Sermon
Sovereignty of the Lord Over Human Society/Socio-Economic Hierarchy
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that you may gain wisdom in the future.
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Many are the plans in the mind of a man,
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but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.
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What is desired in a man is steadfast love,
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and a poor man is better than a liar.
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This is God's holy and authoritative word.
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In this world, depending on where you are,
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on the socioeconomic ladder,
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which realm you occupy,
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you get treated differently.
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When you enter a shop,
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if you look like a wealthy patron,
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you will receive preferential treatment
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from sales associates who are called for a purchase.
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But if you are perceived to belong
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to a lower socioeconomic class,
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instead of a glowing welcome,
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you might get a cold shoulder,
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or worse, suspicious glances,
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and perhaps even a security guard that is shadowing you.
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Proverbs 18.22-19.22
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acknowledges this harsh reality,
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but teaches us as God's people instead
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that those who desire what is good
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should conduct themselves with the fear of the Lord
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amidst various socioeconomic realities.
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And so first we see how we have to function in light of the economic realities,
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verse 22 to chapter 19, verse 7.
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And then we have to function in terms of society and its order in chapter 19, verse 82, verse 22.
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And fittingly in a passage dealing with social relations,
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chapter 18, verse 22 begins with the most intimate of social relations.
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He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
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Often literary units in Proverbs begin with an exhortation to listen to or to find wisdom,
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to acquire wisdom.
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And in this passage, verse 22 functions as that kind of introduction.
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Because we've seen throughout the book that Solomon frequently personifies wisdom as a woman.
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Lady wisdom.
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And so in chapter 8, verse 35,
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Lady of Wisdom said something very similar.
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She said,
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Whoever finds me finds a good thing.
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Whoever finds me finds life, rather,
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and obtains favor from the Lord.
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Very similar to chapter 18, verse 22.
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He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
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So here, the God-fearing, prudent wife, the wise wife,
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acquiring such a wife is compared to finding God's wisdom.
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This is because, as we'll see later in chapter 19, verse 14,
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a prudent wife is from the Lord.
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Finding a wise wife, a wise spouse,
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like finding God's wisdom,
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is God's gift.
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An expression of God's favor.
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And it says,
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Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing.
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The word good is a key word that recurs throughout this passage.
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Chapter 19, verse 1 says,
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Better is a poor person who walks in his integrity
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than one who is crooked in speech and is a fool.
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That's literally,
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Good is a poor person
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who walks in his integrity
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than one who is crooked.
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So every time you see the word better,
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it's the same Hebrew word that's occurring in this passage.
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Similarly, 19.22 says,
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What is desired in a man is steadfast love,
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and a poor man is good compared to a liar.
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Better than a liar.
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And it's used again in chapter 19, verse 2,
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to begin the next subsection.
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And so, in other words,
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this passage is about finding what is good.
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Every day, the world bombards us with messages
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of what is good and what is not good.
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But as Christians,
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we must not be conformed to this world,
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but be transformed by the renewal of our mind.
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That by testing,
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we may discern what is the will of God,
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what is good,
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and acceptable,
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and perfect.
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And that's what we're doing this morning,
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asking ourselves,
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What does God say is good?
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How can we conform ourselves to this good
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in our dealings with people
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in various socioeconomic standing?
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And after this introductory verse,
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this passage dives right into
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human relationships complicated by money.
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It says in chapter 18, verse 23,
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The poor used in treaties,
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but the rich answer roughly.
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People who are impoverished cry out for relief,
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but the haughty rich answer them roughly.
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As I've mentioned in this series before,
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the word poverty is used consistently
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throughout this book in a negative way.
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But the word poor is used consistently
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in a positive way.
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Poverty in wisdom literature
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is a result of divine judgment for sins
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such as slothfulness, stinginess,
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or love of luxury.
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But the poor are so because of circumstances
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that are outside of their control,
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such as societal injustice,
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and because of that,
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they receive God's special compassion
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throughout the book,
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His care.
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And so here, what's in view
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is the undeservedly poor
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crying out for relief,
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but the undeservedly rich person
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rebuffs Him.
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And then it says in chapter 18, verse 24,
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A man of many companions may come to ruin,
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but there is a friend
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who sticks closer than a brother.
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The rich, as it later says in chapter 19, verse 6,
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have many friends.
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In contrast to the poor person
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who is answered in a rough manner.
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But this verse warns us,
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A man of many companions may come to ruin,
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but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
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The implied message is this,
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that's the kind of friend
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that a poor person needs.
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In a world where the rich answer roughly,
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the poor person needs a friend
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who sticks closer than a brother.
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Not a fair-weather friend,
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but a friend who is there through the thick and thin.
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Being poor is hard,
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but nonetheless,
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chapter 19, verse 1, insists,
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Better is a poor person.
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Literally, good is a poor person
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who walks in his integrity
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than one who is crooked in speech
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and is a fool.
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This is an example of imprecise parallelism,
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where a precise antithetical parallel
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would have compared or contrasted
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a poor person's righteousness
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from a rich person's unrighteousness,
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but this verse contrasts
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a poor person's integrity
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from the fool's crooked speech.
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And parallels that are intentionally imbalanced like this
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invite us to fill out the picture.
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So what's in view then is
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a poor person is who is wise
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and walks in integrity
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and speaks forthrightly,
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and the fool who is rich
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but walks in unrighteousness
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and speaks deviously.
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And if we were to assess the lives
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of these two people,
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which of them, would you conclude,
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has the good life?
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By many people's standards,
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it's the rich person
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that has the good life.
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But God's assessment is different.
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He says,
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not the haughty rich
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who seem to be enjoying
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God's material blessings,
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but rather the humble poor person
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who holds onto his integrity
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is better, is good.
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That's because the righteous poor
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are miserable only for a moment,
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but the crooked rich
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are miserable forever.
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The poor person is the one
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who is in the will of God.
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And this imagery of walking in integrity
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and the word good in verse 1
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connects it to verse 2.
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Desire without knowledge is not good,
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and whoever makes haste with his feet
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misses his way.
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In the Hebrew,
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there's an escalation
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from the first to the second clause
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in verse 2.
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The New International Version,
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the translation captures this.
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It says,
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Desire without knowledge is not good.
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How much more
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will hasty feet miss the way?
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This proverb can simply mean
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that if you desire
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to get to a destination,
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but you don't know how to get there,
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just hasting to get there
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is going to get you even more lost.
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But the immediate surrounding context
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suggests that there's a deeper
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layer of meaning.
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In Proverbs,
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the word knowledge
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invariably refers to
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the knowledge of God.
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So Solomon is saying here,
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if even desire without knowledge
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of God is not good,
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how much more will the one
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with hasty feet miss his way?
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Desiring to be rich
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apart from God is not good.
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Rather, we saw in verse 1,
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good is a poor person
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who walks in integrity.
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But if even the desire itself
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is not good,
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how much worse is the fool
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who hates to get rich
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quickly using devious,
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crooked means?
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Now this distinction
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between desire and action
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is helpful
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because acting on one's
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sinful desires
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is worse
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than simply having sinful desires.
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but having the sinful desires
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is nevertheless evil.
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It's sinful.
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There is a difference
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between being tempted
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to sin and sinning.
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So for example,
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in Genesis chapter 39,
Genesis 39 chapter mention
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when Joseph is tempted
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by Potiphar's wife
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to,
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she tries to seduce him,
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he runs away,
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he flees.
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So he was tempted
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but he did not sin.
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So because of this distinction
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between temptation and sin,
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I think sometimes Christians
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think that desiring sinful things
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is okay
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as long as you don't do
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something about it.
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But that's not true either.
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There's a reason why
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one of the Ten Commandments
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is you shall not covet
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your neighbor's house.
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You shall not covet
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your neighbor's wife
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or his male servant
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or his female servant
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or his ox
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or his donkey
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or anything that is your neighbor's.
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Even desiring for yourself
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something that belongs
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to another is sinful.
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This is why
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1 Timothy chapter 6
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verses 9 and 10
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say this,
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But those who desire
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to be rich
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fall into temptation,
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into a snare,
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into many senseless
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and harmful desires
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that plunge people
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into ruin and destruction.
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For the love of money
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is a root of all kinds of evils.
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It is through this craving
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that some have wandered away
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from the faith
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and pierced themselves
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with many pains.
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Getting rich
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as a byproduct
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of your industriousness
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and faithfulness
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to God
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is one thing.
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But desiring
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to be rich,
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loving money,
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is something
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entirely different
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and the Bible
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calls it sin.
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We should nip
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such desires
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in the bud
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long before we act on them.
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Desire without knowledge
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is not good.
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And whoever makes haste
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with his feet
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misses his way.
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Verse 3 continues
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this metaphor
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of walking in the way.
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It says,
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When a man's folly
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brings his way to ruin,
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his heart rages
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against the Lord.
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Now,
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when a foolish person
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seeking gain,
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quickly,
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quick wealth,
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through gambling,
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pyramid schemes,
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smuggling,
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dealing,
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or stealing,
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when he gets busted
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by the authorities,
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his heart rages
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against the Lord.
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We've seen this
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in our own lives.
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People blame God
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for what they have
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brought upon themselves.
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The word rage here
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is typically used
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exclusively
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to refer to
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kings and God
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who rage.
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And so here,
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it kind of conveys
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the pride
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of this fool
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who is raging
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against the Lord.
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He has this sense
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of indignation
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against God
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saying,
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Well,
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I deserve better.
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God isn't alone.
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He owes me something.
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When in reality,
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God owes him nothing
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and it's he
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who has brought
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this upon himself.
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We've all done this
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in some ways,
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haven't we?
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Imagine you're having
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one of those
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very bad days.
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Perhaps after
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the service this morning,
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I guess it's Sunday
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so maybe this won't happen,
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but you return
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to your car.
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A car driving by
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had locked
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off your side mirror
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clear off the car.
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No notes on it.
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And then,
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right after you
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examine that,
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you see that you
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also got a ticket
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for not feeding
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the meter in time.
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And then,
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you get angry
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so you kick the tire
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as hard as you can
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and you break your toe.
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And then,
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you raise your fist
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at God and say,
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God,
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why me?
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I blame you.
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Why have you
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brought this about?
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Why is my life
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so hard?
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Why do bad things
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happen to me?
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If you're harboring anger,
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indignation,
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or resentment
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against God
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in your heart,
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ask yourself
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this question
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deep down inside.
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Do you blame God
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for your past,
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for your sin,
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for your pain,
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for your disappointments,
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for your lie in life?
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Surely,
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there's pain
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that others
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inflict on us,
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but most,
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our vocational troubles,
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our health troubles.
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And often,
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the consequences
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of our own folly
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and the wise person
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accepts that responsibility
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and seeks
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the knowledge of God
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and the community of God
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to bring correction
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and reformation.
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Verses 4-7
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continue to teach us
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what it looks like
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to conduct ourselves
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with the fear of the Lord
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amidst various
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socioeconomic realities.
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It says,
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wealth brings many new friends,
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but a poor man
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is deserted by his friend.
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A false witness
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will not go unpunished,
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and he who breathed out lies
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will not escape.
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Many seek the favor
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of a generous man,
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and everyone is a friend
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to a man who gives gifts.
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All the poor man's brothers
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hate him.
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How much more
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do his friends
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go far from him?
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He pursues them
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with words,
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but does not have them.
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The word friend
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occurs four times
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in these four verses,
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and behind this
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is a generic Hebrew word
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for the word friend,
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which usually has a neutral
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or a negative meaning.
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If you look at
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Proverbs 18-24
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for a minute,
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it's the same word
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that was translated there
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as companion,
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but it's not the same word
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as the one translated friend
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in chapter 18-24,
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the true friend.
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A man of many companions
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may come to ruin,
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but there's a friend
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who sticks closer
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than a brother.
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In other words,
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the friends that wealth
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brings are not
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true friends.
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They are fair-weather friends
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and gold-dating friends.
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Friendship with them
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is not relational,
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but transactional.
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And this is why
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a poor man
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is deserted
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by his friends.
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When the man's wealth
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is gone,
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he has nothing to offer,
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but he treats,
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words,
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to pursue them,
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and it's not enough.
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They leave.
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And this unfortunate reality
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has implications
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for justice
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because a rich man
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will have many
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pseudo-friends
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willing to take
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his side in court,
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even to the point
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of bearing false witness,
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thinking that they
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will not be caught.
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Verse 9 warns,
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a false witness
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will not go unpunished,
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and he who breathes out
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lies will not escape.
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So he's warning us,
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don't be a pseudo-friend
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to the rich
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and the powerful.
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Currying the favor
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of such people
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betrays our lack
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of faith in God
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because we're thinking
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that the way
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to improve our lives
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is by curing favor
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with the rich,
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taking their side
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even when they are
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in the wrong.
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But instead,
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we have to seek
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the favor of God
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by being a faithful
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and true witness,
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living with integrity,
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even if that means
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being poor.
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Verses 6-7
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continue the same thing.
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Many seek the favor
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of a generous man,
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and everyone is a friend
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to a man who gives gifts.
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All a poor man's
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brothers hate him,
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how much more
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do his friends
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go far from him,
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pursues them with words,
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but does not have them.
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It says,
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this is a sad reality,
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even the poor man's
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brothers hate him.
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Even his blood-related
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siblings despise
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and deserve the poor man
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when the demands
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that he makes on them
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become too burdensome.
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how much more
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than will these
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pseudo-friends
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deserve him.
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And this reality
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accentuates the importance
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of chapter 18,
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verse 24.
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Yet again,
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for the poor person,
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a man of many companions
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may come to ruin,
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but there's a friend
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who sticks closer
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than a brother.
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Since even the brother
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deserves a poor person,
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the poor need a friend
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who sticks closer
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than a brother,
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and that's the kind
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of friend we are
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to aspire to be
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to one another
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and to those in need.
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Those who desire
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God's good gifts
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should conduct themselves
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with the fear
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of the Lord
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amidst these
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socioeconomic realities.
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This is the complex
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reality created
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by money.
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And then in chapter 19,
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verse 8,
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to verse 22,
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it instructs us
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on how to navigate
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the complex realities
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in society,
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in societal order.
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Now just as the
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preceding subsection
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began with the
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exhortation to find
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what is good,
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the good thing,
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chapter 19,
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verse 8 begins
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with the idea
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of finding good.
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Whoever gets sense
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loves his own soul.
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He who keeps
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understanding
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will discover good.
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Whoever acquires sense,
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the understanding of God,
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the knowledge of God,
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his wisdom,
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is a person who
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loves his own soul
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because the knowledge
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of God presents
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one's soul
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unto eternity
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and produces
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what is truly good.
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And then verse 9
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repeats verse 5
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word for word,
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but it means
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a slightly different
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because it's
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a different context.
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This is a false witness
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will not go unpunished
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and he who breathes out
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lies will perish.
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In the former context,
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the proverb warned
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against bearing
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false witness in court
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as a favor to the rich.
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But now in this new context,
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the emphasis is on
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the senselessness
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and the incongruity
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of a false witness.
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If society is to be
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rightly ordered,
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we must rid it
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of false witnesses
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who pervert justice.
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And God threatens
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that he will ultimately
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punish those who bear
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false witness.
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The perjurer
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will ultimately perish
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and therefore
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he who lies in court
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lacks sense.
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He does not love
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his own soul.
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He will discover evil
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instead of good.
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The perjurer
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doesn't belong
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in the court of justice
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any more than
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an incompetent slave
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belongs in the royal palace.
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It says in verse 10,
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it is not fitting
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for a fool
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to live in luxury,
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much less for a slave
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to rule over princes.
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Slavery in Israel
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back in those days
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was an economic institution
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that did not make
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distinctions based on
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the color of someone's skin.
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And neither was it
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sourced through kidnapping
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nor enforced for life
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like transatlantic slavery.
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Slavery back then
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were indisputable by race
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and they made similar wages
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as other people.
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And they usually
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bought their own freedom
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when they had accumulated
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enough money
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to repay their debt.
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So in that sense,
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ancient Israelite slavery
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is more akin to
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modern day contractual servitude.
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For example,
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a cadet that graduates
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from the military academy
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owes five years of service
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to the military
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for his free education.
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He is essentially
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a servant of the state.
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And if he does not
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discharge his duties,
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he has to pay back
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all of his tuition
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and room and board.
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Often,
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slaves back then
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were highly educated
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and educated and competent.
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So Proverbs chapter 14,
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verse 35
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speaks of a servant
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who deals wisely
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and therefore has
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the king's favor.
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And in chapter 17,
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verse 2,
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spoke of a servant
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who deals wisely
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who will rule over a son
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who acts shamefully
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and will share the inheritance
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as one of the brothers.
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So there's clearly
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a very accomplished
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and competent
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and servants
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who are well deserving
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of acclaim.
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But what's in view
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in chapter 18,
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verse 10
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is not that kind
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of wise,
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loyal,
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competent servant.
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He is here,
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as the parallel indicates,
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a foolish slave.
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It is not fitting
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for a fool
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to live in luxury,
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much less for a slave
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to rule over princes.
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It is unsuitable,
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incongruous
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to have the fool
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be sated with luxury
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and the slave
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rule over the noble prince.
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Proverbs chapter 30,
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verse 21 and 22
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is a close parallel
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and it says
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that the earth trembles
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and cannot bear up
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under a slave
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when he becomes king.
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When a person
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who does not have
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the character
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and the competence
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to rule
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takes the throne,
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he becomes intoxicated
-
by his newfound
-
privilege and power
-
and becomes overbearing.
-
He abuses his power,
-
perverts justice,
-
his rule is erratic,
-
his temper is uncontrollable.
-
In contrast,
-
when the rightful king,
-
a person of noble character,
-
reigns,
-
it looks like
-
verses 11 and 12.
-
Good sense
-
makes one slow to anger
-
and it is his glory
-
to overlook an offense.
-
A king's wrath
-
is like the growling
-
of a lion,
-
but his favor
-
is like dew
-
on the grass.
-
A person with noble character
-
has good sense,
-
which makes him
-
slow to anger,
-
is a vice.
-
It's the vice of cowardice
-
and vice of indifference.
-
It's not a virtue.
-
But though he does not
-
get angry at times,
-
so he does get angry
-
at times,
-
this righteous person,
-
he is slow to anger.
-
Anybody can,
-
you know,
-
floor the accelerator
-
and get into a huge wreck.
-
But it takes
-
a NASCAR driver
-
to control the car
-
at such high speed.
-
The wise person
-
controls his anger,
-
channels his anger,
-
and he is slow
-
to get angry.
-
It is in fact
-
his glory
-
to overlook an offense.
-
A wise person
-
considers his magnanimity,
-
his mercy,
-
his forgiveness
-
to be a badge of honor.
-
He relishes
-
the opportunity
-
to forgive
-
and extend mercy
-
when he has been
-
offended or hurt.
-
It brings him glory
-
because
-
it shows that
-
his character
-
resembles the character
-
of the glorious God
-
who revealed himself
-
this way
-
in Exodus 34.
-
The Lord,
-
a God merciful
-
and gracious,
-
slow to anger,
-
abounding in
-
steadfast love
-
and faithfulness,
-
keeping steadfast love
-
for thousands,
-
forgiving wickedness,
-
rebellion,
-
and sin.
-
But the passage
-
continues in Exodus 34.
-
He who will by no means
-
clear the guilty.
-
Growing in godly character
-
not only involves
-
patience,
-
being slow to anger,
-
and mercy,
-
but it also involves
-
justice.
-
So verse 12 says
-
a king's wrath
-
is like the growling
-
of a lion,
-
but his favor
-
is like the dew
-
on the grass.
-
The king reserves
-
his intense wrath
-
for the wicked
-
and shows his gentle
-
life-giving favor.
-
for the righteous.
-
This is what
-
a rightly ordered
-
society should look like.
-
And then in verses
-
13 and 14,
-
Solomon turns to
-
what a rightly ordered
-
family should look like
-
and should not look like.
-
He says,
-
A foolish son
-
is ruined to his father,
-
and a wife's quarreling
-
is a continual
-
dripping of rain.
-
House and wealth
-
are inherited from fathers,
-
but a prudent wife
-
is from the Lord.
-
A son should bring
-
prosperity and honor
-
to the father,
-
but a foolish son,
-
it says,
-
is his father's ruin.
-
A wife should be
-
the husband's
-
most trusted confidant
-
and helper,
-
but a quarrelsome wife
-
is her husband's
-
most tiresome enemy.
-
In this part
-
of the ancient world,
-
roofs were made
-
of crisscross layers
-
of wooden boards
-
and sticks,
-
and then it was covered
-
with layers of clay,
-
water, chalk,
-
and chaff.
-
And unfortunately,
-
like everything else
-
that human beings make,
-
such roofs
-
eventually deteriorate
-
and they crumble.
-
And it gives way
-
to dripping rain.
-
This is an appropriate image
-
because a leaky roof
-
makes the home,
-
which is supposed to be
-
a place of rest
-
and refuge,
-
a work field
-
that perhaps even feels
-
like a battlefield.
-
A wife's quarreling
-
is a continual
-
gripping of rain.
-
Brothers and sisters,
-
some of us have
-
quarrelsome households.
-
Whether it's with
-
our housemates
-
or with other
-
family members,
-
but a home is supposed
-
to be a place
-
of rest
-
and refuge.
-
We call Proverbs
-
chapter 17,
-
verse 1,
-
Better is a dry morsel
-
with quiet
-
than a house
-
full of feasting
-
with strife.
-
Maybe your house
-
is full of strife
-
because you're trying
-
so hard
-
to put together
-
a feast
-
that will impress
-
other people.
-
A dry morsel
-
with quiet
-
is better.
-
Maybe your house
-
is full of strife
-
because you're always
-
getting into arguments
-
about your children
-
and the unrealistically
-
high expectations
-
you have for them.
-
perhaps more basic
-
expectations
-
and activities
-
with quiet
-
in the home
-
is better.
-
Maybe you think
-
your house
-
is full of strife
-
because you don't
-
have enough feasting.
-
Your spouse
-
doesn't earn enough money.
-
But that's
-
not true either.
-
He says there are
-
houses full of feasting
-
with strife.
-
But it's possible
-
to have peace
-
in your home
-
with the meager
-
portion of dry morsel.
-
Some of you
-
have formed
-
new households
-
or you have
-
recently moved
-
in with your
-
housemates.
-
We ought to all
-
be people
-
who offer peace
-
and rest
-
to those
-
in our household.
-
And verse 14
-
offers the ideal picture.
-
House and wealth
-
are inherited
-
from fathers.
-
So one obedient son
-
instead of
-
ruining his father
-
honors and
-
offers him
-
so he can inherit
-
house and wealth.
-
But while we can
-
inherit material wealth
-
from earthly fathers,
-
it says a prudent wife
-
is from the Lord.
-
This verse echoes
-
chapter 18
-
verse 22.
-
He who finds a wife
-
finds a good thing
-
and obtains favor
-
from the Lord.
-
Once again,
-
like wisdom
-
which we can only
-
receive from God,
-
a wise wife
-
is a gift
-
from God.
-
It's an expression
-
of his favor.
-
So I want to
-
encourage every single
-
man and woman
-
in our church.
-
If you desire
-
to get married
-
instead of
-
serving the Lord
-
in your singleness
-
with single-minded
-
devotion,
-
pray
-
and seek
-
the Lord
-
like you seek
-
his wisdom.
-
Make the pursuit
-
of the Lord
-
your first priority
-
and not the pursuit
-
of a husband
-
or a wife.
-
Because your
-
fulfillment
-
in this endeavor
-
depends not on
-
how many
-
available singles
-
there are
-
in your pools
-
of friends,
-
not on how
-
attractive
-
or well-established
-
you are financially,
-
not on how
-
active you are
-
on the dating apps,
-
but it depends
-
on the grace
-
and favor
-
of the Lord
-
if what you
-
really want
-
is a prudent,
-
wise stop.
-
Verses 15 and 16
-
then continue
-
to explain
-
the difference
-
between the foolish
-
son who ruins
-
his father
-
and the wise son
-
who inherits
-
house-in-law
-
from his father.
-
Slothfulness
-
casts into
-
a deep sleep
-
and an idle
-
person
-
will suffer
-
hunger.
-
Whoever
-
keeps the
-
commandment
-
keeps his
-
life.
-
He who
-
despises
-
his ways
-
will die.
-
Deep sleep
-
that's speaking
-
of is similar
-
to a coma.
-
It's a picture
-
of death
-
and it is
-
paralleled here
-
at the end
-
of verse 16
-
by he who
-
despises
-
God's ways
-
will die.
-
Idleness
-
and slothfulness
-
lead to hunger
-
and eventually
-
to death
-
and God
-
commands instead
-
for us
-
diligent
-
and honest
-
work.
-
And not only
-
does a righteous
-
person provide
-
for himself
-
through hard
-
work,
-
he also
-
provides for
-
others who
-
are in less
-
fortunate
-
situations.
-
So verses
-
17 to 22
-
return to the
-
teaching about
-
how we should
-
treat the
-
humble poor.
-
This begins
-
and ends
-
with the mention
-
of the poor
-
in verse 17
-
and verse 22.
-
It says in verse 17,
-
whoever is generous
-
to the poor
-
lends to the
-
Lord and he
-
will repay him
-
for his deed.
-
In this passage
-
about the right
-
ordering of society,
-
this is a startling
-
verse because the
-
poor by any measure
-
are at the bottom
-
of the socioeconomic
-
ladder.
-
They are often
-
despised and
-
deserted as we've
-
seen throughout
-
this chapter.
-
And yet,
-
this low class
-
of people
-
God associates
-
with himself.
-
He's associated
-
with the most
-
high God.
-
If you are
-
generous to the
-
poor,
-
it's like you're
-
lending money
-
to the Lord.
-
What an amazing
-
promise.
-
There are plenty
-
of people who
-
are willing to
-
lend money to
-
people with
-
good credit
-
with the
-
expectation that
-
they will be
-
repaid in full
-
with interest.
-
But fewer
-
people give
-
generously to the
-
poor.
-
Why?
-
Because they
-
know that they
-
will not be
-
repaid in any
-
shape or form.
-
Precisely because
-
they are poor.
-
And yet,
-
this proverb
-
subverts that
-
logic.
-
When you give
-
to the poor,
-
you are lending
-
to the Lord,
-
the master of
-
the universe,
-
the creator of
-
the cosmos.
-
Do you think
-
he...
-
Do you know
-
of poorer
-
brothers and
-
sisters in the
-
church that
-
would be surprised
-
with the generous
-
gifts?
-
Do you have
-
a poor
-
housemate or
-
a neighbor you
-
can help
-
out?
-
Don't ever
-
fear that you
-
will not have
-
enough for
-
yourself.
-
Give generously
-
because when
-
you do,
-
the Lord
-
himself will
-
repay you in
-
this life and
-
in the next.
-
And in order
-
to rear such
-
self-controlled,
-
hard-working
-
children who are
-
generous to the
-
poor,
-
discipline is
-
necessary.
-
So verse 18
-
says,
-
discipline your
-
son for
-
there is
-
hope.
-
Do not set
-
your heart
-
on putting
-
him to
-
death.
-
People
-
sometimes think
-
that by
-
disciplining
-
their kids
-
that they
-
will shatter
-
their fragile
-
psyches and
-
ruin their
-
prospects for
-
the future.
-
But wisdom
-
literature from
-
every major
-
civilization
-
throughout
-
history,
-
and the
-
book of
-
Proverbs,
-
which is
-
God's holy
-
and authoritative
-
word,
-
strongly
-
enjoys
-
corporal
-
discipline.
-
And humanity
-
has not
-
crumbled under
-
this supposedly
-
bad advice
-
in the many
-
millennia of
-
people doing
-
it, of
-
parents doing
-
it.
-
And I can
-
guarantee you
-
that generations
-
of children
-
who are growing
-
up right now
-
without such
-
corporal
-
discipline are
-
not going to
-
create utopia
-
that eluded
-
previous generations
-
just because
-
they supposedly
-
received better
-
parenting.
-
Later in
-
chapter
-
Proverbs 23
-
verse 13
-
it says,
-
do not
-
withhold
-
discipline
-
from a
-
child.
-
If you
-
strike him
-
with a
-
rod,
-
he will
-
not die.
-
Contrast
-
this with
-
verse 18
-
of our
-
chapter which
-
says that
-
if you don't
-
discipline your
-
children,
-
you're
-
extinguishing
-
all their
-
hope and
-
you are in
-
fact setting
-
your heart
-
on putting
-
them to
-
death.
-
It's
-
counterintuitive
-
but it's
-
true.
-
I will
-
elaborate on
-
this further
-
when we get
-
to chapter
-
22 but
-
for today
-
it's sufficient
-
to note that
-
discipline
-
is never
-
to be a
-
form of
-
abuse,
-
verbal or
-
physical.
-
Biblical
-
discipline is
-
always meted
-
out in
-
love,
-
not in
-
hatred or
-
uncontrolled
-
rage.
-
Abuse does
-
ruin children's
-
lives but
-
that's a
-
world apart
-
from the
-
biblical
-
discipline
-
that is
-
in view.
-
If you do
-
not discipline
-
your child,
-
he says,
-
you will
-
not learn
-
good sense
-
that makes
-
him slow
-
to anger,
-
which verse
-
11 spoke
-
of.
-
And then
-
Solomon warns
-
us in
-
verse 19,
-
a man of
-
great wrath
-
will pay
-
the penalty
-
for if you
-
deliver him
-
you will
-
only have
-
to do it
-
again.
-
At some
-
point the
-
child will
-
be beyond
-
correction
-
and he
-
will pay
-
a costly
-
price for
-
his
-
undisciplined
-
life.
-
And he
-
won't learn
-
his lesson
-
but you
-
will need
-
to bail
-
him out
-
again
-
and again
-
and again.
-
So verses
-
20 to 22
-
adjure us.
-
Listen to
-
advice and
-
accept instruction
-
that you may
-
gain wisdom
-
in the future.
-
Many are
-
the plans
-
in the mind
-
of a man
-
but it is
-
the purpose
-
of the Lord
-
that will
-
stand.
-
What is
-
desired in
-
a man
-
is steadfast
-
love and
-
a poor
-
man is
-
better than
-
a liar.
-
Humanity
-
has its
-
own desires
-
and plans
-
but ultimately
-
it is the
-
purpose of
-
God that
-
will stand.
-
So it's
-
in our
-
interest
-
to align
-
our purposes
-
and priorities
-
with God
-
rather than
-
stubbornly
-
insisting
-
on our
-
own way
-
because God's
-
will will
-
prevail.
-
Because
-
and though
-
many people
-
in our
-
world
-
shun
-
steadfast
-
love and
-
faithfulness
-
in exchange
-
for wealth
-
Christians are
-
to stand
-
firmly on
-
the truth
-
that a
-
poor man
-
is better
-
than a
-
liar
-
because
-
God
-
takes
-
interest
-
in the
-
plight of
-
the poor
-
because God
-
involves himself
-
in the
-
affairs of
-
the
-
holy.
-
Because
-
as verse
-
17 says
-
whoever is
-
generous to
-
the poor
-
lends to
-
the Lord.
-
God
-
delivers the
-
poor and
-
this is true
-
in a material
-
sense but
-
especially and
-
most importantly
-
in a spiritual
-
sense.
-
Luke chapter
Luke 16 chapter mention
-
16 says
-
blessed are you
-
who are poor
-
for yours is
-
the kingdom of
-
God.
-
Blessed are you
-
who are hungry
-
now for you
-
shall be satisfied.
-
Blessed are you
-
who weep now
-
for you shall
-
laugh.
-
Throughout his
-
gospel Luke
-
makes a
-
connection
-
between material
-
poverty and
-
spiritual poverty.
-
The poor
-
who will be
-
blessed by
-
God are
-
those who
-
humble themselves
-
before God
-
and acknowledge
-
their sinfulness,
-
their neediness,
-
their spiritual
-
impoverishment
-
before God.
-
Brothers and
-
sisters,
-
we are
-
spiritual
-
paupers.
-
There is
-
quarreling in
-
our homes.
-
We have not
-
been slow to
-
anger.
-
We have
-
lied.
-
We have
-
been slothful.
-
We have
-
answered the
-
weak and
-
the poor
-
roughly.
-
We have
-
been disobedient
-
children toward
-
our parents.
-
We have
-
raised our
-
fists at
-
God and
-
blamed him
-
for the
-
consequences of
-
our sins.
-
And in
-
this dire
-
spiritual
-
poverty,
-
we have
-
no hope.
-
There are
-
no friends
-
who will
-
come to
-
our aid.
-
But there
-
was one.
-
There was
-
one friend
-
who stuck
-
closer than
-
a brother.
-
The rich
-
God of the
-
universe,
-
instead of
-
entering us
-
roughly,
-
sent us
-
his son,
-
Jesus Christ,
-
as a
-
faithful friend
-
and deliverer.
-
And Jesus
-
left behind
-
his glory
-
as of the
-
Son of God
-
and he
-
took on
-
human flesh
-
so that he
-
might live
-
the life
-
of obedience
-
that we
-
failed to
-
live.
-
And so
-
that with
-
his perfect
-
life and
-
righteousness,
-
he might
-
die on
-
the cross
-
in our
-
place to
-
pay our
-
insurmountable
-
debt of
-
sin.
-
And then
-
he rose
-
from the
-
dead to
-
give us
-
eternal life
-
and to
-
declare that
-
his sacrifice,
-
his payment
-
for our
-
debt of
-
sin on
-
the cross
-
has been
-
accepted by
-
God,
-
his Father.
-
And it's
-
because Jesus
-
paid this
-
ultimate price,
-
Paul reminds
-
us in
-
2 Corinthians
-
8, 9,
-
for you
-
know the
-
grace of
-
our Lord
-
Jesus Christ
-
that though
-
he was
-
rich,
-
yet for
-
your sake
-
he became
-
poor,
-
so that
-
you by
-
his poverty
-
might become
-
rich.
-
That's what
-
Christ has
-
done for
-
us.
-
We had
-
no hope
-
of saving
-
ourselves,
-
yet Christ
-
gave himself,
-
made himself
-
poor,
-
that we
-
might be
-
rich,
-
and that's
-
wonderfully
-
captured in
-
this hymn,
-
entitled,
-
Thou Who
-
Was Rich.
-
Thou Who
-
Was Rich
-
Beyond All
-
Sanger
-
Didst
-
Surrender,
-
Sapphire
-
Paid
-
Courts
-
For
-
Stable
-
For
-
Thou
-
Who
-
Was
-
Rich
-
Beyond
-
All
-
Splendor,
-
All
-
For
-
Love's
-
Sake
-
Becomes
-
Poor.
-
Thou
-
Who
-
Art
-
God
-
Beyond
-
All
-
Praising,
-
All
-
For
-
Love's
-
Sake
-
Becamest
-
Man,
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Stooping
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So
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Low,
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But
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Sinners
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Raising,
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Heaven
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Worth
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By
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Thine
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Eternal
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Plan,
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Thou
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Who
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Art
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God
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Beyond
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All
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Praising,
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All
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For
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Love's
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Sake
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Becamest
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Poor.
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Let us
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put our
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faith in
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this Christ,
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who became
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poor for
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our sake.
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It's only
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by doing
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that that we'll
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be able to
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live more
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like him
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in this
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world
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and relate
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as he did
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toward the
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poor in
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the power
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of the
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Holy Spirit.
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Let's take a
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moment to
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reflect on
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that and
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then we're
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going to
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respond
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hopefully
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together by
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praying
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our
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love.
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Hey,
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after
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that
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for
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talking
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to