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Looking for Happy in all the Wrong Places - Pastor Kipp Penrod

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  1. Thank you for listening to this message from

  2. Lifehouse Church. And here's my confession. When

  3. I'm out in public, and I don't know about you,

  4. but when I'm out in public, sometimes I like

  5. to watch people. How many are like, come on,

  6. look at that, all right? It's almost a sport,

  7. isn't it? You know, I love to get out and watch

  8. people because you just never know what you're

  9. going to see. You really don't. If you're out

  10. in the public, you can see the strangest things.

  11. You can see very normal things. You can see anything

  12. from the bizarre, right, to the crazy. Almost

  13. weird. And on one occasion for myself, there

  14. was this time when I was watching people and

  15. came up on a scene, and it was kind of bizarre

  16. and horrifying all at the same time. And I remember

  17. this years and years ago. This was many years

  18. ago. And it happened in the strangest of place.

  19. You know, normally you're in a mall watching

  20. people. You're going down the street. You're

  21. going somewhere up the road, and you see a group

  22. of people. But this particular time, I was coming

  23. off of a four -lane highway. and I was coming,

  24. exiting the highway and I was going down to an

  25. intersection. And at the intersection, there

  26. were three cars in front of me that were at a

  27. light. It was a T down there and you stopped

  28. and it was a light. You could go right or left

  29. when the light turned green, of course. And I

  30. hopped off the highway. It was a beautiful summer

  31. day. I'm in a pickup truck. I got the window

  32. down, the tunes on, right? Praise and worship,

  33. listening to some worship. And I'm just cruising

  34. down to the light and I noticed something strange

  35. happening. First of all, The car that was the

  36. lead car at the light had a person standing in

  37. front of it. How many know that's not normal

  38. at an intersection, right? There's somebody standing

  39. in front of it. And as I got closer, I began

  40. to hear yelling and screaming. And there was

  41. a woman. She was in front of this car. And she

  42. is yelling at the driver. I don't know who the

  43. driver was, but she was beating on the car and

  44. she's yelling. And how many know some of these

  45. things? You just like, you don't even really

  46. believe you're seeing this where you're seeing

  47. it, but I'm watching this all unfolding. I'm

  48. sliding down to the cars that are in front of,

  49. you know, in back of them. And the closer I got,

  50. I began to slow down and I began to fear the

  51. worst because I began to hear the person that

  52. she was yelling at revving the engine. I know.

  53. And I'm like, please, Lord, no. You know, and

  54. they're revving the engine as I'm coming and

  55. slowing down. And my worst fear took place. I

  56. heard tires squealing and boom. They take off

  57. and hit this woman, knock her halfway out into

  58. the intersection, and she's laying on the pavement.

  59. And I couldn't believe what I was seeing in front

  60. of me. And the car backs up and just sitting

  61. there revving the motor and then suddenly cuts

  62. to the right and takes off down the road. And

  63. this woman's laying in the street. And I begin

  64. to come to a stop, start to get the car, my vehicle

  65. stopped, the truck stopped. I begin to unbuckle

  66. my seatbelt because I didn't know what kind of

  67. horrific scene I was going to walk up on. And

  68. then the strangest thing happened. This woman

  69. sits up and starts to crawl across the street.

  70. And the car that was sitting at the intersection,

  71. the door opens, she crawls in the back seat,

  72. and that car turns to the right and takes off.

  73. Have you ever seen something and you don't even

  74. know what's going on? I didn't know whether to

  75. call 911. I didn't even know what to report.

  76. I couldn't even see their license plate. Everybody

  77. was gone and me in the car in front of me, the

  78. guy's just sitting in there shaking his head.

  79. I didn't know what to do, right? It was the most

  80. bizarre and horrifying thing I've ever seen,

  81. you know, watching people. And we watch people

  82. and sometimes you see people that are angry and

  83. they're frustrated and they're mad and they're

  84. unhappy and they're anything but satisfied in

  85. life. Dixie and I just went shopping. We take

  86. one day a year and we go together and we go shopping

  87. and we do a bunch of Christmas shopping. And

  88. I watched, like people watched this year. We

  89. were at a mall and some outside outlets and all

  90. this kind of thing. I wanted to watch people,

  91. see if they have any joy in their face. I didn't

  92. see a whole lot of joy that day. Matter of fact,

  93. I saw a whole bunch of grumpy people, right?

  94. They were not smiling. We're sitting in the middle

  95. of food and more provision than we could ever

  96. hope for. And all I saw were these faces that

  97. were frustrated. No hope, no life, no peace,

  98. no promise. Just unhappy. And I think it's because

  99. of this. I think it's because people are looking

  100. for happy in all the wrong places. Amen? They're

  101. looking for happy in all the wrong places. They're

  102. searching in places that they're not going to

  103. find it. Happy is eluding them every step of

  104. the way. Joy seems to be a million miles from

  105. them, even during Christmas, right? And at the

  106. most, what they're experiencing is just a splash

  107. of happy. Just a splash, just a moment, right?

  108. In the middle of the tinsel and in the middle

  109. of the lights and in the middle of all of it,

  110. there's this splash of happy. The whole world's

  111. chasing a splash of happy. I'm gonna tell you

  112. one more story, then we're gonna get to the word

  113. of God. We recently, I'm in story mode today,

  114. man. I haven't preached in three weeks. You're

  115. in big trouble, all right? Well, we recently

  116. went on a family vacation and we went to the

  117. happiest place on earth. How many know what that

  118. is? Disney, right? I heard all kind of, I don't

  119. even know what some of you said. But, you know,

  120. Disney's supposed to be the happiest place on

  121. earth. And I remember going, we went there with

  122. the kids and the grandkids, and it was a blast.

  123. We had a ball. We had just as much fun, actually,

  124. back at the big old house we were in, just spending

  125. time together. And we went to all the different

  126. parks, and I spent all my money, and I came home

  127. broke. But it was awesome, right? And while we

  128. were visiting Epcot, we got on this ride that

  129. was called Guardians of the Galaxy Cosmic Rewind.

  130. By far the best roller coaster I've ever ridden

  131. in my life. And I like roller coasters. And I

  132. remember going in, and even while you're in line,

  133. they got you in little sections, right? And you

  134. go in, and it's a whole experience from the beginning

  135. to end. You're standing in line, and the video

  136. screens come on, and they're telling you how

  137. you're going to be guardians of the galaxy along

  138. with them. Huge video screens. It's amazing,

  139. right? And you go a little further, and they

  140. tell the story a little more. And then you get

  141. on this crazy coaster that runs in the dark,

  142. and it was amazing. And we all got off of it,

  143. and we're smiling ear to ear, and we're laughing,

  144. and we're telling each other all about it, right?

  145. for 15 minutes. We're going on and on. We had

  146. a splash of happy, right? And then we get off

  147. and we got to the kids where some of the other

  148. ones were waiting. And then the splash of happy

  149. turned into, I'm hungry, I'm thirsty, I'm tired,

  150. let's go. Can we ride something else, right?

  151. Do you know what it costs Disney for that splash

  152. of happy for my life? We looked it up, $500 million

  153. to build that ride. That's why I came home broke.

  154. I'm helping Walt pay for it, right? 500 million

  155. for 15 minutes of happiness. In John chapter

  156. four, Jesus begins to unlock the source of true

  157. happiness. And the amazing part is that he gives

  158. us gallons daily of happy. I'm going to, as you

  159. turn to John chapter four, we're going to start

  160. verse one. I'm going to pray. Father, thank you

  161. for this day. I thank you for Lord, each person

  162. that's here. I thank you, Lord, God, for their

  163. testimony and you and God, for some that might

  164. be here and don't have a testimony. God, I pray

  165. that changes by the end of this gathering. Lord,

  166. we pray that God, as we break bread and Lord,

  167. we read your word, God, that it settles into

  168. our hearts and into our minds and God, that it

  169. changes who we are. And we just give you glory

  170. and honor in Jesus name. And everybody said together.

  171. Amen, amen. John chapter four, verse one says,

  172. therefore, when the Lord knew that the Pharisees

  173. had heard that Jesus made and baptized more disciples

  174. than John, though Jesus himself did not baptize,

  175. but his disciples, he left Judea. Now, Judea

  176. was in the southern part of Israel's area, okay,

  177. in Judea, and departed again to Galilee, which

  178. was in the northern area, but he needed to go

  179. through Samaria. Samaria was kind of sandwiched

  180. between Judea, right, and Galilee, and so he

  181. came to the city of Samaria, called Sychar, near

  182. the plot of ground that Jacob gave to his son

  183. Joseph. Now Jacob's well was there. Jesus, therefore,

  184. being weary from his journey, sat thus by the

  185. well. It was about the sixth hour. A woman of

  186. Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her,

  187. give me a drink. For his disciples had gone away

  188. into the city to buy food. The woman of Samaria

  189. said to him, how is it that you being a Jew ask

  190. a drink from me, a Samaritan woman? For Jews

  191. have no dealings with the Samaritans. Jesus answered

  192. and said to her, if you knew the gift of God

  193. and who it is that says to you, give me a drink,

  194. you would have asked him and he would have given

  195. you living water. Say living water. And the woman

  196. said to him, sir, you have nothing to draw with

  197. and the well is deep. Where then do you get that

  198. living water? Are you greater than our father

  199. Jacob who gave us a well and drank it for himself

  200. as well as his sons and his livestock? Jesus

  201. answered and said to her, whoever drinks of this

  202. water will thirst again. But whoever drinks of

  203. the water that I shall give him will never thirst.

  204. But the water that I shall give him will become

  205. in him a fountain of water springing up into

  206. everlasting life. And the woman said to him,

  207. sir, give me this water that I may not thirst

  208. nor come near to draw, right? Jesus has an encounter

  209. with a Samaritan woman at a well as he travels

  210. back up to Galilee. And in the course of the

  211. conversation, Jesus informs this woman that he

  212. has water if drank, right? If you drink the Jesus

  213. water, a fountain of water will begin to rise

  214. up out of you into everlasting life. Living water

  215. from within you. Not water from a well, not something

  216. that you take in from the outside, not something

  217. that erupts and you take and grab a cup and fill

  218. up yourself, right? Fresh, eternal water that

  219. comes up and happy flowing out of you. Joy flowing

  220. out of you. God inside of you coming out. Hope,

  221. life, peace, promise, joy. Happy, perpetually

  222. at your disposal. And the woman's like, now listen,

  223. the woman that's at the well, she's thinking

  224. all physical because she says, sir, give me this

  225. water that I may not thirst nor come here to

  226. draw. She's thinking about physical water because

  227. she doesn't want to have to go carry a pot to

  228. the well, right? And then carry it the whole

  229. way back. But Jesus is saying, no, no, no. You

  230. don't understand, Miss Samaritan, right? I'm

  231. talking about eternal water here. I'm talking

  232. about water that never ends. I'm talking not

  233. something beyond just a splash of happy in your

  234. life, right? A momentary moment. of being satisfied,

  235. and your thirst is being satisfied. What is the

  236. secret that Jesus is letting this Samaritan know

  237. at Jacob's well? It's this. It's not what is

  238. flowing into us that makes us happy, but it's

  239. who's flowing out of us that makes us happy,

  240. right? Let me say it again. It's not what's flowing

  241. into us that's going to make us happy. It's who

  242. is flowing out of us that makes us happy. It's

  243. not what's coming in. It's not. It's not what's

  244. coming into my life that's going to make me happy.

  245. We're all looking for that perfect circumstance.

  246. We're all looking for that perfect situation,

  247. right? That thing that just gets us to that happy

  248. moment, that selfie moment. Amen. Don't we do

  249. that? Cheese, right? That peace, that joy, that

  250. satisfaction, happy. The best you're going to

  251. do with something on the outside is a splash

  252. here and a splash there. And if you want more

  253. than just a splash of happy in your life, if

  254. you want an internal fountain of happy flowing

  255. up out of you, it's going to come because you

  256. partook of Jesus' water. Because you didn't just

  257. grab what was on the outside, but it comes from

  258. the inside. It comes from Christ. And what are

  259. we talking about? You know, what are we saying

  260. here? You got to understand something. If you

  261. look into Scripture, that term, living water,

  262. is only used in three places in Scripture. And

  263. all three times by Jesus, right? Twice is in

  264. this encounter with this Samaritan woman at the

  265. well. Very small audience, right? A woman at

  266. the well, maybe a few disciples standing around.

  267. I don't know if there were some other folks there

  268. or not. Word of God doesn't really tell us. And

  269. then in John 7, 37, Jesus cries out to a large

  270. group of people and clearly states how this fountain

  271. of living water. flows up out of us perpetually.

  272. In John 7, 37, it says this, on the last day,

  273. the great day of the feast, Jesus stood up and

  274. cried out. He's at a feast. There's a lot of

  275. people. If anyone thirsts, come on, we're back

  276. to water again, let him come to me and drink.

  277. He who believes in me, as the scripture has said,

  278. out of his heart, say his heart, will flow rivers

  279. of living water. But he spoke concerning the

  280. spirit, whom those believing in him would receive,

  281. for the Holy Spirit was not yet given because

  282. Jesus was not yet glorified. If you're looking

  283. for more than a splash of happy that comes from

  284. something on the outside of you, if you're looking

  285. for happy that's going to flow up out of you,

  286. if it's going to be a fountain, if it's going

  287. to be a river flowing up out of you, then Holy

  288. Spirit needs to be active in your life. Holy

  289. Spirit needs to be working in the inside and

  290. perpetually bubbling up within your life. This

  291. is where happy is going to stem, plus a whole

  292. bunch of other things, right? He is the source.

  293. He is the never -ending supply. He is who Jesus

  294. sent to us when he left and ascended back into

  295. heaven. He is part of the reason why Jesus came

  296. here in the first place that first Christmas.

  297. This is part of the reason. The world around

  298. us can only experience just a splash. They're

  299. grabbing at everything they can get, right? They're

  300. looking for happy in all the wrong places. Any

  301. place they can go grab a moment. Anytime they're

  302. trying to get it on their cameras, they're trying

  303. to grab a moment of photo, right? Parties and

  304. sports and careers and relationships and hobbies

  305. and every place that they can go look and trying

  306. to draw out a moment of happiness. Just grab

  307. for one. I'm here to tell you, Jesus left the

  308. halls of heaven. He was born to a very ordinary

  309. couple, right? In a very ordinary town, a little

  310. town called Bethlehem, so he could pay the price

  311. for our sin. He became the sacrifice. He grew

  312. into a man and he ministered and he became the

  313. sacrifice as God's son to pay the payment for

  314. my sin and for your sin, to bring us redemption,

  315. to bring us right into a place of salvation and

  316. eternity with God. But one day he left this earth

  317. following that after he rose from the grave,

  318. he left and he didn't just leave us with that.

  319. He said, go and wait for the promise. Wait for

  320. the gift. The Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit. It

  321. is the Spirit who comes into your life. And when

  322. that happens, when you're actively engaged with

  323. the Holy Spirit, the Word of God says rivers.

  324. Rivers. How many want a river? Come on. I don't

  325. want a dab. I don't want a dash. I don't want

  326. a little dribble or something. I want a river

  327. of living water flowing up out of me. If we want

  328. happy flowing, regardless of the chaotic circumstance

  329. in your life, it comes by engaging with the Holy

  330. Spirit. You want to get joy in your life in ways

  331. that you can't imagine in the middle of the chaos?

  332. And how many know there's chaos going on around

  333. us, right? How many have been watching the news

  334. this week? right? Bondi Beach, right? Sydney,

  335. Australia, a gunman. I watched the whole video

  336. horrified this week because I watched the video

  337. of these gunmen who just opened up and unleashed

  338. shooting Jewish people at random, at random,

  339. anti -Semitic ugly on display and all kinds of

  340. murdering people in cold blood. That's chaos,

  341. church. Come on. You know, Brown University shootings

  342. taking place. That's chaos. How do you find peace,

  343. dare I say even happy, in the middle of circumstances

  344. like that? Can you even get to happy in the middle

  345. of that kind of chaos? Only if there is living

  346. water flowing up out of you. It is the only way.

  347. It's not going to come from the outside in. It's

  348. going to come from the inside out. If you're

  349. going to get happy when your family is messed

  350. up, When your family is divided, if you're going

  351. to get happy, when there's lack all around you,

  352. you're lacking in finances, you're lacking in

  353. support, you're lacking in whatever, right? When

  354. your spouse never seems to be happy, some of

  355. you are in that situation. Thank God I'm not.

  356. My wife's here. She's happy all the time. Well,

  357. most of the time with me. That's a lie. Sometimes

  358. I, never mind. Right? We'll tell that another

  359. day. All right? Sometimes when you're in a struggle.

  360. That person right beside you at work who's never

  361. happy. Maybe called your boss, right? Eight hours

  362. plus a day. We need more than a splash of happy

  363. in our lives. We need the living water. We need

  364. the Holy Spirit. Jesus came to Bethlehem so you

  365. could have that kind of water. He was born and

  366. laid in a manger and grew so that you could have

  367. this. This is part of what he paid for. We have

  368. fountains of happy flowing up and out of us when

  369. we're engaged with the Holy Spirit, when we're

  370. engaged. When we walk with him and we talk with

  371. him and we're doing life with the Holy Spirit.

  372. We always talk about doing life with one another.

  373. That's amazing. That's awesome. We believe in

  374. that highly here and being a part of a community

  375. of other believers. But that's not nearly as

  376. important as being engaged in and connected with

  377. the Holy Spirit who God has given us. Listen

  378. to what the prophet Ezekiel tells us. And Ezekiel's

  379. prophesying over, he's talking about Israel in

  380. this. And he says in 35, 25, then I will sprinkle

  381. clean water on you and you shall be clean. I

  382. will cleanse you from all your filthiness and

  383. from all your idols. And I will give you a new

  384. heart. and put a new spirit within you. I will

  385. take the heart of stone out of your flesh, and

  386. I will give you a heart of flesh. I will put

  387. my spirit, he's talking about the Holy Spirit,

  388. within you and cause you to walk in my statues

  389. and to keep my judgments and do them, and you

  390. shall dwell in the land that I gave your fathers,

  391. for you shall be my people and I will be your

  392. God. That's what he's telling the Israelites.

  393. Scripture says, new heart, new spirit within

  394. you. I saw hearts of stone when I was out Christmas

  395. shopping. I watched their faces. Hearts of stone.

  396. Everything around them. All the goodness that

  397. was around us. All the provision that they had,

  398. right? And nothing but hearts of stone. Jesus

  399. came to this earth. He brought Holy Spirit to

  400. you to do heart surgery. I don't know if you

  401. know that or not. He's here to do heart surgery

  402. on you. The word of God says in Proverbs that

  403. the issues of life, right, are stored up in our

  404. heart. Proverbs 4 .23 tells us that. He'll work

  405. out the issues of your life if you call on him.

  406. All this stuff that makes us so unhappy, right,

  407. the outside stuff coming in, right, that we're

  408. trying to look for happy in, he sends the Holy

  409. Spirit to change our heart. You got to understand

  410. the power in this. You got to understand the

  411. gift of God that this is in your life. Because

  412. when you stop looking to the outside for something

  413. that's going to make you happy on the inside,

  414. and you start looking to God, and you start relying

  415. on the Holy Spirit from the inside out, that's

  416. when rivers begin to flow out, right? That's

  417. when fountains begin to rise up within you. You're

  418. not looking forward to the things that are around.

  419. You're not looking forward to in a relationship.

  420. You're not looking forward to in a person. It's

  421. the Holy Spirit. John 14, 25 tells us that it

  422. is the Spirit of God who is the helper to us,

  423. that he will teach you all things. How many of

  424. you need some teaching out there? Amen. And this

  425. isn't just, sometimes you need emotional teaching.

  426. Do you know that? Lord straightened me up on

  427. that all the time. He's trying to teach me emotionally

  428. how to straighten up. Pray for me. He's still

  429. doing it, right? He says that. John 35 lets us

  430. know that we must be born of the spirit to enter

  431. the kingdom of God. In 1 Corinthians 6, 19 and

  432. Romans 8, 26 lets us know that the spirit comes

  433. to live within us and that we are virtually the

  434. temple of the Holy Spirit. John 16, 13 says that

  435. he will lead you into all truth. As a matter

  436. of fact, the word of God calls him the spirit

  437. of truth. Galatians 5, 22 says that the fruit

  438. of the spirit It looks like this. Listen to it.

  439. Love, joy, peace, long -suffering, kindness,

  440. goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self

  441. -control. Did you hear joy in the middle of that?

  442. Happiness? Romans 8 .26 and John 14 .26 tell

  443. us that he's the comforter. He's the helper.

  444. He's the advocate that bears our burdens and

  445. gives us strength. And Ephesians 1 .13 says that

  446. he seals the believers, guaranteeing their eternal

  447. redemption. It is happy. perpetually flowing

  448. out of us. Whole bunch of other things I don't

  449. got time to preach on this morning, but it comes

  450. from the Holy Spirit. And just in case you thought

  451. I missed it with Christmas, you're like, pastor,

  452. this is Christmas time. You should be preaching

  453. a Christmas message. Well, let me just read you

  454. something out of Luke chapter two. As the praise

  455. team gets ready to come, makes their way up to

  456. the stage. Luke chapter two, verse one says this.

  457. And it came to pass in those days that a decree

  458. went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world

  459. should be registered. This census first took

  460. place while Cyrenius was governing Syria. So

  461. all went to be registered, everyone to his own

  462. city. Joseph also went up from Galilee out of

  463. the city of Nazareth into Judea to the city of

  464. David, which is called Bethlehem. because he

  465. was of the house and the lineage of David, to

  466. be registered with Mary, his betrothed wife,

  467. who was with Chal. And so it was while they were

  468. there, the days were completed for her to be

  469. delivered. And she brought forth her firstborn

  470. son and wrapped him in swaddling clothes and

  471. laid him in a manger because there was no room

  472. for them in the inn. Now they were in the same

  473. country, in the same place, right, same location,

  474. shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch

  475. over the flock by night. And behold, an angel

  476. of the Lord stood before them, and the glory

  477. of the Lord shone around them, and they were

  478. greatly afraid. Then the angel said to them,

  479. Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good

  480. tidings of great what? Joy. Good times of great

  481. joy, which will be to all people. For there is

  482. born to you this day in the city of David, a

  483. savior who is Christ the Lord, and he will be

  484. the sign to you. You will find a babe wrapped

  485. in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger. And

  486. suddenly there were angels, a multitude of heavenly

  487. hosts, praising God and saying, glory to God

  488. in the highest and on earth, peace, goodwill

  489. toward men. Heavenly announcement of Jesus coming

  490. to this earth. And what do the angels declare?

  491. We've got good tidings, great news. That could

  492. be interpreted. We got great news of great joy.

  493. Good news of great joy, happiness. Those angels

  494. could have announced Jesus coming a hundred different

  495. ways. They could have said a thousand things

  496. about Jesus that would have been true and amazing.

  497. They said, we got good news. We got great joy

  498. ahead for you. It starts. With Jesus born in

  499. the manger and he continues on with the Holy

  500. Spirit, actively restoring our hearts. Taking

  501. a heart of stone and making it a heart of flesh

  502. about everything in your life, every area of

  503. your life. I'm gonna ask if you'd stand. I'm

  504. here to tell you this morning, the world's got

  505. it all wrong. They're all looking for splashes

  506. of happy and I'm here to tell you today, it's

  507. a lie. You're not gonna find perpetual happy.

  508. If you're looking for the outside in. Do you

  509. know what the world, you can Google this if you

  510. want to. So I know some of you fact check me

  511. on things, all right? Do you know what the, you

  512. should, by the way. Do you know what the world

  513. says the key drivers for happiness are? If you

  514. look it up, they'll say social connections, which

  515. is relationships, health, purpose and meaning,

  516. positive habits, engagement, acts of kindness.

  517. and spending money on experiences. Can I jump

  518. back to where I started this message at and give

  519. you a little bit of a case in point? The woman

  520. at the well had been looking for happiness and

  521. relationships for years. If you read on in that

  522. passage, you'll find out, and Jesus says this

  523. to her in John 4, 16. Jesus said to her, go,

  524. call your husband and come here. He's talking

  525. to the woman at the well. And the woman answered

  526. and said, I have no husband. Jesus said to her,

  527. you have said, or well said, I have no husband.

  528. For you have had five, say five, five husbands.

  529. And the one in whom you have is not your husband,

  530. in whom you spoke truly. The woman said to him,

  531. sir, I was perceived that you're a prophet. Six

  532. relationships that she was engaged in, looking

  533. for happy. Five of them were her husband's, and

  534. now she's living with a guy, and she can't find

  535. it. She's looking outside in. Jesus was letting

  536. her know, woman, you're looking for happy in

  537. all the wrong places. Let me tell you about living

  538. water, right? You've been searching for happy

  539. in people. How many know people fail? How many

  540. know you fail? Come on. We all fail. Health will

  541. fail you. Habits will not get it done. It's all

  542. good things, but it will not get it done. Spending

  543. money on experiences, right? 500 million for

  544. 15 minutes, and you're going to get a splash

  545. of happy. Engaging in something purposeful, that's

  546. awesome, right? But it will not perpetually bring

  547. happiness into your life. Happy starts in Jesus,

  548. it continues in Jesus, and it works as the Holy

  549. Spirit moves in your life. as you engage Holy

  550. Spirit. Now, I know what some of you are thinking.

  551. Why didn't he leave us sit a little longer? That's

  552. probably what some of you are thinking. You might

  553. ask, well, why are some Christians so stinking

  554. miserable and unhappy jerks, right? Anybody ever

  555. meet an argumentative, combative, judgmental,

  556. unkind, unhelpful jerk of a Christian? Raise

  557. your hand if you have. Don't finger point, don't

  558. look around, by the way. Did you say that? We

  559. are in church. You probably met a Christian who's

  560. stiff -armed the Holy Spirit in their life. Or

  561. a Christian who pretends that he's not there.

  562. He is a he, he is part of the Godhead, the Father,

  563. Son, and the Holy Spirit. He is God. Or he's

  564. not in communication, or they are not in communication

  565. or communion with the Holy Spirit. Or they value

  566. their truth. over the truth that he speaks. Don't

  567. look at them. Look at Jesus. Don't rely on them

  568. as a representative of God and certainly not

  569. as a representative of the Holy Spirit as well.

  570. Engage. First step to happy in this holiday season,

  571. in Christmas time, time we celebrate Jesus is

  572. faith in Jesus Christ first. And then the second

  573. step is engaged with the gift that he's given

  574. us in the Holy Spirit. I'm going to ask you to

  575. bow your heads. If you're in the house this morning

  576. and you've been looking for happy in all the

  577. wrong places, I'm here to tell you Jesus came

  578. to this earth, was born in a manger in Bethlehem,

  579. grew, and he became the sacrifice for your sin.

  580. He became. The go -between between you and being

  581. reconciled back to God. And maybe nobody's ever

  582. told you that before. He has a plan for you.

  583. He has a purpose for you. He wants to wash you

  584. clean of the sin that has separated you from

  585. Him for so long. And if that's you in the house,

  586. and you're tired of looking for happy in the

  587. wrong places, and you want to know this living

  588. water that I'm talking about. You want to know

  589. what Jesus spoke about to the woman at the well.

  590. If that's you in your house, I want you to raise

  591. your hand and put it up right, put your hand

  592. up and put it right back down. I want to make

  593. sure that, thank you. Thank you for those hands.

  594. Appreciate that. This is an acknowledgement tweet.

  595. He's got living water for you. Now I want you

  596. to keep your heads bowed just a little longer

  597. because Christians, you need to hear this. You

  598. need the Holy Spirit active in your life. You

  599. need to be engaging. and the Spirit's move and

  600. activity in your life. You cannot ignore the

  601. gift of God and expect to get to happy. You cannot

  602. ignore the Spirit of God and living water flow

  603. up out of you. You cannot stiff arm His work

  604. in your life and expect fountains of joy to come

  605. up out. You cannot do it. Father, we come to

  606. you today, and Lord, as each person in the house,

  607. examines their heart as we go into this week

  608. of Christmas. Lord, I pray right now that you

  609. would guide and direct those, Lord, that spoke,

  610. raise their hand, Lord, as they pray and ask

  611. you into their lives. God, as they recognize

  612. that life only comes in you, I pray, Lord, in

  613. their own words, they just say, Jesus, come into

  614. my heart, come into my life, forgive me of my

  615. sin. I want to follow you. I want to walk with

  616. you. I want to talk with you and give me the

  617. gift of the Holy Spirit in my life. Lord, for

  618. those of us who are following, and God have followed

  619. you for so long, God, help us not to stiff arm

  620. the Spirit of God. As he convinces and convicts

  621. us, God, help us to recognize his work in our

  622. lives. As the paraclete, as the one who comes

  623. and never leaves us, but walks with us till one

  624. day we meet you face to face. Lord, we ask this

  625. in Jesus' name, and amen. I want you to look

  626. back up. I want you to think about this in the

  627. light of Christmas for just a moment. What if,

  628. what if it cost you your life to give a gift

  629. to somebody this Christmas? And you gave that

  630. person that gift, and the person took that gift

  631. and stuck it in a corner, ignored it. That's

  632. what Jesus did. He came. He was born. He died

  633. on a cross. He left and he gave us the gift of

  634. the Holy Spirit. What if, right? What if? Here's

  635. what I know. He wants to be active in your life.

  636. I know that my joy comes from him. Circumstances

  637. change all the time. Trouble comes. If you're

  638. following Jesus and somebody told you it was

  639. going to be sunshine and roses, they lied. They

  640. just straight up lied to you. Life's difficult,

  641. amen? But joy comes from within. Now I want to

  642. help you with something. As you follow Christ,

  643. and we're going to do this as a church, by the

  644. way. We're going to start, we're going to begin

  645. to plan for this in January. But here's what

  646. I know. To engage with the Holy Spirit, you have

  647. to be actively in God's Word. You've got to be

  648. praying, right? Praying to the Father. You've

  649. got to be praying and reaching out in prayer.

  650. And you've got to be listening and looking for

  651. the Spirit's move in your life. And one of the

  652. things that so many people struggle with is reading

  653. God's Word. They have such a difficult time in

  654. staying in God's word, understanding God's word,

  655. figuring out God's word. And here's what we're

  656. going to do. And I don't even call this doing

  657. your devotions every day. When you're going to

  658. get with God, I want you to think of it in this

  659. manner. You're going to meet with the creator

  660. of the universe. Do you understand that? Daily.

  661. And here's what we're going to do. We're going

  662. to put a tool in your hand to help you with that.

  663. It's called the Bible recap. Say the Bible recap.

  664. All right. We're going to try to get everybody

  665. engaged in this by the month of February. If

  666. you've never read the Bible through from cover

  667. to cover, you're going to do it this year. This

  668. is your year. And we're going to give you support.

  669. We're going to give you a tool. The beautiful

  670. thing with Bible Recap is there's an app that

  671. goes along with it. And in that app, they'll

  672. give you the reading for the day. And if you're

  673. feeling really lazy that day, they'll read it

  674. to you. Seriously, you can just sit there like

  675. a lump and listen to somebody else read. the

  676. word of God to you. And on top of that, they

  677. got a video that explains what the word of God

  678. just said. It helps you understand what was just

  679. taking place in the Bible recap. So there's an

  680. app, there are books, there are manuals, there's

  681. study guides. We got recap Bibles out there that

  682. you can purchase. You can get just any kind of

  683. resource that you need to help you be successful.

  684. And there's one more step to being successful

  685. in that is other people doing it with you. So

  686. here's what we're looking to do. We've instituted

  687. LH3 here a long time ago. We used to call it,

  688. just to get it started, we said three friends

  689. for three months for three minutes in God's Word.

  690. Now, listen, that was just to get you started.

  691. Now it's going to be three friends and you guys

  692. engaging in God's Word. And the beautiful thing

  693. in the app, you can just chat right within the

  694. app and talk about God's Word. So what I want

  695. you to be praying about through this month into

  696. Christmas, going into January, I know you're

  697. busy right now, right? I want you to be praying

  698. about who you're going to engage. I want you

  699. to find two other people to engage in God's Word

  700. with. I want you to begin to pray about that.

  701. And then... I want you to connect with them and

  702. talk with them. And then we're going to get you

  703. all outfitted with material. And we got a table

  704. set up right out there. If you don't know how

  705. to load the app, they'll help you because it

  706. works in conjunction with YouVersion Bible app.

  707. And they're going to help you get it loaded up.

  708. They're going to show you how to do it, when

  709. to do it, right? They're going to give you all

  710. the, there's some people out there that I'm going

  711. to call experts at Bible Recap. And they're going

  712. to help you learn this tool. And we're going

  713. to engage in God's word. Nothing will change

  714. you more than engaging with the Holy Spirit and

  715. God's word because he was the author. The Holy

  716. Spirit was the author of God's word. Amen. Amen.

  717. God's so good. It's Christmas time. Amen. Thank

  718. you for tuning in to this message from Lifehouse

  719. Church. Visit our website at www .lifehousecog

  720. .com.