Sermon
Living Stones: A Heritage From the Lord
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Chapter 2, verses 4 through 12, as you come to him, the living stone,
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rejected by humans, but chosen by God and precious to him, you also,
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like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood,
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offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.
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For in scripture it says, see, I lay a stone in Zion, a chosen and precious
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his cornerstone, and the one who trusts in him will never be put to shame.
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Now to you who believe this stone is precious, but to those who do not believe,
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the stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone, and a stone that
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causes people to stumble on a rock that makes them fall.
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In other words, the stone that either you break on or, come on, you rest on.
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They stumble because they disobey the message, which is also what they were destined for.
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In other words, they were also destined for this message, but they refuse it, they reject it.
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But you, those of you who have chosen and put your trust in this living stone
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and now become living stones, it says, but you are a chosen people,
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a royal priesthood, a holy nation,
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God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called
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you out of darkness into his wonderful light.
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Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God.
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Once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.
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Dear friends, I urge you as foreigners and exiles to abstain from sinful desires
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which wage war against your soul.
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Live such good lives among the pagans that though they accuse you of doing wrong,
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they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.
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Each of us is carving a stone, erecting a column, or cutting a piece of stained
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glass in the construction of something much bigger than ourselves.
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You know, the intersection of the heavens and the earth has always been the
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overarching story of the Bible.
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I've said this before. I've said it over and over again. The theme of the scriptures
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is not that we can find Jesus and then someday go to heaven.
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It was that Jesus restored the reality that we were created for to live in this
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intersection where the realm of the heavens and the realm of earth intersect
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because we were created as God's image bearers.
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And you see this theme all throughout the scripture, starting in the garden,
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as we talked about a few weeks ago,
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which is supposed to give us a picture of a temple, the place where God dwells
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on the earth, and earth and the heavens intersect, and God's goodness through
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mankind is extended through the rest of the world.
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We see it in the tabernacle after God began to begin his restoration process
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of bringing this back into place.
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We see in the temple in Jerusalem, the place where heaven and earth intersected,
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and then we see it in Jesus, as fully man and fully divine.
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And we see it as Christians and we see it as the church.
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Because you see in Christ that we are united with God's space as temples of the Holy Spirit.
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I'm not going to dig into that topic today, but that is the theme of scriptures.
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We are not being saved to heaven. We are being saved to once again be the people
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where God's presence dwells, the place, come on, where God intersects with the world.
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And this is our reality as believers. Not a future hope, but a present reality
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that today, right now, we exist as the place.
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Come on, where God interacts with a broken and hungry world.
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Our manifest world overlapping with the heavenly realm.
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We see it all through you in the New Testament, even in the prayer that Jesus gave us to pray.
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Let your kingdom come. Let your will be done here on the ground as it is in the heavens.
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And today, though we started in the New Testament for Davey,
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I want to dig into this particular psalm as we spend this day really kind of
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revolving around this beautiful time of baby dedications that we're going to
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have immediately following.
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Because the psalms are one of the greatest gifts that we have been given.
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And as growing up, the psalms were just kind of that weird part of the Bible,
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some weird songs that didn't make a lot of sense, and some weird prayers.
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But that's not how it was intended to be. this, not how the Hebrews,
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how the Jewish nation, how the Christians, as they began to live these songs
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and sing these songs, it was, the Psalms are full of both humanity and divinity.
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It is the intersection of the heavens and the earth, completely unfiltered in its humanity.
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I mean, David never, never ceases to bring God his complaints.
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There's more laments in the Psalms than there are celebrations.
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A lament is where we're honest about the pain.
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We're honest about the situation and we bring it to God rather than throw it
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against God. Why did you let this happen?
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We bring it to God and the Psalms are one of the greatest gifts because they help us learn.
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Help me, Jesus. There's something coming for me.
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They help us learn to live in this reality where the prayers and the songs teach
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us how to hold our emotions in God's presence.
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And the early church used them as their prayers, used them as their songs,
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often reimagined through the lens of Jesus.
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N.T. Wright says it like this, my favorite, the goat. He says,
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to recognize that the Psalms call us to pray and sing at the intersection of
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the times, of our time and God's time, of the then and the now and the not yet,
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is to understand how those emotions are to be held within the rhythm of a life
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lived in God's presence.
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We are not someday going to make it to God's presence.
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Come on, as believers, as followers of Jesus, filled with the Holy Spirit,
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we are the place of God's presence.
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In the Psalms, and reading them, and singing them, and praying them,
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they create for us an island in the middle of chaos at this intersection.
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Because you see, the promise of the scriptures is that someday all chaos,
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all brokenness, all the things that are wrong with the world will be corrected.
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But today we get to have the peace of that future today, but we still live in a world full of chaos.
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In the Psalms, as I've learned over the last two years to pray them,
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I pray Psalms 23 every single day, sometimes three times a day, because it helps me.
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It becomes for me like a shore, the shore of the ocean.
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You ever been to the ocean? And there's a part of the ocean at the shore.
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And in ancient mythology, this was always considered to be the kind of the in-between
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place, like between two worlds.
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And it's really a beautiful picture because we are living in two worlds.
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And if you look at the shore of the ocean, there's the raging waters.
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If you've ever been to a, I love going into the waters where the waves are just knocking you down.
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I look like a five-year-old out there or a 10-year-old and it's ridiculous,
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but I just love it. I'm getting beat up.
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I'm like, yeah, I'm jumping into the waves.
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And these waves, they kind of represent the human experience.
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But the good thing about the shore is that even though it feels like chaos and
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it feels like it's unending, If you just simply put your feet down,
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there's something to stand on.
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And the land under our feet, we can see that as the unseen realm of the heaven
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space that we are intersecting with now as believers.
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In the Psalms, they're not bringing us to a place of intersection.
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We live there, but they rather help us to bring ourselves in tune to the reality.
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That though the world, though the seas are crashing around me,
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come on, there is something that I maybe can't see with my eyes,
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but that I know is real. Come on, somebody.
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Craig Williamson says, In every situation, there's always two stories,
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the story you see and the story that God sees.
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And I love Eugene Peterson and the late, great Eugene Peterson and his translation
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of the Bible, and then in one of his books on the Psalms, he says this about
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David, one of the greatest writers, the prominent writer of the Psalms.
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He says, David's isn't an ideal life, but an actual life.
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Christianity isn't about someday going somewhere. It isn't about perfection.
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It is about finding the presence of God in our actual lives and learning how
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to live in that reality today,
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right now, and finding that reality in the actual contours of our real lives,
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not our ideal lives, not the lives that what I hate sometimes about even spiritual
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formation and growing is we get this mentality that we're supposed to be at a certain place.
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We are where we are, and God has never blessed anyone anywhere except where
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they are, but where we are when we come to this reality that our lives, come on,
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exist as the place where God's presence is manifested into the world.
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And it helps us live in tune with this reality, even in chaos,
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even in fear, even in the unknowns, even in disappointment.
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All I must do is put my feet down and say, Father, you are my shepherd.
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I shall not want. Come on.
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You make me lie down in green pastures. You lead me beside quiet waters and
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you restore my soul. This is my reality.
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Yes, the waters are crashing around me, but my life is wrapped up in your presence.
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Today, briefly, I just want to dig into one psalm.
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We'll read it from a couple others, but our main text is going to be Psalm 127.
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It's in the middle of the last section. The psalms is broken up into five sections,
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and it's 15 chapters intentionally grouped together, and they're all beginning
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with this phrase, a song of ascents, or a song of degrees,
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or steps or literally a journey to a higher place.
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And they were sometimes called the pilgrim songs for they were to be sung on
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the ritual pilgrimage to Jerusalem, particularly during the dispersion,
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during the exile when Israel is no longer a nation and they've been sent into
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slavery, into Assyria and then Babylon, and then slowly coming back.
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And as they're living away from Jerusalem, they would sing these songs as three
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times a year, they would pilgrimage to Jerusalem as an act of worship to remember
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who they were as God's people.
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And it says that they would sing these 15 songs on the way.
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It's placed in the post-exilic, as I said, section, but it also for them symbolizes a coming back.
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Because you see, they always had this hope that someday we will come back to
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the place where we dwell in God's presence again like we used to.
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And of course, we know that in Jesus, that reality, that promise was fulfilled,
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not the way perhaps they thought he didn't restore the kingdom,
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but instead he brought God's presence to his believers.
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And he said, we are now the place where God dwells. We are the temple.
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And for us, through the lens of the work of Christ, I love, we can read the Psalms.
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They're not just Old Testament, Old Covenant, because we can read them through
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the lens of Jesus, because this is all one story.
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And for us, it's no longer a trip to Jerusalem. For us now, it begins to represent
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the ever upward journey of following Jesus in this life, in this human experience,
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as we move from one place of experience to the next,
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ever growing, as it says in the New Testament, ever going from one image of
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glory to the the next, always until we are transformed into the image of Christ.
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I love these psalms when you read them in that context.
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But right here in the middle of these 15 psalms is Psalm 127,
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the only one written by Solomon, who is the archetype for the Hebrews of wisdom.
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And he says this, unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.
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Unless the Lord watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain.
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In vain you rise early and stay up late, toiling for food to eat,
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for he grants sleep to those he loves.
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Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.
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Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one's youth.
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Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame
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when they contend with their opponents in court.
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I think this psalm is one of the
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most beautiful expressions of the human experience, building our lives.
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And even as we launch off of this original New Testament scripture from the
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beginning of we are now living stones, we are building something.
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As Christians, we don't just get to have God as a hopeful feature in our lives.
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We get to now be reconnected to our original vocation, to extending God's goodness
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into the earth, to building for the kingdom.
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And we can certainly apply this scripture and people have, and I even have,
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to building God's church.
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But I think this is really more of a picture of the human experience.
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And within the human experience, we are part of the building and creating process for the kingdom.
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For those of us that have put our faith and trust in Jesus, we've been given
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this restored vocation of building for his kingdom, of extending his goodness.
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This does not just mean kingdom work alongside human work.
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I think sometimes even as Christians, we kind of live in this false dichotomy
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that there's this side of my life and then this side of my life.
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I have my faith, but this is my life. They don't often intersect.
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Once in a while they do, but that was never the intention.
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That was never, if you look at the early church, that was not their reality.
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It's not I'm this and I'm also a Christian. No, this is who I am.
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I now exist in everything that I do.
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Our human work and all of our human endeavors, they're all wrapped up in our kingdom work.
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In fact, The Hebrew word ahava, which means it's the word often used for worship.
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It is one of the primary words for worship.
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It is actually also the primary word for work. It means service.
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It means labor. And it means worship.
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In the scriptures, it refers to farming, to crafting, to parenting,
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to marriage, to priestly ministries.
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Even the Israelite slavery in Egypt, this word was used.
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But here's what's remarkable. The same word used for ordinary work is also used for sacred worship.
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God sees no division between the two.
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It's not my work, and then there's my worship. My worship is when I come to
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church, when I can make it, and I sing a couple songs, that's my worship.
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No, our lives, come on, as the people, created is God's image to represent Him,
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to bring and extend His faithfulness, His goodness to the world. That is our worship.
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Our marriages, our relationships, our jobs, our friendships,
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our careers, they all become intertwined with the vocation of building for the kingdom.
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And raising our children is one of the greatest and most important realities
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of being God's image bearers on the earth.
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And with this understanding and this tuning to the intersection that we are
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made of the reality that our building is partnered and led by God.
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We're not just asked to do something we are partnering with the one who can
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do what we can't do parents you need to get that because parenting is hard sometimes it is the worst.
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Raising adult children is harder than raising young kids sometimes because you
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have no control over the dumb things they do and my kids know never do dumb
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things don't get me wrong but some of your kids do.
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But as we attune to this reality of this intersection, we're not just giving
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a job, we are given a partnership.
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And this Psalm tells us, come on, that we are not asked to do something on our own.
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You see, if God is just a character that floats in and out of our lives to bless
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or not bless, what we build then, the greatest responsibility of it,
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the success of it, is all on us.
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But what does it say in this psalm? If God does not build the house,
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the labor is labor in vain.
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If it's just on you to raise your children, if it's just on you to be a successful
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husband, a successful wife, yes, we've got a part to play. We are partners with God.
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But thank God he doesn't ask us to do it without him.
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Eugene Peterson, when he translated this psalm, he said, if God doesn't build
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the house, the builders only build shacks.
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God says, I've called you to be my image bearers. I have called you to extend
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my faithfulness, my goodness, through the raising of your children,
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to demonstrate to all those who watch you how faithful I am by the way you are
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faithful to me and to your children,
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the way you love your kids as an extension of me.
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Come on, that demonstrates who I am, but I haven't asked you to do it alone.
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And not only are we tuned to the reality that God's hand in the building,
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that he's there giving, doing what we cannot do.
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We also are promised the presence and the power of his guarding.
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Not just that he's there, I'm going to help you put a few bricks down.
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No, he's right there. He's holding our hands.
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He's putting things where we can't see, and he is watching over the whole thing.
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Again, Eugene Peterson says, if God doesn't guard the city, the night watchman might as well nap.
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If it's just on you to protect your kids, you might as well take a nap because
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some way something's getting in that you can't see some stupid boy conniving
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manipulating boy or some enticing girl whatever whatever you want.
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We can't guard them all the time. We have a responsibility. And we most definitely
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must be intentional about how we guard our children.
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I think we have lost it. The age that we live in, we've rung this bell that we can't unring.
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Well, everybody has a phone. They should have a phone. Okay.
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Everybody has their own computer.
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Everybody can do what they want. Everybody has it. Everybody does it.
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Everybody does it. Everybody does it.
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Everybody does it. Everybody does it. And we've kind of dropped the ball in
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some of our guarding because this bell has been rung and we don't know how to
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unring it. My friends, we can unring it.
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We have a responsibility, but here's the good news.
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We're limited in what we see and know, but God is not.
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And he guards what he is building. That to me is such a comfort because I have
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dropped the ball on some of my gardening at times. I'm a human being.
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I can remember an instance with one of my children, my daughter Jillian,
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who doesn't live here anymore.
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And we have our relationships been restored. But when I took her to the airport
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to leave, it was heartbreaking. And I cried all the way there.
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And I thought I would be a wreck when I left to come home.
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You know, I dropped her off. I hugged her. I kissed her. I love you.
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And then I got in the car and there was just a peace that overwhelmed me because
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she was out of my hands, but she was fixed securely in God's.
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Listen, she'll still make her decisions.
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God's not there manipulating her, but he is guarding. He guards what he builds.
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In vain, it says in verse 2, you rise early and you stay up late,
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toiling for food to eat, for he grants sleep to those he loves.
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This is speaking to anxiety and sleeplessness, which is fear out of control.
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We've all experienced anxiety. Maybe you're that one person who's here today
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who's never experienced it.
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God love you. You're just oblivious.
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You're just not really aware.
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I've experienced it. It's not a sin. You know, I kind of grew up in a culture
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at times that fear is the opposite of faith. If you have fear,
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you are not trusting God.
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No, the Psalms are full of fear.
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Fear is a natural human response to unknown. But here's the good news.
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We are not, we do not have to live in our intersection in anxiety.
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Fear out of control. It's a result of trying to manage unknowns and what ifs.
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And we always, even when we pray, we're eliminating God from the equation,
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whether we realize it or not.
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It's like, yes, I pray God help them. But what if they don't?
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What if you don't help them?
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What if they say no to your help? What if this happens? What if I lose my job?
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What if they find the wrong person? What if somebody gives them something that
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they shouldn't have and it sends them down a path of addiction?
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What if this happens? What that that happens.
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And we live in this crippling fear and anxiety.
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It's trying to stay above water as we talked a moment ago, and the chaos,
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and we're trying to swim, and we're, these things swimming around us,
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and we don't know what to do, and what happened, what will happen.
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The rays crashing, and all we need to do is reach out with our feet and let
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the solidity of land maybe not take away all the fear, but give us balance in the middle of fear.
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Because when we're close to the shore, as we already just said,
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God is not just building, but God is guarding.
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You know, there's a reality to going to most beaches is that not only can you
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swim close to the shore, but there's people watching that see things that you can't see.
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My wife and I like to go to Myrtle Beach once in a while. We were just there.
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And I can remember the last time we went, I'm out there and my wife's sitting
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on the beach watching me You act like a fool in the ocean.
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When I come back in, she's like, there were sharks swimming around you. No, there wasn't.
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Sharks. Next couple seconds later, here comes this thing running down,
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you know, a little buggy driving down whistle and got out of the water.
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Sharks in the water because they could see what I couldn't see.
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All I saw was the waves and the crashing.
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It's not a sin to fear. There's nothing in life that can inspire anxiety like
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the unknown when it comes to our children. And I know I'm not alone.
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And my collection of sleepless nights and anxious days spent worrying about my kids.
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It hasn't ended. My kids are all adults. And perhaps I have more sometimes than
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I did before, worrying about their future, worrying about what is happening
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in their lives right now, afraid that I failed them.
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These natural concerns become anxiety when I remove God from the equation,
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when the building was all on me, when the garden was all on me.
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Here's also the thing about anxiety is not only in worrying about these things constantly,
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not only does it cause us to live in this place of irrational fear,
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it also steals our presence from the moments that we have as we toil to work
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extra hours because what if they don't have enough money for college?
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I got to work more. I got to work more. I got to make sure I provide for my kids.
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That's fueled by fear. What if I don't get them in the right sports?
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I got to get them in sports.
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I got to get them in this thing. Because what if they're not developed as they
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get into their adult lives? What if they don't have the right education?
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We fear. I felt that way. I remember when we started homeschooling our kids
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because I refused to put them into the system in middle school.
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They went back in high school.
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And I remember thinking, oh, my gosh, what if we messed them all up?
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I didn't give them good enough education.
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I don't even know how to add. I don't know. I don't know algebra.
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And forget geometry. and it
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would steal the presence of the moment as I lived in this place of fear.
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But here the scripture tells us he gives rest to those he loves.
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If God does not build and watch, then it is all in vain. But here's the good news, he does.
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So we can be present in peace, not abandoning our responsibilities, not quitting our jobs.
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The pastor told me to quit my job, to be present. No, we do what we gotta do.
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In confident trust that God is doing what we cannot do.
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Not abandoning our responsibilities, but in them, resting in the reality of
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his presence, his building, and his guarding what we can't.
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Then it goes on to say, children are a heritage from the Lord,
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offspring a reward from him.
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Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one's youth.
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Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame
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when they contend with their opponents in court. It's kind of a weird,
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if you're just hearing this and you don't understand the context.
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Talking about the reality that children are more than just a blessing as we
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watch them as little kids.
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And they're fun, like Dawson loves his poppy and lolly, loves his grandma and
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grandpa, loves all of his family.
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He's so happy, the happiest baby I ever saw.
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That's beautiful. That's going to end though.
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And you see, children are not
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just a burden that we carry, but they're a manifestation of God's favor.
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Again, not just in these fun moments, They're part of it. I would never trade one moment.
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I would never even trade one bad financial decision to take my kids out for
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a good night because it gave us a moment to celebrate. I would never trade any of it.
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And sometimes in this broken kind of word, it's easy for children to become something burdensome.
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But even in a broken world, for us at the intersection of God's space,
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we can rest and experience a state of blessing as we raise our kids because
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our children are more than just fun.
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They are a heritage from the Lord.
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In this whole imagery, they become like weapons, a quiver.
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It's talking about there's going to be a day when they'll cease to be the little
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kids that I bounce on my knee, and they'll be the ones that surround me,
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hold up my arms as I hold up theirs, extending who I am into places that I couldn't.
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God didn't create humanity just so he can have fun with them.
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He created them to extend who he was into the rest of the world.
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We don't have children just to say that we did it, just to have some fun and
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to have some horrible anxious moments.
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We did so so that we could extend God's faithfulness to places that we can't.
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Our children become our weapons. friends my adult
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kids they've become the greatest
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friends that i've ever had you know growing up
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and kind of our culture is like your kids can't be your friends i'm just not
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that kind of a person and now my children are my best friends my son-in-law
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every time anybody asks me who my best friend is i think it's tyler like okay
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that's kind of weird it's tyler he's my best friend I mean, I didn't just get a friend.
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I can rest. You know, I have had some fears about my future at times because
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I don't always know what's going to be next after this.
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But I have this confident peace that as I've cared for my kids,
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I know that they're not going to abandon me because they're the heritage from the Lord.
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They're the arrows in my quiver. They're going to go places that I could never go.
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They, as they now live in God's faithfulness, will extend that faithfulness
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to places that I will never see.
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That, my friends, is a beautiful picture of being an image bearer of God.
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Psalms 100 verse 5, for the Lord is good and his love endures forever.
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His faithfulness continues through all generations.
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Psalm 103. I'm going to read a few more Psalms. I'm almost done.
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As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him.
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For he knows how we are formed. He remembers that we are dust.
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God is not unaware. God's never taken by surprise when we act like humans. What the freak?
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He remembers who he knows us. The life of mortals is like grass.
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They flourish like a flower of the field.
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And then the remembers it no more.
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Or the wind blows over and it is gone and its place remembers it no more.
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But from everlasting to everlasting, the Lord's love is with those who fear
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him and his righteousness, or he will do right by their children's children.
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With those who keep his covenant and remember to obey his precepts,
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the Lord has established his throne in heaven and his kingdom rules over.
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Here's the good news. Our faithfulness towards our children,
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or I'm sorry, God's faithfulness towards our children is established and completely
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based on who he is and his faithfulness, not ours.
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If God's faithfulness only extends as far as my faithfulness, then it is limited.
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But his faithfulness to us and to our children and our children's children is
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based on his merit, and His faithfulness never ends.
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Before they were ours, and long after we have any say in their lives,
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God has been and will be on His throne,
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building and guarding and surrounding with His righteousness and steadfast love and faithfulness.
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His faithfulness to them extends way beyond ours.
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One more psalm. It's the following psalm that is the companion of Psalm 127 and 128.
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It says, Blessed are all who fear the Lord, who walk in obedience to him.
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You will eat the fruit of your labor.
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Blessings and prosperity will be yours. Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within the house.
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Your children will be like olive shoots around the table.
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Yes, this will be the blessing for the man who fears the Lord.
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May the Lord bless you from Zion. May you see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of your life.
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May you live to see your children's children.
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Israel. And again, as we read these psalms through the filter of Jesus,
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the lens of the cross, we realize he's no longer talking about a nation,
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but the descendants of what that nation stood for.
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Now we are the seed of Abraham. Now we are, come on, the joint heirs with Christ.
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We are the children of God.
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And these blessings, even in the middle of chaos, belong to us.
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And it's disingenuous to say that there's no statutes or patterns of living
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that come with walking in his ways. That's just not in the scripture.
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There is a way to be God's people. That's what it means to fear him.
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But our ability to walk upright is not the deciding factor to whether or not God will be faithful.
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His faithfulness is not dependent upon ours. But when we bring our faithfulness to his faithfulness.
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When we live in the fear of the Lord, which simply means reverence,
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that we place him in high place in our lives, the highest place in our lives.
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We hold that in reverence and
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acknowledge him as God. We keep him in that proper place and perspective.
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There's something in our lives that is manifested.
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You know, Proverbs 22, 6, which is always the scripture you read for these kind of things.
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Start children off on the way that they should go. And even when they are old,
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they will not turn from it.
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Raise your children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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Here's the bad news about the Proverbs.
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They are wisdom, and they give us a rhythm of life that is intersecting,
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is the way that God intersects with the world. But they're not an equation.
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There are plenty of people who have started their kids off wrong,
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but the kids have to make their own decisions.
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It's a wise saying. It is wisdom. And here's the truth. As parents,
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there is a season where we do choose for our kids.
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Get it out of your mind that just because they're 15, 16, that you don't get
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to choose for them anymore.
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It is your responsibility to make choices. Yes, they gotta make choices.
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They gotta choose what they're gonna obey. But I chose for my kids that this
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is what we do. This is who we are.
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Me and my household, we will serve the Lord. We will honor him.
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We will place him in high esteem.
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As long as you live in my house, this is what we do. You can choose in your heart not to do it.
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And there is a time where we do choose for them, but eventually they will choose for themselves.
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And unfortunately it doesn't mean that they'll choose the same things especially
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in the world we live in but but if we show them if we show them what it looks like.
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Showing them to revere and honor God, if we show them faithfulness to God connects
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us to his faithfulness, that even if they choose themselves as Lord,
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even if they choose to go their own way, even if they say, I am my own God,
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they will remember, they'll never forget the godly fear.
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When the time comes where self-pursuits reveal what they are as a way ending
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to death, there'll be a remembrance.
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But I do remember what it looked like.
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I remember the peace of God's presence.
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If you show them reverence, if you show them that God is more than a feature,
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not regulations. I'm not saying there are no regulations. Give the kids rules.
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Them little animals need rules.
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But first and foremost, show them reverence.
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God is first in our lives because he has been so good. I love him because he first loved me.
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Show them reverence and you will show them faithfulness. And your faithfulness
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will reveal to them God's faithfulness.
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And showing them faithfulness is showing them that God and who he is in our
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lives is not just an option, not just a feature. That's just something that we try.
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This is who I am. This is who I was created to be.
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I said this a couple of years ago, and I don't mean it as to hurt anyone's feelings,
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but there's a very small chance that your kids are going to be professional athletes.
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There's a very small chance they're going to perform on Broadway.
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It's a very small chance they're going to be a movie star, but there's a 100%
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chance that they will answer to God for the decisions that they make in their
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lives. They will have to make them.
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Our responsibility is not to make sure they make the right ones.
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It is to show them what it looks like to live in God's faithfulness.
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To that Psalm 128. May the Lord bless you from Zion.
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May you see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of your life.
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May you live to see your children's children.
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Peace be on you.
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God's favor and his blessing, they come from him, from Zion,
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it says here, which simply is a representation of where he dwells,
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from him and him alone, not from our position, but from his.
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And we as humans, we get to live in this intersection where our space meets
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his space, where our faithfulness meets his faithfulness,
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where our work becomes worship, extending who he is, even at our jobs, even in our schools,
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even in our families, in our friendships, everything that we do becomes wrapped up in his faithfulness.
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And it extends when we live according to that faithfulness, we extend who he
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is and we reveal who he is.
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As we read in 1 Peter, just at the beginning of this message.
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Live such lives that as they look at you, even when they try to accuse you,
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they'll see your life and they'll have to give glory to God.
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They'll see your marriage and they'll have to say, I don't really like him,
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but I can't argue with the fruit of their lives.
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They'll see your forgiveness. They'll see your compassion.
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Come on. They'll see the way you love your children. God is building God is
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guarding God is faithful from generation to generation.