Sermon
Radical Reconciliation – A Partnership of Love
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Well, hey, happy Friends Day. So glad you're here.
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Are you glad you're here? All right, we'll tell someone
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you're glad you're here. Come on.
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It's a good day. You're in the right place today.
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Hey, whether you are a first time guest, I want you to know
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that you are welcome here and you are a friend.
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Or whether you've been coming to church here for 60 years.
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Thank you for coming to Friends Day.
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You're still our friend. We love you.
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It's a great opportunity to be together.
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And I, I say this a lot, but I want to say it again, that that
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this is one of the best places you could possibly be this
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morning. Not because we're better than
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all the other churches or anything, but because the God
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that created everything is here and loves you and wants to draw
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you to him today. And so praise Lord, we get to be
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here. As I was thinking about Friends
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Day, we're we're starting a new series in the Letter of
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Philemon. It is a letter that is 1 chapter
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long. It's 25 verses and we're going
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to spend 4 weeks in those 25 verses.
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The biggest challenge for me is not preaching the entire thing
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every single week, but but it is worthy of being preached and,
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and so today we're going to focus on a little part of it.
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But as I was thinking about Friends Day and I was thinking
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about this message, 2 characters came to my mind.
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Two really good characters from a movie that came out a long
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time ago, I think maybe 30 ish years ago.
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And and that movie was The Lion King and the characters are
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Timon and Pumbaa. How many, you know, Timon and
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Pumbaa, that kind of some of the fun characters.
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Now, I'm guessing most of us have have seen that movie.
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And the reason they came to my mind is #1 it's Friends Day.
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But, but we're talking about the body of Christ today.
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And, and Timon and Pumbaa were kind of outsiders.
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They, they found themselves outside of, you know, the main
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society, the main group of animals and, and they stayed to
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themselves and they felt like outcasts and they were
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disconnected. And I want to say this on
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friends Day, maybe some of you feel that like in your heart,
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maybe you feel like that's you. Maybe you feel like you're not
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connected. You don't have a family, you
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don't have a place that you belong.
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I got good news. You're in the right place today
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and you belong here. You belong in God's family.
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And so today we're going to be looking at Philemon.
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I'm I'm going to do something crazy.
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I'm just going to read the entire chapter every week of
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this series. So get ready to stand for just a
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few more, you know, minutes here staying with me, and we'll read
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Philemon. So this is Paul's letter to
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Philemon. And listen, if you're new here,
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we stand just because we believe this is God's word.
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It's written by a bunch of different people a long time
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ago, but we believe that God inspired it and directed it.
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And as much as God inspired and directed it, that God wants to
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speak to us today through it. And so my prayer is that God
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will speak to us. Here it is.
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We're going to read the whole chapter on Philemon starting
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here at first. One, Paul, a prisoner of Christ
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Jesus, and Timothy, our brother. To Philemon, our dear friend and
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fellow worker. Also to Afia, our sister and
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Archipus our fellow soldier, and to the church that meets in your
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home. Grace and peace to you from God
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our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
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I always thank God when I as I remember you in my prayers
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because I hear about your love for all His holy people and your
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faith in the Lord Jesus. I pray that your partnership
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with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your
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understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of
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Christ. Your love has given me great joy
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and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the
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hearts of the Lord's people. Therefore, although in Christ I
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could be bold and I could order you to do what you ought to do,
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yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love.
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It is as none other than Paul, an old man, and now as also a
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prisoner in Christ Jesus, that I appeal to you for my son
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Onissimus, who became my son while I was in chains.
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Formerly he was, Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has
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become useful both to you and to me.
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I am sending him, who is my very heart back to you.
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I would have liked to have to keep him with me so that he
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could take your place in helping me while I'm in change for the
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gospel. But I did not want to do
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anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would
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you do would not seem forced, but would be voluntary.
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Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little
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while was that he might, that you might have him back forever,
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no longer as a slave, but better than as a slave, as a dear
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brother. He is my he is very dear to me,
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but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in
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the Lord. So if you consider me a partner,
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welcome him as you would welcome me.
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If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, then charge
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it to me. I, Paul, am writing this with my
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own hand. I will pay it back.
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Not to mention that you owe me your very self.
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That's a great line there. Not to mention you owe me.
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I do wish brother, that I may have some benefit from you and
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the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ.
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Confident of your obedience, I write to you knowing that you
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will do even more than I ask. And then one more thing, prepare
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a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in
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answer to your prayers. Epaphras, my feather, my fellow
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prisoner in Christ Jesus sends you greetings, and so do Mark,
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Aristarchus, Dimas, and Luke, my fellow workers, the grace of the
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Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.
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You can have a seat. All right, I know that was long
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and we're going to get through it over the next 4 weeks.
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We're going to work through that whole thing.
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I just felt like I'd rather not pick and choose little parts of
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it. I want to read the whole thing
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every week just so you get the full context.
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But, but let me tell you what's happening here.
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Paul is writing this to Philemon.
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Philemon was a member of the church in Colossi and and
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Philemon was probably a pretty wealthy man.
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He was a member of the church and Paul's writing him back from
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prison, and Paul has made a new friend.
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Now that new friend is Onissimus, who used to be a
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slave of Philemon. Now this is a interesting
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situation because Onissimus, who was a slave of Philemon, did
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something wrong. He in some way cheated or stole
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from Philemon. Most people think he stole from
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him, and then he ran away and escaped and went off other
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places. But at some point Paul, Paul and
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Onissimus ended up in prison together, and Onissimus had a
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change of heart and became a follower of Christ.
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And so now Paul is riding back to Philemon.
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Now imagine this. We've got some pretty big hurt
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here, pretty big stuff. Paul is writing back and trying
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to bring reconciliation and trying to bring unity between
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Philemon and Onissimus and all the people, the church.
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That's the context for this letter.
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It's pretty big stuff. Now listen, today we're not
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going to get real deep into the reconciliation part.
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Today. I want to focus on two things.
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Number one, I want to focus on what we're invited into, what we
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are called to, and #2 what that means for our relationships with
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each other and how we view each other.
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The first part I want to talk about is what we're called into.
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In verse 6, Paul says, I pray that your partnership with us in
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the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of
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every good thing we share for the sake of Christ.
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Your love has given me great joy and encouragement because you,
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brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord's people.
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Paul introduces here an important concept.
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So, so at the outset, we understand this letter is a
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difficult letter to write. He's asking something huge of
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Philemon. He's asking reconciliation, but
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he starts with this statement. I pray that our partnership, I
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pray that our partnership, that your partnership with us in the
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faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of
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every good thing we share in Christ.
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The word that he uses there is the word Koinonia.
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And the word Koinonia it, it means it's more than just hey,
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we attend the same church. It's more than just hey, we work
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together. The word your partnership with
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us implies this deep, deep bond. Koinonia means fellowship.
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It means communion, It means unity.
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It means participation together. It means sharing a common
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purpose, a common goal. And so Paul is saying right here
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at the beginning, he's writing this tough letter and he's
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saying right at the beginning, hey, we are in a Koinonia
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partnership, reminding him right up front.
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Guys, listen, can I tell you today that maybe you came to
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church and you don't know why you're here?
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Maybe you came and you thought you came for one reason or
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another. I want to tell you today that
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God is inviting you into something so much better than
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just attending a church. God is inviting you into
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something so much better than just getting some new friends on
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friends Day. God is inviting you to a deep
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Koinonia fellowship, a unity, a communion with others.
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That's what we're called to guys.
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And see our, our culture is very individualistic.
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Most of the commercials are about individualism and your
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choice and, and most of us, even in our faith, have become kind
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of individualistic in our faith. Well, I accept Christ as my
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Savior and then I do my best to live in a relationship with him.
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And, and so it becomes a very individualistic thing.
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But, but I want you to understand Paul is saying, no,
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no, no, no, no. When, when you accept Christ as
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your savior, when you become a Christian, you're no longer on
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your own. You're a part of something
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bigger than yourself. You're a part of the body of
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Christ. Yes, the decision to follow
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Jesus is your decision. God is pursuing you.
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His grace and His Spirit are working to draw you to Him.
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But you personally have to make that decision.
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But once you do, you enter into a family, the body of Christ.
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You are no longer on your own, a lone wolf doing it on your own.
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You are a part of the body of Christ.
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Listen, you cannot be holy apart.
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You cannot be righteous. You cannot be who God calls you
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to be apart from the body of Christ.
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Holiness requires love and unity with the body of Christ.
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And so Paul, I mean, Paul is a genius in this letter.
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This is a master class of, of, of reconciliation.
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He's he starts off and just says, Hey, remember Philemon,
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that you're a part of something bigger than yourself.
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This is bigger than just you. You are a part of a partnership
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In, in first Corinthians 12, Paul says, just as the body,
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this is another way he talks about it.
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And this is another long scripture.
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Bear with me here. He says just as a body, though
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one has many parts, but all its many parts form 1 body, so it is
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with Christ. For we are all baptized into one
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by one spirit as to form 1 body, whether Jews or Gentiles, slave
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or free, as we are all given the one spirit to drink.
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Even so the body is not made-up of one part but of many.
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And, and then he goes on. He says if the foot should say,
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well because I'm not a hand, I'm not a part of the body.
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He says that's not true, we are all part of the body.
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We need each other and, and, and going down further, he says in
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verse 18, but in fact God has placed the parts of the body,
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every one of them just as he wanted them to be.
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If we were all one part, where would the body be?
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But we are all parts as it is. There are many parts but one
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body. Verse 21 he says, the eye can't
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say to the hand, I don't need you.
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The head cannot say to the feet, I don't need you.
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On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weak or
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indispensable, we need each other.
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And then at the bottom he says in 26, If one part suffers,
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every part suffers with it. If one part is honored, every
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part rejoices with it. Now you are the body of Christ
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and each one of you is a part of it.
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So I mean, I know I'm just hammering this in here.
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You are invited into something huge today.
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Not just to say I'm a Christian, not just to say, hey, I'm a part
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of a church. I go to Westchester, I go to
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wait, whatever. You are invited into the
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fellowship, the body of Christ, a deep unity, a deep family.
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He, he goes on. He says, I pray that that this
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partnership, that this Koinonia partnership may be effective in
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deepening your understanding of every good thing that we share
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for the sake of Christ. I love this.
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He says that, that as you are partnered with me, if you, as
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you're in the Koinonia relationship, as we are unified
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and working together, you should see the good more and more.
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You should understand God's goodness more and more.
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There was a study in the early 2000s and and that study says
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that you form relationships quicker based on a mutual
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dislike or hate for something else.
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That's that's real, that people form quicker relationships,
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quicker bonds based on common things that they disagree with
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or hate or dislike, whether it's a person or a thing that that's
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actual. I mean that like, you can go
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look it up. It's from 2006.
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And there were studies that show that we formed that quicker.
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And what Paul is saying is that's not the way.
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Sure, we may find people that we bond with over what we dislike
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or who we dislike or what what we are against.
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What Paul is saying is you are invited to the Koinonia
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Fellowship, the body of Christ, and the deeper you get in with
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the body of Christ, the more you're going to be unified, the
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more you're going to see his goodness and His grace at work.
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God is good, he says. I pray that this partnership may
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be effective in deepening your understanding of every good
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thing we share for the sake of Christ.
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Listen, we may, it may be easier and, and listen, it is.
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I see it in the church. Sometimes people that are
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negative find people that are negative to buddy up with.
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As a leader, I can tell you that it's I, I see it all the time.
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People that don't like the leader tend to buddy up with
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people that don't like the leader.
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Can I tell you that's not the way?
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Can I tell you we're invited to something better than that, that
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we're invited to a unity and a love and a grace that's built on
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God's goodness. And so before he gets into the
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nitty gritty of this, and we're not going to get into the nitty
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gritty too much today, we're we're going to this series, make
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sure you come back. It's really important.
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But before he gets into the nitty gritty, he says, I hope
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that our partnership helps you see what's good and what's right
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as as Christians, we are identified and defined by what
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unites us, not by what separates us.
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That's who we're called to be people of love and grace and a
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people who come together on a Sunday morning and don't say,
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man, we don't like this about our world.
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We don't like that a people who come together and say God is
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good and we are blessed to be here.
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Guys, you are invited into that. So, so that's the first thing.
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That's what you're invited into. That's the first thing, that the
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second thing is how it changes our relationships.
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Now, there's a problem there, right?
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Because Paul is writing to Philemon.
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Philemon had a slave named Onissimus.
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And just let me get off on a little bit of a tangent here.
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I know that it's a little bit tricky because obviously we know
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that slavery is wrong. And I haven't studied the
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insurance and outs of that day and what slavery meant.
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Maybe I should have. But.
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But I want you to know that that what sometimes we look at
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Scripture and we say, well, there's slavery in the Bible.
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What? Yeah, but I want you to know
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that God is not for it and that God always calls us to a holy
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and righteous love for each other.
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And you're going to see that in this text that that God is not
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saying, hey, it's OK to to make him your slave.
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But God is calling us to something so much more.
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And so the first part is what we're called into what what we
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are invited into. You are invited into the
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Koinonia fellowship with Jesus Christ and with His body.
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The second is what that means for our relationships with
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others. I was singing that Timon and
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Pumbaa. They were outcast, right?
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They sang fun songs. You like their songs, right?
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Those are some of the highlights of The Lion King.
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But they were smelly. They were not accepted.
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They couldn't go into the mainland because they knew that
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they wouldn't be accepted there. They were on the outskirts.
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And then something changed. They met Simba and all of a
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sudden they were friends with the soon to be king and
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everything changed. That's the story of Onissimus.
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Let me let me pick it up in verse 9.
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I said it. It is as none other than Paul,
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an old man and also a prisoner in Christ Jesus, that I appeal
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to you for my son Onissimus. Listen to how he talks about
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him. Just just catch how he talks
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about him. That I appeal to you for my son
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Onissimus, who became my son while I was in chains formerly.
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Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful
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both to you and to me. I am sending him who is my very
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heart back to you. I would have liked to have keep
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him, to keep him with me so that he could take your place in
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helping me while I'm in chains for the gospel.
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But I did not want to do anything without your consent so
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that any favor you do would not seem forced, but would be
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voluntary. And, and this is audacious right
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here. He says perhaps the reason he
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was separated from you for a little while was so that you
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might have him back forever, no longer as a slave, but better
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than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me, but even
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dearer to you both as a fellow man, as a brother in the Lord.
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All right, so 4 things I want to see.
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I'll work through them pretty quick.
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Four things I want us to see about the way that Paul, the way
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that the Koinonia Fellowship changes the way we see others.
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So I told you Onissimus was a slave of Philemon and he did
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something wrong. He stole from him.
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He cheated him in some way, and then he ran away.
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Paul writes back. And he says, I'm writing on
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behalf of Onissimus, who is my son.
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The truth of the matter is Onissimus was kind of like the
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outcast. He was a person that was a
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criminal. And in fact, let me just share
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this the the penalty for a slave in that day running away, the
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penalty could be as harsh as crucifixion on a cross, one of
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the worst penalties. That's how serious his crime
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was. And Paul writes back to Philemon
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and he says, I'm writing you on behalf of Onissimus, who is now
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my son. Now he's not saying like he's my
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biological son. What he's saying is Onysmus
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through, through the grace of God, Onysmus ended up probably
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in prison with Paul. That's more than likely what
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happened. And then through the ministry of
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Paul, Onysmus came to accept Christ and his heart and his
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life were changed. And in that moment, he became
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family with Paul. Oh guys, this is so good.
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First off, I got to give you the good news of the gospel.
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Sorry I cry if you're new. I cry sometimes because this is
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just too good. The good news today is this,
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that it doesn't matter where you've been and what you've
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done. Remember a second ago I told you
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that his penalty could be as harsh as death on a cross?
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Can I tell you the great news of the gospel?
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That Jesus Christ, the Son of God, came to earth as a man
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walked this earth. There's proof he walked this
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earth. And guess what he did?
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He died on a cross, not because he deserved it, but because
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Onissimus deserved it. Because you deserve it.
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Because I deserve it. Maybe you don't feel like you
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deserve it, but the truth is we've all done things we're
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ashamed of. We've all hurt people.
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Let's be honest, we've all done some pretty bad things and
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thought some pretty bad things and maybe said some pretty bad
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things because of the work of Jesus Christ on the cross today
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you were invited to salvation, into life, and you no longer
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have to be a criminal. You no longer have to be an
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outcast. Jesus invites you into his
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family. John 316 You probably heard it
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before, for God so loved the world that he gave his only Son,
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that whosoever believes in him shall not perish, but have
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everlasting life, John chapter one verse 12 says.
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Yet to all who did receive him, that's Jesus.
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To those who believed in his name, he gave the right to
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become children of God, children born not of natural descent, nor
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of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God.
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The good news today is this, no matter where you've been, no
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matter what you've done, today you are invited.
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And through the work of Jesus Christ on the cross, he paid for
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any and all sins that you've committed.
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And today you, you can be a part of the family, You can have
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life. Another really cool thing about
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this text, the name Onissimus, you know what it means.
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It means useful. And Paul uses this little word
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play. He says he used to be useless,
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now he's useful. The idea here is that when God
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saves us and redeems us, we become who we were created to be
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in the 1st place. People that actually live.
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Cheating, stealing, running, that's not life.
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Onissimus was created to be a child of God.
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You were that. Now you're this.
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Listen, if you're here today and, and you've never heard the
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good news of the gospel, I got good news.
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Yes, you've messed up. Yes, you've blown it.
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You know it better than I do. You know your deepest, darkest
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secrets. The good news is that Jesus paid
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for every single one of your flaws, every single one of your
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sins on the cross. And he invites you today to be a
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part of the family to coin an EA fellowship.
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The second statement he makes in verse 12, he says, I'm sending
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him who is my very heart back to you.
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This is important. So not only is Onis miss his
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son, I mean, now he's saying I'm sending him.
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And not only is he my son, but he is my very heart.
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He goes on. He says, I wish I didn't have to
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send them back to you, but I have to because things have to
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be made right. And so Paul says, I'm sending my
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very heart back to you. What does this mean for our
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relationships with each other #1 it means that that anybody who
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accepts Jesus as their Savior becomes a brother or sister in
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Christ to you and I. But it's so much better than
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that. Guys.
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God invites us into Koinonia Fellowship that we would not
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just know each other, that we would not just attend the same
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church, but that we would be drawn together in a deep, deep
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love for each other. Paul says I'm sending my heart
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back to you. Onissimus is not just saved.
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He's not just a Christian now, he is a brother.
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He is a son to Paul and he says he is my heart.
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I love that guy. Guys, we don't always get it
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right in the church, do we? And the truth is when we're not
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living obedient and faithful to and, and if you're new here
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today, let me just acknowledge something to you.
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You know this, but I'll acknowledge it.
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The church is not perfect and none of us in here are perfect.
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And sometimes we don't do it right.
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Sometimes we don't live the right way.
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Sometimes we don't treat each other right.
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And when that happens, things can get pretty messy.
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But God calls us to a deeper bond, to a deep love and unity.
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And here's the beauty of the church.
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We're not perfect, but we're all drawn together by a God who is,
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and he calls us to love. And this week, I spent hours in
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hospital rooms with wonderful, wonderful people of God,
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brothers and sisters in Christ. I spent time in my car.
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I spent time at a dinner table. I spent time all over the place
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with the body of Christ. And I got to tell you, it's such
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a great blessing. You guys are a great blessing.
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Now, some of you may be sitting there and thinking, no, people
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are annoying. Are you thinking that it's OK,
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You can don't nod your head, you know, don't tell on yourself.
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Yeah, people when they're selfish people when they're
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living for their their own desires and interest, it can be
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pretty tough. But when we walk in true
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fellowship with each other and coin any a fellowship, guys, we
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have a blessing unlike any other that we can walk together with
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people that maybe we don't have a lot in common with, maybe we
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haven't shared a lot of life with, but we can have a
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fellowship that blesses us just through and through.
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Paul says. I'm sending you my very heart.
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Listen, there's plenty that can divide us, but through God,
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we're drawn together. Look around you.
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Go ahead, look around. Let's get some participation.
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Make sure you're with me here. Look around.
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Look at the people around you. I got good news.
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You get to be in fellowship with these wonderful people, and
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they're wonderful. It could be difficult sometimes,
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but because of the grace of God, these are wonderful people and
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it's such a blessing to get to worship with here you here
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today. All right, let's let's move on.
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The the third part is in verse 15.
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And this is where it gets really crazy.
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Paul. I mean, this is audacious.
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He says perhaps the reason that Onissimus was separated for you
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from a little while was that you might have him back forever, no
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longer as a slave, but better than a slave as a dear brother.
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Now, I'm just going to put myself in Philemon shoes here.
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Perhaps the reason that this happened, and Philemon's
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probably thinking, no, the reason this happened is because
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he's a jerk. He stole from me.
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He ran away. That's why this happened.
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Paul says, no, no, no, no. I want you to see the bigger
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thing that's happening here, that God's doing something.
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He says perhaps the reason that he was separated from you.
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Perhaps the reason that all this happened was that you might have
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him back forever as he, you know, the slave relationship.
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And once again, this is not in any way condoning, but that's a
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temporary thing. And, and Paul says, maybe God's
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bringing you something better, something that's eternal.
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And then he goes on and he says no longer as a slave, but better
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than a slave, as a dear brother. See, Philemon probably thought
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long and hard and he probably had spent many hours and maybe
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nights thinking about what he lost when he lost his slave.
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And what Paul's saying is you don't understand God's doing
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something better. And and you shouldn't be worried
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about getting a slave back. You should be thrilled that you
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get the opportunity to get a dear brother, a brother.
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I was thinking about the, the the imagery of the body and how
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the body all works together when your legs hurting.
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If, if something's wrong, if if your legs broken or something's
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hurting, maybe you use one of those things that you put under
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your arm. What is it?
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Yeah, I know. I'm just trying to get you
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involved. A crutch.
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Yes, crutches. I really do.
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I promise. Got a few in my house.
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And I was thinking about that. You know, that's really helpful.
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When your legs hurt and you can make a crutch do what you wanted
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to do. For the most part, you can use
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it. It becomes like a substitute for
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your leg when your leg isn't isn't healthy or working well.
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But but the truth of the matter is, it's better if everything's
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working right. And in that, you know, you could
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wish back for that crutch, but why would you wish for that back
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when God wants to give you something so much more?
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He says I got something better for you.
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I've got a dear brother in Christ, guys.
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Sometimes we see each other as maybe tools or, you know, things
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that we use or just relationships that can be useful
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to us. I think God has something so
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much better for us. God wants to give us dear
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brothers and sisters in Christ that we share life with.
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He goes on and he says he is very dear to me, but he's even
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more dear to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother and
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the Lord. This is an important point here.
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Paul is saying, I love Onis, miss.
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He's already said he's like my son.
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He said he's my very heart. I'm sending him to you.
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And then he says, I think God's doing something here.
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And then he says, you know he's very dear to me, but I believe
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he's even more dear to you. Let's talk about that.
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When there's difficulty, when we go through something and we come
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out on the other side of it, we're better, right?
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As a married man, my wife and I have been through many things
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together, and our love is deeper today because of the things
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we've gone through together. The fights, the disagreements,
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the difficult times, we've grown in them.
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And that's true not just for husbands and wives.
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That's true for for good friends, that's true for family,
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that's true for Co workers. When we go through difficulty,
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even when it's difficulty with each other, God can do something
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incredible and we can come out the other side healthier and
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deeper than we were going in. And so Paul says, I think God's
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up to something here. I think he's giving you a dear
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brother. And I think if you will follow
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through on forgiveness and reconciliation, you will view
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him as dearer than I ever could. Guys, you're invited into
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something today. So here's the deal.
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Worship team, come on up. We're going to get into the
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reconciliation part. Please please please please
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please don't miss the rest of the series.
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I haven't gotten real deep into it today, but we need it.
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We all do. Every single one of us needs it.
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But today I just wanted to talk about the fellowship staying
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with me. I think there may be three types
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of people in this room. 1 would be the person that maybe is
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hearing the invitation into the family of God for the first
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time, maybe the invitation for salvation for the first time, or
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maybe somebody who's never accepted that invitation.
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And maybe you're here and you feel like Timon and Pumbaa that
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hey, you know, you're just kind of on the outside and you don't
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have a place or a family. And I just want to tell you once
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again that there is a God that loves you so much that he sent
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his one and only son to die on a cross to pay for your sins.
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The worst things you've ever done that the price is paid for.
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And today, if you've never accepted the gift of grace, you
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can do it. And all it takes is a surrender
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to say, God, I believe in you. I thank you for your salvation
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and I receive it. Forgive me of my sins.
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I want to walk with you today if that's you may be the response.
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And then there are altars up here and they're covered in
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confetti and that's OK. These aren't a place of shame.
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These are a place of victory and grace.
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And I want you to know that God is here today.
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If God is speaking to you and if you've heard that message and
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you want to receive salvation today, you can have it just by
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saying, Lord, I surrender, forgive me.
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The price is already paid. Maybe there's some people in
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here that you're being called to a deeper Koinonia fellowship.
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Maybe you're, you're already a believer, but you just feel like
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you're disconnected. You feel like you've been
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guarded. You feel like you've been closed
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off. And maybe today you just need to
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open your heart and say, God, I'm here for all of it.
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I want to be a part of your body.
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I want you to transform me. Maybe there's somebody here
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today that have a real issue with someone.
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Maybe there are some Philemon's in here that have been wronged
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in a major way and today you need reconciliation.
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Today we respond to God's word. And the beautiful thing is the
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God that created the entire universe, the God that sent his
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one and only Son Jesus to the cross to die and pay for our
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sins. He's here and His Spirit is
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moving and whatever it is he's speaking to you about, he wants
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to bring life and healing and transformation.
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So we're going to sing 2 songs. As we sing those, you're welcome
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to come to an altar. Once again, there's no shame in
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it. It's a, it's a victory thing.
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You're welcome to pray where you are.
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You're welcome to go find someone, pray with them, talk to
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them. But today we are invited, every
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single one of us, and to coin any of fellowship and to
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salvation and the family of Godfather speak to us and help
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us to respond to you now in Jesus name, Amen.