Sermon
Misunderstood • Week 3
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Good morning. If you have your Bibles, and I hope you do, I want to invite you to join us
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in Matthew chapter 7. If you do not own a Bible, we want to encourage you right now or at the end
Matthew 7 chapter mention
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of the service, we have some free Bibles that we would love to give you, and they will be right
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back here at this table right back here to my left. So you can stop by at the end of the service,
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love to gift you one of those so that you can have a copy of God's Word. I do want to echo what Pastor
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Dave said and welcome our first-time guest. We count it as an honor and a privilege that you
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were here to worship with us this morning. We would love for you to scan the code, fill all those
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things out, but also my wife and I will be back at that table at the end of our worship service time
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together. We would love just to meet you, to thank you for being here, and to thank you for
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worshiping with us. We gathered again this morning at 9 a.m. during our discipleship hour to talk about
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last week's message. Had a wonderful discussion happening in different small groups around the
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room, and so just as a reminder, we are doing that every single Sunday, and we would love for you to
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join us and to be a part of that throughout the summer months. So please wake up a little early,
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come here at nine, and we'll have a good time of fellowship. We usually do a good bit of laughing
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talking together as well, sharing, and just a wonderful, wonderful time. And then lastly, we do
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have our young adult. So the flood is getting ready, right? So that's loud. So we're glad that we're in
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here, and we're glad that we're dry. But even more reason to remind you, our young adult ministry's been
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up in New York this past week, a wonderful time of ministry, wonderful time of fellowship, of trying,
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of blessing the church and the community that's up there. So they will be traveling back this afternoon,
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and so I would just encourage you to pray for them as they are traveling. With that said, I want to read
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our Bible verse that we're going to look at this morning as we are in our sermon series, Misunderstood,
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and is found in Matthew 7 verse 1. Judge not that you be not judged. Let's pray. God, we thank you
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for who you are, Lord, and for what you're doing in the life of our church. God, I thank you for our
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young adult ministry, and I thank you for their willingness to go and to serve. God, I thank you
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for their flexibility as their plans were changed, but they responded, Lord, in obedience to you.
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God, I thank you for the seed that was sown, and God, we know that you're going to work and move in
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the lives of those who went and those in the lives of those who received. God, as we open up your word
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this morning, may your word not say to us what we just want it to say, but may, Lord, we desire to know
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what you are saying to us. And God, if there's anyone here who does not know Jesus Christ as their Lord
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and Savior, may today be the day of their salvation. And it's in Jesus' name we pray. Amen. Amen.
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Growing up, I spent a lot of time at my grandparents' house, my dad's mom and dad,
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and I love my grandparents. My grandfather passed away in 2004, and my grandmother passed away in 2020.
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But growing up there, there's just a couple of things that you understood or that you knew about
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my granddad. Only grandson, he treated me. I love how he invested in me. He was good and hard at the same
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time, right? He taught me a lot of things. But I knew two things. Number one, don't touch his tools
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unless you ask first, right? He really took pride in his tools that he had. He liked to tinker on cars.
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Everything was right where he wanted it and to do that. So don't touch his tools unless you ask first.
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But then the second thing is, don't touch the TV unless you're told to. You know, we, at my
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grandparents' house, I was the remote control, right? Anybody else going to have that growing up?
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They had that old box on the top of their TV that had, like, you slid it, and it went from, I think,
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channel 2 to channel 27. Like, that's, that's, so if it was channel 28, then you just weren't watching
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that, right? Like, so you would kind of scan through. And my granddad had, had a cycle of TV shows that he
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liked to watch, one of which, and still to this day, and I've talked to my dad about it, I've talked to
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my aunts about it, I had talked to my grandmother before she passed about it, that we never could
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understand. But I believe my grandfather was the only human who consistently watched C-SPAN,
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right? So, so that was it. That was part of what he would do. But around dinner time, they had, they had
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another TV in, in their kitchen, small little kitchen. They had a little, like, a little buffet
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piece that would sit there, and there was a little black and white TV. And starting in 1981, before I could
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remember, around dinner time, he would sit down with my grandmother over every single day, made from scratch
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dinner. And they would watch the people's court with Judge Joe Wapner, right? Like, some of you
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missed that completely, and some of you, like, you hear the song playing in your mind, right? Like, you
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know it. And that show's still going on today. But that show started in 1981, is when the show started.
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The people's court. Maybe, like, the first dosage of what we got into in this reality TV world,
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of seeing real-life people bring their, kind of, maybe, real-life problems on a TV. I still don't
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really know how it all worked out, and then it played out. But now, like, if you turn on the TV
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during, during night, and that four o'clock to six o'clock hour, depending where you're at, right,
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there's been so many spinoffs of this, which causes us as a culture, right, to, kind of, take that step
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back and ask the question, why are we so fascinated with this? Why are we so fascinated with watching
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people work through their problems in front of a judge, where at the end of the day,
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one is happy, one is not, or they're both not happy? But we've got this fascination of what's there,
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of what it means to judge, and what it means to be judged. The verse that we're going to look at this
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morning, read it again, judge not that you be not judged. This is probably, this verse is probably one
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of the most misused verses that I hear, but what I think is intriguing about this verse and its
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misusage is that it's misused by people who are Christians, definitely, like you and I, we've misused
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this verse, but it's also consistently misused by people who aren't Christians and don't claim to be
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Christians. They'll say, well, you shouldn't judge. You know what the Bible says? The Bible says you
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shouldn't. But when this verse is misused, what I found in the life of a believer, specifically,
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right, of what we begin to see is that this verse can become a shield for sin. That this verse can
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become a shield for sin. I think part of who we're wired to be is most people prefer to receive praise
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over criticism. Like, I know that there are people in this world who enjoy being evaluated, receiving
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criticism, especially the criticism that is going to be used as a way to encourage, constructive
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criticism is the word I'm looking for, right, that's going to build them up. But at our core, like if I
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sat down with you and said, would you rather hear five things that are wrong with you or five things
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that are right, like we would probably as a society embrace the things that are right with us. I was
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talking about this in a different context with our small group, I think this past week, maybe two weeks
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ago. But I remember, so growing up, Grayson got into karate. And he loved to go to karate. We went to karate
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like three, four days a week. I think for about seven years, this boy was in this committed to karate. We went to
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karate tournaments. He got all, he was the only kid that I know that weighed like 23 pounds but had a
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black belt, right? And Grayson got asked if he wanted to be in like the leadership track at the
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karate studio. And we're like, sure, that's cool. Like he wanted to do that, so he was a part of it. So
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he came up there, and one of the first times the karate instructor was going to teach the group of
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kids who were there, part of the leadership of what it looked like to lead a class. And so he had one of
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the, one of them step foot and do one of their, one of their forms that they were going to do.
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And the karate instructor said, now if you were leading the class, the little boy's name was Matthew,
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if you were going to lead the class, like what would you say to Matthew? And all the students,
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they raised their hand, and one after another, they pointed out in the form what Matthew did wrong.
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I felt kind of bad for Matthew. Felt bad that Matthew was being used for this teaching illustration.
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And then the instructor said, well, Matthew, how does that make you feel? And I said, well, not too good.
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I know the things that I need to work on, but I think I did some things right as well. But in Matthew's
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mind, all he heard was the criticism. I think this teaches what we're looking for. The karate instructor
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looked at him and said, well, boys, here's what I want us to do. As we're working through this in our
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class together, as your instructor, and you'll notice what I do as I'm teaching, as I'm giving
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constructive criticism, is I will always praise you for something you did well. I'll follow that with
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a criticism of something that you need to improve on, and then I'll end it with praising you again.
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And I think that speaks a lot to the condition of who we are, that we would much rather receive
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praise than criticism. And if you are going to give me some criticism, then maybe sandwich it with some
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praise so that I feel better about myself. So this, when we hear bad things about ourselves that we
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perceive to be bad, we begin to get on the defensive. And oftentimes, this is where this
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verse will be misused. Someone sits down with us, someone that we know, someone that we trust,
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and they point out this characteristic, this sin pattern, this sinful behavior that's in our life,
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and we don't want to discuss it. We want to deflect it. Maybe it's because we disagree with them.
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Maybe it's because we don't see it the way that they see it.
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But I think at our core, when it's the sin that we have in our life, and we want to use the Bible to
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deflect and bounce this off of us, the truth of the matter is, for me and for you, probably where the
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rub comes is we like it. We like that sin. We're comfortable with that sin.
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We embrace that sin, and we don't want to give it up.
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We're trying to use some real-life illustrations of where we see this. So let's just say that
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there's someone who claims to be a follower of Jesus, right? They're part of a church. They're
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part of their small group. They're invested. They're going on mission trips. They're doing all these
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things, but they have a blatant sin in their life. Let's say it's gossip, right? I mean, before small
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group starts, they're circling up around their circle, telling all the things that they've got.
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At work, they're the person that people come to, and they're the people that go, and it's gossip
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after gossip after gossip after gossip over and over and over again. They're saying things like,
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I'm not saying it's true, but here's what I've heard. And they're dealing with the issue with
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everyone except the person that the issue is with. And someone, a brother and sister in Christ, someone
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that loves them, someone that comes to them, comes up and says, listen, I've just noticed something
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about you, man, and I care for you, and I love you, but I just want to point out that maybe you're not
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aware of this, maybe you haven't seen this in yourself, but I've noticed that you can have a
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tendency to gossip. You know, when we were at small group the other day, and you came, and there was
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somebody who wasn't there, and you began to talk about the things of them negatively and critically.
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And, man, I don't even know if you realize you're doing it, but I see it. And here's why I can see it.
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I can see it because I used to struggle with that. And sometimes I maybe even still can have a
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propensity to drift back into that area in my life. And I've seen that in you. And you know that gossip
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is a sin. And so if I can help you, if I can pray for you, if I can walk alongside you in any way,
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shape, or form, man, let me know because we're in this together. We're in this together.
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Usually when something like that happens, there's one of two reactions. The first reaction, I think,
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is a positive reaction. This may be kind of a two-part. Maybe in that moment, that person does.
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They see that in themselves. They acknowledge that in themselves. They realize that this is who
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they can be, and this is what they can do. And right there, there's this positive confession
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and repentance, and accountability is established. But maybe, maybe they don't.
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And also in a positive, while confession, those things might not happen there, there's the honest
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step back and just saying like, hey, this is a lot. I didn't know that I was going to come here and
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have to wrestle with this, and I wasn't aware of this. So would you just kind of let me have some
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time so I can process this and really pray through this and see because I trust you. And if you've seen
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this in me, man, this is not who I want to be at all in Christ, but man, I want to just kind of make
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sure and really spend some time and pray about this, and can we get together and talk about this
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again? All right, one instant, admittance, confession, let's deal with this. Let's deal with
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this together. Praise the Lord that that happens. But another, and I think it's equally valid of,
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hey, I trust your word. I trust what you've seen. Man, this has kind of caught me off guard because it
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hasn't been something that I'm overly aware of. So let me, let me pray about it, and let's talk some
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more. Those would be some positive responses. But oftentimes, we, me included, we don't respond
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that way, do we? We may not come out and quote this verse in the misuse of it, but what we think,
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the body language that we show, or the words that we use, communicate the abuse of this word.
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We may think, we may even say, oh, thanks, man. Who made you the Holy Spirit?
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I appreciate that. Aren't we all sinners?
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Now, aren't you supposed to encourage, and isn't this God's job to judge and not yours?
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Or maybe, maybe. Since you've said that you struggle with gossip, and that you've struggled
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with gossip, what gives you the right to come and address me? What gives you the right to judge me?
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Let's read Matthew, starting in verse 7, 1. Let's read and get the context of this.
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Judge not that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce, you will be judged.
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And with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
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Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
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Or how can you say to your brother, let me take the speck out of your eye, when there is the log in your own eye?
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You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
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This teaching of Jesus in Matthew 7 is found in the Sermon on the Mount.
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And the whole context of this message, this is the longest recorded sermon that we see of Jesus.
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From Matthew 5 to Matthew 7 is one continual message of Jesus.
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And he's explaining what it looks like to live as a devoted follower of Christ.
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He'll cover topics like prayer, fasting, giving, anxiety, lust, anger, and much more.
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And while we do nothing to deserve being adopted into the family of God,
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once we become children of God, we are part of His kingdom,
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and we are called to live differently.
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I apologize for this not being on the screen, but this morning as I was reading through my notes,
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I wanted to add this verse to kind of give some context.
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So if you flip back, if you've got your Bibles,
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Jesus in Matthew 5 begins with the Beatitudes,
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the blessed, blessed, blessed, blessed.
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Imagining if they were here, like, hey, what's this guy talking about today?
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He's talking about being blessed.
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Oh, cool, let's show up for that.
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And then he flips it.
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But then look, starting in verse 13,
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Jesus says you are the salt of the earth.
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But if salt has lost its taste,
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how shall its saltiness be restored as no longer good for anything
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except to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet?
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So you've got purpose.
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You've got reason that there's a value of you in this world.
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Verse 14.
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Verse 14.
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You are the light of the world.
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A city set on a hill cannot be hidden,
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nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket,
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but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house.
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In the same way, let your light shine before others so that they may see your good works
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and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
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And then Jesus begins to walk through who He is and what God is calling them to be in Christ.
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So you and I, we come to faith in Christ out of no merit of our own.
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The work of the cross, the power of the resurrection.
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But then from that, God changes us.
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And we desire to be changed.
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And both of these things happen simultaneously.
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And so Jesus says, like, this is what this light looks like.
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Go and do and be the good who God's called you to be.
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And then this miracle happens when this takes place.
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That people will give glory to God in heaven.
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And I've just never seen an instance where my sin brings glory to God.
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I've never seen a moment where I pursue the passions of the flesh that He saved me from.
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And God is glorified.
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And so we've got to work through with this in our life.
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Do we live perfectly?
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No, we don't.
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So God, in what He is doing in our life,
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wants to develop in us to have a heart for repentance.
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A heart for repentance.
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And here, a heart for repentance,
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it kind of embraces two perspectives when it comes to sin.
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A heart for repentance embraces both sorrow over our sin
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and desire to grow past our sin.
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Right?
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Some of us, like, we're really good.
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And we're like, man, I'm broken for this.
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Like, this is not of God, but this is who I am.
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And we have our moment, and we're there.
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But then, it's just kind of it.
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Spiritually speaking, we're buying the gym membership, but never showing up.
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And then there's some of us that we want the change without the brokenness.
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Eh, just whatever.
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But I know that I have to, so I might as well.
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But a heart for repentance causes us to embrace the sorrow
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and long for the desire to grow past the sin.
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So when we're made aware of sin in our life,
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hopefully through the leading of the Holy Spirit,
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but even potentially from the Holy Spirit speaking to the lives of others around us,
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where we come to is an embracement of our sorrow over our sin
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and a desire to grow past it.
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I heard a pastor say years ago, and I love this,
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that God loves you too much to save you from where you're at
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and then leave you there.
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That He saves you and He wants to move you and change you and work in you.
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But also, the heart of repentance embraces attacking your sin,
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but also the sin of others.
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To where we see what is involved in the life of someone else,
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a brother and sister in Christ.
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And our longing and desire is God's best for them,
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and that's not it.
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And so, even if it means you're going to be mad at me,
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even if it means if you're not going to like me,
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even if it means that you're going to criticize me,
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I love you too much to not help you deal with your sin,
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but here's where it also comes in,
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I love you too much to not first deal with my sin.
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And that's what Jesus is getting to in Matthew 7.1.
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Here's what Matthew 7.1 teaches us.
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When it comes to sin,
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when it comes to sin,
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examine yourself first.
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Take the log out.
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I mean, picture what Jesus is talking about here.
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Get this, the silliness, the absurdness that is this illustration.
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It would be like going up and someone has that small speck of dust.
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Now, that can knock you to your knees.
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They've got that small speck.
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And you're there with this four by four just kind of hanging out.
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And you're like, let me help you first.
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Examine yourself first.
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Take the log out.
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Press into the Holy Spirit.
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See some time of growth.
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Bring others into the conversation.
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Begin to walk through the process of what it looks like to desire true change in your life.
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Trust the process of God and leave your agenda to the side.
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And what begins to happen through this is that as God gives you victory,
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as God gives you freedom,
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as God gives you all that God is going to work and do,
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what God will do is develop a heart to help others.
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And then, then once you've done that,
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once you've done that,
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while not perfect,
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go and help others
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with the dust
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because you understand the log.
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Go help them with the dust
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because you understand the log.
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Here's the process of what we begin to see.
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I examine my life.
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I'm broken.
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I'm repentant.
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I see where God is working and moving and bringing healing.
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And let me talk about this just quickly, okay?
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Healing doesn't necessarily mean perfection,
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but it does mean progress.
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Come on, man.
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There's beauty in the struggle together.
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There's beauty in this
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as we walk through this.
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I'm examining my life.
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I'm broken.
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I'm repentant.
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I'm confessing it
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to other brothers and sisters in Christ.
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I'm seeing growth.
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I'm seeing improvement.
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And by the way,
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I understand that all of the growth
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and all of the improvement
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is evidence of God in my life
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and not evidence of just me being better.
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So now what I want to do,
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what I want to get to
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is that I can go and help others.
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And if you're person number two
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and you're a Christian
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is that when this happens,
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receive,
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don't defend.
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Receive,
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don't defend.
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Was this a sin in your life?
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Are you listening to you
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or are you listening to the Holy Spirit?
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Was this a sinful moment?
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Was this a sinful pattern?
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Repent.
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And then the fullness of this.
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Go and help others.
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You see, Matthew 7,
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what we see in the biblical perspective of this,
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it's that you will deal with the log
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so that you can help others with the speck.
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But let's get with our mindset of this.
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So many times,
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not only do we begin to think,
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who were they to say this to me,
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but probably another battle
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that you and I have been in
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or been to before
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where you ask yourself questions like,
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but I mean,
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is this my place?
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I mean,
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really,
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who am I?
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And should I address the sin
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in other people's lives?
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Yes,
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but why?
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Why?
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Because we should care
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to address the sin
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in one another's lives.
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We should love one another
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to the depth
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that our desire
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is for their growth and godliness.
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Sometimes what begins to happen
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in the person
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who's addressing
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is you begin to ask yourself,
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ask yourself this question.
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What is my motivation?
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What is my motivation?
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Is my motivation for the gotcha?
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Is my motivation
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for the see how much I'm better than you?
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For the motivation,
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like,
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have you ever,
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maybe you and I haven't thought this,
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but man,
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or said this,
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but man,
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we've thought it.
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I can't wait
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to call them out.
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And like a prize fighter
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waiting to come out
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for the world bout,
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we're hopping in the back.
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We're ready to go.
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I'm gonna let them have it.
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Is it for
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the biblical call
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to community
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where we are
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to encourage
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one another
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to live lives
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that are pleasing
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to God
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or out of the own
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sinful desires
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of our hearts?
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Both James and Paul
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deal with this.
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James 5,
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19 through 20.
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My brothers,
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if anyone among you
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wanders
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from the truth
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and someone
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brings him back,
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let him know
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that whoever
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brings back
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a sinner
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from his wandering
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will save his soul
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from death
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and will cover
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a multitude of sins.
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Galatians 6,
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1 through 2.
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Brothers,
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if anyone is caught
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in any transgression,
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you who are spiritual
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should restore him
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in a spirit
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of gentleness.
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keep watch
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on yourself
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lest you too
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be tempted.
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Bear one another's
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burdens
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and so fulfill
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the law of Christ.
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So here's what we learn
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when we look
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at these two passages
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of scripture,
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when we look
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at these in light
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of the Sermon
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on the Mount
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in Matthew 7
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is that you and I,
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like hopefully
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you know this
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about you
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and I know this
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about me
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and we know this
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about one another
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that we have
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a propensity
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to wander.
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We have a propensity,
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like we do,
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man,
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you and I,
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we know the path.
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It's not that
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it's a garden situation
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and we're being tricked.
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It's just like,
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nah,
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my sin wants this one.
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And we wander.
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And we wander.
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And there will be times
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when you and I
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as believers
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of Jesus Christ
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get off track
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and we need
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one another
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to get each other back.
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Well,
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shouldn't it be
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the Holy Spirit?
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Well,
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if it should just be
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the Holy Spirit,
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then why did they
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put this in there?
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In 2000,
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I think it was 2020,
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we got Aaron
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a new car.
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And I,
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I think I'm
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a pretty good driver.
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I've talked about
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my driving recently
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and the ticket
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that I got.
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But,
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you know,
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I moved past that.
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Moved past
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some of the criticisms
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that some of you
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decided to offer me
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on that.
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I'm not going to deflect that.
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I'm just saying
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how many points
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you've got.
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You know,
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I'm just,
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that's where we're at,
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right?
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So,
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we're driving back.
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We go into
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North Augusta
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to buy this car.
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It's Aaron's car
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and so she test drove it
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and she's like,
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oh,
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well,
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why don't you
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drive it
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back?
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I'm like,
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okay.
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So,
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I'm driving.
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We're,
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we're coming back up through
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and we get on the interstate.
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Now,
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I'm a good driver.
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And we're riding in the lane.
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And all of a sudden,
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I feel the steering wheel
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start shaking.
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And then the steering wheel
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is taking me
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into another direction.
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Now,
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at this point,
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I'm like,
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this Acura
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is possessed
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by a demon.
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And then lights
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start dinging.
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Ding,
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ding,
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ding,
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ding.
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What in the world?
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We keep driving.
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About five minutes later,
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starts doing it again.
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Ding,
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ding,
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ding,
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ding.
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Aaron says,
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I think what's happening
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is because from time to time,
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you can kind of
-
get distracted
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and drift out of your lane
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into another lane.
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And so,
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it pulling you back
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is to get you back
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in your lane.
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And the ding,
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ding,
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ding is you're about to run
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into the car that's beside us.
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She's right.
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And so is the car.
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Right?
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Like,
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we have a propensity
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to wander.
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to wander.
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We get lazy.
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We walk away
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from forgetting
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God's expectation
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for us.
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We desire
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other things.
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And what God
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does
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is yes,
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he gives us
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the Holy Spirit
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to help us
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get us back
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on track.
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But guess what?
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He also gives us
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one another,
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the community
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of believers
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where we can sit
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with one another
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and say,
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in love
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and kindness.
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Ding, ding, ding.
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Let's get this thing
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back on track.
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Because we're prone
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to wander.
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But,
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but with the desire
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to restore.
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A desire
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to restore.
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This is the point
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we miss so often.
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As believers,
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when you
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and I
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address the sin
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in someone's life,
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I don't care
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if it's your kid,
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your spouse,
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your pastor,
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one another.
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When we address
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the sin
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in someone's life,
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the goal
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cannot be
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with an outcome
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that leads
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to a brokenness
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in the relationship.
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But with a desire
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to restore
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the brokenness
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that they've allowed
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in their relationship
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with the Lord.
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It's the desire
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to restore.
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It's the heart
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that says,
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I don't want
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a gotcha moment.
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I don't want to,
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you deserve this moment.
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I don't want a,
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I've been waiting
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to do this moment.
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But it's,
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hey man,
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there's a tendency
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for you to gossip.
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And I've been there
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and I've done that.
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And I've seen
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the damage
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that I've done
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in the lives
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of the people
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that I gossip about.
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and God
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has given me
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some wonderful people
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that have helped me
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walk through this.
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And man,
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some of the same
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destructive behaviors
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that I see in myself,
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I see in you.
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and I would love
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to.
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I would love
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to join
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hands with you
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and walk
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through this
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with you.
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Because I see
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the giftedness
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in you.
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I see how God's
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using you.
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I see
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what God
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could do.
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But you're
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off the path
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and I want
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to get you
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back on.
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Would you
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come
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do this
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with me?
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Take the log out.
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Speak
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out of what
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you've seen
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God do
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so that we
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can help
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one another
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remove
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the speck
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that's there.
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Going to our
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time to
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response
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a couple
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questions
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that I want
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to ask
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you.
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Number one
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what is the
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log in your
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eye?
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What is the
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log in your
-
eye?
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And do you
-
need help
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removing it?
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Number two
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is there
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someone
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that God's
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laying on
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your heart?
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You see
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the destruction
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you see
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the pain
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you see
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the suffering
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and you
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know that
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it doesn't
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have to
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be this
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way.
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So what
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do you
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do?
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What do
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you do?
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I would
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encourage you
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number one
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pray and
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fast.
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Pray and
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fast.
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Pray and
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fast over
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this specific
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situation
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and hear
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from the
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Lord.
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In that
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number two
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examine
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yourself.
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Just see.
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Just see.
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is this
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a log
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for me?
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And
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number
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three
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go to
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them in
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love
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and don't
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go to
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them
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until it
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can be
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love.
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Would you
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pray with me?
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Jesus
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when I
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think about
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salvation
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the beauty
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of what
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this looks
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like
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that not
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only do you
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desire to
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save us
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but to
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transform us
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to change
-
us.
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And God
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we thank
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you
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that in a
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miracle
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that cannot
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be replicated
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in a
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miracle that
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we cannot
-
understand
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Lord
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you send
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us your
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Holy Spirit
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who's not
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just around
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us but
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is in
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us
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to lead
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us
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to guide
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us
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to instruct
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us
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to teach
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us
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to convict
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us.
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God we
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praise you
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for that.
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But Lord
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you give us
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one another.
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you bring
-
us into
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a family
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as we
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as a
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family
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are united
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under our
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Father.
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And God
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sometimes
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we just
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we miss
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the beauty
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that sometimes
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brothers and
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sisters
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don't just
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high five
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and hug
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but sometimes
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brothers and
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sisters sit
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down across
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from one
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another
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and they
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work through
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the difficulty
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of
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relationship
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with one
-
another.
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They get it
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out.
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They get it
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on the
-
table.
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They trust
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in you and
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they see you
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work and
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they see you
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move.
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they work
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toward
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restoration.
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They work
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toward unity.
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They work
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toward a love
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that is not
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self-seeking.
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They work
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toward a love
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that brings
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glory and
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honor to
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you.
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God I
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pray
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that we
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would be
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people of a
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heart for
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repentance.
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God that it
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would begin
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with brokenness
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and sorrow
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over our
-
own sin
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and a
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godly
-
desire to
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be changed
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to see your
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spirit work
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and that
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God that we
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would come
-
from this
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desiring to
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attack our
-
own sin
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and desiring
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to come
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alongside
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fellow brothers
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and sisters
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as they
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attack
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theirs
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as well.
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And God
-
this is a
-
messy process
-
but it's
-
so good
-
and God
-
it's needed.
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God would
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you work
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and move
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in your
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people
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as you
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see fit
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to bring
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glory and
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honor to
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your name.
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And it's
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in Jesus name
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we pray.
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Amen.
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That's it for
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this week's
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message.
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Be sure to
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check back
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next week
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for a new
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episode and
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in the meantime
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