Sermon
WHEN IN ROMANS | Part 2 | Wages & Gifts
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Uh-huh.
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>> [music]
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[applause]
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>> Good morning. I need to let my dad on
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stage. [laughter] How's my dad, by the
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way? Are you proud?
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Thanks for the intro today.
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Hey, we are in our series when in
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Romans. So, we're excited about this
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series and digging into uh what Paul has
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to say. Pastor Dan kicked us off last
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week. Uh talked about the Romans road
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and remember learning about that in
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Sunday school way back in the day and
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the milestones that come along the way.
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And and when Pastor Ben asked us, we're
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we're doing two weeks in a row. Pastor
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Dan was first week and then I'm second
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week. I got concerned. And I was like,
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man, I really hope Pastor Dan doesn't
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steal what I want to talk about because
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then I have to start all over again.
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But Pastor Dan killed it last week. And
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in fact, I was afraid that Pastor Dan
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would steal my stuff, but I'm actually
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going to steal his.
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>> So, we're going to kind of revisit and
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piggyback off of what Pastor Dan shared
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with us last week. Uh, but we're not
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going to go like on the straight road.
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We were talking pastor Pastor Dan's like
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in the straight road very like broadly
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uh uh appealing to everyone and I'm
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going to hone in. We're going to kind of
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take a scenic route around the Romans
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road today and and one milestone that he
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shared. So, how many of us have a job?
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How many of us have a job?
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All right. How many of you love your
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job? How many of you love your job? My
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mom better love her job. She watches my
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daughter every day.
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All right. How many of you guys just
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work your job because it pays the bills?
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You don't love it, you just work it
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because you kind of have to because if
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you don't Yeah.
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So, I work part-time here at Grace
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Summit Church. That's part of the job
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that I love. But I also work full-time
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in what we call a secular job in in the
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ministry circles. But I don't really
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like that because really any job is
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another opportunity for ministry outside
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of the church.
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So anyways, I've worked at Lincoln
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Financial for 15 years here in Fort
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Wayne 10 years in the position that I'm
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at right now. Now, I don't necessarily
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love my job, but I do like my job and it
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does pay the bills. So, I don't know
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about the kind of jobs that you all
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have, but at my job, there are different
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levels of positions that you can be in.
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And then within those levels, there's a
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pay scale of whatever position you're
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in, there's a minimum amount that you
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can make and there's a maximum amount
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that you can make. And so you're paid
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somewhere in that uh there's no matter
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how long you work there, how little you
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work in a certain position, you'll never
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get less than a minimum amount. You'll
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never get more than a maximum amount.
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Now on that scale and within it, you
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earn higher on the scale the better you
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are at your job and the longer that
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you've been there. So this is what's
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called in the corporate world, in
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corporate speak, this is what's called
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merit-based pay. So, you get paid for
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how well you're working, how long you've
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worked.
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It's the work you put in or the return
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that your employer gets back from their
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investment in you. So, that determines
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your wages. And this is true for most
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employers. The work that you put in or
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that return determines how much you
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make. So, how many people watch the
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World Series?
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A few of us. Any Dodgers fans in the
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house? All right. We'll pray for you
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sinners.
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So, I haven't watched a full game of
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baseball uh from beginning to end since
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2016 when the Cubs won the World Series.
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There's God's team. Hallelujah.
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>> Cubs won the World Series. Well, last
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night me and Kate were like, "We need to
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watch this, but we don't have like an
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antenna." So, Kate's like frantically
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trying to figure out how can we watch
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this? There's got to be like a free
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trial. So, we found a free trial and we
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watched it last night and then we're
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canceling it. Um, but we watched the
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whole game. Thank goodness for daylight
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savings time ending, right? You got that
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extra hour of sleep. How many stayed up
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and watched it?
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>> A few of you. Sally Hannah said she
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tried but they went to bed.
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>> Love you, Sally. [laughter]
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>> All right, so with the World Series on
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Monday night, the Dodgers and the Blue
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Jays played an 18 in game, which is
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almost twice as long as a normal
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baseball game. They played 18 innings.
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And the Dodgers have a player and his
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name is Shi Otani. He's a Japanese
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player. He came over and this guy has
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just an absolutely obscene contract. He
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makes a ridiculous amount of money. So
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for that one game, so 18 innings, about
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6 hours of baseball
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for one game, Show Otani made based on
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his base salary for one game, $864,000
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>> for one game. One game of baseball. more
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money than most of us can dream of
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making in years. Okay, he makes it in
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one game. So, Shoi Otani signed a
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10-year, $700 million contract with the
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Dodgers. So, that's a lot of money,
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right? That'd be nice if we get a little
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tithe of that. Come on to our church.
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Seems like a lot. But just this year, so
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we think about this, they paid him all
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this money just this year. or show Otani
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for the Dodgers made with his
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endorsements, with his name recognition,
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with the foreign interest that he brings
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in from Japan, he made the Dodgers $550
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million. He made them that. Now that
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they've won the World Series, it's
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probably even more. And so Shi Otani is
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they're going to have his contract paid
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for within a year or two. So
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his contract will pay for itself and
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then some and that is merit-based pay.
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So he's returning to the Dodgers what
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they are giving to him and he's earned
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that. Now what does baseball have
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anything to do with what Pastor Dan
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talked about last week? [snorts]
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So we talked about our jobs and we
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talked about kind of this this pay scale
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and the merit-based pay. Another word
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for your pay are your wages. That's what
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you earn. What have you earned? What has
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your merit at your job gotten you? And
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so we're going to apply that from our
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jobs into the milestone that Pastor Dan
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gave us last week in Romans 6:23 where
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it says, "For the wages of sin," so this
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is what we earn. This is what our merit
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gets us. The wages of sin is death, but
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the free gift of God is eternal life in
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Christ Jesus our Lord. So this morning
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we're going to be talking about wages
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and gifts. And so this milestone Pastor
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Dan shared with he likened it to
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receiving a bill and God kind of takes
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that bill away and gives you something
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instead. But again, I'm veering off of
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the road a little bit and we're going to
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liken it to the wages that we've earned
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for what we've done.
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Unfortunately,
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the human condition thanks to Adam and
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Eve is that we're all sinful and born
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with sin innately within us. There is
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nothing that we can do to earn enough
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wages to avoid the consequences of sin.
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Even if we're making as much as Shi
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Otani, that is not enough
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to avoid it. Now, fortunately for us,
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somebody greater than Shi Otani came.
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Jesus came, God the Son, stepped from
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heaven to earth, born of a virgin, died
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on the cross, rose from the grave, all
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so that God could give us a gift and
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forget about what we've earned, that we
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don't have to worry about our wages.
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And we see this idea over and over in
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Romans, and we'll be talking about over
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these next few weeks of this gift. And
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in Romans 5:12
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says, "Therefore, just as sin came into
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the world through one man and death
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through sin, and so death spread to all
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men because all sinned." We're going to
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skip ahead to verse 15. But the free
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gift is not like the trespass.
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For if many died through one man, so
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Adam, through Adam's trespass, much more
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have the grace of God and the free gift
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by the grace of that one man, Jesus
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Christ, abounded for many.
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And the free gift is not like the result
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of that one man's sin. For the judgment
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following one trespass brought
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condemnation, but the free gift
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following many trans trespasses brought
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justification.
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So, Adam's one sin cost us everything.
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But Jesus's gift covers everything.
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For if because of one man's trespass,
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death reigned through that one man, much
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more will those who receive the
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abundance of grace and the free gift of
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righteousness
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reign in life through the one man, Jesus
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Christ. So God gives us a gift instead
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of the wages that we've earned. But
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there's a problem. And Pastor Dan did an
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interesting illustration last week. He
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had uh some gift cards. So he he had
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some free Starbucks that he was giving
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away. He had free Chick-fil-A. That's
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God's chicken.
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And he had free Smoothie King if you're
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into that sort of thing. Only one person
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in each service. So, two people came
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down to claim the Starbucks card. He
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held them out. He said, "Come and get
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them." And one person came down first
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service. One person came down second
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service to grab those Starbucks gift
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cards. First service for the
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Chick-fil-A. Two people tried to come
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up. One beat out the other, so only one
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person got a gift, but I've been told
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the other person did receive a gift
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card. So, we got them taken care of. So,
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two came up and then one came up for
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Chick-fil-A and second service, which
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makes no sense. It's Jesus's chicken.
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Two came for the Smoothie King card. A
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total of seven people came to accept the
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gift that Pastor Dan was offering. So,
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he offered these these cards. Seven
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people came, got out of their seats, and
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came down to accept the gift out of the
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dozens of people that were sitting in
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the room.
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So, it made me think
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there was a gift that was offered free
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of charge.
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Why
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weren't more people interested in the
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gift?
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Why do we often reject gifts freely
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given to anyone who would come and
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receive them?
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See, God offers us a gift worth far more
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than even Chick-fil-A, far more than
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even Starbucks.
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And whether it's a gift card or it's
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salvation or it's rededication or it's
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healing or it's a promise that God's
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made to us or direction that God wants
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to give to us. What's stopping us from
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[snorts] coming up and receiving the
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gift?
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So today I want to talk about four
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things that hold us back from God's
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gifts to us.
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And the first thing I want to talk about
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that holds us back from God's gifts is
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disbelief.
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So, there's a saying, we've probably all
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heard it. If it seems too good to be
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true,
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>> it probably is. And that's a common
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saying, we've heard it. We live in a
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skeptical and a cynical society. No one
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takes anything at face value. Now, we'd
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like to think that Pastor Dan didn't go
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out and spend the gift cards and then
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bring them here and give us empty gift
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cards, right? We'd like to think that.
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Uh but those who accepted the gifts that
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were received
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had no way of knowing that they had any
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value until they used them.
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Okay? And we did verify first service
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the Starbucks cards worked. Uh so they
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they were working gift cards. But many
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times we'll miss or even refuse God's
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gift because we lack faith to believe
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that it's a good gift and that it has
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value.
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For salvation, the first step in
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salvation is to believe in your heart.
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Without belief, the gift remains
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unclaimed for healing and miracles and
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direction.
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Belief is required to receive the gift.
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So, we go back and we're looking at
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Jesus and Jesus has sent his disciples
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out uh to do his work, to heal, to
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teach, to bring people to him. And so
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they're going out and they're doing all
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these things and there's a boy that's
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possessed by a demon and the disciples
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are trying to cast this demon out and
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it's just not working. And finally they
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call Jesus over and Jesus we can't get
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this guy free. And so Jesus in Mark
Mark 9 chapter mention
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chapter 9 and this is an interesting
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passage because we see some of the
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humanity of Jesus here. Jesus gets a
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little bit exasperated with his
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disciples here and then later on he gets
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sarcastic. So let's see what Jesus has
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to say here. So they brought this person
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to Jesus to be freed from the demonic
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possession. And Jesus answered them in
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Mark chapter 9.
Mark 9 chapter mention
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Oh faithless generation, how long am I
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to be with you? How long am I to bear
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with you? Bring him to me. He's like,
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I'll do it. Bring him to me. And they
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brought the boy to him. And when the
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spirit saw him, immediately it convulsed
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the boy, and he fell on the ground and
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rolled about foaming at the mouth. And
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Jesus asked his father, "How long has
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this been happening to him?" And he
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said, "From childhood." And it is often
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cast him into the fire and into water to
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destroy him. But if you can do anything,
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have compassion on us and help us. And
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here's Jesus gets a little bit
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sarcastic.
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Jesus said to him,"If you can."
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So, he's kind of calling him out. If you
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can, all things are possible for one who
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believes. And immediately the father of
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the child cried out and said, "I
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believe. Help my unbelief."
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And when Jesus saw that a crowd came
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running together, he rebuked the unclean
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spirit, saying to it, "You mutant deaf
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spirit, I command you, come out of him,
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and never enter him again." And after
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crying out and convulsing him terribly,
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it came out and the boy was like a
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corpse. So that most of them said, "He
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is dead." But Jesus took him by the hand
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and lifted him up and he arose. And so
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we see in this story,
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belief had to come first. Jesus didn't
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cast the spirit out of that boy until
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the father believed that he could. So at
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first, the father said, "If you can."
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And then Jesus kind of calls him out. He
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said you have to believe.
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Belief has to come first and freedom
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came second. Faith always comes before
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freedom. So we have to let go of our
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disbelief
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to accept the gift. The second thing
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that holds us back kind of related to
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disbelief and maybe a little more
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focused in is distrust.
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If we lack belief, we also lack trust.
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But we can believe and [snorts] still
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not trust. Okay, two sides of the same
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coin. And again, we probably trust
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Pastor Dan to give us working gift
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cards. But maybe just in our minds, if
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we haven't spoken to Pastor Dan or we
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don't know Pastor Dan, maybe just just
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for a fleeting moment, we thought maybe
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he's messing with us,
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>> right?
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>> Maybe he's messing with us.
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We know Pastor Dan as a man of
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integrity.
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>> Yes.
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to give us working gift cards.
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But here's the hard thing about trust
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and in coming to receive the gift. Truly
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trusting someone means giving them
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control.
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How many of you have done a trust fall
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before? So with like I was back in
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middle school or whatever and we go to
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the the field trip or whatever and you
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stand on the platform and there's like
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six people or eight people on the ground
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and you have to turn around. You have to
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turn your back to them. Sorry, Leo. I
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turned my back to the camera. You turn
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your back to them and you fall
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backwards. Uh, you are not in control.
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Okay? You have to trust the people
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behind you to catch you. Okay? Pastor
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Dane could have gotten you all the way
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up here and like had it holding out and
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just went psych and took it back.
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That would have been embarrassing. It
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would have been humiliating for you. And
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when you go to accept the gift, you give
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control to the giver.
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And on a grander scale, this is why we
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find ourselves lacking trust in what God
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has for us. We have to trust that what's
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in God's hands is better than what's in
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our hands.
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>> We ultimately have to give God control
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and give up our control.
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Proverbs chapter 3
Proverbs 3 chapter mention
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illustrates this. It says, "Trust in the
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Lord with all your heart. Do not lean on
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your own understanding.
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In all your ways acknowledge him, and he
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will make straight your paths. Be not
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wise in your own eyes. Fear the Lord and
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turn away from evil. It will be healing
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to your flesh and refreshment to your
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bones."
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So as humans, our default mindset, kind
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of how our brains work as fallen humans
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is to lean on our own understanding.
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What we know, what's our situation?
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What's our perception?
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We have to be in control.
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We like to think ourselves wise in our
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own eyes. Like to think that we know
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what's best, that we know the right
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answer.
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But the problem is that our perspective
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is so narrow,
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infinitely narrow compared to God's
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perspective. And he can see the end
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result of all of these things that are
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happening to us. We have to be willing
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to let go of control, to let go of our
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trust solely in ourselves and learn to
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trust in him.
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And there are times that it takes
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immense faith in devastating
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circumstances to let go of that control
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and to let God have it and to make
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ourselves vulnerable.
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But when we can practice that faith and
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when we can lose control seeding it to
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him, we then can accept the gift and see
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that it is far better than anything that
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we could have accomplished by ourselves
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or any situ any end of the situation
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that we could have accomplished. We have
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to trust and we have to believe. And
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Paul again Romans chapter 4 16 says that
Romans 4 chapter mention
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is why it depends on faith in order that
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the promise may rest on grace and be
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guaranteed to all his offspring
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not only to the adhering of the law but
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also to the one who shares the faith of
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Abraham. So Paul's talking about Abraham
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here who is the father of us all. As it
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is written, I have made you the father
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of many nations in the presence of the
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God in whom he believed, who gives life
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to the dead and calls into existence the
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things that do not exist. In hope,
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Abraham believed against hope, that he
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should become the father of many
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nations, as he had been told, "So shall
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your offspring be." He did not weaken in
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faith when he considered his own body
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which was as good as dead since he was
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about 100 years old or when he
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considered the barrenness of Sarah's
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womb. No unbelief made him waver
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concerning the promise of God. But he
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grew strong in his faith and he gave
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glory to God fully convinced that God
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was able to do what he had promised.
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That is why his faith was counted to him
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as righteousness. So Abraham is 100
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years old and God gives him this
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promise. There's no reason for Abraham
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to believe or trust in the natural that
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God's going to accomplish this. He's
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100. Sarah's at least 80. The likelihood
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of them having any children at this
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point is none. Right? But yet Abraham
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trusts God.
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He looks beyond his situation. He looks
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beyond his circumstances. He looks
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beyond his perception.
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to know the power of God and the promise
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that he would give. Letting go of
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unbelief and receiving the gift of God's
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promise. And so in order to come and to
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receive the gift, we have to let go of
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our disbelief. We have to let go of our
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distrust.
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The third thing that we have to let go
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of, and this is really difficult for us,
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is our pride.
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Pride
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says as he's holding the gift card out
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or the gift, as we're holding out the
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gift, pride says, "I don't need that.
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I don't want people to know that I need
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it.
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I don't want people to think less of
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me." It starts to become what are going
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to people going to think of me if I go
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and accept this gift?
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I don't want to be embarrassed. I don't
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want to be humbled. I don't want to look
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weak.
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And this is about a lot more than gift
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cards.
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We hate looking weak in front of other
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people.
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So, we're starting to get into the hard
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part now. And I want us to take a moment
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and think, truly think about this for a
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moment.
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Are you truly in such a place where you
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require no prayer for anything
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or any situation in your life? You don't
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have to answer. Just think about it.
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If you are in a place where you require
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no prayer, then Jesus has returned and
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you are him.
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>> Okay?
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>> Amen.
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You don't require prayer
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in your work, [snorts] in your walk with
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God, just to be closer to him,
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can we all?
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Do you need healing?
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And not just like the big healings, not
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like just cancer or just major diseases,
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but the cold that you woke up with or
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the sore throat.
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God doesn't care about just the big
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things. God cares about the minutia of
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our lives and he wants us to draw close
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to him and to receive what he has for
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us.
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Is there nothing that God can give you
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that can make you a stronger Christian
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that can bring you freedom from
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addiction? That can bring healing.
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>> So, we need to push beyond our pride and
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find what gift God may already have
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waiting for you if you just let go.
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And so Jesus addresses this in the book
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of Luke chapter 18. He's telling a
Luke 18 chapter mention
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parable. I'm going to paraphrase just a
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little bit as we're going through it. He
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also told this parable to someone who
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trusted in themselves that they were
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righteous and treated others with
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contempt.
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Two men went up into the temple to pray.
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One a Pharisee and the other a tax
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collector. The Pharisee standing by
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himself prayed thus, "God, I thank you
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that I am not like other men,
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extortioners,
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unjust,
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adulterers,
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Democrats,
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Republicans.
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God doesn't honor that."
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Or even like this tax collector, I fast
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twice a week. I give tithes of all that
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I get. But the tax collector,
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standing far off, would not even lift up
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his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast,
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saying, "God, be merciful to me a
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sinner. I tell you, this man went down
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to his house justified rather than the
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other. For everyone who exalts himself
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will be humbled,
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but the one who humbles himself will be
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exalted. So you can either humble
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yourself or God will humble you.
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There's only two options.
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And here's the thing, you can't just
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call yourself humble and be humble.
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>> Okay? I'm so humble.
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>> You don't measure your own humility.
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Okay?
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Humility can only be recognized in you
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by others.
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>> It's not an inner quality only. Humility
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has to be an outer quality. Has to be
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shown outwardly to God or the people
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around you. And so today, if you're
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dealing with pride, maybe you don't
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recognize it. I pray that God convicts
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us today, convicts me today to break
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pride and let us receive the gift that
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he has for us. Yes. Amen.
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>> To the unsaved, he has salvation
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available to you. To the saved, he has
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rededication, a new, deeper relationship
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with him, freedom, and healing if we
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only let go of our pride.
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Paul addresses this Romans 12:3. For by
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the grace given to me, I say to everyone
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among you not to think of himself more
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highly than he ought to think, but to
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think with sober judgment, each
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according to the measure of faith that
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God has assigned.
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In the end, we are nothing
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but sinners saved by grace through our
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faith in Jesus Christ. and we would do
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well to remember that and accept the
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gift today that God has for you. So he
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talked about disbelief and distrust and
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they were kind of the same coin,
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different sides of the same coin and
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have kind of the same idea here. We just
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talked about pride and letting go of
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pride. And the fourth thing that holds
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us back is shame.
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We'll start closing here. If if pride
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says I don't need it, shame says I don't
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deserve it.
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Shame says I'm unworthy of it.
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And instead of of building ourselves up
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in pride, we tear ourselves down in
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shame.
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And God doesn't want either for us. He
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doesn't want us to be proud and he
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doesn't want us to be ashamed.
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>> [snorts]
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>> And the thing about shame, shame is
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often more dangerous and it's more
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destructive than pride.
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>> It can also be more subtle.
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Shame can affect you without your
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knowledge.
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So, a few years ago, we went through the
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the freedom group and I know um Radiant
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Women just went through it a couple
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semesters ago and so you guys can can
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understand what I'm about to say. Many
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of us have gone through it, but the
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first time that I went through it, we
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went through the 13 weeks and then
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there's a retreat at the end and they
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have several sessions throughout that
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retreat. And going in like as a pastor,
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you kind of think that you have
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everything together and you're like, I'm
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just doing it to learn about it and so
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that I can help other people as they're
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going through it. Uh, and I went into
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that retreat feeling super heavy
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and and God started doing some work in
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me in that through the whole process and
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in the retreat. And so what I like to
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say and try not to laugh because it's
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kind of a Shrek reference. Deep on the
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inside of me there was an onion. Okay?
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And
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as we're going through these sessions,
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there were several of them. And every
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session, God would God would reach in
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and he'd peel a layer away.
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And so every session, I'm starting to
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feel lighter. I'm like, "God, what are
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you doing?" Like, I'm supposed to be
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helping other people. And this is
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totally a trap for any pastor because we
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think we have it all together.
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I think that I have it all together and
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I'm supposed to help other people. And
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God's like, "Ah, you don't have it all
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together."
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So he's peeling these layers off of what
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is happening, what's holding me back
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from this gift of freedom that God has
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for me. And so we go through all these
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things and we get to the last session.
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Thankfully, God took his time. He he
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peeled that last layer away and there
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was a situation from when I was younger
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that uh caused great shame in me.
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And over the years, I buried it and left
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it there and didn't deal with it, not
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even knowing that it was there. And God
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revealed that to me, and I'm like,
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that's what's been holding me back. And
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he took it. And I left feeling a hundred
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times lighter than when I walked in. All
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because unrealized shame. Things that I
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didn't know happened that affected me in
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ways that I didn't expect. Shame can be
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very subtle.
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It's a fear of accepting the gift,
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believing that we're unworthy of it due
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to our own actions, our own thoughts, or
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our own past,
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often leading to harming ourselves.
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Shame causes us to constantly look
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backwards.
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causing us to harm ourselves spiritually
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and physically.
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Shame can come from various places.
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Sometimes it's something that we've
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done, an action that we took, a sin we
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committed, a word we said, an angry
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reaction, a habitual sin, a person that
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we've wronged or caused hurt to, an
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addiction that we can't kick, drugs or
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alcohol or pornography or food. things
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that slowly destroy us from the inside.
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It can be that we've disappointed
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someone.
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Sometimes
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it's not something we've done. Sometimes
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it's something that's happened to us
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beyond our control. physical, mental
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abuse, sexual abuse, spiritual abuse or
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church hurt, bullying or abandonment or
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rejection,
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divorce,
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>> family breakdown. We've seen it all and
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it all brings shame and it all tries to
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bring us down
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and it makes us feel unworthy of the
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gift.
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And that is one of Satan's greatest
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lies. if he can convince you to focus on
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your past to convince you that you don't
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deserve and shouldn't receive God's
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gift. So, he's preventing you from
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taking the gift,
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then he doesn't have to deceive you
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after you have the gift, to try to take
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it back. It's a lot harder to take the
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gift back once you've received it than
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to prevent you from taking it at all.
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>> Okay?
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Because in the end, Satan's lazy. He
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doesn't want have to do more work than
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he has to. If he can get you before
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receiving the gift, that means that's a
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lot less work for him to do after you
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take the gift. And so, we're going to
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challenge you this morning to take the
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gift.
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>> Shame never comes from God.
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>> And shame is never God's desire for you.
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Amen.
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>> Romans 5,
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starting in verse one, Paul really
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illustrates this. He says, "Therefore,
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since we have been justified by faith,
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we have peace with God through our Lord
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Jesus Christ. Through him, we have also
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obtained access by faith into this grace
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in which we stand. if we rejoice in the
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hope of the glory of God. Not only that,
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but we rejoice in our sufferings,
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knowing that suffering produces
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endurance. Endurance produces character.
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Character produces hope. And hope does
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not put us to shame.
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Because God's love has been poured into
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our hearts through the Holy Spirit who
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has been given to us. God's love breaks
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shame into a million pieces.
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For while we were still weak, at the
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right time, Christ died for the ungodly.
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For one will scarcely die for a
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righteous person. Though perhaps for a
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good person, one would dare [music] even
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to die. But God shows his love for us.
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And that while we were still sinners,
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Christ died for us. What did Jesus say
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on the cross? Said, "Father, forgive
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them."
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While they're spitting on him, while
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they're mocking him,
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while they're cursing him,
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Jesus forgive forgave them.
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And because he did that, Paul can write
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in Romans chapter 8, "There is therefore
Romans 8 chapter mention
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now no condemnation
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for those who are in Christ Jesus. There
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is no shame to be had in Christ Jesus."
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And if Satan can't tempt you into pride,
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[music] shame is the tool that he'll use
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to get you to reject God's gift for you.
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If he can't make you feel too highly
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about yourself, he'll make you feel
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lowly about yourself.
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But here's the beauty of the gift.
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for any of those things that hold us
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back. Whether it's disbelief or distrust
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or pride or shame, the beauty of it is
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that you never have to earn the gift.
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And if you feel unworthy of it, remember
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that unlike our secular jobs, [music]
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we're not on a merit-based pay scale.
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In fact, the very definition of grace is
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unmmerited favor. It's favor that we
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don't deserve, but that God gives us.
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He gives us the gift regardless of our
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own shortcomings, regardless of our
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past.
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Our sin makes [music] us undeserving.
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But Jesus's work on the cross, makes us
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worthy recipients.
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Your sin, your past, your shame, your
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previous actions
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are not more powerful than the blood of
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Jesus.
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And God has a gift for you today.
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As I assembled this message and as I was
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studying and putting it together and it
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it started kind of light and then as it
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was going on, it got heavier and and
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[music] heavier and weightier and
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weightier
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and doesn't happen very often as I'm
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preparing a message, but the the Holy
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Spirit resonated with with my spirit.
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And it's it's a feeling you can't
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describe.
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But today
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there's at least one, but maybe more
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likely there's multiple of you and me. I
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believe there are multiple people who
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need to step out, [music]
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accept the gift of God today. This is
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your opportunity. So I'm going to invite
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the the worship team to come as we stand
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together.
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And I want to invite the prayer team
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to come down to the front.
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[music]
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And this morning,
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I believe that that God stands at the
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altar, gift [music] in hand
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for you,
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waiting for you to come and receive it.
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And so we [music] need to put away
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disbelief.
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We need to put away distrust.
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We need to swallow [music] our pride.
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>> And we need to leave behind our shame.
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God is ready. His arms are open. The
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gifts in his hands, ready to give to you
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today.
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Go get it.
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Don't miss the gift that he has for you
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today. And guys, who cares
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>> what anybody else thinks? That's right.
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That
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>> nothing holds us back more from coming
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to the altar than the people around us.
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>> And it's not their fault. It's our they
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don't care.
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[music]
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This is an intimate moment for you and
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for God.
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And so, let's take another moment. We we
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we focused earlier on
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what we need. What's the thing that we
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need prayer for? Whether it's a big
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thing [music] or whether it's a small
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thing.
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And so hold on to that thought and don't
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lose it and bring it to the altar and
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let God replace it with a gift that he
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has waiting for you today.
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Receive the gift. And we're going to
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[music] come full circle here. We're
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going to read Romans chapter 6 and we're
Romans 6 chapter mention
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going to start a little earlier in verse
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20. Paul says, "For [music] when you
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were slaves of sin, you were free in
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regard to righteousness. But what fruit
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were you getting at that time from
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[music] the things of which you are now
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ashamed?
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For the end of those things is death.
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But now that you have been set free from
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sin and have become slaves of God, the
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fruit you get leads to sanctification
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and its end eternal life.
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For the [music] wages of sin are
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merit-based pay is death. But the free
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gift of God is eternal life in Christ
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Jesus our Lord. Let's pray today. God,
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>> we're thankful for the gift, Lord, first
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of salvation that God, you made
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available the opportunity for us to know
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you, to dwell in your presence, to seek
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you, [music]
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>> to know that you are real. And so Lord,
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today in the house, if there's someone
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that doesn't know you, Lord, we pray you
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prompt their hearts with the Holy Spirit
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work,
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draw them to receive the gift today. For
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those in the house, we're already saved.
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We already believe. We already trust.
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Lord, we pray that you break pride in
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this room today. That you break shame in
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this room today. Lord, dig out the
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things that are deep within us that are
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holding us back from what you have for
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us.
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Let us focus on you today in Jesus name.
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Amen. The prayer team is here. Don't
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miss what God has for you today. [music]
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>> [music]