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1 Corinthians Week 10 • 1 Corinthians 12-14
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Good morning.
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Glad that you guys are here.
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If you've got your Bibles, go ahead and open them up to 1 Corinthians chapter 13.
1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention
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That's where we're going to be.
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We're in week 11.
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That struck me this morning.
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Some of you are like, yep, no, we're realizing it, right?
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But week 11 of working through 1 Corinthians, and we still got some ways to go, but we will
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be getting there.
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I'm glad to be journeying through this with you guys.
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This weekend, we had our marriage conference.
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I want to talk about that real briefly.
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It was a wonderful time.
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We had about 25 couples that came through this.
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We had some phenomenal conversations during it, and I'll be honest with you, we've gotten
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some phenomenal feedback after as well.
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One of the things that we did was we took an assessment that helps us understand some things
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about ourselves.
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And one of the big topics was how you view and manage time and how you do that.
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And so it kind of worked through you either live in the present, so you're present-minded, or
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you're future-minded.
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And then within that, you are either a person who, and the assessment does a way better job
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explaining this than I do, but basically you're the person who lives and die by a plan and
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a schedule, or you're just a person who's like, nah, whatever.
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We're just going to figure it out as we go.
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And so Aaron and I, we took that assessment, and we found out, or not found out, but I think
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it affirmed what we already knew, that we are both future planners, and that's who we
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are.
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We have a hard time living in the moment, and we panic if our phones shut down, and we don't
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know what happens the next day.
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Right?
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So everything's on the schedule, everything's on the plan, it's what we do.
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And that was embodied in us on Saturday morning.
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We were driving up to the church to go through day two as we led through this together.
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And on the entire drive here, we were not talking about anything we had to do today on that Saturday,
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but we were talking about the next marriage conference in the future.
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And so I've already had a couple people say, you know, we hope we're going to do another
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one, we loved it, or even others that said, we know we didn't, we didn't have an opportunity
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to be a part of this one, is there going to be another one?
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Short answer, I tell all that to say, yes, we will have another.
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And then I just want to kind of have a moment to be able to say this, all right?
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A lot of times, you guys know Erin, and you know my wife, and she's the one that comes alongside
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me and supports me and encourages me, and she sits there, and we work through that with
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our children, with parenting them and what she is and all that to me.
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I tell you guys often that I use this illustration, that it just helps me, that the Holy Spirit
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uses her in a powerful way in my life as she speaks truth.
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To me in so many ways, shapes, and forms.
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But this weekend was just fantastic, because while we've led small groups together, while
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we usually do couples counseling together, when we've got to work through some stuff with a
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couple, we'll go through that together.
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But this weekend, we had the opportunity to just lead and walk through this together in
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this marriage conference and to do this as a couple.
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And it was just such a blessing, and she crushed it.
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And every time that I got in the way, she overcame that.
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And so just a wonderful time.
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And so, baby, it was just a blessing to be able to do that with you.
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And thank you for all that you do, all that you mean to me, and all that you do for our
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church as well.
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We love you.
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I love you.
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And thank you for that.
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All right?
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Also, I want to point you guys to these cards on your rows there for our Easter.
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Easter is coming up, coming up quickly, right?
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That's what the pollen says.
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So Easter will be here.
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And we're doing some things a little bit differently than we had.
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One of the things that we've learned over the last couple years that COVID kind of brought
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in was thinking through doing some things differently as churches.
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It's why we're able to live stream in the way that we do.
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And a lot of things have changed within that.
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But also, last year, we got such a positive response from how we did our Easter service
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with having an early morning outdoor.
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Now, it was painfully cold, right, Joanne?
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It was painfully cold out there.
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And so we're hoping this year won't be as cold.
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But we will have a morning service at 8 a.m. outdoors out in the parking lot.
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And so you can come to that.
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And we're going to have a 10 o'clock service here like we always do gathered in our auditorium.
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For the most part, they're going to be identical.
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The message will be the same.
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We'll do the Lord's Supper same.
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Music will look differently because of having to be outside.
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But for the most part, so choose which service you want to come to.
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But also, we're doing something a little different.
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We're going to have a full hot breakfast for Willow Ridge Church in between.
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So at 9 o'clock after the 8 o'clock service is over with and before the 10 o'clock service starts,
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you can come here that morning, get breakfast, spend some time in fellowship with our church family,
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and just really looking forward to the fact of celebrating all that Christ has done
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and the fact that the tomb is empty.
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And so we'll have a beautiful time to do that together.
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So in your group tonight, right, those of you that are in small group,
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in your groups tonight, you're going to work through 1 Corinthians 12 through 14 together.
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This morning, we're largely going to focus on chapter 13.
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But as we largely focus on 13, because we'd be here till 3 if we had to go through all of this, right?
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But I want to kind of give you guys some understanding of what chapter 12 deals with
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and then some understanding of what chapter 14 deals with
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so that we can understand what is sandwiched in between both of these chapters
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because all of God's Word is inspired.
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All of God's Word is good for us.
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And so we want to make sure that we can have this.
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So in chapter 12, there's kind of three sections that we see in chapter 12.
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Chapter 12, verses 1 through 11, what Paul's talking about is that the Holy Spirit is the source
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of all spiritual gifts.
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So spiritual gifts are going to be an overwhelming concept
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that Paul's going to focus in on these three chapters.
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And what God does is in His sovereignty, He gives us our spiritual gifts to be used for His glory.
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So your spiritual gifts were not passed down to you from your parents.
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Your spiritual gifts were not worked toward in your life.
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You haven't achieved these.
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You haven't earned these.
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God, in His sovereignty, as He chooses, gives individuals spiritual gifts.
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And there are different spiritual gifts.
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So you and I are different oftentimes in the spiritual gifting that we have,
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but it comes from the Lord so we can trust that it's good.
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Then in verses 12 through 26, Paul talks about the diversity of these gifts.
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And what it does is it brings unity to the body.
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So because we are different, right, the world tells us different is bad,
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but because we are different in what we see, because we're different in what we have,
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that actually doesn't bring the division into the body.
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What it should bring into the leading of the Holy Spirit is unity in the body.
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And so for me, you guys know I love sports.
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I think in sports illustrations.
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So imagine we're a baseball team, right?
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We're not a very good baseball team if all of us want to be pitchers,
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and all of us are gifted to be pitchers, right?
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We need someone to be a catcher.
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We need someone to be infielders.
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We need someone to be outfielders.
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We need someone to be able to hit the ball.
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And typically, that's not where pitchers thrive, right?
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And so think about this with the body.
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There's a diversity in the body.
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We all can't be the same.
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And if we were, then the body wouldn't be what the body needs to be, all right?
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And then the last part of chapter 12, verses 27 through 31,
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Paul talks about certain gifts, all right,
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will be used in certain leadership positions within the church.
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So certain gifting will require these people to step forward into leadership positions,
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and they're to be viewed as leaders, and we're to follow them in this.
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But here's the big part of this.
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It's still Jesus' church, all right?
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And so this is not my church.
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It's not Pastor Dave's church.
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This is not the elder's church.
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This is not the trustee's church.
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This is Jesus' church, and he is our ultimate leader, all right?
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So that's a really quick version of what we're going through in chapter 12.
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And then chapter 14 is kind of broken into two sections, all right?
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In the first part of chapter 14, Paul talks about the use of tongues and prophecy in the church,
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and he goes over the rules with them, all right?
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Now, I'm not going to go a lot into this,
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but I am going to jump into this a little bit later in some questions about these as we look at chapter 13.
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And then in chapter 14, 26 through 40, he talks about the importance of order in worship in the church.
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And so there's this big piece of spiritual gifts.
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How are they used?
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What is the body like?
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And what we can see happening in Corinth, and what we can see happening in churches here,
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is that when it comes to spiritual gifts, they're meant to unify us.
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But oftentimes, because we handle so many things sinfully, right?
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We handle them in the negative context, and they can be used to divide.
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And oftentimes, spiritual gifts, this comes in arrogance.
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And here's kind of how it manifests itself, right?
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We are gifted by God to do things to serve the body and to glorify him.
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But yet, through our pride and ego, right, it builds in us a sense of arrogance to where we say,
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look at me, look how talented I am.
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I'm more talented than you.
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I'm better than you, right?
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And so it causes within someone who has been given this gift by God an inflated sense of self
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that makes them feel like they have a self-righteousness that's better than others,
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that I'm more spiritual than you, that I'm more blessed than you, that I'm more favored than you, right?
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And that's an abuse of the gifts, right?
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Or flip turn, an arrogance toward God.
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An arrogance toward God.
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God, I'm so good.
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I'm so blessed.
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I'm so fortunate, right?
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You couldn't do this without me, right?
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That's the other side of that.
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We see oftentimes the arrogance within the church, but oftentimes within our own hearts.
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It's, Lord, this would all fall apart if I wasn't here.
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And the truth is, all of this would fall apart if Jesus wasn't here, right?
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And that's it.
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And so we're reversed, and I do see this that happens,
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and it's created oftentimes an idolatry of leadership.
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We tend to, as churches, elevate others and then devalue others
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off of their gifts, right?
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So we deem that a certain gift is more important than others.
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And so those that have that gift, we raise them up.
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And oftentimes what it can create within us is a sense of jealousy,
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of wishing we were like them and not living in the reality of who we are,
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of who God's called us to be.
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Now, with spiritual gifts, because we're not going to see all of them,
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but it's going to be an overlying theme that we see.
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In Scripture, I think there are basically two lists of these that I just want to kind of mention
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to you if you want to jot them down.
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In Romans 12, there's a list that Paul gives where he talks about there's prophesying,
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serving, teaching, encouraging, giving, leadership, and mercy.
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So that's one list that's there.
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And then in 1 Corinthians 12, Paul gives another list of them that's there at the front of the chapter
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and at the end of the chapter where he talks about word of wisdom,
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the word of knowledge, faith, healing, miraculous powers, prophecy,
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distinguishing between spirits, speaking in tongues, and interpretation of tongues.
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And so what this kind of draws us from is that so oftentimes we look at the gifts of the Spirit
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and we say, well, they fall into these absolute columns.
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But what we see is Paul leaves some grace and some margin to say, no, no,
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like maybe the Spirit can gift us in different ways and in different capacities
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and that these giftings of the Spirit may not be the end all in this list,
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but it could even be beyond that, all right?
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And so sandwiched in between these is chapter 13,
Isaiah 13 chapter mention
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and that's what we're largely going to focus on is we're going to do all of chapter 13.
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So let's jump in and start reading verse 1.
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Paul says,
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If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love,
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I'm a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
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and if I have all faith as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
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If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,
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but have not love, I gain nothing.
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And what we see here, what we're going to draw from is just this concept of nothing without love.
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Like the root message of the gospel of what's going to penetrate through all Scripture
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is the concept of love.
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Love in the gift, love in the message, love in the song, love in who we are, love in what we do.
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That we are nothing without love.
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We can do nothing without love.
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Love is the way in which Christians, right, are called to use their gifts.
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And when gifts are used, and however God's gifted you,
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when your gift is used,
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when that piece of your personality that you thrive in,
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when those talents that you have are used in love,
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in the context of who we are as Christians,
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God works in such a powerful way
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that it draws people into a deeper relationship with the Lord
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and a deeper relationship with others, right?
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Like that's what it does.
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Like if you were here this morning and you're like me and I'm not musical,
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it was funny when the countdown got like below 45 seconds,
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I went and stood behind the keyboard here
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and I really messed with the Couragers.
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They were like, you play?
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I didn't think that.
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I'm like, yeah, I'm going to play this morning, right?
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And then I walked off like because I can't play at all, right?
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But music, like what happened here
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was this group of individuals used a talent or a gift
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that the Lord blessed them with
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and not out of pride of who they are
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but in love and what it did was
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standing there in that moment,
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like it drew me in into a deeper relationship with the Lord
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and then for a moment, like I stopped singing
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and I heard others singing
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and I looked around the auditorium
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and I'm seeing different people engaged
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and man, it just made me love all of you more, right?
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Because they're using their gifts
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in the way that draws people into the Lord
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that challenges them in a deeper relationship.
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Now, as Isaac's playing the guitar and singing,
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he's not focusing that out of me
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but because the heart of which is being done
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and how God uses it
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is what took place in the heart of a pastor
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standing there ready to preach.
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I now love Jesus more, I love you more
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because the gift that's being used there in this moment.
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But then Paul said, but if we don't have love,
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we become something.
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We're like a clanging symbol that's there.
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Now, now the beauty of what our symbols can bring
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to our worship is not what he's talking about, right?
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How many of you remember the gong show?
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Y'all remember that?
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I never watched it, all right, before my time,
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but it's the only reference I could think of, all right?
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And I know they'd hit that gong
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and I know that gong was not associated with good.
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It was a lot, if you ever heard a gong ring,
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no one sits there and thinks,
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man, that's delightful, right?
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That's beauty all in its own, right?
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And so Paul says, like, if this is who you are
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and this is what you're doing,
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like, you're just a loud, distractive noise
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that serves no purpose, right?
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If you're as talented as all you want,
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you got talent oozing out of you.
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The gifts are just overflowing on you.
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But if it's not with love,
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then, man, you're not even pointing people to Jesus.
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You're just loud and distracting from the mission
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and you serve no purpose.
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Paul goes on and says,
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if you have prophetic powers,
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if you understand mysteries,
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if you understand the depth of knowledge
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and have faith that can remove mountains,
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but no love,
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you're nothing.
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You're nothing.
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You don't matter.
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And the purpose and the journey of what God's doing
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when it's done in pride and what's there.
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And he says,
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if you're the person who says,
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you know what?
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I'm going to give it all.
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And I'm even willing to be martyred.
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But you have not love?
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Then you gain nothing,
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is what Paul says.
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Now, that's hard to hear.
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And it should cause us in a moment
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to check our hearts
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and begin to understand,
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like, what is the motivation?
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Who is the God that I serve?
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What is my life being lived toward?
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What is the pursuit that I have?
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What is this all about?
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What am I doing this for?
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Is it out of love?
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Now, verse four,
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Paul's going to define love.
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He says this,
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love is patient and kind.
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Love does not envy or boast.
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It is not arrogant or rude.
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It does not insist on its own way.
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It is not irritable or resentful.
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It does not rejoice at wrongdoing,
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but rejoices with the truth.
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Love bears all things,
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believes all things,
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hopes all things,
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endures all things.
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And so what Paul does
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as he defines love for this congregation.
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Now, remember,
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this church is not a group
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of seasoned, matured believers.
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They're young,
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they're immature at the most.
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The oldest believer
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is probably five years old
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in their faith.
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So it's a group of people
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who are working through
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some shallow things
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and who probably
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are taking a shallow approach to love.
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And so Paul hits him
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right in the middle
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of the forehead, right,
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with the truth of love.
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And he defines love
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by saying,
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like, this is what love does.
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Like, you can see love.
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You can experience love.
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You can look at something.
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You can look at someone.
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You can look at the action.
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And you can say,
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that is love.
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So I'm going to reread
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these verses,
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but I want to do it
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with making sure
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that love is said
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with each and every one of them, okay?
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And I just want you
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to just listen to this
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for a moment
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as we read through.
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Love is patient.
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Love is kind.
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Love does not envy.
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Love does not boast.
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Love is not arrogant.
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Love is not rude.
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Love does not insist
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on its own way.
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Love is not irritable.
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Love is not resentful.
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Love does not rejoice
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in wrongdoing.
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Love rejoices with truth.
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Love bears all things.
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Love believes all things.
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Love hopes all things.
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Love endures all things.
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Now, you've heard this passage.
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If this is your first time
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ever in a church,
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I would be willing to bet
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you've even heard
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this passage before, right?
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Every time I get ready
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to officiate a marriage,
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I ask a couple,
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what passage of Scripture
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or what multiple passages
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of Scripture
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would you like for me to use?
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And oftentimes,
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this is one that they ask for,
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and this is a wonderful
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passage of Scripture
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to use in a wedding,
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in a marriage.
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But can I say this?
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This passage,
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while it has a grand application
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in marriage, right,
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is about more than
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a romantic love.
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And it's agape love.
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The word love that is used here
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is this word agape love.
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Now, Paul writing in the Greek,
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communicating in a Greek context,
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uses this word agape, all right?
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And when they hear the word agape,
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there'll be certain things
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that register within them.
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You see, Paul didn't use the term
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for brotherly love.
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Paul didn't use the term
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for romantic love.
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Paul used his agape love.
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And in that,
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that would have drawn them
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to a certain set
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of understanding,
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even within their
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pagan Greek culture,
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about love.
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And I want to share these
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with y'all.
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In the Greek context
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of agape love,
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love means this,
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that love is unconcerned
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with self
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and concerned
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with the greatest good
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of another.
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That in the context
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in which Paul write this,
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agape love
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was not a love
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that was based
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in feelings
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or attraction,
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but love was a choice.
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That agape love,
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that it demanded things
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from someone.
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That agape love
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demanded faithfulness,
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commitment,
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and sacrifice
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without the expectation
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of anything being returned.
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And so when this church
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reads this,
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even if there was
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a great sense
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of immaturity
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of faith,
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they hear agape.
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They hear that love
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is patient
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and kind,
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does not envy
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or boast,
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is not arrogant.
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And they're like,
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wow,
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love means that I'm not
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the center of my world.
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But love means
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that I'm working
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for the greatest good
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of another.
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When they hear love,
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they begin to understand
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that,
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whoa, whoa, whoa,
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whoa,
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love is not a feeling.
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Can you feel loved?
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Yes.
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Can you experience
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the feeling
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of loving another person?
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Yes.
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But agape love
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is more than that.
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And that love
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also isn't
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based out of attraction.
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Right?
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But instead,
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love
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happens when it's difficult.
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Love happens
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when you're in conflict.
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Love happens
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when someone's
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done you wrong.
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Why?
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You don't feel it,
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but you choose it.
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I choose
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today
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in spite of this
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to love you.
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That's agape love.
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And that in that,
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that agape love
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says no matter
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what you do to me,
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I will be faithful
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to you.
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Agape love
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says that you
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do not determine
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my commitment
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to you,
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but I am
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committed
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to you.
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And agape love
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says,
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and I'll sacrifice
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for you.
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I'll sacrifice
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for you.
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And here's the thing,
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I'm not keeping
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a record
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because you don't
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need to do anything
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in return.
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No,
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I just described
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love to you,
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but also
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just described
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Jesus to you.
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Right?
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Jesus unconcerned
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with his self
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to step out
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of heaven
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to take on
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the flesh
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of a man,
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to grieve
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when his friend
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died,
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to be rejected,
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to be beaten,
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and does it all
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for the good
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of others.
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Jesus,
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who didn't
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come down here
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and say,
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oh,
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well,
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I feel like
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I love you today,
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you better hope
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I do tomorrow,
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right?
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Jesus that doesn't
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look at the crowd
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and pick out
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the pretty ones,
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the athletic ones,
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the gifted ones,
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but Jesus saying
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that I choose
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to love you,
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not in who you are,
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but in who I am.
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Jesus,
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who embodies
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faithfulness,
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commitment,
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and sacrifice,
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right?
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and gives
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that sacrifice
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to us
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to the point
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of dying
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on a cross
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without expecting
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anything in return.
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This is Jesus.
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So when we,
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when we read
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these,
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when we read
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these verses,
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it's describing
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to us
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what love is,
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but when we read
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the whole context
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of scripture
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in every moment
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of what we see,
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if we want to know
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what love is,
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if we want to know
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what love does,
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if we want to know
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what love looks like
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in the context
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of your marriage,
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in the context
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of your family,
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in the context
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of your neighbors,
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in the context
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of work,
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in the context
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of your church,
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look at Jesus
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because this is
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who he is
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and the full
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embodiment of it.
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And then Paul
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continues on,
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look at verse 8.
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He says,
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love never ends.
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As for prophecies,
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they will pass away.
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As for tongues,
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they will cease.
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As for knowledge,
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it will pass away.
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For we know in part
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and we prophesy in part,
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but when the perfect comes,
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the partial will pass away.
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When I was a child,
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I spoke like a child,
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I thought like a child,
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I reasoned like a child.
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When I became a man,
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I gave up childish ways.
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For now we see
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in a mirror dimly,
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but then face to face,
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now I know in part,
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then I shall know fully,
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even as I have been
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fully known.
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And what we're going
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to see here
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is this permanent
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nature of love.
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Paul says very simply,
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first three words,
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right?
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Love never ends.
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Seasons end.
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Time will end.
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Your life,
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my life will end.
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This world as we know it
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will end.
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But love,
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love,
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agape love,
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will never end
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is what Paul says.
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And Paul looks at the church
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and he says,
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I'm going to give you
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some insight
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in the concept
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of these spiritual gifts.
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And he gives a list
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of apostolic gifts,
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all right?
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Which God gave
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to the early church
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to use them
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and to grow them.
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And he says,
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they will come to an end.
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All right?
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Here's what I want to talk about.
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He says,
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prophecy,
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right?
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It will pass away.
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Tongues,
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speaking in tongues,
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will cease.
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Knowledge,
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now you think this is weird
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because we still have knowledge,
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right?
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So what does that mean?
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Well,
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this knowledge here
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is to know what God
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is going to do
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before God is going to do it,
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right?
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That there are certain people
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that would have that gift.
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It will cease.
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Now,
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I'm going to say this
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and we can be friends,
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all right?
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I believe that in the context
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of these apostolic gifts,
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as Paul writes,
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that they will come to an end
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and that they have.
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I believe the prophecy
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of Scripture
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has been given to us
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in fullness and sufficiency.
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I believe that God
-
equipped the church,
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the early church,
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with these
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and that God equipped
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those before us
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so that we can have
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what we have before us.
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I believe what God gave
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and the issue
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of speaking in tongues
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was used in a powerful way,
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but I'm just going to tell you
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what we see happening
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in Pentecost,
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we probably don't see happening
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in Lexington,
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South Carolina,
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right?
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But that God used it,
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right?
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And it ceased.
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The knowledge
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to know what God
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is going to do
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will cease.
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Why?
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Because we can see
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and know
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what God is going to do
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in Scripture
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and we can continue on
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in different ones
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like the gift of healing,
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right?
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Like while God heals
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and while we pray for healing,
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God gave the apostles
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this gift of healing
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where they could go in
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and touch someone
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and that person
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who was dead
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would come alive,
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right?
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We don't see that.
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Now here's why I say
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we can still be friends.
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Because if you believe differently
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and you want to have coffee
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and lunch
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and we can talk about it
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and we can hug
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when we see each other
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and we can hug
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when we leave.
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What I've seen happen
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and exist
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and take place
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in churches
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is men and women
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who get into things
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that can be open-handed
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for the church
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and they decided
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they're closed-fisted
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and they decided
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that you're against me
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if you don't believe
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what I believe
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and I do not believe
-
this is what Paul's
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talking about.
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Because here's what Paul says.
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He says,
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when I was a child,
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I spoke like a child,
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I thought like a child,
-
I reasoned like a child.
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When I became a man,
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I gave up childish ways.
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You know what children do?
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You've got to be like me.
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You've got to think like me.
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Paul says,
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look,
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I gave this up.
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I walked away
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for now
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we see dimly
-
but then face to face.
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Now I know in part
-
then I shall know fully
-
even as I've been fully known.
-
Right?
-
And so,
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so what Paul is saying to us
-
is that
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as I walk through these,
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here's the understanding
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of what I have.
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Here's the understanding
-
of what I'm placing for you
-
but I see dimly.
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I know that.
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I see through the limitations
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of my earthly body,
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of my earthly mind
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and where I am
-
but one day
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I will know fully.
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And one day
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I will be able
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to fully comprehend.
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And what I don't want us
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to do tonight,
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what I don't want us
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to do here right now
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is get caught up
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in tongues
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and prophecy
-
and miss the love of Jesus.
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Too many churches
-
divide themselves
-
over the things
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that we can agree
-
are open handed
-
and not agree
-
on the things
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that close fisted
-
of who Jesus is
-
and the grace
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that comes from him
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and him alone
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and what he did
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on the cross
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and what he provides
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to us
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and what it means
-
to love him.
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Right?
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So Paul says
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this isn't going to be.
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And then he says
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in verse 13,
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so now
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faith,
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hope,
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and love
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abide
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these three
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but the greatest
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of these
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is love.
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And love
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is the greatest.
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Love is the greatest.
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How can I say that?
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Faith's a big deal.
-
Right?
-
We place our faith
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in Jesus Christ
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as our Lord and Savior.
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Hope is a big deal.
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We hope
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for the things
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that we have not seen.
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We hope
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for the beauty
-
of eternity.
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We hope
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for what God
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has promised us
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and what God
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tells us
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he's going to do.
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And we place
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our faith
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and our hope
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in him
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and these are big.
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But Paul says
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but the greatest
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of these
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is love.
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Now I read a lot
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this week
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about this.
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And there was
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a lot of people
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who wrote
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well Paul didn't
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really mean that
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but I read
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that Paul wrote that
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so I've got to really
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think he meant that.
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Right?
-
So what does that mean?
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And in my simple mind
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here's what I believe
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the Lord
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bringing me to.
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One day
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I said it earlier
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one day
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you and I
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we're going to die.
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Right?
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We're going to have
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our faith.
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The funeral
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of a person
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with faith
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is a joyous
-
occasion for me.
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Because their faith
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in that
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will be made sight.
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So when you die
-
your faith
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of who Jesus is
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guess what?
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You're going to see him.
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And now the difference
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of what I've heard
-
of what I've placed
-
my faith in
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is right here
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and it's Jesus.
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And so my faith
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is not different.
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My faith is sight.
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Like I said
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you're going to die
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one day.
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I'm going to die
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one day.
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And as we
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are anticipating
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for that
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we have hope
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for eternity.
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we have hope
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that all
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of the brokenness
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and the evil
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of this world
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will pass away.
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We have hope
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that there will be
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no more death
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because that's what
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God's word tells us.
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We have hope
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that there will be
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no more pain
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because that's what
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God tells us.
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We have hope
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that there will be
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no more suffering
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that there will be
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no more tears
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because that's what
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God tells us.
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And then one day
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we will experience
-
eternity
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and eternity
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will be reality.
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Can you imagine
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living like that?
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No more hurt
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no more sorrow
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no more pain
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no more suffering.
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And so now
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it's not hope
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of what it will be
-
it's the reality
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of what it is.
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But love
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will still be there.
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And the beauty
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of that
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is in that moment
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as much
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as I think
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I love Jesus
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as much
-
as I think
-
about
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how much
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Jesus
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loves
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me
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in my death
-
and in my
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experience
-
in eternity
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right
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that love
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will not
-
go away
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but that love
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will deepen
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to a point
-
that I've never
-
experienced before.
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And so Paul says
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the greatest
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of these
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the greatest
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of these
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is love.
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Would you pray
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with me?
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Lord we thank you
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for your word
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this morning.
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Lord we thank you
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that when we
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think about love
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in the context
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of all that's
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going on
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in this world
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and in our life
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where there's a lot
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of defining pieces
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for that for us.
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the world
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tries to tell us
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what love does
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and what love
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doesn't do.
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The world
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tries to take
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broken standards
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of love
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and give them
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to us
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to set as our
-
standard.
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Lord no standard
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that we can
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think of
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other than you
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fits.
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They're all
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square pegs
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trying to go
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into round holes.
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But Lord
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you
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are the perfect
-
embodiment
-
of love
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for us.
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So Jesus
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thank you
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for being patient
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with us
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as we run
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and as we rebel.
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Lord thank you
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for your kindness
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that's given
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toward us.
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Lord thank you
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thank you
-
that while you
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are jealous
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for us
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Lord that you
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are not
-
envious
-
because there
-
is no one
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for you
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to envy.
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Jesus thank you
-
that you came
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not boasting
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in who you
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are
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but boasting
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in the Father
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and came
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to serve.
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Lord thank you
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that you came
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not in arrogance
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not in arrogance
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but in humility
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that you came
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not in rudeness
-
but the embodiment
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of grace
-
and truth.
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Lord thank you
-
that you did not
-
come insisting
-
on your own way
-
Lord
-
but you
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surrendered
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to the will
-
to the will
-
of the Father
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Lord thank you
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for not being
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irritable
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but being
-
compassionate
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of not being
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resentful
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and being
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joyous
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of not rejoicing
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in the wrong
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but rejoicing
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in the truth
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and the repentance
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of lost.
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Lord thank you
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for bearing
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our sins
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on the cross
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for showing
-
us belief
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in action
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Lord thank you
-
for showing
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the hope
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we can have
-
and what
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the plan
-
of the Lord
-
is going to be
-
and Lord
-
enduring all
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Lord may we
-
take our
-
gifts
-
and our
-
talents
-
in our
-
positioning
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in our
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resources
-
in our
-
personalities
-
in everything
-
Lord that you've
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given us
-
and use
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them out of
-
love
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out of you
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to draw
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people to
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you
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to speak
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reconciliation
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and hope
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and love
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and relationships
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to have a
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love for the
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brother and
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sister
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who's
-
wronged me
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who's
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offended me
-
who's not
-
like me
-
and Lord
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may this
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be who we
-
are
-
Lord would we
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not let
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gifts
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our
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understanding
-
of gifts
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divide us
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but instead
-
to unify
-
us
-
in who
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we are
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in you
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and in you
-
alone
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Jesus I
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thank you
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for the
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work you
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did
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in the
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marriages
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of the
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individuals
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that were
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here this
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weekend
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and I
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thank you
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for the
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work that
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you're doing
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in the
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hearts of
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the men
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and women
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and children
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and people
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who are
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here today
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Lord may
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we respond
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to your
-
gracious
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calling
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thanks again
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