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  1. Welcome to the Willow Ridge Sermons Podcast, where you can listen to audio from our most

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  4. Well, good morning. If you have your Bibles, and I hope you do, I want to invite you to join us in

  5. Matthew chapter 18 is where we will be. Specifically, when we look at the whole passage, we'll start

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  6. in verse 15. If you do not have a Bible, we have some free ones back here at this black table.

  7. We'd love for you at the end of the service to come by and grab one of those. It's a gift from

  8. us to you. We would love for you to be able to engage with us as we dive into God's Word each

  9. week. So please make sure that you stop by and get one of those. A couple of things just kind of

  10. going on. I found out this morning, was talking to Bobby David. Bobby is, his nephew is Daryl Cheeks,

  11. our missionary in the Philippines. And Bobby was sharing with me that he had heard from Daryl in

  12. the first quarter, as they count salvations, that 83 people had given their life to the Lord as a

  13. result of that ministry. And so, yeah, absolutely. It's just fantastic and wonderful to see that all

  14. that God is doing and how God allows us as a local church to be able to participate in different areas

  15. all throughout the world with what he is doing. And we count that as a privilege and as an honor to do

  16. that. Before we get into our passage this morning, it was neat. You know, sometimes when we're reading

  17. through, and so if you're first time here, we're kind of looking at some of those commonly misunderstood

  18. Bible verses that are found. But there's a Bible verse this weekend that's kind of landed

  19. with just some newness and some freshness for me in my life this morning. I just want to share that

  20. with y'all as we get going. And it's found in Genesis chapter 2, verse 18. It says,

    Genesis 2:18

  21. Aaron and Emma went out of town this weekend and left with, they went with Aaron's mom. They went off

  22. to the beach for the weekend, kind of a long girls weekend, taking off, go down there, didn't get

  23. invited, not bitter. We're moving on past that, right? And so I call Grayson on Friday and I'm like,

  24. hey buddy, I'm going to stop by and pick up some food. What would you like? And he was like,

  25. could you get cereal and Chinese food? So thank you Panda Express. Large meal for a family. Let's

  26. share it with you. All right. $35 has fed me and Grayson three different meals. Four boxes of cereal

  27. from Dollar General has fed us three different meals. It is not good that man shall be alone.

  28. Right? Fellas, this is what it would have been like. I'm telling you, not a good situation.

  29. She'll be back around one o'clock today. Praise the Lord. Well, so here's our Bible verse for this

  30. morning. We're going to look at Matthew 18, 20. God's word says, for whether two or three are gathered

  31. in my name, there I am among them. Would you go to the Lord with me in prayer? God, we thank you for

  32. your word. We thank you for the authoritative word that you give us. Lord, your perfect word. God,

  33. today as we study this particular verse in context to which Christ gave it to us, God, in the areas

  34. where we have misused or misunderstand, Lord, we thank you and we praise you that there's grace.

  35. God, may we wrestle with the difficult sometimes things through scripture to understand the beauty

  36. and the fullness of who you are, Lord, and what you've called us to. And may these be your words and not

  37. mine. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen. Amen. So let me read our focus verse one more time. One more time.

  38. Matthew 18, 20. For whether two or three are gathered in my name, there I am among them.

  39. It's interesting kind of going through and looking at these verses and different ones that we were

  40. going to look at over the course of the summer. And when I landed on this verse, I would argue that of

  41. all the verses that we have discussed, of all the verses that we will discuss, this verse has kind of

  42. been probably the most misused. But honestly, I don't think misused in a manipulative way.

  43. But I know that I have, and I know that you probably have misused it, or in a church context, you've

  44. heard this verse discussed or used, and oftentimes it's actually misused. This verse came across to me as

  45. one to kind of put out front for us to think through. Actually, this past January, I got an

  46. email one Sunday morning actually from Daryl Cheeks, our missionary in the Philippines. And he's like,

  47. hey man, can you help me understand this verse and use it in context? And so we talked through

  48. email kind of working through this. So when this verse is typically misused, it's typically used in

  49. a worship service, a Bible study, a prayer time with a group of people, right, like a community of

  50. believers who are gathered together, right? So there's more than one of them, there's a handful,

  51. there's several, and this verse is used as they maybe prepare to pray or prepare to open God's Word,

  52. and it's used almost as like an invitation or an acknowledgement that because there is more than

  53. one person there, that God is also there. So we gather together for prayer. We say things like,

  54. God, we know as we gather together that your Word tells us we're two or three gathered in my name.

  55. And here's the truth, this isn't a blatant lie, right? We know that whether there are two or more,

  56. God is with them. We can see that and draw that out from Scripture, but there can also be confusing

  57. parts of Scripture because if it's whether there are two or three are gathered, then you're there,

  58. which is sometimes how it's understood, then does that mean where there is one that He is not?

  59. Or where there is none that He is not? So I just want us to talk a little bit this morning about

  60. what I'm talking about, just the presence of God, so that you and I can have a right doctrinal,

  61. theological understanding about the presence of God, because Scripture does tell us that God is

  62. omnipresent. God is omnipresent, and what that means is God in His entire being is present everywhere.

  63. It's one of the many ways that He's different from you and I.

  64. God is not limited by space, by time, or by circumstance.

  65. That everywhere there is, there is God. That's why David writes in Psalm 139, verses 7 through 10,

    Psalms 139:7–10

  66. where shall I go from your spirit, or where shall I flee from your presence?

  67. If I ascend to heaven, you are there. If I make my bed in Shiloh, you are there. If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me.

  68. So where is God? He is everywhere. He is everywhere at all times, in all cases, and we can praise Him for that.

  69. He's here now. He's with you when you leave.

  70. We also see, and we see this in Scripture, and this is a little bit unique and special that we see when we talk about the presence of God, is that we see it in the incarnation of Christ.

  71. John 1, verse 14,

    John 1:14

  72. And the word became flesh, and dwelt among us, and we have seen His glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.

  73. And that what we know, Jesus, the Son of God, took on flesh. We see in Jesus, that fully God and fully man, that this is who He is.

  74. In John 14, 9, Jesus says, when you've seen me, you've seen the Father.

  75. So God is everywhere.

  76. We see God in His presence in the person of Christ.

  77. But then there's, and this is probably the way that you and I are most familiar with, of what we talk about, what we speak to in our Christian language, is in the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

  78. 1 Corinthians 6, 19 through 20,

  79. Or do you not know that your body, your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?

  80. You are not your own, for you were bought with a price, so glorify God with your body.

  81. So God is everywhere.

  82. God is Jesus.

  83. And then God indwells us.

  84. In Acts 1-8, it's the fulfillment of the promise that Jesus gives you, the coming of the Holy Spirit, that He will fall on us as believers.

  85. As believers.

  86. And then we see the fulfillment of this in Acts 2 of the early church,

  87. And then it's the continual indwelling of the Holy Spirit in the lives of every man, woman, and child who puts their faith and hope in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.

  88. It's the promise of what we have.

  89. So this indwelling of the Holy Spirit, it's a permanent action taken by God to live in the body of believers.

  90. This is how new birth happens, this is how we are confirmed within us that we belong to God, this is how we receive our spiritual gifts, this is how we understand Scripture, this is how we are convicted of our sins, right?

  91. And the list goes on and on and on.

  92. It's not because we're some great moral creatures who have come to enlightenment.

  93. It's the very presence of God, the Holy Spirit who lives in us.

  94. So let's look at this passage.

  95. So if God is omnipresent everywhere,

  96. if God is in the person of Christ, fully God, fully man,

  97. and dwells in the body

  98. of every believer,

  99. this isn't trying to explain

  100. a concept

  101. that's not real.

  102. This is a real tangible piece of who we are.

  103. Then what do we do

  104. with Matthew 18, 20?

  105. What do we do with this?

  106. These are the words of Jesus.

  107. These are red letter words

  108. in our gospel of Jesus

  109. for where two or three

  110. are gathered in my name,

  111. there

  112. I am

  113. among them.

  114. So what we want to do this morning

  115. is understand these pieces

  116. of God, but understand

  117. the fullness of what

  118. these words mean by asking

  119. in ourself,

  120. in what context,

  121. in what setting,

  122. for what purpose

  123. did Jesus give this promise?

  124. It's a promise that he gives

  125. to his followers.

  126. It's a promise that he gives to us

  127. that we can cling to,

  128. that we can hold to,

  129. that we can use

  130. so that we live in the confidence

  131. of who we are

  132. and who he's called us

  133. to be.

  134. When I was talking to someone

  135. this morning

  136. and they were,

  137. we were talking about something

  138. kind of sitting back in the office

  139. and they asked about this

  140. and so I was telling them,

  141. I was like,

  142. well,

  143. here's the context of this verse.

  144. It's a verse that we've mostly,

  145. all of us have heard probably.

  146. And I said the context

  147. and then they go,

  148. huh,

  149. really?

  150. So maybe you have that

  151. with us this morning,

  152. right?

  153. Let's read Matthew 18

  154. starting in verse 15.

  155. If your brother sins against you,

  156. go and tell him his fault

  157. between you and him alone.

  158. If he listens to you,

  159. you have gained your brother.

  160. But if he does not listen,

  161. take one or two others

  162. along with you

  163. that every charge

  164. may be established

  165. by the evidence

  166. of two or three witnesses.

  167. If he refuses to listen to them,

  168. tell it to the church.

  169. And if he refuses to listen

  170. even to the church,

  171. let him be to you

  172. as a Gentile

  173. and a tax collector.

  174. Truly I say to you,

  175. whatever you bind on earth

  176. shall be bound in heaven

  177. and whatever you loose on earth

  178. shall be loosed in heaven.

  179. Again I say to you,

  180. if two of you agree on earth

  181. about anything,

  182. they ask it,

  183. it will be done for them

  184. by my Father in heaven.

  185. For where two or three

  186. are gathered in my name,

  187. there I am among them.

  188. So let's look at this context.

  189. The context for this verse

  190. that Jesus gives

  191. is church discipline.

  192. It's church discipline.

  193. Now, I'll be honest with you,

  194. church discipline

  195. is probably not the hot topic

  196. that gets everybody excited, right?

  197. Like, let's run some low attendance,

  198. we're going to talk about

  199. church discipline and tithing.

  200. And everybody's like,

  201. ah, I got somewhere I got to be.

  202. You know what I mean?

  203. Like, this is one of those

  204. that's like, ah.

  205. But I think it can be unfairly criticized

  206. as harsh.

  207. But I think what we'll see

  208. in this passage of Scripture

  209. is that the goal

  210. is not an attack of the person,

  211. but attack on sin.

  212. And Jesus striving to hold us,

  213. the church,

  214. accountable to a standard

  215. when it comes to sin.

  216. Right before this,

  217. Jesus is teaching.

  218. Jesus is in one of those

  219. teaching modes that he has.

  220. And right before he goes

  221. into church discipline,

  222. Jesus talks about

  223. the parable of the lost sheep

  224. and the emphasis on that

  225. of restoring someone,

  226. of bringing someone back.

  227. Like, praise the Lord,

  228. hallelujah,

  229. this is what happens.

  230. The parable right after this

  231. is Jesus sharing the parable

  232. of the unforgiving servant,

  233. of how to forgive someone.

  234. These are two things

  235. that you and I see

  236. and we're drawn to.

  237. These are those goosebump passages

  238. that we get

  239. as the Holy Spirit

  240. is working in us

  241. to draw us,

  242. to convict us.

  243. We're going to restore someone.

  244. We're going to forgive someone.

  245. We're going to see this happening.

  246. But sandwich right there

  247. in the middle.

  248. Jesus talks about

  249. this is what

  250. church discipline looks like.

  251. This is the necessity of it.

  252. So let's look at what Jesus says

  253. for us as we find this.

  254. Here's the setting.

  255. A brother or,

  256. that's the term that is used

  257. as brothers,

  258. but this could be any believer.

  259. A brother or sister in Christ

  260. has committed a sin

  261. and very specifically

  262. committed a sin against you.

  263. And I think this is something

  264. that we can probably

  265. all relate to, right?

  266. I don't know about you,

  267. but I know

  268. that I have sinned

  269. against others

  270. and I've also,

  271. unfortunately,

  272. sat in the other seat

  273. and felt that

  274. sin against me.

  275. And what Jesus walks through

  276. is when this happens

  277. and we acknowledge

  278. and we acknowledge

  279. that this will happen,

  280. when this happens,

  281. how do we handle

  282. conflict?

  283. How do we handle

  284. conflict in light

  285. of the gospel?

  286. How do we handle

  287. conflict in a way

  288. that brings glory to God?

  289. And how do we handle

  290. conflict

  291. in a way that

  292. unifies the church

  293. and not,

  294. doesn't divide the church?

  295. So he gives three steps.

  296. Three steps that are

  297. kind of build

  298. in severity

  299. of what this looks like.

  300. Step number one,

  301. he says,

  302. go to them

  303. in private.

  304. Verse 15,

  305. if your brother

  306. sins against you,

  307. go and tell him

  308. his fault

  309. between you

  310. and him alone.

  311. if he listens

  312. to you,

  313. you have

  314. gained

  315. your brother.

  316. Hmm.

  317. I lost count

  318. in how many times

  319. I've failed at this.

  320. Our tendency

  321. can be

  322. when someone

  323. does this

  324. to not do

  325. what Christ

  326. has called us to,

  327. but to ignore

  328. or to gossip.

  329. Can I tell you

  330. what happened

  331. to me?

  332. Let me tell you

  333. what someone's done.

  334. Or,

  335. I see their sin,

  336. I'm going to ignore it.

  337. I see their sin,

  338. I'm going to dismiss it.

  339. Both of these

  340. is what Christ

  341. points us to

  342. are not

  343. essential

  344. when he's

  345. calling us

  346. to be committed

  347. to maintaining

  348. healthy,

  349. gospel-centered

  350. relationships

  351. within

  352. the body

  353. of Christ.

  354. Aaron and I

  355. celebrated

  356. 21 years

  357. of marriage

  358. this past

  359. June 19th.

  360. I was thinking

  361. about

  362. the

  363. difficulties

  364. early on

  365. in marriage.

  366. I mean,

  367. you're learning

  368. how to live

  369. with someone

  370. that you've

  371. never lived

  372. with before.

  373. You're learning

  374. how to share

  375. things like

  376. finances.

  377. You're learning

  378. how to put

  379. others' needs

  380. ahead of your

  381. own.

  382. And these

  383. aren't things

  384. that we're

  385. necessarily

  386. great at.

  387. One of the

  388. things that I

  389. found and

  390. that I remember

  391. back in mine

  392. and Aaron's

  393. relationship

  394. early on

  395. is someone

  396. would do

  397. something

  398. against the

  399. other one.

  400. right?

  401. And maybe

  402. this wasn't

  403. like a sinful

  404. attack

  405. but it was

  406. something where

  407. you felt

  408. hurt.

  409. You felt

  410. bothered.

  411. You felt

  412. offended.

  413. And then

  414. we would just

  415. kind of

  416. swallow it

  417. down and

  418. suck it up

  419. and think

  420. we'll just

  421. or I'll just

  422. move on

  423. past this.

  424. and the

  425. next thing

  426. you know

  427. three weeks

  428. later one

  429. of you

  430. leaves the

  431. empty carton

  432. of milk

  433. in the

  434. refrigerator

  435. and one

  436. person blows

  437. up at the

  438. other.

  439. Right?

  440. It's what

  441. happens.

  442. Instead of

  443. saying like

  444. hey can we

  445. talk about

  446. this we

  447. say hey

  448. can we

  449. ignore

  450. this?

  451. And then

  452. it builds

  453. and builds

  454. and builds

  455. and builds.

  456. And so

  457. Christ has

  458. given us a

  459. picture of

  460. the church

  461. as much as

  462. something like

  463. not putting

  464. your dishes

  465. in the dishwasher

  466. or not

  467. getting the

  468. mail as

  469. you come

  470. in or

  471. putting an

  472. empty milk

  473. carton back

  474. into the

  475. refrigerator.

  476. While these

  477. things are

  478. small and

  479. petty within

  480. the context

  481. of a

  482. marriage

  483. much more

  484. so is the

  485. sinfulness

  486. of one

  487. another

  488. within the

  489. body of

  490. Christ

  491. exceedingly

  492. building and

  493. building and

  494. building and

  495. that you and

  496. I are called

  497. not to commit

  498. further sins

  499. of gossip

  500. but not to

  501. commit further

  502. sins of

  503. ignoring.

  504. That God

  505. calls us

  506. to engage

  507. within this

  508. and your

  509. thought could

  510. honestly be

  511. a lot like

  512. my thinking

  513. sometimes with

  514. this.

  515. Well that's

  516. just going to

  517. create more

  518. conflict.

  519. That's just

  520. going to

  521. create more

  522. drama.

  523. That's just

  524. going to

  525. create unnecessary

  526. conflict between

  527. me and another

  528. person and it

  529. could destroy

  530. the relationship.

  531. But what's

  532. more important

  533. your relationship

  534. or their soul.

  535. And so

  536. Jesus is

  537. calling us

  538. in this

  539. first step

  540. to a

  541. personal

  542. private

  543. conversation

  544. where the

  545. goal

  546. there's a

  547. goal to

  548. these

  549. is not

  550. let me get

  551. something off

  552. my chest

  553. where the

  554. goal isn't

  555. well let me

  556. call you out

  557. on something

  558. right.

  559. This kind of

  560. plays back

  561. to a few

  562. weeks ago

  563. where we

  564. talked about

  565. judge not

  566. lest you

  567. be judged.

  568. It's not

  569. ignore.

  570. It's the

  571. heart in

  572. which we

  573. confront.

  574. It's the

  575. heart in

  576. which we

  577. sit down

  578. with one

  579. another and

  580. so the

  581. goal for

  582. this of

  583. what we

  584. see in

  585. Matthew 18

  586. is forgiveness

  587. restoration and

  588. reconciliation.

  589. That's the

  590. goal.

  591. It's not the

  592. airing of

  593. grievances.

  594. It's not how

  595. I'm right and

  596. you're wrong.

  597. It's not the

  598. gotcha.

  599. It's not let me

  600. cut you with

  601. my words because

  602. you cut me

  603. with yours.

  604. It's

  605. forgiveness.

  606. It's

  607. restoration.

  608. It's

  609. reconciliation.

  610. And that's

  611. always the

  612. goal.

  613. And the

  614. beauty of

  615. that is

  616. what we

  617. find is

  618. that's the

  619. path and

  620. the plan

  621. of the

  622. gospel.

  623. It's

  624. forgiveness.

  625. The release

  626. of wrongdoing

  627. that someone

  628. has committed

  629. against you.

  630. Let me

  631. share this

  632. with you

  633. as I

  634. forgive you

  635. and prepare

  636. to release

  637. this.

  638. Well,

  639. here's the

  640. thing also

  641. about forgiveness

  642. even if they

  643. reject that you

  644. and I are still

  645. called to

  646. forgive.

  647. But it's

  648. forgiveness.

  649. I'm going to

  650. release.

  651. I'm going to

  652. let go.

  653. I'm not going

  654. to hold

  655. this against

  656. you.

  657. But there's

  658. also the

  659. restoration.

  660. Because of

  661. what has

  662. happened,

  663. there is

  664. something that

  665. is broken.

  666. There's a

  667. brokenness in

  668. the relationship

  669. but there's

  670. also a

  671. brokenness

  672. within you.

  673. There's a

  674. brokenness

  675. within me.

  676. And so

  677. restoration invites

  678. within to the

  679. process

  680. accountability

  681. between one

  682. another

  683. so that we

  684. can work

  685. through what

  686. God has

  687. for us.

  688. You see the

  689. process that

  690. begins to

  691. happen.

  692. So that

  693. reconciliation

  694. might be

  695. possible which

  696. is the

  697. fullness of

  698. the

  699. restoration

  700. of the

  701. relationship

  702. so that we

  703. are not

  704. brothers and

  705. sisters in

  706. Christ with

  707. the divide

  708. between us

  709. that we're

  710. a brother

  711. and sister

  712. in Christ.

  713. unified

  714. under the

  715. authority of

  716. God

  717. living for

  718. the gospel.

  719. So this

  720. would be

  721. great if

  722. Jesus says

  723. hey here's

  724. step one

  725. this is the

  726. only step

  727. that's needed

  728. because it's

  729. going to happen

  730. this way every

  731. single time

  732. but that's not

  733. the case.

  734. So he gives

  735. us step two.

  736. He says

  737. take one or

  738. two others

  739. with you

  740. if they

  741. reject what

  742. you say

  743. to discuss

  744. it more.

  745. Verse 16

  746. but if he

  747. does not

  748. listen

  749. if he does

  750. not listen

  751. take one or

  752. two others

  753. along with

  754. you

  755. that every

  756. charge

  757. may be

  758. established

  759. by the

  760. evidence

  761. of two

  762. or three

  763. witnesses.

  764. Here is why

  765. other believers

  766. need to be

  767. invited into

  768. the process

  769. because hurt

  770. people tend

  771. to want

  772. to lash

  773. out and

  774. hurt people.

  775. Misunderstandings

  776. could take

  777. place.

  778. What someone

  779. thought was

  780. intentional could

  781. have been a

  782. complete and

  783. total accidents.

  784. People see

  785. things differently.

  786. People understand

  787. things differently

  788. and so the

  789. guidance of

  790. God's word

  791. is to invite

  792. godly men

  793. and women

  794. of faith

  795. into the

  796. process for

  797. accountability

  798. for both

  799. sides.

  800. It's not

  801. rallying the

  802. troops on

  803. your side.

  804. It is getting

  805. fellow brothers

  806. and sisters

  807. in Christ

  808. to come

  809. alongside

  810. who understand

  811. the important

  812. part of this

  813. that we will

  814. emphasize and

  815. repeat over

  816. and over

  817. again

  818. what is

  819. the goal.

  820. Forgiveness,

  821. restoration,

  822. reconciliation.

  823. That's what

  824. we're moving

  825. toward.

  826. That's what

  827. we're pursuing.

  828. He does not

  829. listen, take

  830. one or two

  831. others along

  832. with you that

  833. every charge

  834. may be

  835. established by

  836. the evidence

  837. of two

  838. or three

  839. witnesses.

  840. Then there's

  841. another step.

  842. And this

  843. third step

  844. is not

  845. a step

  846. that you

  847. take lightly.

  848. It's not

  849. a step

  850. that a

  851. church

  852. considers

  853. on a whim.

  854. it's not

  855. a step

  856. that as

  857. a pastor

  858. that you

  859. don't struggle

  860. with a great

  861. burden

  862. for what

  863. God's Word

  864. says.

  865. Let's look

  866. back at

  867. verse 17.

  868. If he

  869. refuses

  870. to listen

  871. to them

  872. tell it

  873. to the

  874. church.

  875. If he

  876. refuses

  877. to listen

  878. even to

  879. the church

  880. let him

  881. be to

  882. you

  883. as a

  884. Gentile

  885. and a

  886. tax

  887. collector.

  888. These

  889. are big

  890. powerful

  891. words

  892. by Jesus.

  893. Jesus

  894. commands

  895. that when

  896. the problem

  897. of sin

  898. of

  899. unrepentant

  900. sin

  901. refuses

  902. to be

  903. dealt

  904. with.

  905. That you

  906. bring it

  907. before

  908. the

  909. church.

  910. That the

  911. church

  912. processes

  913. the weight

  914. of the

  915. condition

  916. of the

  917. unrepentant

  918. sin

  919. with the

  920. individual.

  921. And then

  922. in culturally

  923. speaking

  924. Jesus

  925. says

  926. treat

  927. them

  928. like a

  929. Gentile

  930. or a

  931. tax

  932. collector.

  933. Those

  934. who at

  935. the time

  936. would be

  937. labeled

  938. as

  939. those

  940. who

  941. were the

  942. most

  943. resistant

  944. and

  945. against

  946. the work

  947. of God

  948. in their

  949. life.

  950. about

  951. 15

  952. years

  953. ago

  954. before

  955. I

  956. came

  957. here

  958. to be

  959. the

  960. senior

  961. pastor

  962. of

  963. this

  964. church.

  965. We

  966. had to

  967. walk

  968. through

  969. this

  970. situation

  971. with an

  972. individual

  973. at the

  974. church

  975. that I

  976. was

  977. serving

  978. at.

  979. unwilling

  980. unrepentant

  981. to see

  982. the sin

  983. the blatant

  984. the horrific

  985. sin

  986. that was

  987. in their

  988. life.

  989. Unwilling

  990. to repent

  991. before God

  992. and in

  993. the hardest

  994. decision

  995. but in

  996. a unified

  997. decision

  998. we made

  999. the choice

  1000. to play

  1001. out

  1002. what

  1003. Jesus

  1004. had

  1005. commanded

  1006. us

  1007. to.

  1008. It's

  1009. hard

  1010. but it's

  1011. essential.

  1012. Why?

  1013. Why?

  1014. We all

  1015. sin.

  1016. We all

  1017. sin.

  1018. There's not

  1019. a person

  1020. here today

  1021. me included

  1022. that hasn't

  1023. sinned

  1024. over and

  1025. over again

  1026. already

  1027. today.

  1028. we all

  1029. sin

  1030. but the

  1031. unwillingness

  1032. to acknowledge

  1033. that you're

  1034. a sinner

  1035. the unwillingness

  1036. to repent

  1037. of the sin

  1038. that's the

  1039. issue

  1040. while sin

  1041. yes is a

  1042. heart issue

  1043. unrepentant

  1044. sin

  1045. is a

  1046. darker

  1047. deeper

  1048. issue

  1049. of the

  1050. heart

  1051. that begins

  1052. to consume

  1053. and destroy

  1054. the life

  1055. of the

  1056. person.

  1057. Here's

  1058. what's

  1059. crazy

  1060. about

  1061. step

  1062. three.

  1063. Step

  1064. three

  1065. has the

  1066. same

  1067. goal.

  1068. Wait a

  1069. minute.

  1070. We're

  1071. talking

  1072. about

  1073. removal.

  1074. We're

  1075. talking

  1076. about

  1077. a level

  1078. of

  1079. discipline.

  1080. We're

  1081. talking

  1082. about

  1083. treating

  1084. someone

  1085. as a

  1086. Gentile

  1087. or a

  1088. tax

  1089. collector.

  1090. It's

  1091. just going

  1092. to create

  1093. bitterness

  1094. and anger

  1095. and strife.

  1096. It's going

  1097. to divide

  1098. but it's

  1099. the same

  1100. goal.

  1101. It's

  1102. the same

  1103. goal.

  1104. Forgiveness,

  1105. restoration,

  1106. and

  1107. reconciliation.

  1108. The most,

  1109. well, a lot

  1110. of the churches

  1111. in the Bible

  1112. were dysfunctional

  1113. in a lot

  1114. of the things

  1115. that are

  1116. happening.

  1117. But the

  1118. church at

  1119. Corinth had

  1120. a lot of

  1121. problems.

  1122. I want to

  1123. read, if you

  1124. want to turn

  1125. there with

  1126. me, I

  1127. apologize.

  1128. It's not on

  1129. the screen.

  1130. I decided to

  1131. add this.

  1132. this morning.

  1133. But if you

  1134. want to turn

  1135. to 1 Corinthians

    1 Corinthians 5 chapter mention

  1136. chapter 5

  1137. in your

  1138. Bible, I

  1139. want to

  1140. read the

  1141. first five

  1142. verses.

  1143. As the

  1144. apostle Paul

  1145. deals

  1146. specifically

  1147. with a

  1148. matter

  1149. within the

  1150. church

  1151. of taking

  1152. how do

  1153. you apply

  1154. these hard

  1155. difficult

  1156. truths

  1157. of Jesus

  1158. to a

  1159. very specific

  1160. situation.

  1161. 1 Corinthians

  1162. 5

  1163. starting

  1164. in

  1165. verse

  1166. 1.

  1167. It is

  1168. actually

  1169. reported

  1170. that there

  1171. is sexual

  1172. immorality

  1173. among you

  1174. and of a

  1175. kind that

  1176. is not

  1177. tolerated

  1178. even among

  1179. pagans

  1180. for a man

  1181. has his

  1182. father's

  1183. wife.

  1184. and you

  1185. were

  1186. arrogant

  1187. ought

  1188. you

  1189. not

  1190. rather

  1191. to

  1192. mourn?

  1193. Let

  1194. him

  1195. who has

  1196. done

  1197. this

  1198. be

  1199. removed

  1200. from

  1201. among

  1202. you.

  1203. For

  1204. though

  1205. absent

  1206. in

  1207. body

  1208. I

  1209. am

  1210. present

  1211. in

  1212. spirit

  1213. and

  1214. as

  1215. if

  1216. present

  1217. I

  1218. have

  1219. already

  1220. pronounced

  1221. judgment

  1222. on the

  1223. one

  1224. who

  1225. did

  1226. such

  1227. a

  1228. thing.

  1229. When

  1230. you

  1231. are

  1232. assembled

  1233. in

  1234. the

  1235. name

  1236. of

  1237. the

  1238. Lord

  1239. Jesus

  1240. and

  1241. my

  1242. spirit

  1243. is

  1244. present

  1245. with

  1246. the

  1247. power

  1248. of

  1249. our

  1250. Lord

  1251. Jesus.

  1252. Verse

  1253. five

  1254. this

  1255. is

  1256. tough.

  1257. You

  1258. are

  1259. to

  1260. deliver

  1261. this

  1262. man

  1263. to

  1264. Satan

  1265. for

  1266. the

  1267. destruction

  1268. of

  1269. the

  1270. flesh

  1271. so

  1272. that

  1273. his

  1274. spirit

  1275. may

  1276. be

  1277. saved

  1278. in

  1279. the

  1280. day

  1281. of

  1282. the

  1283. Lord.

  1284. So

  1285. Paul

  1286. says

  1287. there's

  1288. this

  1289. despicable

  1290. grotesque

  1291. level

  1292. of

  1293. sexual

  1294. immorality

  1295. that

  1296. has

  1297. been

  1298. allowed

  1299. to

  1300. infiltrate

  1301. the

  1302. church.

  1303. Paul

  1304. says

  1305. it's

  1306. so

  1307. bad

  1308. that

  1309. it's

  1310. not

  1311. tolerated

  1312. amongst

  1313. pagans

  1314. who

  1315. have

  1316. temples

  1317. for

  1318. prostitutes.

  1319. And

  1320. he said

  1321. and you

  1322. are being

  1323. silent

  1324. about it.

  1325. You're

  1326. not

  1327. dealing

  1328. with

  1329. this.

  1330. And

  1331. this

  1332. sin

  1333. infects

  1334. and it

  1335. spreads

  1336. and it's

  1337. unrepentant

  1338. sin

  1339. by someone

  1340. who claims

  1341. to be a

  1342. believer.

  1343. So what

  1344. you've got

  1345. to do

  1346. treat them

  1347. like that

  1348. pagan

  1349. like that

  1350. tax collector

  1351. and let

  1352. them go.

  1353. Well

  1354. Bo

  1355. well Paul

  1356. but we

  1357. want them

  1358. to come

  1359. to know

  1360. Jesus.

  1361. Yes.

  1362. yes

  1363. the goal

  1364. for Paul

  1365. is still

  1366. forgiveness

  1367. restoration

  1368. and

  1369. reconciliation

  1370. but here's

  1371. what's got to

  1372. happen

  1373. it's their

  1374. flesh.

  1375. You see

  1376. for I have

  1377. been crucified

  1378. with Christ

  1379. it is no longer

  1380. I who live

  1381. but he who

  1382. lives in me.

  1383. It's

  1384. crucifying

  1385. of the flesh

  1386. it's a

  1387. destruction

  1388. of the sin

  1389. it's knowing

  1390. that I do

  1391. it

  1392. and I do

  1393. it often

  1394. and it is

  1395. offensive

  1396. to a holy

  1397. God.

  1398. So turn

  1399. him over.

  1400. Turn

  1401. him over

  1402. so that

  1403. in the

  1404. consequences

  1405. of his

  1406. actions

  1407. maybe the

  1408. destruction

  1409. of his

  1410. flesh

  1411. would happen

  1412. in a

  1413. phrase that

  1414. you and I

  1415. refer to

  1416. let him

  1417. hit

  1418. rock

  1419. bottom.

  1420. for most

  1421. of my

  1422. unsaved

  1423. life

  1424. for most

  1425. of my

  1426. unsaved

  1427. life

  1428. those

  1429. around

  1430. me

  1431. try to

  1432. ignore

  1433. and

  1434. dismiss

  1435. the

  1436. sinfulness

  1437. of my

  1438. flesh.

  1439. They

  1440. talked

  1441. about it

  1442. everybody

  1443. knew

  1444. about it

  1445. but they

  1446. wanted to

  1447. ignore it

  1448. when it

  1449. came in

  1450. the

  1451. conversations

  1452. with me.

  1453. They

  1454. want to

  1455. dismiss it

  1456. when it

  1457. came in

  1458. the

  1459. conversations

  1460. with me

  1461. and I'll

  1462. never forget

  1463. this.

  1464. I'll never

  1465. forget the

  1466. day after

  1467. my 22nd

  1468. birthday

  1469. sitting at

  1470. my dinner

  1471. table

  1472. with my

  1473. mom eating

  1474. breakfast that

  1475. morning

  1476. and her

  1477. coming to

  1478. me and

  1479. saying listen

  1480. I've

  1481. watched your

  1482. destruction

  1483. I've

  1484. watched

  1485. your

  1486. pain

  1487. I've

  1488. watched

  1489. the

  1490. sin

  1491. of your

  1492. life

  1493. and no

  1494. more

  1495. no more

  1496. not for

  1497. me

  1498. not for

  1499. your dad

  1500. not for

  1501. your sister

  1502. we're

  1503. releasing

  1504. you

  1505. and she

  1506. let me

  1507. hit

  1508. rock bottom

  1509. the most

  1510. loving

  1511. action

  1512. my mom

  1513. ever gave

  1514. me

  1515. was get

  1516. out

  1517. was get

  1518. out

  1519. so that

  1520. my spirit

  1521. might be

  1522. saved

  1523. you were

  1524. to deliver

  1525. this man

  1526. to Satan

  1527. for the

  1528. destruction

  1529. of his

  1530. flesh

  1531. so that

  1532. his spirit

  1533. might be

  1534. saved

  1535. in the

  1536. day of

  1537. the Lord

  1538. two days

  1539. later

  1540. two days

  1541. later

  1542. rock

  1543. bottom

  1544. literally

  1545. and

  1546. spiritually

  1547. reeking

  1548. of the

  1549. smell

  1550. of my

  1551. sin

  1552. knowing

  1553. that

  1554. there's

  1555. no

  1556. step

  1557. that I

  1558. can figure

  1559. out

  1560. there's

  1561. no

  1562. manipulation

  1563. that I

  1564. can

  1565. create

  1566. there's

  1567. no

  1568. lie

  1569. that I

  1570. can

  1571. share

  1572. to get

  1573. me

  1574. out

  1575. of the

  1576. hole

  1577. that I'm

  1578. in

  1579. when I

  1580. heard

  1581. the

  1582. soft

  1583. powerful

  1584. voice

  1585. of God

  1586. of God

  1587. and

  1588. in that

  1589. moment

  1590. what I

  1591. knew

  1592. that I

  1593. was a

  1594. sinner

  1595. who

  1596. desperately

  1597. needed

  1598. Jesus

  1599. and

  1600. nothing

  1601. and no

  1602. one else

  1603. could

  1604. fix

  1605. where I

  1606. found

  1607. myself

  1608. and on

  1609. that

  1610. day

  1611. God

  1612. saved

  1613. me

  1614. and on

  1615. that day

  1616. not only

  1617. did I

  1618. experience

  1619. forgiveness

  1620. and

  1621. restoration

  1622. and

  1623. reconciliation

  1624. from a

  1625. holy

  1626. God

  1627. but I

  1628. experienced

  1629. forgiveness

  1630. restoration

  1631. and

  1632. reconciliation

  1633. from a

  1634. godly

  1635. mother

  1636. praise

  1637. the

  1638. Lord

  1639. for that

  1640. day

  1641. here

  1642. is

  1643. why

  1644. Matthew

  1645. 18

  1646. matters

  1647. I

  1648. know

  1649. I've

  1650. sat

  1651. in the

  1652. seat

  1653. I've

  1654. had the

  1655. conversation

  1656. I've

  1657. had the

  1658. conversation

  1659. back toward

  1660. me

  1661. when it

  1662. comes

  1663. to this

  1664. level

  1665. of

  1666. discipline

  1667. when it

  1668. comes

  1669. to this

  1670. level

  1671. of what

  1672. God has

  1673. called us

  1674. to

  1675. what is

  1676. needed

  1677. amongst

  1678. the church

  1679. is unity

  1680. and not

  1681. division

  1682. what is

  1683. needed

  1684. amongst

  1685. brothers

  1686. and sisters

  1687. in Christ

  1688. is clarity

  1689. of where

  1690. God is

  1691. going

  1692. and clarity

  1693. of what

  1694. God is

  1695. doing

  1696. and so

  1697. Jesus

  1698. says

  1699. this is

  1700. what I'm

  1701. calling you

  1702. to do

  1703. and if

  1704. this is

  1705. the point

  1706. that it

  1707. gets to

  1708. treat

  1709. him like

  1710. a

  1711. Gentile

  1712. treat

  1713. him like

  1714. a tax

  1715. collector

  1716. and in

  1717. the unity

  1718. I've

  1719. commanded

  1720. you to

  1721. what

  1722. you do

  1723. holds

  1724. what you

  1725. ask

  1726. for

  1727. shall

  1728. be

  1729. done

  1730. because

  1731. for

  1732. where

  1733. the

  1734. two

  1735. or

  1736. three

  1737. are

  1738. gathered

  1739. in

  1740. my

  1741. name

  1742. and

  1743. let me

  1744. add

  1745. this

  1746. not

  1747. because

  1748. Christ's

  1749. words

  1750. are

  1751. insufficient

  1752. but

  1753. because

  1754. we

  1755. need

  1756. understanding

  1757. in

  1758. the

  1759. work

  1760. in

  1761. unity

  1762. and

  1763. movement

  1764. of

  1765. the

  1766. gospel

  1767. there

  1768. I

  1769. am

  1770. among

  1771. them

  1772. the

  1773. goal

  1774. what's

  1775. the

  1776. goal

  1777. of

  1778. kids

  1779. camp

  1780. what's

  1781. the

  1782. goal

  1783. of

  1784. mission

  1785. trips

  1786. what's

  1787. the

  1788. goal

  1789. of

  1790. small

  1791. groups

  1792. they've

  1793. all

  1794. got

  1795. different

  1796. aspects

  1797. of

  1798. things

  1799. that

  1800. they

  1801. play

  1802. out

  1803. and

  1804. things

  1805. that

  1806. they

  1807. do

  1808. but

  1809. what

  1810. is

  1811. it

  1812. overarching

  1813. it's

  1814. forgiveness

  1815. forgiveness

  1816. from

  1817. God

  1818. because

  1819. of

  1820. the

  1821. condition

  1822. of

  1823. our

  1824. heart

  1825. of

  1826. restoration

  1827. to

  1828. take

  1829. that

  1830. which

  1831. was

  1832. broken

  1833. and

  1834. mend

  1835. it

  1836. to

  1837. be

  1838. used

  1839. to

  1840. bring

  1841. glory

  1842. to

  1843. reconcile

  1844. to

  1845. take

  1846. that

  1847. which

  1848. was

  1849. separated

  1850. and

  1851. bring

  1852. back

  1853. together

  1854. again

  1855. because

  1856. church

  1857. we

  1858. serve

  1859. a

  1860. God

  1861. of

  1862. reconciliation

  1863. it's

  1864. the point

  1865. of the

  1866. cross

  1867. it's

  1868. the hope

  1869. that we

  1870. have

  1871. that all

  1872. of us

  1873. the Bible

  1874. says

  1875. are sinners

  1876. and deserve

  1877. death

  1878. but

  1879. through

  1880. the

  1881. work

  1882. of

  1883. Christ

  1884. we've

  1885. been

  1886. forgiven

  1887. we've

  1888. been

  1889. made

  1890. new

  1891. and

  1892. we've

  1893. been

  1894. brought

  1895. into

  1896. a

  1897. relationship

  1898. with

  1899. all

  1900. we

  1901. got

  1902. I

  1903. hope

  1904. this

  1905. wasn't

  1906. a

  1907. hard

  1908. passage

  1909. message

  1910. to

  1911. listen

  1912. to

  1913. it

  1914. was

  1915. a

  1916. hard

  1917. passage

  1918. to

  1919. preach

  1920. it's

  1921. a

  1922. hard

  1923. passage

  1924. to

  1925. work

  1926. through

  1927. if

  1928. you're

  1929. here

  1930. right

  1931. now

  1932. and

  1933. what

  1934. settles

  1935. in

  1936. your

  1937. heart

  1938. is

  1939. this

  1940. seems

  1941. unloving

  1942. I

  1943. would

  1944. challenge

  1945. you

  1946. to

  1947. think

  1948. through

  1949. what

  1950. love

  1951. is

  1952. to

  1953. see

  1954. and to

  1955. understand

  1956. and to

  1957. know

  1958. the heart

  1959. of God

  1960. not a

  1961. God who

  1962. enables

  1963. but a

  1964. God who

  1965. forgives

  1966. who

  1967. restores

  1968. and

  1969. reconciles

  1970. and

  1971. this

  1972. is

  1973. the

  1974. ministry

  1975. that

  1976. he's

  1977. called

  1978. us

  1979. to

  1980. would

  1981. you

  1982. pray

  1983. with

  1984. me

  1985. God

  1986. I

  1987. come

  1988. to

  1989. you

  1990. this

  1991. morning

  1992. Lord

  1993. so

  1994. many

  1995. times

  1996. your

  1997. word

  1998. is

  1999. is

  2000. not

  2001. easy

  2002. and

  2003. simple

  2004. it

  2005. challenges

  2006. us

  2007. it's

  2008. difficult

  2009. and

  2010. it's

  2011. just

  2012. the

  2013. reminder

  2014. Lord

  2015. that

  2016. we

  2017. we

  2018. in

  2019. our

  2020. limitations

  2021. need

  2022. your

  2023. spirit

  2024. to

  2025. teach

  2026. us

  2027. to

  2028. shape

  2029. us

  2030. to

  2031. train

  2032. us

  2033. into

  2034. who

  2035. you've

  2036. called

  2037. us

  2038. to

  2039. be

  2040. Lord

  2041. and

  2042. what

  2043. you've

  2044. called

  2045. us

  2046. to

  2047. do

  2048. to

  2049. who

  2050. you've

  2051. called

  2052. us

  2053. to

  2054. become

  2055. God

  2056. I

  2057. thank

  2058. you

  2059. that

  2060. the

  2061. goal

  2062. of

  2063. church

  2064. discipline

  2065. is

  2066. not

  2067. how

  2068. do

  2069. we

  2070. get

  2071. rid

  2072. of

  2073. people

  2074. how

  2075. do

  2076. we

  2077. call

  2078. out

  2079. people

  2080. but

  2081. the

  2082. goal

  2083. of

  2084. church

  2085. discipline

  2086. is

  2087. how

  2088. do

  2089. we

  2090. bring

  2091. people

  2092. back

  2093. how

  2094. do

  2095. we

  2096. restore

  2097. that

  2098. which

  2099. was

  2100. broken

  2101. how

  2102. do

  2103. we

  2104. reconcile

  2105. with

  2106. one

  2107. another

  2108. but

  2109. also

  2110. Lord

  2111. with

  2112. a

  2113. holy

  2114. God

  2115. God

  2116. I

  2117. pray

  2118. I

  2119. pray

  2120. Lord

  2121. that

  2122. if

  2123. there's

  2124. anyone

  2125. here

  2126. today

  2127. maybe

  2128. they

  2129. find

  2130. themselves

  2131. at

  2132. that

  2133. rock

  2134. bottom

  2135. God

  2136. and

  2137. they've

  2138. been

  2139. reaching

  2140. and

  2141. trying

  2142. to

  2143. grasp

  2144. and

  2145. trying

  2146. to

  2147. pull

  2148. themselves

  2149. up

  2150. through

  2151. other

  2152. means

  2153. and

  2154. through

  2155. other

  2156. ways

  2157. things

  2158. that

  2159. are

  2160. found

  2161. within

  2162. themselves

  2163. of

  2164. who

  2165. they

  2166. are

  2167. that

  2168. God

  2169. today

  2170. they would

  2171. just

  2172. reach

  2173. up

  2174. and

  2175. grab

  2176. a hold

  2177. of

  2178. Jesus

  2179. that

  2180. I

  2181. pray

  2182. that

  2183. if

  2184. there's

  2185. someone

  2186. here

  2187. in

  2188. Lord

  2189. this

  2190. resonates

  2191. with

  2192. them

  2193. there's

  2194. a

  2195. discussion

  2196. that

  2197. they

  2198. need

  2199. to

  2200. have

  2201. there's

  2202. someone

  2203. they need

  2204. to sit

  2205. across

  2206. from

  2207. whether

  2208. it's

  2209. that

  2210. they've

  2211. sinned

  2212. against

  2213. them

  2214. or

  2215. that

  2216. they've

  2217. been

  2218. sinned

  2219. against

  2220. God

  2221. I pray

  2222. that the

  2223. heart

  2224. of

  2225. Christ

  2226. would

  2227. resonate

  2228. within

  2229. them

  2230. working

  2231. toward

  2232. forgiveness

  2233. working

  2234. toward

  2235. restoration

  2236. praying

  2237. for

  2238. reconciliation

  2239. God

  2240. we all

  2241. walked in

  2242. here this

  2243. morning

  2244. coming

  2245. from

  2246. somewhere

  2247. a little

  2248. different

  2249. a little

  2250. unique

  2251. but what

  2252. we all

  2253. need

  2254. is a

  2255. little bit

  2256. more of

  2257. Jesus

  2258. a little

  2259. bit

  2260. more

  2261. of

  2262. the

  2263. working

  2264. of

  2265. your

  2266. hand

  2267. so

  2268. God

  2269. do

  2270. what

  2271. you

  2272. do

  2273. in

  2274. us

  2275. do

  2276. what

  2277. you

  2278. do

  2279. through

  2280. us

  2281. and

  2282. let's

  2283. in

  2284. Jesus

  2285. them

  2286. pray

  2287. amen

  2288. amen

  2289. that's

  2290. that's

  2291. it

  2292. for

  2293. this

  2294. week's

  2295. message

  2296. be

  2297. sure

  2298. to

  2299. check

  2300. back

  2301. next

  2302. week

  2303. for

  2304. a

  2305. new

  2306. episode

  2307. and

  2308. in

  2309. the

  2310. meantime

  2311. you

  2312. can

  2313. visit

  2314. us

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