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Sovereignty of the Lord Over Human Society/Socio-Economic Hierarchy

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  26. that you may gain wisdom in the future.

  27. Many are the plans in the mind of a man,

  28. but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.

  29. What is desired in a man is steadfast love,

  30. and a poor man is better than a liar.

  31. This is God's holy and authoritative word.

  32. In this world, depending on where you are,

  33. on the socioeconomic ladder,

  34. which realm you occupy,

  35. you get treated differently.

  36. When you enter a shop,

  37. if you look like a wealthy patron,

  38. you will receive preferential treatment

  39. from sales associates who are called for a purchase.

  40. But if you are perceived to belong

  41. to a lower socioeconomic class,

  42. instead of a glowing welcome,

  43. you might get a cold shoulder,

  44. or worse, suspicious glances,

  45. and perhaps even a security guard that is shadowing you.

  46. Proverbs 18.22-19.22

  47. acknowledges this harsh reality,

  48. but teaches us as God's people instead

  49. that those who desire what is good

  50. should conduct themselves with the fear of the Lord

  51. amidst various socioeconomic realities.

  52. And so first we see how we have to function in light of the economic realities,

  53. verse 22 to chapter 19, verse 7.

  54. And then we have to function in terms of society and its order in chapter 19, verse 82, verse 22.

  55. And fittingly in a passage dealing with social relations,

  56. chapter 18, verse 22 begins with the most intimate of social relations.

  57. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

  58. Often literary units in Proverbs begin with an exhortation to listen to or to find wisdom,

  59. to acquire wisdom.

  60. And in this passage, verse 22 functions as that kind of introduction.

  61. Because we've seen throughout the book that Solomon frequently personifies wisdom as a woman.

  62. Lady wisdom.

  63. And so in chapter 8, verse 35,

  64. Lady of Wisdom said something very similar.

  65. She said,

  66. Whoever finds me finds a good thing.

  67. Whoever finds me finds life, rather,

  68. and obtains favor from the Lord.

  69. Very similar to chapter 18, verse 22.

  70. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

  71. So here, the God-fearing, prudent wife, the wise wife,

  72. acquiring such a wife is compared to finding God's wisdom.

  73. This is because, as we'll see later in chapter 19, verse 14,

  74. a prudent wife is from the Lord.

  75. Finding a wise wife, a wise spouse,

  76. like finding God's wisdom,

  77. is God's gift.

  78. An expression of God's favor.

  79. And it says,

  80. Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing.

  81. The word good is a key word that recurs throughout this passage.

  82. Chapter 19, verse 1 says,

  83. Better is a poor person who walks in his integrity

  84. than one who is crooked in speech and is a fool.

  85. That's literally,

  86. Good is a poor person

  87. who walks in his integrity

  88. than one who is crooked.

  89. So every time you see the word better,

  90. it's the same Hebrew word that's occurring in this passage.

  91. Similarly, 19.22 says,

  92. What is desired in a man is steadfast love,

  93. and a poor man is good compared to a liar.

  94. Better than a liar.

  95. And it's used again in chapter 19, verse 2,

  96. to begin the next subsection.

  97. And so, in other words,

  98. this passage is about finding what is good.

  99. Every day, the world bombards us with messages

  100. of what is good and what is not good.

  101. But as Christians,

  102. we must not be conformed to this world,

  103. but be transformed by the renewal of our mind.

  104. That by testing,

  105. we may discern what is the will of God,

  106. what is good,

  107. and acceptable,

  108. and perfect.

  109. And that's what we're doing this morning,

  110. asking ourselves,

  111. What does God say is good?

  112. How can we conform ourselves to this good

  113. in our dealings with people

  114. in various socioeconomic standing?

  115. And after this introductory verse,

  116. this passage dives right into

  117. human relationships complicated by money.

  118. It says in chapter 18, verse 23,

  119. The poor used in treaties,

  120. but the rich answer roughly.

  121. People who are impoverished cry out for relief,

  122. but the haughty rich answer them roughly.

  123. As I've mentioned in this series before,

  124. the word poverty is used consistently

  125. throughout this book in a negative way.

  126. But the word poor is used consistently

  127. in a positive way.

  128. Poverty in wisdom literature

  129. is a result of divine judgment for sins

  130. such as slothfulness, stinginess,

  131. or love of luxury.

  132. But the poor are so because of circumstances

  133. that are outside of their control,

  134. such as societal injustice,

  135. and because of that,

  136. they receive God's special compassion

  137. throughout the book,

  138. His care.

  139. And so here, what's in view

  140. is the undeservedly poor

  141. crying out for relief,

  142. but the undeservedly rich person

  143. rebuffs Him.

  144. And then it says in chapter 18, verse 24,

  145. A man of many companions may come to ruin,

  146. but there is a friend

  147. who sticks closer than a brother.

  148. The rich, as it later says in chapter 19, verse 6,

  149. have many friends.

  150. In contrast to the poor person

  151. who is answered in a rough manner.

  152. But this verse warns us,

  153. A man of many companions may come to ruin,

  154. but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

  155. The implied message is this,

  156. that's the kind of friend

  157. that a poor person needs.

  158. In a world where the rich answer roughly,

  159. the poor person needs a friend

  160. who sticks closer than a brother.

  161. Not a fair-weather friend,

  162. but a friend who is there through the thick and thin.

  163. Being poor is hard,

  164. but nonetheless,

  165. chapter 19, verse 1, insists,

  166. Better is a poor person.

  167. Literally, good is a poor person

  168. who walks in his integrity

  169. than one who is crooked in speech

  170. and is a fool.

  171. This is an example of imprecise parallelism,

  172. where a precise antithetical parallel

  173. would have compared or contrasted

  174. a poor person's righteousness

  175. from a rich person's unrighteousness,

  176. but this verse contrasts

  177. a poor person's integrity

  178. from the fool's crooked speech.

  179. And parallels that are intentionally imbalanced like this

  180. invite us to fill out the picture.

  181. So what's in view then is

  182. a poor person is who is wise

  183. and walks in integrity

  184. and speaks forthrightly,

  185. and the fool who is rich

  186. but walks in unrighteousness

  187. and speaks deviously.

  188. And if we were to assess the lives

  189. of these two people,

  190. which of them, would you conclude,

  191. has the good life?

  192. By many people's standards,

  193. it's the rich person

  194. that has the good life.

  195. But God's assessment is different.

  196. He says,

  197. not the haughty rich

  198. who seem to be enjoying

  199. God's material blessings,

  200. but rather the humble poor person

  201. who holds onto his integrity

  202. is better, is good.

  203. That's because the righteous poor

  204. are miserable only for a moment,

  205. but the crooked rich

  206. are miserable forever.

  207. The poor person is the one

  208. who is in the will of God.

  209. And this imagery of walking in integrity

  210. and the word good in verse 1

  211. connects it to verse 2.

  212. Desire without knowledge is not good,

  213. and whoever makes haste with his feet

  214. misses his way.

  215. In the Hebrew,

  216. there's an escalation

  217. from the first to the second clause

  218. in verse 2.

  219. The New International Version,

  220. the translation captures this.

  221. It says,

  222. Desire without knowledge is not good.

  223. How much more

  224. will hasty feet miss the way?

  225. This proverb can simply mean

  226. that if you desire

  227. to get to a destination,

  228. but you don't know how to get there,

  229. just hasting to get there

  230. is going to get you even more lost.

  231. But the immediate surrounding context

  232. suggests that there's a deeper

  233. layer of meaning.

  234. In Proverbs,

  235. the word knowledge

  236. invariably refers to

  237. the knowledge of God.

  238. So Solomon is saying here,

  239. if even desire without knowledge

  240. of God is not good,

  241. how much more will the one

  242. with hasty feet miss his way?

  243. Desiring to be rich

  244. apart from God is not good.

  245. Rather, we saw in verse 1,

  246. good is a poor person

  247. who walks in integrity.

  248. But if even the desire itself

  249. is not good,

  250. how much worse is the fool

  251. who hates to get rich

  252. quickly using devious,

  253. crooked means?

  254. Now this distinction

  255. between desire and action

  256. is helpful

  257. because acting on one's

  258. sinful desires

  259. is worse

  260. than simply having sinful desires.

  261. but having the sinful desires

  262. is nevertheless evil.

  263. It's sinful.

  264. There is a difference

  265. between being tempted

  266. to sin and sinning.

  267. So for example,

  268. in Genesis chapter 39,

    Genesis 39 chapter mention

  269. when Joseph is tempted

  270. by Potiphar's wife

  271. to,

  272. she tries to seduce him,

  273. he runs away,

  274. he flees.

  275. So he was tempted

  276. but he did not sin.

  277. So because of this distinction

  278. between temptation and sin,

  279. I think sometimes Christians

  280. think that desiring sinful things

  281. is okay

  282. as long as you don't do

  283. something about it.

  284. But that's not true either.

  285. There's a reason why

  286. one of the Ten Commandments

  287. is you shall not covet

  288. your neighbor's house.

  289. You shall not covet

  290. your neighbor's wife

  291. or his male servant

  292. or his female servant

  293. or his ox

  294. or his donkey

  295. or anything that is your neighbor's.

  296. Even desiring for yourself

  297. something that belongs

  298. to another is sinful.

  299. This is why

  300. 1 Timothy chapter 6

    1 Timothy 6:9

  301. verses 9 and 10

  302. say this,

  303. But those who desire

  304. to be rich

  305. fall into temptation,

  306. into a snare,

  307. into many senseless

  308. and harmful desires

  309. that plunge people

  310. into ruin and destruction.

  311. For the love of money

  312. is a root of all kinds of evils.

  313. It is through this craving

  314. that some have wandered away

  315. from the faith

  316. and pierced themselves

  317. with many pains.

  318. Getting rich

  319. as a byproduct

  320. of your industriousness

  321. and faithfulness

  322. to God

  323. is one thing.

  324. But desiring

  325. to be rich,

  326. loving money,

  327. is something

  328. entirely different

  329. and the Bible

  330. calls it sin.

  331. We should nip

  332. such desires

  333. in the bud

  334. long before we act on them.

  335. Desire without knowledge

  336. is not good.

  337. And whoever makes haste

  338. with his feet

  339. misses his way.

  340. Verse 3 continues

  341. this metaphor

  342. of walking in the way.

  343. It says,

  344. When a man's folly

  345. brings his way to ruin,

  346. his heart rages

  347. against the Lord.

  348. Now,

  349. when a foolish person

  350. seeking gain,

  351. quickly,

  352. quick wealth,

  353. through gambling,

  354. pyramid schemes,

  355. smuggling,

  356. dealing,

  357. or stealing,

  358. when he gets busted

  359. by the authorities,

  360. his heart rages

  361. against the Lord.

  362. We've seen this

  363. in our own lives.

  364. People blame God

  365. for what they have

  366. brought upon themselves.

  367. The word rage here

  368. is typically used

  369. exclusively

  370. to refer to

  371. kings and God

  372. who rage.

  373. And so here,

  374. it kind of conveys

  375. the pride

  376. of this fool

  377. who is raging

  378. against the Lord.

  379. He has this sense

  380. of indignation

  381. against God

  382. saying,

  383. Well,

  384. I deserve better.

  385. God isn't alone.

  386. He owes me something.

  387. When in reality,

  388. God owes him nothing

  389. and it's he

  390. who has brought

  391. this upon himself.

  392. We've all done this

  393. in some ways,

  394. haven't we?

  395. Imagine you're having

  396. one of those

  397. very bad days.

  398. Perhaps after

  399. the service this morning,

  400. I guess it's Sunday

  401. so maybe this won't happen,

  402. but you return

  403. to your car.

  404. A car driving by

  405. had locked

  406. off your side mirror

  407. clear off the car.

  408. No notes on it.

  409. And then,

  410. right after you

  411. examine that,

  412. you see that you

  413. also got a ticket

  414. for not feeding

  415. the meter in time.

  416. And then,

  417. you get angry

  418. so you kick the tire

  419. as hard as you can

  420. and you break your toe.

  421. And then,

  422. you raise your fist

  423. at God and say,

  424. God,

  425. why me?

  426. I blame you.

  427. Why have you

  428. brought this about?

  429. Why is my life

  430. so hard?

  431. Why do bad things

  432. happen to me?

  433. If you're harboring anger,

  434. indignation,

  435. or resentment

  436. against God

  437. in your heart,

  438. ask yourself

  439. this question

  440. deep down inside.

  441. Do you blame God

  442. for your past,

  443. for your sin,

  444. for your pain,

  445. for your disappointments,

  446. for your lie in life?

  447. Surely,

  448. there's pain

  449. that others

  450. inflict on us,

  451. but most,

  452. our vocational troubles,

  453. our health troubles.

  454. And often,

  455. the consequences

  456. of our own folly

  457. and the wise person

  458. accepts that responsibility

  459. and seeks

  460. the knowledge of God

  461. and the community of God

  462. to bring correction

  463. and reformation.

  464. Verses 4-7

  465. continue to teach us

  466. what it looks like

  467. to conduct ourselves

  468. with the fear of the Lord

  469. amidst various

  470. socioeconomic realities.

  471. It says,

  472. wealth brings many new friends,

  473. but a poor man

  474. is deserted by his friend.

  475. A false witness

  476. will not go unpunished,

  477. and he who breathed out lies

  478. will not escape.

  479. Many seek the favor

  480. of a generous man,

  481. and everyone is a friend

  482. to a man who gives gifts.

  483. All the poor man's brothers

  484. hate him.

  485. How much more

  486. do his friends

  487. go far from him?

  488. He pursues them

  489. with words,

  490. but does not have them.

  491. The word friend

  492. occurs four times

  493. in these four verses,

  494. and behind this

  495. is a generic Hebrew word

  496. for the word friend,

  497. which usually has a neutral

  498. or a negative meaning.

  499. If you look at

  500. Proverbs 18-24

  501. for a minute,

  502. it's the same word

  503. that was translated there

  504. as companion,

  505. but it's not the same word

  506. as the one translated friend

  507. in chapter 18-24,

  508. the true friend.

  509. A man of many companions

  510. may come to ruin,

  511. but there's a friend

  512. who sticks closer

  513. than a brother.

  514. In other words,

  515. the friends that wealth

  516. brings are not

  517. true friends.

  518. They are fair-weather friends

  519. and gold-dating friends.

  520. Friendship with them

  521. is not relational,

  522. but transactional.

  523. And this is why

  524. a poor man

  525. is deserted

  526. by his friends.

  527. When the man's wealth

  528. is gone,

  529. he has nothing to offer,

  530. but he treats,

  531. words,

  532. to pursue them,

  533. and it's not enough.

  534. They leave.

  535. And this unfortunate reality

  536. has implications

  537. for justice

  538. because a rich man

  539. will have many

  540. pseudo-friends

  541. willing to take

  542. his side in court,

  543. even to the point

  544. of bearing false witness,

  545. thinking that they

  546. will not be caught.

  547. Verse 9 warns,

  548. a false witness

  549. will not go unpunished,

  550. and he who breathes out

  551. lies will not escape.

  552. So he's warning us,

  553. don't be a pseudo-friend

  554. to the rich

  555. and the powerful.

  556. Currying the favor

  557. of such people

  558. betrays our lack

  559. of faith in God

  560. because we're thinking

  561. that the way

  562. to improve our lives

  563. is by curing favor

  564. with the rich,

  565. taking their side

  566. even when they are

  567. in the wrong.

  568. But instead,

  569. we have to seek

  570. the favor of God

  571. by being a faithful

  572. and true witness,

  573. living with integrity,

  574. even if that means

  575. being poor.

  576. Verses 6-7

  577. continue the same thing.

  578. Many seek the favor

  579. of a generous man,

  580. and everyone is a friend

  581. to a man who gives gifts.

  582. All a poor man's

  583. brothers hate him,

  584. how much more

  585. do his friends

  586. go far from him,

  587. pursues them with words,

  588. but does not have them.

  589. It says,

  590. this is a sad reality,

  591. even the poor man's

  592. brothers hate him.

  593. Even his blood-related

  594. siblings despise

  595. and deserve the poor man

  596. when the demands

  597. that he makes on them

  598. become too burdensome.

  599. how much more

  600. than will these

  601. pseudo-friends

  602. deserve him.

  603. And this reality

  604. accentuates the importance

  605. of chapter 18,

  606. verse 24.

  607. Yet again,

  608. for the poor person,

  609. a man of many companions

  610. may come to ruin,

  611. but there's a friend

  612. who sticks closer

  613. than a brother.

  614. Since even the brother

  615. deserves a poor person,

  616. the poor need a friend

  617. who sticks closer

  618. than a brother,

  619. and that's the kind

  620. of friend we are

  621. to aspire to be

  622. to one another

  623. and to those in need.

  624. Those who desire

  625. God's good gifts

  626. should conduct themselves

  627. with the fear

  628. of the Lord

  629. amidst these

  630. socioeconomic realities.

  631. This is the complex

  632. reality created

  633. by money.

  634. And then in chapter 19,

  635. verse 8,

  636. to verse 22,

  637. it instructs us

  638. on how to navigate

  639. the complex realities

  640. in society,

  641. in societal order.

  642. Now just as the

  643. preceding subsection

  644. began with the

  645. exhortation to find

  646. what is good,

  647. the good thing,

  648. chapter 19,

  649. verse 8 begins

  650. with the idea

  651. of finding good.

  652. Whoever gets sense

  653. loves his own soul.

  654. He who keeps

  655. understanding

  656. will discover good.

  657. Whoever acquires sense,

  658. the understanding of God,

  659. the knowledge of God,

  660. his wisdom,

  661. is a person who

  662. loves his own soul

  663. because the knowledge

  664. of God presents

  665. one's soul

  666. unto eternity

  667. and produces

  668. what is truly good.

  669. And then verse 9

  670. repeats verse 5

  671. word for word,

  672. but it means

  673. a slightly different

  674. because it's

  675. a different context.

  676. This is a false witness

  677. will not go unpunished

  678. and he who breathes out

  679. lies will perish.

  680. In the former context,

  681. the proverb warned

  682. against bearing

  683. false witness in court

  684. as a favor to the rich.

  685. But now in this new context,

  686. the emphasis is on

  687. the senselessness

  688. and the incongruity

  689. of a false witness.

  690. If society is to be

  691. rightly ordered,

  692. we must rid it

  693. of false witnesses

  694. who pervert justice.

  695. And God threatens

  696. that he will ultimately

  697. punish those who bear

  698. false witness.

  699. The perjurer

  700. will ultimately perish

  701. and therefore

  702. he who lies in court

  703. lacks sense.

  704. He does not love

  705. his own soul.

  706. He will discover evil

  707. instead of good.

  708. The perjurer

  709. doesn't belong

  710. in the court of justice

  711. any more than

  712. an incompetent slave

  713. belongs in the royal palace.

  714. It says in verse 10,

  715. it is not fitting

  716. for a fool

  717. to live in luxury,

  718. much less for a slave

  719. to rule over princes.

  720. Slavery in Israel

  721. back in those days

  722. was an economic institution

  723. that did not make

  724. distinctions based on

  725. the color of someone's skin.

  726. And neither was it

  727. sourced through kidnapping

  728. nor enforced for life

  729. like transatlantic slavery.

  730. Slavery back then

  731. were indisputable by race

  732. and they made similar wages

  733. as other people.

  734. And they usually

  735. bought their own freedom

  736. when they had accumulated

  737. enough money

  738. to repay their debt.

  739. So in that sense,

  740. ancient Israelite slavery

  741. is more akin to

  742. modern day contractual servitude.

  743. For example,

  744. a cadet that graduates

  745. from the military academy

  746. owes five years of service

  747. to the military

  748. for his free education.

  749. He is essentially

  750. a servant of the state.

  751. And if he does not

  752. discharge his duties,

  753. he has to pay back

  754. all of his tuition

  755. and room and board.

  756. Often,

  757. slaves back then

  758. were highly educated

  759. and educated and competent.

  760. So Proverbs chapter 14,

    Proverbs 14:35

  761. verse 35

  762. speaks of a servant

  763. who deals wisely

  764. and therefore has

  765. the king's favor.

  766. And in chapter 17,

  767. verse 2,

  768. spoke of a servant

  769. who deals wisely

  770. who will rule over a son

  771. who acts shamefully

  772. and will share the inheritance

  773. as one of the brothers.

  774. So there's clearly

  775. a very accomplished

  776. and competent

  777. and servants

  778. who are well deserving

  779. of acclaim.

  780. But what's in view

  781. in chapter 18,

  782. verse 10

  783. is not that kind

  784. of wise,

  785. loyal,

  786. competent servant.

  787. He is here,

  788. as the parallel indicates,

  789. a foolish slave.

  790. It is not fitting

  791. for a fool

  792. to live in luxury,

  793. much less for a slave

  794. to rule over princes.

  795. It is unsuitable,

  796. incongruous

  797. to have the fool

  798. be sated with luxury

  799. and the slave

  800. rule over the noble prince.

  801. Proverbs chapter 30,

    Proverbs 30:21

  802. verse 21 and 22

  803. is a close parallel

  804. and it says

  805. that the earth trembles

  806. and cannot bear up

  807. under a slave

  808. when he becomes king.

  809. When a person

  810. who does not have

  811. the character

  812. and the competence

  813. to rule

  814. takes the throne,

  815. he becomes intoxicated

  816. by his newfound

  817. privilege and power

  818. and becomes overbearing.

  819. He abuses his power,

  820. perverts justice,

  821. his rule is erratic,

  822. his temper is uncontrollable.

  823. In contrast,

  824. when the rightful king,

  825. a person of noble character,

  826. reigns,

  827. it looks like

  828. verses 11 and 12.

  829. Good sense

  830. makes one slow to anger

  831. and it is his glory

  832. to overlook an offense.

  833. A king's wrath

  834. is like the growling

  835. of a lion,

  836. but his favor

  837. is like dew

  838. on the grass.

  839. A person with noble character

  840. has good sense,

  841. which makes him

  842. slow to anger,

  843. is a vice.

  844. It's the vice of cowardice

  845. and vice of indifference.

  846. It's not a virtue.

  847. But though he does not

  848. get angry at times,

  849. so he does get angry

  850. at times,

  851. this righteous person,

  852. he is slow to anger.

  853. Anybody can,

  854. you know,

  855. floor the accelerator

  856. and get into a huge wreck.

  857. But it takes

  858. a NASCAR driver

  859. to control the car

  860. at such high speed.

  861. The wise person

  862. controls his anger,

  863. channels his anger,

  864. and he is slow

  865. to get angry.

  866. It is in fact

  867. his glory

  868. to overlook an offense.

  869. A wise person

  870. considers his magnanimity,

  871. his mercy,

  872. his forgiveness

  873. to be a badge of honor.

  874. He relishes

  875. the opportunity

  876. to forgive

  877. and extend mercy

  878. when he has been

  879. offended or hurt.

  880. It brings him glory

  881. because

  882. it shows that

  883. his character

  884. resembles the character

  885. of the glorious God

  886. who revealed himself

  887. this way

  888. in Exodus 34.

  889. The Lord,

  890. a God merciful

  891. and gracious,

  892. slow to anger,

  893. abounding in

  894. steadfast love

  895. and faithfulness,

  896. keeping steadfast love

  897. for thousands,

  898. forgiving wickedness,

  899. rebellion,

  900. and sin.

  901. But the passage

  902. continues in Exodus 34.

  903. He who will by no means

  904. clear the guilty.

  905. Growing in godly character

  906. not only involves

  907. patience,

  908. being slow to anger,

  909. and mercy,

  910. but it also involves

  911. justice.

  912. So verse 12 says

  913. a king's wrath

  914. is like the growling

  915. of a lion,

  916. but his favor

  917. is like the dew

  918. on the grass.

  919. The king reserves

  920. his intense wrath

  921. for the wicked

  922. and shows his gentle

  923. life-giving favor.

  924. for the righteous.

  925. This is what

  926. a rightly ordered

  927. society should look like.

  928. And then in verses

  929. 13 and 14,

  930. Solomon turns to

  931. what a rightly ordered

  932. family should look like

  933. and should not look like.

  934. He says,

  935. A foolish son

  936. is ruined to his father,

  937. and a wife's quarreling

  938. is a continual

  939. dripping of rain.

  940. House and wealth

  941. are inherited from fathers,

  942. but a prudent wife

  943. is from the Lord.

  944. A son should bring

  945. prosperity and honor

  946. to the father,

  947. but a foolish son,

  948. it says,

  949. is his father's ruin.

  950. A wife should be

  951. the husband's

  952. most trusted confidant

  953. and helper,

  954. but a quarrelsome wife

  955. is her husband's

  956. most tiresome enemy.

  957. In this part

  958. of the ancient world,

  959. roofs were made

  960. of crisscross layers

  961. of wooden boards

  962. and sticks,

  963. and then it was covered

  964. with layers of clay,

  965. water, chalk,

  966. and chaff.

  967. And unfortunately,

  968. like everything else

  969. that human beings make,

  970. such roofs

  971. eventually deteriorate

  972. and they crumble.

  973. And it gives way

  974. to dripping rain.

  975. This is an appropriate image

  976. because a leaky roof

  977. makes the home,

  978. which is supposed to be

  979. a place of rest

  980. and refuge,

  981. a work field

  982. that perhaps even feels

  983. like a battlefield.

  984. A wife's quarreling

  985. is a continual

  986. gripping of rain.

  987. Brothers and sisters,

  988. some of us have

  989. quarrelsome households.

  990. Whether it's with

  991. our housemates

  992. or with other

  993. family members,

  994. but a home is supposed

  995. to be a place

  996. of rest

  997. and refuge.

  998. We call Proverbs

    Proverbs 17:1

  999. chapter 17,

  1000. verse 1,

  1001. Better is a dry morsel

  1002. with quiet

  1003. than a house

  1004. full of feasting

  1005. with strife.

  1006. Maybe your house

  1007. is full of strife

  1008. because you're trying

  1009. so hard

  1010. to put together

  1011. a feast

  1012. that will impress

  1013. other people.

  1014. A dry morsel

  1015. with quiet

  1016. is better.

  1017. Maybe your house

  1018. is full of strife

  1019. because you're always

  1020. getting into arguments

  1021. about your children

  1022. and the unrealistically

  1023. high expectations

  1024. you have for them.

  1025. perhaps more basic

  1026. expectations

  1027. and activities

  1028. with quiet

  1029. in the home

  1030. is better.

  1031. Maybe you think

  1032. your house

  1033. is full of strife

  1034. because you don't

  1035. have enough feasting.

  1036. Your spouse

  1037. doesn't earn enough money.

  1038. But that's

  1039. not true either.

  1040. He says there are

  1041. houses full of feasting

  1042. with strife.

  1043. But it's possible

  1044. to have peace

  1045. in your home

  1046. with the meager

  1047. portion of dry morsel.

  1048. Some of you

  1049. have formed

  1050. new households

  1051. or you have

  1052. recently moved

  1053. in with your

  1054. housemates.

  1055. We ought to all

  1056. be people

  1057. who offer peace

  1058. and rest

  1059. to those

  1060. in our household.

  1061. And verse 14

  1062. offers the ideal picture.

  1063. House and wealth

  1064. are inherited

  1065. from fathers.

  1066. So one obedient son

  1067. instead of

  1068. ruining his father

  1069. honors and

  1070. offers him

  1071. so he can inherit

  1072. house and wealth.

  1073. But while we can

  1074. inherit material wealth

  1075. from earthly fathers,

  1076. it says a prudent wife

  1077. is from the Lord.

  1078. This verse echoes

  1079. chapter 18

  1080. verse 22.

  1081. He who finds a wife

  1082. finds a good thing

  1083. and obtains favor

  1084. from the Lord.

  1085. Once again,

  1086. like wisdom

  1087. which we can only

  1088. receive from God,

  1089. a wise wife

  1090. is a gift

  1091. from God.

  1092. It's an expression

  1093. of his favor.

  1094. So I want to

  1095. encourage every single

  1096. man and woman

  1097. in our church.

  1098. If you desire

  1099. to get married

  1100. instead of

  1101. serving the Lord

  1102. in your singleness

  1103. with single-minded

  1104. devotion,

  1105. pray

  1106. and seek

  1107. the Lord

  1108. like you seek

  1109. his wisdom.

  1110. Make the pursuit

  1111. of the Lord

  1112. your first priority

  1113. and not the pursuit

  1114. of a husband

  1115. or a wife.

  1116. Because your

  1117. fulfillment

  1118. in this endeavor

  1119. depends not on

  1120. how many

  1121. available singles

  1122. there are

  1123. in your pools

  1124. of friends,

  1125. not on how

  1126. attractive

  1127. or well-established

  1128. you are financially,

  1129. not on how

  1130. active you are

  1131. on the dating apps,

  1132. but it depends

  1133. on the grace

  1134. and favor

  1135. of the Lord

  1136. if what you

  1137. really want

  1138. is a prudent,

  1139. wise stop.

  1140. Verses 15 and 16

  1141. then continue

  1142. to explain

  1143. the difference

  1144. between the foolish

  1145. son who ruins

  1146. his father

  1147. and the wise son

  1148. who inherits

  1149. house-in-law

  1150. from his father.

  1151. Slothfulness

  1152. casts into

  1153. a deep sleep

  1154. and an idle

  1155. person

  1156. will suffer

  1157. hunger.

  1158. Whoever

  1159. keeps the

  1160. commandment

  1161. keeps his

  1162. life.

  1163. He who

  1164. despises

  1165. his ways

  1166. will die.

  1167. Deep sleep

  1168. that's speaking

  1169. of is similar

  1170. to a coma.

  1171. It's a picture

  1172. of death

  1173. and it is

  1174. paralleled here

  1175. at the end

  1176. of verse 16

  1177. by he who

  1178. despises

  1179. God's ways

  1180. will die.

  1181. Idleness

  1182. and slothfulness

  1183. lead to hunger

  1184. and eventually

  1185. to death

  1186. and God

  1187. commands instead

  1188. for us

  1189. diligent

  1190. and honest

  1191. work.

  1192. And not only

  1193. does a righteous

  1194. person provide

  1195. for himself

  1196. through hard

  1197. work,

  1198. he also

  1199. provides for

  1200. others who

  1201. are in less

  1202. fortunate

  1203. situations.

  1204. So verses

  1205. 17 to 22

  1206. return to the

  1207. teaching about

  1208. how we should

  1209. treat the

  1210. humble poor.

  1211. This begins

  1212. and ends

  1213. with the mention

  1214. of the poor

  1215. in verse 17

  1216. and verse 22.

  1217. It says in verse 17,

  1218. whoever is generous

  1219. to the poor

  1220. lends to the

  1221. Lord and he

  1222. will repay him

  1223. for his deed.

  1224. In this passage

  1225. about the right

  1226. ordering of society,

  1227. this is a startling

  1228. verse because the

  1229. poor by any measure

  1230. are at the bottom

  1231. of the socioeconomic

  1232. ladder.

  1233. They are often

  1234. despised and

  1235. deserted as we've

  1236. seen throughout

  1237. this chapter.

  1238. And yet,

  1239. this low class

  1240. of people

  1241. God associates

  1242. with himself.

  1243. He's associated

  1244. with the most

  1245. high God.

  1246. If you are

  1247. generous to the

  1248. poor,

  1249. it's like you're

  1250. lending money

  1251. to the Lord.

  1252. What an amazing

  1253. promise.

  1254. There are plenty

  1255. of people who

  1256. are willing to

  1257. lend money to

  1258. people with

  1259. good credit

  1260. with the

  1261. expectation that

  1262. they will be

  1263. repaid in full

  1264. with interest.

  1265. But fewer

  1266. people give

  1267. generously to the

  1268. poor.

  1269. Why?

  1270. Because they

  1271. know that they

  1272. will not be

  1273. repaid in any

  1274. shape or form.

  1275. Precisely because

  1276. they are poor.

  1277. And yet,

  1278. this proverb

  1279. subverts that

  1280. logic.

  1281. When you give

  1282. to the poor,

  1283. you are lending

  1284. to the Lord,

  1285. the master of

  1286. the universe,

  1287. the creator of

  1288. the cosmos.

  1289. Do you think

  1290. he...

  1291. Do you know

  1292. of poorer

  1293. brothers and

  1294. sisters in the

  1295. church that

  1296. would be surprised

  1297. with the generous

  1298. gifts?

  1299. Do you have

  1300. a poor

  1301. housemate or

  1302. a neighbor you

  1303. can help

  1304. out?

  1305. Don't ever

  1306. fear that you

  1307. will not have

  1308. enough for

  1309. yourself.

  1310. Give generously

  1311. because when

  1312. you do,

  1313. the Lord

  1314. himself will

  1315. repay you in

  1316. this life and

  1317. in the next.

  1318. And in order

  1319. to rear such

  1320. self-controlled,

  1321. hard-working

  1322. children who are

  1323. generous to the

  1324. poor,

  1325. discipline is

  1326. necessary.

  1327. So verse 18

  1328. says,

  1329. discipline your

  1330. son for

  1331. there is

  1332. hope.

  1333. Do not set

  1334. your heart

  1335. on putting

  1336. him to

  1337. death.

  1338. People

  1339. sometimes think

  1340. that by

  1341. disciplining

  1342. their kids

  1343. that they

  1344. will shatter

  1345. their fragile

  1346. psyches and

  1347. ruin their

  1348. prospects for

  1349. the future.

  1350. But wisdom

  1351. literature from

  1352. every major

  1353. civilization

  1354. throughout

  1355. history,

  1356. and the

  1357. book of

  1358. Proverbs,

  1359. which is

  1360. God's holy

  1361. and authoritative

  1362. word,

  1363. strongly

  1364. enjoys

  1365. corporal

  1366. discipline.

  1367. And humanity

  1368. has not

  1369. crumbled under

  1370. this supposedly

  1371. bad advice

  1372. in the many

  1373. millennia of

  1374. people doing

  1375. it, of

  1376. parents doing

  1377. it.

  1378. And I can

  1379. guarantee you

  1380. that generations

  1381. of children

  1382. who are growing

  1383. up right now

  1384. without such

  1385. corporal

  1386. discipline are

  1387. not going to

  1388. create utopia

  1389. that eluded

  1390. previous generations

  1391. just because

  1392. they supposedly

  1393. received better

  1394. parenting.

  1395. Later in

  1396. chapter

  1397. Proverbs 23

    Proverbs 23:13

  1398. verse 13

  1399. it says,

  1400. do not

  1401. withhold

  1402. discipline

  1403. from a

  1404. child.

  1405. If you

  1406. strike him

  1407. with a

  1408. rod,

  1409. he will

  1410. not die.

  1411. Contrast

  1412. this with

  1413. verse 18

  1414. of our

  1415. chapter which

  1416. says that

  1417. if you don't

  1418. discipline your

  1419. children,

  1420. you're

  1421. extinguishing

  1422. all their

  1423. hope and

  1424. you are in

  1425. fact setting

  1426. your heart

  1427. on putting

  1428. them to

  1429. death.

  1430. It's

  1431. counterintuitive

  1432. but it's

  1433. true.

  1434. I will

  1435. elaborate on

  1436. this further

  1437. when we get

  1438. to chapter

  1439. 22 but

  1440. for today

  1441. it's sufficient

  1442. to note that

  1443. discipline

  1444. is never

  1445. to be a

  1446. form of

  1447. abuse,

  1448. verbal or

  1449. physical.

  1450. Biblical

  1451. discipline is

  1452. always meted

  1453. out in

  1454. love,

  1455. not in

  1456. hatred or

  1457. uncontrolled

  1458. rage.

  1459. Abuse does

  1460. ruin children's

  1461. lives but

  1462. that's a

  1463. world apart

  1464. from the

  1465. biblical

  1466. discipline

  1467. that is

  1468. in view.

  1469. If you do

  1470. not discipline

  1471. your child,

  1472. he says,

  1473. you will

  1474. not learn

  1475. good sense

  1476. that makes

  1477. him slow

  1478. to anger,

  1479. which verse

  1480. 11 spoke

  1481. of.

  1482. And then

  1483. Solomon warns

  1484. us in

  1485. verse 19,

  1486. a man of

  1487. great wrath

  1488. will pay

  1489. the penalty

  1490. for if you

  1491. deliver him

  1492. you will

  1493. only have

  1494. to do it

  1495. again.

  1496. At some

  1497. point the

  1498. child will

  1499. be beyond

  1500. correction

  1501. and he

  1502. will pay

  1503. a costly

  1504. price for

  1505. his

  1506. undisciplined

  1507. life.

  1508. And he

  1509. won't learn

  1510. his lesson

  1511. but you

  1512. will need

  1513. to bail

  1514. him out

  1515. again

  1516. and again

  1517. and again.

  1518. So verses

  1519. 20 to 22

  1520. adjure us.

  1521. Listen to

  1522. advice and

  1523. accept instruction

  1524. that you may

  1525. gain wisdom

  1526. in the future.

  1527. Many are

  1528. the plans

  1529. in the mind

  1530. of a man

  1531. but it is

  1532. the purpose

  1533. of the Lord

  1534. that will

  1535. stand.

  1536. What is

  1537. desired in

  1538. a man

  1539. is steadfast

  1540. love and

  1541. a poor

  1542. man is

  1543. better than

  1544. a liar.

  1545. Humanity

  1546. has its

  1547. own desires

  1548. and plans

  1549. but ultimately

  1550. it is the

  1551. purpose of

  1552. God that

  1553. will stand.

  1554. So it's

  1555. in our

  1556. interest

  1557. to align

  1558. our purposes

  1559. and priorities

  1560. with God

  1561. rather than

  1562. stubbornly

  1563. insisting

  1564. on our

  1565. own way

  1566. because God's

  1567. will will

  1568. prevail.

  1569. Because

  1570. and though

  1571. many people

  1572. in our

  1573. world

  1574. shun

  1575. steadfast

  1576. love and

  1577. faithfulness

  1578. in exchange

  1579. for wealth

  1580. Christians are

  1581. to stand

  1582. firmly on

  1583. the truth

  1584. that a

  1585. poor man

  1586. is better

  1587. than a

  1588. liar

  1589. because

  1590. God

  1591. takes

  1592. interest

  1593. in the

  1594. plight of

  1595. the poor

  1596. because God

  1597. involves himself

  1598. in the

  1599. affairs of

  1600. the

  1601. holy.

  1602. Because

  1603. as verse

  1604. 17 says

  1605. whoever is

  1606. generous to

  1607. the poor

  1608. lends to

  1609. the Lord.

  1610. God

  1611. delivers the

  1612. poor and

  1613. this is true

  1614. in a material

  1615. sense but

  1616. especially and

  1617. most importantly

  1618. in a spiritual

  1619. sense.

  1620. Luke chapter

    Luke 16 chapter mention

  1621. 16 says

  1622. blessed are you

  1623. who are poor

  1624. for yours is

  1625. the kingdom of

  1626. God.

  1627. Blessed are you

  1628. who are hungry

  1629. now for you

  1630. shall be satisfied.

  1631. Blessed are you

  1632. who weep now

  1633. for you shall

  1634. laugh.

  1635. Throughout his

  1636. gospel Luke

  1637. makes a

  1638. connection

  1639. between material

  1640. poverty and

  1641. spiritual poverty.

  1642. The poor

  1643. who will be

  1644. blessed by

  1645. God are

  1646. those who

  1647. humble themselves

  1648. before God

  1649. and acknowledge

  1650. their sinfulness,

  1651. their neediness,

  1652. their spiritual

  1653. impoverishment

  1654. before God.

  1655. Brothers and

  1656. sisters,

  1657. we are

  1658. spiritual

  1659. paupers.

  1660. There is

  1661. quarreling in

  1662. our homes.

  1663. We have not

  1664. been slow to

  1665. anger.

  1666. We have

  1667. lied.

  1668. We have

  1669. been slothful.

  1670. We have

  1671. answered the

  1672. weak and

  1673. the poor

  1674. roughly.

  1675. We have

  1676. been disobedient

  1677. children toward

  1678. our parents.

  1679. We have

  1680. raised our

  1681. fists at

  1682. God and

  1683. blamed him

  1684. for the

  1685. consequences of

  1686. our sins.

  1687. And in

  1688. this dire

  1689. spiritual

  1690. poverty,

  1691. we have

  1692. no hope.

  1693. There are

  1694. no friends

  1695. who will

  1696. come to

  1697. our aid.

  1698. But there

  1699. was one.

  1700. There was

  1701. one friend

  1702. who stuck

  1703. closer than

  1704. a brother.

  1705. The rich

  1706. God of the

  1707. universe,

  1708. instead of

  1709. entering us

  1710. roughly,

  1711. sent us

  1712. his son,

  1713. Jesus Christ,

  1714. as a

  1715. faithful friend

  1716. and deliverer.

  1717. And Jesus

  1718. left behind

  1719. his glory

  1720. as of the

  1721. Son of God

  1722. and he

  1723. took on

  1724. human flesh

  1725. so that he

  1726. might live

  1727. the life

  1728. of obedience

  1729. that we

  1730. failed to

  1731. live.

  1732. And so

  1733. that with

  1734. his perfect

  1735. life and

  1736. righteousness,

  1737. he might

  1738. die on

  1739. the cross

  1740. in our

  1741. place to

  1742. pay our

  1743. insurmountable

  1744. debt of

  1745. sin.

  1746. And then

  1747. he rose

  1748. from the

  1749. dead to

  1750. give us

  1751. eternal life

  1752. and to

  1753. declare that

  1754. his sacrifice,

  1755. his payment

  1756. for our

  1757. debt of

  1758. sin on

  1759. the cross

  1760. has been

  1761. accepted by

  1762. God,

  1763. his Father.

  1764. And it's

  1765. because Jesus

  1766. paid this

  1767. ultimate price,

  1768. Paul reminds

  1769. us in

  1770. 2 Corinthians

  1771. 8, 9,

  1772. for you

  1773. know the

  1774. grace of

  1775. our Lord

  1776. Jesus Christ

  1777. that though

  1778. he was

  1779. rich,

  1780. yet for

  1781. your sake

  1782. he became

  1783. poor,

  1784. so that

  1785. you by

  1786. his poverty

  1787. might become

  1788. rich.

  1789. That's what

  1790. Christ has

  1791. done for

  1792. us.

  1793. We had

  1794. no hope

  1795. of saving

  1796. ourselves,

  1797. yet Christ

  1798. gave himself,

  1799. made himself

  1800. poor,

  1801. that we

  1802. might be

  1803. rich,

  1804. and that's

  1805. wonderfully

  1806. captured in

  1807. this hymn,

  1808. entitled,

  1809. Thou Who

  1810. Was Rich.

  1811. Thou Who

  1812. Was Rich

  1813. Beyond All

  1814. Sanger

  1815. Didst

  1816. Surrender,

  1817. Sapphire

  1818. Paid

  1819. Courts

  1820. For

  1821. Stable

  1822. For

  1823. Thou

  1824. Who

  1825. Was

  1826. Rich

  1827. Beyond

  1828. All

  1829. Splendor,

  1830. All

  1831. For

  1832. Love's

  1833. Sake

  1834. Becomes

  1835. Poor.

  1836. Thou

  1837. Who

  1838. Art

  1839. God

  1840. Beyond

  1841. All

  1842. Praising,

  1843. All

  1844. For

  1845. Love's

  1846. Sake

  1847. Becamest

  1848. Man,

  1849. Stooping

  1850. So

  1851. Low,

  1852. But

  1853. Sinners

  1854. Raising,

  1855. Heaven

  1856. Worth

  1857. By

  1858. Thine

  1859. Eternal

  1860. Plan,

  1861. Thou

  1862. Who

  1863. Art

  1864. God

  1865. Beyond

  1866. All

  1867. Praising,

  1868. All

  1869. For

  1870. Love's

  1871. Sake

  1872. Becamest

  1873. Poor.

  1874. Let us

  1875. put our

  1876. faith in

  1877. this Christ,

  1878. who became

  1879. poor for

  1880. our sake.

  1881. It's only

  1882. by doing

  1883. that that we'll

  1884. be able to

  1885. live more

  1886. like him

  1887. in this

  1888. world

  1889. and relate

  1890. as he did

  1891. toward the

  1892. poor in

  1893. the power

  1894. of the

  1895. Holy Spirit.

  1896. Let's take a

  1897. moment to

  1898. reflect on

  1899. that and

  1900. then we're

  1901. going to

  1902. respond

  1903. hopefully

  1904. together by

  1905. praying

  1906. our

  1907. love.

  1908. Hey,

  1909. after

  1910. that

  1911. for

  1912. talking

  1913. to