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Radical Reconciliation – A Partnership of Love

West Chester Nazarene Church

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  1. Well, hey, happy Friends Day. So glad you're here.

  2. Are you glad you're here? All right, we'll tell someone

  3. you're glad you're here. Come on.

  4. It's a good day. You're in the right place today.

  5. Hey, whether you are a first time guest, I want you to know

  6. that you are welcome here and you are a friend.

  7. Or whether you've been coming to church here for 60 years.

  8. Thank you for coming to Friends Day.

  9. You're still our friend. We love you.

  10. It's a great opportunity to be together.

  11. And I, I say this a lot, but I want to say it again, that that

  12. this is one of the best places you could possibly be this

  13. morning. Not because we're better than

  14. all the other churches or anything, but because the God

  15. that created everything is here and loves you and wants to draw

  16. you to him today. And so praise Lord, we get to be

  17. here. As I was thinking about Friends

  18. Day, we're we're starting a new series in the Letter of

  19. Philemon. It is a letter that is 1 chapter

  20. long. It's 25 verses and we're going

  21. to spend 4 weeks in those 25 verses.

  22. The biggest challenge for me is not preaching the entire thing

  23. every single week, but but it is worthy of being preached and,

  24. and so today we're going to focus on a little part of it.

  25. But as I was thinking about Friends Day and I was thinking

  26. about this message, 2 characters came to my mind.

  27. Two really good characters from a movie that came out a long

  28. time ago, I think maybe 30 ish years ago.

  29. And and that movie was The Lion King and the characters are

  30. Timon and Pumbaa. How many, you know, Timon and

  31. Pumbaa, that kind of some of the fun characters.

  32. Now, I'm guessing most of us have have seen that movie.

  33. And the reason they came to my mind is #1 it's Friends Day.

  34. But, but we're talking about the body of Christ today.

  35. And, and Timon and Pumbaa were kind of outsiders.

  36. They, they found themselves outside of, you know, the main

  37. society, the main group of animals and, and they stayed to

  38. themselves and they felt like outcasts and they were

  39. disconnected. And I want to say this on

  40. friends Day, maybe some of you feel that like in your heart,

  41. maybe you feel like that's you. Maybe you feel like you're not

  42. connected. You don't have a family, you

  43. don't have a place that you belong.

  44. I got good news. You're in the right place today

  45. and you belong here. You belong in God's family.

  46. And so today we're going to be looking at Philemon.

  47. I'm I'm going to do something crazy.

  48. I'm just going to read the entire chapter every week of

  49. this series. So get ready to stand for just a

  50. few more, you know, minutes here staying with me, and we'll read

  51. Philemon. So this is Paul's letter to

  52. Philemon. And listen, if you're new here,

  53. we stand just because we believe this is God's word.

  54. It's written by a bunch of different people a long time

  55. ago, but we believe that God inspired it and directed it.

  56. And as much as God inspired and directed it, that God wants to

  57. speak to us today through it. And so my prayer is that God

  58. will speak to us. Here it is.

  59. We're going to read the whole chapter on Philemon starting

  60. here at first. One, Paul, a prisoner of Christ

  61. Jesus, and Timothy, our brother. To Philemon, our dear friend and

  62. fellow worker. Also to Afia, our sister and

  63. Archipus our fellow soldier, and to the church that meets in your

  64. home. Grace and peace to you from God

  65. our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

  66. I always thank God when I as I remember you in my prayers

  67. because I hear about your love for all His holy people and your

  68. faith in the Lord Jesus. I pray that your partnership

  69. with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your

  70. understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of

  71. Christ. Your love has given me great joy

  72. and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the

  73. hearts of the Lord's people. Therefore, although in Christ I

  74. could be bold and I could order you to do what you ought to do,

  75. yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love.

  76. It is as none other than Paul, an old man, and now as also a

  77. prisoner in Christ Jesus, that I appeal to you for my son

  78. Onissimus, who became my son while I was in chains.

  79. Formerly he was, Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has

  80. become useful both to you and to me.

  81. I am sending him, who is my very heart back to you.

  82. I would have liked to have to keep him with me so that he

  83. could take your place in helping me while I'm in change for the

  84. gospel. But I did not want to do

  85. anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would

  86. you do would not seem forced, but would be voluntary.

  87. Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little

  88. while was that he might, that you might have him back forever,

  89. no longer as a slave, but better than as a slave, as a dear

  90. brother. He is my he is very dear to me,

  91. but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in

  92. the Lord. So if you consider me a partner,

  93. welcome him as you would welcome me.

  94. If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, then charge

  95. it to me. I, Paul, am writing this with my

  96. own hand. I will pay it back.

  97. Not to mention that you owe me your very self.

  98. That's a great line there. Not to mention you owe me.

  99. I do wish brother, that I may have some benefit from you and

  100. the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ.

  101. Confident of your obedience, I write to you knowing that you

  102. will do even more than I ask. And then one more thing, prepare

  103. a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in

  104. answer to your prayers. Epaphras, my feather, my fellow

  105. prisoner in Christ Jesus sends you greetings, and so do Mark,

  106. Aristarchus, Dimas, and Luke, my fellow workers, the grace of the

  107. Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

  108. You can have a seat. All right, I know that was long

  109. and we're going to get through it over the next 4 weeks.

  110. We're going to work through that whole thing.

  111. I just felt like I'd rather not pick and choose little parts of

  112. it. I want to read the whole thing

  113. every week just so you get the full context.

  114. But, but let me tell you what's happening here.

  115. Paul is writing this to Philemon.

  116. Philemon was a member of the church in Colossi and and

  117. Philemon was probably a pretty wealthy man.

  118. He was a member of the church and Paul's writing him back from

  119. prison, and Paul has made a new friend.

  120. Now that new friend is Onissimus, who used to be a

  121. slave of Philemon. Now this is a interesting

  122. situation because Onissimus, who was a slave of Philemon, did

  123. something wrong. He in some way cheated or stole

  124. from Philemon. Most people think he stole from

  125. him, and then he ran away and escaped and went off other

  126. places. But at some point Paul, Paul and

  127. Onissimus ended up in prison together, and Onissimus had a

  128. change of heart and became a follower of Christ.

  129. And so now Paul is riding back to Philemon.

  130. Now imagine this. We've got some pretty big hurt

  131. here, pretty big stuff. Paul is writing back and trying

  132. to bring reconciliation and trying to bring unity between

  133. Philemon and Onissimus and all the people, the church.

  134. That's the context for this letter.

  135. It's pretty big stuff. Now listen, today we're not

  136. going to get real deep into the reconciliation part.

  137. Today. I want to focus on two things.

  138. Number one, I want to focus on what we're invited into, what we

  139. are called to, and #2 what that means for our relationships with

  140. each other and how we view each other.

  141. The first part I want to talk about is what we're called into.

  142. In verse 6, Paul says, I pray that your partnership with us in

  143. the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of

  144. every good thing we share for the sake of Christ.

  145. Your love has given me great joy and encouragement because you,

  146. brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord's people.

  147. Paul introduces here an important concept.

  148. So, so at the outset, we understand this letter is a

  149. difficult letter to write. He's asking something huge of

  150. Philemon. He's asking reconciliation, but

  151. he starts with this statement. I pray that our partnership, I

  152. pray that our partnership, that your partnership with us in the

  153. faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of

  154. every good thing we share in Christ.

  155. The word that he uses there is the word Koinonia.

  156. And the word Koinonia it, it means it's more than just hey,

  157. we attend the same church. It's more than just hey, we work

  158. together. The word your partnership with

  159. us implies this deep, deep bond. Koinonia means fellowship.

  160. It means communion, It means unity.

  161. It means participation together. It means sharing a common

  162. purpose, a common goal. And so Paul is saying right here

  163. at the beginning, he's writing this tough letter and he's

  164. saying right at the beginning, hey, we are in a Koinonia

  165. partnership, reminding him right up front.

  166. Guys, listen, can I tell you today that maybe you came to

  167. church and you don't know why you're here?

  168. Maybe you came and you thought you came for one reason or

  169. another. I want to tell you today that

  170. God is inviting you into something so much better than

  171. just attending a church. God is inviting you into

  172. something so much better than just getting some new friends on

  173. friends Day. God is inviting you to a deep

  174. Koinonia fellowship, a unity, a communion with others.

  175. That's what we're called to guys.

  176. And see our, our culture is very individualistic.

  177. Most of the commercials are about individualism and your

  178. choice and, and most of us, even in our faith, have become kind

  179. of individualistic in our faith. Well, I accept Christ as my

  180. Savior and then I do my best to live in a relationship with him.

  181. And, and so it becomes a very individualistic thing.

  182. But, but I want you to understand Paul is saying, no,

  183. no, no, no, no. When, when you accept Christ as

  184. your savior, when you become a Christian, you're no longer on

  185. your own. You're a part of something

  186. bigger than yourself. You're a part of the body of

  187. Christ. Yes, the decision to follow

  188. Jesus is your decision. God is pursuing you.

  189. His grace and His Spirit are working to draw you to Him.

  190. But you personally have to make that decision.

  191. But once you do, you enter into a family, the body of Christ.

  192. You are no longer on your own, a lone wolf doing it on your own.

  193. You are a part of the body of Christ.

  194. Listen, you cannot be holy apart.

  195. You cannot be righteous. You cannot be who God calls you

  196. to be apart from the body of Christ.

  197. Holiness requires love and unity with the body of Christ.

  198. And so Paul, I mean, Paul is a genius in this letter.

  199. This is a master class of, of, of reconciliation.

  200. He's he starts off and just says, Hey, remember Philemon,

  201. that you're a part of something bigger than yourself.

  202. This is bigger than just you. You are a part of a partnership

  203. In, in first Corinthians 12, Paul says, just as the body,

  204. this is another way he talks about it.

  205. And this is another long scripture.

  206. Bear with me here. He says just as a body, though

  207. one has many parts, but all its many parts form 1 body, so it is

  208. with Christ. For we are all baptized into one

  209. by one spirit as to form 1 body, whether Jews or Gentiles, slave

  210. or free, as we are all given the one spirit to drink.

  211. Even so the body is not made-up of one part but of many.

  212. And, and then he goes on. He says if the foot should say,

  213. well because I'm not a hand, I'm not a part of the body.

  214. He says that's not true, we are all part of the body.

  215. We need each other and, and, and going down further, he says in

  216. verse 18, but in fact God has placed the parts of the body,

  217. every one of them just as he wanted them to be.

  218. If we were all one part, where would the body be?

  219. But we are all parts as it is. There are many parts but one

  220. body. Verse 21 he says, the eye can't

  221. say to the hand, I don't need you.

  222. The head cannot say to the feet, I don't need you.

  223. On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weak or

  224. indispensable, we need each other.

  225. And then at the bottom he says in 26, If one part suffers,

  226. every part suffers with it. If one part is honored, every

  227. part rejoices with it. Now you are the body of Christ

  228. and each one of you is a part of it.

  229. So I mean, I know I'm just hammering this in here.

  230. You are invited into something huge today.

  231. Not just to say I'm a Christian, not just to say, hey, I'm a part

  232. of a church. I go to Westchester, I go to

  233. wait, whatever. You are invited into the

  234. fellowship, the body of Christ, a deep unity, a deep family.

  235. He, he goes on. He says, I pray that that this

  236. partnership, that this Koinonia partnership may be effective in

  237. deepening your understanding of every good thing that we share

  238. for the sake of Christ. I love this.

  239. He says that, that as you are partnered with me, if you, as

  240. you're in the Koinonia relationship, as we are unified

  241. and working together, you should see the good more and more.

  242. You should understand God's goodness more and more.

  243. There was a study in the early 2000s and and that study says

  244. that you form relationships quicker based on a mutual

  245. dislike or hate for something else.

  246. That's that's real, that people form quicker relationships,

  247. quicker bonds based on common things that they disagree with

  248. or hate or dislike, whether it's a person or a thing that that's

  249. actual. I mean that like, you can go

  250. look it up. It's from 2006.

  251. And there were studies that show that we formed that quicker.

  252. And what Paul is saying is that's not the way.

  253. Sure, we may find people that we bond with over what we dislike

  254. or who we dislike or what what we are against.

  255. What Paul is saying is you are invited to the Koinonia

  256. Fellowship, the body of Christ, and the deeper you get in with

  257. the body of Christ, the more you're going to be unified, the

  258. more you're going to see his goodness and His grace at work.

  259. God is good, he says. I pray that this partnership may

  260. be effective in deepening your understanding of every good

  261. thing we share for the sake of Christ.

  262. Listen, we may, it may be easier and, and listen, it is.

  263. I see it in the church. Sometimes people that are

  264. negative find people that are negative to buddy up with.

  265. As a leader, I can tell you that it's I, I see it all the time.

  266. People that don't like the leader tend to buddy up with

  267. people that don't like the leader.

  268. Can I tell you that's not the way?

  269. Can I tell you we're invited to something better than that, that

  270. we're invited to a unity and a love and a grace that's built on

  271. God's goodness. And so before he gets into the

  272. nitty gritty of this, and we're not going to get into the nitty

  273. gritty too much today, we're we're going to this series, make

  274. sure you come back. It's really important.

  275. But before he gets into the nitty gritty, he says, I hope

  276. that our partnership helps you see what's good and what's right

  277. as as Christians, we are identified and defined by what

  278. unites us, not by what separates us.

  279. That's who we're called to be people of love and grace and a

  280. people who come together on a Sunday morning and don't say,

  281. man, we don't like this about our world.

  282. We don't like that a people who come together and say God is

  283. good and we are blessed to be here.

  284. Guys, you are invited into that. So, so that's the first thing.

  285. That's what you're invited into. That's the first thing, that the

  286. second thing is how it changes our relationships.

  287. Now, there's a problem there, right?

  288. Because Paul is writing to Philemon.

  289. Philemon had a slave named Onissimus.

  290. And just let me get off on a little bit of a tangent here.

  291. I know that it's a little bit tricky because obviously we know

  292. that slavery is wrong. And I haven't studied the

  293. insurance and outs of that day and what slavery meant.

  294. Maybe I should have. But.

  295. But I want you to know that that what sometimes we look at

  296. Scripture and we say, well, there's slavery in the Bible.

  297. What? Yeah, but I want you to know

  298. that God is not for it and that God always calls us to a holy

  299. and righteous love for each other.

  300. And you're going to see that in this text that that God is not

  301. saying, hey, it's OK to to make him your slave.

  302. But God is calling us to something so much more.

  303. And so the first part is what we're called into what what we

  304. are invited into. You are invited into the

  305. Koinonia fellowship with Jesus Christ and with His body.

  306. The second is what that means for our relationships with

  307. others. I was singing that Timon and

  308. Pumbaa. They were outcast, right?

  309. They sang fun songs. You like their songs, right?

  310. Those are some of the highlights of The Lion King.

  311. But they were smelly. They were not accepted.

  312. They couldn't go into the mainland because they knew that

  313. they wouldn't be accepted there. They were on the outskirts.

  314. And then something changed. They met Simba and all of a

  315. sudden they were friends with the soon to be king and

  316. everything changed. That's the story of Onissimus.

  317. Let me let me pick it up in verse 9.

  318. I said it. It is as none other than Paul,

  319. an old man and also a prisoner in Christ Jesus, that I appeal

  320. to you for my son Onissimus. Listen to how he talks about

  321. him. Just just catch how he talks

  322. about him. That I appeal to you for my son

  323. Onissimus, who became my son while I was in chains formerly.

  324. Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful

  325. both to you and to me. I am sending him who is my very

  326. heart back to you. I would have liked to have keep

  327. him, to keep him with me so that he could take your place in

  328. helping me while I'm in chains for the gospel.

  329. But I did not want to do anything without your consent so

  330. that any favor you do would not seem forced, but would be

  331. voluntary. And, and this is audacious right

  332. here. He says perhaps the reason he

  333. was separated from you for a little while was so that you

  334. might have him back forever, no longer as a slave, but better

  335. than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me, but even

  336. dearer to you both as a fellow man, as a brother in the Lord.

  337. All right, so 4 things I want to see.

  338. I'll work through them pretty quick.

  339. Four things I want us to see about the way that Paul, the way

  340. that the Koinonia Fellowship changes the way we see others.

  341. So I told you Onissimus was a slave of Philemon and he did

  342. something wrong. He stole from him.

  343. He cheated him in some way, and then he ran away.

  344. Paul writes back. And he says, I'm writing on

  345. behalf of Onissimus, who is my son.

  346. The truth of the matter is Onissimus was kind of like the

  347. outcast. He was a person that was a

  348. criminal. And in fact, let me just share

  349. this the the penalty for a slave in that day running away, the

  350. penalty could be as harsh as crucifixion on a cross, one of

  351. the worst penalties. That's how serious his crime

  352. was. And Paul writes back to Philemon

  353. and he says, I'm writing you on behalf of Onissimus, who is now

  354. my son. Now he's not saying like he's my

  355. biological son. What he's saying is Onysmus

  356. through, through the grace of God, Onysmus ended up probably

  357. in prison with Paul. That's more than likely what

  358. happened. And then through the ministry of

  359. Paul, Onysmus came to accept Christ and his heart and his

  360. life were changed. And in that moment, he became

  361. family with Paul. Oh guys, this is so good.

  362. First off, I got to give you the good news of the gospel.

  363. Sorry I cry if you're new. I cry sometimes because this is

  364. just too good. The good news today is this,

  365. that it doesn't matter where you've been and what you've

  366. done. Remember a second ago I told you

  367. that his penalty could be as harsh as death on a cross?

  368. Can I tell you the great news of the gospel?

  369. That Jesus Christ, the Son of God, came to earth as a man

  370. walked this earth. There's proof he walked this

  371. earth. And guess what he did?

  372. He died on a cross, not because he deserved it, but because

  373. Onissimus deserved it. Because you deserve it.

  374. Because I deserve it. Maybe you don't feel like you

  375. deserve it, but the truth is we've all done things we're

  376. ashamed of. We've all hurt people.

  377. Let's be honest, we've all done some pretty bad things and

  378. thought some pretty bad things and maybe said some pretty bad

  379. things because of the work of Jesus Christ on the cross today

  380. you were invited to salvation, into life, and you no longer

  381. have to be a criminal. You no longer have to be an

  382. outcast. Jesus invites you into his

  383. family. John 316 You probably heard it

  384. before, for God so loved the world that he gave his only Son,

  385. that whosoever believes in him shall not perish, but have

  386. everlasting life, John chapter one verse 12 says.

  387. Yet to all who did receive him, that's Jesus.

  388. To those who believed in his name, he gave the right to

  389. become children of God, children born not of natural descent, nor

  390. of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God.

  391. The good news today is this, no matter where you've been, no

  392. matter what you've done, today you are invited.

  393. And through the work of Jesus Christ on the cross, he paid for

  394. any and all sins that you've committed.

  395. And today you, you can be a part of the family, You can have

  396. life. Another really cool thing about

  397. this text, the name Onissimus, you know what it means.

  398. It means useful. And Paul uses this little word

  399. play. He says he used to be useless,

  400. now he's useful. The idea here is that when God

  401. saves us and redeems us, we become who we were created to be

  402. in the 1st place. People that actually live.

  403. Cheating, stealing, running, that's not life.

  404. Onissimus was created to be a child of God.

  405. You were that. Now you're this.

  406. Listen, if you're here today and, and you've never heard the

  407. good news of the gospel, I got good news.

  408. Yes, you've messed up. Yes, you've blown it.

  409. You know it better than I do. You know your deepest, darkest

  410. secrets. The good news is that Jesus paid

  411. for every single one of your flaws, every single one of your

  412. sins on the cross. And he invites you today to be a

  413. part of the family to coin an EA fellowship.

  414. The second statement he makes in verse 12, he says, I'm sending

  415. him who is my very heart back to you.

  416. This is important. So not only is Onis miss his

  417. son, I mean, now he's saying I'm sending him.

  418. And not only is he my son, but he is my very heart.

  419. He goes on. He says, I wish I didn't have to

  420. send them back to you, but I have to because things have to

  421. be made right. And so Paul says, I'm sending my

  422. very heart back to you. What does this mean for our

  423. relationships with each other #1 it means that that anybody who

  424. accepts Jesus as their Savior becomes a brother or sister in

  425. Christ to you and I. But it's so much better than

  426. that. Guys.

  427. God invites us into Koinonia Fellowship that we would not

  428. just know each other, that we would not just attend the same

  429. church, but that we would be drawn together in a deep, deep

  430. love for each other. Paul says I'm sending my heart

  431. back to you. Onissimus is not just saved.

  432. He's not just a Christian now, he is a brother.

  433. He is a son to Paul and he says he is my heart.

  434. I love that guy. Guys, we don't always get it

  435. right in the church, do we? And the truth is when we're not

  436. living obedient and faithful to and, and if you're new here

  437. today, let me just acknowledge something to you.

  438. You know this, but I'll acknowledge it.

  439. The church is not perfect and none of us in here are perfect.

  440. And sometimes we don't do it right.

  441. Sometimes we don't live the right way.

  442. Sometimes we don't treat each other right.

  443. And when that happens, things can get pretty messy.

  444. But God calls us to a deeper bond, to a deep love and unity.

  445. And here's the beauty of the church.

  446. We're not perfect, but we're all drawn together by a God who is,

  447. and he calls us to love. And this week, I spent hours in

  448. hospital rooms with wonderful, wonderful people of God,

  449. brothers and sisters in Christ. I spent time in my car.

  450. I spent time at a dinner table. I spent time all over the place

  451. with the body of Christ. And I got to tell you, it's such

  452. a great blessing. You guys are a great blessing.

  453. Now, some of you may be sitting there and thinking, no, people

  454. are annoying. Are you thinking that it's OK,

  455. You can don't nod your head, you know, don't tell on yourself.

  456. Yeah, people when they're selfish people when they're

  457. living for their their own desires and interest, it can be

  458. pretty tough. But when we walk in true

  459. fellowship with each other and coin any a fellowship, guys, we

  460. have a blessing unlike any other that we can walk together with

  461. people that maybe we don't have a lot in common with, maybe we

  462. haven't shared a lot of life with, but we can have a

  463. fellowship that blesses us just through and through.

  464. Paul says. I'm sending you my very heart.

  465. Listen, there's plenty that can divide us, but through God,

  466. we're drawn together. Look around you.

  467. Go ahead, look around. Let's get some participation.

  468. Make sure you're with me here. Look around.

  469. Look at the people around you. I got good news.

  470. You get to be in fellowship with these wonderful people, and

  471. they're wonderful. It could be difficult sometimes,

  472. but because of the grace of God, these are wonderful people and

  473. it's such a blessing to get to worship with here you here

  474. today. All right, let's let's move on.

  475. The the third part is in verse 15.

  476. And this is where it gets really crazy.

  477. Paul. I mean, this is audacious.

  478. He says perhaps the reason that Onissimus was separated for you

  479. from a little while was that you might have him back forever, no

  480. longer as a slave, but better than a slave as a dear brother.

  481. Now, I'm just going to put myself in Philemon shoes here.

  482. Perhaps the reason that this happened, and Philemon's

  483. probably thinking, no, the reason this happened is because

  484. he's a jerk. He stole from me.

  485. He ran away. That's why this happened.

  486. Paul says, no, no, no, no. I want you to see the bigger

  487. thing that's happening here, that God's doing something.

  488. He says perhaps the reason that he was separated from you.

  489. Perhaps the reason that all this happened was that you might have

  490. him back forever as he, you know, the slave relationship.

  491. And once again, this is not in any way condoning, but that's a

  492. temporary thing. And, and Paul says, maybe God's

  493. bringing you something better, something that's eternal.

  494. And then he goes on and he says no longer as a slave, but better

  495. than a slave, as a dear brother. See, Philemon probably thought

  496. long and hard and he probably had spent many hours and maybe

  497. nights thinking about what he lost when he lost his slave.

  498. And what Paul's saying is you don't understand God's doing

  499. something better. And and you shouldn't be worried

  500. about getting a slave back. You should be thrilled that you

  501. get the opportunity to get a dear brother, a brother.

  502. I was thinking about the, the the imagery of the body and how

  503. the body all works together when your legs hurting.

  504. If, if something's wrong, if if your legs broken or something's

  505. hurting, maybe you use one of those things that you put under

  506. your arm. What is it?

  507. Yeah, I know. I'm just trying to get you

  508. involved. A crutch.

  509. Yes, crutches. I really do.

  510. I promise. Got a few in my house.

  511. And I was thinking about that. You know, that's really helpful.

  512. When your legs hurt and you can make a crutch do what you wanted

  513. to do. For the most part, you can use

  514. it. It becomes like a substitute for

  515. your leg when your leg isn't isn't healthy or working well.

  516. But but the truth of the matter is, it's better if everything's

  517. working right. And in that, you know, you could

  518. wish back for that crutch, but why would you wish for that back

  519. when God wants to give you something so much more?

  520. He says I got something better for you.

  521. I've got a dear brother in Christ, guys.

  522. Sometimes we see each other as maybe tools or, you know, things

  523. that we use or just relationships that can be useful

  524. to us. I think God has something so

  525. much better for us. God wants to give us dear

  526. brothers and sisters in Christ that we share life with.

  527. He goes on and he says he is very dear to me, but he's even

  528. more dear to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother and

  529. the Lord. This is an important point here.

  530. Paul is saying, I love Onis, miss.

  531. He's already said he's like my son.

  532. He said he's my very heart. I'm sending him to you.

  533. And then he says, I think God's doing something here.

  534. And then he says, you know he's very dear to me, but I believe

  535. he's even more dear to you. Let's talk about that.

  536. When there's difficulty, when we go through something and we come

  537. out on the other side of it, we're better, right?

  538. As a married man, my wife and I have been through many things

  539. together, and our love is deeper today because of the things

  540. we've gone through together. The fights, the disagreements,

  541. the difficult times, we've grown in them.

  542. And that's true not just for husbands and wives.

  543. That's true for for good friends, that's true for family,

  544. that's true for Co workers. When we go through difficulty,

  545. even when it's difficulty with each other, God can do something

  546. incredible and we can come out the other side healthier and

  547. deeper than we were going in. And so Paul says, I think God's

  548. up to something here. I think he's giving you a dear

  549. brother. And I think if you will follow

  550. through on forgiveness and reconciliation, you will view

  551. him as dearer than I ever could. Guys, you're invited into

  552. something today. So here's the deal.

  553. Worship team, come on up. We're going to get into the

  554. reconciliation part. Please please please please

  555. please don't miss the rest of the series.

  556. I haven't gotten real deep into it today, but we need it.

  557. We all do. Every single one of us needs it.

  558. But today I just wanted to talk about the fellowship staying

  559. with me. I think there may be three types

  560. of people in this room. 1 would be the person that maybe is

  561. hearing the invitation into the family of God for the first

  562. time, maybe the invitation for salvation for the first time, or

  563. maybe somebody who's never accepted that invitation.

  564. And maybe you're here and you feel like Timon and Pumbaa that

  565. hey, you know, you're just kind of on the outside and you don't

  566. have a place or a family. And I just want to tell you once

  567. again that there is a God that loves you so much that he sent

  568. his one and only son to die on a cross to pay for your sins.

  569. The worst things you've ever done that the price is paid for.

  570. And today, if you've never accepted the gift of grace, you

  571. can do it. And all it takes is a surrender

  572. to say, God, I believe in you. I thank you for your salvation

  573. and I receive it. Forgive me of my sins.

  574. I want to walk with you today if that's you may be the response.

  575. And then there are altars up here and they're covered in

  576. confetti and that's OK. These aren't a place of shame.

  577. These are a place of victory and grace.

  578. And I want you to know that God is here today.

  579. If God is speaking to you and if you've heard that message and

  580. you want to receive salvation today, you can have it just by

  581. saying, Lord, I surrender, forgive me.

  582. The price is already paid. Maybe there's some people in

  583. here that you're being called to a deeper Koinonia fellowship.

  584. Maybe you're, you're already a believer, but you just feel like

  585. you're disconnected. You feel like you've been

  586. guarded. You feel like you've been closed

  587. off. And maybe today you just need to

  588. open your heart and say, God, I'm here for all of it.

  589. I want to be a part of your body.

  590. I want you to transform me. Maybe there's somebody here

  591. today that have a real issue with someone.

  592. Maybe there are some Philemon's in here that have been wronged

  593. in a major way and today you need reconciliation.

  594. Today we respond to God's word. And the beautiful thing is the

  595. God that created the entire universe, the God that sent his

  596. one and only Son Jesus to the cross to die and pay for our

  597. sins. He's here and His Spirit is

  598. moving and whatever it is he's speaking to you about, he wants

  599. to bring life and healing and transformation.

  600. So we're going to sing 2 songs. As we sing those, you're welcome

  601. to come to an altar. Once again, there's no shame in

  602. it. It's a, it's a victory thing.

  603. You're welcome to pray where you are.

  604. You're welcome to go find someone, pray with them, talk to

  605. them. But today we are invited, every

  606. single one of us, and to coin any of fellowship and to

  607. salvation and the family of Godfather speak to us and help

  608. us to respond to you now in Jesus name, Amen.