Sermon
Before I Go: John 15:1-17
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When I was a kid, I thought that quicksand was
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going to be a way bigger problem than it is.
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Right? Like, it could be around any corner. And
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if you're not paying attention, it's just going
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to get you and pull you down. And as an adult,
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I've never once had to worry about quicksand.
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I don't know about you, but there are these funny
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things that when you're a kid, you think they're
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going to be a big deal or you think about them
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all the time. And then you grow up and it just
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doesn't take up a whole lot of mental space.
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For me, one of those things was the zoo. Everyone
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was talking about the zoo when I was a kid. What
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are the animals? What sounds do they make? How
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many at a time do they hang out with? And we'd
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go to the zoo and we'd hang out. And as an adult,
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I kind of stopped going to the zoo. And then
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I had kids. And we started going to the zoo again.
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And about a year ago, a little over that, we
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went to the zoo. And my oldest daughter, Daisy,
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was around two. And if you've been to the Reed
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Park Zoo here in town, you know that the giraffe
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exhibit is like the center of the universe, right?
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Like everything really revolves. around the giraffe
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exhibit. And so we walked up and people were
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feeding the giraffes. And over next to it, there
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was like some goat thing. And we're like, oh,
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you want to see the goats, Daisy? And no goat
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showed up. And I was kind of paying attention.
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I heard there was some commotion over at the
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giraffe exhibit. And I looked over there and
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I walked over. I was like, Grace, Grace is my
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wife. I was like, what's going on? She's like,
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that duck flew from over there. And there's a
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duck pond in the giraffe exhibit. She said that
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duck flew over there and it picked a fight with
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another duck. And they started fighting and the
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fight came out. middle of the giraffe exhibit,
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and that baby giraffe, it just kind of like waved
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its foot at it, and now I think that duck's neck
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is broken. I'm like, oh, no. And sure enough,
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like, the duck is, like, something is catastrophically
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wrong with this poor duck, right? And, like,
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kids are looking. People are like, hey, is there
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a zookeeper out there? Like, this is getting
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kind of weird. And the baby giraffe that kind
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of waved its foot at it is looking at it. And
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then the big male giraffe walks up and starts
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looking at the duck, too. And we're like, what
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are they going to do? And the male giraffe is
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looking at it. And it picks up its foot and it
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hovers it over the duck. And I'm like, there's
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no way. And it slowly starts to snuff out the
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duck right there in front of God and everybody.
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And we're like, what is, oh my gosh. And Daisy's
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like, Daddy, what's happening? I'm like, circle
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of life, baby girl. The trap pulls its foot off
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and it didn't finish the job. And it takes this
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other foot and it does it again. And I cannot
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make this up. At that moment, there was a field
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trip of eight -year -olds walking by. And I heard
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one kid go, hey, what's happening to the duck?
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There's a kid on the other side of the exhibit
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crying, right? Like the teacher's like, we need
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a zookeeper to the giraffe exhibit immediately.
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And I was like straight up, I could not stop
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laughing. It was the most appalling, shocking
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thing I ever imagined I would see at a zoo. To
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see a giraffe mercy kill a duck? Like, what?
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That was not on my bingo card for that day. And,
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like, the point is, like, we don't like to really
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talk, right, about, like, when stuff dies because
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it's, like, weird and it's awkward. And, like,
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yeah, like, it was a duck. It was sad. But, like,
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you know, it was a duck. But the fact of the
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matter is that... there are things in our lives
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that we encounter and we don't like to talk about
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like, yeah, maybe that thing needs to be put
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to death, right? And I'm not talking about like
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the family dog, right? I'm not saying like, hey,
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your family dog is too old. I'm gonna take it
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to the vet. I'm not talking about that. What
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I'm talking about are things that are actually
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more covert and things that we have the tendency
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to keep around long after they've proven that
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they need to die off. And specifically, I'm talking
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about ideas, beliefs, and habits that tend to
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work like decay and disease in our lives. As
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we go about our lives and we go about our days
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and we collect information, we collect ideas
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and voices, sometimes some of those are no good.
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And sometimes they need to be dragged out and
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cut out of our lives. And here's the thing. We
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like to think of ourselves as rational. autonomous
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human beings. In other words, we like to think
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that when I make decisions on what to do and
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what to think, I'm doing it by an objective measure.
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I'm analyzing all of the data and I'm deciding
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this is what's good and this is what's bad based
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on objective data that is inarguable. But the
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truth is that that is actually a complete fallacy.
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That we actually make decisions based on emotions
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and hopes. and fears far more than we make them
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on reason. And what's more is we are constantly
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being shaped and fed ideas by external forces
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all the time, mostly playing on our emotions,
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hopes, and fears. Right? The world around you
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knows how you work if you didn't already know.
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The world around you that's designed to get your
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attention and your resources knows that the way
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that you make decisions is not always based on
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just reason. In fact, most of the time it's not.
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And so the messages that we often receive in
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our day -to -day lives specifically play on these
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parts of who we are, our emotions, our hopes,
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and our fears. And it's our responsibility to
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choose who and what we allow to influence how
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we think. Our decisions matter in this world,
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but our decisions rarely are, what am I going
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to believe? Our decisions usually are, what am
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I going to let influence what I believe? Right
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now, the landscape of what life looks like is
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changing really, really fast, and we all know
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that, and I don't want to sound like unk for
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anyone out there who knows what that means. Anyone
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who's under the age of 19 knows what I mean.
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Basically, I don't want to sound like an old
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boomer who's like, you know, the internet's changing
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stuff. Well, it is, right? Like, we live our
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lives more and more and more online. The average
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American spends about seven hours a day looking
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at screens, right? And these screens have been
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specifically designed to feed us outrageous,
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fear -inducing, and gratuitous content to keep
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us engaged for as long as possible. What we spend
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our time doing is designed to feed us ideas to
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influence the way that we think and we act. So
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I have a responsibility to pay attention to what
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I'm letting in my life. But the problem is, most
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of these ideas actually lead to decay and destruction.
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Decay in our minds, our bodies, our souls, and
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the evidence... for this is clearly noticeable
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to the world around us i probably don't need
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to tell you all these things you already kind
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of know them intuitively because you live in
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the world and you pay attention but i'm gonna
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tell you them anyway right like what we see right
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now we see massive increases in anxiety depression
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self self -harm and mental health disorders since
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the introduction of smartphones and social media
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specifically in kids and teenagers Social and
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political tribalism on both sides of the ideological
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spectrum has increased drastically, especially
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in the last 10 years. One in three U .S. adults
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say that they experience loneliness at least
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weekly. And statistically, we have more acceptance
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in our society of violence as an option to deal
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with people of different ideologies. And none
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of this comes out of thin air. It's introduced
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in the form... of an idea that plays on our emotions,
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hopes, or fears that is then given a place to
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grow and live on as a part of us. Those things
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need to be killed. And if we don't root out decaying
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ideas, they will only fester and poison more
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of our lives. One of the best ways to see this
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and imagine this is with garden imagery. Preston
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was up here a second ago, and he talked about
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how we're in the middle of our Before I Go series.
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You saw the bumper. We're talking about the final
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discourse of Jesus with his disciples, right?
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So Jesus knows that he's about to let himself
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get taken and murdered. He's like, that's coming,
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like tomorrow, right? So this... is the point
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at which he's imparting all of his final words
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of wisdom and encouragement and instruction in
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his closest relationships, his disciples who
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have spent three years of their lives living
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like every day together with him. And so where
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we are here is before what we're about to talk
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about here, before Jesus has already talked about
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a couple things. Number one, he said, hey, it's
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coming. I'm about to go away. I'm about to get
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killed. Also, I promise I'm gonna take care of
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you. Right? You're going to find ultimate fulfillment.
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You're going to find your place with the creator
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of the universe. Because I'm going to go before
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you, I'm going to get it ready for you. And when
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I'm gone, there's this thing that's going to
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happen. You're going to get the Holy Spirit as
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an advocate. And it's going to live with you
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and is going to teach you in my absence. He's
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already laid all this stuff out. Right? So a
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basic question, all right, what's next? Okay.
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So all this is going to happen. You're going
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to leave. You're going to prepare your way. The
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Holy Spirit is going to come. So, like, now what?
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Like, what are we actually gonna do in the way
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we interact with the Spirit and with each other
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and live in the world if you're not gonna be
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here, right? You've been pretty important to
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us, Jesus. What's the deal? And so we pick up
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in the beginning of John 15, and as Preston says,
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if you're not familiar with this passage, this
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is where, like he said, this is where we get
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our name as a church. So Rob decided to leave
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town before we talked about like the namesake
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of our church. And he said, Joe, you're up? And
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he said, you got a boss. No, I'm happy because
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if you know, like if you've spent any amount
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of your life reading the Bible, you know there
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are like some greatest hits verses in the Bible,
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right? Like, you know, like in the old days of
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actually CDs, right? You'd go to the CD. the
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CD store, they'd have the greatest hits of like
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the Beatles or whatever, right? Like if there
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was a greatest hits album of the Bible, this
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would be on it. And it's for good reason. And
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so we pick up in John 15, verse one, it says
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this, I am the true grapevine, this is Jesus
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talking, I'm the true grapevine and my father
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is the gardener. He cuts off every branch of
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mine that doesn't produce fruit and he prunes
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the branches that do bear fruit. So that they
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will produce even more. You have already been
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pruned and purified by the message I have given
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you. Remain in me and I will remain in you. For
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a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed
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from the vine. And you cannot be fruitful unless
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you remain in me. Yes, I am the vine and you
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are the branches. Those who remain in me and
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I in them will produce much fruit. For apart
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from me, you can do nothing. Anyone who does
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not remain in me is thrown away like a useless
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branch and withers. Such branches are gathered
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into a pile and burned. But if you remain in
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me and my words remain in you, you may ask for
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anything you want and it will be granted. When
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you produce much fruit, you are my true disciples
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and this brings great glory to my Father. So
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right away, Jesus hones in on this pruning and
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cutting imagery. Something that's interesting
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that stuck out to me a couple years ago when
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I was reading this, he talks about dead branches
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and he talks about living branches. See what
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he did there? There it is. He talks about dead
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branches. He talks about living branches. The
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dead branches get cut off. The living branches
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get pruned. They both get cut. So right away,
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and I thought this was so interesting, I was
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like, epiphany, no one's ever thought of this
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before. They have. People have thought about
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everything I've thought about before. But no
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matter who you are, where you are, how connected
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you are to Jesus, Right? Something is going to
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get cut in your life. And I Googled. I just pounded
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it into the Google machine. I was like, hey,
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like this is the prompt. What are the consequences
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of not? pruning a plant. And you're going to
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see basically the unadulterated version of just
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what Google will spit out at you. And the reason
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why I didn't edit it is because it's such a good
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picture, I think, of actually what we're talking
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about here. The only thing I put in there is
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in the parentheses. So, first, the consequences
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of not pruning is, number one, is reduced blooming.
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The plant produces fewer, smaller flowers. In
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other words, the fruit or the good things that
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the plant produces are of poor quality. Number
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two, a weak and leggy structure. The shrub becomes
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overgrown, unmanageable, and floppy with weak
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stems that cannot support the blooms. In other
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words, it has an inability to produce fruit at
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all. Disease susceptibility, poor air circulation,
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and buildup of old wood increase vulnerability
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to pests and diseases. In other words, becomes
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vulnerable. Or if we're the plant, we become
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vulnerable to destructive ideas and beliefs.
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There's pests and diseases. Reduced vigor. The
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plant wastes energy on old, unproductive wood
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rather than new growth. We have a decreased capacity
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for good. And then there are also safety hazards.
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Dead, broken, or diseased branches can accumulate,
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potentially damaging the plant. There's pain
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and suffering in our lives if we put ourselves
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in that position. But Jesus' goal for us is that
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our lives would produce good things or fruit
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as he says in this imagery. But what are those
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good things and how do we live our lives in a
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way that will make those good things come out
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of us? Well, we sang a song earlier. The second
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song we sang was about abiding. In this translation,
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it said, remain in me as I remain in you. Other
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translations use the word abide. Unless you're
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a big Lebowski fan, you probably don't hear the
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word abide a whole lot. The dude abides. Really,
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the word abide, the meaning here is closer to
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make your home in. Right? Abide in me as I abide
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in you. Make your home in me, and I'll make my
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home in you is what Jesus tells us. Right? And
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right here in John 15, 9 through 12, it says
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this. It says, I have loved you even as the Father
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has loved me. Remain in my love. When you obey
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my commandments, you remain in my love. You make
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your home in my love. Just as I obey my father's
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commandments and remain in his love, I've told
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you these things so that you will be filled with
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my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow. And this
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is my commandment, love each other in the same
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way I have loved you. So the way that we are
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pruned and the way that we are purified, as Jesus
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puts it here, is by making our home in him, by
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making our home in his love. And specifically,
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right here in the passage we just read, Jesus
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is actually making a commitment to his disciples
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and asking for their loyalty in return. What
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he's saying is, I will connect you to the Father,
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right? He says, make your home in me, abide in
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me, remain in me as I've remained in my Father.
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Right? He's actually going to connect us with
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the Creator. And now, what he says, he says,
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obey my commandments. Now you must pour out this
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same kind of love on one another. And right here
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at the end of the passage we just read, he says,
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this is my commandment, love each other in the
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same way that I have loved you. And so if you're
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following, what Jesus is saying is this, in the
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life that you're gonna have to figure out and
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make decisions about in my absence, you gotta
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understand some things right at the top. There
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are going to be pieces of your life that are
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going to be dead and decaying, and if you leave
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them there, it's gonna lead to death and destruction,
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period. And if you want to get those out of your
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life, you need to make your home in me. And if
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you do that, if you make your home in me, I will
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connect you to the creator, the one source of
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life. Do you know how you make your home in me?
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You obey what I tell you to do. And I'm telling
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you to love one another the way that I have loved
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you. So Jesus lays out a roadmap, right? He says,
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Cut the stuff out of your life by loving me and
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living my words. And the fruit he talks about
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is based in this loving relationship. That is
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what he's talking about. When he says bear much
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fruit, and then he follows it up with obey my
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commandments, love one another, what he is saying
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is the fruit that I want you to bear, what I
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want to come out of your lives, the way you're
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gonna know that you're connected to me, is if
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your relationships are built in love. But it's
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a unique and particular kind of love. And he
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goes on to explain it this way. In verses 13
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through 17, he says, There is no greater love
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than to lay down one's life for one's friends.
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You are my friends if you do what I command.
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I no longer call you slaves because a master
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doesn't confide in his slaves. Now you are my
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friends since I have told you everything the
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Father told me. You didn't choose me. I chose
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you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting
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fruit so that the Father will give you whatever
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you ask for using my name. This is my command.
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Love each other. The greatest love is to lay
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down your life for your friends. You know, I
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heard someone say once, that doesn't seem like
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the greatest kind of love because you already
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like your friends. Like, wouldn't it make more
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sense to say, like, the greatest kind of love,
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like, truly self -sacrificing and, like, not
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self -serving at all would be to lay down your
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life for your enemies? Like, wouldn't that make
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more sense? Right? But Jesus clearly says to
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lay down your life for one's friends. Right?
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Our world might say the greatest kind of love
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is to lay down your life for one's spouse. Or
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lay down your life for one's kids. Or lay down
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your life for one's in -group. Or lay down your
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life for one's political party. Or lay down your
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life for one's social cause. Lay down your life
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for the people that you really are connected
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to. How can this be the greatest type of love,
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to lay down your life for your friends? And what
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we need to understand is the context in which
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Jesus is talking to his disciples and using the
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word friends. The word he uses here is the Greek
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word phylos. So if you didn't know, the whole
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New Testament is written in Greek, right, because
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it was the language of the time that pretty much
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everyone spoke. And the Greek word... For friends,
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here's phylos. It's the same root word where
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we get the name of Philadelphia, right? You hear
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like brotherly love, right? Phylos. Well, the
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Greeks had a specific idea of what friendship
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was. The Greeks' idea, and this comes from Plato
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and Aristotle, they're like, hey, friendship
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is like you and me equals, equal level, arm and
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arm. We make a mutual agreement. We are friends.
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And that, in a lot of ways, is how we view what
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friendship is. When I talk about my friends here
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today, that's kind of like the natural way that
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we, a lot of times, will view friendship. But
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the Romans, the Romans were occupying. Jerusalem
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at this time. The Roman culture was the way of
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the land at this point. And the Romans viewed
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friendship completely differently. The Romans
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saw friendship not as equals, but all of the
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Roman society was built in vertical relationships,
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right? So you have different status in society,
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which tells you how you can or cannot act, who
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you can or cannot act with, what access you have,
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right? It's very hierarchical social structure
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here. And there's a system that the Romans had,
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and it was called patronage. And essentially,
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someone of a noble or royal class who had more
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access and more ability to socially move about,
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this noble or royal patron would basically sponsor
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a client. So what that would do is the client
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of a patron had a couple things. Number one,
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they were a representative. Of the patron, right?
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So, like, an action against the client was, in
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essence, in a way, an action against the patron,
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right? So you get some protection. Also, like,
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the patron will broker deals for you, right?
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Like, hey, let me talk to my people who are of
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this higher class so maybe we can work something
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out for you, right? The patron was able to get
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better access for their clients. Also, the patron
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would ask the clients to do stuff for them, right?
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Because you're my representative, so I need you
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to be in this context and do this thing for me
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to represent me, right? It was an asymmetrical
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relationship based on longevity and reciprocity.
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Basically, we're of different statuses, this
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is a lifelong deal, and I give you something
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and you give me something. That's patronage,
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right? And what Jesus does here, as evidenced
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by this metaphor of vine and branches, the vine
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being that which sustains the branch, he's putting
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himself in this unequal relationship, right?
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Jesus right here is saying, like, I'm your patron
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and you're my clients, right? And in the Roman
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world, what the patrons would call their clients
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were phylos. So when he says, you are my friends,
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I'm your patron, you are my clients. And what
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he does is he invites them into this lifelong
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commitment with himself. Where Jesus, the patron,
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acts as a broker for the clients and intercedes
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with the father. And Jesus' friends are to act
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as a proxy or an agent in his absence. But what's
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different from the Roman system and novel is
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this, that Jesus chooses us, not the other way
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around. Because in the Roman system, if you wanted
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someone to be your patron, you had to like pledge
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fealty to them and like, will you accept, you
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know, like you to be my patron? But Jesus says,
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nope, you didn't choose me. I chose you. I want
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you to benefit from the relationship that you're
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going to have with me because of the relationship
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that I have with my father. It lifts the client
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up. And in this sentence, it's the first time
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in the entire book of John that Jesus calls his
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disciples friends, and it's the first time that
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he calls them slaves. Right? He might use the
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word servants or disciples, but friends and slaves.
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It's the first time he's called them either one
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right here. In the Roman culture, slavery was
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a very common thing. It was very different than
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how we imagine it in our American context and
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chattel slavery in the 1700s and 1800s. It was
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a different kind of deal. But a slave in the
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Roman culture, you had no horizontal ability
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socially. Your relationships really was just
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with your master and it was a vertical relationship.
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But oftentimes when masters would free their
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slaves in the Roman culture, and then the slave,
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would then come under the master. The master
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is instead of their, now instead of their master,
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they're their patron. Now instead of the slave,
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they're a client or a phylos. And what this would
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do if the master would change that type of relationship
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is it would essentially resurrect and give new
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social life to the former slave. Because now
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as a client and no longer a slave, as a phylos,
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as a friend, you now have horizontal access.
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to interact with and have relationships with
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and live life alongside the people on your same
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level. And so what Jesus is doing, as he's saying,
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because I am viewing you in this way, I am resurrecting
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and I'm giving you new life, not just socially,
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but spiritually. Because now you can interact
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on the same level no matter what your physical
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worldly status is. Because your spiritual one
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is that of an equal playing field as defined
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by me. Because I am standing in for you. And
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I'm representing you. So when Jesus says the
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greatest love is to lay down your life for your
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friends, he's saying that... The greatest love
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is to lay down your life for those who might
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actually be beneath you. And there's no reason,
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if you look at a worldly point of view, why you
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would ever do this. And especially imagine this
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Roman culture. They're beneath you. They can't
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give you anything. There's no value practically
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in it for you. But the only reason why anyone
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would do something like this, to actually...
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actually be willing to put their life on the
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line to give up their life for someone of lower
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status than them is simply out of love and recognizing
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their value that they inherently have. Because
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of the love, because of love, it only makes sense
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in the context of Jesus first loving us. By Jesus
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being willing to die for us, he declares that
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all of us are of the highest value, and therefore
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all people are equally deserving of love from
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others, leveling the social playing field regardless
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of social status. And this is why the rot and
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the decay has got to get cut out, because the
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ideas of the world will deteriorate the true
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love of Jesus in our lives and keep us from bearing
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the fruit of relationships built on love, the
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one kind of fruit that lasts. Because if we have
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the rot and decay and the ideas of how the world
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works that are built on anything other than the
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fact that the creator of the universe loves you
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so much that he'd be willing to die for you even
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though there's no reason why he ought to. Any
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idea that is built on any foundation other than
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that is going to fester and it's going to rot
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and it's going to decay and it's going to lead
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to destruction. So if you make your home in Jesus,
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he'll kill the decay in your life. He promises
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to be dependable if you pledge yourself to him.
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And your pledge is to follow his command and
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love as he loved. And his love is defined by
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the willingness to go as far as to die for those
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less than himself. And because he's killed the
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decay in your life, you can now love as he loved
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you, which creates lasting fruit. This fruit
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is truly loving relationships that will have
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meaning past your life on earth. That means that
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you can tell if you're making your home in Jesus
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based on the state of your relationships with
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others. Are your relationships marked by love?
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Not just like the ones that are like easy, like
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I love my kids. Like those relationships are
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marked by love. Like all things considered, like
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there are my hard days, you know, like sometimes
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they're punks. Ryder will not stop climbing on
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stuff. Like seriously, like I turn my head for
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a second and he's just like on like the cabinet
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under the TV. I'm like, you're gonna die, get
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off there. Right, like. And then he like whines
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and you take him off and like, oh, like, right.
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But like, that's the worst of it. You know, like
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it really, all things considered, it's pretty
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easy to love him. It's hard to love the person
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who's pretty diametrically opposed to my ideals
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or says that like, because I believe what I believe,
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I'm a dangerous person. That's hard to love that
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person. That's really hard to love them, right?
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Or the person who's actually done things to hurt
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me or my family. It's really hard to love them.
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Jesus doesn't make any carve outs. Be marked
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by my love. By this, they're gonna know that
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you're my disciples if you love one another.
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And using this kind of Roman language implies
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that we have a binary choice, right? Because
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you can't have two rival patrons that have different
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ways of seeing the world who are gonna ask you
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to represent different things, right? The big
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main patron of this time was Caesar, right? He's
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a patron of the whole Roman Empire. Essentially,
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like, you're loyal to Caesar, right? He says,
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here, I have the whole power of the Roman Empire
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behind you. So if someone mistreats you as a
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Roman citizen, well, we got the Roman laws and
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military and they're gonna come vouch for you.
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That's what you get when Caesar's your patron.
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But where Caesar promises power to reciprocate
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loyalty, Jesus promises love for you to reciprocate
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love for others. If you follow my command and
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love others, I will love you in the way that
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transforms your life. And following the commands
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of Jesus and declaring him as your patron ultimately
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forsakes Caesar as your patron. And we don't
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live with Caesar today, but we live with other
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stuff that basically is Caesar. Right? The stand
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in today, I mean, just think about it. You have
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leaders of political parties. You have social
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media platforms and everything they promise us.
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You have lucrative careers that promise us a
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certain kind of lifestyle. Wellness gurus, sexual
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liberators, entertainment corporations, religious
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so -called prophets, military strong men, everything
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that says be loyal to me, do it my way. Keep
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me in power and I'll keep you safe. Or I'll make
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your life easier. Or I'll make it more convenient.
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The world wants to build relationships around
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power dynamics, but Jesus wants to turn those
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on their head. He would be willing to die for
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those that are seen as below him. Anything that
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asks for our loyalty that isn't explicitly marked
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by love will only ever keep us from making our
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home in Jesus. If you follow the entire course
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of what we've talked about, the ultimate thesis
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of it is this. If you look at your life and you
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can't say that your relationships are marked
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by love, then you're not living in Jesus. The
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thing is that Christians should be the experts
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on relationships and how to live. We should be
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the ones on the cutting edge on how to live in
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today's world. instead of outsourcing it to the
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secular, self -esteem -oriented, self -care -obsessed,
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self -gratifying world. The living God is telling
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us how to live. We should be the ones who are
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out there saying, no, I think I got the answers
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for a better life, right? But you can only get
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that if you live, if you make your home in Jesus,
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if you make your home in the love that he has
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for you. And you know how you do that? You obey
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his commands. To love one another as I have loved
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you. Where worldly relationships are marked by
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convenience, gratification, and self -preservation,
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true relationships, as Jesus calls us into, are
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marked by love and compassion. Are you willing
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to be inconvenienced or deny your own interests
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for the sake of others? Would you throw away
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your smartphone because it keeps feeding you?
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Toxic ideas. They're so convenient though. But
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those ideas are going to fester. Maybe that's
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not where it is. We spend less time on the news
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or less time filling your head with certain messages
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about how relationships are going to work in
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today because they're not based on compassion
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and love. But man, gosh, that story is so engaging.
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Right? It's enticing. But the message of Jesus
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is pretty clear. If we pledge our loyalty to
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anything that is not based in love, it is going
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to get in the way of Jesus. It's going to steal
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our soul. And it's going to cause us to never
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be able to bear true lasting fruit in the form
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of loving relationships. So what do you represent
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and what will I ask of you in return? My final
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thing is this, just to wrap it all together,
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these four things. What Jesus says is we must
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be free of the control of the world in order
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to love completely. Making your home in Jesus
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is the only way to be free from the world. Loving
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like Jesus ultimately gives you meaning in the
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form of loving relationships. And if your relationships
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and interactions with others are not marked by
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love, then you aren't making your home in Jesus
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full stop. I'm gonna pray to end our time and
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I'm just gonna pray over this passage in 2 Corinthians
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chapter five and this is the apostle Paul talking
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and what I love about understanding the words
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of Jesus is then you look at all of the people
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who write after his life and you're like, they're
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just riffing on everything he's saying and this
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is one of my personal favorite passages in the
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whole Bible and Paul just, I think, more eloquently
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than I ever could. Talks about what it looks
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like to actually do what Jesus is talking about.
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So please pray with me. Lord, we ask that you
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be in our hearts and help us to believe and live
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out these words as Paul so eloquently puts them.
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Either way, Christ's love controls us. Since
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we believe that Christ died for all, we also
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believe that we all have died to our old life.
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He died for everyone so that those who receive
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his new life will no longer live for themselves.
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Instead, they will live for Christ, who died
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and was raised for them. So we have stopped evaluating
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others from a human point of view. At one time,
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we thought of Christ merely from a human point
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of view. How differently we know him now. This
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means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become
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a new person. The old life has gone. A new life
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has begun.