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Standing Firm as the Family of God

Trinity Cambridge Church

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  1. For our sermon this evening, we are going to begin at the end.

  2. That is, at the end of 1 Peter.

  3. So we're going to look at the very last few verses that come out of 1 Peter.

  4. And what we're going to see here is we're going to be looking at the valediction,

  5. the signing off here of 1 Peter.

  6. Now as I was thinking about this idea of signing off,

  7. that at the end of a letter we write our valediction some way,

  8. of something kind of, to end the letter appropriately,

  9. that still makes sense to the people.

  10. So this is actually something I've kind of struggled with on an email.

  11. Like, what is the exact right way to sign off on an email?

  12. And I've got a few things that I go to.

  13. But as I was thinking about this, like how do we sign off on an email?

  14. I looked up and I came across some suggestions for us.

  15. You are welcome to use any of these suggestions as you sign off on an email.

  16. Or you may not want to use them.

  17. You can decide.

  18. One of my favorite ones that I noticed.

  19. Confusion to your enemies.

  20. Comma, Terran.

  21. Later, Vader.

  22. Here's one that we all might want to use,

  23. but I'm not necessarily sure it's the right thing to use.

  24. It's this.

  25. In my humble but accurate opinion.

  26. Comma, Terran.

  27. You can send that one to your boss.

  28. Next one.

  29. This message will self-destruct.

  30. And the last little suggestion.

  31. You can use these if you want.

  32. Once again, no compulsion there.

  33. Viva la revolution.

  34. All right.

  35. Long live the revolution.

  36. There we go.

  37. As we look here at 1 Peter, we're going to find his closing remarks.

  38. We're going to find that he did a far more effective job of closing out his letter

  39. than I do in my emails.

  40. And that some of these suggestions most certainly would do for it.

  41. And what we're going to find is that Peter, in his farewell,

  42. he brings in some subtle but punchy remarks.

  43. And he also does here in this very last few verses,

  44. is he does a reframing of the concept of grace.

  45. So as we go through the sermon today,

  46. what we're going to find is that there's three aspects that come out of this passage.

  47. And we're going to follow a little H alliteration.

  48. So there will be some H words that we're going to put together.

  49. And then finally, we're going to look at the idea of true grace,

  50. which is something that's mentioned here.

  51. And the thing that I want you to get out of this,

  52. at the end, as you're looking back and saying,

  53. what did I get out of this message?

  54. Here's the point that I want you to hear out of this message,

  55. is that true grace is the lifeline for Christian exiles.

  56. Once again, true grace is the lifeline for Christian exiles.

  57. Now as we go through this, I'll be referencing other parts of the scriptures

  58. and reading a few other verses that are not found in 1 Peter.

  59. Usually I'd like to keep things kind of tight within the passage that we're looking at,

  60. but just for the help of looking at this passage this evening,

  61. I'm going to bring in a number of other verses.

  62. So my suggestion to you is actually just keep your Bible right there at 1 Peter.

  63. I'll read the verses.

  64. If you're wondering about where those are located,

  65. you're certainly welcome to check with me afterwards.

  66. But I suggest just keep right there in 1 Peter looking at that.

  67. And as I come across those verses, you can just hear them as I say them.

  68. First thing I want to look at is the idea of help.

  69. So the first thing we'll look at is help.

  70. This is going to come out of the first part of verse 12.

  71. So verse 12 starts,

  72. By Silvanus, a faithful brother as I regard him, I have written briefly to you.

  73. So the question we have for us is, who is Silvanus?

  74. So Peter is saying that by Silvanus, he has written this letter.

  75. So the question is for us, who is Silvanus?

  76. And what we're going to find is that Silvanus is actually mentioned in a couple of other books.

  77. He's mentioned in 2 Corinthians, both of the Thessalonians.

  78. And Silvanus most likely is the same person as Silas.

  79. Silas is in the Greek form, while Silvanus is in the Latin form of the word.

  80. And so it's most likely the very same Silas that we found mentioned in Acts 15 through 17.

  81. What would also seem to be the case with Silvanus is that he is known to the people who are receiving the letters.

  82. So when Peter says, By Silvanus, they're like, Oh, Silvi, yeah, we know Silas, our friend.

  83. So when we come to this idea, By Silvanus, I have written briefly to you,

  84. there's kind of two possible meanings from this.

  85. First, Silvanus maybe was the scribe.

  86. Maybe he wrote the letter, Peter dictated it, and Silvanus was the one who wrote it.

  87. Another possible idea is that Silvanus was the courier.

  88. And so Peter writes the letter, gives it to Silvanus, and says,

  89. Hey, why don't you carry this around to some people so that they can see it?

  90. You know, at the end, what's really going to matter, what I really want us to see with Silvanus,

  91. is that he's been helpful to Peter in providing this information to the people who need to hear it.

  92. Whether Peter needed help in someone writing it,

  93. or Peter needed help in someone delivering it,

  94. Silvanus was someone who helped him.

  95. And that's one of the things I want you to see from the beginning,

  96. is that this idea of helping others within the Christian community.

  97. And this idea of needing people to help,

  98. and needing others to assist in things,

  99. is certainly a pattern that we see through the course of scriptures,

  100. is that people who are doing God's work,

  101. people who are serving God,

  102. often need help.

  103. It's expected that we need help.

  104. We're not expected to do things by ourselves,

  105. we're expected to be part of a community.

  106. A church is a community.

  107. Within a community, we're going to help each other.

  108. But just think of some of these biblical patterns of people who needed help.

  109. From the very first guy God made,

  110. Adam,

  111. it came,

  112. God's like,

  113. Hey, Adam,

  114. you need someone to help?

  115. And Adam's like,

  116. Yeah, I do.

  117. Here's Eve.

  118. Woo, that's good.

  119. That's good.

  120. Moses.

  121. Moses needed a little help.

  122. And Moses was someone who said,

  123. Hey, God, I need a little help.

  124. God got a little frustrated over it,

  125. but said,

  126. Hey, here's your brother Aaron.

  127. He can help you with this.

  128. You even look at Elijah,

  129. a great prophet,

  130. Elijah.

  131. Elijah was feeling lonely,

  132. kind of like he's the only one.

  133. And Elijah gets a mentee,

  134. Elisha,

  135. who comes alongside Elijah and helps him.

  136. And even we see Jesus on the cross who needs help.

  137. He needs help for his mom.

  138. And so that's where we find Jesus on the cross,

  139. worrying about his mom and who's going to take care of his mom.

  140. He's like,

  141. I need someone to help me.

  142. And so he turns to one of the disciples and he says,

  143. Take care of her.

  144. This is now your mom.

  145. And mom,

  146. he's now your son.

  147. He's going to take care of you.

  148. So even Jesus on the cross needed help.

  149. As we think into our own context,

  150. is that we're going to need to help each other a lot to make this church go forward.

  151. So for the vision of this church to be fulfilled,

  152. for people to be reached through this church,

  153. it's going to require the help of lots of people.

  154. And as I'm looking out at you now,

  155. you know what I see?

  156. I see lots of people helping.

  157. Many of us in here have a role.

  158. Many of us in here are helping in some ways.

  159. And so it's great.

  160. We have many people helping.

  161. One of the things that I would come and say to you,

  162. if you're one of those people who are helping here,

  163. who are helping provide and make things move forward,

  164. if you come to the point that you get overwhelmed,

  165. and we've all been there,

  166. if you volunteer for something,

  167. if you ever took on the word volunteer in whatever organization,

  168. at some point in time,

  169. most likely in this volunteer role,

  170. you're like,

  171. I'm feeling a little overwhelmed.

  172. And at that moment,

  173. you're thinking,

  174. I wish I had never volunteered for this.

  175. And you're like,

  176. what do I do?

  177. What do I do?

  178. So if you're in that point,

  179. and you get,

  180. and you feel overwhelmed,

  181. let the right person know.

  182. That's what we do in that community.

  183. That's what we do in a church.

  184. We're going to let the right person know.

  185. And we're not going to let the wrong person know.

  186. The wrong person,

  187. we know who that is.

  188. That's someone who's not going to help your situation.

  189. The right person is someone who will help your situation.

  190. So if you're in this point where you're helping here,

  191. and you get overwhelmed,

  192. let somebody know.

  193. Let the right person to know.

  194. One of the other things too,

  195. as we think of helpers,

  196. is that we have people in this church

  197. who are not yet here,

  198. who are going to serve important roles

  199. in leading and helping this church.

  200. And we don't know who those people are yet

  201. because they're not here.

  202. But we trust that God's going to send people in.

  203. And these people that God sends us

  204. are going to be people who can help.

  205. People who can take up leadership roles.

  206. People who can make ministries go forward.

  207. And the temptation that can arise

  208. for people who've been here a long time

  209. is a bit of resentment towards these people.

  210. So some of you, many of you,

  211. have been here a lot longer than I've been here.

  212. And so you're like,

  213. whoa, we've been doing this for a long time.

  214. And I'm like,

  215. oh, I've been doing this for maybe a few weeks,

  216. maybe a little bit more than that.

  217. But we see the discrepancy that's there.

  218. But even as we go and move forward

  219. out of this place

  220. and into a public launch,

  221. we're going to be having new helpers come in.

  222. We're going to have people who join the church.

  223. We're going to be like,

  224. this is going to be a good person.

  225. That's good for us.

  226. And what we all need to do is embrace that.

  227. Even though they weren't there in the hard part,

  228. they weren't there meeting in the apartment.

  229. They weren't there where everyone had

  230. not three roles, but ten roles

  231. to make things move forward.

  232. But when these people come,

  233. we want to receive them well

  234. and allow them to take roles

  235. and leadership that would be needed

  236. to help this church.

  237. Second thing I want us to look at

  238. is the idea of home.

  239. So the first thing we looked at was health.

  240. The second thing we're going to look at

  241. is the idea of home.

  242. And that's going to come out of verse 13.

  243. Let me read that for you.

  244. She who is at Babylon,

  245. who is likewise chosen,

  246. sends you greetings,

  247. and so does Mark, my son.

  248. So the phrasing she who is in Babylon

  249. is a bit of an odd phrase.

  250. So when you first hear that,

  251. you may, hmm, what are they talking about?

  252. What's Babylon got to do

  253. with what Peter is mentioning here?

  254. Well, let's just take a look at Babylon

  255. and see what Babylon is.

  256. First thing we need to know

  257. is that Babylon is an Old Testament reference.

  258. And in Babylon,

  259. in the Old Testament story,

  260. the nation of Israel

  261. had been formed and established

  262. for a long period of time.

  263. And they felt like God

  264. would never abandon them,

  265. never leave them.

  266. And God's been sending prophets of warning,

  267. saying,

  268. you need to do the right thing.

  269. You need to turn and follow me.

  270. And as we follow the people of Israel

  271. in the Old Testament,

  272. sometimes they follow God well.

  273. Many times they do not.

  274. And finally,

  275. as a final form of judgment upon them,

  276. God allows Babylon to come

  277. and overtake Jerusalem,

  278. the city they thought

  279. would never fall to its enemies.

  280. And the people are then sent

  281. and forced out of Jerusalem,

  282. out of their home,

  283. and forced into a new home,

  284. into exile,

  285. into the land of Babylon.

  286. And so,

  287. this idea of exile

  288. is a reminder of the people

  289. who were forced out of Jerusalem

  290. and now are being

  291. forcefully relocated

  292. into the land of Babylon.

  293. One of the interesting things

  294. that we have

  295. is that Peter,

  296. like those people in the Old Testament,

  297. like those people in Jerusalem

  298. who were forced to leave,

  299. Peter also

  300. was forced to leave Jerusalem.

  301. We see in the story of Acts,

  302. actually comes out of Acts 12,

  303. is that

  304. there was a great persecution

  305. upon the church.

  306. And Peter was sent

  307. into prison

  308. as part of this persecution.

  309. And then he is

  310. miraculously escapes

  311. out of prison.

  312. And he comes,

  313. he lets the people know

  314. there's people praying for him

  315. and Peter's like,

  316. your prayers have been answered.

  317. And it's kind of a funny story

  318. by the way.

  319. If you're not familiar with it,

  320. Acts 12,

  321. read it.

  322. It's a good,

  323. interesting read.

  324. It's a nice story.

  325. So Peter is miraculously

  326. freed from prison.

  327. And we find that

  328. there in Acts 12

  329. it says that

  330. Peter departed

  331. and went to another place.

  332. He had to leave.

  333. He had to leave.

  334. He had to go into Babylon.

  335. He had to go into

  336. his place of exile,

  337. away from where

  338. he wanted to be.

  339. This idea of Babylon

  340. and a place of exile,

  341. the place from where

  342. Peter writes down,

  343. he's like,

  344. Peter is saying to these people,

  345. I am writing to you

  346. from exile.

  347. I am writing to you

  348. from my Babylon.

  349. But this idea is

  350. similar to things

  351. that we find

  352. throughout the book of Peter.

  353. In fact,

  354. Peter 1.1,

  355. the very first chapter

  356. as Peter is greeting

  357. his hearers

  358. of this message,

  359. the first thing Peter says

  360. is,

  361. to the elect exiles

  362. of the dispersion.

  363. To the elect exiles.

  364. And so Peter is picking up

  365. on this idea

  366. that you have been sent out.

  367. These people who are receiving

  368. this letter

  369. have been sent out.

  370. You face persecution.

  371. And now you have been

  372. sent away.

  373. You are now exiles as well.

  374. And we have this idea

  375. that Peter is saying,

  376. you are exiles.

  377. Just like Peter is saying,

  378. I am an exile.

  379. I am also in Babylon.

  380. And why are they exiles?

  381. Because of their faith.

  382. Because they've chosen

  383. to follow Jesus Christ.

  384. And in following Jesus Christ,

  385. they've been sent out.

  386. They face persecution

  387. and been sent out to waste

  388. for their own safety.

  389. This phrasing of exile,

  390. referring to the people of exile,

  391. actually occurs twice more

  392. in 1 Peter.

  393. And it's interesting

  394. as we were to look

  395. at the word exile

  396. and how it's used

  397. in the other parts

  398. of the New Testament.

  399. The only other times

  400. it's referenced

  401. is referenced

  402. three other times

  403. in the New Testament.

  404. And all three of those times

  405. that it's referenced

  406. actually are reflecting

  407. upon the Old Testament story.

  408. So they're telling

  409. the Old Testament story.

  410. So the only time

  411. that these Christians

  412. who have been sent out

  413. as a result of persecution

  414. or referred to as exiles

  415. come out of 1 Peter.

  416. And so this is an idea

  417. that's developed

  418. here in this book.

  419. And as we look

  420. in Peter

  421. in this passage

  422. here in verse 13

  423. says,

  424. she who is

  425. she who is at Babylon.

  426. The she

  427. that I was referring there

  428. is most likely

  429. a group of people.

  430. So it's referencing

  431. the church.

  432. So when we say

  433. she who is in Babylon

  434. we think of the church.

  435. That it's the church

  436. that has been sent

  437. into exile.

  438. Notice that

  439. Peter as he writes

  440. to the recipients

  441. of this letter

  442. he writes from

  443. in essence

  444. the same place

  445. in which they are.

  446. And that place

  447. is not home.

  448. Whatever their home is

  449. they're not there.

  450. And as a result

  451. they are sojourners.

  452. They are people

  453. who don't have

  454. that calmness

  455. that comes

  456. with a place

  457. you call home.

  458. Whatever their homeland is

  459. they're not in it.

  460. They have been forced

  461. to live away

  462. from their home

  463. for the sake

  464. of the gospel.

  465. And as you were

  466. to look through

  467. the book of 1 Peter

  468. if we were just

  469. to walk through

  470. and we've been

  471. walking through this

  472. as a sermon series

  473. over the last few months

  474. but if we were to look

  475. just briefly back

  476. through 1 Peter

  477. we're going to find

  478. that there's some

  479. challenges

  480. with being

  481. an exile

  482. for the gospel.

  483. There are some

  484. challenges

  485. in being forced

  486. to live

  487. in Babylon.

  488. We see

  489. out of just

  490. the first chapter

  491. of 1 Peter

  492. that they're told

  493. that they're going

  494. to be grieved

  495. by trials

  496. and tested

  497. by fire.

  498. And then they're

  499. also encouraged

  500. in the first chapter

  501. to be holy

  502. as God is holy.

  503. It's a pretty

  504. high standard, right?

  505. Not only be holy

  506. remember God's holy

  507. be like God.

  508. They're told

  509. in chapter 2

  510. to abstain

  511. from the passions

  512. of the flesh

  513. and further

  514. to be subject

  515. to every human

  516. institution.

  517. Chapter 3

  518. bless those

  519. who are evil

  520. towards you.

  521. You want to be

  522. an exile

  523. for the gospel?

  524. Peter says

  525. you're going to need

  526. to bless those

  527. who are evil

  528. towards you.

  529. You're going to need

  530. to suffer

  531. in the flesh

  532. to cease from sinning.

  533. Suffer

  534. in the flesh

  535. in order to

  536. cease from sinning.

  537. chapter 4

  538. they're told

  539. to rejoice

  540. in your fiery trial.

  541. Chapter 5

  542. people are instructed

  543. to humble themselves.

  544. The exile

  545. will need to face

  546. difficulty

  547. and face challenges

  548. but they're to

  549. respond to these

  550. with a Christ-like manner.

  551. Whether it means

  552. they need to

  553. kill off

  554. the sinning

  555. that is within them

  556. or whether they

  557. need to humble

  558. themselves

  559. or they need

  560. to rejoice

  561. in fiery trials.

  562. These people

  563. need to respond

  564. to these challenges

  565. in the same way

  566. that Jesus Christ

  567. would.

  568. As we come

  569. and we think

  570. about this

  571. in our modern

  572. context

  573. we remind

  574. that as Christians

  575. as followers

  576. of Christ

  577. that we should

  578. be exiles.

  579. We should

  580. be exiles.

  581. In pursuing God

  582. we should feel

  583. different

  584. from the people

  585. around us.

  586. this world

  587. is a sinful

  588. world

  589. and if we

  590. are pursuing

  591. God in this

  592. world

  593. we shouldn't

  594. feel at home

  595. in it.

  596. We should feel

  597. like this isn't

  598. my home

  599. that my home

  600. is a place

  601. that God

  602. has set aside

  603. a place

  604. without sin

  605. a place

  606. with righteousness

  607. abounds.

  608. We should

  609. look upon

  610. this world

  611. that we're in

  612. and have a

  613. certain unsettled

  614. feeling

  615. that unsettled

  616. feeling that you

  617. have when you're

  618. just not home

  619. it's not your

  620. place.

  621. We are sojourners

  622. through this world.

  623. We are sojourners

  624. because of our

  625. commitment

  626. to following

  627. Jesus Christ.

  628. So the question

  629. I have for you

  630. is that do you

  631. feel like an exile?

  632. Do you feel

  633. like an exile

  634. as a result

  635. of the gospel's

  636. effect upon

  637. your life?

  638. And are you

  639. living a life

  640. that sets you

  641. apart from others?

  642. So the question

  643. would be

  644. do the people

  645. who know you

  646. do the non-Christian

  647. people who know you

  648. would they look

  649. upon you and say

  650. there's something

  651. different about you?

  652. And perhaps

  653. look upon you

  654. and not quite

  655. know exactly

  656. what that is.

  657. Not be able

  658. to quite explain it.

  659. But they look

  660. upon you and say

  661. there's something

  662. different.

  663. You're different

  664. than the rest of us.

  665. What about the

  666. people you work

  667. with?

  668. Do they see

  669. something different

  670. in you?

  671. What?

  672. If you have

  673. housemates

  674. and neighbors

  675. do they see

  676. something different

  677. in you?

  678. What about the

  679. people who follow

  680. you on social

  681. media?

  682. When they look

  683. at your posts

  684. and your pictures

  685. do they see

  686. something different

  687. about you?

  688. We would hope

  689. so.

  690. We would hope

  691. so.

  692. Because that is

  693. the lack to

  694. which God

  695. has called

  696. us.

  697. A life

  698. which we

  699. are minded.

  700. This place

  701. that we live

  702. is not our

  703. home.

  704. Our home

  705. is a place

  706. without sin.

  707. Our home

  708. is a place

  709. where righteousness

  710. is known.

  711. Our home

  712. is a place

  713. where Jesus

  714. is king

  715. and Jesus

  716. is reigning.

  717. That is our

  718. home.

  719. As we continue

  720. looking at this

  721. passage the

  722. third thing

  723. we're going to

  724. look at is

  725. the idea of

  726. harmony.

  727. So the third

  728. thing will be

  729. harmony.

  730. And there

  731. in verse

  732. 14 the

  733. passage reads

  734. greet one

  735. another with

  736. a kiss

  737. of love.

  738. Peace to

  739. all of you

  740. who are

  741. in Christ.

  742. So we are

  743. told to greet

  744. one another

  745. with affection.

  746. So what is

  747. greeting one

  748. another with

  749. affection?

  750. I was thinking

  751. of the

  752. contemporary

  753. greeting that

  754. shows your

  755. affection.

  756. So if I

  757. greet someone

  758. in a professional

  759. setting I don't

  760. know them well

  761. we might have

  762. the handshake.

  763. If I greet

  764. a friend that

  765. I know well

  766. you get the

  767. bro hug.

  768. You get the

  769. handshake and

  770. then you get

  771. the pull in

  772. and a couple

  773. of I don't

  774. know if they're

  775. pats or like

  776. smacks on the

  777. back a little

  778. bit.

  779. You know kind

  780. of a little

  781. bump of the

  782. chest kind

  783. of thing

  784. going there.

  785. So it's the

  786. bro hug.

  787. It's the

  788. affectionate

  789. greeting.

  790. And what

  791. Peter is saying

  792. to these

  793. people is

  794. greet one

  795. another affectionately.

  796. What is that

  797. going to look

  798. like?

  799. It's going

  800. to look like

  801. the bro hug.

  802. Peter says

  803. to greet

  804. another one

  805. with the

  806. kiss of

  807. love.

  808. I'm not

  809. sure if

  810. that's

  811. necessarily

  812. maybe not

  813. the literal

  814. kind of

  815. kiss.

  816. You know

  817. like we

  818. don't

  819. necessarily

  820. need to

  821. literally

  822. greet another

  823. one with

  824. kiss.

  825. If you

  826. want to

  827. that's

  828. fine.

  829. That works

  830. for you.

  831. That's okay.

  832. Some people

  833. might take it

  834. wrong.

  835. But think

  836. bro hug.

  837. Maybe you

  838. get that.

  839. That makes

  840. a little

  841. bit more

  842. sense.

  843. But do

  844. what we

  845. want to

  846. see is

  847. that when

  848. he's

  849. talking about

  850. through

  851. this church.

  852. churches to

  853. whom he

  854. is writing.

  855. He says

  856. I want you

  857. to greet

  858. one another

  859. affectionately.

  860. I want you

  861. to greet

  862. one another

  863. like your

  864. family.

  865. In reality

  866. we are

  867. family.

  868. In fact

  869. even if we

  870. look at

  871. this passage

  872. we can

  873. see the

  874. nature of

  875. family within

  876. the church

  877. as Peter

  878. is writing.

  879. As he

  880. refers to

  881. Silvanus

  882. his brother

  883. and Mark

  884. his son.

  885. It's

  886. his brother

  887. in Christ.

  888. It's

  889. his son

  890. in Christ.

  891. The church

  892. is much

  893. like a

  894. family.

  895. And the

  896. reality is

  897. that churches

  898. and families

  899. are much

  900. better

  901. when there

  902. is harmony.

  903. When there

  904. is peace

  905. within the

  906. home,

  907. when there

  908. is peace

  909. within the

  910. household,

  911. when there

  912. is peace

  913. within the

  914. church

  915. community,

  916. when there

  917. is harmony,

  918. the message

  919. of the

  920. gospel can

  921. go forward.

  922. Something you

  923. already know

  924. is this,

  925. that conflicts

  926. do happen

  927. in church.

  928. just like

  929. in your

  930. family,

  931. conflicts

  932. will arise,

  933. the church

  934. is like a

  935. family,

  936. and guess

  937. what?

  938. Conflicts

  939. will arise.

  940. There will

  941. be disagreements,

  942. there will

  943. be hurt

  944. feelings,

  945. and this is

  946. part of

  947. doing life

  948. together.

  949. A church

  950. does life

  951. together,

  952. and conflict

  953. is simply

  954. a part

  955. of that

  956. life.

  957. But as

  958. these conflicts

  959. arise,

  960. we're given

  961. a little bit

  962. of a hint

  963. of something

  964. that we

  965. can do,

  966. and that's

  967. to greet

  968. one another.

  969. So that's

  970. what the

  971. kiss of love

  972. wants to give.

  973. Think affection.

  974. Greet one

  975. another with

  976. affection.

  977. And what

  978. so often

  979. happens is

  980. that amidst

  981. conflict,

  982. one of the

  983. first steps

  984. that we take

  985. is to avoid

  986. the other

  987. person.

  988. You've been

  989. there,

  990. maybe it's

  991. just me,

  992. maybe I know

  993. it when you

  994. study it,

  995. but there's

  996. some sort

  997. of conflict

  998. with a

  999. person.

  1000. Maybe it's

  1001. in your

  1002. workplace,

  1003. maybe it's

  1004. with one

  1005. of your

  1006. neighbors,

  1007. maybe it's

  1008. with someone

  1009. in your

  1010. natural

  1011. family.

  1012. So what

  1013. happens when

  1014. this conflict

  1015. arrives?

  1016. You're like,

  1017. don't look

  1018. at them,

  1019. don't make

  1020. eye contact,

  1021. we don't

  1022. have to

  1023. communicate

  1024. if we don't

  1025. see each

  1026. other,

  1027. so you

  1028. avoid them.

  1029. And in a

  1030. church sometimes

  1031. it's easy

  1032. to avoid

  1033. people,

  1034. there's lots

  1035. of people

  1036. here,

  1037. you can say

  1038. I'm just

  1039. going to

  1040. pretend like

  1041. he's not

  1042. there.

  1043. This doesn't

  1044. solve the

  1045. problem,

  1046. this doesn't

  1047. bring about

  1048. harmony,

  1049. greet one

  1050. another.

  1051. Greet one

  1052. another with

  1053. affection.

  1054. Because that

  1055. will go about

  1056. creating harmony

  1057. within the

  1058. church.

  1059. And personally

  1060. here's what I've

  1061. experienced,

  1062. and maybe this

  1063. will be the

  1064. same for you,

  1065. is that at

  1066. times I've

  1067. felt frustrated

  1068. with people.

  1069. There's at

  1070. times,

  1071. no one here

  1072. by the way,

  1073. no one here,

  1074. but theoretical

  1075. people,

  1076. no,

  1077. no,

  1078. actually real

  1079. people,

  1080. but I don't

  1081. remember who

  1082. they are.

  1083. But at times I

  1084. know I felt

  1085. frustrated with

  1086. people,

  1087. but when I

  1088. looked them in

  1089. the face,

  1090. and I said

  1091. hello,

  1092. I'm thinking,

  1093. what was I

  1094. feel frustrated

  1095. about?

  1096. I don't

  1097. remember.

  1098. I think that

  1099. was being silly.

  1100. Because I

  1101. looked at them

  1102. and I was like,

  1103. you know,

  1104. whatever that

  1105. thing in my

  1106. mind that I

  1107. was thinking

  1108. they were doing

  1109. terribly or

  1110. wrong.

  1111. Now I've

  1112. looked at

  1113. their smiling

  1114. face,

  1115. and they're

  1116. looking nicely

  1117. at me,

  1118. like,

  1119. don't do

  1120. that,

  1121. right?

  1122. So greet

  1123. one another

  1124. with affection.

  1125. Even if

  1126. you're not

  1127. feeling so

  1128. happy with

  1129. them,

  1130. greet them

  1131. with affection.

  1132. And the

  1133. reason that

  1134. we do is

  1135. because we

  1136. want harmony

  1137. to be part

  1138. of our

  1139. church.

  1140. church.

  1141. The reality

  1142. is this,

  1143. is that

  1144. churches

  1145. demise

  1146. because of

  1147. conflict

  1148. within.

  1149. Churches

  1150. implode.

  1151. That's how

  1152. churches stop

  1153. functioning and

  1154. stop doing

  1155. well and

  1156. stop growing

  1157. and people

  1158. stop coming

  1159. because of

  1160. problems

  1161. internally

  1162. within the

  1163. church.

  1164. And the

  1165. thing that we

  1166. have that we

  1167. want to always

  1168. protect is the

  1169. harmony, the

  1170. peace within

  1171. Trinity

  1172. Cambridge.

  1173. Because if we

  1174. have peace and

  1175. harmony within

  1176. the church, the

  1177. church can go

  1178. forward in its

  1179. mission.

  1180. If there is

  1181. disharmony within

  1182. the church, then

  1183. the church won't

  1184. be able to go

  1185. forward with

  1186. reaching people.

  1187. As this church

  1188. tries to reach

  1189. people, the

  1190. thing that we

  1191. rely upon is the

  1192. movement of the

  1193. Spirit.

  1194. We need God to

  1195. send people to

  1196. our church, and

  1197. there's obviously

  1198. things that we

  1199. can do to help

  1200. facilitate

  1201. that, but

  1202. ultimately we

  1203. look upon it

  1204. as a work of

  1205. the Spirit, that

  1206. God will send

  1207. people to this

  1208. church.

  1209. And most

  1210. certainly we

  1211. look upon it as

  1212. a work of the

  1213. Spirit, that

  1214. God will bring

  1215. people to the

  1216. salvation that

  1217. they need through

  1218. this church.

  1219. And we look and

  1220. we say, God, we

  1221. also want you to

  1222. send believers into

  1223. this church who

  1224. can grow in

  1225. their faith.

  1226. But why would

  1227. God use His

  1228. Spirit and send

  1229. people into an

  1230. unhealthy,

  1231. disharmonious,

  1232. anger in

  1233. filled church?

  1234. It's just

  1235. simply not going

  1236. to happen.

  1237. Because it

  1238. would not be

  1239. good for people

  1240. to be in

  1241. that.

  1242. So as we

  1243. come and look

  1244. at this idea

  1245. of harmony, it's

  1246. vital.

  1247. It's vital to

  1248. the success of

  1249. this church.

  1250. And we can

  1251. talk much more

  1252. about it.

  1253. But here at the

  1254. end of 1 Peter

  1255. we're given just

  1256. one little hint.

  1257. Greet one

  1258. another with

  1259. affection.

  1260. Greet one

  1261. another with

  1262. affection.

  1263. Finally we

  1264. will look at

  1265. the idea of

  1266. true grace.

  1267. True grace is

  1268. something that

  1269. comes out of

  1270. verse 12.

  1271. So the second

  1272. part of verse

  1273. 12.

  1274. And the

  1275. passage reads,

  1276. This is the

  1277. true grace of

  1278. God.

  1279. Stand firm in

  1280. it.

  1281. So there in

  1282. verse 12 it

  1283. says this.

  1284. So what is

  1285. this?

  1286. Well this is

  1287. the entire of

  1288. the writing.

  1289. So this isn't

  1290. just the passage

  1291. that we're

  1292. talking about

  1293. this evening.

  1294. This is Peter

  1295. concluding his

  1296. message to the

  1297. people, his

  1298. letter to the

  1299. people.

  1300. And this is

  1301. everything I've

  1302. written you.

  1303. And he says

  1304. everything I've

  1305. written you

  1306. stand firm in

  1307. it.

  1308. So what he

  1309. means by

  1310. standing firm

  1311. is that this

  1312. is something

  1313. that I want

  1314. you to

  1315. maintain.

  1316. But also

  1317. understands the

  1318. reason that he's

  1319. telling us to

  1320. stand firm in

  1321. it is because at

  1322. some point it's

  1323. going to be

  1324. difficult to

  1325. maintain.

  1326. At some

  1327. point we're

  1328. going to

  1329. say I

  1330. don't want

  1331. this, all

  1332. that you're

  1333. giving me

  1334. Peter, I

  1335. want to get

  1336. rid of it.

  1337. But Peter

  1338. is saying no.

  1339. Stay with

  1340. it.

  1341. Stand firm

  1342. in it.

  1343. So what

  1344. exactly is

  1345. this?

  1346. Well this, as

  1347. it's explained

  1348. here in verse

  1349. 12, this is

  1350. the true grace

  1351. of God.

  1352. true grace.

  1353. This idea, this

  1354. pairing of true

  1355. and grace to

  1356. create this term

  1357. true grace, it's

  1358. actually found

  1359. nowhere else in

  1360. scripture.

  1361. So the

  1362. phrasing true

  1363. grace is

  1364. something that

  1365. only comes in

  1366. this passage.

  1367. So this hair at

  1368. the end of

  1369. first period is

  1370. the only time

  1371. we'll see those

  1372. two words put

  1373. together to make

  1374. this notion of

  1375. true grace.

  1376. So what is

  1377. true grace?

  1378. That's something

  1379. we need to know.

  1380. So we're going

  1381. to begin with

  1382. our understanding

  1383. of grace.

  1384. So grace, what

  1385. is grace?

  1386. Grace is

  1387. unmerited favor.

  1388. So grace is

  1389. simply unmerited

  1390. favor.

  1391. And the result

  1392. is that God

  1393. has much grace

  1394. towards us.

  1395. God has much

  1396. unmerited favor

  1397. towards us.

  1398. And when we

  1399. think of God's

  1400. grace, we often

  1401. think of God's

  1402. grace as providing

  1403. good things,

  1404. things that we

  1405. want.

  1406. So we're told

  1407. in Titus chapter

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  1408. 2 that grace

  1409. brings salvation.

  1410. That's a good

  1411. thing.

  1412. We're told

  1413. that it's

  1414. Titus 2.9,

  1415. the grace of

  1416. God appears

  1417. bringing salvation

  1418. to all people.

  1419. So grace is

  1420. that unmerited

  1421. favor that

  1422. brings a good

  1423. thing.

  1424. We also see

  1425. that grace

  1426. brings redemption

  1427. and forgiveness.

  1428. Ephesians 1

  1429. chapter 7

  1430. reads, we

  1431. have redemption

  1432. through his

  1433. blood, the

  1434. forgiveness of

  1435. our trespasses

  1436. according to

  1437. the riches of

  1438. his grace.

  1439. We see that

  1440. first Peter

  1441. brings in this

  1442. idea of

  1443. true grace.

  1444. So we've

  1445. seen grace as

  1446. this unmerited

  1447. favor, these

  1448. things that we

  1449. want, these

  1450. things that we

  1451. need, but Peter

  1452. comes and says,

  1453. I want you to

  1454. think about this

  1455. as the idea

  1456. of true grace.

  1457. And in this

  1458. idea of true

  1459. grace, it moves

  1460. grace from

  1461. simply the

  1462. unmerited favor

  1463. that we receive,

  1464. but it moves it

  1465. towards this

  1466. favor that we

  1467. show towards

  1468. others.

  1469. grace.

  1470. And so the

  1471. idea of true

  1472. grace is not

  1473. only receiving

  1474. what God

  1475. offers, but

  1476. then bestowing

  1477. that towards

  1478. people around

  1479. us.

  1480. And when we

  1481. bestow what we

  1482. have received

  1483. from God, it

  1484. creates a loop.

  1485. It creates a

  1486. loop of increase.

  1487. And what that

  1488. means is that as

  1489. we receive grace

  1490. from God, and

  1491. then we turn and

  1492. bestow that grace

  1493. towards others, we

  1494. have an ability

  1495. to better receive

  1496. God's grace.

  1497. We have a deeper

  1498. understanding of

  1499. God's grace, which

  1500. we then bestow

  1501. grace out, which

  1502. then gives us an

  1503. even deeper

  1504. understanding of

  1505. grace, which gives

  1506. us a better ability

  1507. to bestow upon

  1508. others.

  1509. So as we receive

  1510. grace, bestow

  1511. grace, as we

  1512. continue through

  1513. that process, we're

  1514. actually going to

  1515. deepen the grace

  1516. and our understanding

  1517. of grace.

  1518. And this idea of

  1519. we must receive

  1520. something and then

  1521. give it, this

  1522. pattern, is

  1523. something that

  1524. occurs in the

  1525. Bible.

  1526. So it's not an

  1527. idea, here as we

  1528. look at this idea

  1529. of true grace, it's

  1530. one of the things I

  1531. think to see

  1532. important is that I'm

  1533. not telling you

  1534. there's some like

  1535. secret hidden idea

  1536. that's coming out of

  1537. 1 Peter of this

  1538. idea of true grace.

  1539. This idea that we

  1540. receive grace and

  1541. then bestow it

  1542. towards others, that's

  1543. a pattern that we

  1544. would see marked

  1545. throughout the

  1546. scriptures.

  1547. And this idea that

  1548. God says, hey, I've

  1549. given you something

  1550. good, but I want you

  1551. to turn around and

  1552. give it to others, is

  1553. a pattern that we

  1554. also see in the

  1555. scriptures.

  1556. Even as we look at

  1557. the model prayer, as

  1558. Jesus, he teaches his

  1559. disciples to pray.

  1560. And one of the

  1561. things that Jesus

  1562. teaches us to say in

  1563. this model prayer, he

  1564. teaches us to pray, is

  1565. that we ask God for

  1566. forgiveness.

  1567. So we're to pray to

  1568. God, forgive us.

  1569. But it's a conditional

  1570. forgiveness.

  1571. Forgive us as we have

  1572. forgiven others.

  1573. It's that loop, it's

  1574. that pattern.

  1575. If we want to receive

  1576. God's true forgiveness,

  1577. we're going to need to

  1578. pass that forgiveness

  1579. on to others.

  1580. In the same way with

  1581. grace, we do receive

  1582. God's unmerited favor.

  1583. We absolutely can

  1584. receive it.

  1585. God says, now give it

  1586. away.

  1587. And that's what Peter's

  1588. plan for these people

  1589. here is to give that

  1590. grace away.

  1591. To bestow that grace

  1592. upon others.

  1593. True grace is something

  1594. that we receive and then

  1595. bestow.

  1596. And the reality is that

  1597. both can be an

  1598. obstacle.

  1599. Receiving that unmerited

  1600. favor from God, it's an

  1601. obstacle for people.

  1602. Bestowing that favor

  1603. towards the people

  1604. around us also can be

  1605. an obstacle.

  1606. As we look at this idea

  1607. of true grace, what I

  1608. want us to do is we're

  1609. going to work that idea

  1610. back through some of the

  1611. concepts that we've

  1612. talked about here in this

  1613. passage.

  1614. We're going to link this

  1615. idea of true grace

  1616. through and just to see

  1617. how it pertains into

  1618. some of these ideas.

  1619. So the first thing that

  1620. we looked at was the

  1621. idea of help.

  1622. Is that we need to help

  1623. one another.

  1624. So what we have with

  1625. the idea of help is that

  1626. we have received help

  1627. from God.

  1628. In the form of salvation

  1629. we have received it.

  1630. We're also going to need

  1631. to bestow it.

  1632. In 1 Peter chapter 2

    1 Peter 2:9

  1633. verse 9 we see that we

  1634. have received help.

  1635. You are a chosen race,

  1636. a royal priesthood,

  1637. holy nation, a people

  1638. for his own possession.

  1639. So we have received

  1640. these things from God.

  1641. He says, I chose you.

  1642. And the passage

  1643. continues.

  1644. We're not going to need

  1645. to give something out.

  1646. And the passage

  1647. continues.

  1648. You have received

  1649. these things and now

  1650. the passage goes in

  1651. chapter 2 verse 9

  1652. that you will proclaim

  1653. the excellencies of him

  1654. who called you out of

  1655. the darkness into his

  1656. marvelous light.

  1657. You are a chosen race

  1658. that you may proclaim

  1659. his excellencies.

  1660. You've received the

  1661. grace of being chosen

  1662. and now you're going to

  1663. bestow that grace by

  1664. proclaiming the

  1665. excellencies of God.

  1666. True grace, we're going

  1667. to proclaim Christ.

  1668. We're not just going to

  1669. receive but we are

  1670. going to proclaim.

  1671. We also looked at the

  1672. idea of home.

  1673. That we are exiles.

  1674. We are in this world

  1675. and it doesn't quite fit

  1676. in.

  1677. It's not quite our home

  1678. because we stand out

  1679. because of our faith.

  1680. But as a result of the

  1681. grace that we have

  1682. received with God,

  1683. we're told in 1 Peter

    1 Peter 2:16

  1684. chapter 2 verses 16 and

  1685. 17, the first told that

  1686. we can live as people

  1687. who are free.

  1688. We have received that

  1689. from God.

  1690. The ability to live as

  1691. people who are free.

  1692. But now we have this

  1693. grace that we can bestow

  1694. towards others.

  1695. The passage continues.

  1696. Not using your freedom

  1697. as a cover up for evil

  1698. but living as servants

  1699. of God.

  1700. Honor everyone.

  1701. Love the brotherhood.

  1702. Fear God.

  1703. Honor the emperor.

  1704. Through grace we can

  1705. live as free.

  1706. God says now I want you

  1707. to bestow that towards

  1708. others.

  1709. And in true grace we are

  1710. called to submission to

  1711. earthly authorities.

  1712. We are called to submit to

  1713. society at large.

  1714. We are called to submit to

  1715. our governments.

  1716. We need to submit in our

  1717. workplaces.

  1718. In our classrooms.

  1719. We need to submit within

  1720. our church community.

  1721. We need to submit within

  1722. our roles within the family.

  1723. We have received grace.

  1724. We can live as free people.

  1725. But we are going to use

  1726. that freedom.

  1727. So that we can live in

  1728. submission to the people

  1729. around us.

  1730. Finally we looked at the

  1731. idea of harmony.

  1732. And the idea of maintaining

  1733. peace within our community.

  1734. And certainly we have

  1735. peace with God.

  1736. Despite our sinful nature

  1737. we have peace with God.

  1738. We are told in 1 Peter 3.18

  1739. For Christ suffered once for

  1740. sins.

  1741. The righteous for the

  1742. unrighteous.

  1743. That he might bring us to

  1744. God.

  1745. God has come.

  1746. Jesus has come.

  1747. And suffered for our sins.

  1748. So that we might be brought

  1749. to God.

  1750. That we might have peace with

  1751. God.

  1752. We would never have that

  1753. peace with God without the

  1754. work of Jesus coming and

  1755. suffering and dying for us.

  1756. That is the harmony that we

  1757. have received from God.

  1758. And now we are going to

  1759. take that harmony that we

  1760. have received and we are

  1761. going to bestow that

  1762. towards others.

  1763. 1 Peter 4.8 we are told

  1764. Above all, keep loving one

  1765. another earnestly since love

  1766. covers a multitude of sin.

  1767. The passage continues and we are

  1768. told to show hospitality and

  1769. use our gifts to serve others.

  1770. In true harmony, we are going

  1771. to seek peace with other

  1772. people.

  1773. We are going to love, welcome,

  1774. and serve them.

  1775. We have been given harmony,

  1776. peace with Christ, peace

  1777. through Christ towards God.

  1778. And from that peace that we

  1779. have received, we are now going

  1780. to bestow that peace into our

  1781. community.

  1782. So as we have looked at this

  1783. idea of true grace, what I want

  1784. you to see is that true grace is

  1785. the lifeline for Christian

  1786. exiles.

  1787. Once again, true grace is the

  1788. lifeline for Christian exiles.

  1789. As we come and close out, I want

  1790. you to think of a few things.

  1791. A few questions I have for you.

  1792. Are you a Christian?

  1793. That is where we begin.

  1794. Are you a Christian?

  1795. Do you have peace with God?

  1796. And even as we just looked at

  1797. the passage, that Christ came

  1798. that we might have peace with

  1799. God.

  1800. Jesus suffered on our behalf to

  1801. bring us peace with God.

  1802. So that's not a decision that

  1803. you've pursued in your life.

  1804. I would put that before you.

  1805. Find peace with God.

  1806. There is only one way to find

  1807. peace with God, and that is

  1808. through Jesus Christ.

  1809. The whole question is, are you a

  1810. Christian?

  1811. Second question I have for you.

  1812. Is, are you in exile?

  1813. Do you fit into the world?

  1814. Does this world feel like home

  1815. to you?

  1816. If you're a follower of a

  1817. Christ, this world shouldn't

  1818. quite feel like home.

  1819. This world we shouldn't quite

  1820. fit in.

  1821. We shouldn't be quite like

  1822. everyone around us.

  1823. There should be something about

  1824. us.

  1825. We should have a bit of a

  1826. success.

  1827. I feel like a sojourner.

  1828. I feel like an exile.

  1829. Finally, a question for you.

  1830. Is, are you living in true

  1831. grace?

  1832. Are you bestowing what you

  1833. have received?

  1834. What you have received from

  1835. Jesus?

  1836. That unmerited favor that you

  1837. have received?

  1838. Are you now living that out

  1839. towards others?

  1840. And the many facets of your

  1841. life of what you are able to?

  1842. Are you living out that true

  1843. grace in proclaiming Christ?

  1844. Are you living out that true

  1845. grace in submission to

  1846. authorities?

  1847. Are you living out that true

  1848. grace by pursuing peace with

  1849. others?

  1850. Are you living in the true

  1851. grace?

  1852. As I started today, I said that

  1853. we were going to begin at the

  1854. end.

  1855. And now that we are going to, at

  1856. the end, we are going to end at

  1857. the beginning.

  1858. And the beginning is this.

  1859. Someone just gave me the look

  1860. like, you're just starting over.

  1861. No.

  1862. No.

  1863. Not that.

  1864. No.

  1865. We are going to begin at the

  1866. end.

  1867. So we are, as we, as we go out,

  1868. what is going to be different

  1869. about you?

  1870. So as you take this message,

  1871. and you, you have heard it and

  1872. you have received it, what, what

  1873. about it?

  1874. You say, that is something I can

  1875. use.

  1876. That is information I can use.

  1877. That is something about me that

  1878. can be different.

  1879. Because if the, if we take the

  1880. message and we just end it here,

  1881. it really doesn't do us much

  1882. good.

  1883. It doesn't change things.

  1884. But if we, if we take the

  1885. message and we say, I'm going to

  1886. begin something coming out of

  1887. this message.

  1888. What for you is that thing that

  1889. you want to begin?

  1890. What for you will be different?

  1891. What can you do different this

  1892. week that you didn't do last

  1893. week?

  1894. And as I say, that's why I say

  1895. as it comes, that we're going to

  1896. end at the beginning.

  1897. The beginning is, what will be

  1898. different for you in this coming

  1899. week than it was in the previous

  1900. week?

  1901. Let me close this in prayer.

  1902. God, we come before you recognizing

  1903. the great work that you have done

  1904. in our life.

  1905. The great love that you have for us.

  1906. And the great salvation that you

  1907. have provided through Jesus Christ.

  1908. God, we pray we would be people who

  1909. earnestly follow you in all aspects

  1910. of our life.

  1911. Amen.

  1912. Thank you.