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  6. Good morning.

  7. If you've got your Bibles, go ahead and open them up to 1 Corinthians chapter 4.

    1 Corinthians 4 chapter mention

  8. It's where we're going to be as we continue on in our study of this letter.

  9. As you turn there, hopefully everybody was able to stop by and grab the elements for the

  10. Lord's Supper.

  11. If you did not, at the end of our message, we'll be taking the Lord's Supper together

  12. as a church family.

  13. And so if you're a believer, follower of Jesus Christ, whether you're a member of this church

  14. or not, we'd like to give you that opportunity to do that with us.

  15. And if you did not grab one, they're right back over here behind our camera area.

  16. Pastor Dave is back there.

  17. No one will judge you if you want to get up and go ahead and grab one, but would love for

  18. you to have that.

  19. It's been a practice that we've put into place for us the first Sunday of every month to obey

  20. what God's called us to do in partaking of the Lord's Supper together.

  21. And so our practice is we do that once a month.

  22. If you're joining us at home, you know, grab what you can from your house and we will encourage

  23. you to take this with us as well.

  24. Well, it's been an interesting journey in 1 Corinthians.

  25. I hope you're enjoying your quiet time of reading through this together.

  26. I hope you're enjoying working through this with your small group.

  27. And I know that I'm enjoying preparing as we go through this.

  28. Now, what we're going to, what we're working toward, and I believe, yep, next week, we're

  29. going to kind of get to some of these really practical examples of this church that is really

  30. kind of crumbling within itself of some of the sinful practice that are beginning to take

  31. root.

  32. But what we've been looking at over these first four chapters is Paul, as he deals with

  33. some of the divisions that are in the church.

  34. And so week, actually week one, when we were at home for the ice storm that didn't really

  35. happen, right, we kind of gave the background information.

  36. And then the next week we came in, gathered together, we talked through chapter one.

  37. And then last week we talked about chapter two.

  38. Now, I didn't really get to go into chapter three.

  39. So just kind of really quickly, I want to hit some high points because we need to understand

  40. where Paul is going as we get into chapter four this morning.

  41. Now, the whole time what we've been seeing is that Paul is dealing with, from the very

  42. beginning, the divisions that were in the church.

  43. And these divisions were over church leadership of different ones saying, you know, I follow

  44. Paul.

  45. Some saying, I follow Cephas, who is Peter.

  46. Others saying, I follow Apollos.

  47. And so we're navigating through as Paul's breaking that down and says, no, no, no, no, no, we're

  48. following Christ.

  49. It's the gospel of Jesus Christ.

  50. It's not the gospel of Paul.

  51. It's the crucifixion of Christ.

  52. It's the baptism in Christ's name.

  53. And these are all things that we are pointing them to.

  54. And so Paul's breaking down this church division by saying, no, no, no, it's not about following

  55. man.

  56. It's about following Christ.

  57. And then in chapter three, what we missed, and I'm not going to do it justice.

  58. And if you haven't, please spend some time reading in this.

  59. But Paul shifts the conversation a little bit away from the overall church body of dealing

  60. with the issues in the church body.

  61. And he begins to explain biblical church leadership of what church leadership is there to do and

  62. what church leadership is there to build on.

  63. And this is what we've continued on in working in our church and every Bible-believing, Bible-following,

  64. Christ-believing church.

  65. And he says, first and foremost, that church leadership is there to do the work of God.

  66. Like, that's what we're here for.

  67. That's why we exist.

  68. That's what we pray for.

  69. That's what we long for.

  70. That is, church leaders, we're not here to do our work.

  71. We're not here to do your work.

  72. We're here to do God's work.

  73. But that it's a continual process.

  74. And it's a continual thing that continues to grow and to function.

  75. And so, church leadership is building toward the future.

  76. All right?

  77. And we see some healthy evidence of that, even in the context of who we are.

  78. I don't know if you know the history of our church, of Willow Ridge Church, but Willow Ridge

  79. Church was planted in 1979 out of Red Bank Baptist Church right down the road.

  80. And what I love about that and what has continued on in the culture and DNA, and yeah, maybe people

  81. aren't supposed to do this, but they are supposed to do this, right?

  82. Let's talk really well about the church right down the road.

  83. They've got a DNA built in and of themselves that says it's important that the gospel spreads,

  84. that the kingdom spreads, and not just the kingdom of Red Bank Baptist.

  85. And so, what Red Bank Baptist did in 1979 and continues to do today is they press toward

  86. making sure the gospel is growing.

  87. And so, they decided to do that in 1979 by planting Agape Baptist Church that would later

  88. on become Willow Ridge Church.

  89. And they planted them right down the road, right?

  90. And they said, this is what's important and what we've seen from 1979 until today is the

  91. continuation of church leadership building toward the future.

  92. And so, it's not just for us, for tomorrow.

  93. It's not just for us until next week.

  94. It's not just for us until the next pastor comes and then it's a reset.

  95. No, no, no.

  96. It's continuing on building toward the future, but most importantly, with the foundation being

  97. Christ.

  98. And that everything is done that is done in his name and for his glory.

  99. But what we see in this and what we love and what we celebrate within our family and within

  100. the congregation of the church is that we build through people, through generations.

  101. And so, I like to think of it like this, whether you're looking at your church family or you're

  102. looking at your own family.

  103. Like, I come from a generation, or generations, I'm sorry, of believers.

  104. Now, that didn't earn me the right to be saved, okay?

  105. So, my salvation is not passed down from my grandfather to my dad to me, right?

  106. But my faith has been exhibited, has been modeled, and has been lived out for me.

  107. And so, when I celebrate all that God is doing, I celebrate the generations of believers in

  108. my family that God has blessed me with.

  109. But it also reminds me of the incredible work that God is doing, and some of you in here today

  110. fall into this category where you are the first generation believer in your family.

  111. Like, you didn't, mom and dad didn't follow Christ.

  112. Grandma and grandpa didn't follow Christ.

  113. But yet, you choose to follow Jesus and are saved by him, that transforming work that is

  114. there.

  115. And so, you continue to build on that.

  116. And that's what we celebrate and what we see.

  117. So, now, as we look at chapter 4, which we're going to focus on this morning, Paul is going

  118. to focus in on, in fact, if your Bible is like mine, it probably has some of these titles

  119. that were added later on, we're not originally there.

  120. But mine says, the ministry of the apostles.

  121. And so, what Paul is going to do in chapter 4 is say, here's what we are here to do, but

  122. also, more importantly, here's who we are to be.

  123. And what I want to look at this morning and talk about is characteristics of church leadership.

  124. But here's the deal.

  125. While the context here is church leaders, so like, church, run this through the filter

  126. of us as your leaders of who we are, of what we're doing, of what we're about.

  127. Do you believe this to be who we are and who we claim to be and how we live our life?

  128. But also, the application that I hope it hits for all of us is that we can take these truths

  129. and apply them to any area of our life in which God has called us, equipped us, and positioned

  130. us to lead, right?

  131. So we're going to take these and we're going to apply these to your business world, to your

  132. career path.

  133. We're going to take these and apply these to your family context in which God has placed

  134. you and in the community which you find yourself living in, right?

  135. Because as a believer, there's not the church identity that we put on when we come into these

  136. doors and say, this is who I am in Christ here.

  137. But in all of these, we live for His name and to model these things wherever God calls

  138. us and wherever God sends us, because all of these should reflect a life surrendered to

  139. Christ.

  140. So this isn't just like, hey, well, here's what I hold my small group leader to, my pastor

  141. to, my elders to.

  142. No, no, no.

  143. Here's what God is saying that as leaders, that this is what God has called us to, and as

  144. those who have surrendered to Christ, this is what we're going to model in our life.

  145. So whether you're a nurse, whether you're a dad, whether you run the HOA in your neighborhood,

  146. which pray for you, because I know that's difficult, right?

  147. This is the standard that God calls you to as a believer.

  148. We don't get to say, no, no, no, the business world's different.

  149. We don't get to say, no, no, no, no, school's different.

  150. We don't get to say, no, no, no, no, my home is different, my neighborhood is different.

  151. No, no, no, no, God's called us to believers and live out his faithfulness with where we

  152. are.

  153. So let's start reading 1 Corinthians 4 verse 1.

    1 Corinthians 4:1

  154. Paul says, this is how one should regard us, talking about leadership here, as servants

  155. of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God.

  156. Moreover, it is required of stewards that they be found faithful.

  157. All right, so a couple of things that we want to look at from these two verses.

  158. Number one of what Paul points us to as leaders, who we are to be, is faithful servants.

  159. Faithful servants.

  160. Paul defines his primary servant here as being a servant to Christ.

  161. Yes, there is a call to serve one another.

  162. Like, we can't eliminate that from scripture continually over and over again.

  163. We are called to, we are challenged to serve one another in the body.

  164. So we serve each of us in the context of our church family, of who we are.

  165. And we are called to serve out of here to others who are part of the other church's bodies,

  166. to those who are not part, to those who are lost.

  167. We are called to serve.

  168. But Paul says here that the primary servant of who we serve from is that we are servants of Christ.

  169. And this is the primary expectation for our life.

  170. So why does this matter?

  171. Why do we understand that most importantly, that our service is aligned with him and him alone?

  172. A couple things that I'm able to draw from this.

  173. Number one is then when I serve you, out of understanding that primarily I'm a servant of Christ,

  174. then I'm no longer serving you out of selfish motivation.

  175. I'm no longer serving you because of what you can bring, what you can give, or how you can benefit me.

  176. Right?

  177. It's what matters because I'm not serving you.

  178. You aren't my object.

  179. You aren't my focus.

  180. Christ is.

  181. And so I'm not serving you out of selfish motivation.

  182. But then also within this, I can now serve those who seek to do me harm.

  183. I can now serve those who seek to persecute me.

  184. Or let's maybe talk a little bit more of our sinful tendencies in life.

  185. I can now serve those that I just don't like.

  186. All right?

  187. If we're called to go out and serve the world, we would admit there are those that are easy to serve.

  188. And we would also admit that there are those difficult to serve.

  189. But if our service is not aimed at them, if our service is aimed at Christ, then we can serve them.

  190. So you are not the bullseye for me.

  191. My wife is not the bullseye for me.

  192. My kids are not the bullseye for me.

  193. My neighbors aren't the bullseye for me.

  194. No, no, no, no.

  195. Christ is.

  196. And so I serve you out of my love and of my obedience to him.

  197. So it does not matter the positives or negatives of which you bring because you are not my object of service.

  198. That Christ is.

  199. And that's the serving that we call to.

  200. So I'm going to begin by asking you this.

  201. How are you doing in serving?

  202. As leaders, what does that look like?

  203. How are you serving your family?

  204. How are you serving at work?

  205. How are you serving in the community in which God has placed you, right?

  206. In your neighborhood, at your ball teams, at your dance studios, where God has.

  207. Like, how are you serving within this?

  208. Are we receiving or are we serving?

  209. And then the next thing that Paul talks about in these verses is he calls us not only to be a faithful servant,

  210. but he calls us also to be a faithful steward, right?

  211. Now, again, when we talk about stewardship, oftentimes we think about something else.

  212. When we talk about money, right?

  213. How to be obedient, how to be responsible with the financial matters that God has entrusted you with.

  214. How are you a good steward of those?

  215. And that is biblically true.

  216. That's what we are to do.

  217. We are to take the money that God gives us, that God blesses us with, and we are to be a steward of that.

  218. We're not to just be a saver.

  219. We're not just to be a spender.

  220. We're not just to be a giver.

  221. But in all of those, we look at this and say, God, this is what you blessed me.

  222. How am I a steward of this?

  223. But Paul here is talking about a different type of stewardship, right?

  224. He's talking about one that is going to specifically point to the eternal matters which are at hand.

  225. And he says, as leaders, that we are stewards of the mercies of God.

  226. I'm sorry, the mysteries of God.

  227. And he's talking about what we looked at last week with the gospel.

  228. So how are you being a steward of the gospel?

  229. How are you looking as what God has given you, what God has granted you to be a steward of that with where God has placed you?

  230. One of the things I heard a guy talk about one time that I really loved and that clung to me and this visual stuck to me is he said, regardless of who you are, regardless if you're the boss or the employee, regardless if you're the wealthiest or the poorest, regardless of if you're the oldest or the youngest, where God has placed you is around you as a circle of influence.

  231. That every time, every time, every day, every moment in your life, there's opportunities that God has given you to influence those around you.

  232. And he's talking about this is the true aspect of leadership, that in this, how are you leading people in your circle of influence?

  233. And so church, I want to ask you, how are you doing in your circle of influence with the gospel that you've been entrusted with?

  234. What does that look like in your life?

  235. Are you working to have gospel conversations, seeking to serve so that the moment opens up and then when God graciously opens the door to have those conversations, are you taking them?

  236. Are you taking them so that you can share?

  237. Are you taking them so that you can lead people, draw people to the beautiful gospel that God has entrusted you with, right?

  238. That this is what he has for us, and this is what we are to do.

  239. And I love that in both of these, in both being a servant and to being a steward, the challenge isn't to simply be those.

  240. But there was a word that I added to each one of those that we pulled from for scripture, and it says that we are to be faithful in both, right?

  241. And so I thought, what does it mean to be faithful?

  242. What does it mean to be faithful?

  243. What does it mean to be faithful to your spouse?

  244. What does it mean to be faithful to your employer?

  245. What does it mean to be faithful to God?

  246. That it's not simply something that we do, but it's who we are.

  247. That what we are seeking is not to have actions of being a servant, of actions of being a steward, but that through the power of the gospel, it's simply who we are, right?

  248. I don't have to be reminded that I need to be faithful to my wife.

  249. Because I know because it's who I am, because of what God is doing in me, right?

  250. And that's what Paul is reminding, that in these, that we are found faithful.

  251. It's not necessarily just what we do, but it's who you are consistently.

  252. And there's an important reason for this.

  253. Let's look at verse 3.

  254. Paul says,

  255. But with me, it is a very small thing that I should be judged by you or by any human court.

  256. In fact, I do not even judge myself.

  257. For I am not aware of anything against myself, but I am not thereby acquitted.

  258. It is the Lord who judges me.

  259. Therefore, do not pronounce judgment before the time, before the Lord comes, who will bring to light the things now hidden in darkness, and will disclose the purposes of the heart.

  260. Then each one will receive his commendation from God.

  261. I have applied all these things to myself and to Paulos for your benefit, brothers, that you may learn by us not to go beyond what is written, that none of you may be puffed up in favor of one against another.

  262. There's so much in this.

  263. But as I look at leadership, one of the things that I want us to all be acknowledged and see within us is that we are accountable.

  264. We are accountable.

  265. As leaders, every single one of us is accountable.

  266. So let's look in areas.

  267. Inside the church, I'll look at myself and then outside the church, right?

  268. In business, in your employment, you're accountable to those who employ you, right?

  269. Now, here's where it is for me.

  270. I'm accountable to you.

  271. I'm accountable to our elders.

  272. I'm accountable to the lay leadership and to the congregation of the body of Christ.

  273. Let's say that I am accountable to them and to you, right?

  274. The second, in your family, right?

  275. You're accountable to those in your family.

  276. Kids, you're accountable to your parents.

  277. Parents, you're accountable to your kids.

  278. Spouses, you're accountable to each other.

  279. I'm accountable to my wife.

  280. I'm accountable to my kids.

  281. And they are accountable to me.

  282. In my community, I'm accountable to the people of Lexington as a believer and follower of Jesus Christ.

  283. To be the neighbor that God has called me to be.

  284. To live in grace and truth and to seek to live in harmony with all.

  285. That's the accountability that God has placed me in.

  286. And that's the accountability that I have.

  287. But what Paul is talking about here, again, is like in the mindset of serving.

  288. Ultimately, though, I and you, before my wife, before you, before my kids, before my community, before everyone else,

  289. ultimately and supremely, I am accountable to God.

  290. This is who I answer to, and this is who I will ultimately answer to.

  291. Look at Midway 3, verse 5.

  292. Paul says, God will bring to life the things now hidden in darkness and will disclose the purposes of the heart.

  293. Then each one will receive his commendation from God, right?

  294. I want to ask you this.

  295. This has been the question that has hit me the hardest this week.

  296. Are you ready to give an account for how you lead in the circles of influence in the areas that God has entrusted you with?

  297. In your work, in your home, in your church, in your family, in your community.

  298. Are we open to the fact that we are accountable to God, right?

  299. When we look at the parable of the talents that Jesus shares, he gives some talents, and some go, and they grow them, and one goes and buries them.

  300. And the point as we navigate through this parable is Jesus comes back, the master comes back, and says, what did you do with these?

  301. I entrusted you with this.

  302. What did you do with this?

  303. What did you do with the gospel?

  304. As stewards of the gospel in your business, what is your end goal?

  305. As stewards of the gospel in your family, what is your end goal?

  306. As stewards of the gospel in your community, what is your end goal?

  307. If your goal is to grow your business so that you can retire wealthy and comfortable and fat, right, then we're missing it.

  308. If the goal of my family is to raise athletes and scholars, ultimately, then we're missing it.

  309. If the goal of my community is just so that everyone will like me, or maybe on the other side, right, for some of us, that no one will like me, right, then we're missing it.

  310. As stewards of the gospel in business, in my family, I'm going to tell you, I want my kids to thrive and succeed in so many areas.

  311. I'm having a hard time this weekend.

  312. They turned 14, which just makes me realize they're even closer to being 18 and being out of the house, and that's going to be a bad day, and I'm going to take a lot of time off for that, right?

  313. Still praying through a homeschool model for college, right?

  314. But I want them to thrive and I want them to succeed.

  315. Don't miss me on that.

  316. But more importantly, who I want them to be is who they are in Christ and impacting lives for the sake of the gospel beyond anything else.

  317. Beyond anything else.

  318. Does the goal of your business, does the goal of your career have a centeredness around the gospel?

  319. Does the goal where you live and the goal of your community, does it have a centeredness for the gospel?

  320. Because we will be accountable for these.

  321. Another trait, let's keep reading verse 7, a characteristic of leadership.

  322. For who sees anything different in you?

  323. What do you have that you did not receive?

  324. If you then received it, why do you boast as if you did not receive it?

  325. Already you have all you want.

  326. Already you have become rich.

  327. Without us, you have become kings.

  328. And with that, you did reign so that we might share the rule with you.

  329. For I think that God has exhibited us apostles as last of all, like men sentenced to death because we have become a spectacle to the world, to angels, and to men.

  330. We are fools for Christ's sake, but you are wise in Christ.

  331. We are weak.

  332. You are strong.

  333. You are held in honor, but we in disrepute.

  334. To the present hour, we hunger and thirst.

  335. We are poorly dressed, buffeted, and homeless.

  336. And we labor without working with our own hands.

  337. When reviled, we bless.

  338. When persecuted, we endure.

  339. When slandered, we entreat.

  340. We have become and are still like the scum of the world, the refuse of all things.

  341. As leaders, we're called to be humble.

  342. Now, I could talk a lot about humility in areas where God has grown me, needs to grow me, in areas that God points out to all of us very evidently and very clearly in Scripture.

  343. And we haven't arrived.

  344. And I feel like that's what we've done a lot over the last several weeks.

  345. But I just want to kind of hit one high point, especially concerning the gospel here.

  346. I want you to look back at verse 7.

  347. For who sees anything different in you?

  348. What did you do that you did not receive?

  349. If you then received it, why do you boast as if you did not receive it?

  350. I'm going to paint this picture for you, if I can.

  351. My grandfather, who many of you know, I talk about him often.

  352. He passed away years ago, right before Aaron and I got married.

  353. He served in the Army, served during World War II, was a part of a lot of different historical, well-known battles.

  354. And before he died, he actually gave to me a lot of the things that he had been able to keep and been able to salvage from his military career.

  355. He got pictures, he got some weapons, he got different things from his uniform.

  356. And one of the things that he gave to me that I hold very dear to my heart are the bars from his uniform.

  357. Got them in a storage area in my closet where they'll be kept safe.

  358. And the way I lose things all the time, honestly, not be lost, right?

  359. It's what he entrusted to me.

  360. It's what he gave to me.

  361. Now, let's say there's a 4th of July celebration this summer.

  362. And I decide I'm going to put those on my shirt.

  363. I'm going to go out and I'm going to wear those.

  364. That wouldn't be right, would it?

  365. That's not what I've been called to do.

  366. That's not what I've been trusted with.

  367. Why?

  368. Because I didn't earn them.

  369. I wasn't the one on the battlefield.

  370. I wasn't the one that was paying the price.

  371. But instead, I've been entrusted by the one who did that to hold on to those.

  372. And that when I see those, when I'm reminded of those, to share the story of not only him,

  373. but so many different men and women who made the sacrifices that they made

  374. so that you and I could experience the life that we experience here.

  375. But if I were to talk about them, they were mine, that would be a lie.

  376. Because I didn't earn them.

  377. And Paul says this.

  378. Why do you, as a person who received the gospel,

  379. treat it as if it's something that you did not receive, as if it's something that you earned?

  380. It's our humility that even our standing of what we find in Christ

  381. is that this is what he did.

  382. And this is why we live in the way that we live for the glory of his name.

  383. We've been entrusted with something to share, to reflect, to show,

  384. and to point people not to us, but to someone else.

  385. The ultimate sign of humility.

  386. And then lastly, let's finish reading out the chapter, starting in verse 14.

  387. Paul says this.

  388. I love these verses.

  389. Now, Paul's going to really lay the smack down on the rest of these, all right, these chapters.

  390. And here's how I start this off.

  391. I do not write these things to make you ashamed,

  392. but to admonish you as my beloved children.

  393. For though you have countless gods in Christ,

  394. you do not have many fathers.

  395. For I became your father in Christ through the gospel.

  396. I urge you then, be imitators of me.

  397. That is why I sent you, Timothy,

  398. my beloved and faithful child in the Lord,

  399. to remind you of my ways in Christ,

  400. as I teach them everywhere in every church.

  401. Some are arrogant, as though I were not coming to you.

  402. But I will come to you soon, if the Lord wills.

  403. And I will find out, not the talk of these arrogant people, but their power.

  404. For the kingdom of God does not consist in talk, but in power.

  405. What do you wish?

  406. Shall I come to you with a rod,

  407. or with love in the spirit of gentleness?

  408. When we look at this passage of scripture,

  409. what is commonly referred to,

  410. and what we oftentimes see,

  411. is this element of church discipline.

  412. That here's what Paul is coming to do

  413. as there's this church that's gone off the rails.

  414. That there's this church that's missing it.

  415. And that the rest of what we're going to see here

  416. are these punishments that are being leveraged

  417. from Paul to them

  418. because of how bad they are

  419. and how wrong they're doing things.

  420. And I don't believe at all that's the goal of what we're to see here.

  421. I think his leadership is what Paul pours into

  422. of what we're going to see in these eight verses right here

  423. is that Paul is pointing to leadership being disciple makers.

  424. And that's the goal of what we are to do.

  425. When Jesus entrusted us with the Great Commission,

  426. he calls us to go and make disciples.

  427. That's what we're to do.

  428. We are to go and to make disciples.

  429. And what we see from here

  430. is if we're going to be a leader in the sake of the gospel,

  431. if we're going to be a leader in seeking to make people follow Christ

  432. in our work,

  433. in our home,

  434. in our communities,

  435. that there's some evidence of what we need to be able to see

  436. from ourselves

  437. as the Great Commission calls us to this.

  438. The first thing that we're to be,

  439. that we are to see in our lives

  440. is what we call a spiritual parent.

  441. In order to be a disciple maker,

  442. we must be a spiritual parent.

  443. Look at verse 14 and 15.

  444. I do not write these things to make you ashamed.

  445. Let's pause for a second.

  446. Parents,

  447. in your love for your child,

  448. do you ever seek shame in their life?

  449. No.

  450. No.

  451. It destroys,

  452. it breaks down,

  453. it'll ruin them.

  454. Shame is the opposite of the gospel.

  455. Shame is what Christ came to work against.

  456. Shame is what the devil uses to bring us down.

  457. I do not write these things to make you ashamed.

  458. But to admonish you as my beloved children, right?

  459. Paul says,

  460. there's going to be some correction that takes place.

  461. For though you have countless gods in Christ,

  462. you do not have many fathers.

  463. For I became your father in Christ through the gospel.

  464. And so what Paul's saying is that

  465. we don't need more gods.

  466. You've got gods.

  467. I would argue if the church at Corinth had gods,

  468. you and I have way more gods than they have, right?

  469. Thank you.

  470. Podcasts,

  471. bookstores,

  472. right?

  473. Facebook,

  474. like everything else.

  475. It ain't hard for you and I

  476. to go and to seek out gods

  477. that are going to appoint us

  478. but not go on the journey with us.

  479. And Paul says,

  480. but that's who we are.

  481. We're not called as disciple makers

  482. to simply be those that speak truth

  483. and say go figure it out.

  484. We've got those.

  485. But we don't have many fathers.

  486. And so if you're here and you're a leader,

  487. I want to ask you a question.

  488. Are you a god or are you a parent?

  489. Are you a god or are you a parent?

  490. Now, yeah,

  491. there's going to become a point in time

  492. a lot sooner than I'm probably wanting to be

  493. or are comfortable to be.

  494. Even in some areas

  495. that I'm already seeing

  496. in my life with my kids

  497. where there's those moments of,

  498. all right,

  499. it's time to go.

  500. It's time to grow those wings.

  501. It's time to lead out.

  502. It's time,

  503. this is what God needs you to do,

  504. right?

  505. But at no point in time

  506. am I not here with you.

  507. Maybe not physically

  508. but there's not a point in time

  509. that I'm not with you

  510. in my prayers,

  511. in my minds,

  512. in my heart

  513. and that I'm always available for you.

  514. And that's what it means

  515. to be a spiritual parent.

  516. I want to ask you, church,

  517. in your life,

  518. here in our context,

  519. in your home,

  520. in your job,

  521. in your community,

  522. who are you looking

  523. to not be a guide to,

  524. to simply be a person

  525. that points out

  526. and says do better,

  527. but who are you looking

  528. to come alongside?

  529. Don't be a guide,

  530. be a parent.

  531. The second thing

  532. is be an example.

  533. Look at verse 16 and 17.

  534. I urge you,

  535. then be imitators of me.

  536. Pause for a second.

  537. This is not the arrogance of Paul

  538. that says this,

  539. but this is the confidence

  540. of Paul in Christ,

  541. all right?

  542. Verse 17,

  543. that is why I sent you Timothy,

  544. my beloved and faithful child

  545. in the Lord,

  546. to remind you of my ways

  547. in Christ

  548. as I teach them

  549. everywhere

  550. in every church.

  551. So Paul says

  552. it's important

  553. to be an example.

  554. Parents,

  555. look at your kids

  556. and be able to say,

  557. can you say,

  558. you want to know

  559. what it looks like

  560. to follow the Lord?

  561. Look at me.

  562. Look at your mom.

  563. Look at us.

  564. Be imitators of us.

  565. At work,

  566. can you look at those

  567. around you

  568. in the meetings

  569. when the sense

  570. of anger,

  571. of stress

  572. begins to rise

  573. and you say,

  574. no, no, no,

  575. it's going to be different.

  576. Be imitators of Christ.

  577. Watch how I imitate him

  578. in this.

  579. This is what Paul

  580. brings us to

  581. that you and I

  582. are living examples

  583. and what Paul

  584. is pointing to here.

  585. He says,

  586. be imitators of me

  587. because that's why

  588. I sent you

  589. Timothy.

  590. Timothy.

  591. We were having

  592. our staff

  593. Bible study

  594. with this

  595. this past week

  596. and I asked

  597. one of our

  598. staff members,

  599. Joel.

  600. Joel Van Ham

  601. knows how to fix

  602. way more things

  603. than I do.

  604. More mechanically

  605. inclined,

  606. can build things,

  607. do all those things

  608. and Joel is doing

  609. a wonderful job

  610. within that

  611. of pouring these

  612. things into

  613. his son Jacob.

  614. He's teaching,

  615. he's modeling,

  616. this is what he's

  617. doing in his life

  618. and I asked

  619. Joel,

  620. I was like,

  621. if I wanted

  622. to learn this

  623. from you,

  624. who would I ask

  625. to be taught?

  626. Would I ask you

  627. or would I ask Jacob?

  628. And he sat there

  629. and he had an honest

  630. assessment of the

  631. situation.

  632. He goes,

  633. no, no, no,

  634. no, it would be me

  635. and that's what so

  636. many of us would do,

  637. right?

  638. I know how to do

  639. this,

  640. come to me.

  641. But Paul says,

  642. when we're this

  643. example of who

  644. God has called

  645. us to be,

  646. that I've invested

  647. so much into

  648. my spiritual son

  649. in the faith,

  650. Timothy,

  651. that that's why

  652. I sent him to you.

  653. When we go back

  654. and we look at

  655. the generations

  656. of faith that

  657. are built,

  658. it's because of

  659. the poured in,

  660. the replication

  661. of a spiritual

  662. parent,

  663. the reproduction

  664. of new believers

  665. in Christ

  666. so that our

  667. examples

  668. don't end

  669. with us

  670. but our examples

  671. continue on

  672. and continue on

  673. and continue on.

  674. And then lastly,

  675. as a disciple

  676. maker,

  677. we're a corrector.

  678. We're a corrector.

  679. verse 18,

  680. some are arrogant

  681. as though I were

  682. not coming to you.

  683. Paul's like,

  684. oh, and by the way,

  685. I'm coming on my way.

  686. We're going to find

  687. out all of this

  688. for myself.

  689. But I will come

  690. to you soon

  691. if the Lord wills

  692. and I will find

  693. out not the talk

  694. of these arrogant

  695. people but the power

  696. for the kingdom

  697. of God does not

  698. consist in talk

  699. but in power.

  700. what do you wish?

  701. Shall I come to you

  702. with a rod

  703. or with a spirit

  704. of love

  705. and gentleness?

  706. And so Paul gives them

  707. the challenge

  708. to change.

  709. Paul gives them

  710. the challenge

  711. to change.

  712. And he says that

  713. in this,

  714. as this spiritual parent,

  715. in this,

  716. as this example

  717. that I'm coming.

  718. it hit me this week

  719. when we talk

  720. about disciplining

  721. a behavior.

  722. So someone does

  723. something wrong,

  724. our kids do

  725. something wrong,

  726. our employee

  727. does something wrong,

  728. our peer

  729. does something wrong,

  730. someone in our life

  731. that discipline

  732. is appropriate.

  733. Why do we do that?

  734. Why do we do it?

  735. Well, what we see

  736. in scripture

  737. and in the context

  738. is we don't

  739. discipline

  740. to punish.

  741. We discipline

  742. to correct.

  743. And this is

  744. what Paul's seeking.

  745. That I seek

  746. to discipline you,

  747. I seek to bring

  748. this to you

  749. because here's

  750. what God

  751. wants from you.

  752. Right?

  753. I had a pastor

  754. say this one time

  755. and it's just stuck

  756. with me

  757. and embedded

  758. into my heart.

  759. He says,

  760. when I see

  761. my kids

  762. and my wife

  763. and my church

  764. people

  765. sin

  766. it hurts

  767. my heart

  768. not because

  769. I'm mad

  770. but because

  771. they've chosen

  772. the lesser thing

  773. instead of the

  774. greater thing

  775. of God.

  776. They've chosen

  777. the lesser thing

  778. and not the

  779. correct thing

  780. for the Lord.

  781. And so Paul says

  782. as we're going to go

  783. through this

  784. and as you're

  785. going to see

  786. all of these

  787. different things

  788. that are here

  789. it's not that

  790. I want to punish

  791. you

  792. Paul says

  793. it's that

  794. I want to

  795. correct you

  796. so that you

  797. see the life

  798. that God

  799. has called you to.

  800. As we go

  801. over these next

  802. several weeks

  803. and we continue

  804. to navigate

  805. through these

  806. chapters in

  807. 1 Corinthians

  808. I want to be

  809. honest with you

  810. there's going to

  811. see like

  812. time and

  813. time again

  814. the areas

  815. that are

  816. foreign

  817. from where

  818. we are

  819. in our

  820. world

  821. with what

  822. we're doing

  823. but the

  824. truth of the

  825. matter

  826. it reigns

  827. true

  828. into who

  829. we are.

  830. are we taking

  831. these

  832. and applying

  833. these

  834. in our

  835. circles of

  836. influence

  837. where God

  838. has called

  839. you to.

  840. Let's pray.

  841. God I

  842. thank you so

  843. much for

  844. this time

  845. that we

  846. could be

  847. here

  848. together

  849. to be

  850. into your

  851. word.

  852. Lord I

  853. thank you

  854. for the

  855. wonderful

  856. opportunity

  857. that you

  858. give us

  859. to study

  860. your

  861. word.

  862. Lord I

  863. pray that

  864. you would

  865. open up

  866. our eyes

  867. and our

  868. hearts

  869. to the

  870. different

  871. areas of

  872. the circles

  873. that you

  874. have

  875. provided

  876. us

  877. where we

  878. can live

  879. for your

  880. glory

  881. and for

  882. your

  883. name

  884. in a

  885. way that

  886. points

  887. people to

  888. you

  889. and shares

  890. the hope

  891. of the

  892. gospel

  893. with them.

  894. And it's

  895. in Jesus

  896. name we

  897. pray.

  898. Amen.

  899. You know

  900. one of the

  901. things that

  902. we want

  903. to continue

  904. to remind

  905. ourselves

  906. of is

  907. not only

  908. the price

  909. that Christ

  910. paid for

  911. us but

  912. the life

  913. that he

  914. calls us

  915. to.

  916. And so

  917. if you

  918. want to

  919. go ahead

  920. and take

  921. the elements

  922. of the

  923. Lord's

  924. Supper

  925. that we

  926. have

  927. we're just

  928. going to

  929. pause for a

  930. few moments

  931. before we

  932. continue in

  933. worship

  934. before we

  935. respond in

  936. any way

  937. and show

  938. our

  939. gratitude

  940. gratitude

  941. and our

  942. thankfulness

  943. and humility

  944. before him

  945. we did not

  946. earn our

  947. salvation

  948. but we

  949. were gifted

  950. it

  951. and we

  952. receive it

  953. with joy

  954. and with

  955. thanksgiving

  956. and so if

  957. you take

  958. your bread

  959. the bread

  960. that represents

  961. the body

  962. of Christ

  963. who paid

  964. the price

  965. that you

  966. and I

  967. deserved

  968. who died

  969. the death

  970. that you

  971. and I

  972. deserved

  973. and he

  974. did it

  975. for us

  976. scripture says

  977. that Jesus

  978. on the night

  979. that he was

  980. betrayed

  981. he took

  982. bread

  983. and when he

  984. gave him

  985. thanks

  986. he broke

  987. it

  988. he said

  989. this is my

  990. body

  991. which is

  992. for you

  993. do this

  994. in remembrance

  995. of me

  996. amen

  997. and then

  998. Jesus

  999. would take

  1000. the cup

  1001. the cup

  1002. that would

  1003. represent

  1004. his blood

  1005. the blood

  1006. that was

  1007. spilled

  1008. so that you

  1009. and I

  1010. would be

  1011. washed

  1012. clean

  1013. made right

  1014. to stand

  1015. before God

  1016. and he

  1017. says

  1018. in the same

  1019. way

  1020. he took

  1021. the cup

  1022. after the

  1023. supper

  1024. saying

  1025. this cup

  1026. is the

  1027. new

  1028. covenant

  1029. in my

  1030. blood

  1031. do this

  1032. as often

  1033. as you

  1034. drink it

  1035. in remembrance

  1036. of me

  1037. let's pray

  1038. Jesus

  1039. we thank

  1040. you

  1041. for the

  1042. price

  1043. that you

  1044. paid

  1045. so that

  1046. we

  1047. may be

  1048. made

  1049. right

  1050. before God

  1051. Lord

  1052. would we

  1053. live

  1054. in the

  1055. expectation

  1056. that you

  1057. have

  1058. for us

  1059. to be

  1060. a faithful

  1061. servant

  1062. of you

  1063. and a

  1064. faithful

  1065. steward

  1066. of the

  1067. gospel

  1068. Lord

  1069. may we

  1070. live our

  1071. life

  1072. knowing that

  1073. we are

  1074. accountable

  1075. to you

  1076. ultimately

  1077. and to

  1078. approach

  1079. this world

  1080. those around

  1081. us

  1082. and you

  1083. the grace

  1084. and humility

  1085. that we

  1086. understand

  1087. of who

  1088. we are

  1089. it is not

  1090. through our

  1091. own works

  1092. that we're

  1093. made right

  1094. but it's

  1095. through your

  1096. work on the

  1097. cross

  1098. that you

  1099. made us

  1100. right

  1101. let me

  1102. rest in

  1103. that

  1104. Lord

  1105. would we

  1106. live in

  1107. the boldness

  1108. of being

  1109. a disciple

  1110. maker

  1111. what that

  1112. means

  1113. not

  1114. seeking

  1115. just to

  1116. God

  1117. but

  1118. Lord

  1119. seeking

  1120. to be

  1121. the parent

  1122. that walks

  1123. alongside

  1124. correcting

  1125. being the

  1126. example

  1127. living

  1128. for your

  1129. name

  1130. so that

  1131. we can

  1132. see the

  1133. reproduction

  1134. of the

  1135. power

  1136. of the

  1137. gospel

  1138. in the

  1139. lives

  1140. of so

  1141. many

  1142. Lord

  1143. we thank

  1144. you for

  1145. the joy

  1146. to serve

  1147. you

  1148. and to

  1149. worship

  1150. you

  1151. Lord

  1152. as we

  1153. respond

  1154. in worship

  1155. that it

  1156. would be

  1157. done

  1158. out of a

  1159. life

  1160. surrendered

  1161. to you

  1162. it's in

  1163. Jesus name

  1164. we pray

  1165. amen

  1166. there's

  1167. prayer

  1168. encouragers

  1169. on either

  1170. side of

  1171. our

  1172. auditorium

  1173. this

  1174. morning

  1175. if you

  1176. came in

  1177. here with

  1178. a burden

  1179. needing

  1180. someone to

  1181. pray with

  1182. you

  1183. they would

  1184. love to

  1185. pray with

  1186. you

  1187. if you

  1188. came in

  1189. here this

  1190. morning

  1191. and want to

  1192. talk to

  1193. someone about

  1194. a relationship

  1195. with Christ

  1196. they'd love to

  1197. talk to you

  1198. about that

  1199. we just ask

  1200. that you

  1201. simply respond

  1202. to God

  1203. as he leads

  1204. you this

  1205. morning

  1206. would you

  1207. stand

  1208. as we

  1209. worship

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  1211. thanks again

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