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LOVE | TEVIN LUCAS

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  1. Well, good morning. How are we feeling

  2. this morning?

  3. >> Okay. Uh, who's excited for Christmas?

  4. >> Four days away. I hope you got your

  5. Christmas shopping done. Today might be

  6. one of the last days that if you order

  7. on Amazon, I think it can still come.

  8. Uh, so make sure you go ahead and do

  9. that. We're going to be in First John 4

  10. today. So, if you have your Bibles, open

  11. them up to First John 4. If I haven't

  12. met you yet, my name is Tevin and I have

  13. the pleasure of serving as one of our

  14. pastors here on staff. Um God is doing a

  15. lot. There's a lot of exciting things

  16. coming up. We got Christmas Eve

  17. services. We have um what I call our

  18. holiday hangover. Uh the online service.

  19. I don't know if I'm allowed to call it

  20. that. Is that okay? No. Okay. Uh it's

  21. not the holiday hangover. It's something

  22. else. Um but join us. And then we're

  23. diving into a new collection in the new

  24. year. marriage, sex, all that fun stuff.

  25. So, um who's excited for that?

  26. >> Come on.

  27. We are in our Advent collection wrapping

  28. up. Um, and if you're you're new here or

  29. you haven't been a part, Advent um is

  30. really this time where we celebrate um

  31. the arrival of Jesus, but look back on

  32. the waiting that took place before and

  33. the waiting that will take place for him

  34. to come again. And uh and so it's such a

  35. special time. We we looked at uh hope,

  36. peace, joy, and now we're looking at

  37. love. And it's a a great collection. And

  38. if you haven't been here, go back and

  39. watch it because it's so important that

  40. we understand these things leading into

  41. Christmas because Christmas is one of

  42. those seasons that for some it is the

  43. most joyfilled time of the year and for

  44. others it can be the most painful time

  45. of the year. That that

  46. Christmas, at least for me, I'll say

  47. this is one of the most joyful times of

  48. the year. I have a three-year-old and a

  49. one-year-old son that both understand

  50. they're getting presents on Christmas.

  51. Uh, and so it's so much fun and there's

  52. so much joy leading into Christmas, but

  53. at the same time for me there there's

  54. pain and sadness and sorrow because

  55. Christmas two years ago was the last

  56. time that I saw my father. And so there

  57. there's joy and there's sorrow at this

  58. Christmas time. But the beautiful thing

  59. that I love about Christmas and Jesus is

  60. that he meets us in the midst of both.

  61. Whether it's the best time of the year

  62. or the most painful time of the year,

  63. that the story of Jesus and what we

  64. celebrate on Christmas is that Jesus

  65. came in the God in the flesh to meet us

  66. in the midst of whatever we're walking

  67. through, wherever we're at, and whatever

  68. season that looks like. And so it's

  69. beautiful and I'm excited to dive in to

  70. to love this morning. 1 John 4 starting

  71. in verse 8 says this. Anyone who does

  72. not love does not know God because God

  73. is love. In this the love of God was

  74. made manifest among us that God sent his

  75. only son into the world so that we might

  76. live through him. In this is love. Not

  77. that we have loved God, but that he

  78. loved us and sent his son to be the

  79. propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if

  80. God so loved us, we also ought to love

  81. one another. No one has ever seen God.

  82. If we love one another, God abides in us

  83. and his love is perfected in us. Before

  84. we dive in and pray, when we hear

  85. scriptures like this and when we dive

  86. into topics like love or the Advent

  87. collection, if you've been in church a

  88. long time, there's this concern that I

  89. have. And I think if I'm being honest,

  90. it it's that we can get so familiar with

  91. the love of God or the story of Jesus or

  92. the Christmas story that we miss the

  93. actual point and miss the impact of

  94. love. And it's actually this thing

  95. called the familiarity effect. that when

  96. you are so familiar with something, it

  97. doesn't have the same impact on you that

  98. it used to. And if you're like, "Well, I

  99. don't know. Like, that's not really me."

  100. But but hear me out, and this breaks my

  101. heart to admit,

  102. but there's been some mass shootings

  103. that have taken place over the last

  104. couple weeks.

  105. And when things like that used to

  106. happen, I used to get this sick feeling

  107. in my stomach.

  108. But now when things like that happen,

  109. I'm just like, "Oh man,

  110. pray for those families." And I kind of

  111. just go on with my day that it doesn't

  112. have the same effect that it used to

  113. have on me because I've gotten so

  114. familiar with these horrible things

  115. happening in this world. And you're

  116. like, "Well, what does that have to do?"

  117. Because one is on the absolutely

  118. horrendous side and one is on the

  119. absolutely amazing side. But but science

  120. and research will say that the

  121. familiarity effect, it's actually harder

  122. for you to get familiar with hard things

  123. and horrible things. And so if we can

  124. get familiar with those things, it's

  125. much easier for us to get familiar with

  126. things like the love of God and show up

  127. and be like, "Well, another message on

  128. love. I mean, I want something that's

  129. that's deeper." And and I hear that all

  130. the time of like, "Well, they just, you

  131. know, they preached on God's love today.

  132. I wish the message was deeper. And if

  133. you're in here today and that's how you

  134. feel, let me tell you this. You need a

  135. deeper revelation of the love of God in

  136. your life.

  137. Because if you want something deeper

  138. than the love of God, that you're not

  139. searching for for the gospel, you're

  140. searching for for good works, you're

  141. searching for something to to tell you

  142. what to do. And it's so easy for us to

  143. show up, especially around the Christmas

  144. season, and be so familiar with the the

  145. message of Christmas and the birth of

  146. Jesus that we show up, we're like,

  147. "Yeah, we've heard this before." And we

  148. get familiar. And my hope and my prayer

  149. today is that we would have a deeper

  150. revelation of the love of God in our

  151. lives and that we wouldn't settle for

  152. familiarity

  153. anymore.

  154. Let's pray.

  155. God, would you speak to us?

  156. Would you move in our hearts and in our

  157. minds?

  158. Would we not be familiar with your story

  159. to the point where we don't feel and

  160. understand the love that you sent,

  161. the love that you have, the love that

  162. you continue to reveal to us.

  163. Lord, let us not only understand it in

  164. our mind, but feel it in our soul.

  165. and I pray and thank you for who you are

  166. in Jesus name. Amen.

  167. When we talk about the word love, I love

  168. I love getting to love is one of those

  169. words that we use so much and it's so

  170. saturated in our culture that we will

  171. lose sight of the impact and what it

  172. actually is. And if we're not being

  173. careful, what will happen most of the

  174. time in a culture that is obsessed with

  175. love? We have movies about it. We have

  176. books about it. We have all of these

  177. things. And honestly, most of the

  178. culture is searching for love, but we

  179. settle for a counterfeit form of love

  180. most of the time that that love there

  181. there's the real love that we we feel in

  182. Jesus and it's only found in Jesus. But

  183. most of the culture and when I say

  184. culture, I'm not just talking about

  185. outside of the church. I'm also talking

  186. about inside the church. We can settle

  187. for a counterfeit form of love

  188. because everybody's longing and looking

  189. for it. And so I'm going to read some of

  190. the areas that we settle for counterfeit

  191. form of love so that we understand

  192. the difference and understand that that

  193. love

  194. when we talk about love and the love

  195. that is from Christ and found in God who

  196. God is is not a lot of the times the the

  197. love that we think of in our mind. And

  198. so this is some of the things that we

  199. settle for as a counterfeit form of love

  200. in our culture, in our society, even

  201. within the church. First one is this

  202. romantic love as salvation. If I find

  203. the right person, then I'll be whole.

  204. Self love as supreme authority. That

  205. love means never design denying

  206. yourself. That's huge in our culture

  207. right now. That love is what I feel, my

  208. truth, my that's what people see as

  209. love, approval and validation. If people

  210. like me, then I'm loved. Then I matter.

  211. Success and achievement. If I accomplish

  212. enough, if I make enough money, then

  213. I'll be loved. That's where my love

  214. lies. And if I'm being honest, I think

  215. here in Windermir,

  216. that can be something that we lean on a

  217. lot,

  218. especially around the Christmas season.

  219. I don't know about I grew up poor and so

  220. Christmas had to be about God. But when

  221. we have enough, Christmas can become

  222. about a lot of other things.

  223. The first the first service laughed at

  224. that point. They weren't as serious as

  225. y'all.

  226. They weren't. This is like this must be

  227. the crowd. They're like, "Yes." Mhm. All

  228. right.

  229. Sexual fulfillment without covenant. The

  230. desire equals love.

  231. Comfort and convenience. Love should

  232. never cost me. Belonging through

  233. ideology or tribe that if I align with

  234. the right group, then I'm loved.

  235. And I would say this is a massive one in

  236. the culture, not only outside of the

  237. church, but I would also argue within

  238. the church that if I belong to the right

  239. crowd, like I fit in with them, that

  240. then I'm loved. We we we have the same

  241. mindset, then we love one another.

  242. If I fit in with the right political

  243. party, then I'm loved.

  244. Power and control. If I'm in charge,

  245. therapeutic love without truth. That

  246. love means affirming everything that I

  247. feel. They don't agree with me, that

  248. means they don't love me. No, no, no,

  249. no.

  250. That's not true.

  251. In this one, I would say

  252. it's probably something that a lot of us

  253. might have grown up in that if I'm good

  254. enough, the religious performance, if

  255. I'm good enough, God will love me.

  256. But all of these things are a

  257. counterfeit form of love.

  258. And if we're not careful, what will

  259. happen when we celebrate Advent and look

  260. back at the waiting period before Jesus

  261. came in the form of a baby and and then

  262. we find ourselves in the waiting period

  263. for when Jesus comes again is that we

  264. will settle for a counterfeit form of

  265. love

  266. even as the people of God.

  267. that if we look at antiquity, even the

  268. people of God, the Israelite people

  269. settled for a counterfeit form of joy,

  270. peace, hope, and love as they were

  271. waiting for Jesus. And if we're not

  272. careful and we get too familiar with the

  273. love of God to where it doesn't impact

  274. us the way that it might have used to or

  275. the way that it should, we will look

  276. elsewhere as well.

  277. And then we'll have well God plus this.

  278. Well God plus the success. Well God plus

  279. the desire. And that's what we will

  280. think of when we think of love. And so

  281. my hope today is that we have a deeper

  282. desperation and understanding of love

  283. and the only love that can fulfill us.

  284. And it's the love that everybody in the

  285. world is desperately searching for

  286. that every child is desperately longing

  287. for. that every adult is desperately

  288. searching and longing for in their life

  289. and it's only found in one place and his

  290. name is Jesus.

  291. And that's why we celebrate Christmas

  292. and that's why we look at this Advent

  293. collection and if we're careful we can

  294. miss the entire point because we've

  295. gotten so familiar with it. And so I

  296. want us to break down what we just read

  297. and understand a few points on love. The

  298. first point is this that love originates

  299. in God not us.

  300. Says this,

  301. anyone who does not love does not know

  302. God because God is love.

  303. And then if we skip to the next verse in

  304. this is love. Not that we have loved God

  305. but that he loved us. that we have to

  306. understand that love originates in God

  307. and that it's not something that we've

  308. earned. It's not something that that

  309. we've done to deserve it, but it is that

  310. God loved us. It's not only who he is,

  311. but it's what he did.

  312. That love is God. That God is love. And

  313. love without God is not truly love. That

  314. it's a counterfeit form of love if it's

  315. not connected to God.

  316. But understand this.

  317. I think we've got it backwards. And I

  318. love this Tim Keller quote because it

  319. makes it very clear. Tim Keller says

  320. this.

  321. He says, "Christianity is not about us

  322. finding God,

  323. but God finding us."

  324. And I think if we're not careful, we

  325. make it about us finding God.

  326. Makes it clear. It says, "In this is

  327. love, not that we have loved God, but

  328. that he loved us." And the best way that

  329. I can put this

  330. is with my kids. And I know Pastor Luke,

  331. he he he said one time, "Hey, if you use

  332. your kids as an illustration, you're

  333. lazy." Sorry, Pastor Luke, but I'm going

  334. be uh lazy because it I think it's the

  335. only thing that can actually make sense

  336. in this world

  337. that my kids were born into this world

  338. and they did nothing to earn my love.

  339. I just love them.

  340. And God knows as my three-year-old is

  341. going through the terrible stage.

  342. No matter what he does, I still love

  343. him.

  344. That he didn't earn it.

  345. And you could argue maybe he doesn't

  346. deserve it.

  347. But it's a love that you cannot take

  348. away. that love began with God because

  349. God is love and it originates. Nothing

  350. that we can do to earn it. And so that

  351. stops us from the religious performance

  352. of you need to do this or do that or do

  353. this to get closer and and and earn the

  354. love of God. That's not the case at all.

  355. Christianity is not about us finding

  356. God. It's about God finding us. And he's

  357. already done that. And he's going to

  358. continue to do that. and he's continuing

  359. to knock on the door of your heart and

  360. you have to continually let him in and

  361. have more and more of his love.

  362. And then we see

  363. point number two is that love took on

  364. flesh.

  365. It says in this the love of God was made

  366. manifest among us that God sent his only

  367. son into the world so that we might live

  368. through him. This is the whole point of

  369. Jesus is that love became manifest in

  370. the incarnation of Jesus that we

  371. celebrate when Jesus was born into the

  372. world that it was God sending his son in

  373. the flesh to be close to us. Emmanuel,

  374. God with us, that there was close

  375. proximity to God.

  376. And there has to be presence for there

  377. to be love. And God said, "Hey, in the

  378. midst of your circumstance, in the midst

  379. of this horrible world, in the midst of

  380. poverty, in the midst of a a culture

  381. that is extremely violent, I'm sending

  382. my son to be there with you." That God

  383. was no longer distant, but he was

  384. present and close. God with us.

  385. I was gone a couple nights last week and

  386. I would call my kids and I would tell

  387. them, "Hey, I love you. Good night. Talk

  388. to them."

  389. But it's not the same as when I'm laying

  390. in bed with them, reading a book,

  391. telling them that I love them and giving

  392. them a kiss before they go to bed.

  393. That God could have sent a message. He

  394. could have written just the Bible,

  395. but he came in the form to be close to

  396. us. He didn't shout the instructions. He

  397. came in the flesh, God with us,

  398. Emmanuel,

  399. so that we could have close proximity to

  400. him. But here's the thing that scares me

  401. is that I think many times in the

  402. church, we settle for keeping God's love

  403. at a distance in our life.

  404. that we know God as a distant father

  405. rather than a close father that we that

  406. we kind of build up a wall between us.

  407. Yeah, I know he loves me, but you know,

  408. I still got to perform. You know, I

  409. still got to do all the and we have a

  410. distant relationship with a heavenly

  411. father. And one, I think it's because at

  412. some point in our life, we've settled

  413. for a counterfeit form of love and that

  414. either left us abandoned or or broke our

  415. heart or or didn't fulfill all the

  416. desires that we have. And so, that's one

  417. thing. But I also think and this is

  418. probably hear me out where I think our

  419. culture um and as individuals we

  420. probably wrestle with the most is that

  421. most of us look at a heavenly father's

  422. love is distant because we've

  423. experienced an earthly love from a

  424. father that was distant

  425. or he's just never around.

  426. He loved me but

  427. he wasn't really there all the time.

  428. He didn't really connect with me on any

  429. other level than

  430. sports or whatever that may be for you.

  431. You had you had an earthly father that's

  432. love was distant. And so when you think

  433. of the father's love, you look at it as

  434. a distant love.

  435. And so it's hard for you to get past

  436. that.

  437. And I would say I think that's probably

  438. one of our biggest

  439. wrestles in this generation

  440. because if you even look at statistics,

  441. it says statistically and I love being a

  442. part of this generation and praise God

  443. for some type of remote work and the

  444. access that we have to to internet and

  445. email and all of that, but but my

  446. generation of fathers spends almost 50%

  447. more time with their kids than the gener

  448. generation that raised us.

  449. You can clap for that. And that's no

  450. shame to the older generation.

  451. There's there's no shame to the older

  452. generation in that. But what I'm saying,

  453. if we look at that, we have to

  454. understand that yes, we probably wrestle

  455. with a distant love of a father.

  456. And my prayer and my hope is that my

  457. kids don't have that wrestle. But I know

  458. that it's something that me and my

  459. generation have wrestled through. And

  460. probably even the older generation to

  461. times 10 wrestled through. And so you

  462. sit in here and you're like, "Yeah, I I

  463. know God loves me. I know that he has

  464. this love for me, but it still feels

  465. distant for some reason." Or you keep it

  466. at a distance. And you settle for that

  467. and you're like, "That's okay." Cuz

  468. that's what I'm used to

  469. and that's not what God wants. That's

  470. why he sent his son to be God with us

  471. close in proximity so that we could have

  472. a close-knit love and relationship with

  473. a heavenly father.

  474. And when we realize that and when we've

  475. experienced that and when we've seen

  476. that he steps into these circumstances

  477. and these situations

  478. the midst of the pain in the midst of

  479. whatever we're going through

  480. we realize that love is not self-giving

  481. or love is self-giving not

  482. self-protecting

  483. that says this that he loved us and sent

  484. his son to be the propitiation for our

  485. sins that He sent his son to die as the

  486. sacrifice on the cross to pay the price

  487. that we deserve.

  488. That he went to the cross

  489. and died the death that we deserve in

  490. our place so that we don't have to. That

  491. love is sacrifice. It's sacrificial.

  492. It's self-giving. It's not

  493. self-protecting.

  494. And what I love about this

  495. in this scripture

  496. is that do you know where the first time

  497. in scripture love appears?

  498. It's in Genesis [snorts]

  499. when God says to Abraham

  500. that you're going to sacrifice the son,

  501. your only son whom you love. that the

  502. first time that love appears in

  503. scripture is one of the most beautiful

  504. prophetic foreshadowings of the love

  505. that would take place on the cross in

  506. Jesus Christ.

  507. He said the son whom you love

  508. and God provided a sacrificial ram in

  509. that instance so that Abraham didn't

  510. have to sacrifice his son.

  511. But then came a time where God would

  512. step in and he would sacrifice his son

  513. as the sacrificial lamb.

  514. That when we lift up worship and say

  515. lamb of God, anointed one who was and is

  516. and is to come,

  517. that we're talking about Jesus, the son

  518. of God. And I think sometimes we can

  519. separate that of like, well, yeah, God

  520. knew that he had to do. No, no, I don't

  521. think we understand. Do you have kids?

  522. Would you sacrifice them

  523. for anybody else in this room?

  524. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't

  525. sacrifice either of my kids for none of

  526. y'all.

  527. And I love you, but I don't love you

  528. that much.

  529. And I think sometimes when we start to

  530. think about the love of God, we start to

  531. think we've got it all figured out. We

  532. understand. I thought that when I had

  533. kids. I was like, man, I finally

  534. understand the love of a heavenly father

  535. for for a child.

  536. But then I realized, wait, no, the love

  537. of the heavenly father is that I would

  538. give up my child for somebody else.

  539. I don't understand [clears throat] the

  540. love of God. It's greater.

  541. And if you've ever sat in church and

  542. you've thought that you fully understand

  543. the love of God, you don't. It's

  544. greater. Well, I've sat through so many

  545. sermons. I'm 75 years old. I understand

  546. the love of God. No, you don't. It's

  547. greater.

  548. It's deeper.

  549. Far far more than you could ever

  550. understand on this side of eternity. And

  551. so when we talk about advent love,

  552. it's not only looking at the waiting

  553. period to understand the love that was

  554. sent in the baby of Jesus on Christmas,

  555. but it's also waiting to fully

  556. understand the love of God that we won't

  557. understand until we have eternity in the

  558. presence of God.

  559. And so my prayer and my hope is that we

  560. don't come into church and get sick of

  561. hearing about the love of God because we

  562. can't hear enough about the love of God

  563. in our life. You could you could hear a

  564. different message on the love of God

  565. every day for the rest of your life and

  566. you still wouldn't fully understand how

  567. great it is.

  568. But many of us get familiar with church

  569. and familiar with messages

  570. and we don't allow it to have the impact

  571. that it should

  572. on our hearts [snorts] and at the depth

  573. of our being

  574. that he came and he sacrificed. And when

  575. we truly understand this,

  576. when we finally come to the point that

  577. love is from God,

  578. that he died for us,

  579. that this is how great his love is and

  580. we've experienced that love,

  581. then it should transform how we live.

  582. And if we've experienced that great of a

  583. love, then we are to express it.

  584. That when we look

  585. at scripture,

  586. it continues to say, said, "Dear

  587. friends, since God so loved us, we also

  588. ought to love one another." Here's the

  589. tension.

  590. We can't just receive it and not express

  591. it.

  592. That in a culture, in a world where so

  593. many people are looking for love and

  594. they're looking for love in all of the

  595. wrong places, they're looking for love

  596. in all of the wrong groups. They're

  597. looking for love and belonging in all of

  598. the wrong scenarios and settings. We as

  599. the church should have the most amount

  600. of currency of love to give to others.

  601. And we should be the people that people

  602. are turning to saying, "Wow, the love

  603. that you have, I want it. Where is it

  604. from?" Are we known for that type of

  605. love?

  606. Is the capital C church, if you ask

  607. people around the world, you say,

  608. "What's the church known for?"

  609. Would they say love?

  610. Let's make it more personal.

  611. What are you known for?

  612. think like if people ask around your

  613. friend circles or co-workers or hey

  614. what are you known for?

  615. Is it love?

  616. Is it joy? Is it hope? Is it peace?

  617. Man, Christians should be the most

  618. peacefilled people and people should

  619. turn to them and see and be like, "Man,

  620. I want that peace."

  621. The most hopefilled people.

  622. Like, man, I I want that type of hope.

  623. But if I'm being honest, I think like a

  624. lot of people are like, "Man, Christians

  625. are scared right now.

  626. They must not have the hope that they

  627. talk about.

  628. What about joy? Man, I'm so sick of

  629. meeting cranky Christians.

  630. We got some cranky ones that didn't

  631. laugh. They're like,

  632. we should be joyfilled.

  633. What about love?

  634. If we've experienced this type of love

  635. and not just talk about what we've

  636. experienced,

  637. if we've experienced it, it should no

  638. longer it should no longer just be

  639. something that we've felt or that we've

  640. had. It should no longer just be a

  641. principle, but it should turn into a

  642. practice.

  643. There's the principle and this is this

  644. is capital C church. Break it down to us

  645. as individuals. I think a lot of times

  646. right now we're obsessed with orthodoxy

  647. with which orthodoxy is the right belief

  648. that we have the right belief that we

  649. understand we have the right knowledge

  650. the right belief and we settle for that.

  651. But what I want is to see people not

  652. only have the right belief but have

  653. orthopraxy which is the right practice

  654. that do we walk out what we believe?

  655. Do we show people the love that we have

  656. that we've experienced? Do we show

  657. people the joy, the hope, the peace that

  658. that has come in the the the little baby

  659. boy of Jesus? And I'm not just talking

  660. about the Christmas season. I'm talking

  661. about every aspect of our life. What are

  662. we known for? Are we known for that

  663. person's got a lot of Bible knowledge or

  664. that person looks like Jesus?

  665. It's a wrestle

  666. in this Advent season. And I wanted to

  667. challenge us and I don't want us to just

  668. get so familiar where it's like, "Yep,

  669. going to go hear about love again."

  670. That's great.

  671. But would we take what we hear

  672. and allow it to be a revelation in our

  673. heart to experience the love of God and

  674. allow it to change the way that we live?

  675. How does the church impact the world?

  676. It's not through power.

  677. How do we as Christians impact the world

  678. around? It's not through having power

  679. over the world. It's through being

  680. present in the world. A presence that is

  681. hopeful, that is joyfilled, that is

  682. peaceful, and that is loving.

  683. That's what will change the world is

  684. when people stop just talking about all

  685. they know about Jesus and start acting

  686. like him.

  687. And so once we've experienced it at the

  688. depth of our soul, then we express it in

  689. everything that we do.

  690. That's love. That's what Advent is

  691. about. That you wait your longing, but

  692. then once you experience it, while you

  693. wait for the next time, you express it.

  694. There's a world out there right now

  695. desperately searching for love.

  696. And what I'm excited about is that

  697. Christmas is one of those holidays that

  698. everybody knows about and most people

  699. celebrate whether they believe in Jesus

  700. or not. Which means, if you ask me,

  701. they're open to it.

  702. There's a statistic

  703. that was done in this study of

  704. non-believers, and this isn't even just

  705. around the the Christmas season.

  706. They said that if somebody invited them

  707. to church,

  708. would they go?

  709. 82% of individuals said they would.

  710. when they ask Christians, "How many of

  711. you have invited people to church?"

  712. Do you know what the statistic was on

  713. that

  714. 2%.

  715. You're telling me

  716. that we have a love that has changed the

  717. course of human history that everybody

  718. is desperately longing for, that we've

  719. experienced in our own life. I don't

  720. know about you, but it's a love that has

  721. wrecked my entire life that my life is

  722. completely different because of this

  723. love. And I'm going to keep it to

  724. myself.

  725. What?

  726. 82% said they would go, not even around

  727. Christmas. How many more would come

  728. around Christmas if they were invited?

  729. But only 2% actually invite people.

  730. So my challenge around this Christmas

  731. season

  732. is that we have this currency of love

  733. that people are desperately longing for.

  734. We have the answers that the world is

  735. longing for when it comes to hope, when

  736. it comes to peace, when it comes to joy,

  737. and when it comes to love. And we're

  738. about to celebrate it this Christmas.

  739. Invite somebody to come find that

  740. answer.

  741. And if you're like, well, I don't I

  742. don't know if I really, you know, want

  743. to. It might make things awkward. I know

  744. they're not believe. Do you love them?

  745. Do you love them?

  746. Because the people that I love, I want

  747. them to spend eternity in heaven with

  748. me. I don't want them to go to hell.

  749. Do you love them?

  750. And if you don't, then you got a

  751. different heart issue you got to deal

  752. with.

  753. The band can come and play

  754. so it's less awkward. Y'all just staring

  755. at me.

  756. Christmas is all about Jesus coming

  757. being love in the flesh.

  758. It's beautiful and exciting.

  759. But some of you are in here and you've

  760. sat in here for so long and you've

  761. gotten so familiar with the Christmas

  762. story or the love that is talked about

  763. that it doesn't change your heart

  764. anymore.

  765. And my prayer and my hope for you is

  766. that God would set a fire in your heart

  767. to desperately want that that love and

  768. understand his love at a whole another

  769. level this Christmas season.

  770. But there's some of you also that you've

  771. always had a [music] distant love with

  772. the Lord.

  773. Yeah, I know he loves me, but like I

  774. don't really let him into to every

  775. aspect of [music] my life.

  776. And maybe it's shame that's keeping you

  777. separated from the love of God and

  778. keeping you [music] distant. Maybe it's

  779. just you have walls up because you've

  780. been hurt by love before. Maybe it's

  781. just that, yeah, I mean, he loves me

  782. like a father, but my my father sucked

  783. and so you've [music] kept him distant.

  784. I don't want that to be the case

  785. anymore. God doesn't want that. He

  786. doesn't want to send a messenger just to

  787. He sent his son to be in the flesh,

  788. Emmanuel. God with us.

  789. And then Emanuel went to the cross and

  790. he died a death on the cross that we all

  791. deserve to take our place and pay the

  792. price.

  793. And then he ascended. He sits at the

  794. right right hand of God. And he sent the

  795. Holy Spirit to live within us to dwell

  796. within us. God is with you. If you

  797. believe in Jesus Christ, he is with you

  798. every step of the way. Stop keeping him

  799. at a distance.

  800. Allow him to continue to work more and

  801. more each and every day on your heart.

  802. Allow him to continue to show his love

  803. to you more and more every single day.

  804. Maybe you're in here and that's your

  805. story. You're like, I have them at a

  806. distance.

  807. And I'll be honest, I don't really know

  808. what that's like.

  809. I had an amazing father

  810. and I got to see

  811. a picture of a father

  812. that loved the Lord, loved his family.

  813. Did he do everything right? No.

  814. But I remember one time at church and it

  815. [music] changed the way that I I've

  816. wanted to be a father. I saw my father

  817. at the altar

  818. in full surrender

  819. in all humility.

  820. And I think a lot of times as fathers,

  821. can I talk to the fathers in this room?

  822. We don't allow ourselves to find

  823. ourselves in that place because we don't

  824. want our kids to see us as weak.

  825. It's not weak.

  826. The greatest thing I've ever saw was my

  827. father's surrender to a God

  828. who loves him, who loves me, who loved

  829. our family.

  830. It changed everything.

  831. And hear me out, Christmas season can be

  832. so difficult. [music]

  833. But when we fully understand that it's

  834. about God meeting us right where we're

  835. at in the midst of [music] our need, we

  836. lay down everything at the altar and we

  837. give it to him and say, "This isn't

  838. about me anymore. This isn't about the

  839. the the strength that I have or the

  840. weakness that I feel. It's about turning

  841. to God and allowing God to move and work

  842. [music] in my heart

  843. and setting the standard

  844. [music] for my family.

  845. If we're going to be a church

  846. or people that impact the world, [music]

  847. we need to be people that understand the

  848. love so deeply in [music] our core and

  849. stop keeping him at a distance.

  850. [music]

  851. He wants to meet you in the midst of

  852. your need, in the midst of your

  853. circumstance.

  854. Don't keep him at a [music] distance any

  855. longer. allow those walls to be torn

  856. down.

  857. [music]

  858. Maybe you're in here and you didn't know

  859. about Jesus. You're like, "Somebody just

  860. invited me. I'm so glad that you're

  861. here." And I want you to know that there

  862. is a God that loves you so much that he

  863. sent his son. That I can't comprehend

  864. the the love of God on this side of

  865. eternity cuz I would never send my son

  866. to die for you. [music] But that's how

  867. great God's love is. It's greater. It's

  868. greater. Whatever you're imagining, it's

  869. greater than that. Whatever you're, it's

  870. greater than that.

  871. And he wants you in his family. And

  872. that's what Christmas is all about. A

  873. picture of Jesus coming [music] to earth

  874. so that God could have you and me. Will

  875. you stand?

  876. >> [music]

  877. >> Would you bow your heads with me

  878. as we pray?

  879. [music] I want to just ask a couple

  880. quick questions. If you're in here and

  881. you're like, I've been keeping God's

  882. love at a distance or I feel like I've

  883. always had a distant relationship with

  884. God. I've known him. I've been in

  885. church, but it's felt distant. [music]

  886. If that's you, would you just slip up

  887. your hand so I know who I'm praying for?

  888. Yeah.

  889. And maybe you're in here today and

  890. you're like, "I've never received the

  891. love of Christ. I've never confessed

  892. Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, but

  893. he's [music] been knocking on the door

  894. of my heart and I want to let him in

  895. this morning." If that's you and you

  896. want to accept Jesus for the first time,

  897. [music] would you just slip up your hand

  898. real quick?

  899. Yeah.

  900. And raising your hand doesn't save you,

  901. but it it makes what's happening on the

  902. inside [music]

  903. uh a little bit more real to you by

  904. taking an outward step of faith. And so

  905. after this service, there's going to be

  906. a prayer team and there's going to be a

  907. next steps area. If you raised your hand

  908. to accept Jesus, I want to encourage you

  909. to go find somebody [music] talk and

  910. learn more about what it looks like to

  911. follow Jesus. God, I thank you so much

  912. for what's going on in this room. I

  913. thank you for the way that you're

  914. moving. Lord, would your love just Lord,

  915. we just thank you for your manifest love

  916. in the in in [music] Jesus, Lord. And

  917. would you continue to reveal that to us

  918. [music] more and more each and every

  919. time that we come to encounter you?

  920. Would we not be so familiar with your

  921. story? Would we not be so familiar with

  922. church and scripture, Lord? But would we

  923. continue to feel your love revealed to

  924. us each and every day?

  925. >> [music]

  926. >> God, we thank you for who you are. We

  927. thank you for your love and we thank you

  928. for your son Jesus in Jesus [music]

  929. name. Amen.