Sermon
Misunderstood • Week 6
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Well, good morning. If you have your Bibles, and I hope you do, I want to invite you to join us in
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Matthew chapter 18 is where we will be. Specifically, when we look at the whole passage, we'll start
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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in verse 15. If you do not have a Bible, we have some free ones back here at this black table.
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We'd love for you at the end of the service to come by and grab one of those. It's a gift from
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us to you. We would love for you to be able to engage with us as we dive into God's Word each
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week. So please make sure that you stop by and get one of those. A couple of things just kind of
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going on. I found out this morning, was talking to Bobby David. Bobby is, his nephew is Daryl Cheeks,
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our missionary in the Philippines. And Bobby was sharing with me that he had heard from Daryl in
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the first quarter, as they count salvations, that 83 people had given their life to the Lord as a
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result of that ministry. And so, yeah, absolutely. It's just fantastic and wonderful to see that all
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that God is doing and how God allows us as a local church to be able to participate in different areas
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all throughout the world with what he is doing. And we count that as a privilege and as an honor to do
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that. Before we get into our passage this morning, it was neat. You know, sometimes when we're reading
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through, and so if you're first time here, we're kind of looking at some of those commonly misunderstood
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Bible verses that are found. But there's a Bible verse this weekend that's kind of landed
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with just some newness and some freshness for me in my life this morning. I just want to share that
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with y'all as we get going. And it's found in Genesis chapter 2, verse 18. It says,
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Aaron and Emma went out of town this weekend and left with, they went with Aaron's mom. They went off
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to the beach for the weekend, kind of a long girls weekend, taking off, go down there, didn't get
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invited, not bitter. We're moving on past that, right? And so I call Grayson on Friday and I'm like,
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hey buddy, I'm going to stop by and pick up some food. What would you like? And he was like,
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could you get cereal and Chinese food? So thank you Panda Express. Large meal for a family. Let's
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share it with you. All right. $35 has fed me and Grayson three different meals. Four boxes of cereal
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from Dollar General has fed us three different meals. It is not good that man shall be alone.
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Right? Fellas, this is what it would have been like. I'm telling you, not a good situation.
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She'll be back around one o'clock today. Praise the Lord. Well, so here's our Bible verse for this
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morning. We're going to look at Matthew 18, 20. God's word says, for whether two or three are gathered
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in my name, there I am among them. Would you go to the Lord with me in prayer? God, we thank you for
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your word. We thank you for the authoritative word that you give us. Lord, your perfect word. God,
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today as we study this particular verse in context to which Christ gave it to us, God, in the areas
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where we have misused or misunderstand, Lord, we thank you and we praise you that there's grace.
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God, may we wrestle with the difficult sometimes things through scripture to understand the beauty
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and the fullness of who you are, Lord, and what you've called us to. And may these be your words and not
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mine. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen. Amen. So let me read our focus verse one more time. One more time.
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Matthew 18, 20. For whether two or three are gathered in my name, there I am among them.
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It's interesting kind of going through and looking at these verses and different ones that we were
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going to look at over the course of the summer. And when I landed on this verse, I would argue that of
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all the verses that we have discussed, of all the verses that we will discuss, this verse has kind of
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been probably the most misused. But honestly, I don't think misused in a manipulative way.
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But I know that I have, and I know that you probably have misused it, or in a church context, you've
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heard this verse discussed or used, and oftentimes it's actually misused. This verse came across to me as
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one to kind of put out front for us to think through. Actually, this past January, I got an
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email one Sunday morning actually from Daryl Cheeks, our missionary in the Philippines. And he's like,
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hey man, can you help me understand this verse and use it in context? And so we talked through
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email kind of working through this. So when this verse is typically misused, it's typically used in
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a worship service, a Bible study, a prayer time with a group of people, right, like a community of
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believers who are gathered together, right? So there's more than one of them, there's a handful,
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there's several, and this verse is used as they maybe prepare to pray or prepare to open God's Word,
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and it's used almost as like an invitation or an acknowledgement that because there is more than
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one person there, that God is also there. So we gather together for prayer. We say things like,
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God, we know as we gather together that your Word tells us we're two or three gathered in my name.
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And here's the truth, this isn't a blatant lie, right? We know that whether there are two or more,
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God is with them. We can see that and draw that out from Scripture, but there can also be confusing
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parts of Scripture because if it's whether there are two or three are gathered, then you're there,
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which is sometimes how it's understood, then does that mean where there is one that He is not?
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Or where there is none that He is not? So I just want us to talk a little bit this morning about
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what I'm talking about, just the presence of God, so that you and I can have a right doctrinal,
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theological understanding about the presence of God, because Scripture does tell us that God is
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omnipresent. God is omnipresent, and what that means is God in His entire being is present everywhere.
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It's one of the many ways that He's different from you and I.
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God is not limited by space, by time, or by circumstance.
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That everywhere there is, there is God. That's why David writes in Psalm 139, verses 7 through 10,
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where shall I go from your spirit, or where shall I flee from your presence?
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If I ascend to heaven, you are there. If I make my bed in Shiloh, you are there. If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me.
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So where is God? He is everywhere. He is everywhere at all times, in all cases, and we can praise Him for that.
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He's here now. He's with you when you leave.
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We also see, and we see this in Scripture, and this is a little bit unique and special that we see when we talk about the presence of God, is that we see it in the incarnation of Christ.
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John 1, verse 14,
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And the word became flesh, and dwelt among us, and we have seen His glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.
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And that what we know, Jesus, the Son of God, took on flesh. We see in Jesus, that fully God and fully man, that this is who He is.
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In John 14, 9, Jesus says, when you've seen me, you've seen the Father.
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So God is everywhere.
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We see God in His presence in the person of Christ.
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But then there's, and this is probably the way that you and I are most familiar with, of what we talk about, what we speak to in our Christian language, is in the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.
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1 Corinthians 6, 19 through 20,
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Or do you not know that your body, your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?
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You are not your own, for you were bought with a price, so glorify God with your body.
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So God is everywhere.
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God is Jesus.
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And then God indwells us.
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In Acts 1-8, it's the fulfillment of the promise that Jesus gives you, the coming of the Holy Spirit, that He will fall on us as believers.
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As believers.
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And then we see the fulfillment of this in Acts 2 of the early church,
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And then it's the continual indwelling of the Holy Spirit in the lives of every man, woman, and child who puts their faith and hope in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
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It's the promise of what we have.
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So this indwelling of the Holy Spirit, it's a permanent action taken by God to live in the body of believers.
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This is how new birth happens, this is how we are confirmed within us that we belong to God, this is how we receive our spiritual gifts, this is how we understand Scripture, this is how we are convicted of our sins, right?
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And the list goes on and on and on.
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It's not because we're some great moral creatures who have come to enlightenment.
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It's the very presence of God, the Holy Spirit who lives in us.
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So let's look at this passage.
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So if God is omnipresent everywhere,
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if God is in the person of Christ, fully God, fully man,
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and dwells in the body
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of every believer,
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this isn't trying to explain
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a concept
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that's not real.
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This is a real tangible piece of who we are.
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Then what do we do
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with Matthew 18, 20?
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What do we do with this?
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These are the words of Jesus.
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These are red letter words
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in our gospel of Jesus
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for where two or three
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are gathered in my name,
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there
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I am
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among them.
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So what we want to do this morning
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is understand these pieces
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of God, but understand
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the fullness of what
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these words mean by asking
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in ourself,
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in what context,
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in what setting,
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for what purpose
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did Jesus give this promise?
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It's a promise that he gives
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to his followers.
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It's a promise that he gives to us
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that we can cling to,
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that we can hold to,
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that we can use
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so that we live in the confidence
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of who we are
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and who he's called us
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to be.
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When I was talking to someone
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this morning
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and they were,
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we were talking about something
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kind of sitting back in the office
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and they asked about this
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and so I was telling them,
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I was like,
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well,
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here's the context of this verse.
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It's a verse that we've mostly,
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all of us have heard probably.
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And I said the context
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and then they go,
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huh,
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really?
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So maybe you have that
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with us this morning,
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right?
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Let's read Matthew 18
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starting in verse 15.
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If your brother sins against you,
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go and tell him his fault
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between you and him alone.
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If he listens to you,
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you have gained your brother.
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But if he does not listen,
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take one or two others
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along with you
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that every charge
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may be established
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by the evidence
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of two or three witnesses.
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If he refuses to listen to them,
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tell it to the church.
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And if he refuses to listen
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even to the church,
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let him be to you
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as a Gentile
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and a tax collector.
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Truly I say to you,
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whatever you bind on earth
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shall be bound in heaven
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and whatever you loose on earth
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shall be loosed in heaven.
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Again I say to you,
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if two of you agree on earth
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about anything,
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they ask it,
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it will be done for them
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by my Father in heaven.
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For where two or three
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are gathered in my name,
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there I am among them.
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So let's look at this context.
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The context for this verse
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that Jesus gives
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is church discipline.
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It's church discipline.
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Now, I'll be honest with you,
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church discipline
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is probably not the hot topic
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that gets everybody excited, right?
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Like, let's run some low attendance,
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we're going to talk about
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church discipline and tithing.
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And everybody's like,
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ah, I got somewhere I got to be.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, this is one of those
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that's like, ah.
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But I think it can be unfairly criticized
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as harsh.
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But I think what we'll see
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in this passage of Scripture
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is that the goal
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is not an attack of the person,
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but attack on sin.
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And Jesus striving to hold us,
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the church,
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accountable to a standard
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when it comes to sin.
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Right before this,
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Jesus is teaching.
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Jesus is in one of those
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teaching modes that he has.
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And right before he goes
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into church discipline,
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Jesus talks about
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the parable of the lost sheep
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and the emphasis on that
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of restoring someone,
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of bringing someone back.
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Like, praise the Lord,
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hallelujah,
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this is what happens.
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The parable right after this
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is Jesus sharing the parable
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of the unforgiving servant,
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of how to forgive someone.
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These are two things
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that you and I see
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and we're drawn to.
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These are those goosebump passages
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that we get
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as the Holy Spirit
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is working in us
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to draw us,
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to convict us.
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We're going to restore someone.
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We're going to forgive someone.
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We're going to see this happening.
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But sandwich right there
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in the middle.
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Jesus talks about
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this is what
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church discipline looks like.
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This is the necessity of it.
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So let's look at what Jesus says
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for us as we find this.
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Here's the setting.
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A brother or,
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that's the term that is used
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as brothers,
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but this could be any believer.
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A brother or sister in Christ
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has committed a sin
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and very specifically
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committed a sin against you.
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And I think this is something
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that we can probably
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all relate to, right?
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I don't know about you,
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but I know
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that I have sinned
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against others
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and I've also,
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unfortunately,
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sat in the other seat
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and felt that
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sin against me.
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And what Jesus walks through
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is when this happens
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and we acknowledge
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and we acknowledge
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that this will happen,
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when this happens,
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how do we handle
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conflict?
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How do we handle
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conflict in light
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of the gospel?
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How do we handle
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conflict in a way
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that brings glory to God?
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And how do we handle
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conflict
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in a way that
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unifies the church
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and not,
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doesn't divide the church?
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So he gives three steps.
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Three steps that are
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kind of build
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in severity
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of what this looks like.
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Step number one,
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he says,
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go to them
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in private.
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Verse 15,
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if your brother
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sins against you,
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go and tell him
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his fault
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between you
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and him alone.
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if he listens
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to you,
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you have
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gained
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your brother.
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Hmm.
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I lost count
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in how many times
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I've failed at this.
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Our tendency
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can be
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when someone
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does this
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to not do
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what Christ
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has called us to,
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but to ignore
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or to gossip.
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Can I tell you
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what happened
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to me?
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Let me tell you
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what someone's done.
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Or,
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I see their sin,
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I'm going to ignore it.
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I see their sin,
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I'm going to dismiss it.
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Both of these
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is what Christ
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points us to
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are not
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essential
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when he's
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calling us
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to be committed
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to maintaining
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healthy,
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gospel-centered
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relationships
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within
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the body
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of Christ.
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Aaron and I
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celebrated
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21 years
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of marriage
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this past
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June 19th.
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I was thinking
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about
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the
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difficulties
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early on
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in marriage.
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I mean,
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you're learning
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how to live
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with someone
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that you've
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never lived
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with before.
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You're learning
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how to share
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things like
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finances.
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You're learning
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how to put
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others' needs
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ahead of your
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own.
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And these
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aren't things
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that we're
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necessarily
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great at.
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One of the
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things that I
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found and
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that I remember
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back in mine
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and Aaron's
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relationship
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early on
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is someone
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would do
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something
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against the
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other one.
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right?
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And maybe
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this wasn't
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like a sinful
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attack
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but it was
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something where
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you felt
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hurt.
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You felt
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bothered.
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You felt
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offended.
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And then
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we would just
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kind of
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swallow it
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down and
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suck it up
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and think
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we'll just
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or I'll just
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move on
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past this.
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and the
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next thing
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you know
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three weeks
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later one
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of you
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leaves the
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empty carton
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of milk
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in the
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refrigerator
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and one
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person blows
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up at the
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other.
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Right?
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It's what
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happens.
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Instead of
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saying like
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hey can we
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talk about
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this we
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say hey
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can we
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ignore
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this?
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And then
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it builds
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and builds
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and builds
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and builds.
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And so
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Christ has
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given us a
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picture of
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the church
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as much as
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something like
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not putting
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your dishes
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in the dishwasher
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or not
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getting the
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mail as
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you come
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in or
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putting an
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empty milk
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carton back
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into the
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refrigerator.
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While these
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things are
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small and
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petty within
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the context
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of a
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marriage
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much more
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so is the
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sinfulness
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of one
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another
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within the
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body of
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Christ
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exceedingly
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building and
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building and
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building and
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that you and
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I are called
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not to commit
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further sins
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of gossip
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but not to
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commit further
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sins of
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ignoring.
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That God
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calls us
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to engage
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within this
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and your
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thought could
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honestly be
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a lot like
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my thinking
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sometimes with
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this.
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Well that's
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just going to
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create more
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conflict.
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That's just
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going to
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create more
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drama.
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That's just
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going to
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create unnecessary
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conflict between
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me and another
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person and it
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could destroy
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the relationship.
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But what's
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more important
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your relationship
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or their soul.
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And so
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Jesus is
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calling us
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in this
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first step
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to a
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personal
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private
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conversation
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where the
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goal
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there's a
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goal to
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these
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is not
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let me get
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something off
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my chest
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where the
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goal isn't
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well let me
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call you out
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on something
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right.
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This kind of
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plays back
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to a few
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weeks ago
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where we
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talked about
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judge not
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lest you
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be judged.
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It's not
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ignore.
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It's the
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heart in
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which we
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confront.
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It's the
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heart in
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which we
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sit down
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with one
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another and
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so the
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goal for
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this of
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what we
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see in
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Matthew 18
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is forgiveness
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restoration and
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reconciliation.
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That's the
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goal.
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It's not the
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airing of
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grievances.
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It's not how
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I'm right and
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you're wrong.
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It's not the
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gotcha.
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It's not let me
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cut you with
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my words because
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you cut me
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with yours.
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It's
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forgiveness.
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It's
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restoration.
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It's
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reconciliation.
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And that's
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always the
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goal.
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And the
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beauty of
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that is
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what we
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find is
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that's the
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path and
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the plan
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of the
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gospel.
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It's
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forgiveness.
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The release
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of wrongdoing
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that someone
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has committed
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against you.
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Let me
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share this
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with you
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as I
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forgive you
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and prepare
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to release
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this.
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Well,
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here's the
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thing also
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about forgiveness
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even if they
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reject that you
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and I are still
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called to
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forgive.
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But it's
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forgiveness.
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I'm going to
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release.
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I'm going to
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let go.
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I'm not going
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to hold
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this against
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you.
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But there's
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also the
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restoration.
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Because of
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what has
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happened,
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there is
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something that
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is broken.
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There's a
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brokenness in
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the relationship
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but there's
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also a
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brokenness
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within you.
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There's a
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brokenness
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within me.
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And so
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restoration invites
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within to the
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process
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accountability
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between one
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another
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so that we
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can work
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through what
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God has
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for us.
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You see the
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process that
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begins to
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happen.
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So that
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reconciliation
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might be
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possible which
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is the
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fullness of
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the
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restoration
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of the
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relationship
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so that we
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are not
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brothers and
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sisters in
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Christ with
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the divide
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between us
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that we're
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a brother
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and sister
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in Christ.
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unified
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under the
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authority of
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God
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living for
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the gospel.
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So this
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would be
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great if
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Jesus says
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hey here's
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step one
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this is the
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only step
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that's needed
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because it's
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going to happen
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this way every
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single time
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but that's not
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the case.
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So he gives
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us step two.
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He says
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take one or
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two others
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with you
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if they
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reject what
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you say
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to discuss
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it more.
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Verse 16
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but if he
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does not
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listen
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if he does
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not listen
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take one or
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two others
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along with
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you
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that every
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charge
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may be
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established
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by the
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evidence
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of two
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or three
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witnesses.
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Here is why
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other believers
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need to be
-
invited into
-
the process
-
because hurt
-
people tend
-
to want
-
to lash
-
out and
-
hurt people.
-
Misunderstandings
-
could take
-
place.
-
What someone
-
thought was
-
intentional could
-
have been a
-
complete and
-
total accidents.
-
People see
-
things differently.
-
People understand
-
things differently
-
and so the
-
guidance of
-
God's word
-
is to invite
-
godly men
-
and women
-
of faith
-
into the
-
process for
-
accountability
-
for both
-
sides.
-
It's not
-
rallying the
-
troops on
-
your side.
-
It is getting
-
fellow brothers
-
and sisters
-
in Christ
-
to come
-
alongside
-
who understand
-
the important
-
part of this
-
that we will
-
emphasize and
-
repeat over
-
and over
-
again
-
what is
-
the goal.
-
Forgiveness,
-
restoration,
-
reconciliation.
-
That's what
-
we're moving
-
toward.
-
That's what
-
we're pursuing.
-
He does not
-
listen, take
-
one or two
-
others along
-
with you that
-
every charge
-
may be
-
established by
-
the evidence
-
of two
-
or three
-
witnesses.
-
Then there's
-
another step.
-
And this
-
third step
-
is not
-
a step
-
that you
-
take lightly.
-
It's not
-
a step
-
that a
-
church
-
considers
-
on a whim.
-
it's not
-
a step
-
that as
-
a pastor
-
that you
-
don't struggle
-
with a great
-
burden
-
for what
-
God's Word
-
says.
-
Let's look
-
back at
-
verse 17.
-
If he
-
refuses
-
to listen
-
to them
-
tell it
-
to the
-
church.
-
If he
-
refuses
-
to listen
-
even to
-
the church
-
let him
-
be to
-
you
-
as a
-
Gentile
-
and a
-
tax
-
collector.
-
These
-
are big
-
powerful
-
words
-
by Jesus.
-
Jesus
-
commands
-
that when
-
the problem
-
of sin
-
of
-
unrepentant
-
sin
-
refuses
-
to be
-
dealt
-
with.
-
That you
-
bring it
-
before
-
the
-
church.
-
That the
-
church
-
processes
-
the weight
-
of the
-
condition
-
of the
-
unrepentant
-
sin
-
with the
-
individual.
-
And then
-
in culturally
-
speaking
-
Jesus
-
says
-
treat
-
them
-
like a
-
Gentile
-
or a
-
tax
-
collector.
-
Those
-
who at
-
the time
-
would be
-
labeled
-
as
-
those
-
who
-
were the
-
most
-
resistant
-
and
-
against
-
the work
-
of God
-
in their
-
life.
-
about
-
15
-
years
-
ago
-
before
-
I
-
came
-
here
-
to be
-
the
-
senior
-
pastor
-
of
-
this
-
church.
-
We
-
had to
-
walk
-
through
-
this
-
situation
-
with an
-
individual
-
at the
-
church
-
that I
-
was
-
serving
-
at.
-
unwilling
-
unrepentant
-
to see
-
the sin
-
the blatant
-
the horrific
-
sin
-
that was
-
in their
-
life.
-
Unwilling
-
to repent
-
before God
-
and in
-
the hardest
-
decision
-
but in
-
a unified
-
decision
-
we made
-
the choice
-
to play
-
out
-
what
-
Jesus
-
had
-
commanded
-
us
-
to.
-
It's
-
hard
-
but it's
-
essential.
-
Why?
-
Why?
-
We all
-
sin.
-
We all
-
sin.
-
There's not
-
a person
-
here today
-
me included
-
that hasn't
-
sinned
-
over and
-
over again
-
already
-
today.
-
we all
-
sin
-
but the
-
unwillingness
-
to acknowledge
-
that you're
-
a sinner
-
the unwillingness
-
to repent
-
of the sin
-
that's the
-
issue
-
while sin
-
yes is a
-
heart issue
-
unrepentant
-
sin
-
is a
-
darker
-
deeper
-
issue
-
of the
-
heart
-
that begins
-
to consume
-
and destroy
-
the life
-
of the
-
person.
-
Here's
-
what's
-
crazy
-
about
-
step
-
three.
-
Step
-
three
-
has the
-
same
-
goal.
-
Wait a
-
minute.
-
We're
-
talking
-
about
-
removal.
-
We're
-
talking
-
about
-
a level
-
of
-
discipline.
-
We're
-
talking
-
about
-
treating
-
someone
-
as a
-
Gentile
-
or a
-
tax
-
collector.
-
It's
-
just going
-
to create
-
bitterness
-
and anger
-
and strife.
-
It's going
-
to divide
-
but it's
-
the same
-
goal.
-
It's
-
the same
-
goal.
-
Forgiveness,
-
restoration,
-
and
-
reconciliation.
-
The most,
-
well, a lot
-
of the churches
-
in the Bible
-
were dysfunctional
-
in a lot
-
of the things
-
that are
-
happening.
-
But the
-
church at
-
Corinth had
-
a lot of
-
problems.
-
I want to
-
read, if you
-
want to turn
-
there with
-
me, I
-
apologize.
-
It's not on
-
the screen.
-
I decided to
-
add this.
-
this morning.
-
But if you
-
want to turn
-
to 1 Corinthians
1 Corinthians 5 chapter mention
-
chapter 5
-
in your
-
Bible, I
-
want to
-
read the
-
first five
-
verses.
-
As the
-
apostle Paul
-
deals
-
specifically
-
with a
-
matter
-
within the
-
church
-
of taking
-
how do
-
you apply
-
these hard
-
difficult
-
truths
-
of Jesus
-
to a
-
very specific
-
situation.
-
1 Corinthians
-
5
-
starting
-
in
-
verse
-
1.
-
It is
-
actually
-
reported
-
that there
-
is sexual
-
immorality
-
among you
-
and of a
-
kind that
-
is not
-
tolerated
-
even among
-
pagans
-
for a man
-
has his
-
father's
-
wife.
-
and you
-
were
-
arrogant
-
ought
-
you
-
not
-
rather
-
to
-
mourn?
-
Let
-
him
-
who has
-
done
-
this
-
be
-
removed
-
from
-
among
-
you.
-
For
-
though
-
absent
-
in
-
body
-
I
-
am
-
present
-
in
-
spirit
-
and
-
as
-
if
-
present
-
I
-
have
-
already
-
pronounced
-
judgment
-
on the
-
one
-
who
-
did
-
such
-
a
-
thing.
-
When
-
you
-
are
-
assembled
-
in
-
the
-
name
-
of
-
the
-
Lord
-
Jesus
-
and
-
my
-
spirit
-
is
-
present
-
with
-
the
-
power
-
of
-
our
-
Lord
-
Jesus.
-
Verse
-
five
-
this
-
is
-
tough.
-
You
-
are
-
to
-
deliver
-
this
-
man
-
to
-
Satan
-
for
-
the
-
destruction
-
of
-
the
-
flesh
-
so
-
that
-
his
-
spirit
-
may
-
be
-
saved
-
in
-
the
-
day
-
of
-
the
-
Lord.
-
So
-
Paul
-
says
-
there's
-
this
-
despicable
-
grotesque
-
level
-
of
-
sexual
-
immorality
-
that
-
has
-
been
-
allowed
-
to
-
infiltrate
-
the
-
church.
-
Paul
-
says
-
it's
-
so
-
bad
-
that
-
it's
-
not
-
tolerated
-
amongst
-
pagans
-
who
-
have
-
temples
-
for
-
prostitutes.
-
And
-
he said
-
and you
-
are being
-
silent
-
about it.
-
You're
-
not
-
dealing
-
with
-
this.
-
And
-
this
-
sin
-
infects
-
and it
-
spreads
-
and it's
-
unrepentant
-
sin
-
by someone
-
who claims
-
to be a
-
believer.
-
So what
-
you've got
-
to do
-
treat them
-
like that
-
pagan
-
like that
-
tax collector
-
and let
-
them go.
-
Well
-
Bo
-
well Paul
-
but we
-
want them
-
to come
-
to know
-
Jesus.
-
Yes.
-
yes
-
the goal
-
for Paul
-
is still
-
forgiveness
-
restoration
-
and
-
reconciliation
-
but here's
-
what's got to
-
happen
-
it's their
-
flesh.
-
You see
-
for I have
-
been crucified
-
with Christ
-
it is no longer
-
I who live
-
but he who
-
lives in me.
-
It's
-
crucifying
-
of the flesh
-
it's a
-
destruction
-
of the sin
-
it's knowing
-
that I do
-
it
-
and I do
-
it often
-
and it is
-
offensive
-
to a holy
-
God.
-
So turn
-
him over.
-
Turn
-
him over
-
so that
-
in the
-
consequences
-
of his
-
actions
-
maybe the
-
destruction
-
of his
-
flesh
-
would happen
-
in a
-
phrase that
-
you and I
-
refer to
-
let him
-
hit
-
rock
-
bottom.
-
for most
-
of my
-
unsaved
-
life
-
for most
-
of my
-
unsaved
-
life
-
those
-
around
-
me
-
try to
-
ignore
-
and
-
dismiss
-
the
-
sinfulness
-
of my
-
flesh.
-
They
-
talked
-
about it
-
everybody
-
knew
-
about it
-
but they
-
wanted to
-
ignore it
-
when it
-
came in
-
the
-
conversations
-
with me.
-
They
-
want to
-
dismiss it
-
when it
-
came in
-
the
-
conversations
-
with me
-
and I'll
-
never forget
-
this.
-
I'll never
-
forget the
-
day after
-
my 22nd
-
birthday
-
sitting at
-
my dinner
-
table
-
with my
-
mom eating
-
breakfast that
-
morning
-
and her
-
coming to
-
me and
-
saying listen
-
I've
-
watched your
-
destruction
-
I've
-
watched
-
your
-
pain
-
I've
-
watched
-
the
-
sin
-
of your
-
life
-
and no
-
more
-
no more
-
not for
-
me
-
not for
-
your dad
-
not for
-
your sister
-
we're
-
releasing
-
you
-
and she
-
let me
-
hit
-
rock bottom
-
the most
-
loving
-
action
-
my mom
-
ever gave
-
me
-
was get
-
out
-
was get
-
out
-
so that
-
my spirit
-
might be
-
saved
-
you were
-
to deliver
-
this man
-
to Satan
-
for the
-
destruction
-
of his
-
flesh
-
so that
-
his spirit
-
might be
-
saved
-
in the
-
day of
-
the Lord
-
two days
-
later
-
two days
-
later
-
rock
-
bottom
-
literally
-
and
-
spiritually
-
reeking
-
of the
-
smell
-
of my
-
sin
-
knowing
-
that
-
there's
-
no
-
step
-
that I
-
can figure
-
out
-
there's
-
no
-
manipulation
-
that I
-
can
-
create
-
there's
-
no
-
lie
-
that I
-
can
-
share
-
to get
-
me
-
out
-
of the
-
hole
-
that I'm
-
in
-
when I
-
heard
-
the
-
soft
-
powerful
-
voice
-
of God
-
of God
-
and
-
in that
-
moment
-
what I
-
knew
-
that I
-
was a
-
sinner
-
who
-
desperately
-
needed
-
Jesus
-
and
-
nothing
-
and no
-
one else
-
could
-
fix
-
where I
-
found
-
myself
-
and on
-
that
-
day
-
God
-
saved
-
me
-
and on
-
that day
-
not only
-
did I
-
experience
-
forgiveness
-
and
-
restoration
-
and
-
reconciliation
-
from a
-
holy
-
God
-
but I
-
experienced
-
forgiveness
-
restoration
-
and
-
reconciliation
-
from a
-
godly
-
mother
-
praise
-
the
-
Lord
-
for that
-
day
-
here
-
is
-
why
-
Matthew
-
18
-
matters
-
I
-
know
-
I've
-
sat
-
in the
-
seat
-
I've
-
had the
-
conversation
-
I've
-
had the
-
conversation
-
back toward
-
me
-
when it
-
comes
-
to this
-
level
-
of
-
discipline
-
when it
-
comes
-
to this
-
level
-
of what
-
God has
-
called us
-
to
-
what is
-
needed
-
amongst
-
the church
-
is unity
-
and not
-
division
-
what is
-
needed
-
amongst
-
brothers
-
and sisters
-
in Christ
-
is clarity
-
of where
-
God is
-
going
-
and clarity
-
of what
-
God is
-
doing
-
and so
-
Jesus
-
says
-
this is
-
what I'm
-
calling you
-
to do
-
and if
-
this is
-
the point
-
that it
-
gets to
-
treat
-
him like
-
a
-
Gentile
-
treat
-
him like
-
a tax
-
collector
-
and in
-
the unity
-
I've
-
commanded
-
you to
-
what
-
you do
-
holds
-
what you
-
ask
-
for
-
shall
-
be
-
done
-
because
-
for
-
where
-
the
-
two
-
or
-
three
-
are
-
gathered
-
in
-
my
-
name
-
and
-
let me
-
add
-
this
-
not
-
because
-
Christ's
-
words
-
are
-
insufficient
-
but
-
because
-
we
-
need
-
understanding
-
in
-
the
-
work
-
in
-
unity
-
and
-
movement
-
of
-
the
-
gospel
-
there
-
I
-
am
-
among
-
them
-
the
-
goal
-
what's
-
the
-
goal
-
of
-
kids
-
camp
-
what's
-
the
-
goal
-
of
-
mission
-
trips
-
what's
-
the
-
goal
-
of
-
small
-
groups
-
they've
-
all
-
got
-
different
-
aspects
-
of
-
things
-
that
-
they
-
play
-
out
-
and
-
things
-
that
-
they
-
do
-
but
-
what
-
is
-
it
-
overarching
-
it's
-
forgiveness
-
forgiveness
-
from
-
God
-
because
-
of
-
the
-
condition
-
of
-
our
-
heart
-
of
-
restoration
-
to
-
take
-
that
-
which
-
was
-
broken
-
and
-
mend
-
it
-
to
-
be
-
used
-
to
-
bring
-
glory
-
to
-
reconcile
-
to
-
take
-
that
-
which
-
was
-
separated
-
and
-
bring
-
back
-
together
-
again
-
because
-
church
-
we
-
serve
-
a
-
God
-
of
-
reconciliation
-
it's
-
the point
-
of the
-
cross
-
it's
-
the hope
-
that we
-
have
-
that all
-
of us
-
the Bible
-
says
-
are sinners
-
and deserve
-
death
-
but
-
through
-
the
-
work
-
of
-
Christ
-
we've
-
been
-
forgiven
-
we've
-
been
-
made
-
new
-
and
-
we've
-
been
-
brought
-
into
-
a
-
relationship
-
with
-
all
-
we
-
got
-
I
-
hope
-
this
-
wasn't
-
a
-
hard
-
passage
-
message
-
to
-
listen
-
to
-
it
-
was
-
a
-
hard
-
passage
-
to
-
preach
-
it's
-
a
-
hard
-
passage
-
to
-
work
-
through
-
if
-
you're
-
here
-
right
-
now
-
and
-
what
-
settles
-
in
-
your
-
heart
-
is
-
this
-
seems
-
unloving
-
I
-
would
-
challenge
-
you
-
to
-
think
-
through
-
what
-
love
-
is
-
to
-
see
-
and to
-
understand
-
and to
-
know
-
the heart
-
of God
-
not a
-
God who
-
enables
-
but a
-
God who
-
forgives
-
who
-
restores
-
and
-
reconciles
-
and
-
this
-
is
-
the
-
ministry
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that
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he's
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called
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us
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to
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would
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you
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pray
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with
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me
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God
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I
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come
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to
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you
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this
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morning
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Lord
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so
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many
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times
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your
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word
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is
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is
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not
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easy
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and
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simple
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it
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challenges
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us
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it's
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difficult
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and
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it's
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just
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the
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reminder
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Lord
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that
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we
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we
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in
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our
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limitations
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need
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your
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spirit
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to
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teach
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us
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to
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shape
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us
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to
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train
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us
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into
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who
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you've
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called
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us
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to
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be
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Lord
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and
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what
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you've
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called
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us
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to
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do
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to
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who
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you've
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called
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us
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to
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become
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God
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I
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thank
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you
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that
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the
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goal
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of
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church
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discipline
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is
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not
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how
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do
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we
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get
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rid
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of
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people
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how
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do
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we
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call
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out
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people
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but
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the
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goal
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of
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church
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discipline
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is
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how
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do
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we
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bring
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people
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back
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how
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do
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we
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restore
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that
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which
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was
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broken
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how
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do
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we
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reconcile
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with
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one
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another
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but
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also
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Lord
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with
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a
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holy
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God
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God
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I
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pray
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I
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pray
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Lord
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that
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if
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there's
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anyone
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here
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today
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maybe
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they
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find
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themselves
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at
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that
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rock
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bottom
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God
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and
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they've
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been
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reaching
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and
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trying
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to
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grasp
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and
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trying
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to
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pull
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themselves
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up
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through
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other
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means
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and
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through
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other
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ways
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things
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that
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are
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found
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within
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themselves
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of
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who
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they
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are
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that
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God
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today
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they would
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just
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reach
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up
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and
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grab
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a hold
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of
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Jesus
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that
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I
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pray
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that
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if
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there's
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someone
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here
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in
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Lord
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this
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resonates
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with
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them
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there's
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a
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discussion
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that
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they
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need
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to
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have
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there's
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someone
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they need
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to sit
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across
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from
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whether
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it's
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that
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they've
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sinned
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against
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them
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or
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that
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they've
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been
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sinned
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against
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God
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I pray
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that the
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heart
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of
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Christ
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would
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resonate
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within
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them
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working
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toward
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forgiveness
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working
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toward
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restoration
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praying
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for
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reconciliation
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God
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we all
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walked in
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here this
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morning
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coming
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from
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somewhere
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a little
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different
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a little
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unique
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but what
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we all
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need
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is a
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little bit
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more of
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Jesus
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a little
-
bit
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more
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of
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the
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working
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of
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your
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hand
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so
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God
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do
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what
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you
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do
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in
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us
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do
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what
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you
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do
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through
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us
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and
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let's
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in
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Jesus
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them
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pray
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amen
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amen
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that's
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that's
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it
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for
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this
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week's
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message
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be
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sure
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to
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check
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back
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next
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week
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for
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a
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new
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episode
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and
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in
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the
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meantime
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you
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can
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visit
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us
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online
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at
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