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Revelations 14:12-14 - ”There is a Time to Live”
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Amen.
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>> Our Old Testament reading is Psalm 116
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and it's about an experience man has and
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he thinks that he's dying.
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I love the Lord because he has heard my
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voice and my pleas for mercy.
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Because he inclined his ear to me.
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Therefore, I will call on him as long as
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I live.
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The snares of death encompassed me.
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The pangs of Sheol laid hold of me.
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I suffered distress and anguish.
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Then I called on the name of the Lord.
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Oh Lord, I pray deliver my soul.
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Gracious is the Lord and righteous.
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Our God is merciful.
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The Lord preserves the simple.
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When I was brought low, he saved me.
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Return oh Lord to oh my soul to your
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rest.
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For the Lord has dealt bountifully with
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you.
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For you have delivered my soul from
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death, my eyes from tears,
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my feet from stumbling.
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I will walk before the Lord in the land
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of the living.
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I believed even when I spoke. I am
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greatly afflicted.
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I said in my alarm,
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all mankind are liars.
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What shall I render to the Lord for all
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his benefits to me?
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I will lift up the cup of salvation and
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call on the name of the Lord.
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I will pay my vows to the Lord in the
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presence of all his people.
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Precious in the sight of the Lord is the
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death of his saints.
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Oh Lord, I am your servant.
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I am your servant, the son of your
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maidservant.
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You have loosed my bonds.
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I will offer to you the sacrifice of
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thanksgiving and call on the name of the
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Lord.
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I will pay my vows to the Lord in the
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presence of all his people in the courts
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of the house of the Lord
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in your midst, oh Jerusalem.
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Praise the Lord.
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Our New Testament reading comes from
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Revelation 14:12 to 14.
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And I heard a voice from Oh, sorry.
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Here is a call for the endurance of the
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saints.
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Those who keep the commandments of God
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and their faith in Jesus.
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And I heard a voice from heaven saying,
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"Write this.
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Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord
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from now on.
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Blessed indeed, says the spirit,
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that they may rest from their labors,
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for their deeds follow them."
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This is the word of the Lord.
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>> Good morning, everyone.
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It's good to be with you and join my
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family
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at worship this morning. Um
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Ross didn't feel the need to introduce
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me.
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So, I won't introduce myself anymore,
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but uh
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um I am I'm the campus pastor at UBC
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Okanagan and long-time friend of the
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congregation and uh always always happy
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to to be here and to preach and bring
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God's word.
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Um
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you might have you might have detected
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from the two readings, Old and New
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Testament readings today, that that we
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have a a topic of of death before us,
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you know, a serious one um
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on a beautiful summer morning. I know it
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seems a little incongruous, but that's
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what we're going to do and talk about um
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particularly
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how we as Christians should be thinking
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about medical assistance in dying in
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MAID, which is a big topic right now and
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when I think that we we as the church
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need to take very seriously and reflect
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on. So, may the words of my mouth, the
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meditations of all of our hearts
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be fitting and acceptable in your sight,
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oh Lord God, our rock and our redeemer.
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There's a
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There's a great story in the Old
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Testament.
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Israel's first king, King Saul, is on
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the battlefield and he's waging war
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against his hated foes, the Philistines,
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you know, the the bad guys.
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And he's dying. He's stuck full of
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arrows.
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And he begs his armor-bearer to draw his
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sword and thrust it through him.
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But his armor-bearer would not, we read,
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for he feared greatly.
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You bring up that slide.
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Larry.
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His armor-bearer would not.
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For he feared greatly.
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That was ancient Israel.
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We in modern Canada have lost that fear.
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We will
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take someone's life who wishes to die.
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And indeed we will take our own life if
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we choose to.
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About a decade ago
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Canada's Supreme Court decriminalized
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assisted suicide and passed legislation
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to provide for what's called medical
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assistance in dying or maid
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for people who were definitely going to
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die and were going to die soon. That's
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what it was when the when the law came
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in. Since then maid has expanded. Now
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adults can choose to die if their
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condition is incurable and serious even
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if they're not going to die from that
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condition.
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Many Canadians agree with this. We don't
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have the statistics for 2025, but 2024
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made was the second leading cause of
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death in our nation, which is quite
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startling.
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And most Canadians when pulled think
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that made should be expanded to those
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who are suffering from mental illnesses
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and also
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to children over the age of 12.
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It's It's not just the average Canadian
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who has lost this great fear that Saul's
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armor-bearer had. A survey that I saw on
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the death with dignity site, it may be
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prejudiced, suggests that the majority
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of Christians in Canada, Catholic and
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Protestant, overwhelmingly support made.
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And I don't know if that survey is of,
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you know, church-going, Bible-believing
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Christians or the kind of, you know, my
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grandmother was a Presbyterian, so I
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guess that kind of makes me a Christian,
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too.
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Uh I don't know.
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But anytime we in the church largely
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share the values of our culture,
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we do need to stop, pray,
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and reflect.
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We're going to do a little bit of that
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this morning.
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Bring up the next slide, Larry, please.
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Came across this quote a a couple of
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years ago
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from the Christian ethicist Stanley
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Hauerwas. He writes this,
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"If in a hundred years Christians are
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identified as the people who do not kill
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their children or the elderly,
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we will have done well in our pastoral
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care."
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We live in a culture where compassion is
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sometimes used as an excuse to be
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killers and liars. Words like care,
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love, and compassion can be
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self-deceptive
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when not disciplined and driven by our
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theological commitments.
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We'll unpack that a little bit, but I'll
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put my cards on the table right off.
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In a years,
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I want my great great great
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grandchildren to be known as the people
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who don't kill their children
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if they're imperfect or unwanted, and
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they don't get rid of their elderly if
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they're imperfect or unwanted, too.
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I want us to be that
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I want us to be a weird people, okay? A
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people who look strange to our culture.
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In other words, a people who witness
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faithfully in life and death
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to the God who creates life, who
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commands life,
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who redeems life, who ends life.
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A God who in Jesus Christ died for our
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sins so that we might have life and was
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raised from the grave
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that we might have that life
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everlastingly.
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So, to be that kind of people,
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to bear that kind of witness,
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I think Houras is right. We need to
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watch our words.
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Two words especially
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circle around made discussions that
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sound like Christian words,
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but aren't. They're used to justify
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medicalized suicide. And I think when
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you really need to pay attention to
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these words,
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dignity
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and compassion.
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Dignity
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and compassion. You know, a big reason
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why made is popular is that it promises
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that we can die with dignity.
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And the powerful made lobby,
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also reflected in Canadian law,
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argues that to have dignity is to have
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control of yourself, to be in charge.
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The technical word for this is autonomy.
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You might have heard this word. To have
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autonomy literally means to be a to have
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your own law. You're in charge, you're
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in control.
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That is what it means to have dignity.
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So, to not have charge over your body,
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your mind, or your future
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because of injury or illness or
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disability
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is to be robbed of that dignity. Right?
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This kind of thinking is pervasive. I'm
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sure you've heard it. Someone has to
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wheel you around now because you can't
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move. Someone has to change your diaper
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because you're not in control of your
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faculties.
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Someone has to care for you because you
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have Alzheimer's or dementia.
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We look at people who are suffering this
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and often draw the conclusion that
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they're lacking dignity in some way.
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They're a burden
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rather than being in control, free, and
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independent.
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This is how we in the West in Western
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cultures think about being human. So, it
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shouldn't surprise us then that the
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elderly in our society are especially
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tempted
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to suicide.
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They end up dependent
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on others as their bodies break down and
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their minds slow.
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Shouldn't surprise us either that this
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notion of dignity circles around the
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discussion about mental illness.
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People suffering from depression or PTSD
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or a psychiatric disorder are not dying
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from it.
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But their affliction leaves them
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dependent
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on their family, their spouses, their
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kids, therapists, nurses.
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And that seems less dignified.
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Shouldn't also surprise us
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that poorer Canadians are more likely to
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seek MAID than richer Canadians.
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This is a a fact that even the
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newspapers
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the newspapers revealed a couple of
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years ago.
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If you think about it though, it makes
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sense in a in a society that idolizes
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being free and independent, to be
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financially dependent on others
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means you're not in charge.
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You've lost dignity.
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We need to watch our words, especially
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this word dignity.
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Cuz the Bible simply rejects this modern
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dogma that a person has dignity only
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when they're in control of themselves.
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In fact, the Bible teaches us that we
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are made
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to depend on others.
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Genesis 1,
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God creates us male and female.
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That little word and carries a huge
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weight.
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All the weight of dependence. We're not
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made to be independent. We're made to
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rely on others, to be dependent on.
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That's fundamental to what it means to
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be human for Christians.
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To depend on others, and it's a good
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thing.
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Some of us think, and I hear this often,
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um well, you know, when I'm when I'm old
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or when I'm sick, I I don't want to be a
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burden. I don't want to be a burden to
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my family,
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um financially.
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I don't want to burden them with the
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cost of of my of my illness, with the
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hassle,
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all that kind of thing. We don't want to
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be a burden.
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You bring up the next slide,
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Larry.
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Is it not in large measure
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what it means to belong to a family,
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asks the Lutheran theologian Gilbert
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Meilaender,
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to burden each other
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and to find, almost miraculously,
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that others are willing, even happy,
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to carry such burdens?
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I think he's got it right.
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Those of you who are married, think back
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to your marriage vows.
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For better or worse, for richer or
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poorer,
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in sickness and in health.
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Nobody makes us say these words, right?
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We want to say them. We want to take
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that burden on,
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the burden of the other person, in love.
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Think back to the birth of a child, your
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child, your niece, your nephew, your
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grandchild.
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The first time you hold that little 7,
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8, 9 lb bundle, it feels like a thousand
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pounds of responsibility, right?
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It's a burden.
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But we want that burden. We want to take
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that on.
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And if this is true of families, how
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much more true is it of the church
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family?
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Paul says in Galatians, "Bear one
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another's burdens."
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I'll be blunt. If If you want to be
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autonomous,
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if you don't want to burden others,
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don't get married.
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Don't have kids.
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And don't get baptized.
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Because when we baptize babies and
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adults in our churches,
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the pastor will pose a very inconvenient
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question to the congregation.
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"Will you support this child? Will you
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support this adult in faith?" Right?
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We're being burdened.
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But we want to be, don't we?
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We want those burdens. We're made to
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depend on others.
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We're called to bear the burdens of
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others. There's nothing undignified
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about this. In fact, it's part of the
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glory
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of our human dignity.
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And above all, we were made to depend on
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God.
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We're not autonomous.
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God creates us with limits.
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Limits of body and brains,
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personalities, possibilities.
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The great theologian Karl Bart, and
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Pastor Emery always loves to quote,
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says this, if you bring up the next
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slide,
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"It's good for us to be limited
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because it is the eternal gracious God
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who limits us."
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God is unlimited.
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Therefore, we don't have to pretend to
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be.
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This is good news. We can accept our
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limits from God
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because we're in the hands of an eternal
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gracious God.
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We get a sense of some of those
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limitations, those good limitations that
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make us depend on our unlimited God from
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the song that Laura read earlier, Psalm
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116.
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A psalm written by someone who thought
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he was dying.
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And he's remembering what it was like,
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if you bring up the slide, Larry, when
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the cords of death
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ensnared me, encircled me.
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And the point isn't that God rescued him
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from death,
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but rather how he felt as he thought he
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was dying.
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Not wanting death, not seeking it, but
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facing it, he professes twice, "I am
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your servant.
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I am your servant." Like he's dependent
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on God, dependent on God to keep him
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from death, to keep his feet from
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stumbling, his eyes from tears.
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This is powerful sense of dependence on
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God
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in life
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and in death.
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Trust in this eternal gracious God
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lets us accept his good limits on our
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life, including the time that God
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determines for us to die.
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For Christians, death is not something
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we seek, not something we celebrate, but
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we accept it when it comes from God's
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hands.
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It's a challenge today because medical
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technology, as you know, just keeps
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expanding. We can keep extending our
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lifespan with interventions after
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interventions.
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Even Christians can easily fall into
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this trap of thinking about life as
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ours, as mine to control and to keep.
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And this leaves us clinging to life
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obsessively.
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But the same Karl Bart that I quoted
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from earlier also says, "Life is not a
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second God."
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But, we do treat it like that, don't we?
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Like an idol.
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Let's not make life an idol. It's a gift
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to us.
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And the eternal gracious God has put
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limits on it according to his good will.
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I was I was profoundly influenced in my
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early 20s by the death of of my
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grandmother.
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She was diagnosed with bowel cancer.
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And after a few bouts of chemo,
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decided that was enough.
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It was too hard.
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And she had lived the span of her life.
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So, prayerfully, she decided to stop
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clinging to her life.
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The master was calling home his servant.
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And she died at our home over the course
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of a couple of months
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with my mom caring for her and some
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wonderful nurses dropping in doing
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palliative care.
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She was a burden to us,
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but a blessed burden.
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And at the very end, when she died, she
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was, of course, just skin and bones,
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reduced by the cancer, and she had to
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wear a diaper, couldn't speak, didn't
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always recognize us.
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That was a death with dignity.
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A death with dignity.
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Psalm 116, "Precious in your sight, oh
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Lord,
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is the death of your saints."
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See, when we lose our bodily functions,
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we don't have the freedom to get out of
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our wheelchair or bed, we don't lose our
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dignity.
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We confess Jesus Christ. We confess
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Jesus Christ as the perfect human being,
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right?
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The embodiment of what it means to have
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dignity.
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As scripture tells us that Jesus took
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the form of a slave
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when he became incarnate, when the son
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of God became incarnate. That's in
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Philippians.
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And as he was led to the cross, all his
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freedom was taken from him.
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He died helpless and naked.
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Someone had to give him a drink because
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he couldn't raise his hands to do it.
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And Jesus says, "Father, into your hands
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I commit myself." He's utterly
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dependent.
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Full
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of the glory of human dignity.
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MAID advocates talk a lot about dignity.
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So should we as Christians.
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But when we use that word, we mean
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something different, something better
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about what it means to be human
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and how we live and die as the people of
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God's hand.
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What about this other word, compassion?
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Our culture also speaks very loudly
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about compassion when it talks about
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MAID.
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And I think it's probably here that we
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as Christians
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feel the tug towards MAID most acutely
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because we are a people shaped by our
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God and our God is compassionate. Psalm
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116, which we read, God is merciful.
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His people are merciful, too.
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We love compassion and we want to be
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compassionate.
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So why would we oppose ending someone's
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life when they feel like their suffering
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is too much to bear?
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I had a conversation recently with
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someone on campus who knew I was a
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Christian and is interested in in MAID
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from an academic point of view and
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um
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she said, "Doesn't your Bible say, 'Do
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unto others as you would have them do
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unto you?'
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You You want to suffer.
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So why would you ask someone else to
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keep suffering?
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She said, "I I also put my cat down when
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it was old and suffering."
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I said, "I
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I I said, "You also probably neutered
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your cat without asking it. Um so, let's
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not push the analogy between
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between being a human and an animal too
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much."
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But but her comment her comment does
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strike it strikes a nerve, right? Do
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unto others. We don't want to suffer.
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Why would we Why would we let others
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suffer?
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Words like compassion and mercy and love
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for us as Christians, they don't float
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free
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from the biblical story.
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They don't float free from the biblical
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story where we learn of the limits that
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God has put on a human life
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where we learn of God's commands, "Thou
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shalt not kill."
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And above all, we learn God's character.
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To quote Stanley Hauerwas again,
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words like care, love, and compassion
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can be self-deceptive if they're not
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disciplined by our theological
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commitments. In other words, if they're
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not shaped by the Bible.
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That's where we look. And the Bible
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tells us it gives us a kind of framework
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for comprehending suffering and for
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understanding how we deal with that.
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And the Bible shows us living
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between the resurrection of Jesus and
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his coming again in glory. God's victory
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over death, sin, and suffering has
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already taken place
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in the death and resurrection of Jesus
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Christ. But the full realization of that
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victory in this world and in our lives
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has not yet
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not yet taken place.
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So, as a result, as Christians, we have
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joy and peace and love.
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But
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present in our life is also grief and
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suffering and injustice.
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As Christians, we're not called to a a
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kind of
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we're not called to a kind of
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stiff-lipped acceptance of suffering.
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We're certainly not called to celebrate
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it. We lament it. And we we seek to
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counter it within the good limits God
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has made, like encouraging good
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medicine, good palliative care medicine.
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And the and the power of medicine to
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minimize suffering is is a wonderful
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gift of God.
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But above all, we bear suffering, and we
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bear it in hope.
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Hope
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that what is not yet realized, but
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promised in Jesus' victory, a world
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without suffering.
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The Book of Revelation says he will wipe
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every tear from their eyes. There will
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be no more death,
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or mourning, or crying, or pain,
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for the old order of things has passed
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away.
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As such, until that time,
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we seek to be patient, patient in
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suffering. That's what Paul says in
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Romans 2, be patient in suffering. And
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we commit to bearing others' sufferings
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through compassion, by being present
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with them as a loving, faithful witness,
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as a hopeful witness to the victory of
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Jesus Christ.
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Now, our society doesn't have this
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biblical framework for for thinking
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about suffering, for enduring it. So,
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people grow impatient at their aging
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bodies, and they push medicine to
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overreach
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by trying to give us a life completely
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free from suffering. And then when
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efforts to get to prolong life without
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suffering
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fall,
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then we take matters into our own hands.
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I was speaking with a a student a couple
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of years ago.
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Um for about half a year, I met with her
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regularly. She suffered from acute
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psychiatric problems and depression. It
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was really really a small miracle that
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she was able to finish her university
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degree.
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And um
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she told me that she told me that her
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her her dad
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um said that when MAID is open to people
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suffering from mental illnesses in
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probably 2027, her dad said she should
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get MAID.
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And and I I had trouble kind of
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processing this as as I'm listening to
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the conversation. And I said I said I'm
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trying to sympathize with the dad and
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said like, you know, why would he say
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that? And she just said she said he just
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can't bear to see me suffer.
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MAID allows us to remove human suffering
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by removing the sufferer.
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But that's not compassion.
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We read over and over again in the New
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Testament that suffering as as terrible
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as it is
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can make us more Christ-like. I mean,
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you might know people, friends, family
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members, maybe you, people of faith
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who've suffered greatly. And often when
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they look back on their anguish, on the
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season of suffering
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they would they say something like, I
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wouldn't change that. I wouldn't change
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that even if I could. Not because they
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enjoyed it. It was awful.
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But because of what God did through it,
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what he taught them, how they learned
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from it, how they were changed by it.
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Many speak of drawing close to God
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during these trials, growing in faith,
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learning to depend on him more.
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Maybe you're thinking, well, yeah, that
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makes sense if you know, if you've got a
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long life ahead of you, but what about
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someone who's already dying, who's old
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and dying? What Why still suffer? It's
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just pointless pain, isn't it?
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Compassion would say end it all.
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But that's not what Christian compassion
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would say. And even here, at the very
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end, especially at the very end, we have
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a chance to grow more Christ-like.
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Came across this prayer in one of the
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old prayer books. If you can bring up
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the slide, Larry.
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This is a reason why we should Everybody
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should have an old prayer book.
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Check out this prayer.
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This is from the Book of Common Prayer,
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the Anglican Book of Common Prayer in
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mid-17th century. Sanctify, oh Lord, the
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sickness of your servant Todd.
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That the sense of his weakness may add
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strength to his faith and seriousness to
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his repentance and grant that he may
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live with you in everlasting life
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through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
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Isn't it a great prayer? We don't pray
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prayers like that anymore, but we
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should.
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Imagine
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Sanctify, oh Lord, the depression of
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your servant name. Sanctify, oh Lord,
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the Parkinson's of your servant name.
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Sanctify, oh Lord, the cancer
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of your servant name.
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This is a prayer that in suffering unto
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death one has the chance to grow closer
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to Christ. And what What a wonderful
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witness. What a missional moment that
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can be at life's end.
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And those who've been baptized into
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Christ are commissioned by him to bear
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witness. Witness to our God, to his
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character, to his love, his plan, and
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his purpose.
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And this mission, this calling weighs on
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every person in the church throughout
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our whole life,
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even in when we're suffering and even as
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we're dying, we bear witness to who God
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is.
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I've used this word witness a lot in
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this sermon with with with intent. If
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you could bring up the next slide,
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Larry. It's one of these great biblical
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words.
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The The word in Greek is marturion,
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witness, where we get the word martyr.
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And the New Testament actually will
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translate this word back and forth
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between witness and martyr. There's two
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examples. You shall be my witnesses, you
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should be my martyrs to the end of the
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earth. That's from Acts.
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And in Revelation, I saw the woman drunk
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with the blood of the saints, the blood
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of the witnesses, the martyrs of Jesus.
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I think that's significant, don't you?
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That this single word
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witness also means martyr. Sometimes a
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witness to God is a suffering witness,
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even a witness unto death.
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You see what terrible suffering and
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suffering that feels purposeless does is
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it tempts us to believe that God can't
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be trusted, that he's not in control,
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and that he's not good.
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And so we take life into our own hands
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and we use made to end it.
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But to kill ourselves, to commit
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suicide,
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is to witness that God cannot be
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trusted.
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He cannot be trusted in life
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and in death.
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Again, suffering is never something we
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seek or want, but when it comes to us,
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even at life's end,
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it gives us the opportunity as
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Christians to commit ourselves to a good
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God.
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Like the saints in the book of
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Revelation that Laura read from, this is
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about endurance. Don't know if you
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caught that. Here's a call for
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endurance, it says, to those who keep
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faith.
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Then I heard a voice from heaven say,
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"Write this.
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Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord
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from now on.
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Blessed are the dead who die in the
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Lord." Not a celebration of dying,
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but a commendation
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of those who kept faith, who trusted,
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who hoped, who can say in the words of a
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of Psalm 116, "I believed even when I
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was greatly afflicted."
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I want to be able to say that when I'm
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dying. I believed
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even when I was greatly afflicted. What
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a powerful witness to our God and to his
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victory in Jesus Christ.
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There's so much more I could say about
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compassion, but I I need to wrap it up.
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Um
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We witness to the good limits that God
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has made for us, which is why we talk
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about dignity.
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And we give hopeful witness to God's
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victory in Jesus Christ, even when
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suffering tempts us to think otherwise,
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which is why we talk about compassion.
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And in doing this, we're becoming this
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strange, weird people that Howar asked
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talked about, a people who don't kill
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their babies or themselves or the weak
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or the elderly.
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In this last 2 minutes,
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let me get practical, because the church
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is set in the midst of this Canadian
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society that has a will to suicide,
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which means that you and I know people
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who have asked for MAID or who will ask
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for MAID. They're going to be our
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neighbors, our friends, our families,
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our coworkers.
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Further, because Christians are
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compassionate people, we often end up in
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workplaces
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that are
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on the kind of raw edge of life, like
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hospitals and care homes,
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where we get confronted with these
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issues. Nurses and doctors, elders doing
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hospital visits.
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If our position as Christians against
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suicide is clear,
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what's our posture to be?
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How do we How do we live this out?
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I mean, imagine you've got a friend or a
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cousin,
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and he he tells you that he's thinking
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about MAID. He doesn't want to live
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anymore with his cancer
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or his PTSD.
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What do we do in those situations? I
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think
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we bear witness, first of all. We bear
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witness. We We share with him gently,
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lovingly, our better story. Maybe the
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Spirit uses it to even bring him to
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faith.
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But perhaps he's still be set on killing
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himself, and he's registered for MAID.
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He's set the date.
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We keep visiting him. We keep visiting
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him in the care home in the hospital,
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praying with him, talking to him. Maybe
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praying that prayer that I showed you
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earlier. Oh Lord, sanctify. Sanctify
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this illness
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so that it makes him more like Christ.
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Maybe praying for forgiveness, too.
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For him.
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What if he invites you into the room
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when it takes place?
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This isn't hypothetical. I was speaking
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with a couple
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an elderly couple a few weeks ago
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and they live in an assisted living
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complex in Kelowna
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and their neighbors have registered for
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MAID so that they can die as a husband
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wife together on their time, their
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terms. And they invited this couple to
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be part of it. They said, "We know
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you're Christians. Would you Would you
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Would you say a prayer with us? Will you
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sit with us
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as this happens?"
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And they asked me, "What do I do in a
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situation like that? We don't I don't
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want to abandon them, right? I don't
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want them to feel abandoned."
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What is bearing witness to God in life
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and in death look like for us in a
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situation like that?
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Should we be there?
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I think we we need to be really careful
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on a few counts.
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If we were to participate in a MAID
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right
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I think the first thing we have to
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consider is what happens to our soul.
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What happens to us when that happens?
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Think of it like this. I'll give you
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I'll give you an outrageous comparison.
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Imagine that same friend who wants MAID
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and wants you to be there. Imagine he
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tells you that he's going to end his
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life. He's suffered enough. He's going
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to jump off the Bennett Bridge, okay?
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And he's got a cement block tied around
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his feet.
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And he says, "Will you Will you join me
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on the bridge and uh say a prayer with
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me and then push me off?"
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I'm giving you an outrageous example,
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okay?
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But But But we laugh and we're like, "Of
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course we wouldn't do that. That's
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awful."
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But morally, what's the difference
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between that and MAID?
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Suicide is suicide, no matter how it's
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done. And this is This is what we have
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to watch our soul. And what make What
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makes MAID extremely dangerous for us
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is that it hides the horror of this act
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behind clean white sheets
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and soothing music and a candle burning
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in your home.
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And that's dangerous.
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Reminds me actually of when my wife and
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I, a couple years ago, were gifted with
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a trip to some of the Bible lands, and
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we started in Egypt. And one day um in
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southern Egypt, we went into the Valley
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of the Kings. You've probably heard of
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this or read about it. Some of you might
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have visited.
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Where the pharaohs were buried deep in
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the mountain. And you have to imagine
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walking down to this death room carved
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out of solid rock.
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Um
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Lapis lazuli and turquoise and gold and
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silver on the walls and paint as you're
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walking down further and further. And
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then you get to this death room where
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the sarcophagus is and the mummy's
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inside it. And the guide was was kind of
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hyping it. And like, you know, it's all
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been robbed now, but imagine this this
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this whole room was just sparkling with
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gold and and lapis lazuli and silver.
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Every It was just take your breath away.
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And there's always that kind of smart
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aleck in the group who cracks jokes the
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whole time. And he was behind me and
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he's like He's like, "Well, the
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pharaoh's still dead though, isn't he?"
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And you know, we all kind of chuckled.
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But he But he's right.
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In the In the sarcophagus is a mummified
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withered corpse. And it's an ugly thing.
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And no amount of gold or silver or lapis
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lazuli is going to cover that fact.
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MAID MAID tries to hide this act
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behind something that's pristine and
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serene.
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But we have to be careful in that. We
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Be very careful about what viewing MAID
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would do to your soul.
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And here's the last thing. And for me,
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the central thing. Again, it's to bring
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back this concept of this is this notion
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of witness.
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If we were to take part in a maid
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ceremony as a bystander or as a
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companion, are we bearing faithful
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witness to God?
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Everything we do as God's people in life
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and in death
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bears witness. We are martyrs, witnesses
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that our only comfort is that we belong
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to Jesus Christ.
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Nothing should obscure or confuse that
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witness. And I think being part of a
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maid a a maid act does obscure or
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confuse that witness. So, be very, very
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cautious. Exercise great discernment.
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I'll end with this. Um, you know, in our
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in in my reformed church tradition, we
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we use catechisms a lot. And I'm I'm
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encouraged to see that actually
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catechisms are starting to come back
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among families and young people. If you
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bring up the last slide, Larry.
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We use this
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Heidelberg Catechism, um, which has
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[clears throat] which has a fantastic
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opening question. Catechisms work with a
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question and an answer.
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When our kids were small, we made them
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memorize this question and answer. I
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shouldn't say we made we made them. We
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incentivized them with you know, with
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like Dairy Queen gift cards and things
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like that.
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What is your only comfort in life and in
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death?
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The answer?
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That I'm not my own
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but belong body and soul in life and in
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death to my faithful savior Jesus
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Christ.
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This is the story
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we tell our society that has a death
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wish.
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We hold out the comfort that we are not
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our own
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but we belong in life and in death, in
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body and soul not to ourselves but to
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our faithful savior Jesus Christ.
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May we be May we be the kind of people
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who proclaim that truth
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and know that comfort
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so that our community, our society knows
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the difference it makes.
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Amen.
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Let me pray.
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God, you were the Lord of life and death
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and in Jesus Christ, in his death and
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resurrection,
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you have made us your own
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and you promise your presence no matter
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what we experience.
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God, you were in the depths of hell and
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suffering in Jesus Christ and you were
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there
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even as you were there as our exalted
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Lord.
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In all things, God, help us to heed your
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word
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and bear witness faithfully to you
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and what you've done. In Jesus name we
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pray. Amen.