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”Faith is Always Tested” // Genesis 12:10-20 // Lakeview Bible Church

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  1. Hey there, Lake View. A little bit of a

  2. different Sunday, but uh what we thought

  3. would be an abundance of caution and uh

  4. wisdom. Uh we are meeting not together

  5. as a church family, but around the city

  6. uh in our homes this weekend. And so uh

  7. a little bit of announcements. one is uh

  8. if there's anything that you all need

  9. over however this weather goes, please

  10. jump on the connect card, just go to the

  11. website, click on that, let us know.

  12. Happy to help in any way we can if

  13. something does pop up. Uh and if you are

  14. checking out this video because you

  15. clicked on it on that Sunday morning

  16. when you're stuck at home because of the

  17. ice, uh go ahead and reach out. would

  18. love to know that you're there and be

  19. able to help you in whatever God has for

  20. you this season. Uh the second thing I

  21. want to mention is I had planned to

  22. mention something about our kingdom

  23. investment uh a really fun update uh but

  24. I'm going to wait till next Sunday uh to

  25. do that while we're all uh hopefully non

  26. icereated at home but uh that we get to

  27. share that news together. Uh you will

  28. not want to miss uh the update that I

  29. have. So, uh, in, uh, the description

  30. with this video, you'll also find a few

  31. other things. Uh, you'll find a few

  32. songs that we picked out that you can

  33. worship at home together with your, uh,

  34. family or if you're with your friends,

  35. maybe in your apartment, you can do

  36. that. Uh, as well as we included a, uh,

  37. a brief description of what, uh, at home

  38. worship could look like or worship as a

  39. family. So, we have that resource for

  40. you to be able to follow along and uh

  41. maybe in uh incorporate some elements as

  42. you uh experience uh this a little bit

  43. unique Sunday um together. So, I'm going

  44. to pray and we're going to dig into

  45. Abraham and the Bible in chapter 12. So,

  46. if you have your Bible handy, you can go

  47. ahead and grab that. But, let me pray

  48. and we'll dive in. So, Father, thank you

  49. uh for your grace in all things. Thank

  50. you for this time together. I pray your

  51. blessing as we interact uh with your

  52. word uh through technology and we're

  53. grateful for that. But I do pray your

  54. blessing uh across our church and

  55. everyone who's watching that you would

  56. um in these moments uh meet them where

  57. they're at and that this would be

  58. profitable uh for them. Give us eyes to

  59. see, ears to hear, speak to us by your

  60. spirit in Jesus name. Amen.

  61. uh we uh are digging into and continuing

  62. our series in Abraham. And last week we

  63. looked at the idea that um faith leads

  64. to blessing or faith precedes blessing.

  65. And today um we're going to look at a

  66. different aspect as we watch Abram's

  67. life continue to unfold as he follows

  68. God in that your faith will be tested.

  69. Your faith will be tested. So, let me

  70. get into that with uh a bit of a story.

  71. Uh general in the sense that um I love

  72. doing uh premarital counseling and

  73. engaging with couples that are engaged

  74. and looking forward to marriage. I've

  75. got a couple weddings that I'm going to

  76. do uh on the calendar coming up late

  77. spring, early summer, and I really enjoy

  78. it. And one of the things I always do is

  79. I sit down with couples is, you know,

  80. they're over the moon, right? In love,

  81. can't wait to be married. and you know

  82. all big eyed and they're just a blast to

  83. be around and uh they know because

  84. they're not you know naive for the most

  85. part uh that marriage is also going to

  86. be work at some level but I I always

  87. like to press that point just a little

  88. bit and I usually do it by looking at

  89. the to be groom I look at the guy and I

  90. say hey you've probably heard you know

  91. that marriage is hard you know marriage

  92. is a lot of work um you probably think

  93. when you hear that something like, "Oh

  94. yeah, marriage is hard." Like you have

  95. to do if I just said, "Hey, drop down

  96. and and and do a 100 push-ups like right

  97. now. Just boom." You're like, "Yeah,

  98. that would be hard, but I think I could

  99. I could grind it out." Uh, and I always

  100. I say to the guy, I'm like, "Yeah, it's

  101. more like if I asked you said, "Hey, I

  102. need you to drop down and give me a

  103. thousand push-ups, and you are not

  104. allowed to leave the ground until you're

  105. done." Like, it's more like that. And

  106. the guy usually looks back at me and he

  107. kind of gets what I'm saying and it kind

  108. of swallows hard like, "Okay." And then

  109. that's a proper motivation as they press

  110. into the premarital counseling and and

  111. the process that we're going to we're

  112. going to take them through. The other

  113. conversation that I tend to have and the

  114. reason why I have that first one at the

  115. very beginning is that a lot of couples

  116. when they hit a rough spot later on in

  117. marriage, they [clears throat] haven't

  118. really believed that marriage is

  119. difficult. And what they sometimes do is

  120. in the moment of the difficulty, they

  121. say, "hm, I wonder if I made a mistake."

  122. that the

  123. fairy tale that they thought they were

  124. entering into isn't actually what's

  125. transpiring and they think they made a

  126. mistake in who they chose and that's

  127. actually the problem when really they

  128. should have just realized like oh this

  129. is the hard this is the thousand

  130. push-ups that I was really getting into.

  131. There's a very similar thing that

  132. happens in our walk with God. What I

  133. mean is some people will say is they're

  134. like, "Hey, I've come to faith in Jesus.

  135. I'm walking with God. Um, it's going

  136. great, but then difficulty comes and

  137. then trial comes." And they're like,

  138. "Wait a minute. I thought God was good.

  139. I thought God was for me. Why is it that

  140. this trial or this difficulty or this

  141. challenge is in my life?" And they say,

  142. "Hey, God, at some level like what

  143. gives? I'm trying to obey." And yet

  144. instead of uh having the difficulty

  145. not happen, it actually happens. Um they

  146. have two problems in that moment. One is

  147. the fact that the trial itself is a

  148. challenge, but they're also wrestling in

  149. that moment with maybe their perception

  150. of God and if he's holding up his end of

  151. the bargain. The thing I want us to

  152. realize as we get going and start to

  153. talk about this idea of your faith being

  154. tested is that it pretty much always

  155. will be as you walk with God. I'll say

  156. it this way that living a life of faith

  157. means God will take us into difficulty,

  158. not around it.

  159. He's going to take us into difficulty,

  160. not around it. And that as we look at

  161. Abraham's story today, that's what we're

  162. going to see. That actually when you and

  163. I say yes to God, when you and I

  164. exercise faith in him, don't expect it

  165. to be a smooth path all the way. Yes,

  166. it's going to be awesome. Just like

  167. marriage, marriage is awesome in a ton

  168. of ways and there are seasons where it's

  169. difficult. Here's a question. What is

  170. God doing in the difficulty? Why is it

  171. that God is testing our faith? That's

  172. what I want to get into. Because if

  173. you're going to say yes to him, if like

  174. Abraham, God says go and you go, well

  175. then testing's going to come. So again,

  176. open your Bibles. We're going to be in

  177. Genesis 12. We're going to be picking up

  178. the story in uh chap uh verse 10, and

  179. we're going to see this first truth.

  180. 1 Peter 1 6 and 7 says it this way. In

  181. this you rejoice, though now for a

  182. little while, if necessary, you have

  183. been grieved by various trials, so that,

  184. notice this, the tested genuiness of

  185. your faith, more precious than gold that

  186. perishes, though it is tested by fire,

  187. may be found to result in praise and

  188. glory and honor at the revelation of

  189. Jesus Christ. So the New Testament

  190. writer Peter, the apostle, the disciple

  191. says, "Hey, look, testing's going to

  192. come." And so in that your faith is

  193. going to be strengthened which is what

  194. God is getting at. But the first like

  195. principle that we need to found

  196. ourselves on is the fact that it will be

  197. tested. It will be tested. So again

  198. Genesis 12 verse 10.

    Genesis 12:10

  199. So God's word says now there was a

  200. famine in the land. So Abram went down

  201. to Egypt to sojourn there for the famine

  202. was severe in the land. Now, not many of

  203. us have experienced famine, food

  204. deprivation of this sort. So, to get a

  205. kind of grip on what Abraham's dealing

  206. with, the challenge before him is if you

  207. could imagine, right, uh, the economy

  208. has gone bad, your job is gone, your

  209. business is gone, the bills are piling

  210. up, the mortgage is passed due, the

  211. pantry is empty, you've actually gone

  212. down to the food bank in order to get

  213. food already. You've repeatedly gone

  214. down to the food bank and eventually the

  215. food bank is empty. You come back to

  216. your house, the foreclosure notice is on

  217. the door and you look down your street

  218. and all your neighbors are in the same

  219. boat. There is no other place to go for

  220. Abram. He has Sarah. He has his nephew

  221. Lot. He has a large think of

  222. agricultural business with um servants

  223. and livestock. and all of that is in

  224. jeopardy. He has nowhere to go. So

  225. somehow he gets it in his head that he

  226. is going to go down to Egypt because

  227. right now he's still in that wilderness

  228. desert area of the Ngev and now southern

  229. Israel.

  230. And at some level I have to imagine

  231. Abraham's like God like why didn't you

  232. just leave me back in the Euphrates

  233. River Valley in where there was plenty

  234. of food. So for Abraham, I imagine that

  235. he goes, "Oh, I know of another even

  236. closer river valley where there's

  237. possibly food." And so he heads to the

  238. Nile. He heads to Egypt. And here's a

  239. satellite image of the Nile River Delta.

  240. And you can see in a desert region

  241. how lush the river delta is and why

  242. Abraham or Abram is going there. Um

  243. interesting about the Nile River Delta,

  244. one of the most fertile places on the

  245. planet has some of the most thickest top

  246. soil on the planet. But he says, "All

  247. right, I'm going to go there because

  248. there's food."

  249. Verse 11.

  250. When he was about to enter Egypt, he

  251. said to Sarah his wife, "I know that you

  252. are a woman beautiful in appearance. And

  253. when the Egyptians see you, they will

  254. say, "This is his wife. Then they will

  255. kill me, but they will let you live."

  256. Now, on the face of it, like we don't

  257. even have a category for what's

  258. happening here. Not one time have I ever

  259. moved or you've ever moved. and you've

  260. been concerned that your spouse would be

  261. in any way in jeopardy by the local

  262. government authorities the same way that

  263. Abram is here. But culturally, here's

  264. what's going on. The Egyptians of the

  265. time were known, historians, scholars

  266. will tell you some of the most

  267. promiscuous

  268. people uh and culture that has ever

  269. been. Later on in the book of Genesis,

  270. you'll see Joseph in his story. And as a

  271. slave servant in a Egyptian official's

  272. house, the wife of the official

  273. propositions him over and over and over

  274. again like it's a normal thing. The

  275. other thing historians will tell you is

  276. that the pharaohs of Egypt were some of

  277. the worst offenders. That their herums

  278. were the largest. It was a bit of a

  279. who's the biggest king around to have a

  280. huge herum and everything that went

  281. along with it. So Abram knows culturally

  282. that's what's going on. So that's what's

  283. in his head as he heads there and he

  284. looks at the situation and he looks like

  285. Sarah. Sarah who's obviously, as the

  286. text says, pretty attractive.

  287. But what's God doing in all of this?

  288. Like, isn't God over the weather? Isn't

  289. God over crop yields? Isn't God over the

  290. situation that Abram's in? Why is it

  291. that God sets this up such that because

  292. God knows ahead of time how Abram's

  293. going to decide and that he's going to

  294. go down to Egypt? What's he doing?

  295. Another New Testament passage that's

  296. super helpful.

  297. This is James chapter 1.

    James 1 chapter mention

  298. James writes, "Count it all joy, my

  299. brothers, when you meet trials of

  300. various kinds, for you know that," here

  301. it is again, "the testing of your faith

  302. produces steadfastness.

  303. And let steadfastness have its full

  304. effect, that you may be perfect and

  305. complete, lacking in nothing."

  306. That the testing of your faith, the

  307. testing of Abram's faith, the testing of

  308. my faith is actually meant to produce

  309. something. It's meant to produce

  310. strength. It's actually supposed to do

  311. something. And the reason why our faith

  312. will be tested is because well, when

  313. things are easy, when things are

  314. comfortable, man, there's no growth that

  315. happens there. There's no growing there.

  316. Growth happens, strengthening happens.

  317. When, like Abram, you're scared, you're

  318. tired, you don't know what is going to

  319. happen, you don't know how it's going to

  320. go. And it's those moments where the

  321. testing is coming so that when the

  322. circumstances are difficult, they're not

  323. a reason for us to question God, but

  324. like, hey, what are you doing? But like

  325. James, like Peter, like Abram's story to

  326. go, okay, God, you're testing me for a

  327. reason. You're trying to strengthen me.

  328. And in those moments, our faith, as

  329. James unpacks, actually produce

  330. something very good. That's what God is

  331. doing. That's why the testing. Now, uh

  332. maybe a a practical story will help. A

  333. friend of mine at Lake View, uh early on

  334. in his professional career was working

  335. at a company, if I named it, you would

  336. know it. Fortune 100 company. And what

  337. this company did working with other big

  338. companies is I'll just leave it vague.

  339. They helped other companies with their

  340. finances.

  341. And so he worked as a consultant

  342. in other businesses helping them with

  343. their balance sheet.

  344. He gets an email one day from one of his

  345. customers that he was working with and

  346. there was a discrepancy about the

  347. invoice that they got. And so he looks

  348. at the invoice and he's like, "Yeah,

  349. you're right. Those numbers don't add up

  350. to what we've been doing and what you

  351. agreed to." So, he takes [snorts] the

  352. invoice into his company's billing

  353. department.

  354. He says, "Hey, look, this is what I've

  355. been doing. Here's the invoice that my

  356. customer got. Like, can you explain it?"

  357. And let me just say, he did not get a

  358. great answer.

  359. And so, he realizes in that moment that

  360. he's going to have to go have a

  361. conversation with his boss about what

  362. seems to be a not so great practice in

  363. how they're billing their customers.

  364. And he tells me as he's going in to have

  365. this meeting with his boss and he knows

  366. what he needs to address, he calls his

  367. wife ahead of time and he says, "Hey

  368. babe, uh, here's the conversation I'm

  369. about to go into and I may not have a

  370. job

  371. at the end of this meeting."

  372. And yet he walks in and has the

  373. conversation.

  374. That's the kind of thing that will

  375. happen and your faith will be tested.

  376. where the pressure is on and the

  377. question in your own heart and mind is

  378. what do I do?

  379. And hopefully the answer is continue to

  380. trust God with what he has for you. So

  381. that situation may not have happened to

  382. you, but maybe it's something

  383. provisioned in general where things are

  384. tight financially and the pressure is on

  385. to maybe cut a corner yourself

  386. personally. What do you do? Or maybe

  387. it's in a group of friends and the group

  388. of friends are encouraging you because

  389. they're doing it something that you know

  390. you know you shouldn't do. students. Has

  391. this ever happened?

  392. What are you going to do? Are you going

  393. to do what you know you shouldn't? Or do

  394. you go along with the peer pressure that

  395. you're feeling?

  396. Others of us, you'll be in relationship

  397. with difficult people. People who drive

  398. you nuts.

  399. PEOPLE THAT YOU'RE LIKE, "OH, I CAN'T

  400. believe I have to have this person as a

  401. neighbor or a co-orker or another family

  402. on the team that my kid is a part of."

  403. And you [clears throat]

  404. will you treat them a certain way or

  405. will you trust God that okay, I can

  406. treat them better than I'm being treated

  407. and move forward that way? Or how about

  408. this situation where you are in a group

  409. of people and they are talking about

  410. someone who isn't there in not the best

  411. terms.

  412. Will you in that moment join in the

  413. gossip in the disparaging or will you

  414. defend the absent party? See the reality

  415. is our faith is going to be tested time

  416. and again in many different ways. The

  417. question is, will it produce that

  418. steadfastness?

  419. Well, as we turn back to Abram's story,

  420. he doesn't do a great job. And the

  421. reality of it is in his imperfection, we

  422. learn a very important thing, which is

  423. our faith will be tested

  424. and it will fail at times. It will fail

  425. at times. Look at verse 13. We're going

  426. to see Abram's solution to his problem.

  427. This is what he says.

  428. talking to Sarah his wife, he says, "Say

  429. you are my sister, that it may go well

  430. with me because of you and that my life

  431. may be spared for your sake." When Abram

  432. entered Egypt and the Egyptians saw that

  433. the woman was very beautiful and when

  434. the princes of Pharaoh saw her, they

  435. praised her to Pharaoh and the woman was

  436. taken into Pharaoh's house. So, okay,

  437. Abram says like this is the solution he

  438. comes up with. He's like, "Okay, Sarah,

  439. you're going to say to them, you're my

  440. sister." Which is a halftruth,

  441. a full lie, but it's a halftruth because

  442. she is this half sister. We're going to

  443. get to Genesis 20 in a few weeks. And

  444. you're going to find out in verse 12

  445. that they have the same dad, but they

  446. have different moms. So, technically,

  447. Abram's right sister. Um, but what's

  448. more the issue here is Abram's not

  449. really thinking about Sarah.

  450. He's certainly not thinking about the

  451. promise that he just got earlier in

  452. Genesis 12 where it's through him and

  453. Sarai that amazing blessings are going

  454. to come and he's putting that promise in

  455. jeopardy. What's Abram thinking about?

  456. Abram's thinking about Abram.

  457. And if you're a husband, you're looking

  458. at this story and you're like,"I would

  459. never do this." And you're probably

  460. right. If you're a wife and you're

  461. engaged in this story and you read what

  462. we just read, you're like, "Oh my gosh,

  463. if my husband ever pulled anything

  464. remotely like this, I know I could

  465. probably speak for my wife." She would

  466. say, "I'm gonna save Pharaoh the trouble

  467. and I'm going to murder you myself

  468. just for that idea."

  469. But what's interesting

  470. is as the text says it, it actually kind

  471. of plays out the way Abram thought and

  472. they do see Sarai.

  473. Pharaoh does take her into his herum and

  474. um there he is in Egypt in this

  475. situation.

  476. But here's the question. Why did his

  477. faith fail?

  478. What was going on?

  479. What happened to Abram that this is the

  480. solution he comes to? Well, one of the

  481. things that you'll notice in this

  482. paragraph that's absent from the

  483. paragraph before it is there's no

  484. mention of worship. There's no stopping

  485. to build an altar. There's no calling on

  486. the name of the Lord. There's no prayer.

  487. What I think is happening is what Abram

  488. was doing earlier which is continually

  489. repeatedly as a rhythm is he was always

  490. looking to God every step of the way

  491. always looking to God always turning his

  492. gaze to him. He doesn't do that here.

  493. He's taken his eyes off of God and he's

  494. placed his eyes on his problem on the

  495. challenge on the difficulty and that's

  496. why his faith failed.

  497. There's another story very similar in

  498. the New Testament

  499. where the disciples are in a boat.

  500. They're on the Sea of Galilee. They're

  501. in a storm. They're scared and they look

  502. off in the distance in the fog and the

  503. rain and they see a figure and it turns

  504. out to be Jesus walking towards them on

  505. the water. Now, if you remember the

  506. story, Peter sees this and he gets it in

  507. his head and he says, "Hey, Jesus, would

  508. you command me to come to you on the

  509. water?"

  510. And he takes his first couple steps out

  511. of the boat after Jesus says, "Come on."

  512. And this is what happens.

  513. Talking about Peter. But when he saw,

  514. notice where he's looking. When he saw

  515. the wind, he was afraid and beginning to

  516. sink, he cried out, "Lord, save me." So

  517. Peter is doing great when he's focused

  518. on Jesus. He's like talking to Jesus.

  519. He's taking steps towards Jesus, but

  520. there's challenge and difficulty and his

  521. faith gets tested. And what does he do?

  522. He takes his gaze off of Jesus and he

  523. goes, "Oh man, it's really windy. Man,

  524. those waves are bad. And then he starts

  525. to sink. And then this is what Jesus

  526. says. Jesus immediately reached out his

  527. hand and took hold of him, saying to

  528. him, notice, "Oh, you of little what?"

  529. Faith, "Why did you doubt?"

  530. His faith was strong.

  531. When he was looking at Jesus, his faith,

  532. notice, wavered when he took his eyes

  533. off him.

  534. So what happens often in our lives when

  535. we don't respond amidst the challenge,

  536. amidst the difficulty the best way we'd

  537. like to is often we've just taken our

  538. gaze off of Jesus. Why? Because only

  539. continuing to look at him, continuing to

  540. look at the father is the way that you

  541. and I our faith actually gets strong.

  542. And now to put the two thoughts

  543. together. As the testing comes, as the

  544. stretching comes, as the challenge

  545. comes, we grow our faith stronger by

  546. looking at him. And God grows our faith.

  547. Your faith will be tested and it will

  548. fail at times, but the good news is that

  549. in our testing, notice, God remains

  550. faithful. God remains faithful. Look at

  551. verse 16.

  552. And for her sake, it's referring to

  553. Pharaoh.

  554. He dwelt or dealt with dealt well with

  555. Abram.

  556. And he had sheep, oxmen, male donkeys,

  557. male servants, female servants, female

  558. donkeys, and camels. Um the word there

  559. that talks about um all of

  560. what he just been given is a is an

  561. illusion to what was happening

  562. culturally. What I mean is um Abram

  563. again he's pretending to be the brother

  564. uh and his sister so his family member

  565. is taken as a wife of Pharaoh and

  566. culturally what you would do is that

  567. family would receive a dowy and since

  568. this is the richest man in the land

  569. Abram gets a big dowy from Pharaoh

  570. that's all the sheep and oxmen and all

  571. the servants and all the rest the reason

  572. why this happens, why he quote blesses

  573. him is because of that.

  574. And then verse 17 says, "But the Lord

  575. afflicted Pharaoh and his house with not

  576. just plagues, but great plagues because

  577. of Sarai, Abram<unk>'s wife." So Pharaoh

  578. called Abram and said, "What is this you

  579. have done to me? Why did you not tell me

  580. that she was your wife? Why did you say

  581. she is my sister so that I took her for

  582. my wife? Now then, here is your wife.

  583. Take her and go. And Pharaoh gave men

  584. orders concerning him, meaning don't

  585. touch him. And they sent him away with

  586. his wife and all that he had.

  587. How did Pharaoh know that those plagues

  588. were because of Sarah? Here's what I

  589. think. Here's the best guess because

  590. notice

  591. they afflicted Pharaoh and his house

  592. with great plagues.

  593. What's probably happening is Pharaoh is

  594. suffering whatever the plague is. His um

  595. servants are, the other women in the

  596. herum are, but Sarah isn't. And so

  597. Pharaoh is looking around, everyone's

  598. sick or everyone's suffering, and

  599. there's Sarah and she's just fine. And

  600. so in that moment, he sees that and he

  601. goes, "Oh, something's up with this new

  602. woman I brought into my herum." And he

  603. puts two and two together. Now, we're

  604. going to unpack this a little more in a

  605. second, but can you think of another

  606. time where plagues affected Egypt

  607. and the Jews, the Hebrews were taken

  608. care of

  609. while the Egyptians suffered.

  610. Hold that thought.

  611. the bigger piece here

  612. and what I think Abram is supposed to

  613. see in God's goodness to him because we

  614. read this and we're like, man, it kind

  615. of doesn't make sense that God's being

  616. good to Abram when Abram's not doing so

  617. great.

  618. Is I think at some level God is trying

  619. to show Abram, Abram, I have ways to

  620. solve problems that you can't conceive

  621. of.

  622. He's like,"Abram,

  623. uh, I have ways to protect you. I have

  624. ways to protect my promises to you that

  625. you can't like you don't even have a

  626. category for

  627. because if Abram had known that God

  628. could do like all that he's doing now,

  629. maybe his faith wouldn't have failed."

  630. and what God is doing in the midst of

  631. your testing and my testing because the

  632. testing doesn't last indefinitely.

  633. The testing is for a season. The testing

  634. comes then God does something relieves

  635. the testing and you move into the next

  636. season. And when we pass the test and

  637. our faith gets strengthened and God

  638. brings a blessing, again what he said

  639. previously in Genesis chapter 12, he

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  640. usually does it in a way that we could

  641. not have manufactured on our own. And

  642. what God is doing, because he's got to

  643. grow Abram up in order to be the carrier

  644. of these promises, he has to have a

  645. faith that can handle it. And so he's

  646. growing him through situations like this

  647. just like he's growing you and I in

  648. situations where he's like, "Hey, I have

  649. something for you, but your current

  650. level of faith isn't strong enough." So

  651. the testing comes strengthening and then

  652. the next season. We started out talking

  653. about my conversations with newly

  654. engaged couples as they pray for or they

  655. prepare for marriage. The other

  656. conversation that I tend to have a fair

  657. bit is with couples who later on in

  658. their marriage journey are in a tough

  659. spot and they need a hand. And what I've

  660. noticed over and over again is that

  661. those couples who will just take God at

  662. his word and just stick it out and get

  663. through the difficulty and fight through

  664. the struggle and fight together for

  665. their marriage. Man, I I tell you it

  666. it's not a 100% of the time, but man, it

  667. it tends to get better in time. And then

  668. recently I came across two studies that

  669. bore this out. One from BYU and the

  670. other study out of Great Britain. The

  671. BYU study said this studying marriages

  672. as they went through not just difficulty

  673. but the span of a marriage lifetime.

  674. This is what they found. They found that

  675. marital enjoyment actually improves

  676. over the years for couples that stay

  677. together.

  678. They found that although, check this

  679. out, marital happiness tends to decline

  680. slightly in the early years of marriage,

  681. which you can kind of understand after

  682. the honeymoon period and newly married

  683. couples kind of get into their rhythms,

  684. right? Man, super enjoying marriage and

  685. then they kind of settle out and it's

  686. kind of like, oh, we do have some things

  687. we disagree on and we do have some

  688. things that we need to work out. and

  689. then it kind of settles out and then

  690. after that it improves

  691. after about 20 years for most long-term

  692. couples. So what the study showed is it

  693. kind of goes down and then just

  694. up and to the right over time.

  695. And notice this, this is what they say.

  696. and the experience of discord,

  697. disagreements,

  698. arguments

  699. actually lessened consistently over

  700. time. Their summary, the long-term

  701. outlook for most marriages is upbeat

  702. with happiness remaining high and

  703. disagreement and discord declining.

  704. The study out of the UK, it showed that

  705. twothirds

  706. of unhappy, struggling couples who

  707. stayed together through the hard season,

  708. check this out, became happy again

  709. within five years.

  710. In contrast

  711. to those people who ended up choosing

  712. divorce

  713. were actually unhappier after their

  714. divorce than they were in the struggle

  715. of the marriage.

  716. What God is saying over and over again

  717. in your life in my life is if you stick

  718. it out I will remain faithful.

  719. If you continue to allow the testing,

  720. allow the difficulty, allow the struggle

  721. to do its good work and to produce

  722. steadfastness

  723. and strength in you, good things happen.

  724. So if your faith is being tested in your

  725. finances, say hold on, God remains

  726. faithful. If you are being tested in

  727. your marriage, hold on. God remains

  728. faithful. If you are being tested in

  729. your career, hold on. I promise you, God

  730. remains faithful. If you are being

  731. tested in your singleness,

  732. hold on. I promise you, God remains

  733. faithful.

  734. If you are being tested with your

  735. friends,

  736. hold on. I promise you, God remains

  737. faithful.

  738. If you're being tested in your family,

  739. hold on. I promise you, God remains

  740. faithful.

  741. So, like you, like Abraham,

  742. you will be tested.

  743. Sometimes you'll fail,

  744. but God will always remain faithful.

  745. The reason why, and here's where we'll

  746. close,

  747. God remains faithful because he's doing

  748. more than we can imagine.

  749. He's doing more than we can imagine.

  750. Here's what I mean.

  751. If we were to kind of just like ascend

  752. up from the text like we're all in the

  753. details, we've unpacked these verses,

  754. but then climb up say to 30,000 feet and

  755. look big picture what God is doing. What

  756. would we see?

  757. We'd see a pattern that's going to

  758. repeat as we move through the Bible.

  759. Here's what I mean. I've already kind of

  760. teased this a little bit, but think

  761. about the story we just read, Genesis

  762. 12, and what we're going to see as we

  763. move along in the story of God's people

  764. in the Exodus.

  765. Both stories, you see a famine in the

  766. land.

  767. You see in both stories the people of

  768. God having to flee to Egypt.

  769. You see, and you saw it here, that

  770. there's this thing where man, we're

  771. going to kill, there's an illusion in

  772. chapter 12 to killing the males and

  773. allowing the females to live. That's

  774. going to show up in the Exodus again.

  775. You'll notice very clearly plagues on

  776. Egypt and the Hebrews are protected.

  777. You can see here in a sense, Abram

  778. plunders Egypt as he leaves. That's the

  779. exact same thing you're going to see

  780. with the people of God as they leave

  781. Egypt

  782. in both places. The people who are in

  783. the difficult situation are delivered

  784. and they both head out into the

  785. wilderness.

  786. Why the similarities?

  787. Well, the author of Moses or excuse me,

  788. the author of Genesis is Moses and he's

  789. writing this story to the people of God

  790. as they're preparing to enter the

  791. promised land.

  792. And what he's trying to do is many

  793. things. He's trying to explain to them

  794. their history and how did the world get

  795. here, right? That's the early pages of

  796. Genesis. And he's trying to show how God

  797. worked with their original patriarch and

  798. [snorts] how he worked with Abram so

  799. that they would look at Abram's story

  800. and be like, "Wow, that's the exact same

  801. thing that happened to us."

  802. And as God continues to work with Abram,

  803. and he doesn't write Abram off for his

  804. mistakes in Genesis 12, he continues to

  805. lead him. He continues to do good to

  806. him. He continues to God does be good to

  807. his promises

  808. because ultimately God is the one who

  809. maintains his promises. It's not you and

  810. I. It's not Abram. Why? Because Abram's

  811. going to fail again just like you and I.

  812. And what God is trying to communicate to

  813. his people through Moses as they enter

  814. the promised land is the same thing that

  815. God is trying to talk to you and I about

  816. which is I can fulfill everything I've

  817. promised to you. Just trust me.

  818. Hear my voice. Obey what I'm saying. And

  819. have faith.

  820. Why? Because he is doing far more than

  821. you can imagine.

  822. in your current season, whether you're

  823. right now you're like, man, I am facing

  824. a huge faith trial.

  825. He's saying, "I'm doing more than you

  826. can imagine. I promise." And what's

  827. happening to you now in the season of

  828. difficulty and challenge that could

  829. cause you to go like, "Okay, God, not

  830. fair. I don't know why you're doing it.

  831. You're not being good to me."

  832. instead is the place where God is going

  833. to meet you and he's going to build you.

  834. He's going to work with you.

  835. And just like you're seeing in Abraham's

  836. life, there's actually blessing that's

  837. coming.

  838. So my hope is that for you, for me, for

  839. Lake View, that we would continue to be

  840. a people that when our faith is tested,

  841. it produces the good things that God

  842. intends.

  843. And the more that we stick it out with

  844. him, that's exactly what's going to

  845. happen. So, let's pray. So, Father,

  846. thank you again for this morning. I pray

  847. your blessing over my brothers and

  848. sisters. Would you continue to walk with

  849. us and do good in us and through us as

  850. you continue to grow us by faith? And we

  851. ask it in Jesus name. Amen.