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Before I Go: John 15:1-17

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  1. When I was a kid, I thought that quicksand was

  2. going to be a way bigger problem than it is.

  3. Right? Like, it could be around any corner. And

  4. if you're not paying attention, it's just going

  5. to get you and pull you down. And as an adult,

  6. I've never once had to worry about quicksand.

  7. I don't know about you, but there are these funny

  8. things that when you're a kid, you think they're

  9. going to be a big deal or you think about them

  10. all the time. And then you grow up and it just

  11. doesn't take up a whole lot of mental space.

  12. For me, one of those things was the zoo. Everyone

  13. was talking about the zoo when I was a kid. What

  14. are the animals? What sounds do they make? How

  15. many at a time do they hang out with? And we'd

  16. go to the zoo and we'd hang out. And as an adult,

  17. I kind of stopped going to the zoo. And then

  18. I had kids. And we started going to the zoo again.

  19. And about a year ago, a little over that, we

  20. went to the zoo. And my oldest daughter, Daisy,

  21. was around two. And if you've been to the Reed

  22. Park Zoo here in town, you know that the giraffe

  23. exhibit is like the center of the universe, right?

  24. Like everything really revolves. around the giraffe

  25. exhibit. And so we walked up and people were

  26. feeding the giraffes. And over next to it, there

  27. was like some goat thing. And we're like, oh,

  28. you want to see the goats, Daisy? And no goat

  29. showed up. And I was kind of paying attention.

  30. I heard there was some commotion over at the

  31. giraffe exhibit. And I looked over there and

  32. I walked over. I was like, Grace, Grace is my

  33. wife. I was like, what's going on? She's like,

  34. that duck flew from over there. And there's a

  35. duck pond in the giraffe exhibit. She said that

  36. duck flew over there and it picked a fight with

  37. another duck. And they started fighting and the

  38. fight came out. middle of the giraffe exhibit,

  39. and that baby giraffe, it just kind of like waved

  40. its foot at it, and now I think that duck's neck

  41. is broken. I'm like, oh, no. And sure enough,

  42. like, the duck is, like, something is catastrophically

  43. wrong with this poor duck, right? And, like,

  44. kids are looking. People are like, hey, is there

  45. a zookeeper out there? Like, this is getting

  46. kind of weird. And the baby giraffe that kind

  47. of waved its foot at it is looking at it. And

  48. then the big male giraffe walks up and starts

  49. looking at the duck, too. And we're like, what

  50. are they going to do? And the male giraffe is

  51. looking at it. And it picks up its foot and it

  52. hovers it over the duck. And I'm like, there's

  53. no way. And it slowly starts to snuff out the

  54. duck right there in front of God and everybody.

  55. And we're like, what is, oh my gosh. And Daisy's

  56. like, Daddy, what's happening? I'm like, circle

  57. of life, baby girl. The trap pulls its foot off

  58. and it didn't finish the job. And it takes this

  59. other foot and it does it again. And I cannot

  60. make this up. At that moment, there was a field

  61. trip of eight -year -olds walking by. And I heard

  62. one kid go, hey, what's happening to the duck?

  63. There's a kid on the other side of the exhibit

  64. crying, right? Like the teacher's like, we need

  65. a zookeeper to the giraffe exhibit immediately.

  66. And I was like straight up, I could not stop

  67. laughing. It was the most appalling, shocking

  68. thing I ever imagined I would see at a zoo. To

  69. see a giraffe mercy kill a duck? Like, what?

  70. That was not on my bingo card for that day. And,

  71. like, the point is, like, we don't like to really

  72. talk, right, about, like, when stuff dies because

  73. it's, like, weird and it's awkward. And, like,

  74. yeah, like, it was a duck. It was sad. But, like,

  75. you know, it was a duck. But the fact of the

  76. matter is that... there are things in our lives

  77. that we encounter and we don't like to talk about

  78. like, yeah, maybe that thing needs to be put

  79. to death, right? And I'm not talking about like

  80. the family dog, right? I'm not saying like, hey,

  81. your family dog is too old. I'm gonna take it

  82. to the vet. I'm not talking about that. What

  83. I'm talking about are things that are actually

  84. more covert and things that we have the tendency

  85. to keep around long after they've proven that

  86. they need to die off. And specifically, I'm talking

  87. about ideas, beliefs, and habits that tend to

  88. work like decay and disease in our lives. As

  89. we go about our lives and we go about our days

  90. and we collect information, we collect ideas

  91. and voices, sometimes some of those are no good.

  92. And sometimes they need to be dragged out and

  93. cut out of our lives. And here's the thing. We

  94. like to think of ourselves as rational. autonomous

  95. human beings. In other words, we like to think

  96. that when I make decisions on what to do and

  97. what to think, I'm doing it by an objective measure.

  98. I'm analyzing all of the data and I'm deciding

  99. this is what's good and this is what's bad based

  100. on objective data that is inarguable. But the

  101. truth is that that is actually a complete fallacy.

  102. That we actually make decisions based on emotions

  103. and hopes. and fears far more than we make them

  104. on reason. And what's more is we are constantly

  105. being shaped and fed ideas by external forces

  106. all the time, mostly playing on our emotions,

  107. hopes, and fears. Right? The world around you

  108. knows how you work if you didn't already know.

  109. The world around you that's designed to get your

  110. attention and your resources knows that the way

  111. that you make decisions is not always based on

  112. just reason. In fact, most of the time it's not.

  113. And so the messages that we often receive in

  114. our day -to -day lives specifically play on these

  115. parts of who we are, our emotions, our hopes,

  116. and our fears. And it's our responsibility to

  117. choose who and what we allow to influence how

  118. we think. Our decisions matter in this world,

  119. but our decisions rarely are, what am I going

  120. to believe? Our decisions usually are, what am

  121. I going to let influence what I believe? Right

  122. now, the landscape of what life looks like is

  123. changing really, really fast, and we all know

  124. that, and I don't want to sound like unk for

  125. anyone out there who knows what that means. Anyone

  126. who's under the age of 19 knows what I mean.

  127. Basically, I don't want to sound like an old

  128. boomer who's like, you know, the internet's changing

  129. stuff. Well, it is, right? Like, we live our

  130. lives more and more and more online. The average

  131. American spends about seven hours a day looking

  132. at screens, right? And these screens have been

  133. specifically designed to feed us outrageous,

  134. fear -inducing, and gratuitous content to keep

  135. us engaged for as long as possible. What we spend

  136. our time doing is designed to feed us ideas to

  137. influence the way that we think and we act. So

  138. I have a responsibility to pay attention to what

  139. I'm letting in my life. But the problem is, most

  140. of these ideas actually lead to decay and destruction.

  141. Decay in our minds, our bodies, our souls, and

  142. the evidence... for this is clearly noticeable

  143. to the world around us i probably don't need

  144. to tell you all these things you already kind

  145. of know them intuitively because you live in

  146. the world and you pay attention but i'm gonna

  147. tell you them anyway right like what we see right

  148. now we see massive increases in anxiety depression

  149. self self -harm and mental health disorders since

  150. the introduction of smartphones and social media

  151. specifically in kids and teenagers Social and

  152. political tribalism on both sides of the ideological

  153. spectrum has increased drastically, especially

  154. in the last 10 years. One in three U .S. adults

  155. say that they experience loneliness at least

  156. weekly. And statistically, we have more acceptance

  157. in our society of violence as an option to deal

  158. with people of different ideologies. And none

  159. of this comes out of thin air. It's introduced

  160. in the form... of an idea that plays on our emotions,

  161. hopes, or fears that is then given a place to

  162. grow and live on as a part of us. Those things

  163. need to be killed. And if we don't root out decaying

  164. ideas, they will only fester and poison more

  165. of our lives. One of the best ways to see this

  166. and imagine this is with garden imagery. Preston

  167. was up here a second ago, and he talked about

  168. how we're in the middle of our Before I Go series.

  169. You saw the bumper. We're talking about the final

  170. discourse of Jesus with his disciples, right?

  171. So Jesus knows that he's about to let himself

  172. get taken and murdered. He's like, that's coming,

  173. like tomorrow, right? So this... is the point

  174. at which he's imparting all of his final words

  175. of wisdom and encouragement and instruction in

  176. his closest relationships, his disciples who

  177. have spent three years of their lives living

  178. like every day together with him. And so where

  179. we are here is before what we're about to talk

  180. about here, before Jesus has already talked about

  181. a couple things. Number one, he said, hey, it's

  182. coming. I'm about to go away. I'm about to get

  183. killed. Also, I promise I'm gonna take care of

  184. you. Right? You're going to find ultimate fulfillment.

  185. You're going to find your place with the creator

  186. of the universe. Because I'm going to go before

  187. you, I'm going to get it ready for you. And when

  188. I'm gone, there's this thing that's going to

  189. happen. You're going to get the Holy Spirit as

  190. an advocate. And it's going to live with you

  191. and is going to teach you in my absence. He's

  192. already laid all this stuff out. Right? So a

  193. basic question, all right, what's next? Okay.

  194. So all this is going to happen. You're going

  195. to leave. You're going to prepare your way. The

  196. Holy Spirit is going to come. So, like, now what?

  197. Like, what are we actually gonna do in the way

  198. we interact with the Spirit and with each other

  199. and live in the world if you're not gonna be

  200. here, right? You've been pretty important to

  201. us, Jesus. What's the deal? And so we pick up

  202. in the beginning of John 15, and as Preston says,

  203. if you're not familiar with this passage, this

  204. is where, like he said, this is where we get

  205. our name as a church. So Rob decided to leave

  206. town before we talked about like the namesake

  207. of our church. And he said, Joe, you're up? And

  208. he said, you got a boss. No, I'm happy because

  209. if you know, like if you've spent any amount

  210. of your life reading the Bible, you know there

  211. are like some greatest hits verses in the Bible,

  212. right? Like, you know, like in the old days of

  213. actually CDs, right? You'd go to the CD. the

  214. CD store, they'd have the greatest hits of like

  215. the Beatles or whatever, right? Like if there

  216. was a greatest hits album of the Bible, this

  217. would be on it. And it's for good reason. And

  218. so we pick up in John 15, verse one, it says

  219. this, I am the true grapevine, this is Jesus

  220. talking, I'm the true grapevine and my father

  221. is the gardener. He cuts off every branch of

  222. mine that doesn't produce fruit and he prunes

  223. the branches that do bear fruit. So that they

  224. will produce even more. You have already been

  225. pruned and purified by the message I have given

  226. you. Remain in me and I will remain in you. For

  227. a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed

  228. from the vine. And you cannot be fruitful unless

  229. you remain in me. Yes, I am the vine and you

  230. are the branches. Those who remain in me and

  231. I in them will produce much fruit. For apart

  232. from me, you can do nothing. Anyone who does

  233. not remain in me is thrown away like a useless

  234. branch and withers. Such branches are gathered

  235. into a pile and burned. But if you remain in

  236. me and my words remain in you, you may ask for

  237. anything you want and it will be granted. When

  238. you produce much fruit, you are my true disciples

  239. and this brings great glory to my Father. So

  240. right away, Jesus hones in on this pruning and

  241. cutting imagery. Something that's interesting

  242. that stuck out to me a couple years ago when

  243. I was reading this, he talks about dead branches

  244. and he talks about living branches. See what

  245. he did there? There it is. He talks about dead

  246. branches. He talks about living branches. The

  247. dead branches get cut off. The living branches

  248. get pruned. They both get cut. So right away,

  249. and I thought this was so interesting, I was

  250. like, epiphany, no one's ever thought of this

  251. before. They have. People have thought about

  252. everything I've thought about before. But no

  253. matter who you are, where you are, how connected

  254. you are to Jesus, Right? Something is going to

  255. get cut in your life. And I Googled. I just pounded

  256. it into the Google machine. I was like, hey,

  257. like this is the prompt. What are the consequences

  258. of not? pruning a plant. And you're going to

  259. see basically the unadulterated version of just

  260. what Google will spit out at you. And the reason

  261. why I didn't edit it is because it's such a good

  262. picture, I think, of actually what we're talking

  263. about here. The only thing I put in there is

  264. in the parentheses. So, first, the consequences

  265. of not pruning is, number one, is reduced blooming.

  266. The plant produces fewer, smaller flowers. In

  267. other words, the fruit or the good things that

  268. the plant produces are of poor quality. Number

  269. two, a weak and leggy structure. The shrub becomes

  270. overgrown, unmanageable, and floppy with weak

  271. stems that cannot support the blooms. In other

  272. words, it has an inability to produce fruit at

  273. all. Disease susceptibility, poor air circulation,

  274. and buildup of old wood increase vulnerability

  275. to pests and diseases. In other words, becomes

  276. vulnerable. Or if we're the plant, we become

  277. vulnerable to destructive ideas and beliefs.

  278. There's pests and diseases. Reduced vigor. The

  279. plant wastes energy on old, unproductive wood

  280. rather than new growth. We have a decreased capacity

  281. for good. And then there are also safety hazards.

  282. Dead, broken, or diseased branches can accumulate,

  283. potentially damaging the plant. There's pain

  284. and suffering in our lives if we put ourselves

  285. in that position. But Jesus' goal for us is that

  286. our lives would produce good things or fruit

  287. as he says in this imagery. But what are those

  288. good things and how do we live our lives in a

  289. way that will make those good things come out

  290. of us? Well, we sang a song earlier. The second

  291. song we sang was about abiding. In this translation,

  292. it said, remain in me as I remain in you. Other

  293. translations use the word abide. Unless you're

  294. a big Lebowski fan, you probably don't hear the

  295. word abide a whole lot. The dude abides. Really,

  296. the word abide, the meaning here is closer to

  297. make your home in. Right? Abide in me as I abide

  298. in you. Make your home in me, and I'll make my

  299. home in you is what Jesus tells us. Right? And

  300. right here in John 15, 9 through 12, it says

  301. this. It says, I have loved you even as the Father

  302. has loved me. Remain in my love. When you obey

  303. my commandments, you remain in my love. You make

  304. your home in my love. Just as I obey my father's

  305. commandments and remain in his love, I've told

  306. you these things so that you will be filled with

  307. my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow. And this

  308. is my commandment, love each other in the same

  309. way I have loved you. So the way that we are

  310. pruned and the way that we are purified, as Jesus

  311. puts it here, is by making our home in him, by

  312. making our home in his love. And specifically,

  313. right here in the passage we just read, Jesus

  314. is actually making a commitment to his disciples

  315. and asking for their loyalty in return. What

  316. he's saying is, I will connect you to the Father,

  317. right? He says, make your home in me, abide in

  318. me, remain in me as I've remained in my Father.

  319. Right? He's actually going to connect us with

  320. the Creator. And now, what he says, he says,

  321. obey my commandments. Now you must pour out this

  322. same kind of love on one another. And right here

  323. at the end of the passage we just read, he says,

  324. this is my commandment, love each other in the

  325. same way that I have loved you. And so if you're

  326. following, what Jesus is saying is this, in the

  327. life that you're gonna have to figure out and

  328. make decisions about in my absence, you gotta

  329. understand some things right at the top. There

  330. are going to be pieces of your life that are

  331. going to be dead and decaying, and if you leave

  332. them there, it's gonna lead to death and destruction,

  333. period. And if you want to get those out of your

  334. life, you need to make your home in me. And if

  335. you do that, if you make your home in me, I will

  336. connect you to the creator, the one source of

  337. life. Do you know how you make your home in me?

  338. You obey what I tell you to do. And I'm telling

  339. you to love one another the way that I have loved

  340. you. So Jesus lays out a roadmap, right? He says,

  341. Cut the stuff out of your life by loving me and

  342. living my words. And the fruit he talks about

  343. is based in this loving relationship. That is

  344. what he's talking about. When he says bear much

  345. fruit, and then he follows it up with obey my

  346. commandments, love one another, what he is saying

  347. is the fruit that I want you to bear, what I

  348. want to come out of your lives, the way you're

  349. gonna know that you're connected to me, is if

  350. your relationships are built in love. But it's

  351. a unique and particular kind of love. And he

  352. goes on to explain it this way. In verses 13

  353. through 17, he says, There is no greater love

  354. than to lay down one's life for one's friends.

  355. You are my friends if you do what I command.

  356. I no longer call you slaves because a master

  357. doesn't confide in his slaves. Now you are my

  358. friends since I have told you everything the

  359. Father told me. You didn't choose me. I chose

  360. you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting

  361. fruit so that the Father will give you whatever

  362. you ask for using my name. This is my command.

  363. Love each other. The greatest love is to lay

  364. down your life for your friends. You know, I

  365. heard someone say once, that doesn't seem like

  366. the greatest kind of love because you already

  367. like your friends. Like, wouldn't it make more

  368. sense to say, like, the greatest kind of love,

  369. like, truly self -sacrificing and, like, not

  370. self -serving at all would be to lay down your

  371. life for your enemies? Like, wouldn't that make

  372. more sense? Right? But Jesus clearly says to

  373. lay down your life for one's friends. Right?

  374. Our world might say the greatest kind of love

  375. is to lay down your life for one's spouse. Or

  376. lay down your life for one's kids. Or lay down

  377. your life for one's in -group. Or lay down your

  378. life for one's political party. Or lay down your

  379. life for one's social cause. Lay down your life

  380. for the people that you really are connected

  381. to. How can this be the greatest type of love,

  382. to lay down your life for your friends? And what

  383. we need to understand is the context in which

  384. Jesus is talking to his disciples and using the

  385. word friends. The word he uses here is the Greek

  386. word phylos. So if you didn't know, the whole

  387. New Testament is written in Greek, right, because

  388. it was the language of the time that pretty much

  389. everyone spoke. And the Greek word... For friends,

  390. here's phylos. It's the same root word where

  391. we get the name of Philadelphia, right? You hear

  392. like brotherly love, right? Phylos. Well, the

  393. Greeks had a specific idea of what friendship

  394. was. The Greeks' idea, and this comes from Plato

  395. and Aristotle, they're like, hey, friendship

  396. is like you and me equals, equal level, arm and

  397. arm. We make a mutual agreement. We are friends.

  398. And that, in a lot of ways, is how we view what

  399. friendship is. When I talk about my friends here

  400. today, that's kind of like the natural way that

  401. we, a lot of times, will view friendship. But

  402. the Romans, the Romans were occupying. Jerusalem

  403. at this time. The Roman culture was the way of

  404. the land at this point. And the Romans viewed

  405. friendship completely differently. The Romans

  406. saw friendship not as equals, but all of the

  407. Roman society was built in vertical relationships,

  408. right? So you have different status in society,

  409. which tells you how you can or cannot act, who

  410. you can or cannot act with, what access you have,

  411. right? It's very hierarchical social structure

  412. here. And there's a system that the Romans had,

  413. and it was called patronage. And essentially,

  414. someone of a noble or royal class who had more

  415. access and more ability to socially move about,

  416. this noble or royal patron would basically sponsor

  417. a client. So what that would do is the client

  418. of a patron had a couple things. Number one,

  419. they were a representative. Of the patron, right?

  420. So, like, an action against the client was, in

  421. essence, in a way, an action against the patron,

  422. right? So you get some protection. Also, like,

  423. the patron will broker deals for you, right?

  424. Like, hey, let me talk to my people who are of

  425. this higher class so maybe we can work something

  426. out for you, right? The patron was able to get

  427. better access for their clients. Also, the patron

  428. would ask the clients to do stuff for them, right?

  429. Because you're my representative, so I need you

  430. to be in this context and do this thing for me

  431. to represent me, right? It was an asymmetrical

  432. relationship based on longevity and reciprocity.

  433. Basically, we're of different statuses, this

  434. is a lifelong deal, and I give you something

  435. and you give me something. That's patronage,

  436. right? And what Jesus does here, as evidenced

  437. by this metaphor of vine and branches, the vine

  438. being that which sustains the branch, he's putting

  439. himself in this unequal relationship, right?

  440. Jesus right here is saying, like, I'm your patron

  441. and you're my clients, right? And in the Roman

  442. world, what the patrons would call their clients

  443. were phylos. So when he says, you are my friends,

  444. I'm your patron, you are my clients. And what

  445. he does is he invites them into this lifelong

  446. commitment with himself. Where Jesus, the patron,

  447. acts as a broker for the clients and intercedes

  448. with the father. And Jesus' friends are to act

  449. as a proxy or an agent in his absence. But what's

  450. different from the Roman system and novel is

  451. this, that Jesus chooses us, not the other way

  452. around. Because in the Roman system, if you wanted

  453. someone to be your patron, you had to like pledge

  454. fealty to them and like, will you accept, you

  455. know, like you to be my patron? But Jesus says,

  456. nope, you didn't choose me. I chose you. I want

  457. you to benefit from the relationship that you're

  458. going to have with me because of the relationship

  459. that I have with my father. It lifts the client

  460. up. And in this sentence, it's the first time

  461. in the entire book of John that Jesus calls his

  462. disciples friends, and it's the first time that

  463. he calls them slaves. Right? He might use the

  464. word servants or disciples, but friends and slaves.

  465. It's the first time he's called them either one

  466. right here. In the Roman culture, slavery was

  467. a very common thing. It was very different than

  468. how we imagine it in our American context and

  469. chattel slavery in the 1700s and 1800s. It was

  470. a different kind of deal. But a slave in the

  471. Roman culture, you had no horizontal ability

  472. socially. Your relationships really was just

  473. with your master and it was a vertical relationship.

  474. But oftentimes when masters would free their

  475. slaves in the Roman culture, and then the slave,

  476. would then come under the master. The master

  477. is instead of their, now instead of their master,

  478. they're their patron. Now instead of the slave,

  479. they're a client or a phylos. And what this would

  480. do if the master would change that type of relationship

  481. is it would essentially resurrect and give new

  482. social life to the former slave. Because now

  483. as a client and no longer a slave, as a phylos,

  484. as a friend, you now have horizontal access.

  485. to interact with and have relationships with

  486. and live life alongside the people on your same

  487. level. And so what Jesus is doing, as he's saying,

  488. because I am viewing you in this way, I am resurrecting

  489. and I'm giving you new life, not just socially,

  490. but spiritually. Because now you can interact

  491. on the same level no matter what your physical

  492. worldly status is. Because your spiritual one

  493. is that of an equal playing field as defined

  494. by me. Because I am standing in for you. And

  495. I'm representing you. So when Jesus says the

  496. greatest love is to lay down your life for your

  497. friends, he's saying that... The greatest love

  498. is to lay down your life for those who might

  499. actually be beneath you. And there's no reason,

  500. if you look at a worldly point of view, why you

  501. would ever do this. And especially imagine this

  502. Roman culture. They're beneath you. They can't

  503. give you anything. There's no value practically

  504. in it for you. But the only reason why anyone

  505. would do something like this, to actually...

  506. actually be willing to put their life on the

  507. line to give up their life for someone of lower

  508. status than them is simply out of love and recognizing

  509. their value that they inherently have. Because

  510. of the love, because of love, it only makes sense

  511. in the context of Jesus first loving us. By Jesus

  512. being willing to die for us, he declares that

  513. all of us are of the highest value, and therefore

  514. all people are equally deserving of love from

  515. others, leveling the social playing field regardless

  516. of social status. And this is why the rot and

  517. the decay has got to get cut out, because the

  518. ideas of the world will deteriorate the true

  519. love of Jesus in our lives and keep us from bearing

  520. the fruit of relationships built on love, the

  521. one kind of fruit that lasts. Because if we have

  522. the rot and decay and the ideas of how the world

  523. works that are built on anything other than the

  524. fact that the creator of the universe loves you

  525. so much that he'd be willing to die for you even

  526. though there's no reason why he ought to. Any

  527. idea that is built on any foundation other than

  528. that is going to fester and it's going to rot

  529. and it's going to decay and it's going to lead

  530. to destruction. So if you make your home in Jesus,

  531. he'll kill the decay in your life. He promises

  532. to be dependable if you pledge yourself to him.

  533. And your pledge is to follow his command and

  534. love as he loved. And his love is defined by

  535. the willingness to go as far as to die for those

  536. less than himself. And because he's killed the

  537. decay in your life, you can now love as he loved

  538. you, which creates lasting fruit. This fruit

  539. is truly loving relationships that will have

  540. meaning past your life on earth. That means that

  541. you can tell if you're making your home in Jesus

  542. based on the state of your relationships with

  543. others. Are your relationships marked by love?

  544. Not just like the ones that are like easy, like

  545. I love my kids. Like those relationships are

  546. marked by love. Like all things considered, like

  547. there are my hard days, you know, like sometimes

  548. they're punks. Ryder will not stop climbing on

  549. stuff. Like seriously, like I turn my head for

  550. a second and he's just like on like the cabinet

  551. under the TV. I'm like, you're gonna die, get

  552. off there. Right, like. And then he like whines

  553. and you take him off and like, oh, like, right.

  554. But like, that's the worst of it. You know, like

  555. it really, all things considered, it's pretty

  556. easy to love him. It's hard to love the person

  557. who's pretty diametrically opposed to my ideals

  558. or says that like, because I believe what I believe,

  559. I'm a dangerous person. That's hard to love that

  560. person. That's really hard to love them, right?

  561. Or the person who's actually done things to hurt

  562. me or my family. It's really hard to love them.

  563. Jesus doesn't make any carve outs. Be marked

  564. by my love. By this, they're gonna know that

  565. you're my disciples if you love one another.

  566. And using this kind of Roman language implies

  567. that we have a binary choice, right? Because

  568. you can't have two rival patrons that have different

  569. ways of seeing the world who are gonna ask you

  570. to represent different things, right? The big

  571. main patron of this time was Caesar, right? He's

  572. a patron of the whole Roman Empire. Essentially,

  573. like, you're loyal to Caesar, right? He says,

  574. here, I have the whole power of the Roman Empire

  575. behind you. So if someone mistreats you as a

  576. Roman citizen, well, we got the Roman laws and

  577. military and they're gonna come vouch for you.

  578. That's what you get when Caesar's your patron.

  579. But where Caesar promises power to reciprocate

  580. loyalty, Jesus promises love for you to reciprocate

  581. love for others. If you follow my command and

  582. love others, I will love you in the way that

  583. transforms your life. And following the commands

  584. of Jesus and declaring him as your patron ultimately

  585. forsakes Caesar as your patron. And we don't

  586. live with Caesar today, but we live with other

  587. stuff that basically is Caesar. Right? The stand

  588. in today, I mean, just think about it. You have

  589. leaders of political parties. You have social

  590. media platforms and everything they promise us.

  591. You have lucrative careers that promise us a

  592. certain kind of lifestyle. Wellness gurus, sexual

  593. liberators, entertainment corporations, religious

  594. so -called prophets, military strong men, everything

  595. that says be loyal to me, do it my way. Keep

  596. me in power and I'll keep you safe. Or I'll make

  597. your life easier. Or I'll make it more convenient.

  598. The world wants to build relationships around

  599. power dynamics, but Jesus wants to turn those

  600. on their head. He would be willing to die for

  601. those that are seen as below him. Anything that

  602. asks for our loyalty that isn't explicitly marked

  603. by love will only ever keep us from making our

  604. home in Jesus. If you follow the entire course

  605. of what we've talked about, the ultimate thesis

  606. of it is this. If you look at your life and you

  607. can't say that your relationships are marked

  608. by love, then you're not living in Jesus. The

  609. thing is that Christians should be the experts

  610. on relationships and how to live. We should be

  611. the ones on the cutting edge on how to live in

  612. today's world. instead of outsourcing it to the

  613. secular, self -esteem -oriented, self -care -obsessed,

  614. self -gratifying world. The living God is telling

  615. us how to live. We should be the ones who are

  616. out there saying, no, I think I got the answers

  617. for a better life, right? But you can only get

  618. that if you live, if you make your home in Jesus,

  619. if you make your home in the love that he has

  620. for you. And you know how you do that? You obey

  621. his commands. To love one another as I have loved

  622. you. Where worldly relationships are marked by

  623. convenience, gratification, and self -preservation,

  624. true relationships, as Jesus calls us into, are

  625. marked by love and compassion. Are you willing

  626. to be inconvenienced or deny your own interests

  627. for the sake of others? Would you throw away

  628. your smartphone because it keeps feeding you?

  629. Toxic ideas. They're so convenient though. But

  630. those ideas are going to fester. Maybe that's

  631. not where it is. We spend less time on the news

  632. or less time filling your head with certain messages

  633. about how relationships are going to work in

  634. today because they're not based on compassion

  635. and love. But man, gosh, that story is so engaging.

  636. Right? It's enticing. But the message of Jesus

  637. is pretty clear. If we pledge our loyalty to

  638. anything that is not based in love, it is going

  639. to get in the way of Jesus. It's going to steal

  640. our soul. And it's going to cause us to never

  641. be able to bear true lasting fruit in the form

  642. of loving relationships. So what do you represent

  643. and what will I ask of you in return? My final

  644. thing is this, just to wrap it all together,

  645. these four things. What Jesus says is we must

  646. be free of the control of the world in order

  647. to love completely. Making your home in Jesus

  648. is the only way to be free from the world. Loving

  649. like Jesus ultimately gives you meaning in the

  650. form of loving relationships. And if your relationships

  651. and interactions with others are not marked by

  652. love, then you aren't making your home in Jesus

  653. full stop. I'm gonna pray to end our time and

  654. I'm just gonna pray over this passage in 2 Corinthians

  655. chapter five and this is the apostle Paul talking

  656. and what I love about understanding the words

  657. of Jesus is then you look at all of the people

  658. who write after his life and you're like, they're

  659. just riffing on everything he's saying and this

  660. is one of my personal favorite passages in the

  661. whole Bible and Paul just, I think, more eloquently

  662. than I ever could. Talks about what it looks

  663. like to actually do what Jesus is talking about.

  664. So please pray with me. Lord, we ask that you

  665. be in our hearts and help us to believe and live

  666. out these words as Paul so eloquently puts them.

  667. Either way, Christ's love controls us. Since

  668. we believe that Christ died for all, we also

  669. believe that we all have died to our old life.

  670. He died for everyone so that those who receive

  671. his new life will no longer live for themselves.

  672. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died

  673. and was raised for them. So we have stopped evaluating

  674. others from a human point of view. At one time,

  675. we thought of Christ merely from a human point

  676. of view. How differently we know him now. This

  677. means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become

  678. a new person. The old life has gone. A new life

  679. has begun.