Sermon
Love Supreme
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Transcript
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Let's pray together.
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God, we want to be addressed by you from your word this morning.
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We want to get to know the God who is love better, and through that become more loving people,
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people who are more closely conformed to the image of your Son, who loved us with the perfect love.
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So help us, speak to us, lead us. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
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A few years ago, Mohamed El-Aryan made the news when he resigned from his job as the CEO of PIMCO,
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which was one of the largest American investment management firms.
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He was obviously doing quite well for himself career-wise, but he had a wake-up call
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when his 10-year-old daughter handed him a note that listed 22 milestones in her life that he had missed.
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The list included her first day at school, her first soccer match of the season,
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a parent-teacher conference, and a Halloween parade, among other things.
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He got defensive because he had a good excuse for every single missed event.
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He said to travel, important meetings, an urgent phone call, etc.
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But he says, quote,
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He realized that his life was disordered, that his priorities were off.
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And the work that was supposed to be a means of providing for his daughter
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ended up preventing him from caring for her as he should.
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In this passage, Apostle Paul warns the Corinthian believers of a similar mistake.
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They were growing in and boasting in their spiritual gifts,
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and they thought that they had already arrived spiritually
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because, as Paul acknowledged in the opening of his letter in chapter 1-7,
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they were not lacking in any gift.
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They had a lot of spiritual gifts.
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But they were so enamored with these gifts
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that they were losing sight of the most important Christian virtue, love.
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And in the context of corporate worship,
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they flaunted their gifts, and they used them in disruptive ways.
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And as a result, they were not loving one another as they should.
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The gifts were given as expressions,
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intended to be used as expressions of love,
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but instead they became obstacles to love within the Corinthian church.
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So in this passage, Paul teaches us that we should pursue love above all things
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because while the spiritual gifts are temporary, love is eternal.
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That's the main point of this sermon,
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and I'm going to outline that in the following ways.
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The priority of love in verses 1-3,
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the properties of love in verses 4-7,
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and the permanence of love in verses 8-13.
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Paul concluded the previous chapter by saying,
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but earnestly desire the higher gifts,
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and I will show you a still more excellent way.
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So he will resume what he said about the higher gifts in chapter 14.
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The higher gifts are gifts that have the most potential for edifying,
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building up the body of Christ.
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But then he digresses here in chapter 13
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to talk about the still more excellent way,
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which is the way of love.
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Because love is supposed to be the context
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in which all the spiritual gifts are to be exercised.
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And in order to demonstrate this priority of love,
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before we get into that,
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it's actually helpful to think about the portrait of the Corinthians
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that we have up to this point.
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Because the Corinthians believers, it seems, from their slogans,
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were fixated on maximizing their own freedoms,
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doing whatever is permissible for them to do.
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But they weren't focused on building up others.
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So they were talking about what is permissible for them,
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but not what is helpful for others.
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And so at the heart of the Corinthians misunderstanding
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that we've seen up to this point of the letter
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is a misguided understanding of spirituality.
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They were focused on self-love rather than selfless love.
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And they hid their selfishness under the guise of spirituality.
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And so this is really a corrective to that.
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And Paul contrasts love here
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with several of the spiritual gifts
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that he had just mentioned in chapter 12.
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There he listed tongues, right,
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last in his list of spiritual gifts
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in order to de-emphasize it
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because it's the gift that was causing
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the most problems in the church.
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But here he mentions it first
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in order to emphasize
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that even the gift of tongues
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should be subjected to the priority of love.
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So he says, read with me,
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if I speak in the tongues of men and of angels
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but have not love,
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I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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But Corinthians believed
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that they spoke in the tongues of men and of angels.
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And the word tongues
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is the same word in Greek that means languages.
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So here tongues of men refer to human languages
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while the tongues of angels
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is likely a reference to the spiritual gift of tongues
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that Paul's already mentioned in chapter 12.
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And the Corinthians boasted
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that they can speak all forms of speech, right,
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not merely human speech
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but also angelic speech.
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And because of that, they became prideful.
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But Paul issues a stinging rebuke.
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He says, it doesn't matter
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that you speak in the tongues of men and of angels.
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If you don't have love,
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you are a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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A noisy gong and clanging cymbal
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together represent these harsh,
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you know, grating, noises, discordant sounds.
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It's a cacophony of noise.
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So you think that you're self-important
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because you're speaking in tongues.
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If you don't have love,
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it's all a bunch of meaningless noise.
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That's what Paul's trying to tell them.
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And add to the metaphor
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the fact that clanging cymbal
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is the instrument that is used.
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It's particularly associated
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with the pagan cults at the time.
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They used the clanging cymbals in pagan worship.
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So he's saying that by using tongues
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without any interpretation
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as the Corinthians were doing it,
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as we see in chapter 14,
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they were not only making fool of themselves
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by speaking unintelligible words
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that nobody understood,
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but they were also imitating
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the practice of the pagans
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who expressed themselves
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in disorderly, ecstatic utterances.
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And then he continues in verse 2,
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and if I have prophetic powers
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and understand all mysteries
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and all knowledge,
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and if I have all faith
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so as to remove mountains,
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but have not love,
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I am nothing.
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Here Paul mentions the gift of prophecy,
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word of knowledge and faith,
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which are all spiritual gifts
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that he mentioned earlier in chapter 12.
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Prophecy is a gift
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that Paul regularly considers
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to be one of the most important gifts
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for building up the church.
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Yet even having the gift of prophecy
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would be futile without love.
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Likewise, the gift of knowledge,
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however deep and vast,
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the gift of faith,
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even if it's strong enough
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to remove mountains,
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they are nothing apart from love.
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Notice how emphatic Paul is.
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He says,
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if I understand all mysteries
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and all knowledge,
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and if I have all faith
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so as to remove mountains,
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but have not love,
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I am nothing.
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The math is pretty clear, right?
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It doesn't matter how large
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the number is.
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If you multiply it by zero,
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the result is zero, right?
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Ten times zero is zero.
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A million times zero is zero.
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Similarly, it doesn't matter
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what degree of theological knowledge
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you have
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or what level of faith
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that can move mountains you have.
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If you have no love,
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it amounts to zero.
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Even if you've had all
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of the spiritual gifts
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that's listed in chapter 12,
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and even if you had each of them
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to their fullest measure
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without love,
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you would amount to nothing
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in the sight of God.
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In verse 3,
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Paul goes even beyond
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the spiritual gifts
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and to expound
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the absolute necessity
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and priority of love.
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He says,
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If I give away
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all I have
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and if I deliver up
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my body to be burned
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but have not love,
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I gain nothing.
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These two phrases
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describe what we might consider
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the two most total examples
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of self-sacrifice.
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So first,
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giving away all I have
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refers to giving away
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all of our possessions
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to the poor.
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Voluntarily impoverishing ourselves
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in order to enrich others.
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And this is something
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that Jesus commends, right?
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It's something that he said
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in Matthew 19, 21.
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He told a rich young man,
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If you would be perfect,
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go and sell what you possess
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and give to the poor
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and you will have treasure
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in heaven
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and come follow me.
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So Paul's not saying here
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that giving away
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one's possessions
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to the poor is not good.
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In fact,
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Paul's not saying
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that any of these things
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are not good.
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He knows that the gifts
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are necessary
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and he commends them
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for our use in chapter 13.
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The spiritual gifts are good.
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Giving to the poor
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is good
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and giving away
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your life for God
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is good
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but if we do any of these things
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without love,
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it is pointless
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is what he's trying to say.
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So Paul's not saying
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that telling us
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to pursue love
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instead of the spiritual gifts.
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He's telling us
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to eagerly desire
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the spiritual gifts
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in the context of love
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as we pursue love
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above all things.
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Similarly,
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the second expression
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refers to a form
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of self-sacrifice.
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The ESV translates it
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as if I deliver up
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my body
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to be burned
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but if you have
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an NIV
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that you're using,
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if you're using
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a different translation,
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it might say this way.
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It says,
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if I give over
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my body
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to hardship
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that I may boast.
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This translational
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discrepancy
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actually is due
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to a real textual variant
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in the manuscripts
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that we have available
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upon which
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this English translation
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is based.
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So in the Greek,
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the words burned
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and the word boast
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are spelled
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almost identically
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and so at some point
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there was a scribal error
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and so it could mean
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if I deliver up my body
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that I may boast
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or it could mean
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if I deliver up my body
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that I may be burned.
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The translators
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of the NIV
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took it as boast
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and in order to help us
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make sense of what that means,
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they added the word hardship.
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So it reads,
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if I give over my body
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to hardship
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that I may boast.
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This is really
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one of the few places
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in the Bible
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where it is not clear
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what the original text said
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but I think the NIV
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gets it right
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for two main reasons.
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First,
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the oldest and best manuscripts
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we have available to us
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all preserve the word boast.
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It doesn't say burned.
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Second,
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generally,
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when deciding between
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textual variants like this,
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the more difficult reading
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is generally to be preferred
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meaning
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because a scribe
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is more likely
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to take something
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that he thinks
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is difficult to understand
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and smooth it out
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and make it easier
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to understand
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rather than going
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the other way around.
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So it's probably,
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he probably read something like
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if I deliver up my body
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that I may boast
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and then thought,
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whoa,
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what in the world
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does that mean?
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And then he thought,
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okay,
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the boast must be a typo.
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It must mean burned
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and he slightly changed,
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changed one letter
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to make it something,
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so that's probably
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likely what happened.
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And that would have made
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a lot of sense
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to the scribes as well
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because in Paul's day
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when Paul was writing,
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Christians were not really
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burned for their faith.
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But later in time,
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there was a frequent
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punishment people
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for Christians.
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They were burned
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for their faith.
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So a scribe
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that's looking at
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reading that verse later
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would have made
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a lot more sense
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for that person
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to think that this
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probably means burned.
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So sorry for that
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digression,
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just to explain
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so that you don't read
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two different versions
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and go,
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oh no,
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the Bible's not reliable.
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But don't worry
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because the meaning
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of the clause
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is not substantially changed
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even if we opt
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for the word boast
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because verse 3
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then reads this way,
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If I give away
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all I have
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and if I deliver up
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my body that I may boast
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but have not love,
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I gain nothing.
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So Paul's concluding
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this section
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with climactic demonstrations
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of self-sacrifice.
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So first one
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is giving up
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all our belongings
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and then second
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is giving up
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even our own body
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for the sake of others.
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And giving up
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our own body
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certainly includes
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martyrdom
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but it's not
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limited to that.
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So the early
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Christian writings
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show that Christians
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sometimes surrendered
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their bodies
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themselves as slaves
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so that they can use
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the profit
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that they make
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from that
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to help the poor
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in their midst.
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So that would be
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an example
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of something like that.
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Paul uses
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this similar construction
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in chapter 9, 15.
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He says,
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I have made no use
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of any of these rights
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to be compensated
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for I would rather die
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than have anyone
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deprive me
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of my ground
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for boasting.
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Right?
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So that's kind of
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I think that's what
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Paul has in mind here.
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He gave up his right
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to be compensated
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for ministry.
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He gave over his body
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to manual labor
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in order to not
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so that he can preach
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the gospel free of charge
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so that he would not
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be a burden to others.
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So he gave up his body
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in that way
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so that he might boast.
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That was his ground
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for boasting
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that he was not
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preaching Christ
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for money
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but that he was
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preaching Christ
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for his own sake.
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And so that's
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the kind of thing
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that's envisioned here
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to give over our body
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to deliver love
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of my body
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that I may boast.
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So this
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what Paul has in mind
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is anything
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that follows the pattern
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of Christ's self-sacrifice
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because Christ said
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this is my body
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which is delivered
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which is for you.
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And so then
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Paul is saying
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even the greatest
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possible thing
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even the greatest
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example of
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self-sacrifice
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that a Christian
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can do for God
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and his church
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even the delivering
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up of one's own body
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would be of no account
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without love.
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Throughout this letter
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he mentions many times
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how Corinthians
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were looking for gain.
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They were seeking
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to benefit themselves
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and here he tells them
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the only way
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you gain something
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is by giving up
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everything
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for the sake of love
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for your people
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for your brothers
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and sisters in Christ.
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So are you seeking
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to help yourself
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or to help others
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with your life?
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What are some good things
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in your life
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that you are tempted
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to pursue
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without love?
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If you start
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and run
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a Fortune 500 company
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and give away
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billions to charity
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but you don't have love
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you would be nothing.
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if you become
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the next big
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social media star
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a YouTube celebrity
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who covers
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Christian songs
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and holds concerts
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all over the world
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or the next celebrity
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pastor who speaks
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at conferences
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and writes bestsellers
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but you have not love
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you would be nothing.
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If you heal
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dozens of people
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of their diseases
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or if you prophesy
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with such striking accuracy
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so that you are
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sought after globally
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but you have not love
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you would be nothing.
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Do you get the point?
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This is God's
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radical economy.
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Spiritual currency
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not made up of love
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is worthless
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in his valuation.
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And all that we must
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all that we do
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must flow from
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and be filled with
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love.
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That's the priority
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of love.
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Okay, so we get
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the priority of love
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but what does love
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look like?
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That brings us
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to the second point
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the properties
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of love.
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In verses 4 to 7
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Paul tells us
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what love is
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then what it isn't
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and then concludes
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by reiterating
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what love is.
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So he begins
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in verse 4
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by telling us
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two positive
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expressions of love.
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He says love
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is patient
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and kind.
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These two
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properties of love
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describe love
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in its passive
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and active forms.
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So the first word
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patient is literally
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a combination
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of two words
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that mean anger
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and a long time.
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So it means
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that you don't get
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angry for a long time.
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It means that you
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are long suffering.
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This is the passive
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expression of love.
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How it responds
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to the offenses
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and provocations
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of others.
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And the second word
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kind refers to
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doing good.
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In the Old Testament
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it is commonly used
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to describe God's
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goodness.
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It says that
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he instructs sinners
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in the way
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because he is good.
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Scripture describes
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God's rules
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as good
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and that God
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is good
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and does good.
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That's the same word
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here for kind.
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So along the same lines
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in the New Testament
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Jesus commands
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in Luke 6.35
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love your enemies
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and do good to them.
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So it's the disposition
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to do good
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even to our enemies
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as God does.
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That's what kindness
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means.
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So if patient
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describes the passive
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posture of love
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kind describes
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the active posture
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of love.
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What we're seeking
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to do
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to love
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is to suffer
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long
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and to do
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good.
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Love is patient
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and kind.
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Are you patient
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with others?
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Are you long
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suffering with others
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when they offend you
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or hurt you?
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Or do you flare up
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quickly
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to seek vengeance?
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Are you kind
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to others?
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Are you favorably
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disposed toward others?
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Do you seek
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their good?
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And after the two
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positive descriptions
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of love
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which really
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summarizes love
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Paul continues
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by telling us
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the negative
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descriptions
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of what love
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isn't
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what love is not.
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And it's not
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accidental
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that these
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negative
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descriptions
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are strikingly
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accurate descriptions
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of the Corinthian
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believers themselves.
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So Paul
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is not writing
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an abstract
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essay here
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on what love
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is.
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He's writing
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a letter
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to the Corinthian
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church
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and he's
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applying
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Christian love
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to their
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particular situation.
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And so you'll
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see that as we go.
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He says
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love does not
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envy.
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So the
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adjectival form
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of the same
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word envy
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was used
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earlier in
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chapter 3
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verse 3
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to describe
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the rivalries
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that divided
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the Corinthian
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believers.
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So Paul
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said that
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they were
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behaving
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in a
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fleshly
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way
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because
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there
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was
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jealousy
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and
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strife
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among
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them.
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The
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jealousy
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that's
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the same
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word
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that's
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translated
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here
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as envy.
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So envy
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is a covetous
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desire for
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something that
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belongs to
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another
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and therefore
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it produces
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rivalry.
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It means
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to begrudge
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the status
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or blessing
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of another
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person.
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And because
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of that
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it's contrary
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to love.
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If we love
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someone
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right?
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Think about
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if we love
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someone truly
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we delight in
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their blessing
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don't we?
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we enjoy
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it.
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We delight
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in it when
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something good
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happens to
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them.
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So it's
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when we
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don't love
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someone that
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we begrudge
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their good.
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It's the
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opposite of
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being kind.
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Those who
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are kind
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seek the
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good of
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others.
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Those who
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are envious
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begrudge
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the good
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of others.
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Are you
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envious of
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others'
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prosperity?
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Their
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blessings?
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Their
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giftedness?
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Their
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status or
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position?
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Envy is a
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failure of
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love and
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we are
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rightly
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alarmed when
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we feel
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envy rising
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up in
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our hearts.
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And love
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also does
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not boast.
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The word
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translated
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boast refers
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to heaping
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praise on
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oneself.
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It's to
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be a
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bragger
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really.
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A pretentious
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windbag.
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That's another
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way to
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translate that
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word.
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It refers
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to any
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form of
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self-exalting
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self-aggrandizing
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speech.
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Once again
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the Corinthians
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were guilty
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of this.
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They are
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described as
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boasting in
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their misguided
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spirituality in
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chapter 4,
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7 and
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chapter 5,
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verse 6.
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So do you
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like to then
-
make yourself
-
to be larger
-
than you
-
really are?
-
Do you
-
exaggerate your
-
stories in
-
order to
-
impress others?
-
Do you
-
like to boast
-
about your
-
past accomplishments,
-
present projects,
-
and your grand
-
plans for the
-
future?
-
Do all your
-
conversations
-
somehow find
-
their way back
-
to you?
-
Are you
-
seeking
-
attention for
-
yourself?
-
Is your
-
speech aimed
-
at lifting
-
yourself and
-
not building
-
up others?
-
That's
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boasting.
-
Boasting is
-
contrary to
-
love because
-
in order to
-
love others
-
we must in
-
humility count
-
them more
-
significant than
-
ourselves and
-
look not only to
-
our own interests
-
but also to the
-
interests of
-
others.
-
And boasting
-
because it's by
-
nature self-focused
-
it precludes
-
others and
-
orientation that is
-
centered around
-
others that
-
love requires.
-
Similarly love
-
is not
-
arrogant.
-
The word
-
arrogant literally
-
means puffed
-
up and it
-
means to be
-
full of hot
-
air.
-
So Paul again
-
used this word
-
five times,
-
all five times
-
and he used
-
it to describe
-
the Corinthian
-
believers.
-
He says that
-
they were puffed
-
up in favor of
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one against
-
another in
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chapter 4
-
verse 6.
-
They were
-
arrogant toward
-
Paul as well
-
chapter 4
-
verse 18 to
-
19.
-
And they were
-
arrogant even
-
in the midst
-
of their sins.
-
They were
-
boasting that
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oh we're
-
so free,
-
so spiritual,
-
we can
-
indulge in
-
these sins.
-
They were
-
puffed up.
-
And they were
-
destroying their
-
brothers and
-
sisters,
-
Christian brothers
-
who had
-
weaker
-
consciences by
-
indulging in
-
their freedom
-
in this way.
-
They're puffed
-
up.
-
And this
-
arrogance is
-
antithetical to
-
love because
-
love requires
-
high regard for
-
others but
-
those who are
-
puffed up have
-
the highest regard
-
for themselves.
-
Their opinions,
-
their strengths,
-
their righteousness
-
and they are
-
self-confident
-
and self-sufficient
-
which leads
-
necessarily to
-
disregard of
-
others.
-
For this reason
-
they seldom ask
-
questions that
-
reflect their
-
concern for
-
others.
-
They really only
-
ask questions
-
that serve their
-
interests.
-
They won't
-
condescend to
-
associate with
-
the lowly but
-
they presume to
-
bring down those
-
above them to
-
their own level.
-
They are marked
-
by selfish ambition
-
and greedy for
-
honor beyond that
-
of their peers.
-
That's what it
-
means to be
-
arrogant.
-
Love is also
-
not rude which
-
refers to
-
behaving in a
-
disgraceful,
-
dishonorable or
-
an inappropriate
-
way, in an
-
unseemly way.
-
The word was
-
used in chapter
-
7 verse 36 to
-
describe the
-
Corinthians once
-
again who were
-
not behaving
-
properly toward
-
their betrothed.
-
And then in
-
verse chapter 11
-
2 to 16 Paul
-
wrote that men
-
and women who
-
blur their
-
differentiated
-
complementary genders
-
in the context of
-
corporate worship are
-
dishonoring their
-
heads and bringing
-
disgrace to
-
themselves.
-
So once again
-
that's rude
-
behavior, inappropriate
-
behavior, dishonorable
-
behavior.
-
And similarly in
-
chapter 11 verse 22
-
Paul scolded the
-
wealthier members of
-
the church who were
-
humiliating and
-
dishonoring the
-
poorer members of
-
the church at the
-
Lord's Supper.
-
Once again that's
-
being rude,
-
inappropriate,
-
dishonorable,
-
disgracing.
-
And so it refers
-
to the word rude
-
to all those who
-
indulge their
-
immediate selfish
-
desires without
-
concern for how
-
they are violating
-
the conventions and
-
courtesy of their
-
relationships.
-
Once again it's
-
opposed to love
-
because love
-
propels us outward
-
toward others but
-
rudeness drains
-
everything inward
-
toward ourselves.
-
Are we behaving in
-
a seemly way,
-
honorable,
-
appropriate way in
-
our relationships?
-
Love also does not
-
insist on its own
-
way.
-
In chapter 10 Paul
-
corrected the
-
Corinthians because
-
they were disregarding
-
the consciences of
-
others and insisting
-
on their own way.
-
So he commanded them
-
at that point,
-
let no one seek his
-
own good but the
-
good of his neighbor.
-
And he urged them
-
to follow his own
-
example.
-
He said,
-
I'm trying to please
-
everyone in everything
-
I do, not seeking my
-
own advantage but that
-
of many that they may
-
be saved.
-
All of these
-
negative descriptions
-
up to this point
-
are related.
-
And people who
-
insist on their
-
own way are
-
unloving and
-
they're arrogant.
-
It's because they
-
think so highly of
-
their own ideas,
-
they are willful and
-
stubborn and don't
-
take counsel or
-
criticism well.
-
When they are
-
proven wrong,
-
they are reluctant
-
to admit fault
-
and slow to reform
-
their ways.
-
Even with relation
-
to God, those who
-
are arrogant insist
-
on their own way.
-
When things are
-
going as they think
-
they should, they
-
pat God on the
-
back and say,
-
wow, you're great,
-
you're doing great.
-
When things don't
-
go their way, they
-
become disgruntled
-
and bitter toward
-
God because they
-
think they know
-
better than God
-
how their life
-
should be.
-
They insist on
-
their own way.
-
Now, this doesn't
-
mean that loving
-
people, that in
-
order to be loving
-
people, we need to
-
necessarily be
-
pushovers.
-
because that's
-
not what that
-
means.
-
It doesn't mean to
-
never insist on
-
our own way at
-
all.
-
So, Jonathan
-
Edwards, who was a
-
17th century American
-
pastor and theologian
-
who preached on
-
this passage, he
-
put it this way.
-
He says, a truly
-
humble person is
-
inflexible in
-
nothing but in the
-
cause of his Lord
-
and Master, which
-
is the cause of
-
truth and virtue.
-
In this, he is
-
inflexible because
-
God and conscience
-
require it.
-
But in things of
-
lesser moment, in
-
which do not
-
involve his
-
principles as a
-
follower of Christ,
-
and in things that
-
only concern his
-
own private interests,
-
he is apt to
-
yield to others.
-
Right?
-
It's always a
-
treasure to meet
-
humble people like
-
that, isn't it?
-
Right?
-
People who are
-
unflinching and
-
unyielding lions when
-
it comes to God and
-
his will revealed in
-
Scripture.
-
Yet, people who are
-
soft and tender like
-
lambs when it comes
-
to anything else.
-
Whenever possible, a
-
loving person puts
-
the interests of
-
others ahead of his
-
own.
-
And in contrast, an
-
unloving person
-
insists on his own
-
way.
-
Love is not
-
irritable.
-
A loving person is
-
not easily provoked
-
to anger.
-
This, too, is
-
connected to pride and
-
arrogance.
-
Those who think
-
highly of themselves
-
make much of little
-
offenses committed
-
against themselves,
-
and so they are
-
easily aroused to
-
anger.
-
Being irritable is
-
the opposite of being
-
patient and forbearing.
-
A loving person
-
exercises self-control
-
for the sake of
-
others, while an
-
unloving person
-
gives full vent to
-
his anger to
-
gratify himself for
-
his own sake.
-
The word resentful is
-
a translation of a
-
phrase that says
-
literally, it does not
-
count or reckon
-
evil.
-
It does not count
-
evil.
-
The NIV puts it
-
this way.
-
Love keeps no record
-
of wrongs.
-
We find a parallel
-
phrase in Paul's
-
second letter to the
-
Corinthians, chapter
-
5, verse 19.
-
It says, in Christ,
-
God was reconciling the
-
world to himself, not
-
counting their
-
trespasses against
-
them, and entrusting
-
to us the message of
-
reconciliation.
-
So love does not
-
count evil in the
-
same way that God
-
does not count our
-
trespasses against us.
-
It's similar to
-
Proverbs 10, 12, which
-
says that hatred
-
stirs up strife, but
-
love covers all
-
offenses.
-
A loving person is a
-
forgiving person.
-
An unloving person is
-
a resentful person.
-
And unloving people
-
have a tendency to
-
count not only real
-
evil, but also just
-
perceived evil.
-
They are quick to
-
presume guilt and
-
suspect others instead
-
of giving them the
-
benefit of the doubt.
-
Counting the evil of
-
others and being
-
resentful is contrary
-
to love because we
-
always give the
-
benefit of the doubt
-
to people we love.
-
When it comes to our
-
spouses, our children,
-
our best friends, we
-
think well of them.
-
We give them a break.
-
We don't hold grudges
-
against them.
-
We naturally make
-
light of their
-
shortcomings and put
-
the best possible
-
construction on whatever
-
they do.
-
And that's because we
-
love them.
-
But when it comes to
-
people whom we are
-
prejudiced against,
-
people we antagonize,
-
then we are quick to
-
point out and make a
-
big deal of their
-
shortcomings and put
-
the worst possible
-
construction on their
-
wrongdoings.
-
We count all their
-
evil and we resent
-
them.
-
Resentfulness is also
-
rooted in arrogance
-
because we fancy
-
ourselves to be above
-
the sins and failures
-
that we observe in
-
other people that we
-
find their sins and
-
failures to be so
-
inexcusable.
-
We are lenient with
-
ourselves but harsh
-
with others.
-
We are forgiving with
-
ourselves but resentful
-
of others.
-
This is contrary to
-
Christian love.
-
But the fact that love
-
does not count evil,
-
that it's not resentful,
-
does not mean that we
-
must condone evil and
-
never right the wrong
-
committed by other
-
people.
-
Verse 6 tells us that
-
love does not rejoice at
-
wrongdoing but rejoices
-
with the truth.
-
The word wrongdoing is
-
elsewhere translated
-
as unrighteousness or
-
injustice and the word
-
truth is the word that
-
refers to God's
-
faithfulness.
-
That God is always true
-
to his character, to who
-
he is.
-
He's faithful to himself.
-
This means that Christian
-
love opposes injustice
-
and unrighteousness and
-
rejoices with the truth
-
that God has revealed to
-
us.
-
So true Christian love is
-
always rooted in truth.
-
And once again this was
-
something that the
-
Corinthians were missing.
-
They said they rejoiced
-
and boasted in their
-
wrongdoings.
-
Chapter 5 verse 6.
-
They condoned an
-
incestuous brother who
-
was living in their midst.
-
And they indulged in
-
sexual immorality with
-
prostitutes.
-
But Paul tells them in
-
chapter 5 verse 13,
-
purge the evil person from
-
among you.
-
Personal forgiveness does
-
not mean that we tolerate
-
evil.
-
sin must still be addressed
-
and wrongdoing must be
-
made right.
-
And sometimes people will
-
gloss over clear scripture
-
teachings to condone sin
-
and in the name of
-
tolerance.
-
But such tolerance is
-
antithetical to love.
-
Because we tolerate sin
-
which is eternally detrimental
-
to someone.
-
So that we could avoid
-
conflict.
-
That's not loving.
-
That's hating them.
-
We're putting our desire
-
to avoid conflict above
-
the desire for the good
-
of the other person.
-
That kind of tolerance
-
is not love.
-
That's selfish and
-
unloving.
-
True love is rooted
-
in truth.
-
And after describing at
-
length what love is not,
-
in verse 7, Paul finally
-
returns once again to
-
describe what love is.
-
He says,
-
love bears all things,
-
believes all things,
-
hopes all things,
-
endures all things.
-
This verse is structured
-
like chiastically.
-
So that means the two
-
items at the beginning
-
and the end,
-
they match.
-
And the two middle items,
-
they match with each other.
-
So love bears all things,
-
parallels love,
-
endures all things.
-
And they both deal with
-
the present circumstances.
-
And love believes all things,
-
and love hopes all things.
-
They both look toward the future.
-
Love bears all things,
-
endures all things,
-
meaning there is nothing
-
that love cannot face.
-
Love can bear all things,
-
endure all things.
-
Love perseveres to the end.
-
That's what it's meant.
-
And I think here,
-
it's likely that believing all things
-
and hoping all things,
-
they refer to relationship
-
between people,
-
just like all the other
-
descriptions so far
-
has done.
-
So what does that mean,
-
to believe all things
-
and hope all things?
-
And I don't think
-
that all things,
-
that all things
-
are repeated here
-
for rhetorical emphasis.
-
And it conveys
-
the resilience of love.
-
But the fact that love
-
believes all things,
-
I don't think means
-
that we should be gullible
-
or credulous people
-
who believe everything
-
and everyone.
-
We need to be discerning
-
about what we believe.
-
But rather,
-
I think what it does mean
-
is that we should be disposed
-
to trust people,
-
to give them the benefit
-
of the doubt,
-
to believe the best about them
-
as an expression
-
of our love for them.
-
Instead of suspecting people
-
and distrusting them,
-
love believes all things.
-
Do we love one another
-
in this way?
-
Or are we suspicious
-
of one another?
-
Skeptical toward one another?
-
Or are we inclined
-
to believe and trust
-
one another?
-
Similarly, love
-
hopes all things.
-
Not in the sense
-
of naive optimism,
-
but in the sense
-
that love never
-
despairs of people.
-
We never give up on them.
-
We never lose hope
-
for the people we love
-
in all things.
-
Do you love people
-
in this way,
-
even when they seem
-
to take a turn
-
for the worse?
-
Do you continue
-
to pray for them?
-
Do you continue
-
to hope for them?
-
Or are you quick
-
to give up on them
-
and dismiss them
-
as a hopeless case?
-
And it's because
-
love believes all things
-
and hopes all things
-
that love bears all things
-
and endures all things.
-
Without faith
-
in what God can do
-
within our relationships,
-
through our church,
-
through Christ
-
in our church,
-
without hope
-
for one another,
-
our love will not
-
bear all things
-
or endure all things.
-
And having spoken
-
of the priority of love
-
and the properties
-
of love,
-
Paul turns to
-
the permanence of love.
-
He says in verse 8,
-
love never ends.
-
And that sets up
-
the contrast
-
between the gifts
-
of the Spirit
-
that will seize
-
and pass away
-
and love which never ends.
-
Right?
-
So read with me.
-
As for prophecies,
-
they will pass away.
-
As for tongues,
-
they will cease.
-
As for knowledge,
-
it will pass away.
-
For we know in part
-
and we prophesy in part,
-
but when the perfect comes,
-
the partial will pass away.
-
These are all references
-
to spiritual gifts
-
that were mentioned
-
early in chapter 12.
-
So prophecy, tongues,
-
utterance of knowledge.
-
And of course,
-
knowledge of God
-
itself doesn't pass away
-
as verse 12 makes clear.
-
But the gifts
-
of the word of knowledge,
-
the utterance of knowledge
-
does pass away.
-
It will pass away
-
because it will
-
no longer be necessary.
-
Our partial knowledge
-
will be subsumed
-
by the full knowledge
-
we will have
-
when our union with God
-
is consummated.
-
Similarly,
-
if the tongues
-
really is the tongues
-
of angels,
-
as I think the context
-
seems to indicate,
-
mentioned in verse 1,
-
then it doesn't make sense
-
that tongues would fade,
-
that it would pass away
-
in the age to come.
-
But the gift of tongues,
-
wherein the speaker
-
utters mysteries
-
that cannot be understood,
-
apart from interpretation,
-
that will cease.
-
And the gift of tongues,
-
which is partial
-
and incomplete,
-
will no longer be necessary
-
because all will be able
-
to speak and understand
-
one another fully in heaven.
-
The Corinthian believers
-
were much enamored
-
with the spiritual gifts
-
and they were misusing
-
these gifts
-
in the context
-
of corporate worship.
-
And they believed
-
that the possession
-
of these spiritual gifts
-
indicated their spiritual arrival.
-
I'm already experiencing
-
heavenly life here on earth.
-
I'm already like
-
the angels in heaven.
-
That's how they believed
-
themselves to be
-
because they possessed
-
these spiritual gifts.
-
But Paul is sharply
-
contradicting them
-
when he says this.
-
He's saying that
-
the spiritual gift,
-
contrary to what you think,
-
they don't belong
-
to the future age to come.
-
Rather,
-
they belong to the present age.
-
The spiritual gifts
-
are not a sign
-
of our arrival.
-
It's a sign
-
of our waiting
-
that the perfect
-
has not yet come.
-
We know only in part.
-
We prophesy
-
only in part
-
and this partial knowledge
-
of God
-
and partial prophetic revelation
-
are characteristic
-
of the present age
-
that will pass away.
-
And eventually,
-
we will know God fully
-
and we will see
-
his revelation fully
-
so that the gift
-
of knowledge,
-
the gift of prophecy,
-
they will be made obsolete.
-
That's what he means
-
when he says
-
when the perfect comes,
-
the partial will pass away.
-
And Paul's not merely saying
-
that just these three gifts,
-
tongues, prophecy,
-
and the word knowledge
-
are going to pass away.
-
He's using them
-
representatively
-
to say that all the gifts
-
that he is mentioning,
-
all the spiritual gifts
-
will pass away.
-
And it's an influential
-
Christian theologian
-
named Karl Barth,
-
he puts it this way.
-
Because the sun rises,
-
all lights are extinguished.
-
We turn on the lamps at night
-
because there is no sunlight.
-
But when the sun rises,
-
we turn them off
-
because there's no need
-
for those inferior lights.
-
In the same way,
-
when spiritual gifts exist
-
in the present,
-
only until we are fully united
-
with the giver
-
of all good gifts.
-
And they will be
-
no longer necessary
-
when we are united with him.
-
Paul also uses the knowledge
-
to explain this in verse 11.
-
He says,
-
When I was a child,
-
I spoke like a child.
-
I thought like a child,
-
I reasoned like a child.
-
When I became a man,
-
I gave up my childish ways.
-
And the Corinthians boasted
-
that their spiritual gifts
-
were a sign
-
of their spiritual maturity,
-
that they've already
-
been made perfect.
-
But he tells them
-
that that's actually,
-
those gifts are a sign
-
of immaturity,
-
of incompleteness.
-
Not immaturity in the sense
-
that people who don't have
-
the gifts are more mature
-
than people who have them,
-
but in the sense
-
that all the gifts
-
are an indication
-
of immaturity
-
because they point
-
to the fact that
-
our union with Christ
-
has not been perfected.
-
Just as we expect
-
grown men and women
-
to put away
-
their childish ways,
-
in the age to come,
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the spiritual gifts
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will be put away.
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Paul continues in verse 12.
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For now we see
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in a mirror dimly,
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but then face to face.
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Now I know in part,
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then I shall know fully,
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even as I have been fully known.
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And the word dimly here
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can be more literally
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translated as indirectly,
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or by a riddle.
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That's what it literally means.
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And this verse
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is actually an allusion
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to numbers 12, 6 to 8,
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where God says,
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When there is a prophet
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among you,
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I, the Lord,
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reveal myself to them
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in visions.
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I speak to them
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in dreams.
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But this is not true
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of my servant Moses.
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He is faithful
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in all my house.
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With him I speak
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face to face,
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clearly,
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and not in riddles.
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He sees the form
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of the Lord.
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Why then were you not afraid
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to speak against
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my servant Moses?
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This is why Moses
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is considered the greatest
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of all Old Testament prophets.
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God spoke to him
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face to face,
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whatever that means,
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in the context,
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not in riddles.
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And God addressed
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him directly,
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rather than indirectly,
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through dreams
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and visions.
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So the contrast here
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of seeing in a mirror
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dimly,
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and seeing face to face,
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is not merely
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a contrast between
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a low resolution image,
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and a high resolution image,
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but it's a contrast
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between a mediated view
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of God,
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and a face to face
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view of God.
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Between an indirect view
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of God,
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and a direct view
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of God.
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And NIV gets this right
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as well.
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He says,
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for now we see
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only a reflection
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as in a mirror.
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Then we shall see
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face to face.
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We see and experience
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God through the gifts
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of the Spirit
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like a reflection
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in a mirror.
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We see a true reflection.
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It is true,
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but it's only
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a reflection.
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We see indirectly,
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but not directly.
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We see partly,
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but not fully.
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Right?
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And we should long
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for this day.
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I long for that day
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when we'll see him
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face to face.
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I mean,
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sometimes when I'm
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coming home
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from working outside,
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I call my wife
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on my way home
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so I can talk to her.
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And then my conversation
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with her,
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of course,
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is indirect,
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right?
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It's mediated
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through a phone.
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But when I arrive
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at home,
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I put away the phone
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because now
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I can talk to her
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in person.
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I see her face to face.
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The medium
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is no longer necessary
-
because now
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I'm face to face
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with the person.
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In the same way,
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the gifts
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are but a reflection.
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They're a medium
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through which
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we know and experience God.
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But a day
-
is coming
-
when we will see God
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face to face
-
and the gifts
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will no longer
-
be necessary.
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Now I know in part,
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then I shall know fully
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even as I have been
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fully known.
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And as he enjoins
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love on the Corinthian believers,
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Paul's mind
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comes to two other
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central,
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kind of cardinal
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Christian virtues.
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And he concludes
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this passage
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by mentioning
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them in verse 13.
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So now faith,
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hope,
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and love
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abide,
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these three.
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But the greatest
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of these
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is love.
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Paul frequently
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mentions faith,
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hope,
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and love
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together
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as a triad
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in his writings.
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And those three virtues
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really encompass
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the entirety
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of the Christian life.
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so they are
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really the defining
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qualities of the Christian.
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Because Christians
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are those who live
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by faith
-
and not by sight.
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We have entrusted
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ourselves to the Lord
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Jesus Christ
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and his salvation.
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We are,
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Christians are those
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who live with hope
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in their future inheritance.
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Like we,
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knowing that the Holy Spirit
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is our deposit,
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our down payment,
-
guaranteeing the future
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consummation of those
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spiritual blessings.
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And the Christians
-
live with love
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for God
-
and neighbor,
-
having received
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and having been transformed
-
by the love of the Father.
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So faith,
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hope,
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and love.
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Faith in Christ,
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hope in the Spirit,
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the love of the Father.
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These are the defining
-
traits
-
of the Christian.
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But so,
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if that's the case,
-
why does Paul say
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that the greatest
-
of these is love?
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Both faith
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and love
-
are Christian virtues
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for the present.
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But they are not
-
for eternity.
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Hebrews 11,
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1 says,
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Now faith
-
is the assurance
-
of things hoped for,
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the conviction
-
of things not seen.
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We have faith.
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We need faith now
-
because we don't see.
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Faith is characteristic
-
of this present age.
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And when we see God
-
face to face,
-
our faith will turn
-
to sight.
-
Similarly,
-
Romans 8, 24
-
says,
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For in this hope
-
we were saved.
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Now hope that is seen
-
is not hope.
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For who hopes
-
for what he sees?
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Again,
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we hope
-
because we do not
-
yet see.
-
But when we see
-
God face to face,
-
our hope
-
will materialize
-
and will become
-
reality.
-
This is why
-
love is the greatest.
-
Faith,
-
hope,
-
are temporal,
-
but love
-
is eternal.
-
So now,
-
in the present,
-
faith,
-
hope,
-
and love
-
abide,
-
these three.
-
But the greatest
-
of these
-
is love
-
because love
-
is eternal,
-
as Paul said
-
in verse 8.
-
All three
-
abide in the present,
-
but only love
-
will abide
-
for eternity.
-
For this reason,
-
we should pursue
-
love above all things
-
because while the
-
spiritual gifts
-
are temporary,
-
love
-
is eternal.
-
This passage
-
is in one sense
-
probably the easiest
-
passage for the
-
pastor to preach
-
because after all,
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who doesn't like
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to talk about love,
-
right?
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Everybody wants
-
more love in the world.
-
But in another sense,
-
this passage is
-
perhaps the most
-
challenging and
-
controversial among
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the passages
-
in 1 Corinthians.
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And this is because
-
it teaches us
-
that most people
-
in the world
-
are severely mistaken
-
in their understanding
-
of what love is.
-
people don't love
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this way.
-
Indeed,
-
they can't love
-
this way
-
because they do not
-
know the love
-
of God.
-
1 John 4,
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7-10
-
teaches us
-
that God
-
is love
-
and that only
-
those who have
-
been born of God
-
and know God
-
can therefore
-
love.
-
If you are not
-
yet a Christian,
-
then you have not
-
been born of God.
-
But here's how
-
you can know
-
the love of God.
-
In verse 4,
-
Paul said that
-
love is patient
-
and kind.
-
Remember,
-
that's the description
-
of love.
-
Summary of what love
-
is like,
-
properties of love.
-
In Romans 2-4,
-
he uses those
-
very two words
-
to describe
-
God's love
-
toward us.
-
And he says this,
-
Do you presume
-
on the riches
-
of His kindness
-
and forbearance
-
and patience,
-
not knowing
-
that God's kindness
-
is meant to lead
-
you to repentance?
-
You have spurned
-
and offended
-
God,
-
your creator,
-
by living for yourself
-
and not for Him.
-
You have sinned
-
against Him
-
by presuming
-
to know
-
that you know
-
better than He does
-
and breaking His laws.
-
He has cared for you
-
and He has provided
-
for you
-
and yet you have
-
snubbed Him
-
and ignored Him
-
in your life
-
and yet God
-
has not poured out
-
His wrath against you.
-
He has been
-
forbearing with you,
-
patient,
-
enduring all things.
-
so that you
-
might have a chance
-
to turn
-
back to Him.
-
And God
-
has also been
-
kind to you.
-
Scripture uses
-
the word kindness
-
to describe Christ.
-
In Ephesians 4, 32
-
it says,
-
Be kind to one another,
-
tenderhearted,
-
forgiving one another
-
as God in Christ
-
forgave you.
-
The kindness
-
that we are to show
-
one another
-
is exemplified,
-
embodied
-
in the kindness
-
that Christ showed us
-
in forgiving us.
-
And how did Christ do that?
-
God shows His love
-
for us in this
-
that while we were
-
still sinners,
-
Christ died for us.
-
God loved us
-
not when we were
-
starting to turn around
-
and follow Him
-
but while we were
-
still going headlong
-
in the wrong direction.
-
God loved us
-
while we were
-
still unlovable.
-
God loved us
-
while we still
-
hated Him.
-
We rebelled against Him.
-
We were His enemies.
-
That's the kindness.
-
of God.
-
If you want to know
-
what love is,
-
look into the face
-
of Jesus Christ.
-
That's where you see love.
-
That's where you meet love.
-
And it's only
-
when you meet
-
love of Christ,
-
experience the love
-
of Christ,
-
that you can be
-
transformed to love
-
in this way.
-
all your longing
-
for love in your life,
-
all your pursuit
-
of love,
-
you're longing
-
for God.
-
You're pursuing
-
God.
-
So run after Him
-
today.
-
Let's pray together.
-
Actually,
-
let's take some time
-
to reflect on that
-
in silence,
-
to respond to it.
-
Reflect on your love,
-
love of God for you,
-
and how that
-
calls us to love
-
one another.
-
Reflect on that
-
and we'll respond
-
by praying together,
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corporately.
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Thank you.