Sermon
Mind Your Own Business
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God, it's so easy
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to get lost in the delusions of our own grandeur.
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To think that we must be involved in everything.
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We must have an opinion about everything.
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That we must control everything.
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But Lord, you alone are sovereign.
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You alone are king.
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And you have assigned to us
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our particular set of responsibilities,
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roles, relationships
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to be faithful in.
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And you call us to childlike faith
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to entrust the rest to you.
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Teach us that humility.
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Give us that faith this morning
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as we hear from you
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and from your word in Proverbs 6,
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verses 1 to 19.
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In Jesus' holy name we pray.
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Amen.
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We're in Proverbs 6,
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verses 1 to 19.
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I will read it out loud for us.
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My son,
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if you have put up security for your neighbor,
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have given your pledge for a stranger,
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if you are snared in the words of your mouth,
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caught in the words of your mouth,
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then do this, my son,
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and save yourself,
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for you have come into the hand of your neighbor.
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Go hasten and plead urgently with your neighbor.
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Give your eyes no sleep
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and your eyelids no slumber.
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Save yourself like a gazelle
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from the hand of the hunter,
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like a bird from the hand of the fowler.
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Go to the ant, O sluggard.
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Consider her ways and be wise.
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Without having any chief officer or ruler,
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she prepares her bread in summer
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and gathers her food in harvest.
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How long will you lie there, O sluggard?
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When will you arise from your sleep?
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A little sleep,
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a little slumber,
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a little folding of the hands to rest,
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and poverty will come upon you like a robber
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and want like an armed man.
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A worthless person,
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a wicked man,
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goes about with crooked speech,
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winks with his eyes,
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signals with his feet,
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points with his finger,
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with perverted heart,
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devises evil,
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continually sowing discord.
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Therefore calamity will come upon him
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suddenly.
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In a moment,
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he will be broken beyond healing.
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There are six things that the Lord hates.
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Seven that are an abomination to him.
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Haughty eyes,
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a lying tongue,
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and hands that shed innocent blood.
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A heart that devises wicked plans,
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feet that makes haste to run to evil.
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A false witness who breathes out lies
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and one who sows discord among brothers.
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This is God's holy and authoritative word.
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This is an unusual passage
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because it's sandwiched between two long sections
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that are both warnings against adultery.
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So Proverbs 5,
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that Ray preached on last week,
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and Proverbs 6, 20 to 7, 27.
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And you wonder what it's doing here
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between these two passages.
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But there is a thematic connection.
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Proverbs 5 warned in verse 3 and verse 20
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of a forbidden woman,
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which means literally a strange woman,
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as Ray pointed out last week.
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A woman that is strange
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rather than known or familiar to you
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because she is another man's wife.
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And to bolster this argument,
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Proverbs 5, verse 10,
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once again used the word stranger
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and said this to paraphrase,
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you wouldn't labor long and hard
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only to see all the fruit and income
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of your labor go to the strangers,
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would you?
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And Proverbs 5, 17 added,
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should your springs be scattered abroad,
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streams of water in the streets?
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Let them be for yourself alone
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and not for strangers with you.
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So it's a recurring theme,
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a running theme that unites these passages,
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the thing of the identity of a stranger.
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That's in fact the main argument of chapter 5,
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that to commit adultery
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is to transgress your own boundary,
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that to move beyond what is rightfully yours,
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to infringe upon what is rightfully another's.
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Because as 1 Corinthians 7, verse 4 teaches us,
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when you get married,
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the husband's body does not belong to him anymore,
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it belongs to his wife.
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And the wife's body does not belong to her anyway,
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it belongs to her husband.
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And so when you get married,
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you belong to one another
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and there's this mutuality and interdependence.
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And when you tamper with another man's wife
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or another woman's husband,
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you violate that sacred mutuality and interdependence.
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And so I don't know if you've ever gotten into a wrong car in the parking lot
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because it looked exactly like yours or tried to get in.
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I mean, one time a car with the exact same make and model and color as mine
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was for some reason parked right next to mine at Market Basket.
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And as I came out of Market Basket,
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this was at the time my key fob battery was dead.
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So I was using a manual key to open it.
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And here I might try to open this car and it wouldn't turn,
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the key wouldn't turn.
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And so I looked more closely at the car
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and recognized a scratch I'd never seen before.
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And now I'm getting frustrated.
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Did someone just scratch my car and leave?
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And then, of course, to my relief,
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I realized it's actually not my car at all.
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And my car was right next to it.
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And, of course, as soon as I realized that I was kind of looking around
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because I'm a little embarrassed, you know,
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you don't want to be seen trying to get into someone else's car.
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And the reason for that is because you have no business
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trying to get into someone else's car.
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It's not your car, right?
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And that's, but that's exactly what we do when we commit adultery.
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You have no business being in that relationship.
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It's not, that is not the relationship that God has put you in.
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You are transgressing the boundaries God's given you.
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We wouldn't ever think after a long day of work
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to go home to someone else's house to sleep.
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Not only would they call the police for intruding,
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but it's just not our place.
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It's not homey.
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We wouldn't rest it.
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We wouldn't think of it.
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But yet we often, in other areas of our life,
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think about things that way.
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We transgress the boundaries that God has given us.
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And so that was the main argument with chapter 5.
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Really, the main argument against adultery in Proverbs chapter 5
Proverbs 5 chapter mention
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was mind your own business.
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Spouses have a mutual obligation to one another,
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and whether you have consent or not
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with a married woman or married man does not justify it
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because there's a sanctity of marriage that has been established.
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You have no business meddling in that relationship.
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And chapter 6 is actually continuing that same theme.
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So in verses 1 to 5, it tells us to mind our own business,
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to not become a surety to a stranger's debt.
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Don't co-sign a stranger's loan.
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Verses 6 to 11 tell us to mind our own business,
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to put our heads down and go to work,
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to make provisions for our own life instead of being a slugger
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that does not work unless someone forces him to.
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Verses 12 to 19 tell us also to mind our own business,
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to not be an instigator that sows discord among brothers.
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So to summarize, the main point of this passage is
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mind your own business and attend to the responsibilities
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and relations God has given to you specifically.
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Now please don't misunderstand me.
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Sometimes we use that phrase, you know,
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mind your own business,
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to rebuff people who do rightfully have an interest in our lives.
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Like our own parents,
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our own spouses,
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our own bosses,
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our own brothers and sisters in Christ.
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If we tell these people to mind their own business,
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that's just selfish irresponsibility and rebellion.
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To mind our own business in a biblical sense
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is the opposite of selfish irresponsibility.
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It means to be responsible citizens.
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It means to fulfill our own obligations.
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It's what 1 Thessalonians chapter 4 verses 9 to 12 talk about.
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It says,
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Now concerning brotherly love,
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you have no need for anyone to write to you.
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For you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another.
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For that indeed is what you are doing
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to all the brothers throughout Macedonia.
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But we urge you brothers to do this more and more
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and to aspire to live quietly
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and to mind your own affairs
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and to work with your hands
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as we instructed you
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so that you may walk properly before outsiders
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and be dependent on no one.
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Notice that in that passage,
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this 1 Thessalonians chapter 4,
1 Thessalonians 4 chapter mention
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that living quietly,
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minding our own affairs,
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working with our hands
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so that we may walk properly before outsiders
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and be dependent on no one,
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that these things are not a sign of selfishness
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but rather an expression of brotherly love.
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That's how that passage began.
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One of the important ways we love one another
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within the family of God
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is by faithfully fulfilling
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the responsibilities and roles
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God has given us particularly.
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And that faithfulness
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is born of faith in God's sovereignty
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that He is the one that's ultimately in charge
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and oversees all that we do not have our business in.
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And when we faithfully do that,
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this passage teaches us
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that in verses 1 to 5,
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that we will not be a surety.
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Verses 6 to 11,
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that we will not be a sluggard.
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And verses 12 to 19,
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that we will not be a sower of discord.
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So that's the way my outline
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as we go through this passage.
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So first,
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minding our own business
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and attending to the responsibilities
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and relations God has given us
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entails not becoming a surety.
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A surety is a person
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who makes him or herself
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a guarantor of another person's debt.
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A cosigner of a loan.
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It says in verses 1 to 3 of our passage,
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My son,
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if you have put up security for your neighbor,
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have given your pledge for a stranger,
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if you are snared in the words of your mouth,
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caught in the words of your mouth,
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then do this, my son,
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and save yourself,
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for you have come into the hand of your neighbor.
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Go,
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hasten and plead urgently with your neighbor.
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Now this is not,
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I want to add this important qualification,
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this is not a prohibition
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of helping and being generous to our neighbors.
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For example,
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Deuteronomy chapter 15,
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verses 7 to 11,
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it specifically commands
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that if among you,
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one of your brothers should become poor
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in any of your towns within your land
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that the Lord your God is giving you,
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you shall not harden your heart
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or shut your hand against your poor brother,
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but you shall open your hand to him
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and lend him sufficient for his need,
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whatever it may be.
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Take care,
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lest there be an unworthy thought in your heart
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and say,
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the seventh ear,
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the ear of release is near,
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and your eye look grudgingly on your poor brother
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and you give him nothing.
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And he cry to the Lord against you
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and you be guilty of sin.
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You shall give to him freely
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and your heart shall not be grudging
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when you give to him
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because for this,
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the Lord your God will bless you
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in all your work
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and all that you undertake.
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For there will never cease to be poor in the land.
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Therefore,
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I command you,
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you shall open wide your hand to your brother,
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to the needy and to the poor in your land.
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So on the sabbatical year,
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to give you some Old Testament background,
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the seventh year,
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God's people were commanded
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to cancel the debt
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of all of their fellow Israelites.
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And God is saying in this passage
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that even when the sabbatical year
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is just around the corner,
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that his people should lend generously,
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knowing full well
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that they may never get the money back
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because of the sabbatical year.
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God always explicitly prohibited his people,
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on top of that,
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from charging interest on loans.
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Exodus 22, 25 says,
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if you lend money to any of my people with you
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who is poor,
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you shall not be like a money lender to him
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and you shall not exact interest from him.
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And of course,
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the goal of that command
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is to prohibit exploitation
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since those who seek to borrow money
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are usually the neediest people.
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That's why they're coming to you,
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to borrow money.
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And so it usually was considered unjust.
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It's an injustice,
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an exploitation of someone
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in their time of greatest need
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and that it actually worsened
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their financial condition
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instead of improving it.
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So that was the logic behind that.
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In certain cases,
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Israelites were allowed
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to demand securities for a loan.
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The security was usually a garment
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which represented the borrower himself,
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meaning that should the borrower
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fail to repay his debt,
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he would be pressed into servitude
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in order to render a service
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equal to the amount of the debt he owed.
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But even that practice
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was prohibited in scripture
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for certain more vulnerable populations.
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For example,
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Deuteronomy 24, verse 17 says,
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you shall not pervert the justice
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due to the sojourner,
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a foreigner that doesn't have
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legal rights within the country,
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or to the fatherless,
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or take a widow's garment in pledge.
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The sojourners who lacked legal protection,
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orphans who lacked fatherly protection,
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widows who lacked their husband's provision
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and protection,
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were never in any circumstance
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to be taken advantage of.
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You are not allowed
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to take a security from them.
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And so,
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the Bible encourages
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love for neighbor
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and generosity toward the poor,
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and Proverbs chapter 6,
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verse 1,
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does not contradict that.
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What's in view here
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is something different.
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It is warning against
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putting up security
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for your neighbor,
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on behalf of your neighbor.
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You're not lending here
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to a needy neighbor.
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You're not giving
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to a poor neighbor.
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You're, in essence,
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assuming their debt
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and taking full responsibility
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for their financial situation.
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And biblical wisdom literature
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consistently warns
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against that practice.
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And note the word
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at the end of verse 1
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that's parallel
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to the word neighbor.
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My son,
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if you have put up security
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for your neighbor,
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have given your pledge
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for a stranger.
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That should ring a bell
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because of all the connection
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to the theme of stranger
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we've seen in chapter 5.
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Stranger,
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that's the keyword
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that explains
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what he means
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by the word neighbor here
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because the word neighbor
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in Hebrew
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has a very wide
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semantic range.
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It can mean
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a lot of different things
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depending on its context.
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Similar to the English word friend,
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right?
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When you say
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a friend,
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you could mean
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an acquaintance,
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a Facebook friend
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that you have never seen before.
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Or you could mean
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a friend,
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meaning your best friend
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that you grew up with
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and is,
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is,
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has been,
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was in your wedding
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or is going to be
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in your wedding,
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right?
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So friend can mean
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a number of different things.
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Same thing with the word neighbor
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in scripture.
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And so the word neighbor here
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is given context
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by the word stranger.
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So this stranger
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is not someone
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that is familiar to you.
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This is not a brother
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that you are responsible for.
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This is someone
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that is not within
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your circle of relationships
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and responsibilities.
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Remember that
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in chapter five,
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the adulterous woman,
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another man's wife,
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was described
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as a strange woman.
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And Proverbs chapter 27,
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verse 13
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makes a very interesting
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suggestive connection.
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It says,
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take a man's garment
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when he has put up security
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for a stranger
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and hold it in pledge
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when he puts up security
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for an adulteress.
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So what might,
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what might be in view here
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is that a seductive adulteress
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can lure a foolish man
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into putting up security
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for her debt.
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So if you're putting up security
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for your wife or sister,
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that's one thing.
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But for a stranger,
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for an adulteress,
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don't ever do that.
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That's what the problem,
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what this problem is saying.
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Let me ask you,
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have you ever rashly
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taken responsibility
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for something
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that is not
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your responsibility?
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Have you ever tried
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to play the hero
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in something
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that really
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is none of your business?
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Have you
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been out of your depths
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because you have been
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meddling in
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trying to control
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things that are
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outside of your control?
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The exhortation
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in this proverb
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is mind your own business
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and attend
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to the responsibilities
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and relations
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God has given you.
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And putting up security
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for a stranger
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is not one
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of those responsibilities.
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But if you've already
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done that,
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there's advice
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for you here too.
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If you have already
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done that,
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as verse 2 says,
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you've given your pledge
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for a stranger.
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If you are snared
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in the words of your mouth,
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caught in the words
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of your mouth,
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verse 3 says,
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then do this,
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my son,
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and save yourself.
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For you have come
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into the hand
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of your neighbor.
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Go hasten
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and plead urgently
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with your neighbor.
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The phrase,
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give your pledge,
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in verse 2,
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is literally,
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you know,
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clap your hand,
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you know,
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clap your hand
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in Hebrew.
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It's a gesture
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that people back then
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used to seal
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an agreement,
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much like nowadays
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we shake hands,
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right?
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And so,
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there's a word play
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then in verse 3,
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you have come
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into the hand
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of your neighbor.
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In other words,
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if you clap your hand
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to make yourself
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a surety for a stranger,
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you come into the hand
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under the power
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of that stranger.
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You have been snared
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or caught
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in the words
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of your mouth
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by what you said
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with your very own mouth.
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You have entrapped yourself.
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This is self-inflicted
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predicament.
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In order to save yourself
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from this
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unfortunate situation,
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you should go
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hasten
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and plead urgently
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with your neighbor.
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Now,
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you may have
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a footnote
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in your Bible
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next to the word
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hasten.
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The English
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standard version
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that I'm using
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as a footnote
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there,
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that the word
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can also be translated
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humble yourself.
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I think that's
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a better translation.
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The word that is
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translated as
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plead urgently
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and literally means
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to bother.
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So,
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if you take those things,
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the New American Standard
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Bible translates
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the end of verse 3
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this way,
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I think is very
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helpful,
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accurate.
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It says,
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Go,
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humble yourself
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and importune
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your brother.
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Importune your brother.
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It means to humble yourself
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and plead urgently
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and persistently
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even to the point
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of embarrassment.
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Like the importunate widow
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in Luke 18
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verses 1-8
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who persistently
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pleads for justice
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to a wicked judge
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so that the judge,
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even though he has
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no regard for God
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or humanity,
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he says,
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because this widow
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keeps bothering me,
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I will give her justice
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so that she will not
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beat me down
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by her continual coming.
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So,
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that's what Proverbs
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chapter 6 verse 3
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is telling us to do.
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The stranger
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that you put up security
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for is obviously
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not going to be eager
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to release you
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so plead urgently
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and persistently
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and shamelessly
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so that he or she
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might release you
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from the legal obligation
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before the payment
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is due.
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Now,
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the father continues
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his admonition
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in verses 4-5.
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Give your eyes
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no slumber,
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no sleep,
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and your eyelids
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no slumber.
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Save yourself
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like a gazelle
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from the hand
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of the hunter,
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like a bird
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from the hand
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of the fowler.
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Once again,
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the word hand
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is repeated.
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You see it four times
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in these first five verses.
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At first,
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the son foolishly
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clapped his hand
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in pledge
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so that he came
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into the hand
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of his neighbor.
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Now,
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he must free himself
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from this trap
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like a gazelle
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from the hand
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of the hunter,
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like a bird
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from the hand
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of the fowler.
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It's the stranger's hand
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that's in view here
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that he must escape
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like a gazelle
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or the bird from.
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And this extended metaphor
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of hunting
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and being hunted
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and caught
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and ensnared
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is really helpful
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because it inverts
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the assumed
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power dynamic.
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Right?
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When you put up
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security for a stranger,
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when you co-sign a loan,
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it makes you feel like
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you are in charge.
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Right?
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It makes you feel like
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you are the benefactor
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and that this debtor
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is subject
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to your goodwill.
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But in reality,
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what this passage
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is teaching us
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is when you put up
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security for a stranger,
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you become the subject
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to his goodwill.
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You are now
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his beneficiary.
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He has successfully
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ensnared you
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and you will be impoverished
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if he refuses
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to repay his own debt.
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So moments ago,
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he was begging you
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to put up security
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for him,
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but now you must
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beg him
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to release you.
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That's the folly
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of becoming a surety.
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Instead,
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it says,
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we should mind
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our own business
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and attend
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to the responsibilities
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and relations
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God has given to us.
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Right?
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I mean,
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think about how urgent
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this is.
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A bird caught
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by the fowler
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is not going to say,
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well,
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let me take a nap first
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and finish eating this food
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and then try to flee.
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Right?
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I mean,
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that's not how you think
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when you're trapped.
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Similarly,
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you should think about it
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that way.
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If you have come under,
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pledge,
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if you become a surety,
-
give your eyes no sleep,
-
your eyes no slumber,
-
you have been trapped.
-
Extricate yourself
-
as soon as you possibly can.
-
It's the first order
-
of business.
-
And he says,
-
untimely sleep
-
and dilly-dallying
-
and procrastination
-
and laziness
-
can ruin you.
-
And that thought
-
of untimely sleep
-
and laziness
-
and procrastination,
-
it prompts the father
-
to warn the son
-
against being a sluggard
-
in verses 6 to 11.
-
That's my second point.
-
He says in verses 6 to 8,
-
Go to the aunt,
-
O sluggard,
-
consider her ways
-
and be wise.
-
Without having any chief officer
-
or ruler,
-
she prepares her bread
-
in summer
-
and gathers her food
-
in harvest.
-
Now,
-
he uses
-
a form of direct address.
-
He says,
-
O sluggard,
-
in order to dramatize
-
and emphasize this warning.
-
But the implied audience
-
is still the son.
-
He doesn't want the son
-
to become like the sluggard.
-
So he says,
-
Go to the aunt,
-
you know,
-
waking him up
-
from his slumber.
-
Go.
-
Consider her ways
-
and be wise.
-
The father points out
-
that an aunt
-
gathers and stores grain
-
during the summer
-
so that he can survive
-
the winter
-
when there is little
-
food to gather.
-
Not only is this
-
relatively insignificant creature
-
more forward-thinking
-
and industrious
-
than the sluggard,
-
it's also more
-
responsible
-
and self-starting.
-
Right?
-
Look at it again.
-
It says,
-
Without having any chief
-
officer
-
or ruler,
-
she prepares her bread
-
in summer
-
and gathers her food
-
in harvest.
-
Nobody orders the aunt
-
to do that.
-
Go grab the breadcrumb
-
at this time
-
from this place
-
and bring it
-
and store it here.
-
Nobody decides
-
her duties for her
-
but the aunt
-
does it anyway.
-
She knows from her
-
God-given insect instinct
-
what her responsibilities
-
and relations are
-
and she fulfills them
-
admirably.
-
The aunt knows
-
to mind her own business
-
and attend to her
-
God-given responsibilities
-
and relations.
-
The sluggard,
-
on the other hand,
-
does not.
-
So the aunt's
-
industry
-
and independence
-
put the sluggard
-
to shame.
-
Verses 9-11
-
describe the sluggard
-
this way,
-
How long will you
-
lie there,
-
O sluggard?
-
When will you
-
arise from your sleep?
-
A little sleep,
-
a little slumber,
-
a little folding
-
of the hands
-
to rest
-
and poverty
-
will come upon you
-
like a robber
-
and want
-
like an armed man.
-
The interrogative words
-
emphasize time,
-
right?
-
How long
-
will you
-
lie there?
-
When will you
-
arise from your sleep?
-
So there's an implied
-
rebuke in those words.
-
The sluggard has already
-
been lying there
-
and sleeping for far
-
too long.
-
From the perspective
-
of the father,
-
the sluggard's slumber
-
is endless.
-
When?
-
How long?
-
It seems endless.
-
But from the perspective
-
of the sluggard,
-
note the contrast
-
that the father
-
gives voice to
-
in verse 10,
-
it's just
-
a little sleep,
-
a little slumber,
-
a little folding
-
of the hands
-
to rest.
-
Notice how vague
-
and incremental
-
that is, right?
-
I mean,
-
it seems harmless.
-
Oh, a little sleep.
-
Oh, I'll just snooze
-
just for a little while.
-
Oh, I'll get that done
-
just a little later.
-
Right?
-
Bible scholar
-
Derek Kittner
-
puts it insightfully.
-
He says,
-
he does not,
-
the sluggard,
-
he does not
-
commit himself
-
to a refusal
-
but deceives himself
-
by the smallness
-
of his surrenders.
-
So by inches
-
and minutes,
-
his opportunity
-
slips away.
-
The sluggard
-
is reluctant
-
to make a firm
-
time commitment.
-
So he delays
-
incrementally
-
and indefinitely.
-
He hates deadlines.
-
He shirks
-
responsibilities.
-
He flees
-
pressure.
-
Sleep is like
-
a drug
-
for the sluggard.
-
It's the means
-
by which he escapes
-
the painful realities
-
of life,
-
the difficulties
-
of life.
-
And we can be tempted
-
to think in the same way,
-
can't we?
-
What are some urgent
-
and important things
-
in your life
-
that you keep pushing back
-
little by little?
-
Perhaps it requires
-
discipline.
-
Perhaps it's unpleasant.
-
Perhaps it's
-
seeking reconciliation
-
with the Christian
-
brother or sister
-
that you have
-
sinned against.
-
perhaps it's
-
calling your parents.
-
Perhaps it's
-
getting a laborious
-
work project done.
-
Perhaps it's
-
applying for jobs.
-
Perhaps it's
-
studying for exams.
-
Perhaps it's
-
getting up early
-
in the morning
-
to read your Bible
-
and pray.
-
Maybe it's exercising.
-
Maybe it's finding
-
and committing
-
to a local church.
-
What have you
-
been delaying
-
unnecessarily
-
to your own peril?
-
You might think
-
it's just a little
-
folding of the hands
-
to rest,
-
but the Father warns,
-
and poverty
-
will come upon you
-
like a robber
-
and want
-
like an armed man.
-
The Father warns
-
of poverty
-
and want.
-
He doesn't merely
-
say that you won't
-
be rich.
-
He doesn't merely
-
say that you will
-
be middle class.
-
No, he says
-
that you will
-
be impoverished
-
and lack
-
the basic
-
necessities of life.
-
The Hebrew word
-
that is translated
-
poverty here
-
in verse 11
-
only occurs
-
in the book
-
of Proverbs.
-
It always
-
has a negative
-
connotation.
-
It doesn't refer
-
to just not
-
having enough
-
disposable income
-
and living from
-
paycheck to paycheck.
-
No, it refers
-
to destitution,
-
not having
-
enough food
-
to eat.
-
And it's not
-
a coincidence
-
that the Bible
-
never uses
-
the adjective
-
poor
-
to describe
-
the condition
-
of a sluggard
-
that becomes
-
destitute.
-
The word
-
poor
-
in contrast
-
to the word
-
poverty
-
is used
-
in the Bible
-
primarily
-
to refer
-
to those
-
who are poor
-
because of
-
circumstances
-
that are
-
outside of
-
their control.
-
And almost
-
uniformly
-
they are
-
the object
-
of God's
-
special compassion
-
and care
-
in Scripture.
-
So Proverbs
-
19.17
-
says,
-
whoever is
-
generous
-
to the
-
poor
-
lends
-
to the
-
Lord
-
and he
-
meaning
-
God
-
will repay
-
him
-
for his
-
deed.
-
God cares
-
for the
-
poor
-
but the
-
impoverished
-
sluggard
-
is another
-
story
-
altogether.
-
This is
-
not the
-
case
-
for charity.
-
Poverty
-
and want
-
in wisdom
-
literature
-
are result
-
of divine
-
judgment
-
for sins
-
such as
-
slothfulness,
-
stinginess,
-
love of luxury,
-
carelessness,
-
and idle talk
-
which we'll all
-
see throughout
-
the book of
-
Proverbs
-
as we go
-
through.
-
And poverty
-
is not
-
deferential
-
toward its
-
victims.
-
Verse 11
-
says that it
-
comes like a
-
robber which
-
conveys the
-
sudden,
-
stealthy way
-
in which
-
poverty comes
-
and like
-
an armed
-
man which
-
conveys the
-
violent,
-
forcible way
-
in which
-
poverty comes.
-
So you
-
can't always
-
indulge in a
-
little more
-
sleep and
-
expect to
-
arouse
-
yourself for
-
work just
-
in time to
-
avoid poverty.
-
It doesn't
-
work like that.
-
Poverty comes
-
unannounced,
-
unexpectedly,
-
unavoidably.
-
It's similar
-
to why so
-
many drivers
-
I think fall
-
asleep on
-
the road.
-
They think
-
that they
-
could arouse
-
themselves when
-
they start to
-
feel themselves
-
falling asleep.
-
They don't
-
realize that
-
even though
-
that pre-sleep
-
stages are
-
gradual,
-
when they
-
actually fall
-
asleep,
-
it's almost
-
instantaneous.
-
There's no
-
way to pull
-
yourself out
-
of that once
-
it's too
-
late.
-
And so
-
they don't
-
pull over
-
at the
-
first indication
-
that they
-
are sleepy
-
or falling
-
asleep.
-
Instead,
-
they say
-
a little
-
longer,
-
a few
-
more
-
miles,
-
and then
-
bam,
-
car wreck.
-
Poverty is
-
similar.
-
It will come
-
upon you
-
like a
-
robber,
-
like an
-
armed man.
-
You thought
-
you were
-
getting away
-
with the
-
little shortcuts
-
here and
-
there,
-
a few
-
wasted hours
-
here and
-
there,
-
and then
-
bam,
-
you lose
-
your job.
-
You thought
-
you could
-
skim the
-
books and
-
pull an
-
all-nighter
-
the day
-
before your
-
exam,
-
relying on
-
your own
-
intelligence
-
to bail
-
you out
-
as it
-
has done
-
before.
-
A little
-
more video
-
games,
-
a few
-
more episodes,
-
and then
-
bam,
-
you fail
-
the exam.
-
You thought
-
you could
-
miss church
-
just a few
-
times,
-
well,
-
that wasn't
-
so bad,
-
and then
-
a few
-
more times,
-
a little
-
more spiritual
-
neglect,
-
and then
-
bam,
-
unbelief
-
and spiritual
-
hardness
-
have sunk
-
into your
-
heart.
-
By the
-
time you
-
realize that
-
you're in
-
trouble,
-
it's already
-
too late.
-
So the
-
passage exhorts
-
us,
-
mind your
-
own business
-
and attend
-
to the
-
responsibilities
-
and relations
-
God has
-
given you.
-
The third
-
category of
-
person that
-
the father
-
warns the
-
son against
-
becoming is
-
a worthless
-
person,
-
or more
-
literally,
-
a man of
-
worthlessness.
-
He is twice
-
described in
-
verses 14 and
-
19 as a
-
sower of
-
discord.
-
This is an
-
agitator,
-
a rabble
-
rouser,
-
a troublemaker,
-
a person who
-
incites discord
-
and disunity
-
against God
-
and against
-
humanity.
-
The term
-
worthlessness is
-
almost a
-
catch-all term
-
for all kinds
-
of rebellious
-
wickedness,
-
so much so
-
that the
-
Hebrew word
-
behind that,
-
belial,
-
is used as
-
a name for
-
the devil in
-
2 Corinthians
-
chapter 6,
-
verse 15.
-
And the
-
kind of
-
things that
-
he does,
-
this worthless
-
man does,
-
is described
-
colorfully in
-
verses 12 to
-
14.
-
He goes out
-
with crooked
-
speech,
-
winks with
-
his eyes,
-
signals with
-
his feet,
-
points with
-
his finger,
-
with perverted
-
heart,
-
devises evil,
-
continually
-
sowing discord.
-
Many body
-
parts are used
-
to describe this
-
worthless man's
-
behavior.
-
He is
-
described as
-
having a
-
crooked speech.
-
It's literally
-
crooked mouth,
-
which refers to
-
his slanderous
-
and false
-
speech.
-
His winking
-
eyes betray
-
deception.
-
I think people
-
in various
-
cultures still
-
do that.
-
It's like,
-
you say one
-
thing, but
-
when you're
-
meaning another
-
thing, you
-
wink, right?
-
You're deceiving
-
people.
-
He signals
-
his feet,
-
or more
-
literally,
-
he shuffles
-
with his feet.
-
The parallel
-
in verse 18
-
describes feet
-
that make haste
-
to run to
-
evil.
-
So the
-
shuffling feet
-
is likely
-
a reference
-
to a busy
-
body just
-
restlessly
-
nosing about
-
plotting evil
-
and stirring
-
up the pot
-
and meddling
-
in other
-
people's
-
business.
-
Shuffling
-
feet.
-
He points
-
with his
-
finger,
-
right?
-
Mocking,
-
ridiculing,
-
caricaturing,
-
and accusing,
-
blaming all
-
of the stems
-
ultimately from
-
the perverted
-
heart,
-
which devises
-
evil,
-
continually
-
sowing discord.
-
And all of
-
these body
-
parts are used
-
to show
-
that this
-
sower of
-
discord
-
instigates
-
conflict and
-
agitates
-
crowd with
-
his whole
-
self.
-
He leverages
-
everything he
-
has to do
-
this.
-
He is a
-
deceptive and
-
destructive force
-
in society,
-
sowing
-
misunderstanding,
-
suspicion,
-
hatred,
-
and violence.
-
He is the
-
polar opposite
-
of the wise
-
man who
-
minds his
-
own business
-
and attends
-
to his
-
God-given
-
responsibilities
-
and relations.
-
The worthless
-
man minds
-
others'
-
business,
-
meddles in
-
their affairs,
-
their responsibilities,
-
their relations,
-
and the
-
prevalence of
-
such worthless
-
men explain
-
why our
-
society is so
-
fractured.
-
And we have
-
to be careful
-
not to follow
-
in the path
-
of the
-
sower of
-
discord,
-
right?
-
It's so easy
-
nowadays when
-
everything from
-
law to
-
even health
-
seems partisan
-
and politicized.
-
It's so easy
-
to represent
-
unfairly and
-
uncharitably
-
those whom
-
we disagree
-
with.
-
It's so easy
-
to wink
-
with our eyes
-
at our
-
followers or
-
friends,
-
to point
-
with our
-
fingers,
-
to pass
-
blame,
-
mock,
-
even demonize
-
the other.
-
It's so easy
-
to devise
-
evil in
-
our hearts,
-
seeking the
-
ill or
-
downfall of
-
another person
-
instead of
-
seeking their
-
good and
-
speaking well
-
of them.
-
Have you
-
made a
-
caustic or
-
snarky
-
comment that
-
sows discord
-
rather than
-
peace?
-
Have you
-
shared an
-
article or
-
meme that
-
is misleading
-
because it
-
contains only
-
half the
-
truth?
-
We should
-
always strive
-
to represent
-
those who
-
disagree with
-
us in
-
the most
-
honest and
-
compelling way
-
possible.
-
That's what it
-
means to
-
follow Matthew
-
chapter 7
-
verse 12.
-
Whatever you
-
wish that
-
others would
-
do to you,
-
do also to
-
them.
-
I think the
-
vast influx of
-
available knowledge
-
to us through
-
the internet seems
-
to have made
-
many of us,
-
our knowledge,
-
a mile wide
-
but an inch
-
deep.
-
We live in
-
the shallows,
-
as the
-
Pulitzer Prize
-
nominated author
-
Nicholas Carr
-
puts it.
-
we have
-
much knowledge
-
but little
-
wisdom.
-
And as a
-
result we have
-
become slow
-
to hear and
-
quick to speak,
-
quick to anger,
-
rather than as
-
James 1.19 says,
-
quick to hear,
-
slow to speak,
-
slow to anger.
-
If that's the
-
case, brother and
-
sister, we are
-
in danger of
-
becoming
-
sowers of
-
discord, men
-
and women of
-
worthlessness.
-
So let's not
-
get sucked into
-
this and
-
instead heed
-
the warning of
-
the father in
-
verse 15.
-
Therefore,
-
calamity will
-
come upon him
-
suddenly.
-
In a moment,
-
he will be
-
broken beyond
-
healing.
-
The judgment
-
predicted here is
-
very similar to
-
the sudden and
-
violent poverty
-
that comes upon
-
the sluggard in
-
verse 11.
-
The sore of
-
discord too will
-
be overcome by
-
calamity suddenly
-
and he will be
-
broken beyond
-
healing.
-
So causing
-
trouble spells
-
trouble for the
-
troublemaker.
-
The sore of
-
discord will
-
himself be
-
broken.
-
And to
-
reinforce this
-
teaching, the
-
father reiterates
-
the offenses of
-
the sore of
-
discord in
-
verses 16 to
-
19 using many
-
parallel body
-
parts going from
-
head to toe.
-
It says,
-
there are six
-
things that the
-
Lord hates,
-
seven that are
-
an abomination
-
to him,
-
haughty eyes,
-
a lying tongue
-
and hands that
-
shed innocent
-
blood,
-
a heart that
-
devises wicked
-
plans, feet
-
that make haste
-
to run to
-
evil.
-
And then he
-
adds two more,
-
a false witness
-
who breathes
-
out lies and
-
one who sows
-
discord among
-
brothers.
-
The use of
-
ascending numbers
-
going from six
-
things that the
-
Lord hates to
-
seven that are
-
an abomination
-
to him is a
-
poetic device,
-
it's a rhetorical
-
device that serves
-
to escalate and
-
emphasize what
-
he's trying to
-
say, that the
-
Lord despises
-
these things.
-
So they are
-
an abomination
-
to him.
-
And the
-
haughty eyes,
-
a lying tongue
-
and blood
-
shedding hands,
-
plotting heart,
-
evil chasing
-
feet, a lying
-
witness and
-
one who sows
-
discord among
-
brothers, they
-
all have this
-
in common,
-
that they are
-
all disruptive,
-
that they are
-
all anti-social
-
behaviors.
-
They claw out
-
the thread of
-
trust from the
-
fabric of society
-
so that it
-
unravels into
-
ugly chaos.
-
they disrupt
-
and destroy
-
family relations
-
that are
-
precious to
-
God.
-
And by
-
bringing in
-
the Lord
-
in verse
-
16, in
-
climactic
-
fashion, the
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father gets
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to the heart
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of the matter
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in all of
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his advice.
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The reason
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why he warns
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us against
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being a surety,
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a sluggard,
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and a sore
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discord is
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not merely
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because it's
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harmful to
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ourselves,
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but even more
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importantly because
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these things are
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offensive to
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God.
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they are sins
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against God
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and the order
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he has instituted
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in our world
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and the roles
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that he has
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assigned in
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particular to
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us.
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And so he's
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telling us that
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we are to
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mind our own
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business and
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attempt to
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responsibilities and
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relations God
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has given us.
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Unfortunately,
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apart from
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Christ, we all
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have the
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perverted hearts
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that devise evil
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that this passage
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speaks of.
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Twice in
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verse 14 and
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verse 18,
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this passage
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describes the
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perverted heart
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that is at
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the root of
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wickedness.
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Verse 14 says
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that the
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worthless man
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with perverted
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heart devises
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evil,
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continually
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sowing discord.
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So people
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argue whether
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the adverb
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continually goes
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with sowing
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discord or
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devising evil,
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but if you
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follow the
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punctuation
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that was
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provided by
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the Jewish
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scribes and
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scholars in
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the 10th
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century,
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the adverb
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actually goes
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with devising
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evil.
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So it's
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saying that
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our perverted
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hearts are
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continually
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devising evil.
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That's what
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our perverted
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hearts are
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doing all
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the time.
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So it's
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actually corroborated
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by Genesis
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6-5 when it
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says,
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the Lord
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saw that
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the wickedness
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of man was
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great in
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the earth
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and that
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every intention
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of the
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thoughts of
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his heart
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was only
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evil
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continually.
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Our
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wicked
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hearts,
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perverted
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hearts are
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continually
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manufacturing
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evil.
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That's why
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the theologian
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and reformer
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John Calvin
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put it this
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way,
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man's
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nature is
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a perpetual
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factory of
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idols.
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And what
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are we to
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do about
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this?
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I mean,
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this passage
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emphasizes taking
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responsibility for
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ourselves,
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right?
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Verse 3,
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verse 5
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tells us,
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save yourself,
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save yourself
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from legal
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trouble,
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save yourself
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from economic
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ruin,
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save yourself,
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but there's
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one thing
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that we
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cannot save
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ourselves from
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and that is
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our own
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sinful hearts.
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For that,
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we need a
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savior.
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Jesus,
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whose name
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means to
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save,
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to deliver,
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is described
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in scripture
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as the
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savior of
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the world,
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John 4,
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42.
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He is the
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one who
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fulfills the
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prophecy of
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Ezekiel 36,
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verse 25-26,
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when God
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promised to
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give us new
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hearts,
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because there's
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no hope for
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us with the
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perverted hearts.
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Only way that
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we can be
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saved,
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only way we
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can obey
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God and
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believe in
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him and
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be faithful
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to the
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responsibilities
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and relations
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he has
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given us
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is by
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receiving
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this new
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heart that
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God promises
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on and
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that comes
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to us only
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through Jesus
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Christ,
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because Jesus
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cleanses us
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by dying for
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our sins on
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the cross,
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he's victorious
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in being raised
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from the dead
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and he fills
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us with his
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Holy Spirit
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by whom we
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are born again
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to new
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creation,
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with new
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hearts.
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God
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does this
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for us
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while we
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are his
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enemies,
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as Romans
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5 talks
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about it.
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Look at the
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words that I
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use,
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he says,
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these are
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things,
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these things
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that we
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have all
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done are
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an abomination
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to God.
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That's a word
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that we don't
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use very often,
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is it?
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I don't
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think I
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ever say
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that I
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abominate
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something.
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I mean,
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that's a
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pretty strong
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word,
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abominate
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something.
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Maybe the
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only thing
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I can think
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of abominating
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is maybe
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like a
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cockroach
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or something.
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It's
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just revolting.
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And that's
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what we
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were in
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our sins
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to God.
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This
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disgusting
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cockroach
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should have
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just squashed
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to death
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instead.
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That's what
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we deserved.
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We should
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have been
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punished.
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We should
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have been
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consigned
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to eternal
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damnation.
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We should
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have died.
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And yet
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God is
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merciful to
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us because
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He,
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at the same
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time,
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He has
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this wrath
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towards
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sinners.
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He has
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this
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unparalleled
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love.
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So He
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makes a
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way for
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us to
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be saved
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from the
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wrath of
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God,
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from the
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sins that
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He
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abominates.
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And that
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is through
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Jesus.
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And it's
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only through
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faith in
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Jesus that
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we learn
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truly
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to live
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with the
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wisdom of
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God that
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is taught
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in this
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book of
-
Proverbs.
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He has
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to live
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with the
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wisdom of God
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that is taught
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in this book of Proverbs.