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  1. Welcome to the Willow Ridge Sermons Podcast.

  2. We're so glad you chose to listen today.

  3. This week's message dives into Titus 1, 1-9,

  4. emphasizing the importance of godly leadership,

  5. sound doctrine, and a life rooted in faith.

  6. Paul's instructions to Titus remind us to pursue integrity,

  7. surround ourselves with a community of faith,

  8. and hold firmly to the truth of God's Word.

  9. Just as elders were called to lead with humility and discipline,

  10. we are challenged to examine our own character and commitment to Christ.

  11. Join us as we explore what it means to live a transformed life

  12. shaped by God's truth and love.

  13. Thanks for listening.

  14. Well, as we jump into Titus together, if you would, take your Bible and turn to Titus chapter 1.

    Titus 1 chapter mention

  15. In Titus chapter 1 in verse 5, verse 5 is kind of the overall theme.

    Titus 1 chapter mention

  16. It's the focal point of what this whole book is about.

  17. And in Titus chapter 1, verse 5, we read these words.

    Titus 1:5

  18. So what's taking place here is Paul has already been to Crete.

  19. Paul has been to Crete with Titus.

  20. Paul has established churches all over the towns of Crete.

  21. And now Paul is somewhere else doing other missionary journeys,

  22. establishing other churches.

  23. And so now he's commissioning Titus.

  24. Titus is a young pastor at this point.

  25. Titus is in close relationship with Paul.

  26. And Paul is sending him this letter and asking him to be a part of what is taking place in Crete.

  27. So that's kind of the context of what we have here this morning.

  28. So if you would, let's read the entire first nine verses.

  29. That's where we'll be this morning.

  30. I know that doesn't sound very much after we've gone through Genesis together, chapter by chapter.

  31. But trust me, when you and I see what Paul is writing to Titus,

  32. Paul really opens up a lot of things that you and I need to think about and address.

  33. Verse 1.

  34. Paul, a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ,

  35. for the sake of the faith of God's elect and their knowledge of the truth,

  36. which accords with godliness,

  37. in hope of eternal life, which God, who never lies, promised before the ages began,

  38. and at the proper time manifested in his word,

  39. through the preaching with which I have been entrusted by the command of God, our Savior.

  40. To Titus, my true child in a common faith, grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus, our Savior.

  41. This is why I left you in Crete, so that you might put what remained into order

  42. and appoint elders in every town as I directed you.

  43. If anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife and his children are believers

  44. and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination.

  45. For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach.

  46. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain,

  47. but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined.

  48. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught,

  49. so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine

  50. and also to rebuke those who contradict it.

  51. You and I need to be careful when you and I read this together

  52. that we don't check ourselves out if we don't carry the title of elder.

  53. There's things in Scripture when we see it we want to check out

  54. because maybe the label doesn't fit us like elder or another term in Scripture

  55. and we're like, well, that doesn't apply to me.

  56. But anything that God has shared with you and me and His Word applies to us as a follower of Christ.

  57. We can't say we're going to pick one part of Scripture and not listen to the other part.

  58. All of Scripture is for you and for me.

  59. It is basically the foundation that Paul builds all this around.

  60. Keep this in mind when you read the letters written by Paul.

  61. Remember Paul's epistles, he wrote several letters to the churches,

  62. Corinthians, Ephesians, Galatians,

  63. but he also wrote letters to Timothy and Titus who are young pastors.

  64. And when you and I read these letters of Paul,

  65. the things that you and I need to keep in mind is this,

  66. that Paul writes these letters with words of encouragement,

  67. with words of instruction.

  68. He writes in order that they be aware of the culture of their day

  69. and how to navigate that culture.

  70. But he also writes about correcting ungodly behavior.

  71. So let's keep this in mind when we read these words here in Titus.

  72. The foundation is the Word of God.

  73. Paul's words to Timothy now in 2 Timothy 3, 16 and 17 said this,

  74. Paul sends this short letter, three chapters, to Titus.

  75. And in just these nine verses that you and I are looking at together this morning,

  76. Paul says a lot.

  77. I mean, there is a lot of things that Paul says

  78. and he raises questions for you and I to ask and look at.

  79. So let's just look at verses 1 through 3 again together.

  80. Let's just kind of break this down.

  81. Paul is servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ

  82. for the sake of the faith of God's elect

  83. and their knowledge of the truth which accords with godliness

  84. in hope of eternal life which God who never lies promised before the ages began

  85. and at the proper time manifested in his word through the preaching

  86. with which I, Paul, have been entrusted by the command of God, our Savior.

  87. So what do we learn about Paul?

  88. Just in these short little verses,

  89. we learn that he calls himself a servant of God.

  90. He serves God out of his love and relationship for God.

  91. He is a servant of God.

  92. He calls himself an apostle of Jesus Christ.

  93. An apostle is a messenger, one who is sent.

  94. The 12 disciples were known as apostles.

  95. They were the only ones given this title.

  96. We also learned that he preached the message of salvation and eternal life

  97. and also that he understood his responsibility as a command by God.

  98. Now why is Paul these things that he just mentioned to you and I?

  99. It says it right there in the beginning.

  100. For the sake of the faith of God's elect.

  101. That includes you and me.

  102. Not only for those that Titus was going to order,

  103. that Titus was going to teach those believers in Crete,

  104. but it's also for you and I.

  105. We can't remove ourselves from the fact that when we read God's word,

  106. it is written for you and I.

  107. For the sake of our faith.

  108. Who is that you and who is that person that he's talking about?

  109. Who is that elect?

  110. It's very simple.

  111. And Romans 10, 8 and 10 is for the person who receives Christ as their Savior and Lord.

  112. Romans 10, 8 and 10 says,

  113. But what does it say?

  114. The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart.

  115. That is the word of faith that we proclaim.

  116. Because if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord

  117. and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead,

  118. you will be saved.

  119. For with the heart one believes and is justified,

  120. and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.

  121. So the elect that Paul is talking about here

  122. is what he's talking about there in Romans.

  123. If we believe and if we confess,

  124. that is the person who follows Christ as their Savior and Lord.

  125. Paul also points out that what he's there for,

  126. not only the sake of their faith,

  127. but also for the knowledge of truth.

  128. Which leads to godliness.

  129. You see, God's word is there for you and I

  130. for the knowledge of God's truth.

  131. Not man's truth or an individual's truth,

  132. but God's truth.

  133. That's what matters in life.

  134. We hear that word truth just strung out all over the place, don't we?

  135. We hear people saying,

  136. This is my truth.

  137. Well, it may be your truth,

  138. but is it the absolute truth?

  139. Is it the absolute truth of God and his word?

  140. And Paul is saying,

  141. I am there for the sake of the elected

  142. and their understanding of the truth of God's word.

  143. We have God's word for the sake of our faith

  144. and understanding who God is.

  145. Paul also points out that he was there

  146. to bring hope for eternal life.

  147. But Paul also points out some things in there about who God is.

  148. It's very interesting.

  149. Again, in this short little few verses here,

  150. he opens up his understanding

  151. or some understandings of who God is.

  152. He said he never lies.

  153. Think about that for a moment.

  154. Paul states to Titus in this introduction

  155. that God never lies.

  156. You and I need to let that sink in

  157. to our minds, our hearts, and our spirit

  158. because there's times even as believers,

  159. we question what we read about God.

  160. We question what we know about God.

  161. We question even what we've put our faith in God.

  162. We've got to realize that God doesn't lie.

  163. That whatever he promises you and I in his word,

  164. it's to build our life on.

  165. It is truth.

  166. It is not a lie.

  167. And in that one little statement there,

  168. Paul shared his doctrine and belief of God.

  169. He promised eternal life from the very beginning.

  170. We see that those words here that Paul opens up.

  171. He showed the message of eternal life in his word.

  172. God showed you and I the message of eternal life in his word.

  173. He trusted Paul with the handling

  174. and the preaching of his word.

  175. And he trusts you and I with the handling

  176. and the teaching and preaching of his word.

  177. He points out to Titus that God is our savior.

  178. Now put this in context.

  179. God is also our savior in this world,

  180. from this world.

  181. God is our savior from ourselves.

  182. God is our savior for eternity.

  183. So how did this message get out?

  184. God used a person like Paul.

  185. If you have any biblical knowledge,

  186. you kind of understand who Paul was.

  187. Pastor Bo shared a little bit of that

  188. in the message of Genesis,

  189. how Paul was there to persecute the church.

  190. Well then, God got a hold of him and changed that.

  191. He used a person like Paul.

  192. God uses a person like you.

  193. God uses a person like me.

  194. You and I are not exempt to be used by God.

  195. We may tell God,

  196. no, I'm not going to do that.

  197. But God desires it from us.

  198. And just like Paul said,

  199. it was a command of God.

  200. God commands you and I to be his representative,

  201. to be his voice,

  202. to be his feet.

  203. What was the message?

  204. Really very simple.

  205. Again, one of those,

  206. you know,

  207. let's close the Bible,

  208. let's pray,

  209. let's walk out the door.

  210. It's that kind of simple of a message

  211. that Paul opens up here

  212. in these first few verses.

  213. It deals with faith,

  214. which points to the truth of God's word,

  215. which points to godliness in our lives

  216. because of God's word,

  217. which then leads you and I to eternal life.

  218. That's what he says in those first few verses.

  219. But then at all,

  220. Paul also says there this very interesting phrase,

  221. proper time.

  222. What is proper time?

  223. What is Paul getting at

  224. when he tells Titus at the proper time,

  225. God will reveal this?

  226. It's God's timing.

  227. It's God's timing.

  228. That's the proper time.

  229. That's hard for you and I

  230. to kind of juggle and think about

  231. in things that we deal with in life,

  232. isn't it?

  233. God's timing versus understanding

  234. our timing of things.

  235. A lot of times,

  236. we want the fast food line route, right?

  237. We don't want the 12-hour

  238. let it smoke and marinate

  239. in the smoker route.

  240. We want that quick one.

  241. But Paul says to Titus,

  242. it's going to take time.

  243. I mean, you and I

  244. went through Genesis for two years

  245. just to experience that together.

  246. You and I understood

  247. throughout the life of Genesis

  248. of the people that we saw,

  249. Isaac, Jacob, Joseph.

  250. We understood it was all about God's timing.

  251. Look at Joseph's life

  252. as we looked at it towards the end.

  253. It was all about God's timing.

  254. Joseph didn't want to be in the places

  255. that he found himself in,

  256. but it was about God's timing.

  257. There's a lot of times

  258. I don't like God's timing.

  259. But I trust.

  260. I have faith.

  261. When I struggle with that thought

  262. of God's timing in my life,

  263. whether it be decisions

  264. that I need to make,

  265. whether some hardships

  266. that I'm going through,

  267. I always go back to a verse

  268. that my mom and dad

  269. always pointed us to.

  270. They've always pointed us

  271. to Proverbs 3, 5, and 6.

  272. But when I think about times of this,

  273. I only go to Proverbs 3, 5,

  274. where it says,

  275. trust in the Lord,

  276. not yourself,

  277. trust in the Lord

  278. with all your heart.

  279. And here's the sticking point.

  280. And lean not

  281. on your own understanding.

  282. I don't understand God's timing

  283. sometimes in my life.

  284. I don't understand

  285. some of the situations

  286. that I may go through

  287. and deal with in life.

  288. But one thing I do know,

  289. I can trust God.

  290. I can trust God

  291. and His timing.

  292. And as a follower of Christ,

  293. I've got to keep reminding myself

  294. over and over

  295. and over again,

  296. in God's moment,

  297. in God's timing,

  298. that's what's best.

  299. And then Paul switches gear

  300. from this greeting.

  301. He now goes to Titus

  302. in verse 4.

  303. He says to Titus,

  304. my true child

  305. in a common faith,

  306. grace and peace

  307. from God the Father

  308. in Christ Jesus,

  309. our Savior.

  310. You ever gotten a card

  311. of encouragement?

  312. You ever sent a card

  313. of encouragement?

  314. You ever get a text

  315. with encouraging words

  316. or maybe words

  317. that are giving you guidance

  318. and maybe a decision

  319. you've shared with somebody

  320. and they sent you a text

  321. or an email,

  322. some form of communication

  323. to help you think about

  324. what it is you're going through.

  325. Or maybe just a simple thing

  326. of saying,

  327. I'm praying for you.

  328. Or maybe they text

  329. a verse of scripture

  330. because they know

  331. what you're going through

  332. or a card,

  333. whatever the case might be,

  334. they sent you something

  335. because they knew

  336. that you needed it.

  337. Whether it be encouragement

  338. or instruction

  339. or a form of words to help.

  340. What about receiving those cards,

  341. those texts,

  342. that information?

  343. What it's like to receive those

  344. in a time of your life

  345. when, man,

  346. it's hard,

  347. but that text seems to come

  348. at the right time,

  349. that card seems to come

  350. at the right time.

  351. Well, here's this young

  352. Pastor Titus

  353. on the island of Crete

  354. and you'll see later

  355. in the verses

  356. in this same chapter later

  357. as Pastor Bo gets into it,

  358. this is not a fun place.

  359. Crete is not a fun island.

  360. Now, there's just,

  361. it's just not.

  362. The people are not fun,

  363. but yet Paul had established

  364. churches there

  365. and now Paul needs Titus

  366. to go about bringing order.

  367. And can you imagine

  368. being a young pastor

  369. with the task

  370. of bringing organization

  371. and bringing order

  372. to churches,

  373. several churches?

  374. That's a massive task.

  375. And here Paul says to Titus,

  376. grace and peace.

  377. Grace and peace.

  378. Titus knew exactly

  379. what Paul was talking about.

  380. Titus spent a lot of time

  381. with Paul.

  382. And so when Paul talks about

  383. greeting him with grace

  384. and peace,

  385. he knows that it's

  386. the grace of God

  387. and it's the peace

  388. of Jesus Christ,

  389. his Lord and Savior.

  390. So it brings this extra,

  391. this extra wonder

  392. of encouragement,

  393. this extra joy

  394. and excitement

  395. to say,

  396. man, I can do this.

  397. I know what I'm facing

  398. is hard,

  399. but man,

  400. I can do this.

  401. So what do we learn

  402. about Titus

  403. just in this little bit?

  404. But not in this passage,

  405. but it is important.

  406. Titus was a part

  407. of Paul's ministry team.

  408. Paul says a lot

  409. about Titus

  410. in 2 Corinthians.

  411. In 2 Corinthians

    2 Corinthians 2:13

  412. chapter 2,

  413. verse 13,

  414. it says,

  415. my spirit,

  416. Paul is speaking here,

  417. my spirit was not

  418. at rest

  419. because I did not

  420. find my brother

  421. Titus there.

  422. You ever go looking

  423. or trying to reach

  424. or call a friend

  425. and you can't find him?

  426. Kind of that feeling

  427. that it seems like

  428. Paul is expressing

  429. here about Titus.

  430. 2 Corinthians 7,

  431. 6,

  432. but God who comforts

  433. the downcast

  434. comforted us

  435. by the coming

  436. of Titus.

  437. God sent Titus

  438. as a way of a comforter

  439. for Paul.

  440. And then in 2 Corinthians 8,

    2 Corinthians 8:16

  441. verses 16 and 17,

  442. but thanks be to God

  443. who put into the heart

  444. of Titus

  445. the same earnest care

  446. I have for you.

  447. For he not only

  448. accepted our appeal,

  449. but being himself

  450. very earnest,

  451. he is going to you

  452. on his own accord.

  453. Get to see a little bit

  454. of Titus' character,

  455. motivated himself

  456. to bring the care

  457. that is needed.

  458. 2 Corinthians 8, 23,

  459. As for Titus,

  460. he is my partner

  461. and fellow worker

  462. for your benefit.

  463. So there was

  464. a special relationship

  465. that Paul has

  466. with Titus,

  467. the same type

  468. of relationship

  469. that Paul has

  470. with Timothy,

  471. these other young pastors.

  472. To the point

  473. where you see

  474. a discipling

  475. relationship here.

  476. where Paul,

  477. who is more mature

  478. in his faith,

  479. is working with

  480. and discipling Titus

  481. to help him

  482. have confidence

  483. in who he is

  484. in Christ.

  485. To help him

  486. have confidence

  487. in the task

  488. that he has.

  489. Two important phrases

  490. that Paul uses

  491. here with Titus.

  492. He says

  493. he is his true child.

  494. Scholars believe

  495. what Paul is saying

  496. here is that

  497. he was instrumental

  498. in bringing Titus

  499. to faith in God

  500. when he says

  501. my true child.

  502. And then he says

  503. common faith

  504. that he,

  505. that Paul and Titus

  506. are brothers

  507. in the Lord.

  508. If you're a follower

  509. of Christ,

  510. you are my brother

  511. in the Lord.

  512. If you're a follower

  513. of Christ,

  514. you are my sister

  515. in the Lord.

  516. Because we have

  517. common faith,

  518. we follow the same

  519. and only true God.

  520. And moving on

  521. from there,

  522. we see Paul

  523. give Titus

  524. his purpose

  525. in Crete.

  526. In verse 5,

  527. this is why

  528. I left you in Crete

  529. so that you might

  530. put what remained

  531. in order.

  532. Task number one,

  533. use some

  534. administrative skills,

  535. use some

  536. administrative gifting

  537. and put the churches

  538. in order

  539. and appoint elders

  540. in every town

  541. as I directed you.

  542. So Titus,

  543. bring alongside you

  544. those who are like you

  545. who will be able

  546. to guide

  547. and bring direction

  548. to the churches

  549. that I've established.

  550. Now,

  551. 6 through 9,

  552. this is how I want you

  553. to listen to this.

  554. Okay?

  555. Verses 6 through 9,

  556. listen to them this way.

  557. as a description

  558. for you

  559. as a Christ follower.

  560. As a description

  561. for you

  562. as a Christ follower.

  563. You see,

  564. throughout the scripture,

  565. we see a lot of lists

  566. and I'm a list

  567. kind of person.

  568. All right?

  569. I've got a list

  570. in my garage

  571. of about 10 things

  572. that I need to do

  573. in and around the house.

  574. Okay?

  575. Two of them

  576. are checked off.

  577. That board's been on there

  578. for at least two years.

  579. But anyway,

  580. I'm a list person.

  581. So I love making lists.

  582. So when I see lists

  583. in scripture,

  584. that helps me

  585. because that's how

  586. I'm wired.

  587. But we see a lot

  588. of types of lists

  589. from the Old Testament

  590. all the way

  591. through the New Testament.

  592. Here's such a case here

  593. in verse 6.

  594. Paul says to Titus,

  595. if anyone is above reproach.

  596. Now we're going to see

  597. that Paul uses this phrase

  598. above reproach

  599. twice here.

  600. Anytime you and I

  601. see something multiple

  602. in scripture,

  603. especially so close together,

  604. you and I need to go,

  605. okay,

  606. I need to be aware of this.

  607. In some translations,

  608. they refer to the word

  609. reproach as blameless.

  610. If anyone is blameless.

  611. If anyone above reproach,

  612. the husband of one wife

  613. and his children

  614. are believers

  615. and not open

  616. to the charge

  617. of debauchery

  618. or insubordination.

  619. For an overseer,

  620. as God's steward,

  621. must be above reproach.

  622. He must not be arrogant

  623. or quick-tempered

  624. or drunkard

  625. or violent

  626. or greedy for gain.

  627. But,

  628. don't you love that word

  629. but when you hear

  630. something like that

  631. and then there's the but

  632. and then you get to say,

  633. man,

  634. there's got to be

  635. something better

  636. on the other side

  637. of that, right?

  638. Usually when you hear

  639. that word stuck

  640. in between different things,

  641. you're looking

  642. for the good side of it.

  643. and hear what Paul says

  644. in verse 8,

  645. but hospitable,

  646. a lover of good,

  647. self-controlled,

  648. upright,

  649. holy,

  650. and disciplined.

  651. He must hold firm

  652. to the trustworthy word

  653. as taught

  654. so that he may be able

  655. to give instruction

  656. and sound doctrine

  657. and also to rebuke

  658. those who contradict it.

  659. You see,

  660. an important part

  661. of that last phrase,

  662. and I forgot to bring

  663. this up earlier,

  664. the rebuke part

  665. is there are a lot

  666. of false teachers

  667. in Crete.

  668. There were a lot

  669. of false teachers

  670. that were starting

  671. to show up

  672. in the churches

  673. in Crete.

  674. And you know

  675. that was kind of

  676. commonplace

  677. in a lot of the churches

  678. that Paul was sending

  679. letters to,

  680. false teachers

  681. coming in

  682. and trying to teach

  683. a false truth.

  684. Trying to teach

  685. things that were

  686. not of God

  687. or were not

  688. out of God's word.

  689. So what did we learn

  690. about why Titus

  691. was in Crete?

  692. Paul left him

  693. in Crete

  694. with a purpose.

  695. To bring order

  696. to finish the task

  697. that Paul

  698. had already started.

  699. To organize

  700. the churches

  701. in Crete

  702. that we'd already

  703. talked about

  704. and to appoint elders

  705. in every town.

  706. So he had a purpose.

  707. Paul laid it out

  708. for him,

  709. very plain,

  710. very simple.

  711. What's your purpose?

  712. What is your purpose?

  713. When you think

  714. that God has created you,

  715. that God has gifted you,

  716. what is God's purpose

  717. for your life?

  718. First and foremost,

  719. we find it in Matthew

    Matthew 22:36

  720. chapter 22

  721. verses 36 and 38.

  722. This is our purpose.

  723. These were the very words

  724. of Jesus.

  725. Verse 36,

  726. it says,

  727. Teacher,

  728. which is the great commandment

  729. in the law?

  730. And he,

  731. being Jesus,

  732. said to him,

  733. you shall love

  734. the Lord your God

  735. with all your heart,

  736. with all your soul,

  737. and with all your mind.

  738. This is the great

  739. and first commandment.

  740. You see,

  741. the whole thing

  742. is about you and I

  743. having a relationship

  744. with God.

  745. That is our utmost purpose,

  746. to have a relationship

  747. with God.

  748. And then,

  749. in within that relationship,

  750. it then begins

  751. to spill out

  752. in all areas

  753. of our life,

  754. what is your purpose

  755. at home

  756. with your family?

  757. What is your purpose

  758. at work,

  759. at school?

  760. What is your purpose

  761. with your friend group?

  762. What is your purpose

  763. in your neighborhood,

  764. with your neighbors?

  765. What's your purpose

  766. with a stranger

  767. that you come across,

  768. maybe a one-time meeting?

  769. What does God's word

  770. say to you

  771. in those arenas

  772. of your life?

  773. Those are questions

  774. that I have to ask

  775. and answer

  776. on a regular basis

  777. that you have to ask

  778. and answer

  779. on a regular basis.

  780. God gives us

  781. a purpose.

  782. Paul gave Titus

  783. a purpose.

  784. God gave Paul

  785. a purpose.

  786. God gave Titus

  787. a purpose.

  788. You and I

  789. have that purpose

  790. to love him

  791. with our heart,

  792. mind,

  793. and soul.

  794. But Paul set

  795. some standards

  796. for Titus

  797. to be on the lookout

  798. for in these men.

  799. The same standards

  800. that you and I

  801. are to have

  802. in our own life.

  803. A person who has

  804. character and a reputation

  805. that stands out

  806. in their community.

  807. A person who has

  808. character and a reputation

  809. that stands out

  810. positively

  811. in their community.

  812. A person who has

  813. their family life

  814. in order.

  815. If you think about

  816. how this breaks down

  817. that Paul talks about,

  818. he starts talking

  819. about the family first.

  820. In Genesis,

  821. we saw that God

  822. created the family first,

  823. Adam and Eve.

  824. And Paul says

  825. to Timothy,

  826. look at the individual's

  827. family first.

  828. He then says,

  829. a person who has

  830. the ability

  831. to give oversight.

  832. A person who's

  833. going to be a steward

  834. of the things of God.

  835. God has given

  836. things to you and I

  837. that he expects

  838. you and I

  839. to be stewards of.

  840. Good stewards of.

  841. Our talents

  842. that we use,

  843. our talents and gifts

  844. that God gives us.

  845. Our finances

  846. that God has

  847. blessed us with.

  848. Any of the things

  849. that God has

  850. provided for us,

  851. God intends

  852. for you and I

  853. to be good stewards

  854. of that.

  855. A person not having

  856. ungodly qualities.

  857. Would you agree

  858. with me that these

  859. that Paul talks about

  860. would definitely fit

  861. that ungodly

  862. characteristic?

  863. But what I notice

  864. these things

  865. that Paul mentions

  866. here and these

  867. ungodly characters,

  868. all those are

  869. self-centered

  870. qualities,

  871. aren't they?

  872. These are things

  873. that you want to do

  874. because you want

  875. to do them.

  876. But then Paul

  877. says to Titus,

  878. this person needs

  879. to have these

  880. godly qualities.

  881. This person needs

  882. to have these

  883. godly qualities.

  884. hospitable,

  885. willing to speak

  886. and open up

  887. to people.

  888. A lover of good,

  889. self-controlled,

  890. upright,

  891. holy,

  892. disciplined.

  893. These are all

  894. qualities that are

  895. other-centered.

  896. Now doesn't that

  897. match with what

  898. you know of what

  899. you've read in

  900. God's Word that

  901. we're to be about

  902. others?

  903. We're to look,

  904. as Scripture says,

  905. for the interests

  906. of others?

  907. That we're to help

  908. them with the needs

  909. that they have?

  910. That's all about

  911. being other-centered.

  912. But lastly,

  913. but certainly

  914. not least,

  915. that Paul says

  916. here,

  917. a person who

  918. has a good

  919. grasp of the

  920. Word of God.

  921. A person who

  922. has a good

  923. grasp for the

  924. Word of God.

  925. Paul uses some

  926. important phrases

  927. there.

  928. I never realized

  929. that my English

  930. classes in high

  931. school would help

  932. me read and

  933. understand God's

  934. Word.

  935. If you would have

  936. told me about that

  937. back then, I still

  938. wouldn't like to

  939. have been in

  940. English class.

  941. But to see how

  942. important the

  943. words are that we

  944. read in the

  945. Scriptures, that

  946. there's not a

  947. word there that's

  948. out of place.

  949. But every word

  950. that we read,

  951. that God used

  952. the different

  953. people to put

  954. together the

  955. Word of God.

  956. Paul says the

  957. word, hold

  958. firm.

  959. hold firm.

  960. Don't let your

  961. Bible be that

  962. home decoration

  963. that sits on a

  964. table somewhere

  965. that collects

  966. dust, or that

  967. sits on the

  968. shelf that never

  969. gets moved.

  970. Paul says to

  971. Titus, look for

  972. those individuals

  973. who hold firm

  974. to the Word of

  975. God.

  976. He says, have the

  977. ability to give

  978. instruction, not just

  979. any doctrine, but

  980. on sound

  981. doctrine.

  982. God has given

  983. you and I His

  984. Word that is based

  985. on sound doctrine.

  986. But He also

  987. said in the

  988. context of the

  989. culture in which

  990. Titus was in, He

  991. says, to be able

  992. to rebuke

  993. contradictions to

  994. the Word.

  995. So how do you

  996. measure up to

  997. these qualifications?

  998. May I ask

  999. myself that when

  1000. I read over

  1001. these?

  1002. You and I have

  1003. to ask ourselves

  1004. when we come

  1005. across God's

  1006. Word and we

  1007. read things like

  1008. this throughout

  1009. God's Word.

  1010. You and I also

  1011. both need to know

  1012. that we're not

  1013. perfect, right?

  1014. On this side of

  1015. eternity, there's

  1016. no such thing as

  1017. perfection.

  1018. That only works

  1019. when you and I

  1020. die as followers of

  1021. Christ and we

  1022. spend eternity in

  1023. the presence of

  1024. God, that's where

  1025. we're clothed with

  1026. the new body that

  1027. God's Word talks

  1028. about, that Paul

  1029. talks about in

  1030. Corinthians.

  1031. On this side, we're

  1032. imperfect people

  1033. struggling through

  1034. life, trying to

  1035. apply the Word that

  1036. we read from

  1037. God's Word.

  1038. But at the same

  1039. time, you and I

  1040. battle with sin in

  1041. our life, you and

  1042. I also need to

  1043. realize in Scripture

  1044. it's there for a

  1045. purpose, it's there

  1046. for God to

  1047. edify us, it's

  1048. there for God to

  1049. sanctify us.

  1050. So in light of

  1051. that, you and I

  1052. need to confront

  1053. this list, to

  1054. confront these

  1055. things that we

  1056. see with a heart

  1057. of evaluation.

  1058. And I know

  1059. that's hard.

  1060. You know, one of

  1061. the worst things

  1062. for me to try to

  1063. do, I get so

  1064. nervous, I know

  1065. it may not seem

  1066. like it, but I

  1067. get so nervous

  1068. up here.

  1069. My stomach

  1070. churns for a

  1071. week.

  1072. My wife and I

  1073. went up to see

  1074. our son up in

  1075. Greenville, he's

  1076. over at Clemson.

  1077. I said that

  1078. word again, and

  1079. to see him, to

  1080. see him, to see him

  1081. because we hadn't

  1082. seen him for a

  1083. while.

  1084. I say that for my

  1085. love for my Clemson

  1086. people.

  1087. We hadn't seen him

  1088. for a while, and it

  1089. was just a good

  1090. trip to kind of ease

  1091. my mind.

  1092. And then I woke up

  1093. about 2.30 this

  1094. morning, couldn't go

  1095. back to sleep.

  1096. It's just one of

  1097. those ways in which

  1098. it's hard to evaluate

  1099. where I was

  1100. getting at.

  1101. Sorry, I just

  1102. lost track.

  1103. Where I was really

  1104. getting at is the

  1105. worst thing for me to

  1106. do is come in on a

  1107. Monday morning, and

  1108. after Joel has

  1109. uploaded the YouTube

  1110. channel, to sit and

  1111. listen to myself talk.

  1112. Have you ever done

  1113. that?

  1114. Oh, man, it's awful.

  1115. It is awful.

  1116. And I'll be honest

  1117. with you, I've never,

  1118. as long as I've been

  1119. in ministry, I have

  1120. never, ever been able

  1121. to listen to myself,

  1122. so I apologize to

  1123. you the entirety of

  1124. my time speaking.

  1125. But self-evaluation

  1126. is important.

  1127. But we have to be

  1128. motivated out of our

  1129. love for God when we

  1130. evaluate ourselves and

  1131. we read what we've

  1132. just read together.

  1133. And a desire to

  1134. please God, to see

  1135. the need in your life

  1136. and in my life for

  1137. godly change, not

  1138. just change that

  1139. benefits change, but

  1140. change that reflects

  1141. who we are as a

  1142. follower of Christ.

  1143. Here's some steps to

  1144. change.

  1145. Be honest and

  1146. truthful with

  1147. yourself.

  1148. I've sat down many

  1149. times with folks, and

  1150. that's usually the

  1151. first thing I say.

  1152. If you really want to

  1153. get anything out of

  1154. this conversation that

  1155. you and I are going

  1156. to have, you need to

  1157. be truthful and

  1158. honest with

  1159. yourself.

  1160. Because if you're

  1161. not, you're not

  1162. leaving the point in

  1163. which you're

  1164. standing on.

  1165. You've got to be

  1166. truthful and honest

  1167. with yourself.

  1168. Then you've got to

  1169. confess to God and

  1170. repent for whatever

  1171. it is that God has

  1172. opened up your eyes

  1173. to seeing.

  1174. And then you've got to

  1175. seek guidance from

  1176. God's word.

  1177. That's where it is.

  1178. Everything that you

  1179. and I need to know is

  1180. right here.

  1181. Everything.

  1182. Everything.

  1183. I know sometimes it's

  1184. hard for you and I to

  1185. wrap our minds that

  1186. everything that you and

  1187. I need to know about

  1188. life is right here, but

  1189. it is true.

  1190. It's right here.

  1191. We just got to find

  1192. it.

  1193. We just got to read

  1194. it.

  1195. Seek God's guidance

  1196. from his word.

  1197. And in some cases,

  1198. seek guidance from a

  1199. biblical counselor.

  1200. Allow a biblical

  1201. counselor to pour in

  1202. you the words of God

  1203. that you need to hear

  1204. for your situation that

  1205. you're going through.

  1206. C.S.

  1207. Lewis, there's a app on

  1208. Instagram that I love

  1209. following because it

  1210. seems like it has a lot

  1211. of quotes from C.S.

  1212. Lewis, a lot of quotes

  1213. from A.W.

  1214. Tozer, and one of them

  1215. that I came across said

  1216. this from C.S.

  1217. Lewis.

  1218. The Christian life is

  1219. simply a process of

  1220. having your natural

  1221. self changed into a

  1222. Christ self.

  1223. And that this process

  1224. goes on very far

  1225. inside.

  1226. Remember that scripture

  1227. that talks about that

  1228. God's word is there to

  1229. divide between joint and

  1230. marrow where it's like a

  1231. surgeon's scalpel?

  1232. You remember that

  1233. scripture?

  1234. That's what I see here

  1235. when I hear these words

  1236. of C.S.

  1237. Lewis.

  1238. And that this process

  1239. goes on very far

  1240. inside.

  1241. One's most private

  1242. wishes, one's point

  1243. of view, and the

  1244. things that have to be

  1245. changed.

  1246. That's the kind of

  1247. change that God does

  1248. in and through his

  1249. word.

  1250. Most importantly, how

  1251. are you doing at

  1252. holding firm to the

  1253. trustworthy word of

  1254. God?

  1255. How are you doing

  1256. holding firm?

  1257. Are you reading the

  1258. word?

  1259. Are you studying the

  1260. word?

  1261. Are you meditating on

  1262. the word?

  1263. Are you being taught

  1264. the word?

  1265. You know, we come

  1266. here on Sunday

  1267. mornings, we have the

  1268. opportunity to listen

  1269. to Pastor Bo teach

  1270. us what God has

  1271. laid on his heart

  1272. through his word.

  1273. But we have so many

  1274. other opportunities

  1275. throughout the life of

  1276. Willow Ridge Church to

  1277. be connected in a small

  1278. group, to sit down with

  1279. other people and share

  1280. maybe like, I don't

  1281. really understand what

  1282. this scripture means.

  1283. Will you share what

  1284. you know of this

  1285. scripture?

  1286. Placing ourselves in

  1287. situations where we're

  1288. being taught the word of

  1289. God.

  1290. Are you seeking

  1291. counsel and guidance

  1292. from the word of God?

  1293. So I was thinking about

  1294. these nine verses.

  1295. Here's the things that

  1296. seem to come to my

  1297. mind as we wrap up our

  1298. time together this

  1299. morning.

  1300. One, know who you are

  1301. in God.

  1302. Paul knew who he was.

  1303. Do you know who you are

  1304. in God?

  1305. Know who you are in God.

  1306. He created you in his

  1307. image.

  1308. You are of great value to

  1309. him and he loves you.

  1310. He loves you.

  1311. No matter what

  1312. anybody, anybody has

  1313. ever said to you, God

  1314. loves you more than

  1315. any one significant in

  1316. your life.

  1317. God loves you.

  1318. Know what you believe

  1319. about God.

  1320. Paul expressed that in

  1321. short little phrases here

  1322. in the beginning of his

  1323. opening.

  1324. But you and I need to

  1325. know what we believe

  1326. about God.

  1327. It's a great one.

  1328. God never lies.

  1329. That's a good one for

  1330. you and I to know.

  1331. Because when we come

  1332. to that time in our

  1333. life, we need to know

  1334. that.

  1335. When we read God's

  1336. truth, it's not a lie,

  1337. it's truth.

  1338. We've got to know that

  1339. God keeps his promises

  1340. and that our eternity

  1341. as a Christ follower is

  1342. sealed because of God.

  1343. Surround yourself with

  1344. people.

  1345. I love this phrase that

  1346. Paul used.

  1347. Surround yourself with

  1348. people of common

  1349. faith.

  1350. Faith in God.

  1351. Why?

  1352. Why is that so

  1353. important?

  1354. He's not saying don't

  1355. have relationships with

  1356. people that don't know

  1357. God.

  1358. That contradicts the

  1359. fact that that whole

  1360. wall out there on the

  1361. board talks about you

  1362. and I going to the

  1363. nations where you and

  1364. I got to share the

  1365. love of Christ with

  1366. others.

  1367. But you and I, if we

  1368. surround ourselves

  1369. completely with people

  1370. who don't know and

  1371. love the Lord, we will

  1372. be influenced by the

  1373. way they live.

  1374. and not influenced by

  1375. the way God wants us

  1376. to live.

  1377. You and I need to

  1378. surround ourselves with

  1379. people of common

  1380. faith.

  1381. They're there to

  1382. encourage you when

  1383. you're struggling in

  1384. your relationship with

  1385. the Lord.

  1386. They're there to

  1387. encourage you when

  1388. you're struggling in

  1389. your relationships on

  1390. earth.

  1391. They're there to

  1392. encourage you when

  1393. you're just struggling

  1394. because of life

  1395. sometimes is a

  1396. struggle.

  1397. just like it says in

  1398. God's word, they're

  1399. there to sharpen your

  1400. relationship with the

  1401. Lord.

  1402. And some of the

  1403. things sometimes we

  1404. don't think that much

  1405. of and we really

  1406. sure should is they're

  1407. there to pray for you.

  1408. One of the greatest

  1409. blessings, one of the

  1410. greatest things that you

  1411. and I have that God has

  1412. given us is the ability

  1413. to talk to him like I'm

  1414. talking to you and

  1415. the ability to go

  1416. before God on behalf

  1417. of those in our life

  1418. or those that we don't

  1419. even know and bring

  1420. them up to the Lord

  1421. for whatever the

  1422. purpose, whatever the

  1423. reason is.

  1424. But when you surround

  1425. yourself with people of

  1426. common faith, you have

  1427. people who journey

  1428. with you in prayer, who

  1429. come alongside you with

  1430. prayer.

  1431. Desire and pursue the

  1432. character that aligns

  1433. with godliness that we

  1434. just read.

  1435. You got to desire it.

  1436. Jesus said to those

  1437. listening to, if any man

  1438. wishes to come after me,

  1439. let him deny himself,

  1440. take up his cross and

  1441. follow me.

  1442. That's about desire of

  1443. wanting to follow God

  1444. with all of who you are.

  1445. And then hold firm to

  1446. the truth of God's word.

  1447. Make the Bible the

  1448. number one book that you

  1449. spend the most time

  1450. reading.

  1451. And there are some great

  1452. books out there.

  1453. And my shelf is filled

  1454. with great books.

  1455. People ask me all the

  1456. time, you read all of

  1457. them?

  1458. Nope.

  1459. I've read parts of

  1460. them.

  1461. But spend more time

  1462. reading God's word than

  1463. you do reading anything

  1464. else.

  1465. And then lastly, then

  1466. lastly, as the band

  1467. comes up, as we get

  1468. ready to close out our

  1469. service together, never,

  1470. never, never, never,

  1471. never, never let go of

  1472. the word of God no matter

  1473. how tough life gets.

  1474. Through his word, God

  1475. will bring you through.

  1476. Hold firm to the word of

  1477. God.

  1478. It is what you and I

  1479. need throughout our

  1480. entirety as we walk with

  1481. Christ, our Lord and

  1482. Savior.

  1483. We're about to sing as we

  1484. close out our service

  1485. together.

  1486. And we have prayer

  1487. encouragers that, as we

  1488. start to sing together,

  1489. they're going to be

  1490. standing on these walls on

  1491. the side.

  1492. You're here because God

  1493. has you here.

  1494. You know, you could have

  1495. been anywhere, but maybe

  1496. you woke up this morning

  1497. like, man, I just need to

  1498. go to church.

  1499. But whatever reason you're

  1500. here, they're here, our

  1501. prayer encouragers, they're

  1502. here to pray with you.

  1503. If you've got a burden, let

  1504. them pray with you.

  1505. Man, if you need to come to

  1506. a saving relationship with

  1507. Jesus Christ, they're here

  1508. to walk you through what

  1509. that means.

  1510. You know, it might be that

  1511. you've got a friend on the

  1512. other side of the room that,

  1513. man, your relationship is

  1514. tight.

  1515. Man, you have one of

  1516. those common faith

  1517. relationships, and you've

  1518. never said it to them or

  1519. whatever, and you need to

  1520. go encourage them, or you

  1521. need to go ask them, hey, in

  1522. this moment right now, will

  1523. you pray for me?

  1524. Maybe you can do that.

  1525. God desires for you and I

  1526. just to let folks into our

  1527. lives.

  1528. Would you join me in prayer

  1529. as we prepare ourselves to

  1530. continue to worship the Lord

  1531. and song?

  1532. Father, I thank you just, I

  1533. know sometimes I say this and

  1534. pray this a lot, but I do

  1535. thank you for your word, Lord.

  1536. There is so much power in your

  1537. word.

  1538. Power that we've not probably

  1539. even touched in our lives, but

  1540. it's there.

  1541. And Lord, just like you just

  1542. showed us what Paul points out

  1543. to Titus, you point it out to

  1544. our life as well, Lord.

  1545. Lord, help us to be the men and

  1546. the women that you have called

  1547. us to be in this life.

  1548. Lord, help us to put off the

  1549. things that are not of

  1550. representative of who you are,

  1551. but Lord, to strive to be the men

  1552. and women of God that you call

  1553. us to be.

  1554. Lord, if there's anybody in this

  1555. room that's struggling with

  1556. anything in life, and man, they

  1557. just need somebody to speak to,

  1558. Lord, give them the courage to

  1559. step out and to approach

  1560. somebody just to ask for

  1561. guidance, to ask for help, to

  1562. ask for prayer.

  1563. Father, thank you for loving us,

  1564. loving us for right where we are,

  1565. for who we are, but loving us

  1566. and desire to pull us closer and

  1567. closer to you in a relationship

  1568. that just far exceeds what we

  1569. can even imagine or think.

  1570. Lord, we love you and we thank

  1571. you and we ask this prayer in

  1572. your name.

  1573. Amen.

  1574. That's it for this week's

  1575. message.

  1576. Be sure to check back next week

  1577. for another episode.

  1578. In the meantime, you can stay up

  1579. to date with everything happening

  1580. at Willow Ridge by visiting us on

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  1582. online at willowridgechurch.org.

  1583. Thanks again for listening.