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  6. Hey, good morning.

  7. Thank you, Mike.

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  14. Everybody at home that's live streaming heard you, and our microphones aren't working,

  15. but they got it, right?

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  17. Thank you, bud.

  18. Hey, if you got your Bibles, open up to 1 Corinthians chapter 5.

    1 Corinthians 5 chapter mention

  19. That's where we're going to be this morning.

  20. As you turn there, I want to kind of fill you guys in or remind you of some things going on.

  21. Now, I know tonight is the Super Bowl.

  22. Just quick show of hands.

  23. Is there anyone who is like, I'm a passionate Los Angeles Rams fan?

  24. Anybody?

  25. Anybody who's like, man, the Cincinnati Bengals, that's my team.

  26. Fantastic.

  27. We got church tonight from 4 to 6, all right?

  28. All right.

  29. There we go.

  30. But also, and this is something new for you guys to hear, something we've got planned and going on.

  31. I'm really excited about this.

  32. Over the last several months ago, God just began to lay on my heart something that Aaron and I have had the opportunity to be a part of in our marriage.

  33. And these weekends have been really monumental in us strengthening our marriage, working through some times and working through some difficulties together when God has given us the opportunity to participate in marriage conferences or marriage retreats.

  34. And so I wanted to inform you guys that we feel like God is leading us and was able to meet with our staff and work through this.

  35. And anyways, we're going to be doing a marriage conference here at Willow Church, Friday, March 25th, and Saturday, March 26th.

  36. And so we're going to host it here on our campus.

  37. We're going to use some of the resources that we have with Right Now Media.

  38. And we want to let you know this ahead of time so that you can begin to prepare to make plans to be here with us that evening and then that morning.

  39. The cost will be $20 per person.

  40. And here's why I say $20 per person.

  41. It's a marriage conference.

  42. And so couples, to be able to be there.

  43. But I know that some of you in the context of your marriage, of where you're at right now, maybe your spouse is like, no, I'm not coming.

  44. But you know the desperation that you need to have to fight for your marriage.

  45. I want to encourage you to be there.

  46. If you're a couple who's dating, who's thinking, who's talking about marriage, if you're engaged, this is a wonderful opportunity for you to come and be a part of this weekend with us.

  47. Friday night, we're going to have a catered dinner that's going to be brought in that we can have that.

  48. And then Saturday morning, we'll have breakfast with some challenges for our couples to go out and to do that day.

  49. And I'm really excited just to see what the Lord is going to do.

  50. And so we're going to be selling tickets to that this morning.

  51. Pastor Dave will be selling those.

  52. We'll be in the back.

  53. From where I am, the back left-hand corner of the auditorium, that he will be there.

  54. And so please make plans.

  55. If you've got kids, this gives you plenty of time to get your sitters lined up, to make grandparents aware,

  56. so that maybe they could take them off your hands for Friday night and Saturday morning,

  57. and just looking forward to this wonderful opportunity.

  58. So if you feel like your marriage is healthy and good, so you don't need this, you're wrong, you do.

  59. And if you feel like your marriage is desperate and at a point, then you need this.

  60. I was talking to a couple, and I've used this illustration so many times in my own life, in my own marriage,

  61. but also as I sit and work through some things with married couples.

  62. If you think of your marriage like a home, and every marriage has complications,

  63. every marriage has problems, every marriage has disagreements.

  64. If you say you don't have those, then I would argue that you don't have a marriage.

  65. Because that's what it's like when two people come together, even when they seek to glorify God in all that they do.

  66. And I heard this illustration used, and I love it.

  67. And the pastor that was using it, he said,

  68. and what we do to maintain healthy marriages in the midst of the chaos is we treat problems like candles.

  69. A candle gets lit, a problem that's there.

  70. And we can make one of two choices.

  71. We can either address the problem and snuff it out, or we can ignore it and walk away.

  72. And he said, most couples don't address the problem, they ignore it.

  73. And then the next day another candle's lit, the next day another candle's lit,

  74. and then another candle, and another candle, and another candle.

  75. And then eventually so many candles are lit that the house catches on fire.

  76. And in that moment is when men and women say, now we need help for our marriage.

  77. And just to be honest with you, when you get to that point, oftentimes it's too late.

  78. And so maybe you're there, and you're like, well, there's no big deals that are going on.

  79. Like, we're good.

  80. We got some stuff, yeah, that we need to work through, but we're treading on.

  81. Then come here during this weekend and join us as we identify some candles and try to knock some of these candles out.

  82. Or maybe you're there, and you're like, man, the house is on fire.

  83. Then what I would say to you is don't wait until March 25th, right?

  84. Get with us and help us see what we can do to get some things under control

  85. and watch how God's going to bless your marriage through it.

  86. But I would just like to encourage you to be a part of this wonderful, wonderful weekend experience with us here at our church.

  87. All right, so as we're getting into 1 Corinthians chapter 5 this morning,

    1 Corinthians 5 chapter mention

  88. I want to kind of draw some illustrations for us.

  89. Now, we know and we've used this that a church is a family.

  90. You and I, we are family.

  91. We are brothers and sisters in Christ, but we are a unique family.

  92. And just as we are a family, we use the illustration that a church is a unique family.

  93. So like my family and your family, we have a dad, we have a mom, we have kids,

  94. and we have those similarities that are there.

  95. But then amongst my family and your family, we find that there's some individual unique characteristics

  96. that may ring true in my family, but that doesn't ring true in your family.

  97. And the body of God, the church, is just like that, right?

  98. Like if we were to leave here, we have unique both strengths and weaknesses at Willow Ridge Church.

  99. And if we were to journey down the road to Red Bank Baptist,

  100. we would find that they have their own unique set of circumstances there as well.

  101. They have their own strengths and their own weaknesses.

  102. And if we were to pack up and head down to Lexington Baptist in downtown,

  103. we would find out that that rings true for them as well.

  104. We are all family.

  105. We are all body of Christ.

  106. But that within there, we find our unique set of characteristics,

  107. sometimes strengths, and sometimes weaknesses.

  108. And as we go through and as we're journeying through this letter of 1 Corinthians,

  109. it's so important for us to remember that this letter is written to a very unique family of Christ,

  110. the church at Corinth.

  111. And so as we go through this,

  112. we're going to see some of their unique problems that they're facing

  113. and that Paul's walking through with them

  114. so that they can be the body that God's called them.

  115. And what we saw, I think, week number two,

  116. that God is equipping them to be.

  117. This is Paul's longing.

  118. This is Paul's desire for them.

  119. This is God's desire for them.

  120. And this is God's desire for us,

  121. that we be the church, we be the family that God has called us to be.

  122. Now, one problem that we've seen that's kind of woven through everything that we've looked at

  123. is there's this problem that's happened within where there's been divisions in the church at Corinth

  124. as they're arguing over who they follow.

  125. Remember, some are like, well, I follow Paul.

  126. Some are like, I follow Cephas.

  127. Some, I follow Apollos.

  128. And there's others that say, I follow Christ,

  129. meaning like a higher sense of spirituality than others.

  130. So that's what we've been looking at largely over the last four weeks.

  131. Now, where we're going at over the next several weeks

  132. is more of the can of worms is going to be opened.

  133. And we're going to see that there's even more struggles

  134. that are unique to the Corinthian church.

  135. And the reason why it's so important that we keep drawing the line that says

  136. these are unique to the Corinthian church

  137. is Paul's not addressing society as a whole.

  138. It's not what's wrong with Corinthian society.

  139. It's what's broken in the lives of men and women

  140. who claim to be followers of Jesus Christ.

  141. And so for us, if we're not careful,

  142. we can read week in and week out,

  143. but we don't have that struggle.

  144. I don't have that struggle.

  145. Check the box and move on.

  146. And so what we want to do is we want to draw from their struggles that they have.

  147. What are the battles?

  148. What are the issues that they're facing?

  149. And while we may not face that particular issue as well,

  150. what are the truths that we can draw from this

  151. as we seek to be the family of God that God has called us to be, all right?

  152. And so that's kind of the background of what we're going to see

  153. over the next several weeks as we work through 1 Corinthians.

  154. So let's look at this problem in 1 Corinthians 5, starting in verse 1.

  155. Paul writes and says,

  156. It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you

  157. And a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans

  158. For a man has his father's wife

  159. And you are arrogant

  160. Ought you not rather to mourn?

  161. Let him who has done this be removed from among you

  162. For though absent in body, I am present in spirit

  163. And as if present, I have already pronounced judgment

  164. On the one who did such a thing, all right?

  165. So here in verse 1, we are hit with one of these unique problems

  166. Of what is happening and what is taking place in the church of Corinth

  167. Now, I've tried to fully wrap my brain around and understand this

  168. And what I've come to understand in my study this week

  169. Is there's lots of thoughts, there's lots of ideas

  170. But there's very little consensus on what exactly the specific problem is

  171. Now, Paul begins, we know that this is dealing with sexual immorality

  172. And we could spend the next 10 weeks talking about sexual immorality

  173. But then he goes in to describe this a little bit more

  174. And what we see, basically what we can draw

  175. What I believe is happening

  176. Is that there is a son

  177. Who is having a sexually immoral relationship

  178. With his stepmom

  179. Now, that's a problem, all right?

  180. It's an uncomfortable moment in here for this, right?

  181. And I'll be honest with you

  182. It's a pretty difficult problem

  183. For you and I to immediately draw and relate to

  184. I'm just guessing that when you showed up this morning

  185. With a list of struggles that you and I are facing

  186. Like this isn't cracking the top five, you know?

  187. But the main issue

  188. Let's look at what Paul is talking about

  189. Look back at verse 1

  190. It is actually reported

  191. That there is sexual immorality

  192. Among you

  193. Among you

  194. Body of believers

  195. And a kind that is not tolerated

  196. Even among pagans

  197. Now, something to understand about the culture of Corinth

  198. The culture of Corinth

  199. Was completely

  200. More times than not

  201. Tolerant

  202. Of the sexual immoral behaviors

  203. That the church

  204. And that God's word

  205. Would have been against

  206. But even within this

  207. He's like, it's a kind of behavior

  208. That's not even tolerated

  209. Amongst the pagans

  210. So is the issue

  211. That is at hand

  212. That a man in the church

  213. Is having a relationship like this

  214. With his stepmom

  215. Is this an issue?

  216. Yes, absolutely

  217. I put in my notes

  218. With an exclamation point

  219. This is wrong

  220. This is sin

  221. But what I would argue

  222. For us here

  223. In the context of where we are

  224. The bigger issue

  225. Is that the church

  226. Is tolerating it

  227. That the church

  228. Is okay with it

  229. That the church

  230. Is the body

  231. That's supposed to represent

  232. The truth

  233. Of Jesus Christ

  234. Is like

  235. No, no, no, no

  236. We're just going to ignore this

  237. For a second

  238. And we're going to tolerate it

  239. That the issue

  240. Is that there's a man

  241. Who is in blatant

  242. Unrepented

  243. Continual sin

  244. And he sees nothing wrong

  245. With it

  246. And whether they're whispering

  247. About him

  248. Behind his back

  249. There's not the biblical

  250. Confrontation

  251. That is happening

  252. So that he can have

  253. The opportunity

  254. To be addressed

  255. With his sin

  256. And the church

  257. In Paul's words

  258. They tolerated

  259. Look back at verse 2

  260. Why would the church

  261. Tolerate this?

  262. We know it's wrong

  263. We know it's ungodly

  264. We know it's not

  265. What God longs for

  266. And desires

  267. Why would we tolerate it?

  268. Paul says

  269. And you are arrogant

  270. Ought you not

  271. Rather to mourn?

  272. Let him

  273. Who has done this

  274. Be removed

  275. From among you

  276. Paul says

  277. Are you arrogant?

  278. Your pride

  279. Is preventing

  280. You

  281. From doing

  282. What needs to be done

  283. And which is

  284. Mourning the sin

  285. That is rampant

  286. In the life

  287. Of this man

  288. Within your congregation

  289. And what you need to do

  290. Is remove him

  291. Now that's really

  292. Uncomfortable

  293. In our culture

  294. But it's biblical

  295. And Paul says

  296. When there's a man

  297. Like this

  298. Who claims

  299. To be a believer

  300. And is blatantly living

  301. In this sinful

  302. Sexual

  303. Immorality

  304. Lifestyle

  305. That he has

  306. You need to mourn over it

  307. And you need to remove him

  308. And we're going to talk about that

  309. In just a minute

  310. Of what this means

  311. And why Paul

  312. Would call for his

  313. Removal from the church

  314. But here's what I want

  315. To understand

  316. First

  317. They're not even

  318. Addressing it

  319. And so why not?

  320. Paul tells us right here

  321. Pride

  322. Prevents

  323. Biblical

  324. Confrontation

  325. He says

  326. And you

  327. Are arrogant

  328. It's all

  329. What comes back

  330. To their

  331. Their lack of unity

  332. Within the congregation

  333. Of their church

  334. And so

  335. Here's something

  336. That I've been wrestling

  337. With this week

  338. And just pouring over

  339. Is how does pride

  340. Prevent me

  341. From addressing sin

  342. In the life

  343. Of a believer?

  344. How does that prevent it?

  345. Now

  346. Now because sometimes

  347. When we see

  348. A lack

  349. Of confrontation

  350. Now

  351. There are people

  352. In this world

  353. That are good

  354. At confrontation

  355. And there are people

  356. In this world

  357. Who are bad

  358. At confrontation

  359. Right?

  360. I would classify

  361. Myself

  362. An area that God

  363. Has growing me

  364. And desperately needs

  365. To continue

  366. To grow me

  367. Is I'm not great

  368. At confrontation

  369. Right?

  370. I will not sleep

  371. For weeks

  372. When I know

  373. That I've got to deal

  374. With something like that

  375. But God don't set me

  376. Free from it

  377. And so

  378. It's been

  379. It's been

  380. An interesting journey

  381. This week

  382. To walk through this

  383. And to ask the question

  384. Right?

  385. How does pride

  386. Prevent me

  387. How is pride

  388. Preventing the church

  389. At Corinth

  390. From addressing sin

  391. In the life

  392. Of a believer?

  393. And here's what

  394. I want us to understand

  395. About pride

  396. Pride creates

  397. Insecurity

  398. Pride creates insecurity

  399. I want you to think

  400. About this

  401. If you're a person

  402. Who struggles with pride

  403. What do you

  404. Continually have to do?

  405. You have to portray

  406. A false narrative

  407. Of who you are

  408. So that others

  409. Think you're better

  410. Than you really are

  411. Right?

  412. That's what pride does

  413. Well let me tell you

  414. What I've done

  415. Let me tell you

  416. What I've accomplished

  417. Let me tell you

  418. Who that I am

  419. And deep down

  420. Within that person

  421. That does that

  422. There's this deep rooted

  423. Insecurities

  424. That are there

  425. To try to make us

  426. Feel like we've got to

  427. Prove that we are

  428. Something beyond this

  429. And when we understand

  430. That

  431. We begin to see

  432. The specific behaviors

  433. In the life of people

  434. That prevent them

  435. From addressing sin

  436. Because of pride

  437. Here's four things

  438. That I see

  439. In my life

  440. And in the lives

  441. Of others

  442. That when pride

  443. Prevents us

  444. From addressing sin

  445. In the life of a believer

  446. Number one

  447. What prevents us

  448. Is this

  449. The question that comes

  450. To us

  451. Well what if they

  452. Address my sin

  453. Right?

  454. You ever gone to

  455. Call somebody out

  456. On something

  457. And then what do they do?

  458. They turn it back on you

  459. And what's our reaction?

  460. No, no, no

  461. This isn't about me

  462. But no, no, no

  463. But it is

  464. Right?

  465. That's not a good feeling

  466. That's

  467. If you're a person

  468. Who struggles with pride

  469. What do you not want?

  470. You don't want

  471. To be called out yourself

  472. But if you go

  473. And you know how

  474. Confrontation plays out

  475. So many times

  476. What happens over

  477. The course of this

  478. Well I'm going to

  479. Address this with you

  480. Then you're going to

  481. Address this with me

  482. And pride prevents that

  483. Number two

  484. How does pride prevent

  485. Addressing sin

  486. In the life of a believer?

  487. Number two

  488. What if the relationship

  489. Is broken?

  490. Right?

  491. What if the relationship

  492. Is broken?

  493. And I get that's hard

  494. That's hard

  495. I've got a friend

  496. I've got a loved one

  497. I've got someone

  498. That I care about

  499. But I see this

  500. And if I sit down

  501. And address this

  502. If I draw the line

  503. Of God's standard

  504. To what's right

  505. And what's wrong

  506. If I call them out

  507. On the behavior

  508. If I point them

  509. Toward the consequences

  510. That will exist

  511. What if the relationship

  512. Is broken?

  513. And that's pride

  514. That's pride

  515. And here's why

  516. That's pride

  517. It seems like humility

  518. And it's not

  519. Here's why it's pride

  520. Alright?

  521. And this is something

  522. That's been big for me

  523. This week

  524. Here's why it's pride

  525. Because I'm determining

  526. That my relationship

  527. With them

  528. Is more valuable

  529. Than their relationship

  530. With the Lord

  531. But what if they repent

  532. What if they're broken

  533. What if we see

  534. As we're gonna see

  535. Kind of sneaking

  536. Into the next couple points

  537. What if they see

  538. As the result

  539. Of your confrontation

  540. With them

  541. That the relationship

  542. Is broken

  543. And they're left

  544. To wander

  545. In the wilderness

  546. Of their sin

  547. And what happens

  548. Is their salvation

  549. Right?

  550. Are we willing?

  551. What if the relationship

  552. Is broken?

  553. Number three

  554. How pride prevents us

  555. What will others say?

  556. What will others say?

  557. Alright?

  558. We can see how this

  559. Narrative plays out

  560. Can you believe

  561. What so and so

  562. Put their nose in

  563. That's none of their business?

  564. I don't want that person

  565. In my life

  566. Who are they

  567. To think

  568. That they

  569. Can go to?

  570. Right?

  571. What will others say?

  572. Again, pride

  573. What will others

  574. Think about me?

  575. How will it affect

  576. Others'

  577. Expectations of me?

  578. And then number four

  579. And I think this is

  580. Where it hit the hardest

  581. How it affects pride

  582. Is this

  583. When we're unwilling

  584. To address people

  585. Because of their sin

  586. We become the person

  587. Who determines

  588. Which sins do matter

  589. And which sins

  590. Don't matter

  591. And let's just be honest

  592. You and I

  593. Were never given

  594. The job description

  595. By God to define sin

  596. He says I got it covered

  597. Right?

  598. He says I got it covered

  599. And he's going to

  600. Give us some examples

  601. Of some things

  602. Later on in this passage

  603. Where it's like

  604. It's not just

  605. The sexually immoral

  606. That we need to address

  607. But here's my standard

  608. And if we decide

  609. As the ones

  610. That are supposed

  611. To be submitted to him

  612. Who are we

  613. To be that person

  614. And this is where

  615. Paul finds

  616. That the church

  617. Is broken

  618. Right?

  619. Not only divided

  620. In who they will follow

  621. But unified

  622. In the acceptance

  623. Of sin

  624. Right?

  625. Here's the division

  626. That we accept

  627. And here's the unity

  628. That we accept

  629. And the unity

  630. That we accept

  631. Is not centered

  632. Around Christ

  633. But it's centered

  634. Around the acceptance

  635. Of sin

  636. Let's keep reading

  637. Verse 4

  638. Paul says this

  639. He says

  640. When you are assembled

  641. In the name

  642. Of the Lord Jesus

  643. And my spirit

  644. Is present

  645. With the power

  646. Of our Lord Jesus

  647. You are to deliver

  648. This man

  649. To Satan

  650. For the destruction

  651. Of the flesh

  652. So that his spirit

  653. May be saved

  654. In the day

  655. In the day

  656. Of the Lord

  657. That's complicated

  658. A couple verses

  659. Right there

  660. And so to kind of

  661. Spill over

  662. From 3 to 4

  663. Paul says

  664. Look I'm going to come

  665. I'm going to be here

  666. And when I

  667. When I get there

  668. If you guys

  669. Haven't dealt

  670. With the issue

  671. I'm going to deal

  672. With it

  673. And here's how

  674. I'm going to deal

  675. With it

  676. Let's look back

  677. At verse 5

  678. Because we're

  679. Going to focus

  680. In on

  681. You're delivered

  682. This man

  683. To Satan

  684. For the destruction

  685. Of the flesh

  686. So that his spirit

  687. May be saved

  688. In the day

  689. Of the Lord

  690. So he says

  691. To the church

  692. He says

  693. He's a believer

  694. He says

  695. He's a follower

  696. Of Christ

  697. But yet

  698. In his life

  699. Is not only

  700. Blatant sin

  701. But it's

  702. Unrepented sin

  703. It's important

  704. Raise your hand

  705. If you're perfect

  706. Good right

  707. All our hands

  708. Are down

  709. But the issue

  710. Is not

  711. Is there sin

  712. The issue

  713. Is is there

  714. Blatant

  715. Is there

  716. Unrepented

  717. Sin

  718. In a life

  719. Of a person

  720. Who claims

  721. To be a follower

  722. Of Christ

  723. Who understands

  724. God's standard

  725. For his life

  726. If so

  727. Break fellowship

  728. With him

  729. Paul says

  730. Break it

  731. Send him out

  732. Now when he says

  733. Deliver him

  734. This man to Satan

  735. Like this isn't

  736. Like a fine Satan

  737. Knock on the door

  738. Like here he is

  739. Do what you want to

  740. With him

  741. What he's talking

  742. About right here

  743. Is a break

  744. In the fellowship

  745. Of the body

  746. He's saying

  747. Those of you

  748. Who are the church

  749. And this man

  750. Claims that he is

  751. Then break that

  752. Because here's

  753. What he is going

  754. To have to face

  755. He's going to

  756. Have to face

  757. The consequences

  758. Of his sin

  759. And specifically

  760. He's going to

  761. Have to face

  762. The consequences

  763. Of sin

  764. In the spiritual realm

  765. Right

  766. There is

  767. A connection

  768. In our walk

  769. With the Lord

  770. In our connection

  771. In biblical community

  772. Amongst

  773. One another

  774. There is

  775. There's a closeness

  776. That we can have

  777. And the deeper

  778. This is for a whole

  779. Another message

  780. At a whole

  781. Another different time

  782. But the deeper

  783. We dive

  784. Into community

  785. Together

  786. And seeking

  787. To glorify the Lord

  788. The closer

  789. We are drawn

  790. To him

  791. It's a beauty

  792. It's why God

  793. Gave us

  794. One another

  795. And Paul says

  796. Stop

  797. Protecting him

  798. You've got to

  799. Break this

  800. Because a break

  801. From the body

  802. Means he'll face

  803. This world

  804. Alone

  805. Without the love

  806. Without the support

  807. Without the encouragement

  808. From his church

  809. It's time to break it

  810. Because look where

  811. He says he's going

  812. He's going out

  813. Into the world

  814. That he doesn't

  815. Even tolerate

  816. What he does

  817. Right

  818. So he's got a group

  819. That tolerates it

  820. He's got a group

  821. That accepts it

  822. He's got a group

  823. That just maybe

  824. Probably whispers

  825. Behind his back

  826. Not addresses it

  827. But even those

  828. On the outside

  829. Are like

  830. Nah bro

  831. That's your stepmom

  832. Right

  833. Releasing to it

  834. Releasing to it

  835. And watch

  836. What's going

  837. To happen

  838. Paul says

  839. Discipline

  840. And remove him

  841. So

  842. But here's the reason

  843. Why

  844. We talked about this

  845. I think last week

  846. Right

  847. The potential result

  848. Of discipline

  849. Right

  850. If you weren't here

  851. Last week

  852. We talked a little bit

  853. About this

  854. That the goal

  855. Of biblical discipline

  856. Is not to punish

  857. That's not the goal

  858. It's not you did this

  859. So here's what

  860. We get to do to you

  861. Right

  862. The goal

  863. Of church

  864. Discipline

  865. That the goal

  866. Of biblical

  867. Confrontation

  868. Is not for

  869. Punishment

  870. But it's for

  871. Correction

  872. To bring back

  873. To have them

  874. In right standing

  875. Before the Lord

  876. And so what we

  877. What Paul lays out

  878. Are some potential

  879. Results of this

  880. Discipline

  881. If you stop

  882. Protecting him

  883. If you'll stop

  884. Being the parents

  885. Who are ignoring

  886. The destructive

  887. Behaviors

  888. Of their child

  889. That's destroying

  890. All of this around

  891. Then here's

  892. What God could do

  893. Here's what

  894. Would take place

  895. If you stop

  896. Protecting him

  897. That yes

  898. He will live

  899. In the consequences

  900. Of his sin

  901. Full blown

  902. The consequences

  903. He faces

  904. The choices

  905. Of this life

  906. Without having

  907. The enabling

  908. Behaviors

  909. Of those who

  910. Are close to him

  911. When we protect

  912. People from discipline

  913. That's what we do

  914. We enable

  915. Their poor

  916. Decisions

  917. And then Paul

  918. Says this

  919. And when he's

  920. Left of that

  921. When he's left

  922. For Satan

  923. No longer

  924. In protection

  925. Of the body

  926. But he could

  927. Become broken

  928. For his sin

  929. Repent of his sin

  930. And cry out

  931. To Jesus

  932. Paul says

  933. When we release him

  934. That this is what

  935. Could take place

  936. And the result

  937. Of this church

  938. Discipline

  939. Could be

  940. His salvation

  941. Paul says

  942. This is what

  943. We're holding him

  944. Back from this

  945. Opportunity

  946. Stop trying

  947. To save him

  948. From the consequences

  949. Of his sinful

  950. Actions

  951. That he chooses

  952. And that God

  953. May use those

  954. Consequences

  955. To bring him

  956. Back

  957. To brokenness

  958. The day that I got saved

  959. The day that I got saved

  960. My mother looked at me

  961. And released me

  962. Go

  963. Go do what you're

  964. Going to do

  965. Go be who

  966. You're going to be

  967. It's not godly

  968. It's not God's

  969. Desire for you

  970. But if that's

  971. What you want to do

  972. Go chase it

  973. And find the consequences

  974. That this world

  975. Has for you

  976. And I praise the Lord

  977. That before the sun

  978. Went down

  979. Jesus brought me

  980. To my knees

  981. Right

  982. Stop trying

  983. Let the consequence

  984. Be there

  985. Let the brokenness

  986. Be there

  987. So that the hope

  988. Might be

  989. That God

  990. Uses

  991. All things

  992. All things

  993. All things

  994. And so not

  995. Disciplining him

  996. Is hurting him

  997. But it's also

  998. Hurting the church

  999. Look at verse 6

  1000. Your boasting

  1001. Is not good

  1002. Do you not know

  1003. That a little

  1004. Leaven

  1005. Leavens the whole

  1006. Lump

  1007. Cleanse out the

  1008. Old leaven

  1009. That you may be

  1010. A new lump

  1011. As you really

  1012. Are unleavened

  1013. For Christ

  1014. Our Passover lamb

  1015. Has been sacrificed

  1016. Let us therefore

  1017. Celebrate the festival

  1018. Not with the old

  1019. Leaven

  1020. The leaven

  1021. Of malice

  1022. And evil

  1023. But with the

  1024. Unleavened bread

  1025. Of sincerity

  1026. And truth

  1027. Not only in the life

  1028. Of the person

  1029. Does this need

  1030. To take place

  1031. But it needs

  1032. To happen

  1033. In the church

  1034. And here's

  1035. Why sin

  1036. Must be removed

  1037. Paul uses

  1038. An illustration

  1039. Here of

  1040. Leaven

  1041. Or yeast

  1042. In the bread

  1043. And this can go

  1044. All the way back

  1045. To the Passover

  1046. And the Passover meal

  1047. We don't have the time

  1048. To go into all that

  1049. Today

  1050. But the idea

  1051. Of leaven

  1052. Was used

  1053. To signify

  1054. Sin

  1055. Right

  1056. And Paul says

  1057. To them

  1058. But you are now

  1059. In Christ

  1060. You're unleavened

  1061. Meaning this

  1062. That when Christ

  1063. Saved you

  1064. He removed

  1065. Spiritually speaking

  1066. The leaven

  1067. From you

  1068. He removed

  1069. The sin

  1070. From you

  1071. He paid the price

  1072. For that

  1073. But if you

  1074. Allow

  1075. The leaven

  1076. To exist

  1077. In you

  1078. And amongst you

  1079. What happens

  1080. With yeast

  1081. It spreads

  1082. It grows

  1083. It infiltrates

  1084. And will infect

  1085. The entire

  1086. The entire

  1087. Batch

  1088. The entire

  1089. Church

  1090. And so when

  1091. This is allowed

  1092. What we think

  1093. What we can do

  1094. Is isolate it

  1095. And think to

  1096. Ourselves

  1097. Well this is

  1098. Such a rare

  1099. Case

  1100. This is only

  1101. Them

  1102. We're just here

  1103. To love them

  1104. Through this

  1105. But what happens

  1106. Is it begins

  1107. To spread

  1108. Maybe not

  1109. Through action

  1110. But through

  1111. Acceptance

  1112. Well if this

  1113. Form

  1114. Of sexual

  1115. Immorality

  1116. Is allowed

  1117. And accepted

  1118. And okay

  1119. Then my sexual

  1120. Immorality

  1121. May look

  1122. Different

  1123. Act different

  1124. Manifest itself

  1125. Differently

  1126. But if that's

  1127. Accepted

  1128. Then this

  1129. Is too

  1130. And if this

  1131. Has been accepted

  1132. Beyond god's

  1133. Standard

  1134. Then what about

  1135. This and what

  1136. About this

  1137. And what

  1138. About this

  1139. And what

  1140. About this

  1141. And what

  1142. About this

  1143. And eventually

  1144. What appeared

  1145. To be

  1146. A little

  1147. What appeared

  1148. To be

  1149. Manageable

  1150. Begins to

  1151. Grow

  1152. And grow

  1153. And grow

  1154. To allow

  1155. Unrepentant

  1156. Sin

  1157. To remain

  1158. Church

  1159. Is a gross

  1160. Misunderstanding

  1161. Of grace

  1162. Grace does not

  1163. Tolerate sin

  1164. Grace and truth

  1165. Are connected

  1166. In one

  1167. And it does not

  1168. Tolerate sin

  1169. But instead

  1170. Grace offers

  1171. Love and forgiveness

  1172. For the person

  1173. Who is repentant

  1174. Of their sin

  1175. Right

  1176. We're not looking

  1177. For perfection

  1178. But what we're

  1179. Looking for

  1180. Is the perfected

  1181. Savior in the

  1182. Life of the believer

  1183. Right

  1184. And Paul says

  1185. When we

  1186. Accept this

  1187. It begins to

  1188. Spread

  1189. And spread

  1190. And spread

  1191. And this goes out

  1192. With these last

  1193. Several verses

  1194. And it says

  1195. I wrote to you

  1196. In my letter

  1197. Now this was that

  1198. If you go all back

  1199. Remember week one

  1200. This is the first letter

  1201. That we don't have access to

  1202. That Paul had written

  1203. To them already

  1204. Not to associate

  1205. With sexually immoral people

  1206. So Paul's been

  1207. Dealing with this

  1208. Right

  1209. Look at verse 10

  1210. Now

  1211. Not at all meaning

  1212. The sexually immoral

  1213. Of this world

  1214. Or the greedy

  1215. And swindlers

  1216. And idolaters

  1217. Since then

  1218. You would need

  1219. To go out

  1220. Of the world

  1221. But now

  1222. I am writing you

  1223. Not to associate

  1224. With anyone

  1225. Who bears the name

  1226. Of brother

  1227. If he is guilty

  1228. Of sexual morality

  1229. Or greed

  1230. Or is an idolater

  1231. A reviler

  1232. A drunkard

  1233. Or swindler

  1234. Not even to eat

  1235. With such a one

  1236. For what have I

  1237. To do

  1238. With judging

  1239. Outsiders

  1240. It is not those

  1241. Inside the church

  1242. Whom you are

  1243. To judge

  1244. God judges

  1245. Those outside

  1246. Purge

  1247. The evil

  1248. Person

  1249. From among you

  1250. What I want us

  1251. To close in

  1252. Is in the context

  1253. Of this

  1254. Of what it means

  1255. To be living

  1256. In the world

  1257. What it means

  1258. To be living

  1259. In the world

  1260. The standard

  1261. That we hold

  1262. Ourselves to

  1263. Cannot be the standard

  1264. We hold the world to

  1265. In a sad

  1266. Narrative

  1267. Of the church

  1268. From Corinth

  1269. To today

  1270. Is let's be quick

  1271. To point the finger

  1272. Of judgment

  1273. Of those outside

  1274. While we ignore

  1275. The sinful behaviors

  1276. Of those inside

  1277. It's so much easier

  1278. To say

  1279. How they're wrong

  1280. How they're ungodly

  1281. But yet we won't deal

  1282. With what's happening

  1283. Amongst the body

  1284. And what we've seen

  1285. We know the narrative

  1286. Is that all too often

  1287. Unfortunately

  1288. Is the church

  1289. Is the reflection

  1290. Of the world

  1291. It finds itself in

  1292. Instead of being broken

  1293. Before the Lord

  1294. In the church

  1295. Paul says

  1296. The sexually immoral

  1297. The greedy

  1298. The idolater

  1299. The reviler

  1300. The drunkard

  1301. The swindler

  1302. Those who claim

  1303. Faith in Christ

  1304. But this is who they are

  1305. They're unrepentant

  1306. They don't care

  1307. They're living in anarchy

  1308. Before the Lord

  1309. And who are you

  1310. To bring them

  1311. We break from them

  1312. But those who are

  1313. In the world

  1314. Who are like this

  1315. You know

  1316. The groups of people

  1317. Jesus hung out with

  1318. We share

  1319. We proclaim

  1320. We befriend

  1321. In hopes

  1322. In hopes

  1323. In hopes

  1324. That we

  1325. Can share

  1326. The gospel

  1327. Of Jesus Christ

  1328. With them

  1329. So that they can have

  1330. The moment

  1331. That we had

  1332. To be broken

  1333. For who we are

  1334. In the desperate

  1335. Need of the Savior

  1336. Right

  1337. We got discipline

  1338. That we gotta do in here

  1339. Within our family

  1340. Within our individual families

  1341. And within ourselves

  1342. We need men

  1343. And women

  1344. Of bold faith

  1345. To be able

  1346. To look at one another

  1347. And say

  1348. It's not out of pride

  1349. That I think

  1350. That I've got this right

  1351. But it's in humility

  1352. That I come before you

  1353. And whether you call me out

  1354. Whether you walk away

  1355. From me

  1356. And no matter what

  1357. The consequences

  1358. That I might face

  1359. I'm desperately concerned

  1360. With who you are

  1361. And who you claim

  1362. To be in Christ

  1363. And then maybe

  1364. We need to set down

  1365. Our attitudes

  1366. Of judgment

  1367. To those

  1368. Who would identify

  1369. Themselves

  1370. As lost

  1371. And say

  1372. We bring you

  1373. Into

  1374. So that you can

  1375. Hear

  1376. So that you can

  1377. Respond

  1378. To the gospel

  1379. When we see

  1380. Brokenness

  1381. In the lives

  1382. Of the people

  1383. In the world

  1384. May we understand

  1385. That they are

  1386. The mission

  1387. Not the enemy

  1388. To go

  1389. And make disciples

  1390. To go

  1391. Into lostness

  1392. But through here

  1393. It says

  1394. Iron

  1395. Sharpens iron

  1396. Addressing

  1397. Calling out

  1398. Loving

  1399. For the hope

  1400. Of correction

  1401. Of repentance

  1402. And of unity

  1403. With God

  1404. It's been a tough

  1405. Week

  1406. It's been a tough

  1407. Journey

  1408. As we

  1409. Go through this

  1410. It's easy

  1411. To read

  1412. Verse 1

  1413. And say

  1414. Look at how

  1415. Terrible they are

  1416. It's a little

  1417. Bit harder

  1418. To read

  1419. 2 through 13

  1420. And find out

  1421. How all the rest

  1422. Of those

  1423. Fingers

  1424. Point back

  1425. At me

  1426. Would you pray

  1427. With me

  1428. Lord I thank you

  1429. For the tough

  1430. Truth of your

  1431. Word

  1432. I thank you

  1433. For the conviction

  1434. That it brings

  1435. Lord I thank you

  1436. For the work

  1437. That it's done

  1438. In my life

  1439. And hopefully

  1440. In the lives

  1441. Of so many

  1442. More

  1443. Not because

  1444. Of my words

  1445. Not because

  1446. Of a small

  1447. Group conversation

  1448. Because that

  1449. Which we teach

  1450. That which we

  1451. Proclaim

  1452. Is your word

  1453. And the very

  1454. Word of God

  1455. Lord may

  1456. May all

  1457. That we do

  1458. May all

  1459. That we

  1460. Cling to

  1461. Be based in

  1462. And rooted

  1463. In love

  1464. May we

  1465. Understand

  1466. The connection

  1467. Of grace

  1468. And discipline

  1469. Lord may we

  1470. Die to our

  1471. Sin

  1472. May we die

  1473. To our

  1474. Pride

  1475. And to be

  1476. Willing

  1477. Not to

  1478. Not to

  1479. Simply call

  1480. Out to

  1481. Humiliate

  1482. To embarrass

  1483. Or to

  1484. Punish

  1485. Someone

  1486. Who claims

  1487. To be a

  1488. Brother and

  1489. Sister in

  1490. Christ

  1491. But Lord

  1492. In hopes

  1493. Of correction

  1494. In hopes

  1495. Of repentance

  1496. In hopes

  1497. Of seeing

  1498. Them long

  1499. To be

  1500. Broken

  1501. Before you

  1502. So that you

  1503. Would be

  1504. Glorified

  1505. In their

  1506. Life

  1507. Lord may we

  1508. Be the

  1509. Messengers

  1510. Of hope

  1511. Into this

  1512. World

  1513. Would we

  1514. Carry the

  1515. Gospel

  1516. To the

  1517. Least

  1518. Of these

  1519. To the

  1520. Outcast

  1521. To the

  1522. Ones

  1523. Living in

  1524. A behavior

  1525. That even

  1526. Our culture

  1527. Would say

  1528. That we

  1529. Don't even

  1530. Tolerate

  1531. This

  1532. But would

  1533. We carry

  1534. It

  1535. Not out

  1536. Of the

  1537. Hope

  1538. That they

  1539. Would see

  1540. That their

  1541. Behavior

  1542. Is wrong

  1543. And simply

  1544. Make a

  1545. Moral

  1546. And ethical

  1547. Decision

  1548. In

  1549. Themselves

  1550. But that

  1551. They would

  1552. Understand

  1553. That their

  1554. Sinner

  1555. And that

  1556. The penalty

  1557. Of sin

  1558. Is death

  1559. And judgment

  1560. Before you

  1561. And you

  1562. Alone

  1563. And that

  1564. Jesus

  1565. Is the

  1566. Only one

  1567. Lord

  1568. That Jesus

  1569. Is the

  1570. Only one

  1571. Who saves

  1572. Lord

  1573. I thank you

  1574. That this

  1575. Week

  1576. Was not

  1577. Easy

  1578. I thank you

  1579. That this

  1580. Week

  1581. Was complicated

  1582. Lord

  1583. I thank you

  1584. That this

  1585. Week was

  1586. Messy

  1587. All for the

  1588. Sake

  1589. Of growing

  1590. More

  1591. In your

  1592. Likeness

  1593. Of who

  1594. You've

  1595. Called

  1596. Us

  1597. To

  1598. Be

  1599. And it's

  1600. In Jesus

  1601. Name

  1602. We pray

  1603. Amen

  1604. Amen

  1605. We got

  1606. Prayer

  1607. Encouragers

  1608. On either

  1609. Side

  1610. Of this

  1611. Auditorium

  1612. And here's

  1613. What I think

  1614. A lot

  1615. Of us

  1616. Do

  1617. We try

  1618. To play

  1619. Hide

  1620. And seek

  1621. We try

  1622. To play

  1623. Hide

  1624. And seek

  1625. We'll

  1626. Take our

  1627. Sin

  1628. That we

  1629. Know is

  1630. Wrong

  1631. That we

  1632. Know is

  1633. Not what

  1634. The Lord

  1635. Desires

  1636. For us

  1637. And we

  1638. Justify it

  1639. To ourselves

  1640. And then

  1641. Try to

  1642. Follow it

  1643. Away

  1644. And try

  1645. To hide

  1646. The things

  1647. In darkness

  1648. That they

  1649. May not

  1650. Be drawn

  1651. Out the

  1652. Light

  1653. As we

  1654. Go into

  1655. Our time

  1656. Of response

  1657. This morning

  1658. Maybe you

  1659. Need to

  1660. Bring some

  1661. Things

  1662. Into the

  1663. Light

  1664. Whether

  1665. That's

  1666. Before you

  1667. And the

  1668. Lord

  1669. Or do you

  1670. Need someone

  1671. To pray

  1672. For you

  1673. With the

  1674. Struggles

  1675. That you're

  1676. Going through

  1677. And the

  1678. Battles

  1679. That you

  1680. Face

  1681. Or maybe

  1682. You're the

  1683. Person this

  1684. Morning

  1685. And you

  1686. Recognize

  1687. That this

  1688. Journey of

  1689. Life

  1690. That you've

  1691. Been on

  1692. Has been

  1693. A fraud

  1694. I was a

  1695. Fraud for

  1696. 22 years

  1697. 22 years

  1698. And the

  1699. Sweet goodness

  1700. Of the

  1701. Brokenness

  1702. Where you

  1703. Decide you're

  1704. Not going to

  1705. Be a fraud

  1706. Anymore

  1707. But you

  1708. Just want to

  1709. Be repentant

  1710. And broken

  1711. Before the

  1712. Lord

  1713. And the

  1714. Beauty

  1715. The beauty

  1716. Of his

  1717. Salvation

  1718. Just respond

  1719. To God

  1720. This morning

  1721. Thanks again

  1722. For listening

  1723. To the

  1724. Willow Ridge

  1725. Church

  1726. Weekly

  1727. Podcast

  1728. We hope

  1729. That you

  1730. Enjoyed

  1731. Listening to

  1732. This week's

  1733. Message

  1734. If you'd

  1735. Like to

  1736. Learn more

  1737. About who

  1738. We are

  1739. Or explore

  1740. Additional

  1741. Resources

  1742. Visit us

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  1744. www.willowridgechurch.com

  1745. Or by searching

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