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All To the Glory of God

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  1. reading today comes from 1st Corinthians chapter 10 verse 23 going all the way to chapter 11 verse

  2. 1 and if you're using one of our blue pew bibles it's on page 958 i'll give you a moment to find

  3. it page 958 in your pew bibles 1st Corinthians 10 23 to 11 1

  4. let me pray for the reading and preaching of god's word

  5. heavenly father we pray that you will now address us from your word

  6. let all that is of you land on our hearts with force the power of the spirit

  7. and let all that is not of you fade recede into the background and not be uttered lord from this

  8. pulpit and we pray lord that as we are addressed by you we will draw closer to you that we'll become

  9. more like you grow as a church to be able to glorify you in all things and to work for the good of our

  10. neighbors as your people so meet with us in jesus name we pray amen 1st corinthians 10 23 to 11 1

  11. all things are lawful but not all things are helpful all things are lawful but not all things

  12. build up let no one seek his own good but the good of his neighbor eat whatever is sold in the market

  13. without raising any question on the ground of conscience for the earth is the lord's and the

  14. fullness thereof if one of the unbelievers invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go eat

  15. whatever is set before you without raising any question on the ground of conscience but if someone

  16. says to you this has been offered in sacrifice then do not eat it for the sake of the one who informed

  17. you and for the sake of conscience i do not mean your conscience but his for why should my liberty be

  18. determined by someone else's conscience if i partake with thankfulness why am i denounced because of

  19. that for which i give thanks so whether you eat or drink or whatever you do do all to the glory of god

  20. give no offense to jews or to greeks or to the church of god just as i try to please everyone in

  21. everything i do not seeking my own advantage but that of many that they may be saved be imitators of

  22. me as i am of christ the word of the lord thanks be to god we all consider a variety of factors

  23. when making decisions sometimes our decisions are deliberate and logical sometimes they are spontaneous

  24. and intuitive sometimes we think that they are deliberate and logical but they are more intuitive

  25. and subconscious than we know usually they are a mix of both and sometimes we make altruistic decisions

  26. and sometimes we make selfish decisions that advance our own agendas but in all that we do

  27. there are a couple overarching principles that must govern all of our habits and all of our decisions as

  28. christians and in first 10 23 to 11 one apostle paul teaches us that we are to imitate christ

  29. and do all things to the glory of god and the good of our neighbors that's the main point of this

  30. passage and i will talk about that in two parts the first part of the sermon will be covering verses

  31. 23 to 30 about the good of our neighbors in the second part we'll talk about the glory of god from

  32. chapter 10 31 to 11 one paul begins in verse 23 by quoting the often used slogan of the corinthians

  33. which we've seen before in this uh letter all things are lawful right we saw that earlier in

  34. chapter 6 when the corinthians were using that slogan to justify sexual immorality

  35. so they mistakenly believed that because of their newfound spiritual freedom in christ

  36. that they now all things were permissible for them lawful for them to do so on the surface that

  37. sounds similar to paul's own teaching he says in galatians 5 18 that christians who are led by the

  38. spirit are not under the law so we no longer have the the binding force of the law on us with its

  39. penalties that are threatened against us that's no longer on us because christ has fulfilled the law

  40. but that's still a distortion of paul's teaching to say that because of christ now i can do all things

  41. all things are lawful for me because paul also says specifically in romans 6 14 to 16 for sin will

  42. have no dominion over you since you are not under law but under grace what then are we to sin because we

  43. are not under law but under grace by no means do you not know that if you present yourselves to

  44. anyone as obedient slaves you are slaves of the one whom you obey either of sin which leads to death

  45. or of obedience which leads to righteousness so while it is true that those who are in christ because

  46. christ fulfilled the law perfectly on our behalf are no longer under the law in terms of its legal and

  47. penal demands this did not mean that we could go on sinning as christians because to do so would mean

  48. that we are still enslaved to sin when christ died to save us to free us from sin and so this freedom

  49. in christ was an opportunity to keep in step with the holy spirit and to follow god not to do whatever

  50. we please to be lawless and that's the difference right between a christian between a legalist and a

  51. lawless person and a christian the lawless person doesn't want to follow god's law he does not follow

  52. it the legalist does not want to follow god's law but he follows it anyway because he has to

  53. the christian on the other hand follows the law because he wants to the law of god is written on

  54. his heart and the spirit of god enlivens him and leads him and so the mindset really of doing what

  55. is lawful is fitting for a pharisee a legalist but woefully inadequate for the christian that's why

  56. jesus said in his sermon on the mountain matthew 5 20 i tell you that unless your righteousness exceeds

  57. that of the pharisees and the scribes you will never enter the kingdom of heaven sometimes we

  58. mistakenly think that these pharisees held to a higher standard than we can keep but the pharisees

  59. kept to a lower standard than we can keep and that's why jesus says you unless your righteousness

  60. exceeds theirs then you will not enter the kingdom of god because the mindset of a legalist of a pharisee

  61. is essentially self-serving and self-preservationist their goal is to pass right their goal is to not

  62. mess up to meet the minimum requirement so they can enter the kingdom of heaven that's the mindset of a

  63. legalist they're just trying not to disqualify themselves but that's different from the christian's mindset

  64. because the christian's mindset is not simply to pass for one's own sake but to please god to honor god

  65. to glorify god so by definition a christian is a maximalist and not a minimalist like a pharisee

  66. it's the difference between really a student who is trying to do the minimum requirement and pass and

  67. graduate and compare that to a straight a student who loves learning i am wants to please the student

  68. that's the difference that's the pharisee's righteousness and the christian's righteousness

  69. so for paul the corinthian slogan all things are lawful is misleading and inadequate and he qualifies

  70. it in verse 23 he says all things are lawful but not all things are helpful sure you might have the right

  71. or authority to do such things but that does not mean that such things are helpful or beneficial

  72. for paul it's not enough that we can we can do something we need to ask whether we should do

  73. something and then paul continues all things are lawful but not all things build up so the christian

  74. life is not about claiming our rights but it's about doing things that benefit and build up the church

  75. so that means our decision making process and everything that we do should never be purely self-centered

  76. but oriented toward helping and building others up that's paul's first qualification the proper

  77. christian attitude is one of service selflessness so and that's why even though it might be lawful for

  78. you when you return home from a long day at work to seat yourself on the couch to put your feet up on

  79. the table and relax unwind watch tv but i'm sure it will do you i'm sure that will do some good

  80. to rest and relax but is that what is most helpful for you in that moment is that helpful to your spouse

  81. is that helpful to your children does it build up your children yes it's lawful for you do that but is

  82. it helpful yes it's lawful for you to spend hundreds of dollars on that latest gadget or that latest design

  83. that came out of your favorite clothing shop and i'm sure it will do you some good because it's beautiful

  84. and useful to have those things but is that the most helpful way for you in that time of your life

  85. to spend that money does it benefit only you or does it build up others is there a better way you can

  86. spend that money everyone in the world looks out naturally for their own interests but christians are

  87. called to not only look out for our own interests but also for the interests of others that's why it says

  88. in verse 24 let no one seek his own good but the good of his neighbor this is another way to state

  89. the second half of the greatest commandment that jesus taught us you shall love your neighbor as

  90. yourself because love is by nature self-giving and self-sacrificing and one of the defining

  91. characteristics of love as paul writes later in chapter 13 verse 5 is that it does not insist on its own way

  92. we're supposed to look out for the other's interests and it's amazing that we as humans

  93. selfishly can even turn the greatest commandment uh to our own end for our own selfish purposes

  94. because how many times have you heard this in order to love your neighbor as yourself you need to first

  95. love yourself so take care of yourself treat yourself serve yourself then you will know how to love your

  96. neighbor as yourself have you heard that before i've heard that before that's pop psychology nonsense

  97. that's we know very well how to love ourselves that's taken for granted even the people with the

  98. lowest self-esteem in the world they who hate themselves they love themselves in fact it's because

  99. precisely because they love themselves so much that they hate with such hatred the things that they

  100. don't like about themselves that's why they pity themselves it's because they love themselves

  101. that's why the greatest commandment assumes our self-love and then it tells us to love our neighbor

  102. as we love ourselves self-love is not the foundation of neighbor love it is the impediment to neighbor love

  103. that must be overcome that's why paul says let no one seek his own good but the good of his neighbor

  104. because seeking our own good is often at odds with seeking the good of our neighbor

  105. and who is the neighbor whose good we must seek jesus answered this question in luke chapter 10 25 to 37

    Luke 10 chapter mention

  106. in the parable of the good samaritan and there even though in that time and age the samaritans and jews

  107. hated each other refused to congregate with each other in this story jesus taught the jews who were listening

  108. that even a samaritan is a neighbor so that shows us that a neighbor is not someone who has the same

  109. ethnic heritage or racial heritage as you it's not someone who was born in the same decade as you

  110. part of the same generation it's not someone who has the same academic pedigree as you it's not someone

  111. that shares your preferences opinions and interests a neighbor is anyone you come into contact with

  112. a neighbor is literally your neighbor the ones you're rubbing shoulders with

  113. and this is so insightful because given the busyness of urban living and the transience of the city that

  114. we live in and our relative anonymity in the city because there's so many people it's so easy for us to

  115. ignore the neighbors that are immediately within our reach isn't that true many of us have have more

  116. social interactions with facebook friends that we hardly know and we have never met than our actual

  117. neighbors

  118. because and because our time and resources and our emotional capacities are all limited we could only

  119. really love a handful of people in a tangible way each day so while it is true that we should love

  120. everyone the bible is so wise that god jesus is so wise to command us not to just love everyone in

  121. general but to say love your neighbor because in trying to love everyone in general can make we can

  122. love no one in particular because loving everyone is so general and abstract and so he says concretely

  123. love your neighbor and that's what paul saying paul is saying here let no one seek his own good

  124. but the good of his neighbor do you love your neighbors do you know your neighbors

  125. do you make an effort to say hi to your neighbors and introduce yourselves to them

  126. because you can say hey uh i see you around quite often but i've never had a chance to introduce myself

  127. to you my name is sean what's your name you get to know them talk to them ask them questions how they're

  128. doing and once you get to know them and that you're in have enough relational grounds you could ask them

  129. to come over for dinner talk to them

  130. see what their hopes and fears are

  131. and speak the truth of the gospel over that

  132. please don't say you don't have time to get to know your neighbors

  133. the bible doesn't call this the polite suggestion this is the greatest commandment

  134. it's the matter of priority

  135. in keeping to our own busy schedules we are being selfish with our time and we are seeking our own

  136. good rather than the good of our neighbor that's part of it let no one seek his own good but the good of his

  137. neighbor in verses 25 to 28 paul uses an example to illustrate what this principle looks like

  138. in application he writes in verses 25 to 26 eat whatever is sold in the meat market without raising

  139. any question on the ground of conscience for the earth is the lord's and the fullness thereof

  140. in paul's day much the meat that was sold in the markets were actually from

  141. animals that had been sacrificed at the pagan feasts

  142. so for this reason the jews abstained generally from eating meat whose origin they did not know

  143. they refused to buy meat from the meat markets

  144. however paul says that this should not be an issue for the christian for the conscience of the christian

  145. because there is no need to be concerned about eating such food

  146. and the reason paul gives for this is psalm 24 1 which he quotes

  147. he says the earth is the lord's and the fullness thereof

  148. this is the verse that jews often cited to say that whenever you eat something before you eat you should thank god for it

  149. because it came ultimately from him he's the origin he's the source so to not acknowledge him and to thank him for it is like defrauding him

  150. and not not giving him the due that the thanks that is due to him so the jews often use this verse before they ate

  151. and paul is not using this for another purpose he's saying that if this is true that the earth is the lord's and the fullness thereof

  152. if the whole earth belongs to god and everything that's contained therein

  153. then all the animals in the world belong to god and it doesn't matter who butchered it it's ultimately from him

  154. and so you should be able to eat it with a clean conscience

  155. it doesn't matter that people in their ignorance had offered these animals as sacrifice to idols

  156. these idols are nothing at all and since god alone is creator

  157. all that is part of creation belongs to him

  158. so believers should partake and freely eat the meat as gifts from the lord

  159. now some of you might be thinking about our previous passage and raising some questions

  160. because this case is a bit different from what paul just addressed earlier in chapter 10

  161. because in the first part of chapter 10 he instructed the corinthian believers

  162. not to participate in the pagan festivals and to eat the meat that's sacrificed there

  163. so the difference here is that those those people in the first case people are actually going to

  164. and participating in the sacrifices and in the pagan feasts therefore partaking what is essentially

  165. worship of demons in idolatry and so paul says don't do that don't participate however in this case

  166. he's not talking about being at the feast but rather buying meat from the market and the meat that had come

  167. from a feast but it was sold just at a market he's saying for those things it's fine to consume

  168. so this is really helpful actually when you think about christian ethics because it seems that in terms of

  169. indirect and secondary and tertiary association with the sins of this world the bible seems to

  170. afford considerable liberty to the christian he's saying no that's not an issue as long as you're

  171. not directly participating in the feast you can eat that meat so that's why paul says in verse 27

  172. if one of the unbelievers invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go

  173. eat whatever is set before you without raising any question on the ground of conscience

  174. so paul recognizes it as a distinct possibility that christians

  175. might be invited to unbelievers houses for dinner he says that if they are disposed to go

  176. that they should and not only are they free to join unbelievers for a meal uh he expects that in the

  177. likely event that a meat that is served in that in that setting is a meat that had been formally

  178. purchased purchased from the market that was sacrificed to an idol he said there's no need to

  179. care about its origins you can just eat it with a clear conscience

  180. this is quite liberal uh for for paul's day uh it's hard to uh um grasp how difficult this would

  181. have been for for the jews the christian jews at the time because around this time the jewish manual

  182. called the jubilees book of jubilees which is from about the first century bc uh it says this

  183. chapter 22 verse 16 separate yourself from the gentiles and do not eat with them and do not perform

  184. deeds like theirs and do not become associates of theirs because their deeds are defiled and all of

  185. their ways are contaminated and despicable and abominable that's crystal clear right and so and

  186. but but for the christian paul says it's okay and here's the reason if you look at acts 10 you see an

  187. actual example of this principle being applied by jews and because in the god shows a peter apostle peter a

  188. vision of of unclean all kinds of unclean ceremonially unclean animals uh being lowered on a sheet uh and

  189. then he tells peter kill and eat and peter of course being the observant jew that he is he responds by no

  190. means lord for i have never eaten anything that is common or unclean but then god says to him what god

  191. has made clean do not call common the purpose of that vision was to show peter that god has made the

  192. gentiles clean and that his salvation plan is not just for the jews no longer just for the jews

  193. but includes all the nations of earth and because he had been prepared ahead of time by that vision

  194. when cornelius a gentile military commander in the roman army asks him to come and teach him and his

  195. household about god peter accepts the invitation to go to his house and when he gets there this is what

  196. he says he says you yourselves know how unlawful it is for a jew to associate with or to visit anyone

  197. of another nation but god has shown me that i should not call any person common or unclean

  198. so when i was sent for i came without objection and then peter preaches the gospel to them the holy

  199. spirit falls on the gentiles and they are all baptized as a result so in the old testament right the primary

  200. concern the religious concern of the old testament was to preserve israel's integrity and their

  201. religious purity and the reason for that was because they were the nation the people from whom

  202. jesus christ the savior of the world would come for this reason non-jews could be saved only by

  203. joining the jews becoming a jew by being a part of the nation of israel but that was only the half of

  204. the promise that god had given to abraham god promised abraham that he would be made into a great nation

  205. but he also said in genesis 12 in abraham all the families of the earth shall be blessed

  206. salvation is from the jews but it is not exclusively for the jews and so after christ comes to save his

  207. people and after his death and resurrection he instructs his disciples then to go and make disciples

  208. of all nations that's what happened when christ came and that's why paul's posture toward gentiles

  209. is radically different from the posture that his fellow jews had in his day and so he's able to say

  210. if one of the unbeliever invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go eat whatever is set before you

  211. without raising any question on the ground of conscience do you eat with unbelievers

  212. when you share a home-cooked meal with someone you're going beyond a mere acquaintance to friendship

  213. and paul expects believers to have that kind of table fellowship with unbelievers

  214. is there an unbelieving neighbor who knows you and trust you enough to invite you over for dinner

  215. as christians we are called to be set apart but not to be separatistic we're called to be distinct

  216. from the world but not distant from our neighbors how can we share the gospel with our neighbors if we

  217. don't befriend them and if we don't befriend them how can we claim to love them and because love not

  218. liberty is the basis for christian behavior because we're not supposed to seek our own good but the

  219. good of our neighbors paul adds verse 28 read with me verse 28 but if someone says to you this has been

  220. offered in sacrifice then do not eat it for the sake of the one who informed you and for the sake of

  221. conscience it's not exactly clear of who this someone might be some people assume that because paul had

  222. mentioned in the previous chapters a christian brother who has a weaker conscience for whom you

  223. need to you need to whose conscience you need to guard he thinks that some some people think that

  224. another fellow believer with a weaker conscience was invited along with you and they object saying oh

  225. this is sacrifice this was the meat that was sacrificed to idols so i there's a couple reasons why i don't

  226. think that's likely first is that it says this has been offered in sacrifice a more literal translation

  227. of that is this is sacrifice meat there's a specific word that means sacrifice meat and that's a word that

  228. the pagans used unbelievers used to refer to meat that was sacrificed in pagan worship sacrifice meat

  229. the jews and christians had another word for the exact same type of meat they called it idol meat

  230. and so the fact that this person is saying this is this is sacrifice meat suggests that it's likely to be

  231. an unbeliever who is informing the christian and then secondly not only is a fellow christian that is coming

  232. with the weaker conscience not even mentioned in this context it's unlikely that a fellow guest along with you

  233. would along with this person would know the sacrificial origin of the meat how would they know this meat came

  234. from the the sacrifice was sacrificed to the to the idols they wouldn't know i mean it's not like they mark it

  235. with the stamp right so it's it's it only makes sense that this is probably the host the unbelieving host who is

  236. saying that this meat was sacrificed to idols then at this point of course we could ask uh why uh

  237. uh why is the host would inform the christian of such a thing that this is sacrificed meat

  238. and it seems to me like much like a host you know when you go over to someone's house a host can uh

  239. realize that he cooked food with nuts in it and and realize that you know someone might be allergic

  240. to nuts and so he said hey this has nuts in it by the way as a way of a service as a way of courtesy

  241. informing the guests in a similar way it seems that this gentile who has invited a christian over for

  242. dinner has prepared meat like he normally does from the meat purchase from the market it's meat that

  243. will sacrifice the idols but then he realized that as a christian the christian might have an objection

  244. to it because this was maybe he thinks that to eat such a meat is to partake in idolatry and the

  245. worship that was part of the meat sacrifice so for the sake of christian this unbeliever says do not eat

  246. it i mean so he says this is sacrificed meat and in such a case paul says do not eat it for the sake of

  247. the one who informed you and for the sake of conscience because the unbeliever thinks that to

  248. eat that for the christian would be to condone idolatry or to partake in it and note that paul

  249. doesn't say hey in that context if they serve you serve it to you just explain to them that it's not

  250. idolatry he doesn't say that right because maybe that's not the best context to explain it to them and

  251. how can you be guaranteed that they will believe what you say or be convinced of it do you know

  252. where they are in their conscience right now they think that it's inappropriate for you to eat it as a christian

  253. so don't use your liberty to eat it abstain from it for the sake of the person who informed you

  254. because this might prove to be a stumbling block they might think that idolatry is okay

  255. and not come to know the lord we are to do all things for the good of our neighbors that's the first

  256. principle but what exactly is the good of our neighbors who defines this good that first

  257. principle can't stand alone and that's why we turn to the second point the glory of god in verse 31 he

  258. teaches us a second and more fundamental principle that's supposed to govern and ground our first

  259. principle so he writes this follow with me verse 31 so whether you eat or drink or whatever you do

  260. do all to the glory of god so paul mentions eating and drinking specifically because that fits the

  261. illustration that he just used but and and uh but the principle applies beyond eating and drinking of

  262. course that's why he adds the phrase whatever you do this principle this principle is pervasive it

  263. concerns everything that we do whatever we do from the slightest thing to the weightiest thing

  264. from the smallest to the biggest from the most trivial to the most important everything in our lives is to be

  265. done to the glory of god even insignificant details like what you eat and drink must be made

  266. to the service of the glory of god that these are what is the glory of god exodus 33 18 19 when moses

  267. asks god please show me your glory god answers i will make all my goodness pass before you and will

  268. proclaim before you my name the lord so god's glory is a manifestation of god's goodness it is the

  269. manifestation of god's character and attributes the glory of god is the display of divinity therefore

  270. it's unique to god it's what makes god god so then to glorify god that means to acknowledge who he is to

  271. ascribe glory that is already his to him that's why psalm 29 2 says ascribe to the lord the glory

  272. do his name worship the lord in the splendor of holiness it's not something that we give to him

  273. that he doesn't have it's something that we ascribe to him because it's due to him it's owed to him it

  274. already belongs to him that's what it means to glorify him and so isaiah 43 and and that's what we're

  275. created to do as people we are created to glorify god to ascribe to him glory so isaiah 43 7 says

  276. everyone who is called by my name whom i created for my glory whom i formed and made god created each

  277. of us uniquely like a facet of a prism and when the light of god's glory shines on it we are supposed

  278. to reflect the light of the glory of god and in all its glorious colors that's humanity's purpose

  279. that's the reason you are alive that's the meaning of our lives so eat to the glory of god

  280. read to the glory of god bleed to the glory of god please bogate to the glory of god

  281. read to the glory of godiec to the glory of god babysit to the glory of god sell and buy to the glory of god

  282. teach to the glory of god cook to the glory of god change diapers to the glory of god talk to the glory

  283. of God. Listen to the glory

  284. of God.

  285. Tweet to the glory of God.

  286. Everything we think,

  287. everything we feel,

  288. everything we

  289. say, everything

  290. we do should be for

  291. the singular purpose

  292. of glorifying God.

  293. And there's such freedom

  294. in living that way.

  295. It simplifies your life.

  296. It's important that we get this because

  297. without seeking the glory of God first, we will not

  298. know how to seek the good of our neighbors.

  299. Those two things go hand in hand. That's why

  300. the greatest commandment has two parts. First,

  301. to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul,

  302. mind, and strength. And then to love your neighbor

  303. as yourself. Love for God is the

  304. reason behind one's love for our neighbor.

  305. And one's love for neighbor is a necessary

  306. expression of our love for God.

  307. And that's why he says here, in order

  308. to seek the good of our neighbors, we need to seek

  309. the glory of God. Now, if we don't hold

  310. those two things together, we will misunderstand

  311. verses 32 to 33.

  312. Read that with me.

  313. Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks

  314. or to the church of God, just as I

  315. try to please everyone in

  316. everything I do, not seeking my own

  317. advantage, but that of many, that they

  318. may be saved.

  319. That can be misinterpreted if you're

  320. merely thinking about the good of our neighbor

  321. without thinking about the glory of God.

  322. Because Paul's not saying here

  323. that we should sacrifice our Christian

  324. convictions in order to please our neighbors.

  325. We live among

  326. people whose sensibilities

  327. are frequently offended, whose feelings

  328. are easily hurt. And Paul's

  329. not saying that we shouldn't ever say

  330. or do anything to offend anyone

  331. in that kind of superficial sense.

  332. The gospel of Jesus

  333. Christ itself teaches

  334. us that we are sinners in need of a Savior

  335. and that truth alone is offensive

  336. to the vast majority of unbelievers.

  337. If we

  338. are so concerned about not offending them,

  339. then we would never share the gospel with them.

  340. That's not what Paul is talking

  341. about. Our neighbors have all kinds of wrong ideas

  342. about what is true and just

  343. and right, and it would be sinful

  344. for us to compromise our convictions.

  345. That's not what Paul is talking about.

  346. The word give offense here literally

  347. means give no cause for

  348. stumbling. It's the

  349. negative form of the word that Paul used

  350. a stumbling block in chapter

  351. 8 verse 9 where he said,

  352. But take care that this right of yours

  353. does not somehow become a stumbling

  354. block to the weak.

  355. So it means when he says give no

  356. cause for stumbling, when he says give no

  357. offense to anyone, he means don't

  358. put up any unnecessary obstacles

  359. to people coming to Christ.

  360. Don't make them stumble

  361. in their pathway, in their way to

  362. Christ. That's what Paul means by give no

  363. offense. And this is confirmed by the

  364. purpose clause at the end of verse 33.

  365. 33, what is the purpose for which we

  366. should give no offense to anyone?

  367. That they may be

  368. saved. That's the goal. That's the driving

  369. purpose of not giving offense is that

  370. they may be saved.

  371. So Paul's really kind of reiterating

  372. what he already said in chapter 9,

  373. 20 to 22 where he said,

  374. to the Jews I became as a Jew

  375. in order to win Jews, to those

  376. under the law I became as one under

  377. the law though not being myself

  378. under the law, that I might win those

  379. under the law. To those outside the law

  380. I became as one outside the law, not

  381. being outside the law of God but under

  382. the law of Christ, that I might win

  383. those outside the law. To the weak

  384. I became weak, that I might win

  385. the weak. I become all things to all

  386. people that by all means I might

  387. save some. Paul's not trying to please people for the sake of pleasing people. He's trying to please

  388. people for the sake of pleasing God, for the sake of saving them. That's why in another context in

  389. Galatians, Paul says, like, I'm not seeking the approval of man. He says, am I trying to please man?

  390. If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. That's what Paul says in

  391. Galatians 1. This is not a contradiction. So if you're a people pleaser and you avoid

  392. confrontations like a plague, so much so that you would never dare to share the gospel of Jesus Christ

  393. with anyone lest you offend them, then you're definitely not pleasing people as Paul is talking

  394. about. He said that he was not seeking his own interest, own advantage, but that of many that

  395. they may be saved. People pleaser, on the other hand, are seeking their own interest and their

  396. own advantage so that they could be thought well of, so that they could be not thought of as foolish,

  397. so they could avoid being embarrassed. That's self-seeking.

  398. To interpret these verses in that way, to try not to be afraid of offending anyone in the possible

  399. order, to try to please them in that sense, that's a total distortion of what Paul's teaching in this

  400. passage. That's self-serving cowardice, not self-sacrificing courage, which is what Paul's

  401. calling us to. So the ultimate good of our neighbors, because we see it in the context of

  402. the glory of God, is their salvation. Trying to please everyone in everything, everyone in everything

  403. one does, that parallels doing all to the glory of God. Doing all to the glory of God parallels doing

  404. everything for everyone to please them. And note the categorical nature of Paul's statement. He doesn't

  405. say that he tries to please some people in some things. He says he tries to please everyone in

  406. everything so that he might save them. Do you make your everyday decisions with the salvation of your

  407. neighbors in mind? Do you do everything that is within your power to do it for everyone that is in your

  408. life? When you decide where you're going for dinner, who you invite to your house, which community

  409. events to attend, where to send your kids to school, where to go to school, do you have the salvation of

  410. your neighbors in mind? Or do you have only your interest in mind? Are you content with being on

  411. friendly terms with your neighbors without ever sharing the saving use of Jesus Christ with them?

  412. Sure, you might be seeking their good in some smaller ways, but are you seeking their ultimate good?

  413. Are you seeking to save them? What would it look like then for us to try to please everyone in

  414. everything? Not seeking our own advantage, but that of many that they may be saved. So this is a little

  415. bit hard to apply, right? Because Paul's talking about meat, sacrificed meat that's being sold in the

  416. marketplace. He says, I will go to an unbeliever's house and eat it, but if they mention that it was

  417. sacrificed to idols for his conscience sake, I will refrain from eating it. So that's what Paul,

  418. that's the principle that Paul's teaching us. How does this apply to us? Maybe some of your

  419. coworkers invite you to work social at a local bar. You can go and enjoy yourself

  420. and drink in moderation, right? And that's a great opportunity to share the gospel with them.

  421. There's nothing inherently sinful about drinking. And as long as you stay sober and as long as you're

  422. not leading any other weak believer with the weaker conscience into sin by doing so,

  423. the Christian has the liberty to do so. Like Paul, we can go over to an unbeliever's house and eat his

  424. meat with a clear conscience. For another example, many of our neighbors in Cambridge and greater

  425. Boston area are very environmentally conscious. And you might have a neighbor who is very mindful of

  426. her own carbon footprint, and she might think that using styrofoam cups is destroying our environment.

  427. I have a lot of neighbors who think that way, so this is not just a hypothetical situation.

  428. And so this might be a non-issue for you. You might agree with her, you might not. Maybe you're aware

  429. that if foam cups are recycled, which you can't do through the Massachusetts system, but you can by

  430. taking it to recycling companies like RefoamIt in Newton. If you actually recycle it, it has a much

  431. less, it's much better in terms of carbon footprint than actual paper cups. So maybe you're aware of

  432. that and you have freedom with regard to using styrofoam cups. But regardless, because you know of

  433. your neighbor's convictions and his or her conscience sake, for the sake of your neighbor, you choose not to

  434. put that stumbling block when you have that person over to your house for a party and have styrofoam cups

  435. sitting on that table. I know that seems like a really small thing, right? But eating meat,

  436. sacrificed idol, was a very small thing for Apostle Paul. It doesn't matter. I could eat that whenever

  437. I want, Paul said, but for the sake of that person, I will not eat it. If it's an important issue for your

  438. neighbor, it's an important issue for you for the sake of removing the stumbling block. Or maybe your

  439. unbelieving neighbor invites you to a TV viewing party, but because he knows you're a Christian,

  440. he warns you, just so you know, there's a lot of graphic and gratuitous sex and violence in this show.

  441. Now, there are a lot of good biblical reasons not to watch a TV show that has a lot of graphic and

  442. gratuitous sex and violence. So this may not be something that you could do with a clear conscience

  443. anyway. But let's imagine that you can. You're one of those people who are not affected by these

  444. things, or you're at least convinced that you're not affected by these things, and you don't think

  445. that it's sinful to watch it. Even if you have the liberty regarding an issue, because your neighbor

  446. has warned you for the sake of your conscience, not for your conscience' sake, for the sake of his

  447. conscience, so you don't put a stumbling block in front of him by showing that person that it's okay

  448. for Christians to participate in gratuitous sex and violence, so you don't put a stumbling block in

  449. front of your neighbor, refrain from going to the party, and use that opportunity to say no as an

  450. opportunity to share the gospel and the hope that you have in Christ. If we're honest with ourselves,

  451. it was really hard to come up with examples that might be relevant to you, but you could probably

  452. think of more in your life as things come up as you relate to your neighbors. But if we're honest

  453. with ourselves, we don't do this perfectly, and we are to do all things to the glory of God and the

  454. good of our neighbors, but often we do things for our own glory and our own good. And that's where the

  455. chief problem of humanity lies. Human beings are by default glory thieves. We steal the glory that is due

  456. to God and live to glorify ourselves. We're like that brat that goes to a friend's birthday party and then

  457. makes the party all about himself. Even though all indications, the signs on the walls, the name

  458. written on the cake, all the gifts, everything points to the fact that it's your friend's birthday,

  459. but that brat must make that party all about himself. That's us in this world with all creation

  460. pointing to the glory of God, saying that it was all created for him, and we want to make it all about

  461. us live for our own glory. Or we're like that rude conference attendee who during the Q&A session

  462. after the talk, instead of asking a question like he's supposed to, gives a 10-minute monologue as if

  463. he were the expert on subject and the speaker of the topic. We're vain. We have illusions of grandeur,

  464. and we live like we are unimpressed with and unaware of God's presence. We ought to be learning from him

  465. and submitting to him, but we presume to teach God and make him fit our narrow and erroneous view of life.

  466. That's why Romans 3.23, which we read from, says,

  467. all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Instead of doing all things to the glory of God,

  468. we have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. And because of that, we can't do all things

  469. for the good of our neighbors either. I used that analogy of the prism earlier, that we're supposed to

  470. reflect the glory of God in our unique way in which God created us. But instead of reflecting

  471. and displaying the light of God's glory, we have become chipped and clouded prisms that distort the

  472. light of God's glory, that block it and not let it through. That's the biggest problem facing humanity,

  473. the sin that separates us from God. And if you are not yet a follower of Jesus Christ,

  474. please pay attention to this. Until you deal with this issue, until you make this right,

  475. your life will always feel off kilter. You will feel like a misshapen puzzle piece that you're unable

  476. to make fit into the grand scheme of God's plan for your life and for this world.

  477. You will be successful and accomplished without feeling fulfilled. You will be wealthy and well-fed,

  478. but you will feel empty. You will have many friends and admirers yet feel lonely and not fully known.

  479. You will be recognized and esteemed yet feel like an imposter and a hypocrite.

  480. That's because you're not fulfilling the purpose for which you were created.

  481. Your life needs to be realigned and reordered according to God's will for you.

  482. But none of you can make this right in your own strength. We can't restore our relationship with

  483. God on our own, and that's why God the Father sent his Son, Jesus Christ, to save us. In 2 Corinthians 4,

  484. 4-6, Paul writes that what saves us is the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image

  485. of God. And later in the same chapter, he writes, God has shown in our hearts to give the light of the

  486. knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. How do we get restored to that place where

  487. we're giving glory to God? How do we get restored to that place where we are doing all things to his

  488. glory? And we're no longer falling short of the glory of God. It's the gospel of the glory of Christ.

  489. It's by looking into the face of Jesus Christ who came to save us, though we fell short of God's glory.

  490. Christ was the perfect embodiment of God's glory. And even though he alone deserved that glory,

  491. he didn't glorify himself, he humbled himself, even to the point of dying on the cross for our sins,

  492. so that we can share in his glory.

  493. Paul told us to try to please everyone that they might be saved. That's what Christ did for us.

  494. Romans 15, 1-3 tells us what Christ did. He says, we who are a strong have an obligation to pair with

  495. the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good to

  496. build him up. For Christ did not please himself. But as it is written, the reproaches of those who

  497. reproached you fell on me. Christ traded his glory for our reproach. Christ deserved honor. He deserved

  498. praise. He deserved glory.

  499. Christ should not have been reproached. Christ had every right to please himself.

  500. But he chose not to please himself. To please, to please, to please his father. To please us.

  501. To save us. And that's why Paul closes this section with chapter 11, verse 1.

  502. Be imitators of me as I am of Christ.

  503. Christ, in his self-giving love, became the paradigm by which all of us are supposed to live.

  504. So, before we have a moment of silence to reflect on this, let me ask you some questions.

  505. What rights can you give up for the sake of your neighbors?

  506. What condenses can you give up for their sake?

  507. In what ways have you been living for your own glory?

  508. How can you reform your life?

  509. So that you can live for God's glory.

  510. Let's imitate Christ and do all things to the glory of God and the good of our neighbors.

  511. Please take a moment in silence to reflect on this and to respond to this in prayer.

  512. Amen.

  513. Amen.

  514. Amen.

  515. Amen.

  516. Amen.