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The Lord's Sovereignty and Human Life

Trinity Cambridge Church

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  1. Let's pray. I want to ask God's help for our time around the Word tonight.

  2. Lord God, I pray for your help for myself, for my words.

  3. Lord, that the preparation that has been put into this passage would be helpful to me and your people.

  4. May it point to your holiness and your greatness.

  5. May it help us see more of you tonight.

  6. Help us to be encouraged and to be sharpened by your Word, Lord, I pray.

  7. Help us to be attentive and to listen.

  8. And Lord, may you be glorified in our time tonight, we ask in your precious name. Amen.

  9. Amen.

  10. Our thought or the sentence title that I want to put over our passage tonight is this.

  11. Righteous living before God results in the right life.

  12. That is, righteous living before God results in the right life.

  13. I'm going to say that a few times as we go through the passage to help connect back to that.

  14. But before we start, I just want to point out a couple things so that we don't get the wrong idea about what's being said.

  15. When I say righteous living, I'm not talking about perfection living.

  16. Righteous living isn't accomplished in our strength alone.

  17. True righteousness is from God, so we need His help as we are responsible for working that out.

  18. So we set aside our sinful desires and we seek after what God wants,

  19. knowing that we won't be completely righteous until we get to heaven.

  20. That doesn't take away our responsibility to work towards that.

  21. Righteous living before God results in the right life.

  22. And when I say right life, I mean our correct life.

  23. The life, while it may not be easy, it's the right life that God desires for us.

  24. The best life we can have before God when we're living for Him.

  25. You might be saying, well, I can't have my right life now because I've messed it up.

  26. I've made some bad decisions.

  27. And so I just don't think it's possible.

  28. And to you, I would say that we are all sinners.

  29. And we continue to sin, but that doesn't mean that we give up.

  30. It's not too late for anyone to get serious about their righteousness, their life of righteousness.

  31. Your best life, your right life that God has for you comes from living righteously for Him starting right now.

  32. So whether you've been living righteously or you haven't been,

  33. there's an opportunity for us to live righteously for God now.

  34. I have a story to tell.

  35. It's kind of personal.

  36. It popped up just this week.

  37. I didn't have one for this message, but God put it in front of me and it was pretty cool.

  38. So we have this fan at our house.

  39. We only have air conditioning in a couple of rooms, so we use fans often.

  40. We have this round fan.

  41. It's about this big and it sits on the ground.

  42. And, you know, we move it around to where we want it.

  43. And so in the mornings when I have my personal time, if it gets hot, I set it beside me.

  44. I turn it on and I feel it.

  45. But it's difficult to get air out of it, or it has been.

  46. You kind of have to put it at the right angle and turn it on high and get close to it,

  47. and you might feel some air out of it.

  48. And it has been a little aggravating for me.

  49. So I'm looking at the front of it.

  50. Everything seems fine.

  51. The motor spins.

  52. It's a fan in all aspects of the word.

  53. And the other day I turned it around and I looked at the back side of it and saw that over years,

  54. I say years, we probably had it maybe three years, over three years of use,

  55. there's this buildup of dust that has built up.

  56. And so it has no ability to pull in clean and pure and refreshing air because of all the impurities that are holding it back.

  57. And so I took it apart yesterday and I got out an old toothbrush and the vacuum cleaner and I went to town on it.

  58. And it is now the right fan.

  59. The fan that I bought it to be.

  60. It works how I desire it to work.

  61. It's the right fan.

  62. It's the best fan because it does what it's supposed to do.

  63. So tonight as we're going to look at a few verses that hopefully will help us see that our right life comes as a result of our righteously living before God.

  64. So let's open up our passage, Proverbs chapter 16.

    Proverbs 16 chapter mention

  65. We're going to be looking at the last three verses, verses 31, 32, and 33.

  66. And then the first six verses of chapter 17.

  67. Verse 31.

  68. Verse 31 says,

  69. There are many signs of old age, some of which we may not be looking forward to.

  70. Hair changes, body changes, strength, health, maybe even mental issues change as we get older.

  71. We know that gray hair, white hair is not the only sign of old age.

  72. However, this verse is using gray hair as a picture to represent old age.

  73. Instead of listing everything, it lists gray hair.

  74. It's an outward sign of age.

  75. Proverbs 20, 29 says this.

  76. The glory of young men is their strength, but the splendor of old men is their gray hair.

  77. The strength that it is talking about of young men is referring to all the aspects of their younger body, right?

  78. Their strength, their endurance, their flexibility, resilience, their muscle tone and shape.

  79. All those things that a young person takes pride in, they are concrete signs of youthfulness.

  80. So on the other end of that, right, there are signs of old age.

  81. Gray hair is one of those signs.

  82. But for the person getting old, those signs are not meant to be a sign of weakness.

  83. Those younger should not look at the older and disregard them, look down on them, or look for someone newer or stronger.

  84. Because throughout the Bible, what we see is age is honored and respected.

  85. Leviticus 19, 32 says this.

  86. You shall stand up before the gray head and honor the face of an old man, and you shall fear your God, I am the Lord.

  87. That's pretty strong.

  88. Several other verses that talk in the same way because we are commanded to honor and respect older men and women.

  89. So gray hair, other physical changes brought about by age are meant to be outward signs of true maturity.

  90. Like this verse says, the gray head should be a crown of glory.

  91. Age should bring with it not only experience, but wisdom and righteousness and Christ-likeness.

  92. Those are godly characteristics that this verse is talking about.

  93. The second half of this verse says that it is gained in a righteous life.

  94. Now we know that not all older men and women are righteous, but there's a lot of people with gray or white hair or signs of aging.

  95. Solomon is not speaking towards the unrighteous here.

  96. He's saying that for those with wisdom who have sought to live righteously, then they are outward signs of age.

  97. Like gray hair becoming a crown, something to be proud of.

  98. It's a sign of honor or achievement.

  99. But those signs are meaningless if the life doesn't back it up.

  100. If there's a life that was lived outside of God and for oneself, then that reminder of old age should be in a way a sign of shame.

  101. A sign of wanting to live for oneself and not a crown of glory.

  102. A quick story I want to share.

  103. When I was in eighth grade, I was still going to a Christian school and living in South New Jersey.

  104. Once a year they would have these science competitions.

  105. Or not science competitions, but just education competitions for all the schools in the area.

  106. So South Jersey and maybe some of Maryland, some of Delaware.

  107. Any Christian schools in that area would come together and they would have competitions for most of the subjects in school.

  108. So, you know, the spelling bees and the history competitions.

  109. And I like science.

  110. I was asked to do a science project, so I did it.

  111. And come to find out, I won first place in science competition.

  112. And it was pretty cool.

  113. I was happy about it.

  114. I got a little ribbon that said first place.

  115. And that would normally be a crown of achievement.

  116. Something to be happy in.

  117. But in the back of my mind, I knew that while I did the project, like any typical eighth grader, things got pushed to the end.

  118. And things got rushed.

  119. And I didn't do the best that I could.

  120. The explanations or the instructions for my project weren't exactly the best.

  121. But I still got first place.

  122. So I still got that ribbon.

  123. Come to find out, I actually was the only eighth grader that submitted something to the competition.

  124. So in my age group, I was the only one that was participating.

  125. So I got first place regardless of what I did.

  126. But that really didn't affect me too much.

  127. It was just the fact that I had this ribbon that should be something more to be proud of.

  128. But I wasn't because I didn't give it my best work.

  129. And gray hair in this verse is a symbol like that.

  130. It should be a badge of honor for those who live righteously.

  131. So for you, for those out there who may have gray hair or thinning hair, or if you do in the future, if your body slows down because of old age,

  132. God hasn't given that to you as a curse.

  133. But rather, he wants it to be a sign for righteousness.

  134. So live for righteousness.

  135. And let those signs be a crown that you rejoice in in your old age.

  136. You might be thinking, I'm getting older and I already have some signs, but I'm not living a righteous life.

  137. Maybe you're listening to this message this morning and you don't even know God tonight.

  138. I want to encourage you by saying that it's never too late because we have a good and loving and gracious God that is accepting and forgiving.

  139. It's not too late to accept Christ.

  140. It's not too late to realize that your best life can start right now and continue on until your last day.

  141. So if you don't know what that is like, if you don't know who Christ is and you want to know more about it, then I would please ask that you reach out to me, to Sean.

  142. If you're online, then email me.

  143. It's real easy.

  144. It's matt at trinitycambridge.com.

  145. I would hate for you not to reach out and take an opportunity to know more about Christ.

  146. Maybe you're thinking, you know what, I'm a young person.

  147. As I look around, there are a lot of young people in here tonight.

  148. I'm a young person.

  149. I'm in the prime of my life.

  150. And you're talking about old age and gray hair.

  151. What does that have to do with me?

  152. It might not seem so right now, but your current way of living is shaping your future life.

  153. That's what this verse is talking about.

  154. We don't live how we want now, and then all of a sudden we switch on to righteousness right before we get old.

  155. If you talk to any elderly person, most of the people you will talk to, if you ask them, when did you get old?

  156. It's not a defining point.

  157. It's not a certain number.

  158. It's a progression.

  159. Let's dig into the rest of these verses.

  160. Verse 32 says,

  161. Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.

  162. There's planning and military power that is needed to capture a city.

  163. However, Solomon is saying it is of greater importance to your life now and for eternity for you to have and practice self-control.

  164. We can look back into history and name examples of people who were strong and powerful and able to conquer and control and run their kingdoms.

  165. But they were failures when it came to controlling their emotions.

  166. James 1, 19 and 20 says this,

  167. Righteous living is not possible when we are ruled by our anger or our emotions.

  168. Or as this verse says, when we are in control of our spirit.

  169. Next we come to verse 33.

  170. It says,

  171. The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord.

  172. The casting of lots, as some of you will know, is similar to rolling dice or flipping a coin.

  173. When someone doesn't know what to decide or to try to keep it fair, they will cast lots.

  174. Kind of like at the beginning of the Super Bowl.

  175. One of the teams needs to kick.

  176. Who should do it?

  177. Let's flip a coin.

  178. And that's what they do.

  179. Casting lots is not uncommon.

  180. And actually we find it several times in the Bible.

  181. Even to determine God's direction, we see that lots are cast.

  182. After losing the battle of Ai, the Lord used lots, the casting of lots, to point out Achan being the person responsible for the army's defeat.

  183. Land allotments for the tribes of Israel were determined by casting lots before the Lord.

  184. And if we look at the New Testament, we also see that the apostles used lots to decide who would be the 12th disciple replacing Judas.

  185. Now before we dig more into that verse, I just want to point out that I'm not saying that we should go home and cast lots to make decisions.

  186. I don't think that as Christians we're called to do that anymore.

  187. The reason for that is for several reasons.

  188. One is we don't see a command in Scripture from Jesus saying we should cast lots.

  189. We don't see the casting of lots used as a way to determine God's leading in any of the rest of the New Testament.

  190. After it was done in Acts 1, in Acts 2, the believers are given the Holy Spirit.

  191. Right?

  192. And it's from that point on in the New Testament that we see that people are making decisions,

  193. listening to the Spirit and the leading of the Spirit and not casting lots to find out the outcome.

  194. Alright, so let's jump back to verse 33.

  195. The point of the verses is not to tell us whether or not we should cast lots.

  196. The point of it is to remind us that things that are seemingly random, like casting lots,

  197. they're not random at all.

  198. They're chosen and directed by God.

  199. Matthew 10, 29 and 30 says,

  200. Are not two sparrows sold for a penny, and not one of them will fall to the ground from your father?

  201. But even the hairs of your head are all numbered.

  202. So small things, things that seem random, are directed by God.

  203. We live before a sovereign God who is always in control of all things,

  204. whether we plan them or whether we don't.

  205. How does that fit into where we're going tonight?

  206. As we strive to live righteously before God,

  207. we realize that He is in control.

  208. If we look at that verse again, it says that the lot is cast into the lap.

  209. Another way to look at this verse could also be something that is laid in front of you,

  210. something that you didn't choose or necessarily want.

  211. The phrase, that was His lot in life.

  212. Kind of pick up that idea that a situation was placed in front of someone and they had to deal with it.

  213. Seemingly random, oftentimes that's how people word it, all of God.

  214. So, as we strive to live righteously before God, we realize He's in control.

  215. He knows what is right for us,

  216. and the right life that He has for us might mean something that we don't want

  217. or something we didn't ask for,

  218. something we didn't plan for,

  219. but it's from God and God knows what is best for us.

  220. Let's move into chapter 17.

  221. The first verse says,

  222. Better is a dry morsel with quiet than a house full of feasting with strife.

  223. So, here in this verse, we have quiet being contrasted with strife.

  224. Right?

  225. So, quiet here is not referring to a level of sound,

  226. but rather a state of peace.

  227. Strife is fighting and stressfulness,

  228. whereas quiet is peace and contentment.

  229. Proverbs 15, 17 helps us get a little bit full of picture of this.

  230. It says,

  231. Better is a dinner of herbs where love is

  232. than a fattened ox and hatred with it.

  233. I don't know if anybody here has ever been

  234. at a meal where there's been strife

  235. or discontention or arguing.

  236. Cheryl and I had been to one when we were younger,

  237. and there was an argument that broke out,

  238. and the rest of the evening,

  239. even though we were in a very nice restaurant

  240. and the food was good,

  241. it was not enjoyable

  242. because the strife and the fighting that was there.

  243. I would rather have peanut butter and jelly

  244. and have it in an enjoyable setting

  245. than the steak with the fighting,

  246. and that's what Solomon was talking about here.

  247. Thank you.

  248. So we want to work toward peace

  249. and away from strife in our house

  250. or in our surrounding where we are.

  251. And we've covered a lot of verses in Proverbs

  252. that speak to this point.

  253. So I just want to take a minute

  254. to get a little practical

  255. with pointing out some things

  256. that pull us away from peace

  257. and add to strife

  258. so that if these things are coming from us,

  259. there are things that we can work on,

  260. things that we can fight against

  261. through the power of the Spirit.

  262. Anger comes up a lot in Proverbs.

  263. A hot-tempered man stirs up strife.

  264. Quarrelsome or criticizing.

  265. Proverbs 21.19 says this,

  266. It is better to live in a desert land

  267. than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.

  268. Now, I will say that verse

  269. was talking about marriage,

  270. so I'm not saying that that is only about a woman.

  271. There are plenty of verses

  272. that talk about the quarrelsome,

  273. anger nature of a man,

  274. but it's pretty strong

  275. when it's better to live in a desert

  276. than to be with someone who's quarrelsome.

  277. Bitterness is another area.

  278. Being discontent or not satisfied

  279. with what we have.

  280. A scoffer.

  281. That is someone who thinks

  282. that someone else's actions or ideas are stupid.

  283. So there's a level of pride and arrogance in that.

  284. And Proverbs 22.10 says,

  285. Drive out a scoffer,

  286. and strife will go out,

  287. and quarreling and abuse will cease.

  288. Foolishness in a child or in an adult

  289. will ruin peace and bring strife.

  290. Those are big ones.

  291. There are more.

  292. But those are areas that if they characterize us

  293. in the area of influence that we are in,

  294. then we need to fight against those things.

  295. We need to move more towards love and peace

  296. because that is how the life of a Christian

  297. should be characterized.

  298. Colossians 3.12 says this,

  299. Put on then as God's chosen ones,

  300. holy and beloved,

  301. compassionate hearts,

  302. kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,

  303. bearing with one another.

  304. And if one has a complaint against another,

  305. forgiving each other.

  306. As the Lord has forgiven you,

  307. so you also must forgive.

  308. And above all these, put on love,

  309. which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

  310. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts,

  311. to which indeed you are called in one body.

  312. What is best for our life?

  313. The Bible says that it's peace and love

  314. that comes about through our righteous living.

  315. What else do we see that goes into righteous living?

  316. Let's look at verse 2.

  317. A servant who deals wisely

  318. will rule over a son who acts shamefully

  319. and will share the inheritance as one of the brothers.

  320. As we look at this verse,

  321. there are a couple things that we can pick out of.

  322. First is we can assume that the family has some money, right?

  323. They have servants.

  324. They have an inheritance that it talks about.

  325. We also see there's a wise servant.

  326. His work as a servant is done wisely and righteously.

  327. So in this case, I think of Joseph.

  328. Joseph started out as a slave in Potiphar's house,

  329. but because of his work ethic,

  330. his honesty,

  331. and God's favor,

  332. he's given command

  333. underneath Potiphar

  334. over all that he owned.

  335. The other thing we see here in this verse

  336. is a son who acts shamefully.

  337. And the idea here isn't that the son messed up once or twice.

  338. He did, he made some foolish mistakes,

  339. but the idea is that the shameful acts are ongoing,

  340. they're continuing,

  341. and he's living a life of shame,

  342. and it's bringing shame on the family.

  343. Think of the prodigal son in this case,

  344. where he had wealth,

  345. he had responsibility in the family,

  346. but he didn't want that life.

  347. He wanted his own life.

  348. And so he acted shamefully.

  349. So in this situation where we have a rich family,

  350. they have servants,

  351. they have an inheritance,

  352. typically the son,

  353. as he grew up,

  354. would be able to rule over the servant.

  355. He would take on that responsibility.

  356. And as the parents died,

  357. then he would share in the inheritance

  358. of the family's wealth that was left.

  359. However, this verse

  360. not only talks about how the son is unable to rule,

  361. and also how the wisdom

  362. and the close relationship of the servant

  363. actually puts him in the place of ruling over the son.

  364. And we see the same thing with the inheritance, right?

  365. The son continues in shame,

  366. and he's cut off from the inheritance.

  367. The servant,

  368. who is wise and righteous in his doing,

  369. he actually is given the inheritance

  370. in the son's place.

  371. He becomes part of the family.

  372. So there's a couple points in this verse.

  373. One of them is this,

  374. that being wise and being diligent

  375. can actually overcome disadvantages of birth, right?

  376. There's people that we know

  377. who were born in a certain situation,

  378. but they didn't let that situation

  379. keep them where they were.

  380. And God blesses hard work

  381. and living for him with successes.

  382. The other side of that is true also.

  383. We know people who had a lot of wealth,

  384. but through unrighteousness and foolish living,

  385. it brought failures.

  386. It brought missed opportunities.

  387. It brought wasted fortunes.

  388. But in this verse,

  389. there's a great picture of the family of God.

  390. Remember the Israelites,

  391. God's chosen people.

  392. They were blessed,

  393. and they were given an inheritance.

  394. However, as we read through the Old Testament,

  395. we know that they turned away from God.

  396. They chose to live foolishly

  397. and shamefully before God.

  398. So God allowed their inheritance

  399. to be taken away,

  400. and he allowed them to become servants

  401. for other nations.

  402. They were unable to live holy

  403. and righteously before God.

  404. They failed it.

  405. But we're not going to be too hard on them

  406. because you know what?

  407. If we were there,

  408. we would probably fail as well.

  409. We fail at it now.

  410. So what is our hope?

  411. Our hope is Jesus.

  412. Jesus is our true righteousness before God.

  413. So when we confess and we believe in that hope

  414. that Jesus gives us,

  415. that he gives us strength to live righteously for God.

  416. Not perfect,

  417. but able through Christ to live towards righteousness.

  418. We move closer towards it.

  419. We were once outside the family,

  420. and now because of Jesus Christ,

  421. we have been brought into the family.

  422. We've been adopted,

  423. and we have been given an inheritance

  424. in that family,

  425. an inheritance of eternity.

  426. That's the gospel.

  427. 1 John 3.1 says,

  428. see what kind of love the Father has given to us,

  429. that we should be called children of God.

  430. And so we are.

  431. So verses 1 and 2,

  432. we just talked about.

  433. They talked about godly characteristics

  434. that we want to be part of our life.

  435. Peace, contentment,

  436. wise living.

  437. We're going to look at verses 4 and 5.

  438. They talk about what we don't want.

  439. Characteristics that will not help us

  440. in our righteous living before God.

  441. Right in the middle of those two,

  442. we see verse 3, right?

  443. It's this dividing line

  444. between the good and the bad.

  445. This verse is helpful

  446. because it reminds us of God's position in our lives.

  447. So when we think about righteous living

  448. before God results in our right life,

  449. that before God means that He is in control,

  450. that He is always watching,

  451. that He is going to be testing us,

  452. wanting to perfect us,

  453. and wanting to help us.

  454. Verse 3.

  455. The crucible is for silver,

  456. and the furnace is for gold,

  457. and the Lord tests hearts.

  458. The crucible, as many of you know,

  459. comes in different sizes.

  460. It's usually bowl-shaped

  461. and can be made of ceramic or graphite,

  462. something that can withstand extreme heat

  463. because its purpose is to be heated

  464. and melt what's inside of that bowl.

  465. And in the same way,

  466. a furnace is used to melt things

  467. like steel or glass.

  468. In this case,

  469. in this verse that we're reading,

  470. to melt gold.

  471. Once it is melted,

  472. any impurities would separate

  473. from the gold or the silver.

  474. And at that point,

  475. it becomes easy to tell

  476. if that gold or that silver is pure

  477. or how polluted it is.

  478. Right?

  479. Once it's melted,

  480. those impurities separate,

  481. and we're able to pull that off.

  482. So not only are we able to test

  483. its authenticity,

  484. but we can make it pure.

  485. The end of the process of that

  486. should leave us with gold and silver

  487. that is more pure and more valuable

  488. than when it started.

  489. So the crucible and the furnace

  490. test the authenticity

  491. and the purity.

  492. The Lord tests the purity

  493. and the authenticity

  494. of our hearts.

  495. The Lord is desiring a people

  496. who truly love him

  497. and want to follow him.

  498. And when life is easy

  499. and there is no problems,

  500. that's not a problem.

  501. Right?

  502. We actually have a lot of people

  503. who look like really good Christians

  504. when life is going really good.

  505. But when the testing comes,

  506. that's when the truth comes out

  507. of what someone really is like.

  508. The rich young ruler,

  509. if you remember,

  510. looked like a very good follower

  511. of Jesus

  512. until he was asked

  513. to give up his wealth.

  514. And he said no.

  515. Instead,

  516. he followed his wealth

  517. and forsaked Jesus.

  518. Brothers and sisters,

  519. this is a big issue

  520. in the church.

  521. What do I mean by that?

  522. We all read the Bible.

  523. We know to love one another.

  524. We know to encourage one another.

  525. We know to strive for peace.

  526. We know to forgive.

  527. We know we ought to be humble

  528. in our serving.

  529. We know what to do.

  530. We know what it looks like.

  531. But when we're tested,

  532. that's when it gets hard.

  533. Right?

  534. That's when we have to move

  535. from knowing it

  536. to doing it.

  537. And it's this step right here

  538. where so many people

  539. in the church fail.

  540. They weren't ready for the test.

  541. Or they weren't humble enough.

  542. There was too much pride

  543. and selfishness

  544. to let go

  545. and make that right decision

  546. and do what God calls us to do.

  547. They're still Christians.

  548. Don't get me wrong.

  549. They haven't lost their salvation.

  550. But what happens is

  551. there's a

  552. a failing of that test

  553. that instead of leading to repentance

  554. and seeking God

  555. to pass that test the next time,

  556. they become complacent

  557. in their failure.

  558. Right?

  559. So instead of building up

  560. a stronger,

  561. more precious church for God,

  562. these walls of bitterness

  563. and judgment,

  564. complacency,

  565. stubbornness,

  566. they all began to be built up

  567. in its place.

  568. Why?

  569. Because we didn't want to be humble.

  570. We didn't want to forgive.

  571. We didn't want to serve

  572. with humbleness.

  573. We didn't want to strive for peace.

  574. We didn't want to let something go.

  575. And so we failed that test

  576. and we become,

  577. I don't want to say

  578. less of a Christian,

  579. but less of an effective Christian.

  580. Less,

  581. less pure of a Christian

  582. in the church.

  583. So over time,

  584. what happens

  585. is you have a church

  586. that looks like a church

  587. on the outside.

  588. On the inside,

  589. it's really more like

  590. a religious club,

  591. right?

  592. That runs the way

  593. they want it to

  594. and not runs for God.

  595. And we have the same problem

  596. that happens

  597. in our own families,

  598. right?

  599. The same things

  600. that happen in the church

  601. happens in our family.

  602. We want to have a life

  603. before God

  604. that is the right life.

  605. The life that is worth

  606. something to Him.

  607. Not just fool's gold

  608. that looks right

  609. on the outside,

  610. but inside is worth nothing.

  611. We want to be authentic

  612. and pure.

  613. That's the right life

  614. that we want to live

  615. before God.

  616. So when you're tested,

  617. if you haven't been already,

  618. if you haven't been,

  619. you will be.

  620. You will be tested.

  621. Then first,

  622. praise God

  623. because He loves you enough

  624. to want to make you

  625. stronger and more purer

  626. for Himself

  627. because you are His child.

  628. And then next,

  629. if you fail that test

  630. you've been given,

  631. don't waste it.

  632. And by that,

  633. I mean that

  634. use it for what God

  635. meant it to be for.

  636. To show you your weakness

  637. or to break down

  638. some idol

  639. in your life

  640. or to make you stronger

  641. for some future purpose.

  642. So if you fail the test,

  643. repent.

  644. Pray for strength

  645. from the Holy Spirit

  646. and then get ready

  647. for the retake

  648. because it's going to happen.

  649. Okay,

  650. verses 4 and 5

  651. come next

  652. and from that

  653. we see some characteristics

  654. that we don't want.

  655. There are things

  656. that aren't going to help us

  657. as we strive

  658. to live righteously

  659. before God.

  660. Verse 4

  661. says this,

  662. An evildoer

  663. listens to wicked lips

  664. and a liar

  665. gives ear

  666. to a mischievous tongue.

  667. There are two groups

  668. of people here.

  669. One who's evil

  670. and one who tells lies.

  671. And the point

  672. of this verse

  673. is simple.

  674. Don't listen

  675. to the evil person

  676. and don't give an ear

  677. to a liar.

  678. Don't join in

  679. on deceptive plans.

  680. Don't listen

  681. to slanderous talk.

  682. As you know,

  683. gossip and slander

  684. can't spread

  685. if there's no platform

  686. that will listen to it.

  687. That's why

  688. the gossip magazines

  689. and the grocery stores

  690. sell

  691. because it has a platform

  692. that people want

  693. to listen to.

  694. But our lives

  695. are lived before God.

  696. We are always

  697. in His view.

  698. He sees how

  699. and what we listen to

  700. even if it's done

  701. in secret.

  702. He loves honesty.

  703. He loves

  704. a pure heart.

  705. He hates dishonesty

  706. and He hates wickedness.

  707. Proverbs 15, 9

  708. says this,

  709. The way of the wicked

  710. is an abomination

  711. to the Lord

  712. but He loves Him

  713. who pursues righteousness.

  714. That's what we want

  715. to do,

  716. pursue righteousness.

  717. So righteous living

  718. before God

  719. includes what we let

  720. into our ears.

  721. don't lend your ears

  722. to the spreading

  723. of lies

  724. and hurtful speech.

  725. How about

  726. illicit flirtations?

  727. Gossip,

  728. backbiting.

  729. We should not be

  730. part of that at all.

  731. The other part

  732. of this verse

  733. is

  734. He who is glad

  735. at calamity

  736. will not go unpunished.

  737. That is

  738. that is

  739. sorry I missed

  740. the first part

  741. of that verse.

  742. verse 5.

  743. The first part

  744. of verse 5 says

  745. whoever mocks

  746. the poor

  747. insults his maker.

  748. He who is glad

  749. at calamity

  750. will not go unpunished.

  751. Don't mock

  752. the poor.

  753. That's pretty

  754. straightforward.

  755. Those who are

  756. less fortunate

  757. maybe with money

  758. but maybe it's

  759. something else.

  760. Maybe it's influence

  761. or intelligence.

  762. Maybe somebody

  763. has less than you

  764. in some way.

  765. Let me remind us

  766. all that we have

  767. what we have

  768. because God

  769. has given it to us.

  770. So to mock

  771. someone else

  772. is to say that

  773. God's plan

  774. for that person

  775. is wrong

  776. and we're also

  777. mocking the person

  778. who was made

  779. in the image of God.

  780. So here Solomon

  781. says

  782. don't go there.

  783. Don't mock

  784. that person.

  785. Also not to make fun

  786. or be glad

  787. at calamity.

  788. as Christians

  789. we should not

  790. gain any enjoyment

  791. from someone

  792. else's misfortune.

  793. That is

  794. even when it happens

  795. to someone

  796. we don't like

  797. even when it happens

  798. to an evil person

  799. judgment belongs

  800. to God

  801. and not to us.

  802. And so

  803. we should not

  804. take any enjoyment

  805. from someone else's

  806. pain or misfortune

  807. and we should

  808. constantly

  809. be grieved

  810. by knowing

  811. that wicked people

  812. are on their way

  813. to hell.

  814. Lastly

  815. we come to

  816. verse 6.

  817. It says

  818. grandchildren

  819. are the crown

  820. of the age

  821. and the glory

  822. of children

  823. as their fathers.

  824. right away

  825. we see an age

  826. connection

  827. between this verse

  828. and the first verse

  829. of our passage.

  830. Gray hair

  831. in the first verse

  832. and grandchildren

  833. here.

  834. But it goes

  835. deeper than that

  836. right?

  837. As Christians

  838. our deepest

  839. identity

  840. is that we are

  841. children of God.

  842. We are followers

  843. of Christ.

  844. That's our most

  845. important identity.

  846. Following that

  847. role

  848. who we are

  849. in our families

  850. plays a big part.

  851. Right?

  852. Husband

  853. wife

  854. child

  855. brother

  856. sister

  857. parent

  858. grandparent

  859. we're all

  860. here at least

  861. one of those.

  862. We affect

  863. our family

  864. and we are

  865. affected by

  866. our family.

  867. Our joy

  868. can be shared

  869. with them

  870. and theirs

  871. with ours.

  872. That's how

  873. it works.

  874. Here in Proverbs

  875. when Solomon

  876. talks about

  877. grandparents

  878. and parents

  879. and children

  880. unless it

  881. says so

  882. it is

  883. referring to

  884. those who

  885. are trying

  886. to live

  887. righteously

  888. before God.

  889. So for

  890. grandchildren

  891. who love

  892. God

  893. and are

  894. following

  895. after him

  896. they are

  897. a source

  898. of honor

  899. a crown

  900. of delight

  901. for their

  902. grandparents

  903. and those

  904. grandparents

  905. who love

  906. God

  907. who have

  908. sought

  909. his righteousness

  910. and wisdom

  911. who have

  912. lived for

  913. God

  914. and are now

  915. in their

  916. old age

  917. and parents

  918. who aren't

  919. foolishly

  920. living for

  921. themselves

  922. but living

  923. for God

  924. desiring

  925. to be

  926. righteous

  927. in their

  928. life

  929. those parents

  930. are a glory

  931. to their

  932. children.

  933. Those children

  934. are blessed

  935. by God

  936. to have

  937. parents

  938. that way.

  939. That is

  940. the family.

  941. That is

  942. the generation

  943. that God

  944. is seeking.

  945. So to

  946. close

  947. we aren't

  948. perfect

  949. and we

  950. can't fix

  951. other people.

  952. We can't

  953. fix people

  954. in our

  955. families

  956. that are

  957. hard to

  958. love.

  959. Maybe we

  960. can't fix

  961. people in

  962. our families

  963. that aren't

  964. following

  965. God.

  966. But

  967. we aren't

  968. called

  969. to their

  970. righteousness.

  971. We're

  972. called to

  973. live

  974. righteous

  975. for

  976. ourselves

  977. before

  978. God

  979. for the

  980. life

  981. that

  982. he

  983. has

  984. for

  985. us.

  986. The

  987. right

  988. life

  989. because

  990. its

  991. center

  992. is

  993. Christ

  994. and

  995. because

  996. its

  997. purpose

  998. is

  999. for

  1000. God.

  1001. So

  1002. we're

  1003. going to

  1004. end

  1005. there.

  1006. Take

  1007. a minute

  1008. just to

  1009. think

  1010. about

  1011. that

  1012. phrase

  1013. that

  1014. righteous

  1015. living

  1016. before

  1017. God

  1018. results

  1019. in

  1020. the

  1021. life

  1022. that

  1023. God

  1024. has

  1025. for

  1026. you.

  1027. The

  1028. right

  1029. life.

  1030. Let's

  1031. take a

  1032. minute

  1033. to think

  1034. about

  1035. that

  1036. and

  1037. then

  1038. we'll

  1039. have

  1040. some

  1041. prayer.