Sermon
LOVE | TEVIN LUCAS
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Well, good morning. How are we feeling
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this morning?
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>> Okay. Uh, who's excited for Christmas?
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>> Four days away. I hope you got your
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Christmas shopping done. Today might be
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one of the last days that if you order
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on Amazon, I think it can still come.
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Uh, so make sure you go ahead and do
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that. We're going to be in First John 4
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today. So, if you have your Bibles, open
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them up to First John 4. If I haven't
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met you yet, my name is Tevin and I have
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the pleasure of serving as one of our
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pastors here on staff. Um God is doing a
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lot. There's a lot of exciting things
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coming up. We got Christmas Eve
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services. We have um what I call our
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holiday hangover. Uh the online service.
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I don't know if I'm allowed to call it
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that. Is that okay? No. Okay. Uh it's
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not the holiday hangover. It's something
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else. Um but join us. And then we're
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diving into a new collection in the new
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year. marriage, sex, all that fun stuff.
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So, um who's excited for that?
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>> Come on.
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We are in our Advent collection wrapping
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up. Um, and if you're you're new here or
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you haven't been a part, Advent um is
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really this time where we celebrate um
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the arrival of Jesus, but look back on
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the waiting that took place before and
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the waiting that will take place for him
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to come again. And uh and so it's such a
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special time. We we looked at uh hope,
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peace, joy, and now we're looking at
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love. And it's a a great collection. And
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if you haven't been here, go back and
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watch it because it's so important that
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we understand these things leading into
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Christmas because Christmas is one of
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those seasons that for some it is the
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most joyfilled time of the year and for
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others it can be the most painful time
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of the year. That that
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Christmas, at least for me, I'll say
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this is one of the most joyful times of
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the year. I have a three-year-old and a
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one-year-old son that both understand
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they're getting presents on Christmas.
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Uh, and so it's so much fun and there's
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so much joy leading into Christmas, but
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at the same time for me there there's
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pain and sadness and sorrow because
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Christmas two years ago was the last
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time that I saw my father. And so there
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there's joy and there's sorrow at this
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Christmas time. But the beautiful thing
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that I love about Christmas and Jesus is
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that he meets us in the midst of both.
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Whether it's the best time of the year
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or the most painful time of the year,
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that the story of Jesus and what we
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celebrate on Christmas is that Jesus
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came in the God in the flesh to meet us
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in the midst of whatever we're walking
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through, wherever we're at, and whatever
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season that looks like. And so it's
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beautiful and I'm excited to dive in to
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to love this morning. 1 John 4 starting
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in verse 8 says this. Anyone who does
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not love does not know God because God
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is love. In this the love of God was
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made manifest among us that God sent his
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only son into the world so that we might
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live through him. In this is love. Not
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that we have loved God, but that he
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loved us and sent his son to be the
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propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if
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God so loved us, we also ought to love
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one another. No one has ever seen God.
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If we love one another, God abides in us
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and his love is perfected in us. Before
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we dive in and pray, when we hear
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scriptures like this and when we dive
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into topics like love or the Advent
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collection, if you've been in church a
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long time, there's this concern that I
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have. And I think if I'm being honest,
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it it's that we can get so familiar with
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the love of God or the story of Jesus or
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the Christmas story that we miss the
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actual point and miss the impact of
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love. And it's actually this thing
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called the familiarity effect. that when
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you are so familiar with something, it
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doesn't have the same impact on you that
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it used to. And if you're like, "Well, I
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don't know. Like, that's not really me."
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But but hear me out, and this breaks my
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heart to admit,
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but there's been some mass shootings
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that have taken place over the last
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couple weeks.
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And when things like that used to
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happen, I used to get this sick feeling
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in my stomach.
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But now when things like that happen,
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I'm just like, "Oh man,
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pray for those families." And I kind of
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just go on with my day that it doesn't
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have the same effect that it used to
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have on me because I've gotten so
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familiar with these horrible things
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happening in this world. And you're
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like, "Well, what does that have to do?"
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Because one is on the absolutely
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horrendous side and one is on the
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absolutely amazing side. But but science
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and research will say that the
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familiarity effect, it's actually harder
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for you to get familiar with hard things
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and horrible things. And so if we can
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get familiar with those things, it's
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much easier for us to get familiar with
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things like the love of God and show up
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and be like, "Well, another message on
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love. I mean, I want something that's
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that's deeper." And and I hear that all
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the time of like, "Well, they just, you
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know, they preached on God's love today.
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I wish the message was deeper. And if
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you're in here today and that's how you
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feel, let me tell you this. You need a
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deeper revelation of the love of God in
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your life.
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Because if you want something deeper
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than the love of God, that you're not
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searching for for the gospel, you're
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searching for for good works, you're
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searching for something to to tell you
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what to do. And it's so easy for us to
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show up, especially around the Christmas
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season, and be so familiar with the the
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message of Christmas and the birth of
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Jesus that we show up, we're like,
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"Yeah, we've heard this before." And we
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get familiar. And my hope and my prayer
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today is that we would have a deeper
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revelation of the love of God in our
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lives and that we wouldn't settle for
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familiarity
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anymore.
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Let's pray.
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God, would you speak to us?
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Would you move in our hearts and in our
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minds?
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Would we not be familiar with your story
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to the point where we don't feel and
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understand the love that you sent,
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the love that you have, the love that
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you continue to reveal to us.
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Lord, let us not only understand it in
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our mind, but feel it in our soul.
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and I pray and thank you for who you are
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in Jesus name. Amen.
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When we talk about the word love, I love
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I love getting to love is one of those
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words that we use so much and it's so
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saturated in our culture that we will
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lose sight of the impact and what it
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actually is. And if we're not being
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careful, what will happen most of the
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time in a culture that is obsessed with
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love? We have movies about it. We have
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books about it. We have all of these
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things. And honestly, most of the
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culture is searching for love, but we
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settle for a counterfeit form of love
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most of the time that that love there
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there's the real love that we we feel in
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Jesus and it's only found in Jesus. But
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most of the culture and when I say
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culture, I'm not just talking about
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outside of the church. I'm also talking
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about inside the church. We can settle
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for a counterfeit form of love
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because everybody's longing and looking
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for it. And so I'm going to read some of
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the areas that we settle for counterfeit
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form of love so that we understand
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the difference and understand that that
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love
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when we talk about love and the love
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that is from Christ and found in God who
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God is is not a lot of the times the the
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love that we think of in our mind. And
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so this is some of the things that we
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settle for as a counterfeit form of love
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in our culture, in our society, even
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within the church. First one is this
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romantic love as salvation. If I find
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the right person, then I'll be whole.
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Self love as supreme authority. That
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love means never design denying
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yourself. That's huge in our culture
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right now. That love is what I feel, my
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truth, my that's what people see as
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love, approval and validation. If people
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like me, then I'm loved. Then I matter.
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Success and achievement. If I accomplish
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enough, if I make enough money, then
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I'll be loved. That's where my love
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lies. And if I'm being honest, I think
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here in Windermir,
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that can be something that we lean on a
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lot,
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especially around the Christmas season.
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I don't know about I grew up poor and so
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Christmas had to be about God. But when
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we have enough, Christmas can become
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about a lot of other things.
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The first the first service laughed at
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that point. They weren't as serious as
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y'all.
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They weren't. This is like this must be
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the crowd. They're like, "Yes." Mhm. All
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right.
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Sexual fulfillment without covenant. The
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desire equals love.
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Comfort and convenience. Love should
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never cost me. Belonging through
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ideology or tribe that if I align with
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the right group, then I'm loved.
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And I would say this is a massive one in
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the culture, not only outside of the
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church, but I would also argue within
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the church that if I belong to the right
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crowd, like I fit in with them, that
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then I'm loved. We we we have the same
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mindset, then we love one another.
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If I fit in with the right political
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party, then I'm loved.
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Power and control. If I'm in charge,
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therapeutic love without truth. That
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love means affirming everything that I
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feel. They don't agree with me, that
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means they don't love me. No, no, no,
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no.
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That's not true.
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In this one, I would say
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it's probably something that a lot of us
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might have grown up in that if I'm good
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enough, the religious performance, if
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I'm good enough, God will love me.
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But all of these things are a
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counterfeit form of love.
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And if we're not careful, what will
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happen when we celebrate Advent and look
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back at the waiting period before Jesus
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came in the form of a baby and and then
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we find ourselves in the waiting period
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for when Jesus comes again is that we
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will settle for a counterfeit form of
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love
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even as the people of God.
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that if we look at antiquity, even the
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people of God, the Israelite people
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settled for a counterfeit form of joy,
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peace, hope, and love as they were
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waiting for Jesus. And if we're not
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careful and we get too familiar with the
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love of God to where it doesn't impact
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us the way that it might have used to or
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the way that it should, we will look
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elsewhere as well.
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And then we'll have well God plus this.
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Well God plus the success. Well God plus
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the desire. And that's what we will
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think of when we think of love. And so
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my hope today is that we have a deeper
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desperation and understanding of love
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and the only love that can fulfill us.
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And it's the love that everybody in the
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world is desperately searching for
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that every child is desperately longing
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for. that every adult is desperately
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searching and longing for in their life
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and it's only found in one place and his
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name is Jesus.
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And that's why we celebrate Christmas
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and that's why we look at this Advent
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collection and if we're careful we can
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miss the entire point because we've
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gotten so familiar with it. And so I
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want us to break down what we just read
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and understand a few points on love. The
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first point is this that love originates
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in God not us.
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Says this,
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anyone who does not love does not know
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God because God is love.
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And then if we skip to the next verse in
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this is love. Not that we have loved God
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but that he loved us. that we have to
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understand that love originates in God
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and that it's not something that we've
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earned. It's not something that that
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we've done to deserve it, but it is that
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God loved us. It's not only who he is,
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but it's what he did.
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That love is God. That God is love. And
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love without God is not truly love. That
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it's a counterfeit form of love if it's
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not connected to God.
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But understand this.
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I think we've got it backwards. And I
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love this Tim Keller quote because it
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makes it very clear. Tim Keller says
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this.
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He says, "Christianity is not about us
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finding God,
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but God finding us."
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And I think if we're not careful, we
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make it about us finding God.
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Makes it clear. It says, "In this is
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love, not that we have loved God, but
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that he loved us." And the best way that
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I can put this
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is with my kids. And I know Pastor Luke,
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he he he said one time, "Hey, if you use
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your kids as an illustration, you're
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lazy." Sorry, Pastor Luke, but I'm going
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be uh lazy because it I think it's the
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only thing that can actually make sense
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in this world
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that my kids were born into this world
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and they did nothing to earn my love.
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I just love them.
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And God knows as my three-year-old is
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going through the terrible stage.
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No matter what he does, I still love
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him.
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That he didn't earn it.
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And you could argue maybe he doesn't
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deserve it.
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But it's a love that you cannot take
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away. that love began with God because
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God is love and it originates. Nothing
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that we can do to earn it. And so that
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stops us from the religious performance
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of you need to do this or do that or do
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this to get closer and and and earn the
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love of God. That's not the case at all.
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Christianity is not about us finding
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God. It's about God finding us. And he's
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already done that. And he's going to
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continue to do that. and he's continuing
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to knock on the door of your heart and
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you have to continually let him in and
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have more and more of his love.
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And then we see
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point number two is that love took on
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flesh.
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It says in this the love of God was made
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manifest among us that God sent his only
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son into the world so that we might live
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through him. This is the whole point of
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Jesus is that love became manifest in
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the incarnation of Jesus that we
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celebrate when Jesus was born into the
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world that it was God sending his son in
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the flesh to be close to us. Emmanuel,
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God with us, that there was close
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proximity to God.
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And there has to be presence for there
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to be love. And God said, "Hey, in the
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midst of your circumstance, in the midst
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of this horrible world, in the midst of
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poverty, in the midst of a a culture
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that is extremely violent, I'm sending
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my son to be there with you." That God
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was no longer distant, but he was
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present and close. God with us.
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I was gone a couple nights last week and
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I would call my kids and I would tell
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them, "Hey, I love you. Good night. Talk
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to them."
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But it's not the same as when I'm laying
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in bed with them, reading a book,
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telling them that I love them and giving
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them a kiss before they go to bed.
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That God could have sent a message. He
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could have written just the Bible,
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but he came in the form to be close to
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us. He didn't shout the instructions. He
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came in the flesh, God with us,
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Emmanuel,
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so that we could have close proximity to
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him. But here's the thing that scares me
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is that I think many times in the
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church, we settle for keeping God's love
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at a distance in our life.
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that we know God as a distant father
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rather than a close father that we that
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we kind of build up a wall between us.
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Yeah, I know he loves me, but you know,
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I still got to perform. You know, I
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still got to do all the and we have a
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distant relationship with a heavenly
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father. And one, I think it's because at
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some point in our life, we've settled
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for a counterfeit form of love and that
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either left us abandoned or or broke our
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heart or or didn't fulfill all the
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desires that we have. And so, that's one
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thing. But I also think and this is
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probably hear me out where I think our
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culture um and as individuals we
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probably wrestle with the most is that
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most of us look at a heavenly father's
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love is distant because we've
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experienced an earthly love from a
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father that was distant
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or he's just never around.
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He loved me but
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he wasn't really there all the time.
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He didn't really connect with me on any
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other level than
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sports or whatever that may be for you.
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You had you had an earthly father that's
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love was distant. And so when you think
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of the father's love, you look at it as
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a distant love.
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And so it's hard for you to get past
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that.
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And I would say I think that's probably
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one of our biggest
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wrestles in this generation
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because if you even look at statistics,
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it says statistically and I love being a
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part of this generation and praise God
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for some type of remote work and the
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access that we have to to internet and
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email and all of that, but but my
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generation of fathers spends almost 50%
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more time with their kids than the gener
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generation that raised us.
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You can clap for that. And that's no
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shame to the older generation.
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There's there's no shame to the older
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generation in that. But what I'm saying,
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if we look at that, we have to
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understand that yes, we probably wrestle
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with a distant love of a father.
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And my prayer and my hope is that my
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kids don't have that wrestle. But I know
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that it's something that me and my
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generation have wrestled through. And
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probably even the older generation to
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times 10 wrestled through. And so you
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sit in here and you're like, "Yeah, I I
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know God loves me. I know that he has
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this love for me, but it still feels
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distant for some reason." Or you keep it
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at a distance. And you settle for that
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and you're like, "That's okay." Cuz
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that's what I'm used to
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and that's not what God wants. That's
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why he sent his son to be God with us
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close in proximity so that we could have
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a close-knit love and relationship with
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a heavenly father.
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And when we realize that and when we've
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experienced that and when we've seen
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that he steps into these circumstances
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and these situations
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the midst of the pain in the midst of
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whatever we're going through
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we realize that love is not self-giving
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or love is self-giving not
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self-protecting
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that says this that he loved us and sent
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his son to be the propitiation for our
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sins that He sent his son to die as the
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sacrifice on the cross to pay the price
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that we deserve.
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That he went to the cross
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and died the death that we deserve in
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our place so that we don't have to. That
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love is sacrifice. It's sacrificial.
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It's self-giving. It's not
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self-protecting.
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And what I love about this
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in this scripture
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is that do you know where the first time
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in scripture love appears?
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It's in Genesis [snorts]
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when God says to Abraham
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that you're going to sacrifice the son,
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your only son whom you love. that the
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first time that love appears in
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scripture is one of the most beautiful
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prophetic foreshadowings of the love
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that would take place on the cross in
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Jesus Christ.
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He said the son whom you love
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and God provided a sacrificial ram in
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that instance so that Abraham didn't
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have to sacrifice his son.
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But then came a time where God would
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step in and he would sacrifice his son
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as the sacrificial lamb.
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That when we lift up worship and say
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lamb of God, anointed one who was and is
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and is to come,
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that we're talking about Jesus, the son
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of God. And I think sometimes we can
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separate that of like, well, yeah, God
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knew that he had to do. No, no, I don't
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think we understand. Do you have kids?
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Would you sacrifice them
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for anybody else in this room?
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I don't know about you, but I wouldn't
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sacrifice either of my kids for none of
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y'all.
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And I love you, but I don't love you
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that much.
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And I think sometimes when we start to
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think about the love of God, we start to
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think we've got it all figured out. We
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understand. I thought that when I had
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kids. I was like, man, I finally
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understand the love of a heavenly father
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for for a child.
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But then I realized, wait, no, the love
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of the heavenly father is that I would
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give up my child for somebody else.
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I don't understand [clears throat] the
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love of God. It's greater.
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And if you've ever sat in church and
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you've thought that you fully understand
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the love of God, you don't. It's
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greater. Well, I've sat through so many
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sermons. I'm 75 years old. I understand
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the love of God. No, you don't. It's
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greater.
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It's deeper.
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Far far more than you could ever
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understand on this side of eternity. And
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so when we talk about advent love,
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it's not only looking at the waiting
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period to understand the love that was
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sent in the baby of Jesus on Christmas,
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but it's also waiting to fully
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understand the love of God that we won't
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understand until we have eternity in the
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presence of God.
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And so my prayer and my hope is that we
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don't come into church and get sick of
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hearing about the love of God because we
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can't hear enough about the love of God
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in our life. You could you could hear a
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different message on the love of God
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every day for the rest of your life and
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you still wouldn't fully understand how
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great it is.
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But many of us get familiar with church
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and familiar with messages
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and we don't allow it to have the impact
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that it should
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on our hearts [snorts] and at the depth
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of our being
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that he came and he sacrificed. And when
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we truly understand this,
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when we finally come to the point that
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love is from God,
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that he died for us,
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that this is how great his love is and
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we've experienced that love,
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then it should transform how we live.
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And if we've experienced that great of a
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love, then we are to express it.
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That when we look
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at scripture,
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it continues to say, said, "Dear
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friends, since God so loved us, we also
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ought to love one another." Here's the
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tension.
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We can't just receive it and not express
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it.
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That in a culture, in a world where so
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many people are looking for love and
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they're looking for love in all of the
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wrong places, they're looking for love
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in all of the wrong groups. They're
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looking for love and belonging in all of
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the wrong scenarios and settings. We as
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the church should have the most amount
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of currency of love to give to others.
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And we should be the people that people
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are turning to saying, "Wow, the love
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that you have, I want it. Where is it
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from?" Are we known for that type of
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love?
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Is the capital C church, if you ask
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people around the world, you say,
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"What's the church known for?"
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Would they say love?
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Let's make it more personal.
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What are you known for?
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think like if people ask around your
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friend circles or co-workers or hey
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what are you known for?
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Is it love?
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Is it joy? Is it hope? Is it peace?
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Man, Christians should be the most
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peacefilled people and people should
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turn to them and see and be like, "Man,
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I want that peace."
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The most hopefilled people.
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Like, man, I I want that type of hope.
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But if I'm being honest, I think like a
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lot of people are like, "Man, Christians
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are scared right now.
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They must not have the hope that they
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talk about.
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What about joy? Man, I'm so sick of
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meeting cranky Christians.
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We got some cranky ones that didn't
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laugh. They're like,
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we should be joyfilled.
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What about love?
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If we've experienced this type of love
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and not just talk about what we've
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experienced,
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if we've experienced it, it should no
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longer it should no longer just be
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something that we've felt or that we've
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had. It should no longer just be a
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principle, but it should turn into a
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practice.
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There's the principle and this is this
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is capital C church. Break it down to us
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as individuals. I think a lot of times
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right now we're obsessed with orthodoxy
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with which orthodoxy is the right belief
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that we have the right belief that we
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understand we have the right knowledge
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the right belief and we settle for that.
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But what I want is to see people not
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only have the right belief but have
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orthopraxy which is the right practice
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that do we walk out what we believe?
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Do we show people the love that we have
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that we've experienced? Do we show
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people the joy, the hope, the peace that
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that has come in the the the little baby
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boy of Jesus? And I'm not just talking
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about the Christmas season. I'm talking
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about every aspect of our life. What are
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we known for? Are we known for that
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person's got a lot of Bible knowledge or
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that person looks like Jesus?
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It's a wrestle
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in this Advent season. And I wanted to
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challenge us and I don't want us to just
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get so familiar where it's like, "Yep,
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going to go hear about love again."
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That's great.
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But would we take what we hear
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and allow it to be a revelation in our
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heart to experience the love of God and
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allow it to change the way that we live?
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How does the church impact the world?
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It's not through power.
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How do we as Christians impact the world
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around? It's not through having power
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over the world. It's through being
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present in the world. A presence that is
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hopeful, that is joyfilled, that is
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peaceful, and that is loving.
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That's what will change the world is
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when people stop just talking about all
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they know about Jesus and start acting
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like him.
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And so once we've experienced it at the
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depth of our soul, then we express it in
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everything that we do.
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That's love. That's what Advent is
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about. That you wait your longing, but
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then once you experience it, while you
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wait for the next time, you express it.
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There's a world out there right now
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desperately searching for love.
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And what I'm excited about is that
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Christmas is one of those holidays that
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everybody knows about and most people
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celebrate whether they believe in Jesus
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or not. Which means, if you ask me,
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they're open to it.
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There's a statistic
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that was done in this study of
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non-believers, and this isn't even just
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around the the Christmas season.
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They said that if somebody invited them
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to church,
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would they go?
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82% of individuals said they would.
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when they ask Christians, "How many of
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you have invited people to church?"
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Do you know what the statistic was on
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that
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2%.
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You're telling me
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that we have a love that has changed the
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course of human history that everybody
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is desperately longing for, that we've
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experienced in our own life. I don't
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know about you, but it's a love that has
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wrecked my entire life that my life is
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completely different because of this
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love. And I'm going to keep it to
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myself.
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What?
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82% said they would go, not even around
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Christmas. How many more would come
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around Christmas if they were invited?
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But only 2% actually invite people.
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So my challenge around this Christmas
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season
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is that we have this currency of love
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that people are desperately longing for.
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We have the answers that the world is
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longing for when it comes to hope, when
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it comes to peace, when it comes to joy,
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and when it comes to love. And we're
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about to celebrate it this Christmas.
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Invite somebody to come find that
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answer.
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And if you're like, well, I don't I
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don't know if I really, you know, want
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to. It might make things awkward. I know
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they're not believe. Do you love them?
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Do you love them?
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Because the people that I love, I want
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them to spend eternity in heaven with
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me. I don't want them to go to hell.
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Do you love them?
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And if you don't, then you got a
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different heart issue you got to deal
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with.
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The band can come and play
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so it's less awkward. Y'all just staring
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at me.
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Christmas is all about Jesus coming
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being love in the flesh.
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It's beautiful and exciting.
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But some of you are in here and you've
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sat in here for so long and you've
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gotten so familiar with the Christmas
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story or the love that is talked about
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that it doesn't change your heart
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anymore.
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And my prayer and my hope for you is
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that God would set a fire in your heart
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to desperately want that that love and
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understand his love at a whole another
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level this Christmas season.
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But there's some of you also that you've
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always had a [music] distant love with
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the Lord.
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Yeah, I know he loves me, but like I
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don't really let him into to every
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aspect of [music] my life.
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And maybe it's shame that's keeping you
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separated from the love of God and
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keeping you [music] distant. Maybe it's
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just you have walls up because you've
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been hurt by love before. Maybe it's
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just that, yeah, I mean, he loves me
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like a father, but my my father sucked
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and so you've [music] kept him distant.
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I don't want that to be the case
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anymore. God doesn't want that. He
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doesn't want to send a messenger just to
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He sent his son to be in the flesh,
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Emmanuel. God with us.
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And then Emanuel went to the cross and
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he died a death on the cross that we all
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deserve to take our place and pay the
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price.
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And then he ascended. He sits at the
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right right hand of God. And he sent the
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Holy Spirit to live within us to dwell
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within us. God is with you. If you
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believe in Jesus Christ, he is with you
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every step of the way. Stop keeping him
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at a distance.
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Allow him to continue to work more and
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more each and every day on your heart.
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Allow him to continue to show his love
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to you more and more every single day.
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Maybe you're in here and that's your
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story. You're like, I have them at a
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distance.
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And I'll be honest, I don't really know
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what that's like.
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I had an amazing father
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and I got to see
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a picture of a father
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that loved the Lord, loved his family.
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Did he do everything right? No.
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But I remember one time at church and it
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[music] changed the way that I I've
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wanted to be a father. I saw my father
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at the altar
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in full surrender
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in all humility.
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And I think a lot of times as fathers,
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can I talk to the fathers in this room?
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We don't allow ourselves to find
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ourselves in that place because we don't
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want our kids to see us as weak.
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It's not weak.
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The greatest thing I've ever saw was my
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father's surrender to a God
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who loves him, who loves me, who loved
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our family.
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It changed everything.
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And hear me out, Christmas season can be
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so difficult. [music]
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But when we fully understand that it's
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about God meeting us right where we're
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at in the midst of [music] our need, we
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lay down everything at the altar and we
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give it to him and say, "This isn't
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about me anymore. This isn't about the
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the the strength that I have or the
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weakness that I feel. It's about turning
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to God and allowing God to move and work
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[music] in my heart
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and setting the standard
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[music] for my family.
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If we're going to be a church
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or people that impact the world, [music]
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we need to be people that understand the
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love so deeply in [music] our core and
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stop keeping him at a distance.
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[music]
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He wants to meet you in the midst of
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your need, in the midst of your
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circumstance.
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Don't keep him at a [music] distance any
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longer. allow those walls to be torn
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down.
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[music]
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Maybe you're in here and you didn't know
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about Jesus. You're like, "Somebody just
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invited me. I'm so glad that you're
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here." And I want you to know that there
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is a God that loves you so much that he
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sent his son. That I can't comprehend
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the the love of God on this side of
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eternity cuz I would never send my son
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to die for you. [music] But that's how
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great God's love is. It's greater. It's
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greater. Whatever you're imagining, it's
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greater than that. Whatever you're, it's
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greater than that.
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And he wants you in his family. And
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that's what Christmas is all about. A
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picture of Jesus coming [music] to earth
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so that God could have you and me. Will
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you stand?
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>> [music]
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>> Would you bow your heads with me
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as we pray?
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[music] I want to just ask a couple
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quick questions. If you're in here and
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you're like, I've been keeping God's
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love at a distance or I feel like I've
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always had a distant relationship with
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God. I've known him. I've been in
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church, but it's felt distant. [music]
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If that's you, would you just slip up
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your hand so I know who I'm praying for?
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Yeah.
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And maybe you're in here today and
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you're like, "I've never received the
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love of Christ. I've never confessed
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Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, but
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he's [music] been knocking on the door
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of my heart and I want to let him in
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this morning." If that's you and you
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want to accept Jesus for the first time,
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[music] would you just slip up your hand
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real quick?
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Yeah.
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And raising your hand doesn't save you,
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but it it makes what's happening on the
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inside [music]
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uh a little bit more real to you by
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taking an outward step of faith. And so
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after this service, there's going to be
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a prayer team and there's going to be a
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next steps area. If you raised your hand
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to accept Jesus, I want to encourage you
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to go find somebody [music] talk and
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learn more about what it looks like to
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follow Jesus. God, I thank you so much
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for what's going on in this room. I
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thank you for the way that you're
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moving. Lord, would your love just Lord,
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we just thank you for your manifest love
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in the in in [music] Jesus, Lord. And
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would you continue to reveal that to us
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[music] more and more each and every
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time that we come to encounter you?
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Would we not be so familiar with your
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story? Would we not be so familiar with
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church and scripture, Lord? But would we
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continue to feel your love revealed to
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us each and every day?
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>> [music]
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>> God, we thank you for who you are. We
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thank you for your love and we thank you
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for your son Jesus in Jesus [music]
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name. Amen.