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Revelations 14:12-14 - ”There is a Time to Live”

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  1. Amen.

  2. >> Our Old Testament reading is Psalm 116

  3. and it's about an experience man has and

  4. he thinks that he's dying.

  5. I love the Lord because he has heard my

  6. voice and my pleas for mercy.

  7. Because he inclined his ear to me.

  8. Therefore, I will call on him as long as

  9. I live.

  10. The snares of death encompassed me.

  11. The pangs of Sheol laid hold of me.

  12. I suffered distress and anguish.

  13. Then I called on the name of the Lord.

  14. Oh Lord, I pray deliver my soul.

  15. Gracious is the Lord and righteous.

  16. Our God is merciful.

  17. The Lord preserves the simple.

  18. When I was brought low, he saved me.

  19. Return oh Lord to oh my soul to your

  20. rest.

  21. For the Lord has dealt bountifully with

  22. you.

  23. For you have delivered my soul from

  24. death, my eyes from tears,

  25. my feet from stumbling.

  26. I will walk before the Lord in the land

  27. of the living.

  28. I believed even when I spoke. I am

  29. greatly afflicted.

  30. I said in my alarm,

  31. all mankind are liars.

  32. What shall I render to the Lord for all

  33. his benefits to me?

  34. I will lift up the cup of salvation and

  35. call on the name of the Lord.

  36. I will pay my vows to the Lord in the

  37. presence of all his people.

  38. Precious in the sight of the Lord is the

  39. death of his saints.

  40. Oh Lord, I am your servant.

  41. I am your servant, the son of your

  42. maidservant.

  43. You have loosed my bonds.

  44. I will offer to you the sacrifice of

  45. thanksgiving and call on the name of the

  46. Lord.

  47. I will pay my vows to the Lord in the

  48. presence of all his people in the courts

  49. of the house of the Lord

  50. in your midst, oh Jerusalem.

  51. Praise the Lord.

  52. Our New Testament reading comes from

  53. Revelation 14:12 to 14.

    Revelation 14:12–14

  54. And I heard a voice from Oh, sorry.

  55. Here is a call for the endurance of the

  56. saints.

  57. Those who keep the commandments of God

  58. and their faith in Jesus.

  59. And I heard a voice from heaven saying,

  60. "Write this.

  61. Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord

  62. from now on.

  63. Blessed indeed, says the spirit,

  64. that they may rest from their labors,

  65. for their deeds follow them."

  66. This is the word of the Lord.

  67. >> Good morning, everyone.

  68. It's good to be with you and join my

  69. family

  70. at worship this morning. Um

  71. Ross didn't feel the need to introduce

  72. me.

  73. So, I won't introduce myself anymore,

  74. but uh

  75. um I am I'm the campus pastor at UBC

  76. Okanagan and long-time friend of the

  77. congregation and uh always always happy

  78. to to be here and to preach and bring

  79. God's word.

  80. Um

  81. you might have you might have detected

  82. from the two readings, Old and New

  83. Testament readings today, that that we

  84. have a a topic of of death before us,

  85. you know, a serious one um

  86. on a beautiful summer morning. I know it

  87. seems a little incongruous, but that's

  88. what we're going to do and talk about um

  89. particularly

  90. how we as Christians should be thinking

  91. about medical assistance in dying in

  92. MAID, which is a big topic right now and

  93. when I think that we we as the church

  94. need to take very seriously and reflect

  95. on. So, may the words of my mouth, the

  96. meditations of all of our hearts

  97. be fitting and acceptable in your sight,

  98. oh Lord God, our rock and our redeemer.

  99. There's a

  100. There's a great story in the Old

  101. Testament.

  102. Israel's first king, King Saul, is on

  103. the battlefield and he's waging war

  104. against his hated foes, the Philistines,

  105. you know, the the bad guys.

  106. And he's dying. He's stuck full of

  107. arrows.

  108. And he begs his armor-bearer to draw his

  109. sword and thrust it through him.

  110. But his armor-bearer would not, we read,

  111. for he feared greatly.

  112. You bring up that slide.

  113. Larry.

  114. His armor-bearer would not.

  115. For he feared greatly.

  116. That was ancient Israel.

  117. We in modern Canada have lost that fear.

  118. We will

  119. take someone's life who wishes to die.

  120. And indeed we will take our own life if

  121. we choose to.

  122. About a decade ago

  123. Canada's Supreme Court decriminalized

  124. assisted suicide and passed legislation

  125. to provide for what's called medical

  126. assistance in dying or maid

  127. for people who were definitely going to

  128. die and were going to die soon. That's

  129. what it was when the when the law came

  130. in. Since then maid has expanded. Now

  131. adults can choose to die if their

  132. condition is incurable and serious even

  133. if they're not going to die from that

  134. condition.

  135. Many Canadians agree with this. We don't

  136. have the statistics for 2025, but 2024

  137. made was the second leading cause of

  138. death in our nation, which is quite

  139. startling.

  140. And most Canadians when pulled think

  141. that made should be expanded to those

  142. who are suffering from mental illnesses

  143. and also

  144. to children over the age of 12.

  145. It's It's not just the average Canadian

  146. who has lost this great fear that Saul's

  147. armor-bearer had. A survey that I saw on

  148. the death with dignity site, it may be

  149. prejudiced, suggests that the majority

  150. of Christians in Canada, Catholic and

  151. Protestant, overwhelmingly support made.

  152. And I don't know if that survey is of,

  153. you know, church-going, Bible-believing

  154. Christians or the kind of, you know, my

  155. grandmother was a Presbyterian, so I

  156. guess that kind of makes me a Christian,

  157. too.

  158. Uh I don't know.

  159. But anytime we in the church largely

  160. share the values of our culture,

  161. we do need to stop, pray,

  162. and reflect.

  163. We're going to do a little bit of that

  164. this morning.

  165. Bring up the next slide, Larry, please.

  166. Came across this quote a a couple of

  167. years ago

  168. from the Christian ethicist Stanley

  169. Hauerwas. He writes this,

  170. "If in a hundred years Christians are

  171. identified as the people who do not kill

  172. their children or the elderly,

  173. we will have done well in our pastoral

  174. care."

  175. We live in a culture where compassion is

  176. sometimes used as an excuse to be

  177. killers and liars. Words like care,

  178. love, and compassion can be

  179. self-deceptive

  180. when not disciplined and driven by our

  181. theological commitments.

  182. We'll unpack that a little bit, but I'll

  183. put my cards on the table right off.

  184. In a years,

  185. I want my great great great

  186. grandchildren to be known as the people

  187. who don't kill their children

  188. if they're imperfect or unwanted, and

  189. they don't get rid of their elderly if

  190. they're imperfect or unwanted, too.

  191. I want us to be that

  192. I want us to be a weird people, okay? A

  193. people who look strange to our culture.

  194. In other words, a people who witness

  195. faithfully in life and death

  196. to the God who creates life, who

  197. commands life,

  198. who redeems life, who ends life.

  199. A God who in Jesus Christ died for our

  200. sins so that we might have life and was

  201. raised from the grave

  202. that we might have that life

  203. everlastingly.

  204. So, to be that kind of people,

  205. to bear that kind of witness,

  206. I think Houras is right. We need to

  207. watch our words.

  208. Two words especially

  209. circle around made discussions that

  210. sound like Christian words,

  211. but aren't. They're used to justify

  212. medicalized suicide. And I think when

  213. you really need to pay attention to

  214. these words,

  215. dignity

  216. and compassion.

  217. Dignity

  218. and compassion. You know, a big reason

  219. why made is popular is that it promises

  220. that we can die with dignity.

  221. And the powerful made lobby,

  222. also reflected in Canadian law,

  223. argues that to have dignity is to have

  224. control of yourself, to be in charge.

  225. The technical word for this is autonomy.

  226. You might have heard this word. To have

  227. autonomy literally means to be a to have

  228. your own law. You're in charge, you're

  229. in control.

  230. That is what it means to have dignity.

  231. So, to not have charge over your body,

  232. your mind, or your future

  233. because of injury or illness or

  234. disability

  235. is to be robbed of that dignity. Right?

  236. This kind of thinking is pervasive. I'm

  237. sure you've heard it. Someone has to

  238. wheel you around now because you can't

  239. move. Someone has to change your diaper

  240. because you're not in control of your

  241. faculties.

  242. Someone has to care for you because you

  243. have Alzheimer's or dementia.

  244. We look at people who are suffering this

  245. and often draw the conclusion that

  246. they're lacking dignity in some way.

  247. They're a burden

  248. rather than being in control, free, and

  249. independent.

  250. This is how we in the West in Western

  251. cultures think about being human. So, it

  252. shouldn't surprise us then that the

  253. elderly in our society are especially

  254. tempted

  255. to suicide.

  256. They end up dependent

  257. on others as their bodies break down and

  258. their minds slow.

  259. Shouldn't surprise us either that this

  260. notion of dignity circles around the

  261. discussion about mental illness.

  262. People suffering from depression or PTSD

  263. or a psychiatric disorder are not dying

  264. from it.

  265. But their affliction leaves them

  266. dependent

  267. on their family, their spouses, their

  268. kids, therapists, nurses.

  269. And that seems less dignified.

  270. Shouldn't also surprise us

  271. that poorer Canadians are more likely to

  272. seek MAID than richer Canadians.

  273. This is a a fact that even the

  274. newspapers

  275. the newspapers revealed a couple of

  276. years ago.

  277. If you think about it though, it makes

  278. sense in a in a society that idolizes

  279. being free and independent, to be

  280. financially dependent on others

  281. means you're not in charge.

  282. You've lost dignity.

  283. We need to watch our words, especially

  284. this word dignity.

  285. Cuz the Bible simply rejects this modern

  286. dogma that a person has dignity only

  287. when they're in control of themselves.

  288. In fact, the Bible teaches us that we

  289. are made

  290. to depend on others.

  291. Genesis 1,

  292. God creates us male and female.

  293. That little word and carries a huge

  294. weight.

  295. All the weight of dependence. We're not

  296. made to be independent. We're made to

  297. rely on others, to be dependent on.

  298. That's fundamental to what it means to

  299. be human for Christians.

  300. To depend on others, and it's a good

  301. thing.

  302. Some of us think, and I hear this often,

  303. um well, you know, when I'm when I'm old

  304. or when I'm sick, I I don't want to be a

  305. burden. I don't want to be a burden to

  306. my family,

  307. um financially.

  308. I don't want to burden them with the

  309. cost of of my of my illness, with the

  310. hassle,

  311. all that kind of thing. We don't want to

  312. be a burden.

  313. You bring up the next slide,

  314. Larry.

  315. Is it not in large measure

  316. what it means to belong to a family,

  317. asks the Lutheran theologian Gilbert

  318. Meilaender,

  319. to burden each other

  320. and to find, almost miraculously,

  321. that others are willing, even happy,

  322. to carry such burdens?

  323. I think he's got it right.

  324. Those of you who are married, think back

  325. to your marriage vows.

  326. For better or worse, for richer or

  327. poorer,

  328. in sickness and in health.

  329. Nobody makes us say these words, right?

  330. We want to say them. We want to take

  331. that burden on,

  332. the burden of the other person, in love.

  333. Think back to the birth of a child, your

  334. child, your niece, your nephew, your

  335. grandchild.

  336. The first time you hold that little 7,

  337. 8, 9 lb bundle, it feels like a thousand

  338. pounds of responsibility, right?

  339. It's a burden.

  340. But we want that burden. We want to take

  341. that on.

  342. And if this is true of families, how

  343. much more true is it of the church

  344. family?

  345. Paul says in Galatians, "Bear one

  346. another's burdens."

  347. I'll be blunt. If If you want to be

  348. autonomous,

  349. if you don't want to burden others,

  350. don't get married.

  351. Don't have kids.

  352. And don't get baptized.

  353. Because when we baptize babies and

  354. adults in our churches,

  355. the pastor will pose a very inconvenient

  356. question to the congregation.

  357. "Will you support this child? Will you

  358. support this adult in faith?" Right?

  359. We're being burdened.

  360. But we want to be, don't we?

  361. We want those burdens. We're made to

  362. depend on others.

  363. We're called to bear the burdens of

  364. others. There's nothing undignified

  365. about this. In fact, it's part of the

  366. glory

  367. of our human dignity.

  368. And above all, we were made to depend on

  369. God.

  370. We're not autonomous.

  371. God creates us with limits.

  372. Limits of body and brains,

  373. personalities, possibilities.

  374. The great theologian Karl Bart, and

  375. Pastor Emery always loves to quote,

  376. says this, if you bring up the next

  377. slide,

  378. "It's good for us to be limited

  379. because it is the eternal gracious God

  380. who limits us."

  381. God is unlimited.

  382. Therefore, we don't have to pretend to

  383. be.

  384. This is good news. We can accept our

  385. limits from God

  386. because we're in the hands of an eternal

  387. gracious God.

  388. We get a sense of some of those

  389. limitations, those good limitations that

  390. make us depend on our unlimited God from

  391. the song that Laura read earlier, Psalm

  392. 116.

  393. A psalm written by someone who thought

  394. he was dying.

  395. And he's remembering what it was like,

  396. if you bring up the slide, Larry, when

  397. the cords of death

  398. ensnared me, encircled me.

  399. And the point isn't that God rescued him

  400. from death,

  401. but rather how he felt as he thought he

  402. was dying.

  403. Not wanting death, not seeking it, but

  404. facing it, he professes twice, "I am

  405. your servant.

  406. I am your servant." Like he's dependent

  407. on God, dependent on God to keep him

  408. from death, to keep his feet from

  409. stumbling, his eyes from tears.

  410. This is powerful sense of dependence on

  411. God

  412. in life

  413. and in death.

  414. Trust in this eternal gracious God

  415. lets us accept his good limits on our

  416. life, including the time that God

  417. determines for us to die.

  418. For Christians, death is not something

  419. we seek, not something we celebrate, but

  420. we accept it when it comes from God's

  421. hands.

  422. It's a challenge today because medical

  423. technology, as you know, just keeps

  424. expanding. We can keep extending our

  425. lifespan with interventions after

  426. interventions.

  427. Even Christians can easily fall into

  428. this trap of thinking about life as

  429. ours, as mine to control and to keep.

  430. And this leaves us clinging to life

  431. obsessively.

  432. But the same Karl Bart that I quoted

  433. from earlier also says, "Life is not a

  434. second God."

  435. But, we do treat it like that, don't we?

  436. Like an idol.

  437. Let's not make life an idol. It's a gift

  438. to us.

  439. And the eternal gracious God has put

  440. limits on it according to his good will.

  441. I was I was profoundly influenced in my

  442. early 20s by the death of of my

  443. grandmother.

  444. She was diagnosed with bowel cancer.

  445. And after a few bouts of chemo,

  446. decided that was enough.

  447. It was too hard.

  448. And she had lived the span of her life.

  449. So, prayerfully, she decided to stop

  450. clinging to her life.

  451. The master was calling home his servant.

  452. And she died at our home over the course

  453. of a couple of months

  454. with my mom caring for her and some

  455. wonderful nurses dropping in doing

  456. palliative care.

  457. She was a burden to us,

  458. but a blessed burden.

  459. And at the very end, when she died, she

  460. was, of course, just skin and bones,

  461. reduced by the cancer, and she had to

  462. wear a diaper, couldn't speak, didn't

  463. always recognize us.

  464. That was a death with dignity.

  465. A death with dignity.

  466. Psalm 116, "Precious in your sight, oh

  467. Lord,

  468. is the death of your saints."

  469. See, when we lose our bodily functions,

  470. we don't have the freedom to get out of

  471. our wheelchair or bed, we don't lose our

  472. dignity.

  473. We confess Jesus Christ. We confess

  474. Jesus Christ as the perfect human being,

  475. right?

  476. The embodiment of what it means to have

  477. dignity.

  478. As scripture tells us that Jesus took

  479. the form of a slave

  480. when he became incarnate, when the son

  481. of God became incarnate. That's in

  482. Philippians.

  483. And as he was led to the cross, all his

  484. freedom was taken from him.

  485. He died helpless and naked.

  486. Someone had to give him a drink because

  487. he couldn't raise his hands to do it.

  488. And Jesus says, "Father, into your hands

  489. I commit myself." He's utterly

  490. dependent.

  491. Full

  492. of the glory of human dignity.

  493. MAID advocates talk a lot about dignity.

  494. So should we as Christians.

  495. But when we use that word, we mean

  496. something different, something better

  497. about what it means to be human

  498. and how we live and die as the people of

  499. God's hand.

  500. What about this other word, compassion?

  501. Our culture also speaks very loudly

  502. about compassion when it talks about

  503. MAID.

  504. And I think it's probably here that we

  505. as Christians

  506. feel the tug towards MAID most acutely

  507. because we are a people shaped by our

  508. God and our God is compassionate. Psalm

  509. 116, which we read, God is merciful.

  510. His people are merciful, too.

  511. We love compassion and we want to be

  512. compassionate.

  513. So why would we oppose ending someone's

  514. life when they feel like their suffering

  515. is too much to bear?

  516. I had a conversation recently with

  517. someone on campus who knew I was a

  518. Christian and is interested in in MAID

  519. from an academic point of view and

  520. um

  521. she said, "Doesn't your Bible say, 'Do

  522. unto others as you would have them do

  523. unto you?'

  524. You You want to suffer.

  525. So why would you ask someone else to

  526. keep suffering?

  527. She said, "I I also put my cat down when

  528. it was old and suffering."

  529. I said, "I

  530. I I said, "You also probably neutered

  531. your cat without asking it. Um so, let's

  532. not push the analogy between

  533. between being a human and an animal too

  534. much."

  535. But but her comment her comment does

  536. strike it strikes a nerve, right? Do

  537. unto others. We don't want to suffer.

  538. Why would we Why would we let others

  539. suffer?

  540. Words like compassion and mercy and love

  541. for us as Christians, they don't float

  542. free

  543. from the biblical story.

  544. They don't float free from the biblical

  545. story where we learn of the limits that

  546. God has put on a human life

  547. where we learn of God's commands, "Thou

  548. shalt not kill."

  549. And above all, we learn God's character.

  550. To quote Stanley Hauerwas again,

  551. words like care, love, and compassion

  552. can be self-deceptive if they're not

  553. disciplined by our theological

  554. commitments. In other words, if they're

  555. not shaped by the Bible.

  556. That's where we look. And the Bible

  557. tells us it gives us a kind of framework

  558. for comprehending suffering and for

  559. understanding how we deal with that.

  560. And the Bible shows us living

  561. between the resurrection of Jesus and

  562. his coming again in glory. God's victory

  563. over death, sin, and suffering has

  564. already taken place

  565. in the death and resurrection of Jesus

  566. Christ. But the full realization of that

  567. victory in this world and in our lives

  568. has not yet

  569. not yet taken place.

  570. So, as a result, as Christians, we have

  571. joy and peace and love.

  572. But

  573. present in our life is also grief and

  574. suffering and injustice.

  575. As Christians, we're not called to a a

  576. kind of

  577. we're not called to a kind of

  578. stiff-lipped acceptance of suffering.

  579. We're certainly not called to celebrate

  580. it. We lament it. And we we seek to

  581. counter it within the good limits God

  582. has made, like encouraging good

  583. medicine, good palliative care medicine.

  584. And the and the power of medicine to

  585. minimize suffering is is a wonderful

  586. gift of God.

  587. But above all, we bear suffering, and we

  588. bear it in hope.

  589. Hope

  590. that what is not yet realized, but

  591. promised in Jesus' victory, a world

  592. without suffering.

  593. The Book of Revelation says he will wipe

  594. every tear from their eyes. There will

  595. be no more death,

  596. or mourning, or crying, or pain,

  597. for the old order of things has passed

  598. away.

  599. As such, until that time,

  600. we seek to be patient, patient in

  601. suffering. That's what Paul says in

  602. Romans 2, be patient in suffering. And

  603. we commit to bearing others' sufferings

  604. through compassion, by being present

  605. with them as a loving, faithful witness,

  606. as a hopeful witness to the victory of

  607. Jesus Christ.

  608. Now, our society doesn't have this

  609. biblical framework for for thinking

  610. about suffering, for enduring it. So,

  611. people grow impatient at their aging

  612. bodies, and they push medicine to

  613. overreach

  614. by trying to give us a life completely

  615. free from suffering. And then when

  616. efforts to get to prolong life without

  617. suffering

  618. fall,

  619. then we take matters into our own hands.

  620. I was speaking with a a student a couple

  621. of years ago.

  622. Um for about half a year, I met with her

  623. regularly. She suffered from acute

  624. psychiatric problems and depression. It

  625. was really really a small miracle that

  626. she was able to finish her university

  627. degree.

  628. And um

  629. she told me that she told me that her

  630. her her dad

  631. um said that when MAID is open to people

  632. suffering from mental illnesses in

  633. probably 2027, her dad said she should

  634. get MAID.

  635. And and I I had trouble kind of

  636. processing this as as I'm listening to

  637. the conversation. And I said I said I'm

  638. trying to sympathize with the dad and

  639. said like, you know, why would he say

  640. that? And she just said she said he just

  641. can't bear to see me suffer.

  642. MAID allows us to remove human suffering

  643. by removing the sufferer.

  644. But that's not compassion.

  645. We read over and over again in the New

  646. Testament that suffering as as terrible

  647. as it is

  648. can make us more Christ-like. I mean,

  649. you might know people, friends, family

  650. members, maybe you, people of faith

  651. who've suffered greatly. And often when

  652. they look back on their anguish, on the

  653. season of suffering

  654. they would they say something like, I

  655. wouldn't change that. I wouldn't change

  656. that even if I could. Not because they

  657. enjoyed it. It was awful.

  658. But because of what God did through it,

  659. what he taught them, how they learned

  660. from it, how they were changed by it.

  661. Many speak of drawing close to God

  662. during these trials, growing in faith,

  663. learning to depend on him more.

  664. Maybe you're thinking, well, yeah, that

  665. makes sense if you know, if you've got a

  666. long life ahead of you, but what about

  667. someone who's already dying, who's old

  668. and dying? What Why still suffer? It's

  669. just pointless pain, isn't it?

  670. Compassion would say end it all.

  671. But that's not what Christian compassion

  672. would say. And even here, at the very

  673. end, especially at the very end, we have

  674. a chance to grow more Christ-like.

  675. Came across this prayer in one of the

  676. old prayer books. If you can bring up

  677. the slide, Larry.

  678. This is a reason why we should Everybody

  679. should have an old prayer book.

  680. Check out this prayer.

  681. This is from the Book of Common Prayer,

  682. the Anglican Book of Common Prayer in

  683. mid-17th century. Sanctify, oh Lord, the

  684. sickness of your servant Todd.

  685. That the sense of his weakness may add

  686. strength to his faith and seriousness to

  687. his repentance and grant that he may

  688. live with you in everlasting life

  689. through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

  690. Isn't it a great prayer? We don't pray

  691. prayers like that anymore, but we

  692. should.

  693. Imagine

  694. Sanctify, oh Lord, the depression of

  695. your servant name. Sanctify, oh Lord,

  696. the Parkinson's of your servant name.

  697. Sanctify, oh Lord, the cancer

  698. of your servant name.

  699. This is a prayer that in suffering unto

  700. death one has the chance to grow closer

  701. to Christ. And what What a wonderful

  702. witness. What a missional moment that

  703. can be at life's end.

  704. And those who've been baptized into

  705. Christ are commissioned by him to bear

  706. witness. Witness to our God, to his

  707. character, to his love, his plan, and

  708. his purpose.

  709. And this mission, this calling weighs on

  710. every person in the church throughout

  711. our whole life,

  712. even in when we're suffering and even as

  713. we're dying, we bear witness to who God

  714. is.

  715. I've used this word witness a lot in

  716. this sermon with with with intent. If

  717. you could bring up the next slide,

  718. Larry. It's one of these great biblical

  719. words.

  720. The The word in Greek is marturion,

  721. witness, where we get the word martyr.

  722. And the New Testament actually will

  723. translate this word back and forth

  724. between witness and martyr. There's two

  725. examples. You shall be my witnesses, you

  726. should be my martyrs to the end of the

  727. earth. That's from Acts.

  728. And in Revelation, I saw the woman drunk

  729. with the blood of the saints, the blood

  730. of the witnesses, the martyrs of Jesus.

  731. I think that's significant, don't you?

  732. That this single word

  733. witness also means martyr. Sometimes a

  734. witness to God is a suffering witness,

  735. even a witness unto death.

  736. You see what terrible suffering and

  737. suffering that feels purposeless does is

  738. it tempts us to believe that God can't

  739. be trusted, that he's not in control,

  740. and that he's not good.

  741. And so we take life into our own hands

  742. and we use made to end it.

  743. But to kill ourselves, to commit

  744. suicide,

  745. is to witness that God cannot be

  746. trusted.

  747. He cannot be trusted in life

  748. and in death.

  749. Again, suffering is never something we

  750. seek or want, but when it comes to us,

  751. even at life's end,

  752. it gives us the opportunity as

  753. Christians to commit ourselves to a good

  754. God.

  755. Like the saints in the book of

  756. Revelation that Laura read from, this is

  757. about endurance. Don't know if you

  758. caught that. Here's a call for

  759. endurance, it says, to those who keep

  760. faith.

  761. Then I heard a voice from heaven say,

  762. "Write this.

  763. Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord

  764. from now on.

  765. Blessed are the dead who die in the

  766. Lord." Not a celebration of dying,

  767. but a commendation

  768. of those who kept faith, who trusted,

  769. who hoped, who can say in the words of a

  770. of Psalm 116, "I believed even when I

  771. was greatly afflicted."

  772. I want to be able to say that when I'm

  773. dying. I believed

  774. even when I was greatly afflicted. What

  775. a powerful witness to our God and to his

  776. victory in Jesus Christ.

  777. There's so much more I could say about

  778. compassion, but I I need to wrap it up.

  779. Um

  780. We witness to the good limits that God

  781. has made for us, which is why we talk

  782. about dignity.

  783. And we give hopeful witness to God's

  784. victory in Jesus Christ, even when

  785. suffering tempts us to think otherwise,

  786. which is why we talk about compassion.

  787. And in doing this, we're becoming this

  788. strange, weird people that Howar asked

  789. talked about, a people who don't kill

  790. their babies or themselves or the weak

  791. or the elderly.

  792. In this last 2 minutes,

  793. let me get practical, because the church

  794. is set in the midst of this Canadian

  795. society that has a will to suicide,

  796. which means that you and I know people

  797. who have asked for MAID or who will ask

  798. for MAID. They're going to be our

  799. neighbors, our friends, our families,

  800. our coworkers.

  801. Further, because Christians are

  802. compassionate people, we often end up in

  803. workplaces

  804. that are

  805. on the kind of raw edge of life, like

  806. hospitals and care homes,

  807. where we get confronted with these

  808. issues. Nurses and doctors, elders doing

  809. hospital visits.

  810. If our position as Christians against

  811. suicide is clear,

  812. what's our posture to be?

  813. How do we How do we live this out?

  814. I mean, imagine you've got a friend or a

  815. cousin,

  816. and he he tells you that he's thinking

  817. about MAID. He doesn't want to live

  818. anymore with his cancer

  819. or his PTSD.

  820. What do we do in those situations? I

  821. think

  822. we bear witness, first of all. We bear

  823. witness. We We share with him gently,

  824. lovingly, our better story. Maybe the

  825. Spirit uses it to even bring him to

  826. faith.

  827. But perhaps he's still be set on killing

  828. himself, and he's registered for MAID.

  829. He's set the date.

  830. We keep visiting him. We keep visiting

  831. him in the care home in the hospital,

  832. praying with him, talking to him. Maybe

  833. praying that prayer that I showed you

  834. earlier. Oh Lord, sanctify. Sanctify

  835. this illness

  836. so that it makes him more like Christ.

  837. Maybe praying for forgiveness, too.

  838. For him.

  839. What if he invites you into the room

  840. when it takes place?

  841. This isn't hypothetical. I was speaking

  842. with a couple

  843. an elderly couple a few weeks ago

  844. and they live in an assisted living

  845. complex in Kelowna

  846. and their neighbors have registered for

  847. MAID so that they can die as a husband

  848. wife together on their time, their

  849. terms. And they invited this couple to

  850. be part of it. They said, "We know

  851. you're Christians. Would you Would you

  852. Would you say a prayer with us? Will you

  853. sit with us

  854. as this happens?"

  855. And they asked me, "What do I do in a

  856. situation like that? We don't I don't

  857. want to abandon them, right? I don't

  858. want them to feel abandoned."

  859. What is bearing witness to God in life

  860. and in death look like for us in a

  861. situation like that?

  862. Should we be there?

  863. I think we we need to be really careful

  864. on a few counts.

  865. If we were to participate in a MAID

  866. right

  867. I think the first thing we have to

  868. consider is what happens to our soul.

  869. What happens to us when that happens?

  870. Think of it like this. I'll give you

  871. I'll give you an outrageous comparison.

  872. Imagine that same friend who wants MAID

  873. and wants you to be there. Imagine he

  874. tells you that he's going to end his

  875. life. He's suffered enough. He's going

  876. to jump off the Bennett Bridge, okay?

  877. And he's got a cement block tied around

  878. his feet.

  879. And he says, "Will you Will you join me

  880. on the bridge and uh say a prayer with

  881. me and then push me off?"

  882. I'm giving you an outrageous example,

  883. okay?

  884. But But But we laugh and we're like, "Of

  885. course we wouldn't do that. That's

  886. awful."

  887. But morally, what's the difference

  888. between that and MAID?

  889. Suicide is suicide, no matter how it's

  890. done. And this is This is what we have

  891. to watch our soul. And what make What

  892. makes MAID extremely dangerous for us

  893. is that it hides the horror of this act

  894. behind clean white sheets

  895. and soothing music and a candle burning

  896. in your home.

  897. And that's dangerous.

  898. Reminds me actually of when my wife and

  899. I, a couple years ago, were gifted with

  900. a trip to some of the Bible lands, and

  901. we started in Egypt. And one day um in

  902. southern Egypt, we went into the Valley

  903. of the Kings. You've probably heard of

  904. this or read about it. Some of you might

  905. have visited.

  906. Where the pharaohs were buried deep in

  907. the mountain. And you have to imagine

  908. walking down to this death room carved

  909. out of solid rock.

  910. Um

  911. Lapis lazuli and turquoise and gold and

  912. silver on the walls and paint as you're

  913. walking down further and further. And

  914. then you get to this death room where

  915. the sarcophagus is and the mummy's

  916. inside it. And the guide was was kind of

  917. hyping it. And like, you know, it's all

  918. been robbed now, but imagine this this

  919. this whole room was just sparkling with

  920. gold and and lapis lazuli and silver.

  921. Every It was just take your breath away.

  922. And there's always that kind of smart

  923. aleck in the group who cracks jokes the

  924. whole time. And he was behind me and

  925. he's like He's like, "Well, the

  926. pharaoh's still dead though, isn't he?"

  927. And you know, we all kind of chuckled.

  928. But he But he's right.

  929. In the In the sarcophagus is a mummified

  930. withered corpse. And it's an ugly thing.

  931. And no amount of gold or silver or lapis

  932. lazuli is going to cover that fact.

  933. MAID MAID tries to hide this act

  934. behind something that's pristine and

  935. serene.

  936. But we have to be careful in that. We

  937. Be very careful about what viewing MAID

  938. would do to your soul.

  939. And here's the last thing. And for me,

  940. the central thing. Again, it's to bring

  941. back this concept of this is this notion

  942. of witness.

  943. If we were to take part in a maid

  944. ceremony as a bystander or as a

  945. companion, are we bearing faithful

  946. witness to God?

  947. Everything we do as God's people in life

  948. and in death

  949. bears witness. We are martyrs, witnesses

  950. that our only comfort is that we belong

  951. to Jesus Christ.

  952. Nothing should obscure or confuse that

  953. witness. And I think being part of a

  954. maid a a maid act does obscure or

  955. confuse that witness. So, be very, very

  956. cautious. Exercise great discernment.

  957. I'll end with this. Um, you know, in our

  958. in in my reformed church tradition, we

  959. we use catechisms a lot. And I'm I'm

  960. encouraged to see that actually

  961. catechisms are starting to come back

  962. among families and young people. If you

  963. bring up the last slide, Larry.

  964. We use this

  965. Heidelberg Catechism, um, which has

  966. [clears throat] which has a fantastic

  967. opening question. Catechisms work with a

  968. question and an answer.

  969. When our kids were small, we made them

  970. memorize this question and answer. I

  971. shouldn't say we made we made them. We

  972. incentivized them with you know, with

  973. like Dairy Queen gift cards and things

  974. like that.

  975. What is your only comfort in life and in

  976. death?

  977. The answer?

  978. That I'm not my own

  979. but belong body and soul in life and in

  980. death to my faithful savior Jesus

  981. Christ.

  982. This is the story

  983. we tell our society that has a death

  984. wish.

  985. We hold out the comfort that we are not

  986. our own

  987. but we belong in life and in death, in

  988. body and soul not to ourselves but to

  989. our faithful savior Jesus Christ.

  990. May we be May we be the kind of people

  991. who proclaim that truth

  992. and know that comfort

  993. so that our community, our society knows

  994. the difference it makes.

  995. Amen.

  996. Let me pray.

  997. God, you were the Lord of life and death

  998. and in Jesus Christ, in his death and

  999. resurrection,

  1000. you have made us your own

  1001. and you promise your presence no matter

  1002. what we experience.

  1003. God, you were in the depths of hell and

  1004. suffering in Jesus Christ and you were

  1005. there

  1006. even as you were there as our exalted

  1007. Lord.

  1008. In all things, God, help us to heed your

  1009. word

  1010. and bear witness faithfully to you

  1011. and what you've done. In Jesus name we

  1012. pray. Amen.