual reality

  93. is that King Jesus has won and he sits today enthroned in what

  94. he calls the heavenlies where he reigns over all things now and

  95. forever. And as his church we begin to

  96. experience that partly now but not fully and not entirely yet.

  97. The way Paul talks about that is the ages, the age to come and

  98. this present age. But the message from Paul from

  99. the first to the last is Jesus is.

  100. Resurrected and victorious and seated at the right hand of the

  101. Father. And you're there with him now in

  102. this place. And that is our reality.

  103. And so we saw last week he talked about this armor, and the

  104. armor is this fundamental reality.

  105. And what he talked is he uses these Latin phrases, right,

  106. semper Paradis, right, like always ready and semper fidelis,

  107. right, always faithful. And what he's talking about is

  108. us in the context of this armor that he talked to us.

  109. The idea is for us to always stay ready, to always stay

  110. faithful. He had this idea, right?

  111. Every day is a battle. And you're like, bro, that's

  112. heavy and I'm tired and I just want to nap.

  113. I get it. I love naps.

  114. Sometimes there's nothing more spiritual than you can do but

  115. take a nap. But listen, it's OK to take a

  116. nap as long as we realize that the world in the cosmos doesn't

  117. nap with us. That's why Paul talks about the

  118. armor. The problem with us is we're not

  119. really an armor bearing culture, are we?

  120. None of you I. Suppose have a breastplate at

  121. your house. Maybe some of you chainmail

  122. nerds do, I don't know. That's fine if you do.

  123. But we're not that. Familiar with it?

  124. Right. So what happens then when we

  125. have a situation where there's this biblical metaphor, but it's

  126. outside of common? Our common everyday practice is

  127. we get familiar with something, but we don't really understand

  128. what it means. And what I want to say is this

  129. is good news for you because many of you have been around the

  130. church for a long time and you've heard about the

  131. breastplate of righteousness and the helmet of salvation and feet

  132. with the readiness of the gospel of truth.

  133. And you've heard that. And you're like, that's fine,

  134. but what do I do? With it, do I need to go by

  135. chain mail? Do I need to have right?

  136. So we read about it and we think about it and maybe we do a

  137. devotional about it and we feel mildly inspired by it, but it

  138. doesn't really seem to protect us, does it?

  139. That's OK, you can admit that. We still feel like we get beat

  140. up a lot, right? We wake up and maybe we read the

  141. passage or we do the devotion and we go down by breastplate,

  142. right to the helmet of salvation, like feet, belt,

  143. truth and all. Like all of the things girded

  144. and all the stuff. Like we're ready to go.

  145. And then we walk out the front door and we get our tails kicked

  146. in by all kinds of stuff, right? We gossip or we cuss or we steal

  147. or we get afraid or we do all of these things and we go home and

  148. we're like, I guess the freaking armor doesn't work.

  149. But the next time Jesus calling, it's in there.

  150. Maya Moser's highest, I'm doing it.

  151. So we go. Again and over and over and over

  152. and over again. Spiritual victory seems out of

  153. reach at best, maybe fleeting. We armor up.

  154. But the problem is, and what I'm going to say is the problem is

  155. that we armor up and then we just sit on the couch.

  156. We never go to the battle place. We literally are a bunch of

  157. armored up people cowering in our closets client.

  158. What we're doing is we armor up and then we try to go fight the

  159. battle that our way. What we say is we talk to

  160. ourselves, right? Like if I can just think peace,

  161. right, If I can just figure all of this out, right And we maybe

  162. we've got a verse right, Philippians 4 right, like don't

  163. be anxious about anything. And what happens is when we

  164. start trying to beat our fear to death with the mantra, don't be

  165. anxious about anything. Don't be anxious about anything.

  166. Don't be anxious about anything. I'm anxious about whether I'm

  167. doing it right. We try to.

  168. Use truth like a cudgel, like a bludgeon, like trying to beat

  169. things to death. But what we don't have is peace.

  170. We talk about if we can just if they would just.

  171. If we can just, but we don't know.

  172. Peace. We work for transformation.

  173. We hear about being transformed into the likeness of Christ.

  174. And so we go to the store and we try to be kind and gentle and

  175. patient, but there are people there and people are the worst.

  176. And So what we find out is wherever I go, there I am, or

  177. more than that. We try to be good and we get a

  178. little bit better. We say 1 fewer cuss word during

  179. the day. And so then we start to go.

  180. I'm pretty. Dang, good at this man.

  181. And what we call that is are you listening self righteousness

  182. when you start looking at your own life and start going.

  183. I measure up pretty good compared to all those other

  184. losers. They don't vote for the right

  185. guy. They don't make enough money.

  186. They don't do the right thing. They're not nearly as handsome

  187. as I am. So all those guys wrong and I

  188. get this Lord, you're welcome for.

  189. Me. And we fail.

  190. We feel it being humble. We feel it being kind.

  191. We feel it being unified. We feel it being powerful.

  192. We feel it being transformed because we're trying to

  193. transform ourselves. We try to argue our way into

  194. unity. We schedule a lunch with those

  195. Republicans. So we can just let them know.

  196. The truth, if we could just make them see, we try to take the

  197. Democrats out so we could tell them or these people just go, if

  198. we could just let them know that Jesus loves them because of

  199. this. And so we go and we're trying to

  200. argue and we're trying to fight our way into unity.

  201. And what happens is we just get entrenched and we just get

  202. angry. And what happens is when we fail

  203. to be able to convert people to our version and understanding of

  204. truth, we begin to get angry and we begin to see the other person

  205. as evil, not just different, wrong and evil.

  206. We can point and go. How could anybody who loves

  207. Jesus think this or believe? This or fight this way and Jesus

  208. points to all of our wrong ideas and wrong notions and goes just

  209. like that. Or we want to be secure and So

  210. what we try to do is we try to control every aspect, not just

  211. of our own life but of our others lives.

  212. We try to control our spouse, we try to control our children, we

  213. try to control our money. We can try to control our bosses

  214. and our coworkers. And what happens is when we

  215. realize that we can't control people, we begin to get afraid.

  216. We begin to get angry because we realize we live in a world that

  217. we can't control. And I'm just going to like tip

  218. your hand right here. Like, like you need to know,

  219. there's very little new information that I'm going to

  220. give you today, but what I am going to ask you to do is

  221. fundamentally alter the way that you live.

  222. I'm going to ask you to throw your entire calendar and

  223. schedule out and to do something different today.

  224. Because the reason that we experience so much of this

  225. powerlessness and some of this kind of futility is because we

  226. got all the armor, but we don't pray.

  227. It's like somebody buying you a BMW and it's all tricked down

  228. and it's got all the stuff, but they forgot to enter the gas

  229. tank. Try as you might, Polish the

  230. Fender as you might, that car's not going anywhere and all of

  231. your best intentions and self righteousness and armored up

  232. self without prayer is nothing. It's nothing.

  233. It means nothing. See, the reason we're good at

  234. the armor is because the armor makes us feel powerful.

  235. I'm doing and I'm the breastplate and helmet, right?

  236. I like I like the armor because it makes me feel like a.

  237. Gladiator next miss just miss Aurelius and I.

  238. Fly, blah blah blah, right? We like the armor because what

  239. it does for us. We resist prayer because it

  240. makes us feel weak. Because in prayer I come to the

  241. Lord and go, Lord, all of this is bigger than me.

  242. So I need you to get involved or I can't change my boss.

  243. You see what a tool that guy is, Fix him.

  244. Or why won't my kids behave? Fix them.

  245. Paul's been praying throughout this letter from them, literally

  246. from the very first chapter. Paul begins in prayer, and he

  247. breaks into prayer spontaneously throughout songs.

  248. And so now what Paul does is he says over and over in all the

  249. books that he writes, follow me as I follow Jesus.

  250. So as he's prayed now he's commending the Ephesians to

  251. prayer. And what he's saying is without

  252. prayer, your armor is worthless. And so I don't want to tell you

  253. River City is without prayer. Your armor is worthless without

  254. prayer. Your good intentions are

  255. worthless without prayer. Your good deeds are worthless.

  256. Your sacrifice is insufficient to gain or maintain the blessing

  257. and favor of God. Your only hope is that God is as

  258. good as He says He is and is as intent on getting involved in

  259. your life as He says that He is. The church without prayer is

  260. powerless. This is nothing.

  261. Nothing. There is no spiritual enemy that

  262. is afraid of this. Now, when we were singing and

  263. worshipping, maybe, but this, you sitting here listening to me

  264. and he's not afraid of that. I'm a windbag dude.

  265. People talk a lot, right? What he's scared of.

  266. Is when truth begins to be partnered with the promise that

  267. God had said I'm going to bless the whole world, Jason and if

  268. you'll take your hot air and your tall bald thing and if

  269. you'll go out and do that then you'll see power then you'll see

  270. it I'm just like. Well, Lord, I don't, I don't

  271. really want to do that. And what Paul says is this verse

  272. 18, right? Remember, he's been talking

  273. about the armor, right? The Blessed.

  274. Plate and all that. Now verse 18 says now with every

  275. prayer and request, now what knows what he says about prayer?

  276. Pray at all times in the Spirit. We know what all times are right

  277. all times as compared to some of the times.

  278. Is there ever a moment in your life that you're not supposed to

  279. be prayerful according to Paul? Is there ever a shopping

  280. excursion where you're not supposed to be prayerful?

  281. Is there ever a purchase of a car or a home or groceries that

  282. you're not supposed to be prayerful?

  283. Is there ever an interaction with a person where you're not

  284. supposed to be prayerful? What he says is pray at all

  285. times in the the Spirit and with this in view the alert with all

  286. perseverance and every request for all the Saints.

  287. Who are the Saints? The really good ones, or are the

  288. Saints? All y'all, all y'all.

  289. That means look around the room. That means the people that you

  290. don't know yet. That means the people that look

  291. different from you. That means the people that

  292. ticked you off. That means the person that took

  293. your parking space this morning and made you park behind the

  294. chiropractors over there. So now you're ticked off at them

  295. a little bit. Pray for them as well.

  296. Because here's the truth. Here's the.

  297. Reality. Prayer is the strength.

  298. The voice and the heartbeat of the redeemed Church.

  299. Whatever else we are and whatever else we do, we are to

  300. be the Church of Jesus, not the people that gather in rooms and

  301. in pews. The Church of Jesus are the

  302. people who pray. The church is the beginning

  303. movement of God's renewal work in humanity.

  304. Well, God begins in this room. He's going to complete someday

  305. forever, but we get to taste it here and now and he's when he

  306. comes back, it will be completed.

  307. But for now, this now and not yet this place where we have the

  308. spirit, we have the body, we are the body, but he's not here with

  309. us. And So what he do, how Paul

  310. concludes is like he's told us all this stuff like listen, live

  311. righteously. You having a hard time with

  312. that? I am.

  313. Are you having a hard time? Are there sins that you can't

  314. overcome? There are for me.

  315. Are there things that you wish you did differently?

  316. There are for me, are there people that you were able to be

  317. nicer to? There are for me, like all of

  318. these things are, are truth. But what that tells me is that

  319. we're not done yet, that I haven't got it yet.

  320. And So what Paul does then is say, hey, in light of all those

  321. things, the response isn't out there.

  322. Go buck up, right? Be stronger than you are.

  323. The thing is, the response is pray at all times, in all

  324. occasions, in all places. Church is what we do.

  325. Church isn't how we get ready to do the work of God.

  326. Prayer is the work of God because most everything else is

  327. the work of Jason and the work of Jason is almost destined to

  328. fall. But when we bathe in prayer and

  329. we walk in prayer and we respond in prayer, then things go

  330. different. So what do you say, right?

  331. This verse 18 is just like pregnant with this encouragement

  332. to engage, to go right? And and so this is the question

  333. that we have is how do we move from?

  334. Preparation, right? Like that's the that's the the

  335. armor is how we prepare. But the battle.

  336. We move from. Preparation, right?

  337. We get off the couch. With our armor.

  338. And we got the battle is prayer. We armor up to pray.

  339. We don't armor up and then go take the hill.

  340. We put our armor on and then we go in prayer.

  341. What did he say last week? Over and over again, Prayer that

  342. you might what? Stand, stand, stand.

  343. And having done all this, that you might stand, charge the

  344. hill. Nope.

  345. Own the limbs. Nope, none of those things.

  346. The command is you armor up and you bow before the Father in

  347. prayer. That's.

  348. How we moved. Johnny said it last week.

  349. Every day is a fight and there is no neutral ground.

  350. And so notice this list of all things that Paul says.

  351. All prayer. All.

  352. Types of prayer. Some of it is requests, some of

  353. it is, Lord, make my dog not sick.

  354. Lord, we need rent. But there's other kinds of

  355. prayers. There's lament.

  356. Oh God, my God, why have you forsaken me?

  357. How long, Oh God, will you abandon me?

  358. You need to pray those prayers when you're sad.

  359. We need to reach out. We need to have silent prayer.

  360. We need to have contemplative prayer and centering prayer and

  361. intercession and all kinds of prayer at all times, right?

  362. All prayer, all requests, all times in the Spirit.

  363. Be alert with persons for all requests for all the same.

  364. Here's what that means every moment of your.

  365. Life is a chance to connect with the Father.

  366. Do you feel like the? Father's far away.

  367. Do you feel like God doesn't see you?

  368. Do you feel like God doesn't know?

  369. Listen, we believe that God is here.

  370. He's everywhere. He's saturated and surrounding

  371. you. And that quiet moment in your

  372. car is an opportunity for you to acknowledge and recognize the

  373. very presence of the eternal God sitting in your car.

  374. Maybe he's in the in the passenger seat.

  375. Let him drive. He's a better driver than you

  376. are. But it's important to recognize

  377. that we share space with the Father.

  378. That's the power that we're after.

  379. What we try to do in the church is supplement the power like

  380. we're like. I mean, sure.

  381. Prayer is something, right? But we want other kinds of

  382. power. We want charisma.

  383. I just want you to know there's like a nagging sense in my gut.

  384. I worry about this a lot. I think about all this, that if

  385. I just yell loud enough and pound the table loud enough,

  386. enough of you will go. Yeah.

  387. Whether I'm telling the truth or not, like I think about it

  388. because I'm loud and I'm and I'm boisterous and I'm a lot right?

  389. Like I fill a room and I do all that right, But that doesn't

  390. mean that I'm that I'm infallible.

  391. Prayer is the way that we go. There's a guy in the back of the

  392. room who told me one time he's like Jason, like I just love

  393. you. And he's been very

  394. complimentary. He's my friend.

  395. But he goes, man, I love it when I get to go home.

  396. And sometimes you're just wrong. I know, right?

  397. You should assume that, and you should prayerfully consider what

  398. God is doing in you and in me and and around us.

  399. Not because I'm better or worse than what's, but because

  400. Charisma doesn't get it. Because having a big church

  401. isn't it. That's not.

  402. That's not the point. It's not about the production

  403. value. It's not about smoke machines or

  404. light shows. It's not even about positional

  405. influence. It's not about Jason.

  406. You can tell me what to do because you stand up on the

  407. stage. That's not where the power of

  408. our church comes from. We're not going to have a better

  409. church when we have a big building over there.

  410. We're not going to. That's not a reality.

  411. We will have as good a church as we, and by we I mean me and all

  412. y'all will have as good a church as we pray for.

  413. Do you want us to be a kind of church where people get?

  414. Saved. Pray for that do.

  415. You want to be the kind of church where people get healed.

  416. Pray. For that do.

  417. You want to be the kind of church where like we're what or

  418. God does what? Join God to restore your

  419. relationship to your parents, to your children.

  420. Pray for that. Do that.

  421. That's what prayer is. We armor up so that we don't get

  422. distracted and then we go to the Lord and we just say Lord.

  423. Will you do this in my life? So here's my challenge for us

  424. church and all this I. Love you so.

  425. Hard right now you don't even know this right?

  426. Like I know. Here's my other big concern that

  427. loud sounds angry or whatever. No listen.

  428. I feel like you have left the ultimate power source on the

  429. table and this is good news for us.

  430. This is the best message that you've heard in forever.

  431. And I don't even know because the answer literally access to

  432. the keys of the cosmos are on the table in front of you.

  433. All you gotta do is like. Pick it up.

  434. What I'm asking us as a church, what I'm asking you as a

  435. follower of Jesus, is specifically to repent of

  436. prayerlessness. I mean, call it a sin.

  437. Lord, I have sinned by not praying to you enough.

  438. I have sinned by taking all of these things into my own end.

  439. Lord, I have sinned by trying to listen.

  440. Are you listening to me? Fix my marriage, myself.

  441. Live under a budget by myself. Discipline my kids by myself.

  442. Lord, I'm sorry I've tried to do all that.

  443. I've ruined a lot of it because my spouse ticks me off like you

  444. can't believe. And Lord, I have tried so hard

  445. to have patience, but it's but I don't.

  446. So Lord, I need you to give me patience and you know what I'm

  447. going to do. Lord, I'm going to sit here

  448. silently with you for 20 minutes and I'm not going to say a word

  449. to you and your brains going crazy.

  450. And you just sit there because that's what patience is.

  451. And the Lord begins to infuse and do things, and that is

  452. prayer. And what I want to say is those

  453. things. Charisma A charismatic leader.

  454. A well structured organization, A big.

  455. Loud, big, bright room, A big production that makes your

  456. heartbeat fast. Positional influence, all of

  457. those things, right? What?

  458. Those are the powers of the powers, and those are the things

  459. that divide us. Because listen, I can't get you

  460. to heaven. All I can do is point to Jesus.

  461. You got to follow him yourself, right?

  462. So this becomes about me or about.

  463. Race still or about Brent is Bill or about any of that.

  464. It's lost, it's wrong, it's gone.

  465. It's Jesus. It's about Jesus.

  466. He's the one that we talked about.

  467. And So what we need to do is just simply begin to pray.

  468. So let's acknowledge that many of you maybe don't have a prayer

  469. habit that you just go, no, I'm ready to pray in the Kingdom.

  470. Great. You're in the perfect place to

  471. see absolutely unbelievable fruit in your life.

  472. So what I would say is start in the morning, 15 minutes.

  473. Just set a timer and pray for 15 minutes.

  474. Just start. You can go back.

  475. Listen, a couple weeks ago when was.

  476. I don't know when it was. Before summer, I did a whole

  477. series on prayer, 5 or 6 weeks. Go listen to it, go do it.

  478. Go find somebody else's sermons on prayer and listen to it and

  479. respond. There's a, you can go to

  480. practicingtheway.org, get in a small group and take your small

  481. group. There's a, there's a section on

  482. prayer that will teach you how to pray and what it looks like

  483. and what it means. But here's the deal.

  484. You just got to do it. And some of you are like, I will

  485. go out and buy a prayer book. You should go buy a prayer book.

  486. I have more prayer books than I know what to do with, but just

  487. know you will never find Jesus in a prayer book the way that

  488. you will. Find him in prayer.

  489. So just get down on your knees and go before him and go.

  490. You teach me how to pray. But here's the thing, you're

  491. going to want to miss it. You're going to want to sleep

  492. late. You're going to want to go do

  493. something else. Your mind's going to get

  494. distracted and you're going to think you're a failure.

  495. And what I'm going to tell you is don't quit.

  496. Don't stop. Don't give up.

  497. There's nothing else as a church that we have to do but pray.

  498. And when we as a church pray, we'll begin to hear the things

  499. that He wants to say to us about ourselves and about our

  500. neighbors. If you already.

  501. Pray and you go I. Have a pretty good prayer habit

  502. I. Believe you.

  503. I want you to know I want you to try different kinds of prayer.

  504. I want you to go online. And finally, I want you to try

  505. contemplative prayer. I want you to try Lectio Davina.

  506. I want you to pray the Lords Prayer every day.

  507. I want you to lament. I want you to try centering

  508. prayer. I want you to grow.

  509. I want you to take your your prayer life as serious as you

  510. take your diet or your trips to the gym or your running schedule

  511. or your vacations or your TV shows.

  512. I want you to make prayer more important than those things.

  513. Because when you go to prayer first.

  514. Those other things have a way of finding their place in the

  515. rhythm. I promise you I've over the last

  516. month or so like God is just. He's lit a.

  517. Fire in my prayer and I want to tell you I still watch plenty of

  518. TVI have not missed my TV. But you know what?

  519. I have found the presence of the Lord in prayer in a way that I

  520. couldn't have fathomed or understood before.

  521. So when we. Stop the problem with this is

  522. when we stop praying, we stop drawing strength from the Lord.

  523. And when we stop drawing strength from the Lord and we

  524. start walking in weakness because we don't have the Lord's

  525. strength. All we have is ours.

  526. What happens is we stop getting his strength.

  527. So then we start distorting the message since we, since we don't

  528. have the power of God, we just start talking about things that

  529. we can win, right? Like we just start pointing out

  530. other people's sins as exclusions because, well,

  531. they're not our sins and we can control that.

  532. We start to. Trying to control all kinds of

  533. things that aren't ours, right? But the point of prayer, the

  534. role of prayer, prayer is prayer should bring clarity and

  535. boldness to the message of the church.

  536. The message of the church is one thing.

  537. There is a king whose name is Jesus, who presently and

  538. eternally reigns over all things.

  539. Give your life to him. It's not your life anymore.

  540. Give your life to him. That's that's the message.

  541. But when we get separated from the power and the calling of

  542. Jesus, now we want to start. Talking about your habits and

  543. your behaviors. When Jesus is King, you know

  544. what I say. Go talk to him about that, but I

  545. mean it, talk to him about your sexuality, talk to him about

  546. your marriage, talk to him about your money.

  547. Talk to him about all of those things.

  548. Talk to him about the things that we yell about, that we talk

  549. about because he says Paul says this in verse 19.

  550. Pray on my behalf that speech may be given to me.

  551. Now let me just show you real quick, I just want to hold this

  552. up. This is.

  553. Paul's part bro. Paul knows words.

  554. The problem isn't that Paul didn't have anything to say.

  555. The problem isn't that Paul didn't understand theology.

  556. The problem is Paul knew when he.

  557. Talks. Of his own.

  558. It's a mess. So what he prayed was, Lord,

  559. don't let me say anything that doesn't come from you.

  560. How great would it be if every time we logged in, we said,

  561. Lord, don't let me say anything that isn't from you?

  562. What if every time we saw those posts online, we said, Lord,

  563. don't let me be anything from you because here's a reality.

  564. It's not our message. This isn't our message.

  565. Listen, if you're here and you don't like the message, I don't

  566. have anything to. I'm sorry.

  567. I can't do anything about that. It's not my message.

  568. It's his message. But if you don't like the way

  569. that I say it, if I give a message of love heavily or with

  570. coercion or with force, that's not OK because it's not my

  571. message. I don't get to deliver Jesus's

  572. message my way. If it's his message, it's his

  573. methodology, right? Andy Stanley, Whether you like

  574. Andy Stanley or not, I don't, I don't care.

  575. He says a cool thing. He says this.

  576. He says you do not gain. Are you listening?

  577. You do not gain or maintain the blessings of God.

  578. And I want to stop real quick and ask you what you think the

  579. blessings of God in your life. Could it be?

  580. Could it be a fruitful marriage? Could it be sobriety?

  581. Could it be a relationship with your kids?

  582. What would the blessing of God look like?

  583. Peace in your finances, your children returning home.

  584. You cannot gain or maintain the blessings of God by violating

  585. the principles of God. Friends, I love you.

  586. The reason that our marriages aren't working is because we do

  587. not love and respect each other. It's not because we're not get.

  588. The reason they're broken is because we're trying to do God's

  589. plan, marriage our way with our own strength rather than

  590. submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.

  591. Husbands, does your wife need something?

  592. Space, healing, covering, encouragement, a new shirt?

  593. Does your wife what? What is it?

  594. Does she need something? Give it to her wives.

  595. Does your husband need encouragement?

  596. Does your husband come home beat down, draggled every day?

  597. Does your husband feel worthless and like he has nothing left?

  598. Be the voice of love in his head.

  599. You give it to him. Who do you think is going to do

  600. it? Jeez, you go to that place at

  601. work that only values you for what you produce and you don't

  602. find a lot of existential encouragement there.

  603. What's wrong with you? You give it to him.

  604. You're the answer. You're the answer.

  605. Give it to him. But he comes home and he's mad.

  606. Yeah, He's had a terrible day at work.

  607. Everybody hates him at work, Husbands, everybody.

  608. Hates you at work because you're a jerk.

  609. You. See how it goes back and forth,

  610. right? You don't gain or maintain the

  611. blessings of God by violating the principles of God.

  612. Paul doesn't pray for escape. Paul doesn't say Get Me Out of

  613. prison. Paul says help me make sure that

  614. when I talk about these chains that everybody knows that these

  615. chains are part of my glory. We will talk around talking

  616. about our spouse like down ball and chains like they're holding

  617. us down, stop. We talk about our kids like

  618. they're terrible, stop. You talk about your job like

  619. it's the worst thing that's ever happened to you, then get out

  620. and go somewhere else. But wherever you go, there you

  621. are. You will be at your next job.

  622. So here's the thing. If you're a terrible employee,

  623. you're going to think all of your bosses are awful.

  624. Maybe the problem is you. Church, I'm just saying like we

  625. got to wake up to this, like we're to the problem is we're

  626. doing the same things that everybody else does and just go,

  627. well, why isn't it working different?

  628. Why do we just keep getting further apart and more divided?

  629. Right, Because we're talking about the wrong things.

  630. We're talking to the wrong people.

  631. We're not praying because The thing is, if, if Jesus hadn't,

  632. right? Like what we're talking about

  633. now with our prayer, with using our words for prayer, is making

  634. sure that the things that Jesus tore down stayed down, that they

  635. don't get built back up, right? But listen, Jesus isn't afraid

  636. of people. Jesus isn't afraid of illegals.

  637. Jesus isn't afraid about where all the Healthcare is going to

  638. come from. Jesus loves people.

  639. Jesus sees people and says that's a person who is created

  640. in my image. And we don't have to wonder how

  641. we look at them. We look at them like that.

  642. Jesus isn't hostile to people. Jesus isn't reactive to

  643. situations. Yesterday my daughter locked her

  644. key in the car and it looked like this in my life.

  645. Man, I'm glad that didn't fall. Right.

  646. That's what I did because I reacted in the moment.

  647. I don't think that's not Jesus. Jesus didn't see my daughter

  648. locker. Couldn't go.

  649. Oh my God, we had bugs and it's Christmas time.

  650. He's like, it's fine, it's fine, pay the bill, I'll cover you

  651. next. Time right see like he calls us

  652. to be this picture of. Grace and peace.

  653. He calls us to represent the reality that we live in a

  654. Kingdom where everything that we need is provided.

  655. For us. The.

  656. Powers want to tell you to be afraid.

  657. Not powers like the powers family.

  658. I mean the powers that are out there, the powers of darkness

  659. tell you that the other side is the problem.

  660. They tell you that you won't have enough because of all the

  661. people that are here. But Jesus is Revelation, the

  662. whole apocalypse, this whole thing about as the whole cosmos

  663. are unified. They're all together.

  664. There's no division, there's no separation.

  665. There's no us and them, there's no you.

  666. And that right the powers are the ones that want to isolate

  667. you. So and listen anytime you're

  668. watching something or listening to something or feeling

  669. something and somebody comes. Out and says be careful of that.

  670. Person, person, people, demographics.

  671. That's not the voice of Jesus. Jesus is not worried about that.

  672. Jesus created them and loved them.

  673. So the question is if the powers isolate and Jesus unifies.

  674. My question is which side do your words work for?

  675. When you walk out of a room and you're done talking, are people

  676. more likely to be unified to other people or separated from

  677. other people? Jesus prayed for his enemies.

  678. He prayed for his enemies. He extended the cup of

  679. fellowship to Judas at the table.

  680. He prayed for the Roman soldier who was driving stakes through

  681. his through his wrists and through his ankles.

  682. And he said, Father, he doesn't know what he's doing.

  683. So if Jesus prayed for his enemies, then anything that you

  684. or I do to foster division or separation between people or

  685. people groups is Antichrist. You want to know the Antichrist

  686. is it's people at work in? The world opposite of His

  687. purposes. His purpose is to bring all

  688. things together in Christ to the degree that we keep things

  689. separate or reinforce separations or divisions.

  690. We are. Working against the power and

  691. the purpose of Jesus so my encouragement and my challenge

  692. to us, I asked us to repent of prayerlessness now repent of

  693. careless speech the. Opposite of careless is.

  694. Thoughtful. This is what Paul said right

  695. before in Ephesians chapter 4. Listen Verse. 29 Let no

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  696. unwholesome talk. You thought it was a talking

  697. about the F word, and maybe, maybe that's it, right?

  698. Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth.

  699. But if there is any good word for edification, this is what

  700. wholesome talk is. Words that build people up.

  701. For the need of the moment, say that so that it will give grace

  702. to those who are near. You want to know what the words

  703. of Christ are? The words of Christ are You have

  704. enough? You are sufficient.

  705. I see you, I love you. I've got your back, you're with

  706. me. Let's go.

  707. Do the words that come out of your mouth sound more like Paul

  708. who prayed for his ethnic enemies, or like the news?

  709. Are you snarky? Or cynical to people who

  710. disagree with you. If that's the case, then you

  711. have put someone else or something else in front of

  712. Jesus. Listen, I, I can't escape the

  713. what we're doing here in this book as we, as we get to the end

  714. of this book, is we have again, this exhaustively, thoroughly

  715. Jewish Rabbi Paul. And the very last thing that he

  716. does in the book is he commends his Greek friend Titicus to this

  717. gentle Gentile congregation. He says, this Titicus is my

  718. brother. Receive him and let him.

  719. So what he does is he embodies the gospel in this church.

  720. Look verse 21 now so that you also may know about my

  721. circumstances as to what I am doing.

  722. Titicus, the beloved brother and faithful servant of the Lord,

  723. will make everything known to you.

  724. I have sent Him to you for this very purpose, so that you may

  725. know about us and that he may comfort your heart.

  726. That is the gospel, that is the good news, that there is comfort

  727. and a time and a place and in the world.

  728. But that comes from prayer. Paul who prayed.

  729. Paul who taught his. Church to pray and.

  730. For us. So how do we do this?

  731. What does this leave us at the? End of ephesians #1 Start

  732. talking to him. Start talking to him.

  733. Wherever you are, you. Can do this.

  734. Do you have a sin in your life that you're ashamed of?

  735. Talk to him about it. Have you been addicted to

  736. something for a long time? Have you been addicted and then

  737. you quit and got sober but you fell off and you relapsed and

  738. now you're running in shame? Talk to Jesus about it.

  739. You know better than all. People you are.

  740. Powerless unless someone intervenes.

  741. That person is Jesus. Are you scared?

  742. Do you have anxiety? Do you hate?

  743. Don't deny it. Don't run from it.

  744. Pray. Start talking to Jesus about it

  745. now. Armor.

  746. Up for sure and go to Lord and go Lord, I'm praying here about

  747. my righteousness, right? I'm praying about this my, my

  748. breastplate of licenses. I need you to help me, right?

  749. I need you. To take this away because I'm

  750. not righteous, because I'm separated, because I don't like

  751. those people. Pray about it.

  752. Don't study it, pray about it. 15 minutes set a timer. 15

  753. minutes. Set it to go off twice a day.

  754. One in the morning, one. Right when you get home from

  755. work and then just sit there, you'll feel worthless.

  756. You'll feel like you're not doing anything.

  757. Your mind will wander. You'll feel feel like the most

  758. pointless thing you've ever done.

  759. Just keep doing it anyway. Read a book about centering

  760. prayer, about whatever. Just start.

  761. Just go, just sit down and just do it.

  762. Second, stay in the game. Listen, because once you start,

  763. all the powers are going to come against you and they're going to

  764. tell you that you're too bored or it's not working or you're

  765. not doing enough, or you can't or God's.

  766. Don't quit. Don't stop praying.

  767. Just keep going. Just go try new stuff.

  768. If you've been a believer. For a long time.

  769. If you've been following Jesus for a long time, when was the

  770. last time you tried a new type of prayer or a new way to pray?

  771. Try lectio divina. Start praying the scriptures.

  772. Open the Psalms and make the words in the psalms your words

  773. read 1 passage every day for a week.

  774. Whatever it is, try something, Make sure that you stay in the

  775. game. And finally, strengthen your

  776. voice daily, every day practice. Bless somebody again.

  777. Bless your neighbor again. Bless your enemy again.

  778. Speak truth again, speak life again, Pray the Word of God from

  779. the heart of God again, over and over and over again.

  780. Because, listen, we will be as effective and our experience of

  781. Him will be as real. As our capacity for prayer.

  782. And so Paul ends this letter and we end our time in it in the

  783. same place that we started with a blessing of grace and peace

  784. and then the worship of the one who is worthy of it all.

  785. See, behind all of this is this idea.

  786. We give up our way because his way is better.

  787. We believe this because we have tried our way and found it

  788. lacking. So if you will, as we close

  789. today, we're going to close and worship.

  790. But I would ask if you would. Stand with us and I want to

  791. close our time in Ephesians with the closing words of Paul.

  792. And then we're going. To.

  793. Leave after this is over, we'll have some.

  794. Folks that will come up and pray.

  795. If you need prayer, come get prayer.

  796. Ask someone to pray. If you want to pray for someone,

  797. come stand up here and pray for someone.

  798. River City. I want us to be a place that

  799. prays. Peace to you, brothers and

  800. sisters, and love with faith from God the Father and the Lord

  801. Jesus Christ. Grace be with all those who love

  802. our Lord Jesus with incorruptible love.

  803. Thank you for joining us today. River City Church is all about

  804. experiencing and expressing God's love in our lives and

  805. community, and we hope that you've been able to experience

  806. that today. As grateful as I am that you've

  807. spent this time listening in this morning, this podcast is no

  808. substitute for full participation in a local church.

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