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Misunderstood • Week 3

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  1. Welcome to the Willow Ridge Sermons Podcast, where you can listen to audio from our most

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  4. Good morning. If you have your Bibles, and I hope you do, I want to invite you to join us

  5. in Matthew chapter 7. If you do not own a Bible, we want to encourage you right now or at the end

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  6. of the service, we have some free Bibles that we would love to give you, and they will be right

  7. back here at this table right back here to my left. So you can stop by at the end of the service,

  8. love to gift you one of those so that you can have a copy of God's Word. I do want to echo what Pastor

  9. Dave said and welcome our first-time guest. We count it as an honor and a privilege that you

  10. were here to worship with us this morning. We would love for you to scan the code, fill all those

  11. things out, but also my wife and I will be back at that table at the end of our worship service time

  12. together. We would love just to meet you, to thank you for being here, and to thank you for

  13. worshiping with us. We gathered again this morning at 9 a.m. during our discipleship hour to talk about

  14. last week's message. Had a wonderful discussion happening in different small groups around the

  15. room, and so just as a reminder, we are doing that every single Sunday, and we would love for you to

  16. join us and to be a part of that throughout the summer months. So please wake up a little early,

  17. come here at nine, and we'll have a good time of fellowship. We usually do a good bit of laughing

  18. talking together as well, sharing, and just a wonderful, wonderful time. And then lastly, we do

  19. have our young adult. So the flood is getting ready, right? So that's loud. So we're glad that we're in

  20. here, and we're glad that we're dry. But even more reason to remind you, our young adult ministry's been

  21. up in New York this past week, a wonderful time of ministry, wonderful time of fellowship, of trying,

  22. of blessing the church and the community that's up there. So they will be traveling back this afternoon,

  23. and so I would just encourage you to pray for them as they are traveling. With that said, I want to read

  24. our Bible verse that we're going to look at this morning as we are in our sermon series, Misunderstood,

  25. and is found in Matthew 7 verse 1. Judge not that you be not judged. Let's pray. God, we thank you

    Matthew 7:1

  26. for who you are, Lord, and for what you're doing in the life of our church. God, I thank you for our

  27. young adult ministry, and I thank you for their willingness to go and to serve. God, I thank you

  28. for their flexibility as their plans were changed, but they responded, Lord, in obedience to you.

  29. God, I thank you for the seed that was sown, and God, we know that you're going to work and move in

  30. the lives of those who went and those in the lives of those who received. God, as we open up your word

  31. this morning, may your word not say to us what we just want it to say, but may, Lord, we desire to know

  32. what you are saying to us. And God, if there's anyone here who does not know Jesus Christ as their Lord

  33. and Savior, may today be the day of their salvation. And it's in Jesus' name we pray. Amen. Amen.

  34. Growing up, I spent a lot of time at my grandparents' house, my dad's mom and dad,

  35. and I love my grandparents. My grandfather passed away in 2004, and my grandmother passed away in 2020.

  36. But growing up there, there's just a couple of things that you understood or that you knew about

  37. my granddad. Only grandson, he treated me. I love how he invested in me. He was good and hard at the same

  38. time, right? He taught me a lot of things. But I knew two things. Number one, don't touch his tools

  39. unless you ask first, right? He really took pride in his tools that he had. He liked to tinker on cars.

  40. Everything was right where he wanted it and to do that. So don't touch his tools unless you ask first.

  41. But then the second thing is, don't touch the TV unless you're told to. You know, we, at my

  42. grandparents' house, I was the remote control, right? Anybody else going to have that growing up?

  43. They had that old box on the top of their TV that had, like, you slid it, and it went from, I think,

  44. channel 2 to channel 27. Like, that's, that's, so if it was channel 28, then you just weren't watching

  45. that, right? Like, so you would kind of scan through. And my granddad had, had a cycle of TV shows that he

  46. liked to watch, one of which, and still to this day, and I've talked to my dad about it, I've talked to

  47. my aunts about it, I had talked to my grandmother before she passed about it, that we never could

  48. understand. But I believe my grandfather was the only human who consistently watched C-SPAN,

  49. right? So, so that was it. That was part of what he would do. But around dinner time, they had, they had

  50. another TV in, in their kitchen, small little kitchen. They had a little, like, a little buffet

  51. piece that would sit there, and there was a little black and white TV. And starting in 1981, before I could

  52. remember, around dinner time, he would sit down with my grandmother over every single day, made from scratch

  53. dinner. And they would watch the people's court with Judge Joe Wapner, right? Like, some of you

  54. missed that completely, and some of you, like, you hear the song playing in your mind, right? Like, you

  55. know it. And that show's still going on today. But that show started in 1981, is when the show started.

  56. The people's court. Maybe, like, the first dosage of what we got into in this reality TV world,

  57. of seeing real-life people bring their, kind of, maybe, real-life problems on a TV. I still don't

  58. really know how it all worked out, and then it played out. But now, like, if you turn on the TV

  59. during, during night, and that four o'clock to six o'clock hour, depending where you're at, right,

  60. there's been so many spinoffs of this, which causes us as a culture, right, to, kind of, take that step

  61. back and ask the question, why are we so fascinated with this? Why are we so fascinated with watching

  62. people work through their problems in front of a judge, where at the end of the day,

  63. one is happy, one is not, or they're both not happy? But we've got this fascination of what's there,

  64. of what it means to judge, and what it means to be judged. The verse that we're going to look at this

  65. morning, read it again, judge not that you be not judged. This is probably, this verse is probably one

  66. of the most misused verses that I hear, but what I think is intriguing about this verse and its

  67. misusage is that it's misused by people who are Christians, definitely, like you and I, we've misused

  68. this verse, but it's also consistently misused by people who aren't Christians and don't claim to be

  69. Christians. They'll say, well, you shouldn't judge. You know what the Bible says? The Bible says you

  70. shouldn't. But when this verse is misused, what I found in the life of a believer, specifically,

  71. right, of what we begin to see is that this verse can become a shield for sin. That this verse can

  72. become a shield for sin. I think part of who we're wired to be is most people prefer to receive praise

  73. over criticism. Like, I know that there are people in this world who enjoy being evaluated, receiving

  74. criticism, especially the criticism that is going to be used as a way to encourage, constructive

  75. criticism is the word I'm looking for, right, that's going to build them up. But at our core, like if I

  76. sat down with you and said, would you rather hear five things that are wrong with you or five things

  77. that are right, like we would probably as a society embrace the things that are right with us. I was

  78. talking about this in a different context with our small group, I think this past week, maybe two weeks

  79. ago. But I remember, so growing up, Grayson got into karate. And he loved to go to karate. We went to karate

  80. like three, four days a week. I think for about seven years, this boy was in this committed to karate. We went to

  81. karate tournaments. He got all, he was the only kid that I know that weighed like 23 pounds but had a

  82. black belt, right? And Grayson got asked if he wanted to be in like the leadership track at the

  83. karate studio. And we're like, sure, that's cool. Like he wanted to do that, so he was a part of it. So

  84. he came up there, and one of the first times the karate instructor was going to teach the group of

  85. kids who were there, part of the leadership of what it looked like to lead a class. And so he had one of

  86. the, one of them step foot and do one of their, one of their forms that they were going to do.

  87. And the karate instructor said, now if you were leading the class, the little boy's name was Matthew,

  88. if you were going to lead the class, like what would you say to Matthew? And all the students,

  89. they raised their hand, and one after another, they pointed out in the form what Matthew did wrong.

  90. I felt kind of bad for Matthew. Felt bad that Matthew was being used for this teaching illustration.

  91. And then the instructor said, well, Matthew, how does that make you feel? And I said, well, not too good.

  92. I know the things that I need to work on, but I think I did some things right as well. But in Matthew's

  93. mind, all he heard was the criticism. I think this teaches what we're looking for. The karate instructor

  94. looked at him and said, well, boys, here's what I want us to do. As we're working through this in our

  95. class together, as your instructor, and you'll notice what I do as I'm teaching, as I'm giving

  96. constructive criticism, is I will always praise you for something you did well. I'll follow that with

  97. a criticism of something that you need to improve on, and then I'll end it with praising you again.

  98. And I think that speaks a lot to the condition of who we are, that we would much rather receive

  99. praise than criticism. And if you are going to give me some criticism, then maybe sandwich it with some

  100. praise so that I feel better about myself. So this, when we hear bad things about ourselves that we

  101. perceive to be bad, we begin to get on the defensive. And oftentimes, this is where this

  102. verse will be misused. Someone sits down with us, someone that we know, someone that we trust,

  103. and they point out this characteristic, this sin pattern, this sinful behavior that's in our life,

  104. and we don't want to discuss it. We want to deflect it. Maybe it's because we disagree with them.

  105. Maybe it's because we don't see it the way that they see it.

  106. But I think at our core, when it's the sin that we have in our life, and we want to use the Bible to

  107. deflect and bounce this off of us, the truth of the matter is, for me and for you, probably where the

  108. rub comes is we like it. We like that sin. We're comfortable with that sin.

  109. We embrace that sin, and we don't want to give it up.

  110. We're trying to use some real-life illustrations of where we see this. So let's just say that

  111. there's someone who claims to be a follower of Jesus, right? They're part of a church. They're

  112. part of their small group. They're invested. They're going on mission trips. They're doing all these

  113. things, but they have a blatant sin in their life. Let's say it's gossip, right? I mean, before small

  114. group starts, they're circling up around their circle, telling all the things that they've got.

  115. At work, they're the person that people come to, and they're the people that go, and it's gossip

  116. after gossip after gossip after gossip over and over and over again. They're saying things like,

  117. I'm not saying it's true, but here's what I've heard. And they're dealing with the issue with

  118. everyone except the person that the issue is with. And someone, a brother and sister in Christ, someone

  119. that loves them, someone that comes to them, comes up and says, listen, I've just noticed something

  120. about you, man, and I care for you, and I love you, but I just want to point out that maybe you're not

  121. aware of this, maybe you haven't seen this in yourself, but I've noticed that you can have a

  122. tendency to gossip. You know, when we were at small group the other day, and you came, and there was

  123. somebody who wasn't there, and you began to talk about the things of them negatively and critically.

  124. And, man, I don't even know if you realize you're doing it, but I see it. And here's why I can see it.

  125. I can see it because I used to struggle with that. And sometimes I maybe even still can have a

  126. propensity to drift back into that area in my life. And I've seen that in you. And you know that gossip

  127. is a sin. And so if I can help you, if I can pray for you, if I can walk alongside you in any way,

  128. shape, or form, man, let me know because we're in this together. We're in this together.

  129. Usually when something like that happens, there's one of two reactions. The first reaction, I think,

  130. is a positive reaction. This may be kind of a two-part. Maybe in that moment, that person does.

  131. They see that in themselves. They acknowledge that in themselves. They realize that this is who

  132. they can be, and this is what they can do. And right there, there's this positive confession

  133. and repentance, and accountability is established. But maybe, maybe they don't.

  134. And also in a positive, while confession, those things might not happen there, there's the honest

  135. step back and just saying like, hey, this is a lot. I didn't know that I was going to come here and

  136. have to wrestle with this, and I wasn't aware of this. So would you just kind of let me have some

  137. time so I can process this and really pray through this and see because I trust you. And if you've seen

  138. this in me, man, this is not who I want to be at all in Christ, but man, I want to just kind of make

  139. sure and really spend some time and pray about this, and can we get together and talk about this

  140. again? All right, one instant, admittance, confession, let's deal with this. Let's deal with

  141. this together. Praise the Lord that that happens. But another, and I think it's equally valid of,

  142. hey, I trust your word. I trust what you've seen. Man, this has kind of caught me off guard because it

  143. hasn't been something that I'm overly aware of. So let me, let me pray about it, and let's talk some

  144. more. Those would be some positive responses. But oftentimes, we, me included, we don't respond

  145. that way, do we? We may not come out and quote this verse in the misuse of it, but what we think,

  146. the body language that we show, or the words that we use, communicate the abuse of this word.

  147. We may think, we may even say, oh, thanks, man. Who made you the Holy Spirit?

  148. I appreciate that. Aren't we all sinners?

  149. Now, aren't you supposed to encourage, and isn't this God's job to judge and not yours?

  150. Or maybe, maybe. Since you've said that you struggle with gossip, and that you've struggled

  151. with gossip, what gives you the right to come and address me? What gives you the right to judge me?

  152. Let's read Matthew, starting in verse 7, 1. Let's read and get the context of this.

  153. Judge not that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce, you will be judged.

  154. And with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

  155. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?

  156. Or how can you say to your brother, let me take the speck out of your eye, when there is the log in your own eye?

  157. You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

  158. This teaching of Jesus in Matthew 7 is found in the Sermon on the Mount.

  159. And the whole context of this message, this is the longest recorded sermon that we see of Jesus.

  160. From Matthew 5 to Matthew 7 is one continual message of Jesus.

  161. And he's explaining what it looks like to live as a devoted follower of Christ.

  162. He'll cover topics like prayer, fasting, giving, anxiety, lust, anger, and much more.

  163. And while we do nothing to deserve being adopted into the family of God,

  164. once we become children of God, we are part of His kingdom,

  165. and we are called to live differently.

  166. I apologize for this not being on the screen, but this morning as I was reading through my notes,

  167. I wanted to add this verse to kind of give some context.

  168. So if you flip back, if you've got your Bibles,

  169. Jesus in Matthew 5 begins with the Beatitudes,

  170. the blessed, blessed, blessed, blessed.

  171. Imagining if they were here, like, hey, what's this guy talking about today?

  172. He's talking about being blessed.

  173. Oh, cool, let's show up for that.

  174. And then he flips it.

  175. But then look, starting in verse 13,

  176. Jesus says you are the salt of the earth.

  177. But if salt has lost its taste,

  178. how shall its saltiness be restored as no longer good for anything

  179. except to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet?

  180. So you've got purpose.

  181. You've got reason that there's a value of you in this world.

  182. Verse 14.

  183. Verse 14.

  184. You are the light of the world.

  185. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden,

  186. nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket,

  187. but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house.

  188. In the same way, let your light shine before others so that they may see your good works

  189. and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

  190. And then Jesus begins to walk through who He is and what God is calling them to be in Christ.

  191. So you and I, we come to faith in Christ out of no merit of our own.

  192. The work of the cross, the power of the resurrection.

  193. But then from that, God changes us.

  194. And we desire to be changed.

  195. And both of these things happen simultaneously.

  196. And so Jesus says, like, this is what this light looks like.

  197. Go and do and be the good who God's called you to be.

  198. And then this miracle happens when this takes place.

  199. That people will give glory to God in heaven.

  200. And I've just never seen an instance where my sin brings glory to God.

  201. I've never seen a moment where I pursue the passions of the flesh that He saved me from.

  202. And God is glorified.

  203. And so we've got to work through with this in our life.

  204. Do we live perfectly?

  205. No, we don't.

  206. So God, in what He is doing in our life,

  207. wants to develop in us to have a heart for repentance.

  208. A heart for repentance.

  209. And here, a heart for repentance,

  210. it kind of embraces two perspectives when it comes to sin.

  211. A heart for repentance embraces both sorrow over our sin

  212. and desire to grow past our sin.

  213. Right?

  214. Some of us, like, we're really good.

  215. And we're like, man, I'm broken for this.

  216. Like, this is not of God, but this is who I am.

  217. And we have our moment, and we're there.

  218. But then, it's just kind of it.

  219. Spiritually speaking, we're buying the gym membership, but never showing up.

  220. And then there's some of us that we want the change without the brokenness.

  221. Eh, just whatever.

  222. But I know that I have to, so I might as well.

  223. But a heart for repentance causes us to embrace the sorrow

  224. and long for the desire to grow past the sin.

  225. So when we're made aware of sin in our life,

  226. hopefully through the leading of the Holy Spirit,

  227. but even potentially from the Holy Spirit speaking to the lives of others around us,

  228. where we come to is an embracement of our sorrow over our sin

  229. and a desire to grow past it.

  230. I heard a pastor say years ago, and I love this,

  231. that God loves you too much to save you from where you're at

  232. and then leave you there.

  233. That He saves you and He wants to move you and change you and work in you.

  234. But also, the heart of repentance embraces attacking your sin,

  235. but also the sin of others.

  236. To where we see what is involved in the life of someone else,

  237. a brother and sister in Christ.

  238. And our longing and desire is God's best for them,

  239. and that's not it.

  240. And so, even if it means you're going to be mad at me,

  241. even if it means if you're not going to like me,

  242. even if it means that you're going to criticize me,

  243. I love you too much to not help you deal with your sin,

  244. but here's where it also comes in,

  245. I love you too much to not first deal with my sin.

  246. And that's what Jesus is getting to in Matthew 7.1.

  247. Here's what Matthew 7.1 teaches us.

  248. When it comes to sin,

  249. when it comes to sin,

  250. examine yourself first.

  251. Take the log out.

  252. I mean, picture what Jesus is talking about here.

  253. Get this, the silliness, the absurdness that is this illustration.

  254. It would be like going up and someone has that small speck of dust.

  255. Now, that can knock you to your knees.

  256. They've got that small speck.

  257. And you're there with this four by four just kind of hanging out.

  258. And you're like, let me help you first.

  259. Examine yourself first.

  260. Take the log out.

  261. Press into the Holy Spirit.

  262. See some time of growth.

  263. Bring others into the conversation.

  264. Begin to walk through the process of what it looks like to desire true change in your life.

  265. Trust the process of God and leave your agenda to the side.

  266. And what begins to happen through this is that as God gives you victory,

  267. as God gives you freedom,

  268. as God gives you all that God is going to work and do,

  269. what God will do is develop a heart to help others.

  270. And then, then once you've done that,

  271. once you've done that,

  272. while not perfect,

  273. go and help others

  274. with the dust

  275. because you understand the log.

  276. Go help them with the dust

  277. because you understand the log.

  278. Here's the process of what we begin to see.

  279. I examine my life.

  280. I'm broken.

  281. I'm repentant.

  282. I see where God is working and moving and bringing healing.

  283. And let me talk about this just quickly, okay?

  284. Healing doesn't necessarily mean perfection,

  285. but it does mean progress.

  286. Come on, man.

  287. There's beauty in the struggle together.

  288. There's beauty in this

  289. as we walk through this.

  290. I'm examining my life.

  291. I'm broken.

  292. I'm repentant.

  293. I'm confessing it

  294. to other brothers and sisters in Christ.

  295. I'm seeing growth.

  296. I'm seeing improvement.

  297. And by the way,

  298. I understand that all of the growth

  299. and all of the improvement

  300. is evidence of God in my life

  301. and not evidence of just me being better.

  302. So now what I want to do,

  303. what I want to get to

  304. is that I can go and help others.

  305. And if you're person number two

  306. and you're a Christian

  307. is that when this happens,

  308. receive,

  309. don't defend.

  310. Receive,

  311. don't defend.

  312. Was this a sin in your life?

  313. Are you listening to you

  314. or are you listening to the Holy Spirit?

  315. Was this a sinful moment?

  316. Was this a sinful pattern?

  317. Repent.

  318. And then the fullness of this.

  319. Go and help others.

  320. You see, Matthew 7,

  321. what we see in the biblical perspective of this,

  322. it's that you will deal with the log

  323. so that you can help others with the speck.

  324. But let's get with our mindset of this.

  325. So many times,

  326. not only do we begin to think,

  327. who were they to say this to me,

  328. but probably another battle

  329. that you and I have been in

  330. or been to before

  331. where you ask yourself questions like,

  332. but I mean,

  333. is this my place?

  334. I mean,

  335. really,

  336. who am I?

  337. And should I address the sin

  338. in other people's lives?

  339. Yes,

  340. but why?

  341. Why?

  342. Because we should care

  343. to address the sin

  344. in one another's lives.

  345. We should love one another

  346. to the depth

  347. that our desire

  348. is for their growth and godliness.

  349. Sometimes what begins to happen

  350. in the person

  351. who's addressing

  352. is you begin to ask yourself,

  353. ask yourself this question.

  354. What is my motivation?

  355. What is my motivation?

  356. Is my motivation for the gotcha?

  357. Is my motivation

  358. for the see how much I'm better than you?

  359. For the motivation,

  360. like,

  361. have you ever,

  362. maybe you and I haven't thought this,

  363. but man,

  364. or said this,

  365. but man,

  366. we've thought it.

  367. I can't wait

  368. to call them out.

  369. And like a prize fighter

  370. waiting to come out

  371. for the world bout,

  372. we're hopping in the back.

  373. We're ready to go.

  374. I'm gonna let them have it.

  375. Is it for

  376. the biblical call

  377. to community

  378. where we are

  379. to encourage

  380. one another

  381. to live lives

  382. that are pleasing

  383. to God

  384. or out of the own

  385. sinful desires

  386. of our hearts?

  387. Both James and Paul

  388. deal with this.

  389. James 5,

  390. 19 through 20.

  391. My brothers,

  392. if anyone among you

  393. wanders

  394. from the truth

  395. and someone

  396. brings him back,

  397. let him know

  398. that whoever

  399. brings back

  400. a sinner

  401. from his wandering

  402. will save his soul

  403. from death

  404. and will cover

  405. a multitude of sins.

  406. Galatians 6,

  407. 1 through 2.

  408. Brothers,

  409. if anyone is caught

  410. in any transgression,

  411. you who are spiritual

  412. should restore him

  413. in a spirit

  414. of gentleness.

  415. keep watch

  416. on yourself

  417. lest you too

  418. be tempted.

  419. Bear one another's

  420. burdens

  421. and so fulfill

  422. the law of Christ.

  423. So here's what we learn

  424. when we look

  425. at these two passages

  426. of scripture,

  427. when we look

  428. at these in light

  429. of the Sermon

  430. on the Mount

  431. in Matthew 7

  432. is that you and I,

  433. like hopefully

  434. you know this

  435. about you

  436. and I know this

  437. about me

  438. and we know this

  439. about one another

  440. that we have

  441. a propensity

  442. to wander.

  443. We have a propensity,

  444. like we do,

  445. man,

  446. you and I,

  447. we know the path.

  448. It's not that

  449. it's a garden situation

  450. and we're being tricked.

  451. It's just like,

  452. nah,

  453. my sin wants this one.

  454. And we wander.

  455. And we wander.

  456. And there will be times

  457. when you and I

  458. as believers

  459. of Jesus Christ

  460. get off track

  461. and we need

  462. one another

  463. to get each other back.

  464. Well,

  465. shouldn't it be

  466. the Holy Spirit?

  467. Well,

  468. if it should just be

  469. the Holy Spirit,

  470. then why did they

  471. put this in there?

  472. In 2000,

  473. I think it was 2020,

  474. we got Aaron

  475. a new car.

  476. And I,

  477. I think I'm

  478. a pretty good driver.

  479. I've talked about

  480. my driving recently

  481. and the ticket

  482. that I got.

  483. But,

  484. you know,

  485. I moved past that.

  486. Moved past

  487. some of the criticisms

  488. that some of you

  489. decided to offer me

  490. on that.

  491. I'm not going to deflect that.

  492. I'm just saying

  493. how many points

  494. you've got.

  495. You know,

  496. I'm just,

  497. that's where we're at,

  498. right?

  499. So,

  500. we're driving back.

  501. We go into

  502. North Augusta

  503. to buy this car.

  504. It's Aaron's car

  505. and so she test drove it

  506. and she's like,

  507. oh,

  508. well,

  509. why don't you

  510. drive it

  511. back?

  512. I'm like,

  513. okay.

  514. So,

  515. I'm driving.

  516. We're,

  517. we're coming back up through

  518. and we get on the interstate.

  519. Now,

  520. I'm a good driver.

  521. And we're riding in the lane.

  522. And all of a sudden,

  523. I feel the steering wheel

  524. start shaking.

  525. And then the steering wheel

  526. is taking me

  527. into another direction.

  528. Now,

  529. at this point,

  530. I'm like,

  531. this Acura

  532. is possessed

  533. by a demon.

  534. And then lights

  535. start dinging.

  536. Ding,

  537. ding,

  538. ding,

  539. ding.

  540. What in the world?

  541. We keep driving.

  542. About five minutes later,

  543. starts doing it again.

  544. Ding,

  545. ding,

  546. ding,

  547. ding.

  548. Aaron says,

  549. I think what's happening

  550. is because from time to time,

  551. you can kind of

  552. get distracted

  553. and drift out of your lane

  554. into another lane.

  555. And so,

  556. it pulling you back

  557. is to get you back

  558. in your lane.

  559. And the ding,

  560. ding,

  561. ding is you're about to run

  562. into the car that's beside us.

  563. She's right.

  564. And so is the car.

  565. Right?

  566. Like,

  567. we have a propensity

  568. to wander.

  569. to wander.

  570. We get lazy.

  571. We walk away

  572. from forgetting

  573. God's expectation

  574. for us.

  575. We desire

  576. other things.

  577. And what God

  578. does

  579. is yes,

  580. he gives us

  581. the Holy Spirit

  582. to help us

  583. get us back

  584. on track.

  585. But guess what?

  586. He also gives us

  587. one another,

  588. the community

  589. of believers

  590. where we can sit

  591. with one another

  592. and say,

  593. in love

  594. and kindness.

  595. Ding, ding, ding.

  596. Let's get this thing

  597. back on track.

  598. Because we're prone

  599. to wander.

  600. But,

  601. but with the desire

  602. to restore.

  603. A desire

  604. to restore.

  605. This is the point

  606. we miss so often.

  607. As believers,

  608. when you

  609. and I

  610. address the sin

  611. in someone's life,

  612. I don't care

  613. if it's your kid,

  614. your spouse,

  615. your pastor,

  616. one another.

  617. When we address

  618. the sin

  619. in someone's life,

  620. the goal

  621. cannot be

  622. with an outcome

  623. that leads

  624. to a brokenness

  625. in the relationship.

  626. But with a desire

  627. to restore

  628. the brokenness

  629. that they've allowed

  630. in their relationship

  631. with the Lord.

  632. It's the desire

  633. to restore.

  634. It's the heart

  635. that says,

  636. I don't want

  637. a gotcha moment.

  638. I don't want to,

  639. you deserve this moment.

  640. I don't want a,

  641. I've been waiting

  642. to do this moment.

  643. But it's,

  644. hey man,

  645. there's a tendency

  646. for you to gossip.

  647. And I've been there

  648. and I've done that.

  649. And I've seen

  650. the damage

  651. that I've done

  652. in the lives

  653. of the people

  654. that I gossip about.

  655. and God

  656. has given me

  657. some wonderful people

  658. that have helped me

  659. walk through this.

  660. And man,

  661. some of the same

  662. destructive behaviors

  663. that I see in myself,

  664. I see in you.

  665. and I would love

  666. to.

  667. I would love

  668. to join

  669. hands with you

  670. and walk

  671. through this

  672. with you.

  673. Because I see

  674. the giftedness

  675. in you.

  676. I see how God's

  677. using you.

  678. I see

  679. what God

  680. could do.

  681. But you're

  682. off the path

  683. and I want

  684. to get you

  685. back on.

  686. Would you

  687. come

  688. do this

  689. with me?

  690. Take the log out.

  691. Speak

  692. out of what

  693. you've seen

  694. God do

  695. so that we

  696. can help

  697. one another

  698. remove

  699. the speck

  700. that's there.

  701. Going to our

  702. time to

  703. response

  704. a couple

  705. questions

  706. that I want

  707. to ask

  708. you.

  709. Number one

  710. what is the

  711. log in your

  712. eye?

  713. What is the

  714. log in your

  715. eye?

  716. And do you

  717. need help

  718. removing it?

  719. Number two

  720. is there

  721. someone

  722. that God's

  723. laying on

  724. your heart?

  725. You see

  726. the destruction

  727. you see

  728. the pain

  729. you see

  730. the suffering

  731. and you

  732. know that

  733. it doesn't

  734. have to

  735. be this

  736. way.

  737. So what

  738. do you

  739. do?

  740. What do

  741. you do?

  742. I would

  743. encourage you

  744. number one

  745. pray and

  746. fast.

  747. Pray and

  748. fast.

  749. Pray and

  750. fast over

  751. this specific

  752. situation

  753. and hear

  754. from the

  755. Lord.

  756. In that

  757. number two

  758. examine

  759. yourself.

  760. Just see.

  761. Just see.

  762. is this

  763. a log

  764. for me?

  765. And

  766. number

  767. three

  768. go to

  769. them in

  770. love

  771. and don't

  772. go to

  773. them

  774. until it

  775. can be

  776. love.

  777. Would you

  778. pray with me?

  779. Jesus

  780. when I

  781. think about

  782. salvation

  783. the beauty

  784. of what

  785. this looks

  786. like

  787. that not

  788. only do you

  789. desire to

  790. save us

  791. but to

  792. transform us

  793. to change

  794. us.

  795. And God

  796. we thank

  797. you

  798. that in a

  799. miracle

  800. that cannot

  801. be replicated

  802. in a

  803. miracle that

  804. we cannot

  805. understand

  806. Lord

  807. you send

  808. us your

  809. Holy Spirit

  810. who's not

  811. just around

  812. us but

  813. is in

  814. us

  815. to lead

  816. us

  817. to guide

  818. us

  819. to instruct

  820. us

  821. to teach

  822. us

  823. to convict

  824. us.

  825. God we

  826. praise you

  827. for that.

  828. But Lord

  829. you give us

  830. one another.

  831. you bring

  832. us into

  833. a family

  834. as we

  835. as a

  836. family

  837. are united

  838. under our

  839. Father.

  840. And God

  841. sometimes

  842. we just

  843. we miss

  844. the beauty

  845. that sometimes

  846. brothers and

  847. sisters

  848. don't just

  849. high five

  850. and hug

  851. but sometimes

  852. brothers and

  853. sisters sit

  854. down across

  855. from one

  856. another

  857. and they

  858. work through

  859. the difficulty

  860. of

  861. relationship

  862. with one

  863. another.

  864. They get it

  865. out.

  866. They get it

  867. on the

  868. table.

  869. They trust

  870. in you and

  871. they see you

  872. work and

  873. they see you

  874. move.

  875. they work

  876. toward

  877. restoration.

  878. They work

  879. toward unity.

  880. They work

  881. toward a love

  882. that is not

  883. self-seeking.

  884. They work

  885. toward a love

  886. that brings

  887. glory and

  888. honor to

  889. you.

  890. God I

  891. pray

  892. that we

  893. would be

  894. people of a

  895. heart for

  896. repentance.

  897. God that it

  898. would begin

  899. with brokenness

  900. and sorrow

  901. over our

  902. own sin

  903. and a

  904. godly

  905. desire to

  906. be changed

  907. to see your

  908. spirit work

  909. and that

  910. God that we

  911. would come

  912. from this

  913. desiring to

  914. attack our

  915. own sin

  916. and desiring

  917. to come

  918. alongside

  919. fellow brothers

  920. and sisters

  921. as they

  922. attack

  923. theirs

  924. as well.

  925. And God

  926. this is a

  927. messy process

  928. but it's

  929. so good

  930. and God

  931. it's needed.

  932. God would

  933. you work

  934. and move

  935. in your

  936. people

  937. as you

  938. see fit

  939. to bring

  940. glory and

  941. honor to

  942. your name.

  943. And it's

  944. in Jesus name

  945. we pray.

  946. Amen.

  947. That's it for

  948. this week's

  949. message.

  950. Be sure to

  951. check back

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  953. for a new

  954. episode and

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